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The Aquarius Man
I have been reading a lot lately about people’s apparent dislike for Aquarius men, and so I thought I would add my bit also. For anyone who has read any of my posts, you will know that I am openly a fan of these strange airy creatures. And I am. But that doesn’t mean to say I don’t understand the utter torment they can put people through. I have lived with two, one of whom I am hoping to live with for a lot longer than the last! So I have some insight into how the Aquarius man works.
Now, obviously, the other signs in their charts do come into it (rather a lot), but as a lot of people aren’t aware or not sure about which sign is what, I shall concentrate here mainly on the sun sign. And oh my, what a sun sign!! The problem I think the Aquarius man has is that the world has very set views on how people should be, and of-course, the Aquarians generally don’t fit into any category and they certainly don’t do things just to please the masses. Perhaps once, the Aquarius man fitted well into society, when it was OK for men to be in control, aloof, distant and lacking in emotion. However, it is not so nowadays. The modern man is expected to be a lot of things that the Aquarius man just can’t be. Not doesn’t want to be, just plain can’t.
If you learn to understand the Aquarius then it can make life much easier. Shouting at him and nagging will only make him go even further into himself which will make you angrier, thus a vicious circle begins. These men walk out, it’s really annoying, but that’s what they do. You say anything to them they don’t like and off they go. I have learnt the best thing is to just leave them to calm down, they will eventually, and they will come home, but they will not have their tail between their legs, Aquarius men don’t do that either. Infact, just to be safe, don’t even mention the previous argument, just accept he is over it and get on with being happy, it’s a tough call, but trust me, it’s the only one that works.
On the flip side, the Aquarius man is an amazing listener and is so very caring and kind and loving. If you ever have a problem he is the man to go too. But as I have learnt, that doesn’t include if it’s about him and it’s bad. That’s when you have to talk to a friend or really find the perfect timing, which will prove difficult as if you need to talk to him about him then there is never a good time. So you just have to tread carefully. They don’t really think they have many faults, and the one’s they do have only come about when other people bring the bad out in him (I’ve heard that one a lot). They are somewhat childish towards emotion (in my opinion). They just can’t seem to handle bad feeling at all, they want a world where there isn’t any, don’t we all!!
These men can also be highly selfish, they don’t mean to be, and that is the most annoying thing. They honestly don’t mean to wind you up. Or hurt your feelings. Or miss your birthday. They just do. And the best the rest of us can do I’m afraid is deal with it. Now, if your an Aquarius man reading this please don’t get too angry with me, I am deeply in love with one such man and truly love his funny way’s (that he won’t admit to having) But I just wanted to address some issues as they seem to keep popping up.
Another frustrating trait of these men is their lack of emotion. Isn’t it annoying? YES! Trouble is they don’t actually lack emotion, they have barrel loads of it, it just doesn’t emanate out of them that’s all. Of course, when they do let it out you faint with shock and miss the whole thing anyway! Seriously though these people do feel, perhaps they feel too much, I don’t know, what I do know is they are masters at blocking. They seem to block anything from their minds that they do not want there. Lucky them. I can’t do it, I’ve tried
I have forgotten to mention that they are brilliant, at everything! And they aren’t overly arrogant about it either, really. The truth is though the Aquarius man is worth listening too, they have a bit of the genius in them and they are terribly clever, which is also really annoying. Of course, the problem with that is that they adopt a ‘right about everything’ attitude to things which is totally unnecessary if you ask me! They can make you feel slightly beneath them with their confidence in their rightness. However, they are normally rubbish at general knowledge, mine is anyway, so he sneaks out of the room.
Which is another thing, if they know or think they won’t be or aren’t very good at something to save embarrassment they simply won’t even try. For instance, I love to play tennis, but my beloved Aquarius has never played, so of course, we have never played each other, ever. I join in all his activities, but he won’t share in mine easily. And if I ever do beat him at something it was ‘just luck’ rather than talent! So, there we have it, the Aquarian man. A one off, unique nutty oddball. But I love them. It would be interesting to see what you all think about this, so please leave some comments!
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These characteristics are based fully on a persons sun sign. Therefore may not be 100% accurate for everyone as there are lots of different aspects of one’s chart to take into consideration.
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February 19th, 2011 at 8:54 pm
An Aquarian Dog man here and without exaggerating I find myself the most loyal individual on this planet haha. It is beyond any test.
I’m usually cold toward the world and indifferent to people but just recently found out when i love a girl I become very talkative or write a lot to her. I think we are very sensitive to our loved ones, but we do not show it, we swallow all the pain by ourselves, sometimes these pains can well dry our feelings out. If you got an Aquarian boyfriend trust me, care for him, even if we do not ask it, we need that tenderness, our world inside is most often freezing, a Winter awaiting Spring to come. I do not know the others but I really need a caring partner
We are honest and trustworthy, if we fall in love with you we will share everything we have. But never betray us, because by personal experience, there will be never a turning back point after a betrayal, even if we adore you like a princess, after your cheat, we turn to ice, you are forever out of our life. And we got sixth sense haha, we always found out about a betrayal.
March 6th, 2011 at 2:26 pm
Hi Becky!
I read this because my boyfriend is an Aquarius, and I would have to agree… he really is a unique, but nutty, oddball. I myself am a Gemini, so I know that there are times I can be a bit much to handle, what with all my topic bouncing and general Gemini-ness. But I’d have to say that I love my Aquarius, and we have decided that I am one of the few people he’s ever been with who can deal with his oddities. Although I can’t always understand him, I really have to say thanks, ’cause this post has given me a bit of a new perspective!
March 22nd, 2011 at 7:28 pm
I miss my aqua…:”( should wait for long time i guess, since hes now chasing for a taurean…
March 22nd, 2011 at 7:36 pm
I am a Leo girl, had a year relationship with an aquarius.. he doesnt think we match:(.. i cant argue cus i know hes not gonna change his mind unless he got this taurean girl and he realizes himself..
my biorhythm with him is always around 80-90/95 %, i have gemini in my rising and moon.. idk his bcos he hasnt asked what time he was born to his mom.
im not God and the future is still in His hand, revealing by time,… but my feeling is, rather, (im scared if exxagerating or feeling too much will change into hates later on) but i know my feeling towards him is rather, like, pretty much,..emm… very strong…
Taureans were born patient and can hold their ground, but im a little used to patience..
I hope their talents are my great habits (patience and holding ground) aamiin.. please pray for me:s. thankyou.. any feedback to support my selfesteem?, thanks.
March 28th, 2011 at 5:20 am
I really actually enjoyed reading this. Very accurately describes how i am so i thought i would leave a comment, and say thanks for understanding us oddball’s lol.
April 1st, 2011 at 10:01 pm
Here’s an Aquarius story for you all to help me figure out lol
I am an Aquarius through and through… some friends set me up with a man and low and behold we have the exact same chart. We were even born in the same hospital on the same day. Imagine! Its so funny how he is basically my astrological twin and I cant figure him out ha ha. So when someone wonders if there is a difference between an Aquarius man and woman… the answer is YES very much so.
He made a date, canceled. So the next week I was busy so he pursued me and I responded. We had plans to go out that following Saturday but the last minute on Friday he asked me to go out, to which I said yes. We had a great time and he made mention that he wanted to see me again. Since then I’ve text him 3 different times and even though he responds, its only a one line response and never initiated by him. As to which one response was him saying he was just thinking about me. I SHOULD have this one figured out but I am Aquarius and we are good at seeing others problems but not our own lol. Does he seem interested? Is he just being polite? Just for the record, I am getting bored. I hate chasing and now its starting to irritate me so my chasing is over. He can chase my tail now lol
April 3rd, 2011 at 8:50 pm
I am an Aquarius and i have been in a relationship with an Aquarius man for 2 years. This has been the most difficult relationship that i have ever been in because we do not have much in common. I do not believe you can put each sign in a catagory because you really need to do an astrological chart on the person to find out the other signs. So i am saying that even though i am an Aquarius, my Ascendant/Rising sign is in Aries, my Moon is in Virgo and i have Venus in Pisces. The man i am involved with has Capricorn in Venus and even though you would think we would be compatible in the sexual/love area, we are from two different worlds. My feelings with intimacy are very sensual and erotic. His views with intimacy is hit it and quit it so it has shut us down. Even though i have been with him for 2 years, we are not intimate and our relationship seemed to fall into the “friends” catagory. We both enjoy the far out things in life like UFO’s, etc, i would say that is the only thing we have in common. He can be critical and judgmental all the time and finds fault in everything and everyone, so he is connected to his ego conditioning. I am more intune with love and compassion and feel things more (perhaps that is my venus in pisces trait).
One thing about us is that we dont get too attached which can make a transition of separation in a relationship much easier.
If you have met a new man or woman, do not judge them for what sign they fall under, have a natal chart done on him or her to see why he or she is the way they are. Also, what i found is, you need to be true to yourself. Most of the time we meet people in our lives and have relationships with them but we do not tell them in the beginning what we really feel inside, what we want and dont want because we are afraid of chasing them away out of lonliness etc. You can not expect anyone to make you happy, that needs to come from within. And if there is something lacking in your relationship, it is usually just lacking in you that you need to try and figure out. I know this from my experience and i am still learning more about. You can not expect anyone to love you unless you truly love yourself no matter what sign you may fall under. People tend to get insecure and start demanding/controlling because they dont love themselves enough.
I found that the best relationship i ever had was when i was feeling good about myself and really liked the place i was in at that time in my life. But if i was going to pick a sign for me that i felt i really connected with, it would be a gemini man because we seem to laugh alot together (our planets still need to be in a good alignment for it to go further.
Good luck on your journey of finding yourself and your true love…….Peace
May 9th, 2011 at 5:39 am
I have been in love with an Aquarian for 2 years now, Im a Leo (I don’t know if a good combination or not, He doesn’t want a relationship with me but we have had a sexual relationship for just as long, I am 14 yrs older than him but I look his age, I’m thinking maybe age is an issue for him, I know he is still hung up on his ex girlfriend. He has broken my heart and hurt my feelings so many times and tried to get back with his ex so many times as well, at those times that’s when he doesn’t want to know me and is very sort tempered towards me and basically stars an argument so he doesn’t have to talk to me. When she breaks his heart, he excepts me back & is really nice to me.
We hung out together every weekend and just recently he wanted us to share a house together, its been a month now since we moved in together & we have not slept together, we have separate bedrooms, all his choice. Im trying to go with everything he says but now he seems to snap at more eaisly, I dont know more how much more I can take, I am in a constant battle with my heart & my head
May 12th, 2011 at 3:04 pm
Dear Julie,
I hope that I do not speak out of turn here, but I am not involved as you are, therefore I should have a clear head. When I read what you had written I thought where is the respect, I dont know but it seems to be lacking, him for you and you for yourself. You seem to be a bit of a doormat. Please Juile I do not mean to be cruel thats not my point. I am a Leo also and I know where you are coming from. Underneath alot I am as warm and loving as you seem to be. the best I can say about him is he is confused and he is not in a place to give you a fair chance. You dont want to hear this I know I CAN FEEL YOUR LOVE, but get the hell out of there and find yourself someone who values you, and that will happen when you value yourself. Go Girl we are all here for you and yes we do understand.
Lots and lots of real love.
August 7th, 2011 at 4:57 am
well beck, looks like you have worked out why Aquarius Men are the way we are.. I find it funny that the two Aquarians that you wrote about share the same birthday. apart from that it was a bit of an eye opener. enjoyed reading it. thats all im say on that
August 16th, 2011 at 3:46 pm
Eveerything you said about us Aquarius is true, Lol. But i have fallen for a gemini. And my gemini says he highly doubts we would ever get together. But knowing how i am i am very p tient and have been waiting for months now.
But we know each other like a book from page to page.
Even when were not around, I could sennse if hes ok or not .
But this Gemini is very protective.Like a knight and shining armor sort of speak. He doesnt mind doing things for me and i dont mind doing things for him eitheir.
But thankyou for putting this up.
August 26th, 2011 at 1:40 am
I am an Aquarius Woman and I am dealing with an Aquarius man (friends with benefits). We are VERY smart people alone, but together… I deserve an aware for aguring with myself and him. I’ve been putting up with his way for two years and I will never forget him. He is probably the best thing that has ever happened to me. I am madly in love with him and I know that we arent even legit. But, when we make love and when were laughing or just happy in general were just both in heaven. Him and I are just funny and weird. I find Aquarius people not book smart but has intelligence. All i’m saying be ready to put up with everything they do and everything they say. Because when they are done with you, they are DONE with you. I’m surprised him still with this beauty of art.
August 30th, 2011 at 6:27 am
That was so pure and lovely Mila it really did warm my heart this morning, truly lovely!:)
November 10th, 2011 at 4:30 pm
That was so right on. I am with my own Aquarian and he is exactly like that. As an Aries women it can be very frustrating but amazingly attractive all at once. We both enjoy our independance very much so it seems to work for us although I have found that being with him has forced me to learn some patience among other things. Some of his behaviors I do find annoying however he fasinates me in so many ways. I read this and it is dead on. I also will say that our relationship can never be accused of being boring… lol
November 29th, 2011 at 2:01 am
Hi there..
Funny, but they simply true.. hahahaha