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The Aquarius Man
I have been reading a lot lately about people’s apparent dislike for Aquarius men, and so I thought I would add my bit also. For anyone who has read any of my posts, you will know that I am openly a fan of these strange airy creatures. And I am. But that doesn’t mean to say I don’t understand the utter torment they can put people through. I have lived with two, one of whom I am hoping to live with for a lot longer than the last! So I have some insight into how the Aquarius man works.
Now, obviously, the other signs in their charts do come into it (rather a lot), but as a lot of people aren’t aware or not sure about which sign is what, I shall concentrate here mainly on the sun sign. And oh my, what a sun sign!! The problem I think the Aquarius man has is that the world has very set views on how people should be, and of-course, the Aquarians generally don’t fit into any category and they certainly don’t do things just to please the masses. Perhaps once, the Aquarius man fitted well into society, when it was OK for men to be in control, aloof, distant and lacking in emotion. However, it is not so nowadays. The modern man is expected to be a lot of things that the Aquarius man just can’t be. Not doesn’t want to be, just plain can’t.
If you learn to understand the Aquarius then it can make life much easier. Shouting at him and nagging will only make him go even further into himself which will make you angrier, thus a vicious circle begins. These men walk out, it’s really annoying, but that’s what they do. You say anything to them they don’t like and off they go. I have learnt the best thing is to just leave them to calm down, they will eventually, and they will come home, but they will not have their tail between their legs, Aquarius men don’t do that either. Infact, just to be safe, don’t even mention the previous argument, just accept he is over it and get on with being happy, it’s a tough call, but trust me, it’s the only one that works.
On the flip side, the Aquarius man is an amazing listener and is so very caring and kind and loving. If you ever have a problem he is the man to go too. But as I have learnt, that doesn’t include if it’s about him and it’s bad. That’s when you have to talk to a friend or really find the perfect timing, which will prove difficult as if you need to talk to him about him then there is never a good time. So you just have to tread carefully. They don’t really think they have many faults, and the one’s they do have only come about when other people bring the bad out in him (I’ve heard that one a lot). They are somewhat childish towards emotion (in my opinion). They just can’t seem to handle bad feeling at all, they want a world where there isn’t any, don’t we all!!
These men can also be highly selfish, they don’t mean to be, and that is the most annoying thing. They honestly don’t mean to wind you up. Or hurt your feelings. Or miss your birthday. They just do. And the best the rest of us can do I’m afraid is deal with it. Now, if your an Aquarius man reading this please don’t get too angry with me, I am deeply in love with one such man and truly love his funny way’s (that he won’t admit to having) But I just wanted to address some issues as they seem to keep popping up.
Another frustrating trait of these men is their lack of emotion. Isn’t it annoying? YES! Trouble is they don’t actually lack emotion, they have barrel loads of it, it just doesn’t emanate out of them that’s all. Of course, when they do let it out you faint with shock and miss the whole thing anyway! Seriously though these people do feel, perhaps they feel too much, I don’t know, what I do know is they are masters at blocking. They seem to block anything from their minds that they do not want there. Lucky them. I can’t do it, I’ve tried
I have forgotten to mention that they are brilliant, at everything! And they aren’t overly arrogant about it either, really. The truth is though the Aquarius man is worth listening too, they have a bit of the genius in them and they are terribly clever, which is also really annoying. Of course, the problem with that is that they adopt a ‘right about everything’ attitude to things which is totally unnecessary if you ask me! They can make you feel slightly beneath them with their confidence in their rightness. However, they are normally rubbish at general knowledge, mine is anyway, so he sneaks out of the room.
Which is another thing, if they know or think they won’t be or aren’t very good at something to save embarrassment they simply won’t even try. For instance, I love to play tennis, but my beloved Aquarius has never played, so of course, we have never played each other, ever. I join in all his activities, but he won’t share in mine easily. And if I ever do beat him at something it was ‘just luck’ rather than talent!
So, there we have it, the Aquarian man. A one off, unique nutty oddball. But I love them. It would be interesting to see what you all think about this, so please leave some comments!
These characteristics are based fully on a persons sun sign. Therefore may not be 100% accurate for everyone as there are lots of different aspects of one’s chart to take into consideration.
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- Aries Compatibility With Aquarius - March 9th, 2008
- Pisces Men - March 6th, 2008
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I’m Aquarian and I agree with all the positive things you say about Aquarians but not the other bits.
Hi Becky,
Well, I’m an Aquarian man and I’ve just read the whole of this, which is more than I think I’ve done for any other blog entry anywhere. I have been following your series on Aquarians, but believe you really hit the mark this time and so simply had to say something in reply.
You’re clearly very much in love and I wish you luck, my most significant ex is a Gemini and we are no more. Although I wouldn’t take her back, years later believe it or not, I still think about her every day.
Of course I don’t agree with everything you say, you wouldn’t expect that, but if I’m objective I do identify with plenty and much of it made me laugh out loud. It’s great you’re talking from your own experience and have your own opinions, so you aren’t just repeating the same old stuff, like most people seem to do.
Thanks then and keep it up. We’re grateful!
Sincerely,
Paul
Hi Paul,
Thank you ever so much for your comment! And I’m glad you enjoyed reading it, even if you don’t agree with it all, which noone ever could, if it makes someone smile or laugh, that’s enough for me, that’s what’s important to me, making people smile! (even though I’m a Gemini & it dosen’t always work!)
Your site is wonderful and I’m guessing I could learn a lot from you, so no doubt I’ll become a regular visitor!
It’s a small world too, you live down the road from my Mum!
Love, light & Luck
Becky
P.S Your bitchscopes are hilariously close to the truth!
I did also try to contact you a different way but it didn’t work , my pc’s fault, not your website’s.
Hello Becky,
Thanks for your feedback and all the praise, I’m glad I made you smile too. If you’re ever having trouble with the email links on my website, just type the address from the About Me page manually into whatever you use for emailing and that’ll work fine.
In a way though it’s great having your response here, like some sort of validation for baring my soul. I have concluded that being a male Aquarian is similar to having the Asperger’s Syndrome of the zodiac, you know, like a milder and more glamorous version of Rain Man, the Water-Bearer maybe? Everything you say about seeming aloof and distant is so true and the fact it’s not socially acceptable nowadays, that was a revelation to me. My ex used to call me the Alien. She was so right too…
Also the bit about walking off, which I have done in every possible situation throughout my life. As for your Mum living up the road, that’s amazing. Whereabouts, roughly?
Paul
I can’t wait to call my other half ‘Rain Man’ I’m sure he will love that!! Yes, that’s it, Aliens, definatly a different species anyway, although I know how hard us Gemini girls are to live with too..but we do try ever so hard to be lovely all the time
My Mum lives in Uckfield, do you know it? that’s sort of near isn’t it, I used to have guitar lessons there when I was 17!
Becky
Uckfield? That’s astonishing, it’s about seven miles from me I think. It’s not a town I like much though, so I’m not surprised you ended up in the US. Are you actually British or American and how about your Mum? This is all really wild and on an eclipse day too, perfect!
I believe that if there’s one sign that can understand an Aquarian it’s a Gemini. I hope you fiancé realises how lucky he is, but can’t help but doubt it somehow…
Paul
No your right, it’s not all that nice, but it’s got everything my Mum needs. Now then, I am British, and I have never even been to the US! And I live in Kent! Rochester way at the moment, but hoping to move somewhere more rural soon! The world just got even smaller
Your right about Gemini’s ability to understand you Aquarians, I’m not sure whether my Fiance is lucky or cursed to be honest, but I do tell him he’s lucky haha!
Becky
You can contact me using the contact me thing if you’s rather, it’s up to you.
Becky,
Far out! This is just brilliant and you’re right, I am going to stop cluttering up your website with off-topic posts, but I think you have a real talent, will be watching what you write and would love to stay in contact with you.
I’m sure I can manage a Site of the Week recommendation for you over the next couple of weeks, the first blog I’ve mentioned, and will be in touch via your contact form about that. In the meantime it has been really great talking with you. Please feel free to write to me directly about anything, anytime, ever…
Thank you for making my day much better, than it was before.
;o)
Paul
I am seeing a Aqua male and I am Gemini, we get on really well and have known each other since May last year. However just before Christmas I received an email saying he just wanted to be friends as he works alot and cannot committ. I was hurt but left it and now he is back in touch and we have been out and getting on really well again!! Will I get another shock I wonder in a couple of months time as he just wants to be friends again……
Although I can’t guarantee what the shock will be about, I can guarantee you that he will be sure to give you plenty of them. You did the right thing though by leaving it, that is one of the best way’s to get an Aquarius’s attention to be honest, ignore them! Actually I think it’s called “giving them a taste of their own medicine” You will get on well, and will have a great friendship but if the relationship doesn’t progress you will have to ask yourself if it’s worth keeping this Aquarius as “just a friend”. Sometimes, with Gemini’s and Aquarius’s unless the romance is their it can very often become just a friendship, which is great, unless you wanted more.
Love & Light
Becky
Ay ay ay, I just stumbled upon this whilst looking for cancerian fun stuff, and I’m just laughing! I too am whole heartedly exploring and loving an aquarian man. All the while happily frustrated in his fascinating world…combined with cancer…makes for an interesting relationship. Thanks for the smiles.
Thanks for that, I know what you mean by the friendship thing. I’m not sure but he says things to test me to see what my reaction will be, the other night he says “Oh I’m going out with a friend from school for a meal tomorrow night I’ve known her for years it should be good fun it usually is, to which I replied “Oh that will be nice especially since you have known her for so long.
Turns out the meal never came about, but I knew what he was doing!!! He is a very good father and has good friends so I know what sort of person he is and I know things have changed between us as we seem closer. So hopefully he has seen what a super fab woman I am (haha)
Hi,
I enjoy reading about the Aquarius man since I think I’m falling in love with one and I want to get the lowdown on them before I fall completely.
So much of what is written here I can identify with. I’m a Cancer and I know that Cancer and Aquarius is not the best match, but I don’t think I’m the typical Cancer in some respects so we seem to get along. We are just starting to get closer…after being casual friends for a while…naturally!
But I have been a bit of the aggressor and he seems to like it. He tends to put out hints, I pick up on them and suggest doing things. He cooperates nicely and it seems to work for us. I am also a bit older than him, so I’ve got some patience…which helps with an aquarius man.
Also, I am extremely free-spirited and independent, with a very active life and being a Cancer often need to rejuvenate in my shell so he can enjoy his “space” during those times.
I think he’s just wonderful…but some of my friends think I’m nuts.:)
Thanks for your post.
Does Aquarius dislike emotion of any kind, even when it’s positive like romantic feelings? It seems like they like to keep things friendly when really they are feeling more inside.
I’m a Leo Sun with an Aquarius and the man I’m with is an Aquarius Sun with Leo Moon so I hope that helps somewhat with helping us get along better. I try and just keep things cool and I also try and compliment him often. Any other advice? Thanks.
Hi Erica,
I think Aquarius Men are just odd generally. They have emotion and they like other people to have it, they just are not always sure how to show it. It’s good that you compliment him, I do that to mine, just make sure he returns the kindness. When I want some attention from my Aquarius I don’t wait for it, I go up and ask for it..literally! They aren’t too good with subtle hints. I can imagine you two get along very well anyway and have quite a bit of fun as well! Just enjoy what you have and don’t let it become boring.
Love & Light
Becky
x
Omg my ex is an Aquarius and he is the most selfish person in the whole world! Im an Aries and i loved this man dearly but he was just to selfish for me and bizarre! Thank you for writing this article now i see im not alone! Before my recent ex i almost married and Aquarius but i ran after 5 years i just dont think they make good life partners everyday is just a constant battle. But i do wish you ALOT of luck with yours, just make sure he does not make u insane!
LOL!! I have to agree with you carrie88, certain Aquarius males are really not meant to spend their lives with another person. My ex husband was one of them. If, however, you find one that has the right signs in the right planets then they are truly lovely, like mine!I think Aquariun’s need vetting heavily to find out their moon signs etc before anyone actually plans a lifetime with one of these other worldy people. And thanks for the good luck, but I think I drive him as insane as he drives me.
tht was such a nice read thnks for writing it.
ive been with a aqua guy for 3 monthes and its funny becuz hes from a whole different culture(he’s lebanese) but ur post describes him exactly
i always knew tht he likes to spend some time alone which i found very weird,maybe its becuz im italian and wanting to be alone in our culture is unheard of. its so weird tht thy have so many friends also,we could be anywhere and he’ll bump into someone he knows and i can c from how much his friends love him tht hes a great friend to thm which is true for all aquas,,thy love to help!and not just thyr friends thyd help anyone who asks which is not always a good thing! i also find it amazing how thy can hang around with the most annoying people and still find something great to say about them, thy r very sociable and very very very smart! i remember when my b.f met my 85 year old grandad whos a very typical italian man doesnt like peopl dating his grand daughter and who grew up in a small remote village in tuscany,and within 10mins thy wer in a deep conversation about olive trees and how to make the best olive oil and thy wer laughing and my grandad started telling him stories he doesnt even tell my dad!:> sorry for the long post i just thought since ur dating a aqua also ud find these stories funny.
Daniella
I too am dating an aqua man. It is not always smooth sailing. I think the best thing you can do is to try and loose track of time because any kind of time restraint that you try to impose on these men goes completely out the door. However in my expeience they seem to always be there for you when you really need them which is the important thing. Oh, and eccentric hobbies, yes! Like making metal windchimes that have other weird properties, or “working” in the garden, which looks to me more like an appraisal of the different plants than any kind of manual labor, muching as he “works”. I dunno if I would call him smart in the typical sense, because he is more than that really. More of an inventor. If he doesn’t like somthing he will simply find some other way. If nothing else i find him especially entertaining!
Oh and one other thing. It was his total apparent lack of emotion and detachment that first attracted me to this man. He seemed so controlled and cool. Maybe somthing that you other girls don’t give him enough credit for?
I really enjoyed reading on the aquarius man. Don’t know how to feel about it though.
I recently started seeing an aquarias man and alot of what you’ve described I have already seen. Some characteristics you’ve described I am not so sure I want to see.
I am a capricorn, and I don’t know how much you know about us, but we do like sloving issues (not just forgetting about it) and we do hold grudges (i think) and do like the last word. I don’t like to argue, but when I do, I definetely put my two cents in…..anyways, don’t want to think of arguing as he seems very sweet, to himself and a great listener.
How would you pair a capricorn female (Horse) and a male aquarius (Pig)?
Thank-you so much.
Oh yeah, one more thing I am looking for a long term relationship, and I believe he is to. Although that talk hasnt come up
Hello Becky,
Male Aquarius Fire Horse were my search terms and so here I am.I’ve thoroughly enjoyed discovering your website and your comments & insight into the Male Aquarian’s being.
Your image is inexplicably Lovely Gemini,enjoy your afternoon.
Hello becky,
its really wonder full to read this article. i cant imagine, how you sort out all the things.
becky, it must your man, aquarian man.
being auraian i agree with all these thing, i know all these from early boy hood, but never found words.
im not good in writing. but in addition to you comments:
For aquarius men, sex is like a routine job, they dont take a something intelctual, something heavenly blessed.
If you keep it that way, you will always get it. this is the same reason, you find aquarious men emotionally detached.
An other thing, to keep attracted the aquarians, always reamin a solveable puzzle, you know, how there minds are thinking logically.
there habit of being dominant, keeps them engaged. always keep, them surprises, making them feel, what they have portray you is wrong.
For aquarius men, you there must be reading there. lsiten. i have a tip for you:
wether you have intrest in having sex or not. always pretend you have. i know you are good at this.
becky, i like to share my feeling also. after readin long tex again n again.
the only reason i leave the my girl, is when i found out that, she have never been understanding me. she is only building the relation.
but can be stop by word, “you hate people,leaving you alone. and you are doing same to me”
when i find time i will write more.
oh i forgot to mention: in my prefernce of girl, i like mature & experinced one. which play more active part.
hahahah
love you all
Hi Becky!
I am an Aqua male, born in the year of the Dragon, and I definitely agree with what you have to say. I didn’t recognize my faults as much until I began reading astrology and this helped me avoid doing them as much as possible. However, the bit about hating time constraints and routine are things that I cannot change or improve on.
I can’t explain it but I like my days to be random. I go to a university where I can NEVER be on time to class, much less deal with all 342 deadlines to meet, and it probably is because of my intellect that I can even manage average grades. It’s not the material we don’t get it, it’s the fitting it into our non existent schedule, or the getting it in on time part. The order and structure of everything is often overwhelming to fit in a single day, and I often feel effective for just doing 20% of my tasks, and have no qualms on flaking class.
It’s weird though because we’re lone wolves, but at the same time we need companionship (I prefer any good friend out of my long list of friends) to share our ideas and thoughts with, ya know, get feedback. I also think Aquarians far better suited towards any metaphysical studies than any other sign. We see science as the box, and we think outside the box. If you believe everything scientists say, you’re going to miss the point of life, astrology included.
OMG! I stumbled on this searching for informaton on aquarius men and some of it is right on! I am a saggittarius woman and have been seeing this guy for almost 3 months, I had to approach him, I noticed how he would stare at me at times then other times completly ignore me, which piqued my interest in him even more! I did notice that when I ignore him he is more responsive to me. Or when I act as if I don’t care, he wants me. He never makes advance plans and if he does, he cancels. It’s like a game, when he thinks I am not interested he is all over me. I really do like him because he is such a mystery, I just need some advice on how to keep his interest. I am very direct and straight forward with him and he seems to appreciate it. But he seems to say things to get a rise out of me, but I don’t let him see that it does. It seems as if dating an aquarius man is like playing games. Any suggestions?
Sag woman. being a sag. also who has dated aquarius men, i can say that I agree with Becky. In one of her blogs she mentions that Saggittarius can be too normal for the aquarius. He is one of a kind for sure. It’s like sag. thnks that if you plan a date then you go on a date right? This would be the normal thing to do, but for the aquarius it is much more fun when it is spontaneous! This may be why you think he is playing games. I feel however that this combination can work, because mostly of the eternal opptimism of the Saggittarrius, who is pretty much up for anything fun. Just get him over on your team and you won’t be lacking in ideas for adventure and spontaneaty!However you may be spending more evenings alone, reading or horseing around with other pals then you had wanted. You see aquarians need there time to figure out the problems while you would rather not focus on the serious stuff.So enjoy the game while it lasts!
Hello Becky,
As an Aquarius male I have to say your assessment of us in love and romance is spot-on. In my personal case with Venus in Pisces and Mars in Aries the naturally schizophrenic Aquarius romantic tendencies are only made worse – not an easy way to go through life.
The only woman with whom I ever fell in love with instantly and who fell in love with me on the spot was a Gemini. Distance and her perceived need and desire to embrace the normal (read average or, less charitably, the mediocre and banal) put an end to something that could have been perfect for the both of us.
My question about you Gemini girls is why do you insist upon doing things, seeing people, and going down paths which - by your admission – you know to be false or in some way inauthentic? I have seen it time and again.
With my moon in Gemini, I love all you Geminis to death but this sort of “hypocrisy” is simply strange. The rest of your little quirks I personally find quite charming.
Hi Deke, Thanks for you comment
Yes, well I suppose that us Gemini girls can be quite annoying at times. But you see we are so much more than one woman, which makes it quite tricky at times to be 100% about anything! We are like butterflies I guess, and we flutter from one thing to the next mainly out of curiosity, and I think at times we head in the wrong direction. But as us Gemini girls have to put up with you Aquarius boys I think it’s only fair!!
Lovely to meet another wonderful Aquarius man
Love & Light
Becky
Hello again,
Many thanks for the lovely compliment.
I supposed that together we have hit the nail on the head then. A very real possible problem between female Gemini and male Aquarius is that while you externalize your duality resulting in the need to try and explain or rationalize your choices of the moment to us or to yourselves, we internalize ours. This results in a slightly patronizing do as we say, not as we do approach to “helping” you. Worse yet, we feel that this received wisdom from us requires no discussion, justification, or explanation at all – it is simply self-evidently true.
In fact, you can even feel a touch of this tone in my posts here - sorry!
Is it possible that we Aquarius males are actually worse than people say we are? Well, in our defense, we do generally mean well.
Heavy thoughts on such a perfect Spring day here…
Cheers!
Being a Taurus, I have to say that getting involve with an Aquarius man is a lot of WORK. I do like him and everything, but frankly, I’m not even sure if he’s interested in me. When I am the most angry with him and completely ignoring his existence, he goes all out to get my attention only to become distant later on when he got it.
So in order to cope with this, I’ve learned how to be an Aquarius, popping in and out of his life. That way, I always get 100% attention every time I see him.
As someone mentioned, you really need to let Aquarius take his own medicine.
The future of this relationship, I’m not even sure. That’s why, even now, though he doesn’t know, I’m not exactly 100% committed to him yet.
The Taurus/Aquarius relationship is very draining for Taurus, and I think it takes a certain freer Taurus to deal with this lasseiz faire spirit.
Well the question is does he like me or does he want to be like me/ As I have noticed there is a difference.
Just a thought… Maybe you’ve got it backwards, learning how to be an Aquarius…
L’influence des pierres précieuses et l’astrologie….
Il est bien connu qu’à l’époque du premier christianisme plusieurs ?uvres d’auteurs anciens sur l’influence des pierres sur la santé et le destin de l’homme ont disparu (l’église croyait que c’étaient les résultats de la superstition païe…
Wow… you just described me and every relationship I’ve ever had..Yea I’m an Aquarius… the only thing that didn’t relate to me was the not trying new things cause I always assume ill be good at anything
I was born on june 27, 1980. The signs say am a “Cancer”, but I am nothing like a cancer, then I looked further and it turns out, am a “GEmini” and I love it! everything they say, it makes sense to me. I also wanted to say, am also madly in love with an Aquaries man, I can’t stop thinkin about him, its been close to 12 or 13 yrs that we broke up, but I still find him in my thoughs. Maybe, because we had an encounter a few months ago, but they do love their solitude, and yes it drives me “NUTS”…..
I loved this post! It describes the Aquarius man very well. I am too a Gemini ^_^. I’ve recently fallen for an Aquarius guy. I am only going into the 10th grade this year; but as you probably know; Gemini’s (especially the women) mature fast. I kind of figured out that I’m the type of girl who likes to go for the chase; I am very choosy on which guy I want and let me tell you; not very many make it into my heart that quickly! This guy that I am interested stated back in February that his birthday was coming up; February 9th. I was curious to why as I liked this guy because he came off as the arrogant ‘I’m hot and I know it’ type. Usually I’d say ‘guys like that don’t deserve girls like me. Then I did some ‘research’ only to find that he’s Aquarius. That explains his complete mysteriousness! We both have Aries in venus; which is suppose to be a wonderful match; however, he is interested in a Libra Girl (Whose Venus sign is incompatible) and I’ve heard that the perfect match for Aquarius is Libra! He obviously flirts with her; but I get the feeling that he likes to flirt with me as well but i’m unsure if he’s just trying to be friendly. My question is; do I still have a good chance with him (Libra and Gemini are suppose to be equal when matching with Aquarius) even though this Libra girl is in his life? thanks.
Hi Becky,
I recently met an aquarius guy and we went out on our first date. He talked a lot and we had some interesting conversations. However, 2 days later, he emailed me and said “there are some differences between you and what I am looking for.Please understand my frankness.
” I was a little shock because I talked a lot during our date. I mean…ther’s no silence at all. I might be a little shy to him as I feel it’s our first date but I know I’m a fun person when you get to know me a little more…coz…hey..I’m a Gemini gal. This aqua guy actually told me that he is ready to settle down before our date(and so am I). Is it possible that he feels I’m not ready to settle down or…? I replied him the email saying “It’s cool. np at all.It’d be cool if we can be friends; if not..it’s okay too.” And then he replied me,” Of course I like to be friends with you.”
I actually like the guy and don’t wanna just give up, but I know chasing after him is a big no-no for aqua. What should I do? How do I make him want to know me more? Thanks
sorry…just wanna correct my typo…” we both talked a lot during the date…”
Also, my birthday is coming up and I’m gonna have a little party in my place. My friends are encouraging me to invite him, but I feel kinda weird. Do you think I should invite him or better just…..not?
Thanks Becky,
Love your site.
Hi there Cat,
Thanks for your comment. I too am an Gemini girl so I understand the non stop talking! I do it all the time to my poor Aqua partner. Aquarius men are awkward and not easy to deal with, so it is best not to. Call him up or email him and just casually arrange to go somewhere together..if he agrees then great! And go and have fun. They can be rather black and white so perhaps just asking him straight whether he wants to pursue a relationship with you or not. Hope this helps and good luck!
Love & Light
Becky
Hi Cat,
INVITE HIM!! He will either say yes or no. And that will be mainly to do with whether he is a party going Aquarius or not. Some of them don’t like lots of people they don’t know and some just don’t care either way. But I would say definatly ask him..as another Gemini girl I KNOW you will regret it if you don’t.
x
Thank you Becky for your suggestions. Hmmm..My birthday party is this coming Sunday and I think I’ll send the invitation to him on Friday. Since he just sent me “that” email, I don’t wanna invite him to my party right away…kinda desperated…huh?
Thanks for your help:)
Regards from San Francisco~
Cat
Hello Becky,
I was just thinking if it’s really appropriate to invite that aqua guy to my birthday party since we’ve only known each other for less than a month. Well…I do wanna invite him to my BD party but not sure if it’s gonna scare him away. I do like him and he was very thoughtful throughout our date, but I just don’t understand why he doesn’t wanna continue. Two of my ex bfs are aquarius as well and they coudn’t stop calling me after our first date(I mean…come on..we gemini gals are unique…we always think about how to make life more interesting…right?).
My friends told me he may be testing you or something. He is about 5 years older than me..is it possible about the age…omg..I have no clue.
Any idea or thoughts?
Thanks!
Regards from S.F.
Cat
Hi Cat,
Firstly, yes your right we are very unique!!
This is all really up to you Gemini girl. I know it’s hard to make your mind up but you have to do it sometimes you know!!! I just think you should do whatever feels right to you, after all it’s your party, so you have to feel comfortable about who is there. I can’t help you with the age thing as I have no idea how old you are!!! All I know is that you are a proper Gemini girl and I understand. lol
Love & Light
Becky
HI Becky
OH my goodness, let me start off by saying hello, I too am a Horse and a scorpio. I have been with an aquarian man for the last 3 years. I want to know if we are dating the same man. This man makes me sooo crazy, you hit the nail on the head. I love him but every other day want to leave him. But, I might just take your advice, Ill see how that works out, but replacing him will be a hard thing to do. ( so maybe ill just roll with the punches)
This was like reading my life story( the last 3 years any way)
Thank you, Becky. Thanks for creating this site and all the advices.
-Cat
ok… I am, as u can probably guess, Aquarius Male… i have no problem with the concept of love but a big problem with trust… especially after my brake up with my Cancer Ex..
At the moment i’m seeing a Gemini girl, who i hope to be with for a very very long time… but i just find it confusing when she gets fustrated when i am distant and when i try to get closer it feels like she is distant… i hate the feeling of distance… its yuky and awkward…
on the upside… this blog dose explain alot of my behavior quite well…
Tx for the insight…….u r about as accurate as can be about the Aquarius man. I’m a Scorpio and every so often go into b*tch fits coz perhaps i love my Aquarius man too much. He’s a great guy with a brilliant mind…..but indeed he is an oddball. LOL…..
I do hope we work out…
Hello Becky,
This is really unbelievable, you are so spot on about the aquarius man, my bf is one of them and it was like I was reading about him, same problems same advantages, but I am afraid I still haven’t found a way to deal with everything that you mentioned above. I will follow some of your advices, I think.
I am a leo myself and my ex is a gemini so when I landed with an aquarius it was too much of a shock, but we are still together somehow.
May be it has to do something with the fact that my moon is in Aquarius and his moon is in Leo.
Well anyway just wanted to tell you that you really got this one, well done!
OMG!!! Oddball to the finest! I’m rather pissed with my Aquarius man right now! He analyzed me and that was so wrong of him, he has been distance for quite some time and all I needed to know was that he was still “here” with me even though he was on another planet. Argh!!! I gave him a dose of acid with my lethal tongue aka my over-emotional side got the best of me. Hope that he comes back around, if not I’ll have to drag him back into my arms… LOL
Oh my, i need to curb my ways, but he asked for it. I know I should have showed more understand as I am very understanding, but he just needed a dose of his medicine… ( i think)
As far as things go, I hope the make up sex will be a bomb!
I love him lots!
Thanks Becky!
I just finished reading your outlook on the Aquarian man and I think it may be a little unfair. Speaking as an Aquarian man myself, I think that while the majority of what you said is true, I feel that there are a few generalizations that you have made that I would like to extrapolate on (but thank you for the disclaimer about them being based on the sun sign).
As you mentioned, Aquarian men have plenty of emotion and we do tend to bottle it up. But we do this is not only with emotions, but also with thoughts and opinions. That is our greatest down fall; We gunnysack things. When something bothers us we will not talk about it because usually we do not want to bother our partners with our troubles and woes. I know it’s frustrating, but i think that it is something that we may just be incapable of doing.
Another thing that can often be observed about us Aquamen, is that we tend to be fairly deep thinkers and VERY opinionated. I will openly admit this. The deep thinking is great for talking with people but it can be a double edged sword. Just like the bottling of emotions, deep intellectual thoughts can also be stored away. So if you really want to hear some interesting things, drag our thoughts and opinions out but be prepared to challenge them and make us defend them, maybe even revise them. You will have a great time.
thanks for listening.
Michael
Hi Michael,
I couldn’t agree with you more about the bottling up of everything. They are mental blockers, blocking anything that is painful or they feel they can’t deal with. I will be writing a ‘part two’ on Aquarius men as I feel that there is so much to say about them. You mentioned them being very opininated? They mostly come across as indifferent to be honest. I am aware however that they do have thoughts and opinions of their own but as I have also found out you really need a very deep and bonded relationship with him for him to open up and talk freely. Your comment was very interesting, thank you for taking the time to write it.
Love & Light
Becky
P.S If your chart has some water signs then your experience of this may be different. This really is just a basic look at the sun sign.
Hi,
As a Pisces (male), I usually end up having aquaintances with aquarius (both sexes). It starts good and ends (as well) with no hard feelings. I have a few personal obervations about aquarius men (mostly singles I know):
(i) These guys can’t really laugh. Even with the best of jokes and comical situations, their faces appear controlled (with laughter jam-o-meters). They surely want to laugh but don’t want to show it which makes the facial expression something unique (can’t describe in words)
(ii) Don’t talk with them about marriage (if they are still single and getting old). Thats a very emotional issue to them. They can get waaaaaay sentimental when women are discussed to the extent of annoyance.
(iii) They love to