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Gemini In Love
Love is seldom easy for the Gemini and this mainly stems from them being more than one person. They have many needs and finding the one right person can be somewhat of a struggle. Not to mention that they aren’t the most patient of signs and if things don’t look good from the outset they will very often move on straight away. This can sometimes mean that they miss out on what could have been a good relationship, which is a shame. I myself am a Gemini so I know the kind of turmoil love can bring. We have, I think, too much, far too much emotion mixed with a fair bit of intellect. This means that we constantly try and use logic to solve love and let’s face it, love is not logical.
These people it has to be said are rather charming. First impressions are important and on the first meeting of a Gemini you will be bowled over. They all seem to come complete with an engaging, friendly smile and sparkle in their eyes which is quite spell binding. Basically they make you feel happy, they have the feel good factor. Yes, it is fair to say that the first time you meet one of these airy creatures you may well fall head over heels for them. This is actually quite a problem for the Gemini. People seem to be attracted to them like a magnet and declare their undying love, which is all rather shocking to the Gemini who was simply being friendly. There is however, more to it than that. The reason this happens is simple. Gemini all have one amazing and totally unconscious ability to be whoever they want to be. Every-time they meet someone new they be dazzle them with being that persons dream woman or man. It is quite astonishing really. But it’s true.
The Gemini needs mental stimulation far more than anything physical. It is a need that must be met by anyone who is to take on this airy dual character. Most people are turned on by peoples eyes, or bums! Not the Gemini, unless you say something witty and intelligent on the first meeting then it wouldn’t matter if you were Brad Pitt, the Gemini will simply look straight through you and then you will meet one of the twins. I say one of, many people say that the Gemini has two separate characters, but from a lot of experience and being one myself, I say we have several. And not all of them are easy to control and to be honest not all that pleasant either. It is, I’m afraid, when one of these twins pops out that us Geminis are at are worst.
The mental stimulation carries on into the bedroom as well. Gemini’s love to talk dirty and are always very vocal in their love making. Open mindedness is their second name so you had best be prepared for some eye opening stuff indeed! Sadly, the Gemini gets accused a lot of being cold and aloof. And I suppose it is true that we can come across that way. Most of the time though it is because we are not actually here. We will be visiting some other place in which no-one else can reach. Which is another common occurrence and complaint in relationships with Gemini people. Their partners often feel very alone, even if they are laying right next to their Gemini and holding hands. The Gemini will only be there physically, mentally though, they are off dancing around somewhere else. This is when you will need to be rather amazing and interesting to bring them back to earth.
I will try my very best to get much more posted about Gemini very soon 
Thank you all for you patience!
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Hi Becky!
I’m a gem girl too! haha I knew you were a gem when I started reading things you wrote about aquarius boys.. I love love love this post.. It fits me so well.. I’m glad to know I’m not just crazy haha well maybe half the time?
OMG!!! Becky this is so true, when I read this ALL I could do was giggle all the way to the end.
You are so correct about our lethal tongue when we are anger!
Oh boy, am I spontaneous and experimental in bed, damn, you are truly a gem.
Thanks a bunch.. Smooches!!!
Completely me. Astrology is amazing.
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omg yes im a true gem born june 6 so true lol i cant even understand myself sometimes and we change our minds so much is like we dont know what we want lol we say one thing now then the next. the gemini men are similar too but not quite
I’m tired of being Gemini, it’s too much work.
Can I trade? Lol… just kidding.. but sometimes I can’t stand being inside my head and all over the place.
just got out of a relationship with a gemini and i believe they need to be with you all the time. geminis love company and can move on if they dont see you in a while.
this post is very accurate.
although geminis promise too many unrealistic things!
they like the thought of love, but have problem with commitment at times because they over analyse whether they are doing the right thing or not!
they also have alot of the opposite sex friends that their partnesrs might feel threatened by!
Wow…astrology is very strange.
I AM A OLDER GEMINI WOMAN AND I LOVE BEING ME. SOMETIMES I SCARE MYSELF LOL….GEMINI’S ARE WONDERFUL PEOPLE
I’m like Lilly, born on June. I scare myself sometimes with all the head analysis I do to myself and God help the people who I’m analyzing.they are in for some real trouble..LOL. Can’t make up my mind on all sorts of stuff, but I know what I want..most of the time..well in my head at least…whoops….was that a Gemini mini head trip? Let me stop talking now or you”ll be reading for hours.. Happy New Year everybody!!
hahahah… I analyze everyone and everything too usually. And I also find myself to never know exactly what I want. That can change at a moment’s whim. It is soo true that if my partner doesn’t give me the attention I need, I will very quickly move on to the next person. I need someone who is intelligent, can have long interesting and open-minded discussions with me, who is loving, gentle and affectionate, physically attractice and sensitive and understanding cause Lord knows I don’t understand myself a lot of the time. We are def. many people bottled into one… very moody myself… and I do believe I have the ability to be anyone I choose. That can create a problem however when one is trying to be true to themself… sometimes we are so good at lying we trick ourselves. Oh and communication is key, in the bedroom as well, unless you are lucky enough to be able to understand your partner through body and soul language… if that makes any sense. I love this website… I’m so glad I can discuss these things with people. I am very fascinated with astrology. I ask most people I meet their sign… is that weird?
IM IN NEED OF SUM ADVICE. IM A GEMINI, MAY 22ND. I WAS IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A PISCES AND EVENTUALLY WITH MY FEAR TO COMMIT AND MY YOUTHFUL NATURE, I SCARED HIM OFF AND HURT HIM (NOT INTENTIONALY)IN THE WORSE WAY POSSIBLE AND IN RESULT AFTER LOSING HIM I REALIZED THAT IM TRULLY IN LOVE WITH HIM BUT ITS TOO LATE. HE IS GETTING MARRIED TO A FRIEND OF MINE THAT HE BARELY KNOWS FOR TWO MONTHS.(A FRIEND KNEW EVERYTHING ABOUT ME AND HIM TO DETAILS TOO)TWO WEEKS BEFORE HE MET HER, ME AND HIM HAD A VERY AMAZING AND HONEST CONVERSATION ABOUT THE PAST AND OUR LOVE AND THAT WE STILL LOVE EACH OTHER. AND TO MY SURPRIZE ONCE HE MET HER A MONTH LATER SHE MET HIS FAMILY AND PLANING A WEDDING. SHE IS ARIES….
I KNOW HE STILL LOVES ME AND VERY STRONGLY TOO. WHEN MY NAME OR ANYTHING ABOUT ME IS MENTIONED AROUND HIM, HIS BODY LITERALLY SHAKES AND HE SHUTS DOWN IN SADNESS…
I WAS TOLD THAT PISCES NEVER FORGIVE A BETRAYAL OF A LOVED ONE, AND WILL NEVER TAKE THEM BACK BUT WILL NEVER STOP THINKING OR LOVING THEM, EVEN THOUGH THEY ARE WITH THE OTHER SPOUSE. IS THAT TRUE? ARE PISCES ABLE TO FORGIVE CHEATING?
I’m a Aries and I can almost guarantee that his union with an Aries will not work. Sounds like a rebound thing. Your going to have to let these things play out, learn and move on… if he comes back then you we’re meant to have a second chance with him.
this whole thing about Gemini being flirtatious and how they have a spell over people is making me realize that the Gemini I love, or whatever, is not at all into me like I thought. I am a fool. I fell for it. how stupid of me. This makes me sad.
Lyalya May,
I’m a pisces and wouldn’t remain in, or go back to a relationship with someone who betrayed or cheated on me. I could still be friends with that person though, and wouldn’t even think worse of them for having done so - perhaps that would be difficult for non-pisces to understand. It may not be the same for all pisces.
The idea that a pisces never forgets a relationship is perhaps partly true. It would be more true to say that a pisces usually doesn’t forget much of anything when it involves interaction with people in general, be it intimate or not.
I’m a Gemini and I must say I too am very psychotic (well, what my freinds tell me anyway:). I LOVE PEOPLE and easily charm just about anyone I want to–GOD HELP YOU. No, just kidding. I do love to flirt and have many friends of the opposit sex. Although my heart belongs to my Aquarius love–My second major relationship and with an Aquarius too, I just can’t seem to find anyone else I’m compatible with or understands and just accepts me for the people I am. And I also have to say, I hate being as fickle as I am. My mind changes constantly and I too over-analyze everything. This was a fun read.
Angel,
The “for the people I am” line is pretty funny. That, along with the part about the constant mind changing, and over-analyzing everything, seems to fit my wife (also a gemini) as well.
i am a GEMiNi a young one at that but i am not really the fickle type and i fall in love hard, but not fast or too often. my first love was an aquarius but he turned out to be gay [what the heck i know] and my second love was a pisces but he went to jail and i fell out of love with him being away for so long but im in love with another pisces but he has kids with his previous relationship a cancer and from what i understand from reading is that pisces and cancers have sometime of weird strong understanding of each other? is there any truth behind that? do u think he really loves me if that is what he says? he also asked me to marry him but after he accidentally put me in the hospital and i REALLy mean accidentally he wasn’t abusing me or anything lol im not sure but he says that it opend his eyes and he wants to spend the rest of his life with me? and a fellow pisces help me out with advice? or a fellow gemini? im so lost in thought everday…
Hi MZLucky,
Being a gemini myself, I am interested in your dilemma, you stated that you are not the fickle or superficial type of gemini.. and fall in love hard.. that sounds just like me.. may I ask when your birthday is?
The first guy you fall for is ofcourse the Aquarius, but he lets you down and turns out gay… weird… but still Aqua and Gem have a great strong relationship, regardless of the situation, may I ask when this Aquarians birthday was?
Now the Pisces, to me personally this Pisces sounds confusing. Being in a previous relationship with a Cancer and having children with her, the Pisces and Cancer have a very strong relationship, and he might find it a struggle entering a new relationship, where he might state that he loves you , but his heart could be floating about the Cancer.
Anyway MZlucky, you said that he ‘accidently’ injured you putting you in hospital that instantly brings up red alarms for me, what kind of guy would do that.. it needs to be explained alittle more …
I see that you are mostly confused, but if you love him and he loves you the go for the relationship, don’t go straight into marriage just yet, I would say get to know him alittle more, and see for sure how serius the relationship is, because remember Pisces fall in and out of love pretty quickly. Don’t be confused, just stay strong and keep your head up high, and be wary of him, because remember he has just come back from a cancer relationship so his head may be tilting towards her alittle bit.
Hope that helped, let me know how you get on and the birthdays..!
Hi Becky,
Thank you so much for this post. I can now cancel my appt at the therapist…I am not that crazy after all. LOL! I just started reading up on astrology when I met and fell so hard for an aquarius man. It was so scary and uncanny how much we connected and get along so well, I had to find out so things about us.
In seeking this info about us….I actually started discovering somethings about myself and it is sooooo good to now that these traits I have are shared by people with the same astrological sign too. thanx again for your amazing insight into the Gemini Psychie.
hello, i’m an Aquarius guy, and not long ago i broke up with a cancerian girl,wer’e almost 5yrs and it’s unbelievable that i was able to make it that long,only Long Distance Relationship took it’s toll and I have to decide coz I was cooling off already…
A month ago I was introduced by my good buddy to his friends at his flat and I came across this mysterious and very quite and a bit shy woman.
We were all drinking and talking about a topic and I was just listening all along until I was able to say a comment or like a different view to the topic and this girl was the only one to appreciate my comment, she was like suddenly agreeing to what I think as everybody else was still trying to digest what i’ve said…
The night went on and we danced at a nearby club, she started flirting with me on d dance floor and was grabbing my hand so I will dance with her, i didn’t really mind it coz I was just being friendly not just to her but to my buddy’s friends as well. After a couple of hours she was already tipsy and I have to make sure she can find a corner to rest a while and next thing i know she was leaning on me and hugging me from my side. I never thought of anything malicious or whatever,it’s just natural for me to be humanitarian, besides from d 1st time i saw her, i wasn’t even attracted.
Next day she got me mobile no. from my buddy and asked me if she can meet me again, after a few days of just accompanying her whenever i had free time whenever she texted me to, Not just me but WE found out we have a lot in common, d way we think,view things and likes too…it was incredible aside from d fact that I didn’t know yet that she was a Gemini woman, its my 1st time to interact with this woman this close, time passed like a blur and we began to like each other like crazy,wanting each others company and just talk about just anything as in anything, if time doesn’t exist we’d be talking forever, both of us seem to conform to each others views and principles.
And also to how we interact physically and the way we kissed, we both agree it was the best we ever had compared to the one we had from our previous relationships. We were going crazy to each others lips!!!
Sadly she had to go back to her country coz she was just on student visa when she came to NZ, we were starting a very promising relationship but she had to go home. It was like mutual understanding for us that Communication, Honesty and Respect are Really Important on our Long Distance Relationship. In fact she was the first to mention this important thing we should do in an LD and i was just adding some important facts to it.
Even were apart we seem to be able to feel and think the same, one time i woke up with a bit heavy headed feeling and heavy palpitating, I was thinking about her all day long until i was able to call her when i went home and guess what, she was worried that day, and we were able to tell each other what we felt, its an eery feeling that the other can feel or even guess what the other is feeling or thinking if we really wannt to.
My worry is since where in a long distance relationship, i’m afraid that she’ll change anytime and fly away. She always tells me that she love’s me and is also planning to come back soon. That “soon” cannot be determined yet since its quite difficult nowadays to get even a work permit to NZ. They say only LOVE coupled with communication,honesty and respect are the Antidote for our worries and doubts.
Another thing is her ex a Leo guy seems to get in our way and try to disturb our harmonious relationship (at least his away from her too in another country working). I try not to be jealous but sometimes its frustrating on my part (while she was just enjoying to see us guys fight over her!!!), i was doing a reverse psychology like teasing her to give telling her to give that guy a chance and she reacted to my joke, she was insulted and told me its not funny at all, she said she has decided to move on with her new life and love with me (by d way they also had a good relationship only thing they always had a fight and the guy tend to grab d limelight and had made lies to her,don’t really know d details).
sorry for making it a long story,i’m just happy to share it to interested persons that might give an insight, advice, opinions etc. to make our Love work even through distance…
I’d like to thank you guys in advance whatever help you can share, i hope i can be of help too…
I had several relationships before but None has ever made me feel this happy at the same time fear the thought of losing not just another one, but this amazing creature God made…thank you
Evojlution, it is quite enjoyable to read your story,I feel like I know both you and her. I am a gemini woman also and I can tell you all those things are true about us indeed, but we are also loyal. if she feels that you are loyal to her and she loves you, she will be loyal to you also. I hope everything works out for you guys, I hope everything works out for me and my aqua man also.and that last line about “someone making me happy and at the same time fear the thought of losing them” is something i can so relate to.
love conquers all. I hope……….