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Aries In Love
Aries are strong people, although they are the baby of the Zodiac they do like to lead and be in control. In relationships this can cause one or two problems, especially for the women of the sign as it has only been in recent times that women are more accepted as being an equal power to men. And even now, some would like to prove that wrong. Yes, the Aries woman can certainly give her man a run for his money. Good for her I say!!! I have known a few Aries women and I have to say they are very loving, and seemingly bend over backwards to please the man in their life, however, they also moan about it, wishing their man would do more; when in-fact it is down to her that perhaps their loved one does hold back. Let's not forget this sign is not only a fire sign but a masculine sign also. An Aries woman will definitely need a strong man as a partner. Any weaker signs need not apply as this woman may inadvertently cause them upset.
Flirting is also another trait of the Aries sign. However, so is jealousy, so if you are dating an Aries person any flirting done on your part with members of the opposite sex that are not her/him will not be tolerated. People born under this sign do have a little battle with self esteem and insecurity. They don't really know how to deal with these things properly and tend to just ignore them, or worse, try and sort out the problems in a head strong manner not caring about the consequences, which is another trait of the Aries. In the bedroom these people are rocket fuelled lovers who will shock you with their sexual potency and can be quite over whelming in-fact! They love to try any new positions they can think of, and can even like the more extreme pleasures such as being tied up and whipped!! Aries are forever in search of the most intense experience and love the chase, but can become rather bored as they need constant stimulation. The saying "the grass is greener" may apply to these subjects.
The Ram, in all seriousness, should really try the more gentle approach in the bedroom. For instance, lots of foreplay and gentle caresses producing lingering orgasms will be sure to please any of us, using all the senses to arouse not only yourself, but your partner as well. Full steam ahead is all very well and good, but sometimes everyone likes a bit of sensitive loving. You may shock yourself into finding that even you, the ever fervent and enthusiastic lover, may enjoy being nibbled on the ear from time to time!! If you are indeed a lover of an Aries do make sure you give them plenty of ego boosting during lovemaking. The men will like to hear they are hitting the 'spot' so to speak, and lots of "oooh's" and "aaaaah's" and the women will love to hear that you find every part of them overwhelmingly stimulating. So how does Aries fair in compatibility with the other 11 signs. Well, it is my belief that all Sun Signs can get on with one another, however by choosing a Sun Sign which is more in tune with your own the success rate of the relationship may be higher than that of someone with whom common interests are lacking.
These characteristics are based fully on a persons sun sign. Therefore may not be 100% accurate for everyone as there are lots of different aspects of one's chart to take into consideration.
Combined Astrology - The Aries Rat
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March 25th, 2008 at 7:13 pm
This is so funny. And so true too. Aries loves attention fom the opposite sex, even when they are supposedly committed. You really have to set the boundaies with this one if you are in a relationship. Because I don’t think they really know what the definition of commitment is. It could be to them just when they are with you. My ex was an Aries and he would flirt with other girls right in front of me all the time, but if I would even talk to another guy his feelings would get all hurt. And i can definately vouch for the ohhs and ahhs, they love this!!! Just make sure that you don’t give them too big of a head.
March 25th, 2008 at 8:22 pm
Because if you do they just may start to think they are gods gift to women!
August 15th, 2008 at 9:59 pm
hahahaha…i love this!!! all i can say is that i am an aries woman..and i am GUILTY of all of the charges mentioned above!
and im not afraid to say it!
October 22nd, 2008 at 8:29 am
it is always good to know about the singe you are dating. I am a Virgo girl, unfortunately and because my bad luck I fell for an Aries man . we both stubborn, have extremely strong ego that neither one of us will make the first move. he started off well at the beginning when I wasn’t at all interested in him. not surprising that I was pulled to his charm and wit. now I regret it . the worst part , he is my boss, heh…i know I should go and kill myself.
i hate his ways in blaming everything on me, he travels a lot and every time he comes back he has different attitude . once he shows how much he misses me, second time he acts as if i don’t even excite . i had it. yet i still have feelings for him, and i am sure he dose too , but we both are too stoned to show it to one another . seeking the opportunity to ask him to back off on me, is a dream i wish it comes true, deep down i wish he realize the loss before it happens , but knowing an Aries man like this one , he will not make a move he always believes ( one good girl gone, better gir yet to come..)how to be the bes girl …?
even his jealousy , never was felt by me, may be on an early stage of this relationship but now he turned cold. maybe he is busy way to busy , but what should i do..i am confused ..?
November 1st, 2008 at 11:49 am
To Eve In situation like this. A well-balance strong slaghammer will do the tick to hit them over the head. I wouldn’t bother me, if the guy was flirting with another women in front of me. If I knew he really love me. A lot of my guy friends that are married flirt with me all the time and their wives know it, but the wives also know it just harmless.
Even though I hate jealous, I would do it to him so he could just chase me about and capture me.
November 1st, 2008 at 11:54 am
To Alinor, You need to learn to play the game. You need to love being chase, so he doesn’t become bored so where it goes off on another advernture. Look sexy, but don’t let him capture you. Pretend your not interested, he has an ego. You must play.
December 15th, 2008 at 12:55 pm
Im not trying to discourage you, but my x told me the SAME THING..never leave and always stand beside me..when a Scorpio is done, their is NO NOTICE and they are gone as quickly as they came into your wold and turned it upside down, as youre left standing there wondering WTF just happened..snd they are GONEDY!! So, being an Aries you definatly had better have that back up plan~~~u will need it!! Best of Luck with ur Scorpio moving in!!
December 28th, 2008 at 3:10 am
It’s so entertaining reading about me, as I am an aries woman. No one can tell a better story about an aries woman other then an aries woman. We are very jealous hearted women, our man is just what is said our man, don’t touch, don’t look and don’t even think about slipping him your number. We like who we like and if we don’t like you, we won’t pretend. We believe in love and love the way it feels that’s why we feel we should be the center of your attention, if we don’t feel that from you then there is always someone to make us feel that way, trust me it’s not that hard to find someone else. Men are attracted to us because we are easy to get along with, can hold a good conversation and get down with the best of them while maintaining being a lady in the streets and his you know what in the bed. Any questions about the aries woman you think you might have, give me a holla i can answer what-ever you like.
January 11th, 2009 at 12:49 am
Alinor- he has lost interest! Move on!!!
February 24th, 2009 at 1:10 pm
I am an Aries woman and yes it is a fault of us Aries to be possesive/Jealous and I hate it but it is only one bad trait I guess and we have so many good traits…… but with a pisces man they pick up on this so quickly…….
March 24th, 2009 at 1:41 pm
baddest aries you are so right in all you said I am also an aries (15th) and I could not have said it better than you!
March 30th, 2009 at 10:57 pm
I honestly don`t think its true that us ARIANS do not remain committed in relationships. It depends on who you are with. We get bored easily, and like to shop around. I wouldn’t say sleep around.
April 16th, 2009 at 2:47 pm
Cocky son of bitches…. Give me three million $ I would blast them into particles! o yeah i am taraus/gemini cusp.
April 18th, 2009 at 11:18 pm
Interesting… As a taurus-gemini cusp, do you find yourself internally arguing over subject matters and decisions? I ask because I am a Leo-Virgo and am constantly arguing with myself to make a firm decision. Oh, and is your name Carl? I dated a taurus-gemini cusp. That was his name. :0)
May 13th, 2009 at 3:01 pm
Okay, ive read all your stuff on aries and, im totally in loev with one. Like you wouldn;t believe. But, i could never be with him again because… HE IS THE BIGGEST CHEATER EVER!!! and yeah… im an aquarius, supposedly the best for him. But, whatever. How could i get him to be more comitted?
June 7th, 2009 at 5:37 pm
I love reading through all these comments, because it seems like people are having the same problems over and over again
It is true that the Aries man is charming and flirtatious, and that is why i think that the best match for his is a Leo woman. Because she is very strong, powerful, and can put an Aries man instantly into his place. My parents have been married for 16 years now. And i know see that this relationship, and compatitiblity really works out. My mother has got my father to stop drinking, and smoking when i was born, and used to kick him out of the house, and into the cold siberian winters if he wanted to smoke. That really did it for him, after a couple of terrible frost bites, and his crazy tantrums. He realized that me and my mother we more worth it, and gave it all up just for us. Now he lives a healthy lifestyle, runs, doesn’t smoke, and only drinks on occasions.
I think my mom does a great job at keeping my dad grounded, and my dad adores her more than anything for it!
June 9th, 2009 at 11:12 pm
yeah i agree with badass aries. i’m an aries girl and think the comments are hillarious. i’m loyal when i’m in a real relationship now when i say real realationship i mean when i’m in love i have them as high as a pedisil. i’m a flirt and can be head strong at times great in bed i love me sex and very playful both in and out of the bed. i can guarantee anyone a run for their money with an aries. i love the attention off men but just as friends. I love being the chaser it drives me crazy and keeps me occupied too hehehehe. we are very easy too get along with and funny, can be one of the lads then five minutes later a proper lady. we adapt into it quite quicky.
June 25th, 2009 at 11:41 pm
Oh yeah! Aries women in love rock. Aries Rule was so on track. Its not just for Aries women but the men also. if we are in love - real love- then we won’t ever sway. Now, understand that does not mean we don’t flirt - excessively, even when we are in a committed relationship. Sometimes we flirt and don’t even realize we are doing it. We just do it so much. But flirting for me is like breathing. i need to do it. I need the attention, but it doesn’t mean i don’t love my man. I don’t have time to contantly reassure anyone how i feel. if I tell you I love you, believe it, else you’ll just run me away. Although I secretly like you being jealous over me, enuf can be enuf.
When I love a man, he has my world and i would do anything for him. However, if I try to work on a relationship that my partner isn’t as diligent in, I will ditch it and him but not before lots of warning.
I like my freedom in a relationship and will give you yours. However, if you cheat on me I’m am done. If by some very rare off-chance you are able to talk an Aries back into a relationship you cheated in, beware. All’s fair in love and war. We won’t be good until we get even.
June 28th, 2009 at 2:51 am
Okay it’s kind of irritating, or maybe i’m just confused, but if you have a child that child is your first born, and then the second child and third child are so forth, but only the last child is the baby, and the first born is the oldest.
My point is. ARIES AREN’T THE BABY OF THE ZODIAC :.
June 28th, 2009 at 2:52 am
uhhh why’d my comment get cut off ;.; and I ment to put Aries Ladeh…not laden…makes me sound like a freakin greek princess that is secretly a man that mole…uh nevermind
July 17th, 2009 at 2:21 am
All that I know is that the Aries male/Cancer female combo is disastrous! I have dated a few of these guys and this is the epitome of a love/hate relationship. This last one was the worst! When is was on it was off the charts! We had incredible sexual chemistry and were the best of friends. All was well as long as I didn’t try to have my own opinion or a social life outside of the relationship. This guy was very controlling,hot tempered, jealous, verbally abusive, insecure, and the king of double standards…It is over now. It was quite a ride I must say. I am still trying to get rid of him. This guy doesn’t take no for an answer although he is dating several other women. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get RID of an Aries man???? Ha!!
September 9th, 2009 at 5:56 pm
Aries ladeh - you are very funny!
And I must say that I think the whole thing about Aries being Cheats or flirtatious has more to do with the environment in which that person grew up in. I am now 39 and have never cheated on a girlfriend or ex-wife. She is a Libra which I have found to be my total opposite. I have always been loyal to my significant other and in everyway and in that I pride myself to know I have made a better CHOICE!
September 12th, 2009 at 5:54 am
Wow you guys nailed Aries!! But you forgot about their temper!! And the Dr. Jeckel and Mr. Hyde they are!! Aries tend to be very perverted, Flirting isnt the word!! They are very untrustworthy and very sneaky. Hey I dont know about your Aries But mine cant keep a job niether!! I am an Aquarius wanting to end this 19 years of pure hell with this Contolling,Muniputive,Jealous,Self Centered, perverted Creep that only thinks about himself!!! Tell Me How?? He’s Like A Old Piece Of Furniture that justs lyes around!! He wont leave!!
September 30th, 2009 at 5:10 am
Aries ladeh,
I know you posted your comment a while back but I just have to say that they order of the zodiac isn’t like the order of how you have your children. They are stages one is in during their lifetime. Aries would represent the first stage which would be the baby/infant stage. Taurus would represent the toddler/child stage. Gemini the teenager stage and so on and so forth. I’m not too sure what the exact stages are but I just had to clear up that misconception.
I love being an Aries woman =)
Jen
October 4th, 2009 at 9:55 am
Jen,
me too
November 1st, 2009 at 6:03 pm
I’d like the way you laid out the info.in your site it is easy to undertand
Salie
November 8th, 2009 at 12:46 am
Aquarius loverr, 1 word.. run! he will find himself chasing you so hard.. and he won’t even know what hit him = )
Aries man here!
November 8th, 2009 at 12:51 am
Alinor,
i, aries man, broke it off with my virgo lover. she was very interesting to me at first b/c she was soooooooo different from anything i had ever come in contact with.. but eventually i found myself not understanding where she was coming from pretty much all the time. and she just couldn’t respect or comprehend my mind either. i found the two signs; aries/virgo not that compatible.
November 10th, 2009 at 11:56 pm
I personally think that anything revolving around the aries sign is a disaster. I am saying this not because I dislike them but because it seems to ruin people’s lives. My sis has an aries moon and her temper makes her a hated thing among friends and family members. My cousin has mars in aries for which she couldn’t even marry. She is 37 now, but her male like behavior and temper makes her notorious among men. I dated one man who had venus in aries. He was depressed because he couldn’t commit to anyone. He liked me and told me he saw his future in me. But the deeper things started getting the more fear he ended up having. At one point, he called me and told me he couldn’t continue anymore because he thought the relationship got too serious and thus he lost interest, but he was sorry for wasting my time. The guy never understood what was wrong with him, but after i made his natal chart i saw his cursed venus…means it was in aries! I have a few aries friends also. And I see them treated like bootycalls by men. One of my cappy friends is thinking of breaking up with her boyfriend because his brother’s girlfriend is an aries and she really creates lots of problems for her.
It must be disgusting to be an aries!
November 17th, 2009 at 7:31 am
Capricorn_delight- it hardly sounds like you are a delight! Sounds like you got your heart broke by an Aries and you are blaming all of the rest of us for it! Astrology doesn’t make up a person as a whole! You are taking this Astrology thing a bit too far. BTW, my Taurus b/f dumped his Cappy g/f for me, and after seeing your reply… I can see why! Nasty rude person- get a life & stop being a hater! Peace out to everyone else.
November 17th, 2009 at 7:38 am
Cappy_delight- And another thing, anyone (and I mean anyone) can get married! The 37 year old has probably not settled, like most of america- look at the divorce rate! The guy you were dating probably doesn’t have comittment problems! He said he LOST interest in YOU, there is a major difference…. get over yourself!!
December 7th, 2009 at 7:31 pm
leanimal,
i know something about the cancer female’s attraction to an aries male. u described it perfectly, epitome of love-hate relation. i was smart enough to stay away from the cancer.
March 5th, 2010 at 3:18 am
i am an aries and i am 15 i do not get jealous that much but when i do it takes alot of work to get me jealous like i would only get jealous if a i guy i REALLY like is flirting with a girl
April 15th, 2010 at 7:39 am
I am a Pices male and I am interested in a Aries woman and i known this girl for a while now and she is very loving a really big flirt and a tease, pretty much everything that everyone has posted about Aries looks to be pretty much true. I have a hard time understanding her and a hard time trusting her in that way because of her personality. She told me that she loved me and we been talking for a while now and I know I have strong feeling for her but it upsets her that I wont say it back and I dont want to lose her either. Now not until recently I started looking at this astrology stuff and some of it made lots of sence and when i would look up my sign a lot of the things that it says really hit home. So now im curious on how compatible our signs are, im still skeptical about this astrology stuff but its been intersting getting into. If anyone has any advice let me know I am interested to know.
May 5th, 2010 at 9:59 pm
As aries myself i can say, I don’t cheat and never have cheated in my life time. I’m head strong and stubbern but never a cheat. When i’m in love, i fall hard and fast and feel uncontrollable. I would do anything for that man i’m in love with and protect him in every way I can. I tend to put my lover on a pedisil. I also do not tolerate a lover that is unfaithful or not loyal to me. If they are cheating or have cheated I will walk away and they will not have a hope in hell of getting me back.
When trust is broken in the relationship or I get hurt, I will forgive depending on how much I loved him but never forget and watch for repeated behaviours and when they come about, i’ll distant myself to protect my heart.
October 14th, 2010 at 3:26 am
I agree so much with you Sasha. I feel you on your comment, totally. Me being an Aries woman is very committed and loyal to the man she is in love with. We do Love attention from Men. To be honest, We think we’re the best thing Since Eve. So when we Find our Adam It’s all for him and him only. It may take awhile for us to find our Adam, but I would suggest to any Aries woman: The Adam in the Zodiac for the Aries Eve is a Compatible Scorpio M-A-N!! Not just any Scorpio man but the right one compatible for you and your birth chart. Scorpio men are the Only, in my opinion, who can Hold the interest of a Aries woman…Forever! So read up on them and pray a lot and don’t ever be unfaithful to them or it is done! And if you do, don’t you ever let them find out about it. you have to have a cool and patient mind with a Scorpio male, Aries women.
But when you have found that special one, My sexy female rams, you will know it. So hold on to him and be very good to him and he will do the same for you. You would have found the man of your dreams. Do your research.
And Hell Yes!! Aries Rock!!!! (Wink) *Smile*
October 25th, 2010 at 9:59 pm
I’m an Aries & I live up to every single thing up there. Lol! Its not my fault.
November 17th, 2010 at 12:53 am
i am an aries women and yes i am a flirt, i’ll flirt with you even if i dont like you…. i was in a relationship with a leo but he just was crowding my space…. and then i met a Gemini and he just amazing…lol but the thing with me is that i believe in commitments strongly but i cant seem to stay committed…. i have this constant need to be in another’s mans arms… or just to sleep with him because of my curiosity…. its hard to say no until… im angry… why is that?,,,, why must aries be promiscuous?
February 3rd, 2011 at 1:13 pm
Hello to all the Arieses out there!!!
I’m an Aries and I’m pretty adventurous. I used to be scared of heights, then one day I just wasn’t so I went skydiving. One day, I got the idea to travel, so I just did, took the train from state to state, living in hostels.
I’ve been a StandUp comic, I’ve been an actor, a model, I’m singing at a restaurant in a couple of weeks, it’s just anything new I like to do. I’ve lived in Germany, France gone to Italy, Egypt, Jordan, Greece… etc.
> We can get jealous but it’s not because of insecurities or self-esteem problems (if anything, I feel I’m the ruler of the world) but it’s because there’s a feeling of being number 1. So, someone paying attention to someone else does not make sense at all.
It’s just in relationships, it’s almost like there’s this desire to “slay” our mate and make him submit. I’m fixing that. I mean, let’s make-love not war! And after the chase, then it can get boring–NEXT! (I’ve never been someone who slept around though, been a monogamist all my life, althought getting the itch to you know… I’ve been surrounded by too many male models and to-die-for good-looking actors lately.
Anyway, I love being an Aries. Flirty, sure… and these guys and whoever I set my eyes on, they can’t resist the irresistible Aries
March 10th, 2011 at 7:36 pm
This is all so true about Aries Women. As an Aries woman I do tend to get jealous from time to time, but I find if i’m with a guy and he flirts with other girls in front me, I dont care cause at the end of the day he is coming home to me. I am however totally interested in this Gemini male who always flirts with me, yet he would never make a move. I did let him know I liked him and still, nothing. I like that we can talk about anything, we click, well maybe its just sexual tension. Ethier way he lets on as if he likes me, but i’m not sure. This has been going on for about a year and I must say its like chasing a dead fish. Simply time to move on. I will never understand the Gemini male. Sigh!!!