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Aquarius In Love
Introduction
Over the next month Aquarius’s everywhere are celebrating their birthdays and indeed entering the world for the first time. These people are hard to define in life and love mainly because defining them takes away a big part of what and who they are, and what they are is highly individual and very quirky human beings. Perhaps ‘human beings’ is not the right phrase, as Aquarius’s are not really of this world. I mean, physically they are, and we can, for instance, touch them, see them and hear them. But the Aquarius person’s mind is seldom linked to earthly matters.
Aquarius In Love
When in love the Aquarius subject is not overly gushing and certainly not traditional. Occasions can tend to get forgotten about even when reminded and things such as birthday cards can prove a bit of an effort also!! Now, don’t get me wrong, I am a fan of this sign, I am indeed madly in love with a man of this sign…luckily for me I am one of the few people who can understand where they are coming from, sort of!
So, if you are the kind of person who loves nothing more than to be wooed in the appropriate manner of posh restaurants, flowers and chocolates, then you may be disappointed. However, if you are the kind of individual who likes something different, such as a picnic on Jupiter, then this could be the person for you. Although tradition maybe lost to them, everything else isn’t.
They will always surprise you with something no doubt zany and unique, but, you see, the meaning behind it will be enormous. You might be given for example, a twig with a red ribbon tied around it……..but there would be a reason for it, some kind of memory you had together or a private joke. It’s that sort of thing the Aquarius brings to your life and makes a smile appear on your face, not just any old smile, but one you have never had before!
The Aquarius is also very independent, and hates to feel confined or trapped by anyone. They may spend weeks by your side, cuddling you and kissing you and behaving like a lost puppy, then all of a sudden and always without warning, the Aquarius goes away…sometimes physically, sometimes mentally, occasionally both. And this is, for some, one of the frustrating way’s of the Aquarius. Just to reassure you, they haven’t stopped loving you, or caring, or even thinking about you, they simply need space. These people have a touch of the genius in them (they will freely tell you this themselves) and what almost always comes with genius is a little bit of madness. So, just smile to yourself when your Aquarius lover vanishes and just think ‘nutter’ and go about your day.
Aquarius In The Bedroom
These people are very open minded. And this is projected into every part of their life, including the bedroom. The Aquarius lover loves to have sex. They love having another body and soul to get entwined in. They are not one of the more promiscuous signs, however, the Aquarius does love to experiment new things and really does need a partner who will want to co-operate with any new ideas. It is common for this sign to be found at swinging parties!!!
They make stimulating lovers and will take the time to learn how to press all the right buttons, as their first priority isn’t to please themselves but to please their partner. The Aquarius loves to see you enjoy yourself in every way, both in and out of the bedroom.
So what we have here is a loving, unique, independent soul, who is up for any kind of adventure and extreme sports, both in and out of the sheets!!!!
These characteristics are based fully on a persons sun sign. Therefore may not be 100% accurate for everyone as there are lots of different aspects of one’s chart to take into consideration.
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July 13th, 2009 at 12:59 pm
Hi there Smerffett,
Thanks for your comment. I don’t know enough about you or your situation to make a big comment on it but I will tell you that Aqua men HATE to be judged, I did it with mine many times in the beginning of our relationship and he would disappear for days!
They have oddly high principles for people so open minded. The problem of course is that they are easy to judge because of their weird, secretive behaviour, which in fact isn’t secret, just the way they are..odd..weird..and beautifully strange. There is also a huge chance he will come back to you, but at the moment he is licking his wounds. The best thing I can advise is that you let him know you love him, and then leave him alone. He won’t have forgotten you…but will be churning it all over, they are great thinkers but need a lot of space.
Hope this helped!
Love & Light
Becky
July 13th, 2009 at 1:06 pm
dear Becky,
I have been on and off with my Aqua baby for 3 years, he travels around, last 2 months, we started contact each other and so we decided to see each other,we went on a holiday in May, it was amazing being with him and I found myself in love with him again,and my feelings are so strong for him.
not long ago, he decided to come to me, but before he comes we had an argument and I terribly criticized him, in a way I thought that I hurt him.because he changed his mind not to come to be with me, I feel so bad…
so I called him asked him if I could come down to see him and stay wit him, he said no and told me he don’t see a future for me and him.yet he said that I should not be worried that I still have him and I didn’t lose him. I just don’t understand how he could just change his mind like that because he told me he loves me whenever we are together and he would be happy wherever with me, he cuddles with me all the time and took good care of me, it was all sweet, tho we had argument sometimes, but we could always be good and close to each other again.
at the moment I’m so confused and don’t know what to do.
Could you let me know what’s behind his acts.
I am a Gemini, and I’d say we are very compatible couple.
thank you
confused smerf
July 20th, 2009 at 1:02 pm
I love my AQUA female friend and she is in a spin
July 23rd, 2009 at 3:47 am
I went on a fabulous date with anaquarius man, we hit it off right away. We both have the same energy and enthusiasm. I took him to an outdoor concert and he love it. We spent the entire evening in my car just kissing and talking, and i forgot my car lights were on and my battery died. This date lasted 12 hours, we didn t want to do anything but kiss because we were both not into meaningless encounters. We both have had the same past in our marriages, and he had just borken up with someone 2 months ago, she had left him. He had a sparkle in his eyes with me the whole night and his heart was beating so fast. He was so sweet. and we had made plans for another date 2 days later. but he called and cancelled and asked me to call him so he could explain, so I did,and got his voice mail, and told him I had a great night. and then called again 2 days later to ask him what he wanted to talk to me about (which was why he cancelled the date.
I don t understand any of this, he didn t want to leave me in the morning when i dropped him off and now, I haven t heard from him.He disappeared. Is this normal, because I swore we had a connection. He made it clear he didnt want to have meaningless sex, because he hates it and so do I, and now I feel he completely got scared off by me.I do not call him. I was a little upset so I wrote a couple of emails, they were polite. He said he is now looking for behaviour then words because he has been deeply hurt 2 months ago after a nine moonth relationship. My behaviour should tell him, and I m smitten. Anyhow do aquarius men pull away, and disappear for good or do they come back.
July 24th, 2009 at 12:01 am
This website is so insightful on dating an aqua man. I am a gemini gal in love with an aqua male. I have learned to be very patience dealing with the different mood changes. We dated 3 months last year and then he walked away leaving me heart broken. He came back and I decided to give him a second chance. Now we have been together 4 months. I still tend to get very anxious when I dont hear from him or when he constantly tells me he loves me then goes quiet with emotions for weeks. My question is what is the best way to deal with an aqua going quiet? I have a hard time getting threw the push/pull part that aquas tend to do.
Help would be greatly appreciated!!
August 2nd, 2009 at 10:48 pm
Hi,
I have been dating my aquarius boyfriend for 4 months now. WE moved very fast and he was very adamant about making me his girl in the beginning. I agreed and it was great in the beginning but i noticed that he doesnt show ANY emotions and seems very nonchalant. I am a libra and i read that we are compatible but also know that i dont have patience and i broke up with him abt 2 wks ago for a combination of things. For a week i was missing him like crazy and then he called and said he missed me so much and wanted to talk abt things over dinner that weekend. I agreed and i told him i would call him the next day (tues)and so i did and he came over and we were very affectionate with each other and it led to sex. I got emotionally attached all over again and since then we talked maybe twice and now he is NOT calling me! I am not sure why and i simply DONT get it. I was going to call my bff told me not to and now i am sad and VERY ANGRY and hurt. Oh yeah and confused. we were suppose to hv our talk this wkd over dinner. Now i regret sleeping with him.
August 4th, 2009 at 12:23 am
i’m a pisces female i have tons of aquarian guy friends.. and i’ve always been there for them but always kept it in the back of my mind they aren’t for me.. it seems everytime they meet a girl.. she’s the one they are crazy about them and say they have never met someone like her.. till the next girl lol.. and now.. that i’m crazy about one.. it’s awful cause when he doesn’t call i’m thinking it’s cause he has that high w/ someone else.. i feel like if i don’t contact him.. he would never do it out of his own free will.. as much as part of me can see me being w/ this aquarian male.. the rest of me screams run.. there is no stabilty here.. i’m unpredictable as it is lol.. i try to desensitize the way i can do w/ every other guy.. but it’s not working lol..
August 4th, 2009 at 12:25 am
btw.. this guy .. it’s like a movie where someone thinks the phone may be traced so he knows exactly how many seconds he can stay on without being traced… he does this to me. and it sucks.. so he’s got all control.. it sucks.. the only control i have is to leave him alone.. and that’s even worse
August 8th, 2009 at 8:07 am
I’M A CANCER WOMEN , SHEEP @ THAT: i KNOW DATING A AQUARIUS MAN I FELL MADLY TRULY AND FAST THIS IS MY SECOND TIME, THE FUNNY THING IS IM AN EXTREMLY OUT GOING ADVENTEROUS MODERN FORWARD THINKING AND OPEN INDIVIDUAL, HE’S THE MORE QUIET HOME BODY TYPE, MY ISSUE IS WHENEVER I FALL FOR THIS SIGN MY ENTIRE CHARACTER CHANGES TO BE MORE LIKE MY TRUE SIGN: SENSITIVE, INSECURE, EFFECTIONITE, CARING AND CATERING BUT W/ OTHERS I’M NOT LIKE THAT WHY IS THAT. WHAT IS IT WITH THEM THAT DRAWS ME TO BE A TRUE CRAB, I MEAN I KNOW THAT I APPRECITE THE INTELLIGENCE AND HUMANITARIAN SIDE OF THEM THERE TRUE DESIRE TO HELP THE WORLD
August 8th, 2009 at 9:54 pm
I’m a cancer female. I dated an Aquarius man for 2 yrs. The problem was not getting together initially, but how he handled what he started.
I posted a comment on Aquarius man. But in reading the comments on this page I feel the need to say more.
I don’t think its fair to say all Aquarius men are alike. However, I do see so many common remarks made about them. For example: He is a total hypocrite. He even admits it. He simply said that it’s his nature. He used to say he was going to do something that I thought was mean or cruel and I would tell him so, but that he shouldn’t be get angry if I did the same. His reply to me was that he would be angry and that I should know better and know that he had the hypocrisies. Always a double standard with him!!!
He never ever gave me a present. Not for my birthday, which out of the 4 years we knew each other he acknowledged ONE! NO gift though. I always remembered his and would always have a gift for him.
At Christmas, I gave him a gift and he comes out with this ridiculous statement that we had agreed not to exchange gifts. And that I backed out of our agreement. At which point I am utterly confused, since the conversation never happened and since I know not to confront an Aquarius, I left it alone.
He never ever in 2 years of dating allowed me to go over to his house. Until of course he sold it and he let me see it unfurnished. I saw many selfish examples in him.
We would have plans to go out for the evening. He would cancel, of course, last minute. Later he would call me from a bar to say good night and see how I was doing but would then criticize me for staying home on a Friday night. NOPE. I never confronted him about it. I thought I was respecting his freedom.
He never answered my phone calls. I rarely called him. Then he would confront me about never calling him. What is that????????????
He would invite me to go places but then he would never follow through and never mention it again.
I just could not understand him. I thought it was just this man I couldn’t figure out. Always feeling the push/pull thing. I couldn’t seem to get a grasp. But I see now that I am not alone with this mystery!!
I think for him it is just a game. Entertainment. That it……..that’s what I was.
August 9th, 2009 at 8:09 am
hey im sorry about your problems in your relationship with the aquarius
im aquarius too im female
I think men tend to be a bit more extreme in all signs,
not all aquarius are like that tho its also has to do with his rising signs,what’s your sign
August 9th, 2009 at 11:26 am
the description here is not too accurate
far more entertaining were the answers
and yes we aquarians males are some really crazy fucks
August 9th, 2009 at 2:45 pm
@little impaler
you dont seem to know too much about life in genral and aquarian males in particular (were in so many ways different from you) yet you keep giving pieces of advice.
maybe its time you quit doing it, whaddya think.
ps@ all the arian girls out there, i love ya’all, youre the best in all the zodiac, the only ones to match our wit and soul
August 10th, 2009 at 8:35 pm
InRepair, that was no aquarian mystery, you dated an ahole plain and simple. They exist in all signs.
August 10th, 2009 at 8:53 pm
Thought I’d add another tidbit..if you’re not Gemini, Aries, Libra or Sagittarius you’re going to have a real struggle on your hands with an Aqua.
August 12th, 2009 at 5:15 am
Jerzi, I absolutely agree! But I doubt I will ever get involved with another Aqua man. Our compatibilities are clear and not a good mix. I almost fear that I will meet and be attracted to another, only to find out he is an Aquarius!
I don’t know if you read my post under Aquarius Man, where there is more to my story. I fear going through all that again. I also fear that I have this overpowering attraction to them and I won’t be able to look the other way!
Oh, and thanks for recognizing that he was an “ahole”!
August 24th, 2009 at 7:18 am
i will never be with an Aquarian male and I am an Aquarian female. Sure I have seen a few cute ones, but the rest are all too odd even for me. It’s like we both cannot be as weird as each other. I even feel uncomfortable around my Aquarian male friends. What the hell? It’s the one sign I won’t give a chance to. I would be with a non-compatible sign before I am ever with an Aquarian male. This isn’t out of hate either, I just don’t like it. It’s the oddest thing.
August 25th, 2009 at 3:18 pm
I’m an aquarius female and have lived an aquarian lifestyle VERY MUCH SO! I’m also left handed and an only child - I love and see art everywhere I go.. I have a vivid imagination and I’m always coming up with ideas or solutions. I can see from every point of view and consider myself somewhat of a chameleon. I love me SO much
Aquarius is like the sign that everyone should get to know! I guess the only problem is with long-term commitments… like 3+ years. The best relationship I ever had was with a Virgo (most comfortable), I’ve had a wild and hot relationship with an Aries (sexiest) who keeps calling me…10 years later. Anyway, but I’ve been with a Pisces for almost 2 years now and I guess I’m not on the same page with him, emotionally, but I’ve had emotional attachments before. I guess it’s because I need an intellectual stimuli to get turned on. I don’t know, but I am deligently looking for a site that says Pisces and Aquarius can last. I find myself confused a lot and I’ve never met a man with so many stereotypically feminine qualities i.e. overly emotional, shady, manipulative, dramatic, selfish, etc. Aquarius is the most awesome Zodiac of the bunch (I’m awesome in bed, too!) so why am I having such a hard time with this Pisces?
August 30th, 2009 at 7:44 am
I am a aqua female who recently started communicating with an aqua male. We are currently in 2 different states. We are finding that we share much in common including our desire to have our own “space”. We talk / text often, and laugh lots. We have agreed to take this slow and see what happens. I’m 42, he is 37. I am divorced, he’s never been married. He recently asked me if I would marry again. Why would he ask me this? Isn’t this out of the character of a aqua?? Also, do we stand a fair chance or are we to much alike to make it? What can I expect? Thank u in advance!!!
September 4th, 2009 at 2:18 am
Hi Jerzi,
Im an Aries, I know that Aquarius is perfect with Libra and Aries ladies but what is the difference between the libra and aries that aquarius like differently?
What does Aries have that Libra doesnt? Or other way around.. If you have an experience can you share it with me ,!
Thank you
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