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Aquarius In Love
Introduction
Over the next month Aquarius’s everywhere are celebrating their birthdays and indeed entering the world for the first time. These people are hard to define in life and love mainly because defining them takes away a big part of what and who they are, and what they are is highly individual and very quirky human beings. Perhaps ‘human beings’ is not the right phrase, as Aquarius’s are not really of this world. I mean, physically they are, and we can, for instance, touch them, see them and hear them. But the Aquarius person’s mind is seldom linked to earthly matters.
Aquarius In Love
When in love the Aquarius subject is not overly gushing and certainly not traditional. Occasions can tend to get forgotten about even when reminded and things such as birthday cards can prove a bit of an effort also!! Now, don’t get me wrong, I am a fan of this sign, I am indeed madly in love with a man of this sign…luckily for me I am one of the few people who can understand where they are coming from, sort of!
So, if you are the kind of person who loves nothing more than to be wooed in the appropriate manner of posh restaurants, flowers and chocolates, then you may be disappointed. However, if you are the kind of individual who likes something different, such as a picnic on Jupiter, then this could be the person for you. Although tradition maybe lost to them, everything else isn’t.
They will always surprise you with something no doubt zany and unique, but, you see, the meaning behind it will be enormous. You might be given for example, a twig with a red ribbon tied around it……..but there would be a reason for it, some kind of memory you had together or a private joke. It’s that sort of thing the Aquarius brings to your life and makes a smile appear on your face, not just any old smile, but one you have never had before!
The Aquarius is also very independent, and hates to feel confined or trapped by anyone. They may spend weeks by your side, cuddling you and kissing you and behaving like a lost puppy, then all of a sudden and always without warning, the Aquarius goes away…sometimes physically, sometimes mentally, occasionally both. And this is, for some, one of the frustrating way’s of the Aquarius. Just to reassure you, they haven’t stopped loving you, or caring, or even thinking about you, they simply need space. These people have a touch of the genius in them (they will freely tell you this themselves) and what almost always comes with genius is a little bit of madness. So, just smile to yourself when your Aquarius lover vanishes and just think ‘nutter’ and go about your day.
Aquarius In The Bedroom
These people are very open minded. And this is projected into every part of their life, including the bedroom. The Aquarius lover loves to have sex. They love having another body and soul to get entwined in. They are not one of the more promiscuous signs, however, the Aquarius does love to experiment new things and really does need a partner who will want to co-operate with any new ideas. It is common for this sign to be found at swinging parties!!!
They make stimulating lovers and will take the time to learn how to press all the right buttons, as their first priority isn’t to please themselves but to please their partner. The Aquarius loves to see you enjoy yourself in every way, both in and out of the bedroom.
So what we have here is a loving, unique, independent soul, who is up for any kind of adventure and extreme sports, both in and out of the sheets!!!!
These characteristics are based fully on a persons sun sign. Therefore may not be 100% accurate for everyone as there are lots of different aspects of one’s chart to take into consideration.
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January 26th, 2011 at 5:48 pm
This is just soooo me! Sometimes i can’t help thinking why i do things i do and why i’m like this and like that…makes me sound a weirdo, (lol) but i know am not! I am a very sane person but i don’t deny that i love to try out new ideas and do things beyond normal (but i always try to see nobody gets hurt whenever i come up with an idea that i find interesting) love it when somebody gets the benefit of something I’ve done unusual and if they’re happy about it…Sometimes i just love being different not because i want attention but because i find it very unique and originally from ME.
Now i understand myself better as a girl born under this sign. This site is helpful so keep it up folks!
January 26th, 2011 at 7:29 pm
I’ve noticed that with Aquarians, they are heavily influenced by their moon signs. This is just an observation, but I encourage anyone who is trying to figure out their Aqua to look into where the moon is in their natal chart. The moon sign governs more of the internal behavior/emotions and might give you some insight on how to touch those heavily ignored emotions.
I feel terrible reading all of these posts from people freaking out over their Aquas lack of reply/communication. I’m guilty of not replying, calling back, forgetting dates, etc. Sometimes it’s because I’m not really interested (ok, usually this is the case) and sometiems it’s the absent minded professor syndrome. There is always so much to think about in an Aqua mind and unfortunately, many things go forgotten.
Although if I am genuinely interested in a person, I will make sure they are not left hanging..
January 30th, 2011 at 4:46 am
This looks like a great blog, maybe someone can provide me some insight… I’m a Leo, my ex boyfriend aquarius. We dated a cpl times in our teenage years, a broke up with him cuz I liked him too much, got scared.. Yada yada, referred it for years. We kept in. Touch over the four years. I confessed my undying love for him but he was in a relationship by that point. We still kept in touch. A few months ago we began talking again and told each other everything about the past the stubbornness the true feelings, how we both thought of each other often. We got back together and I ended up moving in with him. I noticed his behavior change drastically when I ditched him one night after too much alcohol consumption, I know it was horrible, I didn’t cheat on him but something in him changed. Anyways, saying we loved each other was always on the tip, he said it a few times in his sleep, or after drinking but neither of us could do it. I was too scared. He wad acting out of sorts, closed up and of course the more I tried to talk or get close to him the worse it got. He became mean. I decided he needed space so I went out of town. I told him. I didn’t call the whole time I was gone, until the next night, by then he was already, drunk and sleeping with his ex. He confessed, cried which I found surprising and told me it was a misunderstanding, he’d thought I’d left because if his miserable behavior. We cried together the days before I left. Wed only been together 3 monthsish, talked about how we felt how stupid we acted. He said he now invested his exes feeling and something about morals. We still talk. I’ve tried every possible thing coming to the conclusion that although I care I’ve got to move on.He’s back with His ex, I’m back with my ex from before him, but I think of him daily, its been almost three mOnths since we broke up. My aquariums mystery. We texted for over an hour the other night. Then the next day, I noticed he welter me from fb. I wrote him a joking msg saying… I spy on you daily now what? He said he was a fuckup, I said I love you.
I didn’t hear from him, then he called. We talked about how hard it is, he said he deleted me so he couldn’t just randomly call or msg anymore and how like it or not he’s my friend. I said I couldn’t be just his friend ever, he said me too. Then hung up… Then 10 minutes later. Texted ” I love you”. First blatant time saying ur but he’d been drinking… Lol. Should I disregard it because of that fact? We still are both in relationships but he’s still calling me randomly to go for coffee or have drinks or just I talk, I just talk with him, I’m too nervous to see him in case he still only wants the friendship. I’m wondering if I was the rebound or her.. Was i just the stepping stone to rekindle Thierry relationship? Or I am just the girl he trying to keep strung along? I don’t know if it’s in aquarius character to do that, to say things to me that aren’t true. Why is he still with her?
January 30th, 2011 at 5:14 am
Better question, now that he’s made somewhat of an effort, is it ok for me to just sit tight, will he feel rejected or to forced if I dont try to pursue him? I’ve been clear about how I feel about him.
February 1st, 2011 at 11:50 pm
Lynn, I don’t know this guy so I can’t say for sure. I do know that if I am genuinely interested in someone and they are open to being with me that there is no way in hell I would waste time going back to an ex. If he wanted to be with you, he’d probably be with you. I also usually make sure to have “backups”. He may be stringing you along for when it falls through with his current girlfriend. He may be feigning indecision sometimes, but I’m sure you know on the inside that if he wanted to be with you, he would not be with her… He probably loves knowing that you are pining for him, so if you stop replying and give him his own medicine, he may just come just knocking at your door. This is my gut reaction to your post, don’t invest too much if he’s not giving you the love and adoration you deserve. Leo tends to love the challenge/mystery of an Aquarian but do not let him hurt your pride and don’t force it if it’s not happening. I wish you health and happiness in the future! Good luck!
February 20th, 2011 at 1:17 am
i love your site pretty much intriguing. I am aqua girl and am loving me for who i am, everything you said about an aquarian woman is true we are know for our independence and open mind and space.I am loving it
March 6th, 2011 at 1:23 pm
Hi Becky (and evrybody else who concerns), I want to ask you,
I am a Leo girl, dated an aquarian for 1year or more, broke up bcos of same ego you all know about leo of possesive, dramatic, over controlling. broke up in 2008, but until atleast 2 days before today, we still went with our mutual feelings without label of gf bf. also that phase is the phase where people may outside-ly see me as a girl who pathetically doesnt move on while her ex is so over her, where in fact the things between us pretty much concludes that we have mutual feelings.
once in a while he told me his feelings, but never said frontally the three words “I LOVE U”. examples, when i asked him do you still love me? why cant we go back together? (well i know now these questions are soooo not needed. i was still a kid and havent reached to the point ive reached now about the way he shows his feelings. it was in 2009), he said “I love you, but just cant”. and othe example is like a week ago, when we argued bcos he is now chasing for a taurus girl. he said ” seriously, you are very important to me, but if you insist to be like this (possesive very jealous etc) our thing will become not important”
-well i do take it as a statement that he loves me (and the statement of i just need to deflate my freaky egos and relax), well aquarians and becky, what do u think? does he love me?
-oh and for further consideration, he has once told me before the gf-bf phase “dont worry D, my heart is all yours :D” when we argued that time about something., reading about you aquarians comments, was it just a flirty sentence or did he really mean it?
-also about does he really love me,.. im the one he cried to when he was down.. does this mean something or its just a coincidence (bcos i was the only one he was texting with)? well that day was very dark for him i knew by the way he showed that he was so sad, and he has never been like that before. he also greets me on my birthday, whether at 12 oclock or at 24 oclock, he took me on a date on my bday and made that a special nite. (omg, i love him and hes so… caring:”c)
what do you think? does he really have this deep special feeling the way i feel towards him?
well i ask that since now we agreed to take separate roads first, bcos he is chasing this taurus girl.. and we agreed that if were meant to be, well get back the way God plans.
-and i have a question.. well i know it depends on the people who play the roles. but… which is more compatible for you guys aquarians, and what do u think becky? A leo or a taurus?
thankyou for asnwering
March 12th, 2011 at 11:17 pm
I recently ended things with an Aquarius man I was seeing for 7 months. It took quite a while to understand the whole disappearing thing, but I learned to appreciate him. I am a Pisces and knew instinctively that he was special. He never told me how he felt and while it bothered me, I decided to trust him and wait. But after a while I couldnt discern if he was being a typical Aqua or a man who was just not into me!
Of course he didnt call that often, which I learned to accept, but my birthday rolled around and not only did he not call to wish me a Happy Birthday (no surprise there), he said he would come to a party my friends were throwing for me, implied he was on the way, and never showed up! That was the last straw because that showed me that he did not care and he didnt bother to offer an excuse or an apology! Yet called me FOUR days later to make plans for that week. Its unfortunate because although astrologically we are said not to be compatible, I felt like there was a real spiritual connection between he and I. But he kept running everytime we got closer. And I had to protect myself. I ended things two weeks ago, but must admit I miss having him around. But I cannot be w/ someone who treats me like I dont matter at all. SIGH..
July 27th, 2011 at 7:05 pm
I have been seeing an aquarius man for sometime now, and you are completly right about them. They are affectionate, loving,caring, respectful, amazing, and the best relationship you have ever had, then he will be quiet reserved, “disappear” for a while, or shut me off, but then shortly he is back again, still loving me just as before! They are amazing a little hard to handle at times yes, but they are so worth it! I appreciate your sight and keep them coming. I am a Capricorn and without these to give me insight I would have gone crazy! LOL
August 7th, 2011 at 6:20 pm
Hello everyone.
I know that some signs can bump heads with each other, but rising signs and where your venus is makes a big difference in the relationship. I am a Taurus rising Libra , mooon in libra and venus in libra and have a wonderful relationship with an Aquarius rising Scorpio. Its genius! So if you really wanna see the whole pattern , get your astral chart and find out where the other planets are. It helps. Much love and blessings for those in love with Aquarians. xoxo
September 11th, 2011 at 1:09 am
I need your insight. Aquarius woman and Cancer Man. He had me at hello. I read about cancer and he does not fit the bill. I feel like I am the emotional, clingy one who can not wait to have a family and he is soo nonchalant, but sooo sweet too. ???? Cancer Sun, Moon, Venus and Mars, yes he is.
November 25th, 2011 at 7:36 am
hi am an aquarian (18/2), agree with what the admin has wrote here. Our free spirited soul, independent and need space. In love life, kinda hard to like someone in instant…as some of them will count us like cold mountain. Well, i admit it that if i do fallin with someone i will be very secretive and analytic, a bit ignorance too…sometime i hate being this but it always happening. One day i can be very in love with him but next day i feel i am bored with him hehehe. All i can say is someone who had crush on me shud be very stubborn, patient and an non-give up person. Sometime i feel very guilty to treat them quite bad, especially with the pisces men :p
My logic minds rules me a lot than my heart, and when they were collide i am in mess….hahaha!
January 10th, 2012 at 10:01 pm
The way an Aquarian shows they love you is unique and meaningful and that for me is adorable, They won’t do the same thing with every girl, they make sure you know its about you and only you. I love it. The fact they very often avoid expressing emotions that are classed as ‘normal’ is strangely endearing.
Showing someone you love them through something only you and him/her can understand for me is highly romantic!
Everyones had chocolates, flowers, jewellery, a teddybear, We don’t need more. I prefer the aquarians unique ways by far!
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