Aquarius Compatibility With Virgo |
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Aquarius and Virgo
Intellectually these two are well matched. And that’s it. This couple will no doubt get on each other’s nerves. Virgo can be quite nit picking and meticulous whereas and I’m afraid to say it, the Aquarius can be a tad lazy when it comes to household chores and anything that doesn’t involve his/her brilliance. This will infuriate the Virgo who loves to have a tidy and well organised home and believes everyone should do their share.
Both of these people can and have been accused of lacking in emotion, and this is mainly due to the fact that they are both more mental than physical people. But they both need a partner who will be more outwardly affectionate; this won’t be found in each other. Their sexual union could be in for some problems also. The Virgo lover can be somewhat prudish and reluctant to experiment sexually, never-mind talking dirty and expressing pent up fantasies. That will not happen!
Aquarius’s have their own time scale, time isn’t really an issue for them, they have more important things to worry about than what time the chicken has to come out of the oven or which day the washing must be done on. Virgo lives for these things. Their lives are regimented and organised; every day has a purpose and a job list. The Virgo has never been flighty or spontaneous, in-fact it scares him/her just to think about it. These people expect everything to run smoothly or else. And the Aquarius just couldn’t’ care less, to them life is for living, not filing!
Perhaps a bottle of wine and a few good conversations once a month would be the best these two could hope from this union.
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October 21st, 2010 at 5:14 pm
Im a Virgo lass, & obviously Iv been with my Aquarian Boyfriend for a year now, I remember reading one of these compatibility things in the early stages of our relationship, both finding the results (read) to be slightly amusing and at the same time, for myself, concerning…
After a year, of Intense passion, love, fierceness & loyalty to one another, & Yes as mentioned numerous times, THE MOST Intense sexual experiences of my life, (and I am confident the same for him) we are both Very Passionate toward one another, My Aquarian is VERY attentive in the bedroom, I could honestly call him a God in bed, together we are both very sexually & intellectually very Fierce & exactly what any one would want, especially sexually. BUT we also fight ALL the time. This is by far THE Most passionate, intellectual, heartfelt, fiery & Challenging relationship Iv ever experienced.
Altho I do feel love for him, I struggle immensely to understand so many aspects about him. I do believe that together we are perfect in a ‘learning from each other sence’ however we are both way too head strong and at times we clash within moments of being together. This is by far an extremely hard relationship to maintain positively. But the want IS there, the drive for each other IS there,
The intensity IS there, But I feel so cut off and dismissed by his aloofness, his need to shut himself down and the fact that we CANNOT talk about anything… I was sadened to read over and over again about how all of you CAN talk for hours about any and everything… but what can you do.
Together we ARE Lost in our own destructive worlds, we feed off of each others negative traits, which is now driving our relationship ten feet under…. Which i do not want, because i do not want to lose the intensity, in fear i will never find it again. How do we win people…..? Any pointers?? Im in DIRE STRAITS to find out, in order to SAVE what is left between us…. =( But i cant help, being the reserved virgoen that i am, i cant help but want to run in fear that this will only end badly, for both of us, because it IS so intense… Is this really a lose lose situation?
M
December 28th, 2010 at 10:28 am
I have to laugh at all the Virgo women complaining about the Aquarian men and their on-again, off-again unpredictability and detachment and control issues and manipulation, because I’ve dated my share of Virgo men. You want to talk about control issues? These guys have it in spades. They want to organize your life to death, they hate all your female friends, they’re insanely jealous of all your male friends (and I’ve always had a lot of those), they want you to be where they want you when they want you there, but if you need them–POOF! GONE! Heck, I’ve had Pisces boyfriends who were more reliable!
What turned me off Virgo men forever:
I had the Virgo boyfriend who showed up when he felt like it, and it didn’t matter if it meant I sat at home waiting for a boyfriend who didn’t show up for dates HE planned, and gave me lame excuses like being too tired or hanging out with friends at home. Well, that’s what I’d hear after I finally caught up with him by long distance call (back when long distance calls were expensive) to find out where he had been, I waited for his sorry A$$ until 8, then I was the one worried about him, had something happened? No, he was just selfish and couldn’t be bothered to call me with his change of plans.
So my mother has this drunkard Capricorn boyfriend and one of his sons from a previous marriage, a Libra dork that I hated on sight, moved to town to sponge off his dad (Libra men are great at sponging). My mother knows that my Virgo beau has stood me up a couple of times lately, must be over (how true that was), so why don’t I show the Libra dork around town, let him know what we “young people” do on a weekend. We lived in a crappy town down South, nothing to do really, I told her so, but she insists, and throws those childish tantrums Aries women always do, and I finally relented to get her to just shut up.
Wouldn’t you know it: Just as the Libra dork and I are leaving the house when I decided to forget the Virgo and make plans for a weekend rather than get jerked around by him anymore, guess who shows up? The Virgo beau, out of the blue. He gets mad, throws the most terrifying jealous fit I’d see until I made the utterly retarded decision to marry a Cancer man (Scorpio has NOTHING on Cancer in that department!), and he’s going to beat up the Libra dork who was about half the Virgo’s size, and too much of a wimp to fight besides. I calm Virgo down, explain the situation, that it’s not a date, that I’m dressed up because I always dress up–he knows I’m seriously into fashion and looking good, all the time, not just for him. He pretends to accept it. But he doesn’t. Oh no, that’s impossible for a Virgo man. HE STALKS ME TO THE CLUB where I took the Libra dork in the hopes that a backstabber Gemini man-thief would take him off my hands, my usual trick for getting rid of Libra men. All I had to do was smile at him a bit, and the Gemini man-thiefs would be all over him.
At the club, Virgo stares daggers at the Libra dork until the latter goes off in search of the backstabber Geminis, I see one lighting on the Libra dork–I’m free of the moron, and then what does Virgo do? Asks me to marry him. I think about it, try to talk sense into him by asking when we’d do that, why would he want to get married? HE COMES UP WITH A DATE. He loves me! Can’t live without me! I was 19 and stupid, so I said yes. We went to my place and had lots of monkey sex, which I’ve found that Virgo men are really good at, it’s the only good thing about them. He left in the morning, but swore he really did loved me, couldn’t live without me!
And then he vanished. He was never home after that. No phone calls. Nothing. I have some Scorpio in me, so I wished evil on him. It came true–he was in a dreadful auto accident, and couldn’t work anymore. My black little heart did a happy dance. Lesson: Never cross an Aquarian with Scorpio in her chart.
Made note to self: To get rid of a Virgo, say you’ll marry him. It’s worked like a charm ever since. They’ve all run as soon as the subject came up. Never again. NEVER EVER EVER AGAIN.
On the other hand, Virgo women are awesome! They’re usually great friends, and it’s the rare one that is a backstabber or man-thief (death glare at Gemini, Libra and Pisces women).
I’m now married to the most wonderful Aquarian man. He listens and shares and cares and takes care of me. We’ve been married 13 years, and he’s been putting on my socks and shoes for me since we married, and he pouts if I do it myself. Seriously. He’s considerate, and fun and funny. He’s not jealous at all, he’s a homebody, but I can go out with my friends after work, and get wild enough to dance on tables and get wasted, and he’ll only ask when I come home if I had fun. He’s 1000% loyal to me, so I’m loyal right back. I’ve had offers to be with other men (the Aquarian woman’s curse)–determined men, men so attractive it’s hard to say no (again, the Aquarius woman’s curse)–but I can’t bear to break my Aquarian honey’s heart that way.
It’s forever, and it’s awesome. So few know how to appreciate this very special man.
December 28th, 2010 at 11:23 am
To the Virgos who are wondering why the Aquarian hasn’t called, or has suddenly become unavailable or cold or sarcastic:
1) We’re busy and will get back to you when we’re not under the gun to get something important done. Work has its demands. Friends and family have emergencies and crises, and Aquarians are often the people who hold things together and keep everyone’s head above water during those times. Back off a little until we have the time to give you.
2) When you contact us, don’t say things like, “I want to see you/be with you.” It sounds demanding, and clingy, and way too emotional. And it’s boring–the greatest crime to an Aquarian. Say something interesting! Say you got a promotion. Say you got a new outfit that looks dynamite. Say you saw read an interesting book. Say you saw that the circus was coming to town and you hadn’t been in years (most likely he’ll turn up within days with tickets!). Say anything, but don’t make an Aquarian feel like you’re being a drag. WE. HATE. THAT.
3) Don’t inundate us with phone calls/text messages if we’re busy or preoccupied. A call every day or two is plenty, because, more than that, and you’re crossing that fine line Aquarians have between “Hey–it’s great to hear from him/her!” and “This person is a psycho stalker–RUN!”
4) Never tell an Aquarian how she feels about friends. If she says she’s not sleeping with friends, she’s not. She will usually give you an honest answer to any questions you ask, but if you are nasty about it, or are hysterical or manipulative, an Aquarian may say something that you don’t want to hear about yourself. I have had boyfriends accuse me of running around on them, and no amount of reassurance changes it. So I get the attitude that, well, they must want to hear that I’m sleeping around on them, since they aren’t listening to me when I tell them I’m not doing that, and I’m not. The next time I get the false accusation, I’ll say, “Yes, I’m sleeping around on you, and they’re better looking and better in the sack than you are.” Lesson: Don’t make an Aquarian feel that she’s not being listened to.
5) A subset of #4: Don’t accuse an Aquarian of things that he’s not doing. Most Aquarians take their integrity seriously, and you do yourself no favors by attacking any of them that way. He will turn on you so fast, you will think he’s part Pit Bull. BTW: It is a bad idea to make an Aquarian mad at you. Like the Scorpio, Aquarius can have a sarcastic, vindictive streak and he will not be kind if you push him too far, or unjustly. It’s the one thing Scorpio and Aquarius really have in common. It’s just that the Aquarian will give you ample warning to stop treating him that way. It’s your own fault if you don’t listen, and he rips your head off when you do the thing he’s warned you not to do anymore, or he says something brutal and hurtful. To him, you have it coming for being such a pain in the butt and hurting him by attacking his character. And, honestly, you do have it coming. It’s disgusting to lie about people to their faces, and accuse them of nonsense, and liars like that don’t deserve respect. THAT IS HOW AQUARIANS THINK, down inside.
January 14th, 2011 at 7:41 pm
Ok so, I’m a virgo that got dumped by my precious aquarian 2 months ago. We were together for 7 months and it was phenomenal! We got along perfectly fine and never argued [but of course we disagreed, that’s only healthy] we were good for each other but we went to colleges that were far apart [he’s in Nor. Cal, I’m still in So. Cal] which wasn’t a problem because we still lived near each other he visited but then I moved a half hour away and at first he dumped me because “he wanted me to be happy” but then when I called him a few weeks later he said he dumped me because “he didn’t know what to do” but I really figured it out was because he chose his friends over me…worse part is: he doesn’t even hang out with the same people anymore. So I did the dumb thing and sent him a very long angry text calling him out on him going back on things he said and of course, he says really mean things to me and I just want him back. Any advice would be lovely.
January 22nd, 2011 at 2:09 pm
This pairing will either work or it won’t. And you’ll know it instantly. Astrologically they have nothing in common so when I see that I think “lessons”. Which = growth. And that can be maddening or wonderful. I am a Virgo and not at all what is described here. Let’s remember there is more going on than the sun sign. And every sign is compatible. Just have to find what makes everyone tick. Sometimes it’s easier, sometimes it’s not. How much work are you willing to go? How much growth do you want?
March 4th, 2011 at 6:28 pm
@ Never Again
Hey, after all u wrote about us, aquarians, i can tell..”U r a true Aquarian”;)))
March 10th, 2011 at 5:57 pm
I’ve been seeing this guy for about 2 months now,
and i really like him…he’s an Aquarius and I am a Virgo
we get along really well, we just started dating a week ago
and its good to hear that people have such a good connection with
their partners. I hope the same thing works out for me, because
i think I am in love with him;♥
April 14th, 2011 at 3:16 pm
I am a Virgo girl and dated an Aquarius man for roughly a month. At first, I kind of liked him. He seemed fun and interesting. But after awhile, I realized that there was no way I could ever trust this man. He was much too spontaneous for my liking and extremely unpredictable. He often said things which embarrassed me and I didn’t feel comfortable enough to relax and be myself around him. I basically ran a mile and never looked back. haha
May 12th, 2011 at 12:45 am
My GF read this and is now upset! I don’t know why you guys write all this..can’t you be a little more positive about life?!
May 17th, 2011 at 3:18 pm
Is it just me or are Virgo women posting more than Aqua men? (Aqua women vs Virgo man seems ‘boring’ according to most aqua girls here)
Anyway,
I am an aqua guy and I am really attracted to Virgo women (physically).
I have one, on whom I had a crush from a couple of years. I am very shy and I did not approach her ever. Now suddenly, I know her through a common activity at the university. I feel like running away or avoiding her whenever I see her. She came up to me, during the activity and asked me to give a performance together. I said ok and all my friends say that she is interested in me and that is why she did that …. I am skeptical and I do not know if she is just being friendly or she really likes me.
Is there an objective test that I can design that can tell me for sure?
June 21st, 2011 at 5:44 pm
I am an Aquarius/Capricorn Cusp female who is currently involved with an Virgo guy. I can honestly admit I now realize I don’t like clingy guys. Just got rid of a Taurus for that reason. I have only been dating this Virgo guy for about a month but he stalked me for like 2 years. But, I admit I noticed him too. So, when the opportunity rose we begin to see where it can go. Now this is what I have notice about him so far: He likes me a lot but he tries to hide it. He is very grounded and I am simply all over the place. We share common interest intellectual and artistic. We both have difficulties expressing our emotions and become overwhelmed by too much of it. We contact each other 1-2 a day thru text see each other 2x a week. I’m all good with that… But, I do think that the longer we date the more clingy he will become. After a long night of passionate sex the next early afternoon it was time for me to go… I had a few errands I had to run and he wanted to come with… It almost turned me off. I really do like this guy is dominant and prides himself on being a man. lolol. I am also a dominant female who loves to control but I am submissive to him.. It’s sexy that I can find someone who bark is louder than mines. I like it!!!!! All I can say is so far so good.. I have a major attraction to this guy unlike any I have every had. And we will see where it goes…
June 22nd, 2011 at 5:29 pm
Just to finish the above story. I know, as of today, that she does have bf. My friends claim she was evil to ask me. I just think I misunderstood. Not that anyone ever gave an opinion here. But the chapter is closed. Thank you all
October 6th, 2011 at 3:42 am
I have been with this aquarian for a year now.
The best way to go on about it is—
Just give him space enough for his comfort, not to make him feel unwanted or ignored.
Be very cool and light hearted about things. Intensity at all times, which doesn tend to happen with Virgos, is a turn off for them.
They can be insanely disattached and involved in their lives. they socialise, they hang around with girls,a nd might not even call you at times, but know that once, they are serious about a relationship, they are loyal. You just have to TRUST them and let them be…
The most important thing, apat from sun signs, is the right kind of selection. Select the right guy because Virgos are very sensitive and have a heart of gold. So make sure you have the right guy to give it to. Then the effort wouldn’t be anything. Put a lot of love and faith and possitivity in it. Maintain a great social life and hobbies. Stay Calm and enjoy the togetherness.
November 11th, 2011 at 2:45 am
Hi I am an Aquarius woman married to a Virgo man. This article hit us right on the nail, but we have been married for 6yrs now. Although we may get frustrated with each other, we have rubbed off on one another. I am more into cleaning now and he is more relaxed with some of his obsessive cleanliness ways. We have 2 children that are 2 and 3, so the house is clean but the toys do not irritate him as much. No one is perfect, but in all we have a good relationship. We give each other the space that is needed to accomplish our individual goals and we work together as a team.