Aquarius Compatibility With Virgo |
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Aquarius and Virgo
Intellectually these two are well matched. And that’s it. This couple will no doubt get on each other’s nerves. Virgo can be quite nit picking and meticulous whereas and I’m afraid to say it, the Aquarius can be a tad lazy when it comes to household chores and anything that doesn’t involve his/her brilliance. This will infuriate the Virgo who loves to have a tidy and well organised home and believes everyone should do their share.
Both of these people can and have been accused of lacking in emotion, and this is mainly due to the fact that they are both more mental than physical people. But they both need a partner who will be more outwardly affectionate; this won’t be found in each other. Their sexual union could be in for some problems also. The Virgo lover can be somewhat prudish and reluctant to experiment sexually, never-mind talking dirty and expressing pent up fantasies. That will not happen!
Aquarius’s have their own time scale, time isn’t really an issue for them, they have more important things to worry about than what time the chicken has to come out of the oven or which day the washing must be done on. Virgo lives for these things. Their lives are regimented and organised; every day has a purpose and a job list. The Virgo has never been flighty or spontaneous, in-fact it scares him/her just to think about it. These people expect everything to run smoothly or else. And the Aquarius just couldn’t’ care less, to them life is for living, not filing!
Perhaps a bottle of wine and a few good conversations once a month would be the best these two could hope from this union.
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February 16th, 2008 at 8:43 pm
This post seems rather trite and built on Sun sign stereotypes. I am a Virgo woman with an Aquarius man. Intellectually we have a great rapport. Sexually he is the one who is inhibited due to other factors in his natal chart. However, we have a wildly passionate *HOT* sex life and I was the one who initiated it at the start of our relationship. Being able to have a meeting of hte minds enhanced/es the sex. I have no interest in being a maid so I hired on to do the shoppng, cooking and cleaning. He and I spend a lot of time out of the house doing things together. I have never been regimented with a daily list of things to do, but that is also because of other placements in my natal chart.
I enjoy that he is cold, aloof and detached as an Aquarian. It gives me space and tiem when and where I need it. When Aquarians get to know you they are quite loyal and share themselves and their emotions.
February 17th, 2008 at 10:14 am
Yep, this is totally based upon people’s Sun Sign only. I have mentioned that a few times in my blog. A lot of people only know about their sun signs so that is where I started. Once I have done that I will then be concentrating on all the other elements in a person’s chart.
Aquarians’ are indeed very loyal, I love mine to bits!!
Love & Light
Becky
March 23rd, 2008 at 11:00 pm
I totally have to disagree about the virgo and aquarius compatibility. I am a virgo, dating an aquarius and we are really good together. We both aren’t quick to rush into anything serious. On an intellectual level, we can talk for hours about any and everything. Sexually we are fierce. At first we decided to wait because he is very cautious, but unlike many virgos, I am a very sensual person. So I was the one who initiated the act. But we are both really busy people. So when we see each other, it is magical. He can be detached, aloof, and in his own world, but at all the right times. We actually mesh really well. I teach him to be more organized and push him to acheive. He teaches me to be more laidback and take everything one day at a time.
April 5th, 2008 at 2:54 pm
We’re both 25 and he’s an Aquarius and I’m a Virgo. I would say he has been my toughest challenge because he is completely opposite in the general aspect of life. I’m a saver and a giver, he’s a spender and a taker. He’s spontaneous and I’m well-grounded. I’m very organized and he’s a go with the flow kind of guy. The reason why we work is that we are both intellectual beings who enjoy a challenge. We can talk for hours on end on just about anything. And in the bedroom, it’s fierce! He likes the security in me and I enjoy his spontaneity. We do fight a lot because of our differences but at the end of the day, he wants what I have and I want what he has.
May 14th, 2008 at 7:45 pm
I AM AN AQUARIUS MAN THAT LOVES MY VIRGO LADY…I HAVE NEVER BEEEEEEN HAPPIER……..
May 15th, 2008 at 8:47 pm
I`m an Aqaurius girl and i date a virgo guy, we get pretty good but he is really mushy and sensitive, which is a first for me! And although its sweet i do need my space!
Dont get me wrong I do really like him but things are to serious! I want FUN!
wwwwwwaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaay!
June 12th, 2008 at 3:34 pm
I really appreciate seeing the diverse comments. I’m an aquarius and I started dating a virgo guy. I couldn’t believe the way his mind worked- he was with me on every level. For me to feel secure I have to feel like I can connect intellectually with someone, especially in a relationship, and I even have butterflies in my stomach when I’m around him- so I know I’m attracted to him. So when I found out he was a virgo, I was caught off guard- then read about the connection and felt a little disappointed that all the advice was negative. So I’m going to just trust what is there between us, and am thankful that as humans we rely on our personal interactions to tell us what is good for us, and will help us grow.
June 27th, 2008 at 4:03 pm
Ive been with a few different virgo women for years and i love it. the mental connection is huge. the spiritual growth these types can achieve together is well worth the petty fights over sex or organization
August 19th, 2008 at 12:13 pm
I am a virago woman married to an Aquarius. Words cannot explain the intellectual connection between us which has always been my criteria for starting relationship. We met at a time when we both were almost convinced that no loving partner can relate with us intellectually. Literally we can have an amazing discussion over any topic. This by itself is a greater fulfilment for me. On the down side he is not organized; he is laid back, money spender and extremely optimistic and imaginative….which lead to fight at times. But at the end of the day he sees my good intention and reasons with me. The fact that he is patience and does not have quick temper compliments my quick temper. Obviously i am too critical which irritates him at times but our fights never go far, we make up easily. Sexually, i am too reserved and not in to it generally while he values spontaneity and kind of adventures in that aspect. i wouldn’t say the sex life is exceptionally nice but funny enough our relationship is more mental than physical and we both value that above anything else.
August 22nd, 2008 at 3:44 pm
I am a virgo woman dating an aquarian man and I have to say this is an incredibly fulfilling relationship. The intellectual conection was definitely the initial attraction and that naturally translated to a strong emotional and the deepest and most intense physical connection. I think most websites underestimate the potential of an aquarius and virgo together.
September 3rd, 2008 at 9:00 pm
So I must say I am still in the dating phase with my Aquarius and I have been a little discuraged reading everything about compatability. So I am glad thier are people out there who have had success! Any tips would be appreciated. ha ha!
September 10th, 2008 at 2:45 pm
I dated a Vigo Guy and he was a complete nightmare, in the first two weeks that we dated he was Looking for a Apartment so we could move in together.
I was Like (I was nice about it) but NO WAY!
This Guy was seriously clingy.
He rang about 25 times a day well (10-30 times a day)
And text me constantly.
I remeber the first time He asked me
“Where are you goin”
me- “Out to meet some old friends”
him- “oh who`s that”
I names sevral Guys and girls…. and he went suddenly cold… and Jelous.
After that had happend a few times, I stopped telling him what i was doing and where i was going
I hated the 21 questions, so i never said anything.
After i realised what a prat he was I thought i would cool it off a bit and not reply to some of his texts.
BIG MISTAKE!
He sent me loads of abusive texts about cheating on him
Then the next text would be Lets run away togther!
(People say Aqaurius`s are Nuts!)
Eventually… Because i paid little attention to him, He would come up with Riducles stories about his best friend being on deaths door (just to get my attention)
I tried speaking to him about the errors of his ways ( and we discussed mine, Yes i admit I`m not perfect)
And he apoligised.
That was short Lived and he was back to his usual ways.
Eventually I got so fed up
(After being accused, and questioned and Abused Verbally)
I told him I wanted to finish It.
After all the texts of I`m going to kill myself,I`m in hospital with an overdose, I`m going to burn youre house down and many other things… He`s pretty much left me alone.
I did actually want to stay friends with him and thought i could help him, He Must have something seriously wrong in his life to act the way he does, But i am it`s gone way to far Now and i think hes one of those Nut jobs that are never going to change.
So Hey My first experince with A Virgo sign wasnt the best!
I`m glad not all People of the same sign are the same!
(at least i hope not, How can they be!)
I put this awefull thing down to experince.
But hey thats my story about Aquarius and Virgo compatibility and i dont think i will ever go down that road again!
September 12th, 2008 at 11:11 pm
I’m a Virgo woman married to an Aquarius man. We are loving and caring of each other and have an intense physical and mental attraction which fascinates us. He is magical, outgoing, a showman, always wanting others to enjoy themselves. He sets plans into action, although it is up to me to deal with and make the arrangements.
The negative aspects of our relationship for me are due to his need to socialise in groups on a regular basis when I would prefer to do so more occasionally and that he has high standards to which he believes others (especially me) must adhere. It can get tiring arguing with him to defend my way of being but I get my point across and the making up is worth it.
We are perhaps not a perfect pairing but maybe we have been brought together to teach each other how to be better people and more accepting of differences.
September 20th, 2008 at 2:57 pm
I’m an aquarius guy, and I’ve been seeing a virgo women for a lil over a month (weekends only bc of complications, but I won’t go into that) and I must say I think I’m in love!! I’ve dated nothing but pisces women since I could remember and this was a definite change. My virgo is sooo organized and sooo clean (hygiene) all the time!! Lol she cleans up every chance she gets…she’s smart, fun, and sexually? Can you say wow? I can! The only thing that so far bothers me, is how much she worries about things, and she expects everything to be perfect, which is impossible. I don’t want to change her, but I just want her to see that worrying sucks, so why even do it! Lol we still have a lot to learn from each other, but I see us sticking together for a long time.
September 22nd, 2008 at 6:57 am
True blue Aquarian lady who’s been connected with the most wonderful male Virgoan for 4 years. He’s unlike any other I’ve dated; every day is full of sunshine. Communication is our key. We talk and share and play. My mind has been tweaked. Mutual respect for the other’s quirks was set in motion early. So my creative messes get sorted… who am I to complain? No matter what we do, what we consider, how we feel it’s out in the open and splattered onto our own palette of colourful friendship. Life and our relationship is a work in progress - one being created with a smile every day! We are nothing at all like the Aquarius/Virgo Compatibility descriptor. Fine by me.
September 22nd, 2008 at 6:06 pm
Hi. I am a virgo female and have been dating a aquarius man for 3 months now. We can talk about anything for hours. I also can say that knowing how open mined he is from conversations allowes me to open up in bed stuff i normaly keep hidden. I find that he is sweet and caring with out being clinning. I know that most places say that this is a bad match but I must say I dont see it.
I know he is not well organized but he is clean and getting him to clean is not hard either. If thats the worst of it then i am in heaven.
September 24th, 2008 at 6:28 am
So since there’s a diverse array of virgo women here…How hard is it for a Virgo women to fall in love? I’ve heard its tough on them. Yay or nay?
September 24th, 2008 at 10:44 am
Hi nastynunez, it sounds like you really love your Virgo lady after being together for a month, and from my experience with my Aquarius husband, he was really keen and enthusiastic and told me that he loved me after we’d been dating for three weeks. I really liked him and found him so attractive but could not genuinely say that I loved him back as I think that it takes longer than three weeks for real love to develop. I obviously really love him now as I married him last month!
I think the key to a successful relationship with a Virgo is patience and understanding, maybe not my husband’s strong points! I’m sure your Virgo lady will love you intensely given a bit of time.
September 25th, 2008 at 4:39 pm
I must say I was worried at the inital description of the virgo/aquarius match!! Phew - good job you guys commented with such positivity!!
I have just met up with an old aquarius man who - I had a major crush on! Five years later and he’s telling he’s been trying to track me down and how he feels similarly!!
We talk for hours and the humours unreal!!! He always makes me smile and believe he coud possibly be one of my soul mates! (we get several right???) Anyway, we had sex last week…AMAZINGLY PASSIONATE!!!
He did however go very quiet afterwards and im trying desperately trying to keep my emotions in check (im one of those virgo girls who NEEDS to be open about her emotions) Not sure where its leading but already feel like I cant imagine him NOT being in my life. Question is how do I keep him without coming across all desperate?? Anyone…HELP!!!!
September 25th, 2008 at 8:30 pm
Thanks sky, and congrats on the marriage! That’s one reason why I love her already. She doesn’t jump into things like I do. She’s carefull and doesn’t hand her heart for someone to break. Unlike me,so I admire that. Hey Mia! If you said that he feels the same way you do, then just go ahead and show your emotions. Tell him straight up how you feel, he would respect/like that. I know I would. I hate wondering if a women likes me or not. Just tell me straight up!
October 1st, 2008 at 6:48 pm
nastynunez - coming from a Virgo girl - we are all a little different having different moon signs and such - for me I don’t tend to fall easily, most of the time, but when I do it is the real thing and intense. My advice - be patient because when she does it is going to be well worth the wait. We Virgo’s don’t like to be wrong and being wrong in love is a lot worse. so we take our time! (although I tend to feel it before I will admitt it to anyone so keep that in mind to!) = )
October 14th, 2008 at 11:11 pm
I am an aquarius male seeing a virgo woman, and I was laughing and saying “that is so her!” the entire time reading these posts. We have trouble seeing each other, but when we do its extraordinary. I am very open sexually, flirtatious, and like to share how I feel about her often. On the other hand, she is very guarded in all of these areas. We do fight mostly because I want to see her more, and she is always tied up. Also, she is afraid I may be too good to be true and is scared to fall in love with me. I try to be patient, but my aquarian attitude just wants her to say “I love you” so I can grab her and please her all night long. Last note, the comment about the long intellectual conversations is right on the money. Good Luck to all you others!
October 16th, 2008 at 4:25 pm
the whole time this is making me so happy because i see im not the only one thats in love here imma virgo lady and with a aquarian man for 2 months now and i must say im deeply in love i know i can tell him everything no matter what.Our sex life is not yet going on but i can see its gonna be out of this world i dont see myself without him anytime soon..
=)!!!
November 12th, 2008 at 10:41 pm
Oh my goodness! This has been soooooo interesting to read because I was a little discouraged reading all this NEGATIVE information about these two signs. I will admit being a Virgo woman that it was a little turbulent in the beginning and trying to meet someone half-way that thinks totally different from you, but in the end I love it! I know that his love/interest in me is genuine and that he cares for me in a way that I have never experienced. He makes me deal with the unknown secretive part of me that I think no one knows about. He challenges me mentally and that is very imperative given that I am a mental stimulator. Oh I have to say he has so much patience that I used to get angry because he would not react the way I thought he should, but then I saw that his way was the right way. The other day he stated that he wanted a mate that had certain characteristics by nature naturally and two of them I did not possess (patience), but in the end I think he realized that sometimes what you think you want is not necessarily what you need. Therefore, to any and all who read this always remember that words of astrology are never the answer to soul searching and soul finding, but for entertainment. No one knows a person 100% and can not base their life on what astrology states. Please don’t miss the opportunity to enjoy life with a person who is opposite of you and what science tells you to be with. Listen to your heart and God if you desire, to know that you’re being led in the direction that was all designed before you were born. In all, welcome the challenges aquarius throw Virgo’s way and vice versa b/c you’re just that one step away from someone that can change your life forever.
November 24th, 2008 at 10:06 am
I am a Virgo woman having a very sweet Aquarian hubby. We are a happy couple because we never try to change each other. Of course at times we do end up in an arguement..but those sorts of arguements arise even between the so called ‘most compatible signs’.
As for the sex life, we share a good relationship.Both of us have enough passion and adopt newer ways of exciting each other.
I have most traits of a typical Virgo..and he has that of an Aquarian. But that has never caused any hindrance.
December 13th, 2008 at 10:31 am
i have a very exciting sexual emotional relationship with my virgo lover.we are very stable together even as friends.he rights me love notes,shows up to see me spontaniously,goes out of his way to make me happy vise verser….
i tend to dominate over him when it comes to intimacy sometimes even making the first move and hes more than excited to enjoy the ride and to take over from there which i am crazy about.he loves that im so very confident and thinks im sooo beautiful and sexy the way i think bout him.we talk as friends enjoy eachother as lovers and value eachothers time and space.
i couldnt pick anyone better we physically and emotionally suite eachother.
i actually find that we are very simular in many aspects.
hes not like your typical virgo hes fun,outraguos,spontanous ,popular,funny and is always happy.
were as i am as an Aquarius bubbly,fun,happy confident,easygoing and outraguos .
sex is always fun new and exciting,the love is really deep and keeps us both satisfied and its been two years and were still as strong as ever
we are a young couple im only 19 turning 20 what i do know is wen we both found each each other we became whole and isnt that wat loves all about
December 13th, 2008 at 7:44 pm
To aquarius girl inlove with virgo boy:
WOW!!!! That is something speically that you two have. I hope to find a man to love me to death. I am now 25, haven’t found the right one, but I know I will. To be 20 again, man, I so want to be 21 again.
December 13th, 2008 at 7:50 pm
To CelticVirgo: I so agree with you. I am Aquarius woman, I think it worth the wait. I have found in my experinces. When one is looking for love, you always find the wrong person, because at that moment you are ready to fall in love and are more expectable to falling in love with anyone. I agree one should go with the flow and let love find them and once they have found it, be daring, be fearless and just GO FOR IT with intense and fire.
Glad to know there are people like me who enjoy the heat.
“The hotter is the better I always say.
December 13th, 2008 at 9:40 pm
To Cheri: *drops jar in shock* Are you serious!!!!????? WOW!!!! LOL oh my god, not laughing because it’s funny, laughing that is freaky scary.
Something like that happen to me too, I have two stories, but before I go on with my stories. I have to say I am the same as you, I hate clingy men, when you don’t know them really well and suddenly they wanted a future with you NOW. I run away, because I like my freedom.
First story:
This one take place in a German pub in Germany. I was spending time in Germany in October. I was 21 at the time. Just broke up with my boyfriend not too long ago. (The story in Capericorn and Aquarius section)
I was drinking or eating, talking to whomever. Then I was talking to this one guy and he seem really cool. And conversations is going good. If you think a man couldn’t fall for a woman in less then a second, well he DID with me! He put my hand on his heart and he said to me:
“I never met a woman with such fire in her soul. When I look in your eyes, I see fire, such fire. That touches me deeply.” And he said this with such passion, I just didn’t know what to say or do.
I was just standing there thinking “……. uhhhhhh, are you not sure it;s not the beer that’s affecting you??????” LOL Then he asked me to do you want to go out to dinner tomorrow.”
I said, “ok, sure why not!” I am spousnatness, life an adventor. I didn’t think much of his passionate words, because people say stupid things when they are drunk. You got to understand I was in the middle of Okotberfest, and everyone was like PARTY! PARTY! PARTY! Ohhh my god big mistake!
So the next day, he picks me up at my hotel, and in the middle of the date, he starts to get clingy. Like he wants to constantly hold my hand and have me at his side, and it’s starting to annoy the living hell out of me. And I am keeping distant, and my detact Aquarius ways are hurting his feelings. (I do not know if he was Virgo, I don’t know his sign)
Anyyyy ways, at dinner he finally says to me. “I love you, Crystal. I have fallen in love with you!” I suddenly froze in my spot and I was thinking “Oh crap! You got to be joking, you just met me!”
I took a deep breath and did the noble warrior thing. I calmly set my silverware down and look at him straight in the eyes.
“What I am going to say to you, I am going be very honest and direct with you and I don’t mean to hurt you in any way, but I need to be honest with you.”
All suddenly he starts crying and say’s, “Y-y-you don’t love me the same way as I do?” I was thinking, “Damn, please don’t cry.”
I said to him, “I am sorry, I don’t love you in that way. We just met, and this is bit fast. You have to understand, I just broke up with my boyfriend, and I am not ready to get into a realatation. I am not going to lie to you and play with you, and pretend to love you, because I am not that way. I do not play with men’s hearts. I don’t mind being your friend, but I am not ready to get into a relationship. I know you have just broken up with your girlfriend as well, and I will tell you, do not rush, you will find the right girl for you.”
He held my hand, still with tears in his eyes, and running down his face, he said to me. “WOW, you are truly are a great woman. There should be more women like you in this world. You are so honest, and you don’t believe in playing with men’s hearts. WOW, you are truly a great woman, you are so wonderful. I love that you can be so honest with me. Most girls would use me and break my heart.But you are a real woman.”
I truly felt bad for him.
Story 2: This one doesn’t take place in exoctic land. This one takes place at college in raining washington. It was 2001, or 2003.
I had decied to take a serious German language class, and it was the spring or the summer so I had been in the class for awhile.
I was heading into the lunch room, setting my bag down into a chair, and getting my food. I come back to eat and do my homework. I do this thing, where you just look around the room, for no reason, just to relax from all that studying. I catch this guy with glasses in a leather jacket staring at me. I ingore it. Few days go pass and I am in the lunch room with my friends. And the same guy that was staring me comes to my table and says, “can I sit here?” We’re like, “Yeah” Then he starts talking to me and says “I seen you a lot, my name is Corey, blah blah blah.” You know the usually stuff.
He seem cool, he told my friends and I that his girlfriend and him have an open relationship we date other people. My friends and I were like, we didn’t say it out loud but it was on our faces. “WHOA, not our cup of tea thing, but whatever.” We talked to each other few times and one day he says to me. “Can I kiss you?” I never was face with something like this before, it was really weird and odd. Then he goes. “How about you kiss me, if you don’t want me to kiss you. You can kiss me.” I was standing there not knowing what to do. So I kissed him on the cheek. No big deal.
Let me tell you bad move number 1. After that little peak, he changed. He started to sit wherever I was sitting. If I was sitting with my friends, he would sit by me. He always had to be with me, and it was getting on my nerve. Every single day it was the same thing.
And I was telling my friends, “God, Corey is starting to annoyed me. He has to be with me whenever I am. He would yell out “Hey Crystal!” down the hall. Then he took it step further. He knew I was taking a German class, and he told me “Hey, I just join your German class, I will be in the class with you.”
I was like oh my god, no! So I arrive early in German class, and I told my teacher,
“I don’t want this guy sitting next to me, he makes me uncomfortable I do not like this guy.”
So the teacher gives him asign set. And everyone in the classes hated him, he would intrupped the class and talk about his life.
One day he sees me and he is yelling my name down the hall. This time I decied to run! Everywhere I ran he would follow me, and chase me while yelling my name. I finally found a group of my guy friends and I stood next to them.
He catches up with me and says. “Why haven’t you been talking to me? Are you angry with me?”
And I said. “I don’t like you. I find you abloustly annoying! Piss off!” He looked at me shock and left.
He saw me in the lunch room one day as he was walking to where God only knows, he stared at me with shock.
He wrote me an e-mail and demanded I give him explation. He thought of his self to be great and no one, I mean NO ONE tells him no. I didn’t write him back, because when I said to him in the college was my explation.
And I have never seen him again.
Cheri, sometimes you have to be mean, and don’t be afarid to be mean. Being too nice, cause people to control you. Sometimes in these freaky situations you have to put that foot down or it will never go away.
I suggest you, not try to help this crazy man. My ex aunt has this habbit of recurring people, espeically men. She believes she can help them and make them all better. But in reality, you can’t change people who don’t want to be changed. Since she thinks she can save these not so good men, they have sorely screw her up in the head. She’s not all there in the head, and takes medication, because she can’t fit her problems b Because she keeps putting herself in bad situations. And the reason why she can’t fix her problems and the problems control her. She doesn’t own her problems, she blames them on other people. I hate to say this, but my ex aunt is almost 60 years old and she still acts like rebelous teenager that hasn’t grown up.
Just stay away from the crazies, because they will screw up your life, if you let them.
December 14th, 2008 at 2:34 am
my love name’s Nick, he is the most amazing person i’ve ever met, he fills my life with his love and we fit amazingly perfect, at first he was shy,i could caught him staring at me and then looking away but then his brothers came in action and hooked us up, i thank them so much that they hooked us up, because even if i am a flirty,outgoing,talkactive,optimistic and trustwhorty person when i was around him, it made me feel chill, and butterflies in my stomach and i came into a shy person when it came to him, Our first date went fantastic, we talked and stare at the moon in the, and it was perfect, i swear.when we got to meet each other well, and know we are sharing a beautiful relationship, wich we learn about each other everyday, i swear i love him, and when i look in his eyes i just…know he loves me back.
his perfect looks, and curls, his brown eyes and hair, the way that he talks and walks, it makes me crazy, and i cant wait till the day we marry, its going to be the day most happy day of my life, i swear.
December 14th, 2008 at 2:45 am
Oh i also forgot to say that he is the most romantic person i’ve met, he’s a musician and he writes love songs about me and then sing them to me, he makes me melt, he makes my hear skip a beat,when we fight are really big fights but after 2 days we cant stand the idea of being apart, and when he goes on tour, its the most drepessin thing ever, but somehow i keep doing my life but miss him bad, he calls when he call me every day, so i appreciate that for him, and now that his on vacations with his brothers, we are really thight, i can believe its true something so perfect, and.. i Love him, we are so tight we cant live with each other, and this is just young true love.
I know corny but its just that i can believe somthing so P-E-R-F-E-C-T can be real
December 14th, 2008 at 2:48 am
Ily Nick J
January 13th, 2009 at 5:28 am
I am a virgo woman who just began dating an aquarius man (about 2 months). We have these amazing conversations and we definitely have physical chemistry, but I’m so afraid of opening up to him because he can be so nonchalant. I’m pretty sure he cares about me (he’ll send me texts saying he misses me, we talk every day, he’s stopped talking to other women) but i’m still scared because in the back of my mind i think he doesn’t care. I’ve tried opening up to him, but i always chicken out because i’m afraid he’s going to give me some nonchalant, unemotional response. Any advice from aquarius men or women in relationships with aquarius men? I’ve read not to pressure aquarius men into commitment, but me being a worrisome virgo, I feel like i need to know where this is heading (not exactly where, but some a general direction would be nice). I really like him and I don’t want to lose him, but i also don’t want him to feel pressured. Advice?
January 13th, 2009 at 1:02 pm
To: sarah
Question, does he know how you feel for him? If he does, I would just get the balls and just tell him how you felt.
From personal experince, I had this happen to me with a guy I really liked, and now I wished I told him how I really felt. When he was being honest with me. I couldn’t open up with him, even if I wanted too, I was scared shitless, that if I told him how I really felt, he would get up and leave me. Past experinces with men, have left me scared to tell a man I how I really feel. Because for me, when I seem to open up to a man, that says I am so interested, he just one day changes his mind and leaves me and never comes back.
Plus, it seem he really does like you A LOT. Because he does chase you, talks to you, and wants to know how you are. So I say, just tell him. Tell him the truth, because if he really cares, he is not going to run away, he will appericate your feelings.
Tell him, that you have something to say, and that you are scared that you might think he might not like you, or whatever you afarid of. He needs to know. If you don’t, you might not get another chance with him.
I know it really hard, believe me I have been there. Just take a leap and just say whatever it is you want to say.
Good luck to you.
January 17th, 2009 at 4:23 am
i am an aquarius woman that has dated a virgo man for the past 5 years. although our relationship was amazing in the beginning, i havent the slightest clue why we are still together. we are complete opposites in every way. he is a total neat freak who has to have order in things i find completely unnecessary. i have found also that over the years this virgo has become so overwhelmingly clingy and needy..like this reading says, i am very independent and standoffish. some may say cold but that is not the case. i really dont see what virgos have to offer intellectually to aquarians at least not in my case. i dont think these two are a good match in the long run.
January 21st, 2009 at 3:45 pm
I am a virgo women married to an Aquarius man for five years. He is definitely more attracted to me physically than I to him. But this suites me fine. I prefer to be adored instead of the one adoring. And sex is good it just takes me a bit to get in the mood. Must be a Virgo thing. He is messy around the house but it has gotten better over the last five years. I find him condescending and very argumentative at times. He is controlling and extremely demanding. Hardheaded and stubborn. He is also very giving and can be spontaneous and exciting. So far he has also proved to be very loyal. My main issue and this is where I give the advice - The Aquarius man tends to run over anyone in his way. He gets what he wants and he pushes and pushes and pushes. For the Virgo woman I just want to remind you to stand your ground. You can and will win your battles. Chose then wisely but win the ones that are important to you. If you do not you will become resentful and scorned.
January 25th, 2009 at 4:50 pm
I have to say that I agree with this post. I’m a virgo woman with an aquarius man and he really knows how to get on my nerves. We spend most of our time arguing about how to spend our time together. He is way too sexual and it makes him angry that I am not sexual enough. I like to save money. He likes to spend money. I’m very relaxed and reserved. He is very high strung and outgoing. We are completely opposite! It is so draining trying to make this relationship work sometimes. On the other hand, he does things for me that I would never do and I help him organize his thoughts so that he can get things done. As long as I give him a task to do, I have peace and quiet to do what I need to do and it keeps him in one place instead of running wild like a mad man. I have dated a capricorn, virgo, and a cancer before, and none of them were as loyal and dedicated to me as my aquarius man and that is one of the most attractive traits that he carries.
January 28th, 2009 at 9:31 am
I must say I am very intrigued…I just started dating an Aquarius man, and I’m head over heels with the balance he brings. When I decided to look this up in the first place, I was shocked at my findings and most sites do say that we are not very compatable. I am going to disagree, and from reading the responses it seems to me that the only ones who say this is a bad idea, seem to be people who are not flexible or compromising in general, and in any circumstance that would be problematic. I am going to print this for him to read and see what he thinks. He does stimulate that mental desire we Virgos have, but is also very laid back and there is an incredible passion between us like highschool kids. Feel like I have known him forever, and my only hope is that he will be mine forever. We will work it out no matter what it is. John you are the ying to my yang baby, can’t imagine my life without you now, never a dull moment, and we have yet to fight at all, but when the time comes, and I’m sure it will, it will be intense and passionate just like we are and I love it!
February 2nd, 2009 at 7:36 pm
I am an Aquarius female…who has dated an Aquarius male for over 4 years. I am married to a Virgo man. The Virgo is very romantic, very loving (when you are on your best behavior), very honest however brutal which I like bc I seek truth, he’s genuine for sure, very sensual in bed with a healing effect, great kisser, anyway he’s pretty darn awesome. My ex, the Aquarius and I got along with A LOT more ease, however. Mainly because we had a meeting of the mind, being Aqua we dated for MUUUCH longer and he still refuses to give me up. Any time my Virgo and I fight, I am naturally quick to bolt for air but not leave the relationship, and he’s quick to bolt to seek solace anywhere its warm it seems. My Aquarius would NEVER LEAVE he is the most dedicated and loyal person to me. I appreciate this because I am extremely loyal as well. It bothers me that my husband wont fight to the death, where my Aqua and I would. Anyway, my Virgo and I are amidst much talk of divorce bc my Aqua wont give me up. Its a very complicated situation, but I love both.
February 3rd, 2009 at 3:58 pm
I am an Aquarius woman who is married to a Virgo man. We are the yin to each other’s yang. He keeps me grounded, and he is always the voice of reason in a crisis situation. I on the other hand, keep him from being to serious and always make him laugh. We have a wonderful relationship, mainly because he is the security that I secretly crave, and I am the freedom that he secretly craves. Its true, opposites attract.
February 5th, 2009 at 3:34 pm
In Love with an amazing Virgo man !!! A perfect match always follow your heart !! YOu know deep inside if he’s the right one. You just know!!
February 11th, 2009 at 7:42 am
Hello
I am an Aqua-woman in love with an Virgo man only he doesn’t know it. I’ve loved him since I met him 10 yrs ago. When I first laid eyes on him I knew I wanted to be with him for the rest of my life. “He had me at Hello” LOL. We are very good friends and we are very passionate when we get to see each other. He’s miiiiilles away though (4hrs away but that’s alot when you wanna be with someone). When I read the negative things about a possible union I felt all hope was lost until I read your comments. Now hope is alive and well again. On a side note, Aquarians are NOT detached and unemotional. That is a load of crap if I’ve ever heard any. He’s the only man, besides my dad, that I trust with all of my being. As a matter of fact my dad is a Virgoan too! I’m not shy by far but when I’m with him I clam up. I am the most talkative person ever but I love just being silent with him. He listens to every word I say, makes me smile all the time, makes me breakfast (none of my bfs have never made me anything!) and though his memory is very limited, he seems to remember all the important things about me that NONE of my so-called ex boyfriends remember! I think about him a lot and we are always happy to see each other. We’ve already established that we like each other and we check on each other alot during the week. Once when I went to see him, he bought me dinner. I played around with it b/c I didn’t like it and I was nervous (yeah he still makes me nervous sometimes and I’m such a little girl around him). He picked up on it. He bought me something else and I didn’t like that food either so he gave me his food and it was the best damn meal ever!!!I can only see myself with him for the rest of my life and we knnoooww Aquas hate to be tied down but he can tie me down anyday and I will never wanna leave. I love everything about him, even the four little moles on his face. One side of me tells me not to tell him how I really feel for it may run him away and the other side tells me to go for it. I feel like if he doesn’t feel the same way it won’t be the same. I’d rather have what we have now then to not have him at all if that makes sense. I write poems about him, write songs about him and he lives right here in my heart and has for 10 yrs! He’s the 2nd greatest man in the world, my dad is the 1st, and I secretly love him. I feel he’s my absolute soul-mate. Maybe I’ll just keep it to myself. He’ll just be my little secret.
February 13th, 2009 at 11:00 pm
after reading all the comments posted, I envious those that had wonderful relationship
im a virgo woman dating aqua guyfor a yr+. He love his freedom and like to flirt. He never take me out with his friends nor acknowledge me as his gf to his friends when we’r in public gathering likes bday, clubbing…etc. We dont talk on the phone for more than 10 mins
When we in the club with our own friends, he treated me like a friend, but he treat his female friends better than me. When i tell him, he said i nagg too much. I think i do worry alot for nothing but cant help myself.
I know he wont cheat on me but seeing him flirting with them is just make me piss off. If he likes his bachelor life so much, why bother be with me. I dont understand aqua guy.
so i decided to break off. I wonder if i make the rite choice. Help!!!
February 14th, 2009 at 7:15 pm
To quest:
Seeing how he treated you like crap, I said you did the right choice.
February 15th, 2009 at 12:24 pm
thx LittleImpaler, my guy friend said same thing as u.
I might be in doubt rite now abt my decision but rather that than being play out a fool
im a virgo, i dont show my emotion easily til i feel secure enough to do so. maybe make him think i am jst as same as him…emotional detached. amd jst ok to play around
February 15th, 2009 at 9:23 pm
To Quest:
I am the same as you too. I don’t show my emotion well, until I feel secure that the guy wants the same thing as I do.
Back thing whole thing of telling you yes, then saying no. Is stupid. I don’t know about you, but when I am in relationship, you better know if you want to be with me or not. Because I will walk out and not look back.
I wish you luck and the best.
February 17th, 2009 at 10:29 am
wow… its relieving to know there are more than one Virgo girl in love with an Aquarian guy. I met this Aqua guy not too long ago, and I feel like a lil girl around him. He makes me get butterflies in my stomach that i usually never get with anyone on the first time i meet them. i do worry that we aren’t compatible with all the negative things i keep reading, but i tell you after reading all these posts, i have to try and let my guard down a lil bit more. I thank all of you for writing all these positive things, and I really hope this works out because even though its only been a few days…my heart is aching with joy. any more tips on how to leave good impressions without nagging them?
February 18th, 2009 at 12:24 pm
To Joy:
Just be yourself, and let him decide. Don’t ask too much or too less and let things go how they will go.
February 18th, 2009 at 8:47 pm
OMG. I am a virgo women dating a aquarius man. When we first started out I thought this man was 10 feet tall. As we are getting to know each other things are getting real and the rockiness begins. For the most part he is the sweetest considerate person I have ever met and when it comes time for special days and events he wants to do his own thing which is fine. My only issue is with him on special occasions to at least see me for dinner or a cocktail and we can go our seperate ways. One thing we have in common is that we value each others space and that we keep alot of secrets from each other. Not bad secrets we just dont feel the need to express every detail of our lives (reporting to one another). One moment he has me head over heels and the next I want to kill him. The odd part about it is he feels I am the one who seems not to care and hard to read. One thing about aquarius they require a whole lot of attention, and are like women with their sensitivity and always want to be constantly reassured of your feelings for them. I am an earth sign so action speaks alot for me so I dont need reassurance. So he is bringing out that nurturing side I need to work on that I have such a hard time with because I am so into the whole “man up” thing. LOL. So it is a work in progress. I feel he is worth the hard work, otherwise I would have told him to kick rocks. I love the roller coaster ride he gives me because I never know what he is going to give me. It seems as he still wants to establish that he has control over the situation within himself and prove to himself his security. He is very cunning with the mind thing, and boy he picked the wrong sign to mess with when it comes to the mentals. Cappies and Virgos are the best for making you believe your name is something other than what it is. We pay attention to detail and you come to us with some game or garbage we will eat you up quick and you wont know what hit you. He is very stubborn, but it is something about him that does not want me to see him unhappy so I am the one who usually diffuses everything. He is fairly mature in our conversations but I am a loud person so when we argue he gets defensive to my manner of speaking in stead of just listening to what I am saying. Its funny because I am the one that is all over the place and I call him the diplomatic one. This is the first man that will put me in my place and when he does I would be like “did you just check me? wow thats nice =)” because all virgos need it because we get besides our selves. He is more than enough man to handle me. He will tell me all the time “you have met your match”. I call him an asshole he will call me one right back. He will not let me go to far on disrespecting him. I love it, because I need every bit of what he is dishing. I am women enough to accept it and we move forward. I wouldn’t trade him for the world. Two crazy people make for a wonderful couple. LOL.
February 18th, 2009 at 9:05 pm
Im an aquarius girl that dates a virgo man and we r doing great. we have our issues and it does seem like we r total opposites but where he lacks i pick it up and the same on his end, where i lack he compensates. i love the ground he walks on, thats my baby.
February 22nd, 2009 at 11:17 pm
I have been in a few serious IE married relationships, dumbly always believed what I was told but was betrayed every time, can’t handle it, I can flirt but I am the loyal type, wouldn’t be in the relationship if I wanted to play around.
Now - I got my eye on this girl and she’s aqua n I’m virgo. I like the loyalty thing you guys post about and I am starting, after knowing her for a short while, to pursue her - I aint ’stalking’ her don’t get me wrong but I also wish her to know that I’m not being frivolous. It’s a tricky game, giving her space but letting her know that I am serious until maybe she really tells me to get off, even then I will query it but if its not there its not there is it - I hope that it works out because she intrigues me and I think, from what I know of her, (and know of me), that we could be an item bigtime. I like my freedom also and she should have hers but I wish her to know that I’m there for her, that’s all. I also would like to know that when I’m doin my thing she’s there also for me. Good to feel safe huh? Wish us luck. She is bonny.
February 24th, 2009 at 6:47 am
wow… it is soothing to read all these positive comments on the whole virgo/aquarian compatibility. I am a virgo female who met this aquarian male, and I feel so comfortable around him its crazy. I never was capable to allow my guard to go down so far in the short time that I know someone.. I do tend to worry alot about what the future holds, but right now it feels so ‘perfect’ its scary. lol. i just worry that my standards wont be met, but with the conversations that we had so far, it seems as though we both would be receptive and appreciative of our differences, and learn from them. he gives me chills when im around him. any advice would be great!
March 7th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
I’ve reconnected with an Aquarius man from my past. We hadn’t spoken in about 10 years. While we were casually dating, he WAS extremely detached emotionally, and aloof. He also just got divorced. Well, I was so infatuated with him, but he didn’t show much interest at the time. His divorce was obviously a factor at the time.
Ten years later, I still hadn’t gotten over him. I found him through a social networking site. We are now constantly keeping in touch. We’re going to meet up for the first time in 10 years. Anyway, he’s always (mostly) the one that initiates contact with me via IM. One night we chatted for at least FOUR hours. He’s extremely flirtatious. Says he likes me, et cetera.
I’m a fiercely independent Virgo, who doesn’t like to be clingy and I don’t like men who are either. I also love my freedom, and know where all the exits are, et cetera. Insecurity and jealousy are a turn off. This fab Aquarius is the same. So, what I’m trying to figure out is WHY he keeps on chasing me. I don’t mind and I love the attention (Venus in Leo). I did his natal chart, albeit a general one, because I don’t know the exact city he was born in and at what time.
If anyone can bring some light onto the situation, please help. I can also redo the natal chart and if anyone can read it, please help!
Has anyone else find themselves extremely drawn and attracted to the Aquarius male, if you’re a Virgo female. Don’t they just drive you mad?? In a good way of course?
Thanks so much!
March 7th, 2009 at 3:33 pm
By the way, do Aquarius men tend to forget details from their past, or is it just selective memory? Because he says he doesn’t remember much about the time we were together 10 years ago.
March 7th, 2009 at 6:22 pm
I was reading the posts regarding Aquarius/Virgo relationships. I was laughing and saying, “OMG! That’s like him!” or “Oh! I’m like that!” Thanks for the information.
March 12th, 2009 at 12:05 am
So I am a virgo gal and i have read all the posts and am happy to know that there is a wild obsession with the aqua man from virgo’s. I feel like i possess alot of the qualities mentioned but most of them from flighty virgo’s post. I am kind of crazy and can only hope that the aqua guy i like will dish out the same checks as me..that is the ideal and plus it would be more humorous. My only concern is that we’re at a stalemate..because we’ve both expressed that we like each other but he really doesnt have time for a relationship..should i just chill back and let what ever happens happen?…any ideas?
March 14th, 2009 at 7:00 pm
@artsy virgo: Yes! Don’t push the idea of a relationship on the Aquarius male. Just keep it light and casual. Let it be his own idea. Do not smother him, don’t be clingy and don’t get jealous, or even insecure. It’s a big turn-off for these wonderful men. They also like to do the pursuing. They like their space - he’ll also give you yours as well.
The Aquarius man I’m seeing is extremely affectionate (YES!, but not smothering. Thank goodness), considerate, caring, kind and has the gentlest eyes. AND a lot of fun. Aaw! ::blushing::
March 14th, 2009 at 8:04 pm
An Aquarius man who is interested and wants to be with you (like mine who’s interested in and wants to be with me), will find time to be with you. They like to be productive, and don’t like to be in one place, ie: be prepared to do a lot walking, travelling, et cetera with him. We did so much walking and going all over the place!
They are loyal.
March 16th, 2009 at 3:13 am
OMG…Ive been dating my aquarian male for a month now and I have to say that we are so much in love. He’ll text and call throughout the day JUST to tell me he loves me. We can talk on the phone for hours and 45 mins later he’ll call back just to tell me he misses me and loves me. Ive never felt this way with anyone else….but sometimes he scares me when he doubts our relationship cause according to him “We’re too good together to be true.” The sex is immaculate..he is very attentive and passionate. Only thing different is that he’s the clean one and Im the messy one but Im already in the midst of changing that.
I too have been to various website to see how compatible we are, even tho it isnt accurate…..I was disappointed until I came upon this website. The positive energy in this room is outstanding. Yall are really proving these other websites wrong. I am so loving this…..THANK YOU EVERYBODY FOR HELPING ME KEEP MY HEART AND MIND POSITIVE…..Im really gonna fight for my AquaMan now.
March 16th, 2009 at 7:37 am
Wow!! I have been trying to get in to the head of a Virgo woman for several months now. I cannot believe I went about the whole thing wrong. I tried to show how I felt. Hugs, kisses and words. All of which were wrong. I didn’t realize until recently how they operate. It is work in progress. Yes…I dislike the fact we don’t communicate as much as I would like. Also that her emotions are buried deep inside. She doesn’t show any! It’s amazing. I am the opposite. But I am learning to deal with it. It’s rough! Some days I feel like leaving her alone and some days I feel like on top of the world.
March 16th, 2009 at 8:41 pm
The other day, my Aquarian man asked if I missed him. I told him if he answered first, then I’ll answer. He said, “Yes.” Then I replied with the same answer. Then today, I asked if he misses me. He said, “Maybe.” What is up that answer? lol Then I said I only asked because he asked the other day, he continued to call me a copycat. So, I said I miss him. Then he said he missed me a tiny bit. Hee hee hee! So, I said, be honest, and told him I wouldn’t be scared off. He finally said, Yes he misses me. Aaw!
Aquarian men are strange!
March 17th, 2009 at 12:03 am
@ aquaman2…not all virgo women are the same just like not all aquamen are the same. Im very emotional for a virgo female. I love the flowers and being showered with attention. Its not all about the sign either. She probably has been hurt in the past and has put a wall up….u just have to give her ur understanding if ur trying to get her to open up.
Just love her. Flaws and all. Never take anything too personal or for granted. Just love her ok. Show and prove that you are there. If u tell her ur gonna do something then follow it through with action. If thats who you truely love….it shouldnt really matter what the websites say….or ur friends or her friends….neither family.
March 17th, 2009 at 12:25 am
I wanted to point out that I am affectionate with my Aquarius man. He is affectionate with me as well. I’m not prudish and I’m willing to experiment. I’ve told him that. He appreciates it.
March 18th, 2009 at 8:24 am
Nothing worth while is going to be easy. But I have a hard time understanding how a person can’t express themselves. I am a black and white person. It is or it isn’t. Keep it real and I will keep it real with you. I’m just having a hard time with an emotional closed person. I am showing patience. I do. But the lack of communication or expressing oneself is starting to irk me terrible. I don’t know. Some days I feel like just stopping while other days I feel on top of the world.
March 22nd, 2009 at 7:27 pm
Just to let everyone know, Aquarius men actually do get jealous. My Aquarius man and I are both on a social networking site. I decided to join a group for long haired men, which my Aquarius man has (long-ish), he mentioned it when we met up for the first time in 10 years. I told him I decided to leave the group. He then turned around and said I could do whatever I wanted. That sounds like he was a bit jealous and then did a cover up of it. lol
March 29th, 2009 at 6:57 pm
I have a virgo woman in my life. We are not in love with each other but have definitely caught each others fancy. She is mysterious, unreasonable, always throwing a lot of tantrums, unattractive looking and in some ways clingy….qualities that are a major turn off for me in other women……I don’t understand why I still like her so much. As our friendship grew I have realized that I have completely lost interest in other women. All my free time is spent in thinking about her…..All my energy is spent on just 1 relationship.
She is intellectually very stimulating. And I like taking care of her problems and listening to issues she faces. I hope when I get married I share the same kind of relationship with her.
March 30th, 2009 at 11:41 am
I read from site and most of them wrote that when it come to love, both virgo and aqua is in for a surprise. Does anyone know what that mean?
im thinking since both sign well known for lack of emotion, we’r both cant express well so we will miss out the chances to know if we really love the other or not until we’r apart
any suggestion????? I want to kno wat’s the surprise is
thxxx
March 31st, 2009 at 2:54 pm
yay been in relation with my virgo lady for 19 months . we are so opposit in our interests and thinkings . but u cant imagine how deep we are in each other’s love . i dont know . she is just perfect for me.
April 5th, 2009 at 4:40 pm
Aquarius men are mad. I haven’t heard from mine in a couple of weeks. What a weirdo.
April 5th, 2009 at 4:42 pm
He was all over me when I saw him and a few weeks before that, we constantly chatted online. Then after our first meeting in 10 years, he has been kind of cold, but definitely aloof and distant. Like I said, Aquarius men are mad! Mad as a hatter. lol
April 6th, 2009 at 7:45 pm
@VirgoGalInfatuatedWithAquariusMan
Aquarius Man is unstable. He needs quite a lot of space. He can suddenly need a lot of love too. But when he’s in trouble (in work, probably) he just wants to be alone, solve the problem and be confident with himself, just give him time, don’t push, then he’ll be totally yours.
The core thing is Aquarius man just come when he wants to. Nothing can change about that.
April 6th, 2009 at 11:51 pm
I notice more positive stories from female Virgo and male Aquarius compatibility or is it just me?
April 7th, 2009 at 2:59 am
Im a virgo girl who met an aqua man online last November. He lives about an hour away and came down to see me and we had a great time and the sex was amazing. Since then we have Continued to chat online and sometimes text each other. He is divorced with three children who he sees often. He often mentions coming down again but it never seems to come off. He works as well and always seems to be busy. I feel that there is an attraction there because he will say things like hes missed me and we have some great conversations but I dont know whether hes scared of meeting again. We get on so well and I really like him. If I dont contact him then he always contacts me. Im so confused. What should I do because I really want him
April 7th, 2009 at 1:25 pm
@Just Another Aquaman
Thanks so much for that! I feel much better now. lol
The thing is that he has been unemployed for quite a while now. I don’t know for how long, so him not having income and a job can be quite stressful for anyone. He also has a lawsuit that he’s been dealing with, and it apparently hasn’t been going the way he wanted to.
I got so impatient with him, so I blew him off. I apolgised right away. Now it seems as if he doesn’t want to even talk to me. BUT he did say it was OK and that I didn’t have to give him an apology and explanation. I told him why I ran off like that.
April 7th, 2009 at 1:29 pm
By the way, this is what transpired that day when I met up with him for the first time in 10 years. He was all over me and acted like he was in love with me. He had a very dreamy look in his eyes, and please don’t say that it’s because Aquarius men are dreamers. I’ve seen the way he looks in pictures and at other people. He doesn’t have the ‘look’ all the time. He constantly wanted me to be closer to him on that day. He kept pulling me close to him. There were the little things he kept doing that told me he was indeed feeling quite smitten with me.
April 7th, 2009 at 1:40 pm
Also, I took him off of one social networking site, but re-requested his friendship. He keeps adding everyone else. He has yet to accept, but on another one that we’re both on as well, I’m still on his friend list. I’m still on his messenger. The thing is that he acted like everything is OK. I’m not being petty, but I’d like to know if I could have possibly hurt his feelings?
April 7th, 2009 at 8:05 pm
I wanted to know something about the Aquarius man. When we were spending time at the pub, he said that we had the whole Summer, so that we can go to the beach. He also asked when I would have free time, not referring to the Summer. Then I asked him when he dropped me off about the free time. He said so that way he could book up all his free time. What is that all about?
April 7th, 2009 at 9:13 pm
I’ve been lurking here for some time and finally decided to post something. I’m in the “beginning” stages of a (I hope) serious relationship with an Aqua Man and W.O.W. I have known him for about a year and a half as just friends but it’s SO obvious we have an attraction to one another. We have the most amazing chemistry. We can talk on the phone for hours, just thinking about this thing he and I have just makes the hair on my arms stand straight up. The mental connection is so real. I’ve never been in love before (neither has he) but these strong feelings that I have for him are scary. I also have a level of comfort when I’m around him that I’ve never really had with anyone else. We haven’t had sex yet (only kissed) but I get the feeling he wants to take it slow with that as I do too. Our kisses are so passionate, I can only imagine what the sex is going to be like. :o) After reading these stories, it makes my heart feel great to know that this kind of love exists. I only hope things progress to a deeper level with me and my aqua man.
April 8th, 2009 at 12:48 am
VirgoGalInfatuatedWithAquariusMan
I do not want to sound crazy,but is his name justino falu?
April 8th, 2009 at 3:45 pm
I did NOT write the comment dated April 8!!!
April 8th, 2009 at 6:25 pm
@L
No, his name is not Justino Falu.
April 9th, 2009 at 10:25 pm
A question to the Aquarius men who visit this website…Do you play games, if you’re in your mid to late 40s, just to get rid of a woman?
April 9th, 2009 at 10:29 pm
I’m in my early 30s, AND I’ve given him his personal space and freedom. What is going on with you Aquarius men?! lol
@Just Another Aquaman:
Yeah, you guys are unstable, as you say. OMG, one minute my Aquarius man runs very hot and heavy and then very cold and aloof. It’s like he’s avoiding me on purpose. I haven’t seen him on the messenger in a week. WTH?
April 10th, 2009 at 7:18 pm
you know that this is wrong. the person who write this,didn’t even spell “organized” right!
April 11th, 2009 at 7:24 am
Hi Noneya,
What do you mean I haven’t spelt organised right?? It’s perfectly correct I can assure you.
You can spell it with an ’s’ you know.
Love & Light
Becky
April 11th, 2009 at 5:51 pm
a typical virgo/aquarius relationship reminds me of the movie ‘what happens in vegas’. lets not forget both actors are virgo (diaz) aquarius (kutcher) in real life lol. the aqua is the social, laid back, and more sexual one while the virgo is very well organized, dresses nicely, and money wise…well actually the aqua man can be budget-conscious at times too.but in the long-run they make a fantastic couple!the chemistry is really there.
i have been married to my virgo wife for 3 years and life is so much fun with her.yes we have our arguments and “there are times where i want to light her on fire..but i don’t because i love her..and that would be illegal.” haha =]
April 11th, 2009 at 7:03 pm
Through a mutual acquaintance, I found out that right around the time I was dating/seeing him 10 years ago, he was was dating several women at the same time, or after he dated me. He gave one woman the story about just getting divorced, same story he gave me. I know no one is looking for a gf or serious relationship after a bad (?) marriage or relationship and having just broken up with the person. Basically, what this acquaintance was telling me was that the Aquarius man in question is a player.
I know that there is a positive and negative side to each sign. Some are more one way and others are the other way. Some are at an even keel.
April 12th, 2009 at 5:52 pm
Ya aqua guys can play……but only if they are interested in you. If they don’t like you…..then you are not worth the effort……
What can you do to get him back!!!
Make him put an effort. Don’t be easy on him. Make him accountable for his behaviour.
If you go soft on him he may not see the intrinsic value in you. You must be rare and exclusive. And make him think at an intellectual level. And take your own time with him.
April 12th, 2009 at 7:14 pm
Hi Everybody,
Now this is a very important question for me.
Can someone please address it
I have known this virgo woman for about 2 years now. We have been serious friends for the past 6 months. In the past 2 months there hasn’t been a single day when we have not texted each other via sms. Infact we chat on our cell phones. We must have exchanged 500 smses in the past 2 months. 90% of the time she is the one who initiates. And its usually about some minor problem in her life that is troubling her or some joy moment her her life.
April 12th, 2009 at 7:18 pm
Now the problem is that - I am afraid that she sees me as her best friend and nothing more. If she sees some hot guys she will not hesitate to mention it to me. She opens up to and says pretty much anything that she wants to. She can cry shamelessly in front of me. And pretty much tell me anything.
I am araid that she might have classified me as her friend and that is all she wants from me…..nothing more…..nothing less…
April 13th, 2009 at 3:37 pm
@Aquarian Guy
First off, let me just say that I wish MY Aquarius Man is like you and wants to really be with me. lol
It seems like now he’s completely avoiding me. We had a great time that Friday. WTH?!
Your Virgoan lady may be playing it cool. We generally tend to be cautious, at least I am.
Or she may see you as just a friend. I’m sorry to pop that bubble.
Virgos are very much into details (even if it’s about a grain of sand) and love to analyze things. So, that’s probably why she tells you the little details of such things.
Oh, with the hot guy thing, she could be trying to make you jealous and wants to see how you feel about her.
April 13th, 2009 at 3:40 pm
@Aquarian Guy
If she talks to you about anything and everything and cries shamelessly in front of you, she must feel very comfortable with you. Trust me, Virgos can be just as cool, detached and uncomfortable with emotion as you, Aquarius men.
You can’t base all this on just the sun sign either.
April 13th, 2009 at 4:01 pm
If Aquarius men want their personal space and freedom, instead of running off or pulling a disappearing act, just say so. Why play games?! Are they still interested? It’s so annoying! :p
April 13th, 2009 at 4:20 pm
We tend to love fiercely and even if we don’t show it, the intensity is definitely there. I’ve held onto to the love for my Aquarius Man for almost over 10 years! OMG!
April 14th, 2009 at 8:08 pm
Is it all worth the heartache, disappointment, and riding that emotional roller coaster?
Aquarius men are so difficult. They don’t know whether they’re coming or going.
April 15th, 2009 at 2:51 am
From my experience:
I agree with your piece about the two. The Virgo and the Aquarius really don’t match well. It may for a while but then it dissolves.
When I was with a Virgo, it became a mess and it became work to keep it going. And really, I don’t like the ways of the Virgo. They irritate me.
The sex was going nowhere.
We both wanted different things.
He was too practical, I’m NOT. I’m a dreamer.
I find that Virgo men are too much of a momma’s boy and that just gets on my nerves as well.
He tried to change me and I tried to change him and well that was a disaster.
I really thought we would be together for a long time, and even convinced myself that he was THE ONE. WELL, i was WRONG! I am happy to not have him in my life anymore.
My dad is also a Virgo and let me tell you, I can’t STAND him either.
April 15th, 2009 at 3:33 pm
@TR
We can’t base how two people get along just on sun sign alone. There are other aspects in the natal charts. I have Gemini and Libra in mine.
I am practical, but I’m also a bit of a dreamer as well. I’m not clingy nor am I jealous. Granted, we all are jealous to some degree, some more than others. Insecurity is a big turn off, but aren’t we all insecure? I’m secure of myself.
April 16th, 2009 at 1:44 am
well so far for me, the Virgos are a no no
April 17th, 2009 at 2:44 am
@TR
I’ve dated a couple of Virgo men. I was engaged to one of them. That one was annoying. lol
The other one was a nice guy.
Men and woman of the same astrological sign aren’t that much a like. Both are different sides of the coin. I’ve also noticed that if a person is born one month or the other of a sign, they’re slightly different as well.
April 22nd, 2009 at 3:19 pm
I am an Aquarius man, have always been a player since the age of 14 and have broken many girls heart previously, but now I have really fallen for this virgo girl who I have trouble in leaving her, its difficult for me to just leave her and go for another one, she is wonderful, kind and caring to an extreme, any advice please how to get over her, she is in love with me and this is also one of the things that make me unable to leave her easily. You may say, why U have to leave her like many freinds who have said so, but its just in my nature to go and be free and experince the world.
April 22nd, 2009 at 6:18 pm
We Suck………I told that virgo girl that I can never be sure about my feelings, what if they are gone……….will I still be able to do justice to her……..thankfully this girl is way to good for me……..and I did not have the oppertunity to break her heart……..We are so full of ourselves…..we like to observe the water….touch it…..and then feel it……but we are cowards who are never ready to take the plunge……sad.
April 22nd, 2009 at 7:12 pm
why are we aquarian like that, cant never have a normal life, i have girls that all my frends dream of and just blew them off, and NEVER NEVER able to love someone for long, I fall in love for a few days I mean deeply in love and pooof after a few days or sometimes weeks the whole feelings change out of nowhere, they say its the uranus that make sudden crazy changes in us,. But in me it has become daily now, so I love someone one minute and a few hours later, no more, just frustrates me, I really wish I was a usual guy and act normally…
April 23rd, 2009 at 4:54 am
Lmao
@Naughty: You are definitely missing out! How can someone fall in love with a person, then fall out of love with them just like that? I think it’s just you Aquarius men are still in love, but like to be distant, aloof, and what seems like COLD-HEARTED wretch of a man.
@Aquarian Guy: I think Aquarius men are just afraid of getting hurt, like any other guy. Speaking of water, the Water Bearer, carries a jar of water, which the water represents EMOTION. Aquarians are air signs, so they’re conflicted.
They say that Sun signs have nothing to do with, alright, but when we are born have something to do with the way we are. Don’t forget to take into account the other aspects in your natal chart.
April 23rd, 2009 at 4:56 am
I haven’t spoken to my Aquarius man in weeks! I even sent him a message stating that we can be friends, with NO strings or emotion, then we can see where it goes. NO reply yet.
April 23rd, 2009 at 4:58 am
@Naughty: You say you’re unable to leave your Virgo lady because she’s in love with you? Then you must be in love with her as well.
April 23rd, 2009 at 4:49 pm
Btw, Naughty, that comment about Aquarius men being cold-hearted wretch of a man wasn’t directed at you. Please don’t take it to heart. I’m upset with mine. lol
April 23rd, 2009 at 4:57 pm
I also wanted to add that sun sign or not, once you get to a certain age, STOP playing with people’s emotions and stop playing games.
If you don’t mind me asking, how old are you, Aquarian Guy and Naughty? I’m in my early 30’s. The reason why I’m asking is cos if anyone is in the 30’s to 40’s, it’s time to STOP playing games and with other’s feelings. WTH?!
April 23rd, 2009 at 9:21 pm
Yes I am in love with her, I can find lots of problems in other signs BUT virgo girls, they are just so spot on for aquarians. But what can I do with my naughty nature?? that everyone thinks its too much of it inside me, just to mention that I am a monkey aquarian and have all the monkey charecteristics tooo, By the way, will she (this virgo girl) always be sunordinating me, I mean she is just completely obey anything I ask her
April 25th, 2009 at 3:27 am
@Naughty. Is that what you like about her then; the fact that she does everything she ask of her? Im only asking because I myself am a Virgo and interested in an Aquarian and he has a sort of power over me too
April 25th, 2009 at 3:28 am
@Naughty Sorry meant to say that she does everything you ask of her
April 26th, 2009 at 3:00 pm
Virgo Gal Infatuated With Aquarius Man
Hi I am 23 years old….and I don’t play games…..she does……and openly confesses…….and askes me if i am not afraid that she would break my heart….haha…..and I am sure that aquarian guy you are so in love with is not into you at all. Let him go.
@naughty aquarian……..the virgo girl that I so like is not submissive at all. She has her own mind her own way……infact I have to tolerate all that……..and this very tolerance that I have had to exhibit has actually accelerated my respect and admiration for her. She is so unique and a force.
April 27th, 2009 at 2:48 pm
okay, you aquarius men are acting up now. lol it must be the weather.
April 27th, 2009 at 4:06 pm
ok..so that whole touching the water is like the story of my life.but its this aquarian guy(can’t even call him mine) who says one thing and can’t use his actions in any shape or form..My friends say he gets all nervous around me and that I can be a bit intimidating but really what is there to worry about if I’m pretty direct with my feelings and always there for him. The funny thing is I am not clingy at all and have pretty much decided that he’s not worth my time or consideration which is sad because its part of nature to care for others.
What actually annoys me is that I would have preferred that he was real with me and just admit that it wasn’t really mutual because I have no problem accepting that I’m not the girl for him. However, I have too much respect for myself to continue anything that seems to be onesided. I’m wary of aquarius men now because I need emotions to be worked out or atleast have a direction…
April 27th, 2009 at 7:05 pm
im 29 now and have completely stopped playing around now. @Aquarian guy, if you just come across strong to virgo girls they will back off and become totally submissive, sorry virgo girls not any offenc, this is my experince with different virgoes so far,
April 27th, 2009 at 8:50 pm
@artsy virgo: It all seems for naught, doesn’t it? I told the Aquarius man I’m interested in that I don’t mind being just friends.
The story…we dated about 10 years ago, he just got divorced, blah blah blah. Fine. No problem. We were dating for 2 months. During that 2 months, I was wearing a Claddagh ring (I purchased myself cos I’m independent and didn’t and still don’t need a man to buy me things) and the heart was facing away from me. I told him the reason why I was wearing it that way was cos I’m not with anyone. He gets offended and says, “What about me?”. Whatever. He disappears and changes his # later on. Don’t know how long it was.
ANYWAY, I have been thinking about him for the entire time, wondering where he is, how he is, etc. I reconnected with him this February through a social networking site. We talk. He claims he doesn’t remember much (LIAR). We start anew as friends. He pursues me, constantly chats for hours on end. Waits for me to sign on to the messenger client. We decide to meet. So, we meet, everything was fantastic. He acts like we’ve never parted and he’s totally affectionate. Like he’s my boyfriend. Has dreamy look in his eyes. Says he wants to spend time with me.
OH, I wanted to mention, I did join a group for long haired me on the networking site, as well as other groups, like for against animal cruelty..he brings this up towards the end of our date. I say I left the group. He said I could do whatever. It’s either insecurity or jealousy. He USED to have long hair btw. Now it’s only shoulder length.
We chat again, a couple of days later. Says he’ll be busy with moving stuff (he’s broke and unemployed at the time he tells me this and can’t afford the storage. Has lawsuit for injuring his hand.) He becomes increasingly distant, aloof, cold, you know, the whole typical Aquarius thing. He says he still wants to see me.
I innocently added a male friend of mine to my friends list, who I’ve known for a long time and I haven’t heard and seen in a long time. So, this male friend puts a couple of comments to my profile, like he thought of me (innocent, right?) and then, when is he going to see me (innocent). This is when the Aquarius becomes even more so distant, etc.
I went away for a few days, to clear my mind. I text the Aquarius. Told him I was on holiday. He texts back, if I went further up north or south. I think he Googled my friend. Cos my friend lives south. Sneaky Aquarius! He never gave me the chance to answer.
So, I get fed up with the Aquarius being cold, etc. I blow up on him. Saying that if he didn’t want to see me, then that’s fine. I’m a grown up. Also that it was fun while it lasted, and we shouldn’t see eachother anymore. I apologise, realising I said somethings in haste. He, from what I guess, accepted the apology, by saying it was okay. Now I haven’t heard from him.
I also left him a message stating we can be friends with no strings, hoping that would draw him out of his shell.
April 27th, 2009 at 8:53 pm
I meant to add that this male friend I added has long hair. I happen to have added other male friends to my friends list, and none of them have long hair.
May 1st, 2009 at 12:25 pm
I met a Virgo lady last year who I really clicked with. Nothing happened as she was in a relationship at the time, but we got on really well and it seemed natural to stay in touch. In January, they finally broke up. So, with having the aftermath of that situation to deal with, plus the fact that she has a highly responsible position in work, I know she has had a lot on her plate of late. And because of this, I have always been respectful and calm about things, and have given her all the space she needs. I never push her or demand anything (least of all things like ‘when am I going to see her’, etc). I’ll drop her the occasional text and she’ll either text or call me when she can. For the record, as an Aquarian, I don’t fit the (sun sign) stereotype, when I care about someone, I’m not aloof or distant, but quite romantic, open and honest about my feelings, yet I’m not needy or clingy either).
A couple of months ago, we went out and it became clear there was a very strong spark between us. We met up again few weeks later and began to get much closer. She admitted that she liked me a lot (though she seemed almost embarrassed to say it). We had a wonderful weekend and I was really looking forward to seeing her again.
The only thing I really had to get used to (especially as I was happy to take it slow in the knowledge that she probably needed some space to breath for a while), was that she wasn’t the best at calling me when she said she was going to call. She’d often say, “Is it okay if I call you tomorrow/Saturday/at the weekend?” and then she wouldn’t call until a week or so later. The only reason it bothered me, as that I wasn’t sure if it was because she had other things on her mind, or whether she wasn’t that bothered.
The last time I saw her was a few weeks ago. We had a lovely evening and I realised that night how gentle, funny, genuine and kind she was. I haven’t seen her since then, because she has been so very busy, though we were originally planning to see each other the following weekend. I sent her a text on the Wednesday to make arrangements, but she replied to say she had a business commitment and asked if we could make it the following week. I made a concerted decision to give her some room, so I didn’t contact her until last Wednesday (a week later) to see if we were still meeting this last weekend. She replied with a nice text (kisses too) but saying she was mad busy with work and wouldn’t be able to meet, but asked was it okay if she called me on the weekend. Unfortunately, she didn’t call and I haven’t heard from her since.
Now I don’t know if it’s just her Virgoan way not to call when she says she will, or whether she has possibly changed her mind about me. I don’t want to push her as I am trying to be relaxed and easy-going about things, and trying to give her as much space as she needs (I’m certain that trying to corner her would be a bad idea as I believe it would unnecessarily push her away and I don’t want to do that). I just don’t really know where I stand now and as I’m sure you’ve guessed by this point, I have fallen for her. She is the first woman I have ever known who I could truly see myself having a family with and the thought of it makes me feel wonderful. Of course I can’t tell her that right now, as it’s still a little too soon after her last relationship ended. But then, if she’s not calling me because she isn’t that bothered, then it’s all academic really. Right now, my insides feel as they’ve been sucked completely inside out. I’m just hoping that she’s one of those women that is simply useless at picking up the phone.
Can any of you Virgo ladies advise me what I should do?
May 2nd, 2009 at 5:39 am
@AquarianManFallenForVirgoLady:
I think she’s playing hard to get.
Sounds like you may have some fire or water in your natal chart.
Btw, she’s one lucky lady!
::sob sob::
If the Aquarius man I want is more like you.
May 2nd, 2009 at 10:05 am
@Virgo Gal Infatuated With Aquarius Man
I hope you are right, but I suppose I’m afraid shat she could be reconciling with her ex (just an instinct I’m having really). I hate mind games and wish she’d just call. At least I’d know where I stand then. Of course I’ll be delighted if it’s just that she is playing hard to get though. I just think it’s a shame to waste precious time when we could be seeing each other over the weekend… which is now dragging beyond belief, not to mention I’m now totally off my food.
May 2nd, 2009 at 10:07 am
Fire or water in my natal chart??
May 4th, 2009 at 2:49 am
Hey i’m a virgo and i’m after a aquarius,i’ve know her for a year and half, it would go on and off,kinda complicated , i didn’t really understood the aquarius, one day i would be happy the next day i would be sad . i didn’t know why i was feeling that way, it was soo weird, but recently in 2009 i talked to her , ever since is been diffrent,she changed alot , but i sort of understand them better, she says she doesn’t like showing emotions,she doesn’t like calling people on the phone she scared that might disturb, and she likes to play mind games and read minds . So yeah i guess i accept that , I think i’m fallen in love with her again but now seems different ..i hope it turns out alright!!
May 5th, 2009 at 7:00 am
@AquarianManFallenForVirgoLady: I meant you might have fire (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) or water (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces) in your natal (birth) chart. That explains why you’re romantic and warm, unlike the typical Aquarius.
I think Aquarius men are the biggest flakes ever. No offense to those who aren’t. Most of them are.
May 5th, 2009 at 10:36 pm
virgo man; aqua woman; in 40’s
wow that was really informative reading all that i met my partner last summer via gumtree, we had a turbulent 3 months, split up, remet ,after a few weeks..now been living together since end feb.
overall as others say it is tiring but ultimatley worth it..i think you can compliment each other..if its meant to be go with it..even if it doesnt work long term you will learn alot from this opposite sign..balance..to me everything i wanted in myself is in him
May 7th, 2009 at 5:37 pm
Why are virgo ladies such great friends……..they just make you feel so special all the time……..i mean i would go down on my kneesw and thank god for I have this virgo girl as my friend……..lol
May 9th, 2009 at 1:49 pm
Hi All
I guess I have to be the worst virgo woman on earth, im messy, i hate cleaning and I have no sense of order…i cnt event get from point A to B without a sat nav! lol goes to show you..i do clean but i struggle and nomatter how i try ot be organised i fail with flying colours.
Anyway im starting to see this Aquarian Man, so far I just dont understand him, shares his emotions when i return them, he takes a step abck and becomes aloof calling and texting less….so I dont know how to get him back on track. I happen to like this one, he has that attractive sensitiveness in men…ps: i may have dropped the “love” bomb, maybe that probaly scared him away..!!! oh gosh! dnt know what i was thinking…………
Is it too late to take it back or fix it, as far as i see, its doomed ..lol! seriously
May 10th, 2009 at 4:23 pm
Now that I am trying to get over this virgo girl. I try to restrict contact between us…..but she keeps texting……”why are you ignoring me….”..”or don’t act as if you are busy”….even if i just spoke to her a day before……i don’t understand….the other guys who had crushes on her hurt her….so i want things between us to be kool….but that seems impossible unless we talk less…..we are in contact throughout the day via texts on phone…..i don’t want her to feel that i am ignoring her……..nor do i want to continue being miserable like this…..what can i do??
May 11th, 2009 at 5:59 am
i never ever dated a virgo man b4 and i believe he could possibly be my soul mate……… i am messy and he is the one that is tidy… he is sweet and soo attentive to everything i say. … im glad there are others that know what i am going through …=]
May 13th, 2009 at 6:03 pm
So i let my aquarian interest go and don’t plan to pick it up again…I think I’ve seen to many unattractive qualities, but mostly his inability to own up to anything. I actually don’t want any explaination for his inaction which i think is kinda funny because I never thought I could be this indifferent towards him.
*But aquarian guy, I would say be very frank with your girl…honesty is always better than the hurt of avoidance even if it is slightly petty in your situation.
May 14th, 2009 at 6:27 am
I’ve been with my Virgo man for a while now. The relationship initially started out slow, because of our different conversation styles (being an Aquarius, I’m used to talking to people who can pick up a conversation no problem when I leave a “stump”), but as soon as we talked about this, we resolved that, and our conversations are now great. The sex between us is amazing and passionate…I got him to open up, and opened up myself. We’re both very physical, love contact, but dislike clinginess, and I absolutely love how honest he is. We’ve got similar ideas on most things, but also opposite ideas on some things, which makes talking to him SO interesting. I have to say that this is the best relationship I’ve ever been in. Whenever I see him, I immediately get a smile on my face, and so does he. I’ve honestly never been this happy!!
May 17th, 2009 at 4:10 pm
Yes “Organized” is spelled wrong. Actually lots of comments are..LOL… Anyway Reading this Blog kind of upset me at first til I read all the great comments and people having things so well! One thing I don’t think people understand is that yes Initially Aquarius are alike as Virgo’s are alike HOWEVER there is a Difference between the men and women of the same sign I’ve learned from experience and as whether you are Friends or Lovers! I am Aquarius and I just “separated” from a 13yr and 3 kid relationship with a Leo and I think its one of the hardest relationships EVER! He is way to flirty and outgoing he likes to go out with his friends and never really did much with me, and with the kids it was Easy for him as we may not have had a sitter. I love him to death and idk if we will/can work stuff out.
Anyways I met this guy a few weeks ago and it was just for Business for some problems I’m in. I found out yesterday he is a Virgo, I haven’t gotten to know him all that well but it was strange its like there’s an instant attraction there. He has been out of a 10yr marriage where as his wife was a cheater. He seems funny and very outward, maybe spontaneous he after just a short time of talking was already telling me how he loved my eyes and how pretty they are. On the car ride he would like “dance” or “sing” just being goofy I guess then he’d look over to see if I was paying att or I guess maybe laughing
We kept lookin into ea others eyes well (through his sunglasses mostly)lol. He’s got the deepest Brown eyes ever! I just don’t know if there would be anything there or if I am just lonely and upset about my own break-up which has been going on 9 mos. I am NOT going to do anything drastic or move fast i know that. He was even telling me how he could come over once a week so I could make him a meal (its been a long time, and he works so much he hasn’t had one) he made quirky comments like now dont try to make a pass on me. But he was so interested in my life asking me all kinds of questions and I guess trying to know me but I’m still a mystery not many people do get me. But I do smile when he’s around and he’s funny,smart and hard working. SOrry for making this a BOOK!!! hah…. anyone have any advice for me?
May 17th, 2009 at 7:46 pm
‘organized’ is the American English way of spelling it and ‘organised’ is the British English way. And technically, the English language is from England.
May 17th, 2009 at 7:47 pm
From Wikipedia: English is a West Germanic language that originated in Anglo-Saxon England.
May 25th, 2009 at 8:04 am
hi there
im a virgo girl and this is the second time ive been with an aquarius man. it completes me in every possible way! i have never been so compatible with someone like i am now with my recent aquarius man! he is my world and why things work for us is because we know when to be with each other for support, love etc..and we also know when to take time out for ourselves! we both have short tempars but we both know when to back down or just walk away when things gets too hot. in the bedroom things are magical! every time we have intercorse it is something diffrent and spontanius and i totally love it! i must disagree with this thing saying we only got an intellectual connection! they clearly havnt seen the power of this couple together.
i would like to encourage all virgo women if they have an aquarius man they shouldnt hesitate to be with him! it could be the best time of their lives together so go out there and enjoy ur man with everything you have!
xxx
May 27th, 2009 at 2:34 am
i’ve always read that the virgos are far more into aquarians than vice versa.
i’m an aquarius. with a virgo. it’s nice, there’s attraction. but i always feel like the virgo i’m seeing either holds back, or does not have as much passion as i do. so it makes me hold mine back as well. i suppose neither of us wants to get screwed over so we play it safe. which could get boring.
May 27th, 2009 at 1:13 pm
i got quite offended by this reading, but then again, it’s read by the sun.
i’m Aquarius and i have been with a virgo man for almost a year now. when we first met at the high school football game i couldn’t keep my eyes off him. something about him had caught my attention. he’s so free. he doesn’t really care about getting hurt or anything, he’s very confident in wat he chooses. so i think he’s an aquarius at heart lol and i’m a virgo at heart cause it’s so hard to show myself to him. i had to push myself into showing him more of myself ever since we’ve gotten pregnant [the sex life was.. AUHMAZING!]] lol we got pregnant 3 months after we had gotten together but i can’t say i regret this. i love my baby so much, he’s due in sept so he’s going to be a virgo JUST LIKE HIS DAD lol. but we have our arguments and watnot. i mean come on we’re opposite. i’m closed in, he’s so open. i can’t even walk around naked for him lmfao even though we had sex more than 3 times a day since we got together [this pregnancy made it better lol i tease him for having a fetish for pregnant women] we’re planning on getting married once we can get on our feet.
tia&dylan4everwithbabyEanon
June 3rd, 2009 at 7:29 pm
I am a Virgo female and have been with my Aquarius man for four months. Due to circumstances I had to move in with him in the first month. Its been blissful and we actually talk about the future together. He was the first to bring up the topic of marriage etc. We have stupid arguments sometimes, but its all a learning process. We are at least able to communicate to each other about our issues and resolve them fast. This is the first time I see a promising future with him. Oh and seems very loyal.
June 8th, 2009 at 3:31 am
I’m an Aquagirl and find Virgo boys, summed up in one word, are boring.
June 9th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
I am a virgo that has been married for almost 2 years. We have three little ones and we are both pretty young. I have always had feelings for one of his friends (which is an aquar.) I usually see him once a year but every time we meet there is this strong chemistry there. My husband and I have not had a good relationship for a long time and I am torn between what to do. I have a lot of heart felt interest in my husband’s aquar. friend. My question is-how serious can this guy really be? I mean really, who wants the kind of baggage that I have? Is an aquar. really one to want this type of situation? Is this bound to be an affair and that is all? I want to let him know that I really feel something for him, but I don’t want him to feel pressure because I am considering something more serious in the future. Don’t get me wrong I am all about taking time to get to know one another, I just really don’t want to get hurt? Is it like an aqar. man to go after a married woman of a friend and partly want it for the excitement of how wrong it is, and also because he is attracted to a girl, and for no other reason? I am not trying to be someone’s entertainment with no chance of relationship possibility.
June 11th, 2009 at 8:00 pm
please help me i need advice. i’m a virgo girl and i think i’m in love with an aquarius guy. i did let him go because of my clingy attitude and now i want him back. what advice can you give me? i really want him back. now i;m having my regrets of letting him go.
June 17th, 2009 at 3:05 am
i think the trick to love…
its to see yourself in the reflection of the one you love..that in the end …
its you who you love in the eyes of that person
virgo and acuarius are Earth and Air,
like ying and yang…
remember that pain cannot live without love.
imperfection makes perfection.
that the only way to learn.
Acuarius will give Virgo Air to dream up in sky
so Virgo can express that Mountain of Earth for him to stand when he feels lost.
remember that you need a hole of air to make the mountains.
perfect balance..
June 24th, 2009 at 9:22 pm
What is it about Virgo men??? I can spot them out of any crowd-they mesmorize me, make me crazy, dizzy with lust, and once you make a move and get them, they then back off a bit. That damn spark thing is inevitable. I’ve dated many virgo men, they lure me in with that smoldering sexual energy…I once had a 7 year affair with an engaged virgo because we had fun, sex, and were totally comfortable together. We laughed alot-great conversations. The attraction is undeniable, but then the sex seems to be “come to me”. Sex is warm and wonderful, but never quiet as exciting as I think it will be. These men never make first moves!!!!It’s always me making the first moves-strange, but then they never quite go away…My current friend is 27 and I’m 42. I am free-spirited and very independent, but like this relationship, and think I want to keep him. The backing up thing has started, but he proclaims to adore me-making future plans for trips, dates, etc..Any suggestions? Help-
June 27th, 2009 at 4:51 pm
I am an Aquarius man, and I truly feel for the people who have the fortune (and sometimes misfortune) to love us. We are such a diverse sign, with so many different ‘types’ of Aquarians — We can’t even be consistently ‘weird’ like we’re supposed to be, haha. I am not even remotely the same person I was 10 years ago — Sometimes it seems like the only consistent thing about us is the need for change. And while it can be exciting, it can also be exhausting for those who tie themselves to us.
@Virgo Gal Infatuated With Aquarius Man:
I can only speak for myself, but this is what I have seen with myself when I meet a potential love interest: Either I will fall very quickly for her, and start making plans to pursue a relationship, or she will not quite meet the threshold, and things will get very arbitrary. One day, I might see a romantic comedy and think about her as a potential girlfriend, and maybe even propose going out to the movies, and another day, I’ll be really interested in my work or a project and totally forget about her. This can be really maddening to the girl. And sometimes, maybe even years later, I will kick myself for not having really pursued it. But again, years later I might meet someone new, and think that it was for the best that I didn’t pursue it.
So what I am saying, is that for me, it is either head over heels (which sometimes ends with a broken heart for me, but I understand and accept that that is the price for trying), or else a weird ‘friendship’ if they aren’t quite everything that I am looking for. It unfortunately sounds like your Aquarian guy is either like that, or is a player. My advice is to let it go - either by truly ‘just being his friend’ (without having a hidden agenda to form a relationship) - and after awhile being friends, he may decide to take it further (Aquarians who haven’t fallen for someone hate to be emotionally badgered into a relationship). Or you can just stop contacting him (WITHOUT telling him that you are interested in possibly pursuing a friendship), and see if he then starts pursuing you. It is like the old saying - “You don’t know what you have until it’s gone”. Losing you may make him realize what he is missing. Alternatively, if it was never there in the first place, then he won’t try to make contact any more.
Sorry if this seems a bit rough, but those are my honest thoughts.
July 8th, 2009 at 1:43 pm
Hi, I am SO confused right now…well maybe I am not..but I do have a question. I had been seeing this guy who is an Aquarius and I am Virgo women. He chased me for some times and would send messages through my boss and friends.* He was a field manager…now he is my boss* we would talk on the phone, text, in person at work and there is such a connection between us… even now…After 5 months I finally gave in to him.. We have so much in common. Like the same food. Poetry, music..we could talk for hours about anything..I asked him what made him choose to talk to me at work..he said I could not tell you..but we got close..then he told me he Really Like me a WHOLE lot..we went out 2 times, and then when he became my boss..We kinda bumped heads..and he has changed. He would talk to me so harsher to me then the other employees and I would confront him on it.. He then would not text me call me on nothing out side of work *he is a work a-holic and single parent* after 2 months he finally talked to me why he pulled back. He thought I would not want to talk to him after how we deal with each other work wise..I said no..I just don’t like how you talk to me..he then went on to say..how he really really really like me a whole lot..and wanted to try and start over. Then By Friday*we did not talk or nothing bad the whole week* I text him about doing something..he tells me I am pushing him to be personal..to let things take it’s course…that he is trying to be my friend but I keep pushing it in another directions. Mind you I don’t even talk to him like that. I was devastated..cause this off and on again things is crazy..but when we are around each other..it is so noticeable or attracton..everyone out side of us see it’s too.. Then I go to the office 3 weeks ago…mad still about the friends things…give him my paper work..got to leave..he walks behind me..I get in the elevator..he follows talking about he wants to go some..when the doors close..he kisses me..I mean deeply..the doors open..I jumped..he laughed..I said I though you did not want anything personal..he laughed and said not after today..he flirts with me so much..I just am ready to pull back..is he playing me? No texts on weekens..Nothing..
July 8th, 2009 at 3:19 pm
gosh the comments here are so similar to what i’ve experienced with my aquarius.
it’s like he calls me at the oddest moments of the day, a few times each day, for a few days and he has SO much to say (mostly trivial but cute anyway) and then all of a sudden he stops calling, disappears for days or even weeks and suddenly out of the blue he starts sending me messages on my phone again, telling me that he misses me etc. and then when we finally meet up again he acts as if we’ve never been apart, as if i’ve been his girlfriend since forever. and it goes on and on in circles. can anyone explain this please? any aquarius men out there, is this common aquarian behavior?
strange thing is, when i said he’s no longer my boyfriend, he said that it was ME who didn’t want him first. needless to say, i was shocked.me? so i just go on merrily with life, knowing he’ll come back someday. he will, right?
so i guess when they say aquarius men are unpredictable, this is one aspect that does get predictable after awhile, does anyone else here agree?
that aside i really admire him- he’s smart, exciting, spontaneous and such a passionate lover when we’re together. also meticulous when it comes to making me feel comfortable.
i just wish he’d stop disappearing and coming back. (though i gotta admit it kinda makes me like him more)
July 10th, 2009 at 4:01 am
I am in a relationship with a virgo man who is a few years older than me. even though im in my 20’s and i feel like i should be doing something else i am so drawn to him
im wondering can i trust him?
so many little things have happened that have me questioning if he is loyal to me or if im just blinded by love?
what the weather like in this area?
he says he loves me but hes got a lot of mystery to him.
our relationship is on the rox literally LOL
but he keeps saying we are strong? idk, i love him but i dont want to waste my time with someone who will always keep me on the outside.
July 21st, 2009 at 9:28 am
Hi everyone,
It was very interesting reading all the comments and i am writing to ask for an opinion that i think will help me a lot.
I am a Virgo in love with an Aquarius.
Last year in July we met accidentialy and immediately connected and liked each other. He asked me to go to his place for adrink but i didnt want to at the moment( i was tired and i can hardly do that from first meeting) and so he asked if he could call me one day. He called me the next day adn asked if i am up for a walk at the beach. I went, we had a great time talking(appart from the fact that i was not quite myself as i was nervous), then had sushi adn went for cofee at his place as he lives next to the restaurant. We were constantly talking untill 9 in the evening and then, also kissed and i felt like with no other man i have been with before, it was very strong and sensual. I left running out of there as the situation was going towards sex, i was not ready. He called me next day, calling me cinderella and told me that in 2 days he leaves to another country to work and doesnt know when he will be back. I went at his place and it was simply wonderfull and very passionate, again like with nbo other man i have been with before. We fell asleep at 5 in the morning and already at 6 i had to wake up for work. This is one of the most spontanious dates i have had and, the most wonderfull. When i was leaving he wished me a nice summer.
I was up in heaven for a fiew days and i just gave up the idea of seing him again so i didnt contact him. However, he started to write to me on the cell, and we stayed in touch for half a year.
Then he dissapeared, i gave up again but i was dreaming about him at night (seriously). Two months ago he wrote again, he is back…and the weirdest part, now i got a new appartment on the other side of the street. Our appartments dont overlook each other but its very close… We met for a drink and i guess i was too guarded and scared so i left home.
He invited me at his place 2 times but both times i was away travelling. When i contacted him when i got back he said he was busy.
Sooo, just two days ago i was at the place we met, 10 in the evening and after one drink i got so relaxed that i wrote to him where i was and so he came in 5 min, told me it was a very weird coincidence he was passing through so he could come. We couldnt keep hands from each other and started kissing, he told me he thinks i am wonderfull and so. We followed each other home and i was determined to go home but he didnt stop asking me to go with him. Anyways, i told him i would like to see him but just tonight as i was drunk i wanted to go home. We texted each other the same night. Next day there was no calls and i wanted so much to see him. So i texted him asking how he is and if sober, then he asked if i was in the mood for playing in bed and this got me feel cheap and hurt cause it indicated that he is only interested in sex. Not to make big deal out of it i suggested dancing or so and he replied that he cant go anywhere unless it can be donein bed. Then i only wrote ‘i thought so’ and i feel like such an idiot now, i dont know why i wrote it. He didnt reply
I didnt want him to think i am neady or uncool so next day i just wrote that i think it was lovely to meet up so spontaniously and that it was a misunderstanding cause i thought differently about him, and that he takes care. in a way i wanted a closure, so i can move on but i wish things went differently, i miss him, his kiss. He didnt reply my last message.
I have never been so platonically and so long time in love with someone…Any thoughts on what i could do?
Thanks
July 22nd, 2009 at 7:33 am
Love isn’t perfect but when someone really loves you. Things will happen at the right moment. As a virgo female speaking to another “Anna” just remember true love is out there and we deserve it. No matter the experience is it the goal at the end is in which is our right to be loved fairly, caring, and without shame. My own aquarius male is the best thing that has ever happened to me. He treats me like a queen yet day dream too much while it take awhile to express my own emotions to him. Point is you will know what to do when the time comes.. love is out there you just gotta find it.
- Z
July 22nd, 2009 at 10:06 am
Sounds wise and comforting
thanks for that nice thought.
“Feelings form part of a world i don’t know, but it’s a world where there’s no time, no space, no frontiers.”
I wish you all to feel and find your true love. To those who found it: it gives hope and faith to us who are looking for it and may you always be blessed with the nicest spring flowers bringing magic into your worlds!
July 24th, 2009 at 1:51 pm
Ok, so I’ve read all the posts and I’ve been following some of the advice when it comes to an aquarian male. I just had a few questions. Supposedly an aquarian male doesn’t get jealous…but what if it’s really subtle but they do? Like telling me that he wasn’t going to introduce me to one of his co-workers because I might like him better. What does that mean? And I keep reading where aquarian males are “big talkers” which I take that as in this guy’s case, he says he wants to be able to date anyone who ask, yet is he really interested in doing that??? I’ve been really trying to play it calm, cool and collective which isn’t an easy thing for a virgo like me. I am very open with my feelings. Ex: “He’s going on a trip this weekend and I told him I would be good while he’s gone. His reply: Don’t be getting all commitment-like on me and that I was free to do what I wanted and so was he (with a wink and an lol thrown in to the reply). But does he really want to? And when is it that he decides he doesn’t need to talk to anyone else anymore besides me? He and I have been texting non-stop for weeks, have been out together and yet I wonder if he’s still talking to other women in a “more-than-friends” way. If you all can tell, I really like this guy but I’ve never had to work this hard in NOT telling my feelings because I’m afraid it will push him away. I had read one of the posts on here from an aquarian male saying that they WANT to hear our feelings. I don’t get it! lol Anyway, any help will definitely be appreciated. Thanks!
September 5th, 2009 at 7:29 pm
Hello,
I’m new here, and i just wanted to read some comments that were on here. Well anyways i have a few questions here. IM a male aquarius, a close friend with a virgo. she is one of my best friend sister. Yeah i know wierd.So we know each other for a long time, like 4yrs. But we just started hanging out with each other with in the last year and a half, just the both of us. i wasnt in to her back then, but now we hanging out with each other. I find my self really liking her. I also know she have feelings for me. But we just dont know what to do about it. I mean it just wierd my best friend sister, and now she is my best friend. Im thinking it could be alot more. But i just dont want to make the wrong move and ask her to be my gf, and have it blow up in my face. plus have our friendship on the line. cause if i ask her and she just wanted to be friends and nothing more. then i would just put our friendship on the line. Yet again i just have a good feeling we can be something much more. We have alot of fun together when we are with each other, she know just about everything about me, and i also know just about everything about her. We do flirt with one another. but thats about as far as it goes. I think we both scare of getting hurt.
Well anyways i just need some advise… So if anyone can give me there input, i would be greatly appreiated….
September 9th, 2009 at 11:43 am
In a lot of books i have read about virgo and aquarius suggest they do not get along but recently i realised the fact that im aquarius and my best friend is a virgo and we get a long quite well i love how caring virgos can be towards others. Her bf is also aquarius and his best friend is a virgo. My mum also mentioned her best friend through her life was also a virgo and shes aqaurius as well. There must be something missed although this is a small example, both star signs seem to pair very well as friends and lovers…
September 16th, 2009 at 2:45 am
I met an aquarian girl 1 week ago, so far it’s pretty good i mean we joke and laugh with each other and we both know our limits to do and what not to do.
There is a great connection between aquarians and virgo people i think on a mental wave.
We are both slightly reserved but we enjoy the cuddles and kisses becuase we rarely show our emotions to others and we both know deep down inside we love being in love and beeing loved
Perect match i would say it’s like we can read each others minds, it’s amazingly awesome
September 20th, 2009 at 4:00 pm
Hi 86aquarius,
I’m a Virgo and my best guy friend is an aqua and I understand the connection. It is in many levels. Virgos may take a little longer to fall in love, but when they do they fall hard. Aquas can usually sense very well the feelings of the person they are with. So, I would say that whatever your gut instinct is, is probably correct.
September 20th, 2009 at 6:47 pm
I should say that I’m in love with my aqua friend, but I never told him. I can’t. He is married and has a child. But if circumstances were different, I would defenetly put my heart out there for him. Is better to know than not know. Is better to live life fully and totally than regret later that you never had the guts and therefore never had the experience. Aquas and virgos are unusual together. There is such chemestry and connection is impossible to pretend isn’t there. My advise would be go for it! She feels it too.
September 20th, 2009 at 8:11 pm
Im an Agaurian guy mad in lov with a virgo girl …but i have to say that i have to agree and disagree with the prediction..apart from her i know 4 other virgo women …. barring mine ..all are robotic about cleaning …none of them is faithfull to their respective partners…all are very practical, smart, materialistic to their core, money always scores over love, manupulative, clever but not intelligent, FULL of EGO & SuPER Ego and Vengence, ..Passionate about sex, ..fall for every second man with money or power, self obsessed to theor core, and yest Control freaks …mine one is all of the above barring cleaning…but we have grt sexual chemistry, she is more experimental, more self indulgent than others, but not a giver at all, very self centered, a taker and spender types, i have only seen 1 out 10 virgos i know being large hearted rest all of them are more practical & selfish kinds…
..and yes our relationship is a disaster inspite of all the love we have for each other…she lacks trust and does every thing to break my trust…
..i cant think of someone else …but with such situation can’t move forward also …any suggestions from virgo girls ..how to handle mine…though the sample size is very small ..but the conclusion from my experiance of virgo girls …is that that they are anything but loyal?? are there any loyal virgo women out there????
cheers
c
September 21st, 2009 at 12:18 am
Where do you find these ladies? I’m a Virgo and I’m the complete opposite. If you don’t really respect each other, whatever you have won’t last long…..
September 24th, 2009 at 7:38 pm
i have to admit that this is such interesting insight regarding the virgo woman w/ the aquarius man’s compatiability & the like for i am the virgo woman & have been in relations w/ four different aquarius men in the last 12 yrs, and i was beginning to think it was definitely a loss cause, but wat fares w/ these four aquarius men, that i find a commonality with the exception it being ME, that there personality traits gives me a challenge unlike any other sign.
true enough that aquarius men r loyal, gr8 conversationalist, & passionate lovers. for me, these r such PLUSes in my book, but what they also lack is empathy, totally standoffish about their emotions, & having their own “time table” of sorting out issues. being the virgo woman, i obviously am put off by these “quarks”, so it becomes of a challenge which in my own twisted head, i translate it to staying steadfast & pursue the battle. i have learned that i can b jst as stubborn, non-chalant, & impatient as an aquarius man, perhaps it’s my upbringing & past experiences that makes me…well, ME!
oh, and in case you’re wondering why these relationships failed miserably is that two of the four aquarius men turned out to be psychotic obsessors, whereas the other two were so focused on improving their craft, that i couldn’t wait for them to step into action with the words they project.
don’t get it twisted now, i’m still lookin’ for love — but i’m well-prepared in handling aquarius men but it can b such a daunting task that i find sumway internally to make it happen.
October 24th, 2009 at 3:08 pm
Virgo sun/Virgo rising/Capricorn moon - greetings, earthlings!
I completely disagree with this statement: “The Virgo lover can be somewhat prudish and reluctant to experiment sexually, never-mind talking dirty and expressing pent up fantasies. That will not happen!”
Virgo’s EXTERIOR “prudishness” is a misinterpretation - remember, we are EARTH signs - sensual! - and it is oversimplifying and ignorant to assume that “Virgo” means virginal. In fact, our symbol is one of abundance and fecundity (look it up).
Just because we are not vulgar or crass or trashy in public - that doesn’t mean we’re not horny as hell. We just don’t need to flaunt it, or roll around in the gutter!
Once you are lucky enough to get one of us into the bedroom - and granted, it’s not always easy (unless you’re a Taurus - sigh!) - you have won the sexual lottery, my friend.
October 25th, 2009 at 1:55 am
Hi, I am an Aquarius girl, with ascendant i Scorpio. For me I have to say Scorpio men rules. I finally come to this conclusion that I cannot live with them, but oh yes, we can dance between the sheetes.My first boyfriend was Scorpio, we had an on an off relationship for almost five years. We couldnt be together, and we couldt be apart. We had nothing in common, and he critized for me for all between heaven and earth, but sex glued us together. Since him, there have been several of Scorpios, and I have to say, they NEVER dissapoint me in bed. Even the shyest of them.. If they are not all there with exsperience, they ALWAYS have a great potensial. I have had great sex with CApricorn too, I feel they are more black and white. One of those guys was younger than me, and talk a lot about punishment, it was creepy in a cool way. He was also very brave, and curios. It was wild! The only problem, was the direction, and the speed of where we where going. Everytime we had sex, we took it a little bit longer. I am quite sure, that it would have ended in a cathastrophe. hm
I am good in bed. I have had grateful girls thanking me for educating boys in sexual pleasure. Boys who have been lovers of mine, and later turn up as some girls I knows, boyfriend
For me the list is like this. On the top, Scorpio,Lions,Capricorns,Aries, CAnser
October 29th, 2009 at 12:37 am
I am a Virgo girl have just started dating an Aqua man….and let me tell you I have been absolutely smitten from the very beginning. We connect on an intellectual and spiritual level that is amazing. Also, the physical PASSION is intense… once we are alone together we cannot help but to touch and be close to each other. Also, all day long we are flirtatious and we always make each other laugh. I can’t help but to feel in love with him, even though it hasn’t even been a month. We are complete opposites in many ways, but that is what is so attractive. Funny thing is, we are not only opposites with personality traits, but physically as well. He is TWICE my size!!! I am 5′1″ and he is more than 6 feet tall… and we love it that way. I think he enjoys feeling “on top” and I love being “on the bottom”…so it’s perfect. Also, we give each other our space, yet still are so close even if we haven’t spoken for a long time. I love my Aqua man!! The only thing I don’t like…is how he has so many female friends… I get outrageously jealous,but I never let him know… because I know he would not like that. He doesn’t know how i feel about his female friends….. and i never will mention it, unless it becomes a problem.
We try to understand each others differences… so it works out.
This is a very INTRIGUING, exciting, and magnetic relationship…if you are attracted to an Aquaman and you are a Virgo woman… I suggest TRYING IT OUT!!!
Good luck
November 18th, 2009 at 5:19 pm
I AM AN AQUARIUS WOMAN WITH A VIRGO MAN. YES SOME OF THE THINGS THEY SAY ARE TRUE BUT WE ARE VERY GOOD TOGETHER. YES HE IS THE TIDY ONE AND I TEND TO BE LAZY BUT WE DONT BUMP HEADS ABOUT IT. I AM VERY EMOTIONAL PERSON SO THAT PART IS NOT TRUE EITHER. AND IN THE BEDROOM HE IS WILD AND IS NOT RESERVED AT ALL.
November 21st, 2009 at 1:28 am
I am a Virgo woman dating an Aquarius man and it’s not been good and I have decided to end the relationship. It’s been interesting to read the very things that the V/A love about each other but in my opinion, it has stifled me as a person. My Aquarian guy is very controlling, extremely emotional (to the point of making extremely outrageous threats) and doesn’t care a bit about a clean or organized home. C’mon,there has to be some standards! My guy tells me I am too organized and clean and lack in emotion. I know there is truth to that but it’s gotten to a point of trust for me so adios my Aquarius .. never again will I be involved with the likes of you. He can take his over-the-top dreamer mind to someone else.
November 30th, 2009 at 1:06 am
Boy was I glad when I stumbled upon this site…here I was, having met the most amazing man, thinking I wasn’t meant to be with him because everywhere else says it shouldnt work!…so I thought I was imagining crazy things such as an Aqua really being in love with a Virgo….everywhere else says they only last as affairs…
I’d hate to think this man I met was an affair…technically it might have been…but my memories of being with an Aqua was like finding my other half…Intellectually there are amazing similarities…and hiting the same wavelength is almost bliss…I loved the fact that in some respects he was the exact opposite…he was just the messiest person i’ve ever met, n granted im messy myself but him…hahah….no words describe the mess!…where he was spontaneous and unpredictable i was constanly wondering and just going nutz!! haha…he drove me crazy but he taught me how to be less of a worry wart and more of a enjoy the moment and tomoro is a new day type of person…and thats a big change…I’ve never been bored with this relationship because the learning curve is constantly on…and judging from other peoples comments I guess I can say that he learnt many things too…
The problem I keep hearing about however is thr crit, the insecurity and the cautiousness…
Tip:
When a Virgo critizises its only because they care to notice…they don’t neccessarily want to change you I think its more the fact that they notice it and some of them try to understand it whereas others are just annoyed by it and just need to let it out…they’ll get over it eventually or just get used to it!
the thing is Virgo’s carries the criticism against them, with them forever and work on it constantly to be a better person..so that’s why I think virgo analyses and crits so often…
I’m learning how to hold back my crit…so mayb thats why me n my Aqua had a lot of fun…my biggest regret was not opening up…he gave me soo many opportunities and he always told me how he felt about me…and it was amazing to me…It was amazing that an Aqua could be into a Virgo!! lol…at the time I wasnt sure what to make of it…
The space that they need takes some getting used to but I was totally willing to try…the distance in emotion stung a little from time to time…but they’re so affectionate when they get into it…sex…HA! sex…there is no sex like it when it comes to a virgo willing to experiment and an Aqua!! lol! I think i made him dizzy with lust as someone else said!!… The humour is hilarious…
Has anyone else noticed that they sleep alot?!! haha…I loved that…Virgo’s like a little romance sometimes but when an Aqua gives them a gift or even just a talk or a moment of their time its better than romance…I think we appreciate little things much more than the normal gestures of love…and since they’re unpredicatable…its usually incredible…
I believe in my Aquarius…i’ve never had so much faith in anyone in my whole life…They’re outlook on life is interesting and I know I had some money issues with him but nothin pleased me more than being there for him…my favourite thing was driving him nuts…it was nice for change!!
an Aqua brings adventure to Virgo’s life…so for a Virgo craving safety, Aqua’s aint the best option…
Being a Virgo and being appreciated by the Zodiac’s most unpredictable and talked about sign…its pretty sexy stuff!! There’s nothing more satisfying than being loved for who you are faults and all…I never tried to change he never tried to change me…yes there would’ve been alot fighting and nit picking…but at the end of the day…if everything was perfect it wouldn’t be fun right?
So for all those who have fallen in love with the Aquarius man and loved every minute of it…understanding is wat kept the differences from irritating eachother, so ther’s something to think about!
It’s passionate, intriguing, unpredictable, exciting and it’d be the most amazing experience one would ever have (if they really wanted it of course)
Gd luck to everyone in love with them!!! I’ll never forget mine!!
x
December 2nd, 2009 at 5:00 pm
I’ve been with my aquarian guy for 3 years now.We are both 26. never been so happy. We both talk about marriage all the time, kids, etc. I cant picture having such a successful realationship with anyone else. The only differene is that he does always want to be in groups and I like our alone time, but we compromise. Everyone has there differences. Other than that no complaints.
-Virgo girl
December 2nd, 2009 at 5:02 pm
oh another thing, virgo’s are supposed to be organized, I’m not. My aquarius is the organized one, he helps me with that.
December 11th, 2009 at 12:18 am
I love reading all these comments bout the compatability ov these 2 signs lol
YES I’m an aquarius girl & I’ve met the most caring, sensitive, loveing & obviously TIDY Virgo man!!!! I had jus come out ov a 5 year relationship with an aquarius man & yes!!! itz true wat they sey bout aquarius & aquarius being in a relationship they are better off jus being friends!! There two a like 4 all the wrong reasons lol but we had fun I suppose lol!!! Newayz back 2 my amazing Virgo man!!! Whom by the way I didn’t know woz a Virgo until the other day sssoo Reading all these comments about Virgos made me laugh & agree 2 all of them ssoo much lol. Yes he iz v tidy I thort it woz jus the fact that he iz quite abit older than me sssooo he’s a bit more mature but obviously not lol it’s jus his sign hahaha we work well 2gether i make the mess & he tidys it lol!!! Itz a weird combination these 2 signs but wondful experience sssoo far 4 me a man who’s serious, mature, kind & easy 2 talk 2 lol itz also v scary the way we talk 4 hours & he laughs constantly @ my nt ssoo funny jokes & bubbly personality lol he adores staring @ me & never wants me 2 leave!!! Maybe he iz a little 2 serious 4 my liking but I’m n aquarius girly that’s had nnoo attention or love from my previous aquarius man!! N I like the difference between these 2 signs after all us aquarius r known 4 our lndividuality n these relationship will sure be different n challenging enuf 4 me!!! 
lol on the other hand I am worried 2 a certain point that he probably will gt mad @ me 4 my messyness n he’ll probably get annoyed by my bubbly, imatture sense of humour but I suppose worrying about this only makes me more determained 2 make it work!!!!!!!!!!x (oh n by the way us aquarius r nt detached @ all ow cn we b if wer caring & fun-living lol)
December 16th, 2009 at 4:17 am
@ Jez. *
I am a 27 virgo woman of course intrigued by an aqua male. I read every ones post and found them all helpful with understanding my aqua guy who is a year younger than I. after reading ur post I felt like u knew what was on my mind. I havnt knwn my guy but 4 3mnths but I am blown away. I thnk I may be more into him than he is into me because at times he can be so attentive and such a gentalman and others he culd b very distant & aloof. you wuld thnk this wuld drive me away but at times I actually enjoyin this roller coster ride. its something about this mysterious man tht keeps me interested and wanting to crack the code to his heart but the big question is “is it really worth it?”
please help in major need of advice
December 23rd, 2009 at 3:38 pm
To Lovely Virgo,
I would love to help but the thing with Aqua’s is that they’re unpredictable…so i really have no idea what he would think or do in the next 24hrs…
Having said that,
It’s worth it if u want it to be worth it, everything in life is worth it cause its life….being in love with an aqua will be forever enigmatic…and since i happen to notice details, i tend to read into things too much…so if u do tht, avoid thinking just bask in the moment!
The more space you can give him the better he’ll respond to it, and wen he does want the affection be sure to be ther wen he wants it….i kno it sounds a little ‘compliant’ but keeping as aloof from him as he is to you doesnt work too well in the long run…but if to the best of my knowledge, i kno it drove mine crazy to begin with!
With an aqua its just the right amount or otherwise itd be too much… :)and do share , throw cautiousness to the wind (if u can or as much as you can) and be the spontaneous self u know u wana b!!
Now im not neccesarily sayin its a happy ever after but its an experience you wouldnt forget if things dont turn out the way you wanted it to.
All in all, is the roller coaster ride worth the effort and the constant craziness goin on in our heads? If you become a better person in the process is it not worth it?
Hope it helps!!
wish you both all the happiness in the world if u find it xo
January 9th, 2010 at 10:55 pm
This is 4 Jez!! Happy New Year!
Thanks so much for the comment! I have let go…. considerably… Now I move on my feelings filtered but not bleached to ensure its not to much… The responses that I have gotten has been amazing. I’m the type of woman who is simple and a little goes a very long way especially if its the little that I consider most important. Although he is still not in convenient reach because he travels a lot. knowing that he’s still into me and is there for me is enough at this moment. its still new and I am enjoying the ride…
As I told him no matter where we end up in life I would never forget the feeling he gave me & reminded me that there are still good guys out there.
Thanks again JEZ!!!!!
January 20th, 2010 at 12:09 am
I am a virgo women, I love my aquaruis man, and he says he loves me too. In fact he says it first alot of the time so I suppose I shouldnt be so worried. Its only been 2 mnths, he just came out of an 11 year relationship in about June 2009 and has 2 kids with her. She moved out and took off on him, but then started looking after the kids again as his job doesnt allow for a normal daycare and he suffered great financial difficulty during the 3 mnths she disappeared. She recently moved back in because she was evicted, she is with someone whom she has been with since she left him and is pregnant with his child. However her bf obtained a place beginning of january and she is still in my mans house, I think she is using him. She is completely aware of me, and I trust my guy fully. But when we first met he was so much more into talking to me, constantly texting me, going on msn pretty well any time he could. The last 2 weeks though he barely talks to me at all… and he came over no less than 3 days a week to see me, this last week i only seen him once. I am really worried he has lost interest in me, even though he still tells me he loves me when we actually do talk, i asked him and he says he hasn’t just has been really busy. He wont demand his ex leave, and she keeps saying she doesnt know when she is going to, he says he believes she will disappear on her kids when she goes… I understand, but I am really frustrated and worry constantly. I am not sure if I should just leave it be, Ive already expressed how I feel… I just feel like hes drifting away, and I feel like if I just let us have little contact I will lose him. Not sure what I expect from explaining this, I think this is just something I have to deal with, yet I am very confused.
January 24th, 2010 at 3:50 am
This is for Virgo 23….
How do you know that she knows about you.
When did she leave?
When did she actually come back?
Have you ever been to his house or introduced to his kids?
I as as a virgo i tend to be very picky when choosing lovers but when I find that special some one I just can’t help but to fall head over heals no matter the time frame. U just know. However at times when I am in love… love allows me to over look some flaws that I am totally aware of. Be true to yourself. What do you think is going on? We are very observant and analytical & love confirmation. I say go with your gut feeling.
January 25th, 2010 at 7:34 am
To Lovely Virgo,
Happy belated New Year and sorry for the late reply!
I’m so happy for you and all the best for the rest of the time you spend with him!! I’m glad you found the best in the Aquarians, there’s nothing like it
And for as for Virgo23 I do believe LovelyVirgo asked some important questions!
Let us know
Look forward to hearing from you both soon XO
February 4th, 2010 at 4:27 pm
hi! i’m a virgo-libran and the guy i luv is an aquarius-pisces.
February 4th, 2010 at 5:06 pm
i’m inluv with my boyfriend whose an aquarius, who i’ve known since i was 12, i’m 16 now (i don’t think i’m spelling it properly T^T), i luv being around him, he’s unpredictable and to me that makes it fun, i like abit of mystery and not knowing what’s gonna happen next (unless it’s horror films, cuz i’m scared of them lol), wen we’re alone he’s quite affectionate (i think that’s the word i’m looknig for) and romantic, (he plays with my hair alil bit, my hairs soft so i think that’s probably y he plays with it lol).
about him: he’s very funny, he’s unpredictable, stubborn, quick tempered (around me he’s calm, i seem to do that to everyone for some reason, i do find him arguing with someone cuz sometimes he doesn’t know i’m there cuz i’m round the corner behind from him lol we tend to run into eachother), he’s very selfless, wen something goes wrong he blames himself (i keep telling him everything that goes wrong isn’t his fault, he sort of listens), he is intelligent, sweet but puts on a sort of tough act wen everyone else is around (i think he’s shy, cuz wen ppl tease him he goes bright red lol wich is cute), he does sleep alot, and he eats alot, he’s abit lazy with chores, but that doesn’t really bother me, i’m a messy-clean person (basically half of the rooms messy wile the other halfs not, i sort of can’t be bothered to do the mess myself but i end up doing it cuz i like to move, he doesn’t make much mess, cuz i kinda sulk in a corner (literally) wen i see a big mess (after an hour i stop sulking and do the mess, my best friends (who are all 3 pisces and 2 aquarius, doesn’t include my aquarius guy though) make the mess mostly, wen i sulk my aquarius offers to help alil (sometimes he asks, depends how he’ feeling) i usually say no and that he can chill out if he wants (i don’t like making other ppl clean up my stuff that ppl hav messed around with, i think it’s sort of rude in away, since their guests), after saying that, he lets me do the mess.
about me: i’m not critical or detached, i’m just shy and i only get quick tempered if someones cruel to the ppl i care for, i know it sed aquarius’s r dreamers and virgos aren’t, but i’m a big dreamer, wen i’m bored u’ll just see me sat there with a blank look on my face (though i’ll come back to reality if someone calls my name). according to ppl i’m a very sweet, caring, funny person, some ppl even call me bubbly, also givs good advice and understanding, some ppl call me weird but i usually say to them “i know that’s y ppl luv me” lol, anyway if i see anyone crying or getting physically hurt i’ll stop wat i’m doing and go straight over to see wat’s wrong, and try and put the smile back on the persons face (i know wen someones giving a true smile or fake)and i giv them advice about how to deal with the problem, i hate seeing ppl sad, it’s like i’m being torn inside.
about me and my aqua: we met at skool, we weren’t close at first, he didn’t really smile much it was rare to see him smile, after a week, i realized he hasn’t smiled at all, and i decided that i was gonna try and get him to smile a true smile. eventually i got him to smile, (i kinda went hyper and started doing a lucky dance alil lol) he opened up to me alil, and after a year he asked me out, i had fallen for him after getting to know him for 4 months, i was too shy to tell him, anyway i sed yea to him, and he was really happy about it, after a few months he showed me y he was so sad (lets say something bad happened in his life, i promised i woodn’t tell anyone unless i knew them or if he didn’t want me too tell them. also i found out that he hasn’t really had much affection, besides his mother in his life, his father kinda tossed him aside, i understood y he found it hard to get close to ppl, he also told me he was worried that i mite run away from him, (i’d never do that!!) i told him “that i’d never leave him even if someone offered me all the money in the world” (money’s important for food and that but i’d choose him over money =_=, same goes for friends but i’d go for him even if someone threatened to kill me) i got him to blush alil, and he looked alil shocked (i’m not sure if he was shocked but he looked it) i knew he was happy to hear that (i know it’s abit cheesy but he’s a sensitive guy so i had to say wat i truly feel), we haven’t had sex yet (cuz we’re both shy and waiting till later) i also found out he hasn’t had a girlfriend before me, so i feel lucky.
btw he’s quicktempered (for some reason not around me) and i’m a drama-queen
February 4th, 2010 at 5:09 pm
i luve my aqua guy so much, and i hope to be with him foreva, i didn’t tell him i loved him until a year later after we got together, he had told me 9 months after we got together) (pooey that was alot of writing!)
February 4th, 2010 at 5:10 pm
ps. i luv everything about him
February 4th, 2010 at 5:19 pm
i did say more to him wen he told me that he was scared i’ll run away i did tell him that i’d also never leave him cuz i luv him to much to leave him, and that i want to stay by his side (oh i do giv him personal space, he has told me that he’d like to spend some days by himself just to get things done, i understood and on them days i do collage work or go see my friends, we don’t see eachother 2-3 times a week)
February 4th, 2010 at 5:28 pm
oh i forgot he’s loyal and passionate (i’m loyal and passionate too, lol we’re similar and not similar)
February 11th, 2010 at 2:18 am
Hi i am a virgo girl and i have been datin a aquarius guy
for about 4 months.At the begining there was a instint attraction
and we talked on the phone for hours.Our sexual attraction
was a different story of course.i was more of the filthy and
freaky type ,he was more of the make love type,he got better over time.He fell in love with
me after the second week we was dating.I cant honestly say he is the type
of person that takes the time to understand me completely.He never judges
me and always forgives me for all my mistakes.We can laugh for hours about the
smallest things and he always puts my feelings first.however,he is really attached
to me and can sometimes become a little clingy,for this relationship to work all
i really need is my space because my temper can became crazy.Also he can be a little
bit more persisstent and less lazy.i am the type of person that lives for the momment
and need somebody thats is more aggressive and a tad bit emoutional.Besides that we can probably work out if we put aside our differences and respect each others wishes to agree and make some change.
February 11th, 2010 at 3:42 am
aaagh yes, i’m so glad to see these personal responses, initially seeing all of the virgo aquarius compatibility issues i was worried. i just started dating a virgo man, and he is amazing. conversation is never lacking, and he is so kind and reassuring. we are both extremely attracted to one another, and this time i’m taking it slow because he’s worth it. i’ve never met some one so great! we are having the most amazing adventures, and i really do feel comfortable in his presence.
March 8th, 2010 at 2:26 am
I’m a virgo woman and have only truly loved an aquarius man. He was slow and methodical when . pursuing me, I was aloof and patient waiting for him to give me his all. Once he was sure about me and I was open to receive him; it was magic. He became confident, attentive, loving, giving, etc., I became open, outgoing, uninhibited, and very sensual. He is very shy, but is talkative and funny when he gets to know you. He says I love you with his eyes, but it took forever for him to say it, now he won’t stop. I said I love you immediately, not caring if he loved me back, but knowing that he did, but just was preserving his heart for “the one”. When he knew I was the one and only one for him, he proposed 3 times before I said yes. He was relentless and patient in his pursuit and he never loved any of the women he was ever with, none of them compared to me, as told by him. The mental conversations are incredible, the sexual relations are caring, pleasing, spontaneous, and practically pornographic and fantasy driven. It is a perfect combination, unlike my 7 year run with a Cancer Man.
March 10th, 2010 at 6:52 am
I agree more virgo woman seem to be compatiable with aqua men unless it’s just more woman write on this site, my question here is ? Is my husband a leo or a virgo he shows traits from both signs, it spins my head some days im inlove somedays i want a divorce. we seperated for six months but i wouldnt file. were together now and trying but his bday is 8/22 the las day of leo on the cusp of both signs??? anyone encounter the same deal. my baby is a virgo girl my dad virgo my mom leo my sister aqua like me and her husband a truer leo its a tight bonded circle lol! ok thanks everyone
April 8th, 2010 at 3:43 am
You know, my mother is a Virgo and my father is an Aquarius; they’ve been happily married for thirty years. Far from being unaffectionate, they used to embarrass my sisters and I with their constant PDAs. And while my mother admitted that it took them a while to get used to each other’s little peculiarities, she thinks that made the relationship stronger.
They’re living proof of why you can’t take these sort of facile analysis seriously. There’s more to a person than his or her sun sign. Anyone who bases their relationships on these sites is an idiot.
May 20th, 2010 at 4:06 pm
Im an Aquarius woman whose just started dating a male Virgo.
Before we even began dating though, we had been friends for about a year before either of us got up the nerve to ask the other out. He’s about a year younger than myself, and i’ve got to admit, the blushing cheeks and the stutter really touched me.
Right from the start I liked him and there was always this spark between the two of us which intensified the longer we were around each other.
When i found out that he was a virgo though, i was like ‘DAMN’, but i’ve got to admit, since we’ve started dating, he’s really brought out the emotional side in me and i’ve actually found that i like it, before we met, i was probably the most distanced person you could have come across.
At times i wonder if we’re even on the same planet, cause there are moment where i’ll just stand there and shake my head at him cause in my mind he’s a dick (sorry for the language).
But he laughs at my dry jokes, he shuts up when i need him too and I love the fact that he is so incredibly awkward around me.
Im glad i went ahead with my virgo lover despite the negative response to our sun sign compatibility. I know im not the first to wonder if our signs could work out well together.
June 16th, 2010 at 8:27 pm
I’m a virgo and I’m quite close to this aquarius guy. Outwardly it seems that he’s the more organized planner while I’m the iddle, vivacious, capricious one in the relationship. How is this so?
June 20th, 2010 at 12:31 pm
I am a Virgo woman, who has been dating an Aquarius man since January. I agree with so many others here, that a Virgo-Aqua match can be much better than most reviews make it seem.
But we can go on and on and play with each other all the time- lots of PDA- and we really enjoy the physical closeness and warmth we share. 
My Aqua man is also shy, very reserved and careful emotionally in the relationship. We actually dont have that trait that manyh others mention- which is the ability to talk for hours on end. I attribute this to his having a ton of psices in his chart- and I knwo that they are extremely secretive and sort of live things out internally but dont necessarily share it.
But, when we do talk- when I divulge somethign personal to him- he is such an excellent listener and gives such wonderful advice and truly cares about me and supports me. He is very empathetic and takes note of everything.
I have to agree about that “something” between us, that can actually get stronger with time. I have not been able to get away from this relationship LOL even when early on, I didnt think it was going to amount to anything.
I also agree witht he Virgo woman being the initiator in the sex department. Funny LOL that is still true! He is so respectful of me and my space or interests that I typically have to pull him to bed when I need him
I am watching how this relationship is slowly becoming deeper and more real– as in, not just based on some wave of lust or fireworks and dynamite. This is mroe of a true long-term relationship that doesnt die when the novelty wears off; one where we both open our eyes and learn abotu the other person and grow together. We figure each other out just a little bit more each time we see each other; slowly we see the millions of little things abotu each other that makeus who we are.
Sadly I have only had one other ‘relationship’ to which I can compare this one– to a gemini man. And he was so chaotic and selfish, that I cant imagine him ever really getting past the surface of things with me. But, that could be a matter of chemistry together, though- because everyone falls in love at some point and maybe it just wasnt meant to be with me, right…
All in all I say I am very disappointed with all the terrible and dooming compatibility reports about Virgo and Aquas together. Really, our relationship is a whole lot better with a lot more potential than it seems. Yes, I usually do al the dishes- but after he cooks a wonderful meal.
And yes, he has a squeegie board on teh wall in his living room, where he scribbles all his ideas and inspiration- he is a software developer. But does he love me? Yes. Do I love him? Yes. Are we happy together? Yes indeed. I love my aquarius man. 
June 20th, 2010 at 12:42 pm
Oh and abotu the “clingy” behaviors reported abotu Virgos– LOL!! I just realized this in myself. I am teh virgo, and yeah I do text or write him more than he does me; and I can start to feel unimportant or ignored because of this imbalance. I have decided to scale it back, though. I have been “spoiling” him in terms of attention and time I give to him, so I am now matching my level of engagement to his. This is both to respect his space and person, and to brign myself back down to earth and not let my insecurities get the better of me. I also have Leo in both venus and mars so I am already a demanding lover, who wants attention attention atention and involvement all the time. But I can change that, and, after reading other peoples similar stories it REALLY helps to know that this isnt just me and that I suppose the aquas aloof nature can just kind of bring that out of a virgo person. Yeah Virgos are a bit ‘neurotic’ — they can get stuck thinking or worryign about things– and that includes another person or a relationship– and that in turn becomes more texting and writing etc. We can get caught up inside of situations and not be able to step outside or above of them. But I am learning from my aqua guy
who has such a stable attitude about the relationship, that I dont have to worry about anythign and that he really does care, even if he doesnt ’show it’ in the same fussy/demanding way that I would… LOL
June 22nd, 2010 at 8:13 pm
I’m a Virgo girl..and I have to say…
I LOVE AQUARIUS GUYS.
And Very passionate in bed, I found. 
They’re SEXY (often they’re very attractive in the face and with nice lean,powerful bodies), QUIRKY (make me laugh hysterically), ORIGINAL (mentally, i connect with them in their intelligence and originality) POWERFUL (as in they know what they want and are focused), and INNOVATIVE & DIFFERNT. I need a man who is quirky and is ahead of everybody else with his unique attitude and approach to life; who is not afraid to run in the middle of the road with his arms open wide ready for adventure and thought. And all the Aqua guys I’ve spent extended time with are messy but do notice the mess and will force themselves to get shit done eventually. (They wash dishes and laundry faster than I would o.O) OH, and they are very SMOOTH with Words!! Very very charming and a little unpredictable
I find they can be a bit needy once ur official. However, it’s ok to Talk openly about this with them, and they don’t get offended like other signs. I happen to be a very open, fun/mystery-loving and breezy Virgo, mostly becuz of my environment and people around me and if i’m not then im screwed xP.
Ugh…I guess I have a bit of a crush right now…but he’s my ex’s brother and joining the army soon! So he’s really, really off-limits. Oh well. I’ll get over him reasonably fast, but I would like a sexy Aqua to have loads of fun with this summer!
Peace yo -~Mads
June 22nd, 2010 at 8:18 pm
I’d also like to add: the moodiness can come along for Aquarian guys. Once they get a dark thought it tends to stick. However they tend to this at a time that doesn’t bother me or us, and they get upset for real reasons, not like pisceans or aries. I don’t mind giving them space, I hate clinginess myself and need my own space too. They are appreciative and loving when you help them, deep down, and I always love to help and watch my Aqua fly
June 26th, 2010 at 4:56 am
What about an Aquarius woman and a Virgo man?!
July 2nd, 2010 at 8:17 am
I have been dating a Virgo guy for a short time now and while some of the things about our signs hold true, such as his need for punctuality and my need for a life driven by intuition and whims, and our mutual need for intellectual stimulation, there are many other things I am unsure of. He is super sensitive, as am I, but I reach out for love, while he runs from intimacy. He wants to be loved, but shows fear. I think with my heart, while he intellectualizes things to death. But I have a tendency to let my dark side ruminate and he is excellent at bringing me back to the light. I wish I could say the same, that I knew how to make him smile whenever he is down. We are both super manipulative and sometimes allow one another to take advantage. We have a strong connection, what I believe is a deep love. But will it last? Ha…that is a question I wish I knew the answer to. I don’t know. I can say though, if it doesn’t, it will be on his part, not mine. We are still hammering out the communication issues. I shut down and clam up sometimes, while he gets angry and builds walls. We can both be verbally abusive, and are both incessantly clingy. But when things are good, we can talk about anything and everything. I am super motivated and work against all odds. He talks a lot, but shows little motivation. Still, he is my best friend and I wouldn’t want to change a thing about him. I guess only time will tell.
July 8th, 2010 at 5:36 am
I’m so happy to see so many aquarius-virgo relationships work!!! Yay!!!
I am a virgo, and he is an aquarius. We are not in a relationship–and I don’t suspect we will end up in one–but we have a sexual relationship, and I’ve never been happier. This man is considerate, funny, and a great conversationalist . . . and whoa, clean. I love that he leads a very simple life, and I think he appreciates my artistic side. We are very attracted to each other, and I didn’t think I would think this, but he makes me feel safe and love.
He has great energy, and I strive to match up to it. The key is this virgos, it seems: be optimistic and CONFIDENT. He loves my smile, and he makes me smile a lot. And he makes me feel very feminine, and I have no shame about it.
I wonder when this will all fade, but I know one thing . . . he is a good man. He is a loner, and I think he wants to be a bachelor for the rest of his life. But he will be happy. He takes excellent care of himself, and it really inspires me.
All this is coming from me after passing a few times with an aquarius man. I used to think the world of scorpio and pisces men, but let’s face it–they’re impossible. Aquarius is kind like a pisces and practical like a capricorn. He is crazy in bed, and he is just as cold and distant as a virgo. It’s heaven and earth, baby.
July 18th, 2010 at 10:51 am
So I am awake at 4am because like a true Virgo I worry and dwell on issues, especially when they concern my Aquarius man. I found this message board and am very happy to see similar experiences.
Just a little background…my man and I have been together for over 2 years now, but the first year was definitely bumpy. After reading some fellow Virgo girls’ experiences, such as Virgo Girl Infatuated with Aquarius Man, I know the distant nature of Aquarius all too well. He wanted me and we were in constant contact, and then radio silence…he wanted me and we were in constant contact, and then radio silence. This went on for months. It was not until a series of unfortunate events/mistakes made on his part and almost losing me, did he finally snap out of it and want to commit to me completely.
For the most part, our relationship is great and we connect on both an intellectual and physical level. However, it is a constant struggle to deal with some of the things that make us complete opposites. Most of my frustration stems from the fact that he is a detached, outgoing, spontaneous Aquarius and I am a practical, organized, and reserved Virgo. And of course he doesn’t understand my frustrations, which frustrates me even more!
Moving on, the reason why I am awake right now is that I constantly find myself feeling upset about small things he does, and sometimes I don’t even know why. Maybe it’s a Virgo trait? Sometimes I feel I give more to him than I get back. Or today I felt his outgoing personality overwhelmed me, and in a way overshadowed me to the point that I felt more reserved or not important/neglected. Do any of you other Virgo gals experience this with your Aquarius men? Any advice?
I love him more than anything, and we’ve talked about getting married in the future, but I think we definitely need to find more of a balance between our opposing personalities. Any insight would be appreciated!
July 18th, 2010 at 10:55 am
OMG - Did I screw it up with the Aquarius man? We had a very short fling 10 years ago, I called a halt to it as he just didn’t seem into me enough. He’s tried to keep in touch over the years but I just became available a few months ago. I thought about him a lot over those years, I was completely besotted by him and never really got over him.
I was very pleased to hear from him again and said, yes i would like to see him but did not want to be messed around like last time, no way he says i’m 10 years older and looking for something real. We met it was volcanic, he is affectionate and loving one day then cold and aloof for weeks. I have to practically beg him to spend any face to face time with me, but when we do it;s like i;m the only girl on the planet, as soon as we part it’s like i dropped right off it.
Anyway the 2nd time we meet he says he wants me to move in, we have such a good thing going it should be like this everyday, i say i’m not ready for that and just keep it like this for a while.
Anyway to now, I got so fed up of his distance,and the last canceled meeting that I text him, if he can’t get into us properly, I never want to hear from him again. I have sent at least 3 similar texts over the last couple of months, but I always got back in touch. This was only 2 days ago, and I was regretting it the moment I sent it, then read up about star sign… I know he’s into me A LOT, do I get in touch AGAIN and say I;m sorry, or give it a few days and see if he contacts me?
August 14th, 2010 at 5:24 pm
Absolutely right! I am a Virgo that dated an Aquarius for 10 miserable months. The first few weeks were great, passionate, and full of the right sparks, but when it cooled, it REALLY cooled. My birthday was forgotten about, plans I made had to altered to stop his whining (for instance, I had to forego a concert we both wanted to attend and turn the car around two hours into the 4 hour roadtrip because he had changed his mind). Virgos may aim to serve, but once that cut-off is reached, there is nothing like a Virgo scorned. I started cheating (still hate myself for it), ignored calls, and stayed aloof when we did get together. I even found myself plotting the best, most devastating ways to break up. Oh it was an unhealthy time. Even three years after, my skin crawls if we cross paths and I ask myself “What the hell was I thinking?”
I never thought about the zodiac connection until I realized that all my past Aquarian friendships, etc. sank. It may not be true for everyone, but this Virgo is never going near Aquarius again!
August 19th, 2010 at 8:28 am
I AM A VIRGO WOMAN DATING AN AQUARIUS MAN FOR ALMOST A YEAR NOW, WE JUST RECENTLY MOVED IN TOGETHER AND ARE TALKING ABOUT MARRIAGE.. JUST LIKE MOST OF THE OTHERS THE CONVERSATIONS WERE AMAZING IN THE BEGINNING AND THE SEX, ALL I HAVE TO SAY IS WOOOWWWW, WE BOTH JUST PUT EACH OTHER OVER THE TOP. BUT LATELY THIS IS BECOMING EXAUGHSTING, WE ARGUE OVER NOTHING AND GRANTED WE BOTH HAVE A LOOOT OF STRESS ON US WITH EVERYTHING THAT IS GOING ON, BUT AT THE END OF THE DAY WE ALWAYS MAKE UP AND THINGS ARE GOOD AGAIN, WE REALLY TRUELY LOVE EACH OTHER DEEP DOWN AND WANT IT TO WORK. BUT WITH US HE IS THE ONE WHO IS ORGANIZED AND NEAT AND HARPS ON ME ABOUT NOT HAVING A ROUTINE AND ALWAYS BEING LATE, MAYBE BECAUSE HE IS 10 YRS MY SENIOR, IT WAS SO REFRESHING AT FIRST TO HAVE SOMEONE SO MATURE, BUT NOW I’M LIKE, CRAP, HELP ME IF YOU WANT ME TO BE DIFFRENT DONT JUST CRITISIZE. HE TRIES TO MAKE ME JEALOUS ON PURPOSE. THE WHOLE SOCIAL-NON SOCIAL THING AND ALL I SUPPOSE, ALTHOUGH I AM OUTGOING. HE STAYS AT THE GYM AND IS ALWAYS TELLING ME ABOUT THIS PERSON SAYING THIS OR THAT BUT HE GOES OUT WITHOUT HIS SHIRT ON AND FLAUNTS IT, LIKE HELLO? DO YOU SEE ME RUNNING AROUND IN MY BIKINI AND COMMING BACK TO TELL YOU HOW MANY MEN GAWKED AT ME? SURE THEY’RE GONNA LOOK IF YOU PUT IT ON DISPLAY! WE REALLY TRULY LOVE EACH OTHER DEEP DOWN, BUT I GUESS THIS IS GOING TO COME DOWN TO WHETHER OR NOT WE CAN ACCEPT EACH OTHERS FLAWS FOR WHAT THEY ARE, BECAUSE HE IS LOYAL EVEN IF HE LIKES TO KNOW THAT PEOPLE THINK HE IS HOT, AND I AM ALWAYS THERE EVEN IF I AM NOT ON TIME
August 27th, 2010 at 11:10 am
I am a virgo woman and in love with my Aquarian Partner for over a year and he feels like home to me. Sure we argue but I have argued even with my apparent compatable star sign partners. We have a fantastic mental rappor . Im a older virgo hes an Aquarius 10 years younger I have never felt so happy and content in my life. I can relax and really be myself with him…A fantastic combination
September 7th, 2010 at 5:29 pm
I haven’t dated any Virgo before my Ex: a Sagittarius. But now, we are separated because I don’t want to continue the relationship, somehow feel too heavy for me to lift.
So, sometime around 2 months of being lonely, I met some Virgo women on Facebook, and feel very interested in learning about them as much as possible. This astrology page has such a great inspiration to me because of those positive posts.
Maybe , I will take my chance with a Virgo woman , when the fate knock my door.
October 5th, 2010 at 1:15 pm
Aquarius Woman… met Virgo Man
Let me say how happy I am to see such positive unions here. Me and my man have some of the best communication, and I really value that. The Sexual aspects in our relationship are off the wall… he has written me erotica, and he can talk dirty, and the excitement we have for one another is just awesome…(wonders what his rising sign is..haha). So, trust what you have, and don’t let these downer of a comparisons on this pairing push you two away.
October 8th, 2010 at 12:48 am
Well, I have been in two relationships in the past with Aquarius men. Yes at first we hit it off great. You can talk for hours about anything and there is definitely a mental connection. The sex is explosive(Hot & Passionate)!!! Also being a Virgo I value my space and this goes along well with Aquarians(unlike other signs). So you would think that this is a match made in heaven right…. WRONG. After a couple of months,their true Aquarian sarcastic, narssistic selves comes to light.( I know because I have a family full of them) These men really think it’s all about them. Yes, they are giving and caring at first but then they turn into cold mean assholes that you can’t stand to be around. After putting up with the smart ass nitpicking comments, selfishness, lies, cheating(everyone is a friend) and dumb arguments. I decided to walk away and never turn back. I have a Leo rising, which explains why I keep attracting them. If I meet another one in the future, I’m running the other way. Please don’t waste your time, they are not a good match for Virgos unless you want to be a doormat.
October 21st, 2010 at 5:14 pm
Im a Virgo lass, & obviously Iv been with my Aquarian Boyfriend for a year now, I remember reading one of these compatibility things in the early stages of our relationship, both finding the results (read) to be slightly amusing and at the same time, for myself, concerning…
After a year, of Intense passion, love, fierceness & loyalty to one another, & Yes as mentioned numerous times, THE MOST Intense sexual experiences of my life, (and I am confident the same for him) we are both Very Passionate toward one another, My Aquarian is VERY attentive in the bedroom, I could honestly call him a God in bed, together we are both very sexually & intellectually very Fierce & exactly what any one would want, especially sexually. BUT we also fight ALL the time. This is by far THE Most passionate, intellectual, heartfelt, fiery & Challenging relationship Iv ever experienced.
Altho I do feel love for him, I struggle immensely to understand so many aspects about him. I do believe that together we are perfect in a ‘learning from each other sence’ however we are both way too head strong and at times we clash within moments of being together. This is by far an extremely hard relationship to maintain positively. But the want IS there, the drive for each other IS there,
The intensity IS there, But I feel so cut off and dismissed by his aloofness, his need to shut himself down and the fact that we CANNOT talk about anything… I was sadened to read over and over again about how all of you CAN talk for hours about any and everything… but what can you do.
Together we ARE Lost in our own destructive worlds, we feed off of each others negative traits, which is now driving our relationship ten feet under…. Which i do not want, because i do not want to lose the intensity, in fear i will never find it again. How do we win people…..? Any pointers?? Im in DIRE STRAITS to find out, in order to SAVE what is left between us…. =( But i cant help, being the reserved virgoen that i am, i cant help but want to run in fear that this will only end badly, for both of us, because it IS so intense… Is this really a lose lose situation?
M
December 28th, 2010 at 10:28 am
I have to laugh at all the Virgo women complaining about the Aquarian men and their on-again, off-again unpredictability and detachment and control issues and manipulation, because I’ve dated my share of Virgo men. You want to talk about control issues? These guys have it in spades. They want to organize your life to death, they hate all your female friends, they’re insanely jealous of all your male friends (and I’ve always had a lot of those), they want you to be where they want you when they want you there, but if you need them–POOF! GONE! Heck, I’ve had Pisces boyfriends who were more reliable!
What turned me off Virgo men forever:
I had the Virgo boyfriend who showed up when he felt like it, and it didn’t matter if it meant I sat at home waiting for a boyfriend who didn’t show up for dates HE planned, and gave me lame excuses like being too tired or hanging out with friends at home. Well, that’s what I’d hear after I finally caught up with him by long distance call (back when long distance calls were expensive) to find out where he had been, I waited for his sorry A$$ until 8, then I was the one worried about him, had something happened? No, he was just selfish and couldn’t be bothered to call me with his change of plans.
So my mother has this drunkard Capricorn boyfriend and one of his sons from a previous marriage, a Libra dork that I hated on sight, moved to town to sponge off his dad (Libra men are great at sponging). My mother knows that my Virgo beau has stood me up a couple of times lately, must be over (how true that was), so why don’t I show the Libra dork around town, let him know what we “young people” do on a weekend. We lived in a crappy town down South, nothing to do really, I told her so, but she insists, and throws those childish tantrums Aries women always do, and I finally relented to get her to just shut up.
Wouldn’t you know it: Just as the Libra dork and I are leaving the house when I decided to forget the Virgo and make plans for a weekend rather than get jerked around by him anymore, guess who shows up? The Virgo beau, out of the blue. He gets mad, throws the most terrifying jealous fit I’d see until I made the utterly retarded decision to marry a Cancer man (Scorpio has NOTHING on Cancer in that department!), and he’s going to beat up the Libra dork who was about half the Virgo’s size, and too much of a wimp to fight besides. I calm Virgo down, explain the situation, that it’s not a date, that I’m dressed up because I always dress up–he knows I’m seriously into fashion and looking good, all the time, not just for him. He pretends to accept it. But he doesn’t. Oh no, that’s impossible for a Virgo man. HE STALKS ME TO THE CLUB where I took the Libra dork in the hopes that a backstabber Gemini man-thief would take him off my hands, my usual trick for getting rid of Libra men. All I had to do was smile at him a bit, and the Gemini man-thiefs would be all over him.
At the club, Virgo stares daggers at the Libra dork until the latter goes off in search of the backstabber Geminis, I see one lighting on the Libra dork–I’m free of the moron, and then what does Virgo do? Asks me to marry him. I think about it, try to talk sense into him by asking when we’d do that, why would he want to get married? HE COMES UP WITH A DATE. He loves me! Can’t live without me! I was 19 and stupid, so I said yes. We went to my place and had lots of monkey sex, which I’ve found that Virgo men are really good at, it’s the only good thing about them. He left in the morning, but swore he really did loved me, couldn’t live without me!
And then he vanished. He was never home after that. No phone calls. Nothing. I have some Scorpio in me, so I wished evil on him. It came true–he was in a dreadful auto accident, and couldn’t work anymore. My black little heart did a happy dance. Lesson: Never cross an Aquarian with Scorpio in her chart.
Made note to self: To get rid of a Virgo, say you’ll marry him. It’s worked like a charm ever since. They’ve all run as soon as the subject came up. Never again. NEVER EVER EVER AGAIN.
On the other hand, Virgo women are awesome! They’re usually great friends, and it’s the rare one that is a backstabber or man-thief (death glare at Gemini, Libra and Pisces women).
I’m now married to the most wonderful Aquarian man. He listens and shares and cares and takes care of me. We’ve been married 13 years, and he’s been putting on my socks and shoes for me since we married, and he pouts if I do it myself. Seriously. He’s considerate, and fun and funny. He’s not jealous at all, he’s a homebody, but I can go out with my friends after work, and get wild enough to dance on tables and get wasted, and he’ll only ask when I come home if I had fun. He’s 1000% loyal to me, so I’m loyal right back. I’ve had offers to be with other men (the Aquarian woman’s curse)–determined men, men so attractive it’s hard to say no (again, the Aquarius woman’s curse)–but I can’t bear to break my Aquarian honey’s heart that way.
It’s forever, and it’s awesome. So few know how to appreciate this very special man.
December 28th, 2010 at 11:23 am
To the Virgos who are wondering why the Aquarian hasn’t called, or has suddenly become unavailable or cold or sarcastic:
1) We’re busy and will get back to you when we’re not under the gun to get something important done. Work has its demands. Friends and family have emergencies and crises, and Aquarians are often the people who hold things together and keep everyone’s head above water during those times. Back off a little until we have the time to give you.
2) When you contact us, don’t say things like, “I want to see you/be with you.” It sounds demanding, and clingy, and way too emotional. And it’s boring–the greatest crime to an Aquarian. Say something interesting! Say you got a promotion. Say you got a new outfit that looks dynamite. Say you saw read an interesting book. Say you saw that the circus was coming to town and you hadn’t been in years (most likely he’ll turn up within days with tickets!). Say anything, but don’t make an Aquarian feel like you’re being a drag. WE. HATE. THAT.
3) Don’t inundate us with phone calls/text messages if we’re busy or preoccupied. A call every day or two is plenty, because, more than that, and you’re crossing that fine line Aquarians have between “Hey–it’s great to hear from him/her!” and “This person is a psycho stalker–RUN!”
4) Never tell an Aquarian how she feels about friends. If she says she’s not sleeping with friends, she’s not. She will usually give you an honest answer to any questions you ask, but if you are nasty about it, or are hysterical or manipulative, an Aquarian may say something that you don’t want to hear about yourself. I have had boyfriends accuse me of running around on them, and no amount of reassurance changes it. So I get the attitude that, well, they must want to hear that I’m sleeping around on them, since they aren’t listening to me when I tell them I’m not doing that, and I’m not. The next time I get the false accusation, I’ll say, “Yes, I’m sleeping around on you, and they’re better looking and better in the sack than you are.” Lesson: Don’t make an Aquarian feel that she’s not being listened to.
5) A subset of #4: Don’t accuse an Aquarian of things that he’s not doing. Most Aquarians take their integrity seriously, and you do yourself no favors by attacking any of them that way. He will turn on you so fast, you will think he’s part Pit Bull. BTW: It is a bad idea to make an Aquarian mad at you. Like the Scorpio, Aquarius can have a sarcastic, vindictive streak and he will not be kind if you push him too far, or unjustly. It’s the one thing Scorpio and Aquarius really have in common. It’s just that the Aquarian will give you ample warning to stop treating him that way. It’s your own fault if you don’t listen, and he rips your head off when you do the thing he’s warned you not to do anymore, or he says something brutal and hurtful. To him, you have it coming for being such a pain in the butt and hurting him by attacking his character. And, honestly, you do have it coming. It’s disgusting to lie about people to their faces, and accuse them of nonsense, and liars like that don’t deserve respect. THAT IS HOW AQUARIANS THINK, down inside.
January 14th, 2011 at 7:41 pm
Ok so, I’m a virgo that got dumped by my precious aquarian 2 months ago. We were together for 7 months and it was phenomenal! We got along perfectly fine and never argued [but of course we disagreed, that’s only healthy] we were good for each other but we went to colleges that were far apart [he’s in Nor. Cal, I’m still in So. Cal] which wasn’t a problem because we still lived near each other he visited but then I moved a half hour away and at first he dumped me because “he wanted me to be happy” but then when I called him a few weeks later he said he dumped me because “he didn’t know what to do” but I really figured it out was because he chose his friends over me…worse part is: he doesn’t even hang out with the same people anymore. So I did the dumb thing and sent him a very long angry text calling him out on him going back on things he said and of course, he says really mean things to me and I just want him back. Any advice would be lovely.
January 22nd, 2011 at 2:09 pm
This pairing will either work or it won’t. And you’ll know it instantly. Astrologically they have nothing in common so when I see that I think “lessons”. Which = growth. And that can be maddening or wonderful. I am a Virgo and not at all what is described here. Let’s remember there is more going on than the sun sign. And every sign is compatible. Just have to find what makes everyone tick. Sometimes it’s easier, sometimes it’s not. How much work are you willing to go? How much growth do you want?
March 4th, 2011 at 6:28 pm
@ Never Again
Hey, after all u wrote about us, aquarians, i can tell..”U r a true Aquarian”;)))
March 10th, 2011 at 5:57 pm
I’ve been seeing this guy for about 2 months now,
and i really like him…he’s an Aquarius and I am a Virgo
we get along really well, we just started dating a week ago
and its good to hear that people have such a good connection with
their partners. I hope the same thing works out for me, because
i think I am in love with him;♥
April 14th, 2011 at 3:16 pm
I am a Virgo girl and dated an Aquarius man for roughly a month. At first, I kind of liked him. He seemed fun and interesting. But after awhile, I realized that there was no way I could ever trust this man. He was much too spontaneous for my liking and extremely unpredictable. He often said things which embarrassed me and I didn’t feel comfortable enough to relax and be myself around him. I basically ran a mile and never looked back. haha
May 12th, 2011 at 12:45 am
My GF read this and is now upset! I don’t know why you guys write all this..can’t you be a little more positive about life?!
May 17th, 2011 at 3:18 pm
Is it just me or are Virgo women posting more than Aqua men? (Aqua women vs Virgo man seems ‘boring’ according to most aqua girls here)
Anyway,
I am an aqua guy and I am really attracted to Virgo women (physically).
I have one, on whom I had a crush from a couple of years. I am very shy and I did not approach her ever. Now suddenly, I know her through a common activity at the university. I feel like running away or avoiding her whenever I see her. She came up to me, during the activity and asked me to give a performance together. I said ok and all my friends say that she is interested in me and that is why she did that …. I am skeptical and I do not know if she is just being friendly or she really likes me.
Is there an objective test that I can design that can tell me for sure?
June 21st, 2011 at 5:44 pm
I am an Aquarius/Capricorn Cusp female who is currently involved with an Virgo guy. I can honestly admit I now realize I don’t like clingy guys. Just got rid of a Taurus for that reason. I have only been dating this Virgo guy for about a month but he stalked me for like 2 years. But, I admit I noticed him too. So, when the opportunity rose we begin to see where it can go. Now this is what I have notice about him so far: He likes me a lot but he tries to hide it. He is very grounded and I am simply all over the place. We share common interest intellectual and artistic. We both have difficulties expressing our emotions and become overwhelmed by too much of it. We contact each other 1-2 a day thru text see each other 2x a week. I’m all good with that… But, I do think that the longer we date the more clingy he will become. After a long night of passionate sex the next early afternoon it was time for me to go… I had a few errands I had to run and he wanted to come with… It almost turned me off. I really do like this guy is dominant and prides himself on being a man. lolol. I am also a dominant female who loves to control but I am submissive to him.. It’s sexy that I can find someone who bark is louder than mines. I like it!!!!! All I can say is so far so good.. I have a major attraction to this guy unlike any I have every had. And we will see where it goes…
June 22nd, 2011 at 5:29 pm
Just to finish the above story. I know, as of today, that she does have bf. My friends claim she was evil to ask me. I just think I misunderstood. Not that anyone ever gave an opinion here. But the chapter is closed. Thank you all
October 6th, 2011 at 3:42 am
I have been with this aquarian for a year now.
The best way to go on about it is—
Just give him space enough for his comfort, not to make him feel unwanted or ignored.
Be very cool and light hearted about things. Intensity at all times, which doesn tend to happen with Virgos, is a turn off for them.
They can be insanely disattached and involved in their lives. they socialise, they hang around with girls,a nd might not even call you at times, but know that once, they are serious about a relationship, they are loyal. You just have to TRUST them and let them be…
The most important thing, apat from sun signs, is the right kind of selection. Select the right guy because Virgos are very sensitive and have a heart of gold. So make sure you have the right guy to give it to. Then the effort wouldn’t be anything. Put a lot of love and faith and possitivity in it. Maintain a great social life and hobbies. Stay Calm and enjoy the togetherness.
November 11th, 2011 at 2:45 am
Hi I am an Aquarius woman married to a Virgo man. This article hit us right on the nail, but we have been married for 6yrs now. Although we may get frustrated with each other, we have rubbed off on one another. I am more into cleaning now and he is more relaxed with some of his obsessive cleanliness ways. We have 2 children that are 2 and 3, so the house is clean but the toys do not irritate him as much. No one is perfect, but in all we have a good relationship. We give each other the space that is needed to accomplish our individual goals and we work together as a team.