Aquarius Compatibility With Virgo |
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Aquarius and Virgo
Intellectually these two are well matched. And that’s it. This couple will no doubt get on each other’s nerves. Virgo can be quite nit picking and meticulous whereas and I’m afraid to say it, the Aquarius can be a tad lazy when it comes to household chores and anything that doesn’t involve his/her brilliance. This will infuriate the Virgo who loves to have a tidy and well organised home and believes everyone should do their share.
Both of these people can and have been accused of lacking in emotion, and this is mainly due to the fact that they are both more mental than physical people. But they both need a partner who will be more outwardly affectionate; this won’t be found in each other. Their sexual union could be in for some problems also. The Virgo lover can be somewhat prudish and reluctant to experiment sexually, never-mind talking dirty and expressing pent up fantasies. That will not happen!
Aquarius’s have their own time scale, time isn’t really an issue for them, they have more important things to worry about than what time the chicken has to come out of the oven or which day the washing must be done on. Virgo lives for these things. Their lives are regimented and organised; every day has a purpose and a job list. The Virgo has never been flighty or spontaneous, in-fact it scares him/her just to think about it. These people expect everything to run smoothly or else. And the Aquarius just couldn’t’ care less, to them life is for living, not filing!
Perhaps a bottle of wine and a few good conversations once a month would be the best these two could hope from this union.
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This post seems rather trite and built on Sun sign stereotypes. I am a Virgo woman with an Aquarius man. Intellectually we have a great rapport. Sexually he is the one who is inhibited due to other factors in his natal chart. However, we have a wildly passionate *HOT* sex life and I was the one who initiated it at the start of our relationship. Being able to have a meeting of hte minds enhanced/es the sex. I have no interest in being a maid so I hired on to do the shoppng, cooking and cleaning. He and I spend a lot of time out of the house doing things together. I have never been regimented with a daily list of things to do, but that is also because of other placements in my natal chart.
I enjoy that he is cold, aloof and detached as an Aquarian. It gives me space and tiem when and where I need it. When Aquarians get to know you they are quite loyal and share themselves and their emotions.
Yep, this is totally based upon people’s Sun Sign only. I have mentioned that a few times in my blog. A lot of people only know about their sun signs so that is where I started. Once I have done that I will then be concentrating on all the other elements in a person’s chart.
Aquarians’ are indeed very loyal, I love mine to bits!!
Love & Light
Becky
I totally have to disagree about the virgo and aquarius compatibility. I am a virgo, dating an aquarius and we are really good together. We both aren’t quick to rush into anything serious. On an intellectual level, we can talk for hours about any and everything. Sexually we are fierce. At first we decided to wait because he is very cautious, but unlike many virgos, I am a very sensual person. So I was the one who initiated the act. But we are both really busy people. So when we see each other, it is magical. He can be detached, aloof, and in his own world, but at all the right times. We actually mesh really well. I teach him to be more organized and push him to acheive. He teaches me to be more laidback and take everything one day at a time.
We’re both 25 and he’s an Aquarius and I’m a Virgo. I would say he has been my toughest challenge because he is completely opposite in the general aspect of life. I’m a saver and a giver, he’s a spender and a taker. He’s spontaneous and I’m well-grounded. I’m very organized and he’s a go with the flow kind of guy. The reason why we work is that we are both intellectual beings who enjoy a challenge. We can talk for hours on end on just about anything. And in the bedroom, it’s fierce! He likes the security in me and I enjoy his spontaneity. We do fight a lot because of our differences but at the end of the day, he wants what I have and I want what he has.
I AM AN AQUARIUS MAN THAT LOVES MY VIRGO LADY…I HAVE NEVER BEEEEEEN HAPPIER……..
I`m an Aqaurius girl and i date a virgo guy, we get pretty good but he is really mushy and sensitive, which is a first for me! And although its sweet i do need my space!
Dont get me wrong I do really like him but things are to serious! I want FUN!
wwwwwwaaaaaaaaaaahaaaaaaaaay!
I really appreciate seeing the diverse comments. I’m an aquarius and I started dating a virgo guy. I couldn’t believe the way his mind worked- he was with me on every level. For me to feel secure I have to feel like I can connect intellectually with someone, especially in a relationship, and I even have butterflies in my stomach when I’m around him- so I know I’m attracted to him. So when I found out he was a virgo, I was caught off guard- then read about the connection and felt a little disappointed that all the advice was negative. So I’m going to just trust what is there between us, and am thankful that as humans we rely on our personal interactions to tell us what is good for us, and will help us grow.
Ive been with a few different virgo women for years and i love it. the mental connection is huge. the spiritual growth these types can achieve together is well worth the petty fights over sex or organization
I am a virago woman married to an Aquarius. Words cannot explain the intellectual connection between us which has always been my criteria for starting relationship. We met at a time when we both were almost convinced that no loving partner can relate with us intellectually. Literally we can have an amazing discussion over any topic. This by itself is a greater fulfilment for me. On the down side he is not organized; he is laid back, money spender and extremely optimistic and imaginative….which lead to fight at times. But at the end of the day he sees my good intention and reasons with me. The fact that he is patience and does not have quick temper compliments my quick temper. Obviously i am too critical which irritates him at times but our fights never go far, we make up easily. Sexually, i am too reserved and not in to it generally while he values spontaneity and kind of adventures in that aspect. i wouldn’t say the sex life is exceptionally nice but funny enough our relationship is more mental than physical and we both value that above anything else.
I am a virgo woman dating an aquarian man and I have to say this is an incredibly fulfilling relationship. The intellectual conection was definitely the initial attraction and that naturally translated to a strong emotional and the deepest and most intense physical connection. I think most websites underestimate the potential of an aquarius and virgo together.
So I must say I am still in the dating phase with my Aquarius and I have been a little discuraged reading everything about compatability. So I am glad thier are people out there who have had success! Any tips would be appreciated. ha ha!
I dated a Vigo Guy and he was a complete nightmare, in the first two weeks that we dated he was Looking for a Apartment so we could move in together.
I was Like (I was nice about it) but NO WAY!
This Guy was seriously clingy.
He rang about 25 times a day well (10-30 times a day)
And text me constantly.
I remeber the first time He asked me
“Where are you goin”
me- “Out to meet some old friends”
him- “oh who`s that”
I names sevral Guys and girls…. and he went suddenly cold… and Jelous.
After that had happend a few times, I stopped telling him what i was doing and where i was going
I hated the 21 questions, so i never said anything.
After i realised what a prat he was I thought i would cool it off a bit and not reply to some of his texts.
BIG MISTAKE!
He sent me loads of abusive texts about cheating on him
Then the next text would be Lets run away togther!
(People say Aqaurius`s are Nuts!)
Eventually… Because i paid little attention to him, He would come up with Riducles stories about his best friend being on deaths door (just to get my attention)
I tried speaking to him about the errors of his ways ( and we discussed mine, Yes i admit I`m not perfect)
And he apoligised.
That was short Lived and he was back to his usual ways.
Eventually I got so fed up
(After being accused, and questioned and Abused Verbally)
I told him I wanted to finish It.
After all the texts of I`m going to kill myself,I`m in hospital with an overdose, I`m going to burn youre house down and many other things… He`s pretty much left me alone.
I did actually want to stay friends with him and thought i could help him, He Must have something seriously wrong in his life to act the way he does, But i am it`s gone way to far Now and i think hes one of those Nut jobs that are never going to change.
So Hey My first experince with A Virgo sign wasnt the best!
I`m glad not all People of the same sign are the same!
(at least i hope not, How can they be!)
I put this awefull thing down to experince.
But hey thats my story about Aquarius and Virgo compatibility and i dont think i will ever go down that road again!
I’m a Virgo woman married to an Aquarius man. We are loving and caring of each other and have an intense physical and mental attraction which fascinates us. He is magical, outgoing, a showman, always wanting others to enjoy themselves. He sets plans into action, although it is up to me to deal with and make the arrangements.
The negative aspects of our relationship for me are due to his need to socialise in groups on a regular basis when I would prefer to do so more occasionally and that he has high standards to which he believes others (especially me) must adhere. It can get tiring arguing with him to defend my way of being but I get my point across and the making up is worth it.
We are perhaps not a perfect pairing but maybe we have been brought together to teach each other how to be better people and more accepting of differences.
I’m an aquarius guy, and I’ve been seeing a virgo women for a lil over a month (weekends only bc of complications, but I won’t go into that) and I must say I think I’m in love!! I’ve dated nothing but pisces women since I could remember and this was a definite change. My virgo is sooo organized and sooo clean (hygiene) all the time!! Lol she cleans up every chance she gets…she’s smart, fun, and sexually? Can you say wow? I can! The only thing that so far bothers me, is how much she worries about things, and she expects everything to be perfect, which is impossible. I don’t want to change her, but I just want her to see that worrying sucks, so why even do it! Lol we still have a lot to learn from each other, but I see us sticking together for a long time.
True blue Aquarian lady who’s been connected with the most wonderful male Virgoan for 4 years. He’s unlike any other I’ve dated; every day is full of sunshine. Communication is our key. We talk and share and play. My mind has been tweaked. Mutual respect for the other’s quirks was set in motion early. So my creative messes get sorted… who am I to complain? No matter what we do, what we consider, how we feel it’s out in the open and splattered onto our own palette of colourful friendship. Life and our relationship is a work in progress - one being created with a smile every day! We are nothing at all like the Aquarius/Virgo Compatibility descriptor. Fine by me.
Hi. I am a virgo female and have been dating a aquarius man for 3 months now. We can talk about anything for hours. I also can say that knowing how open mined he is from conversations allowes me to open up in bed stuff i normaly keep hidden. I find that he is sweet and caring with out being clinning. I know that most places say that this is a bad match but I must say I dont see it.
I know he is not well organized but he is clean and getting him to clean is not hard either. If thats the worst of it then i am in heaven.
So since there’s a diverse array of virgo women here…How hard is it for a Virgo women to fall in love? I’ve heard its tough on them. Yay or nay?
Hi nastynunez, it sounds like you really love your Virgo lady after being together for a month, and from my experience with my Aquarius husband, he was really keen and enthusiastic and told me that he loved me after we’d been dating for three weeks. I really liked him and found him so attractive but could not genuinely say that I loved him back as I think that it takes longer than three weeks for real love to develop. I obviously really love him now as I married him last month!
I think the key to a successful relationship with a Virgo is patience and understanding, maybe not my husband’s strong points! I’m sure your Virgo lady will love you intensely given a bit of time.
I must say I was worried at the inital description of the virgo/aquarius match!! Phew - good job you guys commented with such positivity!!
I have just met up with an old aquarius man who - I had a major crush on! Five years later and he’s telling he’s been trying to track me down and how he feels similarly!!
We talk for hours and the humours unreal!!! He always makes me smile and believe he coud possibly be one of my soul mates! (we get several right???) Anyway, we had sex last week…AMAZINGLY PASSIONATE!!!
He did however go very quiet afterwards and im trying desperately trying to keep my emotions in check (im one of those virgo girls who NEEDS to be open about her emotions) Not sure where its leading but already feel like I cant imagine him NOT being in my life. Question is how do I keep him without coming across all desperate?? Anyone…HELP!!!!
Thanks sky, and congrats on the marriage! That’s one reason why I love her already. She doesn’t jump into things like I do. She’s carefull and doesn’t hand her heart for someone to break. Unlike me,so I admire that. Hey Mia! If you said that he feels the same way you do, then just go ahead and show your emotions. Tell him straight up how you feel, he would respect/like that. I know I would. I hate wondering if a women likes me or not. Just tell me straight up!
nastynunez - coming from a Virgo girl - we are all a little different having different moon signs and such - for me I don’t tend to fall easily, most of the time, but when I do it is the real thing and intense. My advice - be patient because when she does it is going to be well worth the wait. We Virgo’s don’t like to be wrong and being wrong in love is a lot worse. so we take our time! (although I tend to feel it before I will admitt it to anyone so keep that in mind to!) = )
I am an aquarius male seeing a virgo woman, and I was laughing and saying “that is so her!” the entire time reading these posts. We have trouble seeing each other, but when we do its extraordinary. I am very open sexually, flirtatious, and like to share how I feel about her often. On the other hand, she is very guarded in all of these areas. We do fight mostly because I want to see her more, and she is always tied up. Also, she is afraid I may be too good to be true and is scared to fall in love with me. I try to be patient, but my aquarian attitude just wants her to say “I love you” so I can grab her and please her all night long. Last note, the comment about the long intellectual conversations is right on the money. Good Luck to all you others!
the whole time this is making me so happy because i see im not the only one thats in love here imma virgo lady and with a aquarian man for 2 months now and i must say im deeply in love i know i can tell him everything no matter what.Our sex life is not yet going on but i can see its gonna be out of this world i dont see myself without him anytime soon..
=)!!!
Oh my goodness! This has been soooooo interesting to read because I was a little discouraged reading all this NEGATIVE information about these two signs. I will admit being a Virgo woman that it was a little turbulent in the beginning and trying to meet someone half-way that thinks totally different from you, but in the end I love it! I know that his love/interest in me is genuine and that he cares for me in a way that I have never experienced. He makes me deal with the unknown secretive part of me that I think no one knows about. He challenges me mentally and that is very imperative given that I am a mental stimulator. Oh I have to say he has so much patience that I used to get angry because he would not react the way I thought he should, but then I saw that his way was the right way. The other day he stated that he wanted a mate that had certain characteristics by nature naturally and two of them I did not possess (patience), but in the end I think he realized that sometimes what you think you want is not necessarily what you need. Therefore, to any and all who read this always remember that words of astrology are never the answer to soul searching and soul finding, but for entertainment. No one knows a person 100% and can not base their life on what astrology states. Please don’t miss the opportunity to enjoy life with a person who is opposite of you and what science tells you to be with. Listen to your heart and God if you desire, to know that you’re being led in the direction that was all designed before you were born. In all, welcome the challenges aquarius throw Virgo’s way and vice versa b/c you’re just that one step away from someone that can change your life forever.
I am a Virgo woman having a very sweet Aquarian hubby. We are a happy couple because we never try to change each other. Of course at times we do end up in an arguement..but those sorts of arguements arise even between the so called ‘most compatible signs’.
As for the sex life, we share a good relationship.Both of us have enough passion and adopt newer ways of exciting each other.
I have most traits of a typical Virgo..and he has that of an Aquarian. But that has never caused any hindrance.
i have a very exciting sexual emotional relationship with my virgo lover.we are very stable together even as friends.he rights me love notes,shows up to see me spontaniously,goes out of his way to make me happy vise verser….
i tend to dominate over him when it comes to intimacy sometimes even making the first move and hes more than excited to enjoy the ride and to take over from there which i am crazy about.he loves that im so very confident and thinks im sooo beautiful and sexy the way i think bout him.we talk as friends enjoy eachother as lovers and value eachothers time and space.
i couldnt pick anyone better we physically and emotionally suite eachother.
i actually find that we are very simular in many aspects.
hes not like your typical virgo hes fun,outraguos,spontanous ,popular,funny and is always happy.
were as i am as an Aquarius bubbly,fun,happy confident,easygoing and outraguos .
sex is always fun new and exciting,the love is really deep and keeps us both satisfied and its been two years and were still as strong as ever
we are a young couple im only 19 turning 20 what i do know is wen we both found each each other we became whole and isnt that wat loves all about
To aquarius girl inlove with virgo boy:
WOW!!!! That is something speically that you two have. I hope to find a man to love me to death. I am now 25, haven’t found the right one, but I know I will. To be 20 again, man, I so want to be 21 again.
To CelticVirgo: I so agree with you. I am Aquarius woman, I think it worth the wait. I have found in my experinces. When one is looking for love, you always find the wrong person, because at that moment you are ready to fall in love and are more expectable to falling in love with anyone. I agree one should go with the flow and let love find them and once they have found it, be daring, be fearless and just GO FOR IT with intense and fire.
Glad to know there are people like me who enjoy the heat.
“The hotter is the better I always say.
To Cheri: *drops jar in shock* Are you serious!!!!????? WOW!!!! LOL oh my god, not laughing because it’s funny, laughing that is freaky scary.
Something like that happen to me too, I have two stories, but before I go on with my stories. I have to say I am the same as you, I hate clingy men, when you don’t know them really well and suddenly they wanted a future with you NOW. I run away, because I like my freedom.
First story:
This one take place in a German pub in Germany. I was spending time in Germany in October. I was 21 at the time. Just broke up with my boyfriend not too long ago. (The story in Capericorn and Aquarius section)
I was drinking or eating, talking to whomever. Then I was talking to this one guy and he seem really cool. And conversations is going good. If you think a man couldn’t fall for a woman in less then a second, well he DID with me! He put my hand on his heart and he said to me:
“I never met a woman with such fire in her soul. When I look in your eyes, I see fire, such fire. That touches me deeply.” And he said this with such passion, I just didn’t know what to say or do.
I was just standing there thinking “……. uhhhhhh, are you not sure it;s not the beer that’s affecting you??????” LOL Then he asked me to do you want to go out to dinner tomorrow.”
I said, “ok, sure why not!” I am spousnatness, life an adventor. I didn’t think much of his passionate words, because people say stupid things when they are drunk. You got to understand I was in the middle of Okotberfest, and everyone was like PARTY! PARTY! PARTY! Ohhh my god big mistake!
So the next day, he picks me up at my hotel, and in the middle of the date, he starts to get clingy. Like he wants to constantly hold my hand and have me at his side, and it’s starting to annoy the living hell out of me. And I am keeping distant, and my detact Aquarius ways are hurting his feelings. (I do not know if he was Virgo, I don’t know his sign)
Anyyyy ways, at dinner he finally says to me. “I love you, Crystal. I have fallen in love with you!” I suddenly froze in my spot and I was thinking “Oh crap! You got to be joking, you just met me!”
I took a deep breath and did the noble warrior thing. I calmly set my silverware down and look at him straight in the eyes.
“What I am going to say to you, I am going be very honest and direct with you and I don’t mean to hurt you in any way, but I need to be honest with you.”
All suddenly he starts crying and say’s, “Y-y-you don’t love me the same way as I do?” I was thinking, “Damn, please don’t cry.”
I said to him, “I am sorry, I don’t love you in that way. We just met, and this is bit fast. You have to understand, I just broke up with my boyfriend, and I am not ready to get into a realatation. I am not going to lie to you and play with you, and pretend to love you, because I am not that way. I do not play with men’s hearts. I don’t mind being your friend, but I am not ready to get into a relationship. I know you have just broken up with your girlfriend as well, and I will tell you, do not rush, you will find the right girl for you.”
He held my hand, still with tears in his eyes, and running down his face, he said to me. “WOW, you are truly are a great woman. There should be more women like you in this world. You are so honest, and you don’t believe in playing with men’s hearts. WOW, you are truly a great woman, you are so wonderful. I love that you can be so honest with me. Most girls would use me and break my heart.But you are a real woman.”
I truly felt bad for him.
Story 2: This one doesn’t take place in exoctic land. This one takes place at college in raining washington. It was 2001, or 2003.
I had decied to take a serious German language class, and it was the spring or the summer so I had been in the class for awhile.
I was heading into the lunch room, setting my bag down into a chair, and getting my food. I come back to eat and do my homework. I do this thing, where you just look around the room, for no reason, just to relax from all that studying. I catch this guy with glasses in a leather jacket staring at me. I ingore it. Few days go pass and I am in the lunch room with my friends. And the same guy that was staring me comes to my table and says, “can I sit here?” We’re like, “Yeah” Then he starts talking to me and says “I seen you a lot, my name is Corey, blah blah blah.” You know the usually stuff.
He seem cool, he told my friends and I that his girlfriend and him have an open relationship we date other people. My friends and I were like, we didn’t say it out loud but it was on our faces. “WHOA, not our cup of tea thing, but whatever.” We talked to each other few times and one day he says to me. “Can I kiss you?” I never was face with something like this before, it was really weird and odd. Then he goes. “How about you kiss me, if you don’t want me to kiss you. You can kiss me.” I was standing there not knowing what to do. So I kissed him on the cheek. No big deal.
Let me tell you bad move number 1. After that little peak, he changed. He started to sit wherever I was sitting. If I was sitting with my friends, he would sit by me. He always had to be with me, and it was getting on my nerve. Every single day it was the same thing.
And I was telling my friends, “God, Corey is starting to annoyed me. He has to be with me whenever I am. He would yell out “Hey Crystal!” down the hall. Then he took it step further. He knew I was taking a German class, and he told me “Hey, I just join your German class, I will be in the class with you.”
I was like oh my god, no! So I arrive early in German class, and I told my teacher,
“I don’t want this guy sitting next to me, he makes me uncomfortable I do not like this guy.”
So the teacher gives him asign set. And everyone in the classes hated him, he would intrupped the class and talk about his life.
One day he sees me and he is yelling my name down the hall. This time I decied to run! Everywhere I ran he would follow me, and chase me while yelling my name. I finally found a group of my guy friends and I stood next to them.
He catches up with me and says. “Why haven’t you been talking to me? Are you angry with me?”
And I said. “I don’t like you. I find you abloustly annoying! Piss off!” He looked at me shock and left.
He saw me in the lunch room one day as he was walking to where God only knows, he stared at me with shock.
He wrote me an e-mail and demanded I give him explation. He thought of his self to be great and no one, I mean NO ONE tells him no. I didn’t write him back, because when I said to him in the college was my explation.
And I have never seen him again.
Cheri, sometimes you have to be mean, and don’t be afarid to be mean. Being too nice, cause people to control you. Sometimes in these freaky situations you have to put that foot down or it will never go away.
I suggest you, not try to help this crazy man. My ex aunt has this habbit of recurring people, espeically men. She believes she can help them and make them all better. But in reality, you can’t change people who don’t want to be changed. Since she thinks she can save these not so good men, they have sorely screw her up in the head. She’s not all there in the head, and takes medication, because she can’t fit her problems b Because she keeps putting herself in bad situations. And the reason why she can’t fix her problems and the problems control her. She doesn’t own her problems, she blames them on other people. I hate to say this, but my ex aunt is almost 60 years old and she still acts like rebelous teenager that hasn’t grown up.
Just stay away from the crazies, because they will screw up your life, if you let them.
my love name’s Nick, he is the most amazing person i’ve ever met, he fills my life with his love and we fit amazingly perfect, at first he was shy,i could caught him staring at me and then looking away but then his brothers came in action and hooked us up, i thank them so much that they hooked us up, because even if i am a flirty,outgoing,talkactive,optimistic and trustwhorty person when i was around him, it made me feel chill, and butterflies in my stomach and i came into a shy person when it came to him, Our first date went fantastic, we talked and stare at the moon in the, and it was perfect, i swear.when we got to meet each other well, and know we are sharing a beautiful relationship, wich we learn about each other everyday, i swear i love him, and when i look in his eyes i just…know he loves me back.
his perfect looks, and curls, his brown eyes and hair, the way that he talks and walks, it makes me crazy, and i cant wait till the day we marry, its going to be the day most happy day of my life, i swear.
Oh i also forgot to say that he is the most romantic person i’ve met, he’s a musician and he writes love songs about me and then sing them to me, he makes me melt, he makes my hear skip a beat,when we fight are really big fights but after 2 days we cant stand the idea of being apart, and when he goes on tour, its the most drepessin thing ever, but somehow i keep doing my life but miss him bad, he calls when he call me every day, so i appreciate that for him, and now that his on vacations with his brothers, we are really thight, i can believe its true something so perfect, and.. i Love him, we are so tight we cant live with each other, and this is just young true love.
I know corny but its just that i can believe somthing so P-E-R-F-E-C-T can be real
Ily Nick J
I am a virgo woman who just began dating an aquarius man (about 2 months). We have these amazing conversations and we definitely have physical chemistry, but I’m so afraid of opening up to him because he can be so nonchalant. I’m pretty sure he cares about me (he’ll send me texts saying he misses me, we talk every day, he’s stopped talking to other women) but i’m still scared because in the back of my mind i think he doesn’t care. I’ve tried opening up to him, but i always chicken out because i’m afraid he’s going to give me some nonchalant, unemotional response. Any advice from aquarius men or women in relationships with aquarius men? I’ve read not to pressure aquarius men into commitment, but me being a worrisome virgo, I feel like i need to know where this is heading (not exactly where, but some a general direction would be nice). I really like him and I don’t want to lose him, but i also don’t want him to feel pressured. Advice?
To: sarah
Question, does he know how you feel for him? If he does, I would just get the balls and just tell him how you felt.
From personal experince, I had this happen to me with a guy I really liked, and now I wished I told him how I really felt. When he was being honest with me. I couldn’t open up with him, even if I wanted too, I was scared shitless, that if I told him how I really felt, he would get up and leave me. Past experinces with men, have left me scared to tell a man I how I really feel. Because for me, when I seem to open up to a man, that says I am so interested, he just one day changes his mind and leaves me and never comes back.
Plus, it seem he really does like you A LOT. Because he does chase you, talks to you, and wants to know how you are. So I say, just tell him. Tell him the truth, because if he really cares, he is not going to run away, he will appericate your feelings.
Tell him, that you have something to say, and that you are scared that you might think he might not like you, or whatever you afarid of. He needs to know. If you don’t, you might not get another chance with him.
I know it really hard, believe me I have been there. Just take a leap and just say whatever it is you want to say.
Good luck to you.
i am an aquarius woman that has dated a virgo man for the past 5 years. although our relationship was amazing in the beginning, i havent the slightest clue why we are still together. we are complete opposites in every way. he is a total neat freak who has to have order in things i find completely unnecessary. i have found also that over the years this virgo has become so overwhelmingly clingy and needy..like this reading says, i am very independent and standoffish. some may say cold but that is not the case. i really dont see what virgos have to offer intellectually to aquarians at least not in my case. i dont think these two are a good match in the long run.
I am a virgo women married to an Aquarius man for five years. He is definitely more attracted to me physically than I to him. But this suites me fine. I prefer to be adored instead of the one adoring. And sex is good it just takes me a bit to get in the mood. Must be a Virgo thing. He is messy around the house but it has gotten better over the last five years. I find him condescending and very argumentative at times. He is controlling and extremely demanding. Hardheaded and stubborn. He is also very giving and can be spontaneous and exciting. So far he has also proved to be very loyal. My main issue and this is where I give the advice - The Aquarius man tends to run over anyone in his way. He gets what he wants and he pushes and pushes and pushes. For the Virgo woman I just want to remind you to stand your ground. You can and will win your battles. Chose then wisely but win the ones that are important to you. If you do not you will become resentful and scorned.
I have to say that I agree with this post. I’m a virgo woman with an aquarius man and he really knows how to get on my nerves. We spend most of our time arguing about how to spend our time together. He is way too sexual and it makes him angry that I am not sexual enough. I like to save money. He likes to spend money. I’m very relaxed and reserved. He is very high strung and outgoing. We are completely opposite! It is so draining trying to make this relationship work sometimes. On the other hand, he does things for me that I would never do and I help him organize his thoughts so that he can get things done. As long as I give him a task to do, I have peace and quiet to do what I need to do and it keeps him in one place instead of running wild like a mad man. I have dated a capricorn, virgo, and a cancer before, and none of them were as loyal and dedicated to me as my aquarius man and that is one of the most attractive traits that he carries.
I must say I am very intrigued…I just started dating an Aquarius man, and I’m head over heels with the balance he brings. When I decided to look this up in the first place, I was shocked at my findings and most sites do say that we are not very compatable. I am going to disagree, and from reading the responses it seems to me that the only ones who say this is a bad idea, seem to be people who are not flexible or compromising in general, and in any circumstance that would be problematic. I am going to print this for him to read and see what he thinks. He does stimulate that mental desire we Virgos have, but is also very laid back and there is an incredible passion between us like highschool kids. Feel like I have known him forever, and my only hope is that he will be mine forever. We will work it out no matter what it is. John you are the ying to my yang baby, can’t imagine my life without you now, never a dull moment, and we have yet to fight at all, but when the time comes, and I’m sure it will, it will be intense and passionate just like we are and I love it!
I am an Aquarius female…who has dated an Aquarius male for over 4 years. I am married to a Virgo man. The Virgo is very romantic, very loving (when you are on your best behavior), very honest however brutal which I like bc I seek truth, he’s genuine for sure, very sensual in bed with a healing effect, great kisser, anyway he’s pretty darn awesome. My ex, the Aquarius and I got along with A LOT more ease, however. Mainly because we had a meeting of the mind, being Aqua we dated for MUUUCH longer and he still refuses to give me up. Any time my Virgo and I fight, I am naturally quick to bolt for air but not leave the relationship, and he’s quick to bolt to seek solace anywhere its warm it seems. My Aquarius would NEVER LEAVE he is the most dedicated and loyal person to me. I appreciate this because I am extremely loyal as well. It bothers me that my husband wont fight to the death, where my Aqua and I would. Anyway, my Virgo and I are amidst much talk of divorce bc my Aqua wont give me up. Its a very complicated situation, but I love both.
I am an Aquarius woman who is married to a Virgo man. We are the yin to each other’s yang. He keeps me grounded, and he is always the voice of reason in a crisis situation. I on the other hand, keep him from being to serious and always make him laugh. We have a wonderful relationship, mainly because he is the security that I secretly crave, and I am the freedom that he secretly craves. Its true, opposites attract.
In Love with an amazing Virgo man !!! A perfect match always follow your heart !! YOu know deep inside if he’s the right one. You just know!!
Hello
I am an Aqua-woman in love with an Virgo man only he doesn’t know it. I’ve loved him since I met him 10 yrs ago. When I first laid eyes on him I knew I wanted to be with him for the rest of my life. “He had me at Hello” LOL. We are very good friends and we are very passionate when we get to see each other. He’s miiiiilles away though (4hrs away but that’s alot when you wanna be with someone). When I read the negative things about a possible union I felt all hope was lost until I read your comments. Now hope is alive and well again. On a side note, Aquarians are NOT detached and unemotional. That is a load of crap if I’ve ever heard any. He’s the only man, besides my dad, that I trust with all of my being. As a matter of fact my dad is a Virgoan too! I’m not shy by far but when I’m with him I clam up. I am the most talkative person ever but I love just being silent with him. He listens to every word I say, makes me smile all the time, makes me breakfast (none of my bfs have never made me anything!) and though his memory is very limited, he seems to remember all the important things about me that NONE of my so-called ex boyfriends remember! I think about him a lot and we are always happy to see each other. We’ve already established that we like each other and we check on each other alot during the week. Once when I went to see him, he bought me dinner. I played around with it b/c I didn’t like it and I was nervous (yeah he still makes me nervous sometimes and I’m such a little girl around him). He picked up on it. He bought me something else and I didn’t like that food either so he gave me his food and it was the best damn meal ever!!!I can only see myself with him for the rest of my life and we knnoooww Aquas hate to be tied down but he can tie me down anyday and I will never wanna leave. I love everything about him, even the four little moles on his face. One side of me tells me not to tell him how I really feel for it may run him away and the other side tells me to go for it. I feel like if he doesn’t feel the same way it won’t be the same. I’d rather have what we have now then to not have him at all if that makes sense. I write poems about him, write songs about him and he lives right here in my heart and has for 10 yrs! He’s the 2nd greatest man in the world, my dad is the 1st, and I secretly love him. I feel he’s my absolute soul-mate. Maybe I’ll just keep it to myself. He’ll just be my little secret.
after reading all the comments posted, I envious those that had wonderful relationship
im a virgo woman dating aqua guyfor a yr+. He love his freedom and like to flirt. He never take me out with his friends nor acknowledge me as his gf to his friends when we’r in public gathering likes bday, clubbing…etc. We dont talk on the phone for more than 10 mins
When we in the club with our own friends, he treated me like a friend, but he treat his female friends better than me. When i tell him, he said i nagg too much. I think i do worry alot for nothing but cant help myself.
I know he wont cheat on me but seeing him flirting with them is just make me piss off. If he likes his bachelor life so much, why bother be with me. I dont understand aqua guy.
so i decided to break off. I wonder if i make the rite choice. Help!!!
To quest:
Seeing how he treated you like crap, I said you did the right choice.
thx LittleImpaler, my guy friend said same thing as u.
I might be in doubt rite now abt my decision but rather that than being play out a fool
im a virgo, i dont show my emotion easily til i feel secure enough to do so. maybe make him think i am jst as same as him…emotional detached. amd jst ok to play around
To Quest:
I am the same as you too. I don’t show my emotion well, until I feel secure that the guy wants the same thing as I do.
Back thing whole thing of telling you yes, then saying no. Is stupid. I don’t know about you, but when I am in relationship, you better know if you want to be with me or not. Because I will walk out and not look back.
I wish you luck and the best.
wow… its relieving to know there are more than one Virgo girl in love with an Aquarian guy. I met this Aqua guy not too long ago, and I feel like a lil girl around him. He makes me get butterflies in my stomach that i usually never get with anyone on the first time i meet them. i do worry that we aren’t compatible with all the negative things i keep reading, but i tell you after reading all these posts, i have to try and let my guard down a lil bit more. I thank all of you for writing all these positive things, and I really hope this works out because even though its only been a few days…my heart is aching with joy. any more tips on how to leave good impressions without nagging them?
To Joy:
Just be yourself, and let him decide. Don’t ask too much or too less and let things go how they will go.
OMG. I am a virgo women dating a aquarius man. When we first started out I thought this man was 10 feet tall. As we are getting to know each other things are getting real and the rockiness begins. For the most part he is the sweetest considerate person I have ever met and when it comes time for special days and events he wants to do his own thing which is fine. My only issue is with him on special occasions to at least see me for dinner or a cocktail and we can go our seperate ways. One thing we have in common is that we value each others space and that we keep alot of secrets from each other. Not bad secrets we just dont feel the need to express every detail of our lives (reporting to one another). One moment he has me head over heels and the next I want to kill him. The odd part about it is he feels I am the one who seems not to care and hard to read. One thing about aquarius they require a whole lot of attention, and are like women with their sensitivity and always want to be constantly reassured of your feelings for them. I am an earth sign so action speaks alot for me so I dont need reassurance. So he is bringing out that nurturing side I need to work on that I have such a hard time with because I am so into the whole “man up” thing. LOL. So it is a work in progress. I feel he is worth the hard work, otherwise I would have told him to kick rocks. I love the roller coaster ride he gives me because I never know what he is going to give me. It seems as he still wants to establish that he has control over the situation within himself and prove to himself his security. He is very cunning with the mind thing, and boy he picked the wrong sign to mess with when it comes to the mentals. Cappies and Virgos are the best for making you believe your name is something other than what it is. We pay attention to detail and you come to us with some game or garbage we will eat you up quick and you wont know what hit you. He is very stubborn, but it is something about him that does not want me to see him unhappy so I am the one who usually diffuses everything. He is fairly mature in our conversations but I am a loud person so when we argue he gets defensive to my manner of speaking in stead of just listening to what I am saying. Its funny because I am the one that is all over the place and I call him the diplomatic one. This is the first man that will put me in my place and when he does I would be like “did you just check me? wow thats nice =)” because all virgos need it because we get besides our selves. He is more than enough man to handle me. He will tell me all the time “you have met your match”. I call him an asshole he will call me one right back. He will not let me go to far on disrespecting him. I love it, because I need every bit of what he is dishing. I am women enough to accept it and we move forward. I wouldn’t trade him for the world. Two crazy people make for a wonderful couple. LOL.
Im an aquarius girl that dates a virgo man and we r doing great. we have our issues and it does seem like we r total opposites but where he lacks i pick it up and the same on his end, where i lack he compensates. i love the ground he walks on, thats my baby.
I have been in a few serious IE married relationships, dumbly always believed what I was told but was betrayed every time, can’t handle it, I can flirt but I am the loyal type, wouldn’t be in the relationship if I wanted to play around.
Now - I got my eye on this girl and she’s aqua n I’m virgo. I like the loyalty thing you guys post about and I am starting, after knowing her for a short while, to pursue her - I aint ’stalking’ her don’t get me wrong but I also wish her to know that I’m not being frivolous. It’s a tricky game, giving her space but letting her know that I am serious until maybe she really tells me to get off, even then I will query it but if its not there its not there is it - I hope that it works out because she intrigues me and I think, from what I know of her, (and know of me), that we could be an item bigtime. I like my freedom also and she should have hers but I wish her to know that I’m there for her, that’s all. I also would like to know that when I’m doin my thing she’s there also for me. Good to feel safe huh? Wish us luck. She is bonny.
wow… it is soothing to read all these positive comments on the whole virgo/aquarian compatibility. I am a virgo female who met this aquarian male, and I feel so comfortable around him its crazy. I never was capable to allow my guard to go down so far in the short time that I know someone.. I do tend to worry alot about what the future holds, but right now it feels so ‘perfect’ its scary. lol. i just worry that my standards wont be met, but with the conversations that we had so far, it seems as though we both would be receptive and appreciative of our differences, and learn from them. he gives me chills when im around him. any advice would be great!
I’ve reconnected with an Aquarius man from my past. We hadn’t spoken in about 10 years. While we were casually dating, he WAS extremely detached emotionally, and aloof. He also just got divorced. Well, I was so infatuated with him, but he didn’t show much interest at the time. His divorce was obviously a factor at the time.
Ten years later, I still hadn’t gotten over him. I found him through a social networking site. We are now constantly keeping in touch. We’re going to meet up for the first time in 10 years. Anyway, he’s always (mostly) the one that initiates contact with me via IM. One night we chatted for at least FOUR hours. He’s extremely flirtatious. Says he likes me, et cetera.
I’m a fiercely independent Virgo, who doesn’t like to be clingy and I don’t like men who are either. I also love my freedom, and know where all the exits are, et cetera. Insecurity and jealousy are a turn off. This fab Aquarius is the same. So, what I’m trying to figure out is WHY he keeps on chasing me. I don’t mind and I love the attention (Venus in Leo). I did his natal chart, albeit a general one, because I don’t know the exact city he was born in and at what time.
If anyone can bring some light onto the situation, please help. I can also redo the natal chart and if anyone can read it, please help!
Has anyone else find themselves extremely drawn and attracted to the Aquarius male, if you’re a Virgo female. Don’t they just drive you mad?? In a good way of course?
Thanks so much!
By the way, do Aquarius men tend to forget details from their past, or is it just selective memory? Because he says he doesn’t remember much about the time we were together 10 years ago.
I was reading the posts regarding Aquarius/Virgo relationships. I was laughing and saying, “OMG! That’s like him!” or “Oh! I’m like that!” Thanks for the information.
So I am a virgo gal and i have read all the posts and am happy to know that there is a wild obsession with the aqua man from virgo’s. I feel like i possess alot of the qualities mentioned but most of them from flighty virgo’s post. I am kind of crazy and can only hope that the aqua guy i like will dish out the same checks as me..that is the ideal and plus it would be more humorous. My only concern is that we’re at a stalemate..because we’ve both expressed that we like each other but he really doesnt have time for a relationship..should i just chill back and let what ever happens happen?…any ideas?
@artsy virgo: Yes! Don’t push the idea of a relationship on the Aquarius male. Just keep it light and casual. Let it be his own idea. Do not smother him, don’t be clingy and don’t get jealous, or even insecure. It’s a big turn-off for these wonderful men. They also like to do the pursuing. They like their space - he’ll also give you yours as well.
The Aquarius man I’m seeing is extremely affectionate (YES!, but not smothering. Thank goodness), considerate, caring, kind and has the gentlest eyes. AND a lot of fun. Aaw! ::blushing::
An Aquarius man who is interested and wants to be with you (like mine who’s interested in and wants to be with me), will find time to be with you. They like to be productive, and don’t like to be in one place, ie: be prepared to do a lot walking, travelling, et cetera with him. We did so much walking and going all over the place!
They are loyal.
OMG…Ive been dating my aquarian male for a month now and I have to say that we are so much in love. He’ll text and call throughout the day JUST to tell me he loves me. We can talk on the phone for hours and 45 mins later he’ll call back just to tell me he misses me and loves me. Ive never felt this way with anyone else….but sometimes he scares me when he doubts our relationship cause according to him “We’re too good together to be true.” The sex is immaculate..he is very attentive and passionate. Only thing different is that he’s the clean one and Im the messy one but Im already in the midst of changing that.
I too have been to various website to see how compatible we are, even tho it isnt accurate…..I was disappointed until I came upon this website. The positive energy in this room is outstanding. Yall are really proving these other websites wrong. I am so loving this…..THANK YOU EVERYBODY FOR HELPING ME KEEP MY HEART AND MIND POSITIVE…..Im really gonna fight for my AquaMan now.
Wow!! I have been trying to get in to the head of a Virgo woman for several months now. I cannot believe I went about the whole thing wrong. I tried to show how I felt. Hugs, kisses and words. All of which were wrong. I didn’t realize until recently how they operate. It is work in progress. Yes…I dislike the fact we don’t communicate as much as I would like. Also that her emotions are buried deep inside. She doesn’t show any! It’s amazing. I am the opposite. But I am learning to deal with it. It’s rough! Some days I feel like leaving her alone and some days I feel like on top of the world.
The other day, my Aquarian man asked if I missed him. I told him if he answered first, then I’ll answer. He said, “Yes.” Then I replied with the same answer. Then today, I asked if he misses me. He said, “Maybe.” What is up that answer? lol Then I said I only asked because he asked the other day, he continued to call me a copycat. So, I said I miss him. Then he said he missed me a tiny bit. Hee hee hee! So, I said, be honest, and told him I wouldn’t be scared off. He finally said, Yes he misses me. Aaw!
Aquarian men are strange!
@ aquaman2…not all virgo women are the same just like not all aquamen are the same. Im very emotional for a virgo female. I love the flowers and being showered with attention. Its not all about the sign either. She probably has been hurt in the past and has put a wall up….u just have to give her ur understanding if ur trying to get her to open up.
Just love her. Flaws and all. Never take anything too personal or for granted. Just love her ok. Show and prove that you are there. If u tell her ur gonna do something then follow it through with action. If thats who you truely love….it shouldnt really matter what the websites say….or ur friends or her friends….neither family.
I wanted to point out that I am affectionate with my Aquarius man. He is affectionate with me as well. I’m not prudish and I’m willing to experiment. I’ve told him that. He appreciates it.
Nothing worth while is going to be easy. But I have a hard time understanding how a person can’t express themselves. I am a black and white person. It is or it isn’t. Keep it real and I will keep it real with you. I’m just having a hard time with an emotional closed person. I am showing patience. I do. But the lack of communication or expressing oneself is starting to irk me terrible. I don’t know. Some days I feel like just stopping while other days I feel on top of the world.
Just to let everyone know, Aquarius men actually do get jealous. My Aquarius man and I are both on a social networking site. I decided to join a group for long haired men, which my Aquarius man has (long-ish), he mentioned it when we met up for the first time in 10 years. I told him I decided to leave the group. He then turned around and said I could do whatever I wanted. That sounds like he was a bit jealous and then did a cover up of it. lol
I have a virgo woman in my life. We are not in love with each other but have definitely caught each others fancy. She is mysterious, unreasonable, always throwing a lot of tantrums, unattractive looking and in some ways clingy….qualities that are a major turn off for me in other women……I don’t understand why I still like her so much. As our friendship grew I have realized that I have completely lost interest in other women. All my free time is spent in thinking about her…..All my energy is spent on just 1 relationship.
She is intellectually very stimulating. And I like taking care of her problems and listening to issues she faces. I hope when I get married I share the same kind of relationship with her.
I read from site and most of them wrote that when it come to love, both virgo and aqua is in for a surprise. Does anyone know what that mean?
im thinking since both sign well known for lack of emotion, we’r both cant express well so we will miss out the chances to know if we really love the other or not until we’r apart
any suggestion????? I want to kno wat’s the surprise is
thxxx
yay been in relation with my virgo lady for 19 months . we are so opposit in our interests and thinkings . but u cant imagine how deep we are in each other’s love . i dont know . she is just perfect for me.
Aquarius men are mad. I haven’t heard from mine in a couple of weeks. What a weirdo.
He was all over me when I saw him and a few weeks before that, we constantly chatted online. Then after our first meeting in 10 years, he has been kind of cold, but definitely aloof and distant. Like I said, Aquarius men are mad! Mad as a hatter. lol
@VirgoGalInfatuatedWithAquariusMan
Aquarius Man is unstable. He needs quite a lot of space. He can suddenly need a lot of love too. But when he’s in trouble (in work, probably) he just wants to be alone, solve the problem and be confident with himself, just give him time, don’t push, then he’ll be totally yours.
The core thing is Aquarius man just come when he wants to. Nothing can change about that.
I notice more positive stories from female Virgo and male Aquarius compatibility or is it just me?
Im a virgo girl who met an aqua man online last November. He lives about an hour away and came down to see me and we had a great time and the sex was amazing. Since then we have Continued to chat online and sometimes text each other. He is divorced with three children who he sees often. He often mentions coming down again but it never seems to come off. He works as well and always seems to be busy. I feel that there is an attraction there because he will say things like hes missed me and we have some great conversations but I dont know whether hes scared of meeting again. We get on so well and I really like him. If I dont contact him then he always contacts me. Im so confused. What should I do because I really want him
@Just Another Aquaman
Thanks so much for that! I feel much better now. lol
The thing is that he has been unemployed for quite a while now. I don’t know for how long, so him not having income and a job can be quite stressful for anyone. He also has a lawsuit that he’s been dealing with, and it apparently hasn’t been going the way he wanted to.
I got so impatient with him, so I blew him off. I apolgised right away. Now it seems as if he doesn’t want to even talk to me. BUT he did say it was OK and that I didn’t have to give him an apology and explanation. I told him why I ran off like that.
By the way, this is what transpired that day when I met up with him for the first time in 10 years. He was all over me and acted like he was in love with me. He had a very dreamy look in his eyes, and please don’t say that it’s because Aquarius men are dreamers. I’ve seen the way he looks in pictures and at other people. He doesn’t have the ‘look’ all the time. He constantly wanted me to be closer to him on that day. He kept pulling me close to him. There were the little things he kept doing that told me he was indeed feeling quite smitten with me.
Also, I took him off of one social networking site, but re-requested his friendship. He keeps adding everyone else. He has yet to accept, but on another one that we’re both on as well, I’m still on his friend list. I’m still on his messenger. The thing is that he acted like everything is OK. I’m not being petty, but I’d like to know if I could have possibly hurt his feelings?
I wanted to know something about the Aquarius man. When we were spending time at the pub, he said that we had the whole Summer, so that we can go to the beach. He also asked when I would have free time, not referring to the Summer. Then I asked him when he dropped me off about the free time. He said so that way he could book up all his free time. What is that all about?
I’ve been lurking here for some time and finally decided to post something. I’m in the “beginning” stages of a (I hope) serious relationship with an Aqua Man and W.O.W. I have known him for about a year and a half as just friends but it’s SO obvious we have an attraction to one another. We have the most amazing chemistry. We can talk on the phone for hours, just thinking about this thing he and I have just makes the hair on my arms stand straight up. The mental connection is so real. I’ve never been in love before (neither has he) but these strong feelings that I have for him are scary. I also have a level of comfort when I’m around him that I’ve never really had with anyone else. We haven’t had sex yet (only kissed) but I get the feeling he wants to take it slow with that as I do too. Our kisses are so passionate, I can only imagine what the sex is going to be like. :o) After reading these stories, it makes my heart feel great to know that this kind of love exists. I only hope things progress to a deeper level with me and my aqua man.
VirgoGalInfatuatedWithAquariusMan
I do not want to sound crazy,but is his name justino falu?
I did NOT write the comment dated April 8!!!
@L
No, his name is not Justino Falu.
A question to the Aquarius men who visit this website…Do you play games, if you’re in your mid to late 40s, just to get rid of a woman?
I’m in my early 30s, AND I’ve given him his personal space and freedom. What is going on with you Aquarius men?! lol
@Just Another Aquaman:
Yeah, you guys are unstable, as you say. OMG, one minute my Aquarius man runs very hot and heavy and then very cold and aloof. It’s like he’s avoiding me on purpose. I haven’t seen him on the messenger in a week. WTH?
you know that this is wrong. the person who write this,didn’t even spell “organized” right!
Hi Noneya,
What do you mean I haven’t spelt organised right?? It’s perfectly correct I can assure you.
You can spell it with an ’s’ you know.
Love & Light
Becky
a typical virgo/aquarius relationship reminds me of the movie ‘what happens in vegas’. lets not forget both actors are virgo (diaz) aquarius (kutcher) in real life lol. the aqua is the social, laid back, and more sexual one while the virgo is very well organized, dresses nicely, and money wise…well actually the aqua man can be budget-conscious at times too.but in the long-run they make a fantastic couple!the chemistry is really there.
i have been married to my virgo wife for 3 years and life is so much fun with her.yes we have our arguments and “there are times where i want to light her on fire..but i don’t because i love her..and that would be illegal.” haha =]
Through a mutual acquaintance, I found out that right around the time I was dating/seeing him 10 years ago, he was was dating several women at the same time, or after he dated me. He gave one woman the story about just getting divorced, same story he gave me. I know no one is looking for a gf or serious relationship after a bad (?) marriage or relationship and having just broken up with the person. Basically, what this acquaintance was telling me was that the Aquarius man in question is a player.
I know that there is a positive and negative side to each sign. Some are more one way and others are the other way. Some are at an even keel.
Ya aqua guys can play……but only if they are interested in you. If they don’t like you…..then you are not worth the effort……
What can you do to get him back!!!
Make him put an effort. Don’t be easy on him. Make him accountable for his behaviour.
If you go soft on him he may not see the intrinsic value in you. You must be rare and exclusive. And make him think at an intellectual level. And take your own time with him.
Hi Everybody,
Now this is a very important question for me.
Can someone please address it
I have known this virgo woman for about 2 years now. We have been serious friends for the past 6 months. In the past 2 months there hasn’t been a single day when we have not texted each other via sms. Infact we chat on our cell phones. We must have exchanged 500 smses in the past 2 months. 90% of the time she is the one who initiates. And its usually about some minor problem in her life that is troubling her or some joy moment her her life.
Now the problem is that - I am afraid that she sees me as her best friend and nothing more. If she sees some hot guys she will not hesitate to mention it to me. She opens up to and says pretty much anything that she wants to. She can cry shamelessly in front of me. And pretty much tell me anything.
I am araid that she might have classified me as her friend and that is all she wants from me…..nothing more…..nothing less…
@Aquarian Guy
First off, let me just say that I wish MY Aquarius Man is like you and wants to really be with me. lol
It seems like now he’s completely avoiding me. We had a great time that Friday. WTH?!
Your Virgoan lady may be playing it cool. We generally tend to be cautious, at least I am.
Or she may see you as just a friend. I’m sorry to pop that bubble.
Virgos are very much into details (even if it’s about a grain of sand) and love to analyze things. So, that’s probably why she tells you the little details of such things.
Oh, with the hot guy thing, she could be trying to make you jealous and wants to see how you feel about her.
@Aquarian Guy
If she talks to you about anything and everything and cries shamelessly in front of you, she must feel very comfortable with you. Trust me, Virgos can be just as cool, detached and uncomfortable with emotion as you, Aquarius men.
You can’t base all this on just the sun sign either.
If Aquarius men want their personal space and freedom, instead of running off or pulling a disappearing act, just say so. Why play games?! Are they still interested? It’s so annoying! :p
We tend to love fiercely and even if we don’t show it, the intensity is definitely there. I’ve held onto to the love for my Aquarius Man for almost over 10 years! OMG!
Is it all worth the heartache, disappointment, and riding that emotional roller coaster?
Aquarius men are so difficult. They don’t know whether they’re coming or going.
From my experience:
I agree with your piece about the two. The Virgo and the Aquarius really don’t match well. It may for a while but then it dissolves.
When I was with a Virgo, it became a mess and it became work to keep it going. And really, I don’t like the ways of the Virgo. They irritate me.
The sex was going nowhere.
We both wanted different things.
He was too practical, I’m NOT. I’m a dreamer.
I find that Virgo men are too much of a momma’s boy and that just gets on my nerves as well.
He tried to change me and I tried to change him and well that was a disaster.
I really thought we would be together for a long time, and even convinced myself that he was THE ONE. WELL, i was WRONG! I am happy to not have him in my life anymore.
My dad is also a Virgo and let me tell you, I can’t STAND him either.
@TR
We can’t base how two people get along just on sun sign alone. There are other aspects in the natal charts. I have Gemini and Libra in mine.
I am practical, but I’m also a bit of a dreamer as well. I’m not clingy nor am I jealous. Granted, we all are jealous to some degree, some more than others. Insecurity is a big turn off, but aren’t we all insecure? I’m secure of myself.
well so far for me, the Virgos are a no no
@TR
I’ve dated a couple of Virgo men. I was engaged to one of them. That one was annoying. lol
The other one was a nice guy.
Men and woman of the same astrological sign aren’t that much a like. Both are different sides of the coin. I’ve also noticed that if a person is born one month or the other of a sign, they’re slightly different as well.
I am an Aquarius man, have always been a player since the age of 14 and have broken many girls heart previously, but now I have really fallen for this virgo girl who I have trouble in leaving her, its difficult for me to just leave her and go for another one, she is wonderful, kind and caring to an extreme, any advice please how to get over her, she is in love with me and this is also one of the things that make me unable to leave her easily. You may say, why U have to leave her like many freinds who have said so, but its just in my nature to go and be free and experince the world.
We Suck………I told that virgo girl that I can never be sure about my feelings, what if they are gone……….will I still be able to do justice to her……..thankfully this girl is way to good for me……..and I did not have the oppertunity to break her heart……..We are so full of ourselves…..we like to observe the water….touch it…..and then feel it……but we are cowards who are never ready to take the plunge……sad.
why are we aquarian like that, cant never have a normal life, i have girls that all my frends dream of and just blew them off, and NEVER NEVER able to love someone for long, I fall in love for a few days I mean deeply in love and pooof after a few days or sometimes weeks the whole feelings change out of nowhere, they say its the uranus that make sudden crazy changes in us,. But in me it has become daily now, so I love someone one minute and a few hours later, no more, just frustrates me, I really wish I was a usual guy and act normally…
Lmao
@Naughty: You are definitely missing out! How can someone fall in love with a person, then fall out of love with them just like that? I think it’s just you Aquarius men are still in love, but like to be distant, aloof, and what seems like COLD-HEARTED wretch of a man.
@Aquarian Guy: I think Aquarius men are just afraid of getting hurt, like any other guy. Speaking of water, the Water Bearer, carries a jar of water, which the water represents EMOTION. Aquarians are air signs, so they’re conflicted.
They say that Sun signs have nothing to do with, alright, but when we are born have something to do with the way we are. Don’t forget to take into account the other aspects in your natal chart.
I haven’t spoken to my Aquarius man in weeks! I even sent him a message stating that we can be friends, with NO strings or emotion, then we can see where it goes. NO reply yet.
@Naughty: You say you’re unable to leave your Virgo lady because she’s in love with you? Then you must be in love with her as well.
Btw, Naughty, that comment about Aquarius men being cold-hearted wretch of a man wasn’t directed at you. Please don’t take it to heart. I’m upset with mine. lol
I also wanted to add that sun sign or not, once you get to a certain age, STOP playing with people’s emotions and stop playing games.
If you don’t mind me asking, how old are you, Aquarian Guy and Naughty? I’m in my early 30’s. The reason why I’m asking is cos if anyone is in the 30’s to 40’s, it’s time to STOP playing games and with other’s feelings. WTH?!
Yes I am in love with her, I can find lots of problems in other signs BUT virgo girls, they are just so spot on for aquarians. But what can I do with my naughty nature?? that everyone thinks its too much of it inside me, just to mention that I am a monkey aquarian and have all the monkey charecteristics tooo, By the way, will she (this virgo girl) always be sunordinating me, I mean she is just completely obey anything I ask her
@Naughty. Is that what you like about her then; the fact that she does everything she ask of her? Im only asking because I myself am a Virgo and interested in an Aquarian and he has a sort of power over me too
@Naughty Sorry meant to say that she does everything you ask of her
Virgo Gal Infatuated With Aquarius Man
Hi I am 23 years old….and I don’t play games…..she does……and openly confesses…….and askes me if i am not afraid that she would break my heart….haha…..and I am sure that aquarian guy you are so in love with is not into you at all. Let him go.
@naughty aquarian……..the virgo girl that I so like is not submissive at all. She has her own mind her own way……infact I have to tolerate all that……..and this very tolerance that I have had to exhibit has actually accelerated my respect and admiration for her. She is so unique and a force.
okay, you aquarius men are acting up now. lol it must be the weather.
ok..so that whole touching the water is like the story of my life.but its this aquarian guy(can’t even call him mine) who says one thing and can’t use his actions in any shape or form..My friends say he gets all nervous around me and that I can be a bit intimidating but really what is there to worry about if I’m pretty direct with my feelings and always there for him. The funny thing is I am not clingy at all and have pretty much decided that he’s not worth my time or consideration which is sad because its part of nature to care for others.
What actually annoys me is that I would have preferred that he was real with me and just admit that it wasn’t really mutual because I have no problem accepting that I’m not the girl for him. However, I have too much respect for myself to continue anything that seems to be onesided. I’m wary of aquarius men now because I need emotions to be worked out or atleast have a direction…
im 29 now and have completely stopped playing around now. @Aquarian guy, if you just come across strong to virgo girls they will back off and become totally submissive, sorry virgo girls not any offenc, this is my experince with different virgoes so far,
@artsy virgo: It all seems for naught, doesn’t it? I told the Aquarius man I’m interested in that I don’t mind being just friends.
The story…we dated about 10 years ago, he just got divorced, blah blah blah. Fine. No problem. We were dating for 2 months. During that 2 months, I was wearing a Claddagh ring (I purchased myself cos I’m independent and didn’t and still don’t need a man to buy me things) and the heart was facing away from me. I told him the reason why I was wearing it that way was cos I’m not with anyone. He gets offended and says, “What about me?”. Whatever. He disappears and changes his # later on. Don’t know how long it was.
ANYWAY, I have been thinking about him for the entire time, wondering where he is, how he is, etc. I reconnected with him this February through a social networking site. We talk. He claims he doesn’t remember much (LIAR). We start anew as friends. He pursues me, constantly chats for hours on end. Waits for me to sign on to the messenger client. We decide to meet. So, we meet, everything was fantastic. He acts like we’ve never parted and he’s totally affectionate. Like he’s my boyfriend. Has dreamy look in his eyes. Says he wants to spend time with me.
OH, I wanted to mention, I did join a group for long haired me on the networking site, as well as other groups, like for against animal cruelty..he brings this up towards the end of our date. I say I left the group. He said I could do whatever. It’s either insecurity or jealousy. He USED to have long hair btw. Now it’s only shoulder length.
We chat again, a couple of days later. Says he’ll be busy with moving stuff (he’s broke and unemployed at the time he tells me this and can’t afford the storage. Has lawsuit for injuring his hand.) He becomes increasingly distant, aloof, cold, you know, the whole typical Aquarius thing. He says he still wants to see me.
I innocently added a male friend of mine to my friends list, who I’ve known for a long time and I haven’t heard and seen in a long time. So, this male friend puts a couple of comments to my profile, like he thought of me (innocent, right?) and then, when is he going to see me (innocent). This is when the Aquarius becomes even more so distant, etc.
I went away for a few days, to clear my mind. I text the Aquarius. Told him I was on holiday. He texts back, if I went further up north or south. I think he Googled my friend. Cos my friend lives south. Sneaky Aquarius! He never gave me the chance to answer.
So, I get fed up with the Aquarius being cold, etc. I blow up on him. Saying that if he didn’t want to see me, then that’s fine. I’m a grown up. Also that it was fun while it lasted, and we shouldn’t see eachother anymore. I apologise, realising I said somethings in haste. He, from what I guess, accepted the apology, by saying it was okay. Now I haven’t heard from him.
I also left him a message stating we can be friends with no strings, hoping that would draw him out of his shell.
I meant to add that this male friend I added has long hair. I happen to have added other male friends to my friends list, and none of them have long hair.
I met a Virgo lady last year who I really clicked with. Nothing happened as she was in a relationship at the time, but we got on really well and it seemed natural to stay in touch. In January, they finally broke up. So, with having the aftermath of that situation to deal with, plus the fact that she has a highly responsible position in work, I know she has had a lot on her plate of late. And because of this, I have always been respectful and calm about things, and have given her all the space she needs. I never push her or demand anything (least of all things like ‘when am I going to see her’, etc). I’ll drop her the occasional text and she’ll either text or call me when she can. For the record, as an Aquarian, I don’t fit the (sun sign) stereotype, when I care about someone, I’m not aloof or distant, but quite romantic, open and honest about my feelings, yet I’m not needy or clingy either).
A couple of months ago, we went out and it became clear there was a very strong spark between us. We met up again few weeks later and began to get much closer. She admitted that she liked me a lot (though she seemed almost embarrassed to say it). We had a wonderful weekend and I was really looking forward to seeing her again.
The only thing I really had to get used to (especially as I was happy to take it slow in the knowledge that she probably needed some space to breath for a while), was that she wasn’t the best at calling me when she said she was going to call. She’d often say, “Is it okay if I call you tomorrow/Saturday/at the weekend?” and then she wouldn’t call until a week or so later. The only reason it bothered me, as that I wasn’t sure if it was because she had other things on her mind, or whether she wasn’t that bothered.
The last time I saw her was a few weeks ago. We had a lovely evening and I realised that night how gentle, funny, genuine and kind she was. I haven’t seen her since then, because she has been so very busy, though we were originally planning to see each other the following weekend. I sent her a text on the Wednesday to make arrangements, but she replied to say she had a business commitment and asked if we could make it the following week. I made a concerted decision to give her some room, so I didn’t contact her until last Wednesday (a week later) to see if we were still meeting this last weekend. She replied with a nice text (kisses too) but saying she was mad busy with work and wouldn’t be able to meet, but asked was it okay if she called me on the weekend. Unfortunately, she didn’t call and I haven’t heard from her since.
Now I don’t know if it’s just her Virgoan way not to call when she says she will, or whether she has possibly changed her mind about me. I don’t want to push her as I am trying to be relaxed and easy-going about things, and trying to give her as much space as she needs (I’m certain that trying to corner her would be a bad idea as I believe it would unnecessarily push her away and I don’t want to do that). I just don’t really know where I stand now and as I’m sure you’ve guessed by this point, I have fallen for her. She is the first woman I have ever known who I could truly see myself having a family with and the thought of it makes me feel wonderful. Of course I can’t tell her that right now, as it’s still a little too soon after her last relationship ended. But then, if she’s not calling me because she isn’t that bothered, then it’s all academic really. Right now, my insides feel as they’ve been sucked completely inside out. I’m just hoping that she’s one of those women that is simply useless at picking up the phone.
Can any of you Virgo ladies advise me what I should do?
@AquarianManFallenForVirgoLady:
I think she’s playing hard to get.
Sounds like you may have some fire or water in your natal chart.
Btw, she’s one lucky lady!
::sob sob::
If the Aquarius man I want is more like you.
@Virgo Gal Infatuated With Aquarius Man
I hope you are right, but I suppose I’m afraid shat she could be reconciling with her ex (just an instinct I’m having really). I hate mind games and wish she’d just call. At least I’d know where I stand then. Of course I’ll be delighted if it’s just that she is playing hard to get though. I just think it’s a shame to waste precious time when we could be seeing each other over the weekend… which is now dragging beyond belief, not to mention I’m now totally off my food.
Fire or water in my natal chart??
Hey i’m a virgo and i’m after a aquarius,i’ve know her for a year and half, it would go on and off,kinda complicated , i didn’t really understood the aquarius, one day i would be happy the next day i would be sad . i didn’t know why i was feeling that way, it was soo weird, but recently in 2009 i talked to her , ever since is been diffrent,she changed alot , but i sort of understand them better, she says she doesn’t like showing emotions,she doesn’t like calling people on the phone she scared that might disturb, and she likes to play mind games and read minds . So yeah i guess i accept that , I think i’m fallen in love with her again but now seems different ..i hope it turns out alright!!
@AquarianManFallenForVirgoLady: I meant you might have fire (Aries, Leo, Sagittarius) or water (Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces) in your natal (birth) chart. That explains why you’re romantic and warm, unlike the typical Aquarius.
I think Aquarius men are the biggest flakes ever. No offense to those who aren’t. Most of them are.
virgo man; aqua woman; in 40’s
wow that was really informative reading all that i met my partner last summer via gumtree, we had a turbulent 3 months, split up, remet ,after a few weeks..now been living together since end feb.
overall as others say it is tiring but ultimatley worth it..i think you can compliment each other..if its meant to be go with it..even if it doesnt work long term you will learn alot from this opposite sign..balance..to me everything i wanted in myself is in him
Why are virgo ladies such great friends……..they just make you feel so special all the time……..i mean i would go down on my kneesw and thank god for I have this virgo girl as my friend……..lol
Hi All
I guess I have to be the worst virgo woman on earth, im messy, i hate cleaning and I have no sense of order…i cnt event get from point A to B without a sat nav! lol goes to show you..i do clean but i struggle and nomatter how i try ot be organised i fail with flying colours.
Anyway im starting to see this Aquarian Man, so far I just dont understand him, shares his emotions when i return them, he takes a step abck and becomes aloof calling and texting less….so I dont know how to get him back on track. I happen to like this one, he has that attractive sensitiveness in men…ps: i may have dropped the “love” bomb, maybe that probaly scared him away..!!! oh gosh! dnt know what i was thinking…………
Is it too late to take it back or fix it, as far as i see, its doomed ..lol! seriously
Now that I am trying to get over this virgo girl. I try to restrict contact between us…..but she keeps texting……”why are you ignoring me….”..”or don’t act as if you are busy”….even if i just spoke to her a day before……i don’t understand….the other guys who had crushes on her hurt her….so i want things between us to be kool….but that seems impossible unless we talk less…..we are in contact throughout the day via texts on phone…..i don’t want her to feel that i am ignoring her……..nor do i want to continue being miserable like this…..what can i do??
i never ever dated a virgo man b4 and i believe he could possibly be my soul mate……… i am messy and he is the one that is tidy… he is sweet and soo attentive to everything i say. … im glad there are others that know what i am going through …=]
So i let my aquarian interest go and don’t plan to pick it up again…I think I’ve seen to many unattractive qualities, but mostly his inability to own up to anything. I actually don’t want any explaination for his inaction which i think is kinda funny because I never thought I could be this indifferent towards him.
*But aquarian guy, I would say be very frank with your girl…honesty is always better than the hurt of avoidance even if it is slightly petty in your situation.
I’ve been with my Virgo man for a while now. The relationship initially started out slow, because of our different conversation styles (being an Aquarius, I’m used to talking to people who can pick up a conversation no problem when I leave a “stump”), but as soon as we talked about this, we resolved that, and our conversations are now great. The sex between us is amazing and passionate…I got him to open up, and opened up myself. We’re both very physical, love contact, but dislike clinginess, and I absolutely love how honest he is. We’ve got similar ideas on most things, but also opposite ideas on some things, which makes talking to him SO interesting. I have to say that this is the best relationship I’ve ever been in. Whenever I see him, I immediately get a smile on my face, and so does he. I’ve honestly never been this happy!!
Yes “Organized” is spelled wrong. Actually lots of comments are..LOL… Anyway Reading this Blog kind of upset me at first til I read all the great comments and people having things so well! One thing I don’t think people understand is that yes Initially Aquarius are alike as Virgo’s are alike HOWEVER there is a Difference between the men and women of the same sign I’ve learned from experience and as whether you are Friends or Lovers! I am Aquarius and I just “separated” from a 13yr and 3 kid relationship with a Leo and I think its one of the hardest relationships EVER! He is way to flirty and outgoing he likes to go out with his friends and never really did much with me, and with the kids it was Easy for him as we may not have had a sitter. I love him to death and idk if we will/can work stuff out.
Anyways I met this guy a few weeks ago and it was just for Business for some problems I’m in. I found out yesterday he is a Virgo, I haven’t gotten to know him all that well but it was strange its like there’s an instant attraction there. He has been out of a 10yr marriage where as his wife was a cheater. He seems funny and very outward, maybe spontaneous he after just a short time of talking was already telling me how he loved my eyes and how pretty they are. On the car ride he would like “dance” or “sing” just being goofy I guess then he’d look over to see if I was paying att or I guess maybe laughing
We kept lookin into ea others eyes well (through his sunglasses mostly)lol. He’s got the deepest Brown eyes ever! I just don’t know if there would be anything there or if I am just lonely and upset about my own break-up which has been going on 9 mos. I am NOT going to do anything drastic or move fast i know that. He was even telling me how he could come over once a week so I could make him a meal (its been a long time, and he works so much he hasn’t had one) he made quirky comments like now dont try to make a pass on me. But he was so interested in my life asking me all kinds of questions and I guess trying to know me but I’m still a mystery not many people do get me. But I do smile when he’s around and he’s funny,smart and hard working. SOrry for making this a BOOK!!! hah…. anyone have any advice for me?
‘organized’ is the American English way of spelling it and ‘organised’ is the British English way. And technically, the English language is from England.
From Wikipedia: English is a West Germanic language that originated in Anglo-Saxon England.
hi there
im a virgo girl and this is the second time ive been with an aquarius man. it completes me in every possible way! i have never been so compatible with someone like i am now with my recent aquarius man! he is my world and why things work for us is because we know when to be with each other for support, love etc..and we also know when to take time out for ourselves! we both have short tempars but we both know when to back down or just walk away when things gets too hot. in the bedroom things are magical! every time we have intercorse it is something diffrent and spontanius and i totally love it! i must disagree with this thing saying we only got an intellectual connection! they clearly havnt seen the power of this couple together.
i would like to encourage all virgo women if they have an aquarius man they shouldnt hesitate to be with him! it could be the best time of their lives together so go out there and enjoy ur man with everything you have!
xxx
i’ve always read that the virgos are far more into aquarians than vice versa.
i’m an aquarius. with a virgo. it’s nice, there’s attraction. but i always feel like the virgo i’m seeing either holds back, or does not have as much passion as i do. so it makes me hold mine back as well. i suppose neither of us wants to get screwed over so we play it safe. which could get boring.
i got quite offended by this reading, but then again, it’s read by the sun.
i’m Aquarius and i have been with a virgo man for almost a year now. when we first met at the high school football game i couldn’t keep my eyes off him. something about him had caught my attention. he’s so free. he doesn’t really care about getting hurt or anything, he’s very confident in wat he chooses. so i think he’s an aquarius at heart lol and i’m a virgo at heart cause it’s so hard to show myself to him. i had to push myself into showing him more of myself ever since we’ve gotten pregnant [the sex life was.. AUHMAZING!]] lol we got pregnant 3 months after we had gotten together but i can’t say i regret this. i love my baby so much, he’s due in sept so he’s going to be a virgo JUST LIKE HIS DAD lol. but we have our arguments and watnot. i mean come on we’re opposite. i’m closed in, he’s so open. i can’t even walk around naked for him lmfao even though we had sex more than 3 times a day since we got together [this pregnancy made it better lol i tease him for having a fetish for pregnant women] we’re planning on getting married once we can get on our feet.
tia&dylan4everwithbabyEanon
I am a Virgo female and have been with my Aquarius man for four months. Due to circumstances I had to move in with him in the first month. Its been blissful and we actually talk about the future together. He was the first to bring up the topic of marriage etc. We have stupid arguments sometimes, but its all a learning process. We are at least able to communicate to each other about our issues and resolve them fast. This is the first time I see a promising future with him. Oh and seems very loyal.
I’m an Aquagirl and find Virgo boys, summed up in one word, are boring.
I am a virgo that has been married for almost 2 years. We have three little ones and we are both pretty young. I have always had feelings for one of his friends (which is an aquar.) I usually see him once a year but every time we meet there is this strong chemistry there. My husband and I have not had a good relationship for a long time and I am torn between what to do. I have a lot of heart felt interest in my husband’s aquar. friend. My question is-how serious can this guy really be? I mean really, who wants the kind of baggage that I have? Is an aquar. really one to want this type of situation? Is this bound to be an affair and that is all? I want to let him know that I really feel something for him, but I don’t want him to feel pressure because I am considering something more serious in the future. Don’t get me wrong I am all about taking time to get to know one another, I just really don’t want to get hurt? Is it like an aqar. man to go after a married woman of a friend and partly want it for the excitement of how wrong it is, and also because he is attracted to a girl, and for no other reason? I am not trying to be someone’s entertainment with no chance of relationship possibility.
please help me i need advice. i’m a virgo girl and i think i’m in love with an aquarius guy. i did let him go because of my clingy attitude and now i want him back. what advice can you give me? i really want him back. now i;m having my regrets of letting him go.
i think the trick to love…
its to see yourself in the reflection of the one you love..that in the end …
its you who you love in the eyes of that person
virgo and acuarius are Earth and Air,
like ying and yang…
remember that pain cannot live without love.
imperfection makes perfection.
that the only way to learn.
Acuarius will give Virgo Air to dream up in sky
so Virgo can express that Mountain of Earth for him to stand when he feels lost.
remember that you need a hole of air to make the mountains.
perfect balance..
What is it about Virgo men??? I can spot them out of any crowd-they mesmorize me, make me crazy, dizzy with lust, and once you make a move and get them, they then back off a bit. That damn spark thing is inevitable. I’ve dated many virgo men, they lure me in with that smoldering sexual energy…I once had a 7 year affair with an engaged virgo because we had fun, sex, and were totally comfortable together. We laughed alot-great conversations. The attraction is undeniable, but then the sex seems to be “come to me”. Sex is warm and wonderful, but never quiet as exciting as I think it will be. These men never make first moves!!!!It’s always me making the first moves-strange, but then they never quite go away…My current friend is 27 and I’m 42. I am free-spirited and very independent, but like this relationship, and think I want to keep him. The backing up thing has started, but he proclaims to adore me-making future plans for trips, dates, etc..Any suggestions? Help-
I am an Aquarius man, and I truly feel for the people who have the fortune (and sometimes misfortune) to love us. We are such a diverse sign, with so many different ‘types’ of Aquarians — We can’t even be consistently ‘weird’ like we’re supposed to be, haha. I am not even remotely the same person I was 10 years ago — Sometimes it seems like the only consistent thing about us is the need for change. And while it can be exciting, it can also be exhausting for those who tie themselves to us.
@Virgo Gal Infatuated With Aquarius Man:
I can only speak for myself, but this is what I have seen with myself when I meet a potential love interest: Either I will fall very quickly for her, and start making plans to pursue a relationship, or she will not quite meet the threshold, and things will get very arbitrary. One day, I might see a romantic comedy and think about her as a potential girlfriend, and maybe even propose going out to the movies, and another day, I’ll be really interested in my work or a project and totally forget about her. This can be really maddening to the girl. And sometimes, maybe even years later, I will kick myself for not having really pursued it. But again, years later I might meet someone new, and think that it was for the best that I didn’t pursue it.
So what I am saying, is that for me, it is either head over heels (which sometimes ends with a broken heart for me, but I understand and accept that that is the price for trying), or else a weird ‘friendship’ if they aren’t quite everything that I am looking for. It unfortunately sounds like your Aquarian guy is either like that, or is a player. My advice is to let it go - either by truly ‘just being his friend’ (without having a hidden agenda to form a relationship) - and after awhile being friends, he may decide to take it further (Aquarians who haven’t fallen for someone hate to be emotionally badgered into a relationship). Or you can just stop contacting him (WITHOUT telling him that you are interested in possibly pursuing a friendship), and see if he then starts pursuing you. It is like the old saying - “You don’t know what you have until it’s gone”. Losing you may make him realize what he is missing. Alternatively, if it was never there in the first place, then he won’t try to make contact any more.
Sorry if this seems a bit rough, but those are my honest thoughts.