Aquarius Compatibility With Scorpio |
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Aquarius and Scorpio
I shall start with perhaps the only good thing about this air/water combination. Sex. They have a wild time in the bedroom, due to the Scorpio’s volatility and Aquarius’s imagination. Sadly once this diminishes there will be nothing left to make it worthwhile.
Aquarius is very independent and hate’s being questioned about his whereabouts. The Aquarius mate will be pleased to let his/her partner go out with friends as long as they are safe with no questioning on their return. The Scorpio on the other hand is less independent and far more possessive. They get jealous very quickly and the Aquarius’s free spirited attitude will lead to the suspicious side of the Scorpio rising to the surface.
This pair may find they become allies in business and reaching goals and will be one aspect where they can relax and get along quite well. Scorpio is very encouraging of their Aquarius lover’s idea’s and will be right behind them egging them on to do well. Aquarius you may find you have met your match when it comes to stubbornness. Try as you might, you will find that the Scorpio will not budge, and as you won’t either, the likelihood is that once this happens it could be the beginning of the end.
Friend’s is a good place to start, but just be aware that although you may find each other attractive the longevity of this union isn’t long lasting.
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November 21st, 2009 at 9:02 pm
Hey..
This is for any of the scorpio woman willing to answer….
My story shortly is like this, there was a mutual interst/attraction between me and a scorpio girl. It kept going for about 7-8 months. I didnt confess my feelings and neither did she. But kept making her feel special thrugh my gestures. Even she was being caring of me. No doubt about that. But cant make out if it was just friendship or more. Then out of blue she told about she being very interested in someone else, right in front of me as if she was wanting to see my reaction. I since then decided to keep things for friendship only. But i dont get the her way of disclosing the news about the other guy. why did she do it like that? to hurt me? to provoke me? I dont understand it.
She sometimes shows me his photos even when i didnt ask to see. Can anyone PLEASE explain this behavior to me. Beatress,.. where are u dear..?
January 1st, 2010 at 9:34 pm
I AM AN AQUARIUS FEMALE AND I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCORPIO MALE. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A YEAR AND A HALF. IN THE BEGINNING LIKE A LOT OF THE POSTS DESCRIBES IN THE FIRST FEW MONTHS EVERYTHING WAS WONDERFUL. THE SEX WAS AND STILL IS GREAT! BUT UNFORTUNATELTY THE LONGER WE DATE THE NEWNESS OF THE RELATIONSHIP IS STARTING TO WEAR OFF AND MY SIGHT IS REALLY BEGINNING TO COME CLEAR. ALL THE LITTLE THINGS I HATED ABOUT HIM IN THE BEGINNING OF THE RELATIONSHIP THAT I OVERLOOKED BECAUSE OF INFATUATION I GUESS YOU COULD SAY IS NOW STARTING TO BUG THE HELL OUT OF ME. FOR INSTANCE HE IS SUCH A SECRETIVE PERSON. HE ALWAYS LOOKS AS IF HE IS UP TO SOMETHING EVEN IF HE’S NOT.LET ME JUST SAY FOR THE RECORD HE HAS NEVER CHEATED ON ME, AT LEAST THAT I KNOW OF, BUT I REALLY DONT THINK HE HAS) ITS JUST HIS PERSONALITY TO LOOK AS IF HE IS ALWAYS HIDING SOMETHING. ON THE OTHER HAND I AM VERY OPEN ABOUT EVERYTHING. IF I AM LEAVING THE HOUSE I’LL LET HIM KNOW WITHOUT HIM HAVING TO ASK ME SO IF ANY THING WERE TO HAPPEN HE’LL KNOW WHERE TO FIND ME. WITH HIM EVERYTHING IS HUSH HUSH. I HAVE TO ASK AND I DONT LIKE TO DO THAT. BOTH OF US ARE VERY STUBBORN AND THAT CAN GET REALLY OLD AFTER A WHILE.TRUST ME. ANOTHER THING THAT BUGS ME IS THAT HE PUTS A LOT OF EMPHASIS ON MONEY. TO ME MONEY GOES AND COME, COME AND GOES. IF I HAVE SOME GREAT IF I DONT SO WHAT. I FEEL LIKE I AM DATING 2 DIFFERENT PEOPLE. ONE SIDE IS LOVING, CALM,CARING, GIVING, PASSIONATE, JUST GREAT. AND THE OTHER SIDE IS THE EXACT OPPOSITE. SOMETIMES I JUST LOOK AT HIM AND WONDER WHAT IS GOING THROUGH HIS MIND.I AM VERY FORGIVING AND AVOID CONFLICTS AND HE NEVER FORGETS ANYTHING THAT SOMEONE HAS DONE TO UPSET HIM, EVEN HIS FATHER WHO HAS BEEN DEAD FOR 14 YEARS. DONT GET ME WRONG I HAVE HAD SOME TERRIBLE THINGS TO HAPPEN IN MY PAST INCLUDING THE MURDER OF MY FIANCEE AND DEATH OF MY SON BUT WHAT HAS HAPPENED HAS HAPPENED. MY PHILOSOPY IS MY BEST DAYS ARE AHEAD OF ME. THE COSTANT REMEMBERING OF WRONGDOINGS TO HIM ARE REALLY GETTING ON MY NERVE, BUT I STILL LOVE HIM. I WISH I COULD CHANGE JUST A COUPLE OF THINGS. I REALLY LOVE HIM BUT I STARTING TO THINK MAYBE MY HAPPINESS AND LIVELIHOOD ARE BEING COMPROMISED. WHY SHOULD ONLY ONE PERSON HAVE TO COMPROMISE TO MAKE IT WORK AND NOT THE OTHER. SORRY SO LONG JUST HAD A LOT ON MY MIND. PS HE TREATS MY KIDS JUST LIKE THEY ARE HIS OWN. IM TORN ON WHAT TO DO
March 6th, 2010 at 8:51 pm
I am a 25 year old aquarian male, just got out of a short-lived intense relationship with a scorpio female (21). This was a long distance relationship and at first we seemed passionately in love. But after about a month I began to feel smothered even from 1300 miles away, and thats not good. Now we never had a single argument, the sex was pretty good, but I could not live up to her constant demands of affection, esp. public displays. Also it seemed like she would just agree with everything I said and had no opinons of her own. Our conversations began to run dry and bascially revolved around her daily activities. She would of course expect me to mirror by telling my routine activites which, true to my aquarian nature, tends to become very annoying and ticks me off. She was optimistic to the bitter-end even when I told her that I had no true feelings or desire to be with her. She kept calling and acting like we were still in a relationship until I just outright stopped responding to her. They say that when you hold air under water it will simply float to the top and try to escape; thats a good metaphore for my relationship. I am an aquarius and I love my freedom, this scorpio was just way too heavy and way too emotional for me.
April 11th, 2010 at 3:22 pm
Dear D.D,
are you still active on this site?
if you are let me know..are you still interested in that scorpio girl?any changes?
she did that stuff to make you jealous, that was my technique too
we see love through jealousy, which is wierd for aquarians..
April 15th, 2010 at 3:00 am
In response to the original article by Becky:
I’m an Aquarius girl, dating a Scorpio guy, and in true aquarian fashion,
I refuse to conform
to the notion that we can’t make things work. I know that that wasn’t your ultimate conclusion, Becky, but I want to put the idea out there, that yes, such a relationship will be a challenge, and whatever the outcome, it will be worth it. (Even if we break up, I’d still have learned a lot) And it’s almost ironic that I refuse what the stars say based on what the stars say, perhaps purpousefully so.
Robert - a little part of me fell in love with you from your first comment alone - you speak of logic, growth and making things happen - thank you for pointing out those very important things.
April 19th, 2010 at 5:20 am
This is for Johnny, comment number 10. He mentions his Birthday is January 24, mine is the 23 and I’m in the process of dating a Scorpio. Based on what I know of Astrology, I’m have more tendencies of Capricorn yet still Aquarius. And Scorpios are attracted to Capricorns. So I think these two can work, just depends on what kind of Aquarius or Scorpio you are.
June 2nd, 2010 at 11:08 pm
im an aquarius woman and hav the most amazing man evr. my scorpio is an amazing man. although he gets 2 emotional 4 me 2 handle we think very alike. he can be possessive. but i dont think 2 much of it. he can b a bully but he treats me like a lady. he is the best thing thats happened 2 me. this relationship is a wonderful experience. the aquarian teaches the scorpio the things they lack in and the scorpio makes the aquarius to have a desire to strive to be a better person.
October 7th, 2010 at 3:09 am
I totally agree with this compatibility because i love sex with my dude it just sucks he wont be my lover forever. but oh well looks like im moving to someone im more compatible with.
October 27th, 2010 at 7:27 pm
There are a lot of times where the romanticism totally not there and focus on their manga domain. There will be a lot of time skip too so school life essentially not central, you will no longer see the school after few episodes. The romance a great deal served as back stories, a plot function for Mashiro to sustain on running, though there are some evolutions but they are not weighted a great deal to the key plot.
December 29th, 2010 at 10:38 am
Hello Beatriz,
sorry for my delayed reply.
Am i still interested in her? I am. however, we have just made things so complicated. I love her and hate her too. I am also angry at her. Once when this new boyfriend of hers, me, some other friends and she were talking, sitting on a sofa, she tried to hold my hand twice but I took my hand away as I was angry at her games. Then when she went back to her country, she didn’t contact me at all as if it was my punishment for ignoring her while she was here. Then I contacted once to which she replied very briefly, which I didn’t like. So I also didn’t contact any further. Now, I am not contacting her or any of our common friends and she is not contacting me either.
I want her to regret what she did. Well by the way, she has done few things which really pleased me while she was away. Like wearing the dress which I gifted her and quitting smoking which I had been asking her for long time.
She is nice, however crazy at the same time.
Thanks for your reply.
December 30th, 2010 at 8:17 am
Its quite depressing this theoretical incompatibility. I’ve noticed that there is a great attraction between these 2 signs - it’s a pity that they (+we) are not meant to last !!
January 11th, 2011 at 1:16 am
I’ve been holding off posting on this thread b/c I do not want to dampen the spirits of those in a new aqua/scorp relationship. I’ve also been holding off because it is slightly overwhelming to analyze such an intense match. In my experience, it started out beautifully (with both scorpion men). I have to recognize that there is a magnetic connection between Aquarius and Scorpio, and I am still trying to figure out what it is. Scorpio is always very cool at first. Not wanting to give away their true thoughts/feelings and looking very hot doing so. This is intriguing for the Aquarius soul and we naturally want to discover what’s underneath the cool, sexy, exterior. I had no idea what I was getting into. My most important scorpio is the father of my son, who is now four. At first, he was everything I thought I wanted. affectionate, carefree, fun, and thoughtful. I later realized that this is not who he actually was. He had put on a very convincing act in order to win me over. He did win me over, and intentionally got me pregnant with the reasoning that it was the only way he knew he could keep me. The sex, of course, was fantastic. The rest, was a disaster. Once the act was over, he turned into a very scary, jealous, manipulative, manic depressive mess. Ive never been emotionally abused in such a way as when my scorpio lost his composure. It is a phenomenon that still baffles me. Because I could not comprehend the magnitude of his emotions, it drove him even crazier. Emotionally, we are completely incompatible. No one feels as deeply as the scorpio, leastly the Aquarius. I have been surrounded by scorpio my entire life and i love them all (my son is also scorp:) Romantically, it is nearly impossible. There is always an exception to the rule, but my experience says do not invest in this relationship and do not be surprised when your scorp’s tightly bottled emotions explode into something your aquarian heart cannot mend or comprehend. We have worked out a friendship over the years, but the tension always remains and it is difficult to live with at times. Enjoy the sex, because this pair is AMAZING in the sac, but parenting is a lifelong struggle with a magnetism that is coupled with hate, hurt, and frustration
Best of luck to all. Peace and Love.
January 27th, 2011 at 9:00 pm
Im a scorpio female and my love is an aquarius male. We argue and have many controversies but in the end we have learned so much from each other. We started off as friends, slowly started dating. Were on and off for about a year. And now we have been stable with each other from almost two month and proceeding. Our views are different but… we start to mold with one another and the love and determination to understand each other is outstanding. I love him more and more every day and his passion and loyalty creates a secure atmosphere for me. I mean.. yes at first our relationship was horrible. But the more we communicated and saw each others points-of-views, our relationship has grown to so much more than just us being together. I literally think he is my soulmate. We plan on moving in with each other in June 2011. All I can say is, if both parties really want to be together.. it is worth it. In the end there is so much love, compassion and truthfulness.. it’s amazing. I’ve never met anyone like him in my life.
February 23rd, 2011 at 5:18 pm
My husband is Aquarius, and I am a Scorpion. We are married for 15 years, and have the deepest relationship. Most of the relationship is about the same interest we have, questioning everything, love the outdoors. He thought me a lot about being kind and I thought him a lot about how to live a more free life. Anyways, this relationship can work very well.
May 15th, 2011 at 7:55 am
D.D. and Beatrix
After reading comments of you two, I really felt that I am exactly in the same situation. I have been in touch with this scorpio girls for about 5 to 6 months, and I have a crush on her. It is, however, quite hard for me to figure out whether she likes me or not. When everything first began, we started as friends, then went into deeper level, dated, and kept in touch. However, as I knew she was going back home just about a month later or so, and not coming back for at least three years, I told her that its best if we just stayed friends. Now, that was my poor attempt to not let myself get too attached to her as I knew we were going sideways. Except for love topics, nothing really changed between our day to day talks, and we still kept in touch. My attempt, however, proved to be a failure as I was even more attracted to her. She did exactly what Beatrix said scorpios do, as she pretended that she was in touch with several other guys, and tried to make me jealous. As an Aquarius, I didn’t really say anything about it, but I was hurt inside. The thing is that she never really does the first move, and always expects me to do the first move without showing me enough evidence that she likes me. Ever since I told her that we would stay friends, this entire relationship thing turned into one complicated puzzle. Having a “friend” banner, our relationship was/is much like of a couple. And just like D.D.’s scorpio partner, she called me sweetheart couple times as well. You may be thinking, she obviously likes you, what’s the problem? I know it sounds silly, but even though I previously told her that its best if we stayed friends, I once again expressed myself before she left, that I still liked her. She kept me waiting for an hour or so, and replied that we agreed to stay friends, so let’s keep to that agreement. Because I was rejected like that, I no longer have that courage to stand and ask her if she likes me anymore. Yet, she tells me about her secrets and generally shows “hints” that are interpreted to me as a sign that she likes me. Now, she tells me that we’re BFF, and that could be the reason she is so open to me as well. But can a true friendship exist between male and female who previously had been dating? She even writes statuses and keeps me up to date, uploads photos just for me on her social network(I know that because it’s a russian website where all of her friends are russian, and she writes in english, and description of her photos are directed towards me) Along with that,she told me that I was/am her “ideal”, and even that she “likes me a looot” jokingly. Now, it may just be that she treats me as her good friend but nothing else,and I may be over imagining things. I just wanted to know if showing that much care towards their friends of opposite sex is common for scorpios.
June 14th, 2011 at 5:41 am
I see alot of comments from people who only been in their relationship 1-3 years. Try 6 years in with your mate then see if that changes cuz trust me it does. Im a aquarius male and my girlfriend is a scorpio, Im still forcing myself to make it work but after 3 years the conversation is no longer stimulating at all and when that goes the sex goes with it. My interest is fading and im trying hard for it not too but after so much compromising and empty conversations you start to think this cant be life with the your soulmate.
August 25th, 2011 at 4:18 am
I am sad because what I think Becky is saying is true. I hate this Aquarius Scorpio Stigma…. How can I keep things interesting? Would it be wise to withhold sex from Scorpio? How can I get him to contact me? Why won’t he contact me? I need help and I am freakin out a little bit because I am crazy about this man and I don’t know what to do. We had a wonderful time together and he told me wonderful things. Was that just pillow talk? I tried to show him that I care about him more then sex. I wanna take the time to find out who he is and that I care and that he can trust me. I really like Scorpio. Why is this so difficult. I just want to love him.
January 2nd, 2012 at 9:56 am
Mary,
02/02/1944 is not a Scorpio.
It is Aquarius like yourself.