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Aquarius and Scorpio
I shall start with perhaps the only good thing about this air/water combination. Sex. They have a wild time in the bedroom, due to the Scorpio’s volatility and Aquarius’s imagination. Sadly once this diminishes there will be nothing left to make it worthwhile.
Aquarius is very independent and hate’s being questioned about his whereabouts. The Aquarius mate will be pleased to let his/her partner go out with friends as long as they are safe with no questioning on their return. The Scorpio on the other hand is less independent and far more possessive. They get jealous very quickly and the Aquarius’s free spirited attitude will lead to the suspicious side of the Scorpio rising to the surface.
This pair may find they become allies in business and reaching goals and will be one aspect where they can relax and get along quite well. Scorpio is very encouraging of their Aquarius lover’s idea’s and will be right behind them egging them on to do well. Aquarius you may find you have met your match when it comes to stubbornness. Try as you might, you will find that the Scorpio will not budge, and as you won’t either, the likelihood is that once this happens it could be the beginning of the end.
Friend’s is a good place to start, but just be aware that although you may find each other attractive the longevity of this union isn’t long lasting.
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June 15th, 2008 at 10:48 am
It saddens me greatly to discover that I an aquarian born 29/01/1946 and my scorpio born 2/02/1944 are so incompatible as I have been widowed for 5 years and he is the first person I have taken any interest in. He is extremely passionate and we are so much in love after only 2 and a half months but knowing it is not going to last has dpressed me
June 19th, 2008 at 6:57 am
Hi MAry,
Don’t be depressed. It can all depend on the other aspects of your chart as well. If you both want to make it work then with the right outlook and understanding you could be able to have a wonderful relationship. This is just one aspect of your chart.
Love & Light
Becky
July 10th, 2008 at 9:37 pm
Mary, don’t let your astrological sign dictate your relationships. You and your partner are both seperate people will varying experiences that have shaped your personalities. Take the information on this site with a grain of salt. If you’re both in love and are willing to make an effort your relationship will thrive (regardless of your astrological compatibility).
I think Aquarius and Scorpio make a beautiful couple.
July 17th, 2008 at 12:05 pm
Hi Becky!!
I actually think aqua man and scorpio woman is a much better match than most people assume. I am giving you and others who are interested in this match a link. It’s an interesting site. Please visit it. I have put my comments there.
OK. this is the link
http://brightstarlights.wordpress.com/2007/09/04/scorpio-women-love-aquarius-men/
LOVE @ LIGHT
RUTU
July 24th, 2008 at 2:07 am
This is interesting. I’m a 11/11 Scorpio male, my girlfriend is Aquarian. I also was a bit depressed to learn of our astrological incompatability - at least according to our core attributes that is.
However, I think their’s a lot of truth in what Becky says above, at least according to my own experience. I see my girlfriend as a wonderfully ‘good’ person and I admire that greatly. I find that if she is treated with honesty, fairness and respect, she (at least it appears to me!) to be happy and content. I also find her to be an amazingly interesting person on all sorts of levels and I truly respect her open-mindedness and general willingness to understand different points of view.
That’s why I think it works anyway!
Thanks Becky.
August 19th, 2008 at 4:11 am
Interesting thoughts on the Scorpio and Aquarian relationship. I am a Nov. Scorpio female, and my mate is an Aquarius, Jan, male. I love him more and more each day. It’s a love like none that I have known before. Do not get me wrong we do have bumps in the road, but every bump that we have encountered has been worth every smile and special moment we share. But heck who doesn’t have bumps and issues in their relationships.
If Scorpios can tempering their suspicions and possessive ways and become more open minded, this can be a match made in heaven. It takes work but it’s fruitful work, and all relationships require work.
Don’t let a dismal read on compatibility or the stars deter you. Instead take that information and use it to make changes and improve the chances of success for your love. Just think of it as a challenge instead of an obstacle. And besides, Scorps are really good at overcoming obtacles.
I agree with Jasmine- Scorpio and Aquarius do make a beautiful couple!
And Rutu thanks for the site!
Love and Happiness,
Ley
August 22nd, 2008 at 4:19 am
when we first saw each other it felt as we had known eachother forever. when we first started talikng we were convinced that we were soulmates after just talking over the phone in 2days. i scorpio learned from the aqua man how not to be jealous still working on the possiveness. they are so loveable u just want to around them all the time.
September 7th, 2008 at 4:04 am
I think a Scorpio male and an Aquarius female is terrible. My Scorpio is an introvert to my extrovert. He is selfish, and complains about everything I do or say. He never wants to take the lead and make decisions, wanting and letting (making) me make them, that way he can blame anything and everything on me if it is bad or perceived wrong decision in hindsite.
September 17th, 2008 at 12:33 am
quiero que en verdad me digan con que hombre soy compatible quiero un geminis…
September 17th, 2008 at 2:16 am
Hi
I am an Aquarius male Jan 24th and my lover Suann Scorpio Oct 31 ( halloween born at 10:31 Pm). Well we were friends at first for about a month always had eyes for eachother, and I am pretty sure she is my soulmate. We only been serious for about 3 months. We already live together and never been in one arguement, we alaways seem to talk not argue. I just last week found out about our sign incompatability. We have a very strong understanding for eachother and make a GREAT team. I think our love is stronger than our astrolgy.
September 20th, 2008 at 12:21 am
I’m not too sure how long a “long term” relationship is, but I am an aquarius woman and have been dating a scorpio man for a long time. We are about to have our one year aniversary in December and we are still in love. When I read about our incompatability I was a little sad, but then I got over it ^_^. I love my little scorpion so much! I hope you do too…
September 20th, 2008 at 6:33 pm
I Know many scorpios, and I tend to distance my self from them, thinking they are very mean and very full of themselves at some point, But the truth is that they are too deep for me to handle.
I’ve never been in love with a scorpio but My bestfriend was scorpio and i loved Him more Than I can Eever describe, I protected him Like a child and if he hurt me I’d think its cute instead of being hurtful as well.
I think That some Aquarius do Match withb scorpios,if worked on it.
For all the People who posted their courageus opinions here, Don’t let the small things be an excuse to Give up.
September 23rd, 2008 at 8:34 pm
iam glad other female scopios feel the way i do
September 24th, 2008 at 8:23 am
I am a female (scorpio) and my boyfriend is an aquarian. We’ve been living together for awhile now. We have problems like every other couple but he is very sweet to me and very understanding. I’ve read quite a bit about zodiac signs and to be honest…they can really start to drain you. You begin to look for these qualities that supposedly describe your mates personality. This can cause real problems, because once you start doing that you begin to talk yourself out of the relationship and you forget about all the things you have in common and how much you really care about them. It’s called the “self-fulfilling prophecy”. So needless to say, in the end, you basically convince “yourself” that your mate is exactly how their zodiac described. Which in turn…doesn’t shock you when it doesn’t work out. So my advice to everyone is to take it with a grain of salt…because reading too much into the zodiac can be cause some unnecessary mental anguish.
September 24th, 2008 at 10:02 am
Thanks for the comment. Just to put my own input in, I understand what you’re saying, but I do think it depends how you read. To me Astrology isn’t about avoiding people of certain signs it is about learning how to understand people better. All signs do have their own unique ways of doing things, and some signs can deal with it better than others, for example an Aquarius paired with a Gemini have less problems than say if they are with a Virgo. All I wish to do here is to highlight these points and then hopefully with understanding comes wisdom and a much happier union for everyone involved.
Love & Light
Becky
September 24th, 2008 at 10:27 am
I really like this Aqua! Can you pls advise me on how to “get him”…lolx
October 2nd, 2008 at 4:35 pm
Funny thing. Last night I dreamed I had three
Scorpios following me around in a movie theatre
And I told them to just go away.lol
Well from what I know of Scorpios, their
comments can really sting you bad. or on the
other side make you feel better than anyone
can. But they do like to feel powerful, so be
careful. Of course a lot depends on other
aspects in the chart to.
Control usually doesn’t go well with an
Aquarius Girl…!!
October 4th, 2008 at 10:38 am
I’m a 23 years old aquarian man, who deeply fell in love with a 19 years old Scorpio girl.. First girl ever who make me cry like a baby but beside the fact that she may be not ready for a long term relation I see in her something that she do not see..
Is that normal for a Scorpio girl to refuse to be love and trying to sabotage the relation by doing things without thinking??? Almost think that she scared to show to the world that she love me …
me 25 January her 6 November
I passed over a lot of think to be with her
As you said it at the beginning SEX is more than great but she still need to be more open minded..
By the way I’m a french canadian guy so sorry for my bad English… and she a Newfie both from Canada…both stubborn
comments will be grantly appreciated
October 4th, 2008 at 7:04 pm
Hi There,
I am Aquarius…Aquarius and Scorpio..Well in one word….Forgeddaboutit….I have known a few and they are just way too intense for me. I don’t want someone to slash my tires because I don’t want to see them..The only way you can hold their interests is to pretend (or be real) that you do not want them…Now who wants a reationship like that..?? Pretty unhealthy I’d say.
Ya know sometimes I wonder if there really is a compatible sign for Aquarians.. Altho I have loved Libras…Best was Libra snake to my Aquarius Oxen…and then he died of cancer. excuse me while I say damit..please.!!
Good Luck.
October 11th, 2008 at 6:06 am
I AM AN AQUARIUS FEMALE, AND MY BOYFRIEND IS A SCORPIO. WE MET 3YRS AGO. I WAS ATTRACTED TO HIM AND VICE VERSA. WE STARTED TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER AND BECAME MORE AND MORE INTERESTED IN ONE ANOTHER. WE BECAME GREAT FRIENDS AND LOVERS ASWELL. WELL, SUMMER CAME TO AN END SO THINGS WERE NOT THE SAME SINCE WE SPEND LESS TIME TOGETHER BUT WE STILL REMAIN IN TOUCH, I GOT INVOLVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE HE JOINED THE MILITARY AND LOST TOUCH. WHEN HE CAME BACK A COUPLE OF MONTHS LATER HE TOLD ME HE WAS ENGAGED AND THAT JUST BROKE MY HEART, I FELT LIKE I HAD LOST THE MOST AMAZING MAN I HAVE EVER MET AND MY BEST FRIEND AT THE SAME TIME. WE STARTED TALKING AGAIN, AS FRIENDS OFCOURSE. HE WAS MY REFUGE, MY DIARY, THE ONLY PERSON THAT I COULD ACTUALLY TALK TO AND NOT JUDGE ME AND HE FELT THE SAME. HIS RELATIONSHIP CAME TO AN END, HIS FIANCEE CHEATED ON HIM AND I WAS THERE TO CONSOLE HIM. A FEW MONTHS LATER I FLEW OUT TO THE MILITARY BASE TO VISIT HIM AND IT WAS LIKE WE WERE NEVER APART. TILL THIS DAY HE HIS MY LOVER AND MY NEST FRIEND.
I LOVE HIM LIKE I HAVE NEVER LOVED BEFORE, YES WE MAY HAVE OUR DIFFERENCES AND BUMP HEADS FROM TIME TO TIME, BUT LOVE CAN OVERCOME ANYTHING, EVEN THE DISTANCE BETWEEN US, WITH HIM BEING IN THE MILITARY AND HAVING TO LEAVE EVERY NOW AND THEN. WHEN YOU LOVE… IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHING.
I MUST AGREE AQUARIANS AND SCORPIONS ARE THE BEST COUPLES. ITS LIKE A CHALLENGE THAT YOU CANNOT RESISIT.
I LOVE ME A SCORPIO!! I LOVE MY SAILOR!!
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October 11th, 2008 at 6:13 pm
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I am a november Scorpio female and my mate is an January Aquarius male.
I have had it with him. He’s too aloof and nonchalant for me. Ive been dating him for 2 years and known him for 3 and we have only gone to the movies 2 times and both times he made me pay for HIM and myself. He never wants to do anything but smoke weed and have sex and listen to HIS cds even if we’re in my car… he wont even let me play my own music IN MY OWN CAR.
My grandma passed away 5 months ago and my mom went to take care of my grandmothers home in another state… i couldnt go because I had to work.
In that week I was at home alone trying to cope with my ONLY grandparents passing.. i had to call my aqaurius guy and find out where he was and literally break down in tears and curse him out before he got the idea to come over and be with me in such a sad time in my life. I called him to let him know my grandma passed away at 11 am and he wouldnt even pick up to see what I wanted until 9pm.
… he was too busy being an ass to care.
I tried to break up with him 1 year ago during christmas.. and he harrasssed me. He found out the number to job and called and hung up everyday. I almost got fired. He fought so hard to not lose me and then I took him back and he treats me like dog crap.
For christmas last year… he gave me a card and a picture of him from 2002. I didnt even know him in 2002!!! He asked me for new shoes and a watch.
He will spend my last dime so that he can keep his crisp 10 dollar bill in his pocket.
I am talking to a new aqaurius now and he is nothing like my ex.
October 12th, 2008 at 8:39 am
In respond to Chanel Divine,
I’m an aquarius from January 25th,
You did the right choice by let him go ….
Being an aquariud does not mean you be perfect … but smoking weed and be an asshole does not help at all to have a good relation…. My scorpio ex GF have a drinking problem if she drink she can’t stop so she dis stupid stuff like kissing guys in bars and many others things …. I do not lost my respect for other scorpio female who I have to say really hard to understand but so sweat and passionate. If they do not go crazy LOL it’s okay I run fast
good luck in your new relation
October 12th, 2008 at 8:41 am
me again Divine Chanel I like to cover my GF with Gifts my only things I asked in return is a smile and a kisse…. some people are just cheap may be he would offer you some weed LOL
October 12th, 2008 at 8:43 pm
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In response to Pier and for anyone else who wouldnt mind reading…
I have only stopped talking to my ex aquarius 1 week ago last sunday …so Im not even sure if he’s yet aware that he is now my EX. We argued on sunday and I asked him why he treated me so bad. As a scorpio it is very important for me to find out WHY…to me there is always a reason behind what people do. Good or bad.
Instead of answering my question he flipped it on me and tried to take the blame off of him to me. He couldnt believe I had just asked him to explain to me how he was any different from past guys who treated me poorly and broke my heart time and time again. Instead of telling me why he instead acted shocked and told me the conversation was OVER, turned up MY car stereo, stared blankly out the window and ignored me when I asked him why one more time.
We sat in silence. And then he had the nerve to try and kiss me and say a faint im sorry in a baby voice.
(A scorpio girl like me can tell a phoney a mile away.)
Like that was supposed to make up for the day he ignored my calls when my grandma died.
That happened last sunday and he didnt call me until wednesday. I picked up the phone to him asking me where I had been. If he was a real boyfriend he would have known I’d been at work…working. And I hadnt been anywhere… I just promised myelf and my grandmother in heaven that I would never see him again as I drove myself home that sunday night.
I guess he was shcked when he didnt get a call from me Monday tuesday or wednesday…I wont lie it was hard for me to do but its not like he ever picks up. I deserve better.
I noticed that he only allows me to come and see him when it is convenient for him. Like after hes used all his energy hanging out with his friends and and its almost 10 pm at night
He is dead to me. A scropio never forgets.
The only problem is every few days now he will call. And I dont have caller id for my house phone so I always pick up. When I hear him say hello, I immediatley hang up.
Thursday night he called and i hung up and he called again and he decided to leave message for me.
It went like this:
“I dont know what the (bleep) your problem is… I dont know WHAT the (bleep) your problem is but you better call me back with in the next 10 minutes….” in his arrogant aqaurius tone.
I called my bestfriend and played the message for her… we both laughed.
Oh I better huh? He wasnt called back.
He called me this morning, but i just slammed the reciever down with out saying a word.
All I wanna know is how could he forget what happened sunday?
He acts like I owe him something. Ive done so much for that guy that he should be leaving messages begging for me to pick up and apologizing for his hurtful ways.
How do you get an aquarius guy to realize youre done with him for good!?
CAN ANYONE GIVE ME SOME TIPS ON WHAT TO DO?
October 13th, 2008 at 8:17 am
Hi Chanel,
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Humm I’m questionning myself on that guy. he really piss me off with his attitude toward you. First truly like you said you deserve better than him. Secondo you can call your phone compagny to complaint about phonw call…
Cellphonw is always the best way to know…
or may be a 5 $ will be more than a good investment for ID Call but even there it’s easy for him to call from a phone booth etc..
May all you need to do is say to him on the phone it’s over or do you want a meet my new BF…. it is very clear is those condition.
May be a odd question but How old is he?
I’m 23 years old sometime I feel like I’m 30 ehne I see jackass like that…
I’m living in Victoria B-C Canada so I see a lot of pot head type of guy….
I wish I could give you the perfect receipe for the solution….
But I do not have it whatever you do you will need to be clear, calm and very in control of yourself do not fall for a fake move ( I know you won’t little scorpio
Do not swear at him do not lower yourself at his level.
He probalby just want that to put the blame on you afterword.
About how can he forget so fast….. what happened thanks god that meant that you are not smoking pot but him yes… so stay away from that jackass….
You do not owe him anything…. walk away be proud that you will find someone better.
Because you will … believe we all do
(I’m still waiting for mine lol )
TTYL
Bonne nuit
( yeah I’m presently in the north pacific Ocean ) viva satellite
October 13th, 2008 at 10:53 am
Hi there, sorry Chanel Devine.. Please read my Oct 4th comment. perhaps Scorpio is just too serious and intense for an Aquarian ass, whose
only interests in life is to have fun where ever and when ever he can find it, and at anyones expense.Especially on drugs. One thing
you can be sure of, they almost always come back to you, just like a bad penny, when some
one else is not available.. It takes them an
awful long time to mature into a lasting
relationship, and when they do, you can bet
that there is something in the relationship
which makes their life a whole lot easier.
Experiment is their middle name..!!Usually
not faithful..
I am an Aquarian, and I have dated both
Aquarians and Scorpios. I once asked my
Aquarius boyfriend at that time,”If we marry would you be faihful, and he said as long as I get what I want”..lol, well at least he was honest.!!Sorry..!!
Best way to lose an aquarius is to stop
responding at all to them, about anything, or move some distance from them.They dont pursue what isnt easy.Too lazy..!!
Chanel, I hope you meet a sweet Pisces or a
kind Cancerian.They love the intense Scorpios.
Best of luck gal..!!
October 13th, 2008 at 11:45 am
Wowowowo Laura… Do not put all the aquarians in the same basket.
Yes we do enjoy our freedom sometime but what’s the point to walk by ourself in the road of life…. I’m 23 years old and I’m looking for a long term relation…. not my first…
Cheating and lying is not part on my phylosophy of life….
My ex GF she is a scorpio and … let me tell you that she not a good girl cheating lies ,, cheating some more,,,… so Am I going to refuse to love a another Scorpio girl for that no way people whatever are their sign are good or bad people…
So yes probably like I said before she should keep walking in the same way she started…
The goal of a forum is to ask for help or receive some not bashing on a group of people.
Sorry but I felt very offended by your last posting but once again I’m not seeing the story from a girl point of view.
At least I try…
October 13th, 2008 at 12:55 pm
Hi Laura,
Remember me! I have been here before. And Chanel Devine that boyfriend of yours is nothing but a looser.And there are loosers in every single sign. Let it be aquarius or scorpio. And dear Laura not all aquarians are frivolous. I am totally offended by your irresponsible comments. I am VERY faithful and understand and care for feelings of others (more than my own).Sorry to say but you need to double check your knowledge on astrology.
I have had scorpio girls in my life and I got along very well with them.
Finally my appologies for you laura if I have offended you in any way.
For Chanel Devine get rid of this parasite as soon as possible. (well you are doing that)
Wish you find a nice, caring aquaris soon.
Love and light
RUTU
October 13th, 2008 at 12:55 pm
Hello Pier..!! And woowoo your ownself.
Yes, I know the purpose of this board, its
about opinions of different signs, and every
one has their own opinion. That is not
bashing.!!It is what they have found to be true.
Good luck in your quest..!! Try not to take
everything personally, even if you are an Aquarian..!!
lol..Guess what.. I am too..!!
October 13th, 2008 at 2:50 pm
Pier The aquarius is 23 and I will be 24 next month
I just want to say THANK YOU for everyone who has replied to my posting. I am feeling a bit dow nand out today.
I saw my aquarius guys myspace page and he is talking to many beautiful girls in his area. I had a gut feeling along time ago that he was talking to other girls but his page was always private so i just thought I was having one of my jealous scorpio thoughts. I asked him if there should be any reason that I would be having thoughts like this and of course the aquarius told me no.. im tripping… im just insecure.
But for some odd reason yesterday his page was not private. He wont even accept me as a friend on his page either. He always denies my request. Today I got to see why.
Ive noticed from this guy how good he is at playing mind games and manipulating me.
I know that I am done with him… but I am so humilated now. The fact that he never ever has mentioned that he was ever with me on his page just hurts. His friends who I see when I am at my aquarius guys house are on his top 8 of friends. And that means that all his friends can see all these other women he is talking to. When I go to his house I bet the aquarius guys friends are all laughing at me because they know I am not the only one.
The one thing I cant stand is to be made to look like a fool. I woke up out of my sleep 3 times last night. I cleaned my whole room and closet yesterday and my heart keeps pumping really fast if I think about everything that has happened.
I have these feelings like I want to plot a revenge but I know that there is no point.
I mean i have already lost… or atleats I feel like the loser.
I just cant believe this. My mind told me something was very wrong and ignored those feelings. Now I feel that I am the one to blame even if others beg to differ.
Its going to be a very long and gloomy day for me its only 7 30 am and I feel all these emotions. I’ve had a stomach ache since I saw my aqaurius myspace page and all his lovely lady friends yesterday afternoon.
But once again thank everyone for being so sweet and giving me these encouaging words. You honestly dont know how much it means to me… just to know some one cared just a little bit.
Thank you
Love,
Chanel
October 13th, 2008 at 4:54 pm
Hello RUTU:
No, I do not remember you. I never saw you in my life nor have I spoken with you.
I take full responsibility for my comments,
or I would not be saying them..They are based on years and years of experience. Maybe you are quite young.
It is true that there are good and bad in all signs, based on many things in the natal
chart…But I have gotten so that I can go
in a group, any group, and after observing
people for half an hour, tell them what their
sign is..It scares people. But its a simple
thing to me.!
Rutu, please do not familiarize your self with
me by endearing phrases. lest I think of you as
the saying of St Francis of Assi, condeming
with faint praise. I do not know you on a
personal level. Thank You. Laura.
October 13th, 2008 at 5:04 pm
Chanel Devine:
My heart goes out to you. I care a lot. Well do
I know those feelings…Yes, and thoroughly
cleaning house with angry energy to spare..LOL
But really it is no laughing matter.
Please start thinking more of yourself. And let
it go..!! You know it isn’t right to assign
blame nor to dwell on something that makes you
feel miserable.
Look for new ways to be happy. There are so
many worth while things you could become
involved with, and while you are reaching out
to help others, the right dude will appear for
you. Work on yourslf. And never be too eager
for a relationship, but let nature take it’s
course. Just remember..if something is truly
meant to be..IT WILL HAPPEN. Just think, now
you are free from a selfsih person, and you
can find someone who really can love you for
the good person you are. Best to you, Laura
October 14th, 2008 at 1:00 am
Chanel Divine … Listen to Laura , She’s true about good things happens to good persons….
You sound like a good girl who will find a better guy now…
Wish you the best luck in the world….
The world is a small place so look left look right may be is already there…
Bye bye
Pier-Adam
October 14th, 2008 at 3:06 pm
Hi,
Thank you Pier, I agree. But also when you stop looking usually you find the right one. My beloved Libra husband passed from cancer.
And, I met him from helping others.I am so lucky to have had that love in this lifetime.
Chanel- I hope you are keeping active, and finding things you enjoy. Maybe this will be a time when you get to know yourself. Best of luck. Laura
What is meant to be, WILL happen…!
October 14th, 2008 at 3:15 pm
I am sorry Pier, on my oct 13 at 12:55 comment, I meant to direct that comment to RUTU.Who was being a bossy aquarius man to me.And it was not directed to you.
We all have a right to express our own ideas and feelings. And this board is for opinions as far as I know..!! If someone wants to take it personally and become mean, that is NOT my responsiblitity. I am here to help, not harm. And I have had my experiences hopes and strengths to share. Thank you, Laura
October 14th, 2008 at 7:19 pm
Hey laura…..
Of course you dont know me. I had commented on this thread earlier. comment 4. Thats why I said that, thinking you might have read it and hence could realise the name. Thats it. As simple as that.
October 22nd, 2008 at 12:30 pm
Chanel Divine, No news good news, I hope that you will give us an update on the situation…. Hope that everything went fines over the last few weeks….
TTYL
Pier-Adam
November 3rd, 2008 at 11:55 pm
HEY,
SO iVE NEVER BEEN ON ANYTHiNG LiKE THiS..BUT i READ EVERYONES COMMENTS AND SOME PEOPLE HAVE THE SAME FEELiNGS AND THOUGHTS AS i DO SO i THOUGHT iD SAY A FEW WORDS & MAYBE ASK FOR ADViCE. i AM A FEMALE AQUARiOUS (FEB 7) AND MY BOY iS A SCORPiO (NOV 11)
SO. WE HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER SiNCE MAY 2008..HE WAS MY ROOMATES BEST FRiEND AND SO WE iN TURN BECAME FRiENDS. BUT AT THE TIME HE WAS WITH HiS EX, WHO iS PREGNANT. THEY MET AND SLEPT TOGETHER ONCE AND THEN SHE WAS PREGNANT. MiNUS ALL THE DETAiLS, iT TURNED OUT THAT iT MiGHT NOT BE HiS BABY. SHE iS 100% DiSABLED DUE TO THE METAL PLATE iN HER HEAD FROM A BAD CAR CRASH..WHiCH iN TURN HAS MADE HER CRAZY.
ANYWAY,ME AND HiM BECAME BEST FRiENDS! AFTER THEY BROKE iT OFF WE COULDNT GET ENOUGH OF EACH OTHER. HE PRACTiCALLY MOVED iNTO MY HOUSE, WHiCH WAS GREAT SiNCE WE WERE ALL FRiENDS AND TiMES WERE AWESOME. HE AND HiS EX STOPPED TALKiNG DUE TO HER iNVOLViNG THE POLiCE, BUT iT BACKFiRED ON HER HAHA. AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER EVER SiNCE. i AM iN LOVE FOR THE FiRST TiME iN MY LiFE!
BUT. TODAY iS THE BABY’S DUE DATE. i HAVE BEEN TALKiNG WiTH HER FOR ABOUT 2 MONTHS NOW..TRYiNG TO BE NiCE AND KEEP THiNGS SMOOTH UNTiL THE BABY WAS BORN SO WE COULD GET A PATERNiTY TEST. LAST NiGHT HOWEVER SHE TEXTED ME AND THiNGS WENT BAD. SHE STARTED BADMOUTHiNG ME AND MY BOY..BADLY. i WAS TiRED OF BEiNG MATURE AND NiCE ABOUT EVERYTHiNG. i SAiD MEAN THiNGS RiGHT BACK.
ALL iN ALL, ME AND MY BOY HAVENT BEEN DOiNG THE GREATEST EiTHER, FiGHTiNG ABOUT NOTHiNG ALL THE TiME. HE DOESNT LiKE TO TALK ABOUT THE BABY. AND WHAT iF THiS BABY iS HiS? HE iS STUBBORN AND iF iT iS HiS BABY, HE WANTS TO GET FULL CUSTODY OF THE BABY AND PUT iT UP FOR ADOPTiON. AND i DONT KNOW iF iM OK WiTH THAT. i COME FROM A BROKEN FAMiLY WiTH NO FATHER. i JUST DONT KNOW iF i WOULD BE OK WiTH THE MAN THAT i LOVE HAViNG A CHiLD SOMEWHERE AND NOT CARiNG FOR iT. BUT THEN AGAiN i CANT STAND HiS EX AND I KNOW SHE iS GOiNG TO MAKE OUR LiVES HELL iF THE BABY STAYS A PART OF OUR LiVES.
WHAT iS A GiRL TO DO??
i AM SO OVERWHELEMED
ASH
November 4th, 2008 at 12:16 pm
Ashlie,
Normally I like to stay out of this stuff, because many girls take them back, when they think they are in love..Irregardless of how they were treated..!!
What is a girl to do..?? First of all try putting yourself in her shoes..how would you feel? And most of all find yourself a good, kind, sweet loving man, who has respect for all living things..remember, you could be the next victim…..Aren’t you worth more??
I am Aquarius also… I said enough.!!
November 4th, 2008 at 12:35 pm
Dear Mary,
In your letter dated June 15, I have to tell you that Scorpio birthdate is NOT 02/02/44.
Jan 22 to Feb 22 is Aquarius. So what you had was a relationship with one of your own sign.!
Blessings..!!
Incidently, I was born on January 29th as well..!! Laura.
November 12th, 2008 at 2:14 am
Well, i have read most of these posts and i think its important to point out a few things. I have been vigorously studying astrology for the last 5 years. I know a very large amount about it and the most important thing i can emphasize is that ITS NOT ALL ABOUT THE SUN SIGN. Depending on what kind of astrology you subscribe to there are anywhere from 9 planets to dozens of planets and asteroids that effect each of us.
It is true that if a person had every planet in scorpio and another had everything in aquarius they would probably HATE each other. But as it goes almost no one has that much emphasis in one sign so if you really want to know if these two are compatible take a look at their birth chart. The moon, venus, mars, and mercury are going to be very large indicators of whether they will get along since these are the personal planets.
Another important thing to understand is that people have varying maturity levels despite what sign they are. An immature, lazy, possesive, and controlling Scorpio will probably never really get along with an aquarian. But a Scorpio who understands their own negative nature and has the desire to overcome their weaknesses will love Aquarius because it is the next transition in the evolution of fixed signs, just as a Leo would find the same transformation in a scorpio.
I am a scorpio and i have been surounded by aquarians for years who loved me and i loved them. We get along Great and have a large amount of fun. But that isn’t because i’m JUST a scorpio. i also have a gemini moon and ascendant, venus and mars in libra, and jupiter in aquarius as my highest elevated planet. Now that might be greek to some of you but the point is its more than just the sun sign.
Any relationship can last and work if effort is put forth to save it. A certian degree of compatibility is neccessary but we are beings of choice and although our astrological soul (birth chart) is unchangeble we always have CHOICE!! i can choose to be controlling and possesive over my aquarian lover, or i can choose to understand her need for freedom and alone time and allow her to have it because i love her. So if you are wondering if your scorpio lover or aquarian lover is right for you, all you need to do is look at yourself. You get to choose whether or not its probably going to last by your actions.
Definately dont take Laura’s word as infallable because like me and everyone else, we all speak from a certian perspective and ego plays a large portion. Just because one aquarian can’t handle the depths of the scorpios she’s met doesn’t mean you can’t. Its all about perspective, if you think it will fail then it will and if you think it will work then it will. Its the law of attraction and we define our own reality.
Sorry i know this was long but if you take one thing away from my post, any relationship you embark on will teach you lessons and the survivability of that relationship is dependant on your ability to grow and evolve past your negative attributes. If you Love them, you usually can make it work if you choose to do so.
November 12th, 2008 at 2:21 am
I thought i’d add this tidbit to emphasize my point. I lived with and was engaged to a sagittarius for a very long time. Now if i would have looked at astrological compatibility, i would have believed that our relationship would have been more on the one night stand side than the together forever side. Although in the end there were too many problems and we did sepparate it wasn’t because she was a Sag and i was a scorpio. It was because the maturity levels that we both had were incompatible. I loved her and still do to this day, and the reasons i left her had nothing to do with her mutable fire free spirit or her need to travel, or overly opptomistic nature. It happened because she was unable to overcome her negative attributes to make the relationship work. Now had she done that we would still be together and would most likely be married.
The point? relationships are 75% choice, 20% perspective, and 5% personality.
November 12th, 2008 at 11:35 am
Definately dont take Laura’s word as infallable because like me and everyone else, we all speak from a certian perspective and ego plays a large portion. Just because one aquarian can’t handle the depths of the scorpios she’s met doesn’t mean you can’t. Its all about perspective, if you think it will fail then it will and if you think it will work then it will. Its the law of attraction and we define our own reality.
Well Robert, I was with your prognosis 100% about all of the many factors in the natal sign which make us not entirely..any sign..!!
Until your ego took a punch at me..LOL.
Well I have 50 years or more of Astrological experience. And the predominant factor remains the sun sign, every thing else comes into play bit by bit..! And the depths of deception..no I cannot handle from any Scorpio, or anyone..That’s a real no no..!!The law of attraction would be to put on my walking shoes..and go.!
You have that Aquarius ego thing..sounds a lot like Gemini to me, about knowing everything while only half the way through, and wanting to run the whole program..LOL.. Oh well, be sure and mention my name again cause I am your adversary right? LOL Silly person.
Ps. I have heard people say if Astrology is ALL encompassing..then why study it? Kind of like the Buddhist belief..all is nothing, nothing is all..! There would be nothing that sets us apart.!Ego, intelligence, and environment,to be the only valid discernment, to base your opinion of others on.And, HUH ?.
November 12th, 2008 at 11:44 am
Robert,
Please do not take Sagittarius as a one night stand. There are many very fine and intelligent Sagittarians. I know a few. I revere their worldly knowledge and adventurous spirit… Especially their musical and artistic abilities. I get along just fine with my Aquarius spirit…Married in the soul, so to speak.No need to own them. The ones I have known are sweet and kind.!And more mature than anyone knows… Relationship’s are 100% either you like them or you don’t, and if you don’t, well..you know what to do..?
November 12th, 2008 at 12:16 pm
I hope you all find what makes you satisfied.I find that there is something for every one.And real glad that everyone is NOT alike, it would be pretty dull world, wouldn’t it?
I love Aries for their playful, childlike spirit. I love Taurus for their strength and endurance in life. I love Gemini for keeping everyone on their toes at all times..lol. I love Cancer for their tender heart and love of comfort. I love Leo for the drama that helps people escape from an otherwise mundane boring world. I love Virgo(or try to) for being able to point out all of my short comings..and there by, improve myself..lol. I love Libra because They are just to danged Beautiful.! And I try to love Scorpio even though they like to hit me with a brick..lol, I do love their great organizational ability, most presidents were born under this sign..check it out.I love Sagitt because they love everthing I love…! And I love capricorn,because their determination is so fierce and unrelenting..!Wears me out watchng them…!!I love Aquarius because I know how misunderstod they usually are ( I should know !)I love Pisces because they love others so intently when they are not in the swimming pool or out drinking.!! lol There is something great in everyone.!Thank God we are all so unique..just like everyone else..ha ha.!
December 7th, 2008 at 1:01 am
One of my good friends at the moment is a Scorpio (I’m an Aquarian girl, and he’s a Scorpio guy), the moment he told me he was a Scorpio, I was saddened since I was already aware of the incompatibility between the two signs. Reading up on Scorpios I kept on finding stuff like “be wary, they’re possessive, manipulative, and a volcano waiting to explode”. However, despite all this I can’t help but really like him. I really do enjoy his company even though I’ve only known him for a short while, and I find him less possessive and smothering then my Gemini boyfriend. I confide in my Scorpio friend a lot, and trust him a ton with my feelings and thoughts even though sometimes I regret it a bit. He’s my advisor and is always willing to listen, and help me out even when I know he doesn’t enjoy some of the topics I bring up. Anyways, my point, I agree with everyone that it always depends on the situations.
December 10th, 2008 at 9:05 pm
I am a November 1 Scorpio and my man is a Jan 20 Aquarius. He is 10 years younger than me and we are in Love. I kept reading negative posts about Aquarius and Scorpio and I just don’t see it.
He and I get along great and we have a lot in common. We also have a lot Not in common. But I don’t think our signs have anything to do with what we have in common.
Sexually — it is off the chain! He cannot get enough and I have never in my life felt so loved by a man before. He is very affectionate, warm, passionate, caring and aggressive at the same time which I love.
My match is supposed to be either a Cancer (which are truely unfaithful men), a Pisces (can’t do that), a Virgo (definately NOT), or a Capricorn (lies too much). So I figure — shy not go with the Aquarius. He treats me like a woman, he caters to my needs, he is clean and organized just like I am, he is confident in himself and what he wants out of life just like me and he is very intelligent — just like me. And, we work for the same company! OMG — I cannot believe it. I checked him out when I first started working here and was told some negative things about him and immediately put him out of my mind but not before I said to myself “he is good looking though”. LOL.
A few months of him speaking to me in passing and telling me that I looked nice and making small talk, then I got up the nerve and told him that it would be cool if we went out for drinks sometimes after work. That’s it —- 3 months later we are a couple. I see him every day at work and every night when I get home. We can’t get enough of each other. I am in love with him and I think he is the sweetest man who has the sweetest love.
I must say that God has sent me the man that I have been praying for. Do you ladies know about “the List”? Well my list has everything that this man is — and that is no lie!
I think that it’s much more than a sign which brings people together and makes them mesh well together. It is important to remember that people have different up bringings, they have different education levels, there are so many things that make people different.
I have several Scorpio girlfriends and I can honestly say that None of them are like me. We are totally different — don’t act anything alike but we are the same sign.
I was married twice before — once to a Scorpio — big mistake and once to an Aries — an even Bigger mistake. Then I fell in love with a Taurus ( he was a big time loser — just like Chanel’s friend). I had to make some tough choices in my life and I finally dropped him like a hot potatoe after 5 years of back and forth with him.
Sometimes you know in your heart that a person is not right for you but you hold on to them for fear of being alone again. It’s hard to let go but a person who is a loser, who wants nothing in life but to sit around drinking, putting you down, disrespecting you and yours, doing drugs, or abusing you either mentally or physically; is a person you do not need in your life. I’ve been there, done that — it’s not worth it. As soon as you make up your mind that a “Real Man” is what you want and a “Real Man” is all that you will accept, then that is what you will get. Doesn’t matter what his sign is when it comes down to him treating you the way you want to be treated.
Chanel Devine — I believe you just had a loser and I am sorry that you had to go through so much with him but keep your head up and keep it moving. A good man will come to you and what you read about compatibility between you and him should not stop you from being with him because there are so many other factors. Write your list girl and pray on it and the right man will come to you.
January 4th, 2009 at 7:32 am
Laura, you are a strong woman!
I was madly in love with an aquarious, but nearly blew a gasket when I found out he was pursuing a long-distance relationship with his ex-girlfriend, a scorpio, at the same time! Being aries, I can’t stand being second best and don’t associate with him anymore. Honestly, this was rotten to do and I still feel hurt, so it’s disheartening to read about all the incredibly successful Aquarious/Scorpio pairings. (kinda childish, but that’s just me)
I dunno, in a fight i told him the reason why they are doing so well is since it’s long distance, she’s not around to deal with all the BS he pulls. I never let anyone get away with BS, so we definitely clashed over this argument.
Bah, I don’t really have a question to pose or point. I’m just letting things be.
January 24th, 2009 at 8:45 pm
I have always been deeply involved with astrology and I do feel that it does play a small part in how in people in relationships interact in general . I have had a long standing crush on a Virgo I have known since high school….but he is very withdrawn, and critical and it does hurt my feelings when he becomes extremly judgemental of my feelings and actions. However, I am falling so hard for this aquarius co-worker of mine. He is gorgeous, funny, charming, sweet, intelligent, very helpful….but I feel like he is so distant at times, which makes me feel so bad. I liked him instantly, from the first time I saw him and we have slowly been getting to know each other, and the more i know about him the more i like.But there are a LOT of issues, he is younger than me and of a different background, and I fear if I tell him how i feel that he will just reject me and I know that I cannot handle that. He does make my insecurities run rampant when I see him flirting with other female co-workers….there is just something about him, I know we have chemistry and some of it could be sexual tension. I really don’t know what to do about this guy because I am so frustrated about the situation, I want so badly to tell him how I feel. He is more accessible than my Virgo, and if my Virgo told me tomorrow that he wanted to be with me I would not hesitate….but I am so drawn and intrigued by my aqua crush (although I have heard he is a jerk, but I don’t see that side to him)……what should I do?
February 12th, 2009 at 6:10 pm
I’ve read the article and several of the posts but not all of them so I hope I’m not repeating. For the most part it seems to me that there have been a lot of female perspectives but very few male perspectives. I do not pretend to be an expert on astrology. The only reason I started looking into it was because the Scorpio I love really gets into it and was telling me things I had no idea about. I am and Aquarius male, I was born Jan, 25 1987 @ 10:49 P.M. I was however born a month late (my mom often reminds me she carried me for 10 months not 9) So I do not know if that plays any role in my astrology since I was supposed to be born in December.
Anyways for the most part I do have many Aquarian characteristics. I am emotionally challenged although that does not mean I have no emotions only that it is hard for me to feel comfortable expressing them. I am extremely intellegent and like to think of things that have no bearing on the here and now (meta-physics makes me lose a lot of sleep just wondering). I wouldn’t say I am shy but I may be percieved that way. When I first meet someone I am engaging but from a distance, I don’t open up immidiatly. This is mainly because I feel an urge to understand the person before I can feel comfortable around them. So I study people, understandibly some women are put off by this in thinking I’m not interested when in reality I’m spending a lot of time thinking about them and trying to understand them. In terms of sex, I don’t know about all Aquarius men but for me, don’t rush into sex. If you try to rush me on it I’ll be turned off. I am more interested in the mind to begin with. That however does not mean I do not enjoy sex or once I am comfortable with you will have a low sex drive. In fact if anything it might be more than you want.
After stating those things I’m sure most of you are wondering how I ended up with a Scorpio. She is emotional, jealous, oversexed, but also full of odd habits and quirks that I can’t figure out. She is the strongest woman I know, she will kick your ass if you mess with her but at the same time will cry if you don’t make sure she knows how much she is loved. How it has worked though is that we both made certain compromises to our personalities. I for my part have attempted to be emotionally open and for her part she has tried to control the crazy. We have great sex which always helps.
I hope this helped some female Scorpios to better understand Aquarian men, we are not without emotion or sex drives. The best advice I can give you is give him time, maybe a lot if your really interested because I can assure you that he is interested in you, your just so damn confusing that it takes him a while to have even a basic understanding of how you work.
By the way after looking into astrology I realized all the girls I’ve dated were Scorpios…Coincidence?
February 17th, 2009 at 8:57 pm
I didn’t know that Aquarius were not compatibilty with Scorpio. I am an Aquarin woman and I been dating a scorpio man for two month. We can’t stop talking and I can’t ever wait to see him. From reading all your posts it depends not on stars but on each other. I mean I hope it lasts, but are their times when aquarius and scorpio are a match? What are you baseing this on?
February 17th, 2009 at 11:11 pm
well, i have met a scorpio lady and she is so sweet and lovely and makes me melt. too much reading in to the supposed problems is not the way forward. we are just passed 40 are our life experiences does not apply to the so called not backs. it will work out of the kindness and respect that we have both endured. she is amazing
February 17th, 2009 at 11:22 pm
part two of my findings. i have read all the stubbiness that can rise to the surface of a relationship between the so called dislike that are supposed to be there, but no way, when he and she have both responsibilites, the time together is rewarding and electric, so mister or missus doubting thomas’ of this world reference aquarian and scorpio? you are so wrong. love and passion with up most respect shines through. makes everything even stronger, very powerfull. now where can u find that!!!
February 18th, 2009 at 4:51 pm
but it says that scorpio women and aquarian men get along well but a different story for aquarian women and scorpio men
February 27th, 2009 at 1:12 pm
To Dustin
Hi Dustin! I’m a scorpio girl and geeeezzz for a while I thought you were describing me heheh:
“She is emotional, jealous, oversexed, but also full of odd habits and quirks that I can’t figure out. She is the strongest woman I know, she will kick your ass if you mess with her but at the same time will cry if you don’t make sure she knows how much she is loved.”
I am dating an Aquarius man for almost a year now. at first i thought the relationship would not work since the two of us are on the opposite poles:
I didn’t get his mood swings (He’ll be sweet and talkative and then silent and distant the next minute) or his being distant (refuse to talk to me.. I mean i would appreciate it if he tells me what his problem is), the disappearing acts (Which gets to my nerves most of the times)and his need to be alone (I’m the type of girl who wants to be by his side whatever his problems are). Sometimes this things are giving me a problem (Everytime he do this stuff, can’t help but think that his thinking bout his ex ^_^) but he always tell me that it has nothing to do with me or his ex. That when he do such thing it does not mean he does not care for me or does not love me at all (coz he does love me). it’s just the way he is… Oh well I don’t know.. I find aquarius men really puzzling…
It does not matter though… because he is not like this every single time of the day.. Most of the time we really get along and he appreciate my passion and sweet loving nature… we could spend the whole day listening to each others stories and day dreaming on what our future will be like… hmmm so i think there’s no reason why a relationship will not work… if both parties are willing to adjust and understand one another then there is 100% chance that a relationship will last for a lifetime… My aquarius guy always tell me that we should grow together, experience things together and just be there whenever we need each other.. That is why i feel so lucky to have him in my life..
March 9th, 2009 at 4:58 am
I have read most of the comments and have gotten mixed ideas on an aquarious Scorpio relationship. I am an aquarian female now married to a Scorpio male. Through my Adult life I have had 2 major relationships. From 19-23, a very passionate, mostly bad relationship with a Scorpio who lied, and was very self districtive. I finally couldn’t take it any more. Within a season (1-2 months) I met a new Scorpio and I couldn’t help bit be intrigued. I was very nervous when I learned the boys were born within a week of eachother in the same year, but brushed it off as silly. 2 years later I see they are more similar then I would like. This one is self districtive as well, has the same short temper. They also both like to drink a little too much. Both great when sober, unbearable when too drunk. Increadably cocky. I’m sure there are things about me he can’t stand too. For two stubburn people this is hard! I hope we can work it out. I love him so much. I do vow if this can’t work, I am done with scorpios! No matter how much self control I need!
April 9th, 2009 at 3:03 am
Hello,
I am aquarian and my husband is a scorpio. We have been together for 10 1/2 years. It is still as intense as it was when we first met. We have grown stronger together. I feel that any relationship is going to be work. Ours was easy till we added kids then it took some adjusting. I think it was easier since our girls are a scorpio and aquarian
Just thought i let y’all have an example that this pair can work.
April 10th, 2009 at 7:30 am
Laura I appreciate your perspective but continually bringing up the “I have the experience” line doesn’t impress me.
As far as Scorpios and Aquarians are concerned, I adore both signs. I love their strenghth and intelligence and they are so intriguing in different ways. Aquarians are not frivolous, since I know at least three who are mature, sensitive and down to earth. Probably these kind of Aquarians would fit much better with a Scorpio who is not so possesive or dramatic. These Scorpions exist too.
It all depends if both partners truly care for the relationship to work. Sure what couple doesn’t have disagreements. However I think with Scorpions and Aquarians it will help them mature and grow faster.
April 10th, 2009 at 3:11 pm
I am an aqua girl and dealing with an scorpio now. We can talk FOREVER non-stop over the phone (we live in different states) and I NEVER get bored and I generally hate talking on the phone. Now when i dealt with my aqua boy, the convos lasted 10 min or less. Just no chemistry over the phone, because he doesn’t like a lot of questions and I don’t either so basically a lot of dead air….I am very intrigued by this scorpio thing, i don’t care what people are saying about it.
April 13th, 2009 at 12:50 pm
More sharing experience about this couple please! I also wonder if anyone can tell me about an Aqua with Taurus rising and an Aqua with Scorpio rising.How are they different?
April 21st, 2009 at 6:56 pm
i am a scorpio woman i am deeply in love with a aquarian male.we are soul mates.jealousy takes work.he understands me like no other.im sorry but i dont buy all this negativity from this reading..maybe im blinded by love.but he is who i have searched for..and we get on great..its all very beautiful and i would recommend this union to anyone.pure bliss.i love you dave forever and without u im lost..
April 22nd, 2009 at 12:04 am
I am a Scorpio (Nov. 14) woman and I am in love with an Aquarius(Feb. 11) man. He has been by my side since I was a crazy, mixed up 13-year-old with serious abandonment issues. When my mother tried to break us up we both cried. I cried because he’s the first guy I ever actually trusted enough to love and he cried because his worst fear was going to come true. I told him not to worry. I wasn’t going to let her tear us apart, nothing in the world could tear us apart. After I fixed everything and told him that it was all alright he made me promise that I’d be ok. I did. Then one day he talked to me more and more until we were talking every moment that I wasn’t in school or with my family.
I’m telling you this because I do not believe any of the things written up there. If Austin was anything like the people written about in these comments I would still love him. I would still be with him every night. He’s as attached to me as I am to him. The thing I am trying to get across is that just because your zodiac compatibility isn’t so great doesn’t mean you have to give up on your love or giving up trying to fix it. If you have problems work them out. Don’t give up. If you can give up that easily then you’re not really in love, you’re just in like. Don’t give up on the love of your life just because of your zodiac signs not being compatible.
I know I’m not giving up. As long as he loves and needs me by his side I will be there. And I know that he’ll go to hell and back for me. He’d die for me. And I’d do the same for him. I got lucky. I found the love of my life at an early age. Are you going to give up on yours over something that simply says ‘You’re not compatible. Give up now.’?
April 22nd, 2009 at 5:44 am
Hi there Tamara,
I am very sorry to hear that you have been through all of this. An Aquarius would indeed be a very good person for you to be around. Please don’t take astrology as what you should or shouldn’t do, think of it as a bit of advice so if or when these problems arise you will be aware that it is usual behaviour for whichever sign.
To me, a relationship is all about understanding, and astrology just gives us some tips on how best to do so. So obviously, no don’t give up, you have been blessed by finding someone who will be there for you no matter what and that is something very special indeed.
My Aquarius helped me too, so I know where you are coming from. Also, remember that astrology go’s far deeper than sun signs alone.
Thank you for your comment.
Love & Light
Becky
May 3rd, 2009 at 8:05 pm
i am an aquarian female who dated an scorpio and it was the worst relationship in my life!!!! it starts of good with the sweet gestures and a hint of playful bossyness. but soon he becomes an overbearing ass. he wants to know where you are all the damn time. he is so argumentive and thinks the world resolve around him. i fell so inlove with him that anytime i have a new reltionship i juge it on him. so i never again have a long term relationship again. he made me go crazy!!! even though i like to have freinds and dont like to be mad at a person for too long, after i broke up with him i couldnt even be his freind i wanted him out of my life that much.
May 20th, 2009 at 12:09 pm
Hi all, I’m a 19 year old aquarius female born 25/01/90, my partner a 28 year old Scorpio male born 6/11/1980.
Currently we’ve been officially together over 7 months, friends nearly a year, and known each through friends give or take 2-3 months over a year.
In the early days things seemed perfect. He restored my faith and trust, lifted me, seemed to want all the same thing as me, he seemed to care, his promises ment something, he was kind, exciting, empowering, gentle, and loving….
Or so i thought.. Since the start of this year, he’s drained me completely, held me back, kept me away from family, friends, loved ones, hes called me every name under the sun, he’s lied, disrespected me, let others aswell, he’s come between me and my work, hopes, dreams, wants, needs, theres no support from his end. He’s detatched, he threatens me, stops me from leaving, to the point he becomes physical, he doesnt scare me, yes he hurts me, but its the over powerment he has over my small physique.
I knew some of the scorpion traits before things got serious, now i wish i ran in the opposite direction, I’ve been in there for him since day one, never neglected, disrespected, or betrayed him. And yet he’s never once put me, my needs, first. Never considered me in any aspect of his life or surroundings. His promises are empty, never followed through, his word doesn’t mean anything, for he’s let me down more times than i can count. Hes selfish in more way than one, thinks about himself, or anyone else but the one he says he loves, wants, needs, blah blah blah.
. . . In some ways I know I dont want to be with him. But he’s messed things up for me, taken all i had/have, energy to fight, or try open his eyes to his actions, even talking to him is a struggle. To him im invisible, and fighting him isn’t worth the result. I find it difficult to communicate him since he first put his hands on me in a way that put my safety at risk, i have tried, i’ve tried compromising, i’ve even backed down more than once to try mend our destroyed relationship, and my trust and faith in him. I’ve been patient…and put up with the things i never would have considered before, Please dont get me wrong, I did love him, i still have love for him, and i still care, but nothing good came all this, it definitely was NOT worth it, one thing i do have now in pure resentment, for him, his actions, choices, decisions, and our relationship, thats the one thing i will take away with me when I finally decide to walk out the door, and when I do theres no going back, its only a matter of time.
Revenge sounds sweet, would feel just as good, but id rather see how time, and karma deal with it all, each to there own but never will i ever let a scorpio into my life sexually or seriously, emotionally, or mentally. Let alone into my private space or life on a partnership basis, though i wont hold his actions, words, and my experience with him against others, other scorpio kind shall only remain friends.
It’ll be a quick transformation, i’ve learnt alot from the experience, and ive taken it in, regardless of the ending, or events, hes only temporarily stopped this Air sign catch, from being being happy, only brought her down for a bit, held her back but it wont be long till im my independant, curious, vibrant, happy self again. And he wont be able to stop, interfere, or control it in any way, and thats my closure, to know he wont be one thing to destroy who i really am or whats planned out for me. (Born on day of Destiny - Month or Year-cant remember aquratly)
Thought she’d finally speak out, where someone might understand, or even believe her.
Tamara
May 21st, 2009 at 12:36 pm
You’re really Desperatley Confused .Just one bad apple and you sworn to take revenge upon others by never giving them a chance.This will only give way to others who you think might not have a chance to hurt you , kill you quicker because of your cynical and narrow-minded attitude toward life.Take a look at all the posts above about how bad Aquamen and women before you.There was even the case where the Aqua took drug and treated his woman like shit.However, I didn’t see her saying about never giving other Aqua a chance. Oh, well, I guess every one has their way of living but I hope you would find some hope for yourself.
Take care,
May 22nd, 2009 at 3:32 am
I am a female Aquarian and I just recently got out of a relationship with a Scorpio and we were probably the worst math for each other but I stuck it out for 3 years trying to make it work because I loved him. He treated me horribly throughout the 3 years we were together, constantly yelling at me and trying to control everything I did and put me down on a daily basis. He told me I was a negative person but in fact he was the negative person telling me everything that he disliked about me and my personality which made me feel bad about myself. We lived together for 2 years and it was basically hell the whole time, constantly criticizing everything I did. If I got mad about something he did somehow he would turn it around on me and make it seem like it was my fault when it wasn’t. I agree Scorpios and Aquarians do not match. The only thing good about the relationship was the sex and he ruined that for me as well by being an asshole all the time about everything. We did have our good times but the bad times out weighed the good to where we just couldn’t make it no matter how hard I tried.
May 24th, 2009 at 8:47 pm
Maybe he thought he could save you but he obviously couldn’t save himself . It’s good to be apart then.
May 25th, 2009 at 7:03 am
my dear,
i am scorpio man of 32 and u will fell down when i revealed that she is acquarian aged 14 we both are madly in love and i can wait her till she attend her maturity .she is extemely popular while i can say that i make her popular we r very popular in our group.
June 8th, 2009 at 3:41 am
I’m an Aquarius woman and historically, have had horrible luck with Scorpios - men and women alike. I find they interrogate you only to rebuke any of your own attempts for independence and cross examine everything all over again. I love passion but these people consistently strike me as ridiculously passionate about matters that others could care less about. I’m fairly confident that whoever first stated “don’t make a mountain out of a molehill” was saying this to a Scorpian!
June 20th, 2009 at 12:07 am
Well all I gotta say is Lisa Marie Presley’s 1st hubby Danny Keough was a Scorpio and she is an Aquarius. I do recall after their 7 yr marriage was over, how Lisa said she will always love him, but they just cannot be married. They are better as friends. I find to be true with my Aquaself as a female also. I am friends with Scorpio women and men. After reading about the incompatibility between Scorpio and Aquarius, I just run from every Scorpio man that takes interest. I have tried to date a Scorpio but he stole from me and lied and I had to beat his ass. So, I refuse to date SCORPIOS, they can only be my friends that’s all. I don’t give a damn what anybody says. I DON’T DO SCORPIOS for romantic relationships. They are too jealous,controling,and possesive for me. Some are even too serious and I like GOOFBALLS!!!!
June 29th, 2009 at 4:33 pm
nice to read your comments and experiences.
i am a female scorpio and i had or still have this crush on an aquarian guy.i can say that i am down in the dumps because no one has ever been so cold to me, not exactly cold but closed and not caring.i am tired of thinking about the reasons of him being not interested since i am “too much” for him (i am just telling the facts).he was the one who was interested and tried to have me but then he just run away emotionally.the reason can be that he knows i have someone important in my life but he also knows how deeply i was falling in love with him. why didn’t he fight and try to achieve sth? i hang out at the same places he does and sometimes i feel we are connected with no talking,making eachother jealous with other people..but the problem is that he sees my affections and he doesn’t do the first step.i sometimes think i am too cruel and mysterious but i am sure it’s obvious how i feel for him if he just tries to discover.i can not humiliate myself by telling him cause i had done it once and he hadn’t even responded. i really dont want to do anything more to make him mine, and i am sure this all will finish cause he’ll do nothing. i think he’s just too realistic and doesnt give a s*** if i just go away.and i will never understand why.the girls i see him with are really neither pretty, nor intelligent. i know what he thinks about my appearance and my intellect..is the problem my emotional side?
question to aquarius guys: are you jealous at all? would the actions like dancing with others, having fun and drinking make you jealous and make you start thinking that a girl is into you and does that for you, or would it just make you run away?
can you resist a beautiful and smart girl just because she has a boyfriend(who she might leave bacause of you but makes you jealous from time to time)?
i feel like i’ve just written a bunch of crap, but maybe someone lived the same and could be helpful…
July 1st, 2009 at 4:22 pm
HI Beatriz…
I am an aqua with deep deep interest in a scorp girl… And i think she is doing similar things as u described here. MAKING ME JELOUS….She is confusing and she hurts me when she behaves like this. As a result I draw further and further from her.
I know she has interest in me. I know that and so does she knows that i have interest in her. Actually its much much more than interest. I NEVER cared for any girl the way i care for her. There were occassions where she showed me her interest, but i am slow in matters of heart. i wanted to take my time. But all this while I REALLY cared for her and i STILL do. But once in a while she would pass some romantic comments about some guy around. For ex. ” You know I love him” etc etc… Now she has found interest in some other guy and talks about him infront of me at times…
Does it hurt me..? A LOT… do i show anything or does she have a clue..? NO WAY… I mean..NO WAY….
Now u tell me what could be the reason for her behaviour? Now i have come to belive that she is indeed interested in this new guy. Its fine for me. Maybe over time she will realise we are right for each other.. We really are. And she knows it. I cant tell you how hurt i was when she talked about this other guy in front of me for the first time..! And now i am angry with her for doing that.
I have patience of a crocodile i can wait and wait and i will wait for her as i belive she is worth it.
I hope i answered u. Can u answer me too pleas..?
July 2nd, 2009 at 1:10 pm
I am an aquarian female and I was in a relationship with a scorpio male. We were in a relationship that ended after a couple of months. I discovered I was pregnant and we got back together but shortly-after ended again. I was 7 months pregnant when we got back together not long after I had our son. We were together for half a year, I moved town to live with him and was not allowed friends or a social life. He was emotionally abusive and appeared to not mind crushing my self-esteem with insults and threats. We have been apart for the last 4 years and since then I have found interest in another scorpio male, but now I am feeling quite hesitant about him as there are similarities between the two scorpio men. They are a born two weeks apart and a year apart. I do like this other scorpio, but I am worried I would be falling into the same trap as before.
July 2nd, 2009 at 1:27 pm
hello D.D,
thank you for your reply,
:))) you’ve replied me the things i assumed but when a guy knows the interest of a girl, doesn’t he want to try to seduce her more and more and to talk openly instead of “concluding” on his own..?
isn’t he afraid of losing her if he acts that cold?i couldn’t understand this.
what type of a girl does an aquarian dream of?
i was always a dream of every boy until now. i can’t get it!!!
now, the answer to your question - i did the same thing, i told him how i loved my boyfriend but the ONLY reason for that was to test him and see if he was jealous.i even showed him photos and stuff just to make him afraid of losing me and see if he’s gonna react,but…that didn’t cause anything good nor bad..he just remained pasive like nothing happened.i see he suspects that i have many guys around me,but the problem is that i never stop doing things like dancing and smiling and pretending happy with the crowd around me because we-the scorpios, in spite of our open spirit and strentght to approach a guy, still wait for him to do that step especially if we had showed him the interest.
so my advice to you is to approach her with no second thoughts because if you ever meant something to her she’ll give you the chance to express yourself.in the opposite you can cause an anger in her because we are used to be accepted.
July 6th, 2009 at 7:08 am
Dear Beatriz..
I believe using jealousy to control someon’s move is a completely wrong way of handling situation. One thing that everybody needs to remember about aquarians is that you CANNOT CANNOT control them. And i think its hard for scorps to accept it.
i need my time to take decisions because i want to be sure i am not hurting myself by rushing into things. she shud have just kept caring for me the way i was doing it for her and gradually i woud have confessed my love for her. I really mean it.
I dont understand this jealousy thing… because i would have never done it myself so if she shows interest in someone else i take it on facevalue. I dont play games. And i know she likes playing them.. she has hurted me..
Now i have mixed feelings for her. like i love her and care for her but i am angry with her for behving like this and thinking that she can control me. i want to punish her and make her realise her mistake but at the same time i dont like to see her hurt. I to be honest dont want to start a relationship with her now.. i am not ready but at the same time i cant see her with anybody else. i would have liked us both to realise our intrest and plan our future together. whatever was her problem i was there for her… now tell me after all this, after all these confirming actions of my love for her she still chose to go after some other guy and she is telling me its her curiousity to figure someone out, someone she finds interesting…
Maybe she is really interested in this guy maybe not. but honestly i think she is considering her behviour. I know she is curious by nature and like to figure out peple..i definatly know she has interst in me and also called me sweetheart once.. BUT her this behaviour has annoyed me. Now i am not going to tell her that i loved her till i see her REGRET her behaviour. i honestly felt like somebody took my heart out and roasted it in front of me when she mentioned this other guy to me for the first time. despite her hurting me like this i still do care for her. i know she felt awkward around me after mentioning this guy, knowing she has hurt me. thats wht makes me think she is indeed interested in this guy. Whatever it is.. its like she shows me she is interested in him and at the same time gives me signs of being interested in me..
She has a habit of complicating simple things…!! but i will definatly not confess my love till i see her regret her behaviour..
take care.
July 18th, 2009 at 6:19 pm
i really don’t understand why people believe or rather like to believe that a scorpion and an aquarian can never get along,,,,i’m an aquarian girl (11/02) and the guy i’m in love with’s a scorpion (03/11),,,,since we’ve been in the relationship i’ve been happier than i ever was,,,,i haaaated him when we first met,,,as time passed we became friends,,,and now (fortunately) we’re committed to each other,,,i don’t feel discouraged or sad when i hear or read about the compatibility b/w a scorpio and an aquarian,,,infact i feel proud that inspite of being a mismatch ew have a relationship taht people around us envy,,,i accept that when we row,we actually “row”,,,but we just can’t bear to not talk to each other for long,,,it really kills and we make up as soon as possible,,,i just can’t imagine having a relationship with anyone else,,,we love each other crazily,,,so i just wanna say to all the aquarius-scorpio lovers that don’t feel low if people tell u that it’s not gonna work,,,instead prove them wrong,,,after all nothing’s more powerful than love(that’s something he’s taught me),,,:),,,cheers…
July 31st, 2009 at 11:38 pm
Ashi, do you mean you were born on 2/11?
August 2nd, 2009 at 10:11 am
she meant 11/02 and \i understand the connection she felt.
August 9th, 2009 at 8:58 am
i am an aquarius female and i have found myslef to be in love with a scorpion male . we have been friends for 3 years and have wanted each other secretly . we finally decided to get together. Finding out that aquarians and scorpians weren’t a good match was a huge disappointment . Even though i am a huge believer in astrology i still belive this realationship with me and my lover will last . Wheather or not you signs are compatible or not doesn’t determine wheather or not your realationship will last , but however most of the traits of the scorpion that i am reading is actually 100 % true about my lover with the acceptions to most of my traits too … its sort of confusing and i dont really get it .. could someone fill me in . could we every last ? i mean he does have some of my most vaulable traits like social and lovable .
August 9th, 2009 at 9:02 am
now as i read ashi it seems as if her realionship is quite similar to mine yeah i do find it confusing that it says that scrpions and aquarius cant get along but i guess thats what just make the relationship more exciting and something to look forward too .
August 13th, 2009 at 8:11 am
i meant 11th feb(me) & 3rd nov(him)
August 13th, 2009 at 6:19 pm
I am an aquarius. 28 year old male. I was brought up by my scorpio father when my Libra mother passed when I was 8 years old. Growing up I had a scorpio girlfriend. So I can say I was brought up with major scorpian influence. I understand them very well. Even that part of them they never share with anyone. But with that aside -> the anwser to your question
Because scorpios and aquarians are so different it takes more work to make the relationship function. The first question you need to ask yourself is - do I want to put forth the effort to make this work? - and all relationship take work. If the anwser is a mutual yes then you may have something.
but if I was super compatible with someone like (aquarius,aquarius) I may not need to try so hard to make it work, in fact we might be finishing each others sentences.
Every sign also has a different love mystery, which means everyone shows they love someone in a different manner, so make shure you understand this
August 15th, 2009 at 6:09 pm
hey stephanie,,,i completely undrstnd hw
u mst b feeling,,,dere mst b dose inhibitions
& apprehensions,,,bt u gotta giv d rel. a
chance & if u relly feel dt ur rel.’s similar
2 myn den trst me u hv a beautiful tym
awaiting u,,,see wt i feel is astrology alone
cannot govrn or guide a rel.,,it all depends
on d individuals 2,,,v 2 hv our share of tiffs
& argumnts & wen i say “share”, i mean a
“fair & proper” share,,,bt soon v sort out our
probs,,,tok it out & d air gts cleard,,,
wtevr b d prob,,in d end i think-wt d heck,,,
i cn bluff evry1 bt i cant bluff myslf & mk
myslf believ dt i cn carry on widout him,,,d
truth is dt i luv him & simply cant imagin
lyf widout him,,as far he’s concrnd-wel he’s
always ready 2 accept his faults & sort
evrything out,,d acceptance of d fact by both
of us dt it is impossible 4 eider of us 2 move
on widout d odr makes us desper8 2 solve all
probs. a.s.a.p.,,,ryt nw 2 v’r going thru a ruf
patch in our rel. bt i kno 4 sure dt it wont last
4 long,,it’l tk us hardly 1 or 2 days 2 gt
evrything bck on track,,,& u’r damn ryt wen u
say dt d belief dt such a rel. cant exist mks it
evn more exciting,,,wen u’r continuously told dt
a particular thing cant b done,,u kind of lyk 2
try it,,isn’t it,,,ppl still always keep telling
me dt v’r nt meant 2 b,,,dey keep pointing out dt
v’r sooooooo diffrnt in evry aspect,,wt dey dont
gt is dt luv is all abt enjoying each odr’s
diffrnces,,,u keep getting 2 lrn & xperience new
things,,it feels grrr8,,,mks lyf less boring so
wt if a li’l more complicated,,i cn handle dt,,
evn my bst frn thinks he’s nt d ryt 1 4 me,,cant
do nething abt it,,,as it is v hv a long-dist.
rel.,,,actually v met on orkut,,den i hated him
wid evry fibre of my being,,,eventually v became
frnz,,den gud frnz,,,den bst frnz,,,& v didn’t
evn realyz wen v fell in luv,,i hd lead myslf
in2 believing dt it ws jst a safe platonic
frnship until he shook me & made me realyz dt it
wsn’t jst dt,,,v r in diffrnt cities & dey r
quite far off,,,bt recently v got selected 2
diffrnt engineering collgs. thru sm competitiv
xms & GUESS WT!!!our collgs r in d same city,,,i
jst cant wait 2 gt dere,,,jst 20 more days 2 go
& v’ll b in d same city…i cant thank god enuf
4 dis,,,wel stephanie all m sayin is jst giv it
a go,,dont go by wt ppl say or feel or believe
bt by ur instincts,,if it’s meant 2 b it wil b,,
all d bst,,wish u lck
August 16th, 2009 at 4:30 am
I am (2/16) and my Scorpio ex was (11/01).
Best girlfriend I have ever had. Dynamic relationship..combustible sex..but we also had our faults. She was very needy, I was indifferent. I never intended to be, but that’s how it played out.
We have gone our separate ways, and I still think of her very often. She may not have been the greatest lover (or myself, for that matter), but there was undoubtedly some serious chemistry between her and I.
I can only hope that we find each other again sometime down this winding and twisted road we know as life.
August 22nd, 2009 at 9:33 am
for having the taste of the d silence…u had to go through d storm…i’m not here 2 check my(03/11) compatibility wid her’s(11/02) but 2 let some people kno dat these sign’s r’nt those dat make U 2 compatible…,,,,”IT’S ONLY U 2 DAT MAKES U 2 COMPATIBLE”,,,…
AND ALSO AS PER D COMPATIBILITY B/N scorpio(ME) and aquarius(SHE)…,,, we r d luckiest signs in the world of astrology(thanx 2 god)….,,,,since these signs r opposite in each and every thing of this thing called life…we r able 2 keep r toltally diffrnt points dat further helps us 2 kno each other so deeply…dat kno other 2 species can……
obviously its like dat we fight and fight and ends as if no one will ever see each others face…
but is it possible dat
2+2=5,,OR
2+2=3..
THE THING IS astology is true and real…dat’s y we fight & fight and ends like dat…but it’s true and real till where???????
only till here!!!…after this there is only ‘we’ dat gives a conclusion 2 this…
afterall if astrology does’nt made us fell in love….then who d hell is astology 2 give an end 2 it…
it’s us who made each other fell in luv…
so we’re d only one 2 continue…
NOTE-:
(OYE…..GRAMMER MISTAKES BATHA DENA)
August 22nd, 2009 at 3:58 pm
OYE ABHI…
Tera grammer bahot sahi hai yaar…!
August 25th, 2009 at 10:30 am
oye rutu bhaiji/dostji…maine to ashi se puchcha tha grammer k liye
August 27th, 2009 at 10:18 am
I’m a scorpio oct. 26 1953 who recenty
reconnected with a female aquarian Feb. 6
online after 30 years. She is now single
but Im married, We’ve talked and were both
open . The other night I told her how I
use to feel about her and tender she was
and she said the same about me. She said ‘lets
run away together. I know she was just flirting
but it still felt good. I find I can’t stop
thinking about her and I have’nt seen her in
30 years. What’s going on here? Are these feelings going both ways?
August 28th, 2009 at 3:00 am
DO you want to be a cheater?
August 28th, 2009 at 10:07 am
yes abhiji dere wer a lot af grammatical errors bt dsnt matter,,,ne1 who reads it wil easily get wt u’r saying so no prob.
August 28th, 2009 at 3:06 pm
I’m lookng to cheat just wanted to know if what I’m feeling is real and if its going
both ways
August 28th, 2009 at 3:26 pm
I’m not looking to cheat
August 28th, 2009 at 5:11 pm
Nick..
You are another scorpio example where I believed they are soo driven by emotion and not logic. I am not judging but just want to understand as it will help me understand someone close to me who i belived did the similar thing. Even if she feels same for u would u not consider cheating bad..Or it doesnt matter to u infront of your feelings…?
As far as her..Be carefull as aquas tend to have strong beliefs on RIGHT and WRONG..so best way is to ask her directly and tell her that ur serious so u get the proper answer.
August 28th, 2009 at 9:16 pm
Ohh..so u corrected your comment. Sorry when i wrote my response it wasnt there…
August 29th, 2009 at 12:46 am
Not looking to cheat then why you want to know about her feeling and yours? Do you want to know about your wife’s feeling? Is it ok for you if she also request to know about her ex’s feeling? Will you sit there and smile or you go off posessive? Is it important to second guess your ex’s feeling or to know your current partner’s feeling? Unless there is a hidden motive.Well, as a Scorpio, you probably know more than I am about that hidden desires.
August 29th, 2009 at 9:37 am
Hi.
I do appreciate your responses. To tell you
the truth I think I’m infatuated anyway. But
the feeling does come over me pretty stongly
at times. But I got to tell you that when I
met her she was 17 and now she is 49. I think
of her as if she is still 17. She doesnt even
look the same. I just cant seem to get her out of my head or the fantasy of her. I’ve spoken
to her 3 times on the phone now and we speak
for long periods of time. She is very smart
and interesting but I’m not picking up any
emotional vibes that way. When she writes to
me online I do from her words and the way she writes. She is very expressive. Its all very
confusing. I do love my wife who is a Leo but
our marriage of 25 years has become stale.
So this new feeling is differnt for me and seems closer to imtimacy which is very hard
for me to acheive anyway. I cant seem even to this day to make the proper emotional connection I yearn for, even with my wife of 25
years. In fact I tend to sabotage all my
relationships anyway when I sense I’m getting
to close. Sounds nuts doesn’t it? I mean past
relationships. Got any more advice?
August 31st, 2009 at 3:32 pm
yes, divorce your wife who you claimd giving no stimulation to you any more.I’m sure she’s also bored as hell by now but as a Leo, she’s a loyal heart.After that, just ask your Aqua lady out and profess your feeling.
Indeed, you said you’re not looking to cheat , yet you felt intense emotion toward this Aqua lady, and confessed how bored you felt about the marriage, yet intended to do nothing to make it better.Then what are you looking for? Isn’t it emotional cheating already? Can you be more contradicted than this?
Well,for sure Aqua are very witty so I’m sure you’re easily to be seduced by their words.But can you handle her because sometimes she can do something to shock you.And yes, it intenses your love-making in the beginning but later, it’ll become a ride to hell.You’ll be broken over and over again by this delirious lady due to your fixed nature.While your Leo lady already moves on to someone who is much honest and loving.
Sorry for my long prediction but hey, just trying to give advice.
September 1st, 2009 at 2:00 pm
Hi, I am an Aquarius female born 1/28 and the one I have intense feelings for is a Scorpio male born 10/31. I met him online around the end of yr 2008 or early beginning of 2009. We have been communicating online and over the phone on a daily basis. He has been wanting to travel to my state to meet with me and I being a bit cautious, nervous, excited, and unsure kept putting it off. Now, I have agreed for him to fly to my state so we can meet and spend time together. I like this man so much because he is tentive to my feelings and insecurities. He knows how to calm me with things that he says. Plus he is so damn seductive. I can’t wait to meet him in person. However, I can’t help but to wonder if this is just going to be a sexual thing and nothing more. I have shared these thoughts with him but he says that we have a connection and I that I should think positive. I told him that I was scared of what I was feeling because for me to become attached only means heartbreak and pain in the end. He told me if I think that way then that is what will happen and that I need to think positive and cut the negative thoughts out. It’s just that I’ve been hurt before that sometimes these negative thoughts try to invade my positive thoughts. Battle going on within. But I truly admire, am attractive and desire to love this man. I think this Scorpio man if the man for me. I believe sex will be explosive for us. We have discussed sex, what we like and so on. He is way more experienced than I but I want to do it with him. He excites me so much. We have played online chess together and talked about other things in our lives as well. I really like him alot and feel that I could love him forever. He tells me he is crazy about me and he thinks about me all the time and can’t wait to be with me. He sends me messages and calls me daily. But one thing bothers me is that we met online on a single site and I still see my Scorpio man on this site late at night. So, this makes me wonder does he really care for me and believe we have a connection as he continues to tell me or does he just want to
f— me. Do you think that is his entire objective or could he possibly really care for me and if so why is he still on the single sites? Someone please give me some insight on my situation. Am I being a fool? Is he just stringing me along? I’m confused.
September 2nd, 2009 at 1:10 pm
Hi Ann. You know its really incredible but I
have the same situation. I’m a scorpio male
October 26 have reconnected with an old flame
30 years later. She is an aquarian Feb. 6.
We met again on FaceBook and started commicating 2 or 3 times a week .
And all of a sudden we started feeling for each
other again. I cant get her out of my mind and
we haven’t seen each other in 30 years.
I’m the kind of person who keeps his emotions
inside. I’ve never opened out emotionally
to any woman because of my nature. This woman
is doing that. The problem is I’m married
and I guess thats where it stops. But I still
cant open up to my wife the way I might with
this other woman. She too lives out of state
but its only a drive away.
I just dont understand where the feelings are coming from after so many years.
ITS definately hard to resist and becomes over
whelming. But the feeling is mostly emotional
not sexual. I dont think your friend will travel to you just for sex. He can probably
get that somewhere closer if he wanted to.
This is difficult stuff and somewhat scary.
But good luck.
September 5th, 2009 at 4:30 am
Hi Nick, thank you for your reply. So are you saying that because you don’t think he will travel to me just for sex that there is something much more between us? When he does come here I’m going to give him the best sex he has ever had. I really like this guy. I could marry him if he asked me too. Am I losing my mind. I just don’t understand how he out of all other men have won me over like this.
September 7th, 2009 at 11:01 pm
Hi all, I am an aqua female and I am crazy about a male scorpio, we met in jan, via a friend and began our friendship mainly online, although I would see him at social gatherings. We became really good friends, he told me things he told no other. Then at the start of summer our relationship progressed and it was truely amazing, never have I felt such passion. The problem is we arent actually a couple, he wants to enjoy life for a while as he was in a relationship for along time, even though he never loved her. he was always open so I went in with eyes wide open. we can talk about anything, but (except how he feels for me) I find the whole situation crazy we are very good friends, have very good sex yet it dont seem to be coming together. i have been rather irrational and impulsive where hes concerned as if he doesnt responed to my messages asap i kinda go off on one call it all off then regret my actions, which he is totally understandable with, my problem is not knowing how to deal with these new wonderful scary emotions, i just do not get attached to peeps, but my scorpion man, wow!!!! please give me insight into a scorpios mind, he listens to me but will not open up to how he feels about me, his actions though tell me he likes me alot more than what he would like. I also struggle with losing control!!!!
September 8th, 2009 at 12:30 pm
He likes you alot.Just enjoy the ride.He’s fighting his emotion too.
He spends time to talk with you alot, that means he cares for you and possibly loves you.
The chemistry in the bedroom is a plus.You know how horny a Scorpio can be.
Just enjoy each moment, “I love you”will pop up soon.In fact, if you do it first, he will even appreciate you more for helping him to break the barrier surround his heart.
September 8th, 2009 at 12:50 pm
Dear D.D
it’s been long time since i wrote
you have to understand that scorpio females need and require attention they don’t love when someone chases them but neither they like someone closed, reserved and never telling their feelings. i think you should express your wish to her, i mean be free to tell her to her face:”you hurt me, i want you to suffer, i dont want you as a girlfriend cause you don’t deserve me, you are dramatic and play games!!!you are a b…(you can even offend her hardly)” :)))
you can tell her stuff like that it will wake her interests up and the instinct to fight to change your opinion will be born. her attitude to you might change but of course if you are sure that she has had tendences to you from the begining.
scorpios make partners jealous, that’s their main art!!hard to understand but that’s our way!they love to suffer and make people suffer. if there’s no harmony and you pay no sufficiant attention, she will make you suffer but love you secretly at the same time. if she sees you are hurt she’ll be ‘happy’ cause that’s the proof of love but as you said you hide everything, that can just piss her off and make her continue doing what she wants.
if she is in love with you, that is her kind of revenge to you for your coldness and for hiding that you are hurt. show it, but not in a pathetic way, show how hurt you are by being agressive it helps beleive me.
good luck..
as for my situation, it became even worse. he called me names and thinks i am the worst of all women in the world cause he found out about my flirt with his friend, from past..
is that really something that he can not forgive and forget? and those bad words he told me, was that jealousy or his broken ego talking?
thank you
September 8th, 2009 at 11:28 pm
Thank you Gill x
Its soooo frustrating though, its like My scorpion has taken a step back, I too think he has trouble dealing with his emotions, hoping even as then there will be hope for us two to be together. I just do not like the silence, is this normal for a scorpion to behave this way? Any insight would be greafully appreciated.
September 10th, 2009 at 9:25 am
I sometimes don’t have a clue how i feel which frustrates my partner but then i stop and think for a minute then give my answer without ill or favour she can always ask me why when somethings up i give my answer i never run and not give it like the rest of them or do something stupid like turn up a radio i listen and answer if i didn’t i would be guilty of a crime well its like that but that’s me how im brought up if i never gave an answer when iwas a child i would get a hard hot whipping from my folks with the belt or jug cord but that was for anything wrong doing i always had to listen and answer or else even if u were an arse get flogging so its all how you are all about how you were raised too, obviously the other bloke with channel divine wasn’t brought up right i think should of lived in my family and see how far he got i think not far get flogging in my family.
This is all probably why ive survived with my partner she being a Scorpio and im very obedient too and she likes the way i am, im an aqua by the way too.
When someones grieving what do u do u do your best in your way and say at least sorry to hear that can i do anything for u like get u anything and name it i get it for u or give it to you if i got it.
I think that’s why my Scorpio partner likes me for all the above reasons and why were married and still going huh? how goods all that.
Always share with each other and both to give and take that’s how it works and have patience with each other and u will go a long way that’s how it all worked in my relationship and ive taught her somethings too and has taught me too fair dink em thats the way it goes.
Dont forget it can be partly how u are brought up too.
September 10th, 2009 at 9:22 pm
@1 : You might have to accept the silence moments alot unfortunately.Scorpio can turn into a silly creature, all laughing,smiling and telling jokes at some moments.However, even when they are doing that, they’re still serious and sensitive creatures inside.Silence is necessary for a Scorp.It’s used as a time for reflection, or simply just resting the mind, or thinking of new ideas .You see, some Scorpio don’t need to hide in the cave to have their space , to be seperated from the outside world , because when they love you very much, they would want to be with you most of the time.So when being with you, they can still let their minds drifting away but they’re still physically around you.This way, the partners won’t feel neglected.But I’ve to warn you, it’s rare to have that treat from a Scorp, unless you’ve earnt their trust(I mean absolute trust- and don’t ever break that).I think as an Aqua, you probably know what I mean about trust,space, and “mind drifting away” ?
@King: I love your post.Your Scorpio is so lucky to be with you.What is your date of birth and hers? (if you don’t mind I’m asking)
September 12th, 2009 at 10:02 am
Yeah Mate my birth date is feb 18 and hers nov 10.
September 12th, 2009 at 10:04 am
Thanks on your comment at the bottom mate, good on ya mate
September 17th, 2009 at 2:14 am
Well I’m a scorpio female (nov 14)
My first relationship was with a cancer (july 18) good connection there thought he was my soulmate but it didn’t work, he cheated, lied and just broke my heart. He was encapable of loving one woman. So being me I stay for 7yrs when it got down to I just walk away wanting nothing to do with him.
After that relationship I found my self in flings with Taurus and I’m convinced its good sex nothing else. I find them to be too self driven its all about them, they have there adorable side but lacks the reassurance that I want out of a relationship.
I then made a link with a Scorpio (Oct 30) and currently he’s my love interest, its hard at times cause everything is taken to the extreme, he gives me hope but the only problem its a long distances relationship, which at times becomes changing because of my need to have someone in my space fulltime. With that I have grown an attraction to a Aquarius (jan 28) which I find to a lot of work. - its intriigng to me I just want to know more about this guy, its hard to understand him he shows no emotion. He’d never ask to much just what he deems important. Unlike me I want to know everything, I’d just be asking away which he is not every fond of.
But I’m open to new experiences and will not write-off a particular sign, I believe in astrology but also society and family life plays a roll in character development.
September 17th, 2009 at 1:49 pm
I find Scorpio men very attractive but she’s right - it never lasts.
September 18th, 2009 at 4:55 pm
Hey Beatriz..
I am currently angry with my girl….
she shows me her new BF’s photos..praises him infront of me etc…etc.
And I DONT LIKE IT AT ALL….
Whatever she is doing it for I don’t know.
I will answer ur question rite now in hurry..
September 21st, 2009 at 11:28 pm
D.D,
i am sorry to hear that
BUT i did the same thing to my aquarius
just to make him jelaous and see his reaction
i don’t know what was the logic but i was doing it all the time..i am waiting for your news
September 28th, 2009 at 12:50 pm
Some of these posts have been funny and beautiful about the Aqua male and Scorp female, reading Tamara’s and Sweetscorpgirl posts put a smile on my dial (I’m happy that you found a good Aqua). Other comments made me cringe and chuckle when I saw the similarities between a Scorp female and Aqua male relationship correction “friendship” according to an Aqua male):) I’m a serious, jealous Scorp with Aries moon and Sun Scorp (born 14/11)who dated an Aqua (born 12/2) who was sweet, witty and funny for the first few months. After 16 months of being together, I jumped off the roller coaster ride. As much as I cared for him, I found it was too draining emotionally, physically and spiritually. We split up twice, first time was because he felt “neglected” as I hadn’t communicated with him so he had a one night stand. Communication was definitely an issue between us and there were often misunderstandings. The WARNING BELLS rang VERY LOUDLY, however, I was foolish enough to risk giving my heart to this insensitive, immature and very angry man. This eagle was deeply wounded and grounded though I will fly high above the clouds again very soon
October 5th, 2009 at 12:26 pm
I wrote back about the end of August about an
Aquarian female I Knew from 30 years ago.
Im a Scorpio Oct. 26. We reconnected on Facebook and emotional sparks started to fly again. We discussed about getting together
but at the same time my wife found out about
it and the online affair was ruined.
She finally told me and my wife to have a nice
life and not to contact her again. But ofcourse
Ive redeveloped feelings for her and her for me. But she doesn’t like the drama which I can
understand. I just dont know what to think
because in the past when we dated and she broke
it off she would somehow also leave a door open
for us , by maybe writing to me or calling me etc. So Im wondering if she might do the same
now. How does she think ? Will she throw away
all these feelings that she knows we have for each other. Please dont respond to me about
cheating, I already know that.
October 5th, 2009 at 1:35 pm
okay so reading this is definately scaring me. my guy is an Aquarius and i’m Scorpio. basically we went to high school together and i had a crush on him then, but he was dating someone else for his last two years and then graduated the year before me. last summer i saw him on facebook and decided to add him. since then we would always talk over aim about everything - our past and present relationships, school, life, and everything in between. i found myself falling for him like i did in high school all over again, and he began to develop a crush on me too. we didnt hang out in person until this past spring, and since then we have been inseperable. i see him as often as i can. i really want to be his girlfriend and he wants me to be his girlfriend, but he is applying to grad schools right now and neither of us are sure where he will be in a year. the uncertainty of what’s to come is what’s holding us back. i REALLY like him but i wonder if i’m wasting my time?? we have talked and we are both committed to making it work. he has promised me that he would never hurt me. i like him so much but i wonder if i’m being naive…?
October 7th, 2009 at 8:30 pm
GILL: Speaking as an Aquarian, if he says he will never hurt you .. he will literally never hurt you. The fact that he has admitted he likes you is a big step as us aquarians are not very vocal about our feelings. I don’t think you have anything to worry about.
I’m an aquarian woman and recently got involved with a scorpio. He is the first guy that i have REALLY gotten excited about. Days after meeting him I was an emotional wreck (!) constantly checking my phone, not eating or sleeping because i was worried i was going to mess it up. I just … could .. not handle the rush of emotions (some of you other aqua people can understand where i’m coming from! because us aquas are usually quite rational). After the first 2 dates (which he left the planning up to me .. ( i didnt mind this btw) - i got obsessed about this whole compatibility thing and kept doing some research to find out what i was dealing with .. I was bummed to find out aquas and scorps don’t mix especially because his behaviour is exactly that of a typical scorp (possessive, always trying to catch me out on qs) and well i’m just the normal run of mill flighty aquarian. But you know what ? .. after being bummed for 2 days, i got over it. I’m just going to take it one day at a time. I’m going to see this relationship as a way for me to learn from his intensity of emotions (because I never seem to allow myself feel anything). My ex bfs have always complained that i never show my jealousy and i’m too aloof and distant (another aquarian trait) and so they never feel assured of my love for them. I know he likes me a lot.. he has told me this on both dates. However, I’m scared to death of what i’m getting myself into with this guy because i could get VERY hurt if things go wrong but on the other side i have never taken a risk with my heart and I feel he is worth the risk:-))
I hope all you other Aqua females who have fallen into the Scorpio web can take the plunge as well and see it as a challenge to overcome!
October 7th, 2009 at 8:33 pm
oops sorry advice was for Shopgirl87 not Gill
October 19th, 2009 at 4:58 pm
Dear Beatriz..
As for ur question..Is it his jealousy or broken ego speaking?
i think its both. i mean i would doubt a person’s integrity if i understnd a girl flirted with my friend. and i will be both angry and jealous..!
Your behaviour would make him believe that he is not that important for you. I think the way out for u would be to convince him that u love him most and no one else..
Explain for your behaviour in past. Hopefully that shoud convince him.
Best wishes.
November 15th, 2009 at 8:34 am
Hello, I have no idea how much people are tolerant to homosexuals here. But I want to share my experience with you all. I am a Scorpio male and I fell in Love with another Aquarius male a month ago. We met and in one day we cud feel how connected we were. It was like magic. In fact it was scary to see how things were going so fast between us. But we decided we don’t care and we’re making our relationship official. I was a bit disappointed reading the compatibility thing, but I have to agree that it should just be but information for us so we know how to make things work.
I’m sorry if there are any homophobes here… But thanks for this opportunity ! I’m happily in love !
November 21st, 2009 at 9:02 pm
Hey..
This is for any of the scorpio woman willing to answer….
My story shortly is like this, there was a mutual interst/attraction between me and a scorpio girl. It kept going for about 7-8 months. I didnt confess my feelings and neither did she. But kept making her feel special thrugh my gestures. Even she was being caring of me. No doubt about that. But cant make out if it was just friendship or more. Then out of blue she told about she being very interested in someone else, right in front of me as if she was wanting to see my reaction. I since then decided to keep things for friendship only. But i dont get the her way of disclosing the news about the other guy. why did she do it like that? to hurt me? to provoke me? I dont understand it.
She sometimes shows me his photos even when i didnt ask to see. Can anyone PLEASE explain this behavior to me. Beatress,.. where are u dear..?
January 1st, 2010 at 9:34 pm
I AM AN AQUARIUS FEMALE AND I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A SCORPIO MALE. WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER FOR A YEAR AND A HALF. IN THE BEGINNING LIKE A LOT OF THE POSTS DESCRIBES IN THE FIRST FEW MONTHS EVERYTHING WAS WONDERFUL. THE SEX WAS AND STILL IS GREAT! BUT UNFORTUNATELTY THE LONGER WE DATE THE NEWNESS OF THE RELATIONSHIP IS STARTING TO WEAR OFF AND MY SIGHT IS REALLY BEGINNING TO COME CLEAR. ALL THE LITTLE THINGS I HATED ABOUT HIM IN THE BEGINNING OF THE RELATIONSHIP THAT I OVERLOOKED BECAUSE OF INFATUATION I GUESS YOU COULD SAY IS NOW STARTING TO BUG THE HELL OUT OF ME. FOR INSTANCE HE IS SUCH A SECRETIVE PERSON. HE ALWAYS LOOKS AS IF HE IS UP TO SOMETHING EVEN IF HE’S NOT.LET ME JUST SAY FOR THE RECORD HE HAS NEVER CHEATED ON ME, AT LEAST THAT I KNOW OF, BUT I REALLY DONT THINK HE HAS) ITS JUST HIS PERSONALITY TO LOOK AS IF HE IS ALWAYS HIDING SOMETHING. ON THE OTHER HAND I AM VERY OPEN ABOUT EVERYTHING. IF I AM LEAVING THE HOUSE I’LL LET HIM KNOW WITHOUT HIM HAVING TO ASK ME SO IF ANY THING WERE TO HAPPEN HE’LL KNOW WHERE TO FIND ME. WITH HIM EVERYTHING IS HUSH HUSH. I HAVE TO ASK AND I DONT LIKE TO DO THAT. BOTH OF US ARE VERY STUBBORN AND THAT CAN GET REALLY OLD AFTER A WHILE.TRUST ME. ANOTHER THING THAT BUGS ME IS THAT HE PUTS A LOT OF EMPHASIS ON MONEY. TO ME MONEY GOES AND COME, COME AND GOES. IF I HAVE SOME GREAT IF I DONT SO WHAT. I FEEL LIKE I AM DATING 2 DIFFERENT PEOPLE. ONE SIDE IS LOVING, CALM,CARING, GIVING, PASSIONATE, JUST GREAT. AND THE OTHER SIDE IS THE EXACT OPPOSITE. SOMETIMES I JUST LOOK AT HIM AND WONDER WHAT IS GOING THROUGH HIS MIND.I AM VERY FORGIVING AND AVOID CONFLICTS AND HE NEVER FORGETS ANYTHING THAT SOMEONE HAS DONE TO UPSET HIM, EVEN HIS FATHER WHO HAS BEEN DEAD FOR 14 YEARS. DONT GET ME WRONG I HAVE HAD SOME TERRIBLE THINGS TO HAPPEN IN MY PAST INCLUDING THE MURDER OF MY FIANCEE AND DEATH OF MY SON BUT WHAT HAS HAPPENED HAS HAPPENED. MY PHILOSOPY IS MY BEST DAYS ARE AHEAD OF ME. THE COSTANT REMEMBERING OF WRONGDOINGS TO HIM ARE REALLY GETTING ON MY NERVE, BUT I STILL LOVE HIM. I WISH I COULD CHANGE JUST A COUPLE OF THINGS. I REALLY LOVE HIM BUT I STARTING TO THINK MAYBE MY HAPPINESS AND LIVELIHOOD ARE BEING COMPROMISED. WHY SHOULD ONLY ONE PERSON HAVE TO COMPROMISE TO MAKE IT WORK AND NOT THE OTHER. SORRY SO LONG JUST HAD A LOT ON MY MIND. PS HE TREATS MY KIDS JUST LIKE THEY ARE HIS OWN. IM TORN ON WHAT TO DO
March 6th, 2010 at 8:51 pm
I am a 25 year old aquarian male, just got out of a short-lived intense relationship with a scorpio female (21). This was a long distance relationship and at first we seemed passionately in love. But after about a month I began to feel smothered even from 1300 miles away, and thats not good. Now we never had a single argument, the sex was pretty good, but I could not live up to her constant demands of affection, esp. public displays. Also it seemed like she would just agree with everything I said and had no opinons of her own. Our conversations began to run dry and bascially revolved around her daily activities. She would of course expect me to mirror by telling my routine activites which, true to my aquarian nature, tends to become very annoying and ticks me off. She was optimistic to the bitter-end even when I told her that I had no true feelings or desire to be with her. She kept calling and acting like we were still in a relationship until I just outright stopped responding to her. They say that when you hold air under water it will simply float to the top and try to escape; thats a good metaphore for my relationship. I am an aquarius and I love my freedom, this scorpio was just way too heavy and way too emotional for me.
April 11th, 2010 at 3:22 pm
Dear D.D,
are you still active on this site?
if you are let me know..are you still interested in that scorpio girl?any changes?
she did that stuff to make you jealous, that was my technique too
we see love through jealousy, which is wierd for aquarians..
April 15th, 2010 at 3:00 am
In response to the original article by Becky:
I’m an Aquarius girl, dating a Scorpio guy, and in true aquarian fashion,
I refuse to conform
to the notion that we can’t make things work. I know that that wasn’t your ultimate conclusion, Becky, but I want to put the idea out there, that yes, such a relationship will be a challenge, and whatever the outcome, it will be worth it. (Even if we break up, I’d still have learned a lot) And it’s almost ironic that I refuse what the stars say based on what the stars say, perhaps purpousefully so.
Robert - a little part of me fell in love with you from your first comment alone - you speak of logic, growth and making things happen - thank you for pointing out those very important things.
April 19th, 2010 at 5:20 am
This is for Johnny, comment number 10. He mentions his Birthday is January 24, mine is the 23 and I’m in the process of dating a Scorpio. Based on what I know of Astrology, I’m have more tendencies of Capricorn yet still Aquarius. And Scorpios are attracted to Capricorns. So I think these two can work, just depends on what kind of Aquarius or Scorpio you are.
June 2nd, 2010 at 11:08 pm
im an aquarius woman and hav the most amazing man evr. my scorpio is an amazing man. although he gets 2 emotional 4 me 2 handle we think very alike. he can be possessive. but i dont think 2 much of it. he can b a bully but he treats me like a lady. he is the best thing thats happened 2 me. this relationship is a wonderful experience. the aquarian teaches the scorpio the things they lack in and the scorpio makes the aquarius to have a desire to strive to be a better person.
October 7th, 2010 at 3:09 am
I totally agree with this compatibility because i love sex with my dude it just sucks he wont be my lover forever. but oh well looks like im moving to someone im more compatible with.
October 27th, 2010 at 7:27 pm
There are a lot of times where the romanticism totally not there and focus on their manga domain. There will be a lot of time skip too so school life essentially not central, you will no longer see the school after few episodes. The romance a great deal served as back stories, a plot function for Mashiro to sustain on running, though there are some evolutions but they are not weighted a great deal to the key plot.
December 29th, 2010 at 10:38 am
Hello Beatriz,
sorry for my delayed reply.
Am i still interested in her? I am. however, we have just made things so complicated. I love her and hate her too. I am also angry at her. Once when this new boyfriend of hers, me, some other friends and she were talking, sitting on a sofa, she tried to hold my hand twice but I took my hand away as I was angry at her games. Then when she went back to her country, she didn’t contact me at all as if it was my punishment for ignoring her while she was here. Then I contacted once to which she replied very briefly, which I didn’t like. So I also didn’t contact any further. Now, I am not contacting her or any of our common friends and she is not contacting me either.
I want her to regret what she did. Well by the way, she has done few things which really pleased me while she was away. Like wearing the dress which I gifted her and quitting smoking which I had been asking her for long time.
She is nice, however crazy at the same time.
Thanks for your reply.
December 30th, 2010 at 8:17 am
Its quite depressing this theoretical incompatibility. I’ve noticed that there is a great attraction between these 2 signs - it’s a pity that they (+we) are not meant to last !!
January 11th, 2011 at 1:16 am
I’ve been holding off posting on this thread b/c I do not want to dampen the spirits of those in a new aqua/scorp relationship. I’ve also been holding off because it is slightly overwhelming to analyze such an intense match. In my experience, it started out beautifully (with both scorpion men). I have to recognize that there is a magnetic connection between Aquarius and Scorpio, and I am still trying to figure out what it is. Scorpio is always very cool at first. Not wanting to give away their true thoughts/feelings and looking very hot doing so. This is intriguing for the Aquarius soul and we naturally want to discover what’s underneath the cool, sexy, exterior. I had no idea what I was getting into. My most important scorpio is the father of my son, who is now four. At first, he was everything I thought I wanted. affectionate, carefree, fun, and thoughtful. I later realized that this is not who he actually was. He had put on a very convincing act in order to win me over. He did win me over, and intentionally got me pregnant with the reasoning that it was the only way he knew he could keep me. The sex, of course, was fantastic. The rest, was a disaster. Once the act was over, he turned into a very scary, jealous, manipulative, manic depressive mess. Ive never been emotionally abused in such a way as when my scorpio lost his composure. It is a phenomenon that still baffles me. Because I could not comprehend the magnitude of his emotions, it drove him even crazier. Emotionally, we are completely incompatible. No one feels as deeply as the scorpio, leastly the Aquarius. I have been surrounded by scorpio my entire life and i love them all (my son is also scorp:) Romantically, it is nearly impossible. There is always an exception to the rule, but my experience says do not invest in this relationship and do not be surprised when your scorp’s tightly bottled emotions explode into something your aquarian heart cannot mend or comprehend. We have worked out a friendship over the years, but the tension always remains and it is difficult to live with at times. Enjoy the sex, because this pair is AMAZING in the sac, but parenting is a lifelong struggle with a magnetism that is coupled with hate, hurt, and frustration
Best of luck to all. Peace and Love.
January 27th, 2011 at 9:00 pm
Im a scorpio female and my love is an aquarius male. We argue and have many controversies but in the end we have learned so much from each other. We started off as friends, slowly started dating. Were on and off for about a year. And now we have been stable with each other from almost two month and proceeding. Our views are different but… we start to mold with one another and the love and determination to understand each other is outstanding. I love him more and more every day and his passion and loyalty creates a secure atmosphere for me. I mean.. yes at first our relationship was horrible. But the more we communicated and saw each others points-of-views, our relationship has grown to so much more than just us being together. I literally think he is my soulmate. We plan on moving in with each other in June 2011. All I can say is, if both parties really want to be together.. it is worth it. In the end there is so much love, compassion and truthfulness.. it’s amazing. I’ve never met anyone like him in my life.
February 23rd, 2011 at 5:18 pm
My husband is Aquarius, and I am a Scorpion. We are married for 15 years, and have the deepest relationship. Most of the relationship is about the same interest we have, questioning everything, love the outdoors. He thought me a lot about being kind and I thought him a lot about how to live a more free life. Anyways, this relationship can work very well.
May 15th, 2011 at 7:55 am
D.D. and Beatrix
After reading comments of you two, I really felt that I am exactly in the same situation. I have been in touch with this scorpio girls for about 5 to 6 months, and I have a crush on her. It is, however, quite hard for me to figure out whether she likes me or not. When everything first began, we started as friends, then went into deeper level, dated, and kept in touch. However, as I knew she was going back home just about a month later or so, and not coming back for at least three years, I told her that its best if we just stayed friends. Now, that was my poor attempt to not let myself get too attached to her as I knew we were going sideways. Except for love topics, nothing really changed between our day to day talks, and we still kept in touch. My attempt, however, proved to be a failure as I was even more attracted to her. She did exactly what Beatrix said scorpios do, as she pretended that she was in touch with several other guys, and tried to make me jealous. As an Aquarius, I didn’t really say anything about it, but I was hurt inside. The thing is that she never really does the first move, and always expects me to do the first move without showing me enough evidence that she likes me. Ever since I told her that we would stay friends, this entire relationship thing turned into one complicated puzzle. Having a “friend” banner, our relationship was/is much like of a couple. And just like D.D.’s scorpio partner, she called me sweetheart couple times as well. You may be thinking, she obviously likes you, what’s the problem? I know it sounds silly, but even though I previously told her that its best if we stayed friends, I once again expressed myself before she left, that I still liked her. She kept me waiting for an hour or so, and replied that we agreed to stay friends, so let’s keep to that agreement. Because I was rejected like that, I no longer have that courage to stand and ask her if she likes me anymore. Yet, she tells me about her secrets and generally shows “hints” that are interpreted to me as a sign that she likes me. Now, she tells me that we’re BFF, and that could be the reason she is so open to me as well. But can a true friendship exist between male and female who previously had been dating? She even writes statuses and keeps me up to date, uploads photos just for me on her social network(I know that because it’s a russian website where all of her friends are russian, and she writes in english, and description of her photos are directed towards me) Along with that,she told me that I was/am her “ideal”, and even that she “likes me a looot” jokingly. Now, it may just be that she treats me as her good friend but nothing else,and I may be over imagining things. I just wanted to know if showing that much care towards their friends of opposite sex is common for scorpios.
June 14th, 2011 at 5:41 am
I see alot of comments from people who only been in their relationship 1-3 years. Try 6 years in with your mate then see if that changes cuz trust me it does. Im a aquarius male and my girlfriend is a scorpio, Im still forcing myself to make it work but after 3 years the conversation is no longer stimulating at all and when that goes the sex goes with it. My interest is fading and im trying hard for it not too but after so much compromising and empty conversations you start to think this cant be life with the your soulmate.
August 25th, 2011 at 4:18 am
I am sad because what I think Becky is saying is true. I hate this Aquarius Scorpio Stigma…. How can I keep things interesting? Would it be wise to withhold sex from Scorpio? How can I get him to contact me? Why won’t he contact me? I need help and I am freakin out a little bit because I am crazy about this man and I don’t know what to do. We had a wonderful time together and he told me wonderful things. Was that just pillow talk? I tried to show him that I care about him more then sex. I wanna take the time to find out who he is and that I care and that he can trust me. I really like Scorpio. Why is this so difficult. I just want to love him.
January 2nd, 2012 at 9:56 am
Mary,
02/02/1944 is not a Scorpio.
It is Aquarius like yourself.