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Aquarius and Scorpio
I shall start with perhaps the only good thing about this air/water combination. Sex. They have a wild time in the bedroom, due to the Scorpio’s volatility and Aquarius’s imagination. Sadly once this diminishes there will be nothing left to make it worthwhile.
Aquarius is very independent and hate’s being questioned about his whereabouts. The Aquarius mate will be pleased to let his/her partner go out with friends as long as they are safe with no questioning on their return. The Scorpio on the other hand is less independent and far more possessive. They get jealous very quickly and the Aquarius’s free spirited attitude will lead to the suspicious side of the Scorpio rising to the surface.
This pair may find they become allies in business and reaching goals and will be one aspect where they can relax and get along quite well. Scorpio is very encouraging of their Aquarius lover’s idea’s and will be right behind them egging them on to do well. Aquarius you may find you have met your match when it comes to stubbornness. Try as you might, you will find that the Scorpio will not budge, and as you won’t either, the likelihood is that once this happens it could be the beginning of the end.
Friend’s is a good place to start, but just be aware that although you may find each other attractive the longevity of this union isn’t long lasting.
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It saddens me greatly to discover that I an aquarian born 29/01/1946 and my scorpio born 2/02/1944 are so incompatible as I have been widowed for 5 years and he is the first person I have taken any interest in. He is extremely passionate and we are so much in love after only 2 and a half months but knowing it is not going to last has dpressed me
Hi MAry,
Don’t be depressed. It can all depend on the other aspects of your chart as well. If you both want to make it work then with the right outlook and understanding you could be able to have a wonderful relationship. This is just one aspect of your chart.
Love & Light
Becky
Mary, don’t let your astrological sign dictate your relationships. You and your partner are both seperate people will varying experiences that have shaped your personalities. Take the information on this site with a grain of salt. If you’re both in love and are willing to make an effort your relationship will thrive (regardless of your astrological compatibility).
I think Aquarius and Scorpio make a beautiful couple.
Hi Becky!!
I actually think aqua man and scorpio woman is a much better match than most people assume. I am giving you and others who are interested in this match a link. It’s an interesting site. Please visit it. I have put my comments there.
OK. this is the link
http://brightstarlights.wordpress.com/2007/09/04/scorpio-women-love-aquarius-men/
LOVE @ LIGHT
RUTU
This is interesting. I’m a 11/11 Scorpio male, my girlfriend is Aquarian. I also was a bit depressed to learn of our astrological incompatability - at least according to our core attributes that is.
However, I think their’s a lot of truth in what Becky says above, at least according to my own experience. I see my girlfriend as a wonderfully ‘good’ person and I admire that greatly. I find that if she is treated with honesty, fairness and respect, she (at least it appears to me!) to be happy and content. I also find her to be an amazingly interesting person on all sorts of levels and I truly respect her open-mindedness and general willingness to understand different points of view.
That’s why I think it works anyway!
Thanks Becky.
Interesting thoughts on the Scorpio and Aquarian relationship. I am a Nov. Scorpio female, and my mate is an Aquarius, Jan, male. I love him more and more each day. It’s a love like none that I have known before. Do not get me wrong we do have bumps in the road, but every bump that we have encountered has been worth every smile and special moment we share. But heck who doesn’t have bumps and issues in their relationships.
If Scorpios can tempering their suspicions and possessive ways and become more open minded, this can be a match made in heaven. It takes work but it’s fruitful work, and all relationships require work.
Don’t let a dismal read on compatibility or the stars deter you. Instead take that information and use it to make changes and improve the chances of success for your love. Just think of it as a challenge instead of an obstacle. And besides, Scorps are really good at overcoming obtacles.
I agree with Jasmine- Scorpio and Aquarius do make a beautiful couple!
And Rutu thanks for the site!
Love and Happiness,
Ley
when we first saw each other it felt as we had known eachother forever. when we first started talikng we were convinced that we were soulmates after just talking over the phone in 2days. i scorpio learned from the aqua man how not to be jealous still working on the possiveness. they are so loveable u just want to around them all the time.
I think a Scorpio male and an Aquarius female is terrible. My Scorpio is an introvert to my extrovert. He is selfish, and complains about everything I do or say. He never wants to take the lead and make decisions, wanting and letting (making) me make them, that way he can blame anything and everything on me if it is bad or perceived wrong decision in hindsite.
quiero que en verdad me digan con que hombre soy compatible quiero un geminis…
Hi
I am an Aquarius male Jan 24th and my lover Suann Scorpio Oct 31 ( halloween born at 10:31 Pm). Well we were friends at first for about a month always had eyes for eachother, and I am pretty sure she is my soulmate. We only been serious for about 3 months. We already live together and never been in one arguement, we alaways seem to talk not argue. I just last week found out about our sign incompatability. We have a very strong understanding for eachother and make a GREAT team. I think our love is stronger than our astrolgy.
I’m not too sure how long a “long term” relationship is, but I am an aquarius woman and have been dating a scorpio man for a long time. We are about to have our one year aniversary in December and we are still in love. When I read about our incompatability I was a little sad, but then I got over it ^_^. I love my little scorpion so much! I hope you do too…
I Know many scorpios, and I tend to distance my self from them, thinking they are very mean and very full of themselves at some point, But the truth is that they are too deep for me to handle.
I’ve never been in love with a scorpio but My bestfriend was scorpio and i loved Him more Than I can Eever describe, I protected him Like a child and if he hurt me I’d think its cute instead of being hurtful as well.
I think That some Aquarius do Match withb scorpios,if worked on it.
For all the People who posted their courageus opinions here, Don’t let the small things be an excuse to Give up.
iam glad other female scopios feel the way i do
I am a female (scorpio) and my boyfriend is an aquarian. We’ve been living together for awhile now. We have problems like every other couple but he is very sweet to me and very understanding. I’ve read quite a bit about zodiac signs and to be honest…they can really start to drain you. You begin to look for these qualities that supposedly describe your mates personality. This can cause real problems, because once you start doing that you begin to talk yourself out of the relationship and you forget about all the things you have in common and how much you really care about them. It’s called the “self-fulfilling prophecy”. So needless to say, in the end, you basically convince “yourself” that your mate is exactly how their zodiac described. Which in turn…doesn’t shock you when it doesn’t work out. So my advice to everyone is to take it with a grain of salt…because reading too much into the zodiac can be cause some unnecessary mental anguish.
Thanks for the comment. Just to put my own input in, I understand what you’re saying, but I do think it depends how you read. To me Astrology isn’t about avoiding people of certain signs it is about learning how to understand people better. All signs do have their own unique ways of doing things, and some signs can deal with it better than others, for example an Aquarius paired with a Gemini have less problems than say if they are with a Virgo. All I wish to do here is to highlight these points and then hopefully with understanding comes wisdom and a much happier union for everyone involved.
Love & Light
Becky
I really like this Aqua! Can you pls advise me on how to “get him”…lolx
Funny thing. Last night I dreamed I had three
Scorpios following me around in a movie theatre
And I told them to just go away.lol
Well from what I know of Scorpios, their
comments can really sting you bad. or on the
other side make you feel better than anyone
can. But they do like to feel powerful, so be
careful. Of course a lot depends on other
aspects in the chart to.
Control usually doesn’t go well with an
Aquarius Girl…!!
I’m a 23 years old aquarian man, who deeply fell in love with a 19 years old Scorpio girl.. First girl ever who make me cry like a baby but beside the fact that she may be not ready for a long term relation I see in her something that she do not see..
Is that normal for a Scorpio girl to refuse to be love and trying to sabotage the relation by doing things without thinking??? Almost think that she scared to show to the world that she love me …
me 25 January her 6 November
I passed over a lot of think to be with her
As you said it at the beginning SEX is more than great but she still need to be more open minded..
By the way I’m a french canadian guy so sorry for my bad English… and she a Newfie both from Canada…both stubborn
comments will be grantly appreciated
Hi There,
I am Aquarius…Aquarius and Scorpio..Well in one word….Forgeddaboutit….I have known a few and they are just way too intense for me. I don’t want someone to slash my tires because I don’t want to see them..The only way you can hold their interests is to pretend (or be real) that you do not want them…Now who wants a reationship like that..?? Pretty unhealthy I’d say.
Ya know sometimes I wonder if there really is a compatible sign for Aquarians.. Altho I have loved Libras…Best was Libra snake to my Aquarius Oxen…and then he died of cancer. excuse me while I say damit..please.!!
Good Luck.
I AM AN AQUARIUS FEMALE, AND MY BOYFRIEND IS A SCORPIO. WE MET 3YRS AGO. I WAS ATTRACTED TO HIM AND VICE VERSA. WE STARTED TO GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER AND BECAME MORE AND MORE INTERESTED IN ONE ANOTHER. WE BECAME GREAT FRIENDS AND LOVERS ASWELL. WELL, SUMMER CAME TO AN END SO THINGS WERE NOT THE SAME SINCE WE SPEND LESS TIME TOGETHER BUT WE STILL REMAIN IN TOUCH, I GOT INVOLVE WITH SOMEONE ELSE HE JOINED THE MILITARY AND LOST TOUCH. WHEN HE CAME BACK A COUPLE OF MONTHS LATER HE TOLD ME HE WAS ENGAGED AND THAT JUST BROKE MY HEART, I FELT LIKE I HAD LOST THE MOST AMAZING MAN I HAVE EVER MET AND MY BEST FRIEND AT THE SAME TIME. WE STARTED TALKING AGAIN, AS FRIENDS OFCOURSE. HE WAS MY REFUGE, MY DIARY, THE ONLY PERSON THAT I COULD ACTUALLY TALK TO AND NOT JUDGE ME AND HE FELT THE SAME. HIS RELATIONSHIP CAME TO AN END, HIS FIANCEE CHEATED ON HIM AND I WAS THERE TO CONSOLE HIM. A FEW MONTHS LATER I FLEW OUT TO THE MILITARY BASE TO VISIT HIM AND IT WAS LIKE WE WERE NEVER APART. TILL THIS DAY HE HIS MY LOVER AND MY NEST FRIEND.
I LOVE HIM LIKE I HAVE NEVER LOVED BEFORE, YES WE MAY HAVE OUR DIFFERENCES AND BUMP HEADS FROM TIME TO TIME, BUT LOVE CAN OVERCOME ANYTHING, EVEN THE DISTANCE BETWEEN US, WITH HIM BEING IN THE MILITARY AND HAVING TO LEAVE EVERY NOW AND THEN. WHEN YOU LOVE… IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHING.
I MUST AGREE AQUARIANS AND SCORPIONS ARE THE BEST COUPLES. ITS LIKE A CHALLENGE THAT YOU CANNOT RESISIT.
I LOVE ME A SCORPIO!! I LOVE MY SAILOR!!
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I am a november Scorpio female and my mate is an January Aquarius male.
I have had it with him. He’s too aloof and nonchalant for me. Ive been dating him for 2 years and known him for 3 and we have only gone to the movies 2 times and both times he made me pay for HIM and myself. He never wants to do anything but smoke weed and have sex and listen to HIS cds even if we’re in my car… he wont even let me play my own music IN MY OWN CAR.
My grandma passed away 5 months ago and my mom went to take care of my grandmothers home in another state… i couldnt go because I had to work.
In that week I was at home alone trying to cope with my ONLY grandparents passing.. i had to call my aqaurius guy and find out where he was and literally break down in tears and curse him out before he got the idea to come over and be with me in such a sad time in my life. I called him to let him know my grandma passed away at 11 am and he wouldnt even pick up to see what I wanted until 9pm.
… he was too busy being an ass to care.
I tried to break up with him 1 year ago during christmas.. and he harrasssed me. He found out the number to job and called and hung up everyday. I almost got fired. He fought so hard to not lose me and then I took him back and he treats me like dog crap.
For christmas last year… he gave me a card and a picture of him from 2002. I didnt even know him in 2002!!! He asked me for new shoes and a watch.
He will spend my last dime so that he can keep his crisp 10 dollar bill in his pocket.
I am talking to a new aqaurius now and he is nothing like my ex.
In respond to Chanel Divine,
I’m an aquarius from January 25th,
You did the right choice by let him go ….
Being an aquariud does not mean you be perfect … but smoking weed and be an asshole does not help at all to have a good relation…. My scorpio ex GF have a drinking problem if she drink she can’t stop so she dis stupid stuff like kissing guys in bars and many others things …. I do not lost my respect for other scorpio female who I have to say really hard to understand but so sweat and passionate. If they do not go crazy LOL it’s okay I run fast
good luck in your new relation
me again Divine Chanel I like to cover my GF with Gifts my only things I asked in return is a smile and a kisse…. some people are just cheap may be he would offer you some weed LOL
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In response to Pier and for anyone else who wouldnt mind reading…
I have only stopped talking to my ex aquarius 1 week ago last sunday …so Im not even sure if he’s yet aware that he is now my EX. We argued on sunday and I asked him why he treated me so bad. As a scorpio it is very important for me to find out WHY…to me there is always a reason behind what people do. Good or bad.
Instead of answering my question he flipped it on me and tried to take the blame off of him to me. He couldnt believe I had just asked him to explain to me how he was any different from past guys who treated me poorly and broke my heart time and time again. Instead of telling me why he instead acted shocked and told me the conversation was OVER, turned up MY car stereo, stared blankly out the window and ignored me when I asked him why one more time.
We sat in silence. And then he had the nerve to try and kiss me and say a faint im sorry in a baby voice.
(A scorpio girl like me can tell a phoney a mile away.)
Like that was supposed to make up for the day he ignored my calls when my grandma died.
That happened last sunday and he didnt call me until wednesday. I picked up the phone to him asking me where I had been. If he was a real boyfriend he would have known I’d been at work…working. And I hadnt been anywhere… I just promised myelf and my grandmother in heaven that I would never see him again as I drove myself home that sunday night.
I guess he was shcked when he didnt get a call from me Monday tuesday or wednesday…I wont lie it was hard for me to do but its not like he ever picks up. I deserve better.
I noticed that he only allows me to come and see him when it is convenient for him. Like after hes used all his energy hanging out with his friends and and its almost 10 pm at night
He is dead to me. A scropio never forgets.
The only problem is every few days now he will call. And I dont have caller id for my house phone so I always pick up. When I hear him say hello, I immediatley hang up.
Thursday night he called and i hung up and he called again and he decided to leave message for me.
It went like this:
“I dont know what the (bleep) your problem is… I dont know WHAT the (bleep) your problem is but you better call me back with in the next 10 minutes….” in his arrogant aqaurius tone.
I called my bestfriend and played the message for her… we both laughed.
Oh I better huh? He wasnt called back.
He called me this morning, but i just slammed the reciever down with out saying a word.
All I wanna know is how could he forget what happened sunday?
He acts like I owe him something. Ive done so much for that guy that he should be leaving messages begging for me to pick up and apologizing for his hurtful ways.
How do you get an aquarius guy to realize youre done with him for good!?
CAN ANYONE GIVE ME SOME TIPS ON WHAT TO DO?
Hi Chanel,
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Humm I’m questionning myself on that guy. he really piss me off with his attitude toward you. First truly like you said you deserve better than him. Secondo you can call your phone compagny to complaint about phonw call…
Cellphonw is always the best way to know…
or may be a 5 $ will be more than a good investment for ID Call but even there it’s easy for him to call from a phone booth etc..
May all you need to do is say to him on the phone it’s over or do you want a meet my new BF…. it is very clear is those condition.
May be a odd question but How old is he?
I’m 23 years old sometime I feel like I’m 30 ehne I see jackass like that…
I’m living in Victoria B-C Canada so I see a lot of pot head type of guy….
I wish I could give you the perfect receipe for the solution….
But I do not have it whatever you do you will need to be clear, calm and very in control of yourself do not fall for a fake move ( I know you won’t little scorpio
Do not swear at him do not lower yourself at his level.
He probalby just want that to put the blame on you afterword.
About how can he forget so fast….. what happened thanks god that meant that you are not smoking pot but him yes… so stay away from that jackass….
You do not owe him anything…. walk away be proud that you will find someone better.
Because you will … believe we all do
(I’m still waiting for mine lol )
TTYL
Bonne nuit
( yeah I’m presently in the north pacific Ocean ) viva satellite
Hi there, sorry Chanel Devine.. Please read my Oct 4th comment. perhaps Scorpio is just too serious and intense for an Aquarian ass, whose
only interests in life is to have fun where ever and when ever he can find it, and at anyones expense.Especially on drugs. One thing
you can be sure of, they almost always come back to you, just like a bad penny, when some
one else is not available.. It takes them an
awful long time to mature into a lasting
relationship, and when they do, you can bet
that there is something in the relationship
which makes their life a whole lot easier.
Experiment is their middle name..!!Usually
not faithful..
I am an Aquarian, and I have dated both
Aquarians and Scorpios. I once asked my
Aquarius boyfriend at that time,”If we marry would you be faihful, and he said as long as I get what I want”..lol, well at least he was honest.!!Sorry..!!
Best way to lose an aquarius is to stop
responding at all to them, about anything, or move some distance from them.They dont pursue what isnt easy.Too lazy..!!
Chanel, I hope you meet a sweet Pisces or a
kind Cancerian.They love the intense Scorpios.
Best of luck gal..!!
Wowowowo Laura… Do not put all the aquarians in the same basket.
Yes we do enjoy our freedom sometime but what’s the point to walk by ourself in the road of life…. I’m 23 years old and I’m looking for a long term relation…. not my first…
Cheating and lying is not part on my phylosophy of life….
My ex GF she is a scorpio and … let me tell you that she not a good girl cheating lies ,, cheating some more,,,… so Am I going to refuse to love a another Scorpio girl for that no way people whatever are their sign are good or bad people…
So yes probably like I said before she should keep walking in the same way she started…
The goal of a forum is to ask for help or receive some not bashing on a group of people.
Sorry but I felt very offended by your last posting but once again I’m not seeing the story from a girl point of view.
At least I try…
Hi Laura,
Remember me! I have been here before. And Chanel Devine that boyfriend of yours is nothing but a looser.And there are loosers in every single sign. Let it be aquarius or scorpio. And dear Laura not all aquarians are frivolous. I am totally offended by your irresponsible comments. I am VERY faithful and understand and care for feelings of others (more than my own).Sorry to say but you need to double check your knowledge on astrology.
I have had scorpio girls in my life and I got along very well with them.
Finally my appologies for you laura if I have offended you in any way.
For Chanel Devine get rid of this parasite as soon as possible. (well you are doing that)
Wish you find a nice, caring aquaris soon.
Love and light
RUTU
Hello Pier..!! And woowoo your ownself.
Yes, I know the purpose of this board, its
about opinions of different signs, and every
one has their own opinion. That is not
bashing.!!It is what they have found to be true.
Good luck in your quest..!! Try not to take
everything personally, even if you are an Aquarian..!!
lol..Guess what.. I am too..!!
Pier The aquarius is 23 and I will be 24 next month
I just want to say THANK YOU for everyone who has replied to my posting. I am feeling a bit dow nand out today.
I saw my aquarius guys myspace page and he is talking to many beautiful girls in his area. I had a gut feeling along time ago that he was talking to other girls but his page was always private so i just thought I was having one of my jealous scorpio thoughts. I asked him if there should be any reason that I would be having thoughts like this and of course the aquarius told me no.. im tripping… im just insecure.
But for some odd reason yesterday his page was not private. He wont even accept me as a friend on his page either. He always denies my request. Today I got to see why.
Ive noticed from this guy how good he is at playing mind games and manipulating me.
I know that I am done with him… but I am so humilated now. The fact that he never ever has mentioned that he was ever with me on his page just hurts. His friends who I see when I am at my aquarius guys house are on his top 8 of friends. And that means that all his friends can see all these other women he is talking to. When I go to his house I bet the aquarius guys friends are all laughing at me because they know I am not the only one.
The one thing I cant stand is to be made to look like a fool. I woke up out of my sleep 3 times last night. I cleaned my whole room and closet yesterday and my heart keeps pumping really fast if I think about everything that has happened.
I have these feelings like I want to plot a revenge but I know that there is no point.
I mean i have already lost… or atleats I feel like the loser.
I just cant believe this. My mind told me something was very wrong and ignored those feelings. Now I feel that I am the one to blame even if others beg to differ.
Its going to be a very long and gloomy day for me its only 7 30 am and I feel all these emotions. I’ve had a stomach ache since I saw my aqaurius myspace page and all his lovely lady friends yesterday afternoon.
But once again thank everyone for being so sweet and giving me these encouaging words. You honestly dont know how much it means to me… just to know some one cared just a little bit.
Thank you
Love,
Chanel
Hello RUTU:
No, I do not remember you. I never saw you in my life nor have I spoken with you.
I take full responsibility for my comments,
or I would not be saying them..They are based on years and years of experience. Maybe you are quite young.
It is true that there are good and bad in all signs, based on many things in the natal
chart…But I have gotten so that I can go
in a group, any group, and after observing
people for half an hour, tell them what their
sign is..It scares people. But its a simple
thing to me.!
Rutu, please do not familiarize your self with
me by endearing phrases. lest I think of you as
the saying of St Francis of Assi, condeming
with faint praise. I do not know you on a
personal level. Thank You. Laura.
Chanel Devine:
My heart goes out to you. I care a lot. Well do
I know those feelings…Yes, and thoroughly
cleaning house with angry energy to spare..LOL
But really it is no laughing matter.
Please start thinking more of yourself. And let
it go..!! You know it isn’t right to assign
blame nor to dwell on something that makes you
feel miserable.
Look for new ways to be happy. There are so
many worth while things you could become
involved with, and while you are reaching out
to help others, the right dude will appear for
you. Work on yourslf. And never be too eager
for a relationship, but let nature take it’s
course. Just remember..if something is truly
meant to be..IT WILL HAPPEN. Just think, now
you are free from a selfsih person, and you
can find someone who really can love you for
the good person you are. Best to you, Laura
Chanel Divine … Listen to Laura , She’s true about good things happens to good persons….
You sound like a good girl who will find a better guy now…
Wish you the best luck in the world….
The world is a small place so look left look right may be is already there…
Bye bye
Pier-Adam
Hi,
Thank you Pier, I agree. But also when you stop looking usually you find the right one. My beloved Libra husband passed from cancer.
And, I met him from helping others.I am so lucky to have had that love in this lifetime.
Chanel- I hope you are keeping active, and finding things you enjoy. Maybe this will be a time when you get to know yourself. Best of luck. Laura
What is meant to be, WILL happen…!
I am sorry Pier, on my oct 13 at 12:55 comment, I meant to direct that comment to RUTU.Who was being a bossy aquarius man to me.And it was not directed to you.
We all have a right to express our own ideas and feelings. And this board is for opinions as far as I know..!! If someone wants to take it personally and become mean, that is NOT my responsiblitity. I am here to help, not harm. And I have had my experiences hopes and strengths to share. Thank you, Laura
Hey laura…..
Of course you dont know me. I had commented on this thread earlier. comment 4. Thats why I said that, thinking you might have read it and hence could realise the name. Thats it. As simple as that.
Chanel Divine, No news good news, I hope that you will give us an update on the situation…. Hope that everything went fines over the last few weeks….
TTYL
Pier-Adam
HEY,
SO iVE NEVER BEEN ON ANYTHiNG LiKE THiS..BUT i READ EVERYONES COMMENTS AND SOME PEOPLE HAVE THE SAME FEELiNGS AND THOUGHTS AS i DO SO i THOUGHT iD SAY A FEW WORDS & MAYBE ASK FOR ADViCE. i AM A FEMALE AQUARiOUS (FEB 7) AND MY BOY iS A SCORPiO (NOV 11)
SO. WE HAVE KNOWN EACH OTHER SiNCE MAY 2008..HE WAS MY ROOMATES BEST FRiEND AND SO WE iN TURN BECAME FRiENDS. BUT AT THE TIME HE WAS WITH HiS EX, WHO iS PREGNANT. THEY MET AND SLEPT TOGETHER ONCE AND THEN SHE WAS PREGNANT. MiNUS ALL THE DETAiLS, iT TURNED OUT THAT iT MiGHT NOT BE HiS BABY. SHE iS 100% DiSABLED DUE TO THE METAL PLATE iN HER HEAD FROM A BAD CAR CRASH..WHiCH iN TURN HAS MADE HER CRAZY.
ANYWAY,ME AND HiM BECAME BEST FRiENDS! AFTER THEY BROKE iT OFF WE COULDNT GET ENOUGH OF EACH OTHER. HE PRACTiCALLY MOVED iNTO MY HOUSE, WHiCH WAS GREAT SiNCE WE WERE ALL FRiENDS AND TiMES WERE AWESOME. HE AND HiS EX STOPPED TALKiNG DUE TO HER iNVOLViNG THE POLiCE, BUT iT BACKFiRED ON HER HAHA. AND WE HAVE BEEN TOGETHER EVER SiNCE. i AM iN LOVE FOR THE FiRST TiME iN MY LiFE!
BUT. TODAY iS THE BABY’S DUE DATE. i HAVE BEEN TALKiNG WiTH HER FOR ABOUT 2 MONTHS NOW..TRYiNG TO BE NiCE AND KEEP THiNGS SMOOTH UNTiL THE BABY WAS BORN SO WE COULD GET A PATERNiTY TEST. LAST NiGHT HOWEVER SHE TEXTED ME AND THiNGS WENT BAD. SHE STARTED BADMOUTHiNG ME AND MY BOY..BADLY. i WAS TiRED OF BEiNG MATURE AND NiCE ABOUT EVERYTHiNG. i SAiD MEAN THiNGS RiGHT BACK.
ALL iN ALL, ME AND MY BOY HAVENT BEEN DOiNG THE GREATEST EiTHER, FiGHTiNG ABOUT NOTHiNG ALL THE TiME. HE DOESNT LiKE TO TALK ABOUT THE BABY. AND WHAT iF THiS BABY iS HiS? HE iS STUBBORN AND iF iT iS HiS BABY, HE WANTS TO GET FULL CUSTODY OF THE BABY AND PUT iT UP FOR ADOPTiON. AND i DONT KNOW iF iM OK WiTH THAT. i COME FROM A BROKEN FAMiLY WiTH NO FATHER. i JUST DONT KNOW iF i WOULD BE OK WiTH THE MAN THAT i LOVE HAViNG A CHiLD SOMEWHERE AND NOT CARiNG FOR iT. BUT THEN AGAiN i CANT STAND HiS EX AND I KNOW SHE iS GOiNG TO MAKE OUR LiVES HELL iF THE BABY STAYS A PART OF OUR LiVES.
WHAT iS A GiRL TO DO??
i AM SO OVERWHELEMED
ASH
Ashlie,
Normally I like to stay out of this stuff, because many girls take them back, when they think they are in love..Irregardless of how they were treated..!!
What is a girl to do..?? First of all try putting yourself in her shoes..how would you feel? And most of all find yourself a good, kind, sweet loving man, who has respect for all living things..remember, you could be the next victim…..Aren’t you worth more??
I am Aquarius also… I said enough.!!
Dear Mary,
In your letter dated June 15, I have to tell you that Scorpio birthdate is NOT 02/02/44.
Jan 22 to Feb 22 is Aquarius. So what you had was a relationship with one of your own sign.!
Blessings..!!
Incidently, I was born on January 29th as well..!! Laura.
Well, i have read most of these posts and i think its important to point out a few things. I have been vigorously studying astrology for the last 5 years. I know a very large amount about it and the most important thing i can emphasize is that ITS NOT ALL ABOUT THE SUN SIGN. Depending on what kind of astrology you subscribe to there are anywhere from 9 planets to dozens of planets and asteroids that effect each of us.
It is true that if a person had every planet in scorpio and another had everything in aquarius they would probably HATE each other. But as it goes almost no one has that much emphasis in one sign so if you really want to know if these two are compatible take a look at their birth chart. The moon, venus, mars, and mercury are going to be very large indicators of whether they will get along since these are the personal planets.
Another important thing to understand is that people have varying maturity levels despite what sign they are. An immature, lazy, possesive, and controlling Scorpio will probably never really get along with an aquarian. But a Scorpio who understands their own negative nature and has the desire to overcome their weaknesses will love Aquarius because it is the next transition in the evolution of fixed signs, just as a Leo would find the same transformation in a scorpio.
I am a scorpio and i have been surounded by aquarians for years who loved me and i loved them. We get along Great and have a large amount of fun. But that isn’t because i’m JUST a scorpio. i also have a gemini moon and ascendant, venus and mars in libra, and jupiter in aquarius as my highest elevated planet. Now that might be greek to some of you but the point is its more than just the sun sign.
Any relationship can last and work if effort is put forth to save it. A certian degree of compatibility is neccessary but we are beings of choice and although our astrological soul (birth chart) is unchangeble we always have CHOICE!! i can choose to be controlling and possesive over my aquarian lover, or i can choose to understand her need for freedom and alone time and allow her to have it because i love her. So if you are wondering if your scorpio lover or aquarian lover is right for you, all you need to do is look at yourself. You get to choose whether or not its probably going to last by your actions.
Definately dont take Laura’s word as infallable because like me and everyone else, we all speak from a certian perspective and ego plays a large portion. Just because one aquarian can’t handle the depths of the scorpios she’s met doesn’t mean you can’t. Its all about perspective, if you think it will fail then it will and if you think it will work then it will. Its the law of attraction and we define our own reality.
Sorry i know this was long but if you take one thing away from my post, any relationship you embark on will teach you lessons and the survivability of that relationship is dependant on your ability to grow and evolve past your negative attributes. If you Love them, you usually can make it work if you choose to do so.
I thought i’d add this tidbit to emphasize my point. I lived with and was engaged to a sagittarius for a very long time. Now if i would have looked at astrological compatibility, i would have believed that our relationship would have been more on the one night stand side than the together forever side. Although in the end there were too many problems and we did sepparate it wasn’t because she was a Sag and i was a scorpio. It was because the maturity levels that we both had were incompatible. I loved her and still do to this day, and the reasons i left her had nothing to do with her mutable fire free spirit or her need to travel, or overly opptomistic nature. It happened because she was unable to overcome her negative attributes to make the relationship work. Now had she done that we would still be together and would most likely be married.
The point? relationships are 75% choice, 20% perspective, and 5% personality.
Definately dont take Laura’s word as infallable because like me and everyone else, we all speak from a certian perspective and ego plays a large portion. Just because one aquarian can’t handle the depths of the scorpios she’s met doesn’t mean you can’t. Its all about perspective, if you think it will fail then it will and if you think it will work then it will. Its the law of attraction and we define our own reality.
Well Robert, I was with your prognosis 100% about all of the many factors in the natal sign which make us not entirely..any sign..!!
Until your ego took a punch at me..LOL.
Well I have 50 years or more of Astrological experience. And the predominant factor remains the sun sign, every thing else comes into play bit by bit..! And the depths of deception..no I cannot handle from any Scorpio, or anyone..That’s a real no no..!!The law of attraction would be to put on my walking shoes..and go.!
You have that Aquarius ego thing..sounds a lot like Gemini to me, about knowing everything while only half the way through, and wanting to run the whole program..LOL.. Oh well, be sure and mention my name again cause I am your adversary right? LOL Silly person.
Ps. I have heard people say if Astrology is ALL encompassing..then why study it? Kind of like the Buddhist belief..all is nothing, nothing is all..! There would be nothing that sets us apart.!Ego, intelligence, and environment,to be the only valid discernment, to base your opinion of others on.And, HUH ?.
Robert,
Please do not take Sagittarius as a one night stand. There are many very fine and intelligent Sagittarians. I know a few. I revere their worldly knowledge and adventurous spirit… Especially their musical and artistic abilities. I get along just fine with my Aquarius spirit…Married in the soul, so to speak.No need to own them. The ones I have known are sweet and kind.!And more mature than anyone knows… Relationship’s are 100% either you like them or you don’t, and if you don’t, well..you know what to do..?
I hope you all find what makes you satisfied.I find that there is something for every one.And real glad that everyone is NOT alike, it would be pretty dull world, wouldn’t it?
I love Aries for their playful, childlike spirit. I love Taurus for their strength and endurance in life. I love Gemini for keeping everyone on their toes at all times..lol. I love Cancer for their tender heart and love of comfort. I love Leo for the drama that helps people escape from an otherwise mundane boring world. I love Virgo(or try to) for being able to point out all of my short comings..and there by, improve myself..lol. I love Libra because They are just to danged Beautiful.! And I try to love Scorpio even though they like to hit me with a brick..lol, I do love their great organizational ability, most presidents were born under this sign..check it out.I love Sagitt because they love everthing I love…! And I love capricorn,because their determination is so fierce and unrelenting..!Wears me out watchng them…!!I love Aquarius because I know how misunderstod they usually are ( I should know !)I love Pisces because they love others so intently when they are not in the swimming pool or out drinking.!! lol There is something great in everyone.!Thank God we are all so unique..just like everyone else..ha ha.!
One of my good friends at the moment is a Scorpio (I’m an Aquarian girl, and he’s a Scorpio guy), the moment he told me he was a Scorpio, I was saddened since I was already aware of the incompatibility between the two signs. Reading up on Scorpios I kept on finding stuff like “be wary, they’re possessive, manipulative, and a volcano waiting to explode”. However, despite all this I can’t help but really like him. I really do enjoy his company even though I’ve only known him for a short while, and I find him less possessive and smothering then my Gemini boyfriend. I confide in my Scorpio friend a lot, and trust him a ton with my feelings and thoughts even though sometimes I regret it a bit. He’s my advisor and is always willing to listen, and help me out even when I know he doesn’t enjoy some of the topics I bring up. Anyways, my point, I agree with everyone that it always depends on the situations.
I am a November 1 Scorpio and my man is a Jan 20 Aquarius. He is 10 years younger than me and we are in Love. I kept reading negative posts about Aquarius and Scorpio and I just don’t see it.
He and I get along great and we have a lot in common. We also have a lot Not in common. But I don’t think our signs have anything to do with what we have in common.
Sexually — it is off the chain! He cannot get enough and I have never in my life felt so loved by a man before. He is very affectionate, warm, passionate, caring and aggressive at the same time which I love.
My match is supposed to be either a Cancer (which are truely unfaithful men), a Pisces (can’t do that), a Virgo (definately NOT), or a Capricorn (lies too much). So I figure — shy not go with the Aquarius. He treats me like a woman, he caters to my needs, he is clean and organized just like I am, he is confident in himself and what he wants out of life just like me and he is very intelligent — just like me. And, we work for the same company! OMG — I cannot believe it. I checked him out when I first started working here and was told some negative things about him and immediately put him out of my mind but not before I said to myself “he is good looking though”. LOL.
A few months of him speaking to me in passing and telling me that I looked nice and making small talk, then I got up the nerve and told him that it would be cool if we went out for drinks sometimes after work. That’s it —- 3 months later we are a couple. I see him every day at work and every night when I get home. We can’t get enough of each other. I am in love with him and I think he is the sweetest man who has the sweetest love.
I must say that God has sent me the man that I have been praying for. Do you ladies know about “the List”? Well my list has everything that this man is — and that is no lie!
I think that it’s much more than a sign which brings people together and makes them mesh well together. It is important to remember that people have different up bringings, they have different education levels, there are so many things that make people different.
I have several Scorpio girlfriends and I can honestly say that None of them are like me. We are totally different — don’t act anything alike but we are the same sign.
I was married twice before — once to a Scorpio — big mistake and once to an Aries — an even Bigger mistake. Then I fell in love with a Taurus ( he was a big time loser — just like Chanel’s friend). I had to make some tough choices in my life and I finally dropped him like a hot potatoe after 5 years of back and forth with him.
Sometimes you know in your heart that a person is not right for you but you hold on to them for fear of being alone again. It’s hard to let go but a person who is a loser, who wants nothing in life but to sit around drinking, putting you down, disrespecting you and yours, doing drugs, or abusing you either mentally or physically; is a person you do not need in your life. I’ve been there, done that — it’s not worth it. As soon as you make up your mind that a “Real Man” is what you want and a “Real Man” is all that you will accept, then that is what you will get. Doesn’t matter what his sign is when it comes down to him treating you the way you want to be treated.
Chanel Devine — I believe you just had a loser and I am sorry that you had to go through so much with him but keep your head up and keep it moving. A good man will come to you and what you read about compatibility between you and him should not stop you from being with him because there are so many other factors. Write your list girl and pray on it and the right man will come to you.
Laura, you are a strong woman!
I was madly in love with an aquarious, but nearly blew a gasket when I found out he was pursuing a long-distance relationship with his ex-girlfriend, a scorpio, at the same time! Being aries, I can’t stand being second best and don’t associate with him anymore. Honestly, this was rotten to do and I still feel hurt, so it’s disheartening to read about all the incredibly successful Aquarious/Scorpio pairings. (kinda childish, but that’s just me)
I dunno, in a fight i told him the reason why they are doing so well is since it’s long distance, she’s not around to deal with all the BS he pulls. I never let anyone get away with BS, so we definitely clashed over this argument.
Bah, I don’t really have a question to pose or point. I’m just letting things be.
I have always been deeply involved with astrology and I do feel that it does play a small part in how in people in relationships interact in general . I have had a long standing crush on a Virgo I have known since high school….but he is very withdrawn, and critical and it does hurt my feelings when he becomes extremly judgemental of my feelings and actions. However, I am falling so hard for this aquarius co-worker of mine. He is gorgeous, funny, charming, sweet, intelligent, very helpful….but I feel like he is so distant at times, which makes me feel so bad. I liked him instantly, from the first time I saw him and we have slowly been getting to know each other, and the more i know about him the more i like.But there are a LOT of issues, he is younger than me and of a different background, and I fear if I tell him how i feel that he will just reject me and I know that I cannot handle that. He does make my insecurities run rampant when I see him flirting with other female co-workers….there is just something about him, I know we have chemistry and some of it could be sexual tension. I really don’t know what to do about this guy because I am so frustrated about the situation, I want so badly to tell him how I feel. He is more accessible than my Virgo, and if my Virgo told me tomorrow that he wanted to be with me I would not hesitate….but I am so drawn and intrigued by my aqua crush (although I have heard he is a jerk, but I don’t see that side to him)……what should I do?
I’ve read the article and several of the posts but not all of them so I hope I’m not repeating. For the most part it seems to me that there have been a lot of female perspectives but very few male perspectives. I do not pretend to be an expert on astrology. The only reason I started looking into it was because the Scorpio I love really gets into it and was telling me things I had no idea about. I am and Aquarius male, I was born Jan, 25 1987 @ 10:49 P.M. I was however born a month late (my mom often reminds me she carried me for 10 months not 9) So I do not know if that plays any role in my astrology since I was supposed to be born in December.
Anyways for the most part I do have many Aquarian characteristics. I am emotionally challenged although that does not mean I have no emotions only that it is hard for me to feel comfortable expressing them. I am extremely intellegent and like to think of things that have no bearing on the here and now (meta-physics makes me lose a lot of sleep just wondering). I wouldn’t say I am shy but I may be percieved that way. When I first meet someone I am engaging but from a distance, I don’t open up immidiatly. This is mainly because I feel an urge to understand the person before I can feel comfortable around them. So I study people, understandibly some women are put off by this in thinking I’m not interested when in reality I’m spending a lot of time thinking about them and trying to understand them. In terms of sex, I don’t know about all Aquarius men but for me, don’t rush into sex. If you try to rush me on it I’ll be turned off. I am more interested in the mind to begin with. That however does not mean I do not enjoy sex or once I am comfortable with you will have a low sex drive. In fact if anything it might be more than you want.
After stating those things I’m sure most of you are wondering how I ended up with a Scorpio. She is emotional, jealous, oversexed, but also full of odd habits and quirks that I can’t figure out. She is the strongest woman I know, she will kick your ass if you mess with her but at the same time will cry if you don’t make sure she knows how much she is loved. How it has worked though is that we both made certain compromises to our personalities. I for my part have attempted to be emotionally open and for her part she has tried to control the crazy. We have great sex which always helps.
I hope this helped some female Scorpios to better understand Aquarian men, we are not without emotion or sex drives. The best advice I can give you is give him time, maybe a lot if your really interested because I can assure you that he is interested in you, your just so damn confusing that it takes him a while to have even a basic understanding of how you work.
By the way after looking into astrology I realized all the girls I’ve dated were Scorpios…Coincidence?
I didn’t know that Aquarius were not compatibilty with Scorpio. I am an Aquarin woman and I been dating a scorpio man for two month. We can’t stop talking and I can’t ever wait to see him. From reading all your posts it depends not on stars but on each other. I mean I hope it lasts, but are their times when aquarius and scorpio are a match? What are you baseing this on?
well, i have met a scorpio lady and she is so sweet and lovely and makes me melt. too much reading in to the supposed problems is not the way forward. we are just passed 40 are our life experiences does not apply to the so called not backs. it will work out of the kindness and respect that we have both endured. she is amazing
part two of my findings. i have read all the stubbiness that can rise to the surface of a relationship between the so called dislike that are supposed to be there, but no way, when he and she have both responsibilites, the time together is rewarding and electric, so mister or missus doubting thomas’ of this world reference aquarian and scorpio? you are so wrong. love and passion with up most respect shines through. makes everything even stronger, very powerfull. now where can u find that!!!
but it says that scorpio women and aquarian men get along well but a different story for aquarian women and scorpio men
To Dustin
Hi Dustin! I’m a scorpio girl and geeeezzz for a while I thought you were describing me heheh:
“She is emotional, jealous, oversexed, but also full of odd habits and quirks that I can’t figure out. She is the strongest woman I know, she will kick your ass if you mess with her but at the same time will cry if you don’t make sure she knows how much she is loved.”
I am dating an Aquarius man for almost a year now. at first i thought the relationship would not work since the two of us are on the opposite poles:
I didn’t get his mood swings (He’ll be sweet and talkative and then silent and distant the next minute) or his being distant (refuse to talk to me.. I mean i would appreciate it if he tells me what his problem is), the disappearing acts (Which gets to my nerves most of the times)and his need to be alone (I’m the type of girl who wants to be by his side whatever his problems are). Sometimes this things are giving me a problem (Everytime he do this stuff, can’t help but think that his thinking bout his ex ^_^) but he always tell me that it has nothing to do with me or his ex. That when he do such thing it does not mean he does not care for me or does not love me at all (coz he does love me). it’s just the way he is… Oh well I don’t know.. I find aquarius men really puzzling…
It does not matter though… because he is not like this every single time of the day.. Most of the time we really get along and he appreciate my passion and sweet loving nature… we could spend the whole day listening to each others stories and day dreaming on what our future will be like… hmmm so i think there’s no reason why a relationship will not work… if both parties are willing to adjust and understand one another then there is 100% chance that a relationship will last for a lifetime… My aquarius guy always tell me that we should grow together, experience things together and just be there whenever we need each other.. That is why i feel so lucky to have him in my life..
I have read most of the comments and have gotten mixed ideas on an aquarious Scorpio relationship. I am an aquarian female now married to a Scorpio male. Through my Adult life I have had 2 major relationships. From 19-23, a very passionate, mostly bad relationship with a Scorpio who lied, and was very self districtive. I finally couldn’t take it any more. Within a season (1-2 months) I met a new Scorpio and I couldn’t help bit be intrigued. I was very nervous when I learned the boys were born within a week of eachother in the same year, but brushed it off as silly. 2 years later I see they are more similar then I would like. This one is self districtive as well, has the same short temper. They also both like to drink a little too much. Both great when sober, unbearable when too drunk. Increadably cocky. I’m sure there are things about me he can’t stand too. For two stubburn people this is hard! I hope we can work it out. I love him so much. I do vow if this can’t work, I am done with scorpios! No matter how much self control I need!
Hello,
I am aquarian and my husband is a scorpio. We have been together for 10 1/2 years. It is still as intense as it was when we first met. We have grown stronger together. I feel that any relationship is going to be work. Ours was easy till we added kids then it took some adjusting. I think it was easier since our girls are a scorpio and aquarian
Just thought i let y’all have an example that this pair can work.
Laura I appreciate your perspective but continually bringing up the “I have the experience” line doesn’t impress me.
As far as Scorpios and Aquarians are concerned, I adore both signs. I love their strenghth and intelligence and they are so intriguing in different ways. Aquarians are not frivolous, since I know at least three who are mature, sensitive and down to earth. Probably these kind of Aquarians would fit much better with a Scorpio who is not so possesive or dramatic. These Scorpions exist too.
It all depends if both partners truly care for the relationship to work. Sure what couple doesn’t have disagreements. However I think with Scorpions and Aquarians it will help them mature and grow faster.
I am an aqua girl and dealing with an scorpio now. We can talk FOREVER non-stop over the phone (we live in different states) and I NEVER get bored and I generally hate talking on the phone. Now when i dealt with my aqua boy, the convos lasted 10 min or less. Just no chemistry over the phone, because he doesn’t like a lot of questions and I don’t either so basically a lot of dead air….I am very intrigued by this scorpio thing, i don’t care what people are saying about it.
More sharing experience about this couple please! I also wonder if anyone can tell me about an Aqua with Taurus rising and an Aqua with Scorpio rising.How are they different?
i am a scorpio woman i am deeply in love with a aquarian male.we are soul mates.jealousy takes work.he understands me like no other.im sorry but i dont buy all this negativity from this reading..maybe im blinded by love.but he is who i have searched for..and we get on great..its all very beautiful and i would recommend this union to anyone.pure bliss.i love you dave forever and without u im lost..
I am a Scorpio (Nov. 14) woman and I am in love with an Aquarius(Feb. 11) man. He has been by my side since I was a crazy, mixed up 13-year-old with serious abandonment issues. When my mother tried to break us up we both cried. I cried because he’s the first guy I ever actually trusted enough to love and he cried because his worst fear was going to come true. I told him not to worry. I wasn’t going to let her tear us apart, nothing in the world could tear us apart. After I fixed everything and told him that it was all alright he made me promise that I’d be ok. I did. Then one day he talked to me more and more until we were talking every moment that I wasn’t in school or with my family.
I’m telling you this because I do not believe any of the things written up there. If Austin was anything like the people written about in these comments I would still love him. I would still be with him every night. He’s as attached to me as I am to him. The thing I am trying to get across is that just because your zodiac compatibility isn’t so great doesn’t mean you have to give up on your love or giving up trying to fix it. If you have problems work them out. Don’t give up. If you can give up that easily then you’re not really in love, you’re just in like. Don’t give up on the love of your life just because of your zodiac signs not being compatible.
I know I’m not giving up. As long as he loves and needs me by his side I will be there. And I know that he’ll go to hell and back for me. He’d die for me. And I’d do the same for him. I got lucky. I found the love of my life at an early age. Are you going to give up on yours over something that simply says ‘You’re not compatible. Give up now.’?
Hi there Tamara,
I am very sorry to hear that you have been through all of this. An Aquarius would indeed be a very good person for you to be around. Please don’t take astrology as what you should or shouldn’t do, think of it as a bit of advice so if or when these problems arise you will be aware that it is usual behaviour for whichever sign.
To me, a relationship is all about understanding, and astrology just gives us some tips on how best to do so. So obviously, no don’t give up, you have been blessed by finding someone who will be there for you no matter what and that is something very special indeed.
My Aquarius helped me too, so I know where you are coming from. Also, remember that astrology go’s far deeper than sun signs alone.
Thank you for your comment.
Love & Light
Becky
i am an aquarian female who dated an scorpio and it was the worst relationship in my life!!!! it starts of good with the sweet gestures and a hint of playful bossyness. but soon he becomes an overbearing ass. he wants to know where you are all the damn time. he is so argumentive and thinks the world resolve around him. i fell so inlove with him that anytime i have a new reltionship i juge it on him. so i never again have a long term relationship again. he made me go crazy!!! even though i like to have freinds and dont like to be mad at a person for too long, after i broke up with him i couldnt even be his freind i wanted him out of my life that much.
Hi all, I’m a 19 year old aquarius female born 25/01/90, my partner a 28 year old Scorpio male born 6/11/1980.
Currently we’ve been officially together over 7 months, friends nearly a year, and known each through friends give or take 2-3 months over a year.
In the early days things seemed perfect. He restored my faith and trust, lifted me, seemed to want all the same thing as me, he seemed to care, his promises ment something, he was kind, exciting, empowering, gentle, and loving….
Or so i thought.. Since the start of this year, he’s drained me completely, held me back, kept me away from family, friends, loved ones, hes called me every name under the sun, he’s lied, disrespected me, let others aswell, he’s come between me and my work, hopes, dreams, wants, needs, theres no support from his end. He’s detatched, he threatens me, stops me from leaving, to the point he becomes physical, he doesnt scare me, yes he hurts me, but its the over powerment he has over my small physique.
I knew some of the scorpion traits before things got serious, now i wish i ran in the opposite direction, I’ve been in there for him since day one, never neglected, disrespected, or betrayed him. And yet he’s never once put me, my needs, first. Never considered me in any aspect of his life or surroundings. His promises are empty, never followed through, his word doesn’t mean anything, for he’s let me down more times than i can count. Hes selfish in more way than one, thinks about himself, or anyone else but the one he says he loves, wants, needs, blah blah blah.
. . . In some ways I know I dont want to be with him. But he’s messed things up for me, taken all i had/have, energy to fight, or try open his eyes to his actions, even talking to him is a struggle. To him im invisible, and fighting him isn’t worth the result. I find it difficult to communicate him since he first put his hands on me in a way that put my safety at risk, i have tried, i’ve tried compromising, i’ve even backed down more than once to try mend our destroyed relationship, and my trust and faith in him. I’ve been patient…and put up with the things i never would have considered before, Please dont get me wrong, I did love him, i still have love for him, and i still care, but nothing good came all this, it definitely was NOT worth it, one thing i do have now in pure resentment, for him, his actions, choices, decisions, and our relationship, thats the one thing i will take away with me when I finally decide to walk out the door, and when I do theres no going back, its only a matter of time.
Revenge sounds sweet, would feel just as good, but id rather see how time, and karma deal with it all, each to there own but never will i ever let a scorpio into my life sexually or seriously, emotionally, or mentally. Let alone into my private space or life on a partnership basis, though i wont hold his actions, words, and my experience with him against others, other scorpio kind shall only remain friends.
It’ll be a quick transformation, i’ve learnt alot from the experience, and ive taken it in, regardless of the ending, or events, hes only temporarily stopped this Air sign catch, from being being happy, only brought her down for a bit, held her back but it wont be long till im my independant, curious, vibrant, happy self again. And he wont be able to stop, interfere, or control it in any way, and thats my closure, to know he wont be one thing to destroy who i really am or whats planned out for me. (Born on day of Destiny - Month or Year-cant remember aquratly)
Thought she’d finally speak out, where someone might understand, or even believe her.
Tamara
You’re really Desperatley Confused .Just one bad apple and you sworn to take revenge upon others by never giving them a chance.This will only give way to others who you think might not have a chance to hurt you , kill you quicker because of your cynical and narrow-minded attitude toward life.Take a look at all the posts above about how bad Aquamen and women before you.There was even the case where the Aqua took drug and treated his woman like shit.However, I didn’t see her saying about never giving other Aqua a chance. Oh, well, I guess every one has their way of living but I hope you would find some hope for yourself.
Take care,
I am a female Aquarian and I just recently got out of a relationship with a Scorpio and we were probably the worst math for each other but I stuck it out for 3 years trying to make it work because I loved him. He treated me horribly throughout the 3 years we were together, constantly yelling at me and trying to control everything I did and put me down on a daily basis. He told me I was a negative person but in fact he was the negative person telling me everything that he disliked about me and my personality which made me feel bad about myself. We lived together for 2 years and it was basically hell the whole time, constantly criticizing everything I did. If I got mad about something he did somehow he would turn it around on me and make it seem like it was my fault when it wasn’t. I agree Scorpios and Aquarians do not match. The only thing good about the relationship was the sex and he ruined that for me as well by being an asshole all the time about everything. We did have our good times but the bad times out weighed the good to where we just couldn’t make it no matter how hard I tried.
Maybe he thought he could save you but he obviously couldn’t save himself . It’s good to be apart then.
my dear,
i am scorpio man of 32 and u will fell down when i revealed that she is acquarian aged 14 we both are madly in love and i can wait her till she attend her maturity .she is extemely popular while i can say that i make her popular we r very popular in our group.
I’m an Aquarius woman and historically, have had horrible luck with Scorpios - men and women alike. I find they interrogate you only to rebuke any of your own attempts for independence and cross examine everything all over again. I love passion but these people consistently strike me as ridiculously passionate about matters that others could care less about. I’m fairly confident that whoever first stated “don’t make a mountain out of a molehill” was saying this to a Scorpian!
Well all I gotta say is Lisa Marie Presley’s 1st hubby Danny Keough was a Scorpio and she is an Aquarius. I do recall after their 7 yr marriage was over, how Lisa said she will always love him, but they just cannot be married. They are better as friends. I find to be true with my Aquaself as a female also. I am friends with Scorpio women and men. After reading about the incompatibility between Scorpio and Aquarius, I just run from every Scorpio man that takes interest. I have tried to date a Scorpio but he stole from me and lied and I had to beat his ass. So, I refuse to date SCORPIOS, they can only be my friends that’s all. I don’t give a damn what anybody says. I DON’T DO SCORPIOS for romantic relationships. They are too jealous,controling,and possesive for me. Some are even too serious and I like GOOFBALLS!!!!
nice to read your comments and experiences.
i am a female scorpio and i had or still have this crush on an aquarian guy.i can say that i am down in the dumps because no one has ever been so cold to me, not exactly cold but closed and not caring.i am tired of thinking about the reasons of him being not interested since i am “too much” for him (i am just telling the facts).he was the one who was interested and tried to have me but then he just run away emotionally.the reason can be that he knows i have someone important in my life but he also knows how deeply i was falling in love with him. why didn’t he fight and try to achieve sth? i hang out at the same places he does and sometimes i feel we are connected with no talking,making eachother jealous with other people..but the problem is that he sees my affections and he doesn’t do the first step.i sometimes think i am too cruel and mysterious but i am sure it’s obvious how i feel for him if he just tries to discover.i can not humiliate myself by telling him cause i had done it once and he hadn’t even responded. i really dont want to do anything more to make him mine, and i am sure this all will finish cause he’ll do nothing. i think he’s just too realistic and doesnt give a s*** if i just go away.and i will never understand why.the girls i see him with are really neither pretty, nor intelligent. i know what he thinks about my appearance and my intellect..is the problem my emotional side?
question to aquarius guys: are you jealous at all? would the actions like dancing with others, having fun and drinking make you jealous and make you start thinking that a girl is into you and does that for you, or would it just make you run away?
can you resist a beautiful and smart girl just because she has a boyfriend(who she might leave bacause of you but makes you jealous from time to time)?
i feel like i’ve just written a bunch of crap, but maybe someone lived the same and could be helpful…
HI Beatriz…
I am an aqua with deep deep interest in a scorp girl… And i think she is doing similar things as u described here. MAKING ME JELOUS….She is confusing and she hurts me when she behaves like this. As a result I draw further and further from her.
I know she has interest in me. I know that and so does she knows that i have interest in her. Actually its much much more than interest. I NEVER cared for any girl the way i care for her. There were occassions where she showed me her interest, but i am slow in matters of heart. i wanted to take my time. But all this while I REALLY cared for her and i STILL do. But once in a while she would pass some romantic comments about some guy around. For ex. ” You know I love him” etc etc… Now she has found interest in some other guy and talks about him infront of me at times…
Does it hurt me..? A LOT… do i show anything or does she have a clue..? NO WAY… I mean..NO WAY….
Now u tell me what could be the reason for her behaviour? Now i have come to belive that she is indeed interested in this new guy. Its fine for me. Maybe over time she will realise we are right for each other.. We really are. And she knows it. I cant tell you how hurt i was when she talked about this other guy in front of me for the first time..! And now i am angry with her for doing that.
I have patience of a crocodile i can wait and wait and i will wait for her as i belive she is worth it.
I hope i answered u. Can u answer me too pleas..?
I am an aquarian female and I was in a relationship with a scorpio male. We were in a relationship that ended after a couple of months. I discovered I was pregnant and we got back together but shortly-after ended again. I was 7 months pregnant when we got back together not long after I had our son. We were together for half a year, I moved town to live with him and was not allowed friends or a social life. He was emotionally abusive and appeared to not mind crushing my self-esteem with insults and threats. We have been apart for the last 4 years and since then I have found interest in another scorpio male, but now I am feeling quite hesitant about him as there are similarities between the two scorpio men. They are a born two weeks apart and a year apart. I do like this other scorpio, but I am worried I would be falling into the same trap as before.
hello D.D,
thank you for your reply,
:))) you’ve replied me the things i assumed but when a guy knows the interest of a girl, doesn’t he want to try to seduce her more and more and to talk openly instead of “concluding” on his own..?
isn’t he afraid of losing her if he acts that cold?i couldn’t understand this.
what type of a girl does an aquarian dream of?
i was always a dream of every boy until now. i can’t get it!!!
now, the answer to your question - i did the same thing, i told him how i loved my boyfriend but the ONLY reason for that was to test him and see if he was jealous.i even showed him photos and stuff just to make him afraid of losing me and see if he’s gonna react,but…that didn’t cause anything good nor bad..he just remained pasive like nothing happened.i see he suspects that i have many guys around me,but the problem is that i never stop doing things like dancing and smiling and pretending happy with the crowd around me because we-the scorpios, in spite of our open spirit and strentght to approach a guy, still wait for him to do that step especially if we had showed him the interest.
so my advice to you is to approach her with no second thoughts because if you ever meant something to her she’ll give you the chance to express yourself.in the opposite you can cause an anger in her because we are used to be accepted.