Aquarius Compatibility With Sagittarius |
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Aquarius and Sagittarius
This air/fire combination can work extremely well. Both people have the need for independence and so won’t suffocate the other. They will participate in fun activities with one another and be heard laughing quite loudly together at times. Sagittarius is often the life and soul, and they love to be loved and adored and seen to be wonderful in all they do and say. In-fact, at times, these fire signs can come across as rather snobbish and stuck up, a characteristic which won’t go down well with the Aquarius as they don’t understand the attention seeking way’s of the Sagittarius.
Sex will be pretty good with these two as well. Very hot between the sheets, but the Aquarius may have to keep some of his/her more outrageous fantasy’s to themselves as the Sagittarius can be quite traditional at times. The Sagittarius partner may want more commitment than their Aquarius lover is willing to give, for although these two get on extremely well there is no real spiritual link. Some people say that these signs can be ’soul mates’, I’m afraid I don’t agree. Sagittarius is far too ‘normal’ to be that in tune with the Aquarius I’m afraid, but they will be close.
Flirting may be another issue between this otherwise stable couple. The Sagittarius is an incurable flirt, and although the Aquarius is in no way a jealous person, he/she does believe in loyalty and being faithful and frowns upon flirting. So you may have to curb this Sag if you want this love to last. All in all not a bad union at all, don’t take it too seriously and it could last quite a while!
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Wow. This is the first time i have read that someone feels an aquarius and sagittarius are not souls mates. I agree, I dated a sagittarius for over three years and all it was, was a physical connection; nothing more than that. Everything you wrote is dead on what we had, or didn’t have. I was starting to wonder why him and I didn’t work out if everyone else says that we can be soul mates and we are a great match. It was reassuring once I read this. Thank you.
This is bizarre. It’s OK to think of signs as leading to possibilities, but you’re actually going as far as giving relationship advice as if you were talking about a past relationship of your own. It would work much better (and actually be useful) if you explored the set of possibilities instead of narrowing down on a single one and hammering it down as if couples were condemned to it for eternity. Signs are a way of thinking about your life, not a way to answer questions about it - you have to live life to find the answers.
Thank you for your comment. I try to give my readers the respect of having the intelligence to make their own minds up about things. What I write is based on what I know. I could easily read a lot of books and write down a factual based assessment about each sign etc, but that is not my way. The way the planets affect us here on Earth is something that has always fascinated me and I have spent my life learning about this first hand by watching and listening to people from all different sign combinations.
You are right of course, you do have to live life to find answers, but it is nice to get a helping hand a long the way sometimes. Also, I am not telling anyone to do anything at all! I have had relationships with signs that I have been fully aware I wasn’t compatible with as lots of other people do. My job is just to allow people to get an understanding of what may occur when they are with each of the signs. The choice is theirs to make.
I read what you said about Aquarius/Sagittarius
Compatibility and this guy that I like is a Sagittarius,and I am an Aquarius and we would be perfect for each other.He is not snobbish or stuck up and he is very much a flirt.
Hi Amber,
Many many people believe that this is a great match and you ofcourse will get on very well and physically find each other very attractive, it is in the long term that it never seems to work out. But I wish you luck and please let me know how it works out.
Love & Light
Becky
i think that its crazy for anyone to say that any sign against another sign are not “compatiable” in the future..im actually mingling on a regular wit a sadge n im an aquarius> i do believe in horoscopes n this n that, but i am in tune with God . in my opinion it does take a whole life time to get to know someone n learn to love them.. i think this will pursuade alot of people.. this narrows down alot of expectations in a persons mind about n e situation.. i dont like it and i think for the first time, i believe that im gonna stop reading horoscope .. i like the way i think and this is not help this is getting answers that i know and everyone else will find out forthemselves.. THIS IS A WAY OF CHEATING and kills the excitement in finding the answers personally.. but all respect to Amber. i did have high hopes in all this horoscope stuff but my mind is sooo full of positivity that i realized that there are way 2 many negative feeling about this..so over N out…G$>OUT
Cool-beans. TRUE SO TRUE!
My sister (Sag.) has been married to her Aqua over 30 years. They are so damn perfect for each other, although the Sag does get restless as her Aqua is a homebody. Just never know..
I don’t agree with everything you said. My Aquarius man gets me, as I get him. We’re in-tuned in intellect and philosophical. I’m the one who is against commitment, and have finally decided to tie the knot with him… although, I’m still reluctant.
I think you are almost -dead on with your assessment… but tell me this:
I was starting to date a Sag man.. I am Aquarius.
And we were so attracted to one another..had a great time on our first date. We had a hard time arranging our second date and I was late by 15minutes. Talk about selfish sag..he left! Without calling me. Now I know Aquarius are fun free flowing.. and sag is not.. so how do we actually start something when our personalities are already totally off.
He calls the next day and says he doesn’t want to continue dating.
I believed we would have been a good match .. oh well. Do Sag turn around and call back after they calm down?
Traditional in bed. I think not. I’m a sagittarius woman and I consider “tradition” to be a huge turnoff. Anything is worth trying at least once
Sagittarius don’t like to be considered “normal” although we are experts at adjusting to any situation, we are not plain. We are amazing at everything and did I mention we are amazing. Just kidding..not.
I’ve been in love with a venus/moon in aqua (sun in aries) man we are so in sync its crazy.
He has trouble translting what he feels and tends to over analyze eveything but I find myself atttracted to the ones that keep me guessing.
I so agree with saaggg, I’m a sag girl and we are so NOT “traditional” in between the sheets…we find that a bore.
My experience…
The combination between a sag girl and aqua guy is so intense and exciting. I think we meet each others needs pretty well. the only problem I feel with the combination is aqua is a bit too closed off to expressing emotion and bc sag girls are in no way clingy/needy the sag girl CAN survive through it. I find it a bit frustrating from time to time but I find it fascinating at the same time for some reason…a bit of a challenge maybe??
I’m thinking the combination of sag guy and aqua might have a different outcome??
Im a sag women in love with an Aquarius guy. I dont know how he feels about me because he is distant and cold sometimes towards feelings. I am trying to be patient. Ive heard that Libra is a perfect match for Aquarius, but is there any hope for the Saggitarian woman that is hopelessly in love with an Aqua man?
@ sag in love: Good luck with your aqua man, i am an aqua girl and if there is anyone that can handle those men, it is their own kind.( i was also with another aqua man for 4 years, i tend to attract the same sign)but anyways, the most recent one i was with, we had such a deep connection it was spirtural as well as intellectual, and I completley understood him when he is being closed off, because so am i. I gave him plenty of space, naturally, because I also needed that. But it gets to a point of ” I deserve for someone to express how they feel for me, no matter how scared they are, I need to know that I am truly wanted.” Aqua men are extremely selfish and childish when it comes to emotions. So if you see a REAL future with him and he would be a great partner down the line, then go for it, if not leave as soon as you can and stop wasting time, (I gave it a year and a half) and when we broke up that is when he wanted to express himself, he was a day too late. I am now with a Sag man and he is wonderful. He can express his feelings to me without being clingy and scaring me away and he is intelligent like an aqua man, without being an a**hole. He loves giving gifts and making sure that I am taking care of.( Aqua me feel silly doing things like that amd it can take them YEARS before they do it) I don’t feel like I have to hold back when I am feeling affectionate or emotional, so it is a freeing feeling. So I if I can’t work out with a sag there is just no hope for me LOL, but it all comes down to your own indivdual personalities, you cannot rely soley on a horoscope. I love the SAG/AQUA combo!!
I AGREE WITH YOUR INFORMATION, I AM AN AQUARIUS FEMALE WHO IS INVOLVED WITH A SAG MALE AND YES, IT IS MOSTLY BECAUSE OF WHAT HAPPENS BETWEEN THE SHEETS OR ON THE WAY TO GET BETWEEN THE SHEET.
THE SAG IS VERY ROMANTIC WITHOUT BEING TOO OVERBARRING AND ALLOWS ME MY FREEDOM, BUT HE DOES WANT MORE FROM ME THAN I CAN FREELY COMMIT.
WE HAVE GOOD CONVERSATION, BUT NOT WITHOUT BEING VERY CAUSIOUS. MOSTLY BECAUSE OF HIM OPENING HIS MOUTH BEFORE THINKING OR TRYING TO GET ME TO CHANGE MY THOUGHTS. WHICH CAN BE VERY IRRITATING. AND THAT MAKES ME VANISH.
AND YES!! HE IS THE BIGGEST FLIRT AND NO!!I DON’T LIKE! THAT IS ANOTHER PROBLEM. BUT, HE CLAIMS THAT I AM TOO. IT MAYBE SOME TRUTH TO IT.
WELL, WE HAVE BEEN BACK AND FORTH FOR 16 YEARS AND WE DO HAVE REAL FEELING FOR EACH OTHER, NEITHER OF US CAN SEEM TO GET THE OTHER OUT OF THE OTHER’S MIND.
AND YES HE IS A SNOB AND HE DOES THAT BY THINKING HE IS A BIT MORE CLASSY THAN OTHERS. AND IT IS TRUE THAT I FIND THAT TO BE SILLY BECAUSE I DON’T FEEL ANYONES STATUE MAKES THEM ANYMORE IMPORTANT THAN THE NEXT PERSON.
BUT ANYWAY, WE ARE TRYING NEW WAYS TO ADJUST AND LOOK OUT FOR EACH OTHERS FEELINGS TO MAKE IT WORK THIS TIME AROUND.
AND NO, IT’S NOT A BAD MATCH. JUST NEEDS SOME WORK.
Dear Becky,I read your article, and I found myself does not have the charactors of Aquarius, eventhough I was born in Aquarius month. I feel that am more like a Leo. Is that possible?
Hi there Jia,
Thank you for your comment. Yes it is possible. Very possible. Until you know what you have in the rest of you chart is is always a bit hard to know yourself, knowng your Moon and Rising sign for instance can be invaluble. It maybe that you have strong Fire influences in your chart.
Love & Light
Becky
I DO HOPE THINGS WORK OUT WITH ME AND MY AQUARIUS BECAUSE I AM VERY MUCH SO A SAGGITARIUS AND HE IS VERY MUCH SO A AQUARIUS..BOTH ASTROLOGICAL BELIEVERS…AND WE ARE ALSO VERY HAPPY!ACTUALLY UNDER CIRCUMSTANCES I BELIEVE I HAVE BEEN BLESSED WITH LOVE..AS A SAG AND HIM AN AQUAR. WE SOMEHOW SEEM TO GET ALONG VERY VERY VERY WELL..AND AT TIMES I ACTULLY AM VERY PICKY..SNOBBY AND EVEN FLIRTACIOUS…BUT HE ACTS SIMILAR SOMETIMES..SO…HOPEFULLY I CAN SEE MYSELF WITH HIM FOR YEARS…
EH ALSO, I AM NOT THE COMMITTING TYPE MYSELF..I HAVE MY SNEAKY WAYS..AND HE FEELS THE SAME..OR IS THE SAME..WE GIVE EACH OTHER ENOUGH SPACE THAT WE DON’T SUFFOCATE EACH OTHER..AT THE SAME TIME I FEEL LIKE WERE SO MUCH ALIKE THAT ONE OF US WILL HURT EACH OTHER BY CHEATING…AND THAT’S A RELATIONSHIP WITHOUT TRUST…SO TO SAY, THE TIME HE’S BEEN IN MY LIFE, I CAN’T SEE MYSELF WITHOUT HIM!
I just wanna share my experience here
. I agree with what becky said that aqua and sagg dont have strong mental connection. I’ve been dating my aqua guy for over 1 year and we’re doing pretty good. We have similar likes and we both love going out, meeting new ppl, partying and we both are advanturous. But there were times that we did not understand each other. I admit that we sagittarius have weird ways of seeking and trying to get attention and aqua don’t usually understand it. We misunderstand each other very often.
I completely understand that he needs a lot of space and I need to accept who he is and try not to change and be clingy and demending. But I’m such a jealous type and I want the attention.Sex is good, when sagg are told that they are traditional in bed, that realli hurts! LOL! We’re not definitely, but we don’t have much fantasy, and we’re just ” just do it while it’s still hot” type. We’re just too direct and love simple things.
I’ve been learning astrology for years and now I kinda understand abt my aqua guy. I’m sure we love each other truely and the keys to work things out in a relationship are compromise and understanding. We love and we’re willing to understand and compromise and so I don’t really care the fact that I’m not the best match for him. Tips for dating aqua, be patient, light and loyal!
Is There a Compatibable Sign for Aquarius? Cause I haven’t found him yet……Good Lord!!
I’m an Aquarius Woman and I have yet to find the sign that even comes close to Compatibility for me…..They all want to hold me down or change me. What is up with this?! When you meet someone, you like them for who they are, right then! Why try to change them after the fact? I wish I were a Dolphin, so I could swim in peace! Hell to the yeah!!!
Sheila Gemini is your best match.Iam a Gemini boy who is in love with an Aquarious Girl. My friends are also Auqaurian,I like Auqaurian charm and he likes my Gemini Intellect. Wish u all the very best.mail me senthamarai@yours.com
Reading all that is said about the Aqua/Sag fascinates me. I am a Sag myself and have been with an Aquarian for 3 years now, but sadly we are slowly ,but surely, drifing apart.
This could be because of our inability to truly connect emotionally. This Aqua found it difficult to be affectionate,open about his emotions and even sometimes being downright indirect and detached.
The sad thing is that he waited until things got to their absolute worse before trying to salvage our relationship and unfortunately I am on my way out.
There are many similarities I have found between Aqua and a Leo relationship that I once had.I wonder whether I am really not meant to be with Fixed signs (although a Scorpion who is appearing in the picture is increasing my appetite).
I am a Sag girl w/ a Aquarius guy for a year and a half now. We actually have been each others crushes for 14 years
So our story is truely unique. First off our bedroom bliss is the most fun I have had. A sag girl is far from normal in the bedroom. Secondly, my aqua man has opened up his feelings towards me. Although the surface of feelings are on a almost daily basis. After reading your posts it makes complete sense why he doesn’t respond to my indepth letters of emotion I have for him. But I have learnt to accept that. He does need to have his personal time here and there, which I think might be b/c of me. But I know he always comes back so I let him do what he has to do. Our arguments are the worst. He likes to make them more complex than they really are. DOES ANYONE ELSE HAVE THIS ISSUE?? I feel he is dramatic and doesn’t like to listen to what the real problem is. He makes his own assumptions. Other than that we are a great pair together. I get him for the most part. His sensitivity I still have to work on though :p I am a sag girl and I like to tell all haha To all Sag and Aqua Relationships 
Im sorry but i have to disagree with sagitarious and aquarious not being compatible. While yes you did an excellent of summerizing the personalities, I am an aquarious and the man I love is a sagitarious. what happens to most of aquariouses is we rush too quickly to say I love you, or we mess up our handle over a relationship. Sagitariouses are super flirts, but if you can really make them fall in love you they will intend to be faithful. I believe that the stars will point me to my vision and he has been there through everything with me. He’s my protector, my hero, best friend and the love of my life. There’s also the posibility that I’m just really lucky and if that’s so then thank God.
Hi Crystal,
Thank you for your comment, I appreciate your views. Obviously what I have written is only a small glimpse into a big picture, and I actually believe that an Aquarius woman and Sag man have a far better chance of success than the other way around as both sexes have differing attributes. I wish you all the best with this and hope you have a very happy and fun, and probably very active future together!!
Love & Light
Becky
Met a sag guy…dated…had sex….now i just want to run in the other direction….i have a taurus rising which is defined by stability…clearly this guy is lacking in that department….just like the other men in my life i put him on automatic voicemail….hopefully he’l get the point…..i’ve dated cancers, aqua’s, scorps pretty much all the signs and they all took advantage of my outgoing friendly personality and left me for quiet women and they all ended up calling me in the middle of the night for sex but once an aqua is done with u we shut down and become cold as ice… bitches
I am a Sag Woman with an Aquarius Man. We get along great, we work and live together and never argue. We both enjoy our independence which is great because I can be in one part of teh house and he can be in the other doing are own thing wih out some one being “clinggy”. I agree with you that it can be more physical then spiritual because I have dated an Aquarious before and it was more physical. I do however think my curent relationship is spiritual but due to us being friends a long time before being in a relationship.
i can confirm that sex between a sag and aqua is out of this world =). i am an aqua and my ex was an sag and we had great sex all the time. i mean alot alot. but we didnt work. we are still freinds, great freinds.
I been with a cancer, i loved him dearly, but after 18 years we seperated, because he was a cheater.
so i met my sag guy, just clik with him, the sex was great, but after 1 year we drifted apart, we been together for 9 years and we dont talk to each other, his friends are more inportant, so we rarely do stuff together, we live like room-mates, and all we do is have sex, and i find sex very boring with him, i been trying to have him leave my house, but he wont go, he doesn’t want any comitment, but still he thinks we are okay because the sex is good, the sex is good only for him, i want more!
I feel i am brain dead!this sag guy is not activating my brain cell, and what ever i do to spice it up, its always what ever, he does not say if he like it , his favorite phrase is I DON’T KNOW? so i don’t know ether
I must say I disagree with anyone who thinks that a sag is “Normal”…I am anything but normal. I was in a relationship for about 4 years with a cancer and it was a very painful and abusive relationship. I have recently been dating a new guy…he is an Aqua. he is the sweetest most loving guy I have ever met and I find myself falling in love with him….but am petrified of being hurt. All around I think that he brings out the better person in me. I used to be so angry and mad all the time…he makes me smile all the time. Oh and may I add that the Sex is out of this world…and I look forward to trying new things.
I’m a Sag female, midtwenties and found out recently that a mom and pop shop I frequent employed a fellow student (aquarius male, early twenties) at my local university. We chatted for a while, and I was thinking about how adorable he was. Later on, I got an email from him asking me out. He struck me as sweet and I went out with him. It wasn’t very exciting but I really enjoyed being with him, and had butterflies in my stomach.
He waited several days before saying anything to me, at which point I was on the verge of wondering what I did wrong.
He finally texted me that he was thinking more seriously and wanted us to date. Which while delivered sort of oddly for only a first date, made me really happy. I asked him when he would like to go on another date.
No response.
3 days pass.
finally he asks me when I’m available. I pick a day. He never gets back to me on the time.
The day we’re supposed to go out, I leave him a text and a voice mail.
No response.
2:30 in the morning he texts me to say there’s been a miscommunication.
No apology.
And this isn’t the first 2:30 in the morning text. There are others expressing a desiring to be with me and cuddling.
Several more days pass, and he messages me online to chat. He ends up asking me out again and apologizing for being a creep and texting me at 2:30 a.m.
In the midst of making plans, he says he has to get offline for a minute and he’ll be right back. He never comes back. Several hours later, I text him to say I don’t want anymore miscommunications with him and so unless I hear from him, I’ll assume we’re not going out.
No response.
The following morning I email him to say I hope he did well on his finals.
No response.
Yesterday, I emailed him to say I hope he had a safe flight ( as he went to visit family).
No response.
I’m not wondering whether I should pursue this because I can see I’m not getting anywhere but did I do something wrong to the poor Aqua guy?
It’s really a shame because I really liked him and it usually takes me a bit to get interested in someone.
Sorry this is so long.
It has been 10 Month now, that I have been trying to make this, me aqua and her sag relationship work. Endless discussions, hot tempered heads never seen to make us bond. On the other hand during activities, we match perfectly. Spontanious, adventurous. Daytrip to the beach, walks in the rain, swimming and endless things. But I am really missing the bonding or spiritual connection. Especially after our fights I need to come to some consent. Never having received any usefull information from her, at least giving in and admitting her mistakes, not just pointing out mine, I have to realise, that this is not one for me. My head tells me leave but my heart is very heavy. Sorry
This is actually the first time that i heard that aquarius and sagittarius are not real soulmates too.I am a sag girl and im deeepplyyy in love with this aquarius guy. He has everything that i read in an aquarius personality but i just still feel like i need to know more, and i think thats what keeps me going.It is sooo not true that were traditional! I love people with new ideas and fantasys! He does flirt with everyone but it never means anything.Hes really slow in showing his emotions. Before i liked him it took him months took ask out the girl he liked.When he did they were really close.Somedays i wish i was her
Were both really lively and he loves to see people laugh, so im lucky i laugh alot some of my friends even call me crazy(in a good way) but they usually join in the laugh even if they dont know the subject:) and its not hard to make me smile 
I want to get closer to him but i still dont know how..:( does anyone know how i can?
I’m an Aquarius woman and i totally agree with what Becky had to say for aqu/sag. I’m dating a sag and do feel like we have no emotional connection, just physical. However, i’m rather needy and want that emotional connection. Is it anyway possible to get that emotional connection?
I find some of this to be very true but conversely, there are certainly aspects to it that are completely opposed to my experiences.
I’m an Aquagirl and I’ve never had better sex than I’ve had with Sags. It’s ironic because what makes it so good is not necessarily technique or feisty moves but the way they can just look at you like they’re staring straight into your soul HOWEVER, these are the same men that end up being very promiscuous, not always faithful and do really frivolous and sometimes childish things for attention. I’m always drawn to this sign because at first, I’m fascinated with their taste for adventure and spontaneity but those traits all too quickly undress themselves, revealing a person whose terrified to commit and insultingly averse to staying in one place for any more than a couple of months. Also, after a time they seem like they’re missing a bigger picture and only in it for a self-centered joy ride. I’d rather be alone than have to deal with that on a weekly basis. Blech
I’ve been dating with a scorpion guy..I’m in love with him but he was a cheater’ so we end up..and then i met this sag guy on net..we always talk online..we always laugh..and I’m happy always to see him even just on cam and i feel that also to him..so is there any hope that we feel this the same when we meet in person?
I’m a sagittarius and he’s an aquarius, and the sighn specific traits are actually reversed in us, and I’m not sure if thats why, but eight and ahalf years later we are doing great, we have one of the most understanding, strong relationships out there!
That being said, the first four years where heell!! We put alot of time and energy into finding a good flow that now is worth every tear, and fight that we went through to get here.
I’m an Aquarian lady & have dated Capricorns, an Aquarius, a Gemini & a Scorpio (please steer well clear from them - they’re posessive & love to cheat) but never got anywhere…I’ve just started an relationship with a Sagittarius guy & fell for him on the spot, he’s the most intelligent, thoughtful, creative, funniest guy I’ve ever met & we’re in love it’s the best connection in the world..the sex is the best ever & he shows me so much passion. It’s surprising to read alot of mixed reviews about Aq/Sag pairings but it hasn’t deterred me @ all (maybe the 1’s that are having difficult times with their partner are from conflicting rising signs or are more like their chinese astrological sign) I feel like I’ve found my soulmate :o)
I totally agree with becky and wish I had read this before I got married and had a beautiful daughter with my sag husband. Not that I don’t completely love him but I would have been a little more prepared. There is no mental connection and he is completely self absorbed. Totally traditional in bed by my standards but don’t tell him that. The sex was great at first but is now pretty boring. He is definitely a snob and I hate when he tries to talk about other people like he doesn’t do the same thing. He is very childish and having a conversation with him is like getting a double root canal. I was look and this compatibilty on other sites which were claiming what a good match this is and none of the couples are together anymore. Britney and Justin, Brad and Jennifer, Mia and Woody and so on usually with a cheating Sag in the mix. Not that my husband has cheated. But hopefully some counseling will help. Sags are notoriusly afraid of looking bad and are pretty adaptable so that may be the way to go. Advice to couple get counseling before marriage.