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Aquarius and Pisces
This could be a very promising union indeed. Once these two have made friends it can last forever. They have a lot of respect for each other and the Pisces with their creative altruistic nature is very impressed with the Aquarius’s unconventional way of life. Aquarius and Pisces will revel in one another’s company never wanting to leave each other. Yes, these two definitely have world conquering abilities when they are together. Sexually Aquarius could be a bit shocked by the Pisces, who doesn’t like to feel controlled in anyway and won’t accept some of the Aquarius’s outrageous ways. So Aquarius if you wish to keep this flame alive you had best tone down your sexually active imagination for the sexy sign of Pisces will not hang around if he/she is put off and would rather ‘just be friends’. Someone will have to calm the stubbornness down also. Both signs have the ability to be ever so single minded at times and simply won’t budge, but I feel that only one sign has the ability to tone this down, and that I feel would be the Pisces. If this can be achieved then this relationship could last a lot longer. Pisces is the most emotional of all signs and is also the only other dual sign other than Gemini. The Pisces emotions can change in a split second and this can wear the Aquarius out and after a while it will lead to annoyance. The Aquarius is emotional also, but on a far more mental level and has a huge abundance of self control and believes everyone should practice this rather than just fall apart because they dropped an apple on an ant or something. I’d say this isn’t a great match and nor is it a bad match, it is an odd match and for a time one that could work very well, however, if you want my advice I’d go for the long lasting friendship rather than entering into the possible mess a more serious union could cause.
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August 15th, 2008 at 1:38 pm
I’m an aquarius and I’ve always been attracted to pisces men I dunno why.my first crush was one, ex was pisces and My current love is pisces too we’ve been togtaher for almost 2 years , and this article described us perfectly, from the stuborness part to the annoyance part to the lasting respect as well. But I desagree with the sexual part, we are both controlling and flexible to anything.
I find it hard to accept that a person can be so insecure in everyway, He constantly needs reasurance and caring, if I miss one thing he’ll go “You are never there for me” But the truth is that I am there only he pushes me away. is it common for a pisces to be selfish and spoild sometimes? I am scared he might be dependant on me forever ,and will find my self caring for yet another baby, not that it bothers me for now that I am deeply attached To him. this is most peculiar since aquarians usually are emotionally detached. Do you think I have other influences that might give me the emotional attachment and the attraction to romatic weak pisces?
August 16th, 2008 at 6:21 pm
Hey Mignight,
Pisces and Aquarius have an interesting chemistry, respect, and admiration that can last forever if worked upon it. What I can suggest that you should check your man’s venus and your moon, venus and mars. If his venus is in water sign (i.e. pisces, cancer, and scorpio), then he may have some temper tantrums and if you have your venus in water sign, although being an aquarius, you can be emotional.
Being a pisces myself, I am also attracted to aquarius women or otherwise mutual. However, my venus is in aquarius which makes me detached and aloof in relationships. It is also the reason that somewhat weird, outworldly, unconventional, independent, and strage women (such are aquarians) are my choices. Although, pisces men like emotional sorts which is not my case.
The bottom line is check the detailed natal chart report of you and your man for a much clearer understanding about both of you. Hope it might work.
Aly, The Water OX
August 18th, 2008 at 4:09 am
I’m an Aquarian, and if the pisces man I’m in a relationship with, does not grow the hell up, stop whinining, being so needy he will drive me away, I dont like being the soul reason he wakes each morning, He does not Need me!
August 18th, 2008 at 2:19 pm
I so agree with You aqua. pisces men are so whiny and get upset so easily for the stupidest reasons, no matter what age they are, be it 19,24 or 30! but even though they are so annoyingly needy and dependant, throwing responsabilities at You hoping You will handle them on Your own, You cant deny that as soon as You look into their soulfull eyes You forget all the bad things.
It might be the mystery that the pisces men are known for that attracts aquarians, since we love enigmatic and unusual things.
Its the usual tale heard so many times, aquarius meets pisces, a fairytale story until the pisces starts to be needy and naggy at times driving the poor aquarius away fleeing fo his freedom! but it doenst always have to end this way.pisces can learn to give some space to independed aquarius, and aquarius can always try to be as emotional as pisces and understanding somehow.
Even though He doenst show it (or shows it too much!) the confused pisces needs You and would suffer if You leave him behind in one of the many predicaments he falls in occasionally.on the other hand You would be free at last, Its up To you and how much You are Into eachother at this point.
I really don’t know if its a favorable match! But it always facinated me.Hope its another happy ending
August 18th, 2008 at 2:25 pm
Hey aly
thanks alot for Your quick reply, It helped me immencly, And Your opinion as a pisces with the aloof touch of aquarius interested me alot.
thanx
August 18th, 2008 at 4:10 pm
The thing is, this relationship I’m in with the Pisces man is not even 3 months old, I cant see it lasting, Yes I know it’s a learning process, being involved with some one new, getting to know one another, but he is wearing me out!
Hell will freeze over before I sit still long enough to stare into his eye’s, all dreamy and full of passion and declare my undying love to him….I told him I love him, I told him I miss him, yet still it’s not enough for him, he wants more, How can you miss someone if you work with them 10 hours a night 6 days a week? And were thinking of setting up a home together!!
His constant need for reasurance is irritating me, his constant text’s, “I love you” the “I miss you” Ok Ok, I get the picture, you love me, you miss me, now lets get on with our live’s and give me some space, Jeez!
I’ve sat with him repeatedly after his constant emotional, childish demands have not been met and asked him to stop suffocating me, if he is like this now, then IF, or when we live together, he will get worse.
He say’s ” I know baby, I’m just a little insecure right now” everything will be fine, we will be fine…..Then he goes and blows it by saying ” But please, just HELP me right now”
Thats all I need to hear, and I loose my patience, This man is a wuss, yes he has his good points, but right now I’m so annoyed at his lack of self control, and I’ve told him, and told him, I do not want to hear of your weaknesses, cope with them, just STOP making me the person responsible for YOUR happiness, it’s not fair on me to carry that weight on my shoulder’s.
His answer to to my “advice”?….Stop being so cold !! and If I hear this one more time I will scream ” You will learn to express your feelings, if you just open your heart ”
All that does is cause the opposite effect, and there are times when I’d rather be drinking Listerine mouth wash, than hear his whiney, girly, cry’s to “Just help me”
August 19th, 2008 at 2:28 pm
To Aqua
Wow He is really needy indeed! and I understand teh suffocation he’s causing, its god awful.
they always have a way of saying the right things but ruin them at the very last moment with something uneccessary as You said!
However I see Your point it isnt gonna work too long.You woke up from the spell but it seems he is still under its influence thinking this is all perfect.
August 23rd, 2008 at 5:52 am
Well I’m a Pisces woman dating an Aquarius man. I seriously hope that I’m not coming across anywhere near as needy as the man you’re describing. I know I’m emotional and all but nothing like that.
August 25th, 2008 at 3:27 am
It is so nice to know that others are going through the same things as I am. I thought I was crazy, but after reading the other comments, it seems like what I’m going through is the norm for an aquarius-pisces courtship. I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to break free from my pisces because he is my child’s father!!
September 2nd, 2008 at 11:07 pm
I’m a Pisces guy who’s engaged to an Aqua gal.
An exceedingly odd and fascinating union it is.
We either get on great or have severe rifts in our relationship. I find her to be quite possessive like the other fixed signs though and don’t really agree with the astro cliches about aquas needing so much space. I think they pretend this in the beginning while courting in order to avoid feeling like the rug will be yanked from beneath their feet. Once they’re hooked, look out! Yes, they do hide it better than say the scorpio, leo or taurus but they do cling strongly in their way.
I’d say I suffocate more quickly than she does.
I’m also much more comfortable expressing physical passion than she is although I do think she’s “coming out” so to speak. It’s true that Pisces are touch-me, love-me freaks though when it comes to intimicy and when this gets nect to an Aqua, who may have big time fears of getting too close too often, of course annoyance will result. Mostly though, we like lots of the same things and we help moderate one another. She has become more sensual with me and I have become more contemplative with her. Mostly though she just a very kind and loving soul with some surprising willfullness thrown in to keep it all fun.
September 5th, 2008 at 4:34 am
I am an aquarius women that has just started seeing a pisces man. I am usually kind of less emotional and go running once a relationship starts getting serious. But now i find myself being the needy one in this relationship. He seems like he is very interested in me and then his actions the next day are different. I find it weird that it keeps getting said that pisces need reassurance and needy when once i started talking to him about feelings and getting in a serious relationship he ran disappearing a couple of days and said we talk about it. No he kind of avoids talking about anything serious and says lets just take it one day at a time and i’m feeling like the roles have been revearsed and im wanting more i dont know how to commuicate with him
September 20th, 2008 at 6:50 pm
I think Pisces don’t like It when You bring up the whole (commitment) scene, if You bring it up before they do ,They will feel caged and run away, But if You wait for them to show signs they will certainly apreaciate it after all.
Maybe the reason why You feel different with this pisces depends On Your Venus being compatible with his?
One thing is for sure
Pisces cant possibly Live without Aquarius (I think aquarius can though) we Are their air! we’re the water bearers therefor, we pour water down for them To swim in freely 
I just wonde what would they do without us!! lol
You Go Fishies!
September 26th, 2008 at 9:38 pm
I havent met this guy yet, but iam pieces and his aqua…well we met online o facebook, he wrote to me first, then i replayed back and we started writing about life, and all sorts of staff, he seems to be very emotional all though it says aqua men seem detache..well we are both turkish to, were emotions are very deep its more like a latino kind of a expresional emotional..so throught the mails we been writing he does seem very nice, then we started talking on msm and i saw heim couple of times on webcam he seem to be cool guy, he thing is i dont have high hopes as we have not started dating yet, we been comunicating for 1 half moth know, hopefully we are going to meet up in a week,..so hopefully i wont be disipointed….i dont know if cultures make lots of diffrence to who you are and how it affects your star sigin and cthe way you epress emotions…i know iam deep person, but iam not emotionaly needy as i did give my last boyfired alot of space, and i was very compromising, i dont think i will find it hard to dso this with aqu men, as iam a independendt pieces
September 28th, 2008 at 9:29 am
I agree that Fishes(Pisces) can’t live Without Aquarium or Water Carrier/Bearer (Aquarius). Otherwise they will die. Conversely, the Aquarium also doesn’t look good without the fishes.But I tend to disgree with in mid-of-the night that ‘Pisces People can’t possibly live without Aquarius People’. That doesn’t hold true in many instances. Peace!!! Ciao.
October 13th, 2008 at 5:39 pm
Pisces gal here!–Kinda, sorta talking to an Aqua-man. What can I say, we have a very unusual type of companionship. Mind you, neither of us are in a position of where we can have a “relationship,” as we are involved with other people. However, there’s definitely an amazing chemistry there–and a quirky friendship to follow. But, even in saying this, I highly doubt our “compatibility” would match. Don’t get me wrong–we get along great. We can talk for hours, we make each other laugh, we can talk about unimportant issues as well as the more profound. There’s almost something “spiritual” about it. But, I couldn’t imagine a formal relationship with this man. We are not sexually active (in fact, we’ve done nothing more than kiss)–and I seriously doubt we will ever evolve to that level. (Maybe the “idea” is more appealing than anything) We aren’t consumed by each other, either…It’s strange, really. Hard to explain. I guess there’s just an unspoken understanding there. If our conversations were to suddenly stop–I’m certain there would be no hard feelings, and would probably be able to pick up the phone years down the road and talk as no time had passed.
There’s a mysticism about him that i find both fascinating and bewildering–but, I’m not in the business of trying to figure it out…But, if the truth be told, I would most definitely concur that Pisces could definitely get emotionally scarred by the charm and charisma of the cool Aquarius, and should therefore be cautious. If you’re looking for someone to put you on cloud nine, he definitely will, but if you’re expecting him to keep you there, you’ll be highly disappointed. But, if you’re looking for friendship, fun, and someone to talk to..you’re definitely in the right place. From there, who knows what could happen.
October 26th, 2008 at 11:48 am
wow, you guys are harsh, I’m an aquarius totally in love with my pices man. I’m so week for them, i’ve been with 4, in cluding my current one and been hurt by all ov them but still have crazy respect for them. My boi has even strayed although we only been 2gether for 4 months but i think i get why now and tryed to talk through it He says he loves me which i belive, but as you say they are needy, but i didn’t pic up on that, Sex is outa this world wen he aint appolagising for not lasting as long he (thinks I want him 2.lol so insecure)but yet all i want in my life. I wanna have his kids some day, I know we would have super hero children as we are both outta this world mentally an creatively. Love you Besty.XXx
October 26th, 2008 at 1:00 pm
i am a fish girl who is madly inlove with aqua man.we have been togather for 2 years now.he is the best thing in my life but sometime i realy dnt understand whats going on.once in a while he appears abrupt and rude and make me feel like he does not want to be in relation with me but after somtime he is back to his loving caring nature!
October 27th, 2008 at 7:19 am
Im an Aquerius and my boyfriend is a Pisces. We have just begun our relationship recently ,but as far as I can tell he is not needy yet. He actuily seams to love helping me in any way possible and sort of hopes that I will be needy so taht he can help me.lol
I do somtimes feel I should show more affection twoards him though somtimes because I am still an Aquerius and I dont always realise how aloof I can be until I look at the senerio after it happens. Butr as far as our overal relationship this pretty much pinopoints it . :’)
He is very creative and random.Just like me.
Were a pair of geeky wierdos and we love our mutaual strangeness.lol :’)
And so far he has been more passive. I emanhe dose have his own fixed opinions, but he is more gentle an seams to prefer to agree with people or let it go unless he honestly feels taht its worth bvreaking the peace to state his opinion.
My pisces guy in a nutshell is sweet, protective and a fellow wiedo so I dont really see much reasons for an Aquerius not to adore a pises guy. Unelss they dont really like a clingy guy I geuss.
Wich is probably likely for an Aquerius to frown appon.
Still I can put up with that though.:’)
I’ve got enough water signs in my chart.lol
October 27th, 2008 at 10:33 pm
well aqueri.S you are a woman so your emotional side is little differen to the aqua man.i suppose my emotions are too much for him.ye i know i appeard clingy at times but only with the reason that i love him.he sed he is detached but he wan me around all the times.and then he go in wierd mood swing hich i dnt understand.
November 4th, 2008 at 10:00 am
To Midnight and Aqua LOL I agree with Midnight and Aqua. I too hate needy men. I hate immaturity in men as well. The moment a man shows me he is needy and immature I am outta there. I am no one’s baby sitter.
Now, I have to disagree. Pisces too can be very kinky and hot. I know this one Pisces, were just friends, but I think he likes me a lot. First, I thought he was an Aries, because he was really adverturous, has strong sense of self and didn’t get hurt by my straight forwardness and agree that his friend Steven should dump his bitch of a girlfriend. We both believe in a relationship it shouldn’t be controlling isn’t love and one shouldn’t be so damn needy. LOL Anyways. He likes strong fiercy women. He likes women that work out and have bit of muscles and he told me oneday. “He wouldn’t mind having me wresle him down onto the bed and having my way with him.” He also said if I wanted he could tie me to the bed. I was like WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Right on!!!!! So pisces can be very kinky and adveurertous
His birthday is Feb 24
November 4th, 2008 at 9:40 pm
I never said Pisces cant be kinky or hot!! No way! They are so so very sexual They make You just fantasize all day.
They can be the kinkiest poeple ever But still have that final touch of tenderness that makes u think They are innocent angels.The kind of touch that tells You its not only sex its also love. I must admit though I like a strong man who maches My attitude as an aquarius
and pisces arnt exactly that srtong, they can often be very puppyish and cry before You. its sweet yeah and tender but, sometimes.. a woman needs a strong man that puts her senses on fire!
and even if they try to be manly and strong, ist too late they ruined it when they showe u their baby boy attitude and cligniness! so when they try to be strong and mean you just think “Aww how CUTE they are trying to be the big guy here so sweet”
Not to be mean but…Till now havnt met strong pisces, But man they are srtong in bed !
peace out!
Midnight aquarius
November 6th, 2008 at 3:57 pm
omg , MIDNIGHT …. i was thinking the same thing , this guy ive been sexually involved with for a year and a half , he doesnt seem emotional on the surface and to be honest , everytime i try to have an ‘ emotional talk ‘ or anything that has to do with feelings .. he pushes away , when me on the other hand the ‘ aquarius ‘ who is supposed to be ‘detached ‘ is head over heels with this dude .. WHY!
November 7th, 2008 at 9:56 am
All in all aquarius and pisces relationship requires alot of patience and energy really.But I Think Its in the aqua’s hands , I never heard of any aquarius being left By a pisces,Its rather the other way around, since pisces are extremely clingy and would miss You the next day Immediatly, while aquarius is (as usual) distracted By his many projects and Thoughts, Leaving the confused Pisces wonder what happened and why.
November 7th, 2008 at 10:16 am
To Jasmin
lol maybe! its becouse Your curious to why he doenst share his emotions By words! as an aquarius I bet You are a curious person , Maybe Your head over heels becouse he’s Not giving away the only thing You wanna discover. he’s a pisces and pisces men often Love To play the mystery Guy, leaving You fantasize and Think what he’s up to. besides it seems Your pisces is trying to be the detached one this might be attracting You alot since Your an aqua. The pisces I am involved with did the same thing with me leaving me hanging for almost 7 years! (You’d think I’d figure it out sooner:P) Then I found the trick and won his affection.
You Might Be Like this now, But once he gives away this moment of silence and mystery You might lose interest and be detached. if You wanna get him into emotional talk You have two possible ways! either tell him emotional stuff about you, make him feel guilty he’s not saying anything :p (pisces men are sensitive souls they cant stand the sight of women in pain or cying! even if they don’t show it on the surface) Or You can totally ignore this urge an pretend its not important and You lost interest, he’s gonna flip! get confused and talk about it!
I’m Not sure if it would work with You but
in either way he’s a man before being a pisces he’s gonna eventually crack don’t You think?
Midnight Aquarius
November 8th, 2008 at 1:41 pm
Lately, I’ve been readin the posts that pisces men are emotional and clingy. Don’t be judgemental. That’s bullshit (sorry about it). Pisces men come in all types. Explore the mystery man more if interested!!! Peace.
November 25th, 2008 at 6:04 pm
well…. i am a lesbian pisces/rooster and my girlfriend is a aquarius/snake…..now our relationship is way different from you all`s opionion….a lil of it is true but more different….i am emotional but yet very strong most of the times…me being a very loving person, when me and my girl have a argument i can fall a lil weak and just give up on every thing because the fact that i try so hard to make the relationship work, cooking,cleaning,working doubles at work, and etc…..just to please her and make the relationship work no matter how much i try my girl comes to me with this insucureness possessive jealous controlling attitude all the time….its like, no matter how much i try…i can be a lazy person or a motivating accomplishing person she is always going to have that attitude…and it mentally drains the fukk out of me!!!…its bad enough that im a sensitive pisces that lets certain things get to me…but if it wasnt for my rooster side, being strong, my never letting anything get to me attitude, i would`ve been a sorry sad weak individual with crushed dreams….its ashame what aquarius ppl take there wife, husband, boyfriend or girlfriend thru…i have seen it with other relationship…weather its a heteresexual or homosexual relationship….they take there mates thru a lot mentally…..and it drains them to the point they just want to give up…and a pisecs cant take it…it can make us weak to the point we just dont give a damn……
November 25th, 2008 at 6:26 pm
i have had so many relationships with only aquarians. why i always attract them?? i have no idea!…and they are all the same!!!…..but the relationship i am in now is the best than the others..i guess cause of her snake side and my rooster side…..the only aquarius/snake i ever dated….its seems to me that the relationship is gettin stronger and better since now we live in separate homes..lol……….i had been dreaming of this for a long time for us to live separate…now i can easily accomplish my goals and have my free time without all that aquarius nagging and bickering……not only are pisces ppl weak…all other signs are weak also..the difference is that water signs shows it emotionally, air signs shows it mentally and so on…….pisces ppl are not weak for no reason when we are weak is because you are weak the difference on that is we show it strongly…..we reflect everything that the person around us is going thru or on how they react….but once again thanks to my rooster side, i just run away from a sign of weakness and find something motivating……
November 25th, 2008 at 6:53 pm
and Midnight you have got to be out of your mind to think that we cant live without a aquarius lolololololo we can most definitely live without anyone…matter of fact we do so much better when we are single…a whole lot better!!!!!…..you aquarians are the ones that cant live without anyone… you all GOT to have somebody…every aquarius that i know soon as they leave a relationship they fall right into another one…now tell me who is weak???? they feel like they can not be by theirselves……i dont know about all but most of the aquarians i know are always looking for someone to be with..its like they`re scared to be alone….they need some one to talk shiit to and to keep them going i guess…lolololol…dont mind me this is just my opinion…. my rooster side makes me a lil argumentive and very opinionated……
December 8th, 2008 at 10:20 am
wow lakisha that is so true. Now that I am not living with my aquarius man I feel so free! We love each other so much but we both need our space. I do so much better living at home. When I see him too, sometimes my mood changes because I’m not being as affectionate as I usually am with him. Than he gets silent and mad. That usually leads me to getting frustrated by that behavior. Though I try not to jump into conclusions, but later he admits. Which I find unfair that he makes me go through that pain. Other than that, we are great friends. We would like to have a future together, but living with him… I don’t know if I can. We will just have to see what happens. In a way he stops me from being me, the outgoing person. He knows it too and is always feeling guilty. It really sucks to know to see that our relationship may not lead nowhere. Though we are still trying. We have been friends for five years and now dating for three. I really don’t want to see the realtionship end. But I believe if it does, it will end well and it will end for the best.But for now… I don’t want to think about that.
December 10th, 2008 at 3:20 am
Hmm, you all have given me quite the good amount to think about, consider, etc. - anyone up for a more specific case?
I’ve never been with a pisces before, not on any level I know of, and I’ve known for a while to avoid them for relationships. Nevertheless, I recently met one that just won’t leave the mind. I’m no boy, mind you. 30, happy, attractive, and with passions aquarian for sure. I’m solar, lunar aquarius / fire dragon. Got it easy huh?
Well if any of you are familiar with how intolerably strong the passions can rise in such a one, consider that I just met a pisces that makes my heart pound like I can’t say I’ve experienced since I was in my early 20’s - and engaged (to a capricorn girl).
Problem is, I don’t know how to / if I should even proceed. I’m overtly direct as a matter of character (pisces beware, no?) and approached her in a circumstance that I myself am loath to make a practice of - at her work! And that traveling no less.
We totally hit it off, we went out that one night, had a great time, both enjoyed ourselves, both behaved ourselves, and were off our separate ways. And yes, there’s definitely chemistry. We keep in touch, but I’m afraid I’m up for more than that - and burning a bit impatient.
Granted, we haven’t known each other long - hell, we still don’t Know each other really at all. But she has every wonderful characteristic I look for in a woman, and I can’t stop thinking about her anyway. It’s ridiculous really, and however romantic I may well be by nature, this sort of thing is Not by any stretch my norm.
Any advice on how to proceed?
December 10th, 2008 at 8:15 am
well im an aquarius girl and im currently dating an pisces man. and i can already tell alot of the things u guys are saying is true!! hes alot more emtional than i am for sure! i try not to seem so distant because i really like him but to him i dont show it enough. but i like him alot hes caring and very sweet like without a doubt we will be together eventually but i will admit it has taken me a minute to fully let my feelings for him show! but hes growing on me and i try to let him know as much as i can. but we have so much in common and we vibe so well so i see good things for us in the future!
December 10th, 2008 at 5:00 pm
@ water for pisces………if you are 30 years old then that means you was born in 1978…that is the year of the horse so that makes you an aquarius/horse……..if your birthday was any where around feburary 18 1977 to feburary 6,1978 coming out of the year of the snake makes you an aquarius/fire snake…………….if you was born after that, coming in to the year of the horse 1978 makes you an aqaurius/earth horse starting at feburary 7 1978 til over the beginning of the next year……..
December 10th, 2008 at 5:25 pm
@water for pisces ………….trust me she thinks that you are the one by the way…..i am a pisces/rooster woman and my girlfriend that is a aquarius/snake……we are HIGHLY compatible….we make the best of friends, the best of lovers…..the best of everything…..iv always been compatible with aqaurius and love them to the point that i made a motto up about it, “”if your not aqaurius, then theres nothing for us to go on with but a conversation”"lol…..funny but true…..pisces and aquarius have so much in common…..but the only thing that gets in the way of a pisces/aquarius relationship is the aqarians insecurness, possesiveness.and jealousy, that makes the pisces so vurnerable and by us loving you aqarians so much we fall so weak out of our character and do anything that pleases you to show how much we love you, whatever that makes you happy…. thats hard for a pisces…..then, after all that we have went thru to please you its like something still isnt right and it comes down to you all nagging and “mentally mind fukking” us…lol…you no…so a pisces just give up and what do we do, we sink down into depression, wondering why and what to do, we go some where else to find happiness with another while we are still currenty in a relationship with you, some of us turns to drugs, acohole ,
December 11th, 2008 at 12:49 am
some way the rest of my comment message was cut off…………………..that last message i just sent…………
December 11th, 2008 at 8:13 am
Hey Pisces, thanks for the feedback, truly
To the 1st:
My Chinese horoscope is a strange one - 30’s a round number. Worse, if you go by year the sign’s off. Calculate technically and voila, I’m fire dragon (at least by a handful of sites - one says snake but I think it’s going by year); I’m a “secret horse,” and have no idea what my inner animal is.
To the 2nd:
Sad that last part! But all good on the others. I love strong, independent, vivacious and deeply passionate women. It’s co-dependence that kills me, but deep bonding - it’s the only thing I ever really trust. Jealous? Yes of course! But I require a good bit of freedom myself and so find ways to cope. I’m not at all possessive, unless really protective counts, or unless I’m delusional - from others’ descriptions it seems to be an adequate word for a few aquarian tendencies…
I have to say I’ve been warned against falling for pisces, but if things go the way they’ve been going I may well have no choice.
I’m curious though: What makes you SO sure that you can say, “trust me she thinks that you are the one by the way?” She certainly hasn’t shown it, and apparently won’t..? I say so b/c of pisces and their apparent propensity to swim in their own mysterious depths, leaving the rest to wonder.
Your relationship sounds wonderful btw - I’m happy for you!
December 12th, 2008 at 10:42 pm
Water for Pisces:
Sounds like you’re in a pickle. I believe one of the most frustrating situations to be in are those that require patience. Let it go and see where the pieces fall into place. You may discover the mysticism was more appealing than the actual target. I will say there seems to be a lot of negative feedback concerning the compatibility of Pisces/Aquarius, but I, for one, believe there exists an amazing and unique chemistry between us. Definitely unorthodox, but that’s what keeps things interesting. Right? Seems to have a type of allure and mystery about it. Who would’ve thought forbidden fruit would be so yummy?
While the chemistry may be strong, that may be something of another sort with the compatibility (day-in-day-out, bit)…Just give it time and see what happens. Also-Make her laugh. All girls like that. I am interested to see how things work out for you. Keep us posted.
December 14th, 2008 at 12:23 pm
Hi Pisces_Girl,
Well you made me laugh in a good way with that last part. When together we both certainly laughed a lot; still do with texts. And you’re quite right about the day-to-day, and there is certainly no way but time that tells.
I do have to say you hit the nail on the head with the word ‘mysticism;’ at least I can’t find another word that touches on it. In a way it really is just like that. And I mentioned chemistry only because it was there as well, but the real oddity comes with the few times I was in her presence: The most natural feeling was to stay there - I could say there was a strong, unconscious inner urge to stay there - as if leaving her required a strong unnatural effort. And it did. That with a handful of other details left my aquarian self all dazed. In the aftermath I’ve accepted the Fates: Apparently I’m supposed to know this girl, in one way or another.
Anyway, I’m glad you wrote today, and thank you. And the letting go is inevitable I’m afraid - life just never pauses - but it seems like her and my future acquaintance just may be as well. If the full irony of this situation didn’t require entirely too many words, I’d share; suffice it to say there’s plenty.
Giving time …
December 14th, 2008 at 10:56 pm
Water for Pisces–
I’m not a stranger to what you are feeling. There is this guy (Aquarius) who I have felt/feel the same towards. It is very hard to explain, but you seemed to sum it up quite nicely. The first time I met him I felt a strange familiarity–and there was nothing awkward about our very first kiss–actually, it felt like I had kissed him a hundred times before. The only way I can explain it is that it felt like I reunited with someone I knew in a past life. That night, I experienced a quenching of a thirst I never knew existed. When in his presence time stands still–yet, after 4 hours of his company I am perplexed by where it went. And leaving…ugh. That’s comparable to losing an appendage.
Is this close to what you are feeling? Bitter/Sweet, isn’t it? How long have you known the girl? And why do you feel so certain she’s not interested? Has she told you so? I’m only asking because it sounds as if you two had a wonderful time together. Could she be playing it cool?
I have wondered to myself why I have made this encounter. And why now? The timing couldn’t be any worse. But, I know there is a reason…I just don’t want to force it.
December 15th, 2008 at 3:39 pm
goodness i don’t know where to start?? so many comments, so many good points. firstly the stubborness mentioned in the ‘Aquarius and Pisces’…god i can soooo relate!! but tbh not used to it being used against me…i have always got my own way in r/ships!! call it my piscean charm whatever but 9/10 its always worked lol so this is unchartered waters for me & i really don’t like it…well i swing between liking it alot & hating it!! i swore i had had enought drama in my life…& then i go & ‘meet’ an aquarian man…aarrrgghhhh!! such drama/such mindgames!!!!! but y’see is he really playing games or is it the fact that i am so used to the men in my life coming after me?? me having such sway over them?? i know i know how so full of ego this sounds believe me i do…though doesn’t stop me from saying it!!
i am open & friendly with everyone i meet (i could talk the hind leg off a donkey apparently according to a friend…what a strange saying!! or is it just our scouse humour?! the same friend says i live my life like in a movie…) ok if i’m being honest i’d add flirty to that mini list too…i have never exactly cheated on partners but have always known who i was next going to be in a r/ship with. until that is my life was changed 6 yrs ago when my youngest son was diagnosed with autism at 2…prior to this i was quite the party girl/serial gf & wife…i have married & divorced 3 husbands. i even share my birthday feb 27th with the ultimate pisecesqueen lizzie taylor. anyway i had begun to believe that i had matured & learnt to reign in my piscean penchant for emotional drama etc. but after meeting the aforementioned acqumale online (not met IRL…yet i keep resisting…)its been drama drama bl*ody drama…& like i say we haven’t even met yet!!??
its made me have to acknowledge what i really hoped i would never have to…that far from changing my dramaqueen ways…it may be just that my life revolving around my son for the most part… has left me with just less time/energy to date & less inclination to enter the fray again as it were…but that i am still very much the same!! don’t get me wrong i have a strong sense of self & have put my piscean qualities of empathy & caring to good use not only as carer to my son but in the work i have chosen to do working with the homeless/victims of domestic violence for eg. i am passionate & opinionated & though i do not follow a specific religion have a strong sense of spirituality. but yes i was hoping that some things i could leave in my past…
the neediness thing mentioned above makes me laugh…though tbh in my case i think its more an issue of being emotionally draining!! i think i would agree i’m high maintenace in that dept!! but i suppose part of me has thought (until now…) that why should i change?? its not like i have been dumped for it…i have always been the one ending r/ships or doing the divorcing. yrs after i had divorced my 1st husband…he told me re our marriage that ‘it was never dull@ see the dramsqueen in me takes that as a compliment! i’d rather be a total pain than dull anyday…
anyway cut to this acqumale of mine…met on a forum & have spoke sooooo much in calls & emails over the last 6 wks its like i have gotten to know him more than i did any of my husbands…we can speak for hrs about everything & nothing…the big questions/the small stuff…literally hrs go by & then its like what did we just talk about?? there have been huge disagreements too & lots of
‘passionate’ debates…lots of emotional out pourings (on his side i have to say not mine!)
but then he suddenly goes quiet & i’m left wondering what is going on??? i think he plays total headgames (like pisces put so eloquently above lol!!…10th dec i think) yet he seems above & beyond even the concept of them so he just makes me feel totally paranoid in the end.
like i say i am so used to being the one in control in any/every r/ship so this is all just freaking me out…i’m sooo not used to it.
i don’t doubt there is a connection. we can get on sooooo well…but then so not?? the sex i have no doubt would be very hot & heavy…
(its been quite awhile for me too so that alone is starting to make my thinking muddled!)
i have never had any problems pleasing my man in the boudoir (great word! lol) & i love being a woman…heels, sexy underwear the whole bit…but theres something about him that concerns me slightly…like hes capable of being really dirty (lol…what do i sound like??) i don’t know what i really mean tbh but i suspect theres not much he wouldn’t do sexually…now don’t get me wrong i love sex & love having sex but theres just something very naughty about him!! not sure if i like it or if it terrifies me…or both lol…
not sure if all this ramble will go on one post & i haven’t really explained what it is about him that is different about other men have i?? doh me… ok quick eg i got worked up (understatement!!) on a forum recently & said i would never return….drama drama!! & i haven’t either as i meant it when i’m over something i’m usually over it…except this acquamale apparently…i’ve divorced husbands for less arguments & general hassle than i’ve had from him!!!?? btw when hes nice hes wonderful but when hes in an off mood he can be very rude & quite scornful…i always thought that was my dept lol. if someone angers or upsets me i can be very caustic…
anyway while the other men (theres been a few…told you i can be a bit of a flirt but friends only with them…) have been begging me to come back & post again…my acqumale said & i quote…what did you flounce for you silly woman?! that was it. how is it he has the ability to make me laugh & hate him at the same time?? ok maybe not hate but…dislike…
no really i do totally dislike him…honest!!!
December 15th, 2008 at 3:43 pm
Hi guys
One thing I have learnt recently about Pisces is that they can really write!! and write..and write some more!! This is why I must get the forum up and running after christmas so you Pisces can have a good old debate without having to scroll down for miles just to write a comment!!
Love & Light
Becky
December 15th, 2008 at 3:56 pm
sorry one more thing…re stubborness…
do i sometimes play little teeny tiny games…
being unavailable etc well yes…what woman doesn’t?? but you can’t do that when the man in question seems blithely unaware that you weren’t going to speak to him…as he didn’t call for a few days anyway??? yet at other times seems to be on the phone or emailing or pm’ing me constantly…??! why is this??!!
so now i haven’t emailed/spoke to him since last thursday (yes on purpose i’m well aware how immature that is…but he drives me to it as i don’t know where i am with him??!) & i just know that when he calls later (the witchy pisces part of me can always sense when hes about to call!! lol) he’ll just laugh like its all no big deal that we haven’t spoken even though like i say he phoned me constantly from the monday to the thursday. i wanted a break from him…then i’m left wondering why he hasn’t called me in the first place!!?? this is soooo not a side to me i like or am comfortable with since when did i get clingy?? yikes!! how did this happen??! i was once told that i would be most compatible with a cancer as they are even more moody than i am lol…so maybe i should hold out for my cancerian man!!
December 15th, 2008 at 4:12 pm
oh becky you have no idea!!
i can ramble for england…
i often end my diatribes with ‘love & light’too as its such a lovely phrase…
so instead i will say to you…
namaste…
& thank you for your wondeful site i think its obvious i had a little i needed to offload!!
i will have to look at other pisces connections i will be very interested to read of pisces & gemini…ooooooh a big no no for me!!! my parents & both sisters…& first husband are all gemini & to say we don’t get along would be the biggest understatment…
ever…seriously do not get each other!!!
i hereby promise not to ramble too much…
make that i promise to try not to…lol
December 15th, 2008 at 4:31 pm
Hi Piscesqueen,
Well I am a Gemini so I know a thing or two about rambling, although I can get bored halfway through and stop. Yes, Pisces and Gemini are not the best mix in the world..I have an ex Pisces so I understand it can be very volatile, just too different. Still, some people swear by it, but I think it all depends on peoples charts. I just love everyone..people in general, their funny little ways. I hope I am one Gemini you can stomach!!
And please ramble as much as you like, I love having a peek into how other signs view things (i’m a deep Gemini lol)
Anyway now I’m rambling so thank you for your input and long may it continue!
Namaste to you also
Becky
December 15th, 2008 at 4:33 pm
piscesqueen,
Now I’d have to say YOU’RE in a pickle. But, welcome to the world of a typical Pisces/Aquarius connection! I’m not saying ALL pairs work out this way, but the same complaint seems to drag not too far behind. It seems that, often times, the aquarius is the one calling all the shots and i’m not sure of why that is. Maybe that’s what drives the piscean ladies so crazy. Typically we can almost read the minds of others, but the aquarius is so murky and opaque. I doubt this is with deliberate intent. I think they just operate a little differently. Or, atleast, that’s the solution i’ve decided to adhere to. A personal example….
I will have an incredible night with this aqua-guy (just good conversation and such). I leave him feeling like we have the most amazing connection, but then I won’t get a single word from him in 3+ weeks! And then, suddenly, I’ll get a call outta no where and we’ll just pick up right where we left off as no time has passed. Albeit frustrating, I have never shown it. And lately, I just chalk it up as no big deal (though, I still can’t help but to wonder what’s going on in his head!) After a year of this “run-around” I feel pretty certain that if I knew exactly what he was thinking I would be gone by now. Do you think it’s the challenge that keeps us interested??? OR–is it really due to the fact that when he and I are together we could light up a city? I wouldn’t suggest playing head games, but sometimes playing along can be just as fun. Just keep in mind the limitations. I can’t speak for all…but, the aquarian I speak of seems to be something of a playboy (so I suspect)…
Good luck!
December 15th, 2008 at 6:19 pm
ha ha ha now i’ve put my foot in it re gemini!!
actually there was one gemini woman i met yrs ago & we used to get on really really well. we had a great laugh actually. though we were very different obviously! she was the mother of a girl who used to hang about when i pushed my little newborn in his pram. she was about 8 i think her & her friend became my little helpers!! she used to ask what colour i was going to dress my little boy in so she could colour co-ordinate with him that day…funny enough though her house was like mine is, both noisy & welcoming all at the same time!!
anyway just couldn’t leave this pisces/aquarius
thread without making a comment about what was said about pisces not leaving aquarius?? now admittedly i am not in the strongest position i’d like (due to going a bit nuts over this aquamales possible game playing…your guess probably better than mine!!) but still i really don’t think thats true…my first love was a wonderful aquarius boy called tommy. we went out for a yr when i was 15/16 he was a yr younger than me. we were so besotted we would walkabout for hrs with his little jack russel dog & lie on the local football field looking up at the stars…he smoked ‘funny’ cigarettes though at the time i didn’t have a clue what they were lol.
anyway that one yr made a difference in the end…as i finished with him just as i was about to go into the 6th form convinced i’d find the older boys there more interesting & mature…i never did… & yes ironic that now all these yrs later i am getting into such a flap about another aquarius…but for the record i did finish with my aquaboy…i can still see him cycling after me on his grifter bike in tears…ahhhhh bless.
& as for the water analogy…pisces is a water sign so surely we fish come with our own water!
December 15th, 2008 at 8:55 pm
pisces-girl…
sorry somehow missed your post earlier i had my son jumping all over the bed & my laptop too almost as i was posting…
you make some god points…yes it could be as you say i am so used to ‘reading’ ppl i have took it for granted almost & with him like you say of your acqua man its like a brick wall!!
have no clue from one phone call/email to the next what frame of mind he is in or where we’re at…tbh that is also one of the reasons i have so far refused to meet him. i may be a slightly ditsy pisces at times but i also like to know were i stand with others as its bad enough not knowing my own mind from one moment to the next…i mean…i mean what i say at any given time…then can mean something else entirely…fickle creature that i am!! lol
as for you & yours…a year of this no way!! i couldn’t cope…i’d have buried him in the garden!! i can only imagine how it would feel going on our very passionate, feisty calls…
but still no i wouldn’t do it for that long. tbh even just writing this all out today has made me think that hes not for me…it can be too extreme too up & down. but maybe its just an age thing. now whos to say 20 yrs ago i wouldn’t have thrown myself heart & soul into a mad r/ship with this acquamale of mine???!
but i’m 40 now & have a son with autism to care for so i need to be in a r/ship with a man who helps to keep me balanced (quite a feat in itself!) not send me ott!! yes we all have to own our actions & our feelings to some extent…but to allow myself to get sucked into this aquaworld of contrariness & detachment any further is asking for trouble!!
i need a calm monk type man who will worship me, massage me head to toe everyday & always let me have the last word…which sign is he?!
December 16th, 2008 at 10:52 pm
Hey Pisces_girl,
Yeah, that seems close to what I’m feeling. Bittersweet? Well maybe not so bitter as specifically discomforting; I’m just not used to meeting anyone that spins me so. I’ve known her an embarrassingly short period of time, and I’m not at all sure that she’s not interested; I’m just still feeling things out, trying to get my head round things. Could she be playing it cool? Maybe. God knows, she is a woman!
And I would be if I were her.
Re: “I have wondered to myself why I have made this encounter. And why now? The timing couldn’t be any worse. But, I know there is a reason…I just don’t want to force it.” Yeah ditto. Wtf, huh? It is what it is for now: Inhale, swallow, step, exhale, hope. There’s just too much other shit going on, for lack of any better phrase, so this one’s up to the Universe.
December 17th, 2008 at 6:48 pm
re timing & connections i like this quote from richard bach ‘illusion’s…
every person, all the events of your life are there because you have drawn them there. what you choose to do with them is up to you…
i also remember he spoke about us being like magnets attracting those we have something to learn from in this lifetime & them from us…& repelling those we have nothing to learn from & vice versa…its been a few yrs since i read his book but its something along those lines.
one more…by anais nin…
each friend represents a world in us, a world not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.
December 21st, 2008 at 10:19 am
28 year old Aquarian masculine! non- hetro male. Been with 3 pisces sexually/mentally but not commited. The latter has potential to be with me. ( Very rare to think) But he lives in Russia and is Armenian and I live in NYC and am Half black half white. Not that race is an issue. But We had an argument tonight because of Race Issues in Moscow. Im planning on going there in march and I sent him various links on Neo Nazi racisim in his city. There have been 131 killings alone between the months of Jan and October this year.
Basically after listening two minutes, he put tape on my mouth over the issue, and I HATE when people do that. Especially the ones who say that care so much about you! He told me his life has been one big bowl of positive thinking and that it does nothing to talk about the things you cant change. Im like if you dont talk about them how do you change them?
He refused to talk to me about the issue and kept referring back to how strong our love is and how im such a good person nothing bad will happen. He pulled if you really care about me you wont speak of this issue agian. And he wants to be with me? SORRY this is not working out and we just met. He and many other pisces have the tendency to live in fantasy.
Is it not standard for anyone with a brain to study further than your hotel and tourist area what another countries culture has in store for you? And do people not die or suffer harm for looking at the world through rose colored glasses? I can accept a car crash or a plane crash. But to be beaten or die in the presence of people, place, and a language you dont understand over the color of your skin- Is VERY scary to me, I thought he would have more understanding.
But to him this was me looking at the negative, excuse me if he hasnt had to deal with race. And tell him to say that to the people that have died so violently and continue to do so.
But to him the BBC and video taped murders, are internet/News propaganda. I have little patience for pisces if this is how in denial they live. No love is strong enough for me to give when people discredit your concerns and the worlds woes with optmistic indiffrence.
Aquarius = seeing worlds woes = feeling them = thinking to change them = changing = changed.
December 22nd, 2008 at 12:14 am
i don’t think its right to say indifferent. we pisces are if anything the polar opposite of indifference. we feel everything too much!! we do tend to see things through rose tinted glasses…if allowed to…its such a cosy place after all lol. but seriously while i can understand you being upset if you felt he was really discounting your fears…i can assure you he would have just been caught up in the happy vibe of the moment…finally getting to meet you & for you two be together.
pisces go with the flow (or else aspire to as much as they can…) they believe in positive thinking & know they should guard against negativity…for fear of being dragged down into the murky depths of depression. it doesn’t mean he doesn’t care…but the world is not perfect…it may never be so always make the most of the good things when they come along. it would be such a waste not to.
January 2nd, 2009 at 7:34 pm
Me:
Sun Pisces
Moon Pisces
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Pisces
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Libra
Saturn Libra
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Him:
Sun Aquarius
Moon Libra
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Pisces
Mars Virgo
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Virgo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Can anyone give me some insight into how well/terrible we match? We’ve been together for 2 years. The first year it was bliss and awesome, but going into the second year - I don’t think I have ever been this bottled up emotionally in my life. Need some help!
January 3rd, 2009 at 10:09 am
I’ve tried to post this a couple of times, let’s see if this will work…
Wow reading all of these comments is kind of scary. Lol I’m a pisces and am seeing that we seem to be the sign to avoid for relationships :(. Lol
But my little situation is fairly similar to some of my fellow pisces here..I recently met an aquarius guy online(it was kind of funny since that wasn’t what we were there for) and we chatted well for awhile. We eventually moved onto phone calls and then our first date. His personality is very captivating and refreshing. Our first date was awesome! We ended the night w a little make out and that was it. He called me for a couple of days and the frequency of calls and texts kind of dwindled. It was like when he was there, he was there…but when he was gone, who the hell knew where he went! And me being the needy pisces, hounded him, he finally had to tell me to chill out. Proudly, I have, yet believe me I fight back strong urges to call or text. Surprisingly, he’s stuck around and seems to be trying to figure out, if not tolerate my quirkiness.
Anyways we eventually had seen each other a cpl more times and yeah finally just did the deed lol. I must say that that was absolutely fabulous! We spent two days together and it was actually pretty sweet. So now, here I am, almost 24 hours after leaving our last date and I haven’t heard from him, other than a quick text checking on my arrival home. Obviously, after being told to chill out, I refuse to call him, but it is eating me up. Haha
But I really could relate w some of the things u were all saying, our first kiss was comfortable, yes very passionate, but almost like we’d been there before. In fact, the first date, the second date, every time after that has all been really smooth. It’s odd, I thought that maybe I was missing something, but I guesss it’s not just me. I am having trouble reading this aqua guy. He’s obviously a very sweet, caring individual. When we r together I couldn’t ask for a more attentive person. He holds my hand, brushes my hair off my face, gives me sweet little pecks out of nowhere, pretty protective, almost the perfect guy us silly day dreamers could drum up in our minds. I mean, which one of us hasn’t imagined a 6′2, very yummy looking man at your side being our own little slice of prince charming? Haha But the moment we leave each other’s sides, its almost as if I don’t exist I think. The communication is not there. I’m wondering if it’s just me being needy and his actions are normal or he’s just a jerk and I’m the normal one lol. I apologize for my long winded typing here (something he hates as well) lol and the fact that it’s probably full of misspellings, I’m typing this on my phone and the screen isn’t showing what I’ve written..yikes. Anyhow, does anyone have any words of advice or wisdom? It would be greatly appreciated, I really dig this guy and hope that there’s something worth it there.
Thank u!
January 4th, 2009 at 2:48 pm
for emski & piscesandcrazy (know the feeling!! lol) i ended something just before xmas with an aquarius man before it had really begun -
met on forum/emails phone calls only. i kept putting off meeting in RL… i came to conclusion that for me becky was right, too different to be a couple better off as friends.
now that not to say other pisces & aquarius can’t work it out…but thats what it will entail a lot of work!! or rather as a pisces woman learning to control your every fibre that tells you to call/email him when hes off being aloof!!/forcing yourself to be cool & laidback…instead of wearing our hearts on our sleeve asusual!! sooooo not for me!! i expect men to do the running after me/waiting on my call not the other way around!! & tbh as vain as it sounds before this aquarius man came along it always was that way lol
if its any concellation…they really aren’t doing it on purpose just to rile you/us!! its just them being them…cool, mysterious, off doing their own thing blahblahblah…if you can handle that i’m sure it’ll be a blast…
i’m holding out for someone i can be myself with…my whole self…too emotional for my own good at times…but caring & loving too…& only a teeny tiny bit nuts…honest!!!
January 11th, 2009 at 5:46 pm
WELL I AM AN AQUARIAN GURL AND I JUST GOT WITH A PISCES . I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO AT THIS POINT CAUSE EVERYTHING THING SEEMS SO PERFECT AND RIGHT BUT LOOKING AT IT IM NOT SURE IF WE MIGHT WORK OUT . HE ALREADY FEELING TO NEEDY WANT TO KNO ALL DA TYME DO I MISS HIM….AM I THINKING ABOUT HIM… AND STUFF LIKE DAT…I DONT WANT TO BE MEAN AND TELL HIM THAT HES BEING TOO NEEDY OF ME CAUSE WE JUS START GOING OUT… I NEEED HELP????
January 13th, 2009 at 9:46 am
Hi. I’ve Been Reading Everyone’s Comments And Everything Seems To Relate To Me And My PISCES Guy. We’ve Been Together A Little Over A Month and Im Kind Of Concerned Because In So Short Time I Have Fell Completely In Love With Him Which Is Very hard For Me To Do Based On All The Heartaches I’ve Had and Its Not That I Dont Think He Loves me In Return Because I Honestly Believe He Does. Im Just Scared That We Might Be Moving Too Fast And I Dont Want To End Up Hurt Again Or Possibly Hurting Him.
Even Though He Does Come Off Very insurcure At Times When I Go To Hang Out With Friends And Some Family Members. I Feel As If Im The More Clingy One. Is That Because I Know He Needs Me Too Constantly Say “I Love You” And “I Miss You” and Im Suddenly In The Habit Of Doing It ALL TEH TIME Or Is It Ultimately Because I’m Scared To Let A Good Thing Go When Usually I Run Away As Soon As The Relationship Gets Serious? PLEASE HELP ME??!!
January 13th, 2009 at 2:01 pm
I have the same feelins as yo do aquarius 1989. I am witha pisces and he is very glingy and makes it almost impossuble to socialize with my family members or friends without him being a little difficult about it, even though I should be bothered since I’m an aquarius i am not. I feel that its explainable.
It happened t me as well, I know that he needs to hear those words such “i love you , i miss u i wish u were here” all teh time 24/7 I;e come to make it a habbit and it is IRRITATING ME. I;ve come to a point where i hate anything related to the words “I love you, adore you cherish you” becouse it a slost its taste by saying it all the time. but telling this to a pisces would hurt him immesly
Its true aquarius tends to get scared from good things, maybe Its becouse good things are predictable, you meet a guy u fall in love get married ,kids ,backyrd with a dog and all that! I got scared from committing to early I predicted everything that woul happen and I saw it as an end not a begining. it was getting serious with me and my ex pisces, it ended very sadly I say but he was hurt more than I.
I am with another pisces now and it almostfeels the same only I am clingy more than he is, and I still dont see the predictivility I so hate. You might be a true aquarian about this, dissapearing when things get seriously good, bt I know that as soon as u get away u’ll realize that u’d miss it. aqiarus gets away for days maybe weeks to get invloved into something different when its over they miss what they suddenly paused, maybe thats what u might do.
January 16th, 2009 at 4:11 pm
Hey Piscesandcrazy,
I was just reading your post and it had me nodding in agreement the whole time. I am with an aquarius man and let me tell you, it has been very interesting.
We met through a friend and from the beginning we would just talk for hours and hours and just get lost in each others company. Our friends used to get annoyed with us, because when we used to go out in a group setting we would just disapper in our little bubble and no one would be able to get in… LOL. In fact, our first date lasted 48 hours!
I totally feel you on the when you guys are together its great but when you are apart it’s like you dont exist or something. My boyfriend and I only lived about 30 mins from each other and we would hang out the entire weekend and then monday through thurs, nothing. Not even phone calls. We would just text each other all day. I would always be desperate for phone conversations but nope, and I certainly wasn’t gonna call him.
My only word of advice is patience. If he is one of the good ones, and he likes you, he will come around. After a few months, we started talking more, hanging out in the middle of the week and then he asked me to move in with him. He is 32 years old and has never lived with a woman before. When I asked him, why me, he said that he admired the fact that I knew that he needed time to reach a certain level of commitment. I as a Pisces definitely prefer the whirlwind romance, loving each other in two weeks, and engaged in three months, but I knew that with an aquarius I needed to wait and be patient because that sort of behavior would drive him away. I knew he was worth altering my ways a little because he is the sexiest, funniest, smartest guy I have ever been with. He is so faithful and trusting and I just absolutely love him! Trust me though, it is not always easy. I get very emotional and he just gets emotionally detached when I get that way. Tears dont work on them at all! He is very level headed and it’s healthy for us pisces girls. Anyway, good luck to you with your aquarius man. How has it been going lately?
January 16th, 2009 at 11:48 pm
hi im a pieces girl, i was born 1988 march 18..
im having a long relationship last year with a gemini guy im happy all the way but it end up into nothing, i believe in a astrology since then that really gemini and pieces is not that good to be with each other,and that is as per my experience. in my side i have to accept the fact that whatever effort a girl could make it will end up into nothing if its really not meant for you. itv takes 4 to 5 mos for me to accept that his not mine anymore until 1 day somebody called me that the other party during that time is pregnan anymore so i really had to stop thinking bout him.
Until Sept 2008 (same year when i broke up with my 2 yrs and 2 mos bf ) i met a guy his older than me, he is 38 turning 39 this year and im turning 21 only this coming March.
before we are friends hanging out having a bonding i knew from that start that he has a family already come to think of it with his age age and the way he act, thou physically appearance he doesnt look like he has a family already, actually he is a good looking guy and even me im a black beauty one.
friendship got deeper as expectedly becasue we go out most of the time and were both working in a same company as a Advertising Executive.
he say that he doesnt have a family then i say only “ok”, 1 day were eating together as i noticed on the back of his id it has contact # and a contact person so when i got the Tel# i know that this would be my key of knowing whats really with him, until i pretend as an HR personnel i called that # and it really shocked me but i have to control it, i talked to his wife confirmed that hey have a 4 year old baby girl and they are married for about 8 years this coming dec 2009. look it really made me feel that thou i have a beauty and brains as they say i dont have luck when it comes in Love Life, i always end up crying and got hurt.. have to confront the guy he lied to me what is his intention of keeping the truth?he explained his in love with me and i cant deny it that i am inlove with him also. Ill tried not to get in touch with him just to lessen the communication that make me fall for him more deeper but then it didnt work because we are working in a same company its always been possible to have a eye contact with him. And now im in love and happy with him
As per him his not happy anymore with his family they are living together just because of the child and he is under by his wife that makes him feel a guy with a non sense a guy without a right by making a decisions.
I know i have to end up this thing before it got more complicated i know everytime weve ben together i know that somehow althou they are ot in good terms og his wife still wife is wife and family is important to him.
i know i have to end this up but how? he keep on speding time with me just to be with me effort love care sweetness and a lot more.
i dont wanna ruined my life i dont wanna end up crying anymore , i know that this is not really good to continue especially in the eyes of the god above.
Somebody can help me ther to give me an advice? i hope so..
have a blessed dy everyone!
January 18th, 2009 at 7:50 pm
Beauty and Brain,
You certainly are True Blue to your Pisces sign, aren’t you? Making excuses seems to be one of our strongest characteristics. Not a bad trait, but sometimes it clouds our judgment. Based on the information you provided, I think you know what you need to do. Aside from the fact that he’s married and has a child (which should be a red flag from the start), he LIED to you. Please don’t fall for the “I did it to protect you” bit. He did it out of selfishness. Sure, he is attracted to you and likes you (which may be one reason he lied), but ultimately he is selfish (and a liar)–certainly not the ingredients for a bright future. IF he was truly unhappy in his current relationship he would leave. Trust me on this.
In my opinion, you are being manipulated–and it’s working. Think about it! You’re young and probably have a lot going for you–and it strokes his ego to know that you are interested in him. Of course he doesn’t want to lose that, so he will say whatever he can to keep it. Don’t be his pet or toy. YOU call the shots! Stand up for yourself and settle for nothing (NOTHING) better than the best! YOU ARE THE CAT’s MEOW!
Take pride in that and you will get the great man (who is honest AND single) you deserve.
January 19th, 2009 at 8:45 am
hi!
Thanks for those pieces of advice! appreaciated very well and it really makes me feel that the truth really hurts, most of those advice that you have given to me is true and yet it really hurt me that much, i did ready myself for those comments, i talked to myself 1 time i know that just in case that his husband knows about this althou his husband is having an idea with these affair that we have,. id just dont know what to do now, i wanna put a distance in this affair beween me and him,for the reason that i wanna end up this thing for before it get more deeper and until it make me feel that im down and i cant find myself but inlove with him. i wanna end up this affair becasue every girl has a simple dream walk in a aile attending ceremonies with gods presence i wanna do those things,i dont wanna hurt myself i dont wanna see myself crying…. BUT HOW CAN I ? he keep on warning me if he saw me with the other guy he kill that guy, he wants to have a baby boy in me which is i want it too actualy! oh! i know its sounds like so crazy..id just dont know what to do, im having looking in his face,im melting each time we kiss…. but i wanna end up this things but how? im trying to pull away myself against in him,i dont wanted to have a man beside me but totaly mine, even half of him is not mine, and i know that i dont need to hope i have nothings against in his wife, but he keeps on saying me that his happy with me. i talked to him i said i know that just in case you have to choose either me and her i know that youre not gonna choose me because you still wanted to choose your wife rather than me, but then again his reason is if i can just go back into a time that i am a single and i met a personality that you have i wont think twice to marry you and hava a child with you. Sounds so sweet ? but its too early to stick into it, i know.
January 20th, 2009 at 11:03 pm
Beauty and Brains,
The truth does seem to be hard to swallow sometimes, but you’ll find yourself choking on it in the long run if you decide to continue with such a volatile affair. I’m not in your shoes, so I want to try to stay fairly neutral with the advice. When concerning matters of “Love” we tend to overlook even the most sensible and best advice. I am sorry that you are going through this dilemma. I know the struggle between what you should do and want to do is very real, and the line between right and wrong can be very faint. But, as I said earlier, I believe you know what you should do…you just don’t want to believe it. IF that makes any sense. This may sound very UNpisces of me, but I have learned that our hearts can be very deceptive (not to say we shouldn’t follow our instincts, but due to our vulnerable nature we have to practice more discernment). You’ve listened to your heart thus far, now try listening to your head. What would you advise a friend to do in your situation? Do you feel you could look at it objectively? Maybe this would help you to see the situation as it is instead of how you imagine “it could be.”
How can you stop thinking about him? My suggestion would be to preoccupy yourself with some positive outlets to get your mind on other things. It’s like a drug or bad habit, and albeit rough in the beginning, you will get through it. But just like a bad habit, you have to WANT to stop or you won’t be able to combat it.
It seems to me that you have allowed yourself to settle for something/someone that isn’t very good for you. Above all, this should be your main concern. People can only treat you the way you let them. And you should really try to reflect on why you think this is acceptable.
You seem like a sweet girl with an enormous heart. Please don’t be so gullable as to let some jerk take advantage of that. I’ve been there, too….Don’t let his puppy-dog eyes, smile and charm get the best of your better judgment.
Hope it all works out for the very best.
January 31st, 2009 at 7:15 am
Hi there guys
Pisces men can be adventurous and Kinky.
Little Impaler you have got it spot on. LOL. I for one love my girl to dress up, nurse, police women, sexy teacher with spectacles punishing me for been a bad boy!!
Pinning her to the wall and dominating her.
January 31st, 2009 at 7:46 am
Hi Guys
This is all so shockingly accurate. I think that this relationship can work.
It is only possible with a lot of patience and compramises from both side. Maybe more from the Pisces male.
The Aquarius needs to be more loving and caring and more in touch with the Pisces emotions and the Pisces probably less needy and emotianal and more Alpha as well.
I unfortunately learned to late.
January 31st, 2009 at 12:06 pm
To Pisces Guy:
Seeeeeee, that is what I am saying. Not all pisces men are bored in the bed. But my pisces male friend, who is the kinky one. I some times believe his a Aries in disguise. First, I thought he was an Aries, but when he told me he was pisces, I was truly in shock.
January 31st, 2009 at 12:09 pm
To kelly:
Just be straight with him, if it bother him that you were being straight forward with him, that is his problem, and maybe he is not the guy for you.
Don’t be afarid to be honest with your partner. They can’t read your mind, if something is bothering you about them, or anything tell them.
January 31st, 2009 at 12:23 pm
To Midnight: I read your comments on here, and I couldn’t agree more. I also like my men firecy, really adverturous in and out of the bedroom, that have so much enegry, they keep up with me!
I to enjoy a good arguement, and a man must be willing to speak his mind with me, and be straightforward. And I say, there’s nothing wrong in having a bit of a battle before bed time, either.
To tell you the truth, something about the Aries men attracts me. A lot what people say about those men when they with a Aquarius women is the loving making is beyoud WOW, their relationship is totally AMAZING!!!!!
Men like Gordon Ramsey, I know he is not Aries, but that type of firey attudite, just get me, I like it! I like man who is forcues, knows what he wants, and when he sees something he wants he goes for it.
February 2nd, 2009 at 7:52 am
I need some help from all of you out there…I am an aquarius female who met a pisces female back in november (it was actually on election day right after Obama won)and we hit it off really well…i really thought it would work. we saw each other for about a week just about every day and she was just as into me as i was in to her…all of a sudden one day she just stopped talking to me. Needless to say I was so confused, and pretty upset about it considering I thought it would go pretty far because things were looking hopeful. I got over it, but then saw her out here and there and it made it pretty tough but we would say hi and whatever. I was pretty irritated at her still because she never really apologized and just said she couldn’t commit. Then in the middle of January she told me how sorry she was and apologized a million times and felt awful. We hooked up and that was that, and she acted like it would go further. Well she left for school about 2 weeks ago (it is only a half an hour away) without really saying anything to me. Just today right at midnight she texted my friend and told her to say happy birthday to me for her. The fact that she remembered my birthday was exciting to me because I only told her once. But I don’t know if she is playing games or what because its like she was almost thinking and trying to remember to say happy birthday as soon as she could and right at midnight. She knows we are not “friends” and knows that it probably wouldn’t work because we have gone too far for that to happen. I really don’t know what to think, or what to say. Pisces can be so indecisive! I think she is confused…and she is confusing the crap out of me! I have no clue what to say to her…or even if I should say anything to her. Any advice anyone?
February 2nd, 2009 at 8:53 pm
hi ..im lost
that words might well be my name lol.. im 21 pisces female and im gonna be 22 march 18.. pisces_dragon. what you wrote ..brought me to tears its soooo true … i moved to a new city with friends ..and we always go out and i met this dj.. and he not really that attractive but t heres something about him that make me weak to the knees.. hes well i used to say this .. before i lost mind .. that kinda guy i would never look twice at them … he player type .. he’s a DJ .. that i don considere a legit job.. and not my type at all… but somehow i felt for it .he the only guy that makes wanna lose my virginity ..like that im sexualy attrated to him.. lol. i dont know if he likes me or not.. because he definitly did that . calling and text for couple days straight then disapear . but this what he says to me .when he sees me .. he give me two kisses on that cheek (ps: this is how they say to each other the french’s) and he always tell me ..i like u .. u smell good that i wanna eat you..ur beautifull. and that makes me fall for him all over .coz im that hopeless romantic. but i think he playing with me ..its almost like im boosting his ego .. coz at tha clubs theres always 3 to 8 guys that will flirt with me and he will be looking at me the whole night so much soo that other people noticed it..and i had couple guys that came up to talk to me .and they approach very close and its almost seems like i was intimate with him and look at him .. kinda sending this message .. i know u want her but i got her. and thats when he acts all strange and ask me bout it .. he became very nagging .clingy ….
this what he does to me …. i send him two fridays ago and the whole he watching me i can feel it ..and aat the end someone guy was trying to holla at me but i was ignoring him and he was not leaving me alone.. so he comes and theres a glass mirror door between us . so we make eye contact and he give that im watching sign. and i brushed it off ..after couple minutes im struggling with the guy and as soon he leaving me finaly .. he hit the glass door and give me that sign again .. he scared me and i was told him come see .. and he takes me in his arm .. and hold me very close .and then when staring to lose focus . lol.. and he says that im watching u baby.. i told him ya you do tthat and u never come see me (the clingy me lol) he says im comin to you now . and ignore me for couple days .. so i told him if he was trying to get to pants and not trying to wife me .. forget it … he SAID OK!!!! that hurted . lol .. so i told him its fine and lets keep it as friends so stop ur comments when u see me .. he said ok.. so this friday i seen again .. im not looking for him … im at the back .. so he sees me somehow and comes to say hello ..and kisses on that cheeks .. and as i backing away away from him.. he pull me in and says ur beautifull . i said thank you.. trying to escape him again .but pulls me again and says ur beautiful as usual. .I MEAN COME ON!!!!!!!!! .. so i was baack at the same feeling … but now im tired i wanna be happy ..not moody ..
It’s like a drug or bad habit, and albeit rough in the beginning, you will get through it. But just like a bad habit, you have to WANT to stop or you won’t be able to combat it.@@@@
that when i read that .. i cried .. so im going to visit my mom for 2 or 3 months ..and im hoping that i MOVED on… coz when i come here i will be fine.. but i got this other side that i wanna make sure that he sees what he could have had..
ANY FEEDBACK WOULD BE APPRECIATED.
Ps: i wrote all of this ..listening to usher’ get used to her.
February 3rd, 2009 at 3:42 am
To clynn8:
Just reading your story, you have me confues what she wants. I am with you, I am just confues as you are and I must say you have the right to be.
My advice is, if she keeps doing what she does, you need to set her straight and tell her how serious YOU are, and tell her that you don’t like this feeling of yes and no. Give it to her straight, tell her she needs to make up her mind, if she doesn’t want the same things as you, tell her you will end it.
Because this is totally nonsense what she doing.
February 3rd, 2009 at 9:32 am
Hi there lost girl..
It’s was nice meeting you over the net we’re having the same age birthdate,.
I do also have a confusion on me, i wanna clarify it’s a confusion and not a problem.
Really people are crazy when it comes in love it’s really true, they easily fall in love but in times of trouble they dont know how to escape into it, well im not saying all because there is a person who knows what to do but they dont know on how to apply the things that could be helpful for them.
In Responce to your situation much better to leave that fucking guy! im sorry for being rude saying that kind of word it’s sounds so sarcastic but what he did to you he is a “fucking guy” know why? if a man really loves you virginity doesnt matter, a true man with a true guy can love you for who you are accepted for who your are and love you for who you are, all good and bad things are appreciated and understand for a guy who has a true love from you, and as per reading your concern all of those pointers that i had said that guy is not desere to be love and to be respected. put a distance into that guy your are just easily attracted to him and now what you feel is that an emotion that takes you over from that guy. Move on! he is just came into your life for a SEASON ONLY AND NOT A FOR A REASON , for a season only because he is jst trying his luck to include you in his lists, i bet you he doesnt came for a lifetime ok?
Move on! you can go to your mom be opened it’s a saying that mom’s knows best but really it is,before i dont believe but now i know they do have an instinct that really works when we listen to them,ok?
By moving on girl i can give you a tip, keep yourself busy at work, dont look back just look forward,applicaton is all up to you.
know why me ? i’d been so much in love with a guy but then again it ends up into nothing and it really hurts me so much when times that im falling so deeply with him actually we’ve been 2 years and 2 months and we broke up last year only, in the middle of the year to be exact . while im fallen in love with him he get fall in love with his officemate, while i know that things is getting harder anymore i’ll tried to work things out but it didn’t work until i gave up my feelings thou i really ont like to loose him, but i might choose to gave up my feelings than holdong on into nothing but heartache and disappointment in return, until 4 mos since we broke up his officemate emailed me saying “hi mam how are you ? got a news he is having a upcoming family now the girl is pregnant already” it’s shocks me but all i can say is “alryt that’s nice, wish them luck’ but my heart really turned into pieces cause i know im still holding but at that point i know i have to stop hoping for any reconcilation because the gf is pregnant already, so by that i know that i really have to move on and accept the fact that the relationship begins and now its the end…. i move on! Chin up girl!
ok let me show you my tips
ACCEPTANCE + ADJUSTMENT + APPLICATION = MOVING ON, it will be a better and stronger you!
Have a blessed day always
February 5th, 2009 at 5:38 am
I’m an Aquarius girl and I dated a Pisces a long long time ago…5-6 years ago. We were young, and in love. We dated for 2 months, he abandoned me, never called me or anything, and then he called me two months later and we dated again for another two months…then he left again (he never officially ended the relationship)…I thought of it as a cycle that I did not want to go through so I ended it permanently by cutting off all contacts with him and making sure that he did not have any of my contact information. He was the only guy who broke my heart completely. He eventually got in contact with me again. He seems to find me every couple-few years. We talk and reminisce. I’ve never told him I loved him, but I really did, and I still care a lot about him. But he used to jump from relationship to relationship, and I always felt like I was second best or not good enough for him at all. And although I am an Aquarius, I am not emotionally detached. I made sure that he knew I how much I loved him even though I did not say it. I was very attracted to him and we were both all about the PDA. Although we were not exclusive, we were in a monogamous relationship. I’m not sure what we went wrong. He knows now how much I loved him. I’m older now and more mature. He seems to be at the same stage in his life as when he was last with me, except with kids now. Still now when I talk to him, I find myself weak. I’m currently dating a Gemini and he’s amazing (we’ve been together for almost 3 years and he treats me like a princess)…but for some reason I just have this soft spot for my Pisces ex. Sometimes I hope that maybe one day he and I could be together again. I still care a lot about him and I care about what he does with his life. I do agree with all of you, Pisces are emotional, but this one didn’t seem to need reassurance that I loved him or that I was always going to be there for him no matter what ( I think that’s why he keeps getting in contact w/ me). Although he is a day dreamer, a bit lazy, unorganized, shallow and materialistic; he was extremely independent and he has a beautiful intuitive soul that I’ve always seen in his eyes and that I’ve always admired. I do wish him the best of luck in his life even though he was awful to me when we were together. I still tell him that I’ll always be there for him b/c I feel like I understand him and b/c I still care about him.
February 5th, 2009 at 5:17 pm
Piscesgal,
So sorry to just now respond, it has certainly been a very up and down past couple of weeks. So how’s it been going you ask? Hmm, well we are still seeing each other, still on his terms for the most part it seems. But it has gotten easier for me to somewhat detach myself a bit, which somehow makes him come calling haha. It’s funny because our dates are also two day affairs. The crappy part is that we are averaging seeing each other only every two weeks (he lives about an hour away). I would think he’d want to see me more. I’m not sure if I’m fooling myself into thinking it’s anything more than sex at this point. I even brought it up to him (in a joking manner of course) and he laughed it off and said no. Hmmm. I’m not sure where to go at this point, but I know this relationship is new. I just wish I had a clearer picture of maybe not so much what we are but the potential of what we could be. I just hate to waste my time, energy and heart on someone that doesn’t feel the same. The more time I spend with him, the harder it is to leave his side. I miss him almost immediately after we say goodbye. Yesterday after leaving we both sent the same text to each other at the same time, the typical thank you, had a great time, blabla..haha I thought that had to mean something right?lol then he says,’I hope you’re not too mad at me’. I asked,’why would I be mad at you, besides the fact that you like to hurt my feelings. Haha jk.’ And he responded,’I'll try really hard not to anymore.’ He says things like that and then does things totally contradictory. I’m still kind of in limbo with him I feel, but then again it hasn’t been THAT long we’ve been seeing each other. I guess patience is key but that’s not something I have a lot of. Plus my mind plays tricks on me. I can be in a totally good place with him and an hour later convince myself that he’s not that into me haha ugh!!! I just wish I could get him to open up a bit more, I just don’t want to push him..any advice? But congrats to you on the whole moving in! Awesome! I guess you played the game well and won ! ;). Was he eager or reluctant to bring you around his family in the really early stages of your relationship?
March 8th, 2009 at 4:46 am
heey, i’m an aquarius with a crush on a pisces guy [i think hes pisces anyway..], what should i do to grab his attention? lizzie xx
March 8th, 2009 at 6:55 pm
Im going through this problem right now. I’m Aquarius woman totally falling for this Pisces Man. Its terrible the way we end up getting seperated in most situations…sometimes I wonder if his feelings are mutual or if he hates being away from me as much as I hate being from him. I end up losing him some how and deep down inside im kinda mad that he could let this happen. I never let him know that im mad though because I know how SENSITIVE he his. I usually let it go because I love him or I might touch on it in a nice way. We’re perfect for each other although now we’re long distance. That will never help matters. I always get the sense that I’m guilt tripping him on purpose although thats not what I meant to do. I just wanted to let him know how I felt. If only he could see that I would drop my aquarian ways and be his love slave. I dont know what to do now. I think he will come back to visit me. I end up blowing things out of porportian trying to rush him along because I know I will be losing him again soon. Sometimes I just wonder. Don’t you realize we’re a match made in heaven? We dress a like, we think alike, we love the same interests and goals in life. Is he completley oblivious to all this? Sometimes I look at him. He looks so aloof. Is there anything going on in that fishy head of his? Could it only be me who recognizes this? Has he realized already and just chooses to do nothing…?? How many times do I have to remind him what we’re worth until he is finally the one to come to me?
March 9th, 2009 at 11:17 am
Keri,
I’m a pisces man. I’d guess that your pisces can pretty much read you like a book. Pisces are very intuitive. I think the intuitiveness is even more so when connecting with an aquarian. For myself, even being in the presence of an aquarian female is overwhelming to my psyche - I’m not sure why, it just is.
About the only thing I can think to recommend in your situation is to “back off” a bit. Don’t continue to drown him with your desire to possess him, or connect with him mentally. I can assure you that he is most likely already overwhelmed by your presence. Just you being around without doing or saying much at all may be enough to bring some life to, or back to your relationship, whatever may be the case.
Good luck.
March 9th, 2009 at 4:00 pm
keri,
Why is it that you’re always separating? Were you two ever an item? You sound very concerned and want to work things out with him, but what are the details about your relationship with him?
March 10th, 2009 at 2:17 am
Im an aquarius currently with a pisces man. We separated once about 3 years ago because of miscommunication i guess you would say lol and he never gave up loving me. He never gave up trying to be with me. I moved on with sum1 else and he would still keep on. At first his continuous effort would ware me out but when my next relationship hit rock bottom, he was there. I moved away and he still kept on insisting for that whole year. We would talk on the phone every single day, and i dont know what it was that would basically force me to keep calling him, but i would just have that urge to speak to him every single day. But once he would try to explain his love for me, i never wanted to hear it. Until i put myself in his position and asked myself if i were him how would i feel if my ex doesnt want me to express my love towards him. I would feel terrible because i would want him to hear me and knowing him he would hear anything and everything i would have to say. So one day i finally decided to hear what he wanted to tell me. I never thought we would ever get back together, I never thought we would even kiss or see eachother for that matter. BUT WE DID. and i do not regret it. He’s an incredible person with a great personality who always seems to handle my craziness with patience. I trust him, and he trusts me. I care about him just as much as he cares about me. AND yes we are in a long-distance relationship for now lol…Now i love him like i’ve never loved any1 before =] BUT im the needy one lol Im the 1 who needs to speak to him all the time even to stay quiet on the phone lol idk why….and he’s the 1 that cant go on to0 long without seeing me…so in the longrun it all works out sumhow…and it all falls into place i guess…jus let it go with the flow like ppl say
March 10th, 2009 at 2:34 am
I can’t really give any details. I honestly just want this guy to be happy. He can do whatever he wants really. He could leave me in the gutter for 5 months for all I care. I think the problem is that I can’t except the fact that pehaps I’m too late. There was a time when I left my pisces in the dust for a while because I was distracted. Ive tried to apologise in different ways. I try not to make him nervous; I can’t help myself though because I feel so connected and comfortable, its easy for me to be myself. I care deeply for my pisces. I’d like to think he knows this. I don’t want to possess him John. I don’t think he would be happy like that. I would like to know why being in the presence of an aquarian female is overwhelming for your psyche though?
I know I already blew it. I probably blew it a long time ago. Oh well, good thing Im optimistic. Things will change. Pisces don’t like to be figured out but they gotta realize what they’re doing to us aquarians.
March 13th, 2009 at 1:01 am
wow, i am so happy i found this page….its so true..everything i’ve read pretty much describes my relation with the aquarius girl. i know im a clingy emotional guy, i just didn’t know it was MAJOR turn off for aquarius girl….damn i really screwed things up.
March 15th, 2009 at 12:16 pm
im a pisces girl whose started seeing an aquarius guy. im willing to sacrifice my emotional demands to give him freedom if it will make him happier being with me. this forum has been a huge help in letting me see how i could come accross if i get too deep with this aquarian guy. hopefully i’ll learn how to be more emotionally dependant.
So far im kinda enjoying the freedom as well, as i just ended a relationship with an overly clingy gemini
April 2nd, 2009 at 10:14 am
I am a pisces female.
I have this thing for an aquarius guy.
I am so drawn to him. It is really strange how we keep running into each other at different points in our lives and he has always been attracted to me & made the first move.
He is a very close friend and we are so much alike. We are both afraid of commitment, me more than him.
My mars & venus are both in aquarius.
His mars & venus are in capricorn.
I have an aries rising & he has an aries moon.
Being so afraid of a commitment, before we take any more steps towards it I just wonder if we even have a chance…
April 2nd, 2009 at 6:44 pm
I am a pisces female. I have had a connection with a scorpio male whom I’ve know since I was 16 years old. This is a truly powerful connection that I cannot describe. We’ve both admitted this connection to one another and realize that the potential is there for a wonderful, long-term committment. The problem is…we’re both with other people. I’m married to a taurus and he’s engaged to another woman. I really love my taurus husband and struggle daily with the connection I have for the scorpio. Every day I think of the scorpio and the kind of life we could have. My questions: 1)How do I let him go? and 2) Should I tell him good-bye or see what happens in the future? The feelings I have for the scorpio are taking away from my taurus. I can’t have my cake and eat it too (but that sure would be nice)!
April 6th, 2009 at 3:02 pm
lol I find this str4ange. on some posts it sounds like some Pisces guys are sort of autistic… thats just what I think
April 10th, 2009 at 4:40 am
Trust me, at times Pieces seems a little autistic..lol. I’m an aqua girl and I have a strange relationship with a Pieces. We have this total fascination with each other, and when we don’t see each other for a while we actually search each other out! It’s very hot/cold. When we are “on” we are in our own world with our own little private jokes and people wonder why we aren’t traditionally dating..When we are “off”, which could be the next day, it’s almost childish.
It’s kind of funny. My friends and I all think that he and I were lovers in a past life..lol It’s almost like we have this chemical draw towards each other, almost like a total fascination. The fascination is not enough for a relationship, but I’ll admit that it’s a lot of fun! lol.
April 13th, 2009 at 10:38 am
hi
i’m a aqua man.well i love a pieces girl(i haven’t proposed to her yet).But after i read few articles about compatibility…i was a bit dipressed because i love her a lot but all articles say the relationship is a hard one…is it true?
April 13th, 2009 at 2:24 pm
in short what i want to tell is she means everything to me n i dont want to see it end
April 23rd, 2009 at 2:51 am
I am a Pisces girl married to a Cancer guy for 2 1/2 years and I have a daughter with him but my Aquarius ex who made my heart broken still emailing me that he still love me and i still think of him everyday(though i tried to move on)..I just got confused sometimes..
April 26th, 2009 at 12:43 pm
please help!!
this is the longest story so i can’t write much details..I’m a Pisces and head over heals for a Aquarius… we met 4 years ago worked together for 2 of those years..he told everyone that he really liked me and i’m going to be his,(he did have a reputation with being a player).. i was interested but didn’t understand why he would neva talk to me…but everytime i would look his way he would always be watching me….this went on for a couple of months, i started hanging around the other guys at work, than his mood changed he was really mean to me for a couple of weeks?? one night i got a txt message out of the blue at 1.00am in the morning asking how i was, we talked a little and that was it…few days later he asked me to go clubbing with him and his mates, i declined (for the reason we havnt really ever spoken). couple of days later he txt me at night to come round, i was having drinks with my girlfriends feeling a little more confident ( remember im a fish).. when i arrived he didnt really talk much we put on a movie and he held my hand through the movie and we both feel asleep.. he has a pretty bad rep for playing girls i have herd so many stories at work about him wich was the reason for my gard being up so high…i started seeing this other guy (as a friend) that we worked with, when he found out he txt me is it true and wanted to see me again straight away wich i declined cause he was already being so over protective…trying to cut this story short i can go on and on there was soooo much drama…we stopped working together for other reasons not due to this we moved on to other jobs but stayed incontact he messaged me nearly every week wanting to see me, i really liked him but the time of night he would txt me was way to late felt like a booty call…wich i did tell him thats how i looked at it…he adv me that it wasn’t i declined again though, then i started saying yes went to his house over 9 times in these past years and nothing he was just so quite and im a (fish) so i was so shy we didnt really talk at all (felt like grade school lol), but we would just lay for hours saying silly stuff but nothing serious, i would get up in the morning ( yes slept together in the same bed no touching though?) and go to leave but he would always ask me to stay longer (was this cause he liked me or just wanted something?) lots of nights like that…i would txt him to see how his day was (nothing) no reply at all, and then weeks out of the blue (yes night time) he would txt me..didnt always ask me over just wanted to talk alittle…everytime that i txt him he doesn’t reply?? but takes days, weeks, or months to gt back to me….it got so annoying i snap at him when he txt me , and said if u like me say it cause im over this game, the messages got mean on both sides…didnt hear from him for a month felt bad cause wat if he was just shy (but remembering he has girls all over him so, everyone says).. i message him thinking of u and sweet things like that..no reply but yes month later i get a reply (nite time again).. so im annoyed again for him taking so long to reply this just goes on and on and on….i havnt heard from him in a year until a month ago, and yes i was annoyed cause i just was getting over him (so i like to think)…and yes i yelled at him in a txt again then said sorry days later… have sent him few txts no replys…but this has been going on for 4 years now! 4 YEARS! so i don’t think this is the end and i need help….does he just want me cause i was a challenge or did he have serious feelings for me, or was he just playing around to begin with…sorry for the spelling and bad writing just really upset and confussed atm…
April 26th, 2009 at 1:17 pm
ok one other thing sorry!! lol, are we as pisces sooooOOoo inlove with aquarius cause there is a mystery in place… and i think aquarius love mind challenges and love to work people out this is way they stick around..but they need to release that even us as a pisces can’t work ourself out lol but true..So i really think pisces plays to many games with aquriuans only to keep them interested…but if we were to let it all out the aquriuans would be out the door running for there life lol… i think deep down pisces know this and think that if they stay there distants that the aquriuans will open up??
But there is such a strong connection between the 2, u don’t even need words just sitting there with each other was enough…or is this part of a pisces fantasy?? and i’m stuck in make believe??
from the first moment we looked at each other, i wanted him to be the one, i’ve never done that be4….i think a pisces needs a true love story other signs can live without it, but we dream about it all the time.. the thought of ever being with him sexual is to much for me to handle i think it would be the first time at feeling what sex is ment to be about (fireworks)… thanks for hearing my side, will be looking forward to feed back..
April 26th, 2009 at 10:43 pm
I’m a Pisces lady and god I went trough hell
ones when I was in love and in relationship with this Pisces guy !!!
he broke my heart so badly and made me cry like no other guys did in my entire life .
I still feel the pain when I think back about the time I was with him ,I don’t even believe in love mach or compatibility between Pisces and Pisces
we don’t go together at all.
he is was the baby
and I was the mother
I really needed to have a stronger man to look after me and care for me .
he was always saying that I didn’t give him attention though I did
really I had given everything to him to make him happy and yet still wasn’t enough for him
so the relation ship finely ended up me being confused and not knowing what I did wrong and he kept ignoring me until I somehow felt that It was over .
everything you guys say is so true about Pisces man .
yes
they ignore you like hell ,and it’s painful to be ignored especially if you have an emotional moon sign .
they can brake your heart in pieces
they are needy
they can be losers ,not going to work and be lazy dreaming all they long
and not being strong enough to make things clear or make decisions
they want you to say you love them ,,ehm lets say well every “”" half of seconds “”
and I hate it.
Now I am in relationship with a Scorpio man and I love him to death he is everything that I was looking for .
I think Pisces guys need a strong women
Pisces females are just 100%feminine and weak and emotional in nature .
so I don’t recommend this kind of match to any one … ohno no no no!!!
thanks everyone for reading about my personal opinion !
April 27th, 2009 at 11:26 am
obsessivepisces,
You were so right on about the connection between pisces and aquarius. I’ve yet to understand the connection myself. I’m a male pisces, and you are apparently female so we too are different in many ways, but this thing with aquarian seems to be the same for both of us.
The aquarian that I almost got involved in a relationship with, I later found out that she was feeling the same way towards me. I felt like my heart was going to jump right out of my chest. I seriously had this really heavy feeling in my chest - I’ve only felt this way towards an aquarian. I don’t know if I’d call it love, or lust, or just some sort of unexplainable thing. I did later find out that she had felt the exact same thing going on inside of her, and really couldn’t understand why. So… it’s not just a pisces fantasy - or at least not in my case. However, I had a deep gut feeling then, and still believe that a relationship with that aquarian would have gone nowhere. I do have very good friends who are aquarian and everything works very well at the friendship level.
April 28th, 2009 at 8:09 am
I’m an Aquarius girl with a Pisces guy. He can be moody at times but that just makes me want him more and he can become quite dependent and stress me out. All my romantic relationships have been shared with the fish and so far they’ve been an emotional high for me.
May 2nd, 2009 at 6:05 am
I am an aquarius woman and I love my pisces man! I think this talk about aquarius & pisces not compatible is silly. We are so in love. We have been together for like 8 months now. We go to movies all the time and play music together. Its kind of like a constant dream. Yeah, there have been a few times where we had some power struggles but we get over it cause we love eachother. Don’t always believe what this says cause pisces & aquarius are meant for eachother.
May 12th, 2009 at 6:36 pm
I have a happy story!I am a Pisces woman married to an Aquarius man and we are very happy.of course alot of the needy pisces traits & non emotional aquarius stuff all there,we manage to work things,My husband works 12 hours a day so the space thing is very much covered for both.I am very feminine spontanious,& unsual in many ways and I think all that helps the relationship.I didnt have to change the way I am cause I have always been like that.I also try my hardest to understand the aquarius being.I have never been happier in my life than with my aquarius,we are like best friends I sometimes feel like we have to much fun.I guess that could be because the person that I was with before him for 6 years was a Capricorn and he had lots of rules and expectations.I still care & even love him only because he is my daughters dad though.
May 18th, 2009 at 12:11 am
Wow…this page has some very interesting facts and useful information…I’m an Aquarius Queen and the man of my dreams and the one I’m in total love with my King is a Pisces…BUT our relationship is hot and cold…he wants me one day and doesn’t want me the next…it’s confusing and hurtful and I don’t know what to even think anymore. I just want him to love me unconditionally like I love him. We have such an intense connection when we’re together…but I’m getting so worn out with him being so selfish…I just want to know how to fix our problems?!?
May 18th, 2009 at 7:39 am
Hi im a male pisces sun with venus in aquarius I got to know this female Aquarius sun with venus in Capricorn friend and we been really getting closer at first we just started to click and things went well, not SO close but closer than a casual aquantance She has a boyfriend but lately we have been hanging out a lot because we have classes together and got really closer when we are alone together we tend to flirt a lot and she touches me a LOT (grab my arms, rest her feet on my knees, putting her head on my lap, kissing me on the cheek wehn shes really happy, she even tells me things like how even though theres a goal keeper that doesnt mean I cant make a goal-meaning i can win her love from her boyfriend) Does she really like me or is she just toying around with me? the thing is that she tends to flirt with me when we are doing school work (and most of the time I am the one helping her) and whenever she gives me this loving vibe that i cant get enough of, ive been slowly doing more and more favors for her (buy her medicine when shes sick, help her on her hw, i even wrote a whole essay for her) then wen she doesnt need me for anything she doesnt text or call. I do call her and text her but she is always busy with something else I feel so loved and feel as though she really likes me when we are together,The only time we do meet is when we are doing school work But i feel so detached and feel like strangers when she says shes busy whenever i ask to meet for coffee or something as a aquarian female does she really like me? or is she just playing games with me so that she can use me for school work etc? i feel so lost
May 19th, 2009 at 1:03 pm
Wow what a site!! I find it so amazing the similiar feelings mentioned to mine and my aquarian man. I’m a pisces gal who’s been seeing an aquarian fella on and off for about 1 and half years. (I must say it’s been off more than on due to my frustation to his aloof antics). It’s funny because my pet name for him is - Mr Aloof! When we first met I had just come out of a long term relationship and wasn’t so keen but after afew dates I found myself head over heels. The more my heart was involved the more distant he became (or possibly the more needy I became) anyway rather than hang around for his non communication I ended it by telling him I couldn’t do it anymore and deleted his number from my phone. A few months past and he contacted me again just to go down the same path and me end it before getting hurt. He has just recently got in contact with me again. I have caught up with him once since and the meeting was amazing. He showed me with hugs, kisses and affection that he cared for me. This time I am trying to distant myself and let him do the contacting but I’m finding it really really hard as I feel like I’m not being myself. I feel like it will be worth the wait as I have such an amazing connection with this guy when I am with him. Like nothing I’ve ever felt before. Wish me Luck!
May 21st, 2009 at 3:13 am
Dear Pisces,
I Love you!
Signed
Aquarius
May 21st, 2009 at 8:51 pm
Help!
I’m an Aquarius girl with a Pisces guy. We’ve been together for 5 years. About year two, he broke up with me, saying he wasn’t “feeling it” anymore. That lasted for about a day. He came back, apologized and said he was just feeling insecure. He did that again about a month later, again admitting he was feeling insecure.
We constantly talk about our relationship and try to work on it, but sometimes, work, the bills, life gets in the way.
Year three, we ended up buying a house together and I thought things were going great. Until my ex-husband who is still very much a part of my son’s life started calling. I thought my fiance was cool about it, but then he gave me the “I’m not feeling it anymore” talk and asked that I move out. It took me about 2 months to be able to move out and during those two months, he still bought me flowers for my bday and Valentine’s day, we still were intimate and it seemed like we were a happy couple. But he said nothing had changed. So I moved out. Two or three days later. He called to say he made a mistake. I didn’t move back in, but I would come and stay on the weekends. Eventually he proposed and gave me a ring. We ended up starting a business together. He already has one business but isn’t doing so well due to the economy so I’ve been taking care of all the bills, which I don’t mind ‘cuz we are a team. Well, somewhere along the way, I work 6 days a week, we lost the “connection”. He says he is not “feeling it and we have great sex, are best friends, but we don’t kiss enough so he thinks we should break up”. He says he is depressed and this relationship is part of the reason. We still have fabulous sex. We had a fabulous weekend together with friends. We still cuddle. He still brings me my coffee in the am and cooks me dinner. We still kiss goodbye and goodnight. Our families love each other. We have the cutest little dog and he and my son have a great relationship. Oh, and we have a vacation planned in August that he still wants to take together. But he is insistin on moving out and that we break up. He says it’s “him, not me”.
I am a true Aquarius, but I’ve been reading up alot on the Pisces and I’ve been trying to be more affectionate and attentive. I think he likes that but is it too little too late?
May 21st, 2009 at 9:03 pm
I forgot to add, he is usually so sweet to me when he’s not feeling insecure. He sends me sweet texts all the time, calls me at work several times a day (I admit I do act annoyed at times, only because I am busy), he’s always wanting me close to him.
When he’s “not feeling it” though, no texts at all. Still says “have a great day” and “be careful”.
I am so confused!
May 22nd, 2009 at 11:09 am
AquaGirl,
I too am a Pisces.
That sounds like just about a perfect relationship. Except… for that one itsy, bitsy, “thing”, that could just blow the whole thing right out of the water.
It does however seem like it could be fixed, but would require something that may be just about impossible for an Aquarian to do. A Pisces has times when he needs space, and I do mean “needs” space. Just like we all need to breath and eat, a Pisces needs times of being left alone to recollect himself. You may think of it as moments of insecurity, and some may see it as something else. I as a Pisces see it as somewhat of a curse, but it’s something that is part of us nonetheless.
If you see him leaning in that direction and can just let him have that space without your intervening, this relationship may actually work.Now, what I mean by not intervening, is that you just leave him alone and not make an issue of it. In other words don’t say, “okay, I can see you need your space and I’m going to let you have it”. But rather if he begins to seem somewhat distant, just try and let him be distant for a while. Don’t discuss or try to analyze his being in that state of mind, but rather just continue to be your normal loving and caring self.
It’s kinda difficult for me, as a male Pisces to actually explain what you should do. I’m married to a Gemini, and she deals with it all absolutely perfectly! I am so in love with my wife, and she with me and I do all the things for her, as you say your Pisces does for you. I think many of us Pisces males are that way. Perhaps a Gemini female can give you some ideas. Becky, is a Gemini, but I think she didn’t do so well with a Pisces she was involved with so I suppose it can be difficult for any of the signs to really learn how to deal with us. However, I’ve read somewhere that Becky is writing an e-book about us, so maybe she can provide some insight for you.
Good luck - I truly hope it all works out for you and your Pisces.
May 25th, 2009 at 1:15 pm
AquaGirl,
I am a pisces female. I was with a piscean male for 5 years. That was a union that was very interesting to say the least but that is neither here nor there.
My point is being a piscean myself and having been with a picean male for a vast amount of time, i feel experienced enough in this topic.
i was going to write a long winded descrption of what happens. But i will give you this advice in short.
Let him pull himself out of it.
He will talk to you about it if and when he needs/ wants to. Until then, the more you push it the more he backs out. Just remember that when he is like that to let him know your there for him. Usually it’s the little things that help. An out of the blue back rub, an extra long cuddle or just any cuddle any time. Good luck!
May 25th, 2009 at 1:25 pm
Just quickly, to add to the pisces/ aquarius compatability. i get what both parties are saying here. My mother is an aqua and I’m friends with an aqua male and had these problems. Being piscean, i’m very malliable to situations and letting these issues slide a lot of the time. Aqua’s unfortunatly don’t have the same trait. A trait that i have found good and bad in a pisces/ aqua relationship. pisces are usually happy to let something an aqua said or did slide but aqua’s will hold it against you til THEY are ready to let go of it.
May 29th, 2009 at 7:56 pm
I am a female pisces sun, aquarius rising, with capricorn in moon and venus and I have recently become very infatuated and acquainted with an Aquarian male. We live about 3 hours apart, but this romance has hit me like a whilrwind, same for him as well. We have a lot in common…intuitively! It is sort of freaky. I have already met his family, he calls and texts when he says he will. I feel my Aquarius rising tempers my natural inclination toward my Pisces neediness. While he does seem rather flighty and forgetful, I already feel I can read him fairly well (again, my natural Pisces intuitiveness kicking in). This feels like bliss! This is my first Aquarian to have a relation with, man have I been missing out.
May 31st, 2009 at 6:28 am
i am a pisces girl and it’s been practically 2 years since me and my ex boyfriend who was an aquarius broke up and i still can’t fully let go of him. i seriously don’t feel compatible with any other guy i meet. it is so ridiculous i hate it.
June 6th, 2009 at 5:21 pm
I am pretty happy I found this site. I just started dating a guy that is a pisces after being married to an Aquarian for 20 years! I too am an aquarian and so, this guy is a total
mystery to me! First thing, he is sort of
needy (I am not USED to that) and needs a lot
of reassurance (he says things like “do you like me”) etc. I like a very dominant man
and so, his ways were confusing me. He is very tender and soft. I wonder if I can get used to this? The thing is, I have never felt this intimate with a man in my life. I feel like I have to re wire my brain from being with my ex Aqua Guy who is Alof and dominating.
As an aqua girl, I never knew I was aloof, but, I have been told this..now I see that it is true. I do see my new boy friend as being a bit needy and what I need is someone to lean on and be a strong man for me..if he can not be this way, I won’t last with him. I need a strong man…I wonder how this will turn out?
I think it will help me to know some of these things ahead of time about the pisces men. I won’t take it personal and try and be less overwhelming for him (when I orgasm he looks terrified) LOL! I guess I am a bit intense for him sometimes when I punch the wall or scream out in ecstasy..I look into his deep blue eyes and go crazy for him, this is something I could not understand either..but, after reading all this, I can see that it is his soft nature and dream like world and intuitiveness that is driving me crazy with passion!
Ok, now,,what I want to say to anyone out there looking for dating advice or love advice (if you are a pisces dating an AQUA girl) then the best thing to do is not take it personal when we act “aloof” because we do care, it’s just that we are not clingy people..we find life amazing and beautiful and just explore it and get lost a little..the other thing is that if you act needy with us..wE ARE outta here because it will feel like a weight around our neck dragging us to the bottom of the sea! IF it kills you, DO NOT text us a thousand times a day or constantly ask for reasurrance..you will lose us! We do love you, yes, we are thinking about you, yes, you make us crazy with desire and passion..but we are independent people and are out exploring..if you are strong and stable..your soft nature will make us come home to you every time!
June 7th, 2009 at 5:53 am
I am a pisces girl married to an aquarius,I also have noticed that there is this huge intuitive/telepathic connection.we actually have this paticular “synchronous thing” going on with the radio & or tv.’my husband or I will say a word and right after I say that word the radio will say it’ I .
June 7th, 2009 at 5:58 am
I was wondering if any other “pisces+aquarius” relationship was having any “intuitive/telepathic connection” or that “synchronous thing”,I was talking about earlier?
June 11th, 2009 at 10:33 pm
I am an Aquarius woman who has just met a Pisces man, I am a true to form Aquarius. I am aloof and do not show emotion, unless I’m angry or my feelings get hurt, When that happens I shut down,wont talk,walk away. If I leave I’m gone forever! I have been reading all the information everyone has been sharing with regards to the interpersonal relationship dynamics between the Aquarius and the Pisces. I must say I am going to run for the hills! I just got out of a 20 year marriage with a Libra who by the way I’m supposed to be perfectly matched with, I hated every minute of the last 15 years in that marriage! He was needy and clingy and lazy and never paid any attention to me even though I showered him with attention and gifts and really tried to be there hoping I would learn to love him I never did/couldn’t. This Pisces guy after only meeting him 1 time is already saying things that freak me OUT!! like your the one,or I knew when I first saw you! Don’t get me wrong I like the complements and I probably sound like I don’t know what I want but from an Aquarians perspective its the hunt not the kill that keeps us interested.
So I guess I will keep looking and will walk a wide path around any Pisces as I already have two kids not looking for a 3rd!
June 14th, 2009 at 4:40 am
I am an Aqua girl who got into a deep and intensely hot relationship with a slippery fish and i did not find him to be a bit clingy, actually quite the opposite of that. Things were perfect for the first few months then he suddenly went running, hurt I lashed out with my alligator mouth and he hasn’t spoken to me for over 2 years i still have intense feelings for this pisces but have about given up hope of ever winning him back. It is almost as if the intensity of our chemistry freaks him out.
June 19th, 2009 at 9:46 pm
I’m a fan of Pisces in general, my fav star sign apart from Aquarius, that I am lol
I am aqua girl! Duh-nuh-nuh-nuh-nuh-nuh-nuh-nuh vote for me! (dun ask lol)
I especially have so much respect and admiration for one in particular, he’s helped me out in a way.
He doesn’t know me, but I will always be thankful to him. u
June 30th, 2009 at 4:25 pm
I’m a pisces myself. I just got into a long distant realtionship with a aquarius. It was love at first sight and i brought it up the convo about that. She was in agreement with me. She loves as strongly as i love her. Yes i agree i can have that to needy side come out but i am able to control that. Aquarius are supposed to be less emotional then a pisces then i guess my girlfriend isn’t really an aquarius cause she is just as open with her emotions. I make sure to ask if im being to lovey dovey. She tells she loves that. In the end signs aren’t always right. Just evalute the realtionship not your signs!!!
June 30th, 2009 at 7:19 pm
brklynphenom, i am happy for you. Can you really trust yourself in a long distance relationhip. How long has it been that you met her and how old are you both, may I ask?
July 6th, 2009 at 1:58 am
Becky your writings have been very insightful for me. And I’ve gained new perspective from the comments left by everyone, not just about others that show up in my life, but really about myself. I have so much to learn yet.
piscesqueen, thank you for the quote by Anais Nin, I love that one, yes, a new world opens up anytime someone comes into your life.
pisces_girl, you really touched me in your writing. John, you too. All the posts, left by both the fish and the aquas, have left me with something to think about. My gratitude.
I will try writing again later, but these days I’ve been going around with this hurt feeling.
But I’ll keep opening my hands and surrendering that I don’t know everything yet, but that I am willing to learn and accept.
July 6th, 2009 at 5:01 pm
Pisces_soul,
What is the matter? You are right we all don’t know everything and that is the reason we come here, to figure things out a little bit. Please tell us so that we can help. It will really benefit you the pisces and us the aquas and hopefully somehow with each of our input we can make this union work.
July 7th, 2009 at 1:52 am
Thank you so much, whatever. I’ll be able to verbalize it soon, getting there. Meanwhile the hurt feeling has dissapated. Had a much better day today.
I was just thinking about what piscesqeen said about holding out for someone that I can be myself with, and not fight every fiber of the being, to resist urges. I tend to feel, then act on the feeling, and then the feelings are out there, on my sleeve. But I want to train myself to have balance, to control too. To feel and express, but control as well. So I have still much to learn! I’ll be back. Thank you!
July 9th, 2009 at 1:10 am
It could be this Age of Aquarius thing that has been making me more in tune of the Aquas that are in my life
Some of the best husbands and fathers I know, as friends, are Aquas, and I have always been impressed by the loyalty they show,once they are in something they are dedicated to.
I also have an aqua friend that is a woman who I deeply admire for her idealism and working for the downtrodden. We work together on a non-profit cause. Though sometimes it can be a bit loud and unconventional when she’s around, she is my hero, she inspires me to keep seeing things the way they could and should be.
The hurt I’ve had to get over though is one aqua guy who I met. There definitely was this chemical pull, draw, that others have spoken of. But when sitting there talking with him I intuitively knew I had to run for the hills (as someone wrote! though they were different hills, no doubt!) I knew that this was best as a friendship. He did and said something inconsiderate later, which I decided to forgive him after some time. Then after that, another inconsiderate thing, but again my nature is that I do want to look beyond. So I’m at the point of embracing the life long friendship.
I love hearing the posts of the relationships that are going well in this combination.
There is something special about this union on a soul level
July 11th, 2009 at 1:17 am
Aquarius female here.
Have any Aquas out there reeled a fish? if so how did you do it? This one just happens to be the biggest and the most beautiful.Im not out of gas just at a fork in the road. Maybe one day this fish will swim my way. They say the Pisces are the ones who end up hurt and confused but I have a feeling it goes for the both. Pisces is he most beauiful sign out there.
July 16th, 2009 at 2:55 am
I really appreciate these writings; they are very telling. Without question, the Aqua-Pisces union is one of mystical enchantment.
I am an Aqua female in a 9-month relationship with a Pisces male. It is the most intoxicating feeling in the world..with wonderful mixtures of the familiar and the divine. The first time that we laid eyes on each other, he was stuttering, staring (to the point that I was becoming a tad uncomfortable..but just a tad), and asking me to move my RV next to his (we travel in our line of work). I though he was the most beautiful man that I had ever seen in my life and if it wasn’t for my aloof, Aquarius pride, I would have been stuttering and staring too. lol. We instantly loved each other…and I am not one to fall in love. I am very suspect of men (long story)..I tend to run when things get serious, but not this time. When I say love, I mean immediately we cared for the well-being and happiness of that other person. There was instant trust..he gave me full access to his computer and company files that no one else was privy too, for instance. It is the most unique, unconditional love that I have ever known. Quite frankly, I didn’t know this existed. I am in awe of this Zodiac match. It is our duty, fellow Pisceans and Aquarians, to make sure that a love this enchanted lasts so that we may share it with the rest of the world. This is what love is supossed to feel like. I am starting by being less aloof and more affectionate..yet yielding to his sporatic need for privacy. If you are a Pisces male, tell me how to keep you forever.
July 16th, 2009 at 2:48 pm
EnchantedLove,
You are in love and so am I!! I am an aqua female feeling the same if not more than words could ever explain. I too, did not know this even existed and completely agree that this is what love is supposed to feel like! The love is unconditional to the point that i fell that’s my best friend/ a reflection of me. We are friends after one year of dating because he needs to get his self together. Curiously i do not hold any grudge for some of his lying even though i hate liars, but i love him and he is trying to be honest with me about everything. Whether in a relationship or friendship pisces and aqua match very well!
July 21st, 2009 at 3:06 am
Thanks for the reply, whatever.
My Pisces lies quite frequently, as well. I think that it is in an effort to protect his dream-world, and at other times, to impress me. He is known to everyone else to be a very secretive, private person, except with me. But, I don’t push him to tell me things..he just does.
He is my best friend, too. We both love to read non-fiction/self-help books. We’re both into politics…we can talk for days, solving the world’s problems. lol.
..and the sex…Oh Lord, the sex! My moon is Scorpio and his moon is Aries…we are going at it for hours. The attraction is so magnetic…I could get graphic, but I won’t.
Just trust me when I say that I have never and I will never find this love again. Funny thing is that I know it…and so does he…we are soulmates. CORNY, huh? I never thought I would buy into all of this sappiness. lol. If he and/or I screw this up..it will not come back around. ..which might have something to do with his dissappearing acts and lies. ???
July 26th, 2009 at 12:21 pm
I see that pisces men are getting a bad wrap here. My wife of 12 years is Aquarius, however we do understand each others flaws.
Midnight you are so full of yourself !I feel sorry for your man as you are not understanding him at all and only take the negative. We are not perfect and niether are you.
The pisces man will be your best friend and listen to your gripes, whining,and understand your odd ways. If you can’t show emotion. Then at least be positive so that he doesn’t feel your negativity and critisism, because he will suffer and get withdrawn.It’s not being a wuss !It’s just that he has deep feelings. I was also in the special forces. I don’t think I am a wuss and when things got hard. People always come for sympathy and understanding from me and we listen and we feel it.I have many close friends instead hundreds of companions.
I love the Aquarians querks,eyes,sexuality, spontaneous adventurism, non conformity and above all else loyalty to thier partners and friends. Look at our positive side water bearers as we may be in the water you are carrying, so stop spilling it ;-). kisses to you Midnight xxxx
July 26th, 2009 at 12:46 pm
Whatever and Enchanted love. It’s good to hear you are in love. This is good to read. You can be sure that your piscesman is proud to be with someone different who speaks and lives the way they want to. I still love that about my wife of 12 years.
It has not all been plain sailing, but it has been fun and for someone who works away alot. My Aquarian is tough and independent.I love that.
My wife once said “Stop trying to fix my problems. Just listen and sympathise”
That helped me out and our relationship more than she knows……
xx
July 26th, 2009 at 10:03 pm
wow.. I am a pisces female head over heels over a aquarian male 8 years my junior.. yep horrible.. at first he was the agressor always wanting to talk to me.. texting or emailing throughout the day etc.. then one day i had to cancel a date .. and it’s all been down hill.. he says he doesn’t see the need to talk to me everyday or every five minutes.. one day will respond to a message i send and then will wait 3 weeks later to say hello again.. idk.. there is something about him unlike any other man i’ve meet even though he’s younger i feel like we connect.. he said he used to be interested but i turned him off w/ the constant neediness. but he was like that in the beginning and i put up with it! :(.. the only sign i’ve had this much trouble w/ was scorpio and i finally broke free it’s been almost 9months of this ridiculous charade n normally id be over him by now.. what do i do if i can’t see myself w/ anyone but him?
July 28th, 2009 at 2:29 am
Thanks Pisces Shark, for the comment. I am grateful to hear from a Pisces male on this subject.
In our 9 months of dating, we have never gotten mad at one another…that is until today. lol. I need your advice, Pisces Shark. I got jealous over an email that he forwarded to me that was sent to him by a woman that our co-workers believe he slept with. I have always dismissed the rumors because I know his love for me. But I did not know that she is emailing him until today.
My Pisces and I are trying to take our relationship to the next level and I want to get the issue out of the way. I am ebarrassed to say, and I think that I am answering my own question now, but in my little jealous fit, I texted him saying that I felt foolish and then cut off all communication with him for the rest of the day. He has tried to call numerous times today, but I just can’t answer. I am heartbroken.
Being Aquarius, it is not easy to admit vulnerability. It is also not easy to give my heart away, because it empowers other people over my life. So, I just cut him off. O gosh, I let my pride screw me up. I’m going to call him tomorrow.
July 31st, 2009 at 3:30 am
Im an aqua man my best friend is Pieces woman and you know what the love we have for each other is unconditional as well as the respect.I love her more than any woman ive been with and thats alot.She beautiful inside and out and shes not cocky about it ether. which is a big turn on. OMG I think im in love with her.Ill do anything for her. We are both very loyal to each other and mind you we just friends.I think no let me rephrase that I know we complement each other shes tired of kids being abused I join the Nixmary brown solders. I need a woman’s opinion she gives it to me is the best.and all our friends think we should get married. Well she says one day shes going to put a ring on my finger wonder how for real she is.Ill keep you posted lol
July 31st, 2009 at 5:05 pm
I’m an aquarius female who walked away from an pisces female the first time she hurt me. I’m still unsure of what was really going on with her while we were “seeing” each other, and I’m just as unsure when we stopped. I couldn’t continue on being friends with her becuase just the thought of her dating and being with someone else the way she was with me would be too difficult to accept.
This I say from the insecure aquarian perspective. I’ve never felt the way I had with her as I had with anyone. I went from admiring her from afar, to adoring her quirks, to just wanting to be friends. But her attraction towards me kept me out of her friend zone until the only way I could get close was to succumb to my own honest attraction towards her. We went quickly from admiration to burning lust until we exploded in completely separate ways. For her, a sexual release. And myself, a rude awakening that I can really fall in love. And so, came all the wonderful, and tragically torturous “why me?”, “is this really happening”, “this-has-to-last-forever-i-can’t-live-a-happy-life-without-her” clammer going on in my head.
I didn’t need to be around her all the time, in fact, I like that we didn’t see much of each other throughout the week. However, when we were alone, I loved how every small restrained caress induced a thousand volts of electricity from inside out, so even the air between us felt like silk. How the thought of her was the most mind blowing sex. And how dreaming about her was ecstacy. I loved catching her eyes with mine thinking what we had was the greatest thing in the world when know one around us knew what was going on. I miss the random texts on random days letting me know she was thinking of me, and it would make my week and felt on top of the world and I can do anything! And I didn’t want to be with anyone else. And I didn’t need anyone else. And there wasn’t a girl out there who could come between us, they could try, but my hearts already taken, sorry.
then she came close to confirming my fears and insecurities, it hurt. then she hurt me, mocked me, and i walked away.
I’ll never know what I meant to her. If I meant anything more than just some fun infatuation. she never meant to hurt me when she did, i found out too late that my fears and insecurties were a product of my imagination. she did however go out of her way to hurt me when i agreed it was over. and so walking away wasn’t so painfull.
I just can’t stop wondering what was really going on in her heart? if we had something special? if it was real? if I was even in her heart? And I still find myself wanting to know if there was any truth to everything, the beginning the middle and the end? It’s too late and it wouldn’t change anything. But I just want the honest answers. Nothing, cruel, nothing sugar coated, nothing sentimental, nothing nostalgic. I just need to know, when it was all happening, what happened?
August 1st, 2009 at 1:39 pm
well gentrylane.. i’m a pisces women and i can say.. when i’ve been with someone.. at the moment, during the relationship.. the were everything to me.. the air.. the sky.. water.. not a thought crossed my mind that wasn’t connected to the object of my affection.. it would be like an all consuming fire.. but…. when it’s over for whatever reason and i move on, it’s like my mind knows i cared for them.. but the feelings… i cant feel them anymore.. it’s like i’m numb to the way i felt.. it’s only a memory.. it bother’s me sometimes because after i move on people want to come back and even though i know they were my everything at one point.. once the feeling is numb.. i can be friends but i can’t revive the love feelings,so yea.. she felt it.. trust me
August 4th, 2009 at 3:17 am
Im an aquarian guy and I can’t seem to get this pisces chick to even talk to me. Was showering her with love the wrong thing do. I am I trying SO HARD to give her time. Is it good to give pisces LOTS of lovw? How long does it take them to recover from a love overload? Is such a thing possible? I bought her special gifts and treated her like a princess and I thought she liked it but now she won’t even pick up the phone. I am perplexed because I thought pisceans needed lots of love. Oh well time is healing me. Everytime I think Im getting close to this girl she disapears? What should I do?
August 4th, 2009 at 12:09 pm
hal.. pisces girl fish here.. tell ya what.. i love lots of love but.. not too much in the beginning.. give her a lil space but every once in a while pop up and just say hello.. you know like you aquas do anyway lol.. random lmao.. sometimes i want to see if a guys really into me.. if he comes to strong in the beginning i cant take him serious.. but if you give up then she’ll think you weren’t worth it and that by cutting you off she did the right thing in the first place… one day at a time.. good luck
August 8th, 2009 at 4:07 am
Thank you Pisces Shark, Joshmo, Enchanted Love and Whatever for your comments…it gives much insight. I wish you all the best, plus everyone else here leaving comments…how wonderful Pisces Shark that you have been happily married to an Aqua.
I am still trying to figure out when the fish is a woman and an aqua is the male. It feels like there is this undeniable attraction, but I am almost scared, frightened of it too…like I don´t think I want to even get near it to allow it to happen…why? Because I feel like I could get very hurt. Then again, it could turn out to be something really special. I don´t know. I guess I better run for the hills? (smile)
Becky, thank you for this website.
August 8th, 2009 at 7:34 am
So I am a lil confused about all this astrological stuff. I have read about aquarians (which is what I am), but a lot of what is described doesn’t even sound like me ! My boyfriend is a pisces and I haven’t read much about that sign, but it just seems like all this stuff doesn’t fit with us. I’m the one more likely to be needy with him. I’m very independent, but sometimes I’m also pretty dependent. Especially once I met my boyfriend. We started living together almost a year ago and then fell in love and finally became bf/gf about 7 months ago. He’s my world. We used to spend 24/7 together and then this year we have been apart quite a bit (which is pretty personal). But I have gotten so used to being with him so much that I can hardly go a day without talking to or seeing him. I know he feels the same, but def not as strongly as me. He has been the one to first say it isn’t healthy for us to spend so much time together. I was just surfing the web and thought I’d check out our compatibility, but after reading this, it just makes me confused. I don’t know that I can believe what is explained here because it just doesn’t make sense. How can this description fit for every aquarius-pisces combo ? How can it work for every person ? We are all so different, I think that you can’t look to the sky for advice or reassurance. Deep inside you know what works, what is right, what is meant to be. And sometimes we might get hurt, but it only teaches us for the next time.
Does anyone see where I’m coming from ?
August 12th, 2009 at 5:26 am
Yes Val, I do see. There are so many variables, nothing is set in stone…nothing is always determined. And yes, I think we just need to be open…open to see what can happen.
August 14th, 2009 at 12:27 am
Dreamy Fish Girl:
I definitely say..go for it! I am an aloof Aquarius who has ALWAYS been defiantly independent, to the point that at 37 years old, I have never truly given my heart to any man. I have always been too scared of rejection and heartache and I have never wanted to be dependent on a man for my happiness or for money or anything.
But, one of the many lessons that I have learned from my Pisces is how to be brave and courageous with love in all my relations. You don’t know how much I truly value this lesson. It has freed me in so many ways. I trust more and I love with a greater passion for everyone in my life, from my mother to my children to coworkers, etc…not just my Pisces. And, in turn, I enjoy interdependency with other people without feeling that I will lose my dependence. After all, our whole existence is about living together, cooperatively, amongst other human beings.
So, just be the wonderful Pisces that you are..and close your eyes and take a leap of faith. You have something to teach this world, you sweet, wonderful Pisces girl.
August 19th, 2009 at 10:02 am
first of all, not all pisces are as “needy” as others. second of all, aquarians can be straight-up cruel, and then blame it on their “brutal honesty” or their “detachment.” If anyone needs to grow up I’d say it would be the aquarians; relationships are SUPPOSED to be emotional- if you don’t need the other person, wtf is the point of being in a relationship? There is a huge difference between being dependant (which is unhealthy) and needing each other. Get it straight.
As for the pisces who beg and cry and need constant reassurance- that will make anyone sick. And being the first to leave a relationship does not make you in control, in fact it probably means that you sensed you were about to get dumped and beat them to the punch so you could tell yourself it was your idea and save yourself the humiliation and depression.
I have studied astrology for many years, and I have dated every sign in the Zodiac except for Gemini, and I can tell you that the reason Pisces and Aquarians are attracted to each other is because they fall in love with each other’s imaginations.
I am a pisces who is madly in love with an aquarian who is madly in love with me 5 out of 7 days- as pisces mature they learn to go with the flow and allow nature to take its course rather than force the issue. The chemistry between these two signs is all or nothing, but with my particular chart that is the only way I like it. because, like an aquarian, some days I want to pretend I am single and do whatever I want and don’t need to answer to anyone. this doesn’t mean cheat, it simply means that I have a need for freedom that no sign EXCEPT for Aquarius has been able to appreciate.
Astrology is my religion- it is the one thing bigger than myself that I believe in, and yet it cannot explain everything. It cannot explain why an Aquarius and a Pisces can fall so completely in love like they’ve never been before
Good luck to all of you, and sorry if my post began harshly, but I also have an Aries rising/Venus in Aquar/Rooster and I don’t mess around when it comes to communicating about what I believe in.
August 19th, 2009 at 10:32 pm
Dear EnchantedLove,
Thanks so much for your comment. I have gained insight from what you wrote, about how the Piscean in your life is making you view things in a new way. I think that’s wonderful. And I do have so much to learn from all of you Aquas too. Thank you again.
August 21st, 2009 at 8:59 pm
Well said Rooster! I agree. I’ve been with my aquarius male for about 9 months now. Its been a fun adventure so far but has taken a lot of control on my part and patience on his. We both have vast personality differences, yet many similar habits. When it clicks, it clicks but it’s so easy to fall off track. If you have the stamina, patience and can build up a toughness this relationship is worth the bumps.
August 22nd, 2009 at 5:40 am
I am afraid it didnt quite work for me and my ex pisces. though it started out perfectly it slowly started to change and drift unfrotuantly I think I am the cause, I got cold feet as soon as the time approaced for us to get engaged.
It might be becouse I anticipated we are very different and being tegtehr would deprive me from my freedom and from achieving my ambitions as he was a very old-fashioned guy who thinks women are good for 3 things, 1-cooking,2-cleaning,3-loving.
It saddens me to post this here after studying the pisces/aquarius relationship chances, but I have failed! breaking up with my pisces was the hardest thing I ever did, I watched him cry yet he left with grace and style…I did learn not to let anyone manipulate me ever again though, as pisces men can be a little manipulative as it is with virgo’s when they want to get something out of you. but I never understood why he was so lacking in understanding its like we spoke different langauges, the intellectuality between us was pitiful, below 10%, maybe that is another reason concidering that aquarius loves with the mind rather than the heart?
A word of advice…if you wanna get invloved with a pisces you better be prepared for the intencity and be willing to risck a piece of ur heart forever..
Midnight
September 2nd, 2009 at 5:43 pm
I’m an Aquarius surrounded by a # pieceses since birth. My older brother is a pieces, he’s known as Mr. playboy, extremely flirtatious, specially in the presence of his Scorpio girlfriend, who just sits there and observes him quietly, so much for pieces loyalty. However when he becomes emotional/angry he doesn’t cry or wine like the usual piecieans he simply retreats to his own world after punching walls creating big holes, or crashing his hummer into garbage bins/trees that sort of thing. he’s aggressive to an extend but very well self controlled. My sister too is a pieces, extremely emotional, very unstable like a volcano. Growing up with them hasn’t been 100% tranquil paradise and my earth shattering-lightning flashing quick temper doesn’t quite help @ times yet we love and treat each other with a deep form of respect that is deeply spiritual.
I’m dating a pieces male now (a successful Corporate Lawyer), we seem to get along very well, we engage in many discussions of meaning it almost feels as we’re making love by just exchanging our ideas. We connect mentally; which to an Aquarius is like a breath of fresh air. we haven’t taken that physical step yet, I have to do my re-search before I delve in too deep. On another note, I’ve been receiving 2-3 e-mails a day from him plus a daily phone call, does this translate into the signs of pre-clingy pieces syndrome? or is it simply attraction and curiosity sparking this devoted interest on his part?
right now I’m flattered given the fact that he takes that initiative & thinks about me during his busy day. As far as Fidelity is concerned, he assured me that he’s a man of good morals & I admire & respect him for that.
All in all, things are going good, hopefully it gradually builds into something lasting and meaningful without having to take an oath of blood/tattoos or anything of that desperate clinging manner.
Good Luck to all Pisces lovers out there, remember the most challenging relationships always reveals to us something profound about our selves & inner strengths.
Cheers
September 4th, 2009 at 3:48 pm
I’m a Pisces female born on March 12, who was wondering if a relationship with a guy who was born on February 18, on a cusp between Aquarius and Pisces, would work out well or not. Someone please reply or answer if this pair would work out. Thanks!
September 4th, 2009 at 8:02 pm
Thanks Shihaya for writing that:
The most challenging relationships always reveal to us something profound about ourselves and our inner strengths.
I needed to read that today.
All the best.
September 5th, 2009 at 8:57 am
Thank you all, these are excellent comments, I appreciate the honest insights.
I met an Aquarian Lady recently, my first ever, I have to say I find her amazing, everything clicked after about 30 mins.
Unfortunately we live on different continents so you can only imagine the struggle of communications.
After 5 days of knowing her I know that I cannot win this battle. If I share anything with her right now I run the risk of being needy, which I believe I am not. But being a Pisces one is naturally sharing, talkative, interested, spiritual and basically appreciates good people that they like and potentially fall for.If we hold back and “play the game” we are not being true to ourselves, what does that make us?
I believe an Aquarius Woman is worth doing everything possible to be together in some capacity, we need more Women in the World like them, they are the real deal.
An Astrologer who is a close friend told me 2 weeks ago before I actually met her that for certain mature Pisces the only true match is the Aquarius simply because they are the 2nd oldest in The Zodiac.
That’s why we basically get bored with all the other signs, we love the Cancers but we loose patience with their lack of focus on Reality abd their emotional outbursts when life doesn’t go their way. We don’t even bother with Leo’s, we also like the Scorpio’s but can’t understand why they can be vicious, the last hope might be a Capricorn but I don’t think so.
The Aquarius Woman is the match, because they believe in 2 individual lives the Pisces will never get bored, at least not the mature ones.
Hope this experience helps sombody out there, for me I’m going to continue to fight for what I believe in with a possible 10% chance of success.
September 5th, 2009 at 9:03 am
To ta159:
Unchartered territory, I believe the early Pisces clash with later ones, so you may be in luck with cusp, what ever you do I advise you to take it slow.
September 5th, 2009 at 10:38 pm
Pisces Male thanks so much for the advice and I will make sure to take it slow and surely.
September 7th, 2009 at 6:43 am
You know I’m a pisces guy and honestly just backing other pisceans its really hard being who we are you know. Yeah fine we may come off flaky and a bit moody but thats only cause we try so hard to be who we can’t be. Who we can’t be sometimes is that perfect macho stereotype guy everyone sees.
Growing up as a little pisces boy I felt that way but now I can care less I’m proud of who I am and I will run through a field of burning grass not just for a woman but for those I care for.
September 7th, 2009 at 9:30 am
Good for you Cesar.
At the end of the Day all you can be is yourself. I used to manage an office full of brokers in NY, my general message to the staff was centered around, “working hard, be yourself, be honest, if you don’t know the answer ask, don’t wing it, go to sleep with a clear conscience and want to jump out of bed the next morning and do it all over again”.
I think that same advise applies here to Pisces that have to think twice about being themselves.
I personally really would like to know if Aqariuus Women want their Pisces friends to be honest or not? They seem to be caught up in the fast paced world where they appear not to have time for direct honesty, I could be wrong as I’m only a week into this experiment. Not easy being 3000 miles apart.
The first reaction would be that if they have been hurt in the past they may want you to wear the black eye even though you were not in the fight, I could be wrong.
Still believe they’re the best, would love to get reaction from any Aqua Females out there.
September 13th, 2009 at 1:52 am
From reading this post has really helped me understand my aquarian love intrest. I was soooo confuses b4 now, but since reading this i’ve understood a lot of what was going on. I broke up with him over a year ago…and I have never felt so much sadness, depression, crying,etc in mi LIFE. He was my 1st LOVE(not lover…yet), he gave me my first kiss and things like that are soo sentimental to me its crazy! I swear i didnt WANT to let him go, but me being insecure thinking he wanted other girls who had the physic that satisfied men, led me to make that move. Its so crazy and stupid, I do kinda regret it. From the late night conversations that lasted to the wee hrs of the am to the constant making out in public (hehe a lot of ppl didnt like that) he was absolutly amazing. The relationship was so important to me that my fear of it ending made me leave
September 13th, 2009 at 9:06 pm
Yeah im a lesbian pisces about to be with a (stud) aquarius. basically she acts just like a guy lol. with us it’s so confusing, we wont talk for long periods of time then BAM we find ourselves intertwined in eachother nd once we talk we fall asleep on the phone all happy. buh she has told me im a bit clingy, and i need to be more confident. she says im too needy nd if i learn to play more hard to get we could work out much better. so i have been working on it and being comfortable around her, and she told me she is starting to like me, i was soooo happy when she told me this lol. i want it to work out so bad, cuz right now it seems really good. and all of you are right about her needing the space. basically for an aquarius-pisces relationship to work
if u have any additional advice for me, plz comment! thanks 
pisces- must work on giving space and being confident, not exposing all feelings
aquarius- needs to work on telling the pisces how they feel cuz we do need that reassurance nd try to get more in touch with their emotional side.
if the both of us can work on this, we can have a loving and successful relationship! cuz sex is great by itself, so that bond is already there! haha. i just dont ever want to push her away and somehow that happens, and i think it’s because too much feelings get in the way, so i become emotionally attached. buh looking over all of this our aquarius/pisces bond is very strong, and wants to work. bcuz we always find ourselves trying again and again. hopefully it can work this time and we can get to the relationship level, i (pisces) just needs to learn how to not be so needy, which i am learning this, nd giving her the freedom she wants, and right now the relationship is very successful!
September 19th, 2009 at 9:21 pm
I can’t believe all the posts….this is awesome!…
I just recently met an aquarian/monkey….I am quite amazed by her and liking the way she’s very weird and all…specially the stuff that she likes…debuggles me and kinda think that this might be a perfect match…
But she’s 12 yrs younger than me….dont know if that would work considering aquarians love to be free and mingle….meanwhile, this older pisces guy will just wait and see what happens, while trying to keep busy and get his mind off the thinking…
Also, getting separated from a capricorn’s cage for 7 years is another story…it seems like aquarians and capricorn traits are somewhat alike specially if they’re 7 days apart….
I can’t express more than I can except that yes..Pisceans are clingy…but you also have to consider our chinese astrology of which I am a Rooster…heads up for us Roosters!
Pisceans are the most emotional, caring and loving of all the signs…..
September 21st, 2009 at 7:27 am
So … i’m a pisces chick dating an aquarian chick and in only 3-4 months we’ve had more “growth”inspiring discussions than i’ve had with ANYONE i’ve ever dated. i usually muddle my way into taurus’s world and have learned to regret it… and have sworn that sign off for good. however, i’ve never dated an aquarian… i find her intriguing… but extremely frustrating. True to the classical pisces nature, i’m sensitive.. and at times, her logical and temperemental nature infuriates me. In contrast to some of the above, she makes statements about us having babies together and how she can see me as a life partner… we have only been together 3 months solid.. and i’ve actually tried to sabotage and break up with her at least 3 times… my failure - secondary to my lack of directness. she has no problem with conflict or expressing her emotions.. i have had to set boundaries even regarding how she speaks to me… seriously tempermental. While she honors my feelings… its exhausting. I can’t figure out how anyone in the world could decide they have met a compatible life partner in 3-4 months.. its like jumping from A-G. I really like her but can’t say i love her and she tells me she feels that way… i feel bad for replying in kind.. but i think her idea of a relationship is her totally off doing her own thing… and me doing mine. I honestly have never felt so “disconnected when things are good”… in ANY other relationship… frankly.. i’m just becoming a little disinterested. Trying very hard to stay objective and direct with her is leading me to be generally disinterested…. or at the very least, cognizant of the idea that this development could take eons… i’m not gettin any younger… and my impatience with her self involved nature and lack of insight into my emotional needs… are making me wonder if i should just jump ship now. It costs me almost nothing to comfort her, support her, or take care of her emotionally.. i’m really good at that. But she sucks at it…. and i don’t want to always have to ask her for what i want. She went out of town for 4 days, we have no phone contact and she seems super cool with that… meannwhile i’m wondering why we aren’t just friends if we aren’t even planning to talk.. am i crazy? or is this WAY weird???
September 21st, 2009 at 7:45 am
to Gentry Lane and Confused Pisces…
I think on some level its easy to see that the aquarius counterpart is scared s***less of emotional openness and letting go.. and being vulnerable. But it gets so old. For gentrylane… having people express that vulnerability with us… seems pretty common. For me… i probably sound cold… but it gets a little old… and i think thats why this aquarius is becoming less interesting… if thats all you got… and the rest of the time.. you are criticizing my sensitive nature… it DOES become redundant. I don’t feel like i’m clingy or needy.. far be it from me to tie you down.. and the sex is amazing… but even so.. if you can’t meet my emotional needs also.. i’m not your care taker.
It has to be an match that provides for both… more or less equally. I’m currently trying to meet my aquarian girl where she is at… so that i’m not perceived as needy, even tho i would like to feel as tho she is more attached… but i find when i meet her on equal footing… i feel tons less emotionally connected with her.. and thats fine.. but its prob more friendship level for me.. where as for her, i think she may think she’s found her potential soul mate. Funny… ironically, once when we did make it to a break up and i asked her how she was… she said “i’m doing great!”. You can see through her in a hurricane. The thing is.. i think her whole attitude is to fake it till you make it. I’m okay to sit with my pain, work thru it, and move on. I wonder how much you can learn if you never stop to acknowledge your feelings about life experiences… What do you think?
September 24th, 2009 at 7:20 pm
this is so true. I’ve been attracted to both gemini and pisces men, and I’m an aquarius. gemini moved across the country and pisces came along… but we’re very different, and somehow have overcome fights and all our differences (barely) over 4 years, but it’s still just… different. he’s always so emotional and testy. lots of complaining that he doesn’t even realize he is doing. it’s not something that just “clicks.” it’s more work than i ever had with my gemini (whom i still care for), but something just won’t let it go.
September 28th, 2009 at 4:29 pm
I have just met a Pisces and I can tell you it has been very interesting. We have spent the weekend together “hanging out” and he claims to be in love…yuk, lol…so soon. Im trying to find a way to slow him down.
Also, he is often offended by my sarcasm and I think my pet name is “smart a$$” lol. He is a cool guy, and is making hasty moves to lock me down. Unfortunantly, Im single and fishing till I find the right one. Not saying that he isnt-I just feel he’d be better off getting to know me a little more. He is very nice and we seem to be on the same page. Will keep u posted
October 6th, 2009 at 2:53 pm
Hi, I’m an Aquarius male. I just wanted to write and give some of you a little insight into your long term relationships. I have been married to a Pisces woman for 17 years. It is true that we are both very stubborn and I think that is actually why we have made it for so long, we both refuse to let it fail.
I like the clingy girl when I like it…not all the time. This frustrates her to no end I’m sure. Then again she is constantly frustrated by me about something anyway. She constantly presents me with situations and problems that she could easily solve or figure out herself…drives me nuts.
We have three great kids together and alot of history and although I have never been unfaithful to her I think that if I ever decided to I could walk away and just be friends. I love her, but I am not in love with her. I was only in love for about the first two years…maybe. She was unfaithful for a time around our 6 year mark, I think mainly because she couldn’t feel connected to me, emotionally she was not getting what she wanted or needed from me. As far as I can tell she is still not getting that from me and probably never will. I feel as though I spend a great deal of time addressing this but nothing I ever do seems to be enough. She’s always gotta talk everything into the ground. Just let it go, you know? Enjoy the moment, we have a good life, stop being a downer all the time.
I know I said I could probably walk away if I decided to, but on the flip side of that I just can’t imagine my life without her. (lol, I can almost hear a collective sigh from all of you who get frustrated from by us Aquarius men!)
Bottom line, it’s hard to say I would do things different if I could because I love the awesome children we made to death, but she and I both come from broken homes and the biggest thing we have in common is the strong desire not to repeat this situation for our own children. This stubborness to succeed is what I feel keeps us together more than anything else…not love for each other. Take the kids out of the picture and I think we would both be happier if we could find someone else more compatable. On the other hand, we could live out the rest of our days in mediocre happiness and be okay without having to worry about ending up alone in this world. I have accepted the fact that she and I will probably never have that “soul-mate” type connection and that makes me a little sad and I am left feeling like I have settled for less than I could have.
October 12th, 2009 at 11:38 pm
wow thanks lol. this is soo true aquarius can not satisfy pisces emotionally, aquarius always thinks pisces is too needy or dependant. maybe we are dependant, buh needy i think not! im far from it okay. but yes me and her did not work out, because she decided to go back to her so called “only gay for her” girl who just broke up with a guy, ugh! shes a sagitarius. nd i do see their strong bond, ugh. well i guess the whole aqaurius-pisces combo didn’t work out for me after all. buh i promise u we will meet up again, cuz we always stop talking for long periods of time, then somehow find eachother. weird, i just wish i didnt always have to meet her on her level, i wish she would meet me on mine sometime ya kno
October 20th, 2009 at 2:50 pm
My close friend is a Pisces and yes he is quite spoiled and everything has to be his way. He’s also so sensitive that the question of loyalty is often on his mind. Aquarius is often drawn to the strange and dark side of life. It is the depth of the Pisces personality that attracts Aquarius. It’s the only other sign that can go as deep as them. But Aquarius should know when to come up for air, while the Pisces hardly ever has to.
October 27th, 2009 at 5:16 am
I am a female Aquarius who is VERY interested in a female Pisces. She seems so perfect in every way and right now I am not seeing any chance of something bad coming from this. We have been friends for over a year and we both feel it is time to pursue something more. Any suggestions? Does gender matter when it comes to astrological signs?
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November 12th, 2009 at 4:32 pm
Im am an Aquarious women with a Pisces boyfriend. I am extremely turned off by him because he is lazy and not a go getter. UGH. How do I tell him that I want to move on without hurting him. He seems so emotionally attached.
November 14th, 2009 at 5:24 pm
Hey! Im a pisces man (feb 24) and im dating an aquarian (feb 12) and dude.. We are really awesome together!! yea we have our problems but seriously… Get da F*** over that emotional S***!!! Lol wow hearing about all these whinining complaining emotional men… What is wrong with you! Man up and treat your girl like a woman wants to be treated. I know that i am really driven and if you get wrapped up in your emotions youll be lost for a long time…trust me get out and pick up an activity you havent tried if things are going bad with your situation. get out and go for a run! Once those creative energies get flowing, your girl will forget what was wrong, take a step back and see us pisceans for what we can truly become! that needy stuff just makes us human, pisces needs it to be themselves, but if you let it make you look weak, then the problems start. You really have to be the leader in this sort of connection, or youll slowly downspirl into oblivian ha ha.. Little dramatic..
But seriously if you want it to work, if your feeling like the aquarian doesnt care, get up tell them you need a few minutes and beat the H*** out of the drums or something.. just get up off the couch and seriously do some sort of work. youll be so jacked about yourself you wont even remember that you needed someone 20 min ago. Sounds too easy?!? It works for me everytime!! over and over.. I used to be kinda whatev when it comes to emotions, like not knowing if ill have someone caring for me tom. but i let that get to me and became a horrible person to be around.. moppy and not “in the moment” im not the weightlifting sporty guy, i play music, and love kiteboarding. You pretty much need something to take your mind off of why your feeling so down, even if you dont know why. its because you forget how great of a person you really are. why do u think the aquarian fell in love with you in the first place huh?? So i guess im just standin up for pisces men. We are truly the man that every woman wants. we can connect with women on so many more levels than other signs can imagine. Just a simple comment or a hug can send a shockwave through an entire room, people feel it but have no idea it was us just being confident. So.. Do it and quit whinining!
November 18th, 2009 at 5:25 am
well its has been very interesting reading all these views , and i am learning a whole lot of stuff in my brain about the aqua and pisces relationship . I just met a aqua male on Saturday night at the club and he came on to me so strong . He walk me out to the club and holding my hands like i new him forever , and then i invited him over to my house on monday and cook some dinner for him which he enjoys. But i intend to give him his space because i was just burn badly by a taurus , so i will be playing it safe in this relationship.
But thanks becky for this site i learn a whole lot and i will keep on reading and be very careful know i know what to look out for .
November 28th, 2009 at 8:37 am
Hi, I just met an aquarius man and we went on a really great date a couple of weeks ago. We talked for hours, held hands, and kissed. He even voiced his interest in seeing me again– places he wants to take me, events he wants to share with me. He said he would call but he hasn’t. I texted him a week later to say hi and to tell him I wished we had made plans that week, and he texted back that he would call me. He hasn’t. I’m more annoyed than anything, and being as stubborn as I am, I don’t want to call him when I told him he had to call me. I made the first move and initiated this whole thing (I walked right up to him and gave him a kiss, lol), but am I always going to have to make the first move? Am I going to have to call him?
If Becky or anyone else can answer my question, I would appreciate it.
December 1st, 2009 at 5:38 am
Hey I was woundering if any of u have had eny experience with gay couples because I need some help
with my relationship. See my man is a pices and I’m an aquarius.We have both gotten very attached to
one another on such an emotional level as well as a (good)physical relationship.I am always helping him in meny ways but love to do so.We are both willing to make compremises for our relationship but have hit a bit of a bump in the road.He in the past has had nothing but bad relationships and is afraid this one will turn out the same(with heartbreak)for him and myself.So our relationship has almost come to a standstill.I would greatly appreciate any advise you have.
December 10th, 2009 at 9:52 pm
i was with an Aquarius man for TEN years and i think it was him who drove me nuts. he was the jealous one. he was the hard headed one. every time we had an argument or disagreement, i would wanna talk about it and he would be selfish and not talk to me for days, even when it was something small and minor. i had to leave him because he drove me to be depress. NOW, it’s funny cause i have a lot of friends that are Aquarius’s and we get along just fine. as far as a relationship, it doesn’t work. sorry! sure the sex was great, that was why we ended up together for ten years with three kids. lol. but, it drove me nuts that we couldn’t understand each other cause we were different… we get along better NOW as friends then when we were together… friendship, yes. relationship, NO!
December 11th, 2009 at 10:36 am
I’m back, its been a while, and like i said i wanted to have my pisces mans babies…… i did we jus had a little girl 3 months old….. but sinse march i have been tryin to fight off a Virgo who seems to want my Fish away from his family she has been the thorn in my paw and coursed so much trouble for my Fish an i, she uses money to buy his company and timeeflecting on his mistakes, and the pain he has coursed our family. our fights have led him to jail, but he phones me from there, do you think he’s r …….. our daughter is amazing and extreamily bright already sounding out the words hello and ok, she is a virgo 31 August.. midnight can you help me work out where we all stand in this triange if i give you some dates ov birth, pls help…lol
my pisces 14 march 1981
our daughter 2009
me 27 january 1983
my nemisis 4 september 1984
do you think we can make it as one…????
thank you..
pls help me work out the natal chart so i know just how strong her influence will be in our relationship, or whether she will be what he really needs , and whether i am compatible enough with my fish to overcome these trouble
December 13th, 2009 at 11:46 pm
I thought we had such a connection…but this aqua guy has just dropped off the radar, who knows where he is. It’s like nothing. It’s a big let down, but I’m moving on.
December 22nd, 2009 at 10:40 pm
Hey….I have a question about an aquarius guy. So we had like this “connection’ I guess you could call it a connection, but we seemed to have this sense that when we looked over to each other, we looked up at the same time, but maybe i’m just delusional and am reading way too into things, and I’m the pisces. For a few weeks that kept happening, we saw each other several times at school but we didn’t have any classes (what a shame) and there sometimes i never say him for a week because our schedules were so different and it kept us at different parts of the school. But now, when i do see him, he is so indifferent and aloof ( i guess you could call it aloof) but he sees me and i can kinda tell in his face that there is no more “connection” like we did weeks ago, and it kinda scares me that the guy i like doesn’t even see me or look at me like he used to. I’m just kinda confused and lost as to whats happened….maybe he really did lose interest in me or something (really saddens me to know that) and anyways, i was just wondering what might have happened. I was wondering if someone could say or respond to this, or maybe i was just fantasizing into things too fast and getting my hopes up for nothing since the beginning.
December 24th, 2009 at 1:04 am
Dear Confused Pisces Girl,
Girlfriend, I wouldn’t worry about it…who knows what could be going on in that Aqua guy’s mind. You didn’t do anything to make him lose interest. Sometimes things just are…so just keep being your beautiful Pisces self and do things that interest you and that you enjoy…. Then there might be an opportunity that opens up sometime that both you and him can form something more definite and deeper, or you might just continue to go your own ways.
As for me, I care for my Aquarian friend deeply, but I realized I had to let it go. Like that saying goes, something like…if it comes back to you, it’s yours. He still does write…I’ll write him back as a friend, because I don’t see it going anywhere else at this point. But I had to do some releasing first…releasing of my expectations, releasing of my need to get more communication from him. In my letting go, I think he and I have a chance at a genuine good friendship that will last always. Would it ever turn into something more down the line…I don’t know…I do know that I have to be me, fully and honestly.
There’s a wonderful new year ahead…there are good things in store for us all.
There are some really nice unions with these two signs…
Oprah and Steadman….Paul Neuman and Joanne Woodward…I have always admired these couples, and their longevity, and dedication. There are others too…
It’s a wonderful match when it works…
It just depends on the individuals involved.
It’s going to be a good year…This year just seemed sooo long, filled with a lot of difficulties, at least for me…but it’s going to take a turn…I’m turning a page and moving on to better times.
All the best to you Fish and Water Bearers…
December 24th, 2009 at 3:53 pm
Replies: dreamy_fish_girl
I would just like to say thanks for the reply…I don’t know where we are right now or anything, it’s all so confusing for me since I can be quite naive and shy when it comes to guys and all being my Pisces self. When you said that u need some releasing with your expectations and communication with your guy, I was thinking that maybe I should definitely try that and try to focus more on the more important things and what better way than winter break. As I mentioned earlier, we both go the same school but he is four years older than me and I was just wondering maybe its because he’s afraid or not sure where he stands and that maybe he’s just unsure himself as well. I should probably use the winter break to relax and halt thinking about him for a while and see what happens when I come back. If I find that the “connection” is completely gone, then maybe I should just move on and focus on other things and forget him.
December 25th, 2009 at 4:58 pm
Reply: dreamy_fish_girl
I would like to just thank you for your reply, i replied a day before but i don’t think my post worked so i had to do it again. So i’ll repost again and try to remember what i had said before. With the guy that i was talking about, i don’t know where we are or anything, and i’m kinda new to this so i do feel very naive and i’m really shy when it comes to guys in general since i don’t really want guy friends but rather i want them as someone i can like and learn to like. I do have venus and mercury in aquarius, but i don’t know if that has anything thing to do with the attraction, but when i read about the venus in aquarius type of people, i did find some things that related to how i react. I do want a guy who is my friend and someone i can rely on, and not just jump right into something with someone i really don’t know that well. But i also have pretty strong pisces influences having both sun and ascendant in pisces and having a cancer moon, i seem to be quite emotional and sensitive since my my sun, moon, and ascendant all seem to be in watery signs. Going back to how you said about releasing, i think that doing that myself would be a god idea and what better way than winter break.
I did mention before that we are both in the same school, but the thing is, he’s four years older than me and i’m not so sure that he is brave enough to be with someone who is definitely too young for him and with the pressure and whatnot all coming from his friends. I was also thinking that maybe he’s just scared or afraid in general about it and that maybe he’s just as confused as me and not sure what to do about it, but i highly doubt that. Well, i hope it works out between you and your Aqua guy, and even if it doesn’t fully work out as a love relationship, i hope that it still stays as a good friendship, it would be really sad to see it be destroyed. I know that I’ve had a handful of friendships destroyed because of a growing like that was becoming dangerous between me and some guy friends, and it’s not a good feeling, but it’s usually always my fault because I just get so scared and run away, and me thinking that running away is better for the friendship, i usually end up killing it and making it worse. I hope that the new year does bring better things, but if I find that he really doesn’t have that “connection” with me, then maybe i should just move on and forget about him.
December 26th, 2009 at 12:50 am
the aqua male really is hard to pin down and understand…that’s all i have to say.
December 26th, 2009 at 2:50 am
Im a pisces and my crush/best friend is an aquarius and he likes me too but i was just wondering y he seems a little distant one moment and then attached the next moment? its really confusing me and i talk to him bout how he feels and everything he says to me is so sweet and i can tell wen he doesnt txt me that hes feeling distant and wen he does txt me we txt all night long and he never lies to me but he lies to alot of other people he knows…like his mom for example but thats so he doesnt get in trouble 4 bein with me wen hes supposed to be at home and its also confusing because we really like each other but i dont know if he wants to date beacuse hes confusing soo can sumbody plz give me sum kind of answer so i can understand a little.
December 26th, 2009 at 3:21 pm
I’m a pisces woman with moon in cancer, ascendant in pisces, venus and mercury in aquarius, and I was wondering if me having venus in aquarius would be attracted to aquarius men or vice versa. Thank you.
December 26th, 2009 at 3:32 pm
Hey…this is really weird, i definitely posted comments but they seem to be not working….:(
December 28th, 2009 at 1:05 am
Reply: dreamy_fish_girl
I would like to just thank you for your reply, i replied a day before but i don’t think my post worked so i had to do it again. So i’ll repost again and try to remember what i had said before. With the guy that i was talking about, i don’t know where we are or anything, and i’m kinda new to this so i do feel very naive and i’m really shy when it comes to guys in general since i don’t really want guy friends but rather i want them as someone i can like and learn to like. I do have venus and mercury in aquarius, but i don’t know if that has anything thing to do with the attraction, but when i read about the venus in aquarius type of people, i did find some things that related to how i react. I do want a guy who is my friend and someone i can rely on, and not just jump right into something with someone i really don’t know that well. But i also have pretty strong pisces influences having both sun and ascendant in pisces and having a cancer moon, i seem to be quite emotional and sensitive since my my sun, moon, and ascendant all seem to be in watery signs. Going back to how you said about releasing, i think that doing that myself would be a god idea and what better way than winter break.
I did mention before that we are both in the same school, but the thing is, he’s four years older than me and i’m not so sure that he is brave enough to be with someone who is definitely too young for him and with the pressure and whatnot all coming from his friends. I was also thinking that maybe he’s just scared or afraid in general about it and that maybe he’s just as confused as me and not sure what to do about it, but i highly doubt that. Well, i hope it works out between you and your Aqua guy, and even if it doesn’t fully work out as a love relationship, i hope that it still stays as a good friendship, it would be really sad to see it be destroyed. I know that I’ve had a handful of friendships destroyed because of a growing like that was becoming dangerous between me and some guy friends, and it’s not a good feeling, but it’s usually always my fault because I just get so scared and run away, and me thinking that running away is better for the friendship, i usually end up killing it and making it worse. I hope that the new year does bring better things, but if I find that he really doesn’t have that “connection” with me, then maybe i should just move on and forget about him.
January 2nd, 2010 at 1:51 am
I’ve read all your posts and it’s seriously interesting but a bit worrying.
I’m aquarian girl and I’m crazy about a Pisces man I know. I’ve known him a few yearss and been crazy about him all that time ever since we first sat and had a long chat together. You know how it goes, like theres no-one else in the room, and soon as hes gone you miss him like mad and just wanna chat to him again and again.
I’ve dropped some pretty heavy hint that I like him, and it’s obvious from how we laugh together and share so many basic characteristics, and he always moves to sit right by me and spend s the whole evening with me talking no-stop.
I’ve checked out his body language, and the signs are all there that he feels the same. We would be great togeher, it’s so obvious.
But he never makes a move. Never suggests meeting alone, even tho we often do hook up with friends. He’s polite, friendly, even affectionate towards me, and the number of things we click with and have in common is crazy. He is also madly attractive. And I hardly ever find a man that I really fancy physically, emotionally and mentally in one package. Maybe twice in my life incuding him.
I’m aquarius with cancer ascendent, venus in pisces, moon in taurus.
He’s pisces-aquarius cusp; I checked the time it changed over that year and it was the day he was born in the early hours, but i dont know what time he was born (he doesn’t know), he has venus in capricorn and moon in aquarius.
Does he like me and why doesn’t he do something??
We are both single and available!! and he’s not gay.
January 4th, 2010 at 4:04 am
Haha, I just read Dolly’s post… Thats really odd because I’ve been with an Aquarius guy for awhile and your situation resembles mine a lot at the beginning, but thats odd because the signs are reversed. Also, he is the jealous one. Not saying I’m not jealous, I’m the typical Pisces just not as dramatic….
I’m not a male so I could be TOTALLY wrong, but i am always waiting on him to make the move first, even though I boldly show him how I feel. I think that might just a trait of Pisces. Probably not, but a human trait none the less.
Its funny how I read about this and all the women are complaining because their Pisces boyfriends (what have you) are too clingy. My Aquarius seems to have comfort in my attachment to him. Our relationship has certainly been rough beyond belief, but the appreciation we have for one another seems to outweigh everything else. He will seem distant at times and clingy at others, usually when I’m feeling the opposite feeling. We make it work though because we can’t find reasons to end it. Not that we want to…
We make for great conversation, new ideas, and innovative activities. He does sweet, kind things all the time and makes me feel so secure. He certainly doesn’t show his love(/liking) for me like I show him, but I know he feels it.
It is defiantly a difficult relationship to bear, but I believe it is worth it. We are both very good at forgiving and forgetting.
All together, I say we make it work and its worth the try
January 4th, 2010 at 9:58 am
Dear Anonymous- I agree with you! I can’t pin the Aqua guys down, how they act, so I won’t. Now that I’ve started to walk away from it, I feel a lot better. I’m sure we will be always be friends, but that’s all it will be. I have to get on to better things, what makes me feel good.
Dear Confused Pisces Girl- I hope you are doing well and enjoyed the holidays. Thanks for writing. I hope you used your winter break to allow yourself to do what you love, develop yourself. You are a beautiful girl, I can tell by your writing. Keep going into the new year and be who you are, be true to yourself. That’s all we can do. I have given up thinking I can make someone feel something for me and ask them to show it, and then they disappear from sight. I know the friendship with the aqua will always be there, but I’m going on my merry way, looking into a new direction. Life is rich with so many things to discover. I’m glad we could communicate here on this sight and discover a little more about the nature of how some people, some signs, work. I wish the best for you.
Si-Si- You take care girlfriend. I wish I knew how to explain these aqua guys and what they do, but alas, who knows! Just keep going, and whatever happens will, for the best. I hope the new year brings many good things for you.
?Pisces?- You have a good point, having some aquarian influences in your chart. I have yet to learn more about this. I have realized, just recently, that I must have some aquarian qualities in me since I am born near the cusp of Pisces/Aquarius, but I never considered it before.
Dolly- I wish you the best…I wish I had more insight on the Aquarian female and Pisces male connection, but I’m just trying to figure out the Aquarian male and Pisces female thing. So best of luck.
Well, we’ve all got a lot to learn still, even when we are older like me (lol) there is still so much to discover…you girls take care ok. Love and happiness in the year of the tiger!
January 4th, 2010 at 10:02 am
And I spelled sight, but meant site!!! Ok, may we all gain much in-sight from this site!
Love and peace
January 5th, 2010 at 4:47 am
Reply: Dreamy_Fish_Girl
Thanks for the reply and thanks for asking about my holidays, they were great, I spent time with the people I care about such as family and took some me-time and just relaxed and had a great time. So school started and I realized that I have a class with the guy first thing in the morning, pretty nerve racking for me and so I just decided to be me and I caught him casting quick glances towards me but I’m not exactly sure as to what they were meant to be and when he did, I thought that we still had the “connection” but then all of a sudden this other girl comes and sits right next to him asking for help and being the social person he is, he helps her and I don’t know why but I definitely felt a small ping of hurt within me and felt terrible but not to the point that I would take it offensively but no matter what, I know that the small feeling was there and it kinda vexed me to realize that it DID make me feel something to see him sitting so close with a girl. I don’t know if that sounds selfish or anything or just plain stupid but is that normal?!?!?!?! But then when I think back to it, I feel so stupid for even feeling the slightest bit of hurt that he’s with someone when I haven’t even been closer than two feet to the guy or even talked to him, ugh, I sound hopeless. Oh well, I’ll just let things be and wait and see, if things are meant to happen then well let them happen and if things aren’t, then they’re not meant to happen.Well, I just want to thank you for replying back to my posts and I hope everything works out for you. And thank you for wishing the best for me and I the same for you as well.
January 10th, 2010 at 6:28 am
Dear C. Pisces girl,
I wish you well. I know that bit of hurt feeling when you see someone you like next to someone else, but that all dissapates with time, and as long as you keep in a forward moving direction, all is fine. No matter may happen with this guy, a friendship is always possible. It may develop into something more, it may just stay as friends. Funny as I am older now, I look back on my high school and college crushes and guys I believed I was so head over heels for. And we are all friends now, years later. My symbol for this year and beyond, an arrow, going forward.
I wish you the best!
January 12th, 2010 at 8:19 am
i am a pisces male and had a relationship with an aquarius lady. She often told me that she loved me but it wasnt enough for me. I dont know why but i keep throwing away relationships for stupid reasons and i just know im gonna end up on my own. I am also very needy and always called and texted her. Is this normal for pisceans?
January 13th, 2010 at 11:45 pm
Hello. I’m a Pisces man, & I’m speaking about being “needy & whinny” on behalf of the OTHER Pisces men. I know that I’m not the needy, whinny-type! I think it’s the other way. lol I’ve dated Aquarius women, but 1 more serious than the others. I know she was more demanding than me. They all were. I’m always the 1 “keeping the peace”, staying in touch after the sex stops, or the relationship has changed.
I’m straight-forward w/ my intentions, & so are the Aquarius ladies I’ve dated. I love their individual styles. I BELIEVE in being w/ someone b/c you want 2. I can be stubborn & emotional at times. lol Even though I don’t wear my emotions on my sleeve, I make sure I show my appreciation & respect. I value how precious a woman is. I guess the personality of the Pisces is 1 way or the other. There is no between. Either a “watcher” or “doer”, a “REAL man” or “momma’s boy”. 
January 18th, 2010 at 10:38 am
Helloo:) so my bf is an Aquarius & he’s great. Our relationship is different from my past ones & i guess that’s because my last relationshps were wit earth signs, Taurus and Capricorn, which were very strong. After being hurt in both relationships, I felt I needed this “new” from my aquarius. & what’s actually funny is although I always felt like aquarius’ probably don’t show much emotion, my guy definitely did. I mean being with him is great, we’re both so free spirited and loving and open and when we’re together, we have so much fun, but from him..i don’t get that innate passion..which i crave as a pisces and a female..When I talk to him about my need for that & how i feel our relationship could be stronger, he tells me he’s just being himself and that he feels our reationship is already pretty strng..
I’m the first serious gf he’s had so i think maybe that’s a factor & he’ll just grow into it, or that maybe (& i hate to compare but i am human) my past relationships wit exes Taurus and Cap were jus very strong..I truly do love him so much & I know we can have a future together (it’s been about 6 mnths so far) but I’d hate to have that feeling that I’ll never get that fire..or passion from him. Also, I am moon-leo/monkey & he is moon-libra/monkey. Does that have a strong impact on my situation? Any insights?
February 4th, 2010 at 9:23 am
I am a Pisces, and I tend to disagree with most of those comments. Sure I’m all for a great relationship but I dont find myself needy. Haha in fact a girl I dated a while back dumped me because I wasnt needy enough. I find more pleasure in solitude then I do with someone holding my hand every step of the way. Dont get me wrong I would love a woman who’s strong and knows what she wants, and I do at times feel alone…but I would rather sit alone and listen to music then nag a woman to talk to me every 5 sec. I have met an aqua woman and she is not what I expected…she is easy to talk to and she has a great sense of humor…most of all if I go a day without talking to her she doesnt get upset….she understands that I have things to do and cant spend all my time takling to her….having said all that….I dont think all pisces men are needy….some….like me prefer to spend time alone then to be with someone 24/7 like im sure u will all agree…we all need our space.
February 19th, 2010 at 10:40 am
Hi everyone, i’m a pisces girl and begrudgingly agree that we are needy creatures!! my boyfriend is an aquarius and i’m closer to him than i ever thought i could be with anyone. i was a major commitment-phobe before i met him, loving my freedom and being emotionally self-sufficient.
when we first met he was in a relationship (not a good one at all), so there was no ‘love at first sight’ thing going on, but i instantly knew he was someone i wanted to party with as he seemed like fun!
we’ve now been together for a year and it is hard work, but rewarding. i can be emotionally unstable and needy, requiring constant reassurance and clamming up if i feel he doesn’t respect me. He sometimes feels claustrophobic and that he needs to prove he’s still independent; however this is just a macho front. i know he loves me more than he thought possible and is intensely loyal.
in short, the bad times suck and are so emotionally draining and exhausting. but the good times make me feel so comfortable, secure and loved. which is all us pisces girls want, really!
March 14th, 2010 at 3:13 am
Hi I am an aquarian woman who has not truly given anyone a chance in the last 3 years since my very bad breakup with my ex, however I have recently met this guy who happens to be a pisces. I admired him for a little over 6 months before i could build up the courage to say one word to him. I dont know what it is about him. The first time i ever laid eyes on him it was like love at first sight not to mention he is not that attractive at all but it was just something about him that had me mesmerized. We have been dating for about 2 months and it seems as if I can never please him. It seems as if I cant do anything right. I mean I do everything i can to make him happy and it just seems like it is never enough. It has completely drained me and I dont know what else to do. I am constantly walking on eggshells around him because I am afraid to say something that will hurt his feelings. He doesnt trust me. He wants to know my every move. He wants me to change my cell phone number. He wants the key to my place. He monitors every phone call and every text. He is very bossy and controlling to the point that it drives me crazy and I dont know what to do. I tell him all the time how much i adore him and it is never enough. I try to reassure him that he is the only person i want but he never believes a word that i say. I am constantly trying to prove my feelings to him and it is wearing me down. I usually do not put effort into anyone that treats me this way but it is a connection i have with this man that i can not explain from the first day i laid eyes on him. The other day he told me that i was not supportive enough for him and i just reached my boiling point and told him that what about me i never get the support that i need that i know i deserve and he just took that and ran with it..The next thing i know he told me he didnt want me anymore that he was leaving me..I told him that he really hurt me and that that he is so cruel and that he was playing a very sick game and he should be careful that he doesnt get burned by his own fire and he told me thanks for the advice and he will keep that in mind..I mean just horrible..I have this ache in my chest that just wont go away. It has been almost a week since we have spoken but the horrible thing is we work together and i have to see him and feel this pain everyday when he walks past me. I can not even look at him. I dont even know why i still feel the need to be with him because obviously he does not appreciate all of the things that i have done. He always blamed me in every argument like everything was my fault and if i would have done this or done that things would be okay..I am trying my best to get over this but it is so fresh and it doesnt help that i have to see him everyday look at me with this look. I dont know what to do..I know it sounds crazy but I loved him the first time i saw him but no one absolutely no one deserves to be treated that way. I dont think i will ever date another pisces man. This is the second one. The first one i was with for 6 years and he was very controlling and extremely abusive. I dont think all pisces men are this way but this is just my experience with them.
March 25th, 2010 at 11:55 pm
well im a pisces girl, and im with an aqua man! lol
idk but weve been together four almost 4 yrs, we started dating when he was 16 and i 17,
we get along very well.. i do think that im clingy sometimes, but i change my moods, our relationship is kinda odd.. its like one month im the one who wants to see him every sec and he wants his space , then the next month its him wanting to be with me all the time, while i want my space..lol and then theres times when we both wanna spend time with each other all the time..
i do think that i ask for more attention than he does at times, im the nicer one, while he has a bad temper at times, used to be worse but over the yrs the fear of my leaving i guess has mad his temper go from a 10 to about a 5, we enjoy each others company , we’re best friends, we think alike sometimes its super weird at times..lol its hard sometimes but im sure ever relationship is the same, its up to the two ppl to wanna be together to actually wanna make it work, because once one person gives up thats the end of it, no matter the sign , idk but i think hes my one and only and i know its gonna last
March 30th, 2010 at 1:46 pm
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April 5th, 2010 at 12:09 pm
awesome posts on here. I am a pisces male and have been “seeing” this aquarius. Both of our venus conjunct our suns. My sun conjuncts his venus by 0 degrees. I have never dated an aquarius nor do I have many aqua friends. He had been pursuing me for about a year and I was not in the frame of mind to get involved. So a bad streak of dates made me decide to give the aqua a chance. Bad idea on my part, now the tables seemed to be turned. I’m the one pursuing while the aqua “disappears”. I still get those random texts and emails but with my schedule it’s really hard to get together. The longer we stay away the easier it is for me to go about my normal business, but since his pluto trines my sun, I feel like a fish out of water when I leave his prescence and the neediness of pisces comes out and tries to text or get in touch. The texts aren’t sappy like I miss you or whatnot - my venus in aquarius does not make me romantic. But just random texts. There would be weeks before I get a response back. I tried not to respond but like rapid fire the texts keep coming until I respond. And as usual I cave in. To be honest, I would be ok if this ended and secretly hope that it would soon before one of us gets too attached. Hard to say which one of us is into more than the other but already I can tell this would lead to a rocky road. When we’re together it’s awesome but apart I think it’s hell. I gues it is the neediness that I have to deal with but to be honest the disappearing act does not do good for a pisces, I’m not even sure if humans in general can appreciate people they want to hang with to disappear and reappear at their own pleasure. That is definitely my issue that I ned to deal with or just completely doing away with this head trip. I am not enjoying this type of game. Why the dissappearing act anyways. A day or two I can deal with but weeks? Whatever.
April 24th, 2010 at 7:28 pm
Well i just recently started speaking to this Aquarius man and … strangely enough he is more needy then i am . Hes already talking about moving in together and meeting his family and thats just wayyy too much wayy to fast … I do like him ..with each day i grow to like him more.. but at times i find myself thinking … hes a charmer ..this is to good to be true ..he has admited that he has some secrets and isisnt ready to tell them all to me .. i already know one wich was a bit of a shock not bad just makes me think if i want to put myself in a position were a lot of women/ fans will be surrounding him .. sooo im completly confused and unsure and he seams to be really wanting more with me but in this situation im the one backing off not sure that i want to leap into this relationship. I had dated an aquarious man before shortly and he moved way to fast wich made me dump him …i dont like being pressured into something serious so soon .. I dont want to loose my chance but i also dont want to make a mistake .. so confused.
April 30th, 2010 at 3:49 pm
I don’t understand. How can it be a promising union in the beginning, then “go for the friendship” than a possivle mess in the end of a more serious relationship? Because we are only viewing one dimension of the persons; the Sun to Sun. We cannot look at just the Sun, we must look at our zodiac mask our Rising, our moon, where we emote from, venus’ placement really, all planet placements and house systems & placements of those planets. The house transits, especially the 7th & it’s polar opposite house the 1st. How we get into relationships, mine in Pisces getting the idea from God, connecting it to earth, my first, in the healing, organizing Virgo, how my audience/people view me, my ego. Each have polority or if you will, a ying/yang We can only get a one dimensional view when only look at the Sun.I’m a pisces Sun,Virgo acendant, moon with my venus in Aries. My fifth house in aquarius, my inner child, where I approach and what I love. The sun is my awareness, creation, where I shine, my moon is reflecting my sun back to earth, the sun says “I like this, in Pisces the concept of God/Universe…” my moon says “joy” lets get the soul in motion, in Virgos the soul is organizing & healing. I’m not a needy, smothering Pisces, nor am I whinny. With my venus in Aries, whose natural planet is the warrior planet, Mars, I’m flirty, brazen, more focused on self, basic needs and desires, bold, value independance in myself and others. So my thought is, don’t blame the sun. All the planets,their placement in what house are the dimensions of a person. I have a very compatible Aqua sun, his rising, moon, venus compliment, balance mine. It’s beyond promising on every level.
May 2nd, 2010 at 12:28 am
well im a pisces (feb.19) girl & i am madly in love with a aquarian boy…every thing that has been said is true. i am very needy, and clingy…he wants his space..not that emotional….we been on and off for 1yr. and a 1/2…he is a big liar and a cheater. he do not know hoe to tell the truth to save his soul…everytime we break up i take him back…..i just cant get enough of him….but he be the one that wants me back first
May 3rd, 2010 at 10:15 pm
hey there
i’m a pisces girl…born 19 feb….strange like many of u ..i met my aquariun boy thru the internet..he constantly tags himself as GEEK…believe me he pretty much is…very socially inactive,snoobish!!!
the time we met both of us were going through emotional turmoils…i had my pisces-leo breakup…and he was suffering from his usual detachment trauma…i found great solace in him!…his words seemed sooo genuine and true…mind you it was MUTUALLY beneficial…i still remember him saying”bahut si ladkiyaan mujhse bahut kuch kahti hain par pata nahi mai sirf tumhari baatien hi sunta hoon”(in hindi)….meaning….many girls talk 2 me but only YOUR words influence me…of course they had to,’cuz they were honest
he was very reluctant to get into a relationship…but with my pisces charm…i so steadily forced him ….that he proposed himself…
but just after a few petty hours i kinda litreally WOKE UP…and realized i shuldve never committed…the only reason i wanted to be with him was to get over my leo-ex…and he was soo bloody serious…he started planning marriage(& then people say pisceans are clingy)
still though…he was veeeerrrrrryyyyyy booooooooring…..and totaaaaaally maad…..like he would just sit in front of the computer for 22 hours….ONLY…to catch me online….so,sick
he became soooo obsessive ….i started getting all negative vibes from him…so much soo that i broke up within 3 months …..he was veeeery hurt…sobbed and weeped….god i had to literally mother him…..but i didnt shed a tear….only felt relieved and terribly guilty…
scene change…i met him nearly a year after…he changed(not much tho)…Once again i realized that i completed him and he completed me…
1)he was & is the only guy who will accept me and love me as i am….
2)he does and will go to any lengths to make me happy…
3)i can TRUST him BLINDLY…
4)however evolved he would be from his GEEKY state…he does and will always need my genuine love and concern to soothe his alling heart…
5)like i said i completed him and he completed me…
again scene change …we chatted after a loong time…mind you the gap b/w our encounters is not caused by us,just some other differences……..ah then again i terribly missed him but this one seemed more friendship from my side(cuz it was) and more romantic from his(shit cuz it really was)
its been months since then…today i compared our charts…
1)some aspects were sooo bad that it said “the only solutin is to not live together under the same roof”….
2)while some aspects would “dilute any other tensions”…and most of them screamed “there is asolutely nothing in this world that you 2 can’t achieve together”…
3)but most importantly all of them wailed “you share a deep karmic bond from your past life associations and not even DEATH can seperate you…no third person can ever cut the tie b/w you,not even you yourself”…….it said we are soulmates…
ever since then…i’m sitting preplexed…starring into the computer screen waiting 4 him to magically appear onlyn…just so that i can tell him…but he’s no where for me…
May 3rd, 2010 at 11:02 pm
i know now…(since the stars have already confirmed)…that will certainly meet him some day…
yes maybe he is my past life lover…and maybe we really are “those who god hath joined together”
but…i really dont care…we are best friends…and however hard i try…we cant be anything more..
i just can’t feel the fiery passion…that connection simply dosent exsist on a ROMANTIC LEVEL…he’s not domineering eneough ….i want him to be THE MAN in the relationship…cuz i’m really tired of being the man now…like i wrote down in my diary–”i dont want to take care of,but i want to be taken care of”…(i love the phrase)…i’m already bored of him…cant imagine myself….20 years down the line with him…god i’ll be soo bored!!!!!!
….i can only think of myself as his mother in the past life!!!!
May 3rd, 2010 at 11:17 pm
but dont know why ….every now and then i get sudden maniac attacks…and i want to be with him…JUST BE WITH HIM…i wont call it a romantic urge nor is it pure friendship….i just dont noe!!!!!!
please..please….please….just tell me the way out…..can we succeed as a couple???????
im only 16 now…..hes 19……will he change??????……………….will he grow up to be a strong-willed,domineering,passionate MAN???????……
please analyze my case and just tell me…WHAT WE ARE????(FRNDZ/LOVERS)…..AND WHAT WE CAN BE????FRNDZ/MATES)
May 15th, 2010 at 4:22 am
Well I am a pisces female dating an aquarius male. We have been together for about 4 months now and he started off unusually fast even for me and I have a tendency to fall in love quickly. Within 3 weeks he told me he loved me and even mentioned marriage. He wanted me in every city he traveled to and always wanted to come and visit me when he had time off. however more recently his attitude has changed and he has become withdrawn at times and wont respond to my texts or phone calls. I do have a tendency to send a few “I miss you” and “I love you” texts but so what!!! how long does it take to respond back?! Also i feel like he doesnt give me enough attention…we live in seperate cities about an hour and half apart and I would like us to communicate better, which is why his failure to respond to my texts drives me insane! I really love him and I want it to work but i dont want to come off like some of my fellow pisceans needy and clingy…what should i do?
May 18th, 2010 at 5:25 pm
Your replies are so thoughtful i hope you will be able to help me know how to shine again.
I am Pisces sun; Aquarius rising; Sagitarius moon
B: 0700 London, 24 February 1965
We think he is Aquarius sun; Taurus rising; Capricorn moon B 1000 Newcastle, 15 February 1966
When we were 17 the Aquarian, JW, wrote me letters, beautiful letters. Though he said he loved me then we weren’t not lovers, but oddly connected souls. Six months ago, after 27 years, JW wrote again and soon proclaimed his love and longing. We emailed and texted frequently; some were about his failed/failing marriage. To begin with i just felt this urgent need to support him and reconnect but within a six weeks something very deep in me had grown.
Then, JW left his wife (also Pisces like me) and moved from UK to Ireland. He said they had stayed for the sake of their son, they have had separate bedrooms for a couple of years and she is on medication and abused him etc., Once JW had left his wife he started withdrawing a little from me, staying in touch but without any of his earlier promises or passionate romance. He was desperately trying to continue to provide his son with stability (going home to live every fortnight, being ‘friends’ with his wife).
i felt disoriented, and needed to know myself what an earth this incredible connectedness by letter was all about. So i travelled from one continent to another to visit him! JW was delighted. We spent 5 days like an in-love couple, with an incredible natural, click. But he said he didn’t want to lead me on, didn’t know what would happen with his marriage and didn’t want to ‘hold me back’ from finding my own happiness. While i was there i felt a sense of destiny despite the difficulty of the practicalities.
However, in the two weeks since i left his wife has tried to bring him back home. With me he shifts from cold, to friendly, to sobbing and to cool again. He has told her he will not go back under the same circumstances as before. He says he doesn’t want to be a couple with anyone (including me) but at the same time does not like the idea of me being with some one else.
i am 45, attractive, successful in so many ways except love! My head tells me i must stop contact with him but my spirit feels lost without him and seems to draw strength from his friendship. So i everytime i tell myself to stop contact i find myself drawn back. I am not in an easy place to find meaningful (well actually any) dates as i work in rural Africa. His letters, contact and calls fill a void in some ways. The memory of our love-making and cuddles are sweet, that we may never do so again makes me weep.
i have never had an affair with a married man before and the situation has turned me into someone i am not (tempestuous, sometimes angry, longing ). i’d be so grateful for any kind of advice, or tools to help me do what is right. i want true love and companionship, if not with him then with someone else, but i feel trapped in a cycle.
Please help me shine again with or without this boy-man that somehow made me who i am.
May 18th, 2010 at 5:26 pm
- Aquarian man returns after 27 years and i am lost in his world of words -
Your replies are so thoughtful i hope you will be able to help me know how to shine again.
I am Pisces sun; Aquarius rising; Sagitarius moon
B: 0700 London, 24 February 1965
We think he is Aquarius sun; Taurus rising; Capricorn moon B 1000 Newcastle, 15 February 1966
When we were 17 the Aquarian, JW, wrote me letters, beautiful letters. Though he said he loved me then we weren’t not lovers, but oddly connected souls. Six months ago, after 27 years, JW wrote again and soon proclaimed his love and longing. We emailed and texted frequently; some were about his failed/failing marriage. To begin with i just felt this urgent need to support him and reconnect but within a six weeks something very deep in me had grown.
Then, JW left his wife (also Pisces like me) and moved from UK to Ireland. He said they had stayed for the sake of their son, they have had separate bedrooms for a couple of years and she is on medication and abused him etc., Once JW had left his wife he started withdrawing a little from me, staying in touch but without any of his earlier promises or passionate romance. He was desperately trying to continue to provide his son with stability (going home to live every fortnight, being ‘friends’ with his wife).
i felt disoriented, and needed to know myself what an earth this incredible connectedness by letter was all about. So i travelled from one continent to another to visit him! JW was delighted. We spent 5 days like an in-love couple, with an incredible natural, click. But he said he didn’t want to lead me on, didn’t know what would happen with his marriage and didn’t want to ‘hold me back’ from finding my own happiness. While i was there i felt a sense of destiny despite the difficulty of the practicalities.
However, in the two weeks since i left his wife has tried to bring him back home. With me he shifts from cold, to friendly, to sobbing and to cool again. He has told her he will not go back under the same circumstances as before. He says he doesn’t want to be a couple with anyone (including me) but at the same time does not like the idea of me being with some one else.
i am 45, attractive, successful in so many ways except love! My head tells me i must stop contact with him but my spirit feels lost without him and seems to draw strength from his friendship. So i everytime i tell myself to stop contact i find myself drawn back. I am not in an easy place to find meaningful (well actually any) dates as i work in rural Africa. His letters, contact and calls fill a void in some ways. The memory of our love-making and cuddles are sweet, that we may never do so again makes me weep.
i have never had an affair with a married man before and the situation has turned me into someone i am not (tempestuous, sometimes angry, longing ). i’d be so grateful for any kind of advice, or tools to help me do what is right. i want true love and companionship, if not with him then with someone else, but i feel trapped in a cycle.
Please help me shine again with or without this boy-man that somehow made me who i am.
May 31st, 2010 at 4:12 pm
Can you say soul mate?? That’s what I feel whenever we talk. I am an Aquarius woman and I can say that he is my other half. They are supporting, loving, and great listeners. Being an Aquarius i tend to have a real talkative nature and he does to. They hate to be lazy they seem to be on the move and love to travel. My love!
June 22nd, 2010 at 7:59 am
@linda
Linda I think I can understand ur trauma best,since I’m going through the same
Astrologically speaking,aquariuns are pisces form a 2-12 vibrational pattern,meaning;they share some kind of karmic bond…
I’m not sure if we can say “soul-mates”..but surely your soul feels completeness,fulfillment,a kind of satisfaction it had been longing for,since you two have surely met in your past-lives(I’m trying best not to sound creepy)
this past life connection is what makes you two inseperable,i mean,when i(fellow-piscean) don’t talk to my aquariun i’m in complete unrest…i’m like a fish out of water..i NEED my water-bearer,
i believe the same happens with you..leading to emotions like “anger,longing,temptousness..”
Talking about your aquariun..they as you must know are highly unpredictable,everything about them is,their emotional needs ect.
Look frankly speaking…this guy feels EXCATLY the same for you..but his aquariun practicality and reason..is deterring him from placing ahead his emotional needs
As you described him,aquarius,taurus are fixed signs &capricorn is a cardinal sign
aquariuns have a heart-made-of-gold,your man,is very vulnerable inside,he’s confued,lost,unstable…but outside he wears a different mask,a fake mask of invincibility(just like cappy’s)…that totally explains his extreme mood-swings
All aquariuns are different,since the sun is never really strong in aquarius…their is mouleded a lot more by their planets & houses than their sun..
Aquariuns don’t like clingy…but yours,it seems,dosen’t mind commitment
YOU COULD DO TWO THINGS;
1.give him his space,don’t force him into any decisions,HE SHOULD KNOW THAT WHATEVER HE’S GOING THROUGH,WHATEVER HE WILL GO THROUGH,THERE WILL ALWAYS BE A WOMAN IN SOME CORNER OF THE WORLD WHO WILL ALWAYS LOVE HIM,NO MATTER WHAT,ALWAYS GENUINELY FEEL FOR HIM…
your life with him,is surely going to a struggle,but if you feel your love it’s genuine & ever lasting …don’t give up..keep holding on
>>>>>But also let me warn you.the water-bearer is extremely tempermental,your feelings could be unintentionally bruised sometimes..& he might not even know why?
ALSO HOPE THE PASSION OF HIS LOVE DOSEN’T FADE LIKE THE ROMANCE OF HIS LETTERS…
everything in the aquariun life is changeable(the air-sign that it is)..so if you are going to shift continents to be with him…re-consider..here’s where our piscean-practicality goes for a toss…we always think love can conquer all..but at the end of the day,it’s only an abstract-feeling..
2.WHAT YOU SHARE IS BECAUSE WHAT HAPPENED BEFORE…(meaning not necessarily in this lifetym)..
It is that cosmic connection..might not necessarily mean that you are soulmates,or that you two MUST live together..what happened before need’dt happen again…
>>>>>TRUE u are never ever going 2 forget him..since NOBODY..I REPEAT NOBODY; CAN CUT THE TIE BETWEEN YOU…but sweety,maybe he’s right,maybe you do deserve ur sha..look at this post;there are quite a many failed relationships,you don’t want yours to be one of them
FIND SOMEONE STABLE…BUT ALWAYS BE IN CONTAC WITH HIM..
HOPE YOU FOUND ME USEFUL
ALL THE BEST :))))))))))
August 6th, 2010 at 1:11 am
My boyfriend of almost 6 months is a Pisces, and I’m an Aquarius. He has kidney stones so he’s ill alot, and I find that this has caused him to have to ‘grow-up’ faster than the average boy. He is 17 now, he’s a very quiet person, and it’s hard for him to make friends because people automatically assume he hates them. But he’s really the sweetest, and he’s always there for me.. As I am for him. I find we go well together, as I’ve had to ‘grow-up’ a bit faster than some as well. My mother died when I was 14. I think were both wounded inside but together we are stronger, I really want this to last. We are young, but at the same times I feel were older than most because of the experiances we’ve gone through - so I think we can make this forever. How can i really know if he loves me as much as he professes though, I find i’ve focused myself (my heart and my mind) so much on him that he’s all I want in life. I’m sure that’s not rly good.. Assuming something could go wrong….
August 8th, 2010 at 11:58 am
Ok, so I met this pisces boy and I was IMMEDIATELY attracted to him (hes gorgeous and his vibe caught my attention). I met him while i was on vacation in June. We exchanged emails and we have been chatting through MSN. He ask me to be his girlfriend and said that he will wait until i go back (which will be on December). I said yes and we only spoke through MSN and the conversations were soo short and stale. He stopped signing on and I lasted 4 days without chatting with him (this was killing me because i wanted to talk to him more and get to know him). After this I send him a message telling him that we should just be friends because I cant be with somebody that I could only talk to every few days, he didnt answer. he sign on msn almost 2 weeks later, i hit him up but he never answer, i just figured he was mad. Im aquarius and Im very open minded, I know that we aquarius are very logical but I feel that im balanced between logical and emotional so that in a way we can probably be a match. What i want to know is, HOW CAN I WIN HIM BACK? HOW CAN I PULL HIM BACK TO ME? AND GET HIM TO BE MORE OPEN WITH ME?. Any suggestions or comments will help.
*ConfusedAquarius*
September 16th, 2010 at 10:42 pm
Pisces are meant to be with Cancerians.
September 20th, 2010 at 6:24 pm
iam aquarius man married to a pisces woman.5 years.it is working great.both sides should let go of their ego.
September 28th, 2010 at 3:41 am
i have never been in an relationship before but i do thiunk that we aquas,and yes i am a aqua,can be a little insensitive
November 9th, 2010 at 1:10 am
Hello all…I am amazed at all of the negativity between my fellow pices & aquarius relationships. I am a pisces female with a aquarius man. I have to say we are extremely close and we enjoy it that way. Our differences are what attract each other. We are very close sexually and mentally. It hasn’t always been this way, but we have learned to love each other just by being open an honest. That gives me the ability not to drive my aquarius man crazy and he has the ability to do things that make me happy because he wants to. I think it is all about good communication and understanding. We have a spark. If you do not have that then I believe it will never work.
January 14th, 2011 at 10:18 pm
I am a pisces woman and I have been married to an aquarius man for 12 years now. and although alot of our traits come out from time to time wehave made it work for us. He tries hard to deal with my emotional nature and I use patience when he pulls away…
February 3rd, 2011 at 11:11 am
so i am an aquarius woman and the guy im seeing is a pisces he lives far away in a different state,when we are on the phone he is very loving and sexual,passionate and aggressive but when i go back home and i see him he is very quiet and shy with me alomost like he is nervous to see me. Is this normal for pisces men or is it that i am naturally a very sexual and passionate woman and i expect more from him? How do i get him to be that aggressive with me up close and personal and take that shyness away…?
February 3rd, 2011 at 11:13 am
he also is not very open with me and i pretty much tell him everything
February 15th, 2011 at 4:30 am
Im a pisces gurl and I have been seeing an aquarian male (off and on) for quite a few years now. We have a very strong physical attraction. But I dont get what I need from him emotionally so I break it off. I would rather be on my own, or in another relationship than with someone who is cold, distant and insensitive when I need them the most. It just cuts me up that, when I need some reassurance, he will not even give me the time of day. Thats just rude if you ask me. So instead of dealing with his mind-games, I just clock out. But he always wants me back. Its a vicious cycle. And it Sucks. What do I do?
If I never saw this man again. I would be a happy piscesgurl on her merry way.
February 24th, 2011 at 4:56 am
Hi.
i am a 35 yr old aqua i have just started dating a picses man. He confuses me so much, i cant figure out if he is being strategic and trying not to act to interested becuase he is worried he will smother me or if he is just half hearted about the whole thing but i suspect not.
He is warm and attentive when he is with me, the sex gets better and better, we catch up a few times a week but he doesnt communicate with me much when we are not together. He doesnt ring me often and when i ring him i feel like i interrupted him. Im confident he likes me and sees this as serious i just find when we are not together we are not connected. IOts like wheatever he is doing in the moment is all he thinks about. He has made a few comments about not wanting to smother me and that he wants to be very considerate but i am actually feeling like i dont matter that much, even tho i know i do. Im really confused and like him a lot but its like he is pacing the whole thing and taking it really slow. I am an impatient aquarian and i want to know now if i am wasting my time or not. Is he just being strategic to keep me interested? Will i be bored when i really get to know him?
April 20th, 2011 at 6:32 pm
im actually starting to think that maybe aquarious might be more emotional than all water signs, they have so much feeling they just get detached like when you get numb from being in pain. water bearer might just be like a comparison, they have feelings and its so much it pours out but it is done so in a controlled manner.they know how to harness their emotions lol its not like the picture has them throwing it out anywhere. personally i dont like cancers because i find them to be clingy and yet im a pisces. it might be due to my moon aries sign. i like strong men and i like to be dominated, i like closeness but i also like some distance. i have been dating this aquarius and at times it seems like he liked me but then yeah seemed like he covered it up didnt answer texts and such. i figure if a guy likes me he’ll bother. so i never really text most times. ive been though some pretty bad break ups with scorpios, i just think their emotions are too extreme at times and they kinda get a kick out of quarreling. part of intensity. even though i do like this aquarious when i start to have feelings i start to want to run far away and i do i dont wanna feel so much and be dissapointed.i think aquarious spends time away cause they dont wanna get so attached and get hurt. i agree maybe a friendship would be better, but it is difficult getting over the physical attraction. he has taught me alot, i doubt he knows. maybe him not being able to give me support with feelings would be found rude by any pisces which it has, but i find it to be a learning experience instead. i think he has alot to teach me about life. how better to handle my feelings and become more independent rather than dependent on others for my feelings, self reliability,and security thats a treasure when you think it through.if they can keep themselves in check so much theres something to admire in that i believe, i believe its part of wat makes them strong that its a good quality. im openminded and therefore enjoy changing my view to see the way others see things. he said he wanted to take things slow and was sorry if he couldnt deliver and blamed it on not being romantic enough. ive got to say he had me on a whirlwind at first.Astrology helps in understanding otheres i think. i’ve had a hard life, it was nice spending time with someone who’d been though alot and watching to see how they could take it and enjoy themselves, i dont wanna cut off the relationship cause i believe he has alot to teach me. if he can’t give me love im well sufficed with knowledge. wat is life without learning from one another?
April 20th, 2011 at 6:38 pm
lol excuse me for my spelling i guess i spell aquarius oddly in my mind lol
April 20th, 2011 at 6:51 pm
i believe he doesnt want to hurt you or disappoint you. he wants you to be happy.
to him he knows things are bad and difficult. but it shouldnt get in your way of being happy.
thats wat it is when he seems to run away or is rude about emotional stuff. hes all about having fun and enjoying life to its fullest, pisces doesnt need to be devoid of emotion but rather dont feel too much of it,remember the good things go out and enjoy themselves, aquarius would like nothing more than to see the person they care about happy and content even if its just someone in their company. as far as helping someone i think they do so in that way. no need to be close all the time, its suffocating. but it is nice to spend time sometimes, it means alot. unless they wanna give themselves i dont think you should. maybe they might be controlled n such but they possibly havent had much long relationships when they go and do w/e i kinda find it a bit childish in a sense but think maybe somewhere they honestly crave for somebody to love them. they just dont like messes. everybody has relationship issues lol. you dont have to be someone else rather learn and become a better person i find.
April 21st, 2011 at 5:49 pm
Hi Crystal,
I totally agree with you! I’m also a Piscean woman currently dating a Aquarius man. This is my first relationship ever and we have been together for about 6 years now. We have so much things in common, and we’re so alike in many ways to the extent that most of the times, we wear same colour tops and bottom without telling the other party what we’re going to wear. We’re both on the same frequency level be it intimately or emotionally.
My boyfriend who does quite a bit of research on horoscopes points out to me that Aquarius men characters varies to a quite a large extent. His character traits may be more inclined to the other planets such as his Moon sign.
My boyfriend’s birthday falls in early February and sometimes I feel that he’s more piscean than aquarius cause he’s can be very emotional at times. He’s clingy too!(I love that!) I’m grateful for the times that when we’re both feeling down, he will usually be the one to be more detached from his emotions to pick me up. He has incredible brusts of creative energies though he may be running low on sleep. He’s very romantic as well, he’s not a very practical person.
I don’t really find that this combination is an odd match. Rather, it compliments well with each other. Open communication is very crucial. An aquarius guy would want to know the whys behind eveything. Don’t make him guess what you really feel- be it angry or disappointed. Just be frank with him and he’ll open up to you too. As a piscean woman, I often have an eternal constant struggle with complex emotions within myself and I’m glad to have an aquarius guy who is there for me to help break down that complexity in order to understand and handle my emotions better.
I hope this helps:)
May 4th, 2011 at 11:25 am
I’m a pisces man married to an aquarius and we have been together for 15 years. It hasn’t been easy and I try not to be clingy or insist on emmotional reassurance which works for our relationship. All the posts above remind me of our relationship over the years, but it does all boil down to respect and loyalty for each other. I work away alot and phone 2 - 3 times a week, which works better than staying in constant contact as now I find that my wife wants me to phone more often, which is my assurance if needed that she loves me. As for pisces men being a wuss as per some comments. I say to you Aquarius girls stop moaning and trying to convert him into some kind of Rambo. We is what we is accept it and it all goes well, as we do accept and love your querks. We know that part of our pisces traite and the fish that swims upstream end up in macho jobs. I for example spent over 10 years in the Foriegn legion and over 15 years working with the same guys in Security, so lay of the wussy accusations. Your getting it confused with being sympathetic to most people and yes we dream alot and most of the dreams don’t get put into action, but if you have a hundred dreamy ideas for the future. 1 will surely workout with a bit of encouragement from our slightly bizarre Aquarian girls and it’s the bizarrness we love. Aquarius girls. I love em all, cause they are different and weird at times or all the time maybe. If you please a pisces man. You will have 100% commitment and you know we are the best in bed anyway. What more do you need. I may have a manly job, but I’de rather be painting a nice picture or painting and customizing motorcycles for a living. Doh ! Another dream for the future. If you stick at it support each other and give each other thier space. The relationship is great and the pisces will eventually find that the Aqurius is loyal and loving, which stops the pisces jealous and clingy streak. Good luck as it’s not easy, but really rewarding once you’ve worked each other out. Over 15 years. It was hot for 6, cooled off for 2 (bad years) and now is fantistic….
May 4th, 2011 at 12:58 pm
Pisces Shark Says:
July 26th, 2009 at 12:46 pm
My wife once said “Stop trying to fix my problems. Just listen and sympathise”
That helped me out and our relationship more than she knows……
The comment above from Pisces Shark in 2009 is absolutly uncanny. My Aquarian wife said exactly the same thing word for word after a bad patch 4-5 years ago and although she doesn’t know it. It must be the secret to pisces and aquarius long lasting relationship, as once I stopped trying to work out her problems and just listened and sympathised, which we are good at. It’s been great…
She’s a tough and independent girl and I would suggest that any Aquarians getting frustrated with their pisces man trying to find solutions to every problem they might have. Just tell him that word for word. Worked for me too.
May 4th, 2011 at 2:51 pm
Soo I am an aqua girl and I have a crush on a pisces guy. Me and him have great chemistry, we get on well and even when we fight or anything at the end of the day we over look it and become friends again. Anyways he started to develop feelings for me and because my best friend liked him and his best friend liked me he didn’t confess and neither did I about our feelings. I am absolutely in love with him now and we are good friends. I don’t know how to get him back because ever since he found out that I wasn’t interested in him (because of my best friend’s crush on him) he has stopped talking to me the way he used to. I miss him alot and just want him back in my life and would honestly love it even more if he was more than just a friend.
any help?
May 10th, 2011 at 3:49 pm
Im an aquarius dating a pisces man. We’ve had the rockiest 3 year relationship and at times, I thought he flat out hated me! lol But for some reason we keep coming back to each other. We break up for months at a time and then come running back into each other’s arms. I love him and believe he loves me but he acts more aloof then I do. He guards his independence fiercely and everytime I talk about taking our relationship to the next stage, he runs from the topic. We started off great but I am not sure where we went wrong. He is so hard to figure out. He gets upset at the silliest things. He expects me to read his mind and when I don’t he gets upset. Most of our arguments are because he does something silly and I call him out on it. lol He is very snappy and sarcastic at times. But I guess I am the same way. The sex is amazing… I know if nothing else, we will be friends. We have a good connection and we are a force to be dealt with when we are on the same page.. We just don’t visit that page often at the same time.
June 1st, 2011 at 11:16 pm
I’m a Pisces girl and my husband ( well ex hubby ) is an aquarious. .. We are going thru divorce and he’s the father of my 2 children.. I’m very emotional and I believe in love, I’m sensitive and sentimental on the other hand he’s a gr8 person to be friends with but he doesn’t understand me.. He’s just into his cars friends and FREEDOM.. he doesnt like commitment either.. This compatibility is not good if your thinking of relationship long term. Things didn’t work out at all.. He just wants sex but doesnt get close emotionally. I still love him and it hurts me everyday that I tried my best to make this 6 year relationship work but it didn’t. I had to let him go..
March 13th, 2012 at 4:13 am
Am aqua and i started to dating a pisces, we are about 4 months daiting and everything happened so fast. I never had a relationship like these. At our second month anniversary he proposed, i was in shock of course i couldn’t say yes it was to fast. I keep telling him we need to know each other more, i love him because he is as affectionate as me and i would say way more sweet than me. Am a little scared about when we finally find each others differences. We are in a long distance relationship, and he’s been so good to me, texting, calling, video conferences everyday, showing to all his friends how much he cares about me. He makes me feel very secure.
April 1st, 2012 at 12:28 am
I’m an Aquarius, and although I’m known by my friends to be fiercely independent (like doing things on my own, loves space, rarely ask ppl for help), but i’m also very romantic and sensitive (i get emotional), i think it may have something to do with my venus in pisces. My friend (whose crazy about astrology as well) have told me that the first impression i gave her was a Pisces. Usually, the type of guy who attracts me are confident Aries (Im constantly attracted to them). I’m also detached, but I have no problem in expressing and processing my feelings. Apparently, I like a pisces guy now (the feeling just came VERY naturally and accidentally). I always feel good whenever he writes to me (always fun and he’s really sincere), we compliment each other, and I like making him feel special because I really like him. But unfortunately, we’re just friends (close friends). It’s weird because, his letters can sound so ambiguous. I think he knows that I like him, and I think he likes me, but at the same time, he’s also indecisive and maybe fickle. We’re friends yet he would say things that i thought couples would only say to each other, i mean the thought about saying such things to a friend would just make me automatically think he’s a player, which I don’t think he is. He’s religious. But he says we’re friends, but I think it’s because we only met each other for a month during travelling so we live on two continents that are far away and opposite from each other. We’re very busy and preoccupied with school as well. We’ve been writing each other for more than 2 years. I’m really not sure what’s going on in a pisces man’s mind? He’s such a typical Pisces. And he’s such a darling :D! There was this girl who annoyed me a lot for acting physical around him (just playing, teasing, punching etc.). She also teased him for saying we look like a couple, yet she continues to flirt with him. Another thing that I couldn’t forget is when she wanted to send me the same present I gave to him (a video that I recorded). i thought it was her intention to annoy me. I told this to him, just subtly mention him that she wanted to send me the same thing i gave him. and like a typical Pisces, hates confrontation yet doesn’t want to hurt anyone. My resentment towards her is not only based on my feeling of being little jealous, but also threatened by her. And because I’m only “friends” with my Pisces, I only said to him that they would look great as a couple: he reassured me that there’s nothing going on between them. It’s such a weird relationship. Right now, because I have a hard time trusting people including such a great guy like him, I fear being rejected, and because my pisces guy is charming i feel insecure because girls like her would wanna seduce him. Like the typical Aquarius characteristic in me, it’s only natural for me to hide my feelings and act as if he’s not the only person that I revolve around.