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Aquarius and Pisces
This could be a very promising union indeed. Once these two have made friends it can last forever. They have a lot of respect for each other and the Pisces with their creative altruistic nature is very impressed with the Aquarius’s unconventional way of life. Aquarius and Pisces will revel in one another’s company never wanting to leave each other. Yes, these two definitely have world conquering abilities when they are together.
Sexually Aquarius could be a bit shocked by the Pisces, who doesn’t like to feel controlled in anyway and won’t accept some of the Aquarius’s outrageous ways. So Aquarius if you wish to keep this flame alive you had best tone down your sexually active imagination for the sexy sign of Pisces will not hang around if he/she is put off and would rather ‘just be friends’.
Someone will have to calm the stubbornness down also. Both signs have the ability to be ever so single minded at times and simply won’t budge, but I feel that only one sign has the ability to tone this down, and that I feel would be the Pisces. If this can be achieved then this relationship could last a lot longer.
Pisces is the most emotional of all signs and is also the only other dual sign other than Gemini. The Pisces emotions can change in a split second and this can wear the Aquarius out and after a while it will lead to annoyance. The Aquarius is emotional also, but on a far more mental level and has a huge abundance of self control and believes everyone should practice this rather than just fall apart because they dropped an apple on an ant or something.
I’d say this isn’t a great match and nor is it a bad match, it is an odd match and for a time one that could work very well, however, if you want my advice I’d go for the long lasting friendship rather than entering into the possible mess a more serious union could cause.
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I’m an aquarius and I’ve always been attracted to pisces men I dunno why.my first crush was one, ex was pisces and My current love is pisces too we’ve been togtaher for almost 2 years , and this article described us perfectly, from the stuborness part to the annoyance part to the lasting respect as well. But I desagree with the sexual part, we are both controlling and flexible to anything.
I find it hard to accept that a person can be so insecure in everyway, He constantly needs reasurance and caring, if I miss one thing he’ll go “You are never there for me” But the truth is that I am there only he pushes me away. is it common for a pisces to be selfish and spoild sometimes? I am scared he might be dependant on me forever ,and will find my self caring for yet another baby, not that it bothers me for now that I am deeply attached To him. this is most peculiar since aquarians usually are emotionally detached. Do you think I have other influences that might give me the emotional attachment and the attraction to romatic weak pisces?
Hey Mignight,
Pisces and Aquarius have an interesting chemistry, respect, and admiration that can last forever if worked upon it. What I can suggest that you should check your man’s venus and your moon, venus and mars. If his venus is in water sign (i.e. pisces, cancer, and scorpio), then he may have some temper tantrums and if you have your venus in water sign, although being an aquarius, you can be emotional.
Being a pisces myself, I am also attracted to aquarius women or otherwise mutual. However, my venus is in aquarius which makes me detached and aloof in relationships. It is also the reason that somewhat weird, outworldly, unconventional, independent, and strage women (such are aquarians) are my choices. Although, pisces men like emotional sorts which is not my case.
The bottom line is check the detailed natal chart report of you and your man for a much clearer understanding about both of you. Hope it might work.
Aly, The Water OX
I’m an Aquarian, and if the pisces man I’m in a relationship with, does not grow the hell up, stop whinining, being so needy he will drive me away, I dont like being the soul reason he wakes each morning, He does not Need me!
I so agree with You aqua. pisces men are so whiny and get upset so easily for the stupidest reasons, no matter what age they are, be it 19,24 or 30! but even though they are so annoyingly needy and dependant, throwing responsabilities at You hoping You will handle them on Your own, You cant deny that as soon as You look into their soulfull eyes You forget all the bad things.
It might be the mystery that the pisces men are known for that attracts aquarians, since we love enigmatic and unusual things.
Its the usual tale heard so many times, aquarius meets pisces, a fairytale story until the pisces starts to be needy and naggy at times driving the poor aquarius away fleeing fo his freedom! but it doenst always have to end this way.pisces can learn to give some space to independed aquarius, and aquarius can always try to be as emotional as pisces and understanding somehow.
Even though He doenst show it (or shows it too much!) the confused pisces needs You and would suffer if You leave him behind in one of the many predicaments he falls in occasionally.on the other hand You would be free at last, Its up To you and how much You are Into eachother at this point.
I really don’t know if its a favorable match! But it always facinated me.Hope its another happy ending
Hey aly
thanks alot for Your quick reply, It helped me immencly, And Your opinion as a pisces with the aloof touch of aquarius interested me alot.
thanx
The thing is, this relationship I’m in with the Pisces man is not even 3 months old, I cant see it lasting, Yes I know it’s a learning process, being involved with some one new, getting to know one another, but he is wearing me out!
Hell will freeze over before I sit still long enough to stare into his eye’s, all dreamy and full of passion and declare my undying love to him….I told him I love him, I told him I miss him, yet still it’s not enough for him, he wants more, How can you miss someone if you work with them 10 hours a night 6 days a week? And were thinking of setting up a home together!!
His constant need for reasurance is irritating me, his constant text’s, “I love you” the “I miss you” Ok Ok, I get the picture, you love me, you miss me, now lets get on with our live’s and give me some space, Jeez!
I’ve sat with him repeatedly after his constant emotional, childish demands have not been met and asked him to stop suffocating me, if he is like this now, then IF, or when we live together, he will get worse.
He say’s ” I know baby, I’m just a little insecure right now” everything will be fine, we will be fine…..Then he goes and blows it by saying ” But please, just HELP me right now”
Thats all I need to hear, and I loose my patience, This man is a wuss, yes he has his good points, but right now I’m so annoyed at his lack of self control, and I’ve told him, and told him, I do not want to hear of your weaknesses, cope with them, just STOP making me the person responsible for YOUR happiness, it’s not fair on me to carry that weight on my shoulder’s.
His answer to to my “advice”?….Stop being so cold !! and If I hear this one more time I will scream ” You will learn to express your feelings, if you just open your heart ”
All that does is cause the opposite effect, and there are times when I’d rather be drinking Listerine mouth wash, than hear his whiney, girly, cry’s to “Just help me”
To Aqua
Wow He is really needy indeed! and I understand teh suffocation he’s causing, its god awful.
they always have a way of saying the right things but ruin them at the very last moment with something uneccessary as You said!
However I see Your point it isnt gonna work too long.You woke up from the spell but it seems he is still under its influence thinking this is all perfect.
Well I’m a Pisces woman dating an Aquarius man. I seriously hope that I’m not coming across anywhere near as needy as the man you’re describing. I know I’m emotional and all but nothing like that.
It is so nice to know that others are going through the same things as I am. I thought I was crazy, but after reading the other comments, it seems like what I’m going through is the norm for an aquarius-pisces courtship. I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to break free from my pisces because he is my child’s father!!
I’m a Pisces guy who’s engaged to an Aqua gal.
An exceedingly odd and fascinating union it is.
We either get on great or have severe rifts in our relationship. I find her to be quite possessive like the other fixed signs though and don’t really agree with the astro cliches about aquas needing so much space. I think they pretend this in the beginning while courting in order to avoid feeling like the rug will be yanked from beneath their feet. Once they’re hooked, look out! Yes, they do hide it better than say the scorpio, leo or taurus but they do cling strongly in their way.
I’d say I suffocate more quickly than she does.
I’m also much more comfortable expressing physical passion than she is although I do think she’s “coming out” so to speak. It’s true that Pisces are touch-me, love-me freaks though when it comes to intimicy and when this gets nect to an Aqua, who may have big time fears of getting too close too often, of course annoyance will result. Mostly though, we like lots of the same things and we help moderate one another. She has become more sensual with me and I have become more contemplative with her. Mostly though she just a very kind and loving soul with some surprising willfullness thrown in to keep it all fun.
I am an aquarius women that has just started seeing a pisces man. I am usually kind of less emotional and go running once a relationship starts getting serious. But now i find myself being the needy one in this relationship. He seems like he is very interested in me and then his actions the next day are different. I find it weird that it keeps getting said that pisces need reassurance and needy when once i started talking to him about feelings and getting in a serious relationship he ran disappearing a couple of days and said we talk about it. No he kind of avoids talking about anything serious and says lets just take it one day at a time and i’m feeling like the roles have been revearsed and im wanting more i dont know how to commuicate with him
I think Pisces don’t like It when You bring up the whole (commitment) scene, if You bring it up before they do ,They will feel caged and run away, But if You wait for them to show signs they will certainly apreaciate it after all.
Maybe the reason why You feel different with this pisces depends On Your Venus being compatible with his?
One thing is for sure
Pisces cant possibly Live without Aquarius (I think aquarius can though) we Are their air! we’re the water bearers therefor, we pour water down for them To swim in freely 
I just wonde what would they do without us!! lol
You Go Fishies!
I havent met this guy yet, but iam pieces and his aqua…well we met online o facebook, he wrote to me first, then i replayed back and we started writing about life, and all sorts of staff, he seems to be very emotional all though it says aqua men seem detache..well we are both turkish to, were emotions are very deep its more like a latino kind of a expresional emotional..so throught the mails we been writing he does seem very nice, then we started talking on msm and i saw heim couple of times on webcam he seem to be cool guy, he thing is i dont have high hopes as we have not started dating yet, we been comunicating for 1 half moth know, hopefully we are going to meet up in a week,..so hopefully i wont be disipointed….i dont know if cultures make lots of diffrence to who you are and how it affects your star sigin and cthe way you epress emotions…i know iam deep person, but iam not emotionaly needy as i did give my last boyfired alot of space, and i was very compromising, i dont think i will find it hard to dso this with aqu men, as iam a independendt pieces
I agree that Fishes(Pisces) can’t live Without Aquarium or Water Carrier/Bearer (Aquarius). Otherwise they will die. Conversely, the Aquarium also doesn’t look good without the fishes.But I tend to disgree with in mid-of-the night that ‘Pisces People can’t possibly live without Aquarius People’. That doesn’t hold true in many instances. Peace!!! Ciao.
Pisces gal here!–Kinda, sorta talking to an Aqua-man. What can I say, we have a very unusual type of companionship. Mind you, neither of us are in a position of where we can have a “relationship,” as we are involved with other people. However, there’s definitely an amazing chemistry there–and a quirky friendship to follow. But, even in saying this, I highly doubt our “compatibility” would match. Don’t get me wrong–we get along great. We can talk for hours, we make each other laugh, we can talk about unimportant issues as well as the more profound. There’s almost something “spiritual” about it. But, I couldn’t imagine a formal relationship with this man. We are not sexually active (in fact, we’ve done nothing more than kiss)–and I seriously doubt we will ever evolve to that level. (Maybe the “idea” is more appealing than anything) We aren’t consumed by each other, either…It’s strange, really. Hard to explain. I guess there’s just an unspoken understanding there. If our conversations were to suddenly stop–I’m certain there would be no hard feelings, and would probably be able to pick up the phone years down the road and talk as no time had passed.
There’s a mysticism about him that i find both fascinating and bewildering–but, I’m not in the business of trying to figure it out…But, if the truth be told, I would most definitely concur that Pisces could definitely get emotionally scarred by the charm and charisma of the cool Aquarius, and should therefore be cautious. If you’re looking for someone to put you on cloud nine, he definitely will, but if you’re expecting him to keep you there, you’ll be highly disappointed. But, if you’re looking for friendship, fun, and someone to talk to..you’re definitely in the right place. From there, who knows what could happen.
wow, you guys are harsh, I’m an aquarius totally in love with my pices man. I’m so week for them, i’ve been with 4, in cluding my current one and been hurt by all ov them but still have crazy respect for them. My boi has even strayed although we only been 2gether for 4 months but i think i get why now and tryed to talk through it He says he loves me which i belive, but as you say they are needy, but i didn’t pic up on that, Sex is outa this world wen he aint appolagising for not lasting as long he (thinks I want him 2.lol so insecure)but yet all i want in my life. I wanna have his kids some day, I know we would have super hero children as we are both outta this world mentally an creatively. Love you Besty.XXx
i am a fish girl who is madly inlove with aqua man.we have been togather for 2 years now.he is the best thing in my life but sometime i realy dnt understand whats going on.once in a while he appears abrupt and rude and make me feel like he does not want to be in relation with me but after somtime he is back to his loving caring nature!
Im an Aquerius and my boyfriend is a Pisces. We have just begun our relationship recently ,but as far as I can tell he is not needy yet. He actuily seams to love helping me in any way possible and sort of hopes that I will be needy so taht he can help me.lol
I do somtimes feel I should show more affection twoards him though somtimes because I am still an Aquerius and I dont always realise how aloof I can be until I look at the senerio after it happens. Butr as far as our overal relationship this pretty much pinopoints it . :’)
He is very creative and random.Just like me.
Were a pair of geeky wierdos and we love our mutaual strangeness.lol :’)
And so far he has been more passive. I emanhe dose have his own fixed opinions, but he is more gentle an seams to prefer to agree with people or let it go unless he honestly feels taht its worth bvreaking the peace to state his opinion.
My pisces guy in a nutshell is sweet, protective and a fellow wiedo so I dont really see much reasons for an Aquerius not to adore a pises guy. Unelss they dont really like a clingy guy I geuss.
Wich is probably likely for an Aquerius to frown appon.
Still I can put up with that though.:’)
I’ve got enough water signs in my chart.lol
well aqueri.S you are a woman so your emotional side is little differen to the aqua man.i suppose my emotions are too much for him.ye i know i appeard clingy at times but only with the reason that i love him.he sed he is detached but he wan me around all the times.and then he go in wierd mood swing hich i dnt understand.
To Midnight and Aqua LOL I agree with Midnight and Aqua. I too hate needy men. I hate immaturity in men as well. The moment a man shows me he is needy and immature I am outta there. I am no one’s baby sitter.
Now, I have to disagree. Pisces too can be very kinky and hot. I know this one Pisces, were just friends, but I think he likes me a lot. First, I thought he was an Aries, because he was really adverturous, has strong sense of self and didn’t get hurt by my straight forwardness and agree that his friend Steven should dump his bitch of a girlfriend. We both believe in a relationship it shouldn’t be controlling isn’t love and one shouldn’t be so damn needy. LOL Anyways. He likes strong fiercy women. He likes women that work out and have bit of muscles and he told me oneday. “He wouldn’t mind having me wresle him down onto the bed and having my way with him.” He also said if I wanted he could tie me to the bed. I was like WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Right on!!!!! So pisces can be very kinky and adveurertous
His birthday is Feb 24
I never said Pisces cant be kinky or hot!! No way! They are so so very sexual They make You just fantasize all day.
They can be the kinkiest poeple ever But still have that final touch of tenderness that makes u think They are innocent angels.The kind of touch that tells You its not only sex its also love. I must admit though I like a strong man who maches My attitude as an aquarius
and pisces arnt exactly that srtong, they can often be very puppyish and cry before You. its sweet yeah and tender but, sometimes.. a woman needs a strong man that puts her senses on fire!
and even if they try to be manly and strong, ist too late they ruined it when they showe u their baby boy attitude and cligniness! so when they try to be strong and mean you just think “Aww how CUTE they are trying to be the big guy here so sweet”
Not to be mean but…Till now havnt met strong pisces, But man they are srtong in bed !
peace out!
Midnight aquarius
omg , MIDNIGHT …. i was thinking the same thing , this guy ive been sexually involved with for a year and a half , he doesnt seem emotional on the surface and to be honest , everytime i try to have an ‘ emotional talk ‘ or anything that has to do with feelings .. he pushes away , when me on the other hand the ‘ aquarius ‘ who is supposed to be ‘detached ‘ is head over heels with this dude .. WHY!
All in all aquarius and pisces relationship requires alot of patience and energy really.But I Think Its in the aqua’s hands , I never heard of any aquarius being left By a pisces,Its rather the other way around, since pisces are extremely clingy and would miss You the next day Immediatly, while aquarius is (as usual) distracted By his many projects and Thoughts, Leaving the confused Pisces wonder what happened and why.
To Jasmin
lol maybe! its becouse Your curious to why he doenst share his emotions By words! as an aquarius I bet You are a curious person , Maybe Your head over heels becouse he’s Not giving away the only thing You wanna discover. he’s a pisces and pisces men often Love To play the mystery Guy, leaving You fantasize and Think what he’s up to. besides it seems Your pisces is trying to be the detached one this might be attracting You alot since Your an aqua. The pisces I am involved with did the same thing with me leaving me hanging for almost 7 years! (You’d think I’d figure it out sooner:P) Then I found the trick and won his affection.
You Might Be Like this now, But once he gives away this moment of silence and mystery You might lose interest and be detached. if You wanna get him into emotional talk You have two possible ways! either tell him emotional stuff about you, make him feel guilty he’s not saying anything :p (pisces men are sensitive souls they cant stand the sight of women in pain or cying! even if they don’t show it on the surface) Or You can totally ignore this urge an pretend its not important and You lost interest, he’s gonna flip! get confused and talk about it!
I’m Not sure if it would work with You but
in either way he’s a man before being a pisces he’s gonna eventually crack don’t You think?
Midnight Aquarius
Lately, I’ve been readin the posts that pisces men are emotional and clingy. Don’t be judgemental. That’s bullshit (sorry about it). Pisces men come in all types. Explore the mystery man more if interested!!! Peace.
well…. i am a lesbian pisces/rooster and my girlfriend is a aquarius/snake…..now our relationship is way different from you all`s opionion….a lil of it is true but more different….i am emotional but yet very strong most of the times…me being a very loving person, when me and my girl have a argument i can fall a lil weak and just give up on every thing because the fact that i try so hard to make the relationship work, cooking,cleaning,working doubles at work, and etc…..just to please her and make the relationship work no matter how much i try my girl comes to me with this insucureness possessive jealous controlling attitude all the time….its like, no matter how much i try…i can be a lazy person or a motivating accomplishing person she is always going to have that attitude…and it mentally drains the fukk out of me!!!…its bad enough that im a sensitive pisces that lets certain things get to me…but if it wasnt for my rooster side, being strong, my never letting anything get to me attitude, i would`ve been a sorry sad weak individual with crushed dreams….its ashame what aquarius ppl take there wife, husband, boyfriend or girlfriend thru…i have seen it with other relationship…weather its a heteresexual or homosexual relationship….they take there mates thru a lot mentally…..and it drains them to the point they just want to give up…and a pisecs cant take it…it can make us weak to the point we just dont give a damn……
i have had so many relationships with only aquarians. why i always attract them?? i have no idea!…and they are all the same!!!…..but the relationship i am in now is the best than the others..i guess cause of her snake side and my rooster side…..the only aquarius/snake i ever dated….its seems to me that the relationship is gettin stronger and better since now we live in separate homes..lol……….i had been dreaming of this for a long time for us to live separate…now i can easily accomplish my goals and have my free time without all that aquarius nagging and bickering……not only are pisces ppl weak…all other signs are weak also..the difference is that water signs shows it emotionally, air signs shows it mentally and so on…….pisces ppl are not weak for no reason when we are weak is because you are weak the difference on that is we show it strongly…..we reflect everything that the person around us is going thru or on how they react….but once again thanks to my rooster side, i just run away from a sign of weakness and find something motivating……
and Midnight you have got to be out of your mind to think that we cant live without a aquarius lolololololo we can most definitely live without anyone…matter of fact we do so much better when we are single…a whole lot better!!!!!…..you aquarians are the ones that cant live without anyone… you all GOT to have somebody…every aquarius that i know soon as they leave a relationship they fall right into another one…now tell me who is weak???? they feel like they can not be by theirselves……i dont know about all but most of the aquarians i know are always looking for someone to be with..its like they`re scared to be alone….they need some one to talk shiit to and to keep them going i guess…lolololol…dont mind me this is just my opinion…. my rooster side makes me a lil argumentive and very opinionated……
wow lakisha that is so true. Now that I am not living with my aquarius man I feel so free! We love each other so much but we both need our space. I do so much better living at home. When I see him too, sometimes my mood changes because I’m not being as affectionate as I usually am with him. Than he gets silent and mad. That usually leads me to getting frustrated by that behavior. Though I try not to jump into conclusions, but later he admits. Which I find unfair that he makes me go through that pain. Other than that, we are great friends. We would like to have a future together, but living with him… I don’t know if I can. We will just have to see what happens. In a way he stops me from being me, the outgoing person. He knows it too and is always feeling guilty. It really sucks to know to see that our relationship may not lead nowhere. Though we are still trying. We have been friends for five years and now dating for three. I really don’t want to see the realtionship end. But I believe if it does, it will end well and it will end for the best.But for now… I don’t want to think about that.
Hmm, you all have given me quite the good amount to think about, consider, etc. - anyone up for a more specific case?
I’ve never been with a pisces before, not on any level I know of, and I’ve known for a while to avoid them for relationships. Nevertheless, I recently met one that just won’t leave the mind. I’m no boy, mind you. 30, happy, attractive, and with passions aquarian for sure. I’m solar, lunar aquarius / fire dragon. Got it easy huh?
Well if any of you are familiar with how intolerably strong the passions can rise in such a one, consider that I just met a pisces that makes my heart pound like I can’t say I’ve experienced since I was in my early 20’s - and engaged (to a capricorn girl).
Problem is, I don’t know how to / if I should even proceed. I’m overtly direct as a matter of character (pisces beware, no?) and approached her in a circumstance that I myself am loath to make a practice of - at her work! And that traveling no less.
We totally hit it off, we went out that one night, had a great time, both enjoyed ourselves, both behaved ourselves, and were off our separate ways. And yes, there’s definitely chemistry. We keep in touch, but I’m afraid I’m up for more than that - and burning a bit impatient.
Granted, we haven’t known each other long - hell, we still don’t Know each other really at all. But she has every wonderful characteristic I look for in a woman, and I can’t stop thinking about her anyway. It’s ridiculous really, and however romantic I may well be by nature, this sort of thing is Not by any stretch my norm.
Any advice on how to proceed?
well im an aquarius girl and im currently dating an pisces man. and i can already tell alot of the things u guys are saying is true!! hes alot more emtional than i am for sure! i try not to seem so distant because i really like him but to him i dont show it enough. but i like him alot hes caring and very sweet like without a doubt we will be together eventually but i will admit it has taken me a minute to fully let my feelings for him show! but hes growing on me and i try to let him know as much as i can. but we have so much in common and we vibe so well so i see good things for us in the future!
@ water for pisces………if you are 30 years old then that means you was born in 1978…that is the year of the horse so that makes you an aquarius/horse……..if your birthday was any where around feburary 18 1977 to feburary 6,1978 coming out of the year of the snake makes you an aquarius/fire snake…………….if you was born after that, coming in to the year of the horse 1978 makes you an aqaurius/earth horse starting at feburary 7 1978 til over the beginning of the next year……..
@water for pisces ………….trust me she thinks that you are the one by the way…..i am a pisces/rooster woman and my girlfriend that is a aquarius/snake……we are HIGHLY compatible….we make the best of friends, the best of lovers…..the best of everything…..iv always been compatible with aqaurius and love them to the point that i made a motto up about it, “”if your not aqaurius, then theres nothing for us to go on with but a conversation”"lol…..funny but true…..pisces and aquarius have so much in common…..but the only thing that gets in the way of a pisces/aquarius relationship is the aqarians insecurness, possesiveness.and jealousy, that makes the pisces so vurnerable and by us loving you aqarians so much we fall so weak out of our character and do anything that pleases you to show how much we love you, whatever that makes you happy…. thats hard for a pisces…..then, after all that we have went thru to please you its like something still isnt right and it comes down to you all nagging and “mentally mind fukking” us…lol…you no…so a pisces just give up and what do we do, we sink down into depression, wondering why and what to do, we go some where else to find happiness with another while we are still currenty in a relationship with you, some of us turns to drugs, acohole ,
some way the rest of my comment message was cut off…………………..that last message i just sent…………
Hey Pisces, thanks for the feedback, truly
To the 1st:
My Chinese horoscope is a strange one - 30’s a round number. Worse, if you go by year the sign’s off. Calculate technically and voila, I’m fire dragon (at least by a handful of sites - one says snake but I think it’s going by year); I’m a “secret horse,” and have no idea what my inner animal is.
To the 2nd:
Sad that last part! But all good on the others. I love strong, independent, vivacious and deeply passionate women. It’s co-dependence that kills me, but deep bonding - it’s the only thing I ever really trust. Jealous? Yes of course! But I require a good bit of freedom myself and so find ways to cope. I’m not at all possessive, unless really protective counts, or unless I’m delusional - from others’ descriptions it seems to be an adequate word for a few aquarian tendencies…
I have to say I’ve been warned against falling for pisces, but if things go the way they’ve been going I may well have no choice.
I’m curious though: What makes you SO sure that you can say, “trust me she thinks that you are the one by the way?” She certainly hasn’t shown it, and apparently won’t..? I say so b/c of pisces and their apparent propensity to swim in their own mysterious depths, leaving the rest to wonder.
Your relationship sounds wonderful btw - I’m happy for you!
Water for Pisces:
Sounds like you’re in a pickle. I believe one of the most frustrating situations to be in are those that require patience. Let it go and see where the pieces fall into place. You may discover the mysticism was more appealing than the actual target. I will say there seems to be a lot of negative feedback concerning the compatibility of Pisces/Aquarius, but I, for one, believe there exists an amazing and unique chemistry between us. Definitely unorthodox, but that’s what keeps things interesting. Right? Seems to have a type of allure and mystery about it. Who would’ve thought forbidden fruit would be so yummy?
While the chemistry may be strong, that may be something of another sort with the compatibility (day-in-day-out, bit)…Just give it time and see what happens. Also-Make her laugh. All girls like that. I am interested to see how things work out for you. Keep us posted.
Hi Pisces_Girl,
Well you made me laugh in a good way with that last part. When together we both certainly laughed a lot; still do with texts. And you’re quite right about the day-to-day, and there is certainly no way but time that tells.
I do have to say you hit the nail on the head with the word ‘mysticism;’ at least I can’t find another word that touches on it. In a way it really is just like that. And I mentioned chemistry only because it was there as well, but the real oddity comes with the few times I was in her presence: The most natural feeling was to stay there - I could say there was a strong, unconscious inner urge to stay there - as if leaving her required a strong unnatural effort. And it did. That with a handful of other details left my aquarian self all dazed. In the aftermath I’ve accepted the Fates: Apparently I’m supposed to know this girl, in one way or another.
Anyway, I’m glad you wrote today, and thank you. And the letting go is inevitable I’m afraid - life just never pauses - but it seems like her and my future acquaintance just may be as well. If the full irony of this situation didn’t require entirely too many words, I’d share; suffice it to say there’s plenty.
Giving time …
Water for Pisces–
I’m not a stranger to what you are feeling. There is this guy (Aquarius) who I have felt/feel the same towards. It is very hard to explain, but you seemed to sum it up quite nicely. The first time I met him I felt a strange familiarity–and there was nothing awkward about our very first kiss–actually, it felt like I had kissed him a hundred times before. The only way I can explain it is that it felt like I reunited with someone I knew in a past life. That night, I experienced a quenching of a thirst I never knew existed. When in his presence time stands still–yet, after 4 hours of his company I am perplexed by where it went. And leaving…ugh. That’s comparable to losing an appendage.
Is this close to what you are feeling? Bitter/Sweet, isn’t it? How long have you known the girl? And why do you feel so certain she’s not interested? Has she told you so? I’m only asking because it sounds as if you two had a wonderful time together. Could she be playing it cool?
I have wondered to myself why I have made this encounter. And why now? The timing couldn’t be any worse. But, I know there is a reason…I just don’t want to force it.
goodness i don’t know where to start?? so many comments, so many good points. firstly the stubborness mentioned in the ‘Aquarius and Pisces’…god i can soooo relate!! but tbh not used to it being used against me…i have always got my own way in r/ships!! call it my piscean charm whatever but 9/10 its always worked lol so this is unchartered waters for me & i really don’t like it…well i swing between liking it alot & hating it!! i swore i had had enought drama in my life…& then i go & ‘meet’ an aquarian man…aarrrgghhhh!! such drama/such mindgames!!!!! but y’see is he really playing games or is it the fact that i am so used to the men in my life coming after me?? me having such sway over them?? i know i know how so full of ego this sounds believe me i do…though doesn’t stop me from saying it!!
i am open & friendly with everyone i meet (i could talk the hind leg off a donkey apparently according to a friend…what a strange saying!! or is it just our scouse humour?! the same friend says i live my life like in a movie…) ok if i’m being honest i’d add flirty to that mini list too…i have never exactly cheated on partners but have always known who i was next going to be in a r/ship with. until that is my life was changed 6 yrs ago when my youngest son was diagnosed with autism at 2…prior to this i was quite the party girl/serial gf & wife…i have married & divorced 3 husbands. i even share my birthday feb 27th with the ultimate pisecesqueen lizzie taylor. anyway i had begun to believe that i had matured & learnt to reign in my piscean penchant for emotional drama etc. but after meeting the aforementioned acqumale online (not met IRL…yet i keep resisting…)its been drama drama bl*ody drama…& like i say we haven’t even met yet!!??
its made me have to acknowledge what i really hoped i would never have to…that far from changing my dramaqueen ways…it may be just that my life revolving around my son for the most part… has left me with just less time/energy to date & less inclination to enter the fray again as it were…but that i am still very much the same!! don’t get me wrong i have a strong sense of self & have put my piscean qualities of empathy & caring to good use not only as carer to my son but in the work i have chosen to do working with the homeless/victims of domestic violence for eg. i am passionate & opinionated & though i do not follow a specific religion have a strong sense of spirituality. but yes i was hoping that some things i could leave in my past…
the neediness thing mentioned above makes me laugh…though tbh in my case i think its more an issue of being emotionally draining!! i think i would agree i’m high maintenace in that dept!! but i suppose part of me has thought (until now…) that why should i change?? its not like i have been dumped for it…i have always been the one ending r/ships or doing the divorcing. yrs after i had divorced my 1st husband…he told me re our marriage that ‘it was never dull@ see the dramsqueen in me takes that as a compliment! i’d rather be a total pain than dull anyday…
anyway cut to this acqumale of mine…met on a forum & have spoke sooooo much in calls & emails over the last 6 wks its like i have gotten to know him more than i did any of my husbands…we can speak for hrs about everything & nothing…the big questions/the small stuff…literally hrs go by & then its like what did we just talk about?? there have been huge disagreements too & lots of
‘passionate’ debates…lots of emotional out pourings (on his side i have to say not mine!)
but then he suddenly goes quiet & i’m left wondering what is going on??? i think he plays total headgames (like pisces put so eloquently above lol!!…10th dec i think) yet he seems above & beyond even the concept of them so he just makes me feel totally paranoid in the end.
like i say i am so used to being the one in control in any/every r/ship so this is all just freaking me out…i’m sooo not used to it.
i don’t doubt there is a connection. we can get on sooooo well…but then so not?? the sex i have no doubt would be very hot & heavy…
(its been quite awhile for me too so that alone is starting to make my thinking muddled!)
i have never had any problems pleasing my man in the boudoir (great word! lol) & i love being a woman…heels, sexy underwear the whole bit…but theres something about him that concerns me slightly…like hes capable of being really dirty (lol…what do i sound like??) i don’t know what i really mean tbh but i suspect theres not much he wouldn’t do sexually…now don’t get me wrong i love sex & love having sex but theres just something very naughty about him!! not sure if i like it or if it terrifies me…or both lol…
not sure if all this ramble will go on one post & i haven’t really explained what it is about him that is different about other men have i?? doh me… ok quick eg i got worked up (understatement!!) on a forum recently & said i would never return….drama drama!! & i haven’t either as i meant it when i’m over something i’m usually over it…except this acquamale apparently…i’ve divorced husbands for less arguments & general hassle than i’ve had from him!!!?? btw when hes nice hes wonderful but when hes in an off mood he can be very rude & quite scornful…i always thought that was my dept lol. if someone angers or upsets me i can be very caustic…
anyway while the other men (theres been a few…told you i can be a bit of a flirt but friends only with them…) have been begging me to come back & post again…my acqumale said & i quote…what did you flounce for you silly woman?! that was it. how is it he has the ability to make me laugh & hate him at the same time?? ok maybe not hate but…dislike…
no really i do totally dislike him…honest!!!
Hi guys
One thing I have learnt recently about Pisces is that they can really write!! and write..and write some more!! This is why I must get the forum up and running after christmas so you Pisces can have a good old debate without having to scroll down for miles just to write a comment!!
Love & Light
Becky
sorry one more thing…re stubborness…
do i sometimes play little teeny tiny games…
being unavailable etc well yes…what woman doesn’t?? but you can’t do that when the man in question seems blithely unaware that you weren’t going to speak to him…as he didn’t call for a few days anyway??? yet at other times seems to be on the phone or emailing or pm’ing me constantly…??! why is this??!!
so now i haven’t emailed/spoke to him since last thursday (yes on purpose i’m well aware how immature that is…but he drives me to it as i don’t know where i am with him??!) & i just know that when he calls later (the witchy pisces part of me can always sense when hes about to call!! lol) he’ll just laugh like its all no big deal that we haven’t spoken even though like i say he phoned me constantly from the monday to the thursday. i wanted a break from him…then i’m left wondering why he hasn’t called me in the first place!!?? this is soooo not a side to me i like or am comfortable with since when did i get clingy?? yikes!! how did this happen??! i was once told that i would be most compatible with a cancer as they are even more moody than i am lol…so maybe i should hold out for my cancerian man!!
oh becky you have no idea!!
i can ramble for england…
i often end my diatribes with ‘love & light’too as its such a lovely phrase…
so instead i will say to you…
namaste…
& thank you for your wondeful site i think its obvious i had a little i needed to offload!!
i will have to look at other pisces connections i will be very interested to read of pisces & gemini…ooooooh a big no no for me!!! my parents & both sisters…& first husband are all gemini & to say we don’t get along would be the biggest understatment…
ever…seriously do not get each other!!!
i hereby promise not to ramble too much…
make that i promise to try not to…lol
Hi Piscesqueen,
Well I am a Gemini so I know a thing or two about rambling, although I can get bored halfway through and stop. Yes, Pisces and Gemini are not the best mix in the world..I have an ex Pisces so I understand it can be very volatile, just too different. Still, some people swear by it, but I think it all depends on peoples charts. I just love everyone..people in general, their funny little ways. I hope I am one Gemini you can stomach!!
And please ramble as much as you like, I love having a peek into how other signs view things (i’m a deep Gemini lol)
Anyway now I’m rambling so thank you for your input and long may it continue!
Namaste to you also
Becky
piscesqueen,
Now I’d have to say YOU’RE in a pickle. But, welcome to the world of a typical Pisces/Aquarius connection! I’m not saying ALL pairs work out this way, but the same complaint seems to drag not too far behind. It seems that, often times, the aquarius is the one calling all the shots and i’m not sure of why that is. Maybe that’s what drives the piscean ladies so crazy. Typically we can almost read the minds of others, but the aquarius is so murky and opaque. I doubt this is with deliberate intent. I think they just operate a little differently. Or, atleast, that’s the solution i’ve decided to adhere to. A personal example….
I will have an incredible night with this aqua-guy (just good conversation and such). I leave him feeling like we have the most amazing connection, but then I won’t get a single word from him in 3+ weeks! And then, suddenly, I’ll get a call outta no where and we’ll just pick up right where we left off as no time has passed. Albeit frustrating, I have never shown it. And lately, I just chalk it up as no big deal (though, I still can’t help but to wonder what’s going on in his head!) After a year of this “run-around” I feel pretty certain that if I knew exactly what he was thinking I would be gone by now. Do you think it’s the challenge that keeps us interested??? OR–is it really due to the fact that when he and I are together we could light up a city? I wouldn’t suggest playing head games, but sometimes playing along can be just as fun. Just keep in mind the limitations. I can’t speak for all…but, the aquarian I speak of seems to be something of a playboy (so I suspect)…
Good luck!
ha ha ha now i’ve put my foot in it re gemini!!
actually there was one gemini woman i met yrs ago & we used to get on really really well. we had a great laugh actually. though we were very different obviously! she was the mother of a girl who used to hang about when i pushed my little newborn in his pram. she was about 8 i think her & her friend became my little helpers!! she used to ask what colour i was going to dress my little boy in so she could colour co-ordinate with him that day…funny enough though her house was like mine is, both noisy & welcoming all at the same time!!
anyway just couldn’t leave this pisces/aquarius
thread without making a comment about what was said about pisces not leaving aquarius?? now admittedly i am not in the strongest position i’d like (due to going a bit nuts over this aquamales possible game playing…your guess probably better than mine!!) but still i really don’t think thats true…my first love was a wonderful aquarius boy called tommy. we went out for a yr when i was 15/16 he was a yr younger than me. we were so besotted we would walkabout for hrs with his little jack russel dog & lie on the local football field looking up at the stars…he smoked ‘funny’ cigarettes though at the time i didn’t have a clue what they were lol.
anyway that one yr made a difference in the end…as i finished with him just as i was about to go into the 6th form convinced i’d find the older boys there more interesting & mature…i never did… & yes ironic that now all these yrs later i am getting into such a flap about another aquarius…but for the record i did finish with my aquaboy…i can still see him cycling after me on his grifter bike in tears…ahhhhh bless.
& as for the water analogy…pisces is a water sign so surely we fish come with our own water!
pisces-girl…
sorry somehow missed your post earlier i had my son jumping all over the bed & my laptop too almost as i was posting…
you make some god points…yes it could be as you say i am so used to ‘reading’ ppl i have took it for granted almost & with him like you say of your acqua man its like a brick wall!!
have no clue from one phone call/email to the next what frame of mind he is in or where we’re at…tbh that is also one of the reasons i have so far refused to meet him. i may be a slightly ditsy pisces at times but i also like to know were i stand with others as its bad enough not knowing my own mind from one moment to the next…i mean…i mean what i say at any given time…then can mean something else entirely…fickle creature that i am!! lol
as for you & yours…a year of this no way!! i couldn’t cope…i’d have buried him in the garden!! i can only imagine how it would feel going on our very passionate, feisty calls…
but still no i wouldn’t do it for that long. tbh even just writing this all out today has made me think that hes not for me…it can be too extreme too up & down. but maybe its just an age thing. now whos to say 20 yrs ago i wouldn’t have thrown myself heart & soul into a mad r/ship with this acquamale of mine???!
but i’m 40 now & have a son with autism to care for so i need to be in a r/ship with a man who helps to keep me balanced (quite a feat in itself!) not send me ott!! yes we all have to own our actions & our feelings to some extent…but to allow myself to get sucked into this aquaworld of contrariness & detachment any further is asking for trouble!!
i need a calm monk type man who will worship me, massage me head to toe everyday & always let me have the last word…which sign is he?!
Hey Pisces_girl,
Yeah, that seems close to what I’m feeling. Bittersweet? Well maybe not so bitter as specifically discomforting; I’m just not used to meeting anyone that spins me so. I’ve known her an embarrassingly short period of time, and I’m not at all sure that she’s not interested; I’m just still feeling things out, trying to get my head round things. Could she be playing it cool? Maybe. God knows, she is a woman!
And I would be if I were her.
Re: “I have wondered to myself why I have made this encounter. And why now? The timing couldn’t be any worse. But, I know there is a reason…I just don’t want to force it.” Yeah ditto. Wtf, huh? It is what it is for now: Inhale, swallow, step, exhale, hope. There’s just too much other shit going on, for lack of any better phrase, so this one’s up to the Universe.
re timing & connections i like this quote from richard bach ‘illusion’s…
every person, all the events of your life are there because you have drawn them there. what you choose to do with them is up to you…
i also remember he spoke about us being like magnets attracting those we have something to learn from in this lifetime & them from us…& repelling those we have nothing to learn from & vice versa…its been a few yrs since i read his book but its something along those lines.
one more…by anais nin…
each friend represents a world in us, a world not born until they arrive, and it is only by this meeting that a new world is born.
28 year old Aquarian masculine! non- hetro male. Been with 3 pisces sexually/mentally but not commited. The latter has potential to be with me. ( Very rare to think) But he lives in Russia and is Armenian and I live in NYC and am Half black half white. Not that race is an issue. But We had an argument tonight because of Race Issues in Moscow. Im planning on going there in march and I sent him various links on Neo Nazi racisim in his city. There have been 131 killings alone between the months of Jan and October this year.
Basically after listening two minutes, he put tape on my mouth over the issue, and I HATE when people do that. Especially the ones who say that care so much about you! He told me his life has been one big bowl of positive thinking and that it does nothing to talk about the things you cant change. Im like if you dont talk about them how do you change them?
He refused to talk to me about the issue and kept referring back to how strong our love is and how im such a good person nothing bad will happen. He pulled if you really care about me you wont speak of this issue agian. And he wants to be with me? SORRY this is not working out and we just met. He and many other pisces have the tendency to live in fantasy.
Is it not standard for anyone with a brain to study further than your hotel and tourist area what another countries culture has in store for you? And do people not die or suffer harm for looking at the world through rose colored glasses? I can accept a car crash or a plane crash. But to be beaten or die in the presence of people, place, and a language you dont understand over the color of your skin- Is VERY scary to me, I thought he would have more understanding.
But to him this was me looking at the negative, excuse me if he hasnt had to deal with race. And tell him to say that to the people that have died so violently and continue to do so.
But to him the BBC and video taped murders, are internet/News propaganda. I have little patience for pisces if this is how in denial they live. No love is strong enough for me to give when people discredit your concerns and the worlds woes with optmistic indiffrence.
Aquarius = seeing worlds woes = feeling them = thinking to change them = changing = changed.
i don’t think its right to say indifferent. we pisces are if anything the polar opposite of indifference. we feel everything too much!! we do tend to see things through rose tinted glasses…if allowed to…its such a cosy place after all lol. but seriously while i can understand you being upset if you felt he was really discounting your fears…i can assure you he would have just been caught up in the happy vibe of the moment…finally getting to meet you & for you two be together.
pisces go with the flow (or else aspire to as much as they can…) they believe in positive thinking & know they should guard against negativity…for fear of being dragged down into the murky depths of depression. it doesn’t mean he doesn’t care…but the world is not perfect…it may never be so always make the most of the good things when they come along. it would be such a waste not to.
Me:
Sun Pisces
Moon Pisces
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Pisces
Mars Pisces
Jupiter Libra
Saturn Libra
Uranus Sagittarius
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Him:
Sun Aquarius
Moon Libra
Mercury Aquarius
Venus Pisces
Mars Virgo
Jupiter Virgo
Saturn Virgo
Uranus Scorpio
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra
Can anyone give me some insight into how well/terrible we match? We’ve been together for 2 years. The first year it was bliss and awesome, but going into the second year - I don’t think I have ever been this bottled up emotionally in my life. Need some help!
I’ve tried to post this a couple of times, let’s see if this will work…
Wow reading all of these comments is kind of scary. Lol I’m a pisces and am seeing that we seem to be the sign to avoid for relationships :(. Lol
But my little situation is fairly similar to some of my fellow pisces here..I recently met an aquarius guy online(it was kind of funny since that wasn’t what we were there for) and we chatted well for awhile. We eventually moved onto phone calls and then our first date. His personality is very captivating and refreshing. Our first date was awesome! We ended the night w a little make out and that was it. He called me for a couple of days and the frequency of calls and texts kind of dwindled. It was like when he was there, he was there…but when he was gone, who the hell knew where he went! And me being the needy pisces, hounded him, he finally had to tell me to chill out. Proudly, I have, yet believe me I fight back strong urges to call or text. Surprisingly, he’s stuck around and seems to be trying to figure out, if not tolerate my quirkiness.
Anyways we eventually had seen each other a cpl more times and yeah finally just did the deed lol. I must say that that was absolutely fabulous! We spent two days together and it was actually pretty sweet. So now, here I am, almost 24 hours after leaving our last date and I haven’t heard from him, other than a quick text checking on my arrival home. Obviously, after being told to chill out, I refuse to call him, but it is eating me up. Haha
But I really could relate w some of the things u were all saying, our first kiss was comfortable, yes very passionate, but almost like we’d been there before. In fact, the first date, the second date, every time after that has all been really smooth. It’s odd, I thought that maybe I was missing something, but I guesss it’s not just me. I am having trouble reading this aqua guy. He’s obviously a very sweet, caring individual. When we r together I couldn’t ask for a more attentive person. He holds my hand, brushes my hair off my face, gives me sweet little pecks out of nowhere, pretty protective, almost the perfect guy us silly day dreamers could drum up in our minds. I mean, which one of us hasn’t imagined a 6′2, very yummy looking man at your side being our own little slice of prince charming? Haha But the moment we leave each other’s sides, its almost as if I don’t exist I think. The communication is not there. I’m wondering if it’s just me being needy and his actions are normal or he’s just a jerk and I’m the normal one lol. I apologize for my long winded typing here (something he hates as well) lol and the fact that it’s probably full of misspellings, I’m typing this on my phone and the screen isn’t showing what I’ve written..yikes. Anyhow, does anyone have any words of advice or wisdom? It would be greatly appreciated, I really dig this guy and hope that there’s something worth it there.
Thank u!
for emski & piscesandcrazy (know the feeling!! lol) i ended something just before xmas with an aquarius man before it had really begun -
met on forum/emails phone calls only. i kept putting off meeting in RL… i came to conclusion that for me becky was right, too different to be a couple better off as friends.
now that not to say other pisces & aquarius can’t work it out…but thats what it will entail a lot of work!! or rather as a pisces woman learning to control your every fibre that tells you to call/email him when hes off being aloof!!/forcing yourself to be cool & laidback…instead of wearing our hearts on our sleeve asusual!! sooooo not for me!! i expect men to do the running after me/waiting on my call not the other way around!! & tbh as vain as it sounds before this aquarius man came along it always was that way lol
if its any concellation…they really aren’t doing it on purpose just to rile you/us!! its just them being them…cool, mysterious, off doing their own thing blahblahblah…if you can handle that i’m sure it’ll be a blast…
i’m holding out for someone i can be myself with…my whole self…too emotional for my own good at times…but caring & loving too…& only a teeny tiny bit nuts…honest!!!
WELL I AM AN AQUARIAN GURL AND I JUST GOT WITH A PISCES . I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO AT THIS POINT CAUSE EVERYTHING THING SEEMS SO PERFECT AND RIGHT BUT LOOKING AT IT IM NOT SURE IF WE MIGHT WORK OUT . HE ALREADY FEELING TO NEEDY WANT TO KNO ALL DA TYME DO I MISS HIM….AM I THINKING ABOUT HIM… AND STUFF LIKE DAT…I DONT WANT TO BE MEAN AND TELL HIM THAT HES BEING TOO NEEDY OF ME CAUSE WE JUS START GOING OUT… I NEEED HELP????
Hi. I’ve Been Reading Everyone’s Comments And Everything Seems To Relate To Me And My PISCES Guy. We’ve Been Together A Little Over A Month and Im Kind Of Concerned Because In So Short Time I Have Fell Completely In Love With Him Which Is Very hard For Me To Do Based On All The Heartaches I’ve Had and Its Not That I Dont Think He Loves me In Return Because I Honestly Believe He Does. Im Just Scared That We Might Be Moving Too Fast And I Dont Want To End Up Hurt Again Or Possibly Hurting Him.
Even Though He Does Come Off Very insurcure At Times When I Go To Hang Out With Friends And Some Family Members. I Feel As If Im The More Clingy One. Is That Because I Know He Needs Me Too Constantly Say “I Love You” And “I Miss You” and Im Suddenly In The Habit Of Doing It ALL TEH TIME Or Is It Ultimately Because I’m Scared To Let A Good Thing Go When Usually I Run Away As Soon As The Relationship Gets Serious? PLEASE HELP ME??!!
I have the same feelins as yo do aquarius 1989. I am witha pisces and he is very glingy and makes it almost impossuble to socialize with my family members or friends without him being a little difficult about it, even though I should be bothered since I’m an aquarius i am not. I feel that its explainable.
It happened t me as well, I know that he needs to hear those words such “i love you , i miss u i wish u were here” all teh time 24/7 I;e come to make it a habbit and it is IRRITATING ME. I;ve come to a point where i hate anything related to the words “I love you, adore you cherish you” becouse it a slost its taste by saying it all the time. but telling this to a pisces would hurt him immesly
Its true aquarius tends to get scared from good things, maybe Its becouse good things are predictable, you meet a guy u fall in love get married ,kids ,backyrd with a dog and all that! I got scared from committing to early I predicted everything that woul happen and I saw it as an end not a begining. it was getting serious with me and my ex pisces, it ended very sadly I say but he was hurt more than I.
I am with another pisces now and it almostfeels the same only I am clingy more than he is, and I still dont see the predictivility I so hate. You might be a true aquarian about this, dissapearing when things get seriously good, bt I know that as soon as u get away u’ll realize that u’d miss it. aqiarus gets away for days maybe weeks to get invloved into something different when its over they miss what they suddenly paused, maybe thats what u might do.
Hey Piscesandcrazy,
I was just reading your post and it had me nodding in agreement the whole time. I am with an aquarius man and let me tell you, it has been very interesting.
We met through a friend and from the beginning we would just talk for hours and hours and just get lost in each others company. Our friends used to get annoyed with us, because when we used to go out in a group setting we would just disapper in our little bubble and no one would be able to get in… LOL. In fact, our first date lasted 48 hours!
I totally feel you on the when you guys are together its great but when you are apart it’s like you dont exist or something. My boyfriend and I only lived about 30 mins from each other and we would hang out the entire weekend and then monday through thurs, nothing. Not even phone calls. We would just text each other all day. I would always be desperate for phone conversations but nope, and I certainly wasn’t gonna call him.
My only word of advice is patience. If he is one of the good ones, and he likes you, he will come around. After a few months, we started talking more, hanging out in the middle of the week and then he asked me to move in with him. He is 32 years old and has never lived with a woman before. When I asked him, why me, he said that he admired the fact that I knew that he needed time to reach a certain level of commitment. I as a Pisces definitely prefer the whirlwind romance, loving each other in two weeks, and engaged in three months, but I knew that with an aquarius I needed to wait and be patient because that sort of behavior would drive him away. I knew he was worth altering my ways a little because he is the sexiest, funniest, smartest guy I have ever been with. He is so faithful and trusting and I just absolutely love him! Trust me though, it is not always easy. I get very emotional and he just gets emotionally detached when I get that way. Tears dont work on them at all! He is very level headed and it’s healthy for us pisces girls. Anyway, good luck to you with your aquarius man. How has it been going lately?
hi im a pieces girl, i was born 1988 march 18..
im having a long relationship last year with a gemini guy im happy all the way but it end up into nothing, i believe in a astrology since then that really gemini and pieces is not that good to be with each other,and that is as per my experience. in my side i have to accept the fact that whatever effort a girl could make it will end up into nothing if its really not meant for you. itv takes 4 to 5 mos for me to accept that his not mine anymore until 1 day somebody called me that the other party during that time is pregnan anymore so i really had to stop thinking bout him.
Until Sept 2008 (same year when i broke up with my 2 yrs and 2 mos bf ) i met a guy his older than me, he is 38 turning 39 this year and im turning 21 only this coming March.
before we are friends hanging out having a bonding i knew from that start that he has a family already come to think of it with his age age and the way he act, thou physically appearance he doesnt look like he has a family already, actually he is a good looking guy and even me im a black beauty one.
friendship got deeper as expectedly becasue we go out most of the time and were both working in a same company as a Advertising Executive.
he say that he doesnt have a family then i say only “ok”, 1 day were eating together as i noticed on the back of his id it has contact # and a contact person so when i got the Tel# i know that this would be my key of knowing whats really with him, until i pretend as an HR personnel i called that # and it really shocked me but i have to control it, i talked to his wife confirmed that hey have a 4 year old baby girl and they are married for about 8 years this coming dec 2009. look it really made me feel that thou i have a beauty and brains as they say i dont have luck when it comes in Love Life, i always end up crying and got hurt.. have to confront the guy he lied to me what is his intention of keeping the truth?he explained his in love with me and i cant deny it that i am inlove with him also. Ill tried not to get in touch with him just to lessen the communication that make me fall for him more deeper but then it didnt work because we are working in a same company its always been possible to have a eye contact with him. And now im in love and happy with him
As per him his not happy anymore with his family they are living together just because of the child and he is under by his wife that makes him feel a guy with a non sense a guy without a right by making a decisions.
I know i have to end up this thing before it got more complicated i know everytime weve ben together i know that somehow althou they are ot in good terms og his wife still wife is wife and family is important to him.
i know i have to end this up but how? he keep on speding time with me just to be with me effort love care sweetness and a lot more.
i dont wanna ruined my life i dont wanna end up crying anymore , i know that this is not really good to continue especially in the eyes of the god above.
Somebody can help me ther to give me an advice? i hope so..
have a blessed dy everyone!
Beauty and Brain,
You certainly are True Blue to your Pisces sign, aren’t you? Making excuses seems to be one of our strongest characteristics. Not a bad trait, but sometimes it clouds our judgment. Based on the information you provided, I think you know what you need to do. Aside from the fact that he’s married and has a child (which should be a red flag from the start), he LIED to you. Please don’t fall for the “I did it to protect you” bit. He did it out of selfishness. Sure, he is attracted to you and likes you (which may be one reason he lied), but ultimately he is selfish (and a liar)–certainly not the ingredients for a bright future. IF he was truly unhappy in his current relationship he would leave. Trust me on this.
In my opinion, you are being manipulated–and it’s working. Think about it! You’re young and probably have a lot going for you–and it strokes his ego to know that you are interested in him. Of course he doesn’t want to lose that, so he will say whatever he can to keep it. Don’t be his pet or toy. YOU call the shots! Stand up for yourself and settle for nothing (NOTHING) better than the best! YOU ARE THE CAT’s MEOW!
Take pride in that and you will get the great man (who is honest AND single) you deserve.
hi!
Thanks for those pieces of advice! appreaciated very well and it really makes me feel that the truth really hurts, most of those advice that you have given to me is true and yet it really hurt me that much, i did ready myself for those comments, i talked to myself 1 time i know that just in case that his husband knows about this althou his husband is having an idea with these affair that we have,. id just dont know what to do now, i wanna put a distance in this affair beween me and him,for the reason that i wanna end up this thing for before it get more deeper and until it make me feel that im down and i cant find myself but inlove with him. i wanna end up this affair becasue every girl has a simple dream walk in a aile attending ceremonies with gods presence i wanna do those things,i dont wanna hurt myself i dont wanna see myself crying…. BUT HOW CAN I ? he keep on warning me if he saw me with the other guy he kill that guy, he wants to have a baby boy in me which is i want it too actualy! oh! i know its sounds like so crazy..id just dont know what to do, im having looking in his face,im melting each time we kiss…. but i wanna end up this things but how? im trying to pull away myself against in him,i dont wanted to have a man beside me but totaly mine, even half of him is not mine, and i know that i dont need to hope i have nothings against in his wife, but he keeps on saying me that his happy with me. i talked to him i said i know that just in case you have to choose either me and her i know that youre not gonna choose me because you still wanted to choose your wife rather than me, but then again his reason is if i can just go back into a time that i am a single and i met a personality that you have i wont think twice to marry you and hava a child with you. Sounds so sweet ? but its too early to stick into it, i know.
Beauty and Brains,
The truth does seem to be hard to swallow sometimes, but you’ll find yourself choking on it in the long run if you decide to continue with such a volatile affair. I’m not in your shoes, so I want to try to stay fairly neutral with the advice. When concerning matters of “Love” we tend to overlook even the most sensible and best advice. I am sorry that you are going through this dilemma. I know the struggle between what you should do and want to do is very real, and the line between right and wrong can be very faint. But, as I said earlier, I believe you know what you should do…you just don’t want to believe it. IF that makes any sense. This may sound very UNpisces of me, but I have learned that our hearts can be very deceptive (not to say we shouldn’t follow our instincts, but due to our vulnerable nature we have to practice more discernment). You’ve listened to your heart thus far, now try listening to your head. What would you advise a friend to do in your situation? Do you feel you could look at it objectively? Maybe this would help you to see the situation as it is instead of how you imagine “it could be.”
How can you stop thinking about him? My suggestion would be to preoccupy yourself with some positive outlets to get your mind on other things. It’s like a drug or bad habit, and albeit rough in the beginning, you will get through it. But just like a bad habit, you have to WANT to stop or you won’t be able to combat it.
It seems to me that you have allowed yourself to settle for something/someone that isn’t very good for you. Above all, this should be your main concern. People can only treat you the way you let them. And you should really try to reflect on why you think this is acceptable.
You seem like a sweet girl with an enormous heart. Please don’t be so gullable as to let some jerk take advantage of that. I’ve been there, too….Don’t let his puppy-dog eyes, smile and charm get the best of your better judgment.
Hope it all works out for the very best.
Hi there guys
Pisces men can be adventurous and Kinky.
Little Impaler you have got it spot on. LOL. I for one love my girl to dress up, nurse, police women, sexy teacher with spectacles punishing me for been a bad boy!!
Pinning her to the wall and dominating her.
Hi Guys
This is all so shockingly accurate. I think that this relationship can work.
It is only possible with a lot of patience and compramises from both side. Maybe more from the Pisces male.
The Aquarius needs to be more loving and caring and more in touch with the Pisces emotions and the Pisces probably less needy and emotianal and more Alpha as well.
I unfortunately learned to late.
To Pisces Guy:
Seeeeeee, that is what I am saying. Not all pisces men are bored in the bed. But my pisces male friend, who is the kinky one. I some times believe his a Aries in disguise. First, I thought he was an Aries, but when he told me he was pisces, I was truly in shock.
To kelly:
Just be straight with him, if it bother him that you were being straight forward with him, that is his problem, and maybe he is not the guy for you.
Don’t be afarid to be honest with your partner. They can’t read your mind, if something is bothering you about them, or anything tell them.
To Midnight: I read your comments on here, and I couldn’t agree more. I also like my men firecy, really adverturous in and out of the bedroom, that have so much enegry, they keep up with me!
I to enjoy a good arguement, and a man must be willing to speak his mind with me, and be straightforward. And I say, there’s nothing wrong in having a bit of a battle before bed time, either.
To tell you the truth, something about the Aries men attracts me. A lot what people say about those men when they with a Aquarius women is the loving making is beyoud WOW, their relationship is totally AMAZING!!!!!
Men like Gordon Ramsey, I know he is not Aries, but that type of firey attudite, just get me, I like it! I like man who is forcues, knows what he wants, and when he sees something he wants he goes for it.
I need some help from all of you out there…I am an aquarius female who met a pisces female back in november (it was actually on election day right after Obama won)and we hit it off really well…i really thought it would work. we saw each other for about a week just about every day and she was just as into me as i was in to her…all of a sudden one day she just stopped talking to me. Needless to say I was so confused, and pretty upset about it considering I thought it would go pretty far because things were looking hopeful. I got over it, but then saw her out here and there and it made it pretty tough but we would say hi and whatever. I was pretty irritated at her still because she never really apologized and just said she couldn’t commit. Then in the middle of January she told me how sorry she was and apologized a million times and felt awful. We hooked up and that was that, and she acted like it would go further. Well she left for school about 2 weeks ago (it is only a half an hour away) without really saying anything to me. Just today right at midnight she texted my friend and told her to say happy birthday to me for her. The fact that she remembered my birthday was exciting to me because I only told her once. But I don’t know if she is playing games or what because its like she was almost thinking and trying to remember to say happy birthday as soon as she could and right at midnight. She knows we are not “friends” and knows that it probably wouldn’t work because we have gone too far for that to happen. I really don’t know what to think, or what to say. Pisces can be so indecisive! I think she is confused…and she is confusing the crap out of me! I have no clue what to say to her…or even if I should say anything to her. Any advice anyone?
hi ..im lost
that words might well be my name lol.. im 21 pisces female and im gonna be 22 march 18.. pisces_dragon. what you wrote ..brought me to tears its soooo true … i moved to a new city with friends ..and we always go out and i met this dj.. and he not really that attractive but t heres something about him that make me weak to the knees.. hes well i used to say this .. before i lost mind .. that kinda guy i would never look twice at them … he player type .. he’s a DJ .. that i don considere a legit job.. and not my type at all… but somehow i felt for it .he the only guy that makes wanna lose my virginity ..like that im sexualy attrated to him.. lol. i dont know if he likes me or not.. because he definitly did that . calling and text for couple days straight then disapear . but this what he says to me .when he sees me .. he give me two kisses on that cheek (ps: this is how they say to each other the french’s) and he always tell me ..i like u .. u smell good that i wanna eat you..ur beautifull. and that makes me fall for him all over .coz im that hopeless romantic. but i think he playing with me ..its almost like im boosting his ego .. coz at tha clubs theres always 3 to 8 guys that will flirt with me and he will be looking at me the whole night so much soo that other people noticed it..and i had couple guys that came up to talk to me .and they approach very close and its almost seems like i was intimate with him and look at him .. kinda sending this message .. i know u want her but i got her. and thats when he acts all strange and ask me bout it .. he became very nagging .clingy ….
this what he does to me …. i send him two fridays ago and the whole he watching me i can feel it ..and aat the end someone guy was trying to holla at me but i was ignoring him and he was not leaving me alone.. so he comes and theres a glass mirror door between us . so we make eye contact and he give that im watching sign. and i brushed it off ..after couple minutes im struggling with the guy and as soon he leaving me finaly .. he hit the glass door and give me that sign again .. he scared me and i was told him come see .. and he takes me in his arm .. and hold me very close .and then when staring to lose focus . lol.. and he says that im watching u baby.. i told him ya you do tthat and u never come see me (the clingy me lol) he says im comin to you now . and ignore me for couple days .. so i told him if he was trying to get to pants and not trying to wife me .. forget it … he SAID OK!!!! that hurted . lol .. so i told him its fine and lets keep it as friends so stop ur comments when u see me .. he said ok.. so this friday i seen again .. im not looking for him … im at the back .. so he sees me somehow and comes to say hello ..and kisses on that cheeks .. and as i backing away away from him.. he pull me in and says ur beautifull . i said thank you.. trying to escape him again .but pulls me again and says ur beautiful as usual. .I MEAN COME ON!!!!!!!!! .. so i was baack at the same feeling … but now im tired i wanna be happy ..not moody ..
It’s like a drug or bad habit, and albeit rough in the beginning, you will get through it. But just like a bad habit, you have to WANT to stop or you won’t be able to combat it.@@@@
that when i read that .. i cried .. so im going to visit my mom for 2 or 3 months ..and im hoping that i MOVED on… coz when i come here i will be fine.. but i got this other side that i wanna make sure that he sees what he could have had..
ANY FEEDBACK WOULD BE APPRECIATED.
Ps: i wrote all of this ..listening to usher’ get used to her.
To clynn8:
Just reading your story, you have me confues what she wants. I am with you, I am just confues as you are and I must say you have the right to be.
My advice is, if she keeps doing what she does, you need to set her straight and tell her how serious YOU are, and tell her that you don’t like this feeling of yes and no. Give it to her straight, tell her she needs to make up her mind, if she doesn’t want the same things as you, tell her you will end it.
Because this is totally nonsense what she doing.
Hi there lost girl..
It’s was nice meeting you over the net we’re having the same age birthdate,.
I do also have a confusion on me, i wanna clarify it’s a confusion and not a problem.
Really people are crazy when it comes in love it’s really true, they easily fall in love but in times of trouble they dont know how to escape into it, well im not saying all because there is a person who knows what to do but they dont know on how to apply the things that could be helpful for them.
In Responce to your situation much better to leave that fucking guy! im sorry for being rude saying that kind of word it’s sounds so sarcastic but what he did to you he is a “fucking guy” know why? if a man really loves you virginity doesnt matter, a true man with a true guy can love you for who you are accepted for who your are and love you for who you are, all good and bad things are appreciated and understand for a guy who has a true love from you, and as per reading your concern all of those pointers that i had said that guy is not desere to be love and to be respected. put a distance into that guy your are just easily attracted to him and now what you feel is that an emotion that takes you over from that guy. Move on! he is just came into your life for a SEASON ONLY AND NOT A FOR A REASON , for a season only because he is jst trying his luck to include you in his lists, i bet you he doesnt came for a lifetime ok?
Move on! you can go to your mom be opened it’s a saying that mom’s knows best but really it is,before i dont believe but now i know they do have an instinct that really works when we listen to them,ok?
By moving on girl i can give you a tip, keep yourself busy at work, dont look back just look forward,applicaton is all up to you.
know why me ? i’d been so much in love with a guy but then again it ends up into nothing and it really hurts me so much when times that im falling so deeply with him actually we’ve been 2 years and 2 months and we broke up last year only, in the middle of the year to be exact . while im fallen in love with him he get fall in love with his officemate, while i know that things is getting harder anymore i’ll tried to work things out but it didn’t work until i gave up my feelings thou i really ont like to loose him, but i might choose to gave up my feelings than holdong on into nothing but heartache and disappointment in return, until 4 mos since we broke up his officemate emailed me saying “hi mam how are you ? got a news he is having a upcoming family now the girl is pregnant already” it’s shocks me but all i can say is “alryt that’s nice, wish them luck’ but my heart really turned into pieces cause i know im still holding but at that point i know i have to stop hoping for any reconcilation because the gf is pregnant already, so by that i know that i really have to move on and accept the fact that the relationship begins and now its the end…. i move on! Chin up girl!
ok let me show you my tips
ACCEPTANCE + ADJUSTMENT + APPLICATION = MOVING ON, it will be a better and stronger you!
Have a blessed day always
I’m an Aquarius girl and I dated a Pisces a long long time ago…5-6 years ago. We were young, and in love. We dated for 2 months, he abandoned me, never called me or anything, and then he called me two months later and we dated again for another two months…then he left again (he never officially ended the relationship)…I thought of it as a cycle that I did not want to go through so I ended it permanently by cutting off all contacts with him and making sure that he did not have any of my contact information. He was the only guy who broke my heart completely. He eventually got in contact with me again. He seems to find me every couple-few years. We talk and reminisce. I’ve never told him I loved him, but I really did, and I still care a lot about him. But he used to jump from relationship to relationship, and I always felt like I was second best or not good enough for him at all. And although I am an Aquarius, I am not emotionally detached. I made sure that he knew I how much I loved him even though I did not say it. I was very attracted to him and we were both all about the PDA. Although we were not exclusive, we were in a monogamous relationship. I’m not sure what we went wrong. He knows now how much I loved him. I’m older now and more mature. He seems to be at the same stage in his life as when he was last with me, except with kids now. Still now when I talk to him, I find myself weak. I’m currently dating a Gemini and he’s amazing (we’ve been together for almost 3 years and he treats me like a princess)…but for some reason I just have this soft spot for my Pisces ex. Sometimes I hope that maybe one day he and I could be together again. I still care a lot about him and I care about what he does with his life. I do agree with all of you, Pisces are emotional, but this one didn’t seem to need reassurance that I loved him or that I was always going to be there for him no matter what ( I think that’s why he keeps getting in contact w/ me). Although he is a day dreamer, a bit lazy, unorganized, shallow and materialistic; he was extremely independent and he has a beautiful intuitive soul that I’ve always seen in his eyes and that I’ve always admired. I do wish him the best of luck in his life even though he was awful to me when we were together. I still tell him that I’ll always be there for him b/c I feel like I understand him and b/c I still care about him.
Piscesgal,
So sorry to just now respond, it has certainly been a very up and down past couple of weeks. So how’s it been going you ask? Hmm, well we are still seeing each other, still on his terms for the most part it seems. But it has gotten easier for me to somewhat detach myself a bit, which somehow makes him come calling haha. It’s funny because our dates are also two day affairs. The crappy part is that we are averaging seeing each other only every two weeks (he lives about an hour away). I would think he’d want to see me more. I’m not sure if I’m fooling myself into thinking it’s anything more than sex at this point. I even brought it up to him (in a joking manner of course) and he laughed it off and said no. Hmmm. I’m not sure where to go at this point, but I know this relationship is new. I just wish I had a clearer picture of maybe not so much what we are but the potential of what we could be. I just hate to waste my time, energy and heart on someone that doesn’t feel the same. The more time I spend with him, the harder it is to leave his side. I miss him almost immediately after we say goodbye. Yesterday after leaving we both sent the same text to each other at the same time, the typical thank you, had a great time, blabla..haha I thought that had to mean something right?lol then he says,’I hope you’re not too mad at me’. I asked,’why would I be mad at you, besides the fact that you like to hurt my feelings. Haha jk.’ And he responded,’I'll try really hard not to anymore.’ He says things like that and then does things totally contradictory. I’m still kind of in limbo with him I feel, but then again it hasn’t been THAT long we’ve been seeing each other. I guess patience is key but that’s not something I have a lot of. Plus my mind plays tricks on me. I can be in a totally good place with him and an hour later convince myself that he’s not that into me haha ugh!!! I just wish I could get him to open up a bit more, I just don’t want to push him..any advice? But congrats to you on the whole moving in! Awesome! I guess you played the game well and won ! ;). Was he eager or reluctant to bring you around his family in the really early stages of your relationship?
heey, i’m an aquarius with a crush on a pisces guy [i think hes pisces anyway..], what should i do to grab his attention? lizzie xx
Im going through this problem right now. I’m Aquarius woman totally falling for this Pisces Man. Its terrible the way we end up getting seperated in most situations…sometimes I wonder if his feelings are mutual or if he hates being away from me as much as I hate being from him. I end up losing him some how and deep down inside im kinda mad that he could let this happen. I never let him know that im mad though because I know how SENSITIVE he his. I usually let it go because I love him or I might touch on it in a nice way. We’re perfect for each other although now we’re long distance. That will never help matters. I always get the sense that I’m guilt tripping him on purpose although thats not what I meant to do. I just wanted to let him know how I felt. If only he could see that I would drop my aquarian ways and be his love slave. I dont know what to do now. I think he will come back to visit me. I end up blowing things out of porportian trying to rush him along because I know I will be losing him again soon. Sometimes I just wonder. Don’t you realize we’re a match made in heaven? We dress a like, we think alike, we love the same interests and goals in life. Is he completley oblivious to all this? Sometimes I look at him. He looks so aloof. Is there anything going on in that fishy head of his? Could it only be me who recognizes this? Has he realized already and just chooses to do nothing…?? How many times do I have to remind him what we’re worth until he is finally the one to come to me?
Keri,
I’m a pisces man. I’d guess that your pisces can pretty much read you like a book. Pisces are very intuitive. I think the intuitiveness is even more so when connecting with an aquarian. For myself, even being in the presence of an aquarian female is overwhelming to my psyche - I’m not sure why, it just is.
About the only thing I can think to recommend in your situation is to “back off” a bit. Don’t continue to drown him with your desire to possess him, or connect with him mentally. I can assure you that he is most likely already overwhelmed by your presence. Just you being around without doing or saying much at all may be enough to bring some life to, or back to your relationship, whatever may be the case.
Good luck.
keri,
Why is it that you’re always separating? Were you two ever an item? You sound very concerned and want to work things out with him, but what are the details about your relationship with him?
Im an aquarius currently with a pisces man. We separated once about 3 years ago because of miscommunication i guess you would say lol and he never gave up loving me. He never gave up trying to be with me. I moved on with sum1 else and he would still keep on. At first his continuous effort would ware me out but when my next relationship hit rock bottom, he was there. I moved away and he still kept on insisting for that whole year. We would talk on the phone every single day, and i dont know what it was that would basically force me to keep calling him, but i would just have that urge to speak to him every single day. But once he would try to explain his love for me, i never wanted to hear it. Until i put myself in his position and asked myself if i were him how would i feel if my ex doesnt want me to express my love towards him. I would feel terrible because i would want him to hear me and knowing him he would hear anything and everything i would have to say. So one day i finally decided to hear what he wanted to tell me. I never thought we would ever get back together, I never thought we would even kiss or see eachother for that matter. BUT WE DID. and i do not regret it. He’s an incredible person with a great personality who always seems to handle my craziness with patience. I trust him, and he trusts me. I care about him just as much as he cares about me. AND yes we are in a long-distance relationship for now lol…Now i love him like i’ve never loved any1 before =] BUT im the needy one lol Im the 1 who needs to speak to him all the time even to stay quiet on the phone lol idk why….and he’s the 1 that cant go on to0 long without seeing me…so in the longrun it all works out sumhow…and it all falls into place i guess…jus let it go with the flow like ppl say
I can’t really give any details. I honestly just want this guy to be happy. He can do whatever he wants really. He could leave me in the gutter for 5 months for all I care. I think the problem is that I can’t except the fact that pehaps I’m too late. There was a time when I left my pisces in the dust for a while because I was distracted. Ive tried to apologise in different ways. I try not to make him nervous; I can’t help myself though because I feel so connected and comfortable, its easy for me to be myself. I care deeply for my pisces. I’d like to think he knows this. I don’t want to possess him John. I don’t think he would be happy like that. I would like to know why being in the presence of an aquarian female is overwhelming for your psyche though?
I know I already blew it. I probably blew it a long time ago. Oh well, good thing Im optimistic. Things will change. Pisces don’t like to be figured out but they gotta realize what they’re doing to us aquarians.
wow, i am so happy i found this page….its so true..everything i’ve read pretty much describes my relation with the aquarius girl. i know im a clingy emotional guy, i just didn’t know it was MAJOR turn off for aquarius girl….damn i really screwed things up.
im a pisces girl whose started seeing an aquarius guy. im willing to sacrifice my emotional demands to give him freedom if it will make him happier being with me. this forum has been a huge help in letting me see how i could come accross if i get too deep with this aquarian guy. hopefully i’ll learn how to be more emotionally dependant.
So far im kinda enjoying the freedom as well, as i just ended a relationship with an overly clingy gemini
I am a pisces female.
I have this thing for an aquarius guy.
I am so drawn to him. It is really strange how we keep running into each other at different points in our lives and he has always been attracted to me & made the first move.
He is a very close friend and we are so much alike. We are both afraid of commitment, me more than him.
My mars & venus are both in aquarius.
His mars & venus are in capricorn.
I have an aries rising & he has an aries moon.
Being so afraid of a commitment, before we take any more steps towards it I just wonder if we even have a chance…
I am a pisces female. I have had a connection with a scorpio male whom I’ve know since I was 16 years old. This is a truly powerful connection that I cannot describe. We’ve both admitted this connection to one another and realize that the potential is there for a wonderful, long-term committment. The problem is…we’re both with other people. I’m married to a taurus and he’s engaged to another woman. I really love my taurus husband and struggle daily with the connection I have for the scorpio. Every day I think of the scorpio and the kind of life we could have. My questions: 1)How do I let him go? and 2) Should I tell him good-bye or see what happens in the future? The feelings I have for the scorpio are taking away from my taurus. I can’t have my cake and eat it too (but that sure would be nice)!
lol I find this str4ange. on some posts it sounds like some Pisces guys are sort of autistic… thats just what I think
Trust me, at times Pieces seems a little autistic..lol. I’m an aqua girl and I have a strange relationship with a Pieces. We have this total fascination with each other, and when we don’t see each other for a while we actually search each other out! It’s very hot/cold. When we are “on” we are in our own world with our own little private jokes and people wonder why we aren’t traditionally dating..When we are “off”, which could be the next day, it’s almost childish.
It’s kind of funny. My friends and I all think that he and I were lovers in a past life..lol It’s almost like we have this chemical draw towards each other, almost like a total fascination. The fascination is not enough for a relationship, but I’ll admit that it’s a lot of fun! lol.
hi
i’m a aqua man.well i love a pieces girl(i haven’t proposed to her yet).But after i read few articles about compatibility…i was a bit dipressed because i love her a lot but all articles say the relationship is a hard one…is it true?
in short what i want to tell is she means everything to me n i dont want to see it end
I am a Pisces girl married to a Cancer guy for 2 1/2 years and I have a daughter with him but my Aquarius ex who made my heart broken still emailing me that he still love me and i still think of him everyday(though i tried to move on)..I just got confused sometimes..
please help!!
this is the longest story so i can’t write much details..I’m a Pisces and head over heals for a Aquarius… we met 4 years ago worked together for 2 of those years..he told everyone that he really liked me and i’m going to be his,(he did have a reputation with being a player).. i was interested but didn’t understand why he would neva talk to me…but everytime i would look his way he would always be watching me….this went on for a couple of months, i started hanging around the other guys at work, than his mood changed he was really mean to me for a couple of weeks?? one night i got a txt message out of the blue at 1.00am in the morning asking how i was, we talked a little and that was it…few days later he asked me to go clubbing with him and his mates, i declined (for the reason we havnt really ever spoken). couple of days later he txt me at night to come round, i was having drinks with my girlfriends feeling a little more confident ( remember im a fish).. when i arrived he didnt really talk much we put on a movie and he held my hand through the movie and we both feel asleep.. he has a pretty bad rep for playing girls i have herd so many stories at work about him wich was the reason for my gard being up so high…i started seeing this other guy (as a friend) that we worked with, when he found out he txt me is it true and wanted to see me again straight away wich i declined cause he was already being so over protective…trying to cut this story short i can go on and on there was soooo much drama…we stopped working together for other reasons not due to this we moved on to other jobs but stayed incontact he messaged me nearly every week wanting to see me, i really liked him but the time of night he would txt me was way to late felt like a booty call…wich i did tell him thats how i looked at it…he adv me that it wasn’t i declined again though, then i started saying yes went to his house over 9 times in these past years and nothing he was just so quite and im a (fish) so i was so shy we didnt really talk at all (felt like grade school lol), but we would just lay for hours saying silly stuff but nothing serious, i would get up in the morning ( yes slept together in the same bed no touching though?) and go to leave but he would always ask me to stay longer (was this cause he liked me or just wanted something?) lots of nights like that…i would txt him to see how his day was (nothing) no reply at all, and then weeks out of the blue (yes night time) he would txt me..didnt always ask me over just wanted to talk alittle…everytime that i txt him he doesn’t reply?? but takes days, weeks, or months to gt back to me….it got so annoying i snap at him when he txt me , and said if u like me say it cause im over this game, the messages got mean on both sides…didnt hear from him for a month felt bad cause wat if he was just shy (but remembering he has girls all over him so, everyone says).. i message him thinking of u and sweet things like that..no reply but yes month later i get a reply (nite time again).. so im annoyed again for him taking so long to reply this just goes on and on and on….i havnt heard from him in a year until a month ago, and yes i was annoyed cause i just was getting over him (so i like to think)…and yes i yelled at him in a txt again then said sorry days later… have sent him few txts no replys…but this has been going on for 4 years now! 4 YEARS! so i don’t think this is the end and i need help….does he just want me cause i was a challenge or did he have serious feelings for me, or was he just playing around to begin with…sorry for the spelling and bad writing just really upset and confussed atm…
ok one other thing sorry!! lol, are we as pisces sooooOOoo inlove with aquarius cause there is a mystery in place… and i think aquarius love mind challenges and love to work people out this is way they stick around..but they need to release that even us as a pisces can’t work ourself out lol but true..So i really think pisces plays to many games with aquriuans only to keep them interested…but if we were to let it all out the aquriuans would be out the door running for there life lol… i think deep down pisces know this and think that if they stay there distants that the aquriuans will open up??
But there is such a strong connection between the 2, u don’t even need words just sitting there with each other was enough…or is this part of a pisces fantasy?? and i’m stuck in make believe??
from the first moment we looked at each other, i wanted him to be the one, i’ve never done that be4….i think a pisces needs a true love story other signs can live without it, but we dream about it all the time.. the thought of ever being with him sexual is to much for me to handle i think it would be the first time at feeling what sex is ment to be about (fireworks)… thanks for hearing my side, will be looking forward to feed back..
I’m a Pisces lady and god I went trough hell
ones when I was in love and in relationship with this Pisces guy !!!
he broke my heart so badly and made me cry like no other guys did in my entire life .
I still feel the pain when I think back about the time I was with him ,I don’t even believe in love mach or compatibility between Pisces and Pisces
we don’t go together at all.
he is was the baby
and I was the mother
I really needed to have a stronger man to look after me and care for me .
he was always saying that I didn’t give him attention though I did
really I had given everything to him to make him happy and yet still wasn’t enough for him
so the relation ship finely ended up me being confused and not knowing what I did wrong and he kept ignoring me until I somehow felt that It was over .
everything you guys say is so true about Pisces man .
yes
they ignore you like hell ,and it’s painful to be ignored especially if you have an emotional moon sign .
they can brake your heart in pieces
they are needy
they can be losers ,not going to work and be lazy dreaming all they long
and not being strong enough to make things clear or make decisions
they want you to say you love them ,,ehm lets say well every “”" half of seconds “”
and I hate it.
Now I am in relationship with a Scorpio man and I love him to death he is everything that I was looking for .
I think Pisces guys need a strong women
Pisces females are just 100%feminine and weak and emotional in nature .
so I don’t recommend this kind of match to any one … ohno no no no!!!
thanks everyone for reading about my personal opinion !
obsessivepisces,
You were so right on about the connection between pisces and aquarius. I’ve yet to understand the connection myself. I’m a male pisces, and you are apparently female so we too are different in many ways, but this thing with aquarian seems to be the same for both of us.
The aquarian that I almost got involved in a relationship with, I later found out that she was feeling the same way towards me. I felt like my heart was going to jump right out of my chest. I seriously had this really heavy feeling in my chest - I’ve only felt this way towards an aquarian. I don’t know if I’d call it love, or lust, or just some sort of unexplainable thing. I did later find out that she had felt the exact same thing going on inside of her, and really couldn’t understand why. So… it’s not just a pisces fantasy - or at least not in my case. However, I had a deep gut feeling then, and still believe that a relationship with that aquarian would have gone nowhere. I do have very good friends who are aquarian and everything works very well at the friendship level.
I’m an Aquarius girl with a Pisces guy. He can be moody at times but that just makes me want him more and he can become quite dependent and stress me out. All my romantic relationships have been shared with the fish and so far they’ve been an emotional high for me.
I am an aquarius woman and I love my pisces man! I think this talk about aquarius & pisces not compatible is silly. We are so in love. We have been together for like 8 months now. We go to movies all the time and play music together. Its kind of like a constant dream. Yeah, there have been a few times where we had some power struggles but we get over it cause we love eachother. Don’t always believe what this says cause pisces & aquarius are meant for eachother.
I have a happy story!I am a Pisces woman married to an Aquarius man and we are very happy.of course alot of the needy pisces traits & non emotional aquarius stuff all there,we manage to work things,My husband works 12 hours a day so the space thing is very much covered for both.I am very feminine spontanious,& unsual in many ways and I think all that helps the relationship.I didnt have to change the way I am cause I have always been like that.I also try my hardest to understand the aquarius being.I have never been happier in my life than with my aquarius,we are like best friends I sometimes feel like we have to much fun.I guess that could be because the person that I was with before him for 6 years was a Capricorn and he had lots of rules and expectations.I still care & even love him only because he is my daughters dad though.
Wow…this page has some very interesting facts and useful information…I’m an Aquarius Queen and the man of my dreams and the one I’m in total love with my King is a Pisces…BUT our relationship is hot and cold…he wants me one day and doesn’t want me the next…it’s confusing and hurtful and I don’t know what to even think anymore. I just want him to love me unconditionally like I love him. We have such an intense connection when we’re together…but I’m getting so worn out with him being so selfish…I just want to know how to fix our problems?!?
Hi im a male pisces sun with venus in aquarius I got to know this female Aquarius sun with venus in Capricorn friend and we been really getting closer at first we just started to click and things went well, not SO close but closer than a casual aquantance She has a boyfriend but lately we have been hanging out a lot because we have classes together and got really closer when we are alone together we tend to flirt a lot and she touches me a LOT (grab my arms, rest her feet on my knees, putting her head on my lap, kissing me on the cheek wehn shes really happy, she even tells me things like how even though theres a goal keeper that doesnt mean I cant make a goal-meaning i can win her love from her boyfriend) Does she really like me or is she just toying around with me? the thing is that she tends to flirt with me when we are doing school work (and most of the time I am the one helping her) and whenever she gives me this loving vibe that i cant get enough of, ive been slowly doing more and more favors for her (buy her medicine when shes sick, help her on her hw, i even wrote a whole essay for her) then wen she doesnt need me for anything she doesnt text or call. I do call her and text her but she is always busy with something else I feel so loved and feel as though she really likes me when we are together,The only time we do meet is when we are doing school work But i feel so detached and feel like strangers when she says shes busy whenever i ask to meet for coffee or something as a aquarian female does she really like me? or is she just playing games with me so that she can use me for school work etc? i feel so lost
Wow what a site!! I find it so amazing the similiar feelings mentioned to mine and my aquarian man. I’m a pisces gal who’s been seeing an aquarian fella on and off for about 1 and half years. (I must say it’s been off more than on due to my frustation to his aloof antics). It’s funny because my pet name for him is - Mr Aloof! When we first met I had just come out of a long term relationship and wasn’t so keen but after afew dates I found myself head over heels. The more my heart was involved the more distant he became (or possibly the more needy I became) anyway rather than hang around for his non communication I ended it by telling him I couldn’t do it anymore and deleted his number from my phone. A few months past and he contacted me again just to go down the same path and me end it before getting hurt. He has just recently got in contact with me again. I have caught up with him once since and the meeting was amazing. He showed me with hugs, kisses and affection that he cared for me. This time I am trying to distant myself and let him do the contacting but I’m finding it really really hard as I feel like I’m not being myself. I feel like it will be worth the wait as I have such an amazing connection with this guy when I am with him. Like nothing I’ve ever felt before. Wish me Luck!
Dear Pisces,
I Love you!
Signed
Aquarius
Help!
I’m an Aquarius girl with a Pisces guy. We’ve been together for 5 years. About year two, he broke up with me, saying he wasn’t “feeling it” anymore. That lasted for about a day. He came back, apologized and said he was just feeling insecure. He did that again about a month later, again admitting he was feeling insecure.
We constantly talk about our relationship and try to work on it, but sometimes, work, the bills, life gets in the way.
Year three, we ended up buying a house together and I thought things were going great. Until my ex-husband who is still very much a part of my son’s life started calling. I thought my fiance was cool about it, but then he gave me the “I’m not feeling it anymore” talk and asked that I move out. It took me about 2 months to be able to move out and during those two months, he still bought me flowers for my bday and Valentine’s day, we still were intimate and it seemed like we were a happy couple. But he said nothing had changed. So I moved out. Two or three days later. He called to say he made a mistake. I didn’t move back in, but I would come and stay on the weekends. Eventually he proposed and gave me a ring. We ended up starting a business together. He already has one business but isn’t doing so well due to the economy so I’ve been taking care of all the bills, which I don’t mind ‘cuz we are a team. Well, somewhere along the way, I work 6 days a week, we lost the “connection”. He says he is not “feeling it and we have great sex, are best friends, but we don’t kiss enough so he thinks we should break up”. He says he is depressed and this relationship is part of the reason. We still have fabulous sex. We had a fabulous weekend together with friends. We still cuddle. He still brings me my coffee in the am and cooks me dinner. We still kiss goodbye and goodnight. Our families love each other. We have the cutest little dog and he and my son have a great relationship. Oh, and we have a vacation planned in August that he still wants to take together. But he is insistin on moving out and that we break up. He says it’s “him, not me”.
I am a true Aquarius, but I’ve been reading up alot on the Pisces and I’ve been trying to be more affectionate and attentive. I think he likes that but is it too little too late?
I forgot to add, he is usually so sweet to me when he’s not feeling insecure. He sends me sweet texts all the time, calls me at work several times a day (I admit I do act annoyed at times, only because I am busy), he’s always wanting me close to him.
When he’s “not feeling it” though, no texts at all. Still says “have a great day” and “be careful”.
I am so confused!
AquaGirl,
I too am a Pisces.
That sounds like just about a perfect relationship. Except… for that one itsy, bitsy, “thing”, that could just blow the whole thing right out of the water.
It does however seem like it could be fixed, but would require something that may be just about impossible for an Aquarian to do. A Pisces has times when he needs space, and I do mean “needs” space. Just like we all need to breath and eat, a Pisces needs times of being left alone to recollect himself. You may think of it as moments of insecurity, and some may see it as something else. I as a Pisces see it as somewhat of a curse, but it’s something that is part of us nonetheless.
If you see him leaning in that direction and can just let him have that space without your intervening, this relationship may actually work.Now, what I mean by not intervening, is that you just leave him alone and not make an issue of it. In other words don’t say, “okay, I can see you need your space and I’m going to let you have it”. But rather if he begins to seem somewhat distant, just try and let him be distant for a while. Don’t discuss or try to analyze his being in that state of mind, but rather just continue to be your normal loving and caring self.
It’s kinda difficult for me, as a male Pisces to actually explain what you should do. I’m married to a Gemini, and she deals with it all absolutely perfectly! I am so in love with my wife, and she with me and I do all the things for her, as you say your Pisces does for you. I think many of us Pisces males are that way. Perhaps a Gemini female can give you some ideas. Becky, is a Gemini, but I think she didn’t do so well with a Pisces she was involved with so I suppose it can be difficult for any of the signs to really learn how to deal with us. However, I’ve read somewhere that Becky is writing an e-book about us, so maybe she can provide some insight for you.
Good luck - I truly hope it all works out for you and your Pisces.
AquaGirl,
I am a pisces female. I was with a piscean male for 5 years. That was a union that was very interesting to say the least but that is neither here nor there.
My point is being a piscean myself and having been with a picean male for a vast amount of time, i feel experienced enough in this topic.
i was going to write a long winded descrption of what happens. But i will give you this advice in short.
Let him pull himself out of it.
He will talk to you about it if and when he needs/ wants to. Until then, the more you push it the more he backs out. Just remember that when he is like that to let him know your there for him. Usually it’s the little things that help. An out of the blue back rub, an extra long cuddle or just any cuddle any time. Good luck!
Just quickly, to add to the pisces/ aquarius compatability. i get what both parties are saying here. My mother is an aqua and I’m friends with an aqua male and had these problems. Being piscean, i’m very malliable to situations and letting these issues slide a lot of the time. Aqua’s unfortunatly don’t have the same trait. A trait that i have found good and bad in a pisces/ aqua relationship. pisces are usually happy to let something an aqua said or did slide but aqua’s will hold it against you til THEY are ready to let go of it.
I am a female pisces sun, aquarius rising, with capricorn in moon and venus and I have recently become very infatuated and acquainted with an Aquarian male. We live about 3 hours apart, but this romance has hit me like a whilrwind, same for him as well. We have a lot in common…intuitively! It is sort of freaky. I have already met his family, he calls and texts when he says he will. I feel my Aquarius rising tempers my natural inclination toward my Pisces neediness. While he does seem rather flighty and forgetful, I already feel I can read him fairly well (again, my natural Pisces intuitiveness kicking in). This feels like bliss! This is my first Aquarian to have a relation with, man have I been missing out.
i am a pisces girl and it’s been practically 2 years since me and my ex boyfriend who was an aquarius broke up and i still can’t fully let go of him. i seriously don’t feel compatible with any other guy i meet. it is so ridiculous i hate it.
I am pretty happy I found this site. I just started dating a guy that is a pisces after being married to an Aquarian for 20 years! I too am an aquarian and so, this guy is a total
mystery to me! First thing, he is sort of
needy (I am not USED to that) and needs a lot
of reassurance (he says things like “do you like me”) etc. I like a very dominant man
and so, his ways were confusing me. He is very tender and soft. I wonder if I can get used to this? The thing is, I have never felt this intimate with a man in my life. I feel like I have to re wire my brain from being with my ex Aqua Guy who is Alof and dominating.
As an aqua girl, I never knew I was aloof, but, I have been told this..now I see that it is true. I do see my new boy friend as being a bit needy and what I need is someone to lean on and be a strong man for me..if he can not be this way, I won’t last with him. I need a strong man…I wonder how this will turn out?
I think it will help me to know some of these things ahead of time about the pisces men. I won’t take it personal and try and be less overwhelming for him (when I orgasm he looks terrified) LOL! I guess I am a bit intense for him sometimes when I punch the wall or scream out in ecstasy..I look into his deep blue eyes and go crazy for him, this is something I could not understand either..but, after reading all this, I can see that it is his soft nature and dream like world and intuitiveness that is driving me crazy with passion!
Ok, now,,what I want to say to anyone out there looking for dating advice or love advice (if you are a pisces dating an AQUA girl) then the best thing to do is not take it personal when we act “aloof” because we do care, it’s just that we are not clingy people..we find life amazing and beautiful and just explore it and get lost a little..the other thing is that if you act needy with us..wE ARE outta here because it will feel like a weight around our neck dragging us to the bottom of the sea! IF it kills you, DO NOT text us a thousand times a day or constantly ask for reasurrance..you will lose us! We do love you, yes, we are thinking about you, yes, you make us crazy with desire and passion..but we are independent people and are out exploring..if you are strong and stable..your soft nature will make us come home to you every time!
I am a pisces girl married to an aquarius,I also have noticed that there is this huge intuitive/telepathic connection.we actually have this paticular “synchronous thing” going on with the radio & or tv.’my husband or I will say a word and right after I say that word the radio will say it’ I .
I was wondering if any other “pisces+aquarius” relationship was having any “intuitive/telepathic connection” or that “synchronous thing”,I was talking about earlier?
I am an Aquarius woman who has just met a Pisces man, I am a true to form Aquarius. I am aloof and do not show emotion, unless I’m angry or my feelings get hurt, When that happens I shut down,wont talk,walk away. If I leave I’m gone forever! I have been reading all the information everyone has been sharing with regards to the interpersonal relationship dynamics between the Aquarius and the Pisces. I must say I am going to run for the hills! I just got out of a 20 year marriage with a Libra who by the way I’m supposed to be perfectly matched with, I hated every minute of the last 15 years in that marriage! He was needy and clingy and lazy and never paid any attention to me even though I showered him with attention and gifts and really tried to be there hoping I would learn to love him I never did/couldn’t. This Pisces guy after only meeting him 1 time is already saying things that freak me OUT!! like your the one,or I knew when I first saw you! Don’t get me wrong I like the complements and I probably sound like I don’t know what I want but from an Aquarians perspective its the hunt not the kill that keeps us interested.
So I guess I will keep looking and will walk a wide path around any Pisces as I already have two kids not looking for a 3rd!
I am an Aqua girl who got into a deep and intensely hot relationship with a slippery fish and i did not find him to be a bit clingy, actually quite the opposite of that. Things were perfect for the first few months then he suddenly went running, hurt I lashed out with my alligator mouth and he hasn’t spoken to me for over 2 years i still have intense feelings for this pisces but have about given up hope of ever winning him back. It is almost as if the intensity of our chemistry freaks him out.
I’m a fan of Pisces in general, my fav star sign apart from Aquarius, that I am lol
I am aqua girl! Duh-nuh-nuh-nuh-nuh-nuh-nuh-nuh vote for me! (dun ask lol)
I especially have so much respect and admiration for one in particular, he’s helped me out in a way.
He doesn’t know me, but I will always be thankful to him. u
I’m a pisces myself. I just got into a long distant realtionship with a aquarius. It was love at first sight and i brought it up the convo about that. She was in agreement with me. She loves as strongly as i love her. Yes i agree i can have that to needy side come out but i am able to control that. Aquarius are supposed to be less emotional then a pisces then i guess my girlfriend isn’t really an aquarius cause she is just as open with her emotions. I make sure to ask if im being to lovey dovey. She tells she loves that. In the end signs aren’t always right. Just evalute the realtionship not your signs!!!
brklynphenom, i am happy for you. Can you really trust yourself in a long distance relationhip. How long has it been that you met her and how old are you both, may I ask?