Aquarius Compatibility With Libra |
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Aquarius and Libra
This is very sweet and one of the best matches for both sign’s. These two simply ‘get along’. They both appreciate the way the other’s mind works and appreciate and respect each other’s interests. Parties and meeting new people will be happening rather a lot with this couple also, and they don’t sit still for very long.
The Libra is wonderfully diplomatic which will no doubt be used to combat the notorious stubborn streak of the Aquarius, the Libra know’s how to best deal with the Aquarius’s oddball way’s and find’s their partner beautifully amusing. Like wise the Aquarius respects the Libra’s nuttiness and outlook on life.
This double air sign combination can share idea’s and start lot’s of project’s together, they work well as a team as no-one is trying to be the boss, because of this the Aquarius’s competitive streak is diluted and doesn’t feel as if he/she has anything to prove. Libra is slightly less independent than the Aquarius but won’t mind the sporadic disappearances of their lover. Understanding that this is simply “just the way he/she is”, which is something the Aquarius will rejoice in as is normally criticized greatly for this.
Sexually they are compatible too, and Libra brings some romance to the union which is most appreciated by the Aquarius, one he/she has got used to it that is!! Also Libra will be more than willing to play fantasy with their lover as the Libra loves to please, neither of these two will be disappointed in anyway on any level in this union. Enjoy!
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July 25th, 2010 at 7:01 pm
Hi, this is just a note:
In my experience, my parents were Libra and Aquarius. They divorced and there are lots of marks around the house - remnants of fights. They are also an Ox/Rooster couple.
HOWEVER ox/rooster is still a good match as I’ve seen lots of happy couples in that category. And a few in the Libra/Aquarius.
I’m just saying that in most of my experiences Libra/Aquarius is NOT a good match.
July 27th, 2010 at 7:35 pm
Libras are too vain and shallow for me. They always think that how dare you rejected a handsome guy/beautiful girl like me!? Please get real because I don’t look for appearances. It’s about the inside and you lack that alot. You seem to be thoughtful but mostly coming from pride and the desire not to upset anyone and everyone. You’re also needy as hell and get jealous when I speak to anyone , then turn the table on me , telling me that I need more attention from you!LOL! If I do, I’d tell you directly but I just need freedom and then you get insecured , tried to controlling me but it failed miserably . Not everyone has to be like you or become your “perfect lover” in your dream. I’m not a mould for you so stop trying to “changing” me ! Is that isn’t enough, you give out ultimatum “change or you’ll break up with me” .. Well, I break up with you instead, the beautiful and selfish monster!
July 31st, 2010 at 6:59 am
Sun signs may be influential, but the month someone was born is not the entirety of their character. There are other astrological influences, and then of course environmental ones. In general, Libra and Aquarius get along fairly well. I’m in the beginnings of what may end up being a relationship between the two, as the Aquarian (and female). One thing I can say about us Aquas — we have a stubborn and rebellious streak a mile wide. If we perceive someone to be possessive or controlling, we will run the other way. Hell, even just honest peaceful intimacy can scare the hell out of us.
I think it might end up being better for the woman to be the Aquarius in many situations, because men have more issues with commitment in general than women — there’s a biological imperative for women to try to find stability, other issues tugging them toward commitment, where the Aquarius man doesn’t have those needs as much.
In my case, I am Sagittarius rising and moon, with Neptune conjunct my Ascendant on the first house side. My Mercury is in Pisces, too, and Venus (the ruling planet for Libra) energy resonates well with Piscean/Neptune energies. I may be a little more emotional and dreamy than a lot of other Aquarians, a little more willing to wear rose-colored glasses. Also, the Sag influence helps me from being coldly analytical.
If you really want to look at astrological compatibility, don’t just look at the sun sign. You may be consigning 1/12th of the population to the dustbin if you think that just because you had a bad relationship with a particular sign that you will with all of them. It may have just been a bad relationship.
August 31st, 2010 at 6:43 am
Hi, I’m a Libra female and in love with an Aquarius male. We met last May 2009, in Namibia, where I visited two of my sibs. Quite unexpectedly, he showed up where my brother took me for tea at Mr. Aquarius’ hotel. I got the impression he had been watching us, because he suddenly popped up on the porch. What a cutie, I thought, but he would not give me a second look, I thought. Was I ever wrong! He got my contact info and tried calling while I went to finish my vacation in South Africa. He did not use the correct code and could not leave a message, but e-mailed when I returned to the US.
This man told me first that he loved me (surprise!) and now we’ve both lost our heads. That with no pesronal contact other than a handshake and a few words in my brother’s presence. He managed to touch my arm while shaking my hand. Typically Aquarian, he picked my brain during our conversation, by asking what the Passover meant. I knew and that impressed him to no end, he said later in an e-mail. We communicate by e-mail and phone and miss each other like crazy. He wants to come and see me in November and we both are about ready to burst with love. I know I’m incurably romantic as a Libra woman and I am happy to admit it. Like many people already know, changes happen due to environment or upbringing and not all people are totally true to their signs’ characteristics. Be as romantic as you want to be, Libra, and keep on loving!
September 25th, 2010 at 6:44 pm
hey. Im an aquarius girl and im working on some thing ( a relationship maybe) with my libra friend. My sister is a libra also, they are both born two days apart actually and I can truly say from experiance libras know how to live, they know what they want and i think its absolutly beautiful that they dont play games like almost every other sign. YES they dont know what they want some times, but who doesnt? Hes very spontanious, I was walking towards him a while ago and he grabs me, cups my face and gives me the most romantic kiss i have ever had in all my life. I just discovered that he wants to be with me, its exciting but i live in a different state. he lives in my home town while im down here for college. We agreed that when i come to vist we will work some thing out, im thinking about stealing him and asking him if he wants to live with me. I really hate reading all the negative comments on this site, becuase each person even two people of the same sign can be different. look into moon and sun signs and maybe this might explain why your dating a libra that gets jealouse or an aquarius that lies. Libras hate jealousy and aquariuns hate lying/liars. So… you should really back your stuff up before you go and assume that every sign is the same. My libra disapears on me some times, but im fine with that. LIBRA and AQUARIUS are great together, just dont always expect the best or the worst, just live and you will find that you have grown on eachother. What ever grows in the hearts of libra or aquarius is surely one that keeps growing. Both libra and aquarius are very true to themselves and their hearts, if your in a libras/aquarius’s heart, your in their for good. just dont rip it out.
September 27th, 2010 at 3:51 am
Ok, Libra females. This is my advise to you. As I was in/ still in the same boat as most of you
out there. If you want to be with an Aqua man.. ( IF YOU TRULY TRULY LOVE HIM).. you gotta be
strong. Yes. thats the key. They will run your patience like crazy, if you dont have what it takes
to deal with them. Forget it.
Just like every Libra female wrote here, I had my own share of experience with Aquarian man.
It was good while it lasted( I guess). We had an incredible bonding.. first few months was
great. We connected. We both had problems going into that thing “we had”. He somehow put a pressure
on me to go into ” more than friends relationship”,,, and then he dissapeared. He said it’s
fading off and please ” dont call me again”.. and I will email you. Just like that.
Its been a month and he has not call or make any some sort of way of ” communication”.
But then the entire time we were doing good, he was the one who kept mentioning the longterm plans,
which I was quiet shock thinking this guy is crazy.. to even try to think. Many times he would
ask me to marry him.. and the plans of the future was all he could talk about. I wanted to move a little slower.. but he seemed so quiet so sure of us. But when finally that time has come where
I was feeling the same way about him… he “dissapeared”…..he’s out there somewhere..
I just wish he’s ok. A lot of times I am wishing he’s somewhere safe. That’s all.
When will he reconnect? or will he ever be?, I do not know…only time can tell. Whatever he’s
going through, he wants to be by himself.
I’ve never been with any Aquarian guy before, so this all first to me. In some level, I don’t mind
him taking off, coz I want my personal space, but for him to just leave me hanging, was out of line.
When he told me not to call, email or even txt him. I completely stopped. I did chase him for awhile.. make him known where I stand. Made him know how I feel. Then I left it as that.
Sometimes, I miss him. We had an amazing connection. Him taking off like that made me feel hell
of scared. What will happen when things get bad in our relationship?.. he’ll just up and go?
then left me hanging?… I don’t know.
I guess for most Libra females out there, if you are there willing to wait for your Aquaman to turn around then be it. If you don’t have it in you, then move on. Simple as that.
It takes a lot for a woman to deal with Aquarius men. It takes a lot of strength and understanding.
God knows when he will leave off again? you have to be ready for that.
October 5th, 2010 at 12:33 am
Libra male here (rooster). Been seeing an Aqua girl (dog) for past couple of months and it really is something of a ride. We went from friends to lovers, and it was breathtaking! We seem to connect on every level: she gives me confidence and brings a sense of adventure, while inspiring me with her ever changing dreams and desires. I admire her freedom and strength, she admires my sensuality and diplomacy, and often reminds me how I bring a sense of calm to her tumultuous life. Our conversations can amble on through a host of subjects, finding joy in our similarities and curiosity (and yet more joy!) at our differences. Communication of ideas comes as naturally as the wind. The sex is amazing; we join each other on every level in the bedroom and can please each other for hours.
However, I can be jealous and possessive, about which I have always been very honest with her. She has little time for these emotions, tending to provoke and test them with contrived subterfuge and secrecy, which is perhaps justified, but usually conveyed in a cruel manner. Also, she can suddenly turn off and become cold and distant, or conversely extremely angry, when an insult is perceived (and believe me, she can find insults in this Libra’s best intended words). This can sometimes happen for reasons which completely escapes me. It feels as though there are days where she wishes simply to test my love, and any hint of my frustration at these games is returned by a demonstration of how easily she could shrug me off. Also, Aquarius can go from placid to furious in a heartbeat, when there is justification. This is not to be confused with the somewhat fabricated and playful anger an Aquarius may use to test a partner’s good humor (or patience).
Aquafem +’s: love of fun, capacity for passion, freedom of spirit, determination of mind, carefree nature and general exuberance at life.
Aquafem -’s: tendency to cruelty, capacity for detachment, ability to take insult, preference to talk rather than listen and a lack of patience.
October 17th, 2010 at 12:04 am
I’m an Aquarian Man who has had his life Blessed with a Lovely Libra Lady. Our journey began about 10 years ago… It by chance came to be that she worked for me and during that time we had the opportunity to get to know one another. I realized then that I had an attraction to her… There was a chemistry that I couldn’t deny. Unfortunately our time was cut short… I thought about her over the years, wondering how she was doing. Then out of the blue we were brought back together. It started with some simple emails, then evolved into text messages and phone calls. Finally the day came for us to meet again… I can’t really say what I was expecting, but who I met, was a Phenomenal Woman!!! Over time we met up for drinks, dinner and the occasional movie. I don’t know when it happened, but one day I realized I was Falling in Love… With My Lovely Libra Lady!!! I have to say that Falling in Love with my Best Friend is the best thing to ever happen to ME!!! Our minds, bodies, souls and hearts are in sync. Its a Love without Fear. When I look into her eyes I can see the Love that SHE has for ME. My dreams are full of thoughts of Her & My Love and the day we can be together as Husband & Wife
October 18th, 2010 at 2:39 pm
I am an Aquarius and since 2001 I have been totally and unexplainable (until now) in love with a man. I found out yesterday that today is his birthday and he is a Libra. So I looked up this compatibility issue.
For him and I it was infatuation at first contact. It is like we were drawn to each other and found ways to contact and be with each other, first on a professional level, then increasingly on a personal level.
The only downside is that he is married and I do not interfere with marriages. yet as a deep friendship, I could tell him ANYTHING! He has his quirks, yes, but as a friend, he is the best male friend that I have ever had.
For example, I went to an interview for a professional school. When the interview was over, I was leaving the building, suddenly and unexpectedly I became ill, was rushed to the hospital via ambulance. I was downtown he was uptown, he made it to the hospital before the ambulance.
Now that I read about this attraction, it explains a great deal of our relationship. I cannot say that I am totally disappointed that he is married, yet it leaves me to wonder had he been single, would the relationship have developed to something wonderful or disastrous. Had I been a different person with different standards, and followed through and dealt with him on a romantic level, what would have developed from there?
November 24th, 2010 at 2:15 am
I am a libra womana and have been in a relationship with an aquarius man off and own for the past 7 years. we have our ups and downs but, through it all we still love one another even if we got together when we were younger. The both of us have children by other people, but when we are together or talking over the phone none of that matters. what i am saying is all relationships have there ups and downs, it is what a person is willing to deal with. but the libra aquarius relationship does have a magicial touch to it, even if it is for a short period of time. it is there and it is real. everyone choose their libra or aquarius because of the first time attraction despite the out come. what everyone is saying is true but, a person cannot help who their heart ends up falling for. we are all humans, live life have fun. love, live, and learn
December 28th, 2010 at 3:25 am
hi there im a libra girl and i have an aqu. guy who says he likes me… he approached me and started to talk (well atleast he tried lol)…. he told me that he had a hard time trying to talk to me… we started to talk… but as a libra i didnt give him any sign of me wanting him… jus left it as a normal talk… a few days later he told his friend (a male gemni) who is also my friend, that he loves me… not like but love…. and i was like sure whatever… i didnt care. he asked for my # but i didnt give it to him… then there was silence…. at lessons he would luk at me but never came up and talk… but some how he keeps tellin his fren he luvs me… (KEEP UP IM A LIBRA) Then about 3 weeks later he came up to me n talked… at first i didnt know what 2 say… but then marterial jus presents its self… we talked… and then it happened! SOMETHING FELT DIFFERENT! he wasnt like most guys… he listened… and he has a nice way in which he ask me stuff… its soo nice… couple days after he asked if i hav a bf…. i said no and i dont want 2 b inna relationship… he was like why… n i told him that i dont wanna get hurt… and he was like… everyone is different n i shouldnt judge ppl before i met them (in a nice tone of voice) n i said i dont know…. and he was like okay and he smiled… right there and then i fell for him a little…. but i would never show it!
Days went by… we jus nodded at eachother… but then he asked for my # again (its like hes loving me in his head and not showing it to me) so i thought abt it n i give it 2 him (thru our fren of course)…
we began to tex n he showed he cared about me and on the 3rd nite… he told me he loves me….
and he made me felt loved… without even touching/seeing… jus the words he used in his tex…
i fell SECRETLY in love with him…. he doesnt know that yet
im holding back because of this space issue…. he stopped texin for 5 days…. then on xmas he was like merry christmas i love u…. (oh he tells me he loves me everytime we do tex…. skool was out wen we met… so we didnt c eachother)….
i dont if hes playing me or not…. but he said he really loves and hope we’ll get married! lol
but i wont give in that easily…
i’ll keep u ppl updated…
January 14th, 2011 at 3:10 pm
Wow! when you said that aquarians are the “man” in their relationship, made me jump (i dont mean it literally)! it is soooooooo true! actually im complaining about it right now, im tired of being the “man” in my relationship with a libra! my boyfriend is so passive in a sense that he literally doesnt do anything or even get mad if someone is already hurting him or hurting me! (of course i dont let them win, especially in an argument!) ive been defending him from anyone who hurts him and my problem is that he doesnt do the same thing for me! Also, ive been doing all the stuff that a boy should be doing like giving him a gift on a valentines day (which is my birthday) and asking him if he wants to go out because he is not having the initiative to do so. I already confronted him on this, and he just shrugged! (he said, he doesnt know what to say!) and believe me, i was very clear and very straight forward when i explained to him what im feeling so doesnt have any reason to tell me that he did not understand what i was telling him. can you give me an advice on how i can get this libra-guy to open up and tell him to stand-up and be the MAN in the best aquarian way? i hope you’ll answer me.
January 15th, 2011 at 11:48 pm
Okay, I know aquariuses lack emotion, but they are experts at charming people. No matter what, everytime they walk in the room everyone is not having a bad time anymore! I knew this one guy who was the definition of Aquarius, amazing smile, friendly and had amazing looks. Every girl and even me wanted him, but for me I always didn’t like the way he got everything he wanted from people JUST because he was popular. Sometimes we would have conversations and he would say,” I don’t like the popularity” because all he wanted to do was skateboard. He had amazing goals and was entertained by Jeffree Star and Bullet For My Valentine. I always thought he was just this emo loser who broke up with his girlfriend and turned to eyeliner. I was soo wrong because when I told him he was cold hearted, he flipped out and told me,” How could I be cold hearted if I dated a girl for a year and a half”. I didn’t really understand that but later on I think it meant that he could care for someone. Note to people: You have to be the one to apologize first or else they wouldn’t give a shit about you anymore.
I’m a disgrace to the libra name but I wanted him to be happy, and he inspired my writing, Aquarius rule, they are everything I want them to be: Independent, self-respected, caring, charming,funny, and calm. I just hate it when they don’t give you the response you were looking for but they live to surpise, but not on purpose.
January 17th, 2011 at 4:27 am
My husband is a Libra..my ex was a libra, my mom is a Libra, and I am a Aquarius. I actually fought/fight with all of them often. Is this my fault? Sometimes I feel as if I am much smarter than the Libra which makes it hard for me to stay calm and fully appriciate them. How can I change this terrible fate?
January 20th, 2011 at 9:14 pm
I’m dating an aquarius now. I’m female libra. I’m over the top sometimes and he just looks at me and laughs. We get along great. Met in aug 10′ and we have been together daily since. No arguements or anything. He is the 1st man I’ve dated that didn’t argue! He doesn’t disappear and he calls and does what he says he’s going to do!
February 20th, 2011 at 4:57 am
First-off I am not big on the signs and the stars for what matches who better to anyone here, but this is all interesting all the same. Every girl that I have ever had a longterm relationship with has been an Aquarius and I just noticed that, and they all had the same MO of what you describe as Aquarius; them more independent where I am the romantic. Them less observant where I pay more attention to detail. The physical was terrific or at least it was always happily pursued to be that way.
Those Aquarius women were to self set, flighty and self-determined; where love faded quick as it started.
I am a guy and a Libra. The girl I am with now is an Aquarius. But I have less of a needy streak in me, and I am more flighty than I used to be, and the Aquarius I am with now is going to be my wife soon. So mine is a bad story turned to a good story about the Libra-Aquarius combo and how that works. She is a creative thinking person in the natural ways of her personality where her mind is always at work, where mine is very at rest and well placed and loves more to be at rest than in thought.
I love a good ending. She loves a good beginning.
March 2nd, 2011 at 8:45 pm
Hello! I am a big fan of this site and love reading the posts. I had never had a relationship with a Libra until recently, and I have to say, it is Divine.! I never understood what the term Soulmate meant (and certainly never believed in it) until now. Our lives will never be the same. This man is amazing and clicks with me on every possible level. There are pieces of me that have been awakened I did not even know exsisted. We are on the same wavelength mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and physically. The communication is natural and effortless, the affection is genuine, the compliments sincere, and the sex is Soulful and Satisfying. I have found my absolute compliment and am baffled by the experience. In the first few days we had known each other, it had blown all of our past relationships out of the water. Never have we experienced anything so deep or profound. I’m going to marry this one
Looks like I have to change my username from Aquemini to AquaLove!
March 27th, 2011 at 10:50 pm
I’m a libra and my best friend is an Aquarius, when we first met I agree there was a spark. I really enjoy his company and hopefully our friendship will blossom into something more one day. I really like him alot! x
April 2nd, 2011 at 3:03 pm
LoL, must say it’s an unexpected thing in my life this year… After breaking with a Sagittarius for 8 months that certainly made me think that I will never fall in love again. I have had a hard time of stabilizing myself, my own emotion. That push me away from emotion to prevent hurt from our memory.
But now, I meet her. A Libra woman.
She’s not sexy, not too beautiful, not even equal to my old sag, but seriously, I was hooked, attracted to her like magnet. I like her smile. It’s really beautiful. I love the moment when I was with her. It’s happy, fun, and relax. I feel like I am really living.. Not as the moment when I was with my sag, it’s all about sexual things, and having sex was essential or I always feel like my own energy pool was leaking when I was with her.
This’s so different. And since she is 2 years older than me, it really make sense. Although I see the gap of our real thinking is no-where too far from her since mine is pretty deep even deeper than her. But I’m a bit confused on wondering if I was mis-perception.
It’s weird for me to love a woman that’s not pretty, not sexy or smt like my Ex or my “Form” of woman that I set for myself =)) (Just as that Libra told me sometime) . Maybe I should wait..
May 25th, 2011 at 3:13 am
Hi Everyone!!!
I don’t mean to rain on anyone’s parade but….I’m a libra girl who dated an aquarius guy for 5 months and it was exclusive at his request….He is 35yrs old and I am 34yrs old…OMG this is the worst experience of my life!!! I DO NOT recommend this pairing to anyone….I have my best friends that are aquarius and we have the best friendship ever!! Although, going into this “relationship” I read how compatible we are, which we did have fantastic conversations, sex was good (had better with Scorpio). He was just too flighty for me. I love my space and my time with my friends, but we went a whole month without seeing eachother. I called it off and he came chasing after me. After a month of getting back together he tells me we should “chill a bit” because he has too much going on at the moment!!! I said that’s fine, since I was at the end of my rope. This was about a month ago and haven’t heard from him again! I honestly do believe we had a connection, but he always complained about how I never called and always had things going on, which he was on the same boat. I guess he just expected me to sit back and wait around for him!!! Hello, I’m a libra….we don’t wait around for NO ONE!!! Anyways, I have no ill feelings towards him although he told me this through a text didn’t even have the courage to tell me at least over the phone. At least, I know now what sign to steer clear from!!!! The funny part is that MOST of our planets were compatible actually perfect matches!!! Kinda makes me think how much astrology really knows?!?!?! Hmmm, a question I ponder!!! Good luck to everyone and I hope you don’t have the same experience I did!!!