Aquarius Compatibility With Libra |
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Aquarius and Libra
This is very sweet and one of the best matches for both sign’s. These two simply ‘get along’. They both appreciate the way the other’s mind works and appreciate and respect each other’s interests. Parties and meeting new people will be happening rather a lot with this couple also, and they don’t sit still for very long.
The Libra is wonderfully diplomatic which will no doubt be used to combat the notorious stubborn streak of the Aquarius, the Libra know’s how to best deal with the Aquarius’s oddball way’s and find’s their partner beautifully amusing. Like wise the Aquarius respects the Libra’s nuttiness and outlook on life.
This double air sign combination can share idea’s and start lot’s of project’s together, they work well as a team as no-one is trying to be the boss, because of this the Aquarius’s competitive streak is diluted and doesn’t feel as if he/she has anything to prove. Libra is slightly less independent than the Aquarius but won’t mind the sporadic disappearances of their lover. Understanding that this is simply “just the way he/she is”, which is something the Aquarius will rejoice in as is normally criticized greatly for this.
Sexually they are compatible too, and Libra brings some romance to the union which is most appreciated by the Aquarius, one he/she has got used to it that is!! Also Libra will be more than willing to play fantasy with their lover as the Libra loves to please, neither of these two will be disappointed in anyway on any level in this union. Enjoy!
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November 5th, 2008 at 7:53 pm
My libra girlfriend was the worst relationship i ever had…everyone says Aquarius/Libra is a great match but none of the things described about that match was true in mine. Sex was bad and very prudish not to mention unheard of. Diplomacy was non existent. Compromise was a promise to lie. Nothing about this relationship was what I have heard. Horrible match! Years of frigid Libra has left me with a bad taste for this match.
November 14th, 2008 at 3:02 pm
i am a libra girl and a few years ago i was w/ an aquarius guy for about a year. everything described in this article was true. even the part about him being odd and me being nutty - we made eachother laugh a lot and enjoyed one another’s company. but we were kids, just about 19 and being so young i didn’t yet understand his independence and felt very insecure about where i stood with him. in hindsight i now see that aquarius men can seem rather flighty and non-comittal. i just wanted to respond to offset “ronnie’s” comment that his aquarius/libra relationship was the worst he ever had. it was one of the sweetest i ever had. and had i hung in there i think it would have been one of the best. and btw, physically it was fantastic, we were such a perfect match, like i have yet to find again. and i know he felt the same way
November 25th, 2008 at 1:40 am
Hey there,
I had the same problems described by Ronnie. I am an aquarian woman who shared seven years of my life with a libra man. He was extremely jealous, narrow minded and became extremely violent. Sex also prudish. No reasoning with him whatsoever. Disasterous match and I will forever avoid getting into a relationship with any libra!
November 25th, 2008 at 8:18 am
Hi! i completely agree with christine! im a libra, currently in a relationship with an aquarius and i’ve never been happier! since the first day we met we have been inseparable!.. we never have a dull moment and very rarely get into any arguements! I guess my only comment to whoever is curious about this Aquarius/Libra topic is.. Dont knock it til you try it!
November 25th, 2008 at 9:01 pm
I am a Libra woman and have just entered into a relationship with an aquarius man. So far everything above seems true. We did connect on an amazing level the very first time we met. We have what seems to be the perfect relationship! We don’t get sick of seeing each other although it is true that he spends time alone the odd night which is fine with me. Physically it is also perfect. I’m hoping that this will last a long long time and that it is true that this is a perfect match for me.
November 28th, 2008 at 5:42 am
I am an aquarius female and have been dating a libra man for almost 2 years. When we first met sparks flew. I swear my heart skipped a beat when I layed my eyes on him. He makes me feel like I’m floating on a cloud and sex is the best I’ve ever had in my life. At the same time he can make me feel depressed and horribly moody. We can’t compromise on a thing because he is so rational and logical about everything, he argues like a lawyer where as I am emotional and base my actions on intuition. It’s very on and offish with us. To make this relationship work a lot of effort and understanding must be applied.
December 1st, 2008 at 9:09 am
Hello,
I am a Libra female.I have been talking to an Aquarius male for the past few months.I agree with the statement about the two signs above.He always has some kind of project going on and I always support his ideas.I really feel a DEEP connection with this man.I know that I have never in my life felt this way before.I am just hoping for the best.I’m in love with him..I wish he would be a little more open about his feelings for me.He shows me,doesn’t tell me with words.It can be quite confusing at times..
December 5th, 2008 at 12:23 am
I am a Libran man, and have been in a relationship with an Aquarian for about 5 months now. To be honest, we have had both of the described situations; times when we are inseparable and match on every imaginable level, and times where her flighty, impulsive decisions completely clash with my reasoning and logic. But then again, I know deep down that if I were to be with someone as logical and analytical as I, I would be driven nuts, because if both of us were to take such a long time in making decisions by plotting out all pros and cons we would never get anything accomplished.
December 7th, 2008 at 11:37 am
I’m an aquiarius women and I’ve been with my libra for 6 years it hasn’t always been easy the first 3 years was the hardest with our solid ways of thinking and stubborn additude it made it very had but my libra man knew how to control my flight mentality its like he calm me down. He is very in tune with me my body and soul. Which makes our sex explosive. I’ve been with many great signs (Leo aries ) but no one like my libra I feel where unstoppable and that’s a great combo at love!
December 12th, 2008 at 3:52 am
I’m dating a Libra. He’s 17 years older than me and he’s open-minded, the sex is terrific, he’s not jelous at all and he’s a very good friend to me. Just so you know I’m 24 and he’s 42.
December 12th, 2008 at 1:36 pm
Hey i’m a Libra female in a relationship 4 almost 2yrs with my aqua male and it is the best relationship i have ever been in. We started off as friends first because me indecisive libra couldn’t make up my mind on what i wanted but my aqua male was patient with me and a wonderful friend. Yes libra and aqua are very compatible but that doesn’t make us perfect there are some differences in our temperaments that have to b worked on. Aqua is very flighty and sometimes for no reason won’t communicate but i had to learn to just give him his needed space and he’s back to his old self…which is loving and affectionate and we always have a blast together.I wouldn’t trade my aqua male for anything.
December 16th, 2008 at 5:52 pm
I am a libra female and my aquarius male is wonderful with me. This description is just what I needed to prove to him that we are a match made in heaven. I think that this is true and sometimes it might not go so well, but we have been together for 9mnths and we are best friends as well as lovers. I mean we can be bored together and we love each others company. I never want to be without him. But we do have our differences because he always tries to be better than me in everyway. I don’t really minD, I mean he is a guy and his macho ego turns me on. I love him. Oh yea to tell the truth I fell in love with him before he began courting me. He is such a gentleman. I hope we are together for many years…
December 19th, 2008 at 10:10 am
I’m an aqua female and have been seeing a matured libra male for five months now. the first time our eyes met early this year was magical. It’s amazing how much we click, we share common dreams.There is so much support that i get from him in my career and personal sife, something that i missed in my previous relationship. He knows how to keep me sexually enticed. It’s true that this can never be perfect, we would need to understand each others differences, other than that I give it a 90% match!
December 20th, 2008 at 10:35 pm
The Aquarius and Libra connection is a horrible waste of time. Libra women need to stay as far away from these Aquarius men as possible. They are expert liars and expert game players. They like to control your emotions and get off on your reactions. Very sick! They disappear when there is a crisis and expect you to clean up the mess. Oh, but later, when you have moved on, want to reappear and be a part of your life. So not worth it, for any reason! Save yourself time. DON’T try be friends, because it NEVER works. Ladies, find a nice Libra or Gemini man. The Aqua guy, no matter how hard you try, will never be worthy of you or your time! MOVE ON WHILE YOU CAN!
December 26th, 2008 at 5:25 pm
WOW! Ms.Chief sounds angry you need more peace pipe.
December 27th, 2008 at 5:21 pm
hahahaha AquaRebel… All is cool! Aquarius men are ok to have as “friends” for some. If you like that kind of thing. You just have to understand what you are getting into before you jump. For me, it’s been too much work and not enough reward. Some like those kind of head games. And more power to them!
December 28th, 2008 at 9:22 am
I’m a Libra male, just started dating an Aquarius woman about a month ago. I find this match to be maddening… wonderful at times and lacking at times. One week we are spending all our time together, the next she needs space. One day she thinks I am the kind of guy she’d like to have a long relationship with, the next she doesn’t want a serious relationship. One day she introduces me to her mother, the next she acts like I’m just a “guy she knows” when we are out together. One day she’s the best cuddler I’ve ever known, the next she doesn’t want to be touched. And to top it off when she gets drunk she is extremely flirtacious with every guy in a bar, but says it’s ok cause “it’s not line she’s sleeping with them”… Aaahhh! There is a point where it goes beyond “harmless flirtation” for me, but I guess she doesn’t work that way… Every time I think I can’t take any more of this rollercoaster she does something that puts a smile on my face… Very up and down relationship so far!
December 28th, 2008 at 4:02 pm
Hi RizingSoul!
I’m sorry to read that you have fallen into a this type of libra/ aquarius relationship… The up, down, up, down, it is just the beginning. Just wait until she starts blaming you for the rollercoaster ride. It is coming soon,just wait! When it is great, she will make you feel like you are in heaven… Without a doubt… She will make you feel like you are the only person in her world and your sense balance will be perfect! BUT just when you think everything is fine, she will decide that she needs to disappear, act like you are one of her many “friends”, or worse, start her mind games geared to make you expose your soul and leave you nothing in return. I’m not writing this because I am bitter or hold a vendetta against anyone in particular. I am writing this because I know it to be true. And I know what I write won’t make you change your present course. You will do what you have to do. You will have to feel those ups and downs until YOU decide it is time to be free AND all of her games and tests will not draw you back. But maybe my reply to your post will plant a seed in the back of your mind. And maybe, this libra girl can help just one more libra.
December 29th, 2008 at 4:32 pm
Hello Everyone ! I am a Libra female and I was dating an Aquarius male.. We were seeing each other for a 1 month and he was very attentive and thoughtful, giving me a present for Christmas when he came over and I know that he liked me as well, I saw it in his eyes and his behavior…The thing is that now he has disappeared for more than week with no contact, even though he said he would call… I am not sure what the deal is?? is he one of those aloof/distant, I need my space types ?? I know its Christmas time and he has a big family and is going away for New Year’s as well… I am not sure what to do, I am a very tradtional gal so I usually wait for the guy to call.. but I an not sure if I am doing the wrong thing by just waiting around….help !
December 29th, 2008 at 5:01 pm
Hi! He just needs his space and you should want yours. He spent all this time with you and on some level ignored his friends and other life commitments OR (the kiss of death) the level of closeness got too scary for him. Now he has other things to do, but that does not mean that he is not thinking of you or that you have not crossed his mind no less than 1000x that day. If I was you, don’t wait around for the call. Go out, have your fun. Live your life!!! Don’t worry, if he is really interested, he will reappear soon. And he will act like no time has passed and think he can jump back in. YOU have to decide if and how you want to play it… This time, just try giving him the space he needs. OR, my personal favorite, escape while you can because the mind games have just begun and he will leave you hanging on forever!
December 31st, 2008 at 7:38 pm
I am an Aquarius woman and my significant is a Libra man. We match up perfectly. He is an amazing man.I must say we compliment each other very well. To fully understand or respect the passages of our compatibility one must fully respect and understand themselves. James and I get each other.I feel for those who don’t. We must be one of the lucky couples….
January 2nd, 2009 at 7:30 pm
Hi I am a female Aquarius and I’m not dating a Libra but we are close friends. I find Libra men to be very independent and withdrawn. What i mean by that is they don’t mind giving you your space and act like they don’t here what you’re saying but they do. The space part works perfectly with me because I can be hot and cold. One minute i want you around and want you to myself. The next minute I can’t stand to be around you i don’t want be touch let alone have sex. Now for the acting like you aren’t listening part pisses me off; if I’m talking to you I like to be acknowledged so I don’t think my words are falling on deaf ears. The funny thing about it is its not falling on deaf ears Libra hears everything you say and with throw it at you weeks later. They also say they’re going to do thing that you asked them to do. Its seem as though you think they have forgotten or just don’t want to do it then again its not that they just do it on there own terms and time. I love it and as much as this Libra man makes me crazy its not a bad crazy he draws me to him more and more everyday. Now sex with a Libra man is the best. This man stimulates me in every way from his touch to his love making.
January 3rd, 2009 at 1:44 pm
So true Secunda,
I’m a with a libra man. That describes him to a t… Don’t sleep on him. He will remember everything!!!! Libras collect that data and use it to explain and/ or argue with themselves or others later on. It works.
January 13th, 2009 at 6:48 pm
I like Libra women !
January 16th, 2009 at 4:47 am
ok so yes i too am a libra girl who maaaybe has fallen for an aquarius boy. im definitely going thru what”I” is going thru but the problem is , is that i have guys after me like none stop and im sooo sorry if that sounds like im full of myself but this guy just comes into my life and makes me question myself not if im attractive but just i cant read his eyes ! i can alwasy read a guys thoughts!!! like he also definitely did the whole i will call you and didnt etc… its infuriating because i really like him and it makes me madd that supposedly these aqua men play mind games because he is actually the one guy right now that i WOULD be open and honest with. uhhh im soo dissappointed because….. alas….. i do think i have grown tired of his games it hurt my head and hurt my heart. anyway some key points is that i was born sept 23 1986 im on the cusp of libra/virgo i relate more with libras though….and i think thats it anyway thanks in advance for even reading this because honestly just writing it has made me feel better
luv steph
January 16th, 2009 at 1:06 pm
Ok. Here is my 2 cents on the Aquarius/ Libra match. I had the misfortune of associating myself with two Aquarius males at two very different times in my life. They both had had the same name (which should have clued me in and warned me off). Both destroyed me financially and emotionally. Fortunately, for me, I came upon two very wonderful Libra men. The first, at around 19, showed me that all men were not jerks AND it was ok to be me.The second, that I met at 21 and has been with me for 15 years,is my best friend and my life partner. Yes, there was a lot of passion and intensity between both of those Aquarius individuals and myself when they were in my life. But there was also a lot of drama and horrible mind games. I would never trade the balance and peace I have found with ALL the Libra men in my life (and I surround myself with them now) for that low with an Aquarius male again. Never, Never, Never go back! Those are the words I live by!!!!!!!
January 21st, 2009 at 3:56 am
Ooh ooh! My turn!
I’m an Aquarian female- absolutely exactly the Aquarius, fitting the description to a T. The best relationship of my life was with a Libra. He GOT it. He was there when I needed him, but gave me time to miss him too. Occasionally, we argued and I’d win with a stroke of genius that he didn’t quite follow, he’d get mad and I’d get mad and presto- best sex ever. He made my insides melt at a glance from the very first time I met him, and it never, ever went away. He understood and could feed off my humor, and vice versa. He was a completely and totally fascinating human being.
Life kind of got in the way, he moved and I moved, and to this day we’re great friends who will always be there for each other- I love him dearly and I definitely recommend this match up to any Aquarian girl. Keep in mind, though, that everyone has their Ascending sign and Moon to consider- maybe he isn’t the typical Libra, maybe you aren’t the typical Aquarian. In my experience though, Libra is a great friend, and a better lover.
January 21st, 2009 at 11:34 am
Hi there, I am a 27 year old Aquarian girl who has a major crush on a 23 year old Librian boy who I work with. I just wanted some advice on the best way to approach him. I’m quite a typical Aquarian in that I’m creative and independant and I can be quite hot and cold and I can be very stubborn. However although I like people and parties, I’m not great at talking with new people I don’t know. In a group of people I know well I come across confident and a real people person. But in a group of people I dont know I come across shy and intraverted. I do not know my crush very well. He comes across as quite shy at work but seems to enjoy socialising. I have heard that Librian men prefer to be persued. Is this true? And how would be a good way to start talking to a Librian boy or ask him for a date? I really like him and dont want to mess it up. Thanks.
January 21st, 2009 at 8:19 pm
Hey AquarianLady,
Here is my piece of advice for you and it has nothing to do with the Libra/ Aquarius match. If you are attracted to him and you want to talk to him, go for it. Why sit back and watch from the outside. Sometimes Libras can be or act dense… Especially Libra men (my father, husband, and oldest son are all Libras)…The obvious to you may or may not be obvious to him. SO no mind games. No hidden meanings. Talk to him. Try to be his associate or later his friend and see where it goes from there. Wait on the date and try to be the friend first… Keep it casual and work from there. You may find, once you get to know him, that he was not worth your time or that something really wonderful may be there for you. BUT you will never know unless you make a move, so GO FOR IT! Ps- If you were a Libra woman and he was an Aquarius man, I would have told you to run away very fast!
January 22nd, 2009 at 8:25 pm
thanx alot for the advice! i meant to say i am a virg0/libra but consider myself to be way more libra in nature. and to the above comment lol that was funny the running away part. ive already washed my hands of him but i dont understand because in most websites like these they say that the best love matches for an aquarian man is a gemini and libra woman…. so i dont know im confused if we are the best matches for him and your saying run away then lol i guess aquarian men have a strange love life…. idk
steph
January 23rd, 2009 at 4:43 am
I think people need to realize that not all Libras or all Aquarians are the same.
And, there’s also alot of variables that come into play when it comes to a person’s personality && how they are in a relationships.
Its not just their sun shine, its everything else.
&& those people probably had some other issues too.
you gotta consider everything. : ]
January 26th, 2009 at 5:26 pm
I’m a 27 year old very typical Libra female who has been dating a 27 year old Aquarius male for 4 months now and OH GOD, where has this man been all my life? We have so much fun together. We joke that we have a “mind link” because we pick up on each others emotions so easily. He’s everything I’ve been looking for and falling so short of (like with my Gemini ex…). The only problem we have is me needing to step back when he goes into loner mode. I’ve recently gotten better in it and am rewarded with kisses, hugs and “I miss you’s” after a couple of days go by. I’m head over heels in love with him and have said so. He’s “not ready” to say it yet (typical Aquarian) but I can *feel* it from him in everything he does. I feel like my little Aquarian collection is now complete (My father, stepmother and 2 best friends are Aquarius). THE key to dating this awesome person, in the words of one of those Aquarian best friends, is to “just let it ride”. Don’t overthink it LIBRA. Just breathe and be HAPPY!
January 30th, 2009 at 10:37 am
Libras are super nice…I like’m
February 2nd, 2009 at 8:37 pm
Im a libra male who is in love with a Aquarian woman the only problem i have is her stubborness it really crazy lol!!. But I try to be really patient with her. She is very beautiful,sexually attractive and she shows emotion which I like a lot and she tells me she loves me all the time which was something new to me. Everyday is a learning process and I feel if you really love each other and be patient with one another it can work. Nothing in life is perfect, we learn everyday and once you build with each other it can be long lasting
February 3rd, 2009 at 8:33 pm
I’m a Libra male that has been going out with an Aquarius female. Before I was with another Libra who was born a little to late in the sign and was incredibly stubborn.
Aquarius is really refreshing. I’ve never been able to just sit with someone and do “nothing” and have a blast. For some reason I find her incredibly interesting and I can’t stop being around her.
Something about the way she acts just makes me stare in wonder!
February 4th, 2009 at 3:50 am
can the real MEN PLEASE STAND UP! BOYS NEED NOT APPLY OR REPLY!
February 4th, 2009 at 1:31 pm
OMG.
I am a LIBRA girl and I absolutely need help with this AQUARIUS guy whom I am seeing right now.
And here’s my story:
He is someone whom I have always chatted on and off since last year. Recently, we went out for dates and started hanging out and talking over the phone and blah.
Initially I treated him as a normal kinda friend; you know just someone to chat and stuff.
UNTIL one day, out of the blue, he texted me, we started chatting and then he confessed his love to me! (LOL?)
He mentioned stuff like, are u ready to make some changes to our lives? Do u want me to have your hands so that we can enjoy together? (WTH?)
And I was like ‘What? Haha.’ And the next day we met up and he brought me to dinner, asked me if I wanna watched movie, found a place with nice scenery to sit down and chat. He even sent me home personally, even though he lives like totally opposite of the country. (!!!)
I admit I am really aroused by this guy. Because u see, initially I have no intention of making him as my mate or what. BUT NOW things are certainly different; I am indeed attracted to him!
Ok what happened next was that we stayed in contact; I even gave him a birthday surprise and yeah he rewarded me with a kiss and a pat on my forehead (Aww.); said that I am silly AND shouldn’t have gone the trouble because I went all the way to his workplace and gave him his birthday present personally.
The now, POOF! He’s like disappeared! No more lovey dovey stuff from him; and he didn’t even texted me! =( that really made me SUPERRRR SAD! Like I wondered if it’s my fault or not!
Tell me tell me, what’s up with this AQUARIUS GUY?
Oh he did tell me the other day, on our first date: “Tell me when you think your heart is ready for us to start.”
And now look at what’s happening? How do you expect me to say it out when he suddenly turned all aloof?
=( HELP!!!
And oh yes, I AM A LIBRA and people keep telling me that Aqua and Libra is a good match? REALLY?!?!
February 6th, 2009 at 9:38 am
girl!! i really wish i could give you some advice….your aqua guy sounds a little wierder than normal but i guess i could say im going thru the same. the advice from websites are to open up to him and profess your love but if your a libra woman like me theres no waaaayy in hell your going to profess your “love” to a guy who has a problem with returning your phone calls…like you deserve better. but like i said maybe im too stubborn and you can break the libra style of keeping her feelings to her self…so i guess tell him how you feel and maybe you’ll get the happy ever after that supposedly libra girls n aqua guys r supposed to have.
luv steph
February 6th, 2009 at 11:41 am
To: luvsteph
heyy, i guess i’ve broke the libra pattern cos i’ve told him (through text messages) how i’ve been feeling:
me: i was wondering what u would say if i want to be your soulmate?
him: what’s a soulmate?
me: my definition of a soulmate would be a lover and a best friend at the same time. will you?
him: sure, why not?
me: *slightly confused* ok then your officially mine!
him: Best friend and lover at the same time.. cool…
me: yeah, but being you lover is my 1st priority.
him:
well i know this looks weird, but i figured it’s the best way to convey my feelings. erm, what do u guys think? =.=
hmm at least i feel much better now, and i guess he does have feelings for me afterall.
February 6th, 2009 at 1:10 pm
Hello miss-lobster,
You do understand that this is just a set of tests from him? He wants to see how you will react. Does he mean any of these things he is saying or writing to you? Maybe, maybe NOT! YOU are putting too much time and emphasis on him and in many ways neglecting yourself. That is why you are reaching out… YOU are letting his responsiveness to you control your emotions. DON’T!!!!! Don’t think about why he has not called or come around recently. YOU are letting him and his games win! If you let him make the rules now, he will make them until he is wants to walk away… Until he has found a new unsuspecting girl to test. You, again, will be left thinking “Oh what did I do wrong”. You will keep thinking and thinking about it and in the end, you won’t have an answer… because there is none.
If you want to keep going down this road with him, go for it. You are going to do what you have to do. Advice from me is not going to stop you. Just know, this is just the beginning. Wait and watch, you’ll see.
February 6th, 2009 at 1:27 pm
I give up! Libra girls, have fun with your aqua guys. Keep doing whatever you have been doing and keep “falling”. This is the last part of the libra/aquarius drama/ trauma I have to walk away from to be completely free. Good Luck!
February 7th, 2009 at 2:04 pm
Heyy Ms Chief,
Thanks for the comment, well right now i can say that i have not put in my 100% in this relationship,i would like to observe him more. yeah this is just the beginning, and i am not ready to give my all. yet.
hmm i guess your right about the test part. i am by nature, NOT a patient person. haha but i have no idea why; but because of him, i have somehow learnt to control my emotions and when he did not reply my test messages on time, i am kinda used to it now.
i am in a way, more positive now and i keep telling myself not to think too much. if we r really meant to be together, then i guess we will
and judging from things now, my guess would be he wants to take things slow and easy. and i am okay with it.
i hope ur successful in your relationship too! dun give up too easily, true love waits!!!
February 7th, 2009 at 2:46 pm
hi im a libra female..im so attracted with aquarian male..what will i do to catch his heart…
February 7th, 2009 at 4:33 pm
To Ms. Chef:
I read your comment on Aquarius men and it made me laugh. LOL I have nothing against your anger against these men or your words. I REALLY like your straight forwardness!
More people need to be like you!
But I will tell you something, I think it’s the ones you meet. Not all of them are like that. My father is an Aquarius and is a man of his word and honor, he doesn’t lie, he doesn’t like liars.
With you that most fits with you is: Little boys may not apply and this incules . . . .
You put some spark in my day, keep cool.
February 7th, 2009 at 4:37 pm
To I:
I say just wait and be paient.
February 7th, 2009 at 4:39 pm
Ms. Chef:
Where you have problems with Aquarius, I have problems with Geminis.
February 8th, 2009 at 4:55 am
Hi Libra girls. I have been with three aquarius men and all do the same thing. They want you when they want you, then drop off the face of the earth for a while. You have to have a strong constitution to love them. I love mine, but after he finally won my heart (he chased me constantly - I could not breath. The phone/texting and emails were excessive. Non stop)
Now, not so much. He knows I love him and respect him more than anyone one. He also knows I will not chase him. I am old school the men should chase me. Plus, one prior bf said to me once that I was stalking him. I only sent him two email in one day. That was the last time I ever called a man, because they think weird. I work with guys, and they think most women are psycho and stalkers. One even takes our restraining orders to break up with them. So because of my prior bf and the way these guys talk, I never chase.
As for the Aquarius man, I know he cares but the communication is not constant. Reading here and some other websites that is just them. So if you need tons of romance, contact and return calls/texts emails find another birth sign. Aquarius men have better things to do with their time. Pisces guys, they are the best at the romance.
Again, most aquarius men will drop off the face of the earth from time to time and not return phone calls etc.
Ms. Chief is right they do test you. If they had their wish it would be a fwb situation.
February 20th, 2009 at 6:17 pm
I AM A FEMALE AQUARIUS AND I STONGLY BELIEVE WHAT THEY SAY BOUT AQUARIUS/LIBRA. I AM IN A CURRENT RELATIONSHIPW ITH A LIBRA AND ITS GOING TO BE 3 YEARS IN MARCH. I LOVE HIM SO MUCH AND WE DO HELP EACHOTHER OUT ALOT IN MANY WAYS. I AM MORE INDEPENDENT AND HE DOES NEED MY HELP SOME OF THE TIME BUT HE KNOWS HOW TO SET ME STRAIGHT. WHEN IT COMES TO THE SEX…IT THE BEST! IM SO COMFORTABLE WITH HIM AND I CAN’T IMAGINE DOING IT WITH ANYONE ELSE. WE DO PLAN ON GETTING ENGAGED AT THE ENDING OF THIS YEARS!
February 21st, 2009 at 5:33 am
i am an aquarius woman and yes i do admit we have our times but we are very willing to work with ive been dating a libra man for almost a month and i want to love him hes cute sweet at times and nice but other tim es he always has to be right he thinks he can control what i say and how i say it and when but than on the other side he pull me into his arms and we just laugh and play i am celibate he doesn’t like that so i don’t know if we will last or not i will just have to wait and see.
February 21st, 2009 at 5:47 am
I hope Libra girl would be better for me Gemini Guy as Iam better at giving and receiving love like a perfect blackbody.I have no problem with approaching first,I can communicate better with Libra and i could shower love on my libran girl who want love and sex all 24/7,I could give her all time and she would stay with me all time and together with her balance in love and her bonding and the peace the Libran is giving u back I would definitely go for Kissing any Libran Girl.
Senthamarai Kannan(Senthamarai@yours.com)
February 24th, 2009 at 11:55 pm
I’m an Aquarius Girl and I’ve been dating my Libra Man for 3 years. We have such a great connection, and he loves me very much. However I feel that he is way too controlling and domineering…I’m almost a little afraid of him. He has the WORST temper bc he bottles things up inside until he explodes. He gets extremely jealous and possessive (which I thought was not a Libran trait). He is also very paranoid. Do any Libra men or Aquarius women have experience with this? Any Advice?
February 25th, 2009 at 7:24 am
Hi there Jenny,
Thank you for your comment. People do always believe that people born under the sign of Libra don’t suffer with such things as jealousy etc but they do. It is usually down to their rising sign being in Scorpio which can make any sign a bit more paranoid and suspicious! Libra people need to be loved and if they have had bad experiences in the past then this can make them like this. It would be interesting to look at the rest of his chart to see where things lie and also perhaps his Chinese sign also.
Love & Light
Becky
February 25th, 2009 at 8:59 am
Thanks for the response Becky. These are our charts…
HIS CHART
Sun—–> Libra
Moon—-> Aquarius
Mercury-> Virgo
Venus—> Sagittarius
Mars—-> Libra
Jupiter-> Cancer
Saturn–> Capricorn
Uranus–> Capricorn
Neptune-> Capricorn
Pluto—> Scorpio
Chiron–> Cancer
Node—-> Aquarius
Ascendant Cancer
Midheaven Aries
MY CHART
Sun—-> Aquarius
Moon—> Pisces
Mercury> Capricorn
Venus–> Capricorn
Mars—> Capricorn
Jupiter> Cancer
Saturn-> Capricorn
Uranus-> Capricorn
Neptune> Capricorn
Pluto–> Scorpio
Chiron-> Cancer
Node—> Aquarius
Ascendant Sagittarius
Midheaven Leo
February 26th, 2009 at 10:21 pm
Also I am a horse and he is a snake?
March 10th, 2009 at 4:37 am
I am a libra female. (For the record I am only 16 years old.) I have been close friends with an Aquarius male for roughly a year now and I have always had feelings for him. But I’ve never been able to share that, because I’m too indecisive to know if it’s worth it or not. But if I could know how he feels towards me, it would certainly give me some peace of mind and help me decide. Recently we kissed. (Strangely enough, it was like the kind of kiss that comes out of nowhere, without thought, that you really only see in movies. But,you never expect it to actually happen.) Unfortunately, because of the situation at the time, we weren’t able to just discuss is right then and there. But I know, now, there’s at least a physical attraction on his part. I spoke to him briefly about the kiss but couldn’t get enough out of him to know what he thought about it. I know him well enough to know that if I ask him directly, he’s likely to retreat and I’ll never know the answer. How can I know without asking him? I’d like an Aquarius (preferably male) to maybe give me a hint of what may be going through his mind.
March 12th, 2009 at 12:03 am
To SOJ:
I am an Aquarius man. Well from what I can tell, maybe he’s not too sure how he feels about the kiss. In my opinion, the best thing to do is just give him some time to mull it over in his head (Which I’m sure he’s doing). If it happens again, then he’s probably got the hots for you. Just stand your ground, try not to push the subject, and I’m sure it will surface again. “Everything comes gradually and at its appointed hour.” Ovid.
March 12th, 2009 at 5:03 am
Hi Jenny I read your post and looked at your chart and speaking from personal experience Snakes are very jealous and a bad match for a horse I find that they have very different values and desires than Horses may be much more interested in image and materialism than Horses and there is just a lot of inabiltiy to understand eachother although I think the attraction is very strong as Snakes are very sexy and can mesmerize people which I think can make the honest Horse a little uncomfortable as there moral code doesn’t exactly agree with controlling others or using the Snakes tactic in achieving there desires the Horse is also skillful at achieving anything they desire and can also be very cunning in that they can see many loopholes and ways to solve many problems and love to investigate but always adhere to there own set moral code which in no way would allow for manipulation or taking advantage of others on a personal level and you may find Snakes raw pursit of power and control distasteful And you will both be hard pressed to understand eachother and it goes on and on with the Horse innocently being a Horse and the Snake feeling very threatened for reasons the Horse cannot comprehend as Horses have no problem offering their partners freedom to pursue there goals and interests Snake not so much and no amount of time or devotion on the HOrse part is able to solve this issue I think Snake can just sense that Horse wants to run free not away just to have their own goals and chase there own fancies Snake cannot feel comfortable they have to have control and fencing your Horse in will only make them unhappy as will constant barrage of questions and accusations it never seems to end there is some security that you feel with the Snake and they enchant but while they are out enchanting the world and expect you at there beck and call with no freedom of your own is not a Horses cup of tea. This may be on the extreme side but I don’t think I would pursue another Snake.
And as for Aqu/Lib I like aquarius men Im a libra woman but it does seem a little selfish to not share their feelings and to leave you uncertain as to the nature of relationship that you are part of very unfair to treat a libra that way as we play fair but how can we play at all if we don’t know the game or the rules and all we want to do is share and be your partner I think Libras make the best partners is relationship it is there domain and if you come upon the opportunity to get a Libra partner its golden and comes by rarely as Libra is at many times entangled in relationship not always happy as Libra can also be a little guilable and very forgiving of any flaws there partner may have so if you want someone who has your back is by nature faithful and loyal not the most emotional or dramtic but loving and devoted partners one you can definately count as your number one buddy Libras love most everyone and will treat most kindly but no one as much as their partner truly an elite group. Pardon if I sound biased as I am a Libra and I haven’t found an Aquarius that I know of that I didn’t like they are the most fun and allow Libras some lightness but also just enough strength and conviction that Libras need to nudge us toward making a decision which is good since Libras are smart enough to know to employ smarter friends like Aquarius to give us lots of good information tied with there definate opinions is a great help to libra as we need all the information before we can take a side
The one rough patch is Libras love to talk and and when an Aquarius is showing thru actions one thing and thru language another this can cause anyone confusion and Libra especially as we must be balanced and to leave this type of instabilty is just mean all we want to know is the ground rules we are so easy to please as most of what we are trying to figure out is what you want how can we be of service in making you happy.
March 12th, 2009 at 7:09 am
Hi there Jenny and Libra/Horse,
I don’t always get time to comment on comments! But when something catches my eye I try and add a little. Snakes and Horses can be a great match! A lot is said about snakes being sly and unfaithful, and I guess they can be, but I rather believe that they tend to enjoy having more than one relationship when they are young. As they grow older and wiser the Snake can in fact be a very loving almost suffocating and certainly intoxicating partner, and very loyal too. Yes they will flirt, but Horses are pretty good at that themselves! Snakes and Horses can be very happy in a long term serious relationship but it is never advised for these signs to marry as it is too final for both of them and it keeps the excitement fresh.
If the Aqua is the Snake then they may come off even more aloof at times but never think that means that they don’t care or worry or fear. Libra is a good balance for all these signs talked about. Libra and Aqua are very good, just remember that the Libra although independent is all about the love and it will take a little while for these to settle into an understanding love relationship. Once they do it will almost be perfect! If not it’s a friendship that will last forever and ever!
Love & Light
Becky
March 16th, 2009 at 6:59 am
i am a libran woman currently in a relationship with an aquarius.we have known each other from teenage stange,broke up because of distance as we both traveled and dated other people, but never lost contact and now back together for years,
and that is the most amazine relationship i have ever had,we understand each other..we connect just like Becky said,we are planing our wedding together and he is so great even with distance.he is truely my best friend i dont see how an aquarius could possibly go wrong with a libran especially if its important to them.
March 17th, 2009 at 5:01 am
I’m a Libra woman and what I’ve understood is that you need a LOT of patience to be with an Aqua man. And you need to have faith and confidence in urself. I’ve heard numerous stories where these Aqua males have chased Libra women until they’ve aroused their interest, and then.. yes, you guessed it rite, disappeared. Poof. Gone. I know it can be hurtful to have someone who you thot was ur best fren and with whom u connected like you haven’t with any other sign, suddenly treat you like you don’t exist. But that’s what they do. And it will leave you wondering if you did anything wrong. This is where you need to have faith and confidence in yourself. Don’t worry. It’s not you. It’s in their nature to chase sth that piques their interest until the mystery is revealed to them. The worst thing you can do to attract an Aqua man is to be an open book. Close yourself up and he’ll want to pick and probe you.
Just not with flowers or candy!
They’re also really incapable of being expressive with their emotions, esp if they like you. If you’ve experienced an expressive Aquarian, then it was probably at unguarded moments. Like, they might tell you what they’re feeling if they’re drunk.. or if you have a physical distance between you, where he’s virtually alone and can say things he really feels. I find these aquarians to be very guarded creatures, altho you may not notice it, coz they’re so much fun to be around with. They’re just these weird, weird creatures but I find them adorable, nevertheless.
My story is that he’s been my best fren since we were kids. We lost contact for many years but then reconnected. We were living in different continents, but we were on the phone all the time. He wasn’t very expressive then either but I could somehow tell what he was thinking, and he used to tell me that no one understands him like I do. I dunno how I cud tell, I just went with my instincts. One day I told him that I was falling in love with him and he told me that he already has. So then, the libran in me, who thought she’d found her soul mate and would do anything for love, went halfway around the world to see him.. only to be told that his life is a mess, his family needs him, he’s broke and that he won’t be able to make me happy. And he hasn’t called or written since.
Sad. I know. *Tear* Infuriating too, I know. But I also know that it’s not my fault that he’s weird and that he will come back, once he’s a millionaire or sth. But will I take him back? hmm.. that’s a question.
Aquarians are freedom lovers. They’re also terrified of the intensity of their own emotions, so they have to retreat and regain control. They also celebrate the uncertainty of life so will try to avoid any sort of commitment for as long as they can.
My advice to you librans, be patient. If you’re the one, he’ll come back and get you.
March 18th, 2009 at 2:24 am
I am a libra woman and been with a auarius. and have been for 7 years, when we first met i agree sparks flew, love making was awesome and inseperable we were, stress for this couple however is like hell on the relationship, causes fighting etc.. libra and aquarius do not handle stressful situations well together we both get mean and nasty. but everything else is bliss
March 21st, 2009 at 2:21 am
Thank You Becky, Libra/Horse for your input.
I’m still dating my Libra, I’ve made a few compromises to accomodate him and make him feel more secure in the relationship.
March 23rd, 2009 at 4:00 am
Hello all, I am a Libra girl who was/am caught in a bad relationship with a Virgo who will not let me go, on a whim I let my friend introduce me to his brother ( an Aquarius ) and it was an instant magical connection.HE was aware of my psycho Virgo and was being patient and helping me get away from him.
We talked on the phone the first night for about 2 hours, the next 2 days a few more hours, then met face to face and sparks flew. We were together everyday until he passed away from a heart attack the day we were moving into his new apartment. We were only together for 42 days. The day before he passed away we woke up in bed together and he held my face in his hands and said “til death do us part !?” and I answered,”yes, til, death do us part!”that still blows me away…
I think alot does depend on maturity and life lessons learned before you are together. He had been the areas biggest ladies man, star quarterback and basketball player in Highschool and made some bad decisions involved in drugs and was in prison for 20 years. I met him the 2nd day he was out and willing to give him a chance and felt if nothing else I would maybe help him make freinds and re-adjust ( his brother is one of my good freinds)but it was instant attraction. He had always prided himself that no one had ever “causght him” he had never been in love, but he found it in me. There were old flames and half of his highschool class that had found out he was back and they were calling all the time, but he would just laugh and thank them for the calls and compliments ( my man was FINE!!!) and tell them he was already taken.And I have never know a man that made me feel more Beautiful, sexy, intelligant, funny, relevant, EVERYTHING. At the funeral I had so many people I hadn’t met coming over to give me their condolances becasue whenever they talked to Brian all he did was talk about me, and they knew how much we loved each other. It’s funny we had told each other we were going to wait at least 30 days before we had sex…but we couldn’t keep our hands off each other and ended up in bed about 4 times aday ( before and after work) and I THANK GOD we did casue if we had waited i wouldnt have all my wonderful memories…but it may have ached a little less.
March 30th, 2009 at 4:32 am
Fell in love with and auarius then she dumped me for another guy. Now i’m self conscience and afraid to try for love again. The things in the article were correct, i’m just sort of lost. Also the mind game situation was also correct. The only thing that kept me halfway sane was my memory about what happened. So aquarius women can you tell me what it is i did wrong?
It was great in the beginning and during that time i knew her. I could predict what she would say an do and would even do little things that i knew would make her happy. I know we won’t get back together, just needed some closure.
Thanks for you help.
lostlibraguy
March 30th, 2009 at 9:33 am
Hi, i m a lieo girl. i was in love with another lieo person. but he dumped me for another guy.
but still i love him. i m so disturb. our relation has ended 6 years ago. but that thing is in my mind. what should i do? i m really disturbed. plz. suggest me. i m waiting.
plzzzzzzzzzzzzzz.
March 31st, 2009 at 4:53 am
So this is my story,I guess you can say i’m in a ‘Not so good’ situation.If there is one thing I cannot stand coming from my Aquarius close friend/lover it’s the unpredictable vanishing!I am a Libra and I can tolerate almost anything but this kills me…
But then again it’s in the Aquarius nature so thank goodness for reading about their sign seriously!We’ve known each other for 5 years,
and just before he went off on one of his self-alone times,we talked about establishing a relationship.Although we’re still young (19-20) I do hope we can work through this,it just makes me doubt myself at times or wrost…thinking he may have abandoned me for someone else *tear*.
But we get along PERFECTLY mentally and not too mention a high physical attraction we cannot deny!I do believe Libra and Aquarius compatibility is incredibleee!He means so much too me and he’s wroth waiting for,let’s just hope he comes around and truly sticks too his word.^-^
mucho lovo.
March 31st, 2009 at 11:36 pm
lostlibraguy….Hey I’m an Aquarius Girl in a relationship with a Libra guy. I’m sorry that happened to you sweetie.
But maybe you were too needy or possessive. Aquarians need a lot of space. If she felt you were opposed to giving her the time and space to think she probably just floated away into the arms of a man that would allow her that space. I can’t really say without having seen your relationship though. When did things go wrong with you 2?
April 2nd, 2009 at 1:58 pm
Hi All
My name is Shirley from Cape Town- SA, I am currently ina relationship with a Libran man, he is the most wonderful gift I have ever had, I love him to bits, we share each & every information about us, I turn to agree with the saying that we are compatible,reason being we meet in a friend Braai & we never chatted before but he spotted me & I also spoke with him something I cant remember & frok there and then we both felt the same deep deep feeling inside then we feel in love instantly. Truely for me it was the first time a Man saying “Baby” on the first day”" and ever since that day (2 years back) we where never apart, each and every day we spend it together, during the day he’s at work & I am also at my work but later the day its a must meet so he decided we must stay together & he proposed to me, so as I am saying my experience is very very “lekker” and I am enjoying this evry moment cause I know us Aquariuns like special attention specially from those who we love & adore.
thanks
Shirley from Cape Town.
April 8th, 2009 at 5:00 am
libra MAN / aquariusWOMAN ROMANCE … i was in love with another LIBRA MAN .. THAT LIKE SO
LIBRA MAN ASK ME MARRY AT ME … Yes i DO
GOOD FEEL SEX WITH LIBRA MAN .. YES YES but still i love LIBRA him.that will PROMISE forever LOVE and ever!
MUCH LOVER LOVE LIBRA MAN
The up, down, up, down, it is just the beginning. GREAT WOW^-^ IM GLAD
that cooolll thank you !!!!!!
April 11th, 2009 at 7:55 am
Libra(female) and Aquarius(male)?Oh man…To be honest I just gotten my heart broken by a aqua male.How???I exactly don’t know but I have a feeling it will last for awhile)’=
…………….
So we reconnected over the worldly known networking site(a place for friends) at the very end of Febuary.My heart literally SKIPPED A BEAT when we spoke again on the telephone.
We texted and called each other on the daily bases,even talked on the phone for 6 hours one night)=.He CONSISTANLY wanted to see me everyday as I refused because I did not want to get emotionaly attached to him.
So one night March 9th I finallyyyy gave in and we met up for the first time in 2 years.It was truly amazing(TO GOOD TO BE TRUE) as I was sooo infatuated I could not look into his deciveing eyes…
We were happy,smileing and held each other on the bridge enjoying each others company and unexpectly made out…We stayed out from 12 o’clock into the morning hours.When he walked me home he DID NOT want to leave my side neither did I=/.
So the very next morning he text me 3 messages telling me how amazing he felt around me,how beautiful I was an he wanted to see me that day to read his poetry and talk about “us”.
I refused because of home conflicts,and on that day forward he was more consistant than ever, ‘I will treasure your heart with my life’ kinda thing (his exact words).
We have talked about a relationship,but more into the future,since we are young and he was having personal problems and I was getting my life on the road we both weren’t ready,well at least I wasn’t,BUT he said he has nothing but time for me an he would love to be with me’you have my word’.
On friday March 13th(and keep in mind we are at 2 weeks now since we reconnected)Me and my mother were going to take him on a outing and then no answer?The day before he called me in the morning and woke me up)=.On that friday he called me twice and I did not answer because I was FURIOUSSSSSS he did not reply to my texts before.
An ever since that day we havn’t spoke I tried to call his phone that night and it was turned off or dead.What the ___ right?He vanished into thin air,I thought he was getting his life together…
Untill I came to find out just last night He had moved too a different state to be with his mother AND a girl had left with him(recorrection GIRLFRIEND!!) not to mention he was involved with 3 girls includeing me.
I was in a state of shock and I am hurting badly…the words he said the way it felt…it felt real until I was informed by his one cousin.Was I a game?Was everything a lie?Who really knows…But never will we speak again.I was betrayed lied to and played with emotionaly.
So that’s my story if you cared to read,I guess I needed to release everything=/.Just goes to show to not fall quickly well not evan just ughhh SLOWLEY getting over it.Yea….
Sincerly,alonelylibrafemale
April 12th, 2009 at 12:57 pm
I am a libra and I love a aquarius girl deeply.
She is very beautiful and I love the feeling look her.
I speak few words with her , I don’t know how to express my love to her .Some blogs in her site,she just want freedom.I am puzzled.
At school we in a same institution , but this term she drop out.My intuition told me she feel something
wrong ,she is so setimetal.She left without a word.
Like cloud ,like wind……
What can I do? Dear friend
April 13th, 2009 at 12:03 am
I am a female libra and my relationship with my aqua male is freakin’ unbelieable!!!!!!!!! I wake up and instantly know that i’m in love! All that was described above is COMPLETELY true and I cried a little b/c I could’t believe that, after all these years, I know I found my soulmate. Also I would like to add that not only do you have to worry about the signs, the months play a big part too…
April 15th, 2009 at 2:08 pm
I am a female aquaruis in love with a libra. I feel like we are the perfect match. we been together ever since high school.I feel that aquarius and libra matches are perfect.we get along real good,and there is rarely a day we argue. we think alike on certain things and we have alot of things n common. yes we are two different people and we see things differently but but the end we find a way to meet each other n the middle.he loves me to death and vice versa. And the sex is the greatest i ever had. EVER HAD!!!!!!!so i agree with ever one who says that there aquarius and libra relationship is wonderful because mine is just to perfect and good to be true
April 16th, 2009 at 1:16 pm
This is a very interesting site. My boyfriend (libra) and I (aquarius), met last year. I have always had a problem with his behavior; not calling for days, telling me not to worry and other strange stuff. I thought he did not love anymore. We had a very long chat yesterday and today I decided to visit the site. Wow, everything we talked about is exactly what’s happening to most couples. I trust my man. When we are together, MAGIC, MAGIC, MAGIC. I guess I am getting to know him and that makes me love him even worse.
April 22nd, 2009 at 10:27 pm
I’m a 24 year old Aquarian girl dating a 28 year old Libran. We’ve been together for just over 3 months, and we have a great connection. On our first date we talked for hours, and, unlike previous partners, our connection immediately went beyond superficial things like common interests (these are very important, of course, but alone they don’t make a lasting relationship).
The only problem I’ve encountered so far, other than his inability to make decisions, is that he is quite blunt. This challenges me because I’m notoriously sensitive (and a wee bit self-absorbed), but I know that he’s not being malicious, he’s just making observations. This ‘problem’ is actually good for me, because it forces me to not take things personally, and helps me realize that just because people say things I don’t like, it doesn’t mean they love me any less.
April 24th, 2009 at 8:59 pm
Any ideas on aquarius - libra if both are women?
April 26th, 2009 at 2:15 am
I am a Libra man and I am dating an Aqua man. It’s insane and kooky and crazy. It was on the second we met, right away we both knew it. We are always together until we’re not. I go about my life and he shows back up, always does and i know he will. We have huge exciting fights and I always remain rational and he screams and freaks out, then I calm him down, i understand him like no one ever has (his words) and physically, its just amazing, its that connection where you dont want to be apart. we work together and we are friends as well as in love. he is oddly possessive for an Aqua though, and I’m also quite jealous …hmmm. so there ya go, thought i’d add this for those who aren’t just a boy/girl couple! have fun all, be safe.
April 29th, 2009 at 7:07 pm
I am seeing a great deal of “love ‘em, hate ‘em” posts in here, most of which miss the point.
The point being that irrespective of your zodiac sign(s), anyone can be abusive, untrustworthy and otherwise socially ill-behaved. Our zodiac signs *influence* our decisions, they do not prevent us from making wrong choices!
Bottom-line: To those of you that have found your perfect match, Congratulations, may you share a lifetime together; as for those that found their (ex)partner to be less than desired, I encourage you to keep looking and not judge future relationships by past experiences, irrespective of his or her zodiac sign.
Charlie
May 3rd, 2009 at 8:40 pm
libra people is more crazy than me.
May 5th, 2009 at 3:22 am
It seems like the aqua girl/libra man situation is best.
It is all true about Aquarians. We dissapear, we still think of you and love you, we just need to have time to miss you and rebalance. We are weird. We like games (but only because they are fun and make things interesting - not because we are mean). We are just curious.
I love Libra men. They are the bestest in the whole world for aquarian women. They are communicative, abstract, beautiful eyes to lose yourself in. Heart-throbs galore shooting through the universe! Best kissers, touchers, etc, etc.
I think I have found my Libra man that I want to stay with. I knew instantly, we both did. But it is sooooooooo scary. Why? I dont know. It just is.
My other Libra man was too flighty and is now living in a Guatamalan rain forest, so that didnt work out. But thats okay - he was fun!
PLEASE GIVE AQUAs SPACE. We will come back. Maybe because we miss you as a friend, and maybe because we miss you and love you. We never fully know ourselves.
May 9th, 2009 at 9:45 pm
Hello All Ms. Cheif, cut the aqua people some slack!!! Im a aqua female who’s best relationships has been with Libra men. the only downside is that if auqa people are young, we tend to not be able to find the words to let the Libra person know how we feel. Yes sometimes we do need space because we love our independence and that is something Libras like as well so please understand. All my relationships with Libras was when i was young . Two of them ended because the Libra male wanted to “explore’ other horizons (other women). One relationship ended because we were two young to open up about our feelings to one other and since we were such good friends we just did not want to hurt each other feelings so we just parted ways. Libra love to romance and spend time together( so sweet) and knows how to be a ture friend. We both have differences aqua people are stuborn and distant, libras take long to decide and can flirt too much. The main thing is , once the auqa decides to open up and give u their heart that is saying something because we HATE to wear our heart on our sleeve.Even though the relationships that ended with the Libra breaking my heart, I still love them and would love to find another .
May 15th, 2009 at 10:52 pm
I’m a 30 year old aquarius girl who’s just been dumped by her 28 year old libran boyfriend after 4 years together. He says he doesn’t love me anymore but i am still crazy in love with him. He tells me he needs space away from everything. I believe he’s my soulmate Should i just give up on him and move on. I really believe with the whole of my heart he was made for me. Never before have i felt so comfortable with anyone! Need advice!!!
May 24th, 2009 at 3:26 pm
I truly believe this match is capable of finding true love!!!First through friends then as lovers.It can either be everlasting or the fire will always be burning and will ignite to the fullest when Aquarius decides to stay around!!!
May 24th, 2009 at 3:27 pm
May 26th, 2009 at 1:36 am
Aqua with a libra right now, have been for 10 months. LOVE THIS MAN WITH ALL OF MY HEART!!!! Very fun to be with But sometimes smothering, NO “ME” time at all, and he is EXTREAMLY Jellous, Odd isnt it? But we have great conversations, and great sex too, Big VERY GOODLOOKING man. I really don’t like him being Jellous, it drives me NUTS! and thats the only thing we fight about, We get along very well.He wants me with him at ALL times,,,I can’t go anywhere without him at all.
I love this website Thanks!
May 27th, 2009 at 12:21 am
Oh And He’s a Horse and I’m a Pig. What Exactly does that mean?
May 28th, 2009 at 2:37 am
Im an aqua female…i met a libran guy 3yrs ago by fate but we clicked straight away…i’ve never met anyone who i can click with like that. We would talk about anything and everything on a real deep intellectual level, we wold both talk about weird, abstract things and enjoy each others company and have so much in common. then there would be times when he would be cold and moody and say hurtfull things which would make us argue only to kiss and make up not long after. I done the aqua disapearing act back in october(because he really hurt me) but we have recently got back intouch as we have a child together. When we were together we never officaly declared ourselves Bf/gf + i found out he had another girl or two he was seeing(dog..lol).
Other than this i enjoyed being around him and miss him so much, i want to be with him but then i dont! he’s hurt me alot and has apologized for it(we have a daughter together) so for this i still have to remain in contact with him, im in a dilema…i’ve never met a man like him who i can reveal my full(weird) personality too and who understands and appreciates my weirdness.*sigh* and we click on all levels…..Astrology is so weird and fascinating. I’ve been with leo and sagg..but nothing compares to libra or air signs in genral.
May 31st, 2009 at 3:07 am
Hi, well im talking to libra boy (he 17) and I aquarius (16). We got some things in common, but the problem with him is he so loud and crazy, when we talk it is so hard for him make up his mind, and did I mention he always want me say what he wanna hear he know I like him but, I just get so shy and nervous, and if I can’t say what on my mind he yell and then I call him asshole, then we don’t talk for week or days, then I guess he call me and see what im doing, then 3 min later he have to go, and and say he call me back, but that not even true. Idk if I like him or I don’t, he always wants me talk about (us) but in my mind we not even going out !!! I don’t know if he like me or not but. Its not like im clingy cuz I aint. And I don’t know if he wanna be in a realationship with me. It so maddden to me, because if he want to be in realationship with me he has to tell me and stop playing cat and mouse. He so quick-temper, which make me witty as hell, and I don’t by that. I told my friends I just wanna be friends, but then again my I dont, sometimes his name just pop in my head, and there I go liking him again I don’t know what to do. Ugh!!
June 3rd, 2009 at 9:49 pm
I am Aqua female and my love is Libra (male)… WOW what a connection… My oh my oh my… Couldn’t be better. Intelectual, emotional, physical, PERFECT!
June 4th, 2009 at 1:26 pm
I’m an Aquarius and agree with some of the things Mr.Chief has said.I can’t help it. It is just how I am.I live the moment and obtain great pleasure from it.
June 8th, 2009 at 3:35 am
I’m an Aquarius lady and have found that I always get along with Libras. I don’t know how strong the sexual chemistry is between this sign and myself but I do find that Libras seem to know where it’s at. In my experience, they’ve generally been very even-tempered, laid back, down to earth people who think things through and don’t kick up a lot of fuss about pointless things. They like to have fun and are very exciting but in a responsible grown up way. I’ve always considered this sign my big brother type.
June 16th, 2009 at 6:33 pm
I’m an aquarius (female) and for about 2 1/2 years i had a WONDERFULL sexual relationship with a gemini. It started out serious but I soon realized he had no interest in a faithful, committed relationship. I love sex so realizing this about him didnt have much of an effect on me. Today i’m with a libra. He is absolutely the “Libra” just as I am the “Aquarius”. we compliment each other very well, we are never bored, and even tho the sex isnt as good with him as it was with the gemini, the differences between them, the variety i get from the Libra is Very accomodating. Being with the Gemini, I always felt like sex was necassary, like I could never just be with him and spend time with him. it was always just sex. However, with my Libra we have absolutely no problem just being near each other, or only speaking over the phone. He seems to have no problem just sitting with me and talking. He tells me always, that he’s never been with a girl so ridiculous, so crazy, and so entertaining, but it’s not me, it’s just the way we fit. He’s on a 90 day “vacation” at the moment and i miss him terribly. He has 53 days left and i promised him i’d be waiting.
June 19th, 2009 at 4:11 am
It just appears to me that in most situations on here, it’s different when the man is a libra and the woman is aquarius… and I’m no astrology major by no means, I’ve just always gathered two people of the same sign, but, opposite sex, were going to be somewhat different,am I wrong? And, I am a Libra female, and as far as I’m concerned, and, not because i am one, but, Libras of all the signs are usually the most alike no matter what sex. Libra guys are great, and Libra girls are too,lol…
June 19th, 2009 at 8:56 pm
Hello people!! I just have 1 thing to say, as an Aquarian girl myself. I’m after Detroit’s Favorite Son, A FAMOUS RAPPER and he is known for being MEAN but I understand what he has been through and he is a LIBRA!! I just know we would be happy together because he is crazy and a goofball just like I am. He has a warped sense of humor but I love it. He is soo sexy to me. I think we would be HIP HOPS version of John and Yoko always together til the end. Remember John was a Libra and Yoko is an Aquarian.
June 24th, 2009 at 5:21 am
BEST MATCH FOR EACH OTHER!!!Sparks fly!!!Aqua male Libra female can fulfill each other’s needs intellectually and physically.Best friends and lovers at the same time.Beautiful pair!Ugh I love my Aquarius weirdo entirely to much!!!:D
June 24th, 2009 at 10:36 pm
I’m a 31 yr old Libra female in love with a 35 yr old Aquarius male. I have NEVER had this type of connection with a man. Without my saying a word he knows. To top that off he generally knows before I know. It’s like he’s one step ahead patiently waiting for me to get there. That’s unheard of! I feel as though he was made for me.
I can definitely see how Aquarius could use their powers for evil. He has a golden tongue. The man could sell ice to Eskimos in the middle of Antarctica if he so chose. But, since I am Libra and a lot smarter than I sometimes let on, I made sure I let him chase ME and allowed him to be the first to say I love you. I think it’s very important to allow a man to be a man and feel as though he worked to get you. Even if you wanted the same thing. He needs to at least think it was his idea.
As far as the comments about Aquarius disappearing…we Libra’s need our own space as well so I totally understand and don’t mind a bit.
And yes…the physical connection is…indescribable. He’s the best I’ve ever had. Extremely sensual. He’s said that’s how he feels closest to me so it’s a physical, mental and spiritual thing for him.
Last comment! I’m being pursued by a 30 yr old Gemini male who by nature is the sexiest, cutest, most charming, wicked young man I’ve ever laid eyes on. The chemistry we share is explosive… I’m talking to the point of setting a room on fire. Alas, I’m a practical girl by nature so it only took one week for me to realize I’d kill him if we were together. I mean, we don’t get along AT ALL! We have not slept together (and I have absolutely no plans to although he’s offered in his own beat-around-the-bush way) (but, of course). And we still argue back and forth…with me treating him very badly…him doing things to deliberately annoy me…making scenes…then being the sweetest thing in the world…needing me for advice. A couple of months ago he actually blurted out that he loved me. Being the Libra that I can be when unbalanced, I immediately turned around and walked back to my office lol Funny thing is…I think the fact that I don’t want him is what make me irresistible. Gemini’s!!! ARGH!!! I’ve definately had better luck with Aquarius.
June 29th, 2009 at 2:58 am
Hi! Im a aquarius(female)and theres this guy(libra) and i cinda like him and i think he likes me too! but im not sure because he doesnt allways show his feelings,plus were BEST FRIENDS!so what if i ask him if he likes me and he says NO!i would be so emberessed and i think it would hurt ower frendship.And were like what ower signes but hes a weeee bit of a bad boy and im a weeee bit of a bad girl myself,and there have been some rumers that he likes me and that i like him,But i dont know what to do!so PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!,GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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July 1st, 2009 at 7:55 pm
Hi, Libra female here and also a rabbit year sign. I’m with an aquarius/rabbit year sign for almost 3 yrs in aug. We are both in love mentally more than physically and i heard that from one astrology site that aquarian and libra are more strongly in love through mentality than physically, but cuz of our year sign being rabbit, we also love sex.It is so true that libra and aquarian get along very good, my female friend is also an aquarius and we get along perfectly.. I think some time you have to look at your year sign too because me and my bf are so alike sometime, it gets boring. rabbit are known to quiet, charming, lucky and selfish and that match us so true..oh yeah i live with my aquarian male though, he spoiles me well with his income i say he do, cuz he pay for the apt and phone and cable.. he buys me clothes and takes me out.. i love that and i would not wanna lose him so sometime i feel selfish when we get in big argument and it always start of wit me well 85% is me about my insecure, jelousy cuz he treat his friens very good.. so true bout aqua with their friends and independence..we are both young, he moved out his parents house when he was 19 well cos of me. now we both 21 and hope we make it.. omg my writing is so third grade.. sorry if you guys don’t undestangd. well my advice is give aquarian alot of space. they are very independent person sometime it makes me mad cuz im very dependent person..i think our relationship is working because of me, i cannot let him go, i pour my tears out when he breaks up wit me, and some time he dont care, so rite bout aquarian being unemotiananlly bt ther is one time he cried like a baby on my lap for bout 5 min, i think is the rabbit sign in him cuz rabbit are very emotionally person…
check your year sign compabitable as well
July 7th, 2009 at 7:01 am
Seems to me, by reading the previous comments, that it is best as female libra and male aquarius. This is how my relationship is and all of the above is so true. He is as stubborn as a mule but somehow our personality matches beautifully and I love him and he loves me. He deals with my ways just as well and loves me for them. I am very happy in this relationship even through difficult times. I am by no means saying its perfect but the faults are worth it.
July 9th, 2009 at 10:49 pm
Is there any differences if your significant other is a Virgo/Libra cusp? I’m an Aquarius btw haha
July 14th, 2009 at 12:34 am
hii i am a libra girl and i had a relationship with an aqua boy It was a great relationship the sex was GREAT but the aqua boy has some trust issues for some wierd reason and really keep things to them selfs it is a long shot but if you really like eachother it could work and the aqua boy is a workaholic and always are thinkin of new ways to get money ….so good luck
July 17th, 2009 at 5:47 am
OMG i am gay and 28 and it seems that ive met about 4 libras in a row,,that all failed miserably from a one date to a no date ,to a three week thing to a one week thing…disaster men..
then…finally out of nowhere(my building) a guy and i started chatting,the conversation laed to aw alk to a coffe house… 3 hours later ..ive never felt this before as i am aquarius and know what its looks like but never experienced sucha great connection ,wheere we both jived easily and no one had ego and it was full of please and thank yous..i’;m so happy after that night,all the good feelings were there,,all the looks and all the emotions of WOW! u r awesome…So i texted him that night as he insisted (that night) and i offered to hang out in about 4 days (a saturday) he texted that he had a weekend beach trip two housr away..and so i texted “lets chat after you return?”AND! i never heard from him no response nada!!! ,,ok its been two days..but i called yesterday and left a voicemail..saying to call me back.. and maybe our impromptu “whatever”,,, was too much for him as he did get out of a serious relationship 2 months ago..is it his indecisiveness i know he felt a lot that night…any thoughts?LOL ps what do i do now that we live in the same building..lol..i’m so nervous i’m aquarius as the world is full of mixed sigmals for us..ive never felt so sure about anythinG!!!!but hes throwing me a curveball..thoughts friends..?
July 22nd, 2009 at 2:23 am
hey everyone! =o i was looking around the site and found it kinda interesting since i can leave a comment! XD well, i’m libra guy! woot! =P i usually have too much love to give and finally i found someone to give that love to! my gf which is an aquarius. incase anyone was wondering about our traits in real to compare it with what is said, we both look good, talk alot(as i do write alot too -.-”) i would hate to say this as it would be seen somewhat of ego XD but for the sake of ppl who seek more information about relationship between aquarius and libra =o we are smart! i do feel that i could be good at anything i would want to do, and specially if i would do it for her =3 she is very smart too and very understanding, she is cold at times but for the sake of love i would endure that because i know after awhile she would come back in my arms
July 22nd, 2009 at 12:36 pm
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sometimes she prefer to be alone and sometimes she feel like spending that special lonely time with me which is good since it fulfill our needs. hmmm oh yea and most of the times before i even express about my feelings about her or something else, it already reaches her as if she is in my mind! D: it is kinda the same way but she rarely express her romantic feelings, but as libran i do find my way around!! because i want to teach her real love and she will need my help with that =3 also when we are together we usually have something to laugh about XD which is good since it never makes us get bored no matter how long we spend together =3 but the bad thing is.. i got a healthy body while her’s isn’t ; ; she do cough blood sometimes… well, wont go to the dramatic side because i do believe that she will get better if i take care of her ^^; and yea… she could be very very stubborn when i offer money to help, she also is very independent but i think she shouldn’t be hard on herself like that =/ life is give and take! *pokes her* there is another thing also! it is said that aquarius keep distance from commitment, soooo yea, i did mention marriage =P and glad i did because i found out that she is kinda interested in settling down (btw she makes great house keeper XD but i do believe she could be much better =3) but right now we need to work some things out before i kneel with for her with a ring =P i think that there is something helping us somehow i can’t explain it XD
July 23rd, 2009 at 9:38 pm
*Reads comment above mine by [Libra guy =3] && melts*
Wow, I can’t wait to meet my next victim…I mean –}libra guy.Lol jkg.This post seems very true & I can’t wait to meet someone on my level in many different ways. Sounds refreshing & I’ve never even met a libra man! It takes a strong type of man to handle us Aqua gals.I read somewhere that we’re close to every man’s fantasy because we’re cool & somewhat detached unlike some women who are needy & clingy. We’re also a positive sign which explains why we can draw anyone in. The only thing with that though is that we’re not compatible with everyone on a relationship level.
August 2nd, 2009 at 8:50 pm
Yeah, my Mom is a Libra and my Dad is an Aquarius. My Mom and Dad has been married for so many years. So Libra and Aquarius is the MOST COMPATIBLE MATCH. Their Element is Air. They’re both Outspoken and Unpredictable, but the other word for a Libra’s trait that’s similar to Unpredictable is Indecisive I think. These guys are a like yo, for real.
August 3rd, 2009 at 3:46 pm
Hi, I am a Aquarius woman who was in an off again and on again relationship with a Libran man for almost two years and boy what a rollercoaster it was. When we first dated he was so sweet. He sent me roses every week to work and he was very attentive to my needs. But whenever I would say something that “hurt his feelings” (anybody who knows an aquarian, knows that we sometimes can be very blunt without even realizing it), but instead of him talking to me about it, he would totally ignore my phone calls for about 2 to 3 weeks and I wouldn’t have a clue what I did wrong. And then out of the blue he would call me like everything was alright and expect me to just forget about the past. And as usual the same old cycle would continue. During our relationship when it was good it was REALLY GOOD, but when it was bad, it was REALLY BAD. Finally I had to let it go, because it just was not healthy for me. I could no longer deal with his moodiness and unpredictability.
August 10th, 2009 at 6:49 pm
Libra women are the best. As an AQ male I seek out Libra women because they are so compatible across the board. Understanding, diplomatic, dynamic in bed…they usually have it all. To all the Libra ladies out there…I salute you.
August 13th, 2009 at 9:23 am
Aquarius Male Responding:
I’ve red through a good amount of comments and they seem to be hit and miss with mostly hits.
The first thing that needs mentioning is that just because personality traits are on the money, several influences can affect those traits and this goes for ALL signs.
Take a female Aquarius, she could have been molested and have a inner fear, combined with being aloof as a personality trait and you get the picture.
A male Aquarius, could have a distant mother, combined with being aloof as a personality trait and you get the picture.
On the whole, the personality traits of Astrology are MOSTLY correct. I don’t personally on a conscience level think I am what the traits say I am but as I read through, I smile a bit knowing “Hey, that’s me.”
I can tell you this, the crazy patters of Aquarius (me included) can mean today we’re the closest relationship either one of us has had and 5 hours later, your “just a friend” while we’re out. This can be maddening for you on the other end of the relationship. For me and I can’t speak for all Aquarius men, the best love of our life at the moment and 10-minutes later your a friend but the core understanding for me knowing i’m in a relationship with you remains and while I act aloof towards you doesn’t mean I’m not with you in a relationship it’s just the heated moment that I was deeply ingrained in love with you 30-seconds ago has come and gone (yes that fast). I’m not saying it’s right, good or anything else for that matter, it is what it is (for me). It is honest and fair to say that dealing with an Aquarius is a emotional/mental roller-coaster for those of you involved with us. My thought patten would probably be diagnosed (emotionally speaking) on a professional level as some type of psychosis but that psychosis is the typical thought pattern of your average Aquarius. In a worldly environment, say a team sport, work, etc. I’m as standard thinking to get things accomplished as any strong mind but add emotion to the batch and I’m a mental wack a do.
Now there are certain actions which are just someone who is not acting within the scope of who they are. For example, I red a comment where the girl Aquarius gets drunk and runs around the bar flirting. That’s not a personality trait, that’s being disrespectful and a whore. So you on the other end of things, have to balance the justifiable traits of the Aquarius vs. the un-justifiable traits.
Her loving you entirely at 6pm and at 10pm your just a friend, that is a Aquarius trait. But being the friend and her flirting with other guys, that’s not a personality trait. It’s called boundaries and most American women do not have them but expect men (remember it’s always the man’s fault for everything) to have the boundaries.
From a Aquarius standpoint, I as a Aquarius man REFUSE to date an Aquarius woman. I know from first hand experience what it’s like to be an Aquarius and I don’t want to involve myself with one. I don’t need to date one to know for certain, I already know for certain. It’s that double standard of I am aloof but I don’t want to deal with that on the other end. I want that Sag or Libra woman who’s far more stable emotionally than me as an Aquarius but at the same time, is compatible with my aloof self and has the patience to deal with me being an Aquarius male. Ironic, that all the women I’ve been involved with would date me again, this includes the women who broke up with me. I also have not a problem in the world talking or helping if needed any ex I have.
Honestly, I would not want to date me emotionally. I absolutely can be fun, always always always on the go and doing things, life is definitely not boring by no stretch, but emotionally, a woman dating me has to be a rock solid emotional foundation because the Aquarius I am is definitely not. I absolutely want a “buddy” to do everything with and that can mean even a quick shot up to the store 2 minutes away. You women and I know this cause all who date me tell me this, don’t want to be my buddy, they want more. Well, my next will be a Sag or Libra. I’m confident that it will be my last relationship because both Sag and Libra women have the ability to put up with my inability. I’m also avoiding American Women 100% and seeking a South American woman (Sag or Libra) because the culture on the whole here has scrambled the brains of the women. Save your responses about that comment cause it’s not a fixed Aquarius thought process, it’s the freaking truth!
I do know a Libra woman that I can tell you to this day had I ever considered marriage, she would be the one. + she was one of those emotional foundation girls so it would have worked provided I was willing to marry.
August 24th, 2009 at 4:24 am
This is going to be my 2nd relationship with a Libra guy. And i must say I love it. I like that we’re always at peace with each other even though we have disagreements. I’m so comfortable with my Librans, I can just be myself and we click together like that. The onlt thing that bothers me is the indecisiveness, but I have my way of working through that.
September 1st, 2009 at 2:14 pm
What is it that Aquarian Men are Attracted to in Libra Women?
Hello — another Libra chica checking in here who is in a whirlwind-soulmate kinda relationship with an Aquaman. Next month will be a year and we’ve hit all the signposts and milestones that are typical for the Aqua/Libra duo — crazy hot chemistry, bonding of the minds, him chasing me like a mad-man and giving me a ring, him disappearing every now and then with me scratching my head like “what the $#@%?”, him coming back and professing undying love and asking for forgivness because he had to get himself ($$ and biz) together, me adjusting and actualy making his AWOL periods kinda productive and using it as “me time”, — like I said, it all seems pretty on point with what everyone else has said and now that I’ve got my bearings, I think that I can get used to it. He’s AWOL again this week so I have a little time to browse and gain even more insight (which is invaluable for anyone dealing with an Aqua for the first time - especially a Libra for whom romance usually equals fairytaleable story — if only in our own minds.) Accordingly, I’m calling on all you enlightened and enlightening Aquamen (CHRIS, AQ MYSTERY MAN, AQUAMAN!!!, MR.P) out there — tell us, what is it that separates the Libra women from the pack and makes us special in your eyes? Come on now, you know (and I know that you know) that Libra women loooooovvvveee to hear great things about themselves — although we have a rep for being suckers for flatery, I really think that it’s because we work harder at relationships (and sacrafice more in the name of love) than any other sign (Scorps might be a close second) so it’s nice to know why/how/when our efforts are appreciated. (Hearing this kind of stuff, working on mastering a new Yoga pose, finding a new eyeshadow, painting my front door and developing a few new business prospects will keep my mind from triping too too hard re whatever he might be doing this week.) My Aquaman tells me that he knows he hit the jackpot when he met me and I know and appreciate that these types of statements and professions of love are big for him (and usually pretty sincere, sans ulterior motives) but … like I said, he’s AWOL this week so, hey, I’m all ears. THANKS TO ALL WHO RESPOND
Also, JENNY — are you still doing the venus/mars campatibility reviews? Not sure if it was you or someone else on another site but I found it once and wasn’t able to find it again.
FYI, ME: Libra I Sun, Virgo Rising, Venus in Leo, Mars in Leo, Moon in Gemini; HIM: Aqua Sun on the Capricorn cusp, Capricorn Rising (?maybe? not sure), Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Aries, Moon in Libra
September 1st, 2009 at 2:25 pm
Oh - also, I’m a Dragon (obvious from name) and my Aquaman is a Rooster.
September 23rd, 2009 at 3:16 pm
WOW. What an amazing site. I stumbled upon this site seeking advice about a Libra I just met and INSTANTLY feel connected with. “Fun at first sight!” We have confessed that we “like” each other and I wanna speed up the process but am not sure how to do it or how I should approach. The attraction is there and I REALLY like him (which is odd) lol. Im very picky and think I have found my match.
September 24th, 2009 at 9:48 pm
I’m a libra girl, and I’ve had the best relationships of my life with Aquarian men. Even the one relationship with an Aquarius that crashed and burned didn’t sour me on them forever. I seem to be attracted to them even before I know their zodiac signs. My first love was an aquarius, and the man I’m going to marry is an Aquarius.
Sometimes bad relationships are more about the two people in the relationship, regardless of what sign they are.
September 26th, 2009 at 11:18 pm
i am an aquarian female, i haven’t ever even ever known a libra!!!omg!funny, i guess i’m yet to meet my soulmate…
September 30th, 2009 at 5:15 pm
I am an Aquarian female. Aquarian Dragon to be exact. About 5 months ago I met a Libra male. I was immediatly attracted to his huge smile and lightheartedness. He always made me laugh and smile with his jokes and happiness. Of course we have had many fights in the past, but every one of them accomplished major issues both of us had. My advice to others in the same situation to ride it out.. you will not want to miss out on eachother. For both of you need eachother. Both Aquarius and Libra can help eachother get over mountains in life.
September 30th, 2009 at 5:43 pm
HELP ME!!!
I AM CURRENTLY IN A LIBRA/LIBRA RELATIONSHIP–WISHING SOMEONE WOULD HAVE TOLD ME TO THINK BEFORE DOING THAT. HOWEVER, I JUST MET THIS AQUARIUS (AMAZING) HE HAD HIS EYE ON ME FOR ABOUT 6 MONTHS BUT I NEVER GAVE HIM THE TIME OF DAY….WELL NOW I HAVE DECIDED TOO, AND ALL OF YOUR POST SEEM TO FAMILIAR. HE IS SO SWEET AND SOOOO VERY INTO ME, I ALMOST FEEL AS IF THERE IS AN INSTANT CONNECTION BETWEEN US…LIKE NEVER BEFORE! ONLY ONE PROBLEM, YEA YOU GUESSED RIGHT, HE IS JUST SO DISTANT, ITS LIKE I KNOW HE LIKES ME, I CAN TELL THAT MUCH; BUT SOMETIMES HE DOESNT TEXT OR CALL AS MUCH AS I WOULD LIKE HIM TO, AND NOT TO MENTION HE IS SHORT OF WORDS WHEN IT COMES TO HIS FEELINGS AND SUCH….I DONT KNOW IF HE IS REALLY FEELING ME, ONE MINUTE I THINK HE DOES, THEN AGAIN IM NOT SURE, WE WENT OUT AND BEFORE I LEFT HE WANTED TO KISS ME, I DENIED AND HE WAS LIKE WHATEVER…..HELP PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!
October 1st, 2009 at 9:21 am
Actually, just realized that it’s “BECKY” who I intended to direct inquiry to re chineses signs, other planets, etc., not “Jenny.” Becky, if you have a moment, please see my Sept. 1 post above — your insight is welcomed and greatly appreciated. Hey, what about an e-book on this subject? If you enter Libra/Aquarius in any search engine, I think that you get more hits than any other match. It’s an incredible one, to be sure; but sooooo full of ups and downs with a trace of inevitability running through it like a reoccuring theme. I can say this though — the ups of this relationship are like living in a fairy tale; the downs have made me stronger and more self confident.
October 2nd, 2009 at 1:54 am
Wow this site is amazing! I am with an aquarian guy and have been for over 5 yrs. Our chemistry is amazing, he is the only guy who can keep me interested on a mental level. His mind and stubborness fascinates me but sometimes he really annoys me too. Lately we have been going through some trouble. I (for reasons of my own fault) became quite atached; angry, jealous and emotional when he went out for long stages without me. If we argue I want to be with him, but he wants to be far away from me. The other morning he held me tight and told me how much he loved me. The same afternoon he took about 3hrs to get bac to me…and that infuriated me. He kept repeating that he needed time alone so I kept of thinking that he doesnt love me, but then we have amazing times wher he declares his love. He can be happy one moment then distance another. He is very witty and his tongue could get him far in life. I came online tonight because I was really upset - I was confused! I googled aquarius and realised how much space they need. They like to chase rather than hav someone who is easily ready for them. I am so so glad that I heard all of your opinions. It would be extremely hard to part with someone who can annoy me yet one who can captivate me on many different levels!! Does anyone feel the same way??!
October 2nd, 2009 at 2:02 am
Gosh Im so silly; I didnt mention that I am an Libran woman and he is an Aqaurius guy! Also, one last thing! Of late he has been calling me selfish (even though I feel that I do heap loads for him1 In actual fact I think he can be selfish)! Of late he opened up and said that I am selfish because I always want my own way; i.e not letting him have space. First I was angry nd it also took me aggggges to figure it out (and I am usually quick with figuring out personalities). Only lately have I realised that in essense I may be selfish for wanting my way alll the time; which is hugs and loadsss of his time. Have I hit it spot on or, as a Libran, am I just making excuses for him???
October 9th, 2009 at 10:39 am
hi
i’m the definition of an Aquarian male, Linda Goodman’s description is my favorate i think. i’m very proud of my oddities
i like to read my most compatible matches lately, makes me feel good, gives me hope theres another girl out there for me.
anyway thats how i found this site.
if i may add some advice on the “space” issue. we Aquarians dont necessarily need space as much as we need mental space, try suggesting to your Aquarian that instead of pissing off for however long, they might want to hang around and just “zone out” read a book, play XBOX, surf the net ect. i used to do this (with my lovely Leo girl) it never really became an issue. as long as she was happy for me to “do my thing”. occasionally she would “bug me” while i was “zoned out” & sometimes we would have a tif. but on the whole she gave me my space & when i zoned back in, my need for her was always strong, and she was there for me.
you see we Aquarians NEED you, even if we have funny ways of expresing it or have trouble expresing it at all.
October 12th, 2009 at 4:06 am
I am an Aquarius woman and I have fallen for a Libra man. We have been everything to each other for nearly a year but have never met! We first started chatting on a social networking site and we wanted to meet but fate decreed otherwise. My problem is jealousy and on joining a new site together I find he is on there chatting up the women all the time. He told me that they meant nothing to him but I didn’t believe him and I sent him a terrible email which I have regretted now thousands of times. He was very upset and told me he needed space which I found very difficult to understand, I have apologised and pleaded to no avail. We have not spoken now for 3 days and to me it is a lifetime. I want to cry all the time and it is so difficult for me as I am married but was hoping to perhaps one day meet him and then leave my husband who feels nothing for me anyway, we just co-exist! I really think I have mucked up any chance of getting back with him and life seems empty without him.
Can anyone throw any light on whether I have any chance of a reconciliation with him or do I need to build a new life without him?
October 14th, 2009 at 2:10 am
I am a 23 year old libra lady, I met my friend Aqua man a year ago. We became really close friends. We spend 2-3 days a week together, either studying, movies, or other fun random stuff. He makes me laugh, and he teases me, and he calls me, and he and he….BUT….Im falling for him, its been a year and he hasn’t even hinted on liking me more than a friend. I’m not going to stay his friend if he keeps me this confused…too much mental pain, as well as heart. Im not bragging, but im a good looking girl and i have men who want to date me…yet my feelings for this aqua friend keep me guarded from them. I dont know what to do. But i know one thing, i’ve been and will continue distancing myself from this aqua who drives me up the wall. No more.
October 14th, 2009 at 2:17 am
When i say hinting…i mean verbally…i have to hear something, im like a male when it comes to subtle “i like you” actions…i have to hear the words…cant read minds or read actions
November 1st, 2009 at 8:50 pm
Dear ms chief. I.am an aquarian. I know u hate aquarians bt i.am one of the gud guys. I am sorry your guy treated u that way. I am in love with a libran woman. I only have eyes for her and love her with all my heart. I do my best to get her attention. Anything she asks for i go out of my way to do or get it for her. I am a quiet shy guy especially wit her coz i have feelings for her. I know most aquarians have a bad reputation for being players but i dont see the point. I believe if u love someone that should be the only person u be wit. I have constantly made myself a fool by being open n honest wit her. The problem i have is that even though i have been there for her time and again she does nt seem to realise how much i care about her. Pls help me i really love this girl. I want to make her happy
November 7th, 2009 at 4:00 am
Libra giving up, I know exactly how you feel about that. I’m libra male 22, which might be the difference here, but I also fell in love with my aqua girl and we been together for very long (started 3 years ago) and yeah it felt as if I was just a friend to her. Until I decided to make her understand how I feel about her and wanting to be more than just a friend. Of course if she wanted to be just a friend, then I could forget about it even though I had no plans on giving up because she meant a lot to me. I will have been very flirty with her before that to give her a little hint of what I was thinking about. she already knew that I wanted to be more than just a friend even before I talk about it but she answered by wanting to be a friend anyways.. yup that was very very disappointing but would you really give up on someone if you love them so much? I understand that you are pretty and all, but I am also handsome =P The point is, it doesn’t mean it is the best choice to give up on someone you love with the idea that you can find someone else easily, it actually defeats the meaning of love. I didn’t give up on her because spending more time with her was enough to know she should at least feel something about me even if it was very little. Being distant from her would only make the success chance between us less and less until it fades away. Regardless of her answer and me not letting it bother me much, she knew that I had no intention of walking away that easy. Wouldn’t you like it if someone wont give up on you because they really love you? Well, once we were spending time together like we always do, I felt there was something different about her. It seemed as if there was something in her mind and when I noticed that we had a little moment of silence before she said “I love you”. I know I was lucky and it might not happen with everyone, but as far as I know, not giving up on her was part of my luck and it could be yours too if you try harder. Also, I think being positive no matter what will always make people get closer to you because being negative will only make others uncomfortable. So even if you get answer you don’t like, being positive is important and your positive and understanding reaction for it will affect greatly on how the other person will see you, might even start having stronger feelings for you, more than that of a friend.
Dmoodly, It is true! If you love someone, then you shouldn’t be wandering around anymore! I wouldn’t say about being open and honest with someone you love is being a fool. The fool who wouldn’t be open and honest with the one they love! But if you really feel that she is the one for you, then tell her about how you feel. Remember to be positive even if she gave you answer you don’t like, don’t keep distance from her. It is not easy to control your emotions if you get unwanted answer, but your reaction will have a huge effect. Be the nice sweet guy and if she was the right one, then she will realize it sooner. I don’t know about her personality so it will be very hard for me to predict what she might feel about you, also it depends on how mature she is which will effect on how fast she will realize your strong love for her.
I wish for you and for all real lovers the best luck!
November 8th, 2009 at 4:50 am
Libra cheers: I’m a female…i cant wait around for a guy who cant make up his mind, you…on the other hand..a male who pursued his love…of course she is gonna fall for you. That is the point….I want to be pursued by this guy…i don’t want to be or feel only like a sidekick for him..i mean that i was giving up on the friendship…b/c its different around him now, its harder. Now, we’re still friends, I am being positive, yet now I’m not an open book for him…im not trying to be his best friend anymore. Thank you for your reply! =)
November 24th, 2009 at 9:46 pm
Im not sure what to think about my aquaman. Im a typical Libra woman. Im so confused I cant even describe it in words. Ive read some of the comments and most are very true. I am smitten over this guy. The first couple of weeks of us seeing each other he made me feel beautiful and important but now it seems that he snaps in and out of it. Im afraid that he has me all figured out. We have gone as far as having a sexual relationship but he says he is not ready to have a serious relationship with me. He tells me that eventually we will have a serious relationship. He says he wants to make sure that Im the right woman for him. It seems like he is way ahead of me. I dont know whether to fight and stick it out or just walk away before I lose my mind. After reading the comments on this page I like to think that maybe he really does like me or better yet that he is crazy about me. At the moment I am trying to take control of the situation by giving him space and time to chase me. Im very impatient. It frustrates him when Im not being submissive. lol! Please someone help me and tell me how to flip this situation. Im not ready to just give up. I would prefer an aqua male to respond to my comment. What is it about Libra women that you guys like? Please feel free to let me know if Im doing anything right.
November 26th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
I’m an Aquarius, and I’m much different from my sun sign. I have a lot of similar qualities as an Aquarian girl, but my emotions run on a much deeper level. My moon sign is a Libra, so now I must be really fuxed.. LOL. Moon sign is something similar to your emotions, how you react to something and how you feel…check it out..look to see what your moon sign is. I’ve been dating a Libra man, and he just keeps me guessing over and over again.. His moon sign is Cancer, which might not be the best thing or maybe not a bad thing.. He is definitely more sensitive then he puts off, and I am too. I just don’t want to let my guard down to let him know I’m that into him. I definitely love the togetherness…Like always needing a partner to do anything, even if it’s a trip to the gas station. I also love to talk about my feelings, on a very deep level, so detachment, not really. I guess on some occasions I can be emotionally aloof..just depends, but not with this guy..like every time with him my heart beats faster, and I we have such great conversations..whether it’s about nothing or if it’s about so much. Crazy how we can talk about something so pointless, but make it into a beautiful discussion. We definitely agree on so many things and on different levels..sometimes i think im the one more intense emotionally than he is..maybe that’s part of being a woman..of course he’s always weighing everything and analyzing, but i do the same..and when we do go out we always have a hard time on deciding on where to go..the both of us..indecisive..haha! i definitely love a man in charge which he does take the lead on that one…sometime i try to be more in control, however when it comes down to it i’m the passive one and he is the aggressor. Maybe I can be when we’re having sex..lol! It’s much better when we kinda just let our sexual selves just happen…it’s like more refreshing when we just lightly come onto each other…and it’s great the other way..but more like so i dunno..different with him… i really like him and just dont know where this is taking us..need answers…im just going to have to lay it out there the next time he text me, just tell him i can’t talk to you anymore cuz i have feelings for you on a different level..i like you and if you don’t feel the same way, well then i cant keep on..need something real…any suggestions help me out here..lol!
November 26th, 2009 at 8:16 pm
remember everyone dont just base it all on what you read about too…it’s also the person and how they were brought up…can’t be so silly to believe everything you hear or read about…lol!! ludicrous wouldn’t you say?? haha! well, just take a little time into it for fun and pleasure..i just need advice from some guys out there..what do ya think about the above comment or even some gals out there…whatever it is just leave me something..lol
December 4th, 2009 at 4:05 am
I’m an Aquarius girl dating a Libra man. Our connection is magical and our chemistry is very real. He and I share many ideas and personality traits. He is very generous and like myself treats people with respect. We are both laid back and have never had a disagreement. We have been seeing each other for over a month now. I’m blown away by our compatibility. He is a bit older than me. I’m 27 and he is 39. So far so good though!
December 11th, 2009 at 9:40 pm
Hey guys. I’m a Libra girl and i’m “going out” with an Aquarius guy. We started of as good friends,
and suddenly he started hitting on me and I slept with him. He disappears all the time, it’s like a rollercoaster, I don’t know what he wants from me, he doesn’t really tell anyone. I read that Aquarius man likes to chase, and that they don’t like “easy girls”, i don’t consider myself EASY, it was the first time i ever slept with a guy on the first date, but he was MY FRIEND first, we talked about everything, so i didn’t see that as a problem. But now i’m really worried, it seems he’s just using me for sex and i’m not liking this situation at all! We can talk about everything and we have so much fun together, but i can’t take this situation out of my mind. He’s Venus is in Pisces, i kinda like that cause it balances the Aries rising and Gemini moon ( yeah, i know). I don’t know what to do. I always feel the need to talk with him about this, but i never do, because he likes freedom and i understand that, but it’s really confusing and heartbreaking for me when one time he’s all romantic and 3 minutes later he won’t even hold my hand. WTF?? What should I do?
December 13th, 2009 at 1:36 pm
I am a Libra male dating a Aquarius female for 2 years and it is an excellent match. Surprisingly, she was the indecesive one at first, actually breaking up with me after the first month but immediately called me back to say she made a terrible mistake. She has been on literally, more than 100 blind dates and has never found anyone more compatible than me on an emotional level. The sex is simply unbelievable - by far, the best i have had.. A very good match overall imo..
December 20th, 2009 at 9:57 am
Libra x Aquarius: You should definitely talk to him about the frustration of the current situation, make sure you dont “attack” him with it, just with a solid but a friendly tone ask him what IS UP? ORRR…just start ignoring him, as in dont pick up when he calls—basically stop being available for him. If he asks you why you are being “cold” tell him why, give him the taste of his own medicine as they say. They can be quiet a riddle at times, but who got time for that kind of bs? Aquarius or not…if he slept with you and you weren’t even his official gf, then he is most likely using you. SoOoo…..leave the asshole if he doesn’t pursue you the way you deserve to be pursued.
December 23rd, 2009 at 10:21 pm
Well im liking this conection. Its my first libra interaction and im nuts about him. . . Dnt do aries with aquarius a wasted yr cuz of it
December 31st, 2009 at 10:24 pm
Aquarius male (me) / Libra female.
We had a pretty intense relationship. Lasted a couple years with a gap in the middle. I wouldn’t say it was anything like what was described. She was needy, didn’t allow any space, violently emotional and always felt the need to keep tabs on me. She didn’t understand my emotional detachment at all and it seemed to torment her. It’s funny because at the time she was the one who always read this horoscope stuff so you’d think she would have figured it out. Her highly cultural upbringing was likely somewhat to blame.
Sex was great but became a chore when she started introducing argumentation into the bedroom :/
January 14th, 2010 at 2:09 pm
Libra Guy (me) / Aquarius Lady
I get to know this Aquarius lady late last year. It was such a pleasure to know her.
We kinda get along well but not ready to commit to each other. Being out of a relation for 3 years for the both of us. It was weird that we are texting each other every day w/o fail. Then there were times when she just puzzled me wby avoiding me. Then she will suprise me with the eagerness to meet me… Really caught me off guard. Her unpredictabilty really unsettles me at times. But being a diplomatic Libran, i always give her space. I dunno where we are headin whether we will be a couple. But i do know we are heading for a holiday next month together…
January 14th, 2010 at 6:46 pm
the only way a relationship based on astrological signs work is if each person is in tune with their mental programming (your birth chart) they dont have to know anything about the signs or what they mean, they just need to completely know themselves.
THAT is the only time a relationship can work, you have to know yourself before you can truely know somebody else
January 19th, 2010 at 2:19 pm
i am i libra girl and was with a aquarious. we discided that we both wernt lookin for a realationship but we woukd still see each other and be friends. the sex was great …we wernt lookin for nothin more than that.
January 26th, 2010 at 7:16 pm
Wow, after reading all of your comments I guess I am totally agreeing with most of you guys! I am Libra female was seeing a Aquariuos male for just 2 months. We hit it off from day one, spent almost everyday together, met his family and he met mine. Both were looking for the same things in life and love. THEN I said the 3 letter words after 1 month b/c I was really falling for him! Of course he didnt say it back….he wasn’t ready and didnt want to be pressured….weeks went by and he said he started getting distant with me, dont get me wrong he did finally tell me he loved me 2 weeks later…but became distant and said he didnt feel the same anymore, wasn’t happy with the way his life was going at the moment, wanted time for himself and needed a break. He swore it wasn’t anyone else, just HIM, and not me….so I tried and tried and looks like his mind is made up. I totally love this man….I guess all I can do is give him time and hopefully he’ll come back?? But I agree Aquarius are def afraid of commitment, keep to themselves and dont express themselves at all!!!
February 6th, 2010 at 1:52 pm
hi im an Aquarius n recently a lot of my horoscopes have been true n its everyday its right and im with a beatiful young woman who is a libra n everything it discribes in tht paragraph is right we have a great relationship most of the time n wen it gets to the weekend we always end up argueing its my indipendence tht leaves her unsecure n she does have a greater outlook on life than me n great in bed :p
February 13th, 2010 at 4:50 am
HI, Iam a libra girl, and for a few months now i’ve been talking to an aquarius male..Its true the first time we met we had a great connection, i think hes a wonderful person and i’ve never met anyone like him before however he does tend to disappear for a while then he’ll reapear again out of no where
but he always makes me smile i hope that he just feels the same for me because this aqua man definetly makes my heart melt when he smiles 
I also wish that he would just tell me how he felt about me cuz sometimes iam just so confused i dont ever know where i stand to him. I cant wait to see him again i love his smile and the way he looks at me 
February 13th, 2010 at 10:20 am
I have been married to a Libra man for 14 years, and I am a Aquarian female. I must say we had a glorious connection…many long talks over coffee in the early morning hours. At, first my stubborness did make it a difficult marriage for about the first year or so, but when I learned to compromise occasionally and not always have it my way all the time, it has been brilliant! I have balanced him in keeping him focused on the future and he keeps me focused on the challenges of today. In the bedroom, it is true what you have said, the sex is amazing after conversation on what pleases eachother, and he is happy to oblige after knowing my triggers that will send me into multiple orgasms.
Hope you all enjoy this topic, I surely have
March 1st, 2010 at 9:29 pm
Hi I seriously need someones help….I have met a absolute mad aquarian and when we met we clicked instantly, however i am in a relationship and this guy is driving me bonkers by sucking my neck when i dont want it….sending me funky emails…..threatening to take my away for weekends…..constantly asking me to stay…..sending me flowers to work……he is like a feckin magnet….u just keep going back 4 more!!!! WHAT SHALL I DO!!
March 6th, 2010 at 7:06 am
Steph, are you a Libra? I’m interesting in knowing more about you two. He sounds like he’s really into you. Be careful.
March 10th, 2010 at 9:56 am
dear Rising Soul
there is nothing to worry about. i am an aquarius woman dating a libra man from past 8 months. and i have seen a lot of ups and downs in this relationship, but luckily they are resolved sooner than all other relationships. we both do not keep things in heart for a long time. we fight a lot but get back to normal soon. i am sometimes the same as you have expressed your aquarian girl. its not that she would consider you just as any other friend, it is just that an aquarian is always shy of expressing true feelings and sometimes tend to show that they really dont care, but in their heart they do feel the same about you, as i do for my libra man. my libra man always makes me feel comfortable when it comes to expressing feelings, therefore i am able to express them. he is the best part of my life, but im a little shy expressing in front of him such things. he rules my soul. and my soul feels connected to him somehow.
March 17th, 2010 at 7:16 pm
Wow! Ots like the COMPLETE opposite for me! Well I am a libra male and I have been dating an aqua female for a month now. The first night we meet sparks flew nd what we felt was more than lust at the time. So she ask me to be her boyfriend after we connected. So me being the kind hearted man that I am I said yes ignoring the fact that I JUST got out of a 4 year long distant relationship with a controlling and insecure capricorn
. So everything went well UNTIL she showed signs of being controlling and untrusting but shand I confronted her and told her that I felt that she was being that way but sje told me that I miss read her. She is a VERY good woman and has it togther but I really don’t want to go through another relationship like that. I don’t know if I am being scared but I believe that we moved WAY to fast with out getting to know each other and letting the flower blossom. Now I am completely turn off and I am trying to figure out what and how to tell hee that I don’t see it working BUT that’s. Going to hurt me more because I HATE breaking hearts and it hurts me 10 times more….. life is crazy but you live and learn
March 17th, 2010 at 7:37 pm
I wonder if I’m being to scared and reading TOO much into it and give it time or should I just leave…. its a really hard decision to make but she is so clingy and really into me andeven though it is the opposite and I am a libra I want my space but she doesn’t want too! BUT if I give it time and I’m not feeling the relationship it will hurt is BOTH even more and if I do it now ot would be better for the both of us…. but all I can do is pray about it I will find out what to do soon!
March 18th, 2010 at 3:21 am
Libra women think the Aquarius man is playing mind games,but he is not.You ran into him where alot of people are and then started dating.He spends time with you to get to know you.If he stands you up on dates it’s just that he’s nervous about being all alone with you and does not want to make a fool of himself in front of you(it’s not that he’s not interested in you).He really likes you,so he wants to impress you.He may even show up just to cancel your date or say something came up and ask you out on another date(This does not mean on every date he will stand you up or cancle).Now he’s been with you for maybe two or three weeks and you are falling in love with him.But he disappears. Your thinking(What the F,where did he go?(he didn’t even call me like he said he would)well all his friends,best friends,and family were thiking the same thing when he disappeared for the two or three weeks he’s been with you.He left them all alone for you now he needs to spend time with them.Your thinking(I knew he wasn’t interested in me or he’s cheating on me & worse match ever!)NOT!
April 9th, 2010 at 9:14 am
Hi out there…. Libra woman here (virgo rising, aries moon, fire snake). Actually, my scales are busily weighing which man from which sign would be the most compatible for dating, relationship, and marriage. Oh, come on, lol, the approach is not completely practical, but a girl’s gotta have some fun along the way. Anyways, I found this board to be very interesting as I have been loosely involved with an aquarius man for nearly 3 years.
There’s so much information here that I agree with. When we first got together, it was terrible but irresistable. He was very aggressive and vulgar. I was calm and by the book. He pretty much lied about his true intentions and then confessed his dishonesty once he realized I already speculated them…even giving logical explanations for them. I was direct in what I wanted with him. He constantly referred to me as a number, and he was obsessed with the pseudonymn “friends” i.e, friends with benefits.lol I always corrected him and let him know that he was MY MAN. He laughed heartily at my possessive attitude, but I wasn’t joking.lol My precious aqua played all kinds of mind games to validate his own insecure feelings. What wasn’t there, he would be sure to add and his conclusions were all self-knowing. I was simply confused with trying to answer the questions to the games. I couldn’t quite grasp the concept of why there were such games to begin with. I frustrated him a lot because without clear thinking, there wasn’t much response. Verbally, he was like an assault rifle (does Rosie O ring a bell?). I, on the other hand, would not say most things that weighed on my mind.
He lived every where and no where-like a nomad. I loved stability at home. He gave two loads about everything. He called me a worry-wart. He was 39. I was 29. We broke up after he told me to continue having sex with him, but see other guys; and, he took me up on my lame offer to sleep with one of my female friends. He actually went to meet her and tried to aggressively have his way with her. What a jerk!lol She’s a leo so she turned him down just as aggressively. As for me, all mythics aside, I was totally satisfied with being with just him. I can flirt heavily with a paisley-colored wall, but then walk on by. I just care too much about our health and my committment to him.
Well, we saw each other often in passing and he still pursued me subtly, but things were pretty much over between us until recently, after having my surgery in 2008. During the gap, I took time to gain deeper perspective of what was and is going on. I realized something significant…his actions. He was extremely warm-hearted and sincere. Incredibly positive, albeit grouchy. What I appreciated the most is that he never ever hid or kept himself to himself. When I am around him, I instantly feel a part of him. He is always sharing something of himself with others. Based on my personal understanding of the natural state of the world, I totally understand the weight he must feel. He thinks I share more of myself, but really…he is braver to unlock the depths of himself to share with others. He may be an ego-centric non-committal maniac, but selfish he is not. He made me laugh and smile when all I felt like doing was crying my self to sleep. Just imagine the energy and openness it takes to do this without jeapordizing yourself. I would jeapordize myself to a large extent, so I choose to be the selfish one. It’s safe.
He is also not foolish by a long shot. He is very practical and stable (I watched him for three years hang on to what I thought was a car ready for the trash heap…not an insult when I consider that things aren’t always perfect and how he would handle it. I realized he will always be there to help keep things going in our life), but not to the point of absurdity. And, last but not least, he has to his dismay chosen a number that he feels comfortable and secure with…me. Unfortunately for him, I’ve learned his secret.;) With everything that’s happened between us, it has inevitably drawn us together. We are evolving more toward each other rather than away. He is a little more thoughtful and considerate and I’m a little more aloof and aggressive. I guess we’re getting what we both wanted-or not.hehe In any case, after reviewing all of that during our gap, I know that we are meant to marry each other. SO, until he is ready to marry me and stop playing around, sex is a thing of the past.;)I assume he thinks I’m frigid and a prude in the bedroom also, but after we hopefully are married we’ll see if he can unleash the beast in me without the words “Let’s do it!”
April 25th, 2010 at 1:52 am
This is very confusing to me.I mean the websites say that Aquarius and Libra are the best match and match made in heaven. But then they talk about all the problems they can have in a relationship like their not.I would like to be with an Aquarius but then sometimes websites turn around and say Gemini is the best math for Aquarius.So I look up Gemini girl and Aquarius guy and they say that Gemini are tied with Libra for Aquarius love match.What kind of shit is that. You can’t have to signs as your love match.If two signs of the same element(air & air) are a love match then doesn’t that mean two fire signs,two earth signs, and two water signs are a love match?If so,then what about the other 4 remaining signs,because there are 3 signs of each element.I read bad comments about libra and Aquarius and good ones too.I read bad comments about Gemini and Aquarius but on some websites more bad ones than Libra and Aquarius.
April 25th, 2010 at 4:53 am
From what I have read when an Aquarius guy becomes aloof and distant,he’s begining to love you.Also that an Aquarius guy will never lie to you if he truely loves you.He’s not the type that wears his heart on his shoulder.He can’t believe that he loves you,because he fears love.To him fallig in love with a woman will take his freedom away.His freedom is to be with his friends,buddy’s,and pals to have fun going to the movies and the mall and his favorite a party where they can make more friends.At first Libra(girl) you were just one of his many friends but after you two talked and laughed for a three weeks and say 4 days.He disappears,his heart starts telling him in his mind that he loves you.He returns and(your in love with him) excited to see each other(both hiding your love).You both show you love each rather then saying it,because you want the other to say it first.One of you will but not right away.You might start dating and Libra(girl) will slip and say,”I love you” when Aquarius(guy) kisses you for the first time on a date.
May 5th, 2010 at 2:48 pm
hello all Libra girls
I’m an Aquarius man… I met this Libra girl about five months ago or six (we, the aquas, are not good at remembering dates you know thats your job :p).
Anyway, I initiated the conversation with her randomly, we never met before until that moment, but BOOM it was instant chemistry! I kept teasing her playfully and making jokes about her nose piercing she played along with my cockiness, at first I was really seeking friendship with her, I didn’t find her my type of girls at first as I was always comparing her to my Gemini ex, but day by day I started feeling love coming and leaving it was unsteady, she always criticized me for being mysterious and not telling much about my emotions, I told her “believe me I SUCK AT THOSE THINGS! YOU WON’T LIKE THAT SIDE OF ME!” so mainly we aqua guys aren’t cold but somehow very ashamed of our emotions and afraid of getting rejected.
So one day she was there for me (it was on Valentines Day, which I told her don’t expect me to do anything on this day, and always was laughing at her romanticism but believe me when we do so it’s just DENIAL!) so it was then when I totaly fell for her and I was sure this time of my feelings… that was after 4 months of meeting her, we used to fight a lot, I got distant when we did and she was the one that almost always made up with me, and I really appreciated it, and was one more reason to make me fall for her beside her great femininity, the problem is whenever we guys fall in love we become so defensive and afraid to lose it, which we eventually do, so here comes the frustration that leads to abusive behavior (not physically abusive) but the little stalkings, so I stalked her online under a false profile and get to know that she didn’t feel anything for me, she only considered me as a friend, although she gave me ALL the signs that she felt something and always gave me hints that she was attracted.
Moreover I realised that there was someone else in her life that she never told me about he’s a Cancer, she met him at work, but they weren’t together anymore but I understood that she still have feelings for him, so when I got all the info, I couldnt bear the guilt and revealed who I really was and told her that I loved her (I know, I know) then it was the rage! she didn’t want to listen nor understand (Libras sense of JUSTICE) and once again my love was rejected as I feared which will anchor my solitude and emotional detachment more, she became very cold and hung up the phone while I was trying to explain and didnt answer my calls or turn them back.
so it was then when I decided to let go, I sent her a farewell email, and nothing happened after that till she called me after a month but I didnt answer, just sent a text with just a “?” in it afterward, she didn’t reply and nothing happened after that. I still pass by her and totally ignore her as if we never knew each other before, believe me it hurts me more than anything, but it’s my choice, I still love her till this very moment.
I’ve been with other girls recently but I still want her back, I wont make the move, my pride was hurt more than anything when she told me “you aren’t the MAN I thought you were” that was what hurt me most, I wish her my best in life, she is so special to me, I will always love her from afar…
May 14th, 2010 at 3:49 am
I am a Libra girl with an Aquarius guy. We’re amazing together. Enough said.
May 30th, 2010 at 6:26 am
I am an aquarius female and I dated a male libra for a month. Well the first month was terrific, it felt like jasmine and aladdin. He was a beautiful caring liar and I was jasmine looking for freedom and way out. Someone who shared a great mental and emotional connection with me. He did he was so beautiful, full of suprises and romance. He knew all the right things to say to me to make me get out of my head and into my heart. This hadn’t happen since my sag. The first love of my life. But my libra seemed to understand me perfectly. He was so well read, and well dressed, so smart and amazing in bed. It just worked. But he was messed up still from his past relationship. He was still all over the place. The signs may have something to do with the personality traits of people, but its their own life experiences and how they respond that decide the kind of relationship that you will have with them. He wasn’t ready to have a serious relationship with me regardless of the obvious connection we had, regardless of the easy going nature of it when he wasn’t finding ways to destroy it. To just test me for no good reason when he knew how I felt. HE just wasn’t ready. Two people can’t match no matter how there stars are matched unless they both want the same things at the same time. I wanted a real realtionship and he didn’t. I don’t know if we will ever have a real realtionship after what he put me through after the first great month. I may meet a great gemini or sag or LIBRA. But it was great while it lasted. And haven’t felt that connection with anyone other than my sag. I feel in love with my libra quickly and I don’t regret a minute of it.
June 3rd, 2010 at 2:54 pm
Well,i am a libra female and i was sort of in a relationship with and Aquarius.
At first it was magical and very interesting.I thought about him a lot and i barely do that about man.Well just to say Aquarius are very hard to understand because first they tell you they miss you then you dont hear from them for a long time? that doesn’t make any sense. In my opinion this relationship left me feeling out of control and emotionally not settled. When its good its good but when its bad its bad.I dont like the fact that he run’s away or leave out of no where that is very crazy.I also didn’t like how he cant express his feelings for me if i expressed my feelings for him.Well conclusion if your a Libra dont get in a relationship with an Aquarius because they make you feel good until stuff start happening then you become a train mess.leave the Aquarius alone they will make you emotionally sick..I repeat leave them alone!!
June 7th, 2010 at 5:18 pm
i’m a libra && for awhile now a aqurius guy has been tryinq to come on to me. I find him kinda funny at times. but as far as us havinq a relationship i dont think so. He comes off so cocky && sure of his self..i dont mind a stronq mind’d him but damn. i might qive him a chance but as for now he is a waste of my time. p.s. Libra’s are awsome ! but hey we aint prefect. we just want love & sometimes we qet so confused we mess up. but you will learn to love us. Were pretty cool ppl. but like i said we aint prefect ! lol
July 21st, 2010 at 6:46 pm
Im so confused now. Im an AQ woman dating a Libra man. The vibe is tremendous and so is the sex. We click on EVERY aspect-spiritually,mentally and physically. He went from being very inconsistent to consistant (which is what I need). He/We are/were happy. But all of a sudden he has stopped calling and hasnt answered my calls. Did I do something? Things were so perfect a few days ago (literally) and NOW its like I never existed. Im so hurt and worried but im at the point where I just wanna say EFF HIM and move onto the next. I dont have time nor patience for this. He has done this one time before BUT came back. I told him THEN how that made me feel and that it hurt me and he said he would never do it again. Clearly he was lying cuz here we go again. Someone please advise me.
Thanks Miss AQ
July 21st, 2010 at 8:41 pm
Im an AQ female dating a Libra man. He has disappeared. Not literally but we went from spending a lot of time together to not so much as a phone call from him. We have grown very close but up until this past Saturday-he has vanished and I miss him. He pulled this stunt one other time before. I just asked him 2 never do that 2 me again! Im ready to jump ship because I know my value BUT because I am an AQ-I don’t click with many. I said to myself-once I found the right guy Imma keep him. Ive tried everything. What should I do?
July 23rd, 2010 at 4:55 pm
Miss AQ4real. He’s Just not that into you. Move on! You’ll be better off in the long run. Libra’s do not desert the women they love…They are stage 5 clingers once they find a female that they truly connect with. Libra men are extremely intelligent and extremely sensitive so they can often feel a great connection before you do. Did you lie to your Libra about something? Nothing will turn a Libra off faster than finding out you lied to them. Anyways just let him go…he’s let you go and the more you try to hold on to something that isn’t yours the more painful it will be for you!
July 25th, 2010 at 7:01 pm
Hi, this is just a note:
In my experience, my parents were Libra and Aquarius. They divorced and there are lots of marks around the house - remnants of fights. They are also an Ox/Rooster couple.
HOWEVER ox/rooster is still a good match as I’ve seen lots of happy couples in that category. And a few in the Libra/Aquarius.
I’m just saying that in most of my experiences Libra/Aquarius is NOT a good match.
July 27th, 2010 at 7:35 pm
Libras are too vain and shallow for me. They always think that how dare you rejected a handsome guy/beautiful girl like me!? Please get real because I don’t look for appearances. It’s about the inside and you lack that alot. You seem to be thoughtful but mostly coming from pride and the desire not to upset anyone and everyone. You’re also needy as hell and get jealous when I speak to anyone , then turn the table on me , telling me that I need more attention from you!LOL! If I do, I’d tell you directly but I just need freedom and then you get insecured , tried to controlling me but it failed miserably . Not everyone has to be like you or become your “perfect lover” in your dream. I’m not a mould for you so stop trying to “changing” me ! Is that isn’t enough, you give out ultimatum “change or you’ll break up with me” .. Well, I break up with you instead, the beautiful and selfish monster!
July 31st, 2010 at 6:59 am
Sun signs may be influential, but the month someone was born is not the entirety of their character. There are other astrological influences, and then of course environmental ones. In general, Libra and Aquarius get along fairly well. I’m in the beginnings of what may end up being a relationship between the two, as the Aquarian (and female). One thing I can say about us Aquas — we have a stubborn and rebellious streak a mile wide. If we perceive someone to be possessive or controlling, we will run the other way. Hell, even just honest peaceful intimacy can scare the hell out of us.
I think it might end up being better for the woman to be the Aquarius in many situations, because men have more issues with commitment in general than women — there’s a biological imperative for women to try to find stability, other issues tugging them toward commitment, where the Aquarius man doesn’t have those needs as much.
In my case, I am Sagittarius rising and moon, with Neptune conjunct my Ascendant on the first house side. My Mercury is in Pisces, too, and Venus (the ruling planet for Libra) energy resonates well with Piscean/Neptune energies. I may be a little more emotional and dreamy than a lot of other Aquarians, a little more willing to wear rose-colored glasses. Also, the Sag influence helps me from being coldly analytical.
If you really want to look at astrological compatibility, don’t just look at the sun sign. You may be consigning 1/12th of the population to the dustbin if you think that just because you had a bad relationship with a particular sign that you will with all of them. It may have just been a bad relationship.
August 31st, 2010 at 6:43 am
Hi, I’m a Libra female and in love with an Aquarius male. We met last May 2009, in Namibia, where I visited two of my sibs. Quite unexpectedly, he showed up where my brother took me for tea at Mr. Aquarius’ hotel. I got the impression he had been watching us, because he suddenly popped up on the porch. What a cutie, I thought, but he would not give me a second look, I thought. Was I ever wrong! He got my contact info and tried calling while I went to finish my vacation in South Africa. He did not use the correct code and could not leave a message, but e-mailed when I returned to the US.
This man told me first that he loved me (surprise!) and now we’ve both lost our heads. That with no pesronal contact other than a handshake and a few words in my brother’s presence. He managed to touch my arm while shaking my hand. Typically Aquarian, he picked my brain during our conversation, by asking what the Passover meant. I knew and that impressed him to no end, he said later in an e-mail. We communicate by e-mail and phone and miss each other like crazy. He wants to come and see me in November and we both are about ready to burst with love. I know I’m incurably romantic as a Libra woman and I am happy to admit it. Like many people already know, changes happen due to environment or upbringing and not all people are totally true to their signs’ characteristics. Be as romantic as you want to be, Libra, and keep on loving!
September 25th, 2010 at 6:44 pm
hey. Im an aquarius girl and im working on some thing ( a relationship maybe) with my libra friend. My sister is a libra also, they are both born two days apart actually and I can truly say from experiance libras know how to live, they know what they want and i think its absolutly beautiful that they dont play games like almost every other sign. YES they dont know what they want some times, but who doesnt? Hes very spontanious, I was walking towards him a while ago and he grabs me, cups my face and gives me the most romantic kiss i have ever had in all my life. I just discovered that he wants to be with me, its exciting but i live in a different state. he lives in my home town while im down here for college. We agreed that when i come to vist we will work some thing out, im thinking about stealing him and asking him if he wants to live with me. I really hate reading all the negative comments on this site, becuase each person even two people of the same sign can be different. look into moon and sun signs and maybe this might explain why your dating a libra that gets jealouse or an aquarius that lies. Libras hate jealousy and aquariuns hate lying/liars. So… you should really back your stuff up before you go and assume that every sign is the same. My libra disapears on me some times, but im fine with that. LIBRA and AQUARIUS are great together, just dont always expect the best or the worst, just live and you will find that you have grown on eachother. What ever grows in the hearts of libra or aquarius is surely one that keeps growing. Both libra and aquarius are very true to themselves and their hearts, if your in a libras/aquarius’s heart, your in their for good. just dont rip it out.
September 27th, 2010 at 3:51 am
Ok, Libra females. This is my advise to you. As I was in/ still in the same boat as most of you
out there. If you want to be with an Aqua man.. ( IF YOU TRULY TRULY LOVE HIM).. you gotta be
strong. Yes. thats the key. They will run your patience like crazy, if you dont have what it takes
to deal with them. Forget it.
Just like every Libra female wrote here, I had my own share of experience with Aquarian man.
It was good while it lasted( I guess). We had an incredible bonding.. first few months was
great. We connected. We both had problems going into that thing “we had”. He somehow put a pressure
on me to go into ” more than friends relationship”,,, and then he dissapeared. He said it’s
fading off and please ” dont call me again”.. and I will email you. Just like that.
Its been a month and he has not call or make any some sort of way of ” communication”.
But then the entire time we were doing good, he was the one who kept mentioning the longterm plans,
which I was quiet shock thinking this guy is crazy.. to even try to think. Many times he would
ask me to marry him.. and the plans of the future was all he could talk about. I wanted to move a little slower.. but he seemed so quiet so sure of us. But when finally that time has come where
I was feeling the same way about him… he “dissapeared”…..he’s out there somewhere..
I just wish he’s ok. A lot of times I am wishing he’s somewhere safe. That’s all.
When will he reconnect? or will he ever be?, I do not know…only time can tell. Whatever he’s
going through, he wants to be by himself.
I’ve never been with any Aquarian guy before, so this all first to me. In some level, I don’t mind
him taking off, coz I want my personal space, but for him to just leave me hanging, was out of line.
When he told me not to call, email or even txt him. I completely stopped. I did chase him for awhile.. make him known where I stand. Made him know how I feel. Then I left it as that.
Sometimes, I miss him. We had an amazing connection. Him taking off like that made me feel hell
of scared. What will happen when things get bad in our relationship?.. he’ll just up and go?
then left me hanging?… I don’t know.
I guess for most Libra females out there, if you are there willing to wait for your Aquaman to turn around then be it. If you don’t have it in you, then move on. Simple as that.
It takes a lot for a woman to deal with Aquarius men. It takes a lot of strength and understanding.
God knows when he will leave off again? you have to be ready for that.
October 5th, 2010 at 12:33 am
Libra male here (rooster). Been seeing an Aqua girl (dog) for past couple of months and it really is something of a ride. We went from friends to lovers, and it was breathtaking! We seem to connect on every level: she gives me confidence and brings a sense of adventure, while inspiring me with her ever changing dreams and desires. I admire her freedom and strength, she admires my sensuality and diplomacy, and often reminds me how I bring a sense of calm to her tumultuous life. Our conversations can amble on through a host of subjects, finding joy in our similarities and curiosity (and yet more joy!) at our differences. Communication of ideas comes as naturally as the wind. The sex is amazing; we join each other on every level in the bedroom and can please each other for hours.
However, I can be jealous and possessive, about which I have always been very honest with her. She has little time for these emotions, tending to provoke and test them with contrived subterfuge and secrecy, which is perhaps justified, but usually conveyed in a cruel manner. Also, she can suddenly turn off and become cold and distant, or conversely extremely angry, when an insult is perceived (and believe me, she can find insults in this Libra’s best intended words). This can sometimes happen for reasons which completely escapes me. It feels as though there are days where she wishes simply to test my love, and any hint of my frustration at these games is returned by a demonstration of how easily she could shrug me off. Also, Aquarius can go from placid to furious in a heartbeat, when there is justification. This is not to be confused with the somewhat fabricated and playful anger an Aquarius may use to test a partner’s good humor (or patience).
Aquafem +’s: love of fun, capacity for passion, freedom of spirit, determination of mind, carefree nature and general exuberance at life.
Aquafem -’s: tendency to cruelty, capacity for detachment, ability to take insult, preference to talk rather than listen and a lack of patience.
October 17th, 2010 at 12:04 am
I’m an Aquarian Man who has had his life Blessed with a Lovely Libra Lady. Our journey began about 10 years ago… It by chance came to be that she worked for me and during that time we had the opportunity to get to know one another. I realized then that I had an attraction to her… There was a chemistry that I couldn’t deny. Unfortunately our time was cut short… I thought about her over the years, wondering how she was doing. Then out of the blue we were brought back together. It started with some simple emails, then evolved into text messages and phone calls. Finally the day came for us to meet again… I can’t really say what I was expecting, but who I met, was a Phenomenal Woman!!! Over time we met up for drinks, dinner and the occasional movie. I don’t know when it happened, but one day I realized I was Falling in Love… With My Lovely Libra Lady!!! I have to say that Falling in Love with my Best Friend is the best thing to ever happen to ME!!! Our minds, bodies, souls and hearts are in sync. Its a Love without Fear. When I look into her eyes I can see the Love that SHE has for ME. My dreams are full of thoughts of Her & My Love and the day we can be together as Husband & Wife
October 18th, 2010 at 2:39 pm
I am an Aquarius and since 2001 I have been totally and unexplainable (until now) in love with a man. I found out yesterday that today is his birthday and he is a Libra. So I looked up this compatibility issue.
For him and I it was infatuation at first contact. It is like we were drawn to each other and found ways to contact and be with each other, first on a professional level, then increasingly on a personal level.
The only downside is that he is married and I do not interfere with marriages. yet as a deep friendship, I could tell him ANYTHING! He has his quirks, yes, but as a friend, he is the best male friend that I have ever had.
For example, I went to an interview for a professional school. When the interview was over, I was leaving the building, suddenly and unexpectedly I became ill, was rushed to the hospital via ambulance. I was downtown he was uptown, he made it to the hospital before the ambulance.
Now that I read about this attraction, it explains a great deal of our relationship. I cannot say that I am totally disappointed that he is married, yet it leaves me to wonder had he been single, would the relationship have developed to something wonderful or disastrous. Had I been a different person with different standards, and followed through and dealt with him on a romantic level, what would have developed from there?
November 24th, 2010 at 2:15 am
I am a libra womana and have been in a relationship with an aquarius man off and own for the past 7 years. we have our ups and downs but, through it all we still love one another even if we got together when we were younger. The both of us have children by other people, but when we are together or talking over the phone none of that matters. what i am saying is all relationships have there ups and downs, it is what a person is willing to deal with. but the libra aquarius relationship does have a magicial touch to it, even if it is for a short period of time. it is there and it is real. everyone choose their libra or aquarius because of the first time attraction despite the out come. what everyone is saying is true but, a person cannot help who their heart ends up falling for. we are all humans, live life have fun. love, live, and learn
December 28th, 2010 at 3:25 am
hi there im a libra girl and i have an aqu. guy who says he likes me… he approached me and started to talk (well atleast he tried lol)…. he told me that he had a hard time trying to talk to me… we started to talk… but as a libra i didnt give him any sign of me wanting him… jus left it as a normal talk… a few days later he told his friend (a male gemni) who is also my friend, that he loves me… not like but love…. and i was like sure whatever… i didnt care. he asked for my # but i didnt give it to him… then there was silence…. at lessons he would luk at me but never came up and talk… but some how he keeps tellin his fren he luvs me… (KEEP UP IM A LIBRA) Then about 3 weeks later he came up to me n talked… at first i didnt know what 2 say… but then marterial jus presents its self… we talked… and then it happened! SOMETHING FELT DIFFERENT! he wasnt like most guys… he listened… and he has a nice way in which he ask me stuff… its soo nice… couple days after he asked if i hav a bf…. i said no and i dont want 2 b inna relationship… he was like why… n i told him that i dont wanna get hurt… and he was like… everyone is different n i shouldnt judge ppl before i met them (in a nice tone of voice) n i said i dont know…. and he was like okay and he smiled… right there and then i fell for him a little…. but i would never show it!
Days went by… we jus nodded at eachother… but then he asked for my # again (its like hes loving me in his head and not showing it to me) so i thought abt it n i give it 2 him (thru our fren of course)…
we began to tex n he showed he cared about me and on the 3rd nite… he told me he loves me….
and he made me felt loved… without even touching/seeing… jus the words he used in his tex…
i fell SECRETLY in love with him…. he doesnt know that yet
im holding back because of this space issue…. he stopped texin for 5 days…. then on xmas he was like merry christmas i love u…. (oh he tells me he loves me everytime we do tex…. skool was out wen we met… so we didnt c eachother)….
i dont if hes playing me or not…. but he said he really loves and hope we’ll get married! lol
but i wont give in that easily…
i’ll keep u ppl updated…
January 14th, 2011 at 3:10 pm
Wow! when you said that aquarians are the “man” in their relationship, made me jump (i dont mean it literally)! it is soooooooo true! actually im complaining about it right now, im tired of being the “man” in my relationship with a libra! my boyfriend is so passive in a sense that he literally doesnt do anything or even get mad if someone is already hurting him or hurting me! (of course i dont let them win, especially in an argument!) ive been defending him from anyone who hurts him and my problem is that he doesnt do the same thing for me! Also, ive been doing all the stuff that a boy should be doing like giving him a gift on a valentines day (which is my birthday) and asking him if he wants to go out because he is not having the initiative to do so. I already confronted him on this, and he just shrugged! (he said, he doesnt know what to say!) and believe me, i was very clear and very straight forward when i explained to him what im feeling so doesnt have any reason to tell me that he did not understand what i was telling him. can you give me an advice on how i can get this libra-guy to open up and tell him to stand-up and be the MAN in the best aquarian way? i hope you’ll answer me.
January 15th, 2011 at 11:48 pm
Okay, I know aquariuses lack emotion, but they are experts at charming people. No matter what, everytime they walk in the room everyone is not having a bad time anymore! I knew this one guy who was the definition of Aquarius, amazing smile, friendly and had amazing looks. Every girl and even me wanted him, but for me I always didn’t like the way he got everything he wanted from people JUST because he was popular. Sometimes we would have conversations and he would say,” I don’t like the popularity” because all he wanted to do was skateboard. He had amazing goals and was entertained by Jeffree Star and Bullet For My Valentine. I always thought he was just this emo loser who broke up with his girlfriend and turned to eyeliner. I was soo wrong because when I told him he was cold hearted, he flipped out and told me,” How could I be cold hearted if I dated a girl for a year and a half”. I didn’t really understand that but later on I think it meant that he could care for someone. Note to people: You have to be the one to apologize first or else they wouldn’t give a shit about you anymore.
I’m a disgrace to the libra name but I wanted him to be happy, and he inspired my writing, Aquarius rule, they are everything I want them to be: Independent, self-respected, caring, charming,funny, and calm. I just hate it when they don’t give you the response you were looking for but they live to surpise, but not on purpose.
January 17th, 2011 at 4:27 am
My husband is a Libra..my ex was a libra, my mom is a Libra, and I am a Aquarius. I actually fought/fight with all of them often. Is this my fault? Sometimes I feel as if I am much smarter than the Libra which makes it hard for me to stay calm and fully appriciate them. How can I change this terrible fate?
January 20th, 2011 at 9:14 pm
I’m dating an aquarius now. I’m female libra. I’m over the top sometimes and he just looks at me and laughs. We get along great. Met in aug 10′ and we have been together daily since. No arguements or anything. He is the 1st man I’ve dated that didn’t argue! He doesn’t disappear and he calls and does what he says he’s going to do!
February 20th, 2011 at 4:57 am
First-off I am not big on the signs and the stars for what matches who better to anyone here, but this is all interesting all the same. Every girl that I have ever had a longterm relationship with has been an Aquarius and I just noticed that, and they all had the same MO of what you describe as Aquarius; them more independent where I am the romantic. Them less observant where I pay more attention to detail. The physical was terrific or at least it was always happily pursued to be that way.
Those Aquarius women were to self set, flighty and self-determined; where love faded quick as it started.
I am a guy and a Libra. The girl I am with now is an Aquarius. But I have less of a needy streak in me, and I am more flighty than I used to be, and the Aquarius I am with now is going to be my wife soon. So mine is a bad story turned to a good story about the Libra-Aquarius combo and how that works. She is a creative thinking person in the natural ways of her personality where her mind is always at work, where mine is very at rest and well placed and loves more to be at rest than in thought.
I love a good ending. She loves a good beginning.
March 2nd, 2011 at 8:45 pm
Hello! I am a big fan of this site and love reading the posts. I had never had a relationship with a Libra until recently, and I have to say, it is Divine.! I never understood what the term Soulmate meant (and certainly never believed in it) until now. Our lives will never be the same. This man is amazing and clicks with me on every possible level. There are pieces of me that have been awakened I did not even know exsisted. We are on the same wavelength mentally, spiritually, emotionally, and physically. The communication is natural and effortless, the affection is genuine, the compliments sincere, and the sex is Soulful and Satisfying. I have found my absolute compliment and am baffled by the experience. In the first few days we had known each other, it had blown all of our past relationships out of the water. Never have we experienced anything so deep or profound. I’m going to marry this one
Looks like I have to change my username from Aquemini to AquaLove!
March 27th, 2011 at 10:50 pm
I’m a libra and my best friend is an Aquarius, when we first met I agree there was a spark. I really enjoy his company and hopefully our friendship will blossom into something more one day. I really like him alot! x
April 2nd, 2011 at 3:03 pm
LoL, must say it’s an unexpected thing in my life this year… After breaking with a Sagittarius for 8 months that certainly made me think that I will never fall in love again. I have had a hard time of stabilizing myself, my own emotion. That push me away from emotion to prevent hurt from our memory.
But now, I meet her. A Libra woman.
She’s not sexy, not too beautiful, not even equal to my old sag, but seriously, I was hooked, attracted to her like magnet. I like her smile. It’s really beautiful. I love the moment when I was with her. It’s happy, fun, and relax. I feel like I am really living.. Not as the moment when I was with my sag, it’s all about sexual things, and having sex was essential or I always feel like my own energy pool was leaking when I was with her.
This’s so different. And since she is 2 years older than me, it really make sense. Although I see the gap of our real thinking is no-where too far from her since mine is pretty deep even deeper than her. But I’m a bit confused on wondering if I was mis-perception.
It’s weird for me to love a woman that’s not pretty, not sexy or smt like my Ex or my “Form” of woman that I set for myself =)) (Just as that Libra told me sometime) . Maybe I should wait..
May 25th, 2011 at 3:13 am
Hi Everyone!!!
I don’t mean to rain on anyone’s parade but….I’m a libra girl who dated an aquarius guy for 5 months and it was exclusive at his request….He is 35yrs old and I am 34yrs old…OMG this is the worst experience of my life!!! I DO NOT recommend this pairing to anyone….I have my best friends that are aquarius and we have the best friendship ever!! Although, going into this “relationship” I read how compatible we are, which we did have fantastic conversations, sex was good (had better with Scorpio). He was just too flighty for me. I love my space and my time with my friends, but we went a whole month without seeing eachother. I called it off and he came chasing after me. After a month of getting back together he tells me we should “chill a bit” because he has too much going on at the moment!!! I said that’s fine, since I was at the end of my rope. This was about a month ago and haven’t heard from him again! I honestly do believe we had a connection, but he always complained about how I never called and always had things going on, which he was on the same boat. I guess he just expected me to sit back and wait around for him!!! Hello, I’m a libra….we don’t wait around for NO ONE!!! Anyways, I have no ill feelings towards him although he told me this through a text didn’t even have the courage to tell me at least over the phone. At least, I know now what sign to steer clear from!!!! The funny part is that MOST of our planets were compatible actually perfect matches!!! Kinda makes me think how much astrology really knows?!?!?! Hmmm, a question I ponder!!! Good luck to everyone and I hope you don’t have the same experience I did!!!
May 25th, 2011 at 8:46 am
I’m a 22 year old libra dating a 42 year old aqua man for almost 3 years and I totally agree about everything! We have the best sex ever, there’s times we will have our arguments and the next we’ll be kissin n making up lol. Aquas love their space and not very communicative. U have to understand them, I had a hard time but now I’m reading him like a book. There’s times ill leave him be for 2 wks up to a month and hell txt me and ill spend 2 wks with him lol. Some aqua/libra relationships work some don’t depends on the person.
May 30th, 2011 at 9:41 am
Rash
i feel this is a perfect match. i am an aquarius girl, in a a relationship with a libra boy from past 2 years. it has been an on an off relationship with one major brkup(fight)in between. even though we fight but we know each other in and out, and we support each other even in each other’s absence. there is no one else who knows me better than him. it is a real fun relationship with lots of varieties. sometimes i show him i like him, sometime treat him just as a fren, sometimes ignore him. i can be myself in front of him, and enjoy life to the fullest. i am so happy when i am with him. he cheers me up like a clown. sometimes i sleep laughing laughing talking to him over the phone. and we always have a smile on our faces whenever we meet each other.. we keep entertaining each other. i love him so much. fights happen..but it gets sorted out itself really soon with out even trying hard. both of us concentrate more on living happily rather than stupid reasons to fight that happens in other relationships.
August 27th, 2011 at 10:44 pm
I’m a Lirba woman and been with a Aquarius man for 2 years and a half ^_^
I don’t judge. So it kinda makes me specail.
It is true! Aquarius accepts my crazyness not like some others who look at you oddly.
Like CANCER MEN! OMG! they are annoyings most! irrating person I’ve ever meet, accept the cancer girls I get along with them.
Anyway.
Libra and Aquarius is not perfect,we do have our UPS AND DOWNS and usally it is not us!
its the person who conflicts it. EG. Aquarius mother she is DAMN IT LEO! 0_O she has control issues! but she is not always here thank GOD!.
But we always get on the top of it and over come hard times.
He gets a bit upset within himself with career mind you! sometimes he gets so absore with it,
he tells me everything! until he is done. Though I don’t mind because his interest is same with mine and he always comes to me with his ideas and he says I always make the ideas stable than before floating after I share mine. I do think Aquarius only tell one person who they love darely how they turly feel towards everything which is ME! because other people he tell which is family judge him
And DAMN! Aqurius can be romatic not just Libra.
Libra has to of course warm the idea and they love it!
he buys me roses every month and I get him presents.
He takes me out to dinners and has this Man PAYS for it, but with my ninja skills at times I get in first to pay.
Aquarius can get angry! and boy! when they are! THEY ARE!
Usally what they get angry about is hardly what they are anrgy about!
for example he made me a cake and it feel on the floor and he keeps stamping at it!
which was kinda cute like a little boy. I had to pull him AWAY from the cake.
Sometimes when he gets angry which is rear he gose for a walk and comes back or I make him sit down and tell me whats going on. Or if its hard to explain how he feels in voice I let him write it down which is easy for him. Other times I just hold him and he relaxes.
But when I get angry! he finds it cute! and laugh at me. When I’m being serious! >_
October 22nd, 2011 at 3:14 am
Hi everyone, I know my case were a bit weird. I’m a Libra women who fall in love with an Aquarius women. We been together only 9 months. We both are the jealous type. But we manage to tell each other feelings when things goes wrong. We will put our shoe to each others when things happen. That’s the way how we realize our mistake. But still it’s hurts cause things had happen.
For a Libra need a lot of Patience being with Aquarius. I’m not saying Libra not compatible with Aquarius nor Libra compatible with Aquarius. But Aquarius really unpredictable. When there’s a Winner, There’s a looser too. To understanding, respect, honest, sincere, sharing, caring, appreciate that’s the important to make a relationship work. I’m here to wishing all of the Libra who couple with Aquarius, will have a great time together till death do us part. And i wish for myself and my Honey Aquarius can go through a hard situation which we facing now…
November 12th, 2011 at 10:27 am
Im a libra woman and I have an aquarius man. And everything these articles say about us are too funny to us because they are spot on. He really is everything this article says he is, and I love him for who he is. And I am very diplomatic. Whenever I read this outloud to him, he does the typical stubborn aquarius, what the hell is that supposed to mean? act. and its adorable. We never have a dull moment, and we probabily never will, which sometimes stresses him out, but other times he realizes that theres no other sign that could understand him so well. I love him.
February 5th, 2012 at 4:07 am
Aquarian chick here! Have a confusing relationship with libra boy the past 3 years! We are friends and have the same group of friends. From the beginning i was instantly attracted and to this day i have no idea what keeps me going back. So for 3 years weve been friends with benefits and he’s always known how i felt about him. He says he likes me, that im beautiful, and awesome but he just isn’t ready for a relationship. So this goes on for 3 years and weve alwys been honest with each other so we’ve sorta been inclusive but without the relationship title if that makes sense. Just recently he told me he met a girl and that he was interested in her and theyve kissed. Of course i shrugged it off and said i was happy for him and hope it works out and goddamn it nearly killed me but i did mean it. I was just sad it wasnt me after hoping for so long. I never pushed him into having a relationship with me you know? Anyway that event made me decide that i need to move on and now find myself moving to a different city in 3 months. Since he found out im sure he knows im deeply hurt and he said he’s stopped talking to the other girl because it just simply didnt work out and so we atre starting to go back to our old ways again. However i stand firmly on moving still as i do belive we both need to experience other things in life. I also hope (maybe an aquarian trait to test the nature of things) to find out what would happen when i do finish school and move back in a couple years. We do have an amazing connection and we care so much about each other so maybe i think i just want him to find out what he actually wants and that is for me to step out of the picture for a while. Ughhh it has been the most emotional rollercoster ride ive ever had with a boy! Frustrating but i just couldnt keep away!
March 24th, 2012 at 11:56 pm
My last girlfriend (short lived by the way), we got along “to good.” It was a, “to good to be true” situation. That got boring soon and our differences/ opposites of our signs really began to come into play.
April 8th, 2012 at 3:16 pm
This match scares me, although i know the Aquarius i love loves me, He’s close with a Libra and i know this match is just as good as the Gemini and Aquarius love match.
Aaah lol