Aquarius Compatibility With Leo |
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Aquarius and Leo
This combination could be fun. Both of these characters like to go out and explore the world, the Leo is perhaps the more outgoing and sociable in some way’s, but the Aquarius knows how to enjoy him/her self also. Sometimes the Leo can get a little over the top when it comes to showing off and performing for people, which can get on the nerves of the Aquarius who has a far more subtle approach to things. The Leo will expect applause and encouragement from his/her partner all the time which may seem fun at first but the Aquarius partner soon tires of this.
Leo’s also need a lot of security and love. The Aquarius can of-course, give these things to the person they love, but as I have mentioned before they have their own unique way’s of showing it. Leo is a far more physical being than the air sign, and being a fire sign, wants a lot of physical lusty passion. A lot of the Aquarius’s sexuality is in fantasy and experimentation, so they may clash, but I think they could both benefit from the other’s differences in this instance and will probably spend some enjoyable hour’s in bed with one another.
The problem is that both of these two people want to lead, to be the boss. And in any relationship their is only room for one, if any. Neither of these two fancy laying down and playing the submissive game either and although at first their excitement in one another seem’s endless,sadly it does dissipate over time. Leo’s are very into themselves, and the Aquarius isn’t the type of person to constantly give out adoration. Aquarius wants to get out into the world, Aquarius cares. Leo does two, but does tend to put him/herself first.
Basically, these two can have a wonderful time together, they love life and will enjoy lots of different pursuits with one another. I won’t say stay away from this match, but perhaps take it slowly and living together would be the worst idea possible.
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June 15th, 2009 at 10:21 am
and we’re both metal goats in the chinese zodiac so that probably explains why we get on so well sorry for writing so much:) [im also a gemini (if were including the 13th zodiac sign lol) so i think we should be seeing eye to eye]
June 15th, 2009 at 11:08 am
excuse the last comment; i only went by year so we are both goats but im not sure of his element
June 18th, 2009 at 8:56 pm
Hi Amberlioness,
This is my advice. You know being a Leo to my age of 41, one thing that I have realized about myself is that I like to be the hero or the “fix-it” person. Even when I didn’t do anything wrong. If there is nothing to fix, it becomes a deadlock of going nowhere. I don’t know the whole situation. I hate to give advice. Because what if I am wrong? Since the answer was left blank by him, I believe the answer and actions only lie within him to fix. It is like I always say to myself, if you love something set it free. If it comes back to you (on its own), its yours. I believe Aquarius’s like to control his/her destiny. “not be controlled” “Just like Leo”
June 19th, 2009 at 2:34 pm
I’m the Leo girl and I have been with Aquarius boy for 2 weeks. Before that we were best friends for a year and we wanted to try this.
We fought often before but we couldn’t broke our friendship. Now we have fought twice since we have been in relationship and I don’t know is it okay or not, because I love him, and he loves me and we don’t know why this is happening, these fights. I think it is okay perhaps because fights can help us , but can anybody help us to stop it, or tell us how to having less fights. Please sorry for my writing , because I’m not from England. Thank you very very much.
June 19th, 2009 at 3:51 pm
Hello Girl Who Needs Help.. Here I go again with the advice.
I am a Leo, as noted above. I think that the whole fighting question, depends on what you are fighting about.
Keep in mind that you are a leo and a woman to boot. This means we are very sensitive to any sort of critisicism. Leo=Ego It is not necessarily a bad thing. We just want to please others with are spectacularnis! So the question is, are you fighting over personal things that you can get past? This is where Aquarius’s can help. They tend to be flat out straight on what they say. (without thinking) This helps us Leo’s grow past our egos.
If the critism is something that you can not get past. It may become an issue. But if they are petty fights, talking to him and working it out could work. I believe most Aquarius are fair. So, you have to look at what you are fighting about. Who’s issues need to be worked out, couples’, his, or yours. I hope that helps…
July 5th, 2009 at 4:44 am
i’m an aquarius girl and my boyfriend is a leo and we have been together a good while. we tend to have little picky fights and argue but it always seems like we come out loving each other more. most of this stuff i agree with but some of the fighting i dont necissarily agree with because he isnt the type of person that puts himself first and expects to be praised for everything he does. i think these two types of people can have a long happy relationship with.
July 6th, 2009 at 7:37 pm
It’s fascinating to read all of the posts here. I have always been a huge critic of the whole starsign thing, but over the last couple of years I’ve slowly come around to it a little and have found myself reading up on the starsigns of various partners I’ve been with in the past or might be with in the future.
I guess I do share a lot of the typical Leo characteristics. I am defintely an Alpha Female type, but due to my family and childhood I have a very easygoing base personality and can deal with anything that comes my way. I suppose I’m like a sleepy lion on the savannah! I like attention, but can take criticism very easily as I have bags of confidence to fall back on. I also grew up surrounded by boys (four brothers), so I tend to be very logical, focused and energetic with a very wide-ranging sense of humour. Sarcasm or bluntness does not phase me in the least. I’m also extremely independant and like my own space, so I can deal with the sometimes cold and distant moods of an Aquarius.
Which is just as well, as I have recently found a very lovely Aquarius man who (unbeknown to me) spent over two years working up the courage to ask me out to dinner! He isn’t always open about his feelings, but he happens to be a writer and I have learnt to keep a look out on his blogs for inside information! I enjoy a challenge and get bored easily, so it keeps me interested trying to find new ways into his head other than talking for hours on end. We are both very goal orientated and focused on our careers, so we will happily sit in the same room doing our own thing for hours (studying or work) and that way neither of us feels that we are giving up our independance and ambitions. We also share a huge artistic/spiritual streak and that’s when he will allow me into his world and the deep debates begin! He is definitely a thinker and we give eachother new insights on topics that most other people wouldn’t give a second thought to.
I would say that Leo/Aquarius relationships work best if you are both accademic and open-minded types as my focus and determination will make him sit down and work on one of his many many brilliant ideas, instead of keeping in locked inside his head. I am definitely the more practical one and like to get things done. He always describes me as his muse as I am quite a colourful and ‘glamourous’ person and the random things I wear, say or do apparently inspire him! I also paint and draw in my spare time, which seems to fascinate him as it is something he has never been able to do. Creativity is another plus point for Leo/Aquarius mixes if you can make it work.
We are lucky in that the bits of our personalities that could potentially clash are focused elsewhere. I get to be the loud, strong lioness at work and be in charge all day long, so I am happy to share out the power a bit at home. He spends a lot of time by himself at work due to the nature of his job, so he can cope with nights out and the odd party when we are together. I do know he likes his own space though and I will never try to force him to join in if he does not feel comfortable. He knows I like socialising and is happy to let me go out with friends and enjoy myself without feeling left out. I never expect him to say yes, but always make sure I invite him all the same so that he feels included. Control of a situation does make a difference to an Aquarius guy and I respect this. For him, small gestures make the biggest impact (unlike us Leo’s who love more obvious gifts). I always give him a choice and let him decide either way what he wants to do. I realised early on that I could buy him all the presents in the world, but small things like the above will always win him over!
I think the biggest hurdle (the same probably goes for any relationship) would be accepting and tolerating eachother’s strengths and weaknesses and learning to make the differences work for you. I know that he find’s my strength and focus helpful and productive and in turn his randomly brilliant ideas keep me hooked! I’m a generally happy and carefree person and can easily cheer him up during one of his ‘moods’, whereas he can remind me to consider all the options (including the not so obvious ones) rather than me jumping into things all guns blazing.
All in all, I am very happy with our relationship and have no complaints and I’m pretty sure he would say the same (although you can never tell with an Aquarius)!
July 12th, 2009 at 8:12 am
Ah! Charlie-
Our relationships share several different similarities. Even down to the being allowed inside his head with the debates. I love a challenge to, and it was SO intriguing trying to find ways to get him to open up even about the littlest things. And I loved when you talked about even just sitting in the same room doing your won things, because that is exactly what we would do. I felt that the quiet was some of the times that I felt the closest to him.
Unfortunately, we are no longer together, but for some reason, no matter how far we try to separate from eachother, we always end back up in eachother’s lives. It’s a magical and interesting experience.
July 14th, 2009 at 3:37 am
ok, thanks pamela!
thats exactly what i did! “just let it go”
to be honest, im over it lol ready to move on but im still verrrry open to the possibility of a relationship with an aqua in the future
& i am now talking to a gemini (long distance and he is verry much into his work but i am willing to give it a go :])
thanks again!
July 25th, 2009 at 11:21 pm
Hello out there,
I am an aquarius male who is completely captivated by a leo. I’m not easily taken but she has broken through my barriers. We have known each other for over a year but just started “going out” a month ago. The first “date” was a movie, but it wasn’t until our next dinner date that we felt a real attraction. The following 3 weeks were absolutely blissful. I shared feelings with her that I never share. She told me I know more about her than her previous boyfriend. During this time she told me (on more than one occasion) that I am a good man and deserve a better woman than her. My aquarian tendency to overanalyze was in high gear. I didn’t force an answer to what she ment but I needed an answer. She then told me that she didn’t want to hurt me later on. That will drive an aquarian nuts.
Our last visit together was a quiet and romantic evening at her place. It was as if we were completely consumed with each other. It was beautiful. When I went home we spoke on the phone and said we were each others best friend (among other things). She said we were the type of couple others envy. I went to bed smiling. The very next day her tone of voice was completely different. It was cold. I told her I had a wonderful time and her reply was “you don’t know me”. She snapped at me with: “How can you be in such a good mood all the time?” I told her that she just brings it out in me. She also said she was having a bad day at work and her period started. I wished well and we hung up.
I didn’t hear from her for several days so I called. I got her voicemail and left her a message. I basically said I was concerned about her and wanted to know if she still wished to see me. I told her that I just needed to know. She called back (same cold tone in her voice) and told me that when she has her period she is very moody and even her family knows to stay away. She said I’ve always been good to her so she was avoiding me for my benefit because she didn’t want to say anything hurtful. I thanked her for calling and giving me some explanation, I asked her to call me when she feelt better and she said she would. Its been a couple of days now.
Any thoughts out there??? Should I just wait for her call, should I send her a text or something. My aquarian imagination is in overdrive.
July 26th, 2009 at 8:31 pm
Well I think I’m spinning my wheels here. I had to work very early this morning (5am to 1pm). I purchased a card, wrote a simple “Thinking of You” on it and was going to drop it at her door. She usually spends time with her daughter on Sundays so I didn’t expect her to be home. When I pulled up close to her apartment she was just pulling in to her parking space. I stopped and was going to leave when she emerged from her car in an evening cocktail dress. You can imagine my shock. She didn’t see me and I left.
I just cant imagine how things just turned around like that. She always told me that I deserve a better woman than her. That is coming into focus now (at least in my mind). Maybe she was right.
July 26th, 2009 at 9:15 pm
Hi AK,
Maybe she is testing you. We Leos have a bit of insecurity that maybe we will not be liked even when we are having grouchy days. Maybe she is trying to see if you will still be there when she is at her worst. I would call and ask her if she is feeling better, that way she will know you care. Even when she is grouchy… that you accept all side of the Leo hot cold personality.
August 4th, 2009 at 10:55 pm
Well its definitely over now. We went out a few times since my last post and things seemed ok. She seemed to be growing more and more distant. Last night when I asked her about it she snapped at me. She said I don’t know her and I have a problem. I only asked if everything was ok because she seemed a little distant.
She called me today and said it would be best if we were just friends. She said she can’t deal with “all this drama”. I simply asked if everything was ok. If she can’t deal with a simple comment then this is for the best. I can’t help but think this was just some lame excuse.
August 8th, 2009 at 3:16 am
Ak,
That drama is what kept me alone for about 20 years. I am wise now enought to let that go. Unless, I am trying to get a laugh from my coworkers.
Sorry, I was rooting for you. It sounds to me like she may be creating her own drama. Another trait us leos do, until we grow up. She must be young or immature. Because a wise leo, would be straight forward without the drama. Eventually, leos do learn that drama gets us no where. Aquarius are wise in knowing this before us. So, I feel a little sad for her.
August 8th, 2009 at 4:07 pm
Thanks Pamela,
She should be old enough to know better (she’s 42), but I believe this is for the best.
Thank you for your words of encouragement.
August 9th, 2009 at 2:11 pm
Ak,
Wow, I’ll be 42 8-19-09. I am nothing like that. Maybe it is because I have an aquarius moon? ????? I would have straight forward told you if I was interested or not. That would have eliminated all the drama and the need for you to ask questions. Poor girl
So, I don’t think you created any drama. And by the way, I would have like the card and the fact that you showed up unexpected to see how I was. I may have dressed up like her and been arriving home, but that is purely a self-esteem thing. When our self esteem is low, we like to dress up or date people to build it back up. Very shallow I know. I really don’t do the I date people any more to build that up. I like you AK and I hope that you find someone worthy of you. Pamela 
August 10th, 2009 at 4:05 pm
And yet another twist.
I just found out where all of this drama is coming from. This lady has been taken care of her whole life by rich men. This is the first time in her life she HAS to work to support herself. She never learned any money management skills because her husband always took care of everything. The reality of her situation is setting in.
She called it off with me because she was thinking of going back to her ex. He has money but she can’t stand him.
Last Saturday I went out to one of my local places to see some friends and she showed up with her ex (the guy before me). Her ex gave me a cocky look and shook my hand. I could care less about him so I said hello to both of them and wished them a good time. I spoke with some friends for a while and went home.
The next day one of my friends called me and told me I missed the “big blow-up”. I asked him what he was talking about and he said after I left she and her ex had a “major blow-up”. They were both extremely angry with each other. I asked when it happened and he said right after I left.
This friend of mine knows us both and gave me some insight. He said that she was feeling very stressed about her financial situation and was considering going back to her ex.
He also told me that she deeply cares for me but I can’t support her at this time. This is true but that is about to change. I told her a little about my new business but not everything. She doesn’t know how great it is going. I’m still holding back from telling her how successful it is. I was waiting to see if she liked me for me. I think I have my answer but I’m thinking of doing something else for her.
I don’t have the kind of money her ex has but I do have 19 years in the financial planning business. I still care for her and am thinking of offering to teach her how she can live comfortably with what she already has. I feel this would give her the boost she really needs. She told me she needed to make it on her own. She has never learned how so it is a struggle.
“Give a man a fish & he eats for a day. Teach a man to fish and he eats for the rest of his life”
I know that her pride and self esteem has taken a severe blow so I’m not sure how to approach her with this suggestion. I don’t even know if its the right thing to do for her.
What do you think???
August 11th, 2009 at 9:24 pm
AK,
Wow, you got it bad for her don’t you. I (leo) got it bad for my aquarius guy too. Truthfully, Leos don’t want to be supported. We like to have control of our own destiny. I think she probably needs to be aware that she can make it on her own, but needs direction on how to do it. Your wisdom on how she can do it, would flatter her. I would not tell her about the money until she tells you that she cares about you. Because… she may try go from one guy to another guy who controls her destiny. Rather than realizing that it is possible for her to do it on her own. Have you mentioned to her about going back to school? Nursing is great $ wise and time wise. If she is a single mother, she can get grants and go for free. The government is also giving huge loans to people now. Nursing would easily pay those loans off. Don’t tell her about your money, till you have hooked her heart. I love my aquarius for him. Not his money. I like it that way. I believe. A leo likes things, but will usually follow his/heart first. Good Luck. Just be supportive. Pamela
August 12th, 2009 at 1:48 am
Hi AK,
You’re such a good Aquarius man! As a Leo woman who had a romantic relationship with an Aquarius man long long time ago, I know once an Aquarious’ heart has been captivated, he would be completely devoted to the woman. Yes, Leos always show pride & self-esteem. But they could be weak inside sometimes, and could be very emotional too. If she could read what you had written above, I believe she wouldn’t show you her ’stone cold face’ again. I do think you should go ahead to approach her with your suggestion. Leos are usually pretty straight forward, so don’t be afraid to tell her what’s in your mind. And they like it and would appreciate it if they’re mature enough, that the person they truly care for shows his/her deep care about them. So, good luck, AK!
August 12th, 2009 at 9:16 pm
I agree with Elsie. On Everything…
Good luck. … Pamela