Aquarius Compatibility With Leo |
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Aquarius and Leo
This combination could be fun. Both of these characters like to go out and explore the world, the Leo is perhaps the more outgoing and sociable in some way’s, but the Aquarius knows how to enjoy him/her self also. Sometimes the Leo can get a little over the top when it comes to showing off and performing for people, which can get on the nerves of the Aquarius who has a far more subtle approach to things. The Leo will expect applause and encouragement from his/her partner all the time which may seem fun at first but the Aquarius partner soon tires of this.
Leo’s also need a lot of security and love. The Aquarius can of-course, give these things to the person they love, but as I have mentioned before they have their own unique way’s of showing it. Leo is a far more physical being than the air sign, and being a fire sign, wants a lot of physical lusty passion. A lot of the Aquarius’s sexuality is in fantasy and experimentation, so they may clash, but I think they could both benefit from the other’s differences in this instance and will probably spend some enjoyable hour’s in bed with one another.
The problem is that both of these two people want to lead, to be the boss. And in any relationship their is only room for one, if any. Neither of these two fancy laying down and playing the submissive game either and although at first their excitement in one another seem’s endless,sadly it does dissipate over time. Leo’s are very into themselves, and the Aquarius isn’t the type of person to constantly give out adoration. Aquarius wants to get out into the world, Aquarius cares. Leo does two, but does tend to put him/herself first.
Basically, these two can have a wonderful time together, they love life and will enjoy lots of different pursuits with one another. I won’t say stay away from this match, but perhaps take it slowly and living together would be the worst idea possible.
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August 7th, 2008 at 1:02 pm
i love my leo man…i’m an aquarius. yes, we never had a dull moment: we fight, we argue a lot, we share jokes, watch movie together, tickle each other etc…neither one of us gives up each other. WE JUST SIMPLY FIND EACH OTHER ADDICTIVE.
WE LOVE EACH OTHER SO MUCH…
August 8th, 2008 at 3:18 pm
I’ve just started going out with an Aquarian guy and already I’m feeling pretty frustrated. We were really into each other at the start, and he was quite enthusiastic but now he just seems cold and distant and I’m finding it very difficult to connect with him at all. I want things to work, I want to like him and get close to him but I’m not going to chase him … Leos do NOT do the chasing … all his mixed messages really are bruising my Leo ego and I’m not willing to take it, especially since I don’t know him so well.
I just have a bad feeling about it … I should probably stick to Geminis and Arians. Aquarians are just moody and annoying.
August 11th, 2008 at 8:09 am
I’m an Aquarius, my boyfriend is a Leo. We get along most of the time, but what relationship doesn’t have occasional fights?
And I guess the thing is Opposites really do attract.
But seeing as we are both big personalities it will be hard, but we have so much fun doing anything and love being around each other.
Being able to work on our relationship will make it extra special if we both put in the effort. And their won’t be a moment that we won’t have fun doing it.
If you truly love each other it shouldn’t matter what star sign you are.
I don’t really understand what you mean by not being the type to give out adoration. I am a caring person, and I actually believe I give out too much.
I love him, he loves me. That’s all you need to remember to make it work and be happy. (:
August 11th, 2008 at 1:36 pm
Hi Ashlea,
Love is of course a great place to start. I am of the very firm belief that any combination can work well ..it is just that some astrological combinations have a smoother ride than the rest that is all. All I am trying to do here is to give some advice to people who may be not having that great a time of it with some signs, knowing where the problems come from always helps and it can make relationships last longer if the people involved can find some understanding of how each other work…a bit like having inside information I guess.
Good luck with your Leo
Love & Light
Becky
September 19th, 2008 at 9:00 pm
Hi all,
I am an Aquarius and I have been dating a Leo for a couple months. I think he is WONDERFUL! Most of the love forecasts predict that this combo will start with a bang and eventually fizzle out. They also say that sexual chemistry does not exist, let me be the first to say, such is not the case.
They give Aquarians a bad rap, saying we are emotionally aloof and incapable of giving the Leo the attention/love they need. I really appreciate my Leo’s affectionate disposition. I am actually trying to play it safe for fear of moving too fast too soon. I kind of want to feel it out to see where he is coming from since it is so early in our courtship. So far so good, and I’m very excited for the possibility of a future with him. I welcome any feedback/advice from any Aquarius/Leo duos.
September 24th, 2008 at 10:22 am
Hi! I’m not either one of these lovely signs but thought i’d comment lol.
I really like this Aqua guy but he’s currently seeing a Leo (only recently)…
Basically i don’t know what to do ’cause i’m in a relationship too with a LEO!
Help ..lolx
September 25th, 2008 at 7:32 am
Hi all. I’m an aquarius girl and I’ve just started dating a leo guy since the sunday of labor day weekend. I think he is a fabulous creature. He’s very much a gentleman…the type that holds my hand when crossing the street and refuses to light my cigarettes which is both lovely and frustrating at the same time. Since labor day, we have seen eachother about 2-3 times a week and everyday, he’ll text me with a “hi how is you day going?” He is very optomistic like me and we discuss everything from what we find great about everyone to how much we hate camping. We have only made out at the end of our dates but even that is pretty steamy…..I’m hoping to have more and more with him as we get to know eachother better!
September 25th, 2008 at 7:33 am
p.s. i meant he refuses to let me light my own cigarettes! lol
October 7th, 2008 at 11:53 pm
I’m a Leo (female) and I had an encounter with an Aquarius (male) — it wasn’t very good. We did not date or enter a relationship, but he was certainly attracted me for a while and tried to pursue that. Although we were friends, we were not close or personal, because I found that our personalities were too different — even if we did share common interests. I don’t think the Leo/Aquarius pairing works very well because the Aquarius is too controlling, whereas Leo’s need space and independence. Aquarius’s are also much too sarcastic and cold for Leo as well, I think.
This just isn’t a good pair, just from my experience. I found that as a Leo, if you want to go with someone “opposite”, go with a Cancer. Cancer males compliment Leo’s wonderfully!
October 9th, 2008 at 9:19 pm
They say Opposites Attract. That’s true in my case. It seems like every guy I become interested in is a Leo. The current one, Aug 13, 1981, whom I met about 2 years ago has really got me open. This summer, we decided to be intimate and I want him around all the time. I’m starting to feel needy (which I never am) and that’s bothering me. he said he likes me too, I hope he’s sure of how he feels. I’ve read often times Leo/Aquarian relationships don’t last, and I know I shouldn’t let what’s “in the stars” affect my decision to pursue something serious with him. So, I’m going to ask him to be man. Wish me luck : )
October 10th, 2008 at 2:33 am
I amA female Leoand have been in a relationship with a male aquarius for about nine months. He is the best thing thats ever happened to me. He is such a kind soul underneath all his talk. And he will do everything for me. I dont take advantage of that but its nice to have that. Only down side is he never speaks about his feeling. I just guess that he loves me cause of the way he treats me and how good we get along. Our chemistry is also amazing. i dont like guessing about how he feels but i know he cares about me and hopefully soon he might open up! And i dont like to ask as he is not big on talking about feelings and i can tell it freaks him out!
October 12th, 2008 at 8:46 pm
I am an aquarius and my boyfriend is a leo.My leo is all that his description implies. However, at the time of our meeting he had been severely damaged by promiscuous women from his past. So now, not only does he have all the qualities that comes with being a leo, he is a very untrusting one. Try dealing with a Leo who just got his ego back in line and added some extra strokes just for good measure. It’s like this unseen veil in front of us that is slowly but surely being lifted the more time we spend together. What I’m afraid of is my aquarian nature to: not feel the need to explain my every step; damaging that trust he’s slowly building for me. I’m very close-mouthed about several things, including my feelings. If I make a decision to express something, I have to get my thoughts together and then finalize what I’m going to say before I actually open up the discussion…(guess that’s what you’re talking about Leah) He takes this as me hiding how I feel, but it’s not like that at all. How can I tell someone how I feel about something when I don’t even know how I feel about it? Sorry for blabbering, just excited that there’s a website for this kind of discussion!
October 12th, 2008 at 11:21 pm
I am a Leo woman, dating an Aquarius man. For the second time. The first was rocky at times, but I was his longest relationship ever, and he was the one I got closest to. Neither of us are our stereotypical star signs, though we are similar to them. I do not like attention, and tend to shut down when thrown into the spot light. I can be extremely sarcastic and cold at times, but I have an aggressive personality. He can be sarcastic and cold as well, and that split us apart at first. After we broke up, the following friendship was rocky, and only got worse as he started dating again. But they broke up, and things evened out as time went on. We continued to talk off and on, usually in the early hours of the morning about deep and personal things, and one day, we realized we never really got over the other. So, we decided to test it out. And now, we’re crazy about each other. He has been known to be cold, but for some reason, I bring out the affection in him, and he’s comfortable with me. And he brings out the gentleness, and kindness in me. We are so alike, yet so different, and that really works for us.
Best wishes to all you other Aquarius-loving Leo women!
October 15th, 2008 at 5:36 pm
My boyfriend is Aquarian and Im Leo. We have been together for 2 1/2 years and have a long distance relationship. I think about him a lot but sometimes I find him moody and cold and sarcastic. He wanted us to live together but Im not sure if I am doing the right thing giving up my job and moving to a different state. Being a Leo, I am a natural outgoing, friendly and affectionate person. Its hard to be in relationship with him, I let him be the boss but I often wonder if its fair that he is always the boss. It is also hard because he doesnt talk much about his feelings. Being with an aquarius is not easy at all but I love him so, I dont know what to do. Any advice?
October 16th, 2008 at 3:45 am
Sarah,
My first question for you is: Is he comfortable enough to express his true feelings at all to you? I have found that when an Aquarius guy feels like something is striking too close to home, he becomes cold and distant. Sarcasm usually comes natural for them. His feelings are in jeopardy of becoming known, and he doesn’t like that. Whether they are feelings of love, or dislike, I do not know. But you can guarantee he’s holding something back. Try talking to him, with out seeming like you’re trying to pry. Start up a conversation. Ask him what’s up. What’s on his mind. But come at it from a logical approach. Most Aquarians love logic. If he doesn’t want to talk, don’t force it. Wait, and then try a different approach later. It is hard to do all this from a distance but, show him that you are a person with needs, too. If he truly cares about you, he’ll respect you for standing up for yourself. If not, than he doesn’t deserve you, love. Try not to let that Leo temper and pride get in your way. Relationships aren’t about who’s always on top. It’s about sharing the power, being equals, and being one. If it turns into an argument, stay calm. Take a step back for a moment and breathe. And if applicable, tell him it would be better for the both you to cool your heels and talk about it later. He’ll thank you for that later, if he doesn’t suggest doing that first.
Hope this helps, love.
Feel free to email me, if you have further questions:
xtransylvanianx@yahoo.com
October 17th, 2008 at 8:56 pm
I am a Leo woman who has had a close friendship with an Aquarius male for about four years. When we first met I was seeing someone else, but he still pursued me and the friendship eventually turned intimate. However, I was conflicted between the two men and decided to stay with my original boyfriend, a Virgo. We didn’t talk for two years because we are both very stubborn, my pride wouldn’t let me apologize. But, when I broke up with my Virgo out of a need for more independence and the need for control over my life, I contacted him and since then we have been in a similar cycle. I have learned to never push anything and never to make him feel contained or pressured. I also have noticed that when I don’t call or text him for a couple days, he always checks in. While it is frustrating, there is something about him that lights a fire in me and keeps me coming back.It’s not the type of relationship that flows easy, it is forced at times, but the unknown is what attracts me, I guess after spending four years with a predictable virgo I was craving spontaneity. I’m not sure where this will go but I do know that no matter what there will always be a bond.
October 18th, 2008 at 4:11 pm
Hi there..I just want to thank you for your advice. I am really happy reading because what you said is all true. Is he comfortable talking about his feelings? Sigh..I always have problems about him not talking to me about his feelings. We just recently had a fight and he seemed more distant now, I have to keep reminding myself that he is aquarius. He doesnt call or text me much and that hurts my feelings because we are far away from each other. When Im with him, he doesnt talk much either but i know he loves me. Im afraid that we will drift apart because theres not much communication and trust.
thanks so much for your advice..my first time to do this in the internet and im grateful for your response.
sarah
October 18th, 2008 at 6:13 pm
It’s amazing to see how many Aquarius-Leo couples are out there :), all these posts mean either that or that those relationships are the most problematic ones, I am in such relationship myself and the chemistry in it is simply electrifying!!, and guess what I am a leo :). I learned one thing from this relationship though, if you don’t push him and can follow his rules in what he calls a relationship he is yours, try to demand feelings or show any signs of being needy and off he goes. I think with the aquarius you should never expect them to make you happy, they can contribute in your happiness for sure but most of the work you will have to do it yourself.
Good luck to everybody and may the Lions win
October 20th, 2008 at 5:47 pm
Hey Sarah,
In regards to feelings, my aquarius is extremely uncomfortable going anywhere near that topic. So, I am always left trying to guess what’s going on, which is hard because as you already have figured out they are hard to read. It’s interesting because just when I think he is pulling away and uninterested, he’ll want to hang out three days in a row, so undpredictable. He will also say things about us in the future, as in marriage, which is also interesting given that we aren’t even classified as being in a “serious” relationship. It’s bizarre, but nonetheless I can’t pull myself away. As the last person said, you can’t expect them to make you happy all the time, but you can expect them to give you something you wont be able to find in anyone else, that’s why we are still with them right?
November 1st, 2008 at 8:39 am
To Jasmine. You do not love the chase? (I am Aquarius woman) I love a good hunt and chase. Aries is also a sign that loves the chase. You need to chase him and he needs to chase you. This is what you do. It’s hard, but It’s a give and take thing. If you go to the man, you need the man to come to you. If the man comes to you, you need to go to the man. You need to learn how to play the game. All men love a good hunt and chase. Don’t be afarid to detact your feelings for him and study him. You need to understand the person he is. Decied for yourself if you want that in your life. And just because he is not always cuddling you, doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you. Actions speak louder than words. You have to read his body language, and you need to commucate with him, if you two don’t talk, it won’t work out.
November 1st, 2008 at 9:01 am
Reading some of these. You need to set your rules down. You need to know each other rules, and see if they appeal to you. And don’t be in rush, take things slow. WOMAN: Don’t be quick to give yourself to him. That just tells a guy, you’re easy, and they’ll have no respect for you.
You need to let the person you are with know where you stand. A man will always know where I stand, and if he doesn’t like it he can piss off.
Never sufferate an Aquarius, we do not like that, we love our freedom, if we feel we cannot be free, WE WILL LEAVE. I know I have. I really hate needy guys. I am no babysitter, I like men who is their own person, indenpent, knows who he is.Has a backbone, forcus, level-headed, and can take care of themselves. And doesn’t get his feelings hurt, if I am not always cuddeling him. Telling someone I always love them, makes me sick, it annoys me. I rather show it in actions. Having them always tell me they love me annoys me.
I also don’t express my feelings very well in a relationship. It’s hard for me. But I always try to let him know, if I don’t say it in words, don’t worry. I love you. I will express it in action. KEYWORD (ACTION) Another thing, if I can’t talk with the man I love, then I will not get into a relationship with that man. I need someone I can talk too.
So try not to do too much or too less, try to keep a balance. Too much of anything is bad as well as too less.
November 2nd, 2008 at 11:04 pm
Ok….well i posted a little while ago about my Aquarius boy and about how he never shows feeling. I have to keep giving myself little talkings to of late. He is actually the best thing thats ever happened to me and i know this. He is affectionate and does everything for me. But i must admit i do a lot for him. I can tell him that i love him but he wont say it back. He will just smile and then make a joke. He has said it once when he was drunk but thats it!!!The past week i have been starting to get all annoyed about how closed up he is. He has been like this since we met but this week its been getting me down. Maybe i am the typical Leo that just sometimes needs words to show i am important. But i just think people need that in general. Just to be told they are special now and again. I just hope that after a while it would be possib;e to talk about my a future or something as i dont want to be in a relationship that goes no where because i dont know if he feels anything or not. He must thugh - he calls me everyday i see him nearly every day and it been about 10 months now…..a guy doesnt stick around for that long unless hehas feeling right?
See what i mean….no bloody idea what he is thinking!!!! So frustrating!
November 4th, 2008 at 9:29 am
To Leah Hiya, I would say he does, because men won’t call you, if they don’t like you.
Here’s my advice. Detact your emotionally feelings for him for awhile so you can get new persective on his body language. Don’t say anything, but just study him.
If he does things for you, out of the blue, he likes you. If he is there for you, he likes you. If he says I am going to do this for you and his actions meet his words. He likes you.
When we let love blind us, we cannot see. So take a step back and watch his actions. Actions speak louder than words.
November 5th, 2008 at 5:31 pm
Hello Naomi and to all Gorgeous Leo Women out there! You are absolutely right about Aquarius Men. Actually its becoming a challenge to me being in a relationship with Aquarius sign. It brings out my analytical side. I think about the similarities like we are both stubborn, we both want to lead, we are both sarcastic, but i think he is more sarcastic than i am..etc.
Being a Leo, I am confident but i also am emotional and its what i try not to show him because he will think of ME as being “needy” from which i really am not. I think Leo loves to cuddle a lot, sociable, affectionate, CONFIDENT type of people. I think that aquarius men analyze us more so my best bet is just to act “not needy” and i try to be creative all the time from which it takes sooo much effort, but sometimes its worth it. I also do know that when you stopped chasing him, he will come back and wanting to feel needed again.
November 6th, 2008 at 4:00 am
I would like to say after posting my own thoughts and what my aquarius fella is like i have also looked over at the big picture of him. He loves affection, he is so laid back its like nothing bothers him in the world. He contacts me everyday thats if i am not seeing him. He does things around my place and for the first time ever the other day he spoke to me about a future. . He is so kind to me and after 10 months still has the best manners in the world. He is a typical bloke that swears and looks at boobs but when it comes to me i must say i think his mum has brought that guy up pretty well. So after me looking atthe bigger picture i think him n ot being able to talk about his feelings isnt such a problem. We have fun together. Laugh together, treat each other with respect and hardly every have an arguemnt. On top of that i think he is that fantastic i am so scared of losing him! I think i would die if he ever left me. So here’s crossing my fingers to a guy that cant tell me he loves me but shown me in every other way possible. I think i can live with that……ahhhhh…..love
November 6th, 2008 at 10:02 am
To Leah: I am very happy for you!
November 9th, 2008 at 6:10 am
Hello Dianne
I am totally agree with you. Im a aquarius my boyfriend is leo.We have been together almost a year n half it started nice and happy but after couple months pass through we start an argue and fight. we broke up 2 times alreadybut every time he will come back to me ask me for another chance and when i give him chances he will be good first 1 week or so n he will go back to the same old jelousy person. he says he loves me n cares bout me. I dont really know what to do anymore.
November 9th, 2008 at 5:08 pm
To Sara:
Hey there, I think you really need some serious time thinking to yourself about this relationship that isn’t going nowhere. I think you need to put that foot down of yours and move on.
People do not change, unless they want too. And it’s quit clear that he hasn’t better himself to make the problem not a problem any more.
And you DO NOT need to keep going back and forth. He is like abusive husband that hits his wife, she kicks him out. Then he begs to come back. His good for a bit, then he hits her again. And it’s also quit clear that his actions don’t match his words.
I say move on and find yourself real man and not a boy, who is confident enough to be with you and confident enough in his relationship with you that he doesn’t become jealous.
I really can’t stand jealous at ALL. I don’t understand it. I think it’s one of the most meaniless human emotions that ever existed on this earth. Jealous gets you no where in life and it’s just plain stupid and it just screams. I AM SOOOOOOOOOOOO INSECER!!!! I am boy and not a man.
Question: Have you sat him down and told him that this jealous thing really bugs the livin’ hell out of you, and he doesn’t need to do that, because you will be there and no one going to take you? If you have, and he need acts like he does. Forget about him.
November 13th, 2008 at 6:38 am
Here it goes… I am a female Leo and my darling boyfriend is an Aquarius… It has been living hell but oh so worth it! We haven’t had a dull moment and it has been going on 9 months now - full of ups and downs -fights - arguments- making up- loving - wanting each other… I have never been so in love and neither has he… so I am 37 and he is 22 - I live in Seattle and he in North Carolina… all these obstacles but we can’t let go… It doesn’t make sense at all! We have tried to break-up but we just can’t. So, it looks like we are getting married and well regardless of age, distance, sign compatability it all boils down to love and commitment and sometimes the commitment lacks but the love cant let go and won’t… Cheers to my dear beloved Aquarian boyfriend - you have become the love of my life… I love you Michael D.
November 13th, 2008 at 8:40 pm
To Cindy
I must say I loved Your story! the passion between You seems really intence, and Though aquarius and leo are opposits, I always favored this union. Not that I tried it ( I never got romantically involved with a leo) But there’s something about it that makes it so special and interesting!
surely there must be a reason why Your still togther regardless of the odds!! I really Like it, I wish You all teh best.
Midnight aquarius
November 14th, 2008 at 1:37 am
Dear Little impale
Guess what told him what i needed to say. Now im single girl it was so hard for me first couple of days but i feel free now. just wanna say thank u for your comment.
November 14th, 2008 at 9:23 pm
To Sara: You’re welcome, and I am so glad you feel free again. Take care.
November 17th, 2008 at 6:01 pm
I do agree with Midnight that the aquarius-leo combination makes for an extremely interesting relationship and of course challenging given that they are opposites. I have read a lot of articles that point out that opposite signs complete each other in a relationship because they have what the other doesn’t. At the core their beliefs are very similar, it is just the way they are expressed and acted upon that is different.I find this analysis to be extremely valid, especially with my aquarius friend who I talk about above. There is this inexplicable attraction and as much as it is frustrating as a leo to give him lots of space, the reward is worth it. Something happened a couple of weeks ago that blew me away because it was almost as if there was a role or sign reversal. I hadn’t talked to him in about a week because I just needed some time to not put all of my mental strength into analyzing him. A week into doing this he sent me a text message asking where I had been for the past week and I wrote back just needed some time to relax, but I also said that I was missing him a little bit. His response was positive, he even said “wow you’re showing emotion” (interesting statement coming from an aquarius) and it showed me that you just have to be your own person and maintain a separate life in order to be with them and maintain your sanity. It is not worth it to spend every minute of the worrying about the fact that they haven’t called you, if they really like you and care about you, they will. Just don’t expect it to be when you want or when they tell you it’s gonna be. As far as compatibility goes, I think it helps to compare your venus/mars and moon signs as well since those are more linked to emotional behavior and relationships.
November 21st, 2008 at 9:08 pm
I just started talking to a LEO and Im an AQUARIUS ( the best)we have only been talkin for about two weeks and he is already gettin tooooooooooooooo clingy but i really like him we share some common interest! he alway buys me stuff and i dont know if thats because he thinks that will keep me around or what but it is a kinda weird state of being with a LEO
November 22nd, 2008 at 6:47 am
Well, i have been dating a Leo for almost a year now..will be a year in Janurary. And the type of Aquarius i am is very sensitive. IDK, if this is the way i am supposed to be or if something that happened earlier made me this way. But, I take things a bit too far when I hear it. For instance my GF(the Leo), tells me that she hugged this one guy or he gave her a kiss on the chick..I become highly upset over this. I know I shouldnt because she loves me and only me. And it’s just a friendly gesture. But, I am a very jealous person. And I have had my heart brokened before so this could be another reason. So, anybody can shed some light to me..and well toughen me up. And if you need the ages Im 20 & she is 19. So, please help me with this..but dont give me any negative advice thats the last thing i need. I get that enough with my family. Only good positive and helpful advice.
November 22nd, 2008 at 6:48 am
I made an error..typing too fast, i meant gave her a kiss on the cheek.
November 23rd, 2008 at 6:03 am
To Jon Cutro: I am going to be very honest and straight forward, if you can’t handel any negative aspect to life, how can you handel a realationship? Life has both negative and possitive to any situation, that is how life is. If you can’t handel the negative side of life how can you get a honest opinon?
Question: Are you confident in your realationship with her? It doesn’t sound like you are, and if you’re not careful your jealous will either drive her away where she doesn’t want to be with you. So you have to fix that.
Have you talked to her about it, how it makes you feel? You need to commuiate with each other. She needs to resure you that she isn’t going to cheat on you, and you need to work on not being jealous.
If this bother you this much that she hads guy friends that she hugs, kiss on the cheek, and talks too, maybe you shouldn’t be in this relationship.
You need to expect that she has friends too, and she has her own life to live, beside you being in it. Either she needs to put up with your jealous and expect you for who you are, or decide not to be in this relationship. You need to grow some balls and know that when she is with her friends she is not going to cheat on you, and she needs to know you have this fear and you need to tell her that your heart has been broken, if you can’t you will not have a relationship.
November 23rd, 2008 at 6:11 am
To Jon Cutro: Another question, why is she telling you she was hugging and a guy kissed you on the cheek? That I find odd. If it was nothing, a person wouldn’t bring it up.
You still need to talk to her, and IF she keeps telling you about the guys she hugs, and kisses on the cheek, you really need to think to yourself, if this relationship is worth it.Because that right there, should give you, red sigals.
I think also she wants to make you mad. So you just need to sit her down and talk to her. But don’t let your emotions rule you, or you can’t think right.
November 23rd, 2008 at 9:50 pm
I can handle negative things. I find myself to be a very positive person. I do have my ups and downs like everyone else though. And I wanted to hear positive things, because it would help me. I understand the thing about negative, but I also feel it would hurt me to hear it. But, of course I also hear truth hurts. I am very confident in our relationship. And I feel that she wouldnt do anything to hurt me because she is always 100% honest with me. And yeah I try to talk to her about but it upsets her so sometimes i try not to. And I dont agree that this relationship isnt good for me, because she has helped me through my darkest days of this year. And I have did the same for her. And she already knows about my heart bring brokened. Her heart has been brokened many times also. As for growing some balls..I think that part was a little too far..but anyway, for the most part it was good advice I guess. And she was telling me because I asked how was her day. She tells me that it wasnt good and I asked why she says a guy who constantly harasses her kissed her on the cheek. She volunteers at a nursing home.
November 25th, 2008 at 12:16 am
To Jon Cutro: Then what’s the problem here? If you are confident in your relationship then why get jealous? Jealousy is just another sign of I am insure in myself. And if she was telling you about her day. Then, there isn’t a problem here. And I think it’s your jealous that upsets her. Another question I have for you, if there is not a problem here, what advice do you want from other people, if there isn’t a problem?
Has for your girlfriend’s problem, if this guy is bothering her as you said she told you. She needs to move her ass and talk to the her boss and tell the boss about the guy, or file sexual harassment on the guy.
Because, sitting there complaining about the problem isn’t going to fix anything, when there is a problem you need to figure out what it is and fix it. Sitting there doing noting makes the problem worst. And if she doesn’t do anything about it and let’s it happen she must like being bothered by this man.
December 1st, 2008 at 3:30 am
I just start talking to this leo guy and although we’ve known each other for 3 years our relationship was never personal like now, (yes im an aquarius) I just feel like im the one who is getting to clingy, and i really wanna know if he likes me as much as i like him. I also no at times my aquarian pride can make me feel like im getting too attached so i usually back off, and that sometimes pushes the other individual away leaving them to feel that i have a lack of interest. I wanna just let things flow but its hard when you cant get that person off your mind. Im so use to being independent and solo that i dont think I no how to even begin this relationship thing.
Somebody please help I’m open to all advice!!
December 1st, 2008 at 1:00 pm
To IT’S ME:
Hello, I am also an Aquarius. My advice, take a chance and leap. I would just tell him how you really felt about him. There is that chance you might get hurt. But one needs to step up to the plate and say it.
Once, you get it off your chest, you’ll feel better, because you’ll finally get to know where he stands. If either of you don’t speak up, you might lose him, or both might just lose the chance.
So be brave, and take a chance. I know it’s hard, but life is a risk.
December 4th, 2008 at 4:49 am
i loved my leo man more than anything, i wanted to give him everything. oddly enough i was happy to provide constant physical affection, at this point its a habit. something happened to him, something changed. one night he didnt come home. he started lying. and cheating with a filthy whore. and doing cocaine and pills. i thought leos were loyal… i was completely blindsided, we never fought or anything. he just became a whole new person overnight that no one likes anymore. the worst part is he wont leave me alone, he tells me how sorry he is and how much he loves me and then we start to see each other but then i find out about his whore that he isnt man enough to get rid of. he tells everyone he doesnt want to be with her, that he wants to be with me yet he wont stop the lies, drugs and get rid of the skank. so all i have to say is that not all leos are great. this one turned out to be messed up in the head.after three years of bliss…. it ends with a no contact order
December 4th, 2008 at 7:26 am
Hi Lonely, thanks for your comment and sharing your bad experience with us. The thing is that sometimes people are just awful no matter what there sign, something makes them do the wrong things. I had a very bad time with my ex so I understand how heart breaking it is. Don’t give up on Leo’s though, he must have just chosen the wrong paths in life.
Love & Light
Becky
December 5th, 2008 at 1:02 am
Hi Loneley,
Most of us have been there or been through something like this with a guys that just tears you up inside and you think you will never get over it. I have also been there.This guy wont change no matter what he says or does. Move on and never speak or see him again. It will hurt like hell but you are so much better off in the long run. And just imagine one day you will have a awsome realtionship with someone that will think you are their whole world. Dont wast any more time or tears or blogs on that cu*nt - it feels better to say that too!
December 5th, 2008 at 1:44 am
Hi All!
I have been friends with a leo man for 18 years now. He has been my best friend all of those years, and had even spoken in my wedding. We been through a lot and even experienced bad marriages and divorces together. Recently, we decided to see if there were “sparks” between us. He lives in California and I live in Colorado. Although, he has a girlfriend, which he says he is not serious with, he came to visit me and there were sparks flying everywhere! I’m not sure why after 18 yrs it happened but it did. He has always liked me whereas I was always stand-offish with him. I guess the reason I never allowed myself to “go there” was because he use to date my good friend 18 yrs ago. Anyways, I put my guard down and the reunion was great. He is now back in California and I’m having a difficult time communicating with him. I would call and text but he doesn’t respond quick enough for me. I understand as an Aquarius, I tend to run the show, but this is the first time I have dated a Leo (or am I even dating him, since he has a girlfriend?). I have told him to be honest with himself and make a decision before January, when we will see each other again, because I don’t want to start something when his whole heart is not into it. He continues to say I have nothing to worry about…hmmmm right?! I can’t seem to figure him out and I would like to know what he’s thinking and feeling. He says I’m his best friend and he would never hurt me and just see where things go…what does that mean? Before allowing my guard down, I told him I didn’t want to get hurt by him (b/c of the girlfriend thing) and to be honest with me because we have 18 years of history together…he agreed that was fair BUT I need more attention from him then what I’m getting…is this normal?
December 5th, 2008 at 11:01 am
To Life long partners?:
Hiya, I am also an Aquaruius woman, and I’m going to be competely honest with you. This whole thing he says about his “Oh she is not my girlfriend, or we’re just friends” Sounds competely BULLSHIT!
What kind of man tries to start a relationship with another woman when he has a girlfriend???? That right there is red signals.
I wouldn’t put my guard down. I would keep them up. Don’t start anything with him. Unless you want to be the hole he puts his dick in.
It just doesn’t feel right. And when a man REALLY LOVES a woman, girl he couldn’t help not talk to you. He would want to talk to you. This man is too busy messing around. I say forget him. You need a man who is SINGEL, doesn’t have a girlfriend, wants to be near you, wants YOU.
This is bullshit, and you don’t need it.
PS.
Here’s some advice. Never start a relationship with men who are taken or have wives, nothing good comes of it. And ask yourself this. What do you expect from a man who has a girlfriend or a wife?
December 9th, 2008 at 5:53 pm
littleimplar why are you so hard up on giving advice..you seem a little to aggressive and defensive….calm down….what you saying to them is right but theres A WAY to explain things…anyways……
December 9th, 2008 at 6:00 pm
no disrespect to criticize but i think your being a little to negative…
December 9th, 2008 at 8:01 pm
Thats Some Aggression and Negativity. Most people can take care of themselves.
December 9th, 2008 at 8:16 pm
Hi there,
I think whether what I write is negative or positive is down to who is reading it and why. When I wrote it is wasn’t meant to sound negative..just honest. I love the way people see things differently!!
Thanks for your comments
Love & Light
Becky
December 9th, 2008 at 10:37 pm
To pisces: When I write a comment. I truly mean what I say and think and I am not afarid to express it. I am very straight forward, and I don’t beat around the bush. Nor do I piss down someone back and tell them it’s raining. Anyone, will know that my thoughts and comments are honest and not sugar coated. People know where I stand weither then agree with me or not.
And also, my thought is. If you post your whatever is concerning you for EVERYONE to read, then it is only natural that people will comment, and say their own opinion. And what’s the point of posting whatever concerns you to the world if you don’t expect some people’s opinon to be hash, aggerssive, negivite, positive.
Anyone, who comes on here, has the right to write whatever they feel.
December 10th, 2008 at 9:33 am
Hey LittleImpaler
I have to say that I agree with Pisces, you do sound very harsh when you write, I understand what you are saying about having your own opinion and not beating around the bush but there is a certain way in giving advice… I’m not trying to lecture you about how to write but I think the point that Pisces is trying to make is that talking politely doesn’t necessarily mean as you like to put it pissing down someones back or sugar coated…its just talking NICELY lol
December 10th, 2008 at 5:55 pm
To Haz91: Hiya, that is just who I am. I am very straight forward person and very fiercy . My family are very straight forward people and we tell it how it is. I think, if a person has something to say, they should say it, not worrying about if it’s will hurt the other person’s feelings. Like I said, I am very honest person, and I am not going to sugarcoat and say the world is covered with bright blue skies, people live in white houses with white picket fences, and there are flying pink pigs.
I am just going to say this, and I don’t care if people think I am being mean. I feel we live in world where it seem like EVERYONE is afarid to say what they truly feel, because it might HURT someone’s “FEELINGS” Or people nowadays (espeically people of my generation feel like it is bad, mean to be your own person and we must be robots) This world lacks warrior spirt. If I think something is stupid, I will say it is stupid, if I think something is bullshit, I will say that it is bullshit. I am not afarid to be very outspoken or very opinated about things.
You have the right to say whatever you like, that is your choice. When you made that one comment to that one person where YOU thought she was bragging about her aquarius or gemini boyfiriend, and you wrote your opinon, and in your comment one could read your comment say to you “you are being mean and blah blah blah” or your comment sounded mean, hash or whatever. And someone like me or anyone could tell you the samething you are telling me.
I have much of right as you or anyone to voice my thought. I have the right to be straight forward and quick to the point, as you have the right, find my comment as insentive and mean.
I am not the only one here who is outspoken like me. A lot of other people are too, like Becky, and a lot of the Aquarious women here are too.
I don’t know about you, if I wanted advice from someone, I would want an honest, real comment, that isn’t sugarcoated bullshit. When they sugarcoat their advice, how can they help that person by lying about the real nasty, ugly, beautiful world?
December 10th, 2008 at 6:49 pm
@littleimpalar…if someone is coming to you about a negative situation that they are in why make it worse with negative feed back?….that makes a person not want to talk to you…..there is a way to say things instead of making them feel worse about the situation they are in….
December 10th, 2008 at 6:56 pm
@littleimpalar….sweetie they are looking for a more positive view from others on the negative situation they are in…….just giving my opinion…..when it all boards , you are who you are, and i am who i am…..
December 10th, 2008 at 7:02 pm
and another thing @ littleimpalar…sometimes its best to keep your negative opinions to yourself…some ppl cant handle the way you come to them….before you know it your teeth is in your forehead….you really cant just say what you wanna say ((but i guess with you being on the internet you are free to say what you wanna say)) ..if you dont have anything good to say dont say it at all………peace…may God bless you and have a productive weekend….
December 10th, 2008 at 8:35 pm
LittleImpaler
I’m not questioning whether you are a straightforward person or not i’m sure you are but notice in my comment I wasn’t very harsh and the guy actually apologised to me which I greatly appreciated. I’m sure you do have a different personality that is straightforward and honest..and I respect that but I think you are exagerating by saying the world is covered in sugar and something about white houses and fences…it’s not about that…yes you have to be honest in life..and everyone tries to be but the issue that is being addressed is the way you write which is and sounds negative the way you say bullshit and pissing down it just isn’t very nice. You can help people by giving them good thorough advice without being so hard and harsh….
Anyway we are both different people and we could go on and on about this..lol… I suppose you give advice differently to me but I thought I would address the matter ir your writing technique on giving advice LOL
December 10th, 2008 at 9:25 pm
hey pisces, i came on here cause i enjoy to read what people have to say and what their opinions are. You seem to be the negative person in all this as you cant get off this website and just have to keep arguing. Clearly after the 500 million posts no one is giving in so why dont you try shutting the fuck up and let people be, so it can go back to being nice and not having my hotmail full of your bullshit for the last two mornings.
December 10th, 2008 at 9:43 pm
To pisces: You can take my comments, my opinions negitval if you want, that is your right. I don’t know what country you’re from. I live in America. And here in America, we have the freedom of speech. With that said, Americans CAN say whatever they want, weither if others disagree or agree. Which is a great right to have. And if EVERYONE was like everyone eles, and had the same opinions, what would be the reason to have an opinion? Being different is what makes the world go around.
I think it’s great that other people have diffant opinons from one another. Like Becky said, “Take the opinon as you like. I like hearing other people’s ideas.”
And if my opinons bother you that much, don’t read them, skip them and they won’t hurt your feelings.
Have a nice day
December 10th, 2008 at 10:02 pm
To Pieses: So having an honest opinon about a situation is suddenly negitive???? Problems are never black or white. Some times in life the right choices to make are not always the posive ones. Some times one must be mean, be their foot down, become the master of their life, and take charge, be a doer, not a sitter and complain.. Handeling a problem is never roses. In solving a problem one must be realisistic about the sitution. If one cheats on their husband and they come asking for someone’s advice. What is the other person giving advice suppose to do? Should they lie and say. “Well, if he finds out, no worries your husband will love you. You will live happily ever after.” And give a faulty opinon that doesn’t fix the problem. Or say, with honesty.
“I think you should stop, because if he finds out you are seriously going to hurt him. And if this is your first time, and if you feel bad about it. Don’t tell him, but if you are going to do that again, you should be honest with him and end the relationship.”
If you can’t handle the negitve sides to life and HOW CAN YOU recive an honest opinon???? Asking people to only give you positive suggesting, tells me you don’t want to face your problem, you want everything to be peachy clean. Which doesn’t work in the real world, because in the real world isn’t perfect.
That’s like saying “Well, if you slam your foot in the door, your foot isn’t going to hurt.” But in reality you slam your foot into the door, it’s going to hurt.
December 11th, 2008 at 4:59 pm
Ok, so I didn’t get any “good” advice as of yet but I wanted to inform y’all of my decision.
I told my 18 yr Leo love/friend that because he “does” have a girlfriend I can-not be a part of whatever is going on with us-right now. I told him it’s not fair to me since he’s NOT putting 100% into “us” AND it’s not fair to the girl he’s dating. I also feel it’s unfair that my life is on hold waiting around for him. To make a long story short, we are just “friends”and if in the future the timing is right, we will try, with both putting 100% in to it.
Now, to Littleimpaler. I didn’t mind your comment because I knew when I put my business out there that there would be “those” who will respond to it as you did. Your comment made me feel as though he doesn’t care…but I know he does, because of our many years of friendship. You have to understand we decided to take it a step further, after so many years, to see it there was chemistry AND there was. I knew he had a girlfriend but I also was under the impression that he was a grown man and would know what he wanted out of life, a serious relationship-eventually marriage to someone he likes-get along with, but I don’t think that’s his goal right now. I believe he enjoys his girlfriend but not in it for a lifetime (so why waste your time is my question to him). I, on the other hand, am ready for a serious relationship. Anyways, thanks for your response but to make it mean anything (to help was your ultimate goal right?) then easy up on the wording…I”m not asking to sugar coat it but to make someone (me) understand your point, rephrase your wording so my first impression of your comment is not defensive. Hope that made sense but I’m running late….Thanks again!
I am being set up on a blind date and I’m looking forward to that. Wish me luck!
December 11th, 2008 at 7:32 pm
my last message was referred to littleimparlar……..
December 11th, 2008 at 9:45 pm
Well this website has just gone to shit now. I see picses you are so condesending in how you speak to people i should wish you good luck in life and hope you actually have people around you that like you, cause clearly no one does on this website. Just give it up and maybe find an activity thats involves you not trying to be to righteous and trying to win an arguement. I mean do you know these people and have to prove a point? You are not impressing anyone and at the end of the day no one goes home and thinks about you and you are not making anyone change or become better inside cause you have an opinion.
Now i cant enjoy what this website was all about the Aquarius and Leo matches and how we work together cause you just keep trying to argue that someone is negative?
I will not be logging onto this site any more as you have ruined it. You will not stop and i hope for your sake you do find a hobby.
Maybe people would like you more as well if you didnt voice you opionions by being condeseding like “Sweetie” and using bless in your sentences. I doubt you being a bitch and the saying bless makes you look like you are a good person. It makes you look like and idiot.
Logging off this sight now never to return to this immatuarty
December 11th, 2008 at 11:37 pm
To: Life long partners?
Yeah, I was just giving advice, since your comment interested me. I didn’t mean to sound mean, or anything. The situation from my point view was . . . Here’s a man who says he loves you, but how can a man love YOU if he has a girlfriend on the side. How I saw it if, someone who really loves someone, truly they would have ended their current relationship, before starting a new one. I was agreeing with you to keep your guard up, cause I too, found it be odd, thinking “yeah right, un huh whatever.”
And you didn’t seem you wanted to be the “Other woman” aka the “Hole”. I just don’t trust anyone who says they love someone truly when their with someone eles. It just doesn’t feel right. And I thought, you’re such nice woman you seem to be looking for the man for you, that you deserve a man who is single. That when you walk into a room he thinks of you as his goddess, that he can’t help falling in love with you over and over again. You know, someone who will just adore the hell out of you, and wants to be with you, calls you everyday, because he missing you. And it so hard to love someone, when you know they have someone eles in their life and it just makes the relationship awarkward and one might always think “he is cheating on me.” And in my mind no one needs that BS.
And you seem like trustworthy type of gal, that would have made you feel bad. I feel bad for his girlfriend as well.
But anyways, I am glad you talked to him about it and such. And you have stayed friends, and I hope this blind date works out for you. And you find that man that falls in love with you.
Here’s another thought. Maybe it is best to stay friends with your long time friends and not start anything that says more than friends. Because if it doesn’t work out, you might find yourself that you lost a great friend. My father once told me in the car. Being friends with someone is totally different than being in love with them.
Good luck
December 11th, 2008 at 11:42 pm
To Haz91 and Pisces: Let’s agree to disagree and stop this meanilings debate. About comments and such. It’s starting to tired me out, and I know I will keep repeating myself and I have (we have) already explain ourselves to each other
Just to keep the peace.
This just proves that sometimes Aquarius, Piseces (if you are one) and Geminis don’t always get alone.
Have nice day you two and the rest of you.
December 12th, 2008 at 7:43 am
Hi there to everyone.
I have been reading through the comments on various posts and am rather disturbed to see that there are a few people who seem to see themselves as psychiatrists trying to fix people who do not need fixing. Someone said that everyone is entitled to there own opinion and can express it however they feel. This is not accurate. Ofcourse everyone is more than welcome to leave there comments but noone is allowed to upset other people on purpose or use bad language, other sites may allow this but I do not. This was not the purpose of my site and I won’t let it be ruined by over powering arrogance, there is enough of that in the world already. Please can we keep it nice on here, feel free to have your say but please have respect for others feelings and mine!!
Thank you
Love & Light
Becky
December 12th, 2008 at 3:11 pm
And my point exactly Becky……..and by the way i have recommended all my friends that is into astrology, to your site and we love it!!!!!! thanks Becky!!!!!!!!!!
December 12th, 2008 at 3:21 pm
@leah…you sound like a over sensitive s%^& that needs some attention………you dont need to come back…your making a big deal over nothing…talking bout immaturaty
December 12th, 2008 at 3:23 pm
by the the way site i am a gemini-tiger…..dead on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
December 14th, 2008 at 7:38 pm
Alright you all I have been reading for weeks now… Let me say this: I am a female Leo and my beloved is an Aquarius male: the bottom line we love each other… yes the signs play a part but the most important aspects in any relationship even on this website is that we all respect, love and be patient with each other! We are here to help each other and sometimes it doesn’t always come out kind but what the root of any expression of thought from the heart is intention. We all come here for help because we are troubled or challenged in our relationships whether being in love - figuring out love - or breaking love - I will tell you my experience Leos are kind, loving and quite giving but I can be suffocating and needy - and arrogant but humble. My rising is Leo, my sun is Leo and descending is Aries. I am all fire - and I am impulsive and I yearn for the next experience for the next thrill… My Aquarius can barely keep up - that is where I must be patient… but sometimes he needs to get his butt in gear - can I say I can be bossy! My Aquarius is 22 - I am 37 - we have age and distance that keep us apart but we make it work… Aquarius people have always been lucky for me and I have the most chemistry with Aquarius-it just works with Leo. I don’t get it but it works. Aquarius people are very, very on the cutting edge of self expression. They are creative and self driven. They are strong yet weak - just be patient because what I have noticed they always don’t like to talk about deep things… They can be sometimes aloof… oh well! Good luck Leos and Aquarius’ Just remember this: this a journey and we can’t take anything with us - get as much experience in everything as you can - our memories are all that we really have… Learn to live, learn to forgive and mostly learn to love… everything really doesn’t matter…
December 14th, 2008 at 11:50 pm
To Cindy: I am Aquarius as well, and girl, I have got to say, I LOVE how you talk. You don’t hold anything back. I like that in people, and fire to!
December 16th, 2008 at 6:09 am
Thank you Little Impaler - I have lived and I have seen a lot… love just love….
December 31st, 2008 at 12:36 am
Hi all
Just came across this site. Great idea with the blog, Becky.
Just wanted to share, and see if other Leo-Aqua couples have had this experience.
I have been seeing my Leo bf for almost 6 months now. I’m 27, he’s 26. It was ‘love at 1st sight.’ There is a lot of passion and love between us but we also fight a LOT. Sometimes the fights got so bad that we each (a few times) tried to break up, but no way, couldn’t do it. The same night I/he was back at his/my door. I’ve never loved someone as much as I love him. Even thou we have many differences of opinion, and yes, it’s true we both want to be the ‘boss’, there is this crazy magnetic attraction between us. I feel it in my belly; as dramatic as things have sometimes gotten between us, I almost can’t imagine not having him in my life.
Re: the being the boss/fighting for the spotlight
I’m lucky because I get to be the star at work (I’m self-employed), but in our relationship, I try to let him be the ’star.’ Being a ’submissive’ woman who prefers a ‘dominant’ man, this actually makes me happy. Before my dom Leo man, I dated less intense guys but they were no fun. My Leo is the best!
We have actually moved in together last week, and I wouldn’t mind at all having this Leo fun, passion, & practicality in my life forever!
Cheers & good-luck to all Leo-Aqua couples.
xoxo
AquaGirl
January 7th, 2009 at 10:22 pm
Well I’m a Male leo (Aug 3rd)and my closest relationships have been with Aquarians. As much as I hate to love Aquarians the chemistry is just there. I’m fighting with myself over a new interest because after all the engaging conversations, lunches outings (no dinners though - figures)i find out she’s an Aquarius which always puts me back to square one like “do i need to deal with this right now?!” But I always do. Underneath it all I’m hoping I’ll luck out and end up with the chemistry, excitement and unpredictability that I love….to hate..lol
January 8th, 2009 at 7:34 am
Mr.Charlie, you are in the same boat as me. -laughs-
I am a Leo, as well. And my Aquarius and I would always go on coffee dates, no dinners.
What is it about them that attracts us Leos? What keeps coming back, after being cold-shouldered by an Aquarius?
I am trying to figure that out. But I am starting to think that maybe it is just natural. Kind of like a bee can’t help but go to the flower.
I pray that not many of us get stung.
January 8th, 2009 at 8:40 am
To XtransylvanianX:
You should just accept us for what we are, not try to analize us. Because you will never figure as out and if you analyize too much, it will drive you mad.
January 8th, 2009 at 3:42 pm
I’ve been friends with a Leo guy for three years.Occasionaly we used to have fun as well, but none of us drew the boundaries of our friendship, until one day I decided to get involved in a relationship with another guy and I made the mistake to show off my new bf to my Leo guy.I will never forget the look in his eyes and his disappointment. Following the introductions he simply vanished. We never talked about us, I used to disappear for days, as a true Aquarius and he used to wait for me and viceversa.When challanged a few months later he replied “What do you want me around for, as you have a bf now? I tried to explain that if he were in my place I would’ve been happy for him, but it was useless. He took 8 months off when i finally heard from him. We talked as we used to talk but then he vanished again. I think he will never be able to let behind that bf phase of mine. I can’t challange him to an open discussion as he is so shy and instead of admitting it he poses in the tough guy.I’m really happy for all the Aquarius girls who date a Leo guy, so happy that I almost envy you.But for me, I’ll keep waiting, hoping that one day things will turn out for me and my Leo guy and as an Aquarius in the meantime I keep my options open.But no other man has ever had the same impact on me as my Leo friend, and it was a really rewarding friendship, of which unfortunately I wasn’t aware at the time being. Good luck girls and please take care of your Leo guys, they’re the best of life you can get.
January 9th, 2009 at 3:00 am
To misery: This Leo guy friend of yours seem like a boy. I mean you guys weren’t even dating. And you never sat him down and told him “You want to be my boyfriend.” So he has no right treating you the way he did. I say, if you two never disscues being a couple, woman you are free to date any man you want.
He only got mad, because he like you more than just a friend and if he never had the balls to ask you out, well, that his bad.
Misery, you did nothing wrong, and let him act like how he wants to act. And keep on living life like how you want, never let a guy stop you from living life.
January 9th, 2009 at 3:02 am
To misery:
Don’t keep waiting for this man, if this man wants you, he’ll chase you, call you. If he is not doing any of these things, just forget about him and move on. There’s better fish in that sea.
January 9th, 2009 at 6:59 am
I know, I am fully aware but I can’t help it. I am moving on, and I date people and I’ve been in a serious relationship since my Leo guy, but there’s something I can’t explain what, probably is the regret, which keeps haunting me.I guess I’ll always live with the regret that i was shallow, but even if I were he could have closed his eyes and started fresh. Oh well, that’s life, even if we want or not, it goes on.
January 10th, 2009 at 1:18 am
The last thing I want to do is chase or control my Aquarius however we have been seeing each other for a year now and we have had good times and bad. We have signed on to my space together before and well I was reading some comments sent by another girl - and well I found out he cheated on me with her. I forgave him and her thus we canceled our my space and moved on. After a time, we opened our my space again and we had an agreement that we would not friend each other. Well, we felt stable and happy and decided to go to Hawaii together. Well we did and we had a good time - when we returned back home while sitting on my bed he suggested let’s sign on to my myspace and I said ok and then he said no we better not… I asked him to befriend me on my space and he refused so instead he canceled his page - uh? When does freedom with an Aquarius an excuse to be uncommitted or sneaky??? Aquarius’s like freedom,or do they like the option to be uncommitted, so they can have the freedom to entertain a fantasy or desire? My Aquarius loves me but fights his inner demons for a desire for freedom. He states he doesn’t want to lose me. oh boy my Aquarius gives me a run for my money… Well, all I know is that I love him and well actions speak louder than words and we shall see what this Aquarius will do… well any thoughts??
January 10th, 2009 at 11:52 am
To Cindy
Aquarius love people,no matter how loud he or she will yell that they don’t like to be the center of attention, believe me they want to. Even if they are involved in a steady relationship, and they love and are loved in return, they just can’t help getting someone else’s attention. And internet is our world, we get connected with lots of people and we are getting the attention we crave for, but we don’t want our partner to find out, we aren’t doing anything wrong like cheating, we just like to know people to have fun with, not flee away from them. It happened to me as well, I don’t have my bf listed on any of my pages, I just can’t bother to see him online and having to talk to him. It gets on my nerves, I have him at home, what for to have it everywhere i roam on inet. My advice to you is not to pressure him, otherwise he will make another account and maybe then he can get dangerous. You can spy him from now and then, try to find out what his latest fantasy is, on inet he must have found some, and without telling him, surprise him. But under no circumstance show him any sign that you’re watching he moves. After a tense time of deleting my bf from everything I owned, and having time on inet, things are alright, but keep an eye on us, to make sure.I guess this goes to for every sign, trust but check to make sure.
January 10th, 2009 at 12:52 pm
To Cindy:
My thought, is too be really caution with this man. I would never believe a man, who says he loves me, when he cheats on me with other women. I say, if he doesn’t stop his cheating, I say move on. You will never change him, the only person that can change him, is himself. He has to deceide for himself, if he wants to stop cheating on you.
As I have said before in some of my comments. Actions speak louder than words. If he says he loves you, but goes around cheats on you, that isn’t love. His words are meanilesses and they are there to sugar coat you, and make you think he does.
I say leave the man, or keep being his fool.
January 10th, 2009 at 7:04 pm
To Little Impaler: You are very straight-forward and down to earth, which is a very good thing, but most of us who ask for advice want to fight for their relationship and what’s most important we are not ready to let our man go even if he misbehaves. And what I can say to all the women trapped in a relationship which doesn’t go well and they are not ready to let it go is to stay in that relationship as long as it takes to realise on your own that it’s useless or until you find someone else.
January 10th, 2009 at 11:44 pm
Thank you Impaler and Misery. I appreciate your opinions and advice. Well, I did mention to him that I found it strange that he wouldn’t let me look at his my space. I told him well, that is fine. It bothered me however, I know his conscience. It does get the better of him and for some reason he can’t keep things from me or should I say the Universe always shows me… He sent me a text apologizing to me and that he was canceling his account at my space and that he doesn’t want to lose me over “myspace” I told him he didn’t have to do that but he told me that he wanted to… Ladies, you got me on this one. I am the Leo for goodness sakes… not him - I am the one wanting the spotlight but you know what - I don’t have to work at being in the spot light I just am… for example when we go out - men stare and a few times have told him that he is lucky to have a beautiful, wonderful woman on his arm… I am thinking that other men have made him insecure… and maybe his need for attention drew him to my space for that attention. Well, he has decided to move all the way from North Carolina to Washington State for me - he has stated that he couldn’t be without me in his life - well, ladies, Leo’s are the greatest lovers - not so much sexually but in the depth of the love they give and the loyalty. As far as my Aquarius partner, I will watch him as I, being a Leo, am possessive and demanding. If he truly loves me, it will be evident in his actions. I feel confident in his love for me but a HUGE benefit of the doubt, nothing is guaranteed. I will not stop being me and I will not compromise my goals. I will not fall into this misconception that many of us fall into - that love of a partner is the end all and be all of ME. I am a Leo, I am strong, I am confident, I am loving, I am giving, I am a leader and most of all, I am…
January 11th, 2009 at 11:04 am
To Cindy: I am glad you are a positive person when dealing with relationship, but I must say he is really being stupid, if he doesn’t like the fact, that another man as compilmented you on how lucky HE is to have you! WOW, you really did to take slaghammer to his head and hit him very hard! If I was a man, or even as a woman, if someone said that to me, I wouldn’t get mad, I would feel really happy inside. It would boast my ego in a good way.
To get mad over something like that is stupid. It better then having one say, “boy, what’s wrong with him, she’s ugly or something.”
I don’t understand that, wow.
January 11th, 2009 at 11:18 am
To misery:
I see where you are coming from, but at the same time, if a person is in a really bad relationship or just bad one that is making them unheathy, it’s better to take step back, see the whole picture and just leave. Just being in situation that isn’t right for you, if you stay the viticem long enough, it can really mess you up.
Believe me, I have see it happen with my ex-Aunt, she has be married 5 times, to really bad, abusive men, because she is the type believes she can fix a broken dog. And being in those realationship has cause her to pop pills to solve her problems, to go to AAA meetings. She’s mess up inside. And the sad thing is, she never owns her problems, she blames her problems on other people and she has manage to piss a lot of the family off, where they don’t talk to her. And she keeps getting herself in invole in people that aren’t good for her. She’s almost 60 years old and she still acts like rebillous teenager, and she doesn’t learn from her mistake.
Yes, it good to fight for your relationship and try to make them better, but if you find yourself, that being in a certain relationship is making you unhealthy, and unhappy. And things aren’t going to get any better. It’s not worth it being yourself where you are the one getting abuse, sometimes it just better to just leave.
January 11th, 2009 at 11:24 am
To misery: I just re-read your comment, and I agree with you 110% I guess you and I basically saying the same thing, just in different ways.
January 11th, 2009 at 12:23 pm
To Cindy:
Reading your lines reminded me that my Leo always used to catch me in the act. I was like an open book to him. For example I found out that my Leo friend had signed up for a chat programme, so I made an account and msged him when he got online, he asked me where I was from and I said France and after that i wanted to be funny and asked him if he wanted a French kiss, that was when he caught me and asked me how i found him. Or for example he used to look into my eyes and ask me what i did that time. He could read me as easy as A,B,C. And as all the Leo Aquarius relationships I was the salt and pepper, I was the one dragging him out to have fun and he used to complain that there was no use going out as we could have fun home as well.I was the one having crazy ideas, and he was the one who helped me put them into practise.And yes my Leo was a bit jealous, he never understood why I had to go out all the time, why I had to be on the move all the time as he was slow and calm. I guess there are so many things to try and I just couldn’t let life pass me by. But no matter how fun I had, the thought that my Leo was there for me was very comforting.
January 11th, 2009 at 4:07 pm
I met a Lady Leo who has complemented my existance for three months now,something I pray to never end.
I developed a True care about her and willing to care even more the closer we have become.I espressed that I cared about her and for her as a friend and person.One day I told her that I truly care about her and for her well being,her emotions,ect.She responded that she Loved me too.”Love!!?? Wait a minute. That’s a strong word.Do you know who are talking to?” Love is right up my ally.I’m a sucker for love.I love to see people in Love.I love what Love is.I dislike the Superficial over mouthy exsression of Love,and because I know that she loves hard.I believed her.I fell in love.Insted of Rising for it.I spent 7even years as a Monk and dedicated my life to keep away from the Lust of Passions.So as to Recieve the Karma Reward of Restraint,Self Control,Spiritual Upliftment,ect.I vowed to never give my Body to a Woman who would abuse that dedication.I Promised myself that when I do meet the proper woman,I will then take the Oath of Companion Bond with this woman.Oh! Why did we move so fast?I took all precaution to not Rush into things, but now she’s saying “we Rushing”.She says “Its not you (me).Its me(her).”She says “Your (me) to good to be true.”That she needs time.Guys always break her heart.Well she’s Breaking mine.Who needs love when love dont need us.I should have Remembered that Lionesses Bite.I have started to rebuild up the Fortress Around my heart again.How could we Humans define falling in love too quick when we easly fall into hate of other things quicker? Why not say that we hate too quick?Well as a sucker for love I rose to the Love that she presented to me.I feel as if I set myself up for Heartbreaks that I didnt espect Karma to do.I stand alone until she Knowes for sure her heart concerning mine.I swear I can be a Monk for the rest of my life if Love hurts.
January 11th, 2009 at 6:48 pm
Ask other Aquarius people,we are all in a rush, we always want to make things work faster, and unfortunately we do this with our partners as well. Love takes time but try telling that to an Aquarius, he or she will have all the time in the world for a friend but not for a partner. I’m curious to see if all the other Aquarius fit into the profile, I certainly do.
January 11th, 2009 at 8:35 pm
To misery: I read comment to Cindy, and I read the part where you wrote that your Leo has trouble keeping up with you. I find that is a problem with me with men. I am just too adventerous, and I like to go out. I am always curious. I don’t like men trying to put the ball and chain on me, and make me stay home, how boring. (Not saying, I don’t get tired from now and then.) If they can’t keep up with me I don’t want them. For me, I need a man that is just as out going, adventurous, loves life and isn’t afarid to go where the wind blows.
January 12th, 2009 at 9:32 am
To misery: As a Aquarius, I don’t think that is enterly true. Speaking for myself, I am woman of action. I can be very impusles like the Aries, and when there’s certein goal I want to achieve, I’ll, go, go, go for it, until I get there.
If ever I was in a serious relationship, and I knew that my parnter is trust worthy, and we’re more sercue in our relationship. My boyfriend would be as important as any of my friends and family. If he needed me to be there, in time of need. I would. I would never forget about him. I would jump through fire, drop whatever I was doing, I would even die for him. If I felt I finally found something worth dying for.
Now, if he wasn’t all that important to me, and I wasn’t serious, then yes, I agree with 110% percent.
I will admit, I sometimes get sidetracked, and it may seem I am not always there, but I am always looking ahead.
January 17th, 2009 at 4:41 am
I am a Leo woman, dating an Aquarius. I have never felt so comfortable talking to someone, from the first date. I respect him and try hard to please him. We enjoy each others company and things are progressing steadily. However, he constantly puts me down, in small ways (that counts almost more) with his sarcastic, borderline mean comments (maybe myself taking things too hard). Now I am at the point where I just say lay it on me, let me have it, and boy does he deliver! I almost feel like I need to change something just to make him happy. He is even more sensitive than me, and sometimes when I confront him, I have to end up apologizing because of my brutally honest nature. Some advice would really do me some good, please help
January 17th, 2009 at 7:54 am
Hmm, I am a Leo woman too - dating an Aquarius for a year now. Well, I know exactly how you feel. I have had my issues with my Aquarius male. My Aquarius is very, very sensitive and a bit insecure, for me a bad combination. I have tried to put him at ease by reassuring him constantly however it can be draining. We love each other and we deal with each others flaws. If your relationship progresses learning to love - I would say learn to communicate what is bothering you also keeping in mind what he has gone through. My Aquarius is loving, sweet, sentimental, but in a bad mood very touchy to say the least. I know exactly what you are going through. It is not easy but what relationship are? However., how much are you willing to put with. Do you know what his rising is??? if you go into google and typr in “astrological charts” it will come up with #1 free astrological chart online - that is the one you want. You need all his info though - place of birth, time… his rising is very important and where planet is in Venus… but most of all, love is patient and it is kind, it is not self seeking, love is not rude… love does not rejoice in wrong doings… is it love he wants from you or does he want a temporary relationship? There are so many questions to be asked…
January 22nd, 2009 at 2:01 am
Hello all!
I am Taurus but with Aquarius as my rising sign and my honey is a Leo with Aquarius as his moon sign. We get on pretty good but we also work each others dandruff up! Way up! lol…. I suppose with Aquarius being pretty strong in both our charts it may be what helps us along. We’re both pretty quirky in our own way. I think mine is more outer appearance and his is more mental. His thought process is waaay out there which causes people to not get him sometimes. My thoughts can be out there sometimes too causing a grimace here or there. (shrugs) I do find myself needing more space than he does most times especially after sex. He’s more clingy than I am. Aaargh…I can’t stand that but I’ve come to realize that, that’s what Leo’s need, (affection and attention) so I give it to him as best I can. It’s pretty hard, though, seeing as the Gem moon that I carry on my shoulders gives even more of a need of space for me. I love him though and he I so we do what we can to make it work. We’ve been together for quite a few years now, (6) to be exact so we’ve gotta be doing something right! :)……
January 27th, 2009 at 4:20 am
Hey all,
Wow! Ive learned a little reading this and and agreed with a lot. I am an aquarius female and my husband of 13 yrs. is the Leo - we just got into another of our memorable sometimes daily fights and he is sleeping in his truck somewhere while I stay here with our four children over analyzing our relationship and driving myself completely crazy with it all. We butt heads constantly, It’s like we got ourselves into all this and it has snowballed into something I can’t even explain and we can’t go back.
We one-up each other, we compete constantly it seems like a never ending battle of wills that I always lose because the only way to win with him is to completely destroy him and I dont want to go that far because I know he’ll go further and then one of us will be in jail or something. But it seems like he has no problem being mean and nasty. We are very passionate - maybe TOO passionate. We are very close - again, TOO close. I don’t know. Any thoughts or comments would be great - and to the meanies out there.. I thought I was over-sensitive before, then I married a Leo. HA! I hope he’s warm, I should give in and call him now. AAAHHHHHHHHHH!
January 27th, 2009 at 10:04 am
To Lacey:
DANG!!! And Wow! I wouldn’t call him, in fact don’t do that. You two need to take your chill pills. And let the steam simmer down. Let him sleep in his car and you stay whenever you are. I would say let him come to you, and have him ask you if he can come back. If you are not ready to have him in your presence, tell him calmly, regardless if he gets mad. And tell him “Not yet.” When you are ready, when both of you are ready to talk.
Go to a resturant, have a meal, have some coffee or whatever, and talk about your problems in a civiel way. Talking in resturant forces you two to be NICE to each other, and have a chic chat. Tell each other whatever you need to tell each other. I only suggest a resturant, because it’s public. Then somewhere like your home where you two can blow up at each other (again).
If that doesn’t help, maybe get a marriage consuler to help you.
I hope this helps you and good luck.
PS. It’s not ok for him to be the ONLY one to be mean and nasty, if he acts mean and nasty people will treat him mean and nasty.
January 27th, 2009 at 5:14 pm
Thanks littleimpaler, I didn’t call him but he came back home and it was strange, for the first time HE actually wanted to resolve it. Probably because I didn’t call had something to do with it. I held up two fingers and said “Two-Pack leaders” like the dog whisperer guy hehe. Anyways, I hope we can keep going strong as we do have amazing chemistry and I dont think either of us could do without the other for long so our attemps at seperating or something would be futile. We’d probably just stalk each other anyways. For today all is well. Thank you so much for reading my rant and helping me to feel “not-crazy” for once.
January 27th, 2009 at 6:27 pm
To LittleImpaler:
I just read Lacey’s comments and made me smile.I read your comments and I really laughed. What star sign are you? I simply adore your cool and straight to the point advice.But it seems to me that you aren’t an Aquarius and if you are you surely haven’t been in a relationship with a Leo. For every Aquarius female the Leo guy is the centre of their life.I resumed my relationship with my Leo guy, I told you I’m not giving up on him, and exactly what Lacey said it’s a battle of wills, and sometimes we are much stronger than Leos, at least I’m stronger than my Leo, who’s very sensitive, and if I get mad I always have to be very careful what words to choose so as not to hurt him. Once our relationship resumed, the games we played on each other resumed as well, but at a deeper level, we are trying not to hurt each other as much as we did.The way my Leo looks at me, the way he talks to me and the way he always wants to be right, and the way I agree with him just to see him happy can only be felt and i’m sure Lacey will agree to me as well.
January 27th, 2009 at 6:30 pm
To LittleImpaler:
Yes you are an aquarius, sorry my mistake, what month? apparently there are some differences between those born in January and those burn in February. I’m from February.
January 28th, 2009 at 12:09 am
To misery: Janauary 25th is mine. I had my birthday a few days ago, now I am 26
This aging should stopped at 21. My best friend laughs at me, because she like “Girl, you don’t even look it, you look like your still in highschool.” which is really nice, but I ALMOST freaking 30, then I’ll be 40,50 and so on.
But I have a plan, keep myself healthing, and I be still sexy at the age of 100 and beyond.
I haven’t had much romantic relationships, and when I do, they all down hill, because the guy wants to change me into a person I am not. I have certain rules I live by, and if guy doesn’t like them, then he can piss off in the other direction. LOL I am no nonsense type of woman, I know want I want, and if you act like a little child and expect me to take care of you, think twice, because I will walk away. Always, stick to your guns, never settle for less.
I am so glad I made you laugh, actually I was laughing at Lacey’s reponse to me. That whole *two pack leader.* was funny.
Yeah, I had dealt with a leo, not romanticly, but as a friend. There were moments, has you said, he always thought he could tell me what to do. He was 50 years old and French! God, could his french ways be soooooooooooo annoying. So what I did, I knew he was that way, I knew I couldn’t change him and I LET him be that way, I didn’t complain, because if I did, we just aruge and it would get tiring.
So I let him act the way he was, and it worked. There was peace.
So maybe let your husband act the way they do, even when it annoys you, just let him be and go with the flow. Pretend, that your interested, when you are not, So he can feel you understand. And he might not bother you.
January 28th, 2009 at 12:29 am
To Lacey: You are so welcome and your funny. Two pack-leaders. WOW, that’s funny.
Maybe let him take the lead once in awhile, so he can feel manly. Feeling manly is very important to a man, and feeling womanly, makes a woman feel good. You let him lead, and you just go with the flow. And also, let him be him, and you be you. When you see he is doing his thing that annoys you, just let it pass, instead of fighting. Because you know he is that way, and after talking to him about it, and still he hasn’t change. Aceept him for what he is and love him, even if he is wrong, and being stupid.
There will be peace, but if you two see you’re going to get into a fight again. Realize it, tell him “No, this is not good, let’s take break from each other.” When all is settle down, go out someplace and just talk.
Taking a break from one other is a good thing. Being always together is bad thing, because the small things that wouldn’t annoy you, start annoying you and you get into fights. It’s ok NOT to be around each other. Go out and live your life.
I am strong believer that you can still live your own life, while you have someone. For this to work both need to be mature people, and be confident in their relationship with you. It’s not going to work if one or both people like “well, you belong only to me, and you can’t have a life, because I don’t feel speical.” What ever whiners, whine about.
January 28th, 2009 at 7:07 am
impaler what is your rising and moon sign??
January 28th, 2009 at 8:56 am
To Cindy: That I couldn’t tell you, because I don’t know what time I was born. I was not born in a hospital. I was born in the Philippines, my mother chose to have me outside, she would have gone to the hospital, if she didn’t feel the Americans living in her country would make fun of her, and tell her the reason why she married my father, was for his money.
I don’t know. All I know I am Aquaius born on the first potion, that has a lot of Aries traits. Some times I feel like Aqaruius, but sometimes I feel I am bit like an Aries.
I am hoping that Becky can tell me when I get my consulation.
January 28th, 2009 at 12:06 pm
To LittleImpaler: Late Happy Bday! I’ll be 28 on 15th February. But I don’t feel my age, I think my age has taken me by surprise, when I was 16 I thought that by the time I were 28 I’d be married with children, but life proved me wrongly. For years and years I longed to get married, until I realised that I wasn’t ready for marriage in the first place.At the moment I’m enjoying my life and dreaming of my Leo.
January 28th, 2009 at 2:33 pm
To misery: Thankie so much!
I don’t feel my age either, I just don’t like getting older.
January 28th, 2009 at 3:06 pm
Dare it, it just suddenly disapper. I had this Romantic Compatablity report that I did with a fine hot leo actor I wanted to share it with Lacey, Cindy, and misery. A lot of the infomation was was interesting! And a lot of the situations sounded like your guys’s relationship with Leo. It had little suggesting to help with the problems that curret in a Aquarius and Leo relationship. It was kinda a long report, when I typed in to say thank you to misery, my pervious post just disapper. I could try posting it again, but I don’t want to anger Becky, for the post being too long.
If you want to read it. E-mail me: LittleImpaler@aol.com and I will send it to you.
January 28th, 2009 at 5:38 pm
Like I said I resumed my relationship with my Leo, and yes it’s a battle of wills, for example three days ago we were talking and I asked him to come over and he said he was too tired and asked me what I was going to do about it, my reply was crying and he said okay go on crying, and I hung up the phone, and yesterday we were talking again and he surprised me by telling me that I shouldn’t start crying that easily. Translation: he was saying he was sorry for making me cry.And I have the feeling the relationship is getting again serious, and I’m so scared not to lose him again, and it’s weird cause both of us are trying to give up some of our territory in favour of the other person. This time looks as if we are more mature, and we are thinking it through seriously. We are both scared, we both know that we’ve been through so many things together and he realises that I’ve been by his side all the time and I never give up on him.
January 28th, 2009 at 5:47 pm
To LittleImpaler:
LOL. I start liking you more and more, you just put a random name there only because he’s a Leo? What I’m feeling when I’m with my Leo soemtimes I wish I didn’t. Everything seems to have a purpose, life gets a meaning, and I become so grateful having him, but sometimes I wish I were a shallow person, not having this openess I have when I’m around him. Our relation developed day by day, I didn’t receive all this from the first time, some of them were discovered along our journey, and it makes me so fragile, things I didn’t feel with other people. Time do tell, indeed.
Sorry for babbling
January 28th, 2009 at 7:17 pm
To misery: That’s all you can do, is to take it slow, and that good, if you were to hurry, it would ruin the relationship.
January 29th, 2009 at 9:15 pm
To misery:
Don’t worry about talking too much, if someone explains, that you hijacked the webpage or something stupid, ingore it.
LOL Random name??? Are you talking about my leo French friend, actually he does have a name, Christia, you got to say it right, or he does his french thing and says. “It not Christian, it’s Christia.”
Misery, you have wonderful relationship with your Leo, you do! Even if you have your ups and downs, you have stick-tu-a-ness (however you spell it.) You two can forgive, and forget and on living the next day.
The whole purpose of a really good realationship is, that you learn from each other, and you are willing to grow together, and in the end, it for the better or for the worst. And don’t be sad, if he is changing you, making you bit more open, or whatever. That’s good. Because you become a better person. And it speaical, he opens to you, you open to him.
January 31st, 2009 at 8:51 pm
Hi,
I’m a male Leo, 22 years old, about 6 feet tall. Whatever, descriptions aside, I came here to tell this forum about my experience with an Aquarius female, Valerie. Oh man, it was beautiful. It was the most serious relationship I’ve ever had with a girl. But it was also one of the most detrimental relationships I’ve ever experienced.
She is the same age as me. I met her at a party, you know, I was drinking beer, socializing, the whole 9 yards. We talked about music. I’m a musician and she liked this band called Mindless Self Indulgence. She was surprised that I knew about them. So bam, we hit it off. But the problem was she had a boyfriend. According to her, the relationship with him was sour. I met her a second time at another party and her boyfriend was there. I was drunk, so she decided to give me a ride home. Her boyfriend was with us. He was a nice guy, I didn’t really know much about either of them. So when she dropped me off, I walked up the stairs to my apartment. She started texting me asking me why I didn’t hug her bye? I thought, this is weird…she has a boyfriend. She continued to hang around cause I was buddies with her friend Ryan. I talked to her and said, Look if you wanna get with me you must break it off with your boyfriend. Then she texted me and told me they had broken up
It even had the smiley. So I took her to a movie and dinner and we made out in a parking lot. Romantic right? So I was instantly in love.
Then she went away for spring break. And my friends were like she’s digging you man. So I tried to play it cool. I called her once while she was in Flordia. Then she came back, partied with her friends, and showed up at my apartment while I was asleep. She wanted to fuck. So we did. And then we just kept on sleeping together all the time, like 3 times a day. After 3 weeks of that, I said, Are we dating or what? And so we were.
Things started out great. I cooked for her. We did everything together. I’d help her with homework, dishes, cleaning her room, etc. I told her she was the most beautiful girl in the world. And she told me I was the sweetest guy she had ever met. I turned into melted butter. I told her she was an angel from heaven and she started to cry, because what I said was so beautiful to her. I couldn’t believe it.
She told me how much she loved me all the time. She would come up and kiss me and hold me. All those things that make a relationship great. I became close with her family and she with mine. I asked her if she wanted to spend her life with me and she said yes. We thought about marriage. Everywhere we went, waitresses, her friends, average fucking people, would say, ya’ll look so good together. I wish you the best. Blah Blah Blah…
But then she moved home for the summer. I moved about 30 minutes from her. So we still saw each other all the time, just not as much. But anyway, she was incredibly sweet to a fault. The sex was great and passionate. From when we got together in March 08 till August 08, things were harmonious. I would go out of my way to buy her things. Her favorite color is purple, so I bought her a purple fuzzy blanket. I bought her slippers. I bought her cigerettes, dinner, movie tickets, concert tickets, clothes, a little chinese boy. She didn’t get me half those things but I was in love. Then things started to change…
I helped her move in to her new apartment. And she got really stressed out at the U-Haul people and started getting mad at me because of it. But that was nothing. I helped her build some Ikea furniture. I helped her decorate her room. She hung up pictures I’d drawn for her and pictures of us together. We would laugh till we would cry. She thought I was hilarious. She told me I warmed her heart. But then things got really fucking bad…
Out of nowhere when I would come around, she would complain about anything I was doing. Once, I was cooking noodles and I put the noodles in the pot of unboiled water and she said, YOU DON’T MAKE ANY SENSE GET OUT OF MY WAY. And she started to cook, when I was trying to do something nice and cook her dinner. I couldn’t understand this crazy, angry attitude. I was like, woah its just noodles. Another time, I cooked her eggs at my mom’s house and she refused to eat them. Mind you she was acting totally disrespectful in front of my mother. I had woken up early to surprise her with breakfast and she wouldn’t eat it.
But she stopped telling me she loved me, I felt like I was the only one saying it. That’s my bad. Apparently, Aquarius don’t like being told they’re loved. Leos do. The arguments were over the most minute things. She stormed out on me when we were at a fair, cause I wanted to go to a record store and she wanted to look at jewelry. She was acting like a child, telling me we never did what she wanted to. I wasn’t mad or anything. I thought, well if she wants to look at jewelry, then she can. But what I really think it was, was that she wanted me to buy her some jewelry. But she flipped out and started walking home, which was like 5 miles away. I had to ditch one of my good friends at the fair to find her and pick her up off the side of the road.
She got mad and walked out on me for saying “I love you, irregardless.” She said irregardless wasn’t a word and I said yes it is. I said, “Why do you care so much, I cannot believe I’m arguing over the use of a word.” It’s not even an offensive word. Then oh my god…. Then the famous eye rolling began. I’d say something in front of her like “Lets watch this Kung Fu movie.” and she would roll her eyes and say, “You like dogshit.” She hated the music I listen to (hardcore punk and grindcore). I actually play in a grindcore band as a drummer. She liked this lame Swedish fantasy dragon stuff. She liked Nightwish and Sonata Artica and other forms of viking metal. But that’s not the point. The point is she started hating everything I represented, when I would tell her she was the most beautiful girl in the world. I hung on and tried. She went from a loving, great person to be around to a hateful, spiteful individual. I remember how mean she was to me. I’d surprise her with lunch and she said “I’m not eating that shit.” I was like “I assumed you liked this” and she said “Never assume anything.” It really hurt my feelings. It was weird because when I used to surprise her with things, she adored me. Then she started acting really strange.
She quit shaving her legs and armpits for three weeks, I guess to make me unattracted to her. But I still was. However, I was like “Please shave your legs.” She quit taking care of herself. She got chubbier. She would always say that she was sick, so I would give her attention. My mom took her to the doctor. But she was faking. When I got with her, she never acted sick. But then everyday, without fail, she would always say “My stomach hurts”. She would lay down on the couch and act like she was going to die. And I believed her. I went to the store and bought her all of this medicine. We’d be laying down together in bed and she would stop talking completely. I’d ask her what’s wrong and she wouldn’t respond. She’d say get away from me, I feel like I’m going to throw up, my stomach hurts. I was like “What the fuck is wrong with you?” Then the whole stomach thing became an excuse for her to be a bitch. She would yell and scream at me over absolutely nothing and I’d ask her “What’s wrong?” “I don’t feel good, James”. I’d try to get her in bed with me and she was like, “No, my stomach hurts.” She is a liar.
Oh the fights in the kitchen…god. She’d be mad at me for whatever reason and I’d stand in the kitchen, waiting for an apology. No apology. Actually, I was always apologizing for things I didn’t feel were wrong. And this brutal, negative cycle began. She would get mad at me and I would try to buy her things to make up for it. The night we fought over the use of “irregardless”, we ended up crying together for no reason. I went out and bought her flowers and a book (she likes that Twilight dogshit) to make up for it. Even though she started the fight. She didn’t attempt to make up or admit she was wrong. In fact I never got an apology out of her, unless if I forced her to admit it by saying sorry first.
Things just turned really sour, really fast. She’d say, “You make no sense. You’re ridiculous.” Just over comments I’d make while we were watching tv. Then she quit coming over to my apartment. I started clinging to her at her place, bad move. She had these cats and the place reeked of cat shit. She never cleaned her place. I got so tired of it, I started taking out her garbage for her, doing her dishes. She almost never said thanks. She’d be doing something and I’d ask her if she needed help and she would say “NO I’M MORE THAN CAPABLE!” Then all she would do is lay down and read crappy fantasy novels. I’d say “Lets go out!” no “My stomach hurts.” You know what? Just to spite me, she when out and got drunk on the day we broke up.
But I’m not in exactly the best emotional state at this point. My father passed about 2 years ago. I’m telling you that just to set you up for this point.
We broke up 6 days ago. And the reason we broke up was because I asked to use her computer and she said “NO! USE YOUR OWN!” but the issue was that I have a version of Microsoft word without spellcheck and she has word with spellcheck. I’ve helped her write papers before and she just screwed me royally. But we were fighting over this computer and she said “GET THE FUCK OUT GET THE FUCK OUT!!!” I was like, why? Cause I asked to borrow your computer? Then I returned hours later and she gave me an altumatum: she said I needed to think about my life and give it a couple of days. Well, I went home and drank a quarter bottle of whiskey and though about my dad dying and how cold and hateful Valerie was. I got so upset. I cried like a woman. I just wanted her to accept me for who I was and stop being so hurtful. So I showed up at her apartment, drunk, crying, and wrapped in a blanket at 5 in the morning. (By the way she hates being woken up)> I asked her to please give me some comfort, cause I was upset about my dad and I just wanted to work things out with her. And she said “What does your dad have to do with our relationship?” I was crushed that someone I thought so highly of would be so unempathic. Again, she told me to get the fuck out. And I spent the next couple of days in a dark depression. And she doesn’t care. She’s going around like nothing happened. The fact that someone I loved and trusted shunned me when I needed her the most is unforgivable. It made me so pissed off.
The night we broke up, she told me she never gives people second chances, she never forgives anyone. I was like what? Second chances for me buying you things, telling you your beautiful, taking care of you when your “ill”. Just to give you an idea of her psyche, she said that everytime I did anything, a sensor in her brain went off telling her to “protest”. Thats fucking weird. I don’t know. All of this really makes me hate humanity. Aquarius, help me. I’m not even going to try to talk to her again. I just want to understand her logic. This has all been dramatic and emotionally draining. Should I ever speak to her again, in like a year?
She broke my heart.
February 1st, 2009 at 2:24 am
I’m a Leo female having a tough time with a reunion with an Aquarius guy that went sour. We went out in university and reunited recently (15 years later), are in similar fields, etc. He e-mailed about getting together for almost a year before we were able to do it, and told me that he is separated (as of May ‘08) and about to divorce (an expressed concern of mine), has 2 young kids. It felt great to be pursued, and I remembered liking his quirky company a lot those years ago. We are both into current events and seemed to have some shared interests, though we were not compatible on things spiritual. Still, I wanted to see what could come of things. I felt nervous about being a rebound, and said so (he asked early on ‘what we were doing’ after having dinner a couple of times, which surprised me). I’ve never been married, would like to be one day, and would like to have a family. WE’re both in our late thirties, and I mentioned concerns that he had already ‘been there, done that’. I think I hoped he would reassure me that he was still open to seeing where things could go, but seemed to hold onto my disclosure and silently turn it over in his head ’til it became a ‘red flag’ without telling me so. I noticed that all of our ‘conversations’ were dominated by stories about himself, his successes, his interests, and that he rarely asked about me if I didn’t jump in and volunteer some info. I tried to be a good listener, hoping that would change, but it never did. When I didn’t hear from him after an awkward ‘brother-sister-ish’ new year’s, I called. He said over the phone that he ‘didn’t think he could give me what I wanted’ (biological clock thing) and didn’t want to ‘waste my time.’ He had done all of that decision-making on his own, no input from me. Easier that way, I guess. It was the wee hours when he called back and told me that, and I was half asleep and left blindsided. It all sounded very logical and well laid out, mind you. I found it hard to ‘argue’, and wasn’t interested in sounding desperate for him to change his mind.It’s been a couple of weeks now, and though we weren’t ‘together’, I found him so intriguing and interesting that I can’t help feeling like I did something wrong or failed to be what he wanted. He did not want to remain friends, as he ‘has enough of those’. That hurt. He sort of drifted in and out of my life just like that, and I am really struggling with it, wondering whether he’s moved on to someone else, knowing that others will find him as quirky and appealing as I did. I wish I’d been able to say more at the time and ask more questions as well. He never really took the time to get to know me again, and maybe that’s what hurts the most. I hate feeling that I meant nothing to him, and that he’s just cut me off this way. A recent text the day of the US election, which we were both anticipating, went unanswered, and I thought that awfully rude and undeserved. He sought me out, for heaven’s said! I always gave him his space and tried to take things as they were, though his lack of attentiveness was starting to hurt. His life seems awfully full with successful job and shared custody of his kids…or maybe the cocky exterior masked the truth. Either way…I’m feeling like a fool, and feeling the loss. Wondering if anyone else has some perspectives on things. I wish I could restore things, but it seems out of my hands at this point. His last comment: our paths might cross again given our common occupational field. An attempt to make me feel better? I heard that one, and got off the phone as quickly as possible:P
February 1st, 2009 at 2:25 am
Wanted to mention that he is probably looking for someone with 100% compatibility now that his marriage has failed. Not sure who could meet that high standard. I feel so passed over!
February 1st, 2009 at 5:35 am
Whatever be the predictions, the most important thing in a relationship is a commitment…well i am a leo and in my case i love my aquarian girlfriend more than i love myself..and that i think is the most important thing i care about…i am definitely optimistic that she feels the same as me and she is the person who gives me that extra adrenaline to make life more energising…well to be short she is the right person for me…..
February 1st, 2009 at 12:53 pm
Prasabu, sounds like you have found someone right for you. The right relationship is more energising than energy-sapping
The warmth you provide helps fuel that, no doubt. That mutuality is the thing I seek also. I don’t think it’ll be possible with this guy somehow, and I must accept that, even if I feel the situation was unfair and the decision out of my hands.I will need to get better at releasing romantic notions(oh, Leo females!) as well as people who prefer not to stay (and who, frankly, are selfish).I do need kindness and warmth and safety and truthfulness in relationship to make the energising part possible! Best wishes to you…
February 1st, 2009 at 12:56 pm
I am a leo woman who had my first aquarius boyfriend. But, just recently, he broke up with me (we had a 6months relationship) because he went back to his ex-gf (which i don’t know her zodiac sign)
How can you explain such cause?
I can’t think of anything that made him replace me. As far as i’m concerned, we never have so big arguments and stuff..
It has been a week that We’re are not communicating anymore..(because of course, he is with her girl) …And now, I’ve been thinking if i will/might want him back, what shall I do? Or should I just wait for the right time to come if we are meant to be?
I need some advices.. thanks!
February 1st, 2009 at 1:35 pm
this site is awesome. i’m a leo. married a libra for 11 yrs(best sex life ever), dated an aries-fizzled, a cancer-fizzled…now i can’t wait to date this aqua girl. we’ve been flirting for a while now & i would bet we will be dating here shortly. i’m gonna make dam sure i don’t cling or buy her anything or try to be her ‘boyfriend’….should work out nicely then. cheerio
February 1st, 2009 at 1:42 pm
oh, and her b-day was the 21st…(part capricorn too?)
February 1st, 2009 at 5:43 pm
To Brokenhearted:
You just need to realize he went back to his ex, and you got to move on. Sorry, there is not much you can do.
Whatever his reason where, it was his decision. Don’t wait, just move on.
February 1st, 2009 at 6:48 pm
To James:
I’m really sorry, I’ve read your story a couple of times, it’s really sad. Can anyone give you advice? Well the most common advice is to forget about her, I’d say keep her in your heart, fight with yourself to get out of the state you are in but keep her in your heart, go on with your life but keep her in your heart. If it’s meant to be your road will cross again, if not she’s there in your heart.Take care.
February 1st, 2009 at 8:49 pm
It hurts you know? She burned me. Leos are too giving, at least I am. I think alot of it depends on how your raised. Cause I’ve met some leos who are very mean and self centered. And to a certain extent, I could have turned out that way. But I didn’t. And i’ve been taken advantage of alot in my life, due to my giving spirit. This was just another example.
I tried so hard in that relationship. And my love for her was less about how she looked. I mean, shes a typical aquarius. I’ve noticed this, they’re either fat or extremely skinny. She was chubby, but in a cute way. She had really fine hair, cut into a bob. But the strange thing was her eyes. She would express alot of what she wouldn’t say with her eyes. They were a weird shade of grey and blue and they dominated her face. And her nose was arched in a weird way. And a oval shaped face, without any real bone defination. It wasn’t that she was extremely attractive, maybe a 5.5 on a scale of 1-10. She just looked oddly enticing.
I would like a couple of aquarians to read my story. I’d like to hear they’re perspective on it. I’ve talked to one and she said maybe I clung on too much to her emotionally. She also said that my life experiences may have seemed too stressful for her, so that pushed her away. But honestly, if she had a problem with those things she could have addressed it, instead of being a complete bitch. She treated me like a child. One time I was hanging out with some friends of mine at a birthday party. Some of my friends smoke weed, I used to. So I was standing by them while they were passing a joint around, just talking and she yelled at me across the party “James, GET OVER HERE RIGHT NOW!” Like I’m a little kid or something. Anyway, that kind of stuff happened all the time. Very controlling and demanding.
Another question is if I should speak to her again and if so, how should I approach that situation? I was thinking about waiting a number of months. But i feel entitled to an apology, one that would require her to admit that she was wrong. Which is nearly impossible for her.
February 2nd, 2009 at 12:08 pm
To LittleImpallerand James:
I’m dying of curiosity for you to come up with advice for James’s story. I can’t be that straightforward to the poor guy as you are.
James I like your sense for details, even if I am in love with a Leo at my turn I couldn’t describe his features as well as you did for your Aquarius girl, simply cause we can’t be bothered with details.Since LittleImpaler hasn’t commented upon your story yet, I’ll try to be nicer than she usually is.According to your story and judging after her behaviour and being myself an Aquarius I can give you my opinions correlated with my life experience. Seems to me that she only wanted to have some fun,she never took the time to get to know you better simply cause she didn’t want to, you were just someone to kill some time with,she soon lost interest in you and hence her behaviour.She was way too weak and selfish to let you go as she would’ve been alone, and let me tell you about Aquarius women, in their early stage they will hook up just with anyone not to be alone.Whenever someone new gives them attention they think they’ve found their true love, it takes time to really learn to know themselves, as they live in the air that they don’t even take the time to know themselves what about other people. And I bet she can’t explain her behaviour because she got tired of you, leaving her no space, and she was too coward to confront you with her problems.As she is young she might look for you later on, probably cause she got into a bad relationship and she wanted to escape or simply because she missed you and she might be feeling some remorse.If you wanna get in touch with her, show her that you moved on, but not boasting around, little things, like ” I’m seeing a girl no big deal” or when you’re with her, reject a call or send a text to make her wonder what’s with all the secrecy and reassure her distantly that you’ll always be there for her but leave the next minute. We Aquarius think that we are perfect, no one is like us, we want to be unique and leave a long lasting memory.If you apply the hints I gave you, you’d find her more interested in you, and she would do anything to get you back just to prove her power over you, but don’t get yourself in too soon, if you start behaving like in the older days, she’ll soon leave. You gotta build a totally different approach, make her doubt that she knows you. All these comes from my experience, I’m an Aquarius, been there done that.I’m not proud but that built me into who I am today.Oh one more thing don’t think you know her, approach her like a new girl, rediscover her and let her rediscover another face of you. I know it’s difficult and feels like it’s one big useless and fake game, but that’s the only option, trust me it won’t work throwing your heart in her hands and imploring her to get you back.Start fresh!
February 2nd, 2009 at 8:17 pm
Well,
I decided (in ignorance and with a small glimmer of hope) to talk to her last night. I set down some ground rules for the conversation, like, don’t be ugly, be honest, etc. I told her that she helped me through a difficult time in my life and thanked her for it. But when I brought up my father and how much pain that put me through and how the breakup bought out all the feelings of grief I had been suppressing, she responded with “I can’t help you with that, that’s your own problem. You quit your job over this, you’re immature, you can’t buy my love etc.” I just cannot get over her lack of empathy for my situation. But then I really was able to get into her head. I brought up her family. She has never said a nice word about her father. And when I met him, I thought he was a nice guy. But she hated him and me and her dad/family got along great. She accused her dad of being lazy and not listening to her. That may be true, her mother runs the family. But her notion of her dad’s laziness is a false one. I see him work in the yard, he has a successful career. He even asked for me to move in their house over the summer. But the point is, she started thinking really hard, and then she said that “I reminded her of her father and it disgusted her”. I told her, “I’m not your father.” She would always argue in the same fashion with her parents. And that was something she never addressed in the entire course of the relationship. And I think her father gave her a skewed view of men in general. I told her she would never have a healthy relationship until she confronted her own problems with men/her father. And that pissed her off beyond belief. The easy going conversation turned into a pissing contest, with each of us yelling “Fuck you.” It just upset me that she thinks I’m immature. I’ve had life experiences much more devastating than hers, not to undermine what she went through with her family, but dealing with that made me mature. I told her, “You think your better than me and in a relationship that’s unhealthy. We should view each other as equals.” I never picked a fight, I find that immature. I never rolled my eyes, which is what she did for the entire conversation. Her tone of voice was also had a strong dipthong, like she was talking to a child. She broke the rules. And yes, after we broke up I did go around telling my friends the situation and I called her a fat cunt. She said that was immature and it was. But I’m almost 99% positive that she said more, if not worse things about me. I brought up what other people told me she had said behind my back and she flat out denied it. So at this point, I done trying. I’ve already got another date planned for this weekend. But she certainly changed my perception on women. When you let them, they will tear your balls off, at least women like her. Anyway, I find her a terrible example of a human being. It’s like the whole time I was talking to her, she wouldn’t fucking listen. Now matter how much she wanted to, her stubborn nature wouldn’t let her give in. She wouldn’t even acknowledge my suffering or even give me a hung. Nothing. It’s over and I will never another woman treat me like that.
February 2nd, 2009 at 10:11 pm
Well, thank for forgiveness because I have been really bad to my Aquarius boyfriend - yikes - I am a Leo female. You all - I have been doing bad things no - not cheating but getting into his business. I am so possessive — well they call him sometimes,(his xgirlfriends and he is friends with them)the typical Aquarius, I answer the phone… what do you need? Are Leos always so pyscho? God forbid get alcohol in me - I see red - little impaler - the passion in me is ridiculous…Sometimes I hate being a Leo rising - a Leo sunsign and an awries descending… cause I am off the hook - possessive - jealous - mean… are all Leos like me or is it the combo of the three signs in my chart???
February 3rd, 2009 at 3:09 am
To James:
Aquarius woman here, I am going to be straight forward, and in no where it is to be mean.
This girl is a TOTAL bitch! I don’t like controling and demanding people. Yelling at you like that was totally uncalled for. And real immature. This person only control you, because, their not confident in themselves and only way to feel they are in control with their life is by controling someone else. She’s a bully. Forget about her, you can do so much better.
You might not ever get an apolize from her, and whatever you do, I hope you don’t wait for one, where it prevents you from living life.
Realize what done is done and move on.
Also, I know it will be hard, but what I going to say, is only going to help you in later relationship. If you know you are a very giving person, if you fall in love with someone again. Be caution, don’t give your self competely to them, until they prove they are worthy and good people.
February 3rd, 2009 at 3:28 am
To misery and James:
Just read your comment misery, and in my opinon, James shouldn’t wait for this girl. As misery as pointing out her characteristics.
He can do with someone so much better, what she did was uncalled for and it makes me pissed!
Yes, it might be true for some Aquarius, to use people when they feel lonley, (which is a poor excause to treat someone, like she treated him,) but for myself in no way do I act like that. I am like an Aries in some aspects I don’t love someone, if I am not in love with them. I do not play with people’s feelings. I treat people how I like to be treated. If I don’t want someone to lie and play with my feelings and pretend their in love with me, I will not DO IT!
I live by certain code of rules, and honor, I am very much a warrior woman.
And James, if she comes back and cries, and does whatever she does. If I were in your shoes, I totally hang up on her. If you let her back in your life, she would probably do the same thing to you again. You are NOT, repeat ARE NOT oblieately to her, you don’t have to be with her if you do not want to. I am very strong believer, of “What you see, is what you get.” She has proven to you what kind person she is, and you know what she is capable of.
As I said, move on and forget and sever your ties with her, she is not worth it. If you decied to stay with her if she begs to come back, I think she would totally mess you up inside your head and you do not need that. Try to find people, who are good people, who have level head, and don’t act like a bully.
February 3rd, 2009 at 3:33 am
To James:
I disagree with you right there, we Aquarius, like to have people we care that they love us.
I will tell someone I love them, when I feel, they are trust worthy, and won’t break my heart the next day.
And even if we don’t say it, our actions speak louder than words.
February 3rd, 2009 at 12:48 pm
To Cindy:
No, not all Leos are like you, it’s just you. If it bother you how you act and you don’t like it. Try very hard to not do the things you don’t like about yourself. Change yourself to better you.
February 4th, 2009 at 12:37 am
A few lines from another Aquarian.
Aquarians basically possess strong and attractive personalities. They fall into two principle types: one shy, sensitive, gentle and patient; the other exuberant, lively and exhibitionist, sometimes hiding the considerable depths of their character under a cloak of frivolity. Both types are strong willed and forceful in their different ways and have strong convictions.
Both types need to retire from the world at times and to become temporary loners. They appreciate opportunities for meditation or, if they are religious, of retreats. Even in company they are fiercely independent, refusing to follow the crowd. They dislike interference by others, however helpfully intended, and will accept it only on their own terms. Normally they have good taste in drama, music and art, and are also gifted in the arts, especially drama.
In spite of the often intensely magnetic, forthcoming and open personality of the more extrovert kind of Aquarian, and of their desire to help humanity, neither type makes friends easily. They sometimes appear to condescend to others and take too little trouble to cultivate the acquaintance of people who do not particularly appeal to them. They do not give themselves easily - perhaps their judgment of human nature is too good for that - and are sometimes accounted cold.
Among the faults to which they are liable are fanatical eccentricity, wayward egotism, excessive detachment and an inclination to retreat from life and society, and a tendency to be extremely dogmatic in their opinions. Aquarians can be a threat to all they survey or a great boon for humanity in general. Circumstances - for example, continuous opposition to a cause they hold dear - may cause the atrophy of the openness of mind that is one of the Aquarian’s most attractive traits. They may express a lack of integrity in broken promises, secretiveness or cunning. Simmering anger and resentment, rudeness or, worse, a tense, threatening silence which may suddenly burst out in eruptions of extreme temper, these are all part of the negative side of the Aquarian. This can also reveal itself in a sustained hatred for enemies that is capable of enlarging itself into a misanthropy toward the whole of mankind.
THE AQUARIUS WOMAN: faithful, detached, unemotional, witty, bright, adaptable. This is not your home-body. She is too unpredictable to be tied down to household duties. She is faithful, but must have her freedom to explore her whims and erratic ideas, She is often found in politics, education, scientific, or technical fields. She is not suspicious, so a mate would have to be boldly unfaithful for her to notice. But once she is sure, she could walk away and there would be no making up with her. She is stubborn. Aquarian women are usually beautiful with long, flowing hair. They have charming manners and are usually very proper, then suddenly they pop out with something totally shocking. She is drawn to an unconventional man who will not be possessive. It would help if he were a genius. She may enjoy innovative sex.
Aquarius’ Likes and Dislikes
Likes:
* fame or recognition
* thinking about self
* privacy
* rainbows, dreams, magic
* change, eccentricity, surprises
* credit cards
* telling others what needs to be done - then watching them get on with it
* weird friends
* living within their means
* fighting for causes
* dreaming and planning for the future
* thinking of the past
* good companions
* having fun
Dislikes:
* emotion and intimacy
* people who show off
* being taken for granted
* being pinned down in any way
* any kind of hard sell
* violence and fighting
* taking loans or borrowing
* conventional authority
* revealing own motives
* extravagance
* full of air promises
* excessive loneliness
* the ordinary
* imitations
* idealistic
February 4th, 2009 at 8:10 pm
I’m a Leo chick and my best friend is an Aquarius male. I call him my “polar opposite”, cause well he is. We have sooo much fun together. He makes me laugh and probably enjoys the spotlight more than I do but I don’t mind cause I never know what’s gonna come out of his mouth or if he really is gonna walk around downtown with a super hero cape. We did try the whole dating thing but in the end we noticed we weren’t as happy or free to be ourselves like when we were just friends. Yup, he’s one crazy dude.
February 4th, 2009 at 10:05 pm
Im an aquarius woman dating an leo and it was so great in the beginning, however the plus side is that I enjoy the affection and warmth but he is very controlling and untrusting. Im much older then he is. He is struggling getting his own business going which is frustrating and I would like to end the relationship and have before but he is always for what ever reason getting back together he has a temper and is very jealous. I am helping him financially. I guess you could say I felt he really needed the help, even though in the beginning he was taking me out to all the fine resturants and seem to me he feel inlove very quickly with me. I really care for him but I don’t think its really love and he on the other had see it differently. He want to be around me and know my evey move all the time. I can’t be late coming home if I am I have to call him. He can be very rude and say rude comments which I can’t believe at times. I just wanted to make a comment. I wish everyone else in their relationship the best.
February 4th, 2009 at 10:59 pm
Well…I got some good news today.
I told a friend of mine all the nasty things Valerie had been saying about his girlfriend (me included) and I apologized for it. So yesterday, Valerie and her roommate got evicted from their apartment because they had 3 pets (2 cats and a snake). Unless if they get rid of them, they will be kicked out of their apartment and forced to pay the rest of the rent and on top of that find another place. So Valerie called my friends girlfriend who is a pet lover and asked her if she would take the pets. My friends girlfriend told her no. So anyway the point is….
Let me make it a little puzzle…it starts with a K and ends with an A.
You can’t cheat KARMA. And I think it’s just beginning. She’ll realize life is going to be real hard without me around. So anyway, thanks for all your help. I talked with the new girl I’m going to take on a date and we like a lot of the same things. I’m happy to move on. I’m just waiting to see what things are like for her in 6 months. Little Impaler, your right, there is a possibility that she’ll call me crying. But I am going to answer and tell her to fuck off. No matter how much I want to give in, I want to give her a taste of her own medicine. I learned a lot from this. And I have a new perspective on Aquarius. I do believe she’s the exception to the rule, ya’ll are not all bad. But given the right circumstances and the right amount of people giving in to her ways (sucking her dick), a person can turn out as badly as her. That just goes for any sign. Hopefully, she’ll learn not to treat people as badly as she treated me. I also found out an interesting fact. I looked up her moon sign for her birthday (Feb. 13th, 1986) and found out her moon is in Taurus. That may explain her stubborn behavior, coupled with her Aquarius sun, making her extremely hard to get along with. See, I have an interesting zodiac combination. I’m a Leo, with a Pisces moon and a Virgo rising. That may explain why I didn’t get along so well with her. That also may explain why I’m a drifter, artistic, and prone to take things sensitively, with bouts of depression. So anyway, I’m finally starting to feel happy again.
I have a few words of advice, as this will be my final post on here.
I just hope that by reading my personal account, you other Aquarius learn not to unnecessarily hurt people because of your own experiences/ego. Aquarius, embrace the people who love you and your life will be filled with happiness. Don’t be afraid to open up and show your emotions, even though it is difficult to. You will know yourself better because of it. If there’s anyone in your life you haven’t spoken to in years or are on shaky ground with, whether it be your parents, an ex, or just a friend, call them and tell them you appreciate what they’ve done for you in your life. Forgive the people who love you and they will do the same. Live for love, not spite, because no one wants to die with regrets.
Because what a wise man (or woman) does in the beginning, a fool does in the end.
Peace.
James
February 9th, 2009 at 7:42 am
I have to honestly say I am totally into my partner. I am an aquarius & he is a leo, I must stress one thing that I have noticed about th whole “leo / aquarius” match. I am very outspoken & I hate it when I feel like I have to defend my independance. the leo although very loving, is truly at times “controlling”, me & my partner have been together for over a year, the only true problems I have experienced with this union of leo & aquarius is that we are “BOTH” stubborn and like to be the boss. we have MANY fight’s and Arguement’s but to be totally truthfull with you all, no matter how bad it has been, we alway’s come back to one another. we are both very protective of one another. the relly funny part I feel that I have to mention is that even though he is a Leo, I have the worst temper in the relationship! I have found that aquarius is very easily angered & tends to be jealous, possessive, sensitive, stubborn, strong willled,loving,faithfull,giving,caring,
protective & Insightful. Leo’s are: loving,caring,arrogant,stubborn,decitful,bossy,leaders,sneaky,stuck on themselves, cuddle bugs,center of attention & finally very set in their own opions / way’s. but I wouldn’t change any of it! I love him to death & vise versa.
February 12th, 2009 at 10:16 pm
well, i came across this website when i came across a leo man who, for a better choice of words,threw me for a loop. he is a mixed between the sensitiveness of a cancer but the agressive and mysterious manner of a scorpio…i love it!
however being the aquarius that i am…i’ve only let him in a little for fear of being hurt i guess. my heart is so happy with him and the status of our relationship (it’s a long distance one) but my mind always seems to speak louder…causing me to doubt things he say or question his actions….its werid because never have i had a situation like this before.
we are so different: he’s latino, i’m multiracial, he a high school grad, i’m one year from finishing my Masters, he happy with the life he has, i’m always trying to improve and grow better, he’s open with how he feels, and for me…well you know what us aquarius do when it comes to emotions, he loves the idea of being married (he’s been divorce once) and i have alot of negative feelins toward the idea of marriage…..but through it all we are so the same!
we both are stubborn, outgoing, intelligent, family-oriented, extremely honest, etc.
i guess…its just so new to me, and when it comes to matters of the heart i don’t like to take risks unless i know that not only me but the other person can grow and benefit from the relationship…idk, i overthink things so much, lol!
-yq
p.s. sorry for the writing in circles…just needed to clear my mind. any comments or thoughts will be much appreciated!
February 18th, 2009 at 6:42 am
I’m an aquarius guy dating a leo, she came to the US on a student visa but then married a guy just to stay here. The thing is that she only got married to stay and not for love. Everything started off well until she told me that she had a heart condition. Then I had to step back and think about what I was getting myself into and if I wanted to keep the relationship going because I did not want to hert her. I decided to take it slow and see where it went. Then after a while I found out she was married and she told me it was only to stay here in the United States. Again I stepped back to rethink things. I decided to keep going and see where things went. She then said she wanted to divorce the guy because I think the guy fell for her but she wanted nothing to do with him. Okay, this whole time I was thinking do I really want to be with her? She is a 6 in the face and about an 8+ for a body and at first I told myself just to have fun because I was having doubts about what my friends and society would say about her looks but then I realized that the most important thing was that I liked her for the person she is and looks came second. I was starting to fall for her but at the same time tried to keep my distance. She origianlly started working for a Vietnamese Resturant. She would got lots of calls through out the day and night but I never thought anything of it until a couple of times when she came over she had to leave at 11:00pm to go drop something off at her cousins place. I asked if she would come back but she said no. I had my doubts about her leaving at odd times of the night 11, 12, 1, and then coming over at 2pm, 3pm, 4pm. I asked her to be straight with me about these odd times and she said that she had to drop a case off for a family friend and she did not know what was in it? By the way she also has a bad sinus condition. Okay so here is where it gets interesting. My birthday is Feb 14th, yup Valentines day. She said she would cook for me that day but she never showed up. I tried texting her to see if she wanted to go to the beach but she did not respond. Then I finally got a text saying “honey, Happy birthday. I love you”. I texted her asking if she is going to come over but she did not respond. At 4:00pm I missed her phone call and she leaves a message saying “I know why you didn’t answer you must hate me for not showing up on your Birthday. I had a long drive and Had to pick up my dad from the
Airport. My dad supports me and I had to pick him up. I’m tired and I’m in bed and I have been throwing up. I love you.” I called her and she picked up and told me if she felt better that she would come over later. Well she never did come over and I have been texting her and trying to call her ever since. It is Feb 17th and still no answer. I was pissed off that she did not show up for my B-day and I don’t know what to do? What do you guys think? Should I leave her alone for a while and see if she calls me? By the she told me that she did not like her dad because he always manipulated her mom in order to get her(my girl) to do things. Any input is great. Thanks. After typing this I just realized how crazy this sounds. Wow. I’m in over my head.
February 18th, 2009 at 12:36 pm
To The Man:
Here’s my advice, keep your guard up. I don’t trust her. Her actions don’t match her words. Actions speak louder than words. She tells you one thing, and does something competletly different. I say something is fishy, and I wouldn’t be surpise if she is cheating on you.
And the whole marrying a guy for a visa, is so cruel and mean. Using men like that is wrong. I don’t know, I don’t trust her, so just keep your guard up. Using a guy to come into the states, that should give you some singals, that should tell you something about her make up.
You know, what I am not surpise if she IS cheating on you, and this is why I say this. If she can see you, while she with another man, that should tell you A LOT right there.
Why not be straight with the person from the begining, by saying “I don’t love you in that way, but would you help me get a visa?” There’s people in the world that would do that, espeically for a friend.
I would not trust her.
February 24th, 2009 at 6:09 pm
To “The Man”:
I also agree that something seems off with this situation. It’s interesting because it seems as though you have switched roles according to your signs. Usually it is the aquarius that does not return texts or phone calls (the distance trait), not the leo, unless she is trying to hide something. I am also thrown off by her saying “i love you”. I mean it seems that you two haven’t been together that long? I’m not sure about other leos, but as a leo I am pretty reserved about saying those words. So… It may be that she is compensating for something and trying to keep you hooked. I have been in a similar situation with a gemini, he would always say how much he cared about me etc., how beautiful I was and then he would have to go out of town for two or three days at a time and would never answer his phone or texts. Guess what?? Turns out he had a girlfriend, so i’m glad I figured that out before I let my guard down.
It could be that she is just being a little flighty, possibly afraid to commit. I would suggest talking to her and asking her straight up what the deal is. Ask her to be real with you, I know that when people do this to me, as a leo, I feel an obligation to tell them everything. Everyone is different though, so hopefully this will work. If you really want to get her attention, ignore her for a week or two. Leos hate to be ignored and will surely ask you what’s wrong, then you have the introduction for the conversation already laid out. Goodluck!!!!
Aquarius and leos seem to always be drawn to each other for the most inexplicable reasons, but remain by each other’s side despite their vast differences. It’s worth the fight if you can maintain your sanity.
February 27th, 2009 at 11:44 pm
im a female leo, how compatible would it be for me date a male aquarius when we go under the following..
my venus is scorpio, is his pisces
my moon is scorpio, his is saggitarius
my rising sign is virgo, his is pisces
my mars is cancer, his is pisces
March 12th, 2009 at 10:36 pm
I am a leo and have known my aquarius boyfriend for a year. we were best friends for a few months and everything was going very well. he was needy quite a bit of the time when we first started dating. i thought the relationship was going fine, but it turned out that he’d been cheating on me the whole time we were a couple. the relationship was a 45 minute long distance thing, with my mom standing b/w us being 2gether (like dating and stuff). i stopped communicating with him and told my bff that he was cheating on me and b/c she also talked to him, i figured she told him y i stopped talkin 2 him. he never called and tried to get in touch with me on myspace but i blocked him and i stayed away for about 5 months. i wrote him a msg explainin y i was mad time l8er and offered my friendship (b/c he was/is an awesome friend and i missed him) so long as he didn’t try to hook up with me again. he took it, but started blaming me for “abandoning” him and i told him it was b/c of his cheating, but he denied it constantly. b/c he wouldnt let up on hooking up with me, i said we could b bf and gf again. so its still a long distance one. just 2 days ago, i told him i was his girl for the time being, and a day l8er he put on his myspace that he was single and found himself alone i know him well enough 2 know that he’s attempting 2 cheat on me, again. b/c ive been suspicous of him for a while, ive caught on b4 i got in too deep emotionally. i know i should not have gotten bak with him at all, but b4 i call it quits and give up on someone who has been the bestest friend ive ever had bar none, is there anything i can do, or should i just move on?
March 18th, 2009 at 9:41 pm
Hi im an aquarius lady and ive just met an amazing Leo. He is so gentle, kind and loving.
we are going on our first date next week…
Any ideas on how to woe my leo?
April 15th, 2009 at 3:12 am
My mom is a Leo and we butt heads ALL THE TIME> because of this, i will never date a Leo. No interest in them.
And they seem to love the spotlight too much and I think that’s a little too much for me.
April 18th, 2009 at 12:18 pm
Hello,
I am an aquarius female and he is a Leo. I am a firm believer that it will work but as soon as he found out i was an Aquarius he mentioned how every girl he’s met/been with has been an Aquarius yet it never worked out.
Is there a possibilty?
April 22nd, 2009 at 6:52 am
im an aquarian, shes a leo. i dunno really how to put it. but you just kind find somone special enough and you KNOW its right. true, its kinda weird. i wont lie. our relationship is strange. but we never are frusterated for a lack of love. she must have a mess up in her asteroal chart or something, but i see the pride, and the style, and the eligance. but shes always just humble and the BEST girl in the world. i treat her like gold, and tease the hell out of her too lol. and we’re so in love. we’ll always work things out. we dont belive in fighting. we always come to eachother. and its just perfect. kinda like a disney movie ending lol. anything is possible guys
April 23rd, 2009 at 4:52 am
I am an aquarian. I was born january 22 and my leo was born july 23. We have known each other for like 8 years. His aunt was my mothers best friend. But anyways we started dating when I was 16 he was 17 and now I am 18 and he is 19. In June it will be two years. We have had a lot of ups and downs. He was not really a trust worthy guy and I caught him a few times fooling around. For the first year and a half we were not intimate. I was a virgin and didn’t want to lose my virginity to someone who had hurt me so bad. But it was too hard to lose him. I am a very strong aquarius. I can hold my own. I am independent and know that I can leave him and do better but he is so important to me that it is too hard. And he feels the same way. If we ever get in our fights he will end up calling me telling me how much he needs me. He has gone through a lot and I have been there for him through thick and thin. And he has been there for me as well. In October we were broken up and didn’t talk for 2 months. He ended up meeting this girl who turned out to be crazy. He ended things with her but only to find out she was pregnant and refused to have an abortion. She is now like 5 months pregnant. They are not dating but they do talk and he does go to ultra sounds with her. She knows all about me and hates me but who cares shes the dumbass who thinks she getting married to someone who wants nothing to do with her but anywayssss we talk everyday and try to see eachother as much as possible. I ended up losing my virginity to him like 2 months ago. We both are moving to san diego in july. I am going to school out there and his family lives there. As of right now we are not dating but we are faithful to each other or atleast i think we are. He says that once we move out there things will be good and he wont have to deal with the girl because she is staying where we live now. He is just going to see the baby on the weekends. Every person in my life tells me that he is wrong wrong wrong for me but I know and feel in my heart we are like perfect. We have so much fun together i love his friends my friends like him.but dont like the things he has done in the past. we get along for the most part. i do what i want to do. and if he doesn’t like it he will get over it. i allow him to do what he wants to do. i am not really that jealous i am a confident person and dont have a lot of insecurity issues. he has a lot of respect for me since. i am like his little baby. so my quetion pretty much What are possibilities of aquarius and leos being together? Does both of us being on the cusp count for anything either?
May 4th, 2009 at 11:16 pm
I am Leo, a confident extrovert female, and obviously love attention, my boyfriend is an aquarius, and I love him so much.
May 13th, 2009 at 6:57 pm
Hi everyone! I’m an aquarius female and I’m dating a leo male. First and foremost lilimpaler u sound just like me. I’ve actually read this whole page of convos and I agree w u wholeheartedly. I guess that’s y we are great at giving advice cause we give them the honest truth and no sugarcoating, my few close friends appreciate it, and some others think I’m being a heartless bitch but later comes to me saying they shouldve taken my advice.
But anyways back to my leo male, I feel it is a good feelin. We go to atlantic city all the time that’s like our little getaway. But all in all I like havin my friends and freedom as so does he. I’m not a type of person u gotta be under my wing and vice versa but w me communication is the key. I am a tru believer of communication and if my partner can’t communicate w me then I will find someone that can. Being an aquarius I’ve noticed we do know a lot a lot of people. But true friends are the ones who acttually keep up w us. even tho we mite not express our feelings a lot or at all, when we love we love hard and once u vex us, me personally I don’t believe in second chances I always move forward cause once u put our heart stake, we get numb and move forward. We may get our heart broken or dissappointed in broken up relationships but that will not keep us from moving on and finding that rite one.
May 14th, 2009 at 9:10 pm
I have been with my Leo man for almost 6 years. My aquarius sun really does clash with his sometimes and man can we fight, but my scorpio moon and his pisces moon sure do make up well. You really do have to take turns being the leader. We have had our ups and downs but we stay together. I love a good challenge and so does he. We are never bored.
May 30th, 2009 at 7:28 am
hey everyone:]
becky, love the sight
June 4th, 2009 at 8:41 am
hi I’m an aquarian girl. And I saw this Leo guy at a party. I was really attracted to him! I like the way he dress, the way he looks, the way he talks. He is so funny! and I super like funny guys. he is talkative too..he talks a LOT! but i liked it xD hihi.. we started texting each other, and On tuesday will be our first date!
gudluck to us!
P.S
(this is gonna be my first date)
June 5th, 2009 at 2:57 am
I have been with my LEO man for a year and a half now. We fight 7 days a week. He is very loving and mushy. Im the opposite. He wants constant praise for all he does. He is very demanding. But I must say that we love one another lots and the sex is great!
June 10th, 2009 at 1:31 am
Hey, I’m an Aquarius girl, and my beau is a Leo man.
He loves me fully and completly. He’s outgoing and powerful, but he is not grounded. Well, I suppose he is, but its hard to find something to feel secure in.
Sadly, the problem has become me. I do not feel I can treat him the way he needs to be treated. I absolutly loved and adored him in the beginning, but now … I’ve detatched. I don’t want to lose him, but I’m again wanting to move onto something new. And I know, that I do not know how to share myself fully with people, I’m an emotional recluse. I can’t … talk. He wants to talk.
But he’s the best thing that could have ever happened to me.
… terrifingly, we may be getting our own apartment come the Fall.
What should I do?
June 11th, 2009 at 7:23 am
Well, I am an Aquarius female and dating a leo male for about three or four months now. I know that signs vary, but usually I find them to b e a little accurate, but never have I seen such a not true sign reading lol. I mean most say it will never work out and thats just not true, I guess every Aquarius and or Leo is different, but we both split the decision making and we dont fight that much. This is probably the best relationship I have had yet and its long distance, so lots of trust and love has to go in it to make it work, and we both are even in what we put into the relationship. So in our case opposites did attract for the best and we are going to college together. So, hopefully all that goes good, but I have read some other cases and see that the Aquarius male and Leo female seems to have a lot more problems then the Aquarius femalie Leo male relationship. I think that me being the Aquarius I have girl emotions lol and I want to be understanding with him and be there I dont want to be distant from something that I love that much, but yes freedom is still important to me and he gives it to me and I dont try to control him because I wouldnt want him to do that to me. Its just a respect thing I guess. I suppose it depends on the person, but as far as Im concerned its the best relationship match for me now. And I have read so much on Aquarius best match and get Libra Gemini Aquarius and Sage and Aries, but no Leo and I guess its because they are marked as our opposite, but Ive been with most of those signs and I think found the best connection with the Leo all of them are great friends though. Anyways I just thought I would clarify that just because everyone says it wont work chances are it will.
Hope that helps…
June 11th, 2009 at 7:33 am
Oh and before I go Bliss, I have some advice for you…
You honestly want to be with him I think you just need to see that.
I feel that really you just have lost touch for awhile with him… You have and he hasnt, maybe you have lost interest and you dont know why. Well, to fix that you need to connect to him again. You have to open up all you have to say is what you told me. Trust me, with my Leo i always have problems and let them go and let them build up inside in me to the point where I love him, but think well maybe we wont work out or that I want someone different. Well, then I tell him how I feel and he understands more than you think, but your hurting him leaving him in the dark when he cant help. Trust me, I feel that if you open up to him and let him be there for you that youll rekindle what you two had. Its just something you havent seen in awhile. Let him remind you
Hope that helps…
June 12th, 2009 at 2:48 am
Hello…
I am a leo lady dating an Aquarius male and am happier than I have ever been. Believe me, I am in my 40s and have dated many. I am thinking that we may get along great because of our moons. His moon is Aries and mine is Aquarius. They usually say this is not a good match. But, I have to say that this is the best match that I have ever had. He treats me like gold. He doesn’t lie. and ~ He is against cheaters. Oh, and spoils me… Which you know we LEOs love!!!!! So, I was thinking… if there are others that have troubles with this match… maybe it is the moons that clash???? Have a nice day!!!! :0)
June 12th, 2009 at 10:36 am
hi Everyone,
Well I am an aqua girl my man is leo, n its quitce funny how similar the relationships on here are to mine. lol
Anyways I love my leo he makes me laugh so much which is a big thing for me and well lion in the bedroom, being aquarian you’s all know what i mean when it comes to sex it has to be the best and he loves how i like to dress up for him it makes him purrrrr n then roar. haha. hes lovely and i love how hes so touchy feely and wants to curl up on the sofa with hes arms round me, yes I have trouble telling him how i really feel but im scared of doing that always have been always will be. Opposites attract and I like how demanding he is, all ive read is this match is a no no, well its the best so far were best friends as well as bf/gf we talk about everything and anything all day everyday. ive been with libra and they are way to possessive for me wants to knows my where abouts all the time…hmmm no!!! and gemini well couldnt be trsuted they like the female attention toooooo much and like some aquas i do have a jealous streak whats mine is mine sooo back off. saggi well boring in the bedroom im afraid had to get rid…lol anyway yep this is a good match go for it people cos i certainly am
June 15th, 2009 at 8:34 am
Hey again everyone
I think my comment got cut off but I’ll rewrite it, lol, well, I need a bit of help with my Aqua. The story goes, I met him in middle school, he changed schools, we were greaaat friends almost f.w.b but not quite (I, of course, wanted to be more but never got to tell him how I felt) cut to some years later and my best friend is dating his best friend (it truly is a small world!) and we reconnect. We exchanged a few emails (strictly platonic) I didn’t dare tell him how I felt because I know how blunt Aquas can be (one of my best gfs is an Aqua) and to be honest I just want to be his friend. Then out of the blue he doesn’t write back and then deletes me. I’m not sure what I did or told him to make him run. I did tell him if he remembered me and he said he didn’t. (Not a big shocker as he’s a pot head lmao and it was a whiiile back) and I know he’s kind of, sort of, back with his ex (Pisces). Maybe he’s just trying to be loyal & doesn’t want a relationship with me but why would he delete me or not even want to be friends? Some people have suggested it was his ex who deleted me but i.d.k. My point is: should I even try writing him to ask if I offended him and apologize (I know Leo pride usually wouldn’t let me but when it comes to people I care for I bury it deep, deep inside and do what’s right) or should I just forget him completely and void all my old memories ’cause he’s (possibly?) kind of a jerk now…:/ any help would be great:)
June 15th, 2009 at 8:39 am
oh and when i say f.w.b there was NO sex (i’m waiting for ~the one~) we were merely flirting buddies but we were insanely attracted to each other
cant wait to hear everyone’s thoughts
June 15th, 2009 at 10:21 am
and we’re both metal goats in the chinese zodiac so that probably explains why we get on so well sorry for writing so much:) [im also a gemini (if were including the 13th zodiac sign lol) so i think we should be seeing eye to eye]
June 15th, 2009 at 11:08 am
excuse the last comment; i only went by year so we are both goats but im not sure of his element
June 18th, 2009 at 8:56 pm
Hi Amberlioness,
This is my advice. You know being a Leo to my age of 41, one thing that I have realized about myself is that I like to be the hero or the “fix-it” person. Even when I didn’t do anything wrong. If there is nothing to fix, it becomes a deadlock of going nowhere. I don’t know the whole situation. I hate to give advice. Because what if I am wrong? Since the answer was left blank by him, I believe the answer and actions only lie within him to fix. It is like I always say to myself, if you love something set it free. If it comes back to you (on its own), its yours. I believe Aquarius’s like to control his/her destiny. “not be controlled” “Just like Leo”
June 19th, 2009 at 2:34 pm
I’m the Leo girl and I have been with Aquarius boy for 2 weeks. Before that we were best friends for a year and we wanted to try this.
We fought often before but we couldn’t broke our friendship. Now we have fought twice since we have been in relationship and I don’t know is it okay or not, because I love him, and he loves me and we don’t know why this is happening, these fights. I think it is okay perhaps because fights can help us , but can anybody help us to stop it, or tell us how to having less fights. Please sorry for my writing , because I’m not from England. Thank you very very much.
June 19th, 2009 at 3:51 pm
Hello Girl Who Needs Help.. Here I go again with the advice.
I am a Leo, as noted above. I think that the whole fighting question, depends on what you are fighting about.
Keep in mind that you are a leo and a woman to boot. This means we are very sensitive to any sort of critisicism. Leo=Ego It is not necessarily a bad thing. We just want to please others with are spectacularnis! So the question is, are you fighting over personal things that you can get past? This is where Aquarius’s can help. They tend to be flat out straight on what they say. (without thinking) This helps us Leo’s grow past our egos.
If the critism is something that you can not get past. It may become an issue. But if they are petty fights, talking to him and working it out could work. I believe most Aquarius are fair. So, you have to look at what you are fighting about. Who’s issues need to be worked out, couples’, his, or yours. I hope that helps…
July 5th, 2009 at 4:44 am
i’m an aquarius girl and my boyfriend is a leo and we have been together a good while. we tend to have little picky fights and argue but it always seems like we come out loving each other more. most of this stuff i agree with but some of the fighting i dont necissarily agree with because he isnt the type of person that puts himself first and expects to be praised for everything he does. i think these two types of people can have a long happy relationship with.
July 6th, 2009 at 7:37 pm
It’s fascinating to read all of the posts here. I have always been a huge critic of the whole starsign thing, but over the last couple of years I’ve slowly come around to it a little and have found myself reading up on the starsigns of various partners I’ve been with in the past or might be with in the future.
I guess I do share a lot of the typical Leo characteristics. I am defintely an Alpha Female type, but due to my family and childhood I have a very easygoing base personality and can deal with anything that comes my way. I suppose I’m like a sleepy lion on the savannah! I like attention, but can take criticism very easily as I have bags of confidence to fall back on. I also grew up surrounded by boys (four brothers), so I tend to be very logical, focused and energetic with a very wide-ranging sense of humour. Sarcasm or bluntness does not phase me in the least. I’m also extremely independant and like my own space, so I can deal with the sometimes cold and distant moods of an Aquarius.
Which is just as well, as I have recently found a very lovely Aquarius man who (unbeknown to me) spent over two years working up the courage to ask me out to dinner! He isn’t always open about his feelings, but he happens to be a writer and I have learnt to keep a look out on his blogs for inside information! I enjoy a challenge and get bored easily, so it keeps me interested trying to find new ways into his head other than talking for hours on end. We are both very goal orientated and focused on our careers, so we will happily sit in the same room doing our own thing for hours (studying or work) and that way neither of us feels that we are giving up our independance and ambitions. We also share a huge artistic/spiritual streak and that’s when he will allow me into his world and the deep debates begin! He is definitely a thinker and we give eachother new insights on topics that most other people wouldn’t give a second thought to.
I would say that Leo/Aquarius relationships work best if you are both accademic and open-minded types as my focus and determination will make him sit down and work on one of his many many brilliant ideas, instead of keeping in locked inside his head. I am definitely the more practical one and like to get things done. He always describes me as his muse as I am quite a colourful and ‘glamourous’ person and the random things I wear, say or do apparently inspire him! I also paint and draw in my spare time, which seems to fascinate him as it is something he has never been able to do. Creativity is another plus point for Leo/Aquarius mixes if you can make it work.
We are lucky in that the bits of our personalities that could potentially clash are focused elsewhere. I get to be the loud, strong lioness at work and be in charge all day long, so I am happy to share out the power a bit at home. He spends a lot of time by himself at work due to the nature of his job, so he can cope with nights out and the odd party when we are together. I do know he likes his own space though and I will never try to force him to join in if he does not feel comfortable. He knows I like socialising and is happy to let me go out with friends and enjoy myself without feeling left out. I never expect him to say yes, but always make sure I invite him all the same so that he feels included. Control of a situation does make a difference to an Aquarius guy and I respect this. For him, small gestures make the biggest impact (unlike us Leo’s who love more obvious gifts). I always give him a choice and let him decide either way what he wants to do. I realised early on that I could buy him all the presents in the world, but small things like the above will always win him over!
I think the biggest hurdle (the same probably goes for any relationship) would be accepting and tolerating eachother’s strengths and weaknesses and learning to make the differences work for you. I know that he find’s my strength and focus helpful and productive and in turn his randomly brilliant ideas keep me hooked! I’m a generally happy and carefree person and can easily cheer him up during one of his ‘moods’, whereas he can remind me to consider all the options (including the not so obvious ones) rather than me jumping into things all guns blazing.
All in all, I am very happy with our relationship and have no complaints and I’m pretty sure he would say the same (although you can never tell with an Aquarius)!
July 12th, 2009 at 8:12 am
Ah! Charlie-
Our relationships share several different similarities. Even down to the being allowed inside his head with the debates. I love a challenge to, and it was SO intriguing trying to find ways to get him to open up even about the littlest things. And I loved when you talked about even just sitting in the same room doing your won things, because that is exactly what we would do. I felt that the quiet was some of the times that I felt the closest to him.
Unfortunately, we are no longer together, but for some reason, no matter how far we try to separate from eachother, we always end back up in eachother’s lives. It’s a magical and interesting experience.
July 14th, 2009 at 3:37 am
ok, thanks pamela!
thats exactly what i did! “just let it go”
to be honest, im over it lol ready to move on but im still verrrry open to the possibility of a relationship with an aqua in the future
& i am now talking to a gemini (long distance and he is verry much into his work but i am willing to give it a go :])
thanks again!
July 25th, 2009 at 11:21 pm
Hello out there,
I am an aquarius male who is completely captivated by a leo. I’m not easily taken but she has broken through my barriers. We have known each other for over a year but just started “going out” a month ago. The first “date” was a movie, but it wasn’t until our next dinner date that we felt a real attraction. The following 3 weeks were absolutely blissful. I shared feelings with her that I never share. She told me I know more about her than her previous boyfriend. During this time she told me (on more than one occasion) that I am a good man and deserve a better woman than her. My aquarian tendency to overanalyze was in high gear. I didn’t force an answer to what she ment but I needed an answer. She then told me that she didn’t want to hurt me later on. That will drive an aquarian nuts.
Our last visit together was a quiet and romantic evening at her place. It was as if we were completely consumed with each other. It was beautiful. When I went home we spoke on the phone and said we were each others best friend (among other things). She said we were the type of couple others envy. I went to bed smiling. The very next day her tone of voice was completely different. It was cold. I told her I had a wonderful time and her reply was “you don’t know me”. She snapped at me with: “How can you be in such a good mood all the time?” I told her that she just brings it out in me. She also said she was having a bad day at work and her period started. I wished well and we hung up.
I didn’t hear from her for several days so I called. I got her voicemail and left her a message. I basically said I was concerned about her and wanted to know if she still wished to see me. I told her that I just needed to know. She called back (same cold tone in her voice) and told me that when she has her period she is very moody and even her family knows to stay away. She said I’ve always been good to her so she was avoiding me for my benefit because she didn’t want to say anything hurtful. I thanked her for calling and giving me some explanation, I asked her to call me when she feelt better and she said she would. Its been a couple of days now.
Any thoughts out there??? Should I just wait for her call, should I send her a text or something. My aquarian imagination is in overdrive.
July 26th, 2009 at 8:31 pm
Well I think I’m spinning my wheels here. I had to work very early this morning (5am to 1pm). I purchased a card, wrote a simple “Thinking of You” on it and was going to drop it at her door. She usually spends time with her daughter on Sundays so I didn’t expect her to be home. When I pulled up close to her apartment she was just pulling in to her parking space. I stopped and was going to leave when she emerged from her car in an evening cocktail dress. You can imagine my shock. She didn’t see me and I left.
I just cant imagine how things just turned around like that. She always told me that I deserve a better woman than her. That is coming into focus now (at least in my mind). Maybe she was right.
July 26th, 2009 at 9:15 pm
Hi AK,
Maybe she is testing you. We Leos have a bit of insecurity that maybe we will not be liked even when we are having grouchy days. Maybe she is trying to see if you will still be there when she is at her worst. I would call and ask her if she is feeling better, that way she will know you care. Even when she is grouchy… that you accept all side of the Leo hot cold personality.
August 4th, 2009 at 10:55 pm
Well its definitely over now. We went out a few times since my last post and things seemed ok. She seemed to be growing more and more distant. Last night when I asked her about it she snapped at me. She said I don’t know her and I have a problem. I only asked if everything was ok because she seemed a little distant.
She called me today and said it would be best if we were just friends. She said she can’t deal with “all this drama”. I simply asked if everything was ok. If she can’t deal with a simple comment then this is for the best. I can’t help but think this was just some lame excuse.
August 8th, 2009 at 3:16 am
Ak,
That drama is what kept me alone for about 20 years. I am wise now enought to let that go. Unless, I am trying to get a laugh from my coworkers.
Sorry, I was rooting for you. It sounds to me like she may be creating her own drama. Another trait us leos do, until we grow up. She must be young or immature. Because a wise leo, would be straight forward without the drama. Eventually, leos do learn that drama gets us no where. Aquarius are wise in knowing this before us. So, I feel a little sad for her.
August 8th, 2009 at 4:07 pm
Thanks Pamela,
She should be old enough to know better (she’s 42), but I believe this is for the best.
Thank you for your words of encouragement.
August 9th, 2009 at 2:11 pm
Ak,
Wow, I’ll be 42 8-19-09. I am nothing like that. Maybe it is because I have an aquarius moon? ????? I would have straight forward told you if I was interested or not. That would have eliminated all the drama and the need for you to ask questions. Poor girl
So, I don’t think you created any drama. And by the way, I would have like the card and the fact that you showed up unexpected to see how I was. I may have dressed up like her and been arriving home, but that is purely a self-esteem thing. When our self esteem is low, we like to dress up or date people to build it back up. Very shallow I know. I really don’t do the I date people any more to build that up. I like you AK and I hope that you find someone worthy of you. Pamela 
August 10th, 2009 at 4:05 pm
And yet another twist.
I just found out where all of this drama is coming from. This lady has been taken care of her whole life by rich men. This is the first time in her life she HAS to work to support herself. She never learned any money management skills because her husband always took care of everything. The reality of her situation is setting in.
She called it off with me because she was thinking of going back to her ex. He has money but she can’t stand him.
Last Saturday I went out to one of my local places to see some friends and she showed up with her ex (the guy before me). Her ex gave me a cocky look and shook my hand. I could care less about him so I said hello to both of them and wished them a good time. I spoke with some friends for a while and went home.
The next day one of my friends called me and told me I missed the “big blow-up”. I asked him what he was talking about and he said after I left she and her ex had a “major blow-up”. They were both extremely angry with each other. I asked when it happened and he said right after I left.
This friend of mine knows us both and gave me some insight. He said that she was feeling very stressed about her financial situation and was considering going back to her ex.
He also told me that she deeply cares for me but I can’t support her at this time. This is true but that is about to change. I told her a little about my new business but not everything. She doesn’t know how great it is going. I’m still holding back from telling her how successful it is. I was waiting to see if she liked me for me. I think I have my answer but I’m thinking of doing something else for her.
I don’t have the kind of money her ex has but I do have 19 years in the financial planning business. I still care for her and am thinking of offering to teach her how she can live comfortably with what she already has. I feel this would give her the boost she really needs. She told me she needed to make it on her own. She has never learned how so it is a struggle.
“Give a man a fish & he eats for a day. Teach a man to fish and he eats for the rest of his life”
I know that her pride and self esteem has taken a severe blow so I’m not sure how to approach her with this suggestion. I don’t even know if its the right thing to do for her.
What do you think???
August 11th, 2009 at 9:24 pm
AK,
Wow, you got it bad for her don’t you. I (leo) got it bad for my aquarius guy too. Truthfully, Leos don’t want to be supported. We like to have control of our own destiny. I think she probably needs to be aware that she can make it on her own, but needs direction on how to do it. Your wisdom on how she can do it, would flatter her. I would not tell her about the money until she tells you that she cares about you. Because… she may try go from one guy to another guy who controls her destiny. Rather than realizing that it is possible for her to do it on her own. Have you mentioned to her about going back to school? Nursing is great $ wise and time wise. If she is a single mother, she can get grants and go for free. The government is also giving huge loans to people now. Nursing would easily pay those loans off. Don’t tell her about your money, till you have hooked her heart. I love my aquarius for him. Not his money. I like it that way. I believe. A leo likes things, but will usually follow his/heart first. Good Luck. Just be supportive. Pamela
August 12th, 2009 at 1:48 am
Hi AK,
You’re such a good Aquarius man! As a Leo woman who had a romantic relationship with an Aquarius man long long time ago, I know once an Aquarious’ heart has been captivated, he would be completely devoted to the woman. Yes, Leos always show pride & self-esteem. But they could be weak inside sometimes, and could be very emotional too. If she could read what you had written above, I believe she wouldn’t show you her ’stone cold face’ again. I do think you should go ahead to approach her with your suggestion. Leos are usually pretty straight forward, so don’t be afraid to tell her what’s in your mind. And they like it and would appreciate it if they’re mature enough, that the person they truly care for shows his/her deep care about them. So, good luck, AK!
August 12th, 2009 at 9:16 pm
I agree with Elsie. On Everything…
Good luck. … Pamela
August 13th, 2009 at 3:08 pm
Thank you Pamela & Elsie
Your kind words are appreciated.
I have made my offer and not heard back from her. Its been a few days and my head is starting to come out of the clouds. I could use a break from all the drama (understatement).
I’ve always told my friends “You don’t want someone who doesn’t want you”. All of my friends tell me to put on my running shoes and run away as fast as I can. So I’m walking away.
Thanks again for all the support.
August 19th, 2009 at 4:59 am
I’m a Leo and I recently started seeing an aquarious male. I never really thought I would be into astrology until I read my own fire sign and realized everything mentioned was of my character. This is my first time encountering and aquarious and it is starting to scare me. In the beginning I couldn’t put my finger on why I was so intrigued by him because when we have conversations most of the time I feel like I’m talking to myself. I realized it’s because he is different and like a pandoras box just waiting to be opened. My older sister is an aquarious so I always run to her for advice the moment I have a situation with him. I began to realize she is just like him, yet has given me great insite about dealing with him. I tent to really care about his feeling and sometimes let him walk over mine. I ask myself some days why does he like me. We have not established a relationship but I can tell he likes me because although we irritate eachother on the phone and I’m usually upset with my Aquarian when I hang up, he respectfully makes sure he calls me every day. I have been hurt in the past and my Leo ego brused by a libra and an Aries so I put a gaurd up of allowing my feelings to get ahead of me and trust gaurd up cause of the hurt I felt in the past. My aquarian has areally short fuse that I have began to be scared of what my mind wants to say without stricking that fuse and blowing up. Sometimes when I’m tryifng to have a conversation with my aquarian its like talking to a wall or should I say driving my car through a brick wall and not getting any scratches cause that’s how I feel. Like I’m getting nothing. I haven’t put my finger on if he is secretive or just doesn’t want to tell his feelings. He doesn’t really like to cuttle much and at times pushes me away from him in bed. For a Leo, it keeps me up at night wondering what is going through his head. Or intamacy is wonderful. When we have it. I really enjoy being with him and he tells me he enjoys me and really likes me. He doesn’t mind paying for things and will make sure my birthday is wonderful but it’s day to day with my aquarian and im not sure what to do at this point. Should I cZontinue on in this pursue or just continue the enjoyment of being single? I’m willing to put in the work and up for the Chase but I wanna make sure the chase is worth it. I would like to hear feedback from both sides of the spectrum.
Thank you,
August 21st, 2009 at 8:30 am
my ex was a leo and our relationship got a little boaring a little after 4 months an i jus wasn’t cut out for a leo an it felt like he had more feelings for me then i did for him
August 21st, 2009 at 8:36 am
my ex leo he had more feelings for me then i did and it just didnt work because i had feelings for a libra
August 24th, 2009 at 2:59 pm
I am Leo woman who has been dating with Aquarius man for a year. He has been always distant and cold and he doesn’t talk about his feelings and I know so much going on in his life–so many problems, financially and work problems. I was always there for him, all the time- no matter what. However, when it comes to me, he is distant and not affectionate. Finally, I made my move and told him that I am breaking up with him-on the phone. It has been 8 days, he hasn’t contacted with me. I love him and I am crazy for him. I am not sure if this relationship meant to be, but I really wish he called me or did something to show mw that he really cares about me. What should I do?
Isabel
August 24th, 2009 at 8:10 pm
Hi Isabel,
A hard lesson for us leos is …”Do not break up with a guy that you like.” To test to see if they love us, wrong way. Done it, lost many men over it. Why didn’t you just talk to him about his distance? I know that aquarius men do not like to discuss emotions, but it sounds like you don’t bring it up a lot. So… I don’t believe that it will upset his aquariusness. It would if you would talk about it all the time. Problem that I would fear, is if you broke up with him once, will you end up doing it again when this comes up again? I did that too. It becomes a vicious pattern.
August 24th, 2009 at 8:17 pm
Laurel and Isabel,
I was debating on what to say to you. If you read all of the comments on this heading, you will see that it is a 50/50 chance. I, Leo, am very happy and in love with my aquarius guy. I would not give him up for the world. Unless, he wanted to. Aquarius men do not like to discuss feelings, but can be very mischevious. Like mine will grab me when no one is looking, but will not say in words anything… So, I look at his actions rather than his words. I chop it up as the moons. Do your moons line up together as a match and does your moon go well with the other peron’s sun? I find that that is why it is a 50 50 shot. Some fight like cats and dogs AND others are deeply in love. Like me… When it all comes down to it, actions speak louder than words and that is what I would watch no matter what a guy’s sign is. I no longer depend on what he says, but how he treats me. See??? Hope that helps…. Pamela
August 24th, 2009 at 10:18 pm
Dear Isabel,
I am an aqua and i can assure you that not being able to share feelings is a common problem for aquas.
And the solution to this problem to my mind is to talk things out instead of breaking your bond.
Just ask him calmly and sincerely about things or issues. Tell him that it bothers you that he doesnt share enough feelings with you. Tell him straight way but without much drama and that should work.
All the luck.
August 25th, 2009 at 6:50 am
Hi all.How great this forum turns to be,for me!I keep coming back for answers in aqua-leo relationship.Well, I’m an aquarian male, and have/had (?)a LDR with an older leo woman.That’ s why I write now,because I can t really sound her out!So please, I want to hear from leo women, how did they move along,lol?
August 25th, 2009 at 6:51 pm
This character assassination of a Leo is not correct. Sorry but you have misunderstood the Leo personality completely. Leo’s are actually very caring, and they are very sensitive about the ego. You see a Leo knows about the ego… Leo is all about the ego. Some people may feel they are being burned by a Leo’s powerful nature, but this does not mean the Leo actually feels powerful inside. Actually Leo’s can be very self-conscious and sometimes have to use a ‘fake confidence’ just to get through the day.
I think you need to research the Leo nature properly. Leo is about the self, a Leo learns about the self. Both the good parts (which makes the Leo confident) and the bad parts (which makes him/her sensitive and caring). Don’t forget, its the moon sign that makes the true nature of the character. A Leo sun / Pisces moon combination can be a very compassionate, sensitive soul who will use his/her Leo powers to try to heal and help others.
Go figure!
August 26th, 2009 at 2:06 pm
Agree with Zoe!
September 3rd, 2009 at 3:09 pm
Well this is the whole reason i came to this site. I am currently dating a Aquarius. I am a leo and boy oh boy do we have are disagreements. Like when we have are good times they are great and the sex is outstanding but even though leos are all talk have an extreamly huge ego and do not do the chasing we still need something warm to say i love you too and my aquaris lover does lack that. She is starting to loosen up so hopefully we can make this work.
September 22nd, 2009 at 1:09 pm
AK, If you are out there, what happened in your situation? Question, how would you have liked your Leo to react upon your return after you two quit speaking? I’m kind of going through the separation time with mine. I hate drama. Really with a passion.
September 29th, 2009 at 11:19 am
oh my Gosh all these comments are really scaring me, I’m a Leo, a strong Leo and I just met this Aquarius, usually I break up with guys because I can’t stand to much BS, so I guess this is just gonna be another one. hopefully we could balance things out because I really like him a lot
October 22nd, 2009 at 12:08 am
I am a Leo woman and have been dating an Aquarian man for a few months now. We started off as friends and couldnt get enough of eachother. He makes me laugh hystericly and lets me smother him with affection. He surprised me with his loving, romantic and affecionate side. But I do tend to feel insecure with this reltionship at times because he not only enourages flirtatious behavior with female friends but he also initiates it. His flirty ways really confuse me and i constantly have to remind myself to tame my jealous side.
October 22nd, 2009 at 1:40 pm
Notice how it’s all about adjusting yourself to keep the Aquarius man happy? As long as you play by THEIR rules to keep THEM happy? Is that fair? A Leo, or rather no one, should have to pretend they don’t care about things that matter to them or be a fake in order to manipulate the elusive Aquarius into staying, because how are you going to keep that up forever? It might get the desired result in the short term, but it will also give you health problems from all that pent up emotion and resentment. You can’t reason with insanity. I guess you have to ask yourself if the confusion, frustration, emotional torment and worry is worth it. I don’t think so.
October 28th, 2009 at 8:43 pm
I am a Leo Male and I have been seeing a Aquarius Female for 3 years.She is older then me by one year and everything was great for awhile.We both connected in a friendship,sex and relationship sense.Then about 8 months ago.She started to act differently.She was less interested in hanging out or making love.She then mentioned that she could not see a future with me.Apparently she has always thought that.When I went with her to italy over a year ago we had a great time and I thought she was the one.But lately she has been aloof.She cannot express herself like she used too.In the sense about how she felt about me.She then was showing lack of sexual interest.We did not have a problem with that until about 8-9months ago.Now after all this time she is telling me she is unhappy and put others needs in front of her own.She says she still loves me ,but yet her actions say otherwise.Right now she said she has to figure out what she see’s with me.And I felt like she has not been honest with me.I think she is afraid of letting go of me.Even if she is not interested anymore in a relationship.Yet she still calls me and we hang out.Why wont she be honest with me and not toy with me.She did say she is not trying to toy with me.But the fact that she isnt giving me a answer doesnt help.What should I do???
November 6th, 2009 at 11:04 pm
I’m a leo woman dating aquarius man and this is the second time around for us. He ditched me a couple of months ago but I didn’t show any emotions I just let him go and then he called me professing his undying love for me. This time I’m definately being careful about my feelings and giving too much. For the record the sex is amazing;probably the best I’ve ever had!
November 7th, 2009 at 12:44 am
Hmmmm. I’m a Leo women. I reckon you need to give her space. Us Leo’s expect people to whistle to our tune, maybe she needs time to adjust, just met an Aqua man who seems to want to think and reason things through before he speaks. I allow him that silence because that is basic respect and he usually says something spot on in explaining where he is at after that. Knowing Leo’s it could be a bit of breathing space, from our rather formidable sign, that she needs? Let me know how you get on, I’m just starting with an Aquarian, thought I would see what people have said. I already after 3 weeks found so many things written about the match pertinent to us. His friend I met last night said he is so into me. I love that. Even he himself said he hadn’t felt this intense with anyone before. We have talked about talking, and he has said he had never felt so comfortable talking to anyone like he can with me. He is worried that we will fizzle out though, you know when all this exciting new passion ebs away. I just want to have fun and get on with it, it’s fairly straight forwards in my mind. The good thing is that I fancy the pants of him. But I am messy, he is very orderly, I thought it was the other way round for our signs!???? He does make me feel very special. He is very considerate and yes, clever, thinks of things before I have even finished yawning myself awake, and tells me about them whilst handing me a cuppa. Heaven! Like I say this is within 3 weeks so still finding out. He is so opposite to me I am totally captivated. I love his confidence and individuality. At the moment, I’m even finding his OCD on tidiness and timekeeping stimulating rather then just making me feel late and messy which could be a thing when the initial buzz does down. We have said we would need to work everything out together because we are so different, we couldn’t rely on the other to decide something for a long time I think. God, scrambled me, I’m being whirled by the Aqua, and I’m going to enjoy the ride!! I’m gonig to let him get on with his own ways, and seek my fun and hope that in the middle we become a total. I do have this massive sense that he completes the world for me, all the things I am not, and vice versa, and I don’t feel the need for him to do what I like doing but am interested in what he does, I’ll have to be careful not to let that become me doing what he likes all the time. So, I’m making him come snowboarding.
November 10th, 2009 at 9:30 am
hi all… im an aquarius female and ive been dating a leo now for over 3 months. we started off as friends who really took interest in learning all we could about each other before deciding to enter into a dating relationship. its been difficult since its a long distance relationship and we dont get to see one another very often, so all we have to rely on is phone and text messaging for the most part. i have to say that after dating many libra’s and a few virgo’s, my leo has been 100% completely different in every aspect. he is honest, caring, respectful, communicates with me better than i do with him sometimes, he listens and pays attention to the little things i say. we havent involved sex in our relationship yet, which is nice, but at the same time very frustrating. there is plenty of physical chemistry there, but every time we are making out he stops it from going any further and thinks we should wait until we live together, which is where part of the frustration comes in. i love how affectionate he is when we are at home together, but it bothers me slightly that in public his affection disappears. is this typical of leo’s? from the beginning we have been very good at communicating and he’s expressed thoughts of us moving in together, spending the rest of our lives together, and so on. all of which i have always let him be the one to bring up because i have a habit of rushing things and am working on having patience, which is sort of another frustrating thing about him… he is a SLOW MOVER! he takes his time with everything and never seems to be in any kind of hurry, where i on the other hand am the exact opposite. recently we sort of hit our first snag in our relationship. he is fixing to graduate college in a month and has no clue what direction he is going in afterwords. i know its really bothering him, so much so that its led him to say that he isnt sure about what will happen in the future between us and what might happen if he were to move even further away, and that its hard for him to not get to see me. we are currently 5 hours apart, which is getting to be harder and harder on us both, and early on he discussed moving here to be with me after graduation, saying that the distance was only temporary, but i dont want him to think that he has to move here if he is comfortable in the city he is in. i know alot of him freaking out has more to do with the “what now” situation of graduating and entering the real world than it does with me, but it does scare me some regarding our relationship. what we have is great and ive already expressed to him that if im the one he wants to be with then im fully prepared to go wherever it is we might have to go. i want to sit down and discuss it with him further but im not exactly sure how to approach him with it for fear that i might end up making him withdraw from me or making the situation even worse. i dont know what i should do? do leo’s have a tendency to freak out and run the other way when they dont know what to do? i really do love him and just want to understand what he might be going on inside his mind and be able to respond to it the right way.
Thanks Everyone!
November 14th, 2009 at 8:50 pm
holy crap that living together part is sooooo true
November 20th, 2009 at 7:08 pm
Vanessa, (Leo female here)
Leos love it when people make sacrifices for them. We appreciate it and will make efforts to be with those we love. We notice sacrifices and I believe he will appreciate it, if you tell him that you would do that for him. As far as public expression, Aquarius are more so than Leos. We can be loud and attention giving, but we try to be respectful in public when it comes to being with others. My ex-aquarius guy, use to grab me in public, I loved it. But, I was a little embarrased to do that back, though I would gladly kiss him in public.
November 23rd, 2009 at 12:37 pm
Hi this is prerna(Leo) and my boyfriend is Aquarius and i’ve been dating this guy from the last 7 years and that i guess a huge time to judge someone. I can bet over this that i cant get a better partner than him. We’ll b getting married in a year or so. and i’m sure we’ll have a wonderful life a head. Ups and Downs are part of life and a relationship..u’ll come across these ups and downs in every relationship. So dnt worry what so ever is your sun sign..u’ll rock if both the partners trully love each other.
November 28th, 2009 at 5:40 pm
I’m another Leo girl dating a male Aquarius. We’ve been together for about 2 months now. It was love at first sight, honestly the strongest attraction I’ve ever felt for anyone, and he says he’s never felt this way about anyone either. My problem with him is just that he’ll go so quickly from being all cheery, and the smallest thing I’ll say seems to set him off, and he’ll go all cold and make comments about how “dumb” I am. He tends to switch back quite quickly to his normal self, but it’s hurtful nonetheless. There have been a few times where he’s kicked me out of his house in the middle of the night over something small, although almost every time he’s called me and asked me to come back within 10 minutes. He also gets these moods a lot where he won’t be in the mood to see me and he’ll cancel our plans, or where he isn’t even in the mood to talk. I miss him like crazy and it hurts for me to deal with this, because I’ve never had any guy treat me like this, yet at the same time, I can’t tear myself away from him. He claims that his feelings for me haven’t changed, but I find him expressing them less and less frequently, and it feels like he’s either getting bored with me, or like there’s someone else. He also brings out the best in me, usually I’m the one with a temper and I’m usually very jealous and have a hard time trusting, but with him, I’m the person I always thought that I could never be. Do you guys think that these are just typical Aquarius flaws, or do you think something else is going on here?
November 29th, 2009 at 7:18 am
Hello all,
November 29th, 2009 at 7:27 am
Hello all,
I am an Aquarius girl and i absolutely LOVE my Leo man.
November 29th, 2009 at 8:56 am
im a leo woman, been with the aquarius for over 10 years now. I met him when I was 22, and he was 24, and I could literally write a novel. Our relationship has had more ups and downs than a ping pong. In the beginning, I think we both were quite aloof, I was shy, and he was quiet, but there was always this magnetic pull between us, this unspoken word. The first time we had sex, I was left speechless,which is very hard for anyone to achieve with leos. There was something about him then, and the same holds true today, I just cant put my finger on it, its like an unsolved mistery and the plot continues to thicken each day. He is not the argumentive type, but I am, and this is what gets me into trouble. I am so outspoken with him. If I feel like he isnt being as emotionally open with me as I with him, I go off into a temper tantrumed rant. At times, I feel like I might run him away, but I cant control it, its like he brings the worst out of me. He lets me throw my rants, it doesnt seem to phase him, as a matter of fact nothing seems to.But the more I am with him, I am learning to calm myself down and realize that its really not that serious, he loves me, he just shows it differently than I do. Just tonight, I stormed out of the house after we had the greatest sex ever, he fell asleep, but I was not ready to, i was just getting started. He didnt even stop me, which enraged me even more, but now that I have calmed down, i see it is I that has the problem, not him. Granted he does his share, i take most of the blame. This is what people involved in LEO/AQUARIUS relationships will sooner or later discover, is that one holds the mirror up to the other, in other words, you learn so much about yourself from the other. I think this is what keeps these relationships together for so long, or the intriguement of one another. I dont just give my heart to anyone, and I dont even know how he got it, it wasnt a love at first sight thing either, but it has happened and it is a scary feeling to have that much love for someone. He knows this to, thats why he is so calm and cool, he knows me, and he knows he’s got me. I dont mind though because over the years, I have learned so much from him, its an even tradeoff.
November 30th, 2009 at 8:26 am
Hey Eryn…
I completely understand some of your frustrations. I am an aquarius female and my boyfriend is a leo. It seems though that his and my signs have switched. Im the one who is frustrated and pissed off at times and he is always totally oblivious to it. He is the aloof one in the relationship it seems. He is also somewhat mysterious and that does seem to intrigue me. I have realized that he tends to show more affection than I do, which I know is kind of bad, but as an aquarius we tend to show that we care in different ways. The one thing that does bother me with his affection is that it seems to be very private. He wont show any kind of PDA. Its hard to even get him to hold my hand in public, which makes me feel very insecure at times, like he isnt proud to be with me or something, but at home there is constant affection. We both are worry warts, only mine is more over things I cant control, and his is over little things like his grades in school and sometimes money, but he doesnt let the worrying get to him like I do. Its definitely true, us aquarians dont like to argue and we avoid confrontation if at all possible. In this case though nothing really seems to phase him either. He takes everything one day at a time, which drives me crazy cause I’ve realized in being with him just how impatient of a person I really am. If there is one thing Im definitely learning with him its patience with everything, but especially when it comes to sex. We’ve been together now for 4 months and havent had sex yet. The one time I thought we were going to he stopped and said that we should wait, another time I thought it was going to happen, instead he curled up next to me and wanted to cuddle and pass out… Talk about FRUSTRATION! But Im trying to learn how to be patient, its taking time but Im working on it. Like you, I too feel that most of our problems revolve around me and my over active brain that does nothing but non stop thinking. There arent really problems, but I think about whatever it is so much that my mind creates a problem just off of a thought. What makes it the hardest is that ours is a long distance relationship. I trust him, but there are times where I do start thinking about the what if’s sometimes when I dont hear from him like normal. He is the first guy I have ever allowed myself to love and thats big for me, only I havent told him I love him yet for fear that he isnt at that point yet and I dont want to run him off. There have been a lot of ups and downs lately in our relationship because of his uncertainty of where he is going with his life after graduation in two weeks. Again, Im trying to be patient and just give him the time and space to figure it out, but at the same time its hard for me since I dont know where the relationship is headed. In spite of the bumps here and there, I wouldnt give him up for the world. Im still learning alot about my leo, but he is teaching me alot about myself in the process, and for that I am greatful.
December 10th, 2009 at 12:32 am
All,
I have to say, I have never dabbled with an Aqua let alone an air sign. The result from meeting my current Aquarian man….”lookout”. There was the strangest familiarity that I found in his soul, like I was staring back at me. very frightening and I’m not exactly the ‘love struck’ Leo type. He is amazing, intelligent, soothing, funny as hell, and all around great. There is never and I mean never a dull moment. What he lacks I give and what I lack he gives and it’s natural. It’s not even like we’re looking to carry one another, it just flows. We do discuss our past ways, as we’re both a bit older, and came to the conclusion that our “younger selves” probably would have not gotten on well, due to stubborness and immaturity, but we are past those years and maybe the timing was right. I hope to continue to find a best friend in him because I trust him with all be being. I never thought a relationship could be so smooth and it proves that where nothing is perfect but some things come awfully close. It’s funny when we do disagree because we actually take the time to listen and deduce what one another feels without one of us getting “up in arms”. I don’t ever want to lose this Aqua man, he’s just supreme.
December 11th, 2009 at 4:18 pm
Hi I’m a Aquarius female and is always “ALWAYS” attracted to a Leo male. I don’t know why that is they always capture my interest and when I find out they’re Leo’s I’m in shocked because most of the men I’ve been with are either a Leo or Taurus… very odd!
December 12th, 2009 at 4:05 am
Horrible horrible horrible relationship. I am a Leo and was with an Aquarius for 3 good years and 2 bad years. We had many good times and many adventures and the Aquarius honestly taught me a lot about life. People say Leos want to lead but that’s not true in my case. I don’t want to be the boss of the relationship but I don’t want to be domineered like I was. I lost all of my friends because this Aquarius was so over-protective and possessive of me. I stuck with the relationship after everything continued to pile up because I knew I had no one to fall back on when the relationship was over and the Aquarius used that against me to the fullest extent. The Aquarius was friends with a security guard and tried to start a physical and loud verbal fight with me in front of the security guard. That day I walked away before anything happened and I never looked back. Fortunately soon after I met amazing friends that helped me move on and I am friends with them to this day.
December 21st, 2009 at 8:21 pm
i love my leo babyboy …i’m an aquarius. yes, we fight, we argue a lot, we share jokes, watch movie together, tickle each other etc…neither one of us gives up each other. WE JUST SIMPLY FIND EACH OTHER ADDICTIVE. WE CAN NEVER BE AWAY FOM EACH OTHER NO MORE DHEN 5 MINS EVEN DOE WE GO THROUGH OUR DIFFERENCES
WE LOVE EACH OTHER SO MUCH
December 24th, 2009 at 6:48 am
i am a leo woman and i found it quite often that i fell for an aquarian!
It’s like we are naturally attracted to each other, it feels so different.
My current boyfriend is an aquarian and his personality is typical aquarius who is emotionally aloof and ‘air-headed’. His aloofness sometimes drives me crazy as leo like me needs more attention and affection while he seems to be somewhere else in his own world lol
but gradually i learn to give as much space as he needs because i learn that he likes to be alone. He helps me to increase my patience limit LOL Meanwhile, I am an independent person as well so I develop my own interest and not clinging into him all the time.
However, he’s brilliant, charming and unique and perhaps those traits drawn me to him!
December 31st, 2009 at 12:37 am
i’m a leo, my first aquarian boyfriend drove me insane!!! yeah in a bad way. we had instant attraction, love at first sight … met this past summer and broke up a month ago. he made me feel as if i was walking on eggshell! i lost some weight as a result, yep (that’s the reason why for the first time i looked up astrology as to find the reasons behind this because) in the beginning he would do everything right for me with all the best intentions he had, and me him. he really wanted to make work and me too, and expressed his interest in marriage. he’s been divorced almost 10 yrs and afraid of ending up all old and alone … but still just couldnt work our relationship out.
what we had i guess was opposites attract, because for the life of me i just could’t walk away from this man when we were together. a long time friend (a virgo) said right after i told him our situation, “why are you still going into his direction even when you’re so unhappy?”, something about him that he had that i couldn’t let go, like a magnet. well, our differences: he had female girlfriends and a female roomate about 15 yrs older, which made me nervous and turned me off, and secondly our physical intimacy- even though it’s good it usually left me feeling empty inside right after. felt like something’ missing. hmmmn… why is that ? what more can i say … (sigh)
however, seems like i’m still on an adventure ride with another aquarius at this point
ha ha(somebody kill me). i have started to know another aquarius at the moment who by far is more educated (we are about same level), who seems very different from the first one. an academic, more aware, and we are getting along nicely. his sense of perception of things is amazing, wow, his mind is very very sexy !! like to know this man as a friend first though …
any advice? i really like this man …
December 31st, 2009 at 9:47 am
TO Gina, I completely agree with you, all of you who know the pairing of aqu/leo, they really give us Aquarius’ a really bad rep. I am completely head over heels in love with my leo man. Yes, we fight, but who doesn’t? We both want to become the boss, but I always say, learn to pick your battles. If you learn to pick your battles and know when your really out of line, then sit down and talk. I always get into a fight with my leo, but we always talk it out…even when we are at the edge of breaking up, we never forget we love each other deeply and fighting over a silly thing is not worth losing all those moments with your parnter.
January 20th, 2010 at 3:56 pm
I am a leo and I have seriously dated 4 Aquarians. It has never worked out. I feel that I am more of a giver than the Aquarius and I never feel that I get as much out of the relationship than I put in. I’ve never had a serious relationship with someone that wasnt an Aquarius. I’m not sure why I am so drawn to this sign.
January 24th, 2010 at 9:33 am
Ok hello pieses: now go away with ur advice… This is Leo central we tell it like it is life is to short. I have pieses I love in my life but just cause u pieses think you say things more well said and not so “negative” as u say . People don’t miss the point that just cause you pieses think you said if nicely it wad taken better you still come off rude. And you did ruin this page it was about something and u made it about something else . How rude ,even if you dint think so.
January 29th, 2010 at 1:28 am
I am a leo female and have been dating an aquarius male for about 5 months. I’ve never dated an aquarius male before usually I’m attracted to scorpios and aries. I must say he does bring out the gentleness and kindness in me, although I do have that naturally. But he’s so mellow and I love that about him; he totally mellow me out. Yes, he’s aloof and he’s kind of a homebody but really, he’s so sweet and loving. I just try to go with the flow with him and not be too overbearing. Also I’m older and he’s younger so we have that situation going on too. I’ve learned a alot this last year and I know for sure, that I just want someone sweet and cool and who has his own life and not always waiting around for me. He’s pretty independent and I like that. I say take this combination one day at a day and appreciate the differences.
February 2nd, 2010 at 2:47 am
I am a female Leo and have met an Aquarius male. I just think he is the sweetest person I have ever met. My concern is that I am very independent and do not require alot of attention nor do I ask for much of anything,just an ear. So my concern is that I am very social and love to chat with all types of people. But I have had one meeting with him and about a 3-4 hour face to face and several conversation over the phone and he seem to ask me alot of questions about me, but very little about himself. So again , come my strong personality. Should I walk away now or not? Like I said he is one of the sweetest guys I have ever meet and I really am starting to adore our friendship.
February 4th, 2010 at 5:55 am
To Tina: the last word you mentioned is ‘friendship’. You didn’t mention romance with him. maybe just start as friends first n see if you like the kind of person he is then take the next step. Do you feel comfortable that he likes to know a lot about you but not reveal much about himself. That’s how he may always be. I’m a Leo girl and looking at the positive and negative traits of an Aquarius man, just the less interested I’m in them the more I read about them. In general I’m just not into them. They r kind n sweet but also not easy to figure out. Probably will avoid dating them altogether if I have any control over it. But that’s just me. Good luck.
February 16th, 2010 at 2:04 pm
I am Currently Dating an Aqua boy who is 5years younger than me. He is super hot!! The Sex is on Fire. I look and him and feel bless and he always calls me hottie. I like his intelligence & artistic brilliance, I love to watch him get worked up about whatever project is in his head. I am happy to listen. He is amused when go Leo Crazy. I don’t feel like fighting for my lime light because he lets he have it. My pedastal is always there. We go to the coolest places. Last night I got super dressed up to go to the local italian. Whatever superstar mode I am in He matches. Everything we do seems so fancy even when we are slumming it. He always opens my door, pulls my chair. I love it!!
February 22nd, 2010 at 4:38 am
my leo lover is awesome, we got addicted to each other from the moment we hooked up. itss been almost 8 months now and we havent missed a single day without atleast talking. i think we owe it to mutual respect and communication. ive never felt more comfortable with a guy.. aqua/leo is the beest match!
February 23rd, 2010 at 3:53 pm
My longest relationship was with an Aquarius 7 months. we took it really slow but had a blast,oh but he has a temper and is very jelouse of any guy I even talk to! But I am a big flurt so I guess he had reason to. Anyway we broke up and were seperated for 2 months he dated someone else, but clamed to miss me. we got back together and we are really happy, He told me he loved me! I’m not gona marry him or anything, but rite now we are ok just the way we are. He does spoil me alot! And me being a leo I love to flurt and even tho I am with him I cant help but feel attrackted to other guys. I’v gone out with Cancers and that soo didnt work, gemini men are weird, Pisces men are how ever so dreamy I still cant get over my ex and he was a pisces. Even then im good with my Aquarius.
February 26th, 2010 at 6:35 am
My husband is an Aquarius and I am a Leo. We have been together 10 years. Our relationship started out ok, he was very distant at first. Sex was great. He’s always been pretty good at spoiling me but I know that me being social bothers him and it bothers me that it bothers him. He is not social at all and wants me to be like him. He is very faithful and a good provider, not selfish in terms of money. When we fight it gets ugly, he can be very cruel and judgmental, something I try to avoid. At this point in time I can’t quite say his feelings for me, I think we have a love/hate relationship. He loves me because we have been together so long. He hates me for being social and easy going and “showy”. I think he also tires that I always need attention. I love him because he takes care of me financially and puts up with my spending. I do love when he spoils me. What pisses me off about him is how he makes me feel caged in, I don’t like how he is SO judgmental and how NOBODY else can ever be right, only him, and everyone else is stupid. Ok, he is right many times but it just gets annoying how he thinks he is always the only one who is right and everyone else has to listen to him and how he is the smartest person alive. And because of so many conflicts I have lost my attraction to him. Sex is okay but I feel like there is no love. Most the time I dislike talking with him because he goes on about something and whatever anyone else says is interrupted of disregarded, ignored. We have kids together and he is a good father, by that I mean he loves to spend time with the kids, makes sure they are ok, he is a good family man, I could do without him yelling so much and without condemnation but nobody’s perfect. All in all, I’d say this match is ok. Definitely not the best but not the worst. Best of luck to all of you!
February 26th, 2010 at 8:38 am
i hate aquiarius,they hv always been mean to me and i don’t hv luck with them bdway i am a leo.All of these people talk well about them i don’t get.it…
March 10th, 2010 at 11:00 am
i’ve quite the shameful passion driven antidote to add to this- i’m an Aqua woman and my lover is a Leo…. he is the ex of one of my best friends- she was also a leo (so we have known each other a while from a distance) he attended my wedding- now seperated! (while involved with his ex my friend)shocking hua!!-that he is now my lover) Well when we socialized 8 months ago for the 1st time in about 6 months (prior) we touched and connected (physically and mentally) from that moment texts between us 1st and the last thing either of us see /send on our mobiles. we have such a connection sex maybe 4-6 times within 24 hours is not uncommon and equally so just to walk quietly for hours connects our thoughts… i have designed and he is building our dream home- we have a merged vision that neither wanted to admit (but quickly discovered the other shared) we will grow old together, we will inspire and shape the other, and our intensity was built on the sun… my air sign simply fuels his fire- everyone is attracted to our heat.
Believe, be pacient and always be open and honest…. this is a combo that can supass any comfortable combo.
March 15th, 2010 at 12:02 am
Im a Female Leo and the person I love is a Aquarius Male, And we are both young age still in Middle School.I had a major crush on him(I didnt tell him i liked him tho)and it got to the point he went to my house and I went to his ,He didnt have a crush on me tho we where sill in that best friend zone -.- after awhile he wasnt “closer to me” and he didnt talk to me much for like a few months…On march 11th he got to tell his feelings for me on the phone that night and I got to tell him mine (But he said he doesnt want to be in a relationship because he doesnt want any drama).. so now im just going to wait untill he wants a relationship with me… (He’s so cold sometimes I just dont like it)
March 18th, 2010 at 3:30 pm
All right…..we had a lot…….but people u better trust self ….zodiac signs is kind of tools which u may apply for knowing more each other..that’s it.
K
March 19th, 2010 at 6:47 pm
Hey everyone, i just wanna start off by saying that im an Aquarius woman, Well girl really. Im still pretty young.
The thing is that i have started talking to a Leo and have completely fallen for him as much as i hate to admit it.
My game is to play hard to get and he has told me on multiple occasions that he like me because im not like everyone else. Because I’m not one of those “easy girls” that he can get at the snap of his fingers.
It’s become sort of a chase and i love being chased.
So I dont know wether to let him in? Im afraid of commitment but hes the first person that i have felt this way about and i know he likes me more than i like him. He was a player but he says ever since he started talking to me he hasnt talked to any other girls, this just made my day (:
It was an instant connection and there is NEVER a dull moment. Couldnt ask for anyone better!
March 23rd, 2010 at 2:21 pm
I have a really good aquarius guy friend that is very important to me (I am a female leo). We always have had the best time together whether it was doing something creative or any sports activity. Pretty much spent every day with him for 2 1/2yrs. I feel like he was my best friend. He recently moved away and I can’t seem to shake this feeling of sadness…I miss my buddy. He doesn’t contact me very often and when he does it’s very short. I feel like he just moved on and is able to forget me because I am not a constant fixture in his life anymore. I am wondering how someone can be so close to you and then just disconnect?
April 15th, 2010 at 8:36 pm
Im an aqurious women and i was recently dating a leo. sum of wat was sed is tru they are gud company,funny but its all me,me,me with them. leos i find can be show off’s bigheaded they have realy bad ego’s wont tell u how they feel I can b stubbon but atleast an aqurious women can tell u how they feel soon rather than later. leo’s want there own way and sumtyms can be very mean. selfish unberable. the only good thing I can say bout them is they give good affection in the bedroom and thats it.
April 23rd, 2010 at 3:49 pm
I really love my leo. We can talk about anything for hours and never get bored. I like to go out alot and he does too. We just seem to have a great connection. Right now we have not tried anything sexually but he already he showing his desire to show his sexuality.
April 26th, 2010 at 7:35 am
Wow!!! So many comments for Leo Aquarius duos. Well my hubby is an Aquarius and I am a Leo. I was not attracted to him when we first met, he was a challenge, and I was up for it. Once I conquered I got bored, but by that time was pregnant with our first child. Aquarius are followers and they have friends of both sex male and female and are friends with people who can benefit them. If you cannot benefit them then there is no point in having you around. Having female friends does not sit well with me, so my Aquarius had a lot of changing to do. He did not pay me a lot of attention, so I ended up leaving, once gone, he felt the pain of me being gone, and said the right things to win me back. But us Leo’s like to be showed not only told. He ended up cheating on me on more than 4 occations, I left and came back again and again. So since he has cheated, our relationship has been very rocky because us Leo’s do NOT like being lied to and cheated on especually when we’re being 100% faithful. But when Aquarius fall in love they fall hard. I don’t know exactly what I did but now he is in love and I’m not. I’m not in love with him because of the cheating, he is in love with me because of my patience and loyalty. I feel really bad, because now he is trying and doing everything I want him to do, but its not impressing me at all. Anther something I notice is that my Aquarius does forgive and get over things quickly, I’m totally opposite, I can go years without talking to those I really love and care about all because of my pride. My hubby on the other hand, you can steal from him and next week he will put money in your pocket if he has it and you needed it. IDK!!
April 26th, 2010 at 3:41 pm
Glad I’ve found this fantastic blog. This thread was truly informative and full of great info. I’ve learned so much about aquarian compatibility with leo. I’m an aquarian woman and I’ve met a leo. We are both in our 30’s. He is quite possibly the sexiest, frustrating, intriging man I’ve ever met. When we first met a few months ago, our connection was immediate and instant! Our attraction is deeper than physical. For the time being, we’ve been developing a solid foundation of friendship and taking it slow (my impulsive mars in sag is fighting me every step of the way to his sexy venus in leo). We’ve bonded emotionally over things in our life. He can’t go more than 2 days without seeing or contacting me, and I find that I miss his warmth when I’m not around him. Although we try to hide it, people around us know that there is “something” between us. We haven’t verbally acknowledged our strong attraction for numerous reasons, but we haven’t denied it either. We are taking it slow and working on our building trust, communication, and compromise :-). We’ve tried to push each other away only to be pulled back like a magnet stronger than ever. There is something about each other that isn’t letting go of us. When the time is right, we will be together.
There is more to come, but thank you for letting me share in this blog. I wish you all the best in love with your relationships.
May 24th, 2010 at 2:25 pm
I’m an Aquarius and my boyfriend’s a Leo. I don’t think I’m a typical Aquarian, personally; I’m very affectionate and open. My boyfriend’s a typical Leo in that he commands respect form people, although he’s quite a humble, easygoing guy. Basically we have a very warm, affectionate relationship…he spoils me and vice-versa
One thing I do notice is that when our opinions differ, I tend to be more patient in listening, and I try to explain my side of things more, while he is kind of quick sometimes to make up his mind and leaves it at that. I’m not sure if this is due to our signs or more because of our different cultures though!
June 8th, 2010 at 9:34 pm
IM A LEO FEMALE AND IVE BEEN KNOWING THINS AQUARIAN MALE FOR 6 YRS BUT JUST STARTD TALKING TO HIM ON ANOTHER LEVEL LAST NOV. WE FELL OFF FOR A MINUTE THEN GOT BACK ON AND NOW WE ARE THE BEST OF FRIENDS BUT ITS CRAZY BECAUSE HE WANTS TO TAKE IT FURTHER AND IDK ABOUT IT BECAUSE IM JUST NOW KNOWING HOW HE FEELS ABOUT ME. I CARE ABOUT HIM ALOT BUT IDK IF THIS WILL WORK IM AFRAID OF GETTING HURT
June 18th, 2010 at 4:15 am
I am a Leo woman, and I am currently dating an Aquarius man.(: I’ve been dating him for about a year already
June 30th, 2010 at 6:51 pm
Wow! I hadn’t realized how many Leo/Aquarius couples were out there. Well I’m a Leo woman and I’ve been with an Aquarius man for about 6 years now, but we’ve only recently begun dating almost a year ago now. When I first met him, he was a huge player! He flirted with every girl he met and had a huge fan club…I’d never even heard of someone having a fan club before that. It was hilarious to watch. I liked to flirt too, to the point where it was unconsciously happening…lol! But for some reason, I never flirted with him. We became friends, and occasionally made jokes about getting together, but that was it. He had his ‘fan club’ and I had my guy friends to hang out with. But he is hot, and after a while, I saw that no matter how many girls tried, none could make him last in a relationship…so what did I see? A challenge! A month later, we were fooling around while I was slowly wrapping him in my seductive charms. Hehe! It lasted for about five years with him still jumping between girls, but we both began to notice a pattern…he always came back to me between every girl. Just last year, we got into a huge fight, one of our biggest. He told me I wasn’t allowed to date any other guys, and I told him he didn’t have enough say in my life to make that decision. He said he did because he owned me (who knew Aquarius’s were so possessive!), I said he didn’t because he always tried to push me away. He said yeah he did, but he realized how much he loved me and how I had always been there for him. [insert melting heart here] What girl could resist that charm? Then he promised to never be with another girl and forbid me from talking to other guys right before he proposed…and now we’re just waiting till he finishes school. So there’s my romantic story. Lol! I’m so deliriously happy with my Aqua-man, I wouldn’t change his cold sarcasm for the world because when no one else is around, I get a soft and cuddly teddy bear.
July 3rd, 2010 at 10:05 pm
well I am a leo and i really really like this aquarius guy. but he liked this other girl and recently he stopped liking her. well to be honest i feel like i have to defend aquariuses out there. because in every compatibility thing you read they say that leo- aquarius relationships never turn out successful because the aquarius is too cold and sarcastic and that is very true though also a lie. aquariuses are sctually very loving and warm. though i often feel discouraged because he doesn’t really express his feelings. though when he does he does it fearlessly. which i love. he’s fun, trustworthy, funny, caring, WARM and many good things I’ve learnt that as long as you dont push the aquarius too far and demand too much and over react everything is well magical. i now have a feeling that he REALLY likes me though he doesnt tell me i know and i kno that at any moment he might ask me out. because he kisses me on the cheek alot and hugs me and i can really be myself with the guy. though he’s very confusing he NEVER bores me. he’s unpredictable which makes him very exciting and its thrilling. and he’s tends to sometimes be VERY romantic. he even told me he wanted to kiss me on the lips. which i know he will do whenever i get the chance to see him again. so i encourage any leo-aquarius relationships!!! wish me luck!!!
July 21st, 2010 at 9:19 pm
I’m a Leo woman and have been dating an Aquarius man for about 7 and a half months now. However, I’m a cusp sign so I have Virgo characteristics as well. I love our relationship. I’ve learned what he likes, what he hates, what annoys him, what makes him mad, his guilty pleasures and vice versa. The fact that we see things differently makes every moment interesting. We love everything about each other, we even love to fight. I think these 2 signs can be a dynamic duo but you HAVE to make it work. It took me a while to get in but once you get into the heart of an Aquarius, you stay there. Trust that they will take great care of you. He opens up to me and vice versa. I love when he tells me how he feels about me b/c I know that it’s uncommon among men, Aquarius men especially. Aquarians are definitely one of a kind. Good luck! (:
July 23rd, 2010 at 11:26 pm
I am a leo male, dating a aquarius female. We we first got together we were very attracted to each other, even now we still are but we have been apart for 2 months doing our own thing. I have been extremely frustrated because i can not figure this women out for the life of me. She expects me to be open and tell her things that are on my mind but then will not open up herself. For the past month we have been fighting like every few days, i know the long distance thing is hard but its like when we are physically together- there is no where else i would rather be. Not with her and she is infuriating, she says she loves me but i guess i wish she made more of an effort to show me because she has made dump immature decisions and the last fight we had she said we werent working well together, we weren’t meshing. I would agree with it to because we weren’t but i dunno if its because of our personality differences or just bad communication. Advice would be greatly appreciated
July 29th, 2010 at 2:43 am
I’m a Leo woman dating a Aquarian man. I find it hard to connect to him sometimes, though he feels we are very connected. I wish he would tell me how he feels more often and/or give my ego a stroke because it’s almost like I get more out of my friend’s partners than him. How can I ask him for this without frustrating him?
August 4th, 2010 at 5:22 am
Hi all, im an aquarious and my boyfriend is a leo. The desciption for both of us is next to exact. at the start things were great and i guess as things went on, i did start to lose my patience with his “im awesome” attitude. i think that covers alot of insecurities he really has. ive known him for years and we finally started dating. he is the love of my life and now things arent going well, we are taking a break. i know he loves me and i love him but its whether right now is the right time to be together. he tells me he is at the point where if he goes further with me he will be head over heels for me etc etc and he will be truly open to being hurt. i could just use some of your input please..
August 12th, 2010 at 11:33 pm
Hi Im a Leo and have been going out with an Aquarius girl for over a year. This is my story, will give enough details so it will be a long post, would love to have some input from Aquarians pls!
We did broke up last january as we had small fights that got her upset and she told me that she needed space. At that time I was so down that she left me that I did not manage to give her the needed space so we went no contact for 2-3mths. Then after 6mths altogether she contact me we started chatting and it was awesome as we were before, she started flirting etc. One night I was talking to her before i was going out to a party, and told her wer I was going to, after i got i found her there, and as soon as she saw me she was all over me, and grabbed me away telling me how much she had missed me, kissing me and i ended up going to her house that night. I was so freaking happy i thought i was over her but i wasn’t really. The attraction between was still there, electric like something new again!
After lots of talking after that night we started dating again. Obviously i had my doubts as i had feelings for her before, and still did…and so i asked her if now she was ready to take it seriously with me, and she said yes…that before she had some issues of her own she needed to sort out and she never wanted to break it off with me.
Anyway the next day after waking up nxt to her, she was in a bad mood she pushed me away from bed, and i got mad (as in hurt not shouting at her), and told i cannot do this as i’ve been hurt enough by these same actions before and told her that we leave this as is….as soon as i was leaving she came after me begging me not to leave her and saying sorry for that little incident, and that she didnt want to lose me again. Me as a leo and as sumone that love this person, I said to give this a chance maybe she really is sorry for what she did to me before, and of course i love every minute with her, apart from the times that we have our little arguments over nothing
So we got together, the 1st month and a half was great, I have never been so happy in my life, and she started complimenting me all the time, how much she missed us, how sorry she was for hurting me and she thought about me all the time after we broke up, lots of caring and kissing, and holding me all the time, how close she feels to me and hopes this will never end. Me hearing these words i was in total heaven! Even the nxt week after that she would text me and tell me that she cannot get me out of her head, and she doesnt know how she will concentrate on her exams etc, and i even offered her not to meet again until she finished them, but she wouldnt, instead she would text me to go to her house and stay there. Amazing sex!
i have always wanted this, i had known her for more than 5 yrs before we started dating and have always liked her, we love to party and travel together, we can talk about anything, we share same passion for music and art and we love to have a great love with friends both with her and mine.
After 2mths she came to me once and told me that she is not feeling happy, but she does not want to break up, me listening to this again i was sad, but did not show this to her, i just told her if she wanted to talk about it and she told me that she doesn’t know what it is. Then she did not mention to me again, and i left it as is, as i know that she doesnt like to be questioned about her feelings.
Then some days later, we had another of our small arguments, stupid one, all because both of us are quite stubborn…we spent that day together with friends. I knew she would be upset, so i did all i could by pampering her at the beach and be nice to her for the rest of the day. Even later we went for a bbq to a friend’s place and i didnt stay around her as to give her space but was enjoying still the nite with her and friends. Then after she told me that she wanted to sleep at hers and i sleep at mine’s and i was fine wit that. We did give each a goodnite kiss and that was it for the day. Still i knew that something was not right, but i couldnt talk to her as she would have told me she is tired and doesnt feel like talking or wotever.
The next morning she texted me and told me that she needed a good laugh and that she will be going to the beach alone with some of her friends. That day i texted her once during the day late, and she never replied.
After that day, she spoke to me on chat and told me that she needs some time alone again and this time i didnt hesitate, i told her its ok take the time you need, i will be here if u need anything. She just said ‘Thank you, I appreciate x’.
In the next days, i asked her how she was doing, we would talk normal on other things, and i would never mention anything to her and let her come to me. Then all of a sudden she told me that she thinks we better be friends and that’s it but we still meet in the weekends to attend parties together with friends, without giving me any reason for this. We only have stupid arguments, other than that we have great sex, great time together and nothing is bad.
I can still feel that we have that physical attraction to each other, the way she looks at me, and also that she cares for me as she would do anything for me. But sometimes i feel that she treats me like a child, and i think in some situations i am more mature than her, but i dont care i adore her as she is. She says that i criticise her, maybe i do sometimes as its in my nature, and i try to avoid it, but no one is perfect !
We have been like this for two weeks now. We still talk all day, but yest we had a fight over chat and she told me now that she does not want to go out with me for a party this wknd, i think she is a bit ‘jealous’ for seeing me happy this time altough we are just friends, dunno, i really dont want to lose her, i think she is all i could ever want, and after 6mths and i was dating, i still could think about her, and wishing i was intimate with her and not with the person i was with.
I am trying my best to give her space, i dont ask her to meet me, i wait for her, but i miss her dearly, and its hurting pretty bad already this time AGAIN
Please give me some positive input.
August 19th, 2010 at 6:33 am
To Prodigy:
I’m and aquarius girl and Ive been dating a leo guy for like a year and three monthes now and italmost sounds like us except switched around. Your reallly emotinal with her which gives her the control and its totally the opposite for me my leo is more like does what he wants and im more the emotional one… but to an extent im the girl so i have an excuse lol.
Anyways, regaurding your issue I think that she is reallly kind of messed up to be honest and though she may care and like you or whatever she is more concerned with doing whatever she wants and honestlya guy was like that to me i would be like okay whatever… Not sit there and wait for them and let them do whatever they want thats how you get walked all over cause she knows you’ll always be there so she can pretty much go do whatever she wants. I would tell her how you feel like totally because you two seem to be on different pages you are all about you two and she is all about her self so its not fair to you in any way. It can be hard to act a different way though when you care about someone that much… I know how you feel I wish my leo was more emotional like you lol but even though i let him do pretty much whatever he wants i lay out ground rules like if he was ever liek that to me i would be like okay and move on even though it would be hard, which it would. But you want to devote tht kind of attention to someone who wants to be with you just as much… An obviously no matter what she says she doesnt.
So, if I were you i wouldnt waste my energy or time on her… Stop chasing her btw cause we love that :P.
Good Luck
August 19th, 2010 at 6:36 am
To mandi:
I would just go for it honestly. If you guys both care about eachother that much you will be able to work out the little things… every relationship has that its just part of having a relationship and his leo additude is just part of dating a leo but the good thing is you know how to handle it and the truth that even though he acts like hes so “awesome” he is rly sensitive.
August 19th, 2010 at 6:43 am
To Chris…
Im dating a leo male and we fight all the time like that like i dont know for dumb reasons and then i will get upset and be like you know what maybe we shouldnt be together we obviously dont get a long but really that is just suppose to be like a test so that he will deny we dont need to do that. I dont know its not a healthy thing to do but i do it a lot. And we are doing long distance for awhile now too and it sucks like so bad… but i mean in the end it honestly makes us stronger and we do get in fights and its harder with the distance and everything but really we still have a really good connection… and if you and her both want to do it then it will work out. And about her opening up i think that maybe that justh as to do with the fact that she has problems expressing how she feels and doesnt even feel like trying but still needs to hear it from you so that she assured that everything is fine on your end. I know that i have that problem with my emotions like opening up about them and like saying really how i feel because they are confusing but i still try its something you would have to make her feel comfortable about to open up and talk to u about i guess. you seem really nice though and so does she im sure itll work out fine with a little effort to get through a crappy time
August 22nd, 2010 at 1:03 am
To Aquarius Girl:
So should I let her be, and just let her contact me? She would come back like she did before, if i am not available (as in I do not talk to her)?
i was obviously abit sad, told her to enjoy herself and how i wished i would be joining her as well. She replied that life goes on and that i should be happy for her which i am.
I had my birthday last week and when she texted me i told her that i will be missing her on the day that i wished that she would be with me to celebrate my day. she texted me not to feel sad and enjoy my day and then what i will be doing. I didnt reply back to her for the whole day. Then the next day she came to speak to me on chat asking me what i did, and i replied back in short and she got frustrated because i didnt give her any details.
Now this week she came to talk to me to tell me that she will be going on holiday to the place we were planning to go
I hate it that she doesnt show me anything, i dont want to wait for her cause it hurts, but in a way if she would come back again i think i would fall for her again. Things don’t change after a month! Replies pls??
and yes i think she is a bit messed up, what im sure if is that she doesnt want to date around, i think she still needs to figure out some things of her own. i miss her lots
September 10th, 2010 at 5:46 am
Hello there,
I am a leo head over heals for an Aqua man.
He’s all I ever think about, we just got back together, like.. Not even 5 min ago! lol.
But anyways.. Id just like to say.. He is litterally my other half. Like even though I am a leo and very out going and everyone looks up to me, sometimes I shut down and need to be comforted and re-assured I’m not a lone. And thats what my Aqua man does. He’s the Peanut butter to my Jelly.
Oh, and for the feelings thing, MY aqua man shares sometimes, which is enough for me.. You just really gotta snatch it out of them, and let them know your by their side, and then you have them in your palm:)
May the Lions win!
September 13th, 2010 at 12:34 pm
Yo guyx!
i luv my leo gf so very mch. i thank God tht he gave me her. we both luv eachother madly. BUT sumtymx we fyt. unknowingly we say stuff to echothr which we think wud please da other bt it duznt. i will NEVER EVER leave her i know! shex my dream, my luv, my lyf…. i jst wana spend my lyf vd her!
we hv been thru all da gud nd da bad tymx. shex vry supportive nd caring. if we fyt at smthng, we tok abt it later nd thn try nt 2 do sch a thing again… nd it workx out really well…
she carex 4 me a lot nd so do i in return. talking over ur bad tymx nd tryng 2 share gud stuff ix da key here. plz give me sum POSITIVE advicex on how 2 keep hr happy 4evr nd evr nd evr…. bt b4 u advise, dnt 4gt tht i luv her so very much nd can die 4 her……… i cant even think ov leaving her. she says i m da best thing tht evr hpnd 2 her nd i also feel da same way =) Plz guyx dnt mention da bad experiencex u myt hv hd in da leo/aqua relation…. keep da stuff positive nd share da gud tymx bcoz if a guy lyk me sees negative commentx on sch postx, his mind will make him believe tht he shud end it al up… so plz b careful
Regardx…
September 13th, 2010 at 12:42 pm
Oh i almst 4got! i m an aquarian guyx =P
October 26th, 2010 at 10:03 am
Hi, I’m an Aquarius and I’m in a relationship with a Leo and I love him so much! He is the best thing that has ever happened to me!!! It took me 3 years to tell him I had feelings for him and he was totally clueless. We’ve been friends for so long and I couldnt hide my feelings anymore. We’ve been dating since August 17th, 2010 and there has never been a dull moment with him in my life. He showers me with gifts, which is new since he’s the first boyfriend to ever do that. My parents hate him, which makes me love him even more. My parents think I’m obsessed with him and we are moving too fast. I kinda agree and then I kinda disagree. I’m 18 and grown. I know I want him and he wants me. I feel the sexual chemistry and the love every time I’m with him and I dont want to lose that. My Leo is goin to the military soon and my parents think he will leave me and find another girl and my boyfriend claims he won’t. I believe him and I have faith in him. Even if he does, I wont regret any time we spent together even if we didnt last forever. I love my parents, but I hope my parents understand someday that me and my Leo are here to stay.
October 28th, 2010 at 11:14 pm
Hello Everyone, I would like to start off by saying that I am a very firm believer in zodiac signs and as a sociologist and psychologist I have been doing my own field studies so to speak :-). I am a women who have experienced every sign as a leo female. I attract alot of geminis, Leo’s, sagis, and aquariuses. At this current moment I am seeing this aquaris guy who I can’t seem to shake. We have a really really amazing sexual chemisty that is very magnetic. You will not experience this with everyone you meet. Beside the chemistry we have much in common but BEWARE the aquarian is very strange from a Leo’s stand point. They are distant, arugumentative, they no everthing because of there fixed sign, but on the other hand very very sweet, caring, freindly, and generous. My issue with him would be lack of communication on both parts. We shall see where this goes
October 29th, 2010 at 12:47 am
I have more to say lol…me and my Aqua guy have had many small fights over nothing because of my leo nature which is jeaoulous and possesive only when I like someone, that’s how you identify Leo’s. Also our fights stem from his unpredictablity, but after ever arguemnt it’s he who contacts me and somehow we re-connect. I just find Aqua men quite alluring, because they have this unique and strange behavior that I can’t predict and as a Leo I have a very high intutive almost psychic ability when it comes to reading someone. At first it irritated me that I coulden’t put my finger on his personality traits because they are always changing partly because he is a water bearer so me as a fixed fire sign have a very diffucult time with water signs. Amazingly after much analytical thought..I understand now and have had a light bulb moment as a Leo female speaking to other leo females that is with an Aqua male, you will not get 100% of their time, You will have to be content with the amount of time that they give you, you also have to be comfortable with the fact that he is not going to praise you all the time like a cancer, gemini or saggitarus would, you have to have your time consumed by work, projects, or businesses that us Leo’s dream about starting and havent yet..lol most leos are ambitous but we procraistinate.
The key to you sticking around is understanding they way he loves. My aqua male told me he loved me after i first initiated the I love you word. I was shocked!! like what!!! but this is them they hold alot from you, as leo’s take it from them, ask questions, tell them how you feel even if you get no response who cares.
There is a reason that we keep running back to each other, and I think that we Leo’s are just as intriging to them as they are to us. Right now we are just friends with benefits so to speak because of a previous and quite vicious argument, and im cool with that.
November 10th, 2010 at 6:03 pm
Hi
I’m a Leo man and 6 months ago i found this amazing Aqua girl, the romance is on fire everytime i see her, it’s been relatively long but we still crave each other as much as in the beginning. There’s a lot we have to deal with, but we never let anything be too much of a problem, we’re too addicted to our sweet love to let little things ruin it
I respect her point of view, always let her talk about stuff she cares about, even if my opinion is different and i’m burning inside eager to shout: You’re wrong! She then learnt to deal with my moodiness, i know she gets tired of it, and always tries to find the way to express her feelings because she knows that this is what makes me happy the most. I know the way to light her up and she knows the way to calm me down, and so far it works perfectly. My advice for other Leos out there: No, your Aqua partner won’t ensure you bout his/her love as much as you need it, but look for the little things he/she does for you, they say it clearly: I love you. ^^
November 28th, 2010 at 9:13 am
I’m an Aquarius male. I had this long friendship with a leo woman. We became somewhat intimate. We would make out when we were together. nothing more. Well the night before we were suppose to hang out. I logged on to facebook to find some guy writing all over her wall. I don’t care when she talks to other guys bc I talk to other girls. It’s just this guy was writing on her wall with no response. It was like he was trying to pursue her any way possible. She doesnt even know this random guy. Welll anyways i decided to send him an inbox. I threatened to kick his ass if i ever seen him around. I told my leo girl about this. Her response was shocking. She told me that she was embarrassed and that i was crazy for saying that stuff to the guy. After that she said she did not wanna talk anymore. We’ve known each other for over 2 years. She told me that she would always care for me and that she would miss me. We’ve gone through this before. In the past we would get in arguments then not talk for weeks or even months. She usually hits me up out of no where. Its crazy. I really care for this girl. I think I love her too. I’d rather wait for her to contact me. I don’t wanna make it seem like i’m all pressed over her. So i’ll just wait. I just have a feeling that we’re done. I miss her so much.
December 11th, 2010 at 9:19 pm
Iv’e been with my Aquarius for 14 years and 3 boys,there is that bond that you just have ,but also soooo oppersite you don’t get each other too.but also so similar.
He is the one person i trust 100% ..Romantically though i feel ,maybe not the best conbination ,you both want different things he is detached with the independence like no other ..luckily i have a moon in sadge and hes a true aquarius sun,moon,venus,mercury ..a real closed book ,but Leos do like the challenge ,which you will have,a truely fab sign Aquarius an you learn so much from them ..but if you are looking for a sign that will romance and send you sentiments all the time ..then you better walk..they start off lovey dovey but you get to know them an they really are detached ,an a non commital sign to questions ..they sit on the fence an dont get involved ..best way ..but fun and a sign you want to figure out ..then stick around for the ride ,but you need to put your needs first for you what your looking for …my boyfriends the best friend but soulmate ..Aquarius and Leo …hmm
December 13th, 2010 at 6:55 pm
Hi everyone, I am an leo man. I was with an Aquarius woman for one year and 4 months. Everything was going good up until people tried to break us up which eventually we did. She would have stimulating conversations with other guys about sex and show them to me and tell me that it was nothing. Whenever she got upset she would go out with a guy who she knew liked her just to spite me. She apologized but it never stopped. She kept on flirting with guys but she tells me that it means nothing and that she loves me and only me. She never called me to go out or hang out. Even when she has an off day she would just forget about me. She would never come to my concerts or to the events that I helped plan in the community. Last Christmas I found out that she was flirting with a guy on facebook talking about f@*cking and giving heads. She told me that it was just harmless flirting, yeah right like i’m so stupid. SO I ended the relationship because I don’t believe that is love. Now we argue all the time because I broke up with and she says that she was starting to fall completely in love with me when I broke up with her. I really did love her but who can actually stay in a relationship like that. The chemistry between was incredible but there was nothing else and I know as a leo we want all the attention and I tried not to be pushy. We would go a month without seeing each other and she lives 5 minutes away from my house. She would say that she was busy. This was 6 months ago. She told me that she wants us to be friends but we argue more than anything. She told me that she misses me but whenever we speak it’s like walking on thin ice. Oh, last week she told me that I was not allowed to pin but she is allowed to pin me, hahahahaha. It has been been 10 months since the break up and she said that….This week she saw me and talked to me as if nothing ever happened. I’m moving to another city and she knows that I’m leaving so only time will tell but I’m tired of it. Are all Aquarius women like this? or maybe I choose to worse one lol? Now she’s being all nice to me and stuff. In spite of everything we did love each other but things went wrong because of her parents didn’t want her to be with me and my parents didn’t me to be with her. Our friends weren’t to pleased with it either. Her friends would tell her bad things about me and my friends would tell me bad things about her. It was a constant battle between us and everyone else. We never got time to have fun as a couple who I believe truly loved each other. We were going to get married but the pressure was to much after a while. Our arguing was more about what we heard people say rather than what we actually did. That’s when the heavy flirting began. I told her that if I’m not allowed to pin her then what’s the point in being friends. Ever since I said that I’ve noticed that she is sending nicer messages but I don’t want to go back there wondering what if!! That’s my Leo-Aquarius story. Please give me your opinion, question and answers
January 1st, 2011 at 11:09 am
tess, fill us in , on exactly how the aquarius guy can be the perfect soulmate
January 21st, 2011 at 1:28 am
i am a leo woman and i have been with my boyfriend aquarius man for 1 year and 3 months he is really amazing and i know leos just love for the man to tell them how much he loves her n such and my boyfriend doesnt do that a lot and when i ask him about it he sais that’s why he shows me he loves me beacuase he knows he is not the type to talk about his feelings..but idk i wich he did tough? what do i do?
January 23rd, 2011 at 10:07 am
@Taina, I have learned to go with the flow with them. They DO NOT express their feelings much and you almost have to go about it in a round about way to get an answer. I have been with my aquarius male for almost 18months. He is so freakin’ sweet and supportive. But nope, he doesn’t say “I miss you” regularly. I just know when the weekend hits he is happy to see me so I go with that. With them, I sense that they wouldn’t be with you if they didn’t like you. My bf is really one for hanging around just to hang around. So you have to kinda adjust your confidence and strength and learn to see the positive even though it is not what we leo women are use to. Adoration and millions of compliments are not gonna come from an aquarius male BUT they WILL show you. Yes, they are frustrating but do not let that hinder your happiness try to enjoy him.
January 23rd, 2011 at 11:52 am
I meant to say that “My bf is really NOT one for hanging around just to hang around” I sense that. They really are independent people just like Leos are. I love reading all the relationship situations…they all sound so similar. Aquarius definitely are a challenge and intriguing to Leos…we are total opposites but then so much a like. I do have to watch my jealous tendencies. It’s not easy. I feel a bit possessive so I make sure to communicate my feelings. Hiding what we feel from an aquarian is no good…they are great listeners and very understanding. Say your peace always but move on. Don’t linger on an issue; talk it out and move on.
January 26th, 2011 at 4:34 pm
I had the pleasure of recently meeting a Leo woman! So far I’m the Aquarius, that is I am really enjoying myself! I’m happy as sh*t! She’s a little over the top but we have side bars and she says she’s cool and I keepo it moving! Sex is awesome! Air and Fire what do you expect! Yeah I’m a little moody but she keeps me smiling these days!
January 27th, 2011 at 3:00 am
I’m a Leo and I’ve been best friends with an aquarius for almost 3 years. He has always been there for me and we are so close as friends ( he’s my best friend). We have never really faught about anything. Me and him always talk about marraige And things later in life. We say we love eachother all the time. He would do anything for me as I would for him. I just haven’t dated him even though were always together. I love him more than anything else in this world, I just wish I could figure him out since he can be sort of confusing at times. We are very attracted to one another, he’s a very sweet sensitive guy underneath everything. I’m
just confused with everything what should I do? Should I just stay friends or try dating?
February 7th, 2011 at 10:54 pm
Hi so I’m not actually dating a leo, but we are flirting with eachother. And I must say that we are good for eachother. Me being an Aquarius makes me more aloof which is good because Leo is very outgoing and attention demanding. So because I don’t require much attention I give it all to him and he loves it, of course. I think Leos and Aquarians connect on a very good emotional level. And we share the same tastes like in music, movies, style, etc…
Opposites really do attract. I absolutely adore his outgoing nature, and he’s never not funny. He always keeps me on my toes and having a good time.
February 10th, 2011 at 10:18 pm
Hi everyone! I am a leo and have been with an Aquarius just about 2 yrs now. We finally decided to live together, but it’s very complicated. The no emotions, no attention giving, and the moderate slow days are frustrating to me, but he does make up for it when we’re in bed together. The sex is so great, very passionate! We do have our fun moments when we go out and he does hide his exciting side. I know I like to be his center of attention, but he loves the same attention in a big crowd so I let him have it. Aquarius men are not bad at all. Actually, he’s one of the best I’ve ever had and the things that I love most about him is the way he kisses me every morning before he leavs to work and when he comes home(EVERYDAY). Text’s or call to check up on me, opens the door for me, cooks for me(although, I would like variety)It’s still cute! It never fails, he always has something ready for me, like warming up the car and ready to tuck me into bed. Simple little things, but if he hardly shows emotions or rarely lovey dovey I just remember it all, because if he didn’t love me then that would not be on a continuous bases. To this day it still seems like when we first met with the fire burning, but more like flames. We are so much in love with each other now, we go crazy for each other. Like we can’t way so he comes home for lunch and a quickey will do the job until later that night. LOVE IS AWESOME!
February 17th, 2011 at 3:26 am
I am a Leo female and I love my Aquarius male. However, the feeling is heartbreaking. We’ve been friends for a while, but then overstepped the boundaries of our friendship and became closer. After this, all changed. He became much more distant, we barely talk, and he barely says hello, although we may have spent a previous night together - go figure. It hurts me because I truly believe in my heart that he is the one. For now, I give him space, wait for his initiative, and try to be simply friendly with him. Any of you Aquarius males, could you give me some advice?
February 18th, 2011 at 9:32 am
im a leo and an aquarius ruined my fucking life.
February 22nd, 2011 at 4:28 pm
Hi Im D a leo girl and i was a 3rd girlfriend of an aquarian boy who is 1 and a half year older than me. I was a first timer. our bestfriend introduced us to each other in 2007 and we dated until late 2008.
the chasing phase before he finally asked me to become his gf was totally about him chasing me. he was always the one who texted me first and it went well but before he asked me to be his gf, we got a problem of my jealousy disease (haha i do think its kinda a disease for leos), i saw her last ex talking about me but then we talked about it and he said “calm down, my heart is all your:D” and then after we officially dated sometimes after that. it took us 3 months from the first sight until we were finally official. on the first days, i just knew that before knowing and chasing me, he was having this unfinished small mutual crush with a girl in his class at that time (say her name is ally). and later this fact becomes a problem and the reason we broke up.
now for the bf gf phase we had (for circa a year and 2 months). It was from june 2007 until oct 2008. the relationship itself were actually fine, the communication and the funny stuff, the laughter, we are ok and if im allowed to say that we got enough connection or if i can be out of doubt, were actually pretty much very connected. the problems we had were around my jealousy disease or his lack of affection.
The problem was like when he attended his friend’s bday party, he picked up his friends which were actually all girls, without letting me know that he was doing it. (in some part my brain thought like “why didnt you tell me? whats with hiding it?” and in some part i think that he knows that telling it would just become negative arguments and leading to a fight).,
also when i saw his mobilephone and i saw he got a forwarded text about class stuff sent by Ally, and the texted a little while. the contents were actually nothing, only asking “r u coming? im a little bit lazy” and small jokes. it made me mad-__- i do think the reason i am always mad everytime he got close with other girls is bcos somebody else actually makes him happy but thats not me:/,
also in the early months of our official relationship, on the weekends we quite often got into a fight of me crying bcos hes not asking me to go out at all so we often didnt see each other for quite a long time (we lived in the same city, we went to different schools, our houses are 45 minutes apart, and we were still in the highschool, in 10th-11th grade to be exact), i do think our condition was not that hard, just to see each other for a while. we saw each other just like every 2/3weeks (but always everyday texting or calling).
but as time went by, ive learnt slowly that its not a big problem at all, just be thankful of our condition as long as we love each other and if can see each other, we will see each other.
so in the middle of 2008, the relationship becomes static. i consider this was caused by my busier schedule (he was in 11th grade and i was in 12th grade having to face final exams to go to uni), and the change–> 1.)since i was busier, it was harder for us to meet each other (we barely meet for 2 weeks-1 month or 3months the worst), the communication was less fun since i couldnt use my time to play around and the phonecalls were used usually only for telling my progress on exams and application for uni, or his kindness for asking his friends’ comments about uni i was applying to. 2.)i became less demanding, i thought that i was getting used to his pattern, in the last months, if we couldnt meet, than its ok.
also the second last date was not good, when i wanted him to come to my bestfriend’s danceshow before we went to our mutual friend’s bday party. he said ” why do u force me to go?” well i was like “shes my bestfriend, (and he knows her) and anyway youre gonna love the show, why shouldnt u come since were going to our friend’s bday party anyway afterwards??”, only that and we remained silence until the day went off. i dont know if this has negative effects on the relationship or not but the fact is that the last time we met before we got into this big fight was 2 weeks before that big fight.
the big fight was:
in a condition of not having a sleep for 3-4 days (cos of doing my uni freshman-homeworks), i checked his facebook page while i was doing one f my abundant homeworks at 4 in the morning, and i saw his friend tagged some pictures. i saw a pic of him with ally, and that upset me so much i texted him saying that i saw his pic and f*** you — this is crazy since ive never said these kinds of word and also effects of not getting proper sleep at all for days **it has a quite big effect on human’s mood**– *where that day was our 1yr2months anniversary.
he hasnt replied my second text saying happy anniversary, at around 10 am i checked again his fb and he has actually waken up. i texted him saying sorry for the bad word, and he only replied for the happy anniversary part. meanwhile, his not-so-close friends was commenting the pic, saying that they look good together, and stuff. i feel very disrespected. in the evening i called him and asking him to do something with that, and his answer was like “what should be done?”, and then we ended the call and he sent me a text saying ” i think we had enough” i called him and he was asking a breakup. stupidly, i said i dont want to break up. so after the call, at that night i commented that pic saying approximately pretty much like “ooh yeaaa they look great together!:)”, and the comment keep coming from them, the boys and the girls of their school that actually not that close to my bf. and then i went to sleep hoping the next day things will be back to normal.
in the morning i woke up and finding that he texted me saying “why did u comment on that pic? i was thinking of not breaking up and now u make me want to break up evenly” there it went worse and worse, he asked 3-4 times for a break up and i never agreed. for the last month he didnt speak to me at all tho i texted him everyday like usual talking about everyday stuff. sometimes askig for forgiveness, but no answer except on the feast day saying sorry too. and in the late oct (almost 1 month of ignorance) i texted him that we cant be like this we gotta finish this ( i meant the problem), he replied ok lets make it clear.. so the next day was our bestfriend bday party (the one who introduced us to each other), at her party, i didnt know he would come, he didnt even say hi to me, no talking. until i called his name and he was just like “yea.”. and he was leaving the venue when i realized and ran to him. asking for a makeup and he told me no and he wanted a breakup.. so i asked for a day out and he agreed, we breakup the next day.
it was so emotionally sad.. we went to a cafe nearby, i saw his phone and he texted his bestfriend “wish me luck im about to see her”.. we went home, praying together.. surfed and laughed on u tube video, it was a sweet day really if were not breaking up. and then when he said he wanted to go home, then there went the talks.. “r u sure you want a break up?” he said hes very sure. and then i hardly i said “ok then..” i cried, and asked for a hug. something to recognize here is that, he hugged me deeply. so tight, very tight you cant help but to think he loves me. im… confused,..??
a week went off without communication, then he texted me saying that he was in hospital of dengue fever and asking me to pray for him. i said get well soon and stuff. and i surprised him coming to see him in the hospital with our bestfriends.
those months i suffered of not communicate with him, filling it with prayers to God, hoping that he would seek me. everytime my phone rings I wish it was him, and gladly, Thank you God, like every 2 weeks he texted me. there was also these 3 months of no contacts at all. that was a big suffer! dang! until his graduation and my year graduation *my real classyear inhighschool, i was graduated earlier than them*, weeks we become close again. he said that he loves me but cannot back into the relationship with me. it was sweet tho, whats always been important for me is that he lets me know that he loves me. i asked him to drop me on my hischool prom but he refused, im upset, days after that day he went to his prom with ally and i was very upset. we argued, i said shes the one who makes us apart like this, why should u go with her, and he said with whom do u want me to go?, well at some part he made a good point bcos i do think if i were him my choices would fall for some close girls including ally. than were through with that problem bcos he said sorry and he agreed when i said you can go out with anyone else other than her bcos shes the one who made us apart.
days went.. he got accepted into uni he wanted, which is in a different city. eversince we talked almost everyday. we have through a lot eversince, at first hes the one who contacts me first, but as time goes, he never contacts me first bcos i tested for 5 days and no text (sorry2 i couldnt stand it:””p)
for that long time, Thank God i had the chance to always be there for him, for his worst and best moments.
for that long time also, I am always showing my affection to him, and he never shows to me, AT ALL! GOD! how can aquaries be so like that-____-???!?!?!
for that long time also, i survive his up and down mood towards me. i have faced all kinds of rejection and acceptance, actually to be true, (God knows his creatures best) but the least i can say, i know him, inside and out.
for that long time, we got a deal that we can go like this until he met somebody and i met somebody. i said ok (well what other option do i have, if i want him back??!?!) he said i need to open my heart for other men, i said ok im not closing any chance of meeting other people.
well after the break up, i have tried to get along with several other men, but no one really takes my heart. i tried i swear, i replied their texts, i accepted the dates they asked me to go. maybe about 8 or more i have tried but no one takes my heart. i do flirt also, just to help myself move on to another guy that works out good with me. well God knows but until now nobody really ends up with me, some left and some just, i just dont want to and cant, ah! whatever! the fact is now im still here after all the trials.
He is always there for me too when i came to him..
until in the middle of 2010, i told him on phone about my thoughts lately.
that i think if i want to get back, if we would get back,
he must date other girls first.. so that he understands kinds of girls, different types of personalities, thus appreciate our relationship, that i still believe is worth all we have through.
he took it and he said that should apply to me as well. i said yes im not saying that theres no chance of me finding somebody that just clicks with me so good, or what. im open to any possibilities, but i do have something for you that i cherish.
and i think that moment is another phase of our relationship. the relationship after the broke up is generally fine, but it stays like that, so if i want him to want me back, i dont have any choice but risking it all by seeing him trying with other girls, right?
so now, +/- 7 months after the talk, he met his ex’s bestfriend in a surprise party of his friend, shes a girl with a 6-7 year ex. we have met several times, i saw her as a good girl kind of girl. he asked for her contact number, and he contacted her, when i was not contacting him for 2 weeks (wow i must say im surprised i didnt run for him for that long) –i was the one who said maybe we need not to contact eachother for a while and he agreed. maybe bcos i am close to 1 of our bestfriends now, a boy– but when i saw this american idol video of chris medina *the one whose girlfriend got brain injury* iwanted to post it to his page, for 2 weeks i cant say i didnt have any thoughts of him, ofcourse i do-_- but i just had this feeling of lazy to check on him. maybe its just God’s plan, eh? so when i open his page, i saw these 2 fishy comments he got for this girl *lets say megan*, right at that moment i knew he’s about to get closer to her. so i texted him and he said “hehe its ok right? just friends” ANNNNNDDDDD from there goes my LEO JEALOUS DISEASE bang!
well i was really only want to talk to megan, just like letting her know officially with words said, that im his ex and weve been get along for a long time, and telling her i know that he’s chasing her right now.. EEEEKK STUPID. she said to me that she doesnt know and shes just having conversation with him. well i said ok thanks for the time for talking:)
and then this february, on his bday we had a call by skype at 11pm to 1 am. ive made him a present, ive sent him his childhood pictures he never saw that i got from his elementary friends, ive sent pics saying happy bday to him, the call conevrsation was fun like always, i get that he’s very grateful with my affection..
but then in the morning he puts a photoshop pc sent by megan, than i asked him who sent it? *it got intial M* he said M can be mom like, making fun of it hahaa my typical boy-_-, and i said i know its from megan and its your rights to put it on ur displaypicture, but then i also have my choice that will give better benefits to me. than he changed his pic.
that 2 days went ok, he thanked me for my present, can see that he was very touched..
than after that 2 days, when i chosed to agreed to him not to contact him after his bday week, it hasnt even been a day, he put a picture that background looks the same with megan’s. i said “woohooo ur dp” he said “why? hehe” “weee did u go on a date with megan?” he read it without replying it. so and again, my childish leo jealousness made me text megan saying “whoaa megan youre so chasing him:D!!!” she said “what do u mean? im tired of guessing” then i replied you said ure just friends with him, but youre so trying hard dude u gave him a picture u edited and u gave him green lights and all. she said”ur fault u told me that he is chasing me, anyway i gave d pic bcos i dont have any present for him” i replied “well who are u giving present? did u ever give him one u have the needs of giving one now??” than she said bad things to me, and right there ive just realized i did something wrong, i dont need to get myself dirty with people in her place. than i said “sorry for saying bad things before. now im just gonna tell you i can see your motives and i see what youve done and i understand, thankyou, have a nice day” and she replied “what motives? bla bla bla and other bad words calling me badnames so i replied “ok, thankyou :)”
and he got mad to me.. saying hes the one who told her to put it as her display pic, if i want to be mad, be mad at him not at her. it hurts me bcos hes defending her @_@ but then i understand in the big picture.
he said im not holding my words, i said to him to go date other girls but the i interfere him.
i said its ok if u try other girls, what other option do i have than seeing him with other girls first?? the reason im made bcos u lied to me about it, i dont get it why he doesnt care about my feelings.
he said “the only reason i dont want to let u know, reason why im hiding itt, so that your feeling is not hurt.. thats the only reason. understand?????!”
yeah. made a mistake:/…
February 22nd, 2011 at 5:07 pm
so…
first i apologize for the very long story hahahaa -____-
heres the thing, i take love by definition as understanding, caring, being side by side for better or worse, and loyality.
i love him, and i know he loves me too bcos just when the last fight, he said ” u know what?? ur precious to me really. but if ure still like this (overprotective and jealous) it becomes lessen and lessen”
hes always there for me, to tell the truth im also always there for him (and thank God he lets me and the moments are right). from all our history, the pattern is always about me and him coming back to each other at his/my worst times and at our best times
we have a lot of fun together also. theres no need to explain further, if we talk about things other than our relationship, its fun.
it applies to me about this leo ego that causing some of us to be so controlling,
also that im not turning down my pride for anyone, except the one i love and care,
its also applies to my ex *A* that he doesnt show his love by saying in but rather in action and keeping it *Gooooodd why dont u just let me know from the first time so i can be secure????Hhahahahaa* like any other aquarian
its also applies to him that he loves to be free.
Im the good and pious girl type that believes God can make everything possible, but i see that the reality of everyday life, every human character, goes just like their zodiac’s personality. so i took zodiac as a way to understand people including the one i love.
well im only telling you the hard part the needs to be solved,
so much i love about him, that in the big picture, i feel very homey with him, the feelings are mutual *even it needs a year between the word meaning “i love you” with another word meaning the same hahaha*, the sparks are, thank God *its by his hand*, always there.
the sexual connection is so bonding.
the biggest picture i can see that were actually love each other that much, but he (as he has strong aquarius aura) demands freedom, while I (as i see my attitude is so leo like) demand affection.
his family is very kind to me, and my family sees him as a person who took me for granted, but if he shows that he loves me, they are fine with him.
our fathers went to the same highschool and college, our mothers went to the same highschool. our parents work in the same field. our parents have the same bestfriends. we have this clique of 8 bestfriends, so were actually connected in everyday general and serious conversation also. I love him because i love my God, maintain good commitment as much as enjoying and being grateful about what is in front of our eyes. i feel that were so meant to be yet i know nobody knows what God has planned for us.
i actually can stand the rare i-love-you stuff thingie as long as i can see that he loves me and i have faith/trust him, since i dont like too much rag bullshits with whole different actions.
he asked me to let it flows as it is and be ok if he goes nowhere to me. i agreed, i said that i will let him be wherever he wants. i told him but i have choice and i choose to love you and trust and have faith in you still.
thats all until today, well i know i let him down with my massive protection, and broke his heart with my pychotic actions. but i understand myself, ive been with him since i was just a naive girl until i become what i am today. he’s my first boyfriend, ive learnt a lot from him and what i have through is humane and normal because thats my first time. im willing to be a better person for myself and for him to feel more secure with me:). and im like his product; if he wants to appreciate himself, he can see me, examining how good he is as a boyfriend leading his girl:):).
after all nobody owns anybody, and im willing to get hurt again and again and get up again with positivity and trust:) after all were just humans right? human does sins, what they do is to learn from it and get up again to do better.
i will join this forum to take and share knowledge to be better for our partners:)
please wish me luck, i need my sanity for at least face it a pretty long time until hes back again, i can do it! :):):) meanwhile i will enjoy and optimize the time and trust he gives me, and enjoy learning many kinds of people:) in the name of God!
February 23rd, 2011 at 9:35 pm
Hi D, I do think step u are taking is right… Be patient, Aquarius needs time to detach first until finally he realizes that ur fun personality is unforgettable and makes him return again. Well, if it’s meant to be, it’s meant to be. I think it’s best for u to waste ur time being busy on ur everyday tasks for now;) best of British!!!!!
February 26th, 2011 at 5:49 am
I’m a Leo woman and have known my Aquarius man for 15 years. He always chased me but I denied him because i thought we wouldn’t be good together, but last year that changed and now I am confused by his behavior. Sometimes he is really affectionate, caring, and there for me…but then he becomes aloof, doesn’t call me and lies for no apparent reason. The main reason he gets caught in his lies is because he is my bestfriend’s brothers bestfriend so naturally, when the siblings talk about our relationship my bestfriend tells me what really hppened. I try no to be the bossy, possessive Leo, but I don’t understand why he feels he needs to lie about going out. Especially since he knows that i am more than aware of his (party) schedule and that I don’t care that he is going out to hang with the boys. I’m not sure how he really feels about me because he says he cares, takes me out occationally and even wanted to meet my parents. I told him that I didn’t want him to meet my parents unless we were seriously moving forward and he was fine with that for about a week. Then, when I was visiting them, he just popped up and claimed he wanted to give me something (a CD??? come on). So it was like he forced himself on my family without discussing our future. We talk and see each other about four times a week (for about a year now) but when I try to have “the talk” he literally shuts down. I am not trying to force the conversation, but I need to know how he feels because I am going crazy. we have great chemistry I just don’t know if we have a future together because he never wants to talk about it…I’m scared he’s gonna break my heart.
Sometimes he makes sure that I understand that he cares about what other people think (his friends) because all his friends think I am high maintenance. And yes, I am , but does that mean he has to act so…..uncaring??? When we argue, I have to remind him that I know him better than himself so he doesn’t have to act like a jerk. He knows me too and I feel like he uses my love against me to hurt me deliberately by lying. AAaahhh!
I’m working on being patient and understanding and not nagging….any advice would be helpful. Thanks
February 26th, 2011 at 10:00 am
hi leo soulchild! i can see what you are facing is just the same with mine:)!
i do think objectively since i am not the one who is in the relationship that what you are doing now (patient and understanding and lessen your ego of demanding and all) is so far great..
be thankful for your relationship the way it is, im sure he loves you just as much as you do to him, you just need to follow his game, and and if he follows back yours just be thankful and nothing else added (dont start the nagging again just bcos you got what u want, bcs thats more than enough c;)
its about mental game i do believe, how strong you are to stay believe that u both love each other, while he is out meeting other girls just to broaden his mind and flirt a lil bit! that wont hurt i believe if we, leo girls, have understood its just the way our aquarian men deal with life:)
i hope this might give u more selfesteem and support u need:)
March 22nd, 2011 at 7:53 pm
wont anyone write anything?
March 23rd, 2011 at 5:16 am
I am a Leo woman and I once dated an Aquarius man for about 2 yrs. Honestly, even though this says it’s a compatible relationship, I have never gotton along well with Aquariuses that I know, and my ex was the same. We ended up hating each other. He never wanted to give me attention and I never wanted to do the things he wanted to do. For example, I wanted to go to dates, he wanted to go to frat parties. Not my idea of fun.
Sure, some of it was exciting, but mostly he just seemed like a frustrating jerk.
March 29th, 2011 at 5:39 am
My fiance is Leo and I am an Aquarius, we have been together for five year, yes there’s time we had fight over little things , maybe after few hours we are okay. It seems like I am the one that always creating the problem in our relationship, I always have bad thoughts about him,orI always assumed something. We both trust each other and we love each other. I know my leo man is a very honest person but there is this time that I would think something negative, like he’s cheating on me, or he is not telling me the truth. But other than that we both love each other very much, we alklways do things together.
April 12th, 2011 at 11:53 pm
I’m an Aquarius guy.
I’m sixteen, and I’ve been friends, I think best friends, with this Leo girl since I was…14? Ever since she moved to my school.
I’ve also been in love with her for at least half of that friendship.
I don’t know what to do. She doesn’t date, AT ALL, and she’s not the typical Leo, even though her Leo side does shine sometimes. She doesn’t really talk to most people, and it took me a long time to get her to open up to me. I can go up to pretty much anyone and strike up a conversation, but she’s so tough, and distant, but somehow I know she’s the one. I know I’m still young, but I know what I’m talking about. I thought I got over her 6 months ago, but after a few weeks I found out I still loved her. She also obsesses over this celebrity, and it hurts me every time she talks about him, which is pretty much most of the time. I don’t want to say anything though, because I know she doesn’t have the same feelings for me and I don’t want to get rid of the only contact we have.
If anyone has some advice, please help a guy out.
April 22nd, 2011 at 5:19 am
Dear Kenners,
The term opposites attract doesnt go one way! she must have the same feeling, well, at least she likes you too… its law of nature. it goes both directions, right??
April 30th, 2011 at 11:41 am
@D.A: you’re really crazy. I think your Aqua ex must feel really stuck when he’s with you and still now. Your words really mean nothing at all. You said that it’s ok for him to date someone then turned around texting his friend!? You’re just an ex. You’ve no right to say whether he can dates or not in the 1st place. Hence what you said to him was just something very childish. I doubt he would think you’re nice person if that was what you wanted him to think of you.He probably laughed behind your back and thought ‘how crazy! She thinks she still has the right to give me some kinds of permission’. Even worse, you went as far as telling his friend that you’re his ex. Gosh! Are you alright? The girl doesn’t know you and there is no need to know you. Remember, you’re an EX. You’re lucky that she didn’t have some restraining order on you because you keep stalking her and torturing this poor girl with your vague threats. You’re right that she didn’t have to stoop to your place though. All I can see you’ve been doing for years is trying to keep your control over this weak and indecisive guy( yeah, that was why you succeeded) by stalking him and threatening every girls he might have a chance to build a much more healthy relationship. By the way, it’s laughable that you expect your EX to inform every of his intimate relationship and private matters to you. What, mum? His mum might not even ask who he’s dating right now, who are you to call him a liar? Not telling you doesn’t mean he’s a liar, it just that you already lost the right to ask a long time ago. Wake up and realise what a psycho you’ve become over the years with this obsession you call love.
May 21st, 2011 at 8:46 pm
@ken: thanks ken for your feedback, it means a lot for me to think for the best of both:)
May 27th, 2011 at 6:04 am
DA,thanks for the advise.
I’m still with my Aquaman and still unsure of our future. We discussed being together “officially” and decided to continue to take it slow so our lable is committed to each other but not girlfriend/boyfriend. But I don’t want that because we have known each other for so long-15 years- Iam ready to settle down and start a family with him. I want to lay it all on the table and give him an ultimatium because I feel like he is stringing me along until he finds something better, which of course, he won’t. He told me that I might meet another guy that I want to be with, even after I told him that I only want him.
I just don’t know what to do anymore especially now that I might be having his baby. That makes matters worse. I am tired of the games and if we start a family, I’m even more afraid that he will continue to care about what other people think and we are both too old for that. I am 30 and he is 35. I think its time to give up the party life and be a mature man.
At a crossroads…. If I am expecting I need him, if I’m not, I still want him.Geez, I am totally confused. He’s changed because he knows that I love him. What’s a Leo Soulchild to do???
June 2nd, 2011 at 3:24 pm
I have been married to my aquarius husband for 12 years. I am a proper proud leo and in the beginning of our relationship I alwyas thought our differences strenghten our relationship. For years I was convinced that Leos and Aquarius were the best match, challenging, but worth having. In the past 2 years our differences started to be highlighted too often and our marriage started to cumble down before our eyes. As a leo, I have alwyas been extremelly confident and enjoy being in control, after many years being in this relationship with my Aquarius husband I have lost my conficence and feel that there is no room for me to havethings my way - which over the years can be quite frustrating for a leo. I fo love aquarius they are great fun and higly inteligent/intelectual/concerned people. I think the leo’s more relaxed approach to life frustrates the aquarius and turn them into incredible nagging/moaning machines! This is what happened to me! I have left my home recently and I am now leaving in a flat own my own as we are going through a trial separation. In the mean time I have been presented with a Capricorn man in my life, which is much lighter approach to life and more fun to be around. I would appreciate if anyone could give me some advice between aquarius and capricorn as a macth for lioness? Thanks!!!
June 12th, 2011 at 4:03 pm
i am a leo women in love with a Aquarius man. things was wonderful at first until one day i cheat on him by going back to my ex for 2 months and had a sexual intercourse once. but after that i realised i made a mistake and wanted to be along. my aquarius man came and told me he forgive me and told will except me without bringing the pat. we was happy together for 2 and a half years together. but recently he told me he wants to be single for SOMETIME. i dont know the reason why because when i asked him , he himself telling he dont know why just that he needs time to be alone. if i ask him isit he dont love me. he’ll say he never say so. i asked isit because he had some other relationship or had sex with other women or fall to another women .he told non of it. it had been 2 months since we are apart but he wil always text me to know how i am and tells me he misses me. i am so confused of what is he really feeling. does he still loves me or still thinking bout the past by not trusting me at all?
August 28th, 2011 at 4:06 am
For the first time this Leo does not know what to do– I have fallen head over heels for my Aquarius best friend. I try to make sense of it, but I can’t. We’ve never kissed or anything. I want to be with him so very bad I can feel it deep in my heart. We have been best friends for 10 years, since high school! I loved him the minute I saw him. But he has no idea because I hide it from him. At first I hid it from him because I was afraid and didn’t feel good enough for him. I always looked up to him for being so intelligent and wise. He doesn’t know that either lol. My problem with telling him how I feel now is that he still isn’t over his Aries ex, who has spent the past 5 years playing games with him. I think she reads astrology because the bitch knows exactly what to do to get him to think about her. She plays all kind of hard-to-get games and I just watch my Aquarius fall into her trap. She uses their past to her advantage. She also has a boyfriend but still keeps my best friend dangling. She uses sex and all that stuff manipulative girls do. From the beginning, he was always too good for her but he just can’t see it. In the meantime, our distance (I’m in college) keeps us apart and I just play the friend role. If I coudl be next to him right now, I would show him my love in the most special way. I think about him every day and I pray about him. He amazes me. I wouldn’t change a thing about him, forget about astrology, I love his soul and I want him to be mine. My heart belongs to him and I don’t know how the heck to make him see this? Please give me suggestions, I would really appreciate it guys.
September 13th, 2011 at 6:48 am
Im a leo famale and my partner is Aquarian. We have been together for a year and a half & I can honestly say I have found my true soul mate. He’s four years younger then me but age clearly has no bearing because he is a lot more mature then the older guys Ive dated previously.
I think the birth dates have a fair bit to do with how you connect also. For myself I feel I get along with Aquarians born from the 8th of Feb onwards more so then the ones prior to that. They say opposites attract and we certainly have fantastic chemistry. We constantly adore eachother & me being the leo I can at times be a little bossy (without even relaizing it) however he is very easy going so it doesnt affect him all that much. However I am working on this though because no one deserves to be bossed about. We both have strong personalities. Our good points def outweigh the bad so for us this is something we just work on - no relationship is perfect.
We are highly attracted to one another, and in the bedroom there’s explosions. There’s so much intimacy its rediciously good. I havent had this with anyone else & he is in agreeance.
We dont like to control one another and we all know that aquarians dont like to be controlled but we care so much for eachother its mutual respect to let each other know what were doing and if one of us dont like it we dont puruse it.
All in all I cannot fault a Leo and Aquarian partnership - I have to say I was very scepticle at 1st because of the negitive feedback aquarians receive on internet sites etc. I dont think pple should really base there relationships on star signs- have an open mind & you wont be let down.
October 19th, 2011 at 11:39 am
I am a leo woman and I dated an Aquarius guy for almost 5 years. He broke up with me in August.He broke up with me because he said I was too stubborn, never listened to him, controlling, had too much pride which also wouldn’t allow me to apologize for anything. I found that he wasn’t as easy to get a long with as well. Our first 3 years were wonderful but as time passed we were barely hanging to the relationship. We both shared similar interest (not a lot) but we both learned many values from each other. He said he doesn’t love me anymore but cares a lot for me and wanted to remain friends which is hard for me. At times all I asked from him was a simply hug and a kiss but that was too hard for him to do. He barely showed affection physically but he showed that he loved me in other ways. At times he said I over think things but I also felt like he was not interested in me since he barely expressed his feelings which drove me insane at times. At times I also did felt selfish and thought only of me which is something he disliked about me. I felt like he was also afraid of commitment. He claimed that I was cold times and never wanted to admit when I was wrong, but I have an aggressive personality. We continue to talk on and off but since I am still emotionally attached I find it hard for me to let go. I also feel that certain things he does he is also attached but keeps that to himself.
I keep hoping that maybe one day we will get back together. Should I keep that hope? He has been known to be cold, but for some reason, I bring out the affection in him but he doesn’t realize it and he brings out the kindness in me. We are so alike, yet so different, and I feel like we can work but both seem to crash a lot at times as well.
After the break up he said I will always be apart of him, have a place in his heart,and apart of his life. He also said he would never forget me and all he wants is space. He said we just need time and patience and maybe life one day would have us back together. Sometimes his actions make me confused about how he feels about me. I found that he often needed space which drove my crazy. After he broke up with me I told him I don’t know if I can remain friends with you and see you date someone else. He got mad at me and said I never said I hated you which I never said he hated me. For some reason he wants to remain friends. After we broke up he said he needed space but then he was calling me a lot and asked me to go with him places. He claims he doesn’t love me anymore but cares for me a lot and that fustrates me since I want to be with him. I also feel like he doesn’t know what he wants in life at times is afraid to be spontaneous. He said he needs to make his mistake to see if he made the right choice by letting me go.
For Some reason have this love and attraction for him that is un-explanable. I try to stay friends with him but I find it easier for him to detach himself from me then it is for me to detach myself from him. Right when I think I am okay being friends with him and try to think I can be strong about it I break down 3 days later crying over it. What should I do? Lose complete contact with him?
December 2nd, 2011 at 9:12 am
I dont know what to do,, ive dated the same leo 5 years ago..and he left me hanging.. I was told he cheated on me. Then he disappeared from my life for a full year…and suddenly came back into my life…and kept asking me for a second chance…for all these 4 years… And finally i gave in…and we started dating… I was his first gf…and his only so far because hes never dated anyone else but me… Even some of is friends thought he was literally turning gay….because he wasnt interested in any girls…
Everything was sweet…going great…till recently… and he wants to break up with me…apparently because im immature… Which i really dont understand how…or why…
I really really…really…love him..
Ive never loved someone so much… So i really dont want to let him just go…
Ever since i started dating him again…i realized that… Deep inside i was just waiting for him to come back to me…and ive only loved him….even though…Ive dated 7 other guys before dating him again…
He cried in front of me twice… Because of me…
First was… Because we started going fast… And i suddenly realized that…if we go so fast… Ill lose him real quick… So i stared crying…on the bed before anything else happened.. And at that moment he understood what was going on in my head.. And we talked about it…and our conclusion came to… Him giving me 2 choices to pick from. One, just go with the flow… Two, step out before its too late and feelings get too deep….. I couldnt say anything… I was crying. He started tearing up..and said that no matter what i chose now…wont matter because hes not going to let me go a second time…and then we just sat there and cried together…
The second time… Was because if his mom…. I have no idea why.. But she doesnt like me..even thought she only saw me from afar….and nodded at her…..but that was it.. Anyways. So that night.. He came over to say that he wanted to break up…and wouldnt tell me the reason why… Until the last few mins of our conversation which was like 2 hours…. He finally spilled out ..and teared up saying that his mom didnt like me and wanted us to break up….
And the in the end he said sorry..and wont do that again.. And we were fine..
Then a couple of month later… School started.. And it was stressful and busy….then we fell apart… He wouldnt talk to me.. Wouldnt reply me..wouldnt pick up my calls… Then i went to talk to his friend… And he was like..he said that you two were different…and have very different personalities…
I havent seen my leo for 2 months now…iuno what to do,
Ive been going crazy… Kicking, punching, screaming, throwing things around…and randomly break down and cry… Ive never been like this before… And even my mom said that i was turning into a different person….going insane…and losing control.
Hes making me go crazy… I dont know what to do.
My friend talked to him..and asked if he was trying to break up with me …and his answer was .. I was too immature and that he cant cope with me in a relationship. And said it was his fault….because he didnt teach me well enough or something…and was also like…hes been too busy to deal with it..and it was his fault for dragging it..and will find a day to end things with me…
Im still stressing for university… Till the 16th.. So i told him lets find a day after this semester to hang out and just talk about it… And he said okay..
So now im worrying bout what to do or say..to him when that day does come..
I even knitted a scarf for him too…it was for an anniversary present. But he never came out to see me.. So i never got a chance to give it to him…
I really cant lose him… Because hes the only person that interests me…literally..and the only person i love…
Im saying this because.. During the 2 months i havent seen him… I tried to like someone else… Even kinda over stepped the boarder line just to see if i could fall for another guy…that was literally better than him… But i couldnt get myself to like that other guy… Hes cuter smarter…richer…nicer…sweeter…more mature too… But in the end i kept crying because i learnt that the leo…was the only one i loved.
I cant lose him..
Im so confused… And lost.. The only thing i know…is i love him and i dont want him to go..
Advice?? Help?? It would be greatly appreciated ..
December 12th, 2011 at 3:56 am
Im a leo woman too…its amazing how true things can be, am dating an Aquarious…yeah aquarians are pretty frustrating, mine likes to be the boss, but he cares for me a lot.He is cuddling with me most of the time but yeah sometimes is like he wants his own space, and i understand it too cuzz same happens with me, what really get in my nerves when he doesnt open up with his feeling but he does it, i just have to find the right time
we have been together for year an 6 months and am afraid because i think he wantss to propose, not sure bout it but i heard bout he buying a ring….so now tht i look at Leo-Aquarious Chemistry i dont know if i should take risk. Help Me Plzzz
btw my name is marie
December 19th, 2011 at 9:19 am
I’m a Leo guy, and I don’t think it’s a coincidence that the last 3 girls I’ve dated were Aquarius and I could get their number in about 2-3 minutes of talking to them - complete strangers. Same for this girl I’m totally in love with now, but she likes someone else recently, so I’ve been drinking pretty out of control. This one’s really hot. Why do Aquarius girls drive me crazy?
December 23rd, 2011 at 7:55 pm
well iam aquarious iranian woman and is recently acquinted with a leo american man and he is repeatedly ask me to get marry but i am not sure if it does work , plz is anyone there to help me??? thanks so much
January 18th, 2012 at 12:20 am
I am an Aquarian and I had a relationship with a Leo female. I will say before it even became a “relationship” I knew something was there. (Mind you I have never been attracted or had interest in women. This has brought me to believe in past lives and also how we were different genders.) Everything happened so quick but was fascinating! We met “coincidently” and ever since we met things brought us closer and closer and closer until we fell in love. The funny thing is we were never intimate (sexually). We slept together, cuddled hugged, did all the simple things that bonded us and made me crazy about her. Unfortunately there were immaturity issues amongst so much other things and we stopped talking. Somtimes it makes me wish I never met her, because to have experienced something as such is not only unique and rare but it is amazing in a way that you want to have it forever being that you know what it is and how it feels. Ugh!!! This thing called Love hurts, especially when you Love someone that isn’t mature or just all over the place undecided
February 21st, 2012 at 9:31 pm
Hey there, so strange seeing all these coments because it feels too close to home… I met a leo guy and I can honestly say I have never fetlt this way. For me it was easily love at first sight the attraction was intense and I am not the type f person to let mY guard down but I did…in the beginning he was so attentive, I went away on holiday for a week and the attention has slowly decresed I told him but he said it hasnt byt I know in my heart something is not right. Sincr he lost his brother it has been even worse which is understable but he has shut me out completely. I have since removed all messages and his numbers from my phone but I sm deeply saddened at the way he has treated me. Wondering if it is over for good x
April 12th, 2012 at 4:14 pm
I am an Aquarius dating a Leo. The first Leo I have ever dated! OMG, he is AMAZING. He is very similar to me and yet different. I love the Lion in him and he is beyond passionate. I’m not a very touchy person but I want him all the time. I have been dating him a couple months and I just can’t seem to get enough of him. We have our differences but we work through it. He is everything I want in a man and he requires of me what I try to avoid but he does it gently and passionately.