Aquarius Compatibility With Leo |
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Aquarius and Leo
This combination could be fun. Both of these characters like to go out and explore the world, the Leo is perhaps the more outgoing and sociable in some way’s, but the Aquarius knows how to enjoy him/her self also. Sometimes the Leo can get a little over the top when it comes to showing off and performing for people, which can get on the nerves of the Aquarius who has a far more subtle approach to things. The Leo will expect applause and encouragement from his/her partner all the time which may seem fun at first but the Aquarius partner soon tires of this.
Leo’s also need a lot of security and love. The Aquarius can of-course, give these things to the person they love, but as I have mentioned before they have their own unique way’s of showing it. Leo is a far more physical being than the air sign, and being a fire sign, wants a lot of physical lusty passion. A lot of the Aquarius’s sexuality is in fantasy and experimentation, so they may clash, but I think they could both benefit from the other’s differences in this instance and will probably spend some enjoyable hour’s in bed with one another.
The problem is that both of these two people want to lead, to be the boss. And in any relationship their is only room for one, if any. Neither of these two fancy laying down and playing the submissive game either and although at first their excitement in one another seem’s endless,sadly it does dissipate over time. Leo’s are very into themselves, and the Aquarius isn’t the type of person to constantly give out adoration. Aquarius wants to get out into the world, Aquarius cares. Leo does two, but does tend to put him/herself first.
Basically, these two can have a wonderful time together, they love life and will enjoy lots of different pursuits with one another. I won’t say stay away from this match, but perhaps take it slowly and living together would be the worst idea possible.
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i love my leo man…i’m an aquarius. yes, we never had a dull moment: we fight, we argue a lot, we share jokes, watch movie together, tickle each other etc…neither one of us gives up each other. WE JUST SIMPLY FIND EACH OTHER ADDICTIVE.
WE LOVE EACH OTHER SO MUCH…
I’ve just started going out with an Aquarian guy and already I’m feeling pretty frustrated. We were really into each other at the start, and he was quite enthusiastic but now he just seems cold and distant and I’m finding it very difficult to connect with him at all. I want things to work, I want to like him and get close to him but I’m not going to chase him … Leos do NOT do the chasing … all his mixed messages really are bruising my Leo ego and I’m not willing to take it, especially since I don’t know him so well.
I just have a bad feeling about it … I should probably stick to Geminis and Arians. Aquarians are just moody and annoying.
I’m an Aquarius, my boyfriend is a Leo. We get along most of the time, but what relationship doesn’t have occasional fights?
And I guess the thing is Opposites really do attract.
But seeing as we are both big personalities it will be hard, but we have so much fun doing anything and love being around each other.
Being able to work on our relationship will make it extra special if we both put in the effort. And their won’t be a moment that we won’t have fun doing it.
If you truly love each other it shouldn’t matter what star sign you are.
I don’t really understand what you mean by not being the type to give out adoration. I am a caring person, and I actually believe I give out too much.
I love him, he loves me. That’s all you need to remember to make it work and be happy. (:
Hi Ashlea,
Love is of course a great place to start. I am of the very firm belief that any combination can work well ..it is just that some astrological combinations have a smoother ride than the rest that is all. All I am trying to do here is to give some advice to people who may be not having that great a time of it with some signs, knowing where the problems come from always helps and it can make relationships last longer if the people involved can find some understanding of how each other work…a bit like having inside information I guess.
Good luck with your Leo
Love & Light
Becky
Hi all,
I am an Aquarius and I have been dating a Leo for a couple months. I think he is WONDERFUL! Most of the love forecasts predict that this combo will start with a bang and eventually fizzle out. They also say that sexual chemistry does not exist, let me be the first to say, such is not the case.
They give Aquarians a bad rap, saying we are emotionally aloof and incapable of giving the Leo the attention/love they need. I really appreciate my Leo’s affectionate disposition. I am actually trying to play it safe for fear of moving too fast too soon. I kind of want to feel it out to see where he is coming from since it is so early in our courtship. So far so good, and I’m very excited for the possibility of a future with him. I welcome any feedback/advice from any Aquarius/Leo duos.
Hi! I’m not either one of these lovely signs but thought i’d comment lol.
I really like this Aqua guy but he’s currently seeing a Leo (only recently)…
Basically i don’t know what to do ’cause i’m in a relationship too with a LEO!
Help ..lolx
Hi all. I’m an aquarius girl and I’ve just started dating a leo guy since the sunday of labor day weekend. I think he is a fabulous creature. He’s very much a gentleman…the type that holds my hand when crossing the street and refuses to light my cigarettes which is both lovely and frustrating at the same time. Since labor day, we have seen eachother about 2-3 times a week and everyday, he’ll text me with a “hi how is you day going?” He is very optomistic like me and we discuss everything from what we find great about everyone to how much we hate camping. We have only made out at the end of our dates but even that is pretty steamy…..I’m hoping to have more and more with him as we get to know eachother better!
p.s. i meant he refuses to let me light my own cigarettes! lol
I’m a Leo (female) and I had an encounter with an Aquarius (male) — it wasn’t very good. We did not date or enter a relationship, but he was certainly attracted me for a while and tried to pursue that. Although we were friends, we were not close or personal, because I found that our personalities were too different — even if we did share common interests. I don’t think the Leo/Aquarius pairing works very well because the Aquarius is too controlling, whereas Leo’s need space and independence. Aquarius’s are also much too sarcastic and cold for Leo as well, I think.
This just isn’t a good pair, just from my experience. I found that as a Leo, if you want to go with someone “opposite”, go with a Cancer. Cancer males compliment Leo’s wonderfully!
They say Opposites Attract. That’s true in my case. It seems like every guy I become interested in is a Leo. The current one, Aug 13, 1981, whom I met about 2 years ago has really got me open. This summer, we decided to be intimate and I want him around all the time. I’m starting to feel needy (which I never am) and that’s bothering me. he said he likes me too, I hope he’s sure of how he feels. I’ve read often times Leo/Aquarian relationships don’t last, and I know I shouldn’t let what’s “in the stars” affect my decision to pursue something serious with him. So, I’m going to ask him to be man. Wish me luck : )
I amA female Leoand have been in a relationship with a male aquarius for about nine months. He is the best thing thats ever happened to me. He is such a kind soul underneath all his talk. And he will do everything for me. I dont take advantage of that but its nice to have that. Only down side is he never speaks about his feeling. I just guess that he loves me cause of the way he treats me and how good we get along. Our chemistry is also amazing. i dont like guessing about how he feels but i know he cares about me and hopefully soon he might open up! And i dont like to ask as he is not big on talking about feelings and i can tell it freaks him out!
I am an aquarius and my boyfriend is a leo.My leo is all that his description implies. However, at the time of our meeting he had been severely damaged by promiscuous women from his past. So now, not only does he have all the qualities that comes with being a leo, he is a very untrusting one. Try dealing with a Leo who just got his ego back in line and added some extra strokes just for good measure. It’s like this unseen veil in front of us that is slowly but surely being lifted the more time we spend together. What I’m afraid of is my aquarian nature to: not feel the need to explain my every step; damaging that trust he’s slowly building for me. I’m very close-mouthed about several things, including my feelings. If I make a decision to express something, I have to get my thoughts together and then finalize what I’m going to say before I actually open up the discussion…(guess that’s what you’re talking about Leah) He takes this as me hiding how I feel, but it’s not like that at all. How can I tell someone how I feel about something when I don’t even know how I feel about it? Sorry for blabbering, just excited that there’s a website for this kind of discussion!
I am a Leo woman, dating an Aquarius man. For the second time. The first was rocky at times, but I was his longest relationship ever, and he was the one I got closest to. Neither of us are our stereotypical star signs, though we are similar to them. I do not like attention, and tend to shut down when thrown into the spot light. I can be extremely sarcastic and cold at times, but I have an aggressive personality. He can be sarcastic and cold as well, and that split us apart at first. After we broke up, the following friendship was rocky, and only got worse as he started dating again. But they broke up, and things evened out as time went on. We continued to talk off and on, usually in the early hours of the morning about deep and personal things, and one day, we realized we never really got over the other. So, we decided to test it out. And now, we’re crazy about each other. He has been known to be cold, but for some reason, I bring out the affection in him, and he’s comfortable with me. And he brings out the gentleness, and kindness in me. We are so alike, yet so different, and that really works for us.
Best wishes to all you other Aquarius-loving Leo women!
My boyfriend is Aquarian and Im Leo. We have been together for 2 1/2 years and have a long distance relationship. I think about him a lot but sometimes I find him moody and cold and sarcastic. He wanted us to live together but Im not sure if I am doing the right thing giving up my job and moving to a different state. Being a Leo, I am a natural outgoing, friendly and affectionate person. Its hard to be in relationship with him, I let him be the boss but I often wonder if its fair that he is always the boss. It is also hard because he doesnt talk much about his feelings. Being with an aquarius is not easy at all but I love him so, I dont know what to do. Any advice?
Sarah,
My first question for you is: Is he comfortable enough to express his true feelings at all to you? I have found that when an Aquarius guy feels like something is striking too close to home, he becomes cold and distant. Sarcasm usually comes natural for them. His feelings are in jeopardy of becoming known, and he doesn’t like that. Whether they are feelings of love, or dislike, I do not know. But you can guarantee he’s holding something back. Try talking to him, with out seeming like you’re trying to pry. Start up a conversation. Ask him what’s up. What’s on his mind. But come at it from a logical approach. Most Aquarians love logic. If he doesn’t want to talk, don’t force it. Wait, and then try a different approach later. It is hard to do all this from a distance but, show him that you are a person with needs, too. If he truly cares about you, he’ll respect you for standing up for yourself. If not, than he doesn’t deserve you, love. Try not to let that Leo temper and pride get in your way. Relationships aren’t about who’s always on top. It’s about sharing the power, being equals, and being one. If it turns into an argument, stay calm. Take a step back for a moment and breathe. And if applicable, tell him it would be better for the both you to cool your heels and talk about it later. He’ll thank you for that later, if he doesn’t suggest doing that first.
Hope this helps, love.
Feel free to email me, if you have further questions:
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I am a Leo woman who has had a close friendship with an Aquarius male for about four years. When we first met I was seeing someone else, but he still pursued me and the friendship eventually turned intimate. However, I was conflicted between the two men and decided to stay with my original boyfriend, a Virgo. We didn’t talk for two years because we are both very stubborn, my pride wouldn’t let me apologize. But, when I broke up with my Virgo out of a need for more independence and the need for control over my life, I contacted him and since then we have been in a similar cycle. I have learned to never push anything and never to make him feel contained or pressured. I also have noticed that when I don’t call or text him for a couple days, he always checks in. While it is frustrating, there is something about him that lights a fire in me and keeps me coming back.It’s not the type of relationship that flows easy, it is forced at times, but the unknown is what attracts me, I guess after spending four years with a predictable virgo I was craving spontaneity. I’m not sure where this will go but I do know that no matter what there will always be a bond.
Hi there..I just want to thank you for your advice. I am really happy reading because what you said is all true. Is he comfortable talking about his feelings? Sigh..I always have problems about him not talking to me about his feelings. We just recently had a fight and he seemed more distant now, I have to keep reminding myself that he is aquarius. He doesnt call or text me much and that hurts my feelings because we are far away from each other. When Im with him, he doesnt talk much either but i know he loves me. Im afraid that we will drift apart because theres not much communication and trust.
thanks so much for your advice..my first time to do this in the internet and im grateful for your response.
sarah
It’s amazing to see how many Aquarius-Leo couples are out there :), all these posts mean either that or that those relationships are the most problematic ones, I am in such relationship myself and the chemistry in it is simply electrifying!!, and guess what I am a leo :). I learned one thing from this relationship though, if you don’t push him and can follow his rules in what he calls a relationship he is yours, try to demand feelings or show any signs of being needy and off he goes. I think with the aquarius you should never expect them to make you happy, they can contribute in your happiness for sure but most of the work you will have to do it yourself.
Good luck to everybody and may the Lions win
Hey Sarah,
In regards to feelings, my aquarius is extremely uncomfortable going anywhere near that topic. So, I am always left trying to guess what’s going on, which is hard because as you already have figured out they are hard to read. It’s interesting because just when I think he is pulling away and uninterested, he’ll want to hang out three days in a row, so undpredictable. He will also say things about us in the future, as in marriage, which is also interesting given that we aren’t even classified as being in a “serious” relationship. It’s bizarre, but nonetheless I can’t pull myself away. As the last person said, you can’t expect them to make you happy all the time, but you can expect them to give you something you wont be able to find in anyone else, that’s why we are still with them right?
To Jasmine. You do not love the chase? (I am Aquarius woman) I love a good hunt and chase. Aries is also a sign that loves the chase. You need to chase him and he needs to chase you. This is what you do. It’s hard, but It’s a give and take thing. If you go to the man, you need the man to come to you. If the man comes to you, you need to go to the man. You need to learn how to play the game. All men love a good hunt and chase. Don’t be afarid to detact your feelings for him and study him. You need to understand the person he is. Decied for yourself if you want that in your life. And just because he is not always cuddling you, doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you. Actions speak louder than words. You have to read his body language, and you need to commucate with him, if you two don’t talk, it won’t work out.
Reading some of these. You need to set your rules down. You need to know each other rules, and see if they appeal to you. And don’t be in rush, take things slow. WOMAN: Don’t be quick to give yourself to him. That just tells a guy, you’re easy, and they’ll have no respect for you.
You need to let the person you are with know where you stand. A man will always know where I stand, and if he doesn’t like it he can piss off.
Never sufferate an Aquarius, we do not like that, we love our freedom, if we feel we cannot be free, WE WILL LEAVE. I know I have. I really hate needy guys. I am no babysitter, I like men who is their own person, indenpent, knows who he is.Has a backbone, forcus, level-headed, and can take care of themselves. And doesn’t get his feelings hurt, if I am not always cuddeling him. Telling someone I always love them, makes me sick, it annoys me. I rather show it in actions. Having them always tell me they love me annoys me.
I also don’t express my feelings very well in a relationship. It’s hard for me. But I always try to let him know, if I don’t say it in words, don’t worry. I love you. I will express it in action. KEYWORD (ACTION) Another thing, if I can’t talk with the man I love, then I will not get into a relationship with that man. I need someone I can talk too.
So try not to do too much or too less, try to keep a balance. Too much of anything is bad as well as too less.
Ok….well i posted a little while ago about my Aquarius boy and about how he never shows feeling. I have to keep giving myself little talkings to of late. He is actually the best thing thats ever happened to me and i know this. He is affectionate and does everything for me. But i must admit i do a lot for him. I can tell him that i love him but he wont say it back. He will just smile and then make a joke. He has said it once when he was drunk but thats it!!!The past week i have been starting to get all annoyed about how closed up he is. He has been like this since we met but this week its been getting me down. Maybe i am the typical Leo that just sometimes needs words to show i am important. But i just think people need that in general. Just to be told they are special now and again. I just hope that after a while it would be possib;e to talk about my a future or something as i dont want to be in a relationship that goes no where because i dont know if he feels anything or not. He must thugh - he calls me everyday i see him nearly every day and it been about 10 months now…..a guy doesnt stick around for that long unless hehas feeling right?
See what i mean….no bloody idea what he is thinking!!!! So frustrating!
To Leah Hiya, I would say he does, because men won’t call you, if they don’t like you.
Here’s my advice. Detact your emotionally feelings for him for awhile so you can get new persective on his body language. Don’t say anything, but just study him.
If he does things for you, out of the blue, he likes you. If he is there for you, he likes you. If he says I am going to do this for you and his actions meet his words. He likes you.
When we let love blind us, we cannot see. So take a step back and watch his actions. Actions speak louder than words.
Hello Naomi and to all Gorgeous Leo Women out there! You are absolutely right about Aquarius Men. Actually its becoming a challenge to me being in a relationship with Aquarius sign. It brings out my analytical side. I think about the similarities like we are both stubborn, we both want to lead, we are both sarcastic, but i think he is more sarcastic than i am..etc.
Being a Leo, I am confident but i also am emotional and its what i try not to show him because he will think of ME as being “needy” from which i really am not. I think Leo loves to cuddle a lot, sociable, affectionate, CONFIDENT type of people. I think that aquarius men analyze us more so my best bet is just to act “not needy” and i try to be creative all the time from which it takes sooo much effort, but sometimes its worth it. I also do know that when you stopped chasing him, he will come back and wanting to feel needed again.
I would like to say after posting my own thoughts and what my aquarius fella is like i have also looked over at the big picture of him. He loves affection, he is so laid back its like nothing bothers him in the world. He contacts me everyday thats if i am not seeing him. He does things around my place and for the first time ever the other day he spoke to me about a future. . He is so kind to me and after 10 months still has the best manners in the world. He is a typical bloke that swears and looks at boobs but when it comes to me i must say i think his mum has brought that guy up pretty well. So after me looking atthe bigger picture i think him n ot being able to talk about his feelings isnt such a problem. We have fun together. Laugh together, treat each other with respect and hardly every have an arguemnt. On top of that i think he is that fantastic i am so scared of losing him! I think i would die if he ever left me. So here’s crossing my fingers to a guy that cant tell me he loves me but shown me in every other way possible. I think i can live with that……ahhhhh…..love
To Leah: I am very happy for you!
Hello Dianne
I am totally agree with you. Im a aquarius my boyfriend is leo.We have been together almost a year n half it started nice and happy but after couple months pass through we start an argue and fight. we broke up 2 times alreadybut every time he will come back to me ask me for another chance and when i give him chances he will be good first 1 week or so n he will go back to the same old jelousy person. he says he loves me n cares bout me. I dont really know what to do anymore.
To Sara:
Hey there, I think you really need some serious time thinking to yourself about this relationship that isn’t going nowhere. I think you need to put that foot down of yours and move on.
People do not change, unless they want too. And it’s quit clear that he hasn’t better himself to make the problem not a problem any more.
And you DO NOT need to keep going back and forth. He is like abusive husband that hits his wife, she kicks him out. Then he begs to come back. His good for a bit, then he hits her again. And it’s also quit clear that his actions don’t match his words.
I say move on and find yourself real man and not a boy, who is confident enough to be with you and confident enough in his relationship with you that he doesn’t become jealous.
I really can’t stand jealous at ALL. I don’t understand it. I think it’s one of the most meaniless human emotions that ever existed on this earth. Jealous gets you no where in life and it’s just plain stupid and it just screams. I AM SOOOOOOOOOOOO INSECER!!!! I am boy and not a man.
Question: Have you sat him down and told him that this jealous thing really bugs the livin’ hell out of you, and he doesn’t need to do that, because you will be there and no one going to take you? If you have, and he need acts like he does. Forget about him.
Here it goes… I am a female Leo and my darling boyfriend is an Aquarius… It has been living hell but oh so worth it! We haven’t had a dull moment and it has been going on 9 months now - full of ups and downs -fights - arguments- making up- loving - wanting each other… I have never been so in love and neither has he… so I am 37 and he is 22 - I live in Seattle and he in North Carolina… all these obstacles but we can’t let go… It doesn’t make sense at all! We have tried to break-up but we just can’t. So, it looks like we are getting married and well regardless of age, distance, sign compatability it all boils down to love and commitment and sometimes the commitment lacks but the love cant let go and won’t… Cheers to my dear beloved Aquarian boyfriend - you have become the love of my life… I love you Michael D.
To Cindy
I must say I loved Your story! the passion between You seems really intence, and Though aquarius and leo are opposits, I always favored this union. Not that I tried it ( I never got romantically involved with a leo) But there’s something about it that makes it so special and interesting!
surely there must be a reason why Your still togther regardless of the odds!! I really Like it, I wish You all teh best.
Midnight aquarius
Dear Little impale
Guess what told him what i needed to say. Now im single girl it was so hard for me first couple of days but i feel free now. just wanna say thank u for your comment.
To Sara: You’re welcome, and I am so glad you feel free again. Take care.
I do agree with Midnight that the aquarius-leo combination makes for an extremely interesting relationship and of course challenging given that they are opposites. I have read a lot of articles that point out that opposite signs complete each other in a relationship because they have what the other doesn’t. At the core their beliefs are very similar, it is just the way they are expressed and acted upon that is different.I find this analysis to be extremely valid, especially with my aquarius friend who I talk about above. There is this inexplicable attraction and as much as it is frustrating as a leo to give him lots of space, the reward is worth it. Something happened a couple of weeks ago that blew me away because it was almost as if there was a role or sign reversal. I hadn’t talked to him in about a week because I just needed some time to not put all of my mental strength into analyzing him. A week into doing this he sent me a text message asking where I had been for the past week and I wrote back just needed some time to relax, but I also said that I was missing him a little bit. His response was positive, he even said “wow you’re showing emotion” (interesting statement coming from an aquarius) and it showed me that you just have to be your own person and maintain a separate life in order to be with them and maintain your sanity. It is not worth it to spend every minute of the worrying about the fact that they haven’t called you, if they really like you and care about you, they will. Just don’t expect it to be when you want or when they tell you it’s gonna be. As far as compatibility goes, I think it helps to compare your venus/mars and moon signs as well since those are more linked to emotional behavior and relationships.