Aquarius Compatibility With Leo |
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Aquarius and Leo
This combination could be fun. Both of these characters like to go out and explore the world, the Leo is perhaps the more outgoing and sociable in some way’s, but the Aquarius knows how to enjoy him/her self also. Sometimes the Leo can get a little over the top when it comes to showing off and performing for people, which can get on the nerves of the Aquarius who has a far more subtle approach to things. The Leo will expect applause and encouragement from his/her partner all the time which may seem fun at first but the Aquarius partner soon tires of this.
Leo’s also need a lot of security and love. The Aquarius can of-course, give these things to the person they love, but as I have mentioned before they have their own unique way’s of showing it. Leo is a far more physical being than the air sign, and being a fire sign, wants a lot of physical lusty passion. A lot of the Aquarius’s sexuality is in fantasy and experimentation, so they may clash, but I think they could both benefit from the other’s differences in this instance and will probably spend some enjoyable hour’s in bed with one another.
The problem is that both of these two people want to lead, to be the boss. And in any relationship their is only room for one, if any. Neither of these two fancy laying down and playing the submissive game either and although at first their excitement in one another seem’s endless,sadly it does dissipate over time. Leo’s are very into themselves, and the Aquarius isn’t the type of person to constantly give out adoration. Aquarius wants to get out into the world, Aquarius cares. Leo does two, but does tend to put him/herself first.
Basically, these two can have a wonderful time together, they love life and will enjoy lots of different pursuits with one another. I won’t say stay away from this match, but perhaps take it slowly and living together would be the worst idea possible.
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i love my leo man…i’m an aquarius. yes, we never had a dull moment: we fight, we argue a lot, we share jokes, watch movie together, tickle each other etc…neither one of us gives up each other. WE JUST SIMPLY FIND EACH OTHER ADDICTIVE.
WE LOVE EACH OTHER SO MUCH…
I’ve just started going out with an Aquarian guy and already I’m feeling pretty frustrated. We were really into each other at the start, and he was quite enthusiastic but now he just seems cold and distant and I’m finding it very difficult to connect with him at all. I want things to work, I want to like him and get close to him but I’m not going to chase him … Leos do NOT do the chasing … all his mixed messages really are bruising my Leo ego and I’m not willing to take it, especially since I don’t know him so well.
I just have a bad feeling about it … I should probably stick to Geminis and Arians. Aquarians are just moody and annoying.
I’m an Aquarius, my boyfriend is a Leo. We get along most of the time, but what relationship doesn’t have occasional fights?
And I guess the thing is Opposites really do attract.
But seeing as we are both big personalities it will be hard, but we have so much fun doing anything and love being around each other.
Being able to work on our relationship will make it extra special if we both put in the effort. And their won’t be a moment that we won’t have fun doing it.
If you truly love each other it shouldn’t matter what star sign you are.
I don’t really understand what you mean by not being the type to give out adoration. I am a caring person, and I actually believe I give out too much.
I love him, he loves me. That’s all you need to remember to make it work and be happy. (:
Hi Ashlea,
Love is of course a great place to start. I am of the very firm belief that any combination can work well ..it is just that some astrological combinations have a smoother ride than the rest that is all. All I am trying to do here is to give some advice to people who may be not having that great a time of it with some signs, knowing where the problems come from always helps and it can make relationships last longer if the people involved can find some understanding of how each other work…a bit like having inside information I guess.
Good luck with your Leo
Love & Light
Becky
Hi all,
I am an Aquarius and I have been dating a Leo for a couple months. I think he is WONDERFUL! Most of the love forecasts predict that this combo will start with a bang and eventually fizzle out. They also say that sexual chemistry does not exist, let me be the first to say, such is not the case.
They give Aquarians a bad rap, saying we are emotionally aloof and incapable of giving the Leo the attention/love they need. I really appreciate my Leo’s affectionate disposition. I am actually trying to play it safe for fear of moving too fast too soon. I kind of want to feel it out to see where he is coming from since it is so early in our courtship. So far so good, and I’m very excited for the possibility of a future with him. I welcome any feedback/advice from any Aquarius/Leo duos.
Hi! I’m not either one of these lovely signs but thought i’d comment lol.
I really like this Aqua guy but he’s currently seeing a Leo (only recently)…
Basically i don’t know what to do ’cause i’m in a relationship too with a LEO!
Help ..lolx
Hi all. I’m an aquarius girl and I’ve just started dating a leo guy since the sunday of labor day weekend. I think he is a fabulous creature. He’s very much a gentleman…the type that holds my hand when crossing the street and refuses to light my cigarettes which is both lovely and frustrating at the same time. Since labor day, we have seen eachother about 2-3 times a week and everyday, he’ll text me with a “hi how is you day going?” He is very optomistic like me and we discuss everything from what we find great about everyone to how much we hate camping. We have only made out at the end of our dates but even that is pretty steamy…..I’m hoping to have more and more with him as we get to know eachother better!
p.s. i meant he refuses to let me light my own cigarettes! lol
I’m a Leo (female) and I had an encounter with an Aquarius (male) — it wasn’t very good. We did not date or enter a relationship, but he was certainly attracted me for a while and tried to pursue that. Although we were friends, we were not close or personal, because I found that our personalities were too different — even if we did share common interests. I don’t think the Leo/Aquarius pairing works very well because the Aquarius is too controlling, whereas Leo’s need space and independence. Aquarius’s are also much too sarcastic and cold for Leo as well, I think.
This just isn’t a good pair, just from my experience. I found that as a Leo, if you want to go with someone “opposite”, go with a Cancer. Cancer males compliment Leo’s wonderfully!
They say Opposites Attract. That’s true in my case. It seems like every guy I become interested in is a Leo. The current one, Aug 13, 1981, whom I met about 2 years ago has really got me open. This summer, we decided to be intimate and I want him around all the time. I’m starting to feel needy (which I never am) and that’s bothering me. he said he likes me too, I hope he’s sure of how he feels. I’ve read often times Leo/Aquarian relationships don’t last, and I know I shouldn’t let what’s “in the stars” affect my decision to pursue something serious with him. So, I’m going to ask him to be man. Wish me luck : )
I amA female Leoand have been in a relationship with a male aquarius for about nine months. He is the best thing thats ever happened to me. He is such a kind soul underneath all his talk. And he will do everything for me. I dont take advantage of that but its nice to have that. Only down side is he never speaks about his feeling. I just guess that he loves me cause of the way he treats me and how good we get along. Our chemistry is also amazing. i dont like guessing about how he feels but i know he cares about me and hopefully soon he might open up! And i dont like to ask as he is not big on talking about feelings and i can tell it freaks him out!
I am an aquarius and my boyfriend is a leo.My leo is all that his description implies. However, at the time of our meeting he had been severely damaged by promiscuous women from his past. So now, not only does he have all the qualities that comes with being a leo, he is a very untrusting one. Try dealing with a Leo who just got his ego back in line and added some extra strokes just for good measure. It’s like this unseen veil in front of us that is slowly but surely being lifted the more time we spend together. What I’m afraid of is my aquarian nature to: not feel the need to explain my every step; damaging that trust he’s slowly building for me. I’m very close-mouthed about several things, including my feelings. If I make a decision to express something, I have to get my thoughts together and then finalize what I’m going to say before I actually open up the discussion…(guess that’s what you’re talking about Leah) He takes this as me hiding how I feel, but it’s not like that at all. How can I tell someone how I feel about something when I don’t even know how I feel about it? Sorry for blabbering, just excited that there’s a website for this kind of discussion!
I am a Leo woman, dating an Aquarius man. For the second time. The first was rocky at times, but I was his longest relationship ever, and he was the one I got closest to. Neither of us are our stereotypical star signs, though we are similar to them. I do not like attention, and tend to shut down when thrown into the spot light. I can be extremely sarcastic and cold at times, but I have an aggressive personality. He can be sarcastic and cold as well, and that split us apart at first. After we broke up, the following friendship was rocky, and only got worse as he started dating again. But they broke up, and things evened out as time went on. We continued to talk off and on, usually in the early hours of the morning about deep and personal things, and one day, we realized we never really got over the other. So, we decided to test it out. And now, we’re crazy about each other. He has been known to be cold, but for some reason, I bring out the affection in him, and he’s comfortable with me. And he brings out the gentleness, and kindness in me. We are so alike, yet so different, and that really works for us.
Best wishes to all you other Aquarius-loving Leo women!
My boyfriend is Aquarian and Im Leo. We have been together for 2 1/2 years and have a long distance relationship. I think about him a lot but sometimes I find him moody and cold and sarcastic. He wanted us to live together but Im not sure if I am doing the right thing giving up my job and moving to a different state. Being a Leo, I am a natural outgoing, friendly and affectionate person. Its hard to be in relationship with him, I let him be the boss but I often wonder if its fair that he is always the boss. It is also hard because he doesnt talk much about his feelings. Being with an aquarius is not easy at all but I love him so, I dont know what to do. Any advice?
Sarah,
My first question for you is: Is he comfortable enough to express his true feelings at all to you? I have found that when an Aquarius guy feels like something is striking too close to home, he becomes cold and distant. Sarcasm usually comes natural for them. His feelings are in jeopardy of becoming known, and he doesn’t like that. Whether they are feelings of love, or dislike, I do not know. But you can guarantee he’s holding something back. Try talking to him, with out seeming like you’re trying to pry. Start up a conversation. Ask him what’s up. What’s on his mind. But come at it from a logical approach. Most Aquarians love logic. If he doesn’t want to talk, don’t force it. Wait, and then try a different approach later. It is hard to do all this from a distance but, show him that you are a person with needs, too. If he truly cares about you, he’ll respect you for standing up for yourself. If not, than he doesn’t deserve you, love. Try not to let that Leo temper and pride get in your way. Relationships aren’t about who’s always on top. It’s about sharing the power, being equals, and being one. If it turns into an argument, stay calm. Take a step back for a moment and breathe. And if applicable, tell him it would be better for the both you to cool your heels and talk about it later. He’ll thank you for that later, if he doesn’t suggest doing that first.
Hope this helps, love.
Feel free to email me, if you have further questions:
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I am a Leo woman who has had a close friendship with an Aquarius male for about four years. When we first met I was seeing someone else, but he still pursued me and the friendship eventually turned intimate. However, I was conflicted between the two men and decided to stay with my original boyfriend, a Virgo. We didn’t talk for two years because we are both very stubborn, my pride wouldn’t let me apologize. But, when I broke up with my Virgo out of a need for more independence and the need for control over my life, I contacted him and since then we have been in a similar cycle. I have learned to never push anything and never to make him feel contained or pressured. I also have noticed that when I don’t call or text him for a couple days, he always checks in. While it is frustrating, there is something about him that lights a fire in me and keeps me coming back.It’s not the type of relationship that flows easy, it is forced at times, but the unknown is what attracts me, I guess after spending four years with a predictable virgo I was craving spontaneity. I’m not sure where this will go but I do know that no matter what there will always be a bond.
Hi there..I just want to thank you for your advice. I am really happy reading because what you said is all true. Is he comfortable talking about his feelings? Sigh..I always have problems about him not talking to me about his feelings. We just recently had a fight and he seemed more distant now, I have to keep reminding myself that he is aquarius. He doesnt call or text me much and that hurts my feelings because we are far away from each other. When Im with him, he doesnt talk much either but i know he loves me. Im afraid that we will drift apart because theres not much communication and trust.
thanks so much for your advice..my first time to do this in the internet and im grateful for your response.
sarah
It’s amazing to see how many Aquarius-Leo couples are out there :), all these posts mean either that or that those relationships are the most problematic ones, I am in such relationship myself and the chemistry in it is simply electrifying!!, and guess what I am a leo :). I learned one thing from this relationship though, if you don’t push him and can follow his rules in what he calls a relationship he is yours, try to demand feelings or show any signs of being needy and off he goes. I think with the aquarius you should never expect them to make you happy, they can contribute in your happiness for sure but most of the work you will have to do it yourself.
Good luck to everybody and may the Lions win
Hey Sarah,
In regards to feelings, my aquarius is extremely uncomfortable going anywhere near that topic. So, I am always left trying to guess what’s going on, which is hard because as you already have figured out they are hard to read. It’s interesting because just when I think he is pulling away and uninterested, he’ll want to hang out three days in a row, so undpredictable. He will also say things about us in the future, as in marriage, which is also interesting given that we aren’t even classified as being in a “serious” relationship. It’s bizarre, but nonetheless I can’t pull myself away. As the last person said, you can’t expect them to make you happy all the time, but you can expect them to give you something you wont be able to find in anyone else, that’s why we are still with them right?
To Jasmine. You do not love the chase? (I am Aquarius woman) I love a good hunt and chase. Aries is also a sign that loves the chase. You need to chase him and he needs to chase you. This is what you do. It’s hard, but It’s a give and take thing. If you go to the man, you need the man to come to you. If the man comes to you, you need to go to the man. You need to learn how to play the game. All men love a good hunt and chase. Don’t be afarid to detact your feelings for him and study him. You need to understand the person he is. Decied for yourself if you want that in your life. And just because he is not always cuddling you, doesn’t mean he doesn’t like you. Actions speak louder than words. You have to read his body language, and you need to commucate with him, if you two don’t talk, it won’t work out.
Reading some of these. You need to set your rules down. You need to know each other rules, and see if they appeal to you. And don’t be in rush, take things slow. WOMAN: Don’t be quick to give yourself to him. That just tells a guy, you’re easy, and they’ll have no respect for you.
You need to let the person you are with know where you stand. A man will always know where I stand, and if he doesn’t like it he can piss off.
Never sufferate an Aquarius, we do not like that, we love our freedom, if we feel we cannot be free, WE WILL LEAVE. I know I have. I really hate needy guys. I am no babysitter, I like men who is their own person, indenpent, knows who he is.Has a backbone, forcus, level-headed, and can take care of themselves. And doesn’t get his feelings hurt, if I am not always cuddeling him. Telling someone I always love them, makes me sick, it annoys me. I rather show it in actions. Having them always tell me they love me annoys me.
I also don’t express my feelings very well in a relationship. It’s hard for me. But I always try to let him know, if I don’t say it in words, don’t worry. I love you. I will express it in action. KEYWORD (ACTION) Another thing, if I can’t talk with the man I love, then I will not get into a relationship with that man. I need someone I can talk too.
So try not to do too much or too less, try to keep a balance. Too much of anything is bad as well as too less.
Ok….well i posted a little while ago about my Aquarius boy and about how he never shows feeling. I have to keep giving myself little talkings to of late. He is actually the best thing thats ever happened to me and i know this. He is affectionate and does everything for me. But i must admit i do a lot for him. I can tell him that i love him but he wont say it back. He will just smile and then make a joke. He has said it once when he was drunk but thats it!!!The past week i have been starting to get all annoyed about how closed up he is. He has been like this since we met but this week its been getting me down. Maybe i am the typical Leo that just sometimes needs words to show i am important. But i just think people need that in general. Just to be told they are special now and again. I just hope that after a while it would be possib;e to talk about my a future or something as i dont want to be in a relationship that goes no where because i dont know if he feels anything or not. He must thugh - he calls me everyday i see him nearly every day and it been about 10 months now…..a guy doesnt stick around for that long unless hehas feeling right?
See what i mean….no bloody idea what he is thinking!!!! So frustrating!
To Leah Hiya, I would say he does, because men won’t call you, if they don’t like you.
Here’s my advice. Detact your emotionally feelings for him for awhile so you can get new persective on his body language. Don’t say anything, but just study him.
If he does things for you, out of the blue, he likes you. If he is there for you, he likes you. If he says I am going to do this for you and his actions meet his words. He likes you.
When we let love blind us, we cannot see. So take a step back and watch his actions. Actions speak louder than words.
Hello Naomi and to all Gorgeous Leo Women out there! You are absolutely right about Aquarius Men. Actually its becoming a challenge to me being in a relationship with Aquarius sign. It brings out my analytical side. I think about the similarities like we are both stubborn, we both want to lead, we are both sarcastic, but i think he is more sarcastic than i am..etc.
Being a Leo, I am confident but i also am emotional and its what i try not to show him because he will think of ME as being “needy” from which i really am not. I think Leo loves to cuddle a lot, sociable, affectionate, CONFIDENT type of people. I think that aquarius men analyze us more so my best bet is just to act “not needy” and i try to be creative all the time from which it takes sooo much effort, but sometimes its worth it. I also do know that when you stopped chasing him, he will come back and wanting to feel needed again.
I would like to say after posting my own thoughts and what my aquarius fella is like i have also looked over at the big picture of him. He loves affection, he is so laid back its like nothing bothers him in the world. He contacts me everyday thats if i am not seeing him. He does things around my place and for the first time ever the other day he spoke to me about a future. . He is so kind to me and after 10 months still has the best manners in the world. He is a typical bloke that swears and looks at boobs but when it comes to me i must say i think his mum has brought that guy up pretty well. So after me looking atthe bigger picture i think him n ot being able to talk about his feelings isnt such a problem. We have fun together. Laugh together, treat each other with respect and hardly every have an arguemnt. On top of that i think he is that fantastic i am so scared of losing him! I think i would die if he ever left me. So here’s crossing my fingers to a guy that cant tell me he loves me but shown me in every other way possible. I think i can live with that……ahhhhh…..love
To Leah: I am very happy for you!
Hello Dianne
I am totally agree with you. Im a aquarius my boyfriend is leo.We have been together almost a year n half it started nice and happy but after couple months pass through we start an argue and fight. we broke up 2 times alreadybut every time he will come back to me ask me for another chance and when i give him chances he will be good first 1 week or so n he will go back to the same old jelousy person. he says he loves me n cares bout me. I dont really know what to do anymore.
To Sara:
Hey there, I think you really need some serious time thinking to yourself about this relationship that isn’t going nowhere. I think you need to put that foot down of yours and move on.
People do not change, unless they want too. And it’s quit clear that he hasn’t better himself to make the problem not a problem any more.
And you DO NOT need to keep going back and forth. He is like abusive husband that hits his wife, she kicks him out. Then he begs to come back. His good for a bit, then he hits her again. And it’s also quit clear that his actions don’t match his words.
I say move on and find yourself real man and not a boy, who is confident enough to be with you and confident enough in his relationship with you that he doesn’t become jealous.
I really can’t stand jealous at ALL. I don’t understand it. I think it’s one of the most meaniless human emotions that ever existed on this earth. Jealous gets you no where in life and it’s just plain stupid and it just screams. I AM SOOOOOOOOOOOO INSECER!!!! I am boy and not a man.
Question: Have you sat him down and told him that this jealous thing really bugs the livin’ hell out of you, and he doesn’t need to do that, because you will be there and no one going to take you? If you have, and he need acts like he does. Forget about him.
Here it goes… I am a female Leo and my darling boyfriend is an Aquarius… It has been living hell but oh so worth it! We haven’t had a dull moment and it has been going on 9 months now - full of ups and downs -fights - arguments- making up- loving - wanting each other… I have never been so in love and neither has he… so I am 37 and he is 22 - I live in Seattle and he in North Carolina… all these obstacles but we can’t let go… It doesn’t make sense at all! We have tried to break-up but we just can’t. So, it looks like we are getting married and well regardless of age, distance, sign compatability it all boils down to love and commitment and sometimes the commitment lacks but the love cant let go and won’t… Cheers to my dear beloved Aquarian boyfriend - you have become the love of my life… I love you Michael D.
To Cindy
I must say I loved Your story! the passion between You seems really intence, and Though aquarius and leo are opposits, I always favored this union. Not that I tried it ( I never got romantically involved with a leo) But there’s something about it that makes it so special and interesting!
surely there must be a reason why Your still togther regardless of the odds!! I really Like it, I wish You all teh best.
Midnight aquarius
Dear Little impale
Guess what told him what i needed to say. Now im single girl it was so hard for me first couple of days but i feel free now. just wanna say thank u for your comment.
To Sara: You’re welcome, and I am so glad you feel free again. Take care.
I do agree with Midnight that the aquarius-leo combination makes for an extremely interesting relationship and of course challenging given that they are opposites. I have read a lot of articles that point out that opposite signs complete each other in a relationship because they have what the other doesn’t. At the core their beliefs are very similar, it is just the way they are expressed and acted upon that is different.I find this analysis to be extremely valid, especially with my aquarius friend who I talk about above. There is this inexplicable attraction and as much as it is frustrating as a leo to give him lots of space, the reward is worth it. Something happened a couple of weeks ago that blew me away because it was almost as if there was a role or sign reversal. I hadn’t talked to him in about a week because I just needed some time to not put all of my mental strength into analyzing him. A week into doing this he sent me a text message asking where I had been for the past week and I wrote back just needed some time to relax, but I also said that I was missing him a little bit. His response was positive, he even said “wow you’re showing emotion” (interesting statement coming from an aquarius) and it showed me that you just have to be your own person and maintain a separate life in order to be with them and maintain your sanity. It is not worth it to spend every minute of the worrying about the fact that they haven’t called you, if they really like you and care about you, they will. Just don’t expect it to be when you want or when they tell you it’s gonna be. As far as compatibility goes, I think it helps to compare your venus/mars and moon signs as well since those are more linked to emotional behavior and relationships.
I just started talking to a LEO and Im an AQUARIUS ( the best)we have only been talkin for about two weeks and he is already gettin tooooooooooooooo clingy but i really like him we share some common interest! he alway buys me stuff and i dont know if thats because he thinks that will keep me around or what but it is a kinda weird state of being with a LEO
Well, i have been dating a Leo for almost a year now..will be a year in Janurary. And the type of Aquarius i am is very sensitive. IDK, if this is the way i am supposed to be or if something that happened earlier made me this way. But, I take things a bit too far when I hear it. For instance my GF(the Leo), tells me that she hugged this one guy or he gave her a kiss on the chick..I become highly upset over this. I know I shouldnt because she loves me and only me. And it’s just a friendly gesture. But, I am a very jealous person. And I have had my heart brokened before so this could be another reason. So, anybody can shed some light to me..and well toughen me up. And if you need the ages Im 20 & she is 19. So, please help me with this..but dont give me any negative advice thats the last thing i need. I get that enough with my family. Only good positive and helpful advice.
I made an error..typing too fast, i meant gave her a kiss on the cheek.
To Jon Cutro: I am going to be very honest and straight forward, if you can’t handel any negative aspect to life, how can you handel a realationship? Life has both negative and possitive to any situation, that is how life is. If you can’t handel the negative side of life how can you get a honest opinon?
Question: Are you confident in your realationship with her? It doesn’t sound like you are, and if you’re not careful your jealous will either drive her away where she doesn’t want to be with you. So you have to fix that.
Have you talked to her about it, how it makes you feel? You need to commuiate with each other. She needs to resure you that she isn’t going to cheat on you, and you need to work on not being jealous.
If this bother you this much that she hads guy friends that she hugs, kiss on the cheek, and talks too, maybe you shouldn’t be in this relationship.
You need to expect that she has friends too, and she has her own life to live, beside you being in it. Either she needs to put up with your jealous and expect you for who you are, or decide not to be in this relationship. You need to grow some balls and know that when she is with her friends she is not going to cheat on you, and she needs to know you have this fear and you need to tell her that your heart has been broken, if you can’t you will not have a relationship.
To Jon Cutro: Another question, why is she telling you she was hugging and a guy kissed you on the cheek? That I find odd. If it was nothing, a person wouldn’t bring it up.
You still need to talk to her, and IF she keeps telling you about the guys she hugs, and kisses on the cheek, you really need to think to yourself, if this relationship is worth it.Because that right there, should give you, red sigals.
I think also she wants to make you mad. So you just need to sit her down and talk to her. But don’t let your emotions rule you, or you can’t think right.
I can handle negative things. I find myself to be a very positive person. I do have my ups and downs like everyone else though. And I wanted to hear positive things, because it would help me. I understand the thing about negative, but I also feel it would hurt me to hear it. But, of course I also hear truth hurts. I am very confident in our relationship. And I feel that she wouldnt do anything to hurt me because she is always 100% honest with me. And yeah I try to talk to her about but it upsets her so sometimes i try not to. And I dont agree that this relationship isnt good for me, because she has helped me through my darkest days of this year. And I have did the same for her. And she already knows about my heart bring brokened. Her heart has been brokened many times also. As for growing some balls..I think that part was a little too far..but anyway, for the most part it was good advice I guess. And she was telling me because I asked how was her day. She tells me that it wasnt good and I asked why she says a guy who constantly harasses her kissed her on the cheek. She volunteers at a nursing home.
To Jon Cutro: Then what’s the problem here? If you are confident in your relationship then why get jealous? Jealousy is just another sign of I am insure in myself. And if she was telling you about her day. Then, there isn’t a problem here. And I think it’s your jealous that upsets her. Another question I have for you, if there is not a problem here, what advice do you want from other people, if there isn’t a problem?
Has for your girlfriend’s problem, if this guy is bothering her as you said she told you. She needs to move her ass and talk to the her boss and tell the boss about the guy, or file sexual harassment on the guy.
Because, sitting there complaining about the problem isn’t going to fix anything, when there is a problem you need to figure out what it is and fix it. Sitting there doing noting makes the problem worst. And if she doesn’t do anything about it and let’s it happen she must like being bothered by this man.
I just start talking to this leo guy and although we’ve known each other for 3 years our relationship was never personal like now, (yes im an aquarius) I just feel like im the one who is getting to clingy, and i really wanna know if he likes me as much as i like him. I also no at times my aquarian pride can make me feel like im getting too attached so i usually back off, and that sometimes pushes the other individual away leaving them to feel that i have a lack of interest. I wanna just let things flow but its hard when you cant get that person off your mind. Im so use to being independent and solo that i dont think I no how to even begin this relationship thing.
Somebody please help I’m open to all advice!!
To IT’S ME:
Hello, I am also an Aquarius. My advice, take a chance and leap. I would just tell him how you really felt about him. There is that chance you might get hurt. But one needs to step up to the plate and say it.
Once, you get it off your chest, you’ll feel better, because you’ll finally get to know where he stands. If either of you don’t speak up, you might lose him, or both might just lose the chance.
So be brave, and take a chance. I know it’s hard, but life is a risk.
i loved my leo man more than anything, i wanted to give him everything. oddly enough i was happy to provide constant physical affection, at this point its a habit. something happened to him, something changed. one night he didnt come home. he started lying. and cheating with a filthy whore. and doing cocaine and pills. i thought leos were loyal… i was completely blindsided, we never fought or anything. he just became a whole new person overnight that no one likes anymore. the worst part is he wont leave me alone, he tells me how sorry he is and how much he loves me and then we start to see each other but then i find out about his whore that he isnt man enough to get rid of. he tells everyone he doesnt want to be with her, that he wants to be with me yet he wont stop the lies, drugs and get rid of the skank. so all i have to say is that not all leos are great. this one turned out to be messed up in the head.after three years of bliss…. it ends with a no contact order
Hi Lonely, thanks for your comment and sharing your bad experience with us. The thing is that sometimes people are just awful no matter what there sign, something makes them do the wrong things. I had a very bad time with my ex so I understand how heart breaking it is. Don’t give up on Leo’s though, he must have just chosen the wrong paths in life.
Love & Light
Becky
Hi Loneley,
Most of us have been there or been through something like this with a guys that just tears you up inside and you think you will never get over it. I have also been there.This guy wont change no matter what he says or does. Move on and never speak or see him again. It will hurt like hell but you are so much better off in the long run. And just imagine one day you will have a awsome realtionship with someone that will think you are their whole world. Dont wast any more time or tears or blogs on that cu*nt - it feels better to say that too!
Hi All!
I have been friends with a leo man for 18 years now. He has been my best friend all of those years, and had even spoken in my wedding. We been through a lot and even experienced bad marriages and divorces together. Recently, we decided to see if there were “sparks” between us. He lives in California and I live in Colorado. Although, he has a girlfriend, which he says he is not serious with, he came to visit me and there were sparks flying everywhere! I’m not sure why after 18 yrs it happened but it did. He has always liked me whereas I was always stand-offish with him. I guess the reason I never allowed myself to “go there” was because he use to date my good friend 18 yrs ago. Anyways, I put my guard down and the reunion was great. He is now back in California and I’m having a difficult time communicating with him. I would call and text but he doesn’t respond quick enough for me. I understand as an Aquarius, I tend to run the show, but this is the first time I have dated a Leo (or am I even dating him, since he has a girlfriend?). I have told him to be honest with himself and make a decision before January, when we will see each other again, because I don’t want to start something when his whole heart is not into it. He continues to say I have nothing to worry about…hmmmm right?! I can’t seem to figure him out and I would like to know what he’s thinking and feeling. He says I’m his best friend and he would never hurt me and just see where things go…what does that mean? Before allowing my guard down, I told him I didn’t want to get hurt by him (b/c of the girlfriend thing) and to be honest with me because we have 18 years of history together…he agreed that was fair BUT I need more attention from him then what I’m getting…is this normal?
To Life long partners?:
Hiya, I am also an Aquaruius woman, and I’m going to be competely honest with you. This whole thing he says about his “Oh she is not my girlfriend, or we’re just friends” Sounds competely BULLSHIT!
What kind of man tries to start a relationship with another woman when he has a girlfriend???? That right there is red signals.
I wouldn’t put my guard down. I would keep them up. Don’t start anything with him. Unless you want to be the hole he puts his dick in.
It just doesn’t feel right. And when a man REALLY LOVES a woman, girl he couldn’t help not talk to you. He would want to talk to you. This man is too busy messing around. I say forget him. You need a man who is SINGEL, doesn’t have a girlfriend, wants to be near you, wants YOU.
This is bullshit, and you don’t need it.
PS.
Here’s some advice. Never start a relationship with men who are taken or have wives, nothing good comes of it. And ask yourself this. What do you expect from a man who has a girlfriend or a wife?
littleimplar why are you so hard up on giving advice..you seem a little to aggressive and defensive….calm down….what you saying to them is right but theres A WAY to explain things…anyways……
no disrespect to criticize but i think your being a little to negative…
Thats Some Aggression and Negativity. Most people can take care of themselves.
Hi there,
I think whether what I write is negative or positive is down to who is reading it and why. When I wrote it is wasn’t meant to sound negative..just honest. I love the way people see things differently!!
Thanks for your comments
Love & Light
Becky
To pisces: When I write a comment. I truly mean what I say and think and I am not afarid to express it. I am very straight forward, and I don’t beat around the bush. Nor do I piss down someone back and tell them it’s raining. Anyone, will know that my thoughts and comments are honest and not sugar coated. People know where I stand weither then agree with me or not.
And also, my thought is. If you post your whatever is concerning you for EVERYONE to read, then it is only natural that people will comment, and say their own opinion. And what’s the point of posting whatever concerns you to the world if you don’t expect some people’s opinon to be hash, aggerssive, negivite, positive.
Anyone, who comes on here, has the right to write whatever they feel.
Hey LittleImpaler
I have to say that I agree with Pisces, you do sound very harsh when you write, I understand what you are saying about having your own opinion and not beating around the bush but there is a certain way in giving advice… I’m not trying to lecture you about how to write but I think the point that Pisces is trying to make is that talking politely doesn’t necessarily mean as you like to put it pissing down someones back or sugar coated…its just talking NICELY lol
To Haz91: Hiya, that is just who I am. I am very straight forward person and very fiercy . My family are very straight forward people and we tell it how it is. I think, if a person has something to say, they should say it, not worrying about if it’s will hurt the other person’s feelings. Like I said, I am very honest person, and I am not going to sugarcoat and say the world is covered with bright blue skies, people live in white houses with white picket fences, and there are flying pink pigs.
I am just going to say this, and I don’t care if people think I am being mean. I feel we live in world where it seem like EVERYONE is afarid to say what they truly feel, because it might HURT someone’s “FEELINGS” Or people nowadays (espeically people of my generation feel like it is bad, mean to be your own person and we must be robots) This world lacks warrior spirt. If I think something is stupid, I will say it is stupid, if I think something is bullshit, I will say that it is bullshit. I am not afarid to be very outspoken or very opinated about things.
You have the right to say whatever you like, that is your choice. When you made that one comment to that one person where YOU thought she was bragging about her aquarius or gemini boyfiriend, and you wrote your opinon, and in your comment one could read your comment say to you “you are being mean and blah blah blah” or your comment sounded mean, hash or whatever. And someone like me or anyone could tell you the samething you are telling me.
I have much of right as you or anyone to voice my thought. I have the right to be straight forward and quick to the point, as you have the right, find my comment as insentive and mean.
I am not the only one here who is outspoken like me. A lot of other people are too, like Becky, and a lot of the Aquarious women here are too.
I don’t know about you, if I wanted advice from someone, I would want an honest, real comment, that isn’t sugarcoated bullshit. When they sugarcoat their advice, how can they help that person by lying about the real nasty, ugly, beautiful world?
@littleimpalar…if someone is coming to you about a negative situation that they are in why make it worse with negative feed back?….that makes a person not want to talk to you…..there is a way to say things instead of making them feel worse about the situation they are in….
@littleimpalar….sweetie they are looking for a more positive view from others on the negative situation they are in…….just giving my opinion…..when it all boards , you are who you are, and i am who i am…..
and another thing @ littleimpalar…sometimes its best to keep your negative opinions to yourself…some ppl cant handle the way you come to them….before you know it your teeth is in your forehead….you really cant just say what you wanna say ((but i guess with you being on the internet you are free to say what you wanna say)) ..if you dont have anything good to say dont say it at all………peace…may God bless you and have a productive weekend….
LittleImpaler
I’m not questioning whether you are a straightforward person or not i’m sure you are but notice in my comment I wasn’t very harsh and the guy actually apologised to me which I greatly appreciated. I’m sure you do have a different personality that is straightforward and honest..and I respect that but I think you are exagerating by saying the world is covered in sugar and something about white houses and fences…it’s not about that…yes you have to be honest in life..and everyone tries to be but the issue that is being addressed is the way you write which is and sounds negative the way you say bullshit and pissing down it just isn’t very nice. You can help people by giving them good thorough advice without being so hard and harsh….
Anyway we are both different people and we could go on and on about this..lol… I suppose you give advice differently to me but I thought I would address the matter ir your writing technique on giving advice LOL
hey pisces, i came on here cause i enjoy to read what people have to say and what their opinions are. You seem to be the negative person in all this as you cant get off this website and just have to keep arguing. Clearly after the 500 million posts no one is giving in so why dont you try shutting the fuck up and let people be, so it can go back to being nice and not having my hotmail full of your bullshit for the last two mornings.
To pisces: You can take my comments, my opinions negitval if you want, that is your right. I don’t know what country you’re from. I live in America. And here in America, we have the freedom of speech. With that said, Americans CAN say whatever they want, weither if others disagree or agree. Which is a great right to have. And if EVERYONE was like everyone eles, and had the same opinions, what would be the reason to have an opinion? Being different is what makes the world go around.
I think it’s great that other people have diffant opinons from one another. Like Becky said, “Take the opinon as you like. I like hearing other people’s ideas.”
And if my opinons bother you that much, don’t read them, skip them and they won’t hurt your feelings.
Have a nice day
To Pieses: So having an honest opinon about a situation is suddenly negitive???? Problems are never black or white. Some times in life the right choices to make are not always the posive ones. Some times one must be mean, be their foot down, become the master of their life, and take charge, be a doer, not a sitter and complain.. Handeling a problem is never roses. In solving a problem one must be realisistic about the sitution. If one cheats on their husband and they come asking for someone’s advice. What is the other person giving advice suppose to do? Should they lie and say. “Well, if he finds out, no worries your husband will love you. You will live happily ever after.” And give a faulty opinon that doesn’t fix the problem. Or say, with honesty.
“I think you should stop, because if he finds out you are seriously going to hurt him. And if this is your first time, and if you feel bad about it. Don’t tell him, but if you are going to do that again, you should be honest with him and end the relationship.”
If you can’t handle the negitve sides to life and HOW CAN YOU recive an honest opinon???? Asking people to only give you positive suggesting, tells me you don’t want to face your problem, you want everything to be peachy clean. Which doesn’t work in the real world, because in the real world isn’t perfect.
That’s like saying “Well, if you slam your foot in the door, your foot isn’t going to hurt.” But in reality you slam your foot into the door, it’s going to hurt.
Ok, so I didn’t get any “good” advice as of yet but I wanted to inform y’all of my decision.
I told my 18 yr Leo love/friend that because he “does” have a girlfriend I can-not be a part of whatever is going on with us-right now. I told him it’s not fair to me since he’s NOT putting 100% into “us” AND it’s not fair to the girl he’s dating. I also feel it’s unfair that my life is on hold waiting around for him. To make a long story short, we are just “friends”and if in the future the timing is right, we will try, with both putting 100% in to it.
Now, to Littleimpaler. I didn’t mind your comment because I knew when I put my business out there that there would be “those” who will respond to it as you did. Your comment made me feel as though he doesn’t care…but I know he does, because of our many years of friendship. You have to understand we decided to take it a step further, after so many years, to see it there was chemistry AND there was. I knew he had a girlfriend but I also was under the impression that he was a grown man and would know what he wanted out of life, a serious relationship-eventually marriage to someone he likes-get along with, but I don’t think that’s his goal right now. I believe he enjoys his girlfriend but not in it for a lifetime (so why waste your time is my question to him). I, on the other hand, am ready for a serious relationship. Anyways, thanks for your response but to make it mean anything (to help was your ultimate goal right?) then easy up on the wording…I”m not asking to sugar coat it but to make someone (me) understand your point, rephrase your wording so my first impression of your comment is not defensive. Hope that made sense but I’m running late….Thanks again!
I am being set up on a blind date and I’m looking forward to that. Wish me luck!
my last message was referred to littleimparlar……..
Well this website has just gone to shit now. I see picses you are so condesending in how you speak to people i should wish you good luck in life and hope you actually have people around you that like you, cause clearly no one does on this website. Just give it up and maybe find an activity thats involves you not trying to be to righteous and trying to win an arguement. I mean do you know these people and have to prove a point? You are not impressing anyone and at the end of the day no one goes home and thinks about you and you are not making anyone change or become better inside cause you have an opinion.
Now i cant enjoy what this website was all about the Aquarius and Leo matches and how we work together cause you just keep trying to argue that someone is negative?
I will not be logging onto this site any more as you have ruined it. You will not stop and i hope for your sake you do find a hobby.
Maybe people would like you more as well if you didnt voice you opionions by being condeseding like “Sweetie” and using bless in your sentences. I doubt you being a bitch and the saying bless makes you look like you are a good person. It makes you look like and idiot.
Logging off this sight now never to return to this immatuarty
To: Life long partners?
Yeah, I was just giving advice, since your comment interested me. I didn’t mean to sound mean, or anything. The situation from my point view was . . . Here’s a man who says he loves you, but how can a man love YOU if he has a girlfriend on the side. How I saw it if, someone who really loves someone, truly they would have ended their current relationship, before starting a new one. I was agreeing with you to keep your guard up, cause I too, found it be odd, thinking “yeah right, un huh whatever.”
And you didn’t seem you wanted to be the “Other woman” aka the “Hole”. I just don’t trust anyone who says they love someone truly when their with someone eles. It just doesn’t feel right. And I thought, you’re such nice woman you seem to be looking for the man for you, that you deserve a man who is single. That when you walk into a room he thinks of you as his goddess, that he can’t help falling in love with you over and over again. You know, someone who will just adore the hell out of you, and wants to be with you, calls you everyday, because he missing you. And it so hard to love someone, when you know they have someone eles in their life and it just makes the relationship awarkward and one might always think “he is cheating on me.” And in my mind no one needs that BS.
And you seem like trustworthy type of gal, that would have made you feel bad. I feel bad for his girlfriend as well.
But anyways, I am glad you talked to him about it and such. And you have stayed friends, and I hope this blind date works out for you. And you find that man that falls in love with you.
Here’s another thought. Maybe it is best to stay friends with your long time friends and not start anything that says more than friends. Because if it doesn’t work out, you might find yourself that you lost a great friend. My father once told me in the car. Being friends with someone is totally different than being in love with them.
Good luck
To Haz91 and Pisces: Let’s agree to disagree and stop this meanilings debate. About comments and such. It’s starting to tired me out, and I know I will keep repeating myself and I have (we have) already explain ourselves to each other
Just to keep the peace.
This just proves that sometimes Aquarius, Piseces (if you are one) and Geminis don’t always get alone.
Have nice day you two and the rest of you.
Hi there to everyone.
I have been reading through the comments on various posts and am rather disturbed to see that there are a few people who seem to see themselves as psychiatrists trying to fix people who do not need fixing. Someone said that everyone is entitled to there own opinion and can express it however they feel. This is not accurate. Ofcourse everyone is more than welcome to leave there comments but noone is allowed to upset other people on purpose or use bad language, other sites may allow this but I do not. This was not the purpose of my site and I won’t let it be ruined by over powering arrogance, there is enough of that in the world already. Please can we keep it nice on here, feel free to have your say but please have respect for others feelings and mine!!
Thank you
Love & Light
Becky
And my point exactly Becky……..and by the way i have recommended all my friends that is into astrology, to your site and we love it!!!!!! thanks Becky!!!!!!!!!!
@leah…you sound like a over sensitive s%^& that needs some attention………you dont need to come back…your making a big deal over nothing…talking bout immaturaty
by the the way site i am a gemini-tiger…..dead on!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Alright you all I have been reading for weeks now… Let me say this: I am a female Leo and my beloved is an Aquarius male: the bottom line we love each other… yes the signs play a part but the most important aspects in any relationship even on this website is that we all respect, love and be patient with each other! We are here to help each other and sometimes it doesn’t always come out kind but what the root of any expression of thought from the heart is intention. We all come here for help because we are troubled or challenged in our relationships whether being in love - figuring out love - or breaking love - I will tell you my experience Leos are kind, loving and quite giving but I can be suffocating and needy - and arrogant but humble. My rising is Leo, my sun is Leo and descending is Aries. I am all fire - and I am impulsive and I yearn for the next experience for the next thrill… My Aquarius can barely keep up - that is where I must be patient… but sometimes he needs to get his butt in gear - can I say I can be bossy! My Aquarius is 22 - I am 37 - we have age and distance that keep us apart but we make it work… Aquarius people have always been lucky for me and I have the most chemistry with Aquarius-it just works with Leo. I don’t get it but it works. Aquarius people are very, very on the cutting edge of self expression. They are creative and self driven. They are strong yet weak - just be patient because what I have noticed they always don’t like to talk about deep things… They can be sometimes aloof… oh well! Good luck Leos and Aquarius’ Just remember this: this a journey and we can’t take anything with us - get as much experience in everything as you can - our memories are all that we really have… Learn to live, learn to forgive and mostly learn to love… everything really doesn’t matter…
To Cindy: I am Aquarius as well, and girl, I have got to say, I LOVE how you talk. You don’t hold anything back. I like that in people, and fire to!
Thank you Little Impaler - I have lived and I have seen a lot… love just love….
Hi all
Just came across this site. Great idea with the blog, Becky.
Just wanted to share, and see if other Leo-Aqua couples have had this experience.
I have been seeing my Leo bf for almost 6 months now. I’m 27, he’s 26. It was ‘love at 1st sight.’ There is a lot of passion and love between us but we also fight a LOT. Sometimes the fights got so bad that we each (a few times) tried to break up, but no way, couldn’t do it. The same night I/he was back at his/my door. I’ve never loved someone as much as I love him. Even thou we have many differences of opinion, and yes, it’s true we both want to be the ‘boss’, there is this crazy magnetic attraction between us. I feel it in my belly; as dramatic as things have sometimes gotten between us, I almost can’t imagine not having him in my life.
Re: the being the boss/fighting for the spotlight
I’m lucky because I get to be the star at work (I’m self-employed), but in our relationship, I try to let him be the ’star.’ Being a ’submissive’ woman who prefers a ‘dominant’ man, this actually makes me happy. Before my dom Leo man, I dated less intense guys but they were no fun. My Leo is the best!
We have actually moved in together last week, and I wouldn’t mind at all having this Leo fun, passion, & practicality in my life forever!
Cheers & good-luck to all Leo-Aqua couples.
xoxo
AquaGirl
Well I’m a Male leo (Aug 3rd)and my closest relationships have been with Aquarians. As much as I hate to love Aquarians the chemistry is just there. I’m fighting with myself over a new interest because after all the engaging conversations, lunches outings (no dinners though - figures)i find out she’s an Aquarius which always puts me back to square one like “do i need to deal with this right now?!” But I always do. Underneath it all I’m hoping I’ll luck out and end up with the chemistry, excitement and unpredictability that I love….to hate..lol
Mr.Charlie, you are in the same boat as me. -laughs-
I am a Leo, as well. And my Aquarius and I would always go on coffee dates, no dinners.
What is it about them that attracts us Leos? What keeps coming back, after being cold-shouldered by an Aquarius?
I am trying to figure that out. But I am starting to think that maybe it is just natural. Kind of like a bee can’t help but go to the flower.
I pray that not many of us get stung.
To XtransylvanianX:
You should just accept us for what we are, not try to analize us. Because you will never figure as out and if you analyize too much, it will drive you mad.
I’ve been friends with a Leo guy for three years.Occasionaly we used to have fun as well, but none of us drew the boundaries of our friendship, until one day I decided to get involved in a relationship with another guy and I made the mistake to show off my new bf to my Leo guy.I will never forget the look in his eyes and his disappointment. Following the introductions he simply vanished. We never talked about us, I used to disappear for days, as a true Aquarius and he used to wait for me and viceversa.When challanged a few months later he replied “What do you want me around for, as you have a bf now? I tried to explain that if he were in my place I would’ve been happy for him, but it was useless. He took 8 months off when i finally heard from him. We talked as we used to talk but then he vanished again. I think he will never be able to let behind that bf phase of mine. I can’t challange him to an open discussion as he is so shy and instead of admitting it he poses in the tough guy.I’m really happy for all the Aquarius girls who date a Leo guy, so happy that I almost envy you.But for me, I’ll keep waiting, hoping that one day things will turn out for me and my Leo guy and as an Aquarius in the meantime I keep my options open.But no other man has ever had the same impact on me as my Leo friend, and it was a really rewarding friendship, of which unfortunately I wasn’t aware at the time being. Good luck girls and please take care of your Leo guys, they’re the best of life you can get.
To misery: This Leo guy friend of yours seem like a boy. I mean you guys weren’t even dating. And you never sat him down and told him “You want to be my boyfriend.” So he has no right treating you the way he did. I say, if you two never disscues being a couple, woman you are free to date any man you want.
He only got mad, because he like you more than just a friend and if he never had the balls to ask you out, well, that his bad.
Misery, you did nothing wrong, and let him act like how he wants to act. And keep on living life like how you want, never let a guy stop you from living life.
To misery:
Don’t keep waiting for this man, if this man wants you, he’ll chase you, call you. If he is not doing any of these things, just forget about him and move on. There’s better fish in that sea.
I know, I am fully aware but I can’t help it. I am moving on, and I date people and I’ve been in a serious relationship since my Leo guy, but there’s something I can’t explain what, probably is the regret, which keeps haunting me.I guess I’ll always live with the regret that i was shallow, but even if I were he could have closed his eyes and started fresh. Oh well, that’s life, even if we want or not, it goes on.
The last thing I want to do is chase or control my Aquarius however we have been seeing each other for a year now and we have had good times and bad. We have signed on to my space together before and well I was reading some comments sent by another girl - and well I found out he cheated on me with her. I forgave him and her thus we canceled our my space and moved on. After a time, we opened our my space again and we had an agreement that we would not friend each other. Well, we felt stable and happy and decided to go to Hawaii together. Well we did and we had a good time - when we returned back home while sitting on my bed he suggested let’s sign on to my myspace and I said ok and then he said no we better not… I asked him to befriend me on my space and he refused so instead he canceled his page - uh? When does freedom with an Aquarius an excuse to be uncommitted or sneaky??? Aquarius’s like freedom,or do they like the option to be uncommitted, so they can have the freedom to entertain a fantasy or desire? My Aquarius loves me but fights his inner demons for a desire for freedom. He states he doesn’t want to lose me. oh boy my Aquarius gives me a run for my money… Well, all I know is that I love him and well actions speak louder than words and we shall see what this Aquarius will do… well any thoughts??
To Cindy
Aquarius love people,no matter how loud he or she will yell that they don’t like to be the center of attention, believe me they want to. Even if they are involved in a steady relationship, and they love and are loved in return, they just can’t help getting someone else’s attention. And internet is our world, we get connected with lots of people and we are getting the attention we crave for, but we don’t want our partner to find out, we aren’t doing anything wrong like cheating, we just like to know people to have fun with, not flee away from them. It happened to me as well, I don’t have my bf listed on any of my pages, I just can’t bother to see him online and having to talk to him. It gets on my nerves, I have him at home, what for to have it everywhere i roam on inet. My advice to you is not to pressure him, otherwise he will make another account and maybe then he can get dangerous. You can spy him from now and then, try to find out what his latest fantasy is, on inet he must have found some, and without telling him, surprise him. But under no circumstance show him any sign that you’re watching he moves. After a tense time of deleting my bf from everything I owned, and having time on inet, things are alright, but keep an eye on us, to make sure.I guess this goes to for every sign, trust but check to make sure.
To Cindy:
My thought, is too be really caution with this man. I would never believe a man, who says he loves me, when he cheats on me with other women. I say, if he doesn’t stop his cheating, I say move on. You will never change him, the only person that can change him, is himself. He has to deceide for himself, if he wants to stop cheating on you.
As I have said before in some of my comments. Actions speak louder than words. If he says he loves you, but goes around cheats on you, that isn’t love. His words are meanilesses and they are there to sugar coat you, and make you think he does.
I say leave the man, or keep being his fool.
To Little Impaler: You are very straight-forward and down to earth, which is a very good thing, but most of us who ask for advice want to fight for their relationship and what’s most important we are not ready to let our man go even if he misbehaves. And what I can say to all the women trapped in a relationship which doesn’t go well and they are not ready to let it go is to stay in that relationship as long as it takes to realise on your own that it’s useless or until you find someone else.
Thank you Impaler and Misery. I appreciate your opinions and advice. Well, I did mention to him that I found it strange that he wouldn’t let me look at his my space. I told him well, that is fine. It bothered me however, I know his conscience. It does get the better of him and for some reason he can’t keep things from me or should I say the Universe always shows me… He sent me a text apologizing to me and that he was canceling his account at my space and that he doesn’t want to lose me over “myspace” I told him he didn’t have to do that but he told me that he wanted to… Ladies, you got me on this one. I am the Leo for goodness sakes… not him - I am the one wanting the spotlight but you know what - I don’t have to work at being in the spot light I just am… for example when we go out - men stare and a few times have told him that he is lucky to have a beautiful, wonderful woman on his arm… I am thinking that other men have made him insecure… and maybe his need for attention drew him to my space for that attention. Well, he has decided to move all the way from North Carolina to Washington State for me - he has stated that he couldn’t be without me in his life - well, ladies, Leo’s are the greatest lovers - not so much sexually but in the depth of the love they give and the loyalty. As far as my Aquarius partner, I will watch him as I, being a Leo, am possessive and demanding. If he truly loves me, it will be evident in his actions. I feel confident in his love for me but a HUGE benefit of the doubt, nothing is guaranteed. I will not stop being me and I will not compromise my goals. I will not fall into this misconception that many of us fall into - that love of a partner is the end all and be all of ME. I am a Leo, I am strong, I am confident, I am loving, I am giving, I am a leader and most of all, I am…
To Cindy: I am glad you are a positive person when dealing with relationship, but I must say he is really being stupid, if he doesn’t like the fact, that another man as compilmented you on how lucky HE is to have you! WOW, you really did to take slaghammer to his head and hit him very hard! If I was a man, or even as a woman, if someone said that to me, I wouldn’t get mad, I would feel really happy inside. It would boast my ego in a good way.
To get mad over something like that is stupid. It better then having one say, “boy, what’s wrong with him, she’s ugly or something.”
I don’t understand that, wow.
To misery:
I see where you are coming from, but at the same time, if a person is in a really bad relationship or just bad one that is making them unheathy, it’s better to take step back, see the whole picture and just leave. Just being in situation that isn’t right for you, if you stay the viticem long enough, it can really mess you up.
Believe me, I have see it happen with my ex-Aunt, she has be married 5 times, to really bad, abusive men, because she is the type believes she can fix a broken dog. And being in those realationship has cause her to pop pills to solve her problems, to go to AAA meetings. She’s mess up inside. And the sad thing is, she never owns her problems, she blames her problems on other people and she has manage to piss a lot of the family off, where they don’t talk to her. And she keeps getting herself in invole in people that aren’t good for her. She’s almost 60 years old and she still acts like rebillous teenager, and she doesn’t learn from her mistake.
Yes, it good to fight for your relationship and try to make them better, but if you find yourself, that being in a certain relationship is making you unhealthy, and unhappy. And things aren’t going to get any better. It’s not worth it being yourself where you are the one getting abuse, sometimes it just better to just leave.
To misery: I just re-read your comment, and I agree with you 110% I guess you and I basically saying the same thing, just in different ways.
To Cindy:
Reading your lines reminded me that my Leo always used to catch me in the act. I was like an open book to him. For example I found out that my Leo friend had signed up for a chat programme, so I made an account and msged him when he got online, he asked me where I was from and I said France and after that i wanted to be funny and asked him if he wanted a French kiss, that was when he caught me and asked me how i found him. Or for example he used to look into my eyes and ask me what i did that time. He could read me as easy as A,B,C. And as all the Leo Aquarius relationships I was the salt and pepper, I was the one dragging him out to have fun and he used to complain that there was no use going out as we could have fun home as well.I was the one having crazy ideas, and he was the one who helped me put them into practise.And yes my Leo was a bit jealous, he never understood why I had to go out all the time, why I had to be on the move all the time as he was slow and calm. I guess there are so many things to try and I just couldn’t let life pass me by. But no matter how fun I had, the thought that my Leo was there for me was very comforting.
I met a Lady Leo who has complemented my existance for three months now,something I pray to never end.
I developed a True care about her and willing to care even more the closer we have become.I espressed that I cared about her and for her as a friend and person.One day I told her that I truly care about her and for her well being,her emotions,ect.She responded that she Loved me too.”Love!!?? Wait a minute. That’s a strong word.Do you know who are talking to?” Love is right up my ally.I’m a sucker for love.I love to see people in Love.I love what Love is.I dislike the Superficial over mouthy exsression of Love,and because I know that she loves hard.I believed her.I fell in love.Insted of Rising for it.I spent 7even years as a Monk and dedicated my life to keep away from the Lust of Passions.So as to Recieve the Karma Reward of Restraint,Self Control,Spiritual Upliftment,ect.I vowed to never give my Body to a Woman who would abuse that dedication.I Promised myself that when I do meet the proper woman,I will then take the Oath of Companion Bond with this woman.Oh! Why did we move so fast?I took all precaution to not Rush into things, but now she’s saying “we Rushing”.She says “Its not you (me).Its me(her).”She says “Your (me) to good to be true.”That she needs time.Guys always break her heart.Well she’s Breaking mine.Who needs love when love dont need us.I should have Remembered that Lionesses Bite.I have started to rebuild up the Fortress Around my heart again.How could we Humans define falling in love too quick when we easly fall into hate of other things quicker? Why not say that we hate too quick?Well as a sucker for love I rose to the Love that she presented to me.I feel as if I set myself up for Heartbreaks that I didnt espect Karma to do.I stand alone until she Knowes for sure her heart concerning mine.I swear I can be a Monk for the rest of my life if Love hurts.
Ask other Aquarius people,we are all in a rush, we always want to make things work faster, and unfortunately we do this with our partners as well. Love takes time but try telling that to an Aquarius, he or she will have all the time in the world for a friend but not for a partner. I’m curious to see if all the other Aquarius fit into the profile, I certainly do.
To misery: I read comment to Cindy, and I read the part where you wrote that your Leo has trouble keeping up with you. I find that is a problem with me with men. I am just too adventerous, and I like to go out. I am always curious. I don’t like men trying to put the ball and chain on me, and make me stay home, how boring. (Not saying, I don’t get tired from now and then.) If they can’t keep up with me I don’t want them. For me, I need a man that is just as out going, adventurous, loves life and isn’t afarid to go where the wind blows.
To misery: As a Aquarius, I don’t think that is enterly true. Speaking for myself, I am woman of action. I can be very impusles like the Aries, and when there’s certein goal I want to achieve, I’ll, go, go, go for it, until I get there.
If ever I was in a serious relationship, and I knew that my parnter is trust worthy, and we’re more sercue in our relationship. My boyfriend would be as important as any of my friends and family. If he needed me to be there, in time of need. I would. I would never forget about him. I would jump through fire, drop whatever I was doing, I would even die for him. If I felt I finally found something worth dying for.
Now, if he wasn’t all that important to me, and I wasn’t serious, then yes, I agree with 110% percent.
I will admit, I sometimes get sidetracked, and it may seem I am not always there, but I am always looking ahead.
I am a Leo woman, dating an Aquarius. I have never felt so comfortable talking to someone, from the first date. I respect him and try hard to please him. We enjoy each others company and things are progressing steadily. However, he constantly puts me down, in small ways (that counts almost more) with his sarcastic, borderline mean comments (maybe myself taking things too hard). Now I am at the point where I just say lay it on me, let me have it, and boy does he deliver! I almost feel like I need to change something just to make him happy. He is even more sensitive than me, and sometimes when I confront him, I have to end up apologizing because of my brutally honest nature. Some advice would really do me some good, please help
Hmm, I am a Leo woman too - dating an Aquarius for a year now. Well, I know exactly how you feel. I have had my issues with my Aquarius male. My Aquarius is very, very sensitive and a bit insecure, for me a bad combination. I have tried to put him at ease by reassuring him constantly however it can be draining. We love each other and we deal with each others flaws. If your relationship progresses learning to love - I would say learn to communicate what is bothering you also keeping in mind what he has gone through. My Aquarius is loving, sweet, sentimental, but in a bad mood very touchy to say the least. I know exactly what you are going through. It is not easy but what relationship are? However., how much are you willing to put with. Do you know what his rising is??? if you go into google and typr in “astrological charts” it will come up with #1 free astrological chart online - that is the one you want. You need all his info though - place of birth, time… his rising is very important and where planet is in Venus… but most of all, love is patient and it is kind, it is not self seeking, love is not rude… love does not rejoice in wrong doings… is it love he wants from you or does he want a temporary relationship? There are so many questions to be asked…
Hello all!
I am Taurus but with Aquarius as my rising sign and my honey is a Leo with Aquarius as his moon sign. We get on pretty good but we also work each others dandruff up! Way up! lol…. I suppose with Aquarius being pretty strong in both our charts it may be what helps us along. We’re both pretty quirky in our own way. I think mine is more outer appearance and his is more mental. His thought process is waaay out there which causes people to not get him sometimes. My thoughts can be out there sometimes too causing a grimace here or there. (shrugs) I do find myself needing more space than he does most times especially after sex. He’s more clingy than I am. Aaargh…I can’t stand that but I’ve come to realize that, that’s what Leo’s need, (affection and attention) so I give it to him as best I can. It’s pretty hard, though, seeing as the Gem moon that I carry on my shoulders gives even more of a need of space for me. I love him though and he I so we do what we can to make it work. We’ve been together for quite a few years now, (6) to be exact so we’ve gotta be doing something right! :)……
Hey all,
Wow! Ive learned a little reading this and and agreed with a lot. I am an aquarius female and my husband of 13 yrs. is the Leo - we just got into another of our memorable sometimes daily fights and he is sleeping in his truck somewhere while I stay here with our four children over analyzing our relationship and driving myself completely crazy with it all. We butt heads constantly, It’s like we got ourselves into all this and it has snowballed into something I can’t even explain and we can’t go back.
We one-up each other, we compete constantly it seems like a never ending battle of wills that I always lose because the only way to win with him is to completely destroy him and I dont want to go that far because I know he’ll go further and then one of us will be in jail or something. But it seems like he has no problem being mean and nasty. We are very passionate - maybe TOO passionate. We are very close - again, TOO close. I don’t know. Any thoughts or comments would be great - and to the meanies out there.. I thought I was over-sensitive before, then I married a Leo. HA! I hope he’s warm, I should give in and call him now. AAAHHHHHHHHHH!
To Lacey:
DANG!!! And Wow! I wouldn’t call him, in fact don’t do that. You two need to take your chill pills. And let the steam simmer down. Let him sleep in his car and you stay whenever you are. I would say let him come to you, and have him ask you if he can come back. If you are not ready to have him in your presence, tell him calmly, regardless if he gets mad. And tell him “Not yet.” When you are ready, when both of you are ready to talk.
Go to a resturant, have a meal, have some coffee or whatever, and talk about your problems in a civiel way. Talking in resturant forces you two to be NICE to each other, and have a chic chat. Tell each other whatever you need to tell each other. I only suggest a resturant, because it’s public. Then somewhere like your home where you two can blow up at each other (again).
If that doesn’t help, maybe get a marriage consuler to help you.
I hope this helps you and good luck.
PS. It’s not ok for him to be the ONLY one to be mean and nasty, if he acts mean and nasty people will treat him mean and nasty.
Thanks littleimpaler, I didn’t call him but he came back home and it was strange, for the first time HE actually wanted to resolve it. Probably because I didn’t call had something to do with it. I held up two fingers and said “Two-Pack leaders” like the dog whisperer guy hehe. Anyways, I hope we can keep going strong as we do have amazing chemistry and I dont think either of us could do without the other for long so our attemps at seperating or something would be futile. We’d probably just stalk each other anyways. For today all is well. Thank you so much for reading my rant and helping me to feel “not-crazy” for once.
To LittleImpaler:
I just read Lacey’s comments and made me smile.I read your comments and I really laughed. What star sign are you? I simply adore your cool and straight to the point advice.But it seems to me that you aren’t an Aquarius and if you are you surely haven’t been in a relationship with a Leo. For every Aquarius female the Leo guy is the centre of their life.I resumed my relationship with my Leo guy, I told you I’m not giving up on him, and exactly what Lacey said it’s a battle of wills, and sometimes we are much stronger than Leos, at least I’m stronger than my Leo, who’s very sensitive, and if I get mad I always have to be very careful what words to choose so as not to hurt him. Once our relationship resumed, the games we played on each other resumed as well, but at a deeper level, we are trying not to hurt each other as much as we did.The way my Leo looks at me, the way he talks to me and the way he always wants to be right, and the way I agree with him just to see him happy can only be felt and i’m sure Lacey will agree to me as well.
To LittleImpaler:
Yes you are an aquarius, sorry my mistake, what month? apparently there are some differences between those born in January and those burn in February. I’m from February.
To misery: Janauary 25th is mine. I had my birthday a few days ago, now I am 26
This aging should stopped at 21. My best friend laughs at me, because she like “Girl, you don’t even look it, you look like your still in highschool.” which is really nice, but I ALMOST freaking 30, then I’ll be 40,50 and so on.
But I have a plan, keep myself healthing, and I be still sexy at the age of 100 and beyond.
I haven’t had much romantic relationships, and when I do, they all down hill, because the guy wants to change me into a person I am not. I have certain rules I live by, and if guy doesn’t like them, then he can piss off in the other direction. LOL I am no nonsense type of woman, I know want I want, and if you act like a little child and expect me to take care of you, think twice, because I will walk away. Always, stick to your guns, never settle for less.
I am so glad I made you laugh, actually I was laughing at Lacey’s reponse to me. That whole *two pack leader.* was funny.
Yeah, I had dealt with a leo, not romanticly, but as a friend. There were moments, has you said, he always thought he could tell me what to do. He was 50 years old and French! God, could his french ways be soooooooooooo annoying. So what I did, I knew he was that way, I knew I couldn’t change him and I LET him be that way, I didn’t complain, because if I did, we just aruge and it would get tiring.
So I let him act the way he was, and it worked. There was peace.
So maybe let your husband act the way they do, even when it annoys you, just let him be and go with the flow. Pretend, that your interested, when you are not, So he can feel you understand. And he might not bother you.
To Lacey: You are so welcome and your funny. Two pack-leaders. WOW, that’s funny.
Maybe let him take the lead once in awhile, so he can feel manly. Feeling manly is very important to a man, and feeling womanly, makes a woman feel good. You let him lead, and you just go with the flow. And also, let him be him, and you be you. When you see he is doing his thing that annoys you, just let it pass, instead of fighting. Because you know he is that way, and after talking to him about it, and still he hasn’t change. Aceept him for what he is and love him, even if he is wrong, and being stupid.
There will be peace, but if you two see you’re going to get into a fight again. Realize it, tell him “No, this is not good, let’s take break from each other.” When all is settle down, go out someplace and just talk.
Taking a break from one other is a good thing. Being always together is bad thing, because the small things that wouldn’t annoy you, start annoying you and you get into fights. It’s ok NOT to be around each other. Go out and live your life.
I am strong believer that you can still live your own life, while you have someone. For this to work both need to be mature people, and be confident in their relationship with you. It’s not going to work if one or both people like “well, you belong only to me, and you can’t have a life, because I don’t feel speical.” What ever whiners, whine about.
impaler what is your rising and moon sign??
To Cindy: That I couldn’t tell you, because I don’t know what time I was born. I was not born in a hospital. I was born in the Philippines, my mother chose to have me outside, she would have gone to the hospital, if she didn’t feel the Americans living in her country would make fun of her, and tell her the reason why she married my father, was for his money.
I don’t know. All I know I am Aquaius born on the first potion, that has a lot of Aries traits. Some times I feel like Aqaruius, but sometimes I feel I am bit like an Aries.
I am hoping that Becky can tell me when I get my consulation.
To LittleImpaler: Late Happy Bday! I’ll be 28 on 15th February. But I don’t feel my age, I think my age has taken me by surprise, when I was 16 I thought that by the time I were 28 I’d be married with children, but life proved me wrongly. For years and years I longed to get married, until I realised that I wasn’t ready for marriage in the first place.At the moment I’m enjoying my life and dreaming of my Leo.
To misery: Thankie so much!
I don’t feel my age either, I just don’t like getting older.
Dare it, it just suddenly disapper. I had this Romantic Compatablity report that I did with a fine hot leo actor I wanted to share it with Lacey, Cindy, and misery. A lot of the infomation was was interesting! And a lot of the situations sounded like your guys’s relationship with Leo. It had little suggesting to help with the problems that curret in a Aquarius and Leo relationship. It was kinda a long report, when I typed in to say thank you to misery, my pervious post just disapper. I could try posting it again, but I don’t want to anger Becky, for the post being too long.
If you want to read it. E-mail me: LittleImpaler@aol.com and I will send it to you.
Like I said I resumed my relationship with my Leo, and yes it’s a battle of wills, for example three days ago we were talking and I asked him to come over and he said he was too tired and asked me what I was going to do about it, my reply was crying and he said okay go on crying, and I hung up the phone, and yesterday we were talking again and he surprised me by telling me that I shouldn’t start crying that easily. Translation: he was saying he was sorry for making me cry.And I have the feeling the relationship is getting again serious, and I’m so scared not to lose him again, and it’s weird cause both of us are trying to give up some of our territory in favour of the other person. This time looks as if we are more mature, and we are thinking it through seriously. We are both scared, we both know that we’ve been through so many things together and he realises that I’ve been by his side all the time and I never give up on him.
To LittleImpaler:
LOL. I start liking you more and more, you just put a random name there only because he’s a Leo? What I’m feeling when I’m with my Leo soemtimes I wish I didn’t. Everything seems to have a purpose, life gets a meaning, and I become so grateful having him, but sometimes I wish I were a shallow person, not having this openess I have when I’m around him. Our relation developed day by day, I didn’t receive all this from the first time, some of them were discovered along our journey, and it makes me so fragile, things I didn’t feel with other people. Time do tell, indeed.
Sorry for babbling
To misery: That’s all you can do, is to take it slow, and that good, if you were to hurry, it would ruin the relationship.
To misery:
Don’t worry about talking too much, if someone explains, that you hijacked the webpage or something stupid, ingore it.
LOL Random name??? Are you talking about my leo French friend, actually he does have a name, Christia, you got to say it right, or he does his french thing and says. “It not Christian, it’s Christia.”
Misery, you have wonderful relationship with your Leo, you do! Even if you have your ups and downs, you have stick-tu-a-ness (however you spell it.) You two can forgive, and forget and on living the next day.
The whole purpose of a really good realationship is, that you learn from each other, and you are willing to grow together, and in the end, it for the better or for the worst. And don’t be sad, if he is changing you, making you bit more open, or whatever. That’s good. Because you become a better person. And it speaical, he opens to you, you open to him.
Hi,
I’m a male Leo, 22 years old, about 6 feet tall. Whatever, descriptions aside, I came here to tell this forum about my experience with an Aquarius female, Valerie. Oh man, it was beautiful. It was the most serious relationship I’ve ever had with a girl. But it was also one of the most detrimental relationships I’ve ever experienced.
She is the same age as me. I met her at a party, you know, I was drinking beer, socializing, the whole 9 yards. We talked about music. I’m a musician and she liked this band called Mindless Self Indulgence. She was surprised that I knew about them. So bam, we hit it off. But the problem was she had a boyfriend. According to her, the relationship with him was sour. I met her a second time at another party and her boyfriend was there. I was drunk, so she decided to give me a ride home. Her boyfriend was with us. He was a nice guy, I didn’t really know much about either of them. So when she dropped me off, I walked up the stairs to my apartment. She started texting me asking me why I didn’t hug her bye? I thought, this is weird…she has a boyfriend. She continued to hang around cause I was buddies with her friend Ryan. I talked to her and said, Look if you wanna get with me you must break it off with your boyfriend. Then she texted me and told me they had broken up
It even had the smiley. So I took her to a movie and dinner and we made out in a parking lot. Romantic right? So I was instantly in love.
Then she went away for spring break. And my friends were like she’s digging you man. So I tried to play it cool. I called her once while she was in Flordia. Then she came back, partied with her friends, and showed up at my apartment while I was asleep. She wanted to fuck. So we did. And then we just kept on sleeping together all the time, like 3 times a day. After 3 weeks of that, I said, Are we dating or what? And so we were.
Things started out great. I cooked for her. We did everything together. I’d help her with homework, dishes, cleaning her room, etc. I told her she was the most beautiful girl in the world. And she told me I was the sweetest guy she had ever met. I turned into melted butter. I told her she was an angel from heaven and she started to cry, because what I said was so beautiful to her. I couldn’t believe it.
She told me how much she loved me all the time. She would come up and kiss me and hold me. All those things that make a relationship great. I became close with her family and she with mine. I asked her if she wanted to spend her life with me and she said yes. We thought about marriage. Everywhere we went, waitresses, her friends, average fucking people, would say, ya’ll look so good together. I wish you the best. Blah Blah Blah…
But then she moved home for the summer. I moved about 30 minutes from her. So we still saw each other all the time, just not as much. But anyway, she was incredibly sweet to a fault. The sex was great and passionate. From when we got together in March 08 till August 08, things were harmonious. I would go out of my way to buy her things. Her favorite color is purple, so I bought her a purple fuzzy blanket. I bought her slippers. I bought her cigerettes, dinner, movie tickets, concert tickets, clothes, a little chinese boy. She didn’t get me half those things but I was in love. Then things started to change…
I helped her move in to her new apartment. And she got really stressed out at the U-Haul people and started getting mad at me because of it. But that was nothing. I helped her build some Ikea furniture. I helped her decorate her room. She hung up pictures I’d drawn for her and pictures of us together. We would laugh till we would cry. She thought I was hilarious. She told me I warmed her heart. But then things got really fucking bad…
Out of nowhere when I would come around, she would complain about anything I was doing. Once, I was cooking noodles and I put the noodles in the pot of unboiled water and she said, YOU DON’T MAKE ANY SENSE GET OUT OF MY WAY. And she started to cook, when I was trying to do something nice and cook her dinner. I couldn’t understand this crazy, angry attitude. I was like, woah its just noodles. Another time, I cooked her eggs at my mom’s house and she refused to eat them. Mind you she was acting totally disrespectful in front of my mother. I had woken up early to surprise her with breakfast and she wouldn’t eat it.
But she stopped telling me she loved me, I felt like I was the only one saying it. That’s my bad. Apparently, Aquarius don’t like being told they’re loved. Leos do. The arguments were over the most minute things. She stormed out on me when we were at a fair, cause I wanted to go to a record store and she wanted to look at jewelry. She was acting like a child, telling me we never did what she wanted to. I wasn’t mad or anything. I thought, well if she wants to look at jewelry, then she can. But what I really think it was, was that she wanted me to buy her some jewelry. But she flipped out and started walking home, which was like 5 miles away. I had to ditch one of my good friends at the fair to find her and pick her up off the side of the road.
She got mad and walked out on me for saying “I love you, irregardless.” She said irregardless wasn’t a word and I said yes it is. I said, “Why do you care so much, I cannot believe I’m arguing over the use of a word.” It’s not even an offensive word. Then oh my god…. Then the famous eye rolling began. I’d say something in front of her like “Lets watch this Kung Fu movie.” and she would roll her eyes and say, “You like dogshit.” She hated the music I listen to (hardcore punk and grindcore). I actually play in a grindcore band as a drummer. She liked this lame Swedish fantasy dragon stuff. She liked Nightwish and Sonata Artica and other forms of viking metal. But that’s not the point. The point is she started hating everything I represented, when I would tell her she was the most beautiful girl in the world. I hung on and tried. She went from a loving, great person to be around to a hateful, spiteful individual. I remember how mean she was to me. I’d surprise her with lunch and she said “I’m not eating that shit.” I was like “I assumed you liked this” and she said “Never assume anything.” It really hurt my feelings. It was weird because when I used to surprise her with things, she adored me. Then she started acting really strange.
She quit shaving her legs and armpits for three weeks, I guess to make me unattracted to her. But I still was. However, I was like “Please shave your legs.” She quit taking care of herself. She got chubbier. She would always say that she was sick, so I would give her attention. My mom took her to the doctor. But she was faking. When I got with her, she never acted sick. But then everyday, without fail, she would always say “My stomach hurts”. She would lay down on the couch and act like she was going to die. And I believed her. I went to the store and bought her all of this medicine. We’d be laying down together in bed and she would stop talking completely. I’d ask her what’s wrong and she wouldn’t respond. She’d say get away from me, I feel like I’m going to throw up, my stomach hurts. I was like “What the fuck is wrong with you?” Then the whole stomach thing became an excuse for her to be a bitch. She would yell and scream at me over absolutely nothing and I’d ask her “What’s wrong?” “I don’t feel good, James”. I’d try to get her in bed with me and she was like, “No, my stomach hurts.” She is a liar.
Oh the fights in the kitchen…god. She’d be mad at me for whatever reason and I’d stand in the kitchen, waiting for an apology. No apology. Actually, I was always apologizing for things I didn’t feel were wrong. And this brutal, negative cycle began. She would get mad at me and I would try to buy her things to make up for it. The night we fought over the use of “irregardless”, we ended up crying together for no reason. I went out and bought her flowers and a book (she likes that Twilight dogshit) to make up for it. Even though she started the fight. She didn’t attempt to make up or admit she was wrong. In fact I never got an apology out of her, unless if I forced her to admit it by saying sorry first.
Things just turned really sour, really fast. She’d say, “You make no sense. You’re ridiculous.” Just over comments I’d make while we were watching tv. Then she quit coming over to my apartment. I started clinging to her at her place, bad move. She had these cats and the place reeked of cat shit. She never cleaned her place. I got so tired of it, I started taking out her garbage for her, doing her dishes. She almost never said thanks. She’d be doing something and I’d ask her if she needed help and she would say “NO I’M MORE THAN CAPABLE!” Then all she would do is lay down and read crappy fantasy novels. I’d say “Lets go out!” no “My stomach hurts.” You know what? Just to spite me, she when out and got drunk on the day we broke up.
But I’m not in exactly the best emotional state at this point. My father passed about 2 years ago. I’m telling you that just to set you up for this point.
We broke up 6 days ago. And the reason we broke up was because I asked to use her computer and she said “NO! USE YOUR OWN!” but the issue was that I have a version of Microsoft word without spellcheck and she has word with spellcheck. I’ve helped her write papers before and she just screwed me royally. But we were fighting over this computer and she said “GET THE FUCK OUT GET THE FUCK OUT!!!” I was like, why? Cause I asked to borrow your computer? Then I returned hours later and she gave me an altumatum: she said I needed to think about my life and give it a couple of days. Well, I went home and drank a quarter bottle of whiskey and though about my dad dying and how cold and hateful Valerie was. I got so upset. I cried like a woman. I just wanted her to accept me for who I was and stop being so hurtful. So I showed up at her apartment, drunk, crying, and wrapped in a blanket at 5 in the morning. (By the way she hates being woken up)> I asked her to please give me some comfort, cause I was upset about my dad and I just wanted to work things out with her. And she said “What does your dad have to do with our relationship?” I was crushed that someone I thought so highly of would be so unempathic. Again, she told me to get the fuck out. And I spent the next couple of days in a dark depression. And she doesn’t care. She’s going around like nothing happened. The fact that someone I loved and trusted shunned me when I needed her the most is unforgivable. It made me so pissed off.
The night we broke up, she told me she never gives people second chances, she never forgives anyone. I was like what? Second chances for me buying you things, telling you your beautiful, taking care of you when your “ill”. Just to give you an idea of her psyche, she said that everytime I did anything, a sensor in her brain went off telling her to “protest”. Thats fucking weird. I don’t know. All of this really makes me hate humanity. Aquarius, help me. I’m not even going to try to talk to her again. I just want to understand her logic. This has all been dramatic and emotionally draining. Should I ever speak to her again, in like a year?
She broke my heart.
I’m a Leo female having a tough time with a reunion with an Aquarius guy that went sour. We went out in university and reunited recently (15 years later), are in similar fields, etc. He e-mailed about getting together for almost a year before we were able to do it, and told me that he is separated (as of May ‘08) and about to divorce (an expressed concern of mine), has 2 young kids. It felt great to be pursued, and I remembered liking his quirky company a lot those years ago. We are both into current events and seemed to have some shared interests, though we were not compatible on things spiritual. Still, I wanted to see what could come of things. I felt nervous about being a rebound, and said so (he asked early on ‘what we were doing’ after having dinner a couple of times, which surprised me). I’ve never been married, would like to be one day, and would like to have a family. WE’re both in our late thirties, and I mentioned concerns that he had already ‘been there, done that’. I think I hoped he would reassure me that he was still open to seeing where things could go, but seemed to hold onto my disclosure and silently turn it over in his head ’til it became a ‘red flag’ without telling me so. I noticed that all of our ‘conversations’ were dominated by stories about himself, his successes, his interests, and that he rarely asked about me if I didn’t jump in and volunteer some info. I tried to be a good listener, hoping that would change, but it never did. When I didn’t hear from him after an awkward ‘brother-sister-ish’ new year’s, I called. He said over the phone that he ‘didn’t think he could give me what I wanted’ (biological clock thing) and didn’t want to ‘waste my time.’ He had done all of that decision-making on his own, no input from me. Easier that way, I guess. It was the wee hours when he called back and told me that, and I was half asleep and left blindsided. It all sounded very logical and well laid out, mind you. I found it hard to ‘argue’, and wasn’t interested in sounding desperate for him to change his mind.It’s been a couple of weeks now, and though we weren’t ‘together’, I found him so intriguing and interesting that I can’t help feeling like I did something wrong or failed to be what he wanted. He did not want to remain friends, as he ‘has enough of those’. That hurt. He sort of drifted in and out of my life just like that, and I am really struggling with it, wondering whether he’s moved on to someone else, knowing that others will find him as quirky and appealing as I did. I wish I’d been able to say more at the time and ask more questions as well. He never really took the time to get to know me again, and maybe that’s what hurts the most. I hate feeling that I meant nothing to him, and that he’s just cut me off this way. A recent text the day of the US election, which we were both anticipating, went unanswered, and I thought that awfully rude and undeserved. He sought me out, for heaven’s said! I always gave him his space and tried to take things as they were, though his lack of attentiveness was starting to hurt. His life seems awfully full with successful job and shared custody of his kids…or maybe the cocky exterior masked the truth. Either way…I’m feeling like a fool, and feeling the loss. Wondering if anyone else has some perspectives on things. I wish I could restore things, but it seems out of my hands at this point. His last comment: our paths might cross again given our common occupational field. An attempt to make me feel better? I heard that one, and got off the phone as quickly as possible:P
Wanted to mention that he is probably looking for someone with 100% compatibility now that his marriage has failed. Not sure who could meet that high standard. I feel so passed over!
Whatever be the predictions, the most important thing in a relationship is a commitment…well i am a leo and in my case i love my aquarian girlfriend more than i love myself..and that i think is the most important thing i care about…i am definitely optimistic that she feels the same as me and she is the person who gives me that extra adrenaline to make life more energising…well to be short she is the right person for me…..
Prasabu, sounds like you have found someone right for you. The right relationship is more energising than energy-sapping
The warmth you provide helps fuel that, no doubt. That mutuality is the thing I seek also. I don’t think it’ll be possible with this guy somehow, and I must accept that, even if I feel the situation was unfair and the decision out of my hands.I will need to get better at releasing romantic notions(oh, Leo females!) as well as people who prefer not to stay (and who, frankly, are selfish).I do need kindness and warmth and safety and truthfulness in relationship to make the energising part possible! Best wishes to you…
I am a leo woman who had my first aquarius boyfriend. But, just recently, he broke up with me (we had a 6months relationship) because he went back to his ex-gf (which i don’t know her zodiac sign)
How can you explain such cause?
I can’t think of anything that made him replace me. As far as i’m concerned, we never have so big arguments and stuff..
It has been a week that We’re are not communicating anymore..(because of course, he is with her girl) …And now, I’ve been thinking if i will/might want him back, what shall I do? Or should I just wait for the right time to come if we are meant to be?
I need some advices.. thanks!
this site is awesome. i’m a leo. married a libra for 11 yrs(best sex life ever), dated an aries-fizzled, a cancer-fizzled…now i can’t wait to date this aqua girl. we’ve been flirting for a while now & i would bet we will be dating here shortly. i’m gonna make dam sure i don’t cling or buy her anything or try to be her ‘boyfriend’….should work out nicely then. cheerio
oh, and her b-day was the 21st…(part capricorn too?)
To Brokenhearted:
You just need to realize he went back to his ex, and you got to move on. Sorry, there is not much you can do.
Whatever his reason where, it was his decision. Don’t wait, just move on.
To James:
I’m really sorry, I’ve read your story a couple of times, it’s really sad. Can anyone give you advice? Well the most common advice is to forget about her, I’d say keep her in your heart, fight with yourself to get out of the state you are in but keep her in your heart, go on with your life but keep her in your heart. If it’s meant to be your road will cross again, if not she’s there in your heart.Take care.
It hurts you know? She burned me. Leos are too giving, at least I am. I think alot of it depends on how your raised. Cause I’ve met some leos who are very mean and self centered. And to a certain extent, I could have turned out that way. But I didn’t. And i’ve been taken advantage of alot in my life, due to my giving spirit. This was just another example.
I tried so hard in that relationship. And my love for her was less about how she looked. I mean, shes a typical aquarius. I’ve noticed this, they’re either fat or extremely skinny. She was chubby, but in a cute way. She had really fine hair, cut into a bob. But the strange thing was her eyes. She would express alot of what she wouldn’t say with her eyes. They were a weird shade of grey and blue and they dominated her face. And her nose was arched in a weird way. And a oval shaped face, without any real bone defination. It wasn’t that she was extremely attractive, maybe a 5.5 on a scale of 1-10. She just looked oddly enticing.
I would like a couple of aquarians to read my story. I’d like to hear they’re perspective on it. I’ve talked to one and she said maybe I clung on too much to her emotionally. She also said that my life experiences may have seemed too stressful for her, so that pushed her away. But honestly, if she had a problem with those things she could have addressed it, instead of being a complete bitch. She treated me like a child. One time I was hanging out with some friends of mine at a birthday party. Some of my friends smoke weed, I used to. So I was standing by them while they were passing a joint around, just talking and she yelled at me across the party “James, GET OVER HERE RIGHT NOW!” Like I’m a little kid or something. Anyway, that kind of stuff happened all the time. Very controlling and demanding.
Another question is if I should speak to her again and if so, how should I approach that situation? I was thinking about waiting a number of months. But i feel entitled to an apology, one that would require her to admit that she was wrong. Which is nearly impossible for her.
To LittleImpallerand James:
I’m dying of curiosity for you to come up with advice for James’s story. I can’t be that straightforward to the poor guy as you are.
James I like your sense for details, even if I am in love with a Leo at my turn I couldn’t describe his features as well as you did for your Aquarius girl, simply cause we can’t be bothered with details.Since LittleImpaler hasn’t commented upon your story yet, I’ll try to be nicer than she usually is.According to your story and judging after her behaviour and being myself an Aquarius I can give you my opinions correlated with my life experience. Seems to me that she only wanted to have some fun,she never took the time to get to know you better simply cause she didn’t want to, you were just someone to kill some time with,she soon lost interest in you and hence her behaviour.She was way too weak and selfish to let you go as she would’ve been alone, and let me tell you about Aquarius women, in their early stage they will hook up just with anyone not to be alone.Whenever someone new gives them attention they think they’ve found their true love, it takes time to really learn to know themselves, as they live in the air that they don’t even take the time to know themselves what about other people. And I bet she can’t explain her behaviour because she got tired of you, leaving her no space, and she was too coward to confront you with her problems.As she is young she might look for you later on, probably cause she got into a bad relationship and she wanted to escape or simply because she missed you and she might be feeling some remorse.If you wanna get in touch with her, show her that you moved on, but not boasting around, little things, like ” I’m seeing a girl no big deal” or when you’re with her, reject a call or send a text to make her wonder what’s with all the secrecy and reassure her distantly that you’ll always be there for her but leave the next minute. We Aquarius think that we are perfect, no one is like us, we want to be unique and leave a long lasting memory.If you apply the hints I gave you, you’d find her more interested in you, and she would do anything to get you back just to prove her power over you, but don’t get yourself in too soon, if you start behaving like in the older days, she’ll soon leave. You gotta build a totally different approach, make her doubt that she knows you. All these comes from my experience, I’m an Aquarius, been there done that.I’m not proud but that built me into who I am today.Oh one more thing don’t think you know her, approach her like a new girl, rediscover her and let her rediscover another face of you. I know it’s difficult and feels like it’s one big useless and fake game, but that’s the only option, trust me it won’t work throwing your heart in her hands and imploring her to get you back.Start fresh!
Well,
I decided (in ignorance and with a small glimmer of hope) to talk to her last night. I set down some ground rules for the conversation, like, don’t be ugly, be honest, etc. I told her that she helped me through a difficult time in my life and thanked her for it. But when I brought up my father and how much pain that put me through and how the breakup bought out all the feelings of grief I had been suppressing, she responded with “I can’t help you with that, that’s your own problem. You quit your job over this, you’re immature, you can’t buy my love etc.” I just cannot get over her lack of empathy for my situation. But then I really was able to get into her head. I brought up her family. She has never said a nice word about her father. And when I met him, I thought he was a nice guy. But she hated him and me and her dad/family got along great. She accused her dad of being lazy and not listening to her. That may be true, her mother runs the family. But her notion of her dad’s laziness is a false one. I see him work in the yard, he has a successful career. He even asked for me to move in their house over the summer. But the point is, she started thinking really hard, and then she said that “I reminded her of her father and it disgusted her”. I told her, “I’m not your father.” She would always argue in the same fashion with her parents. And that was something she never addressed in the entire course of the relationship. And I think her father gave her a skewed view of men in general. I told her she would never have a healthy relationship until she confronted her own problems with men/her father. And that pissed her off beyond belief. The easy going conversation turned into a pissing contest, with each of us yelling “Fuck you.” It just upset me that she thinks I’m immature. I’ve had life experiences much more devastating than hers, not to undermine what she went through with her family, but dealing with that made me mature. I told her, “You think your better than me and in a relationship that’s unhealthy. We should view each other as equals.” I never picked a fight, I find that immature. I never rolled my eyes, which is what she did for the entire conversation. Her tone of voice was also had a strong dipthong, like she was talking to a child. She broke the rules. And yes, after we broke up I did go around telling my friends the situation and I called her a fat cunt. She said that was immature and it was. But I’m almost 99% positive that she said more, if not worse things about me. I brought up what other people told me she had said behind my back and she flat out denied it. So at this point, I done trying. I’ve already got another date planned for this weekend. But she certainly changed my perception on women. When you let them, they will tear your balls off, at least women like her. Anyway, I find her a terrible example of a human being. It’s like the whole time I was talking to her, she wouldn’t fucking listen. Now matter how much she wanted to, her stubborn nature wouldn’t let her give in. She wouldn’t even acknowledge my suffering or even give me a hung. Nothing. It’s over and I will never another woman treat me like that.
Well, thank for forgiveness because I have been really bad to my Aquarius boyfriend - yikes - I am a Leo female. You all - I have been doing bad things no - not cheating but getting into his business. I am so possessive — well they call him sometimes,(his xgirlfriends and he is friends with them)the typical Aquarius, I answer the phone… what do you need? Are Leos always so pyscho? God forbid get alcohol in me - I see red - little impaler - the passion in me is ridiculous…Sometimes I hate being a Leo rising - a Leo sunsign and an awries descending… cause I am off the hook - possessive - jealous - mean… are all Leos like me or is it the combo of the three signs in my chart???
To James:
Aquarius woman here, I am going to be straight forward, and in no where it is to be mean.
This girl is a TOTAL bitch! I don’t like controling and demanding people. Yelling at you like that was totally uncalled for. And real immature. This person only control you, because, their not confident in themselves and only way to feel they are in control with their life is by controling someone else. She’s a bully. Forget about her, you can do so much better.
You might not ever get an apolize from her, and whatever you do, I hope you don’t wait for one, where it prevents you from living life.
Realize what done is done and move on.
Also, I know it will be hard, but what I going to say, is only going to help you in later relationship. If you know you are a very giving person, if you fall in love with someone again. Be caution, don’t give your self competely to them, until they prove they are worthy and good people.
To misery and James:
Just read your comment misery, and in my opinon, James shouldn’t wait for this girl. As misery as pointing out her characteristics.
He can do with someone so much better, what she did was uncalled for and it makes me pissed!
Yes, it might be true for some Aquarius, to use people when they feel lonley, (which is a poor excause to treat someone, like she treated him,) but for myself in no way do I act like that. I am like an Aries in some aspects I don’t love someone, if I am not in love with them. I do not play with people’s feelings. I treat people how I like to be treated. If I don’t want someone to lie and play with my feelings and pretend their in love with me, I will not DO IT!
I live by certain code of rules, and honor, I am very much a warrior woman.
And James, if she comes back and cries, and does whatever she does. If I were in your shoes, I totally hang up on her. If you let her back in your life, she would probably do the same thing to you again. You are NOT, repeat ARE NOT oblieately to her, you don’t have to be with her if you do not want to. I am very strong believer, of “What you see, is what you get.” She has proven to you what kind person she is, and you know what she is capable of.
As I said, move on and forget and sever your ties with her, she is not worth it. If you decied to stay with her if she begs to come back, I think she would totally mess you up inside your head and you do not need that. Try to find people, who are good people, who have level head, and don’t act like a bully.
To James:
I disagree with you right there, we Aquarius, like to have people we care that they love us.
I will tell someone I love them, when I feel, they are trust worthy, and won’t break my heart the next day.
And even if we don’t say it, our actions speak louder than words.
To Cindy:
No, not all Leos are like you, it’s just you. If it bother you how you act and you don’t like it. Try very hard to not do the things you don’t like about yourself. Change yourself to better you.
A few lines from another Aquarian.
Aquarians basically possess strong and attractive personalities. They fall into two principle types: one shy, sensitive, gentle and patient; the other exuberant, lively and exhibitionist, sometimes hiding the considerable depths of their character under a cloak of frivolity. Both types are strong willed and forceful in their different ways and have strong convictions.
Both types need to retire from the world at times and to become temporary loners. They appreciate opportunities for meditation or, if they are religious, of retreats. Even in company they are fiercely independent, refusing to follow the crowd. They dislike interference by others, however helpfully intended, and will accept it only on their own terms. Normally they have good taste in drama, music and art, and are also gifted in the arts, especially drama.
In spite of the often intensely magnetic, forthcoming and open personality of the more extrovert kind of Aquarian, and of their desire to help humanity, neither type makes friends easily. They sometimes appear to condescend to others and take too little trouble to cultivate the acquaintance of people who do not particularly appeal to them. They do not give themselves easily - perhaps their judgment of human nature is too good for that - and are sometimes accounted cold.
Among the faults to which they are liable are fanatical eccentricity, wayward egotism, excessive detachment and an inclination to retreat from life and society, and a tendency to be extremely dogmatic in their opinions. Aquarians can be a threat to all they survey or a great boon for humanity in general. Circumstances - for example, continuous opposition to a cause they hold dear - may cause the atrophy of the openness of mind that is one of the Aquarian’s most attractive traits. They may express a lack of integrity in broken promises, secretiveness or cunning. Simmering anger and resentment, rudeness or, worse, a tense, threatening silence which may suddenly burst out in eruptions of extreme temper, these are all part of the negative side of the Aquarian. This can also reveal itself in a sustained hatred for enemies that is capable of enlarging itself into a misanthropy toward the whole of mankind.
THE AQUARIUS WOMAN: faithful, detached, unemotional, witty, bright, adaptable. This is not your home-body. She is too unpredictable to be tied down to household duties. She is faithful, but must have her freedom to explore her whims and erratic ideas, She is often found in politics, education, scientific, or technical fields. She is not suspicious, so a mate would have to be boldly unfaithful for her to notice. But once she is sure, she could walk away and there would be no making up with her. She is stubborn. Aquarian women are usually beautiful with long, flowing hair. They have charming manners and are usually very proper, then suddenly they pop out with something totally shocking. She is drawn to an unconventional man who will not be possessive. It would help if he were a genius. She may enjoy innovative sex.
Aquarius’ Likes and Dislikes
Likes:
* fame or recognition
* thinking about self
* privacy
* rainbows, dreams, magic
* change, eccentricity, surprises
* credit cards
* telling others what needs to be done - then watching them get on with it
* weird friends
* living within their means
* fighting for causes
* dreaming and planning for the future
* thinking of the past
* good companions
* having fun
Dislikes:
* emotion and intimacy
* people who show off
* being taken for granted
* being pinned down in any way
* any kind of hard sell
* violence and fighting
* taking loans or borrowing
* conventional authority
* revealing own motives
* extravagance
* full of air promises
* excessive loneliness
* the ordinary
* imitations
* idealistic
I’m a Leo chick and my best friend is an Aquarius male. I call him my “polar opposite”, cause well he is. We have sooo much fun together. He makes me laugh and probably enjoys the spotlight more than I do but I don’t mind cause I never know what’s gonna come out of his mouth or if he really is gonna walk around downtown with a super hero cape. We did try the whole dating thing but in the end we noticed we weren’t as happy or free to be ourselves like when we were just friends. Yup, he’s one crazy dude.
Im an aquarius woman dating an leo and it was so great in the beginning, however the plus side is that I enjoy the affection and warmth but he is very controlling and untrusting. Im much older then he is. He is struggling getting his own business going which is frustrating and I would like to end the relationship and have before but he is always for what ever reason getting back together he has a temper and is very jealous. I am helping him financially. I guess you could say I felt he really needed the help, even though in the beginning he was taking me out to all the fine resturants and seem to me he feel inlove very quickly with me. I really care for him but I don’t think its really love and he on the other had see it differently. He want to be around me and know my evey move all the time. I can’t be late coming home if I am I have to call him. He can be very rude and say rude comments which I can’t believe at times. I just wanted to make a comment. I wish everyone else in their relationship the best.
Well…I got some good news today.
I told a friend of mine all the nasty things Valerie had been saying about his girlfriend (me included) and I apologized for it. So yesterday, Valerie and her roommate got evicted from their apartment because they had 3 pets (2 cats and a snake). Unless if they get rid of them, they will be kicked out of their apartment and forced to pay the rest of the rent and on top of that find another place. So Valerie called my friends girlfriend who is a pet lover and asked her if she would take the pets. My friends girlfriend told her no. So anyway the point is….
Let me make it a little puzzle…it starts with a K and ends with an A.
You can’t cheat KARMA. And I think it’s just beginning. She’ll realize life is going to be real hard without me around. So anyway, thanks for all your help. I talked with the new girl I’m going to take on a date and we like a lot of the same things. I’m happy to move on. I’m just waiting to see what things are like for her in 6 months. Little Impaler, your right, there is a possibility that she’ll call me crying. But I am going to answer and tell her to fuck off. No matter how much I want to give in, I want to give her a taste of her own medicine. I learned a lot from this. And I have a new perspective on Aquarius. I do believe she’s the exception to the rule, ya’ll are not all bad. But given the right circumstances and the right amount of people giving in to her ways (sucking her dick), a person can turn out as badly as her. That just goes for any sign. Hopefully, she’ll learn not to treat people as badly as she treated me. I also found out an interesting fact. I looked up her moon sign for her birthday (Feb. 13th, 1986) and found out her moon is in Taurus. That may explain her stubborn behavior, coupled with her Aquarius sun, making her extremely hard to get along with. See, I have an interesting zodiac combination. I’m a Leo, with a Pisces moon and a Virgo rising. That may explain why I didn’t get along so well with her. That also may explain why I’m a drifter, artistic, and prone to take things sensitively, with bouts of depression. So anyway, I’m finally starting to feel happy again.
I have a few words of advice, as this will be my final post on here.
I just hope that by reading my personal account, you other Aquarius learn not to unnecessarily hurt people because of your own experiences/ego. Aquarius, embrace the people who love you and your life will be filled with happiness. Don’t be afraid to open up and show your emotions, even though it is difficult to. You will know yourself better because of it. If there’s anyone in your life you haven’t spoken to in years or are on shaky ground with, whether it be your parents, an ex, or just a friend, call them and tell them you appreciate what they’ve done for you in your life. Forgive the people who love you and they will do the same. Live for love, not spite, because no one wants to die with regrets.
Because what a wise man (or woman) does in the beginning, a fool does in the end.
Peace.
James
I have to honestly say I am totally into my partner. I am an aquarius & he is a leo, I must stress one thing that I have noticed about th whole “leo / aquarius” match. I am very outspoken & I hate it when I feel like I have to defend my independance. the leo although very loving, is truly at times “controlling”, me & my partner have been together for over a year, the only true problems I have experienced with this union of leo & aquarius is that we are “BOTH” stubborn and like to be the boss. we have MANY fight’s and Arguement’s but to be totally truthfull with you all, no matter how bad it has been, we alway’s come back to one another. we are both very protective of one another. the relly funny part I feel that I have to mention is that even though he is a Leo, I have the worst temper in the relationship! I have found that aquarius is very easily angered & tends to be jealous, possessive, sensitive, stubborn, strong willled,loving,faithfull,giving,caring,
protective & Insightful. Leo’s are: loving,caring,arrogant,stubborn,decitful,bossy,leaders,sneaky,stuck on themselves, cuddle bugs,center of attention & finally very set in their own opions / way’s. but I wouldn’t change any of it! I love him to death & vise versa.
well, i came across this website when i came across a leo man who, for a better choice of words,threw me for a loop. he is a mixed between the sensitiveness of a cancer but the agressive and mysterious manner of a scorpio…i love it!
however being the aquarius that i am…i’ve only let him in a little for fear of being hurt i guess. my heart is so happy with him and the status of our relationship (it’s a long distance one) but my mind always seems to speak louder…causing me to doubt things he say or question his actions….its werid because never have i had a situation like this before.
we are so different: he’s latino, i’m multiracial, he a high school grad, i’m one year from finishing my Masters, he happy with the life he has, i’m always trying to improve and grow better, he’s open with how he feels, and for me…well you know what us aquarius do when it comes to emotions, he loves the idea of being married (he’s been divorce once) and i have alot of negative feelins toward the idea of marriage…..but through it all we are so the same!
we both are stubborn, outgoing, intelligent, family-oriented, extremely honest, etc.
i guess…its just so new to me, and when it comes to matters of the heart i don’t like to take risks unless i know that not only me but the other person can grow and benefit from the relationship…idk, i overthink things so much, lol!
-yq
p.s. sorry for the writing in circles…just needed to clear my mind. any comments or thoughts will be much appreciated!
I’m an aquarius guy dating a leo, she came to the US on a student visa but then married a guy just to stay here. The thing is that she only got married to stay and not for love. Everything started off well until she told me that she had a heart condition. Then I had to step back and think about what I was getting myself into and if I wanted to keep the relationship going because I did not want to hert her. I decided to take it slow and see where it went. Then after a while I found out she was married and she told me it was only to stay here in the United States. Again I stepped back to rethink things. I decided to keep going and see where things went. She then said she wanted to divorce the guy because I think the guy fell for her but she wanted nothing to do with him. Okay, this whole time I was thinking do I really want to be with her? She is a 6 in the face and about an 8+ for a body and at first I told myself just to have fun because I was having doubts about what my friends and society would say about her looks but then I realized that the most important thing was that I liked her for the person she is and looks came second. I was starting to fall for her but at the same time tried to keep my distance. She origianlly started working for a Vietnamese Resturant. She would got lots of calls through out the day and night but I never thought anything of it until a couple of times when she came over she had to leave at 11:00pm to go drop something off at her cousins place. I asked if she would come back but she said no. I had my doubts about her leaving at odd times of the night 11, 12, 1, and then coming over at 2pm, 3pm, 4pm. I asked her to be straight with me about these odd times and she said that she had to drop a case off for a family friend and she did not know what was in it? By the way she also has a bad sinus condition. Okay so here is where it gets interesting. My birthday is Feb 14th, yup Valentines day. She said she would cook for me that day but she never showed up. I tried texting her to see if she wanted to go to the beach but she did not respond. Then I finally got a text saying “honey, Happy birthday. I love you”. I texted her asking if she is going to come over but she did not respond. At 4:00pm I missed her phone call and she leaves a message saying “I know why you didn’t answer you must hate me for not showing up on your Birthday. I had a long drive and Had to pick up my dad from the
Airport. My dad supports me and I had to pick him up. I’m tired and I’m in bed and I have been throwing up. I love you.” I called her and she picked up and told me if she felt better that she would come over later. Well she never did come over and I have been texting her and trying to call her ever since. It is Feb 17th and still no answer. I was pissed off that she did not show up for my B-day and I don’t know what to do? What do you guys think? Should I leave her alone for a while and see if she calls me? By the she told me that she did not like her dad because he always manipulated her mom in order to get her(my girl) to do things. Any input is great. Thanks. After typing this I just realized how crazy this sounds. Wow. I’m in over my head.
To The Man:
Here’s my advice, keep your guard up. I don’t trust her. Her actions don’t match her words. Actions speak louder than words. She tells you one thing, and does something competletly different. I say something is fishy, and I wouldn’t be surpise if she is cheating on you.
And the whole marrying a guy for a visa, is so cruel and mean. Using men like that is wrong. I don’t know, I don’t trust her, so just keep your guard up. Using a guy to come into the states, that should give you some singals, that should tell you something about her make up.
You know, what I am not surpise if she IS cheating on you, and this is why I say this. If she can see you, while she with another man, that should tell you A LOT right there.
Why not be straight with the person from the begining, by saying “I don’t love you in that way, but would you help me get a visa?” There’s people in the world that would do that, espeically for a friend.
I would not trust her.
To “The Man”:
I also agree that something seems off with this situation. It’s interesting because it seems as though you have switched roles according to your signs. Usually it is the aquarius that does not return texts or phone calls (the distance trait), not the leo, unless she is trying to hide something. I am also thrown off by her saying “i love you”. I mean it seems that you two haven’t been together that long? I’m not sure about other leos, but as a leo I am pretty reserved about saying those words. So… It may be that she is compensating for something and trying to keep you hooked. I have been in a similar situation with a gemini, he would always say how much he cared about me etc., how beautiful I was and then he would have to go out of town for two or three days at a time and would never answer his phone or texts. Guess what?? Turns out he had a girlfriend, so i’m glad I figured that out before I let my guard down.
It could be that she is just being a little flighty, possibly afraid to commit. I would suggest talking to her and asking her straight up what the deal is. Ask her to be real with you, I know that when people do this to me, as a leo, I feel an obligation to tell them everything. Everyone is different though, so hopefully this will work. If you really want to get her attention, ignore her for a week or two. Leos hate to be ignored and will surely ask you what’s wrong, then you have the introduction for the conversation already laid out. Goodluck!!!!
Aquarius and leos seem to always be drawn to each other for the most inexplicable reasons, but remain by each other’s side despite their vast differences. It’s worth the fight if you can maintain your sanity.
im a female leo, how compatible would it be for me date a male aquarius when we go under the following..
my venus is scorpio, is his pisces
my moon is scorpio, his is saggitarius
my rising sign is virgo, his is pisces
my mars is cancer, his is pisces
I am a leo and have known my aquarius boyfriend for a year. we were best friends for a few months and everything was going very well. he was needy quite a bit of the time when we first started dating. i thought the relationship was going fine, but it turned out that he’d been cheating on me the whole time we were a couple. the relationship was a 45 minute long distance thing, with my mom standing b/w us being 2gether (like dating and stuff). i stopped communicating with him and told my bff that he was cheating on me and b/c she also talked to him, i figured she told him y i stopped talkin 2 him. he never called and tried to get in touch with me on myspace but i blocked him and i stayed away for about 5 months. i wrote him a msg explainin y i was mad time l8er and offered my friendship (b/c he was/is an awesome friend and i missed him) so long as he didn’t try to hook up with me again. he took it, but started blaming me for “abandoning” him and i told him it was b/c of his cheating, but he denied it constantly. b/c he wouldnt let up on hooking up with me, i said we could b bf and gf again. so its still a long distance one. just 2 days ago, i told him i was his girl for the time being, and a day l8er he put on his myspace that he was single and found himself alone i know him well enough 2 know that he’s attempting 2 cheat on me, again. b/c ive been suspicous of him for a while, ive caught on b4 i got in too deep emotionally. i know i should not have gotten bak with him at all, but b4 i call it quits and give up on someone who has been the bestest friend ive ever had bar none, is there anything i can do, or should i just move on?
Hi im an aquarius lady and ive just met an amazing Leo. He is so gentle, kind and loving.
we are going on our first date next week…
Any ideas on how to woe my leo?
My mom is a Leo and we butt heads ALL THE TIME> because of this, i will never date a Leo. No interest in them.
And they seem to love the spotlight too much and I think that’s a little too much for me.
Hello,
I am an aquarius female and he is a Leo. I am a firm believer that it will work but as soon as he found out i was an Aquarius he mentioned how every girl he’s met/been with has been an Aquarius yet it never worked out.
Is there a possibilty?
im an aquarian, shes a leo. i dunno really how to put it. but you just kind find somone special enough and you KNOW its right. true, its kinda weird. i wont lie. our relationship is strange. but we never are frusterated for a lack of love. she must have a mess up in her asteroal chart or something, but i see the pride, and the style, and the eligance. but shes always just humble and the BEST girl in the world. i treat her like gold, and tease the hell out of her too lol. and we’re so in love. we’ll always work things out. we dont belive in fighting. we always come to eachother. and its just perfect. kinda like a disney movie ending lol. anything is possible guys
I am an aquarian. I was born january 22 and my leo was born july 23. We have known each other for like 8 years. His aunt was my mothers best friend. But anyways we started dating when I was 16 he was 17 and now I am 18 and he is 19. In June it will be two years. We have had a lot of ups and downs. He was not really a trust worthy guy and I caught him a few times fooling around. For the first year and a half we were not intimate. I was a virgin and didn’t want to lose my virginity to someone who had hurt me so bad. But it was too hard to lose him. I am a very strong aquarius. I can hold my own. I am independent and know that I can leave him and do better but he is so important to me that it is too hard. And he feels the same way. If we ever get in our fights he will end up calling me telling me how much he needs me. He has gone through a lot and I have been there for him through thick and thin. And he has been there for me as well. In October we were broken up and didn’t talk for 2 months. He ended up meeting this girl who turned out to be crazy. He ended things with her but only to find out she was pregnant and refused to have an abortion. She is now like 5 months pregnant. They are not dating but they do talk and he does go to ultra sounds with her. She knows all about me and hates me but who cares shes the dumbass who thinks she getting married to someone who wants nothing to do with her but anywayssss we talk everyday and try to see eachother as much as possible. I ended up losing my virginity to him like 2 months ago. We both are moving to san diego in july. I am going to school out there and his family lives there. As of right now we are not dating but we are faithful to each other or atleast i think we are. He says that once we move out there things will be good and he wont have to deal with the girl because she is staying where we live now. He is just going to see the baby on the weekends. Every person in my life tells me that he is wrong wrong wrong for me but I know and feel in my heart we are like perfect. We have so much fun together i love his friends my friends like him.but dont like the things he has done in the past. we get along for the most part. i do what i want to do. and if he doesn’t like it he will get over it. i allow him to do what he wants to do. i am not really that jealous i am a confident person and dont have a lot of insecurity issues. he has a lot of respect for me since. i am like his little baby. so my quetion pretty much What are possibilities of aquarius and leos being together? Does both of us being on the cusp count for anything either?
I am Leo, a confident extrovert female, and obviously love attention, my boyfriend is an aquarius, and I love him so much.
Hi everyone! I’m an aquarius female and I’m dating a leo male. First and foremost lilimpaler u sound just like me. I’ve actually read this whole page of convos and I agree w u wholeheartedly. I guess that’s y we are great at giving advice cause we give them the honest truth and no sugarcoating, my few close friends appreciate it, and some others think I’m being a heartless bitch but later comes to me saying they shouldve taken my advice.
But anyways back to my leo male, I feel it is a good feelin. We go to atlantic city all the time that’s like our little getaway. But all in all I like havin my friends and freedom as so does he. I’m not a type of person u gotta be under my wing and vice versa but w me communication is the key. I am a tru believer of communication and if my partner can’t communicate w me then I will find someone that can. Being an aquarius I’ve noticed we do know a lot a lot of people. But true friends are the ones who acttually keep up w us. even tho we mite not express our feelings a lot or at all, when we love we love hard and once u vex us, me personally I don’t believe in second chances I always move forward cause once u put our heart stake, we get numb and move forward. We may get our heart broken or dissappointed in broken up relationships but that will not keep us from moving on and finding that rite one.
I have been with my Leo man for almost 6 years. My aquarius sun really does clash with his sometimes and man can we fight, but my scorpio moon and his pisces moon sure do make up well. You really do have to take turns being the leader. We have had our ups and downs but we stay together. I love a good challenge and so does he. We are never bored.
hey everyone:]
becky, love the sight
hi I’m an aquarian girl. And I saw this Leo guy at a party. I was really attracted to him! I like the way he dress, the way he looks, the way he talks. He is so funny! and I super like funny guys. he is talkative too..he talks a LOT! but i liked it xD hihi.. we started texting each other, and On tuesday will be our first date!
gudluck to us!
P.S
(this is gonna be my first date)
I have been with my LEO man for a year and a half now. We fight 7 days a week. He is very loving and mushy. Im the opposite. He wants constant praise for all he does. He is very demanding. But I must say that we love one another lots and the sex is great!
Hey, I’m an Aquarius girl, and my beau is a Leo man.
He loves me fully and completly. He’s outgoing and powerful, but he is not grounded. Well, I suppose he is, but its hard to find something to feel secure in.
Sadly, the problem has become me. I do not feel I can treat him the way he needs to be treated. I absolutly loved and adored him in the beginning, but now … I’ve detatched. I don’t want to lose him, but I’m again wanting to move onto something new. And I know, that I do not know how to share myself fully with people, I’m an emotional recluse. I can’t … talk. He wants to talk.
But he’s the best thing that could have ever happened to me.
… terrifingly, we may be getting our own apartment come the Fall.
What should I do?
Well, I am an Aquarius female and dating a leo male for about three or four months now. I know that signs vary, but usually I find them to b e a little accurate, but never have I seen such a not true sign reading lol. I mean most say it will never work out and thats just not true, I guess every Aquarius and or Leo is different, but we both split the decision making and we dont fight that much. This is probably the best relationship I have had yet and its long distance, so lots of trust and love has to go in it to make it work, and we both are even in what we put into the relationship. So in our case opposites did attract for the best and we are going to college together. So, hopefully all that goes good, but I have read some other cases and see that the Aquarius male and Leo female seems to have a lot more problems then the Aquarius femalie Leo male relationship. I think that me being the Aquarius I have girl emotions lol and I want to be understanding with him and be there I dont want to be distant from something that I love that much, but yes freedom is still important to me and he gives it to me and I dont try to control him because I wouldnt want him to do that to me. Its just a respect thing I guess. I suppose it depends on the person, but as far as Im concerned its the best relationship match for me now. And I have read so much on Aquarius best match and get Libra Gemini Aquarius and Sage and Aries, but no Leo and I guess its because they are marked as our opposite, but Ive been with most of those signs and I think found the best connection with the Leo all of them are great friends though. Anyways I just thought I would clarify that just because everyone says it wont work chances are it will.
Hope that helps…
Oh and before I go Bliss, I have some advice for you…
You honestly want to be with him I think you just need to see that.
I feel that really you just have lost touch for awhile with him… You have and he hasnt, maybe you have lost interest and you dont know why. Well, to fix that you need to connect to him again. You have to open up all you have to say is what you told me. Trust me, with my Leo i always have problems and let them go and let them build up inside in me to the point where I love him, but think well maybe we wont work out or that I want someone different. Well, then I tell him how I feel and he understands more than you think, but your hurting him leaving him in the dark when he cant help. Trust me, I feel that if you open up to him and let him be there for you that youll rekindle what you two had. Its just something you havent seen in awhile. Let him remind you
Hope that helps…
Hello…
I am a leo lady dating an Aquarius male and am happier than I have ever been. Believe me, I am in my 40s and have dated many. I am thinking that we may get along great because of our moons. His moon is Aries and mine is Aquarius. They usually say this is not a good match. But, I have to say that this is the best match that I have ever had. He treats me like gold. He doesn’t lie. and ~ He is against cheaters. Oh, and spoils me… Which you know we LEOs love!!!!! So, I was thinking… if there are others that have troubles with this match… maybe it is the moons that clash???? Have a nice day!!!! :0)
hi Everyone,
Well I am an aqua girl my man is leo, n its quitce funny how similar the relationships on here are to mine. lol
Anyways I love my leo he makes me laugh so much which is a big thing for me and well lion in the bedroom, being aquarian you’s all know what i mean when it comes to sex it has to be the best and he loves how i like to dress up for him it makes him purrrrr n then roar. haha. hes lovely and i love how hes so touchy feely and wants to curl up on the sofa with hes arms round me, yes I have trouble telling him how i really feel but im scared of doing that always have been always will be. Opposites attract and I like how demanding he is, all ive read is this match is a no no, well its the best so far were best friends as well as bf/gf we talk about everything and anything all day everyday. ive been with libra and they are way to possessive for me wants to knows my where abouts all the time…hmmm no!!! and gemini well couldnt be trsuted they like the female attention toooooo much and like some aquas i do have a jealous streak whats mine is mine sooo back off. saggi well boring in the bedroom im afraid had to get rid…lol anyway yep this is a good match go for it people cos i certainly am
Hey again everyone
I think my comment got cut off but I’ll rewrite it, lol, well, I need a bit of help with my Aqua. The story goes, I met him in middle school, he changed schools, we were greaaat friends almost f.w.b but not quite (I, of course, wanted to be more but never got to tell him how I felt) cut to some years later and my best friend is dating his best friend (it truly is a small world!) and we reconnect. We exchanged a few emails (strictly platonic) I didn’t dare tell him how I felt because I know how blunt Aquas can be (one of my best gfs is an Aqua) and to be honest I just want to be his friend. Then out of the blue he doesn’t write back and then deletes me. I’m not sure what I did or told him to make him run. I did tell him if he remembered me and he said he didn’t. (Not a big shocker as he’s a pot head lmao and it was a whiiile back) and I know he’s kind of, sort of, back with his ex (Pisces). Maybe he’s just trying to be loyal & doesn’t want a relationship with me but why would he delete me or not even want to be friends? Some people have suggested it was his ex who deleted me but i.d.k. My point is: should I even try writing him to ask if I offended him and apologize (I know Leo pride usually wouldn’t let me but when it comes to people I care for I bury it deep, deep inside and do what’s right) or should I just forget him completely and void all my old memories ’cause he’s (possibly?) kind of a jerk now…:/ any help would be great:)
oh and when i say f.w.b there was NO sex (i’m waiting for ~the one~) we were merely flirting buddies but we were insanely attracted to each other
cant wait to hear everyone’s thoughts
and we’re both metal goats in the chinese zodiac so that probably explains why we get on so well sorry for writing so much:) [im also a gemini (if were including the 13th zodiac sign lol) so i think we should be seeing eye to eye]
excuse the last comment; i only went by year so we are both goats but im not sure of his element
Hi Amberlioness,
This is my advice. You know being a Leo to my age of 41, one thing that I have realized about myself is that I like to be the hero or the “fix-it” person. Even when I didn’t do anything wrong. If there is nothing to fix, it becomes a deadlock of going nowhere. I don’t know the whole situation. I hate to give advice. Because what if I am wrong? Since the answer was left blank by him, I believe the answer and actions only lie within him to fix. It is like I always say to myself, if you love something set it free. If it comes back to you (on its own), its yours. I believe Aquarius’s like to control his/her destiny. “not be controlled” “Just like Leo”
I’m the Leo girl and I have been with Aquarius boy for 2 weeks. Before that we were best friends for a year and we wanted to try this.
We fought often before but we couldn’t broke our friendship. Now we have fought twice since we have been in relationship and I don’t know is it okay or not, because I love him, and he loves me and we don’t know why this is happening, these fights. I think it is okay perhaps because fights can help us , but can anybody help us to stop it, or tell us how to having less fights. Please sorry for my writing , because I’m not from England. Thank you very very much.
Hello Girl Who Needs Help.. Here I go again with the advice.
I am a Leo, as noted above. I think that the whole fighting question, depends on what you are fighting about.
Keep in mind that you are a leo and a woman to boot. This means we are very sensitive to any sort of critisicism. Leo=Ego It is not necessarily a bad thing. We just want to please others with are spectacularnis! So the question is, are you fighting over personal things that you can get past? This is where Aquarius’s can help. They tend to be flat out straight on what they say. (without thinking) This helps us Leo’s grow past our egos.
If the critism is something that you can not get past. It may become an issue. But if they are petty fights, talking to him and working it out could work. I believe most Aquarius are fair. So, you have to look at what you are fighting about. Who’s issues need to be worked out, couples’, his, or yours. I hope that helps…