Aquarius Compatibility With Gemini |
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Aquarius and Gemini
This is a beautiful union. (even if I do say so myself) These two simply “click” from the outset and stay that way more or less until the bitter end. When that end will be is hard to say. It could be a few months, it could be several thousand years! To be honest it all depends on how long they WANT to stay together. They actually have the option. When these two signs get together nothing can stand in their way. They make an amazing team and as well as being the best of friends, can also work together beautifully.
The Gemini has the great ability of being able to change frequently, and in every sense of the word. This will go down well with the Aquarius, who, although can be unpredictable mood wise, is a fixed sign and has trouble accepting that their way’s need changing. Luckily, the Gemini will just ‘get on with it’. If a problem arises that may need compromise the Gemini happily compromises. Aquarian’s although air signs themselves, seem to have a high level of patience, and this is required at times when being with a Gemini. I believe it is these two attributes, patience and compromise, that helps stick these two together like glue.
These two are so in tune with one another it is scary. Even if they are apart they can sense one another. Watching this couple will be amusing also. They tend to take time out of the real world and enter into one of their own making, which no-one else can understand or take part in. The closeness of this union is unbreakable and second to none. Boredom will NEVER set in. It is simply impossible for these two people to be bored in each other’s company. They will always find something to do or talk about or make up, this is one of life’s “happy couples”. I have to say from personal experience that this couple will be so active that housework and daily chores may suffer. The Aquarius and Gemini are not conservative people in anyway, and due to their highly creative abilities their’s will be a more ‘bohemian’ lifestyle.
Don’t get me wrong. If and when this loving couple argue, and oh my when they argue, they argue, it is almost as if all their love has reversed and turned into hate. It’s horrible. And mainly stems from the Gemini’s over emotional side. The Aquarius won’t hang around, they hate conflict, they find it scary..so they run away and wait until it’s gone away. The thing is that as a couple they are so very close that when an argument does happen it seems like the world has ended. It hasn’t, of-course, they will kiss and make up, Gemini will make sure of it..and will persist in getting the stubborn Aquarius out of his “mood” so they can carry on playing all over again!
Now then, sex is important to both the Aquarius and the Gemini. However, when they are together it is not the MOST important thing. It can be a small danger that if these two are already friends and THEN decide they have fallen in love, they may find it hard to get around to the sex bit. My advice in this situation is to just not worry about it, you only need to do it once..then that will be that, and you will be doing it all the time. Yes, this couple don’t need much of an excuse to jump in bed together, or indeed anywhere. They have no hang up’s about their sexuality and are both open minded and up for well, everything really. So as long as the Aquarius and the Gemini actually get around to sharing a bed together for more than sleeping in after whichever exhausting pursuit they have been doing, these two will have a sex life made in heaven…and Ann Summers will find that she has even more money!!!
Life long friends, lover’s and soul mates assured.
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December 18th, 2008 at 7:26 pm
Confused Gemgurlie when is your bday?
xx
December 18th, 2008 at 8:02 pm
To Kitty: Maybe having direct eye contact makes him nerves. I am same sign as your boyfriend and I have no problem looking into someone’s eyes. But then again I enjoy straight foraward people, it doesn’t bother me.
It could be also, and this could be sign. When someone refues you to look in your eyes, that means their lying about something, or they feel gulity.
December 18th, 2008 at 8:17 pm
To confusedGEMgurlie: So what your saying you in love with two men or you like them both the same????
I would say you have to choose between 1 or 2. If you try to have your cake and eat it too. You’ll find yourself in mess.
I personal, would stay away from any man that has girlfriend. Weither it is online and having a realationship with you, it’s still cheating. And him doing so, you should really think about SERIOUSLY, if you want to start a realationship with a man that is cheating, because he will do the same to you, just give it time.
I would never go for a person online, been there, done that, and it was very bad experice with me, because you don’t really know the guy. The guy could be a crazy person, because the man I used to love online had Schizoperia, and I didn’t know that.
If I were you, I go to the one that you know you have met.
It’s up to you. But you really have to choose. You can have two relationship with two men if you like, just remember what comes around goes around.
December 19th, 2008 at 12:26 pm
Hey confused gem gurlie
When is your bday again?
xx
December 19th, 2008 at 2:58 pm
Hi Haz,
Its June 16th.
Little Impaler: I’m not in LOVE with either of them. But I’m growing closer (as in a deep connection/friendship) with the WRONG ONE. I don’t want to scare the guy off who I want (who is the single, eligible guy) so I dont call/communicate too much… but at the same time, I want us to develop something so that I dont grow attached to the companionship of the unavailable gentleman.
The unavailable guy is not just online. lol. we know each other and see one another alot. I was just saying we communicate online alot.
Thanks everyone!
December 19th, 2008 at 6:36 pm
hey becky!
I’m an aquarian(moon in aries and taurus ascendant).. I’ve met a gemini (moon in capricorn and cancer ascendant) through my taurus ex (not for long!) a few minutes past midnight on valentines day.. we clicked the first time we talked.. it was unbelievable.. just out of a fairy tale.. and we both sensed the chemistry and sparks but couldnt confront each other for a year and eight months when the cancer i was involved with wanted me to keep my distance from the gemini out of jealousy for obvious reasons
before getting serious with my gemini, I honestly believed that we were soulmates.. just the lucky type that would stay friends forever. until he confronted me about the feelings he had all along through his past relationships while knowing me. we finally got together, and i cant say that i would believe that anyone has ever met their soulmate because so it feels that we’re the only ones that ever fell in love with the true sense of the word. we never argue, we “discuss” our problems and fears.. and we always get around them. but as friends, i cried every time he gave me the cold shoulder or didnt respond to me.
he’s the sweetest, funniest, most sensitive and adorable. I love your profile on our compatibility.. I never read something so.. PRECISE!!!
I loved it, thanks for everything… your style is very captivating! I sure enjoyed it!!
Thanks xx
December 19th, 2008 at 8:51 pm
Mari_Confused Gemini: I just thought of something yesterday. You said you get neverous? Does he know that? If he doesn’t, he needs to know you are like this, at the same time tell you once in while how he feels. A relationship can’t be one sided where you do what you need to do to give him space or whatever. He has to do the same for you. It’s part of understanding each other.
December 20th, 2008 at 1:02 pm
To confused gemgurlie
Seems like you have got an Aquarius CRISIS! LOL
But what I am going to say is that my advice to you is still remain close friends with the first Aqua man you met because obviously Aqua and Gem relitionship always truns into a friendship even after a relationship but let him know that you want to keep your distance because Aquarius love distance and isolation so he really wont mind unless he has got deep passionate feelings for you even now!
..As for the second one you said that you want to keep him close..but not scare him off.. well I would say you should call him instead of not calling him too much… show him that you are interested and take it slow… talk to him like you do to the first aqua man that you said you are close to… show an interest in him..really talk and get close because that it was defines an Aqua and Gem relationship is the excellent mental rapport…
Also you said that you are not sexually involved with him.. well yes that is what could be the difference.. the first aqua man you have actually you know …ahem..with so you both have had some sort of close intimate one to one time.. the second one is does like you but he iis taking it much slower than the first one and that is why you probably can not read if he is into you or not
GIVE IT TIME GIRL!! and he will come around
Hope I helped…:)
Take care
xx
December 20th, 2008 at 10:37 pm
To confused gemgurlie:
I still say that you have to make up your mind weither you want a friendship or not with him. I will admit wanting to be someone friend, but at the same time not wanting to be his friend, so you don’t a grow attach to him is silly.
I think it has something more to do with you, then any of these men. I think you need to learn to control yourself, and your emotions.
Whatever you decied stick to your guns, don’t be wishisy washy, it will confuse the guy and you must be honest with him and tell him where you stand.
December 21st, 2008 at 11:40 pm
Becky,
thank you so much for writing such a wonderful and so accurate description. it really made me feel better, because being an Aquariun female dating a gemini male, i realized that the reason why i am so forgiving and patient with him, is because he is the only exception and that we understand each other.
its hilarious how you wrote that aquarians dont like conflict and they run away. (we secretly want the guys to chase us anyway)
the other night we had a huge fight, i walked right out. and recieved a phonecall right away. and sat for some awkward silence after yelling our brains out, and fell asleep, waking up feeling better then ever next to each other.
we have had a lot of ups and downs the past year, but i just cant possibly see my life without him. i changed my name too, because he is going to make fun of me for the longest time for this.
thank you!
December 22nd, 2008 at 2:53 pm
Haz & Little Impaler,
Thanks! I appreciate both of your input. I do value his friendship (Aqua #1) but like we all know friendship SOMETIMES can mean more to both Gemini and Aquarius. So the dilemma is to not overstep the boundaries of friends, as we grow closer in that capacity.
Its just that Aquarius (#2) is the one I can see myself being with but things are moving SO slowly that in the meantime I feel like I’m growing closer and closer still (friendship wise) to the first. I’ve always been a firm believer in being BEST friends with my potential life partner, so now do you see why it bothers me to grow closely (even as JUST friends) to the first? Does that make sense?
There was a breakthrough this weekend with Aqua 2, we talked about what was happening between us and it was pretty much established that yes, right now we are friends, but there is potential for so much more and we’re just taking our time. He agrees, as I do that a friendship is the basis to any lasting love relationship. We talk about EVERYTHING, the future, our pasts, our present, politics, music, spirituality, literature (including swapping good reads) etc. So I believe we’re getting to know each other in depth at this point. I just occasionally need more affection or phone calls/texts when he’s thinking of me, I suppose as affirmation that we’re still heading toward… SOMETHING.
Because he knows of my decision to remain celibate (p.s. Aqua #1 and I were involved that way a LONG time ago, before I made the decision) I think it makes him unsure of how to display affection. We kiss and hug but not A LOT because even just good night/ see ya later kisses are INTENSE. So I think he’s afraid he’d make me compromise my decision so he stays away from it.
Anyway, I decided that I will start to text or call when I think of him… which ISN’T a lot by any standard. I’m not the kind who needs to hear from him everyday, but occasionally is nice.
Impaler, I hope this kind of clears up what I meant. I don’t not want to have a friendship with Aqua #1, I just want to have a CLOSER relationship with #2. You’re totally right, as a Gemini I struggle with not being wishy washy and controlling my emotions and I take that into consideration when I’m dealing with the situation.
Anyway, thanks for ALL the input!
December 22nd, 2008 at 10:37 pm
To confusedGEMgurlie:
Yes, this clears a lot up. I will admit I was confused about the situation. And you’re welcome. Here’s some more advice.
Don’t worry about “he has to be my best friend, so I can date him.” Just go with the flow. If it works, it works, if it doesn’t, it doesn’t. If you always think we must be friends first, you will drive your self insane. Just go with the flow and not think so much about making this relationship a best friend thing.
Good luck to you.
December 28th, 2008 at 4:27 pm
To Becky,
I have a question..
I have read many of the comments put by Gemini females who are in relationships with Aquarius males..what has come to my attention is that they seem to express there real true love for the Aquarius men and state that they seem to have found a real true soul mate in their aqua men!
What I wanted to ask was if you were to ask an Aqua man about his relationship with the Gemini would it be the same.. would they be as in love with the Gemini woman as they are with them…
I am just wondering because it states that the Aqua men are scared of their emotions and especially when it comes to love..so what do you think their response would be to Gemini female love match?
Are Aquarians completely in love with the Gemini as Gemini is with Aquarius..because from experiecne sometimes it seems like the Gemini woman goes onto express her true love but the Aqua man does not really say much?
Or is it me being a Gemini woman being overbearingly emotional again? lol
Thanks
December 29th, 2008 at 8:17 pm
OH my god evreything you wrote its so true
i am a gemini girl and i love Aquarius MAn so much ,when we’re together ..its just me and him in this planet ..
but the problem is we only have a fight on network, MSN and texting ..what should i do ?
email me plz
December 30th, 2008 at 5:44 pm
Hey Jana,
I wouldn’t worry about fights on the net..or msn.. every couple has fights I wouldn’t worry..but if you feel its affecting you then try and talk things through in person with him rather than using msn..but from what you have written it seems you are happy with him..
When is your birthday and when is your aquarius mans birthday?
December 31st, 2008 at 2:46 am
I think that looking into my eyes for a long period of time makes him nervous. He has told me that he has a hard time looking into peoples eyes in general… I don’t think that he is lying or has anything to hide. He’s just shy thats all. Oh and Haz.. I’m Kacey. Haha… I just would rather put down my nickname instead of my own name. My birthday is June 15th and My Aquarius birthday is Feb, 13th. =) I just happen to be a very passionate…close emotional person…and when I look into his eyes I think that he can kind of sense it and it makes him nervous.
December 31st, 2008 at 1:31 pm
Hey Jana,
I wouldn’t worry about fights on the net..or msn.. every couple has fights I wouldn’t worry..but if you feel its affecting you then try and talk things through in person with him rather than using msn..but from what you have written it seems you are happy with him..
When is your birthday and when is your aquarius mans birthday?
December 31st, 2008 at 2:15 pm
Hi there,
No need to worry about the rows. I was exactly the same with my Aquarius for the first year! If we ever chatted on the phone, MSN, or email we would always end up in a great big arguement. It’s all about communication, Gemini’s differ greatly to the Aquarius in this, we can happily use any medium to chat away for hours, whereas the Aquarius can not. And finds in just annoying, they prefer to say what they need to and go. They can often sound abrupt as well. I no longer use these forms of coomunication anymore, although we live together now so we don’t have too. Just try and keep it short and sweet. But don’t worry it’s normal! Happy New Year!!
Love & Light
Becky
December 31st, 2008 at 6:33 pm
To Becky,
I have a question..
I have read many of the comments put by Gemini females who are in relationships with Aquarius males..what has come to my attention is that they seem to express there real true love for the Aquarius men and state that they seem to have found a real true soul mate in their aqua men!
What I wanted to ask was if you were to ask an Aqua man about his relationship with the Gemini would it be the same.. would they be as in love with the Gemini woman as they are with them…
I am just wondering because it states that the Aqua men are scared of their emotions and especially when it comes to love..so what do you think their response would be to Gemini female love match?
Are Aquarians completely in love with the Gemini as Gemini is with Aquarius..because from experiecne sometimes it seems like the Gemini woman goes onto express her true love but the Aqua man does not really say much?
Or is it me being a Gemini woman being overbearingly emotional again? lol
Thanks
Sorry becky but you didnt answer the question …lol
o and HAPPY NEW YEAR !!! TO YOU TOO
XX
January 1st, 2009 at 10:42 am
Hi hun, I shall get back to you about that asap. Soo busy, I keep reading your comment I’m sure I did reply to it..maybe not though. Will be back tommorow.
Happy new year
Love & Light
Becky