Aquarius Compatibility With Gemini |
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Aquarius and Gemini
This is a beautiful union. (even if I do say so myself) These two simply “click” from the outset and stay that way more or less until the bitter end. When that end will be is hard to say. It could be a few months, it could be several thousand years! To be honest it all depends on how long they WANT to stay together. They actually have the option. When these two signs get together nothing can stand in their way. They make an amazing team and as well as being the best of friends, can also work together beautifully.
The Gemini has the great ability of being able to change frequently, and in every sense of the word. This will go down well with the Aquarius, who, although can be unpredictable mood wise, is a fixed sign and has trouble accepting that their way’s need changing. Luckily, the Gemini will just ‘get on with it’. If a problem arises that may need compromise the Gemini happily compromises. Aquarian’s although air signs themselves, seem to have a high level of patience, and this is required at times when being with a Gemini. I believe it is these two attributes, patience and compromise, that helps stick these two together like glue.
These two are so in tune with one another it is scary. Even if they are apart they can sense one another. Watching this couple will be amusing also. They tend to take time out of the real world and enter into one of their own making, which no-one else can understand or take part in. The closeness of this union is unbreakable and second to none. Boredom will NEVER set in. It is simply impossible for these two people to be bored in each other’s company. They will always find something to do or talk about or make up, this is one of life’s “happy couples”. I have to say from personal experience that this couple will be so active that housework and daily chores may suffer. The Aquarius and Gemini are not conservative people in anyway, and due to their highly creative abilities their’s will be a more ‘bohemian’ lifestyle.
Don’t get me wrong. If and when this loving couple argue, and oh my when they argue, they argue, it is almost as if all their love has reversed and turned into hate. It’s horrible. And mainly stems from the Gemini’s over emotional side. The Aquarius won’t hang around, they hate conflict, they find it scary..so they run away and wait until it’s gone away. The thing is that as a couple they are so very close that when an argument does happen it seems like the world has ended. It hasn’t, of-course, they will kiss and make up, Gemini will make sure of it..and will persist in getting the stubborn Aquarius out of his “mood” so they can carry on playing all over again!
Now then, sex is important to both the Aquarius and the Gemini. However, when they are together it is not the MOST important thing. It can be a small danger that if these two are already friends and THEN decide they have fallen in love, they may find it hard to get around to the sex bit. My advice in this situation is to just not worry about it, you only need to do it once..then that will be that, and you will be doing it all the time. Yes, this couple don’t need much of an excuse to jump in bed together, or indeed anywhere. They have no hang up’s about their sexuality and are both open minded and up for well, everything really. So as long as the Aquarius and the Gemini actually get around to sharing a bed together for more than sleeping in after whichever exhausting pursuit they have been doing, these two will have a sex life made in heaven…and Ann Summers will find that she has even more money!!!
Life long friends, lover’s and soul mates assured.
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October 10th, 2008 at 10:16 pm
As an Aquarian woman with a Gemini man in my life I found this to be spot on.
For us we have known each other for over 20 years and our friendship/relationship has taken many forms over this time, we have always felt drawn to each other, friends always described us as being like an old married couple even when we were only friends and in other relationships at the time.
We seem to bring out the best in each other and compliment each other well. We rarely fight (neither of us like conflict) but on the occasion we have it has been devastating to us both at the time.
Our relationship is intelluctual, spiritual toa degree and extremely intense physically. Together we continue to grow and nuture each other, providing a firm foundation to explore ourselves and follow our our path, yet still on the same road together. For me he is definately my soul mate…he puts up with my quirky ways and clutter..all the while giving me the space I need and have never got in previous relationships
October 11th, 2008 at 12:42 am
Hi Becky! I’ve been following your site closely and must say it’s great! I’m a gemini girl myself in a relationship with an aqua… I just love being the one that sees the aqua in a different way - I laugh when others say that aqua is aloof or insensitive, because I’ve seen a side of my aqua that is very rare and the fact that it is genuine, even though expressed only sometimes, I wouldn’t trade it for the world! anyway earlier on this page you said that Gemini is the only sign that Aquarius will ever actually “need”, what did you mean by this? why do they need Gemini? …also, I’ve been pushing my Aquarius a little lately, with successes and organization, he lacks the focus on details… he says he needs the push and faith I have in him but I don’t want to be too much … it also doesn’t help that I’m not consistent myself.. how do I get him motivated without being pushy…
also, I is it strange that we spend so much time together… I worry that I’m much more adaptable so when the time does come around that we don’t want to spend every minute together, he’ll be thrown into a whim…
okay, that was a lot of questions - I’m random I know
October 11th, 2008 at 12:38 pm
Hey Geminieyetoeye,
I read your comment above, and I can just say, that the whole thing about Aquarius needing Gemini is very true. I think what Becky means by saying Aquarius needing Gemini, is that they are very secure together. There relationship is very strong and deep, and Gemini is probably the only sign the Aquairus feels perfect with, ahvig no problems with them, sure there will be the odd arguement as every relationship does, but it is not major!
Hope that helps
Sorry to but it, you probably wanted Becky to answer, but I thought me being a Gemini too would help out another Gemini!
x
October 11th, 2008 at 11:12 pm
He was my substitue for one time. The moment I saw him I just felt really attracted, and somewhere on the road it just “clicked”… for me that is.
I don’t know about him, I only assume he felt something too, but probably not that strongly as love struck me.
We didn’t have the deepest conversations, but I made him laugh and maybe made him think about one or two things.
He’s still a substitute at my school but for another class, so I still see him some weeks.
For example, I met him again a week after we first saw each other and had a casual small talk. But then I did not see him for two weeks, and when I said “Hi” to him he looked as if he had forgotten me? Which should be quite difficult when I’m a person that you’ll probably always remember?
I am an Aquarius woman, he’s the Gemini man, and I don’t know if this matter but he’s born in late May under the gemini sign, and he kind of doesn’t really feel like a typical gemini? But I can be wrong about that…
He just doesn’t feel as “chatty” as the other geminis I’ve met who are born under the sign in June.
But anyhow, I just got brutaly dumped by a Pisces (six months ago) and after that I’ve gotten very cautious about flirting with guys.
A year ago I was out there, I was really good at flirting, I would have won the prize for “most flirtatious woman”. But know I’m overly shy.
It’s been a month since I and this gemini man talked, even if I’ve seen him a couple of times and said hallo, I can’t put myself together and go talk to him.
Also just because his so beautiful and I’m so scared I will screw it up as I did with the Pisces man. I feel as if I don’t have afford to loose him. I really want to get to know him better. Though, I think he probably finds me boring now… and has forgotten all about me… That or he has a girlfriend.
Or, can it be that he’s also strongly attracted to me to that point he gets nervous talking to me and instead avoids me?
Or he’s just not interessted?
We had our “moments”, but I’m probably exaggerating. But I felt like he wanted to know more about me, but after all weeks of not approaching me or anything, I feel confused?
What I wonder is, is it too late to try to talk to him now, a month since last? Or has he totally forgotten all about me and moved on?
Also, should I be the one approaching? Or with he, never aproaching me, it’s all a dead end?
I just wanna know if I got a chance with him or not and what’s the best way to aproach a Gemini man?
Lots of questions… I hope atleast someone can give me an answer.
And btw, thanks for a wonderful site!
October 13th, 2008 at 11:58 am
Hi Becky,
I read in your aquarius and gemini post, that when they fight they really do fight.
However, what I wanted to ask, was it is possible for an Aquarius and Gemini not to fight at all? Because being a gemini female, my best friend was a aquarian male and we NEVER fought.In fact it was quite the opposite we understood each other so well, that we never had any disagreements.
Thanks
xx
October 13th, 2008 at 12:07 pm
Hi Haz,
Yes ofcourse it is. Aquarius and Gemini will only fight when they live together, and only because Gemini ‘needs’ more than Aquarius, once that is sorted out (as long as there charts are not in complete opposition) you have yourself two happy people indeed! Friendship wise, I have never had an arguement with an Aquarius friend.
Thank you xxx
Love & Light
Becky
October 13th, 2008 at 10:59 pm
Hey Becky,
I am sun/taurus with moon/gemini which I just found out a few months ago about my moon in gem. I had always wondered why I never felt or acted like they say taureans act. I’ve read a few places where it says that a gem moon will dominate a taurus sun or I guess maybe any sun. Is that true? I love my gemini moon! The twins are fun! smile….The only thing I hate about having gemini in my chart is the gossipy thing that they relate to the twins. But thanks to my more down to earth taurus sun it helps me to refrain from doing too much of it. I tend to stay neutral. But I do however love to listen to the gossip thats going around. I guess some things can’t be helped huh. lol. My co-workers tend to think I don’t have a clue as to what’s going on most times. Especially when it’s about me. Which is most of the time. They make comments like she’s living in her own little fairytale world, til I come back and let them know when need be what has been said. You know us gem’s can tune in to more than 1 thing at a time so the joke is usually on them!
October 14th, 2008 at 9:45 pm
Well I must say this is so so right everything I am an Aquarius Woman in a relationship with a Gemini Man. We have been together over a year and its never a dull moment, we both can be withdrawn he loves to hang out for hours and hours and I wont hear from him, I can be furious and alot of people dont understand why I love him and he loves me but it goes deeper than that our love goes beyond time. He can disappear and when he comes back its like I forget about being mad, and vice versa what I do love is that the space we have away from one another makes us reuniting so great, when we argue I fall apart and he can be cold then we make up wake up and its like we never had a fight as crazy as it seems I wouldnt give him up for anyone or anything our love goes beyond what I can say.
October 15th, 2008 at 1:46 pm
Hey Peach,
I was just talking to someone the other day about the mental distance in me and my Aquarian’s relationship. And just the space that we give each other period. They were looking at me like I was CRAZY! lol…I just laughed and said it works for us. I mean, to me it’s no different than ppl who are all clingy and all over each other! I look at THEM like they’re CRAZY!
And the fghting thing goes beyond words but the making up is like WOW!!!!smile….
All of my relationships have been this way since I was like 25. I didn’t realize how much I had changed then because my Taurus sun in my younger years was dominant in my chart which had me all clingy.
The Aquarian I dated for 7 years before my current 5 year Aquarian relationship, told me I acted like I didn’t love him as much as he loved me. I was apalled and hurt. I didn’t see it then because I knew I loved him dearly. I guess I was just more distant than I knew. But now I see it. My Gemini moon plus all the Uranus energy I have in my chart really has me detached over the years. Thank God my now Aquarian has just as much Uranus and that Aqua thing goin for him, cuz I’m sure we wouldn’t be together otherwise. sigh……which would be terrible for me becuz I sorely love them, those Aquas. They are wonderful. Another SIGH…….!!!!
October 15th, 2008 at 9:21 pm
Hi Becky,
I’ve read almost everything you have written in this beautiful website and I think I’ve never seen anything as funny and as true as what you say!
I too am a Gemini girl and a adore Aqua men so I guess we have a lot in common.But I think there is one BIG difference between us-I don’t know how to handle the Aqua I love with all my heart and soul!We met 2 years ago and after we had only seen eachother a couple of times we fell in love-no,he didn’t confess to me it’s just that I could feel it…It was the strangest thing!There was an almost telepathic bond between us(I’m sure you know what I mean)!Then something happened-his best friend told him I loved the Aqua and I threw into a panic-I was so scared that he’d turn me down (although deep in my heart I knew that he wouldn’t) that before I knew it I made perhaps the biggest mistake in my life-I told him that the rumour he had heard wasn’t true.A CHILDISH thing to do but hey I’m a Gem…I don’t know why I said it…I just did.I’ve been suffering a lot since then and I’m sure he has been in pain too.
Later there was a period of around 4 months when we didn’t see eachother,school and all.But then I signed up at a sports club he was in and we made contact again.I was scared at the beginning that he’d be mad at me because of what I had done before but he wasn’t.That didn’t stop me from thinking that he was-yeah,I made big mistake number 2:I started to hide my emotions.He could see right through me I was sure of this but I didn’t know what else to do-if I told him I had lied to him he’d probably get angrier at me(I had heard that the worst thing you can do to an Aqua is to lie to them…).I think I totally confused him, the poor thing!But I didn’t know what I was doing myself.
A lot of time has passed since then-a year probably and he’s giving me hints that he still has feelings for me.So I threw my worriers and paranoia away(about time too).I WANT to be with that Aquarius whatever it takes!I’ll just put my mistakes in my past-I think I’ve learned my lesson(the hard way).
Here comes the big problem-how do I tell him how I feel?He kind of tells me what he feels by sending me songs with lyrics that match his emotions(mine too), he’s been giving me glances whenever he says something funny and he treats me differently from other girls, seeks my opinion,suddenly strarts talking to me when he really looks “lost in thought” etc.I tried sending him songs too and I call him every know and then when I feel he needs me or maybe when I can’t take being without him anymore-I don’t know, I won’t be surprised if it’s both.
The thing is he’s really shy and he obviously won’t make the first step.Or maybe he’s just as scared as I was before.I can’t blame him for being cautious-I must have given him a very hard time.That’s why I must do SOMETHING about it!I have the feeling that the future of our relationsip depends on the way I confess to him.The thing is I have no idea how to do that and I can’t hold it in much longer!
I’m sorry if this sounds more like something I should have written in my diary but I just don’t know how to give you the full picture without telling you some personal information.Please give me a piece of advice, now I know that if anyone can that would be you!
XXX
October 16th, 2008 at 7:01 am
Hi Lili,
Thank you for your comment and I am really glad you are enjoying my site
You made me laugh when I read your comment because it was like reading something I once wrote!! (many many years ago!)
Aquarius guys seem to cause so many problems. And the problem that you have is that you will have to be the one to start things going, but I think you know that. They actually fear getting hurt as their emotions are a close guarded secret so to open them up takes a lot and someone special. You need to write to him, write it all down in you beautiful Gemini way, let it all pour out exactly how you feel. Yes you may feel open to getting hurt but sometimes we just have to risk these things. If he is sending you songs then it’s pretty obvioust that he likes you a lot. By writing it down you are showing him how you feel without the awkwardness of face to face. I met my Fiance when I was 27 and I couldn’t tell him how I felt..so I wrote it down I even pretended to be asleep when I told him that I loved him!! So I do understand.
It’s early so I’m not sure if all this has made sense but please let me know how it goes, I can tell your a very lovely girl!!
Good Luck
Love & Light
Becky
October 16th, 2008 at 11:46 am
Hey becky,
I just wanted to ask, is an Aquairus male and Gemini female relationship different to a aquarius female and gemini male relationship. Because I have read on websits that The Aquarius female and gemini male relationship is alot more romance passion and love based, as for the aquarius male and gemini female, islove based but mostly to do with mental interaction.
Would you agree?
October 17th, 2008 at 7:13 am
Hi Becky,
Thank you so much for the reply! It rally inspired meee!!! I feel a lot better and I must say I’ll follow ypur advice as soon as I get the chance and set the mood right!I have the feeling that the moment is nearing and I’m really excited(and a bit nervous in the good way :)). I will do all I can for this relationship to work out.Wow I’ve never felt this brave and determined before,I really didn’t know I had it in me(could be because of the huge cup of coffee I just had though).By the way my best friend is an Aquarius and yesterday she told me the exact same thing you did-to tell him my feelings as soon as possible even if I have to write them down!
Thanks a lot again and I really appreciate what you’re doing for me and all the people here!It’s a wonderful thing
I’ll keep in touch,
XXX
October 19th, 2008 at 8:40 am
Hi Becky
I’m writing this after an insomnia soaked night which actually brought me to your site.
I am one of those awkward Aquarian men who made a decision some time back to forsake all relationships/ romantic and carnal interactions and retire into my personal world, which is very easy as I am a writer and creative director.
At 29 I have got to an age where that is not working as well for me (although I love what I do and as my friends keep pointing out to me it will be the mistress to all my relationships) and I am trying to be more emotionally honest, this has been complicated by the fact I’ve recently got back in contact with a Gemini woman I worked with on a film project at college, at the time I knew she was in a relationship and she became pretty much my muse as I wanted to respect her relationship. The more time we spent together sparks started to fly I felt that there was a comfort I have never felt with anyone else but we never got together although at the time she took to hugging me from behind in the middle of crowded corridors etc and after her doing some more stuff with me including a fashion shoot we parted ways until now.
Yet again she is in a relationship and although my first reaction is to respect that and leave well alone being in contact with her however minimal and awkward (on my part) it is it has brought back a lot of the same feelings that have never really been that far from the surface in years between, it’s safe to say she is the one that got away and my instinct says respect the fact she is in a relationship but at least tell her how you feel and felt to lay groundwork for when she is single and it comes back around again, which I believe it will.
I’m certainly not looking to break up what she has even if I could as her happiness is paramount (even if I am not the one to make her happy) things are compacted by the fact she lives quite a distance away and is at a different time of her life as she is 6 years younger and I am currently signed off work with sickness etc so there is that consideration.
Typical Aquarian you can see how much thought has gone into this. Bottom line I know this woman got into my head and I am uncertain even if with the Gemini/ Aquarian compatibility if I should tell her how I feel and how that will be revieved as we do not have the romantic history, I don’t want to come off as a freak or make her feel uncomfortable.
I’m annoyed this has taken me out of my internal world but feel that the disruption is for a reason, truth is although I know only a little bit about her and got a feel for her I have not met anyone that made me feel the same way. When I first saw her she kind of blew me away and although she was 16 going on 17 she felt much older.
I’m going to wrap it up there as I can comfortably tie myself into knots for hours over this and kind of have done tonight, hence Insomnia so any help, guidance suggestion in relation to what you know about the Aquarian Gemini attraction will be greatly appreciated.
x
October 19th, 2008 at 4:27 pm
Hi Andrew,
I know I’m not the professional around here (Becky) but I was really intrigued by your story and since I had something similar happen to me I thought maybe I could give you some insight… from my experience Aquarian men do tend to sometimes stray from the realm of love whether it’s carnal, metaphysical… I think perhaps this is sometimes due to the fact that they have a hard time understanding it or maybe they understand it better than a lot of other folk today, but rather they’re ahead of the rest of us and therefore have a hard time finding a partner to be on the same level, seeing as love to an Aquarian is something that comes with time and patience… anyway! In my youth I had some really strong feelings for an Aqua-guy but we never got around to anything… rather always mainting our friendship whether across time or space… I recently saw him but I’m in a relationship with another Aquarian at the moment (hah!) and somehow (terrible to say) I still had some feelings revived when I saw him … I know it doesn’t really relate, but, I’m going to tell you that a Gemini gal will appreciate your honesty - don’t be over-forward, but I think it will give you peace of mind to tell her how you feel, as well as you never know where she is at (no one ever does with Geminis!) but whatever you do don’t be afraid to put yourself out there… everyone ( I believe) even the aqua wants to be loved… and if not that everyone needs that person that is their partner through life! Best of luck to you, I really wish you well… and try to get some sleep!
October 20th, 2008 at 12:15 pm
Hi BlueberryGem not meaning to be rude
But when are your birthdays?
wHAT IS YOUR BIRTHDAY and when is your aqua mans?
Because it all depends on what month your birthdays are on?
Thanks
x
October 20th, 2008 at 3:18 pm
I’m June 13th, he is February 17th!
October 21st, 2008 at 11:33 am
Hey Andrew when is your birthday and when is the gemini girls birthday?
Thanks
October 21st, 2008 at 11:34 am
Hey becky,
I just wanted to ask, is an Aquairus male and Gemini female relationship different to a aquarius female and gemini male relationship. Because I have read on websits that The Aquarius female and gemini male relationship is alot more romance passion and love based, as for the aquarius male and gemini female, islove based but mostly to do with mental interaction.
Would you agree?
October 21st, 2008 at 6:12 pm
Birthdays: I’m January the 30th she is May 31