Aquarius Compatibility With Gemini |
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Aquarius and Gemini
This is a beautiful union. (even if I do say so myself) These two simply “click” from the outset and stay that way more or less until the bitter end. When that end will be is hard to say. It could be a few months, it could be several thousand years! To be honest it all depends on how long they WANT to stay together. They actually have the option. When these two signs get together nothing can stand in their way. They make an amazing team and as well as being the best of friends, can also work together beautifully.
The Gemini has the great ability of being able to change frequently, and in every sense of the word. This will go down well with the Aquarius, who, although can be unpredictable mood wise, is a fixed sign and has trouble accepting that their way’s need changing. Luckily, the Gemini will just ‘get on with it’. If a problem arises that may need compromise the Gemini happily compromises. Aquarian’s although air signs themselves, seem to have a high level of patience, and this is required at times when being with a Gemini. I believe it is these two attributes, patience and compromise, that helps stick these two together like glue.
These two are so in tune with one another it is scary. Even if they are apart they can sense one another. Watching this couple will be amusing also. They tend to take time out of the real world and enter into one of their own making, which no-one else can understand or take part in. The closeness of this union is unbreakable and second to none. Boredom will NEVER set in. It is simply impossible for these two people to be bored in each other’s company. They will always find something to do or talk about or make up, this is one of life’s “happy couples”. I have to say from personal experience that this couple will be so active that housework and daily chores may suffer. The Aquarius and Gemini are not conservative people in anyway, and due to their highly creative abilities their’s will be a more ‘bohemian’ lifestyle.
Don’t get me wrong. If and when this loving couple argue, and oh my when they argue, they argue, it is almost as if all their love has reversed and turned into hate. It’s horrible. And mainly stems from the Gemini’s over emotional side. The Aquarius won’t hang around, they hate conflict, they find it scary..so they run away and wait until it’s gone away. The thing is that as a couple they are so very close that when an argument does happen it seems like the world has ended. It hasn’t, of-course, they will kiss and make up, Gemini will make sure of it..and will persist in getting the stubborn Aquarius out of his “mood” so they can carry on playing all over again!
Now then, sex is important to both the Aquarius and the Gemini. However, when they are together it is not the MOST important thing. It can be a small danger that if these two are already friends and THEN decide they have fallen in love, they may find it hard to get around to the sex bit. My advice in this situation is to just not worry about it, you only need to do it once..then that will be that, and you will be doing it all the time. Yes, this couple don’t need much of an excuse to jump in bed together, or indeed anywhere. They have no hang up’s about their sexuality and are both open minded and up for well, everything really. So as long as the Aquarius and the Gemini actually get around to sharing a bed together for more than sleeping in after whichever exhausting pursuit they have been doing, these two will have a sex life made in heaven…and Ann Summers will find that she has even more money!!!
Life long friends, lover’s and soul mates assured.
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March 26th, 2008 at 3:15 pm
I went in search of the compatibility of Gemini-Aquarius (I’m the Geminin) because I’ve known this interesting (and very attractive) Aquarian for about 11 years. We’ve always gotten along extremely well and there has always been a physical attraction. Only recently though have we actually acted on it. Had a date and ahem… Sex. I was thrilled when I read your assessment of compatibilty between these signs. Everything you said seems to fit. Minus the fights. Haven’t been there yet! I’m a little concerned because there is a 12 year age difference, with me being the older. Still, you never know I guess.
So just wanted to say thank you for making my day. I love your style of writing and it was just a fun read! Joni
May 17th, 2008 at 6:22 pm
My first boy-friend, a Gemini, introduced me to Beethoven, Ballet, Rush, Van Halen, the Seattle Grunge Scene, Woody Allen and Russain History. I remember his giving me books of 800+ pages and expecting me to read them with him. I thought it was the most natural thing in the world. When we fought, we fought bitterly, but as we both had Taurus moons, we were able to put things in perspecive and stuck together for over four years until his death in 1992.
In memory to G.Z. — I miss you!
June 17th, 2008 at 10:03 pm
Oh how I love this Union as well Becky, but moment by moment he is driving me up the wall with his distance. I too am a Gemini and I know I can be aloof and distance at times, but my Aquarius gives me a dose of my medicine DAILY!!! Pheeeeeew,what a MAN?!
Oh my we argued last week and I feel like “butter” I just had to get what I needed off my chest because he was acting rather arrogant towards me, nonetheless I love him, I tried braking up with him several times, but in stead some unseen force or magnet keeps drawing me back to him, I just don’t know!
I’m patient, but he’s testing my patience and my love for him daily, it irks me to the bone!
I think that whenever an Aquarius as gotten his heart broken in the past, he is more cautious about taking the leap of faith back to LOVE again, but I shouldn’t be paying for another woman’s drama or mistake! What then can a Gem like myself do to reassure Mr Aqua that I too have been hurt and it’s so difficult to just sit there on the fence waiting until he finally gets the hang of things?
P.S. Oh how i’m dying for some make up sex.. LOL
Becky your help is greatly appreciated!
Thanks a bunch
June 20th, 2008 at 2:34 am
im so much in love with this gemini and of course im an aquarius. we hav lik never fought but most of the times when we did it was over MSN and it felt lik the world ended and i have to deal with the Gemini & Aries compatibility like everyday and the only time we fought other than MSN was the phone. i think we never fought in person because it will hurt too much. but anyways the last fight was the end but were so much in love with each other its scray its just there an Aries in the way what should i do
June 26th, 2008 at 5:31 am
I am a Gemini Female and I am in love with an Aquarian male. He is my partner for life. We both get each other and we never fight, we communicate our shortcomings and misunderstandings. He stimulates me from all avenues, mentally, emotionally…etc My Aquarian has been completely understanding of my commitment issues and he has talked/walked me through it all. You really nailed this compatibility reading.
June 27th, 2008 at 6:54 am
Thank you!! I have had a lot of practice with this particular match! My Fiance is an Aquarius man so I do know exactly what you mean!
Love, Light & Luck
Becky
June 30th, 2008 at 12:48 am
I’m a female gemini and i was just wondering how my bf and i will turn out together. out of curiosity though. but yeah, it seems like the little excerpt says it all..seriously, we are exactly like the horoscope says and its a bit scary. lols, now i know we are meant to be together and he’s the one. thanks much to this website..Babee i love you. {4.13.8}A&&S
June 30th, 2008 at 8:35 pm
I am a Gemini Girl whos had a relationship with a Aquarian Man for a couple years now. I am not really big into astrology, but i have to say that there were simply too many cooincidenses to ignore, even down to one sensing the other when they are near. I have also experienced some kind of psychic phenomenon(to some level anyway) when i really need to hear his voice, or cant seem to stop thinking of him, hell always call, text, or email me to say “hey baby, just thinking of you” and thats all it takes to make me feel better..I’m not sure what the recipe for magic is, but i do know that Gemini+Aqaurius= never boring, amazing sex, and intellectual stimulus.Thanks for the article, its was very insightful….Hendi S.
July 16th, 2008 at 10:03 pm
Im a gemini an my ex bf is an aquarius we had to brake up cus of fam issues but everytime we see each ova we no tht we will get back 2getha cus i still love him nd im sure he do too..and this wz spot on cus i try 2 stop liking him but i cant something keeps pulling me back.
July 24th, 2008 at 9:43 am
i’m an aquarius and i dated a gemini once, and it turned out quite horribly.
we didnt get along at all.
August 17th, 2008 at 2:38 am
You’re so right on about the whole aquarian/gemini thing. I’m an aquarian women attracted to a gemini woman. We’ve known each other for a few years and have just started to reconnect. Yes, I feel cautious and want to take it slow due to past relationships, but then I see her and we mesh so well together. It feels effortless.
I have to say that I’ve noticed a difference between black gemini and white gemini women. I’ve found the white gemini woman to be too intense for me. My black gemini lady is more laid back. What are your thoughts on this?
August 25th, 2008 at 3:23 am
how this fits perfectly! its creepy!
we instantly clicked and quickly realized we fell in love.
me being the gemini, i have changed so much over the past few years of us being together, and he being the aquarius, has a VERY unpredictable mood. and i have always happily compromised!
every time we fought, we broke up. but that was just because he was stubborn and didn’t want to deal with fighting! and soon enough we were back together!
the last time we broke up, it really seemed like the end and we didn’t talk for a long time. and sure enough, i had a very unsettling feeling and couldn’t understand it. just doing what i felt i needed to do, i picked up my phone and dialed familiar numbers… sure enough it was him that i had called and (my feelings were early) a week later tragedy struck his family and he needed me more than ever.
this is just crazy, it all applies! it seems like it was just written as a study of our relationship!
i’ve always said that whatever happens was meant to happen. it was the universe doing so. and our relationship has just been so weird that i’m glad to know that it’s most likely going to work itself out. i knew the universe was pushing us together.
August 28th, 2008 at 11:01 pm
hello,
i’m an aquarian female & i’ve been going out with a gemini man for about 2 years.. we’ve had our ups & downs.. & i mean way up & way down. i’m happy to have read your little excerpt if you will, on aquarius & gemini compatibility.. yahoo’s compatibility test is good, but a bit vague. this is exactly what my relationship is. & i’m wondering if it really is a good & healthy love match. i ask this because when you mentioned that when the two signs fight, they REALLY fight. & i find this to be extremely true in my relationship. & i also feel it might not be healthy. i often find myself questioning if he really loves me. i’ve heard that geminis are very flirtacious & are a bit difficult to tame & that they settle down when THEY feel like it. We’ve been together for about 2 years & 5 months.. We are ALWAYS fighting over something. & i’m to the point where i’m really insecure & i’m quite the jealous type. &as you mention, after every fight, it feels like it’s the end of the world. i find myself crying a lot but for some reason, i’m so drawn to my boyfriend and he always convinces me that things are going to get better. but we’ve been waiting for things to get better for over a year now. what am i to do & think? i know you’re not a psychiatrist or anything.. but i just feel that you know more about astrology than i do & i’ve been looking for someone to answer my questions. thank you.
-celine
September 3rd, 2008 at 5:22 am
Thank you soo much for this
Im marrying my Gemini in Feb 2009 and just can’t wait. I loved this peice it made me tear up with joy and laugh my ass off with some of the truths. I had to have a giggle about the arguing it’s sooo true, you love them like crazy but they drive you up te wall, but you wouldn’t want the world without them! And I agree with above comments your style of writing is truely wonderful, I was having a bad day and after happening apon this I will be leaving work with smile on my dial 
September 4th, 2008 at 6:44 am
Hi Jessica,
Congratulations on your forthcoming wedding! I am glad you have enjoyed this, it is a union that can be such hard work but the rewards are second to none. I wish you all the luck in the world!
Love & Light
Becky
xx
September 8th, 2008 at 5:49 pm
I met my Gemini in May 2008, we got married August 16th 2008… I have never been so sure about being with someone so bad and knowing I can spend the rest of my life with them. I love him till death do us part!
Jessica, congratulations! Aquarian to Aquarian, Gemini’s are definitely our match make in heaven!!!
September 20th, 2008 at 4:32 pm
Hi, I’ve been coming to this website for awhile, and I’m always amazed at how accurate you are with the Gemini-Aquarius compatibility. And I promise you, there is a question at the end all of this. My girlfriend (The Aquarian) and I (The Gemini) have been dating just under 4 months. She’s also in Americorps (A volunteer service where she goes away for 10 months). So we’re also a doing a long-distance relationship. before she left it was going great, we got really close in just one month! after that month she left and we decided to try the long distance relationship. It has been going wonderfully for the past 3 months, but up until recently it’s a little rocky. I’m a person who would rather stay in one place, and she is an adventurer type. She doesn’t want to stick around once she’s done with her 10 month Americorps deal. At first I was very saddened by the news she told me she doesn’t want to stay. This is about two weeks ago from today (9/20). It kind of tore me down a little. made me feel unwanted sort of. Recently I confronted her about the issue. She accused me of putting her in a lose-lose situation, because she loves me but her passion is going out and having adventures and volunteering. She didn’t talk to me for a couple of days. She’s been obviously thinking about the future. and that leads up to today (9/20) where we’ll be talking for the first time in four days. She did call me last night at work (9/19), but I obviously couldn’t talk. But the way she sounded it sounded bad. also yesterday I had an epiphany, that this is the happiest I’ve ever been in my entire life, being with this young woman. I wouldn’t let her go for anything, and would go with her anywhere. I’m just afraid she’s already made up her mind. I’m just looking for advice from a fellow gemini who is in a relationship with an Aquarian. but also advice from a woman to see if i can turn back my mistakes and make it right again. Thank you for your time, I know it’s a long post. You are doing wonderful things with this website!
September 20th, 2008 at 9:51 pm
hey becky,
i have just read this aquarius and gemini post, and I have looked at alot of horoscope websites and i must say that your description is spot on. One thing that has come to my attention is that alot of the websites state that an aquarius and gemini relationship is dominated by affection and devotion more that passion and romance. Would you say that this is true?
From my own experience, I must say that I have never been in a relationship with an Aquarius but have alot of aquarius friends, and what keeps gemini and aquarius friendship/relationship so close and different to other people, is that we understand eachother at a deep level, there is an immense amount of laughter, and also when they both meet it as if they have found a soulmate in each other.
Another question is that is Gemini the best match for an aquarius?
September 21st, 2008 at 8:38 am
Hi again Haz,
The relationship between Aquarius and Gemini is a mental one..intellect and wit..fantasy and intrigue. Physically it can be explosive but these two will stay together regardless of sex…they ‘feel’ each other, like you say, in a very deep way. I would say that out of all the sign compatibilites this is the deepest..it is one that is very hard for others to understand..they are soulmates and will almost automatically knowt his. For Aquarius Gemini will be the only person that he or she will ever ‘need’ as they rearely need anyone..for Gemini they can fully be themselves with the Aquarius..it is perfectly beautiful..except for when they are out of sync..but as long as they stick at it this will pass.
Gemini certainly is the best match on every level in my opinion..
Love & Light
Becky
September 21st, 2008 at 8:57 am
Hi PJ
Thank you for your comment and I am very pleased you enjoy my site.
Yes, the wonderful world of the Aquarius, it’s always a bit tricky. You see, they need noone but us Gemini’s do (as long as they are interesting). It may be that you will have to follow your Aquarius wherever they go if you feel that strongly.Trying to make an Aquarius choose between two things they love is a bit like banging your head against a brick wall..pointless. They just won’t do it.and will be angry with you for even asking!! All you need to know is whether she loves you…if the answer is yes definatly..then you have to be happy with that. She will not change her life for you, she is a fixed sign..you are the one who can change and adapt..so you must. Saying that if life won’t allow you to do that then you will need to think about whether you can handle a long distance relationship or not.
If the worst happens, then you have to really think about whether it is perhaps the right thing, as you may not be able to cope with someone as unsettled. I couldn’t with my first husband who was also an Aquarius, he was never there. It hurts.
I wish you a lot of luck and I hope to hear from you again.
Love & Light
Becky
September 22nd, 2008 at 2:27 am
Hi Becky,
We decided, (well at first she decided, then i came around after a long time) it would be for the best that we break it off. I mean, the long distance thing would only last for so long. Even though we had GREAT communication with eachother, we were also attached at the hip while she was around before she left. She says it will never work because our lives are completely different, though I feel she is still in love with me. Do you think it’s possible she is? There was never anything wrong with the way we acted toward eachother. That was the beautiful thing about our relationship. We could talk for hours on end and never get bored. You’re description is spot on, because I believe she is my soul mate. I think it’s going to be the toughest break up to get through, because we grew so close so fast, and i think we’ll be close for the rest of our lives even though we won’t be together. I’m hoping eventually she comes back to her gemini boy, but I’m not banking on it. Thank you for your input, you’ve helped me understand my aquarian better. I’m hoping her and I will be great friends, atleast for now.
Thank you,
PJ
September 22nd, 2008 at 6:14 am
Hi PJ,
Thank you for writing and your welcome for my input. At least you know where you stand now. Also, you may find it liberating to have her as a friend as you obviously have a connection there. It’s sad when you have to let the people you love go but it can sometimes be rewarding in other ways, your friendship may last a lifetime, something which your relationship may have not. You never know what lies in the future. Try not to get too down although I know it’s hard, just smile to yourself about the time you did have togehter.
Love & Light
Becky
September 26th, 2008 at 1:50 am
Hi Becky,
I’ve never heard from you after my comment i left before PJ’s comment. Can you give me some feedback please? Thanks.
-Celine
September 26th, 2008 at 1:51 am
oops. i meant jessica, not PJ.
September 26th, 2008 at 6:29 am
Hi Celine,
So sorry I didn’t reply, I’m normally pretty good but sometimes I get so many comments I just don’t get round to it.
Aquarius and Gemini match is amazing,as I am sure you can know. What can happen is that because these two signs are so scarily in tune with one another when they go out of sync it kind of messes it all up. It is actually the worst feeling in the world and I honsetly know how you feel. It feels as though the world is going to end because that is how deep the feelings are. Gemini men are notoriously annoying. My Brother is a Gemini man married to an Aquarius woman (been together nearly 20 years!) and very much in love, however, he travels all over the world doing his ‘thing’ while she stays at home making the money..tension? sometimes. But underneath it there is the strongest love. As my Fiance always says, ‘nothings ever easy’. If you want some more help maybe consider a compatibility test to see what the rest of your chart says.
At the end of the day though this is about your happiness, and that is only someting you can decide what is best for you as it is not my place.
Contact me via my contact form if you wish to chat more.
Love & Light
Becky
September 26th, 2008 at 3:19 pm
Hello together
Your description of the Gemini-Aquarius relationship feels very right on. I am the Aquarian girl, and I never felt that I was a boring person until this Gemini guy turned up…saw him first last November and immediately wanted to know him! We spent all night next to each other, kissing at the end, then if I hadn’t gotten his mobile number he probably would not have called himself ever! Had to jump over my own shadow and send him a message and we slowly started going out together..
Now the minus part: yes the freedom thing. Expect not to hear from him for days, then to be taken out immediately. I am used to guys who show in public that they love me, forget it with this one.
I wondered if it was me, or if it was just bad manners. Then I noticed that he listens very carefully, hears all even if it doesn’t seem so, and once he’s thought things over he might actually agree with you!
The fights can be pretty bad, agreed. But I think necessary.
Best thing to do with a Gemini man, let him think that he’s the king now and then, and totally keep your own life interesting.
Don’t explain too much. Stay nice and keep your dignity. They can infuriate you very easily. And don’t take everything they say seriously…
My ex from a very long term friendship before was Virgo, and I guess I am a bit spoiled by the loving way these guys act.
September 30th, 2008 at 1:08 am
IDK where to begin, I am an aquarian woman and my man for a year is the gemini. We have had our share of arguements, but don’t get me wrong makeup is unbelieveable everytime…..
Were deeply in love and to a certain extent, its scary because I don’t wanna loose him, im his everything and were nothing w/o each other. I KNOW this is where i wanna be and HE is who I wanna spend my life with. But its just that being deeply in love with this Gemini can be dangerous. I thank god for him everyday though. He’s everything I want in a man plus much more
October 2nd, 2008 at 8:33 pm
Wow, I love you Becky. In the bible it says faith, love, and hope is important and love out class them all. I am a Gemini female with a degree in psychology (with horrable grammar) and I must that your style of writing is captivating. When reading the compatibilities of Gemini’s and Aquarians I must say, “You were on point Girl”. While reading the article I said, “Becky sounds like a Gemini” and it is great to know you are, what a wonderful sign. Did you know it takes the plantet Mercury (Gemini’s planet), Eighty-eight days to complete a cycle. Mercury completes the fastest cycle. No wonder why Gemini’s are so versatile. No matter what environment we’re are in, we are willing to adapt. Imagine how many people desire this quality, look around you, pay attention and it will be evident of how many people desire this quality. Though what I have noticed in some other Gemini’s is that when they’re up they’re up and when they’re down, Their down. Some psychologists would classify these “Uppers and Downers” as Biopolar though why would classify a person with so much emotion biopolar. So as Gemini’s we need to learn to stay positive. There is a cd series called “Secrets” and it has helped me alot. If we do not learn positive methods as Gemini’s, we are in serious trouble for deep depression. If anything on this post is incorrect, please correct me. I met an Aquarius male I am talking (and sleeping with) to and oh boy does he have my emotions soaring. He was in a relatonship over ten years and she hurt him by cheating on him. Wow why would she do that. I guess you can call me the “Clean Up Woman”. He was very quite at first, he didn’t talk alot. I had just gotten out of a relationship around the same time his relationship ended (it has been two months) and too be honest he was just looking for sex and too be honest so was I (Though I am a lady so I couldn’t come across like that). The sex was explosive the first time and the sex is stil explosive. Gemini’s are flighty, this is true, at any point I could stop talking to a guy with just a few qualities I don’t agree with. Though this Aquarian man, whoa he does something to my body, he does lead and I let him (surprisingly I do not mind). Though I have a guestion, I am career oriented (though sometimes flighty) and I am materilstic in the fact that I always want to work towards success. In a horoscope it said that this is a great couple though if I am interested in success in finance that this is not possible, how is this so Becky? You are doing a great thing with this page and more awesomely, you are a Gemini that that thought and processed this page. See we can be consistent, I hope.
October 4th, 2008 at 12:38 am
Thanks Becky! You’re the best. Listen.. I’ve showed a couple of friends your site and when we’d look at their sign, for instance sagittarius and scorpio, we didn’t find anything about them or at least about the women in particular. I like that you elaborate on both the male and female signs of the zodiac and I was hoping you might put some stuff up about the other signs! And if you did.. there’s something wrong with it because I can’t find it! haha. Thanks Again.
-Celine
October 4th, 2008 at 7:49 am
Hi Celine,
Thank you for your comment! The problem is that I am nowhere near finished the site yet so there is still lots to come. It’s just at the moment I have a lot of charts to do for people, but once it quietens down I shall get back to writing posts. If you subscribe to the RSS feed you will be updated of when something new gets posted. So sorry that what your looking for isn’t there yet..it will be I promise!
Love & Light
Becky
October 4th, 2008 at 1:26 pm
Hello Becky,
Thank you for your speedy responce to my comment on “Here comes Gemini”
I absolutely love your site!
I have had an “almost relationship” with an Aquarius ..he left an Aries to be with me(Gemini) but ended up going back to the aries only weeks after…but they were the best two weeks of my life relationship wise.
Also , I would like to know my moon sighn and rising sighn and my other influences.When I google info on how to find this sort of thing out ,the intructions on how to do so are so long and confusing..I just dont getit. Could you enlighten me on a short and simple way to get this info?
October 4th, 2008 at 3:25 pm
Hi Simone,
Thanks for your comment and I’m really happy your enjoying my site
As for finding out your signs, it’s not as simple as you may hope. The problem is that the stuff online is made of computer generated programs which can get it wrong, just as the compatibility test on my site does!! This is why I do charts for people, IYes I have to charge as it’s my job but at least I know what I am doing!! You need to know the time of your birth and it helps to know the place of birth too. Then you need a book of planetary tables etc. Sorry I can’t be of more help.
Love & Light
Becky
October 6th, 2008 at 1:14 pm
Hey becky,
Just another observation I have made regarding the relationship between aquarius male and gemini female. It states that sexual attraction is intense, as Aquarius finds gemini to be physically attractive, if this is the case, how come sometimes the aquarius male will never approach you even if he does like you in an ‘intense way’?
Thanks
xxx
October 7th, 2008 at 6:19 am
Hi Haz,
Thanks for your comment! Yes it’s true Aquarius men do find Gemini girls highly attractive both mentally and physically. But as you say they don’t like to approach you. It is just not in their nature to do so, they just aren’t made the same way as other people. If they were born nearer to the start of Pisces then this may be slightly different, but even so they can go single a long time because of this lack of being forward. As a Gemini it’s down to you to make the move. Even once he is in a relaitonship at times he can seem as if he’s not interested, it is just because he will be thinking about something in his own world and nothing to do with his lack of want for you.
Love & Light
Becky
October 7th, 2008 at 5:04 pm
Hey becky,
It’s just that I use to know this Aquairus guy and I think that he was attracted to me, because he would stare at me, when we were in lessons and if we walked past eachother, there was the occasional smile. I just didnt know what to make of him. I liked him too ALOT, he sat next to me and spoke to me once, and i was SOO nervous that I hardly said a word to him, and I think that scared him away, or bored him I’m not sure :S What do you know about Aquarius male reaction to shyness and nerves! Do you think that he is over me, do Aquarius men get over Gemini woman easily? He does not look or acknowledge me anymore. I don’t know…I really like him he is sooo attractive he has a beautiful personality, funny, humble, crazy and intelligent!
Sorry for the overload of questions! I’m just curious and you’re brilliant!
Thanks
xxx
October 7th, 2008 at 10:31 pm
Becky - I am an Aquarian man dating a Gemini man. Everything you have written here is right on target, but wondering if there is anything that changes based on a male-male relationship? Thanks!
October 8th, 2008 at 6:17 am
Hi there Ken,
Thank you for your comment! This is something I have given a lot of thought to in the past myself. I think that it will be just the same, but without knowing your characters I can’t truly say. Luckily astrology dosen’t care who you are or who your with and these two signs just plain get along. If you are both very masculine then there will obviously be a bit of conflict but if that’s not the case then it should all go very well. Just remember that your Gemini man may have a wondering eye, he can’t help it!!But as an Aquarius I imagine that he is pretty spellbound by you anyway.
Good luck!
Love & Light
Becky
October 9th, 2008 at 7:08 pm
Hey becky,
Just wonderin, you didn’t really answer my previous question? I thought you might have not noticed it. The one before Ken’s.
Thanks
xx
October 10th, 2008 at 10:21 am
Hi Haz,
Well I’m shy and I bagged my Aquarius man! But you do need to let them know that you have feelings for them or they will just think your not interested, and they hate to make fools of themselves over anyone. I believe they actually like shyness in a girl, it’s endearing and makes them appear sweet and natural and they like that.
Smile at him and say hi..in your own shy way, if he does like you that will melt his heart
Good Luck..be brave Gemini xxx
Love & Light
Becky
October 10th, 2008 at 6:21 pm
Hello Becky this is Maranda.Whenever you can (I can imagine you are very busy), can you answer the few questions I had in my long post I sent you previously. What habits are more prevelant with Gemini’s and Aquarius. Cigarettes, Greenery, Drinking. I smoke cigarettes and greenery. Greenery calms me down. Nervous Energy, it calms me down.The Gemini men that I know smoke alot. I do not know any Gemini woman though I know alot of Gemini men. Which one is more prevalant? Do you know Gemini woman or Gemini Men?
October 10th, 2008 at 10:16 pm
As an Aquarian woman with a Gemini man in my life I found this to be spot on.
For us we have known each other for over 20 years and our friendship/relationship has taken many forms over this time, we have always felt drawn to each other, friends always described us as being like an old married couple even when we were only friends and in other relationships at the time.
We seem to bring out the best in each other and compliment each other well. We rarely fight (neither of us like conflict) but on the occasion we have it has been devastating to us both at the time.
Our relationship is intelluctual, spiritual toa degree and extremely intense physically. Together we continue to grow and nuture each other, providing a firm foundation to explore ourselves and follow our our path, yet still on the same road together. For me he is definately my soul mate…he puts up with my quirky ways and clutter..all the while giving me the space I need and have never got in previous relationships
October 11th, 2008 at 12:42 am
Hi Becky! I’ve been following your site closely and must say it’s great! I’m a gemini girl myself in a relationship with an aqua… I just love being the one that sees the aqua in a different way - I laugh when others say that aqua is aloof or insensitive, because I’ve seen a side of my aqua that is very rare and the fact that it is genuine, even though expressed only sometimes, I wouldn’t trade it for the world! anyway earlier on this page you said that Gemini is the only sign that Aquarius will ever actually “need”, what did you mean by this? why do they need Gemini? …also, I’ve been pushing my Aquarius a little lately, with successes and organization, he lacks the focus on details… he says he needs the push and faith I have in him but I don’t want to be too much … it also doesn’t help that I’m not consistent myself.. how do I get him motivated without being pushy…
also, I is it strange that we spend so much time together… I worry that I’m much more adaptable so when the time does come around that we don’t want to spend every minute together, he’ll be thrown into a whim…
okay, that was a lot of questions - I’m random I know
October 11th, 2008 at 12:38 pm
Hey Geminieyetoeye,
I read your comment above, and I can just say, that the whole thing about Aquarius needing Gemini is very true. I think what Becky means by saying Aquarius needing Gemini, is that they are very secure together. There relationship is very strong and deep, and Gemini is probably the only sign the Aquairus feels perfect with, ahvig no problems with them, sure there will be the odd arguement as every relationship does, but it is not major!
Hope that helps
Sorry to but it, you probably wanted Becky to answer, but I thought me being a Gemini too would help out another Gemini!
x
October 11th, 2008 at 11:12 pm
He was my substitue for one time. The moment I saw him I just felt really attracted, and somewhere on the road it just “clicked”… for me that is.
I don’t know about him, I only assume he felt something too, but probably not that strongly as love struck me.
We didn’t have the deepest conversations, but I made him laugh and maybe made him think about one or two things.
He’s still a substitute at my school but for another class, so I still see him some weeks.
For example, I met him again a week after we first saw each other and had a casual small talk. But then I did not see him for two weeks, and when I said “Hi” to him he looked as if he had forgotten me? Which should be quite difficult when I’m a person that you’ll probably always remember?
I am an Aquarius woman, he’s the Gemini man, and I don’t know if this matter but he’s born in late May under the gemini sign, and he kind of doesn’t really feel like a typical gemini? But I can be wrong about that…
He just doesn’t feel as “chatty” as the other geminis I’ve met who are born under the sign in June.
But anyhow, I just got brutaly dumped by a Pisces (six months ago) and after that I’ve gotten very cautious about flirting with guys.
A year ago I was out there, I was really good at flirting, I would have won the prize for “most flirtatious woman”. But know I’m overly shy.
It’s been a month since I and this gemini man talked, even if I’ve seen him a couple of times and said hallo, I can’t put myself together and go talk to him.
Also just because his so beautiful and I’m so scared I will screw it up as I did with the Pisces man. I feel as if I don’t have afford to loose him. I really want to get to know him better. Though, I think he probably finds me boring now… and has forgotten all about me… That or he has a girlfriend.
Or, can it be that he’s also strongly attracted to me to that point he gets nervous talking to me and instead avoids me?
Or he’s just not interessted?
We had our “moments”, but I’m probably exaggerating. But I felt like he wanted to know more about me, but after all weeks of not approaching me or anything, I feel confused?
What I wonder is, is it too late to try to talk to him now, a month since last? Or has he totally forgotten all about me and moved on?
Also, should I be the one approaching? Or with he, never aproaching me, it’s all a dead end?
I just wanna know if I got a chance with him or not and what’s the best way to aproach a Gemini man?
Lots of questions… I hope atleast someone can give me an answer.
And btw, thanks for a wonderful site!
October 13th, 2008 at 11:58 am
Hi Becky,
I read in your aquarius and gemini post, that when they fight they really do fight.
However, what I wanted to ask, was it is possible for an Aquarius and Gemini not to fight at all? Because being a gemini female, my best friend was a aquarian male and we NEVER fought.In fact it was quite the opposite we understood each other so well, that we never had any disagreements.
Thanks
xx
October 13th, 2008 at 12:07 pm
Hi Haz,
Yes ofcourse it is. Aquarius and Gemini will only fight when they live together, and only because Gemini ‘needs’ more than Aquarius, once that is sorted out (as long as there charts are not in complete opposition) you have yourself two happy people indeed! Friendship wise, I have never had an arguement with an Aquarius friend.
Thank you xxx
Love & Light
Becky
October 13th, 2008 at 10:59 pm
Hey Becky,
I am sun/taurus with moon/gemini which I just found out a few months ago about my moon in gem. I had always wondered why I never felt or acted like they say taureans act. I’ve read a few places where it says that a gem moon will dominate a taurus sun or I guess maybe any sun. Is that true? I love my gemini moon! The twins are fun! smile….The only thing I hate about having gemini in my chart is the gossipy thing that they relate to the twins. But thanks to my more down to earth taurus sun it helps me to refrain from doing too much of it. I tend to stay neutral. But I do however love to listen to the gossip thats going around. I guess some things can’t be helped huh. lol. My co-workers tend to think I don’t have a clue as to what’s going on most times. Especially when it’s about me. Which is most of the time. They make comments like she’s living in her own little fairytale world, til I come back and let them know when need be what has been said. You know us gem’s can tune in to more than 1 thing at a time so the joke is usually on them!
October 14th, 2008 at 9:45 pm
Well I must say this is so so right everything I am an Aquarius Woman in a relationship with a Gemini Man. We have been together over a year and its never a dull moment, we both can be withdrawn he loves to hang out for hours and hours and I wont hear from him, I can be furious and alot of people dont understand why I love him and he loves me but it goes deeper than that our love goes beyond time. He can disappear and when he comes back its like I forget about being mad, and vice versa what I do love is that the space we have away from one another makes us reuniting so great, when we argue I fall apart and he can be cold then we make up wake up and its like we never had a fight as crazy as it seems I wouldnt give him up for anyone or anything our love goes beyond what I can say.
October 15th, 2008 at 1:46 pm
Hey Peach,
I was just talking to someone the other day about the mental distance in me and my Aquarian’s relationship. And just the space that we give each other period. They were looking at me like I was CRAZY! lol…I just laughed and said it works for us. I mean, to me it’s no different than ppl who are all clingy and all over each other! I look at THEM like they’re CRAZY!
And the fghting thing goes beyond words but the making up is like WOW!!!!smile….
All of my relationships have been this way since I was like 25. I didn’t realize how much I had changed then because my Taurus sun in my younger years was dominant in my chart which had me all clingy.
The Aquarian I dated for 7 years before my current 5 year Aquarian relationship, told me I acted like I didn’t love him as much as he loved me. I was apalled and hurt. I didn’t see it then because I knew I loved him dearly. I guess I was just more distant than I knew. But now I see it. My Gemini moon plus all the Uranus energy I have in my chart really has me detached over the years. Thank God my now Aquarian has just as much Uranus and that Aqua thing goin for him, cuz I’m sure we wouldn’t be together otherwise. sigh……which would be terrible for me becuz I sorely love them, those Aquas. They are wonderful. Another SIGH…….!!!!
October 15th, 2008 at 9:21 pm
Hi Becky,
I’ve read almost everything you have written in this beautiful website and I think I’ve never seen anything as funny and as true as what you say!
I too am a Gemini girl and a adore Aqua men so I guess we have a lot in common.But I think there is one BIG difference between us-I don’t know how to handle the Aqua I love with all my heart and soul!We met 2 years ago and after we had only seen eachother a couple of times we fell in love-no,he didn’t confess to me it’s just that I could feel it…It was the strangest thing!There was an almost telepathic bond between us(I’m sure you know what I mean)!Then something happened-his best friend told him I loved the Aqua and I threw into a panic-I was so scared that he’d turn me down (although deep in my heart I knew that he wouldn’t) that before I knew it I made perhaps the biggest mistake in my life-I told him that the rumour he had heard wasn’t true.A CHILDISH thing to do but hey I’m a Gem…I don’t know why I said it…I just did.I’ve been suffering a lot since then and I’m sure he has been in pain too.
Later there was a period of around 4 months when we didn’t see eachother,school and all.But then I signed up at a sports club he was in and we made contact again.I was scared at the beginning that he’d be mad at me because of what I had done before but he wasn’t.That didn’t stop me from thinking that he was-yeah,I made big mistake number 2:I started to hide my emotions.He could see right through me I was sure of this but I didn’t know what else to do-if I told him I had lied to him he’d probably get angrier at me(I had heard that the worst thing you can do to an Aqua is to lie to them…).I think I totally confused him, the poor thing!But I didn’t know what I was doing myself.
A lot of time has passed since then-a year probably and he’s giving me hints that he still has feelings for me.So I threw my worriers and paranoia away(about time too).I WANT to be with that Aquarius whatever it takes!I’ll just put my mistakes in my past-I think I’ve learned my lesson(the hard way).
Here comes the big problem-how do I tell him how I feel?He kind of tells me what he feels by sending me songs with lyrics that match his emotions(mine too), he’s been giving me glances whenever he says something funny and he treats me differently from other girls, seeks my opinion,suddenly strarts talking to me when he really looks “lost in thought” etc.I tried sending him songs too and I call him every know and then when I feel he needs me or maybe when I can’t take being without him anymore-I don’t know, I won’t be surprised if it’s both.
The thing is he’s really shy and he obviously won’t make the first step.Or maybe he’s just as scared as I was before.I can’t blame him for being cautious-I must have given him a very hard time.That’s why I must do SOMETHING about it!I have the feeling that the future of our relationsip depends on the way I confess to him.The thing is I have no idea how to do that and I can’t hold it in much longer!
I’m sorry if this sounds more like something I should have written in my diary but I just don’t know how to give you the full picture without telling you some personal information.Please give me a piece of advice, now I know that if anyone can that would be you!
XXX
October 16th, 2008 at 7:01 am
Hi Lili,
Thank you for your comment and I am really glad you are enjoying my site
You made me laugh when I read your comment because it was like reading something I once wrote!! (many many years ago!)
Aquarius guys seem to cause so many problems. And the problem that you have is that you will have to be the one to start things going, but I think you know that. They actually fear getting hurt as their emotions are a close guarded secret so to open them up takes a lot and someone special. You need to write to him, write it all down in you beautiful Gemini way, let it all pour out exactly how you feel. Yes you may feel open to getting hurt but sometimes we just have to risk these things. If he is sending you songs then it’s pretty obvioust that he likes you a lot. By writing it down you are showing him how you feel without the awkwardness of face to face. I met my Fiance when I was 27 and I couldn’t tell him how I felt..so I wrote it down I even pretended to be asleep when I told him that I loved him!! So I do understand.
It’s early so I’m not sure if all this has made sense but please let me know how it goes, I can tell your a very lovely girl!!
Good Luck
Love & Light
Becky
October 16th, 2008 at 11:46 am
Hey becky,
I just wanted to ask, is an Aquairus male and Gemini female relationship different to a aquarius female and gemini male relationship. Because I have read on websits that The Aquarius female and gemini male relationship is alot more romance passion and love based, as for the aquarius male and gemini female, islove based but mostly to do with mental interaction.
Would you agree?
October 17th, 2008 at 7:13 am
Hi Becky,
Thank you so much for the reply! It rally inspired meee!!! I feel a lot better and I must say I’ll follow ypur advice as soon as I get the chance and set the mood right!I have the feeling that the moment is nearing and I’m really excited(and a bit nervous in the good way :)). I will do all I can for this relationship to work out.Wow I’ve never felt this brave and determined before,I really didn’t know I had it in me(could be because of the huge cup of coffee I just had though).By the way my best friend is an Aquarius and yesterday she told me the exact same thing you did-to tell him my feelings as soon as possible even if I have to write them down!
Thanks a lot again and I really appreciate what you’re doing for me and all the people here!It’s a wonderful thing
I’ll keep in touch,
XXX
October 19th, 2008 at 8:40 am
Hi Becky
I’m writing this after an insomnia soaked night which actually brought me to your site.
I am one of those awkward Aquarian men who made a decision some time back to forsake all relationships/ romantic and carnal interactions and retire into my personal world, which is very easy as I am a writer and creative director.
At 29 I have got to an age where that is not working as well for me (although I love what I do and as my friends keep pointing out to me it will be the mistress to all my relationships) and I am trying to be more emotionally honest, this has been complicated by the fact I’ve recently got back in contact with a Gemini woman I worked with on a film project at college, at the time I knew she was in a relationship and she became pretty much my muse as I wanted to respect her relationship. The more time we spent together sparks started to fly I felt that there was a comfort I have never felt with anyone else but we never got together although at the time she took to hugging me from behind in the middle of crowded corridors etc and after her doing some more stuff with me including a fashion shoot we parted ways until now.
Yet again she is in a relationship and although my first reaction is to respect that and leave well alone being in contact with her however minimal and awkward (on my part) it is it has brought back a lot of the same feelings that have never really been that far from the surface in years between, it’s safe to say she is the one that got away and my instinct says respect the fact she is in a relationship but at least tell her how you feel and felt to lay groundwork for when she is single and it comes back around again, which I believe it will.
I’m certainly not looking to break up what she has even if I could as her happiness is paramount (even if I am not the one to make her happy) things are compacted by the fact she lives quite a distance away and is at a different time of her life as she is 6 years younger and I am currently signed off work with sickness etc so there is that consideration.
Typical Aquarian you can see how much thought has gone into this. Bottom line I know this woman got into my head and I am uncertain even if with the Gemini/ Aquarian compatibility if I should tell her how I feel and how that will be revieved as we do not have the romantic history, I don’t want to come off as a freak or make her feel uncomfortable.
I’m annoyed this has taken me out of my internal world but feel that the disruption is for a reason, truth is although I know only a little bit about her and got a feel for her I have not met anyone that made me feel the same way. When I first saw her she kind of blew me away and although she was 16 going on 17 she felt much older.
I’m going to wrap it up there as I can comfortably tie myself into knots for hours over this and kind of have done tonight, hence Insomnia so any help, guidance suggestion in relation to what you know about the Aquarian Gemini attraction will be greatly appreciated.
x
October 19th, 2008 at 4:27 pm
Hi Andrew,
I know I’m not the professional around here (Becky) but I was really intrigued by your story and since I had something similar happen to me I thought maybe I could give you some insight… from my experience Aquarian men do tend to sometimes stray from the realm of love whether it’s carnal, metaphysical… I think perhaps this is sometimes due to the fact that they have a hard time understanding it or maybe they understand it better than a lot of other folk today, but rather they’re ahead of the rest of us and therefore have a hard time finding a partner to be on the same level, seeing as love to an Aquarian is something that comes with time and patience… anyway! In my youth I had some really strong feelings for an Aqua-guy but we never got around to anything… rather always mainting our friendship whether across time or space… I recently saw him but I’m in a relationship with another Aquarian at the moment (hah!) and somehow (terrible to say) I still had some feelings revived when I saw him … I know it doesn’t really relate, but, I’m going to tell you that a Gemini gal will appreciate your honesty - don’t be over-forward, but I think it will give you peace of mind to tell her how you feel, as well as you never know where she is at (no one ever does with Geminis!) but whatever you do don’t be afraid to put yourself out there… everyone ( I believe) even the aqua wants to be loved… and if not that everyone needs that person that is their partner through life! Best of luck to you, I really wish you well… and try to get some sleep!
October 20th, 2008 at 12:15 pm
Hi BlueberryGem not meaning to be rude
But when are your birthdays?
wHAT IS YOUR BIRTHDAY and when is your aqua mans?
Because it all depends on what month your birthdays are on?
Thanks
x
October 20th, 2008 at 3:18 pm
I’m June 13th, he is February 17th!
October 21st, 2008 at 11:33 am
Hey Andrew when is your birthday and when is the gemini girls birthday?
Thanks
October 21st, 2008 at 11:34 am
Hey becky,
I just wanted to ask, is an Aquairus male and Gemini female relationship different to a aquarius female and gemini male relationship. Because I have read on websits that The Aquarius female and gemini male relationship is alot more romance passion and love based, as for the aquarius male and gemini female, islove based but mostly to do with mental interaction.
Would you agree?
October 21st, 2008 at 6:12 pm
Birthdays: I’m January the 30th she is May 31
October 21st, 2008 at 6:39 pm
Hey BlueberryGem
Thanks for the response, from what I know it is very easy for Aquarians to fall into there personal world and part of that from my perspective is that I have some control over that and with being creative shaping it etc whereas apart from the day to day living aspect of your own life It’s hard to affect the wider world unless you make the decision to pursue something that will put you in a position to effect change.
From my perspective someone has to blow me away for me to focus on them and I think this is possibly part of the connection needed as although there are all the other considerations of attraction etc I think the Aquarian is looking for some new input to a certain degree and for the person that can kinda bypass the intellectual side and tap into the emotional side that we have.
In danger of sounding condescending I think we view most relationships as trivial and this can come down to friendships as well (I’m not speaking for all Aquarians and I’m not sure if it is the same for Aqua females etc) although I am lucky to have some really good people around me and enjoy them I think it is sometimes too easy for me to be with myself and we don’t seem to feel lonliness in possibly the same way as other people.
As I have got older I have certainly seen more and more of my Aqua traits emerging and been able to look back and see that they were already there when I was a child.
Thank you for your kind words and sharing your own experience with me, I think after my bout of insomnia I kinda came to the same conclusion and that I need a level of closure whatever that outcome may be, hopefully positive but at the end of day it’s about her happiness as well as mine and if it’s not I shall retreat back into my internal world I know, love and resent in equal measure until another lady pulls me from it
Thanks again
October 22nd, 2008 at 7:21 am
Hi Haz,
Yes it is different. The sign of Aquarius brings strong, dominent people who know there own minds, with an Aqua male Gem female relationship the Aqua male will take the lead as the more in control of the two and as the Gem girl likes to take a back seat most of the time this works out very well indeed. However, when its the other way round it can get a bit scewiff! Gem males are dominent and so are Aqua women so therefore there will be a period of time when these two wil have to find their natural place in this union. I would agree that the Aqua woman Gem man is more physical and passion based, but its a great match, my brother and his wife are testimony to that, but they do have their struggles due to the strngth of will of the Aqua woman!! It is normally better if the Aqua is male. But with the right outlook its perfect no matter which combo it is.
Love & Light
Becky
October 22nd, 2008 at 10:04 pm
Whenever I want to validate the seriousness of my relationship with my aquarius, I always look on your site becky…because it reaffirms the sheer truth, that Gemini women and Aquarius men are practically perfect.
I initially met my Aquarius through a mutual friend, and for a year we were never really attracted to each other beyond the level of friends. We just always got along on the occasion we would see each other. It was only a matter of time, really. By some fortunate circumstance he invited me to a camping trip with some of our friends and fate just put us in the front seat together for the ride. I was worried at first, because riding shot-gun indicates the position of entertainer, co-pilot and navigator. And since we didn’t know each other that well, this was a test to how well we could mesh. It’s no surprise that it was the most pleasant drive we’ve ever had. Since then Becky, I swear the universe brought us together.
We could talk for hours upon hours, laugh and create our own world amidst a sea of others and physically connect in a way that is as natural as waves on a shore. We fell in love so fast and everyday I fall in love with him all over again. As a very true form of Gemini, my Aquarius is the breath of fresh air I have been starving for my whole life. It is entirely true that I can be my true self around him…and I finally feel as if my immature flaws of a young gem are slowly healing away since he provides me with the understanding and patience I feel I never had.
I have been so choosy about the men I regard romantically in my life…and looks, money, shallow flattery are always fun, (I’m a Gemini, I’m an expert on the surface!) but I knew I always wanted a connection, romance and passion that went beyond that: Someone who could tell me the truth without forgetting my feelings, laugh at my quirky habits, empathize with my crazy moods, not take things so personally when my honesty can sound offensive.
I’m certain many Gemini’s can feel me when I say that, I can relate to almost everyone, but so few are able to relate to me.
Finally finding this Aquarius–my Aquarius–is the first time I’ve ever felt so clearly understood in my life. I can finally say I am balanced and that my two-sides have found a harmonious union wrapped around the steadier Aquarian air. Lovers or not, my soul mate he will forever be. And a better person I can be because of him.
October 23rd, 2008 at 11:59 am
Hey Kat,
When is your birthday and when is your lovers birthday, because it can all depend on the month too?
Thanks
x
October 23rd, 2008 at 6:36 pm
May 29th, Jan 25th
October 24th, 2008 at 5:04 am
May 29th, Jan 25th.
October 24th, 2008 at 1:28 pm
Hey Becky,
Question….when U put your Aqua in check, how does he respond? (All jokey, with a smirk, sarcastic or just disregarding? Like nothings happened?) How????
October 24th, 2008 at 6:55 pm
Hi Gemmoon,
Thats a good question!! When we first met he used to basically sulk, and if I was to still do so he would sulk now too. I have learnt however that putting an Aquarius ‘in check’ as you put it is not a wise idea. You have to learn how to handle your Aquarius as you do any sign. We all have are own ways and no sign reacts the same way to different actions. In a relationship it is always about understanding and compromise, learning one another is a very, possibly the most important thing in any union. It can be the make or break, get it wrong and it can be all over, get it right and a life of happiness will be assured!
I have found that most Aqua men are disregarding, and when riled highly sarcastic to the point where it seems the man you know has been posessed by an evil force. This is why it is best to learn other ways of getting your point across.
Love & Light
Becky
October 24th, 2008 at 7:49 pm
As an Aquarian male I can say that sounds about right, it is a while since someone has rattled me enough to get that reaction and I can surprise myself by how cold and detatched I can be and as Becky mentioned the sarcasm tends to freely flow although I am more of the former.
October 24th, 2008 at 7:52 pm
Becky I got a response from Blueberry Gem regarding my first message I would certainly be interested on your take on it.
Thanks
October 26th, 2008 at 1:27 pm
Thanx Becky and Andrew
His reaction was just as U guys said….(DISREGARDING) but it always is and YES!!!!! The sarcasm does flow soooooo freely with him. lol….but I love it (most times.) I think I may (unknowingly) now that I say this, do things to rile him up intentionally. I know it can be riskey with U guys Andy but I just can’t help it. (shrug, tear, smile) But I sooooooo love U guys! Aaaaahhhquaaaaahh, YES!!!!!!!!
October 27th, 2008 at 4:20 am
Hello,
I am an aquarius and my bday is jan 26th and his bday is 6/10. What are the chances?
October 30th, 2008 at 8:32 pm
Maybe an Aquarius male can answer my questions. I have a situation where I am a married Gemini (40) who is mind blowingly attracted to an Aquarius male (32), who is also involved with someone. He happened to be a professor for a course I was taking this past summer and he was constantly making eye contact with me throughout the entire class. Based on the comments he had made in class he seems to be professionally and ethically “by-the-book”. I am so strongly attracted to him in a way that I have not experienced before.I would like to stop thinking about him but it is very hard since he always seems to be on my mind.The fact that he and I are in relationships and that he is a proffesor eliminate the chance that anything would happen.I guess my questions are (1)am I having an early “mid-life” crisis or is the attraction between a Gem & Aquar that strong? (2)are male aquar typically flirtatious even when they are in a long term relationship? (3)are male aquar usually ethically and professionally grounded all the time? (4)am I nuts to think there was something there?
October 31st, 2008 at 6:14 pm
wait… so what does our birthdays have to say about our compatibility as a gemini and aquarius becky? Haz asked but I didnt see anything in terms of their question. How compatible is a gemini in May 29th and an aquarius in Jan 25th?
November 1st, 2008 at 9:50 am
Becky, I have to disagree with you on this. For me I was born January 25th, and maybe you can put some insight on this or anyone. They say we get along. But when I am with a Genimi I NEVER get along with them. I find a lot of them are too immature for me. They abuse their friendship with people or with my other friends, (which I really don’t like), or they come across as assholes.
I find myself I get along with Pisces, Aquarius, Libra, Taurus, Aries and some other signs. I can never get along with a Genimi.
Question, I also find myself acting like Aries sometimes. Even though I fit the Aquarius defention to a T. My best friend (Tuarus) Says. I am in the middle of easy-going, and likes to lead Aquriuars. I am very laid back and I don’t mind going with the flow of life, but I also like to lead as well.
I also read that Aquarius that are born the first potion act too much like an Aries.
November 1st, 2008 at 10:00 am
To JGemini Whatever you do. Don’t get involed with a married man. Nothing good will come of it. Ask yourself this, if you did get invole with him. “What do you expect from him? What do you expect from married man???” You need to forget him, or keep your feelings in check. Whatever you DO, I don’t care if he makes the first move, to not let yourself or him get in a realationship with you. It’s just messing.
Besides, Here’s a good rule of thumb. “Treat people like how you would be like to be treated.” would YOU want your husband or boyfriend to cheat on you? Put yourself in his wife’s shoes. Would you want to hurt her?
I am strong believer of what comes around goes around.
November 1st, 2008 at 10:05 am
To JGenimi No matter what their sign is. People are people. It has nothing to do with their sign. People have their own makeup.
November 2nd, 2008 at 8:35 am
Hi Becky,
I am a female Aquarian. I meet a man (Gemini) a year ago in foreign country because of work. We were so attracted to each other and started to chat on msn and have long distance call.
It is very true that we (Aquarius & Gemini) are so in tune with one another even we are oceans away. Is like having a BIG magnetic field between us that keep drawing us together regardless of situation.
There is a time where he has almost gone insane for this relationship for not able to meet or reach me and he almost wanted to abandon everything and come to stay in my country.
But later he realised that this relationship is not practical and he intended to leave it to fate to decide for our future.
I have never been so crazy and in love with any man till i meet him - LOVE IS really VERY POWERFUL !!!!
Even if he has to marry another woman in his country. I am preapred to send him all my best wishes and will stop contacting him from there.
However, meanwhile, i still want to hang on to this relationship till this day come.
I am very curious if a Gemini will react the same (or as crazy) if they meet Aquarius ?
Deeply in Love with a Gemini,
Jasline
November 2nd, 2008 at 1:39 pm
Hi Becky,
My question is whether Gemini will love and need Aquarius more or vice versa ?
Best Regards
Jasline (JEN)
November 5th, 2008 at 8:06 pm
Hey Jen
The question that you have just asked has also come to my mind a few times. Being a Gemini myself, I feel that Gemini is more emotionally needy of Aquarius, because Gemini is not as stable as the Aquarius. As for Aquarius they are secure in a relationship and do really love Gemini’s and do not really feel the need to depend or be in ‘need’ for Gemini because these two air signs are so deep and close and feel as if they have found their soul mates. Now don’t get it wrong, because Aquarius does have the problem of hate being alone, so therefore they need a sign for company and for them Gemini is the only sign that they willl ever need as they are both as crazy, cool and funny as each other. Aquairus finds Gemini to be very physically attractive and therefore as well as having a great mental rapport these two signs really do have love and affection and devotion for each other.
Anyway to sum this up, in the relationship between Aqua and Gemini they both are stable and happy together that they dont really need each other , but they do certainly love each other, but sometimes it may the Gemini who needs it more!
But this often is an excellent match!
I thought I might answer it from my perspective just to give a bit of advice! Hope that helped!
x
November 7th, 2008 at 12:24 am
I have had an Aquarius woman in my life for the last 18 years. We came and went into and out of each other’s lives almost every 3 years like clockwork.
We were always mad about each other, but never actually were able to get it together…until this year.
I am happy to announce that we are happily engaged and getting married next Halloween.
I have never loved any woman as much as I love my Kell.
November 9th, 2008 at 8:04 pm
Hi i am a gemini and would have to say everything that you say about us is completely true well with me atleast it seems that i would date some guy and realize on the first date if i ever wanted to see them again, rarely did i want to i met the most wonderful man in july of this year and the situation that we met in was so crazy but such a long story but it was like fate brought us together no coincidence we have so much in common down to having a same tattoo in the same spot before even knowing eachother we are now happily married everything happened so fast but whose to put a time on anything we just knew that we wanted to be together for the rest of our lifes he is an aquarius when we are together we are in our own world it is so great and crazy beautiful but my question is how can we be so perfect for eachother in western astrology but in chinese astrology i am a dragon and he is an ox and it says to stay away? another question i am new to asrology but interests me so much how do you find out more about your sign and personality like your birth chart?
November 9th, 2008 at 8:34 pm
ooops i made a mistake he is a rat and i am a dragon …. i would still like some insight on me being a gemini and a dragon and him being a aquarius and a rat if you could thanks
November 9th, 2008 at 9:00 pm
Hi Becky I am a female gemini from the Virgin Islands. My military friend in the states told me there was a guy that he wanted me to meet I will call him Cash and he is an Aquarius. Of course my first reaction was how in the world are we going to meet if you guys are up in Texas and I am in the Virgin Islands. Well, I told my friend to give Cash the number and trying to be cautious, I told him to tell him only to text me since I didnt know him. That same day Cash text me and we hit it off and a couple of days later I told him he could call me and he did. We exchanged pictures and by our conversations we cannot wait to meet each other. And we talk we are on the phone for atleast two hours and he says he loves my personality and I do love his too. But there is something wrong here. I know he is military and he is busy during the week, but during the weekends, why is is that he can’t stop a sec and text me or call me and say I am thinking about you hon, something? Its Veteran’s Day Weekend. He didn’t call on Friday, Saturday and I don’t expect any calls today. The last two weekends he said he had been with family and thats why he hadnt called me or text and he apologized. That sounds kind of shady to me. If I was with my family or with my friends I would pick up the phone if he called or if he text I would text him back. My gemini intuition is that he is seeing someone else, or that he is around certain people and he doesnt want them to know about me. Cash plans to either come and see me during Christmas leave or buy my ticket so we can meet in person for the first time. I am afraid that none of that is going to happen. Can an aquarius be forgetful towards his partners or can they block us out completely when with friends or family, or should I follow my intuition and say he is seeing someone else. Becky are my gemini emotions going wild? I already like this guy so much and its only been a couple of weeks. Help!
November 12th, 2008 at 10:02 am
Hey Blankie whens your birthday and when is your aqua gus birthday?
Thanks
x
November 13th, 2008 at 11:17 pm
Haz91, I see by previous post that you ask that question a lot. I don’t think it is relevant unless your going to do my charts or you are trying to compare my situation to yours. However, I can tell you this much, my birthday is In the middle of June, his is in the beginning of February. Becky I would really value your response on what I posted above. Thanks.
November 15th, 2008 at 8:17 pm
Its just a question no need to get wound up about it, im not a specialist in chart readings but i do no that gemini in june are very different to gemini in may and therefore can have different relationships with an aqua man.
Thats the point i try to make. It may not be relevant to you but it is actuially relevant in charts and compatabilty
November 15th, 2008 at 8:23 pm
Hey Becky,
I have another question for you and that is that in the gemini and aquarius relationship, it says that even though the mental and sexual connection is there, these two signs still find it hard to be intimate with each other, this meaning that they never express deep feelings with each other and also that this is what could drift them apart, leaving them as a friendship more than a romance. Could I ask why this is the case, these two are supposed to be soul mates and supposed to have the best match, then why do they find in hard to sit down and be intimate and close? I do not quite understand this, because I have actually found this myself, that aqua men aren’t very intimate with gemini women, the love, romance, sex is there but these two signs don’t actually sit down and discuss deep secrets/ emotions?
I look forward to hearing from you
xxxx
November 17th, 2008 at 11:06 am
Hi guys, First of all thank you for all your comments, I read them all, the problem is that finding the time to answer all the questions etc is quite hard. Do bare with me, I will eventually try and get around to it.Sorry.
Haz91, hello
There is a weird bond between the two signs, it’s almost unspoken. If these two don’t get deep at the beggining then they may never talk openly, if they do not get physical early on then this may not happen much either. The reason is that these two are simply drawn to one another..long discussions and sex is just not important. There love comes from a different place than most which is why it can be hard to understand. On the other hand if they meet and get down to the nitty gritty straight away then keeping the out of bed or from having deep conversations can be nigh on impossible. It’s a funny couple. let’s face it both Gem and Aqua are both bonkers.!!
Love & Light
Becky
November 17th, 2008 at 3:54 pm
Hi Becky,
I am aqua woman in love with Gem. We hv been together for more than a year but there is no merchandism or anything could/to bring us together (to get married) . Why is that so? I am sure that we love each other very much.
Thank u.
Rgds
Jocelyn
November 18th, 2008 at 2:25 pm
In additional to Jocelyn’s question. Is this situation common for Aqua & Gem match ?
November 18th, 2008 at 7:36 pm
Hi Becky!
I’m just wondering how much different gemini’s who are born in May are to those who are born in June?
‘Cause I’m in love with a man who’s born in late May, and he doesn’t really follow up your description?
Also, he’s friends say he’s pretty “picky” when it comes to women, does this rely to gemini’s too?
November 19th, 2008 at 5:36 pm
Jocelyn (pretty name). Girl best advice, live for the lord, get some discipline, and stop having sex. You are giving him the cow free. Trust me girl, I am doing this with my aqua man and girl he is all, all, all, into me. The best decision ever.
Peace and Love
Maranda
November 20th, 2008 at 2:58 pm
Hi Maranda,
I have the same thoughts like you - Never involve in sex - espeically b4 marriage.
My Gemini boyfriend gives me an impression that he has no intention/not ready to settle down even he may love me a lot.
I am curious if all Gemini man behaves this way.
November 20th, 2008 at 9:08 pm
To Jocelyn:
I am Aquarius woman. Been reading your comments on here for the past few days. How person acts, one cannot basic it always on their star signs. You must keep in mind that how person behaves is basic on how they were rasise. Just because your boyfriend isn’t ready to settle down, doesn’t mean another man of that same star sign is going to feel this way. It’s like saying all Aquarius women act the same, which we do not. We are own person. We “might” share some of the same traits that says we are Aquarius, but we are totally different from one another. It’s like saying all Aries men cheat, which is not true. Anyone is capable of cheating. It depends on the person makeup.
November 21st, 2008 at 3:59 pm
Hi LittleImpaler,
Thanks for awaken me as lately I have been reading a lot abt horoscope and sign character and get them all mix up with reality.
It is true that not all same star sign behaves the same.
Thank u very much & Cheers !
November 26th, 2008 at 4:59 am
HEy!
I am in quite a bit of a delemia. I am an aqaurius female and currently dating a Leo.
However,I have recently met the most amazing gemini.
I love my Leo Bf but this Gemini will not leave my mind…
What should I do.. what is ur advice??
x
November 26th, 2008 at 6:10 am
Hello.. I’m a female Gemini and I’ve been with my Aquarius for almost 2 years. This is pretty accurate…It’s a bit scarey actually… I have a lot of questions but I can’t think of them right now.. for some reason my mind went blank. Is it true that Aquarius/men have trouble expressing their emotions in an intimate way? When we get into fights..he seems to become distant and cold…. Lets say he hurt me and made me cry… He leaves me in the room, messing with his phone as if he doesn’t really care that he upset me and he doesn’t try to make anything better…. If I don’t leave the room and go to him…he will leave me in the room by myself and not pay any attention to me or the fact that I’m upset… This really upsets me..and it leaves me feeling empty, alone and as if he doesn’t really care…. Once we talk it out..he tells me that whenever I get emotionally distressed he doesn’t know how to handle it and he shuts down.. it isn’t that he doesn’t care..he just doesn’t know how to handle it and he says that in his mind while he’s detached and cold he’s having a mini-panic attack….. Does this sound familiar to anyone? I’m not really sure what responce I’m looking for but…when this happens it really stresses me out and confuses me very much. There are times we’re so understanding and passionate and then there are times where I feel empty and uncared for….unloved… I don’t know… I don’t know how to handle things when they get like that….
November 26th, 2008 at 6:18 am
You also said somewhere above that sometimes Aquarius and Gemini become… off sync.. give me an example of what that means. Please. Also… his birthday is Februrary 13th and My birthday is June 15th.. What does that mean? -raises an eyebrow-
November 26th, 2008 at 7:32 am
Hi Kacey,
Thank you for your comments. Do not worry, your Aquarius man is being himself. Mine does the same thing, and my ex Aquarius did too. It is one of their least endearing qualities, however I have learned that it is exactly this that can help us Gemini girls calm down and learn to deal with things differently.He still loves you and does care very much but can’t handle bad feeling at all, they retreat into themselves and well I have to say itm they sulk. The best thing to do is leave them to it. Try and just get on as usual, and he will come round. It’s one of those quirks you have to get used to and learn to deal with. He won’t change, I find it quite cute now when mine does it, I have learned how to cope with it and we hardly ever fight now. Yes, Aqua and Gem can go out of sync, it is just the way they work together, So close spiritualy, emotionaly and in every other way that when their is a bit of a bad vibe it feels as though the world has shut down.Try explaining to him how you would like him to react. For instance, I told mine that when we argue and I get distressed to hug me. This works well, and he has learned not to react to me having an emotional 5 mins. If you try and talk about it, he will try and help you because that is what Aquas do, they try and help. He just needs to know how to behave around you.
Hope this was of some help, it’s early and am not quite awake yet!!
Love & Light
Becky
November 26th, 2008 at 8:22 am
To Grace: Hey, I hate to tell you this, you’ll just have to choose between one of them. What feeling does this Gemini arouse in you? If it just sexual, and lust, and I just want to shag your brains out. Forget about it. But if you do find your self falling for this guy, make sure he feels the same with you, and tell your boyfriend the truth, that you no longer love him.
November 26th, 2008 at 11:10 am
Hey Becky
I read what Kacey wrote, I can see that this is one of the bad things about Aquarius and Gemini pairing. Is that they do not know how to deal with emotions. Would you say that Gemini female and Aqua male relationships dont really sound as strong as gemini male and aqua female ? Am I right because I have heard that most of the problems arise from the aqua male and female gemini relationship, and that these two are simply ment to be the best of friends rather than a relationship, even in a relationship they are more like very close friends than a real passionate partnership?
wHAT DO YOU THINK?
thanks
xxx
November 26th, 2008 at 11:16 am
Hi there hun, It’s a bit tricky really and I think it really depends on the rest of each persons chart. My relationship is very passionate but it tends to go through phases, it ebbs and flows. The trouble with the Aquarius being the female is that they want to be in charge and don’t take anybody’s orders easily, sometimes the Gemini man will not like this very much as it will squash overly large ego. This is why I always believe that it works the best the other way round. It’s true that they will always be very close friends and if the passion is never brought into it then they may never bother with it.Like I said at the start though a lot rides on the rest of their charts.
Love & Light
Becky
xxx
November 26th, 2008 at 8:26 pm
We always do end up talking it out. He wants to change but if he can’t..I can learn to deal with it in a more positave manner… He always tells me that when things get emotionally chaotic with me he needs time to himself to cool off and then he’d be ready to talk about it…. I guess what I could do…is try to control my emotions and think to myself “He still loves me, he just can’t handle things when they get so rocky between us…he just needs some space to think and make sense of what happened” I’m sure that would calm me down when I’m so emotionally distressed… but it’s hard for me to sit there while I’m hurting and the love of my life isn’t even there to comfort me. He eventually does apologize and realize the mistake he’s made… We always just need a good compromise I suppose… In the end it always works out surprisingly… and after this fight that I let you in on…we talked it out and he explained to me that he shuts down when things get so chaotic..and that he doesn’t mean to hurt my feelings..but he doesn’t know how to act or react..or be there for me like he wants to be… I honestly believe that he can change if he makes the effort.. There have been times where he’s been there for me instead of shutting down…but he tends to shut down…mainly when he makes a mistake or hurts me.. and I point it out. After our fight..he usually apologizes and comforts me. He can handle bad feeling..just not when it’s about him… but once he calms down we talk it out in a calm non-defensive way… and he does end up seeing his faults, I help him understand.. but it’s the fight before our compromising conversation that stresses me out so much. He can’t handle it during, but after he cools off he can…. I understand what you mean about the bad vibe…sometimes something in the air just doesn’t feel right and it does feel like my world is crumbling when something doesn’t feel right between us… actually, sometimes that causes me to calculate and become suspicious as to whats going on. It gets pretty heavy..but when we become back In sync it’s wonderful.
November 26th, 2008 at 9:09 pm
… I’m a Gemini/Snake and he is an Aquarian/Horse….How well would you suppose that works out?
November 27th, 2008 at 7:21 am
Hi Kacey, at a quick glance I would say this will go very well. The Horse needs more stability than the snake but the Aquarius will balance this need out very well. Make sure you don’t flirt too much around other people as a Gemini Snake is a very charming mix indeed! Good match, Enjoy.
Love & Light
Becky
November 27th, 2008 at 7:45 am
Two years ago I met a gemini and I fell in love off the bat. We never spent time in public but I would always go over to his house to spend time with him. We never got intimate but we did have our moments of kissing. He seemed to have a foot fetish: and always felt the need to massage them each time we cuddled. I helped him pack and move to his new place. And I don’t know what I did wrong: I honestly thought he was the one. After a few months, he just stopped contacting me without explaining. I changed my number quite frequent and I forgot his number so we couldn’t get back in touch. After two years of not talking I messaged him and replied and asked how my family and I was doing and that’s it. Then I messaged him again a month later with a quote of the day and nothing more: in which he replies “not to be mean what’s with the random texts”…… My heart broke in a million pieces as soon as he texted me that. I texted him back and asked if he wanted me to stop keeping contact with him and that’s when the texts stopped. He never replied… I am soo confused!!!!!!!! I can’t seem to get over him nor can I stop thinking about him. I keep making up excuses for his actions: I am just fooling myself by doing so. But I don’t seem to know what else to do. By him not replying to my question surely he doesn’t want to hear from me. But, what I don’t understand is what did I do wrong? Couldn’t he atleast explained why he did what he did and stopped contacting me?
At the time I was 20 and he was 29. Because of him I managed to gain weight over the 2 years of not talking to him.
Help me… I’m broken!!
(I’m an aquarius and he’s a gemini)
November 27th, 2008 at 7:48 pm
Hey Heartbroken,
I have just read your comment that you have posted, and may I say that normally gemini and aquarius relationships are not normally like the one that you are having…but also as Becky would say that it depends on the rest of that particular persons chart.
Also, reading your comment, I would say that I can see that you are/ were deeply in love with the Gemini man, I am Gemini woman, and I have to say that Gemini’s can be the worst to have a long term realtionship, I think the word LOVE can scare them away, they just aren’t ready to commit, the same can happen in an Aqaurius man’s case too. Anyway what I mean to say is don’t get too hung up over him.
Finally, you shouldn’t be broken over him, love is a very hard emotion and people do suffer heartache along the way, but you are better that this, there is really no need to be so broken over him, I am sure that you are a strong and beautiful person and you dont need to get hung up on this Gemini man, you can find someone else that will love you and not send you confusing signs LOL..
Anyway hope this helped bright up your day… don’t be down about a GEMINI MAN star signs are weird sometimes
take care
November 27th, 2008 at 9:35 pm
Haz91- I apprecaite the kind words but only if it was that easy. I’ve tried over and over again and attempted to move on and mingle but I cant seem to allow myself to like the individual due to thinking about what could have been with the “gemini” that stole my heart and managed to crush it. Your right as soon as i was giving hints that i had interest he got a bit scared. Considering that im middle eastern i think he thought that i wanted to get married without getting to know him further. Another thing i managed to leave out was that this individual’s sister used to be married to my decent uncle. Unfortunately after 5 years they managed to split. Do you think thats why he didnt want to commit? But i had already told him at the beginnning that we dont really associate with that end of the family. Aside from that; another thing that i’ve noticed is that i only mingle with inidividuals that remind me of him or look like him. How heartless of him!!!
The least he could have done was explain his reasonings… He’s now 32 and still single.
November 27th, 2008 at 9:39 pm
Ooops- TYPO
I meant my “distant uncle”
November 28th, 2008 at 8:52 pm
Hi Becky,
I posted a comment on November 9th but you never responded. I know you are busy but you responded to everyone else after me. I am very interested in what you have to say.
November 28th, 2008 at 11:42 pm
Thank you for the responce Becky. Flirting around other people meaning? Me flirting with other people in front of my love?…orrr…flirting with people in front of other people? I got a bit confused by that statement. I don’t usually flirt…I’m friendly but I don’t let it go passed that. There was this new astrology site that said that me and my lovers compatibility was 6 out of 15…which I found crushing… but I don’t think so…because for the most part we get along amazing! I grew some doubt…when reading about the Horse and Snake compatibility and thats why I asked… Anyway, thank you very much for your responce! Most of the time I think the same thing.
November 28th, 2008 at 11:53 pm
Heartbroken,
Hello…I just happened to read your comments, hope you don’t mind. I’m also a Gemini..and my brother is a Gemini as well… What relates most to your current interest and my brother is…the distance. My brother pretty much isolated himself from the family. He didn’t tell us when he graduated and noone knows where he lives. He doesn’t talk to anybody…I just recently sent him a text…asking him to guess who I was. (It’s been 4 years since we’ve last spoke, and before that 8 years since we last spoke). He responded, but once I told him who I was he just stopped talking to me. I know that doesn’t relate very much but it is hurtful nonetheless. I think that the best thing you could do is ask him why…why he just disappeared. If he doesn’t give you an answer…the only thing you can do is let time erase the damage he’s done…and it will go away eventually…but only if you let it. About Gemini’s being afraid of committment, I’ve never really been that afraid of committment….but all the other Gemini’s that I’ve known have been…so I don’t know what to tell you about that…but it seems he wasn’t interested in committment or anything serious..and obviously he’s not interested now. I know it’s hard to let someone go that you felt so strongly for…but I doubt you want to live your life feeling this heartache…
November 29th, 2008 at 9:38 am
Hi Blankie,
Really sorry I missed your comment I do try and answer everybody’s. Right,Aquarius and Gemini work very well, possibly the best there is, however, us Gemini’s ‘need’ more than them. They don’t feel the need to stay in touch all the time, where as we can waste a whole day texting and talking on the phone. They are not ruled by Mercury so they really don’t get this at all. When this happens it brings out are paranoid Gemini side as you are experiencing now. However, you have never met this guy before so really know nothing about him. Tread carefully and guard your emotions as best you can, just until you know what is going on. Send him a text letting him know your thinking of him then leave him too it, if he dosen’t answer then just leave it, he will if he truly likes you. If he dosen’t then you must let him go. But it is more likely that he is just being a typical Aquarius, they really are frustrating, mine still does it now and we’re engaged.
Good luck!
Love & Light
Becky
November 29th, 2008 at 9:42 am
I know and the worst feeling is that i cant get over what he has done to me and aside from that damage he managed to cause; i feel like i keep disrespecting myself my contacting him at “random” times.
December 1st, 2008 at 7:38 pm
Hey Becky
Just a quick question, the aquarian that I use to like thinks I hated him and his views in general….omg I dont understand…now we do not even talk at all.. the air between un is normal but we dont talk at all… there is no trying for a friendship…its just soo awkward and nervous on my behalf. Can I ask to Aquarian males move away if they think you hate them?..do they become quite around you?
Thanks
xx
December 2nd, 2008 at 12:41 am
Becky: I have got the mother of all relationship story about me, Aquarius and him, Gemini.
Met him at a party on New Years Eve night. He walked into the party got immediately introduced to me and I feel madly in love…I mean INSTANTLY. I am in my forties and I have never had this happen to me before. I end up asking him for a kiss and then spent all night kissing him, nothing further. Couldn’t wait to talk to him the next day and the next. I was the more assertive one in the texting and calling at first, however by the end of the month that changed. Spoke to him on my birthday night after I had been to a party thrown for me and all was good. Sent him some pictures of the party. Then BANG never heard from him again.for three months….But, here is where it get’s good. I had a myspace account and was just corresponding with all my friends carrying on with my life. Without ever sending each other a personal message or adding each other as friends, Next thing you know we are communicating with each other like we are the only two people in the world(how this gradually happen is uncanny) He would set his mood to match what I was blogging. If I was talking to one of my suitors/pursuer he would indicate his mood as jealous etc. If I made him jealous he would respond with him feeling devious. How I figured all this out, is beyond me..(Becky talk about deep connection and operating on a different wave length), To make this long story short. I have now deleted my myspace account and only talk to him via email. He still has not gone further with the texting and or phone calls but resurrecting him from the communication grave was mind blowing. I know he has a lot of feelings for Me….. A LOT. If I don’t talk to him for a day, he lets me know how sad he is and that he doesn’t like it…..like Becky said if we get out of sync with the communication, it’s like my whole world has ended. And I know the reason he stopped corresponding with me is because he was jealous of the guys surrounding me in the picture I sent him. I didn’t realize Gemini men are SOOOOOOO sensitive. But, whoever is reeling from the cold action of a Gemini. It might not be what you think it is. He might be so in love with you and don’t know what to do. It has been a year of communicating; granted it is our unique way of talking, and I am sure it will grow to be more. But Gemini and Aquarius definitely operate in their own world
December 2nd, 2008 at 5:19 am
Time will heal all wounds HeartBroken….eventually…as long as you let it.
December 2nd, 2008 at 8:12 am
To Haz91: If you used to likes him, and he seems to hate you, does it really matter to you if you are friends with him or not? I mean, what has been done, as been done. I say leave it like that.
Because, if you try to patch this up, it just awarkard and waste of time. Live in the now, and let the past be the past. There’s not much you can do anways.
December 2nd, 2008 at 9:12 am
Firstly to Haz, I think it is time to move on. If he wants a friendship at all then he will come to you. You will just torture yourself if you keep on thinking about him and wondering these things. Sometimes things end and when they do it feels bad but time is the thing that makes everything ok again.
Becky xxxx
This is to Sharon, Thank you for your comment, Gemini men!! In fact Gemini’s in general are a funny breed of people. We crave independence yet long for companionship, we get extremely jealous but hate it when someone shows it toward us, we are walking contradictions basically! He will be high maintenance and will need to know how you feel, however you wish to show that. Gemini people are not cold in the slightest, we are too emotional and this can boil over at times and turn us into gibbering wrecks. Of course Gemini Men are always slightly more sensitive because they do all possess a massive ego!!
Good luck with your Gemini you will certainly be in for lots of fun and never a dull moment!
Love & Light
Becky
December 2nd, 2008 at 6:59 pm
Thank you Becky, that was very kind of you to respond to my comment.
Yes my gemini is HIGH MAINTENANCE but, showing I care is my pleasure..he is so worth it. The funny thing is, he does come off as cold on the surface, but to this aquarius, I read right through him. He definitely is not into showing his affection in a bold way, its the little behind the scene(if that makes sense)actions, that shows he care and in a DEEP way.
Yes, like you said, he does need to know how I feel about him. I am glad you told me that, because now that makes sense to me. He responds more when I most affectionate…and I can read ever so slightly when he is upset about something. (a disjointed email for example). At which time I show even more affection. His mood then snaps right back to being happy.
I have one question for you,If I may ask, and then I will give the floor to next commentor.(HaHa) I notice he never responds to a direct question..If I want to know anything, I have to be creative about how I present things to him. Actually he responds to me best when I approach things from different(softer) angles rather than being direct.(does that make sense to you) Is this usually the case with Gemini men. Or perhaps his moon.
December 2nd, 2008 at 9:28 pm
Thanks for your article, Becky - very encouraging and pretty accurate. Thank you, sincerely, for being so receptive to others’ needs and questions. Your talents can surely be used and we appreciate the effort and energy you give to answering questions.
I am an Aqua. female (jan 24) and my guy’s a gem (jun 20). We have frequent telepathic exchanges and feel like we’re connected on some deep level. We are both quite spiritual and strongly feel our souls (call it soulmates or whatever) are karmically linked.
We met each other on an Indian Matrimonial site (believe me - NOT something I was serious about!) and communicated off and on for a couple years. When we’d chat on messenger services, we could go on for HOURS and REALLLY felt like we were on the same vibe - like, we just really ‘connected.’ Because he was in another country, we never met. Once, when we were “off-communication” for a year or so, he had an intense & loving live-in relationship w/ a Pisces and that ended painfully (for both sides) a few months later. I also met a couple amazing and attractive souls - but nothing worked out.
We got in contact again, shared a lot together, dated (via phone b/c of long distance) within 8 days of re-connecting. It was not easy b/c he hadn’t worked through all this feelings from his prev. relationship, so we broke up repeatedly. Finally, after a month+ of no talking, we took a serious decision that if things are unstable from his side even ONCE more, I am done for good - forever. (He is well aware that I have no NEED for anyone - I’m very independent and quite happy alone). He gave me his word and we’ve stuck together since - it’s been a year+ of dating. There are a lot of deep feelings, lots of love, care and affection. Sexually, we’re both experimental, very loving and attentive to each others’ needs.
He’s in FL and I’m in IA and I fully agree that our fights are pretty dramatic (he has a hard time compromising). Still, we have such a deep committment towards each other that the 9 days that we’ve been together in person is enough to keep our heads up. We dream together of a future in which we can be together. There really is some magical, invisible “glue” holding us together.
December 2nd, 2008 at 9:35 pm
I am 14 years old and there is this guy that I like and he is an aquarius and I am a gemini. He is a little bit quiet and I talked to him a couple of times already. When I wrote a couple of sentances asking him something in an e-mail, he wrote back a paragraph. He only talks to me when I talk to him though. I am not sure i he likes me. He responds to my e-mail’s very quickly.He is always staring at me for some reason.What should I do? Does he like me? Try to explain him to me.He seems to talk to me more online than offline. He is also very polite and looks me in the eye and is a good listener.
Thanks,
Hannah
December 3rd, 2008 at 5:30 pm
To Hannaha:
Sounds, like he likes you a lot. When a boy stares at girl, that means he finds you attractive. And if he reponses quickly to your e-mails, I would say he likes you. It sounds to be he finds it a lot easier to talk to you in e-mails then in person, because of his shyness.
Take it slow, get to know him little by little. Talk to him little by little so he gets to know you, and might just talk to you.
December 3rd, 2008 at 5:38 pm
To RS: It’s nice to read a comment by an Aquurius born January 24. I was born January 25th.
I heard that Aquarius born on the first portion of the month act totally different from the ones more in the middle and towards the end.
December 3rd, 2008 at 7:26 pm
Hey hannah
when are your birthdays?
xx
December 3rd, 2008 at 8:46 pm
Hey littleimpaler,
Hmm… yeah, i’ve read that too. I highly recommend “The Secret Language of Birthdays” by Gary Goldschneider (spelling?). He breaks each star sign into 3 decades, so you and I would be in the first decade of Aquarius. However, I feel that astrology is quite complex because there are SOOOO many factors including planets, houses, angles, whether one planet feels comfortable in the house in which its placed, etc. To complicate things further, Indian (Hindu) astrology (which is quite ancient and arguably one of the first astrological systems) calculates things differently. I have read my detailed birth chart using both systems and, quite frankly, it’s VERY confusing. The 1st decade of Aquarius is titled, “the cusp of genius.” Not necessarily that we’re more intelligent but this decade carries a lot of mental energy and precocious behavior. I don’t want to take up Becky’s valuable ‘comment space’ for Gemini/Aqua. compatibility, so I’ll end here. Def. check the book out, but u prob. want to consult an astrologer (Becky seems to know what she’s talking about!) for greater insight.
RS
December 3rd, 2008 at 10:29 pm
My birthday is june 15th and i’m not sure what his is.I know it is an aquarius. I talk to him and he answers my questions, but he doesn’t ask me any questions. He only responds. What does that mean. He listens to me and seems interested in my conversations.
December 4th, 2008 at 7:43 am
Hi Hannah, Thanks for your comment. You have the same birthday as me!! Aquarius men don’t really ask questions, mine never really has, in yet he knows everything about me. They pick up on everything, a lot of people say they aren’t interested and don’t take any notice, this is not true at all. If they like the person then they will learn about them but us Gemini’s are communicators and Aquarius’ are not, therefore it seems strange to us. Good luck!
Love & Light
Becky
December 4th, 2008 at 7:47 am
Hi RS, Thank you for your comments. Astrology can be very confusing if you allow it to be. Whe I do charts for people I do all the hard work and give it to them in a simple way so that everyone can understand it. I think the best way to describe Aquarius for example is like this..the first section of Aquarius has some traits of Capricorn, the middle section is very Aquarius in there ways and are the truest to the sign, the third section are normally more sensitive due to their closeness to Pisces, this goes for all signs of course.
Thanks for adding to my site it’s nice to have you here!!
Love & Light
Becky
December 4th, 2008 at 8:23 am
To Becky: I was born on January 25th. I know I have traits of Aqurauis, but some times I feel I share some traits of Aries as well. I don’t know my born time. I don’t think I have one. I was born outside in the Philippines, my mother never went to the hospital. I know all aquarius are different, but I feel I am totally different from a lot of Aquarius. Like a lot of Aqurius get along with Genimi, where as I do not get along very well with Genimi. I just clash with them.
Can you explain this?
December 4th, 2008 at 8:58 am
Hi Littleimpaler, thanks for your comments.
My Fiance was born on the same day as you! The thing with the connection with Gemini and Aquarius is that it either works or it dosen’t. Saying that you should look into getting your chart done as this is a big insight into why you are the way you are. You may have a lot of fire in your chart for instance. If you don’t know your birth time then it’s OK it can still be worked out as near as possible. Also are you interested in the Chinese Zodiac at all? This can also help us in our quest to seek out who we are.
Look forward to hearing from you, remember you can contact me using my contact page as well.
Love & Light
Becky
December 8th, 2008 at 10:14 pm
Hi and thank you for such interesting reading about gemini..Im a gemini woman with rising aquarius,lets say my mind is like a tornado.I really havent pumped into many aquarius boys,as far as i know,i might have taken one home sometime without knowing,hahaha gemini speaking.until recently,he turned my mind upside down and inside out.we did the nasty twice then he gave me the cold shoulder.I could feel some strange connection..but im not really into long term “hunting”.I also was in another relationship at the same time =)
December 9th, 2008 at 5:39 pm
oookkakkkaaayyyy……anyways i shouldnt be responding cause im neither the above signs i am a pisces thats in love with a aqaurius..ive never been attracted to a gemini and never will….but my aqaurius broke up with her gemini for me..eveidently they wasnt that compatible…..its been 5 years since we have been together now….and right this day my aqaurius hates that gemini…lolol
December 9th, 2008 at 8:26 pm
Lakisha
Reading what you have written abot never meeting a Gemini and bragging about how your partner left a Gemini for you..makes you look arrogant and stupid… you might be happy but you don’t have to talk about Gemini’s like that you might not want to meet a Gemini but Pisces aren’t exactly the best sign either trust me I have quite afew Piscean friends some of them are great but others are just crap.
Just the way you have written the comment is quite offensive and I am a Gemini myself
December 10th, 2008 at 7:18 pm
@HAZ91………………….i apologize for hurting your feelings.. yes i was arrogant but no im not stupid… but to be honest sweetie i was talking about that particular gemini not you…i dont know you from adam…so why are you so offended…does every geminis situatations has to have an affect on you? when ppl say “pisces ppl are weak” i dont get mad at all…i just explain myself and prove that i am not weak, i really just let them see for their self who i am and at the end they are very surprised….it never fails…and i love it cause ppl tells me all the time that i dont really act like a pisces………i do have a very sweet,sensitive side…but thanks to God and the obstacles that i have been through and my rooster sign that i do not have one weak bone in my body…..remind you i do fall weak for the ppl i love and honor…but who doesnt….peace………
December 10th, 2008 at 8:26 pm
Hi Lakisha
Not every gemini situation has an effect on me I was just making a point about how you had wrote it…it sounded like you hated all Gemini’s..where you had written you never wanted to meet one..thats all. I appreciate that you have apologised..that shows the gentle and calm side of Pisces..lol
December 10th, 2008 at 9:46 pm
Hi Becky!
I just wanted to tell you how much I adore your site. Your description of compatibility between Geminis and Aquarius’ is so dead-on, that I can’t help but re-read it to reaffirm the legitimacy of my own Gemini-Aquarius relationship.
I also love how all these Gemini’s can come together and relate to one another. It’s amazing how similar our traits are!
I was born on May 29th and my boyfriend is an Aquarius born Jan 25th. I wanted to know if our birthdays play a role on how strong the Gemini-Aquarius relationship works between us? From what I understand, some Gemini’s are more “Gemini” than others and vice versa for Aquarius.
I was tripping out when I read your site because it really works out that way with me and my Aqua. It’s amazing how deep the connection goes–the honesty and comfort that comes with it is SO refreshing. He is literally by best friend with benefits…and it feels so good to have someone who understands and loves you simply for being yourself. Right??? Anyhow, thanks for making such a great tribute to THE COUPLE Becky…you rock!
On a side note as Gemini, do you ever feel like you’re constantly changing to fit into so many situations, that you often lose yourself? I sometimes feel like that when I’m flying all over the place. I would get depressed thinking so much about who I was and who I’m not that I was literally hollowing myself out. It’s been my goal to merge the dual sides of my nature, being with an Aquarius really does help in that sense. They’re so grounding and calm, that my twister of energies seems separate like breezes over waves. Does anyone know what I mean?
December 11th, 2008 at 7:26 am
Hi there Tiger13, Thank you for your comment and your lovely words
I totally agree with you about Aquarius being a steadying effect on us Gemini’s. I have really calmed down since I have been with mine and have learned so much, I am myself now..nearly al the time, the true me, one whole person rather than several segments. The way the Gemini works simply is that if your birthday is nearer Taurus then you will have some Taurean traits and attitudes to some degree. If you are nearer Cancer then the same applies. If you are in the middle then you are more of a Gemini than anything else. This all depends on the rest of one’s chart as well ofcourse.
Nice to have you on my site
Love & Light
Becky
December 11th, 2008 at 1:12 pm
Anyway…lets get back to astrology…
Becky.. looking back at what Tiger 13 said if I am born May 25th does that mean that I have the characteristics more of a Taurus. Because I feel that I am a Gemini dead on…!
Will that affect my compatability with Aquarians!
Thanks
xxx
December 11th, 2008 at 10:59 pm
Hi Becky,
Long time no see! I’m very happy to write to you again, I just feel like you really understand me being a Gemini too and you know how difficult it is for us to make others see the world through our eyes.
I just wanted to tell you about something that has been bugging me for some time now. A short time after I met my Aqua I fell head over heals for him. I could feel such strange connection between me and another person for the first time-it was almost like he was there with me all the time. I’m sure he felt something like this too but… what was it exactly? Did he experience it with the same intensity? I wonder what it felt like from his point of view…
Anyway, I think you are the only one who can give me a straight answer because I know you’ve been through it all. Oh, and by the way I’ve noticed that many people give out their birth dates to know exactly how well they match with the one they love so I decided to tell you mine and my Aqua’s - I’m 8th June and he’s 16th Feb. I understand you don’t have much time for replies so don’t worry about not making my chart if it’s too much trouble.
Thanks again!
XXX
December 13th, 2008 at 10:18 pm
Hello there! My birthday is June 15th and his birthday is Februrary 13th… Hmm, what would you have to say about that?
December 14th, 2008 at 11:12 am
Kacey,
If you are June 15th then you are bang on Gemini as compared to people born towards the end of june lets say june 19th onwards they are still gemini but may have cancer attrubutes. If they are born May lets say before May 24th have charactersitics of a Taurus but we are not ignoring the fact that they are gemini they still are true geminis but have slight characteristics of other signs.
If looking at Aquarius if they are born in January then they are likely to be different to those in February. But Kacey one thing that has come to my attention is that May Gemini’s tend to have more romantic relationships with those born in January Aquarius
And June Gemini have more romantic relationships with those Aquarius in February.
But overall Gemini and Aquarius have the best match in the whole world:)
December 14th, 2008 at 11:14 am
Lili when is your bday and when is your aqua mans bday?
December 14th, 2008 at 11:21 pm
To Haz91: I have to disagree that Gemini and Aquarius make the best match. I have read a lot of Aqarius comments with other signs and even with signs they say don’t work. Where they have this really great relationship. I think anyone can have a great aswsome relationship if they have good understanding of one another, apecct each other difference, and just like to be together. And know how to give and take.
Relationships in generally are hard work.
December 17th, 2008 at 12:11 am
Hiya Becky,what you say is so very true about Aquarius and Gemini..
But i don’t understand somethings I’m a Gemini Woman and I’m very confused about my Aqua mans feelings.. it seems as though he doesn’t love me even if he says it expressively, but at times i don’t think he means it. Is it true that its hard for them to express their feelings as much? they say in a Aquarius they are emotionless people like I’ am. but I’m actually not. Due to my nervous energy and I’m born under the Gemini Moon. How he feels goes through my mind a lot only when i see him. I try to figure out how does he feel about me and I’m usually scared to ask. Cause when I try its like a barrier I could feel that protects him from what he wants to say. He seems to comfortable I only want him to say how he feels. But why is it so hard for him? it throws me for a loop! and this distance I don’t mind cause when i need him the most he appears or calls out of no where saying as always “You ok?” But this this Distance between emotion.. it drives me crazy. I try to tell him how I feel but I’m usually scared, i guess because I’m scared of his reaction towards what he’s going to say. Because they say If someones to emotionally attached to a Aquarius its pretty much a downfall they don’t want that, Is that true? so I avoid asking him. But loving unconditionally is ok with me non emotional is fine at times cause I don’t want to run him away. But still I’m very curious of what he wants from me, and how he feels thats all I ask for I wanna know why he loves me.
Should I just leave this alone and adapt to it and let it come naturally, we’ve been dating for 6 months.
or should I just talk to him about it without being scared of what is to come.
December 17th, 2008 at 1:14 am
Oh my birthday is May 23 and his February 18.
when does the Gemini start? am I a true Gemini?
December 17th, 2008 at 7:51 am
Hi there Mari, and thank you for your comment.
I totally understand where your coming from. It can be ever so hard for us Gemini’s and the reason for this is that we really do care. Now then, I suggest that as hard as it is you try and relax and just enjoy your time with him, the more you ask or seem uncomfotable the deeper within himself he will go. Very often you have to look for the things he does that express his feelings as words are not easily said. The slightest thing he does for you is bound to be full of emotion, however if you are really needing to find out try writing to him and make it as simple as you can because they are not fans of are Gemini ramblings that never seem to get to the point. They prefer it in black and white with a touch of cuteness.
Hope this is of some help..once you have cracked this you will have a wonderful time, but you will need to learn to relax. I honestly know how hard this is.
Love & Light
Becky
December 17th, 2008 at 8:41 am
Mari when is your bday and when is his bday?
December 17th, 2008 at 6:21 pm
Mari_Confused Gemini:
Being someone like your boyfriend, I am also a Aquarius woman, I am not the touchy feeling kind, I don’t express how I feel, but I do by actions, not by words.
It seem like he loves you, because he is always there for you when you need him the most. Actions speak louder than words.
He might not be the kind of man that express how he feels by words. My dad is also this way, also an Aqaurius, but my whole family are this way, and their not all Aqaurius. I know they love me, because their for me, when I need them. Also my best friend is that way also, and she’s Taurus, but I know she cares for me, because she is there when I need her.
I say aceppt him for who is and not worry about it. But if it really bothers you, you must talk to him, he can’t read your mind.You cannot be afarid to talk to him, if he really loves you he will listen to what you have to say.
December 17th, 2008 at 8:03 pm
To Becky,
I have a question..
I have read many of the comments put by Gemini females who are in relationships with Aquarius males..what has come to my attention is that they seem to express there real true love for the Aquarius men and state that they seem to have found a real true soul mate in their aqua men!
What I wanted to ask was if you were to ask an Aqua man about his relationship with the Gemini would it be the same.. would they be as in love with the Gemini woman as they are with them…
I am just wondering because it states that the Aqua men are scared of their emotions and especially when it comes to love..so what do you think their response would be to Gemini female love match?
Are Aquarians completely in love with the Gemini as Gemini is with Aquarius..because from experiecne sometimes it seems like the Gemini woman goes onto express her true love but the Aqua man does not really say much?
Or is it me being a Gemini woman being overbearingly emotional again? lol
xx
Thanks
December 17th, 2008 at 10:51 pm
I think Aquarius just has a hard time expressing emotions with words. Gemini are more expressive, emotional and open than Aquarius… I always want to get into my Aquas head…because I know he thinks a lot of things that I would like to hear out loud but probably some things that I would rather not hear out loud as well. I have to really concentrate on his actions and facial expressions when he’s talking to determine how he feels when I get worried…but I do get a bit over-emotional and unnecissarily pessimistic at times leaving it hard for me to really understand logically what he’s saying with his actions….It gets hard not being reminded and told things you long to hear your lover say to you………
Becky.. Why do you think my Aqua refuses to look me in the eyes for a long period of time?
December 17th, 2008 at 10:52 pm
By the way.. I’m a Gemini too.
December 17th, 2008 at 11:12 pm
Hi Becky!
Let me start by saying I love, love, love your interpretation of the Gemini/Aquarius compatibility. Spot ON.
Let me tell you about the conundrum I find myself in. I am a Gemini gal, year of the Tiger. And I am currently surrounded by two Aquarius men; both year of the Dog… I began communication with the first guy online through emails, telephone etc. we share mutual friends- however, he has a girlfriend. [I know, I’m terrible. I’ve definitely asked forgiveness for this] we hit it off instantly and our relationship became very sexual- for a while. We no longer have sex or anything but we still talk everyday and our friendship seems to get DEEPER and DEEPER. Occasionally old habits rise up and sexual comments are made but they’re quickly retracted and never go to the point they were before… In the meantime, enter the new Aqua man. He and I get along famously as well, but there have been a few instances where freakishly random things have happened with me that he’s witnessed or between him and I where I feel like so much of myself is exposed. I’m sure you know as a Gemini we tend to peel our layers off slowly but with the illusion of openness. I feel as if God somehow has allowed him to see the very worse of me up front; which is off putting. [I stray from giving detail in order to save myself embarrassment. lol] Anyway, he is STILL around; makes comments of his interest- but of course being the Aquarius he is, I cant tell if he’s really INTO me. We still go out, etc. And I really like him, he’s definitely the kind of man I could see myself settling down with (funny, I know) however… there’s still the first Aquarius who somehow I share this very deep connection with. I input here, the second Aquarius and I have never been sexually involved, could that be the only difference between the connections? I feel like I could be equally as connected to the 2nd… but somebody is running a little faster in the race to my heart, although technically- he should be disqualified for playing on two teams.
I want it to switch! WHAT IS GOING ON?! I avoid being too affectionate with #2 because I don’t KNOW if he’s as interested as I am. But the more and more I keep from him, the more I seem to share with my old friend- who is unavailable and its totally backwards.
HELLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPP
December 18th, 2008 at 5:38 am
Hiya Becky,
Thank you so much for what you said. It made me feel more confident in what I’m supposed to do. yes it is very hard to get out what I have to say only because of boundless nervous energy taunts me for what I must do sometimes. Especially if its about My Aqua Boyfriend.
I might just let it come naturally,because there so many ways he can express it to me but I’m so impatient!and my curiosity always gets the best of me; he’s always leaving me with so many questions I have unanswered about his feelings. So I always feel uneasy and nervous. your right I really should relax and calm my self and wait and see what he does next or say to me, besides he’s unpredictable, and his unpredictable ways are surprising and I like it a lot. I’m not going to force his feelings out but if I still feel like somethings missing I will surely talk to him. Tomorrow we go on our date and maybe things will come out more so i hope for the best…
Thanks so much for your advice and understanding. I appreciate it, it guided me to what I’m supposed to do. ^-^
December 18th, 2008 at 5:49 am
LittleImpaler:
Thanks It made me understand him more from your view. I have always accepted him. But the detached emotion always makes me feel a little weary of him. But I should just get use to it and he will express it in other ways, Maybe I have to figure it out. I don’t know. But I have to be patient of him and patience I do not have because of my nervous ways. I will sustain my patience,for me and for him because I should know by now he does love me I just want him to show it more and why he does I hope I’m not asking for much.
December 18th, 2008 at 5:57 am
Haz91:
As I said before my birthday is May 23 and his is February 18. I don’t know if I’m exactly a Gemini I’m probably a Taurus too… I don’t know exactly when the Gemini starts. they say 22nd or 23rd sometimes 21st. But I do know he is Aquarius.
Thanks for asking.I hope you will figure out if I’m a Gemini or a Gemini Cusps.
December 18th, 2008 at 11:04 am
Kitty and Confused Gem Gurlie
When are your and your aqua mens bdays?
xx
December 18th, 2008 at 2:08 pm
Hi Haz91,
Feb 5th & 15th….
December 18th, 2008 at 6:14 pm
PS here are the basics of our charts:
ME:
Sun- Gemini
Mercury- Cancer
Venus- Leo
Mars- Capricorn
Jupiter- Pisces
Saturn- Sagittarius
Uranus- Sagittarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio
HE:
Sun- Aquarius
Mercury- Pisces
Venus- Aquarius
Mars- Pisces
Jupiter- Libra
Saturn- Libra
Uranus- Scorpio
Neptune- Sagittarius
Pluto- Libra
December 18th, 2008 at 7:26 pm
Confused Gemgurlie when is your bday?
xx
December 18th, 2008 at 8:02 pm
To Kitty: Maybe having direct eye contact makes him nerves. I am same sign as your boyfriend and I have no problem looking into someone’s eyes. But then again I enjoy straight foraward people, it doesn’t bother me.
It could be also, and this could be sign. When someone refues you to look in your eyes, that means their lying about something, or they feel gulity.
December 18th, 2008 at 8:17 pm
To confusedGEMgurlie: So what your saying you in love with two men or you like them both the same????
I would say you have to choose between 1 or 2. If you try to have your cake and eat it too. You’ll find yourself in mess.
I personal, would stay away from any man that has girlfriend. Weither it is online and having a realationship with you, it’s still cheating. And him doing so, you should really think about SERIOUSLY, if you want to start a realationship with a man that is cheating, because he will do the same to you, just give it time.
I would never go for a person online, been there, done that, and it was very bad experice with me, because you don’t really know the guy. The guy could be a crazy person, because the man I used to love online had Schizoperia, and I didn’t know that.
If I were you, I go to the one that you know you have met.
It’s up to you. But you really have to choose. You can have two relationship with two men if you like, just remember what comes around goes around.
December 19th, 2008 at 12:26 pm
Hey confused gem gurlie
When is your bday again?
xx
December 19th, 2008 at 2:58 pm
Hi Haz,
Its June 16th.
Little Impaler: I’m not in LOVE with either of them. But I’m growing closer (as in a deep connection/friendship) with the WRONG ONE. I don’t want to scare the guy off who I want (who is the single, eligible guy) so I dont call/communicate too much… but at the same time, I want us to develop something so that I dont grow attached to the companionship of the unavailable gentleman.
The unavailable guy is not just online. lol. we know each other and see one another alot. I was just saying we communicate online alot.
Thanks everyone!
December 19th, 2008 at 6:36 pm
hey becky!
I’m an aquarian(moon in aries and taurus ascendant).. I’ve met a gemini (moon in capricorn and cancer ascendant) through my taurus ex (not for long!) a few minutes past midnight on valentines day.. we clicked the first time we talked.. it was unbelievable.. just out of a fairy tale.. and we both sensed the chemistry and sparks but couldnt confront each other for a year and eight months when the cancer i was involved with wanted me to keep my distance from the gemini out of jealousy for obvious reasons
before getting serious with my gemini, I honestly believed that we were soulmates.. just the lucky type that would stay friends forever. until he confronted me about the feelings he had all along through his past relationships while knowing me. we finally got together, and i cant say that i would believe that anyone has ever met their soulmate because so it feels that we’re the only ones that ever fell in love with the true sense of the word. we never argue, we “discuss” our problems and fears.. and we always get around them. but as friends, i cried every time he gave me the cold shoulder or didnt respond to me.
he’s the sweetest, funniest, most sensitive and adorable. I love your profile on our compatibility.. I never read something so.. PRECISE!!!
I loved it, thanks for everything… your style is very captivating! I sure enjoyed it!!
Thanks xx
December 19th, 2008 at 8:51 pm
Mari_Confused Gemini: I just thought of something yesterday. You said you get neverous? Does he know that? If he doesn’t, he needs to know you are like this, at the same time tell you once in while how he feels. A relationship can’t be one sided where you do what you need to do to give him space or whatever. He has to do the same for you. It’s part of understanding each other.
December 20th, 2008 at 1:02 pm
To confused gemgurlie
Seems like you have got an Aquarius CRISIS! LOL
But what I am going to say is that my advice to you is still remain close friends with the first Aqua man you met because obviously Aqua and Gem relitionship always truns into a friendship even after a relationship but let him know that you want to keep your distance because Aquarius love distance and isolation so he really wont mind unless he has got deep passionate feelings for you even now!
..As for the second one you said that you want to keep him close..but not scare him off.. well I would say you should call him instead of not calling him too much… show him that you are interested and take it slow… talk to him like you do to the first aqua man that you said you are close to… show an interest in him..really talk and get close because that it was defines an Aqua and Gem relationship is the excellent mental rapport…
Also you said that you are not sexually involved with him.. well yes that is what could be the difference.. the first aqua man you have actually you know …ahem..with so you both have had some sort of close intimate one to one time.. the second one is does like you but he iis taking it much slower than the first one and that is why you probably can not read if he is into you or not
GIVE IT TIME GIRL!! and he will come around
Hope I helped…:)
Take care
xx
December 20th, 2008 at 10:37 pm
To confused gemgurlie:
I still say that you have to make up your mind weither you want a friendship or not with him. I will admit wanting to be someone friend, but at the same time not wanting to be his friend, so you don’t a grow attach to him is silly.
I think it has something more to do with you, then any of these men. I think you need to learn to control yourself, and your emotions.
Whatever you decied stick to your guns, don’t be wishisy washy, it will confuse the guy and you must be honest with him and tell him where you stand.
December 21st, 2008 at 11:40 pm
Becky,
thank you so much for writing such a wonderful and so accurate description. it really made me feel better, because being an Aquariun female dating a gemini male, i realized that the reason why i am so forgiving and patient with him, is because he is the only exception and that we understand each other.
its hilarious how you wrote that aquarians dont like conflict and they run away. (we secretly want the guys to chase us anyway)
the other night we had a huge fight, i walked right out. and recieved a phonecall right away. and sat for some awkward silence after yelling our brains out, and fell asleep, waking up feeling better then ever next to each other.
we have had a lot of ups and downs the past year, but i just cant possibly see my life without him. i changed my name too, because he is going to make fun of me for the longest time for this.
thank you!
December 22nd, 2008 at 2:53 pm
Haz & Little Impaler,
Thanks! I appreciate both of your input. I do value his friendship (Aqua #1) but like we all know friendship SOMETIMES can mean more to both Gemini and Aquarius. So the dilemma is to not overstep the boundaries of friends, as we grow closer in that capacity.
Its just that Aquarius (#2) is the one I can see myself being with but things are moving SO slowly that in the meantime I feel like I’m growing closer and closer still (friendship wise) to the first. I’ve always been a firm believer in being BEST friends with my potential life partner, so now do you see why it bothers me to grow closely (even as JUST friends) to the first? Does that make sense?
There was a breakthrough this weekend with Aqua 2, we talked about what was happening between us and it was pretty much established that yes, right now we are friends, but there is potential for so much more and we’re just taking our time. He agrees, as I do that a friendship is the basis to any lasting love relationship. We talk about EVERYTHING, the future, our pasts, our present, politics, music, spirituality, literature (including swapping good reads) etc. So I believe we’re getting to know each other in depth at this point. I just occasionally need more affection or phone calls/texts when he’s thinking of me, I suppose as affirmation that we’re still heading toward… SOMETHING.
Because he knows of my decision to remain celibate (p.s. Aqua #1 and I were involved that way a LONG time ago, before I made the decision) I think it makes him unsure of how to display affection. We kiss and hug but not A LOT because even just good night/ see ya later kisses are INTENSE. So I think he’s afraid he’d make me compromise my decision so he stays away from it.
Anyway, I decided that I will start to text or call when I think of him… which ISN’T a lot by any standard. I’m not the kind who needs to hear from him everyday, but occasionally is nice.
Impaler, I hope this kind of clears up what I meant. I don’t not want to have a friendship with Aqua #1, I just want to have a CLOSER relationship with #2. You’re totally right, as a Gemini I struggle with not being wishy washy and controlling my emotions and I take that into consideration when I’m dealing with the situation.
Anyway, thanks for ALL the input!
December 22nd, 2008 at 10:37 pm
To confusedGEMgurlie:
Yes, this clears a lot up. I will admit I was confused about the situation. And you’re welcome. Here’s some more advice.
Don’t worry about “he has to be my best friend, so I can date him.” Just go with the flow. If it works, it works, if it doesn’t, it doesn’t. If you always think we must be friends first, you will drive your self insane. Just go with the flow and not think so much about making this relationship a best friend thing.
Good luck to you.
December 28th, 2008 at 4:27 pm
To Becky,
I have a question..
I have read many of the comments put by Gemini females who are in relationships with Aquarius males..what has come to my attention is that they seem to express there real true love for the Aquarius men and state that they seem to have found a real true soul mate in their aqua men!
What I wanted to ask was if you were to ask an Aqua man about his relationship with the Gemini would it be the same.. would they be as in love with the Gemini woman as they are with them…
I am just wondering because it states that the Aqua men are scared of their emotions and especially when it comes to love..so what do you think their response would be to Gemini female love match?
Are Aquarians completely in love with the Gemini as Gemini is with Aquarius..because from experiecne sometimes it seems like the Gemini woman goes onto express her true love but the Aqua man does not really say much?
Or is it me being a Gemini woman being overbearingly emotional again? lol
Thanks
December 29th, 2008 at 8:17 pm
OH my god evreything you wrote its so true
i am a gemini girl and i love Aquarius MAn so much ,when we’re together ..its just me and him in this planet ..
but the problem is we only have a fight on network, MSN and texting ..what should i do ?
email me plz
December 30th, 2008 at 5:44 pm
Hey Jana,
I wouldn’t worry about fights on the net..or msn.. every couple has fights I wouldn’t worry..but if you feel its affecting you then try and talk things through in person with him rather than using msn..but from what you have written it seems you are happy with him..
When is your birthday and when is your aquarius mans birthday?
December 31st, 2008 at 2:46 am
I think that looking into my eyes for a long period of time makes him nervous. He has told me that he has a hard time looking into peoples eyes in general… I don’t think that he is lying or has anything to hide. He’s just shy thats all. Oh and Haz.. I’m Kacey. Haha… I just would rather put down my nickname instead of my own name. My birthday is June 15th and My Aquarius birthday is Feb, 13th. =) I just happen to be a very passionate…close emotional person…and when I look into his eyes I think that he can kind of sense it and it makes him nervous.
December 31st, 2008 at 1:31 pm
Hey Jana,
I wouldn’t worry about fights on the net..or msn.. every couple has fights I wouldn’t worry..but if you feel its affecting you then try and talk things through in person with him rather than using msn..but from what you have written it seems you are happy with him..
When is your birthday and when is your aquarius mans birthday?
December 31st, 2008 at 2:15 pm
Hi there,
No need to worry about the rows. I was exactly the same with my Aquarius for the first year! If we ever chatted on the phone, MSN, or email we would always end up in a great big arguement. It’s all about communication, Gemini’s differ greatly to the Aquarius in this, we can happily use any medium to chat away for hours, whereas the Aquarius can not. And finds in just annoying, they prefer to say what they need to and go. They can often sound abrupt as well. I no longer use these forms of coomunication anymore, although we live together now so we don’t have too. Just try and keep it short and sweet. But don’t worry it’s normal! Happy New Year!!
Love & Light
Becky
December 31st, 2008 at 6:33 pm
To Becky,
I have a question..
I have read many of the comments put by Gemini females who are in relationships with Aquarius males..what has come to my attention is that they seem to express there real true love for the Aquarius men and state that they seem to have found a real true soul mate in their aqua men!
What I wanted to ask was if you were to ask an Aqua man about his relationship with the Gemini would it be the same.. would they be as in love with the Gemini woman as they are with them…
I am just wondering because it states that the Aqua men are scared of their emotions and especially when it comes to love..so what do you think their response would be to Gemini female love match?
Are Aquarians completely in love with the Gemini as Gemini is with Aquarius..because from experiecne sometimes it seems like the Gemini woman goes onto express her true love but the Aqua man does not really say much?
Or is it me being a Gemini woman being overbearingly emotional again? lol
Thanks
Sorry becky but you didnt answer the question …lol
o and HAPPY NEW YEAR !!! TO YOU TOO
XX
January 1st, 2009 at 10:42 am
Hi hun, I shall get back to you about that asap. Soo busy, I keep reading your comment I’m sure I did reply to it..maybe not though. Will be back tommorow.
Happy new year
Love & Light
Becky
January 2nd, 2009 at 2:02 am
To Becky,
Will my consulation, be ready soon? I haven’t got it yet.
January 2nd, 2009 at 9:22 am
Hi there,
Sorry about that!I always get so much work at Christmas. Yes I will send it to you tonight, I hope you enjoy reading it!
Love & Light
Becky
January 5th, 2009 at 7:34 pm
Hey Becky Hope you had a good New Year
I was hoping thath you would answer my question now.
Sorry to be a bother I just haven’t heard from you for a while
Thanks
take care
xx
January 8th, 2009 at 4:12 pm
Ok… I am a Jan 24 Aqua. (female) and my bf is a Jun. 20 Gem. His ascendant is cancer. He is REAAAALLLLLLLLLYYYYYY insecure about all my guy friends.
Becky, since you’re a Gem. yourself, could you help with how I can deal with this? I bond well w/ my guy friends and my bf hates this. He feels like, since anything is possible, I may non-platonically bond with them some day if the ‘right situation’ comes about. This annoys me b/c I see my guy friends like brothers.
Anyone else - I’d appreciate u chiming in too if you’ve had a similar issue.
Thanks a bunch!
RS
January 8th, 2009 at 7:50 pm
Hey RS
Being a gemini myself, I have to say that I have seen this in some Gemini males.. who have been in relationships themselves and yes jeolosy does crop up.. here are a few ways in which you could deal with it..
- Gemini’s need security when in a relationship, and I mean extra security … because it is quite hard to get a Gemini to actually settle down and Aquarius is the only one really able to do so.. so make sure that you re assure him that you love him and blah blah blah
- Next is that Jeolousy does crop up in Gemini’s when in a relaationship because they want their partner all to themsleves..now there is no need to worry because its proably because he loves you like alot and just wants to feel safe with you… so I think on a more personal level between you and him I would suggest that you say to him that there is no need to be jeolous because you both are in a relationship and there is clearly that trust element there.. and you need to let him know that at the end of the day HE is your boyfriend and that you love him and the male friends will always be there in your life because yes well there your friends and he should respect that
-You said that he had Cancer in him.. well that is the sin of sensitivity and when in a relationships Cancers like the full deal so that could be that element kicking in
What I would say overall is that on a personal level you need to discuss this and tell him that he should trust you and give you space with your male friends.. and tell him NOT TO WORRY!
BTW how long have you been together ?
Hope that helped
xx take care
January 9th, 2009 at 2:51 am
To RS:
Here’s some advice from a Aquarius female born January 25th
You know he is like this, right. If you want him in your life, you’ll just have to accept that he is that way, or move on and get yourself another boyfriend who isn’t this way.
Have you tried to talke to him and tell him that this annoys you and he has nothing to worry about? If so, then you’ll just have to deal with it or find another boyfriend.
But if I were in your shoes, I don’t like jealous guys, I would only handel so much, before I put my foot down and broke up with the guy. But that is just me.
January 9th, 2009 at 1:23 pm
Hey guys just asking are there any Gemini born in May who are currently in a relationship with an Aquarius in either Januray or February?
Its just that I have found that My born gemini tend to go out with january born Aquairus’s
Thanks
January 9th, 2009 at 8:19 pm
Hi Becky your site is incredible… i say very on point… but i do have a few questions every site i read is the guy and girl realationship but i wanted to kno is ther any difference between a girl and girl one. I aquarius have been dating this girl for about 2 months or so shes the gemini. I honestly have strong feelings for her but i am very closed and have a hard time expressing them because of fear. Shes amazing but drives me up the wall we fight not all the time but yes we do… shes very independent and so am i but i love to plan things and shes more like Oh i dont know.Its very annoying. Commitment is her fear. Im just very curius in knowing why can you help
January 11th, 2009 at 5:01 pm
hi bianca when is your and the gemini;s bday?
xx
January 13th, 2009 at 4:09 pm
Hey Becky…just to say that I havent’t heard from you for a while now.. I have been going on the site nearly everyday and there is no sign of you anywhere…! LOL Just thought I would ask if you where okay and please please respond back to my question thaT i HAVE Posted I know you are probably busy but have a look at what I have written:
To Becky,
I have a question..
I have read many of the comments put by Gemini females who are in relationships with Aquarius males..what has come to my attention is that they seem to express there real true love for the Aquarius men and state that they seem to have found a real true soul mate in their aqua men!
What I wanted to ask was if you were to ask an Aqua man about his relationship with the Gemini would it be the same.. would they be as in love with the Gemini woman as they are with them…
I am just wondering because it states that the Aqua men are scared of their emotions and especially when it comes to love..so what do you think their response would be to Gemini female love match?
Are Aquarians completely in love with the Gemini as Gemini is with Aquarius..because from experiecne sometimes it seems like the Gemini woman goes onto express her true love but the Aqua man does not really say much?
Or is it me being a Gemini woman being overbearingly emotional again? lol
Thanks
January 13th, 2009 at 5:33 pm
I am an Aquarius girl…and Oh boy, I was with a Gemini for about 9 years, after 8 years we decided to get married, that lasted 6 months after we said I do…the gentleman I started seeing after my marriage was also a Gemini, needless to say I will never ever ever ever get involved with a Gemini again…yes they are fun, I always had a good time however, when it came down to “serious discussions” about important things, especially when it came down to the relationship itself they seized up and freaked out. Both played horrible mind games (I’m straight up, I say how I feel, don’t care if the truth hurts or not, I don’t have time for games)…on top of that they don’t know if they are coming or going (twin thing)…and both thought they were always right, drove me mad! Never wanted to see another side to the story…ugh…I hate to think myself as bitter, but the first time shame on you, the second time shame on me…I think my best bet is another Aquarius! HAHAHA! Best of luck Aquarius/Gemini couples! Your going to need it!
January 13th, 2009 at 6:03 pm
her birthday is may 29
January 13th, 2009 at 8:03 pm
To RPG13:
Just reading your comment, I don’t even know these men and I’m annoyed already. I am like you, and when I am serious, I am serious, and I expect that person to be serious too. I really hate undecive people. I rather have someone that knows what they want, instead of having a person that changes their minds like some women change their clothes.
I been where you been, and I know how you feel girl. I say, it was good for you to leave when you could!
January 13th, 2009 at 8:21 pm
To Haz91:
I read your question to Becky, and I really think it depends on the guy (the person. I am not going to basic this what Astrogolgy says, because it not always true what they say about people of that star sign.)
Just because a man or person of pericular star sign, and it says that person of that star sign as a hard time expressing their feelings to the person they love is not always true.
I knew some Aquarius both men and women who could express their feelings by words. It depends how that person was rasie, or how they feel in the situation. If their really comforable talking to that person whom they love, they can surely express them by words. But if that person is not use to expressing their feelings by words, then they will express it by action.
I would say for myself, I don’t express myself so good with words to a person whom I love, if I still unsure how they feel. Then I rather do it by action. But, if I felt sercue, and I know that person isn’t going to run away when I have something to say from the heart, they yeah, I could express it by words, because I feel comfortable.
So it really depends on the person, what cause them in the past to act in such a way, weither they will speak up, or not.
I don’t see why a Aquarius couldn’t express themselves by words.
And if you really think about it. Most guys express themselves by their actions, because a lot of them get emebrass by using words. Remember, guys like to act and look tough.
January 13th, 2009 at 9:30 pm
What’s up Haz? I just want to thank you for always being so considerate to give other people advice when Becky is overly occupied. I think that this site is wonderful, Becky was a gemini with an awesome idea and she took action. That’s what makes a Gemini overly successful above other signs. Conceited, I know.I have really come to respect the qualities and traits that Gemini’s possess.
Haz91, I have noticed the same thing, Gemini females express their feeling way more than Aqua maies (according to this website and my experience with my aqua male. We are over expressive though it might sound crazy, though I believe this is what the Aqua male love the most about Geminis. Our emotions, and inconsistencies in our emotions. Let’s face it, it is a challenge to them. I am a Gemini female with a zero tolerance for bullcrap. Real. I love the lord and I go to church diligently. Well my man is not this way. I can respect it because he was not this way in the beginning. Though I told him on the phone the other day “I do not think this relationship is going to work. I want to seperate (now I am a gemini, a challenge at that, and if you do not keep me interested, the chances of me leaving are high).Sounding sad my aqua said, “what’s the problem?” I said, “When I met you, you were not serving the Lord so I do not expect you to serve him now though when I am married, it is going to be important for my husband and I to have fellowship together with our children and to go to church together. I do not in anyway want to take you out of your element so I think it is best we seperate”.(Haz this is what I noticed, I know you cater well, you seem like it. Great though if they do not compromise their stuck in their way and then the Gemini woman is miserable than you know the relationship won’t last long after that.We have to say what we feel though not in a pushy way. He knows and understands how I feel and he’ll know when the child come and we get married. We are still together though. Though when to I cater and compromise very well with my Aquarius, I must admit that he does too. I am quick to say, I am always being considerate and sometimes he’ll say, I am trying to be considerate. Well I am pregnant by my aqua and it is a beautiful experience. Last night I went to go get him from home and he noticed I had flip flops on, he didn’t say anything. As soon as he heard me wheezing in the bed, he said with his deep sexy voice, “Are you wheezing” I said, “No daddy” (I love being submissive to him, he is overly concerned sometimes and I love it, the attention).He said, “Yes you are, he said you shouldn’t have been out with flip flops last night, it would not have taken you long to put some socks and shoes on.” I said, “Yes daddy”.
Aqua men love our emotions because of their lack to be able to express their emotions. It is like they need us and I honestly need my aqua man. Though I give him plenty, plenty, plenty of space. I do not call him, usually he calls me. He doesn’t tell me he loves me though he will not let me go. Aqua men love the emotion (not too much to push them away). It just keeps them interested. I hope this helped haz91.Us Gemini’s can trigger the emotions out of them though our aqua men are delicate and I think they get bored easily. My major is psychology. I have been analyzing this board just like you. Peace out, god bless.
January 14th, 2009 at 7:31 am
Hi Haz,
Sorry I haven’t been around much, the School holidays have been taking up all my time and then getting them back to school again! Anyway, things are getting back to normal so I am returning more frequently.
OK, this question of yours lol Us Gemini girls really do love are Aquarius men, even when it seems impossible to love them, which is does and will. Gemini s really wear their heart on their sleeve and can’t hide their emotions at all, when they try they simply seep out of their eyeballs like tidal waves. Some people notice, some do not. Aquarius men notice, but they will not always react by talking to you, they will react by showing you, if they feel they need too. Aquarius men do really love their Gemini s to the point where it can make them feel vulnerable. Due to the fact that they don’t show their emotion like us Gems it can be hard to tell. Aquarius, possibly more than any other sign is really sensitive to the other signs in their chart, it can really change their whole being and make them either more sensitive or less which is why you tend to get two very different types of Aqua man. However, ALL types love, and they love us just as much as we love them, but it is not just from the heart love, it is mental mind love as well so it does not seem as passionate as others signs.
Right, must dash have to get the girls ready for school!!
I do hope I answered your question even a bit,
Love & Light
Becky
January 14th, 2009 at 11:57 am
Thanks guys!!!
Becky: Thanks for answering my question I didn’t mean to bother you about it for agess..sorry..but because you have an answer to everything and your a genius with astrology..I just needed to know the answer! It’s just that what you have said about Aquarius loving their Gemini soo much that they become vulnerable is very true indeed. I have seen it happen…as you said that Aquarius aren;t very strong and together when it comes to their emotions..anyyway thank you Becky as always !!! Take care
xx
Maranda: Thank you for your kind words..I know Becky can get busy.. so sometimes if I think I can help I will chip in and offer some advice to the people who need it..I love the connection between Aquarius and Gemini.. I think it is great and these two signs do get on like a house on fire.. but sometimes I feel like the Aquarius male keeps his feeling locked up and does not show the true strength of his affection as the Gemini female does to him.. just something that I have noticed…Anyway we are both Gemini’s so we know best about this..lol…Your story was very insightful thanks and shows the realtionship between Aquairius and Gemini..if you don;t mind I wanted to ask when you and your Aqua man’s birthdays are? Thanks any way for the advice that was very nice of youxx
Little Impaler: I do see it from your side.. yes it does depend on the person.. like I said that what you say is very logical and has made me understand that it is not always down to pure astrology.. and that some Aquarius find it easy to express their emotions through words and others do it through action .. but it’s just something that I have seen in the Aqua and Gemini relationship and that is that the Gemini does show her love very blatently compared to the aqua man… however, this match is one of the best..maybe not in your eyes LOL
anyway thanks anyway for your advice it is always appreciated ..xx
January 14th, 2009 at 12:22 pm
No worries Haz
Pleae don’t apologise I really do enjoy answering your questions and do not see it as bothering me at all, I am only sorry there is only 1 of me!! xxxxx
January 14th, 2009 at 3:47 pm
Hey Maranda ..if you don;t mind I wanted to ask when you and your Aqua man’s birthdays are? Thanks xx
January 14th, 2009 at 8:54 pm
To Haz91 LOL you’re very welcome.
Take care.
January 15th, 2009 at 3:30 pm
It use to be so much fun to read this website! Becky’s insight into the characteristics of each sign was a delight to read!…..that is until Haz and Littleimpaler hijacked it. IT IS RUDE TO HIJACK SOMEONE THREAD AND WEBSITE! I am sure this will never get posted as Becky is way too polite.
January 15th, 2009 at 3:47 pm
I am afraid to say that due to the agression that was being felt on this post I have had to close down the comments for this section for the time being. I am not doing this because of anyone person as I have nothing against anybody on here. I do appreciate everyone’s opinions but feel that it was going to start becoming a bit nasty between people, that is not why I am building this site. I don’t wish for anyone to take this personally, but please do have respect for my site and all the people who visit, I will re-start the comments once again in a week and hoipfully we can restore the light there once was.
Sorry for any inconvinience, in the mean timeif you would really like to speak with me about this topic or any other feel free to contact me through my contact page and I will do my best to answer your mail asap.
Love & Light
Becky
February 10th, 2009 at 7:15 pm
Hi becky! i enjoyed reading your site. Would just like to know your thoughts on the compatibility of gemini/pig girl and aquarius/snake guy. hope to hear from you soon! Thanks!
February 11th, 2009 at 6:32 am
Hello
I was reading your compatibility between Acuarious and Gemini and I found a very ineteresting information.
I just meta a Russian Gemini and i’m a Mexican boy Acua. The things we talk bewtween she and I are very deep and it feels like we know each other for a long time and feels like we been waiting for one of eahc other is wear.
The thing is she is far away from me but at times it feels like she think about me and she told me that the same thing happend to her she feels like i think about her all the time.
Although I been chatting with her for a 6 moths now and we really want to meet cause the conversation between us is crazy deep feelings. I planin to travel and meet her but I’m a little scare cause what happend if the communication is different when we meet in person.
Anny advice.
Thank you, love your comments.
February 11th, 2009 at 2:36 pm
Javier,
Hi..listen there is nothing to worry about…because if you say that your converstaions are soo deep and you have an understandig of each other ..then why would it be different in person. If you really like her and she likes you then go for it. Aquarius male and Gemini female have a very good understanding and love for each other. Also soul mates are common in this pairing. They can also sense each other when they are not around each other and that makes there realtionship very good and strong…
All I can say is that if you like her and she likes you and you both have a solid understanding of each other then there is nothing to worry about and dont be scared. Because Aqua and Gemini geot on very very well and have a beautiful connection!
Btw when is your birthday and when is your Gemini girls birthday?
Hope this helped
x
February 11th, 2009 at 4:15 pm
To Javier:
I say, go for it, but be cautions. Don’t worry about what astrology says. The thing that you should be caution about. You haven’t met this girl in real life, am I right? And she hasn’t met you. Russia, is very far where you’re from to meet someone, whom you talk to over the internet. When you meet her, don’t get caught up in the fantanzies which the internet has given you, that could disapoint you, if you find out she is not the person you thought she was
This is the first time you have ever met each other, so keep that in mind, you don’t really know her. Keep your emotions in control so you can see the real her.
I am only telling you this, because I did the same thing as you did. I travel all the way to Germany to see a man, I thought really loved me, and he turns out not the person he said he was. I was blinded by the fantasies he made himself out to be. Also I was very stupid, in thinking I knew the guy, but when I met him, reality hit me and found out, I really don’t know this guy at ALL.
So take your time, get to know each other, and if there is something there, you’ll both will know. And if it doesn’t work, well it doesn’t work.
Don’t be afarid to take chances in life.
Oh yeah, meet in public, never, never, never, meet someone in their home, or a privte place where there isn’t so much people.
Becarful in Russia. Russia, isn’t the nicest place in the world. If you plan on going in the winter dress very warmly.
Good luck
February 11th, 2009 at 4:20 pm
To Javier:
If you find out that you guys commuate differently in real life, and isn’t the same on the internet, you got to put that into account. That is life, and it might happen. But as I said, you will know when you meet her.
February 12th, 2009 at 12:42 am
Thank you guys for all the comments.
I really apreciate the replys.
Becky I will like for you to tell me what you think about my experience, like i said she is from moldova close to russia and I’m from Mexico City but i been living in Las Vegas Nevada for 7 years. We got coneccted right out way with each other chatting for for 7 months now on line on Yahoo and also we been talking on the phone too. She was the one to offer her number to me.
she said that I’m the kind of person she is been looking for and she rally want to meet me in person and me too.
I can tell that she is very serious about it and she is very passionate and sweet althought we been talking how she and I we will be when we are mad.
So as you see this chating is been very deep geting to know each other more and more.
But like i said I’m still scare If in person is different.
Thank you to all and hope Becky can respond to this.
Her Birthday is on June 1 1981 and mine is on February 9 1974.
Thanks again.
February 13th, 2009 at 6:18 pm
Hi there,
I like this site and finally have the courage to jump in with my situation, I’m seeking advice because I don’t know what to do.
I’m an Aqua Female (January 27) and the guy that I like is a Gemini Male (May 23rd). We met 3 months ago online, had a fabulous first date and things were going along just fine. Our Venus signs are also compatible with mine being a Capricorn and his a Taurus.
My question is…with two air signs that both love space and freedom, how do you determine when it’s time for the committment? When do you determine to make things official.
My Gemini is terrified at the thought of being “labeled” as being my man. He’s failing to see that with an Aquarius like me, he gets MORE trust, space and freedom if he’s able to commit. Then I’m not left guessing about his intentions or if the bottom can fall out at any point. I don’t want to be his mother, nagging him all the time about his wearabouts. I have my own life to lead.
This Gemini wants his cake and to eat it too. And what bothers me most is when I try to end it or break it off with him, that’s when he seems most responsive to me. He will pursue me at that point even though I tell him I’m not happy, want to see other people, want a commitment, etc.
I need to know if this is a Gemini thing or a “man” thing before I go about making my next move my all out best move.
February 14th, 2009 at 12:45 am
To Kenya:
My advice isn’t going to be basic on astrology, but reality and strightforwardness.
It seem to me, he is not ready to commit to a realationship and you want a relationship. Am I right?
I was going to tell you, don’t keep bringing it up, because that will not make a man want to be with you. I am aquarius female (January 25th, and it annoys me when a man is always on my back wanting to have relationship with me, when I am not ready to have one. But then I saw he is confuse, because when you try to break it up he wants you back.
Kenya, what you need to do is sit him down and have a serious talk with him. Tell him you want a relationshp and tell him how you truly feel, and if he can’t make up his mind. That you are tired with this yes and no thing. Set a time and date when he should give you his answer. If he still doesn’t know what he wants.
I say, break it up with him with no ends attact. And look for another man that wants the same thing as you.
Because, I am going to be honest with you. This is really stupid. His indesive to give you straight answer is going to annoy you and in time you are going get tired of it.
When you break up, don’t let him control you, where you change your mind. You got to serious about breaking it up with him, if you feel that the relationship isn’t going nowhere. If you keep going back to him and breaking it off. He is not going to take you seriously. Whatever you do in life, you always have to stick to your guns.
Relationship cannot work, if one person wants one thing and the other wants something totally different. Relationship can’t be a relationship when it becomes one-sided.
February 14th, 2009 at 8:24 am
I Love Tasha
February 14th, 2009 at 1:01 pm
Hey Luke whos tasha , LOL I was just reading and then suddenly your little quirky comment came up!
February 15th, 2009 at 10:40 am
realy amasing. specialy about how Aquarius and gemini can sense each other when they are far away. im an aquarius and my friend is a gemini. during or fight and our time apart from each other me and my other friend was going to get somthing to eat at our college campus, when all of a sudden i begain to smell vinela wich was the sent of mrs gemini’s lotian. well any ways i started to look around becuse the smell was so strong it felt like she was right next to me so i ask my other friend if she smelled anything she said no. so i ignored the smell and we went to eat. after we oredered or food and sat down,to my suprise mrs gemini walked in with her new boyfriend to the same returant as me. a sight i didnt want to see. but it was amasing how i sense her be for i even saw her. me and her are still talking and yea when we argue we argue and at the end of every fight it feels like thats it between me and her but we always make up.
February 16th, 2009 at 2:34 pm
There is not one single line here that I dissagree with. I have experienced this word for word, line for line!! this is indeed spot spot spot on!!
like reading my own life’s journal or something!!
February 16th, 2009 at 6:47 pm
Hey Gemini girl
you say that with such assurance!
LOL
whens your bday and whens your Aqua mans?
Mine is 25th May and is was 5th Feb
February 23rd, 2009 at 1:31 pm
wow, i’ve just started a relationship with a Gemin imale and we did just click from the start we have so much in common its like he’s the boy version of me..lol we both are big time into sex 2, as an aqua im very kinky and so is he. I do feel even tho its been a couple of months that he is my soulmate. and also he understands my little jealous streak I have. Ive been searching for him my whole life and I think this is the one….hope so
February 25th, 2009 at 6:16 pm
it is all true, my aquarius half loves my gemini boyfriend’s openess, his sense of fun, his love of variety.he is so lovely most of the time and very compelling and so sexy :). sometimes i wish I wasn’t half pisces [although i do love being both] because then i would have found my perfect match. i am pretty happy in my relationship with him, just wish he wasn’t so distant sometimes, and as i said in the pisces forum, it can be a bit of an emotional rollercoaster and when we argue, it really sucks. Becky, I love this site and I love reading about my compatbility with other signs [I can’t help but comment as you may have noticed]. I would be very interested to hear about what signs you think are compatible for those born on the aquarius/pisces cusp and for other cusps too. I actually think gemini is quite a good match for someone born on a cusp coz of their dual personality. what do you think?
February 25th, 2009 at 6:26 pm
but as I said in my pisces response, I utterly adore him
February 25th, 2009 at 6:28 pm
but as I said in my pisces response, I utterly adore him :)so regardless of whether we are compatible or not, i’ll stick with him…
February 25th, 2009 at 6:29 pm
[sorry for posting so much, made a mistake]
March 5th, 2009 at 2:49 am
i hope this is true.
March 14th, 2009 at 9:54 am
Becky,
It was truly a pleasure to go through your Gemini-Aquarius compatibility analysis.I really didn’t have time to go through all the comments, so if my question seems familiar, forgive me. But, then again, every relationship is unique and so are its problems.
At this juncture,I’m crushing on an Aquarius male who happens to be my friend. But to be really honest, I approached him first, for this friendship, or whatever it is, and he complied. I was instantly attracted to him and I told him so. But he wasn’t ready and said that he wouldn’t want me to be with someone who didn’t love me with the world. So, now, we’re a little more than friends and not really lovers. Even though he cares for me a lot-that was reportedly the reason he didn’t want to plunge into a relationship- and we really love to communicate with each other, the fact is that he isn’t in love with me. Not to the extent he feels is right. Will we ever be more than we what we already are?
Alcina
March 16th, 2009 at 6:28 am
hey alcina
when is urs and ur aqua guys bdays?
March 16th, 2009 at 2:03 pm
Ah well…
Mine is 6th June. His 3rd February.
March 16th, 2009 at 7:42 pm
If I am to be honest with you I think your Aqua man is just trying to do the sensible thing and wait for some real emotions to kick in before he takes this relationship any further. Like you said I dont think he wants you to walk into a relationship where, there is only one party showing the true affection and love, and the other party is not quite sure about how they feel. I mean he obviously cares about you too much to let you do that.
Secondly, remember that an Aquarius is very reserved when showing true feelings. And they dont like to rush into anything serious until they feel they are fully ready and prepared. I think your Aqua does love you but he wants to clarify his own feelings before he steps into a serius relationship. Remember that Aquarius and Gemini are very good as a pair and things do start off as slow, but once these two get together, they become inseperable.
Hope this helped
March 16th, 2009 at 11:45 pm
Omg.. reading this made me so happy. My bf is a Aquarius and we act like this.. somehow he always knows when i need to talk to him. One time i was thinking “i miss him” and he called and said “hey i miss you whats up” it was amazing. We always some how know what the other needs…
Thank you
-ali
March 17th, 2009 at 12:32 am
I’m a gemini and i lvoe my aquarius
March 17th, 2009 at 10:39 am
Okay ppl,
this is just general question ..are there any Gemini gils born in May that are dateing or have dated an Aqua guy. …
Anyone can answer this, even if you know of a couple with the above criteria…
March 17th, 2009 at 10:56 am
@Haz91,
Thank you for your help, really. I appreciate it.
It’s just that I had arrived at a similar conclusion myself, but of course, had trouble believing it. It IS disheartening, to a certain degree. It is incredible how all of it matched- the being in tune with each other part, the utter absence of boredom…oh well.
We are to start college together soon, and maybe it’ll give us a chance to know each other better.
March 17th, 2009 at 8:04 pm
No problem,
Listen Alcina, I look at it this way, Aquarius and Gemini is a one of a kind relationship, and there arent many relationships like this that come along. But I see it like this, based on my own research that I have being doing on these two signs plus Beckys advice, Gemini is the ONLY sign, especially Gemini girls to Aqua boys, that :
a) the Aqua male doesnt mind chasing- which is very rare for this freedom loving air sign
and b) this being very important.
Gemini is the only SIGN that makes Aquarius fall in love to the point of becoming vulnerable and weak. Gemini girls make Aqua boys become very weak and in love, because Aquarians take to Gemini like fish to water and also the sexual attraction is tooooooo intense and out of this world. Aquarius finds a true soul mate in Gemini and vice versa.
Now like you said that yes in college maybe you two will get to know each other and hit it off.. but just be patient..
March 18th, 2009 at 2:34 pm
If your research data is reliable (just to be sure) then, love and light be with you! Of course, patience is a tricky thing that often gives us the slip. I’ll make sure it doesn’t, though.
Thank you for your comments, once again.
Btw, are you a Goat? Just asking.
March 18th, 2009 at 9:43 pm
Hello…I am new to this site and I just love it. I am a Gemini Female who recently found an old friend, who happens to be an Aquarius male, who I had not seen in 25 years…since I was 16… Anyway, I found him on a social networking site and he reminded me that I was his first kiss, but I did not remember. In fact, when I was younger I was not even attracted to him…but now I can’t stop thinking about him. Right from the start there was an instant attraction to him. I think he is interested in me but I am not sure. He is very interested in my life and emails out of the blue. He is extremely attractive, tall dark and handsome. My question is do Aquarius men go out of their way to be around Gemini women if they are not attracted to them? What exactly can I do to keep him attracted? Why did he remember me being his first kiss when I didn’t? We are not dating but what are our chances?
March 19th, 2009 at 1:04 pm
Firstly to Alcina,
I dont know what I am, I think I am a sheep, LOL I am born 1991 so what ever year that is?
Shasta..
by the sound of it, I think he might actually be interested in you. From the sound of things, emailing you out of the blue, reminding you that you were his first kiss. Now they could just be friendly conversation starters, or he might actually be interested. Now Aquarians dont actuallu go out of there way for anyone, and sometimes even Gemini, but Gemini women are very special to Aquarian men, from what i have seen, its like they never want to loose them. Now I say.. you need to pursue this relationship further, to keep him interested, talk to him, make him laff, Aquarians love that in a Gemini woman, they find that charming and they take to them like a fish to water.
I think dating him, could come along later, but dont rush into anything because AQUARIANS hate that!, let him be the one to make the first move. But keep things happy and light, by making him laugh, having good conversations with him.
BTW when is your and your Aqua mans birthday?
March 19th, 2009 at 4:01 pm
well that is crazy because m a full blown aquarius (proudly) and im in love with this gemini because he knows exactly what i want and can full fill that. but sometimes his mood swings is worst than mines so thats a huge problem.
March 19th, 2009 at 5:52 pm
HAZ91
My Birthday is 5/31 and his is 2/17. Does that make a difference? Thanks for responding and making me aware to let him make the first move as I don’t want to make a mistake.
March 19th, 2009 at 7:10 pm
Lol yes it does make some difference…
You are a May born Gemini like me ! and he is a Feb born Aqua and that should be great.
It doesnt make much of a difference because you are both air signs and they geniunely get on very very well!
Now remember you have to give him his space, if you are to enter a light dating game then.. you need him to make the first move and also keep it light, witty and intelligent conversations… at the end of it HE WILL LOVE YOU!
Now what signs does he give you that he likes you? And can you explain further how you two got together in a relationship and what happened from then on ?
March 20th, 2009 at 11:55 am
HAZ91
Thanks for taking the time to reply. Well, I just have this “feeling” that he may be interested…I can’t explain it…like I can sense his feelings…does that make sense? When he emails me or calls me on the phone he tells me all about himself and his deep feelings about issues and about how his life is going. My life and job are going very well and he seems really happy for me and has told me I am a winner and and inspiration to him. I am in the high tech field and he is a house painter and my job really impressed him for some reason. I am not used to a man being so open and it caught me off guard. Sometimes I think he says things to shock me and see what my repsonse is going to be..does that make sense? I mentioned that I was going to be at a particular place in a few weeks and I thought he was not listening but then out of the blue he asked me if I was still going to that place and that he was going to be there too. When we talk on the phone hours go by in minutes and yet there is no romance talk but I can “feel” that he wants to tell me all about himself and find out about what my life is about. Does that make sense? This man is so different then my ex who was a Capricorn. I think about this new person in my life all day long and I think that I can “feel” him thinking about me…does that make sense?
March 20th, 2009 at 12:57 pm
HAZ91
Ooops…forgot to tell you how we got back in touch. We grew up on the same block and he left for college when I was 16…about 1 month ago I signed up on a social networking site and started looking for all the people that I grew up with. I only found him and I emailed him and he was so excited and I asked him if he remembered me and he said “how can I every forget you…you were my first kiss…I did not remember kissing him though….it was almost like he was relieved that I had found him and he was really excited and wanted to know everything that I had been doing for 25 years. By the second email I was hooked…it was so wierd…because I don’t remember liking him but I was instantly attracted to him and I don’t understand why. I was just looking to say HI to him and now these feelings are happening.
March 22nd, 2009 at 7:01 am
Can you check for me Becky , I’m an aquarian girl (31st jan 1983) and my ex bf was borned on 5thjune 1983. We broke up our relationship about 6 yrs ago of his medical school in Australia.
But lately, we’re like keep on contacting with each other through msn messenger. We had a great coversation like we used to be. I can feel the sparks between us. But when I said I missed him alot and would like to meet him someday. But he did not reply to me and I think he is avoiding me. He did not reply me this few days. Is he shy or just avoiding me?? Should I just get over it??
March 22nd, 2009 at 5:36 pm
Okay firstly, i wouldnt really worry about these feelings because they will only get you going around in circles. Now Aquarians do have a tendency to be over friendly and that comes through in their nature.. If I were you then I would make sure 100% that he is into you before you go into all these deep feelings. Talk to him, on the internet, or how ever you do, and keep it cool, calm and funny with him. And then see whether he asks to meet you or anything like that. Remember, make sure that he is compfortable and wait for him to make the first move.
I would say that from what I have heard in your story that he may actually be interested in you, so I would try and see whether he is truly geniunely interested. Now you say that you are having some intense feelings about him, but be careful, because even though Gemini and Aquarius is a good match, friendship is more important to an Aquarius then an actual romantic relationship, so let the friendship blossom first before anything serius is to happen…
What signs has he given you to show that he may be interested apart from taking an interest in your life, does he flirt on the internet or on the phone with you?
x
March 22nd, 2009 at 10:51 pm
Hi Becky & other readers of this page!
I have to begin by saying that I was cynical of all this horoscope malarkey but am a male Gemini/Rabbit (June 7th) who has met the most lovely Aquarius/Rabbit (Feb 5th) female on an internet dating site. She asked my star sign after telling me hers and I quickly found this page and sent her the link.
I was very sceptical about the reading, but so far it seems to be all extraordinarily true! We have met up on 2 dates so far and we are so connected it is like nothing I have ever felt before. We are trying to play it cool, but we both KNOW this is the ‘real deal’ and is going to be something special. It’s an amazing feeling!
I wanted to share this with you but also to ask if you have any predictions for the relationship? I noticed that as a Gemini male I have a huge ego
… and as I am very self reliant may clash with an independent Aquarius female. However, I am already sure we will be fine in this area as neither of us wants to dominate and we want to be a ‘team’. This all seems a bit nuts as I’ve only just met this lady and yet we’ve already talked about such things. So far the relationship has been so tender, passionate and playful… it is amazing!
March 23rd, 2009 at 10:15 am
OOh really, coz what i’ve heard that geminian guy is a womanizer. Yeah we talked alot, he did asked what i’ve been doing for this few years and he asked me how’s my family been doing. Our conversation was always all about me and he’s not giving me the chance to asked about himself.
I know that im a little bit over friendly but thats what i am. The other day he told me that he is going to continue his further study, and said that he can only see me like just only for a month before he is off to Brisbane. All im asking is just “a day” for a coffee chit chat with each other. I’m so confused now. Is he wanted to see me everyday within that 1 month??
March 24th, 2009 at 5:25 am
Let me start by saying, that I love this site very much. I am a gemini woamn who has been in love with a Aqua man and we had been together for over 5 years and have 1 child together before breaking up. I love him and I can never see myself with anyone else, which is huge for me. Did I mention I am a gemini…lol. We really were the best of friends in the beginning of our relationship and then we started fighting about 3 years in to the relationship. I admit I made alot of mistakes but he is not perfect either. I put him out and he moved out of town and I was so hurt and devastated. I love him and want to reconcile and he says he does and has been wanting to reconcile with me. I feel like when he is is here we are inseparable and then when he leaves we are distant. I think that he is scared and so am I, but I feel like we need to make a decision or a move for our son’s sake because this is confusing and upsetting for him. I feel like if you love us and want to be a family..then show us and come home. I know he feels scared because i put him out a few times, so there is some insecurity in that, but that was the past and people do change. I realized my ways and have learned from them but I cannot be held hostage by the past. We have become intimate again and I just want to know where do we go from here. I believe in my heart he loves me and he tells me that, but why cant he just come home instead of dragging it out? I love him so much, but I have been wondering if I should just move on without him? I miss him and so does our son and he is a great father and loves him deeply, but I feel so confused right now. Should I just give it time or just give up? My birthday is June 1st and his is Feb. 6th. Ant advice would be greatly appreciated.
March 24th, 2009 at 7:05 am
Hi there Renea,
Thank you for your comment and for sharing with us. What you have described is so typical of a Gem/Aqua relationship. Although these two signs can work totally in sync with one another it takes time and understanding to reach this. You mentioned that you see how you did things wrong, this is the first step. The second step is for him to see the error of his ways, 3rd step - for you both to sit down or write down exactly what the problems were and then to work out whether you both think your love is strong enough to carry this off. Once understanding has been reached then yes, I believe that you both can make a full loving recovery, but the past would have to left and NOT brought back into the mix should their be any sort of disagreement.
I wish you all the luck in the world and do let us know how you get on.
Love & Light
Becky
March 24th, 2009 at 10:13 am
Hey Renea,
You said that you have done some wrong things, well you have to asses how wrong these things are? I mean it could have hurt him pretty badly and that would be the reason for why he is not pursuing the relationship quickly.
But you said that you BOTH are willing to get back together, then why dont you have a shot at it for both your and your sons sake. BUT if you feel like you both can not make ammends then maybe it is better for you to move on.. what has your aqua man said about this ?
x
Dont worry okay …
March 24th, 2009 at 10:38 pm
Becky, thank you for responding to me so quickly. I truly appreciate it. I will take your advice and talk to him tonight. The weird thing is he called me early this morning to talk and I was reading your reply and missed the call…lol..but, on a serious note I will talk with him and I will keep you updated. I am terrified that I will sound needy, because I am not at all. I just need to know, so I can move forward with or without him. Thanks again!
Renea
March 24th, 2009 at 10:50 pm
Haz91, I did hurt him by putting him out a few times and just being immature, but he hurt me as well. I take ownership of my “stuff”, but I wont be held hostage for life for it. I do not hold him hostage. I think we have come along way overall. We do not talk about it as much and we try to remain positive and loving towards each other.
I am going to take becky’s advice and just talk to him about it. I am terrified of opening myself up or sounding needy, but I need to know. I am just not going to sit around and let “whatever” happen. I love him so deeply and until a gemini matures, we really can be difficult when it comes to love. I will fight for us and give my all, and I feel he will fight as well. I just think it is pointless to keep talking about changes, when you are not given the chance to implement them. If we do not try, then we will never know is my mindset. It is so hard when you know that you have you met your soul mate and can never love anyone else again. I think I would just become a serial dater….lol…nothing serious or physical. I am gemini, so dont quote me on that tomorrow…lol… I will keep you updated as well. Thanks for you reply!
Renea
March 25th, 2009 at 7:07 am
Hi Renea,
I just wanted to say, it’s not being needy, not at all. Get that thought out of your head. It is purely about wanting to know about whether you have a future with him or not. That’s not needy, just normal! Be positive when yuou talk to him and it will be good!!
Good Luck
Love & Light
Becky
March 26th, 2009 at 1:53 am
Hi Becky,
I talked to him last night and I asked the question “what do you want and where do we go from here” and he stated that he does not want to move back here because there are no “opportunities” here. I do not to move there, because I have a good job here. All I keep hearing is he is trying to better himself for us, so that he can provide well for us. I ask how are we suppose to make that happen if he is there and I am here? I became angry because I feel like he is avoiding the question with the “ususal” answers and he does not want to be in a situation of being put out of the house again. I became angry, because I thought we were not going back to the past. I don’t bring up the past about the things he did to me, because it solves nothing. I then say that I should just “move on” and maybe he should as well and he freaks out on me and starts ranting about he never said that or wants that. I told him I am just tired of feeling like there is no plan and I am just done and I hangup on him. He calls me this morning and tells me he just doesnt want to go through the same stuff, and the answer to my question about being together is yes he wants to be together. Is is going to be quick and easy…no but he wants nothing else but that. I am so confused my head hurts. I guess I am suppose to sit and twittle my thumbs in the meantime. I am getting the raw deal, because all the responsibility falls on me because he is not here all the time and he gets to fulfill his goals. I need more than financial help and our son needs his dad all the time. I am sorry for such a long post, but I am so confused. Help Becky Help!
March 26th, 2009 at 1:56 am
Sorry I forgot to sign my name I am so upset.
Renea
March 26th, 2009 at 7:25 am
Hi there Renea,
Firstly well done for talking to him and getting it all out in the open. The sign of Aquarius is a Fixed sign, it is not that easy for them to change how they behave or their point of view, and you are a Mutable sign which means quite the opposite. In a situation like this it is very often the Gemini who will have to compromise, is it worth it, yes, it can be.
I don’t know you or your partner and I don’t know what went on in the past, all I can tell you is that I have been in the same position as you. My Fiancé had to move away to work for the good of the family whilst we stayed here. Was I happy about this, no, did I moan a lot yes, did it work out for the best? Absolutely!
Like I said, I don’t know him and I can’t tell you what to do, but you could try to trust him, perhaps give it a time limit at first to see how it goes? Aquarius guys really hate conflict so they tend to run away (which is best as they can get nasty). I am not suggesting that you ‘give in’ which is probably how you will see it, but that as you are the Gemini you may have to be the one to compromise.
Aquarius men ’show’ their love rather than talk it and working for you as a family is something they all strive to do, mine does…but to make this work you need to take some deep breaths and relax, enjoy your child and your job and try to think positively about the future and what it may bring. Try and talk with him about plans for the future being optimistic rather than covering the same old ground.
I hope this helps, you can get in touch with me through my contact page if you wish to talk further.
Love & Light
Becky
March 26th, 2009 at 11:52 am
Hi Becky, just wanted to say that your site is great! So I met this girl on Valentines day at her work and Ive been visiting her on the weekends ever since, I am an Aquarius male (Jan.31st) and she is a Gemini female(Jun.21st) at first I was pretty sure she was into me but now I’m not too sure about it. She gave me her number and we started texting each other right away she would msg me first thing in the morning and msg me before bed which made me feel great, we had lunch together and had a great time, she gets really shy when I stare into her eyes while she talks which tells me she’s into me, but now sometimes she won’t reply to my texts and it kind of bothers me, I have a lot of patience but with her it’s weird I’m not so patient I just want to know for sure if she’s into me or not ya know? I’m afraid to throw myself out there and get shot down. Thanks for your time.
March 26th, 2009 at 9:27 pm
Hi Waterboy
How old are you and how old is this girl? Back ground on most Gemini girls (know many) they are sometimes true to their nature and 1) big flirts 2) they will flirt with men even in front of their gfs or wives 3)in the beginning of the relationship they let they guy think they are sweet, docile and innocent - not. The true them will eventually come out. One time I worked with three who were on the same team - they told me to beware that they were true gemini’s as they had dual personalities. They were not kidding, they have not qualms are being sweet and nice to you, while stabbing you in the back to everyone else. 4) Will not stay faithful.
They are fun for a fling but long term, not so much. If you are a true Aquarius man, then beware they will NOT accept you needing space. They are clingy and demand to be spoiled.
So in short, she is playing a game with you. Just like she has done with other men, and will do with other men.
March 26th, 2009 at 9:29 pm
PS Their games are an attempt to trap you into a relationship. Do not fall for their innocent face, I am shy act. I have seen them do that to men, then when the guy left the room the claws came out. Nasty. Again, just experience of dating and working with these women.
March 27th, 2009 at 7:40 pm
Ok.. waterboy.. in my opinion… being a gemini myself…
I think she LIKES you big time.. I mean shying away when you look at her… txting you before you got to sleep and wake up in the morning….. CLASSIC FIRST CLASS signs of she has feelings for you.
Okay Gemini’s CAN be true to their nature and CAN be commited to relationships if they love someone and are serious. Now, yeah I agree with Aquarius man, that Gemini can be hurtful and two faced and alittle superficial in relationships… but not to the extremity.. that Aquarian man is putting it.. I mean I know ALOT of Gemini girl and Aqua men relationships that are still going strong after 6 yearssss! and they both still love each other.
Soo getting more to the point, I think this Gem girl indeed has feeling for you and maybe she has just been busy and not had time to text you BEFORE you go to bed and waking up… I think you should txt her, but not get so hung up if she doesnt txt you back, I dont think it is a matter of not having feeling for you, but you need to consider the fact that maybe she might be busy or forgotten….
All i can say dont be disheartened and talk to her, both of you clarify your feelings for each other and gets things in the clear, so theres not middle misty ground, because that when things get alittle troubling….
March 29th, 2009 at 2:37 pm
I’m a Gemini femme in a relationship with an Aquarius butch.
To Aquarius Man:
It may be true that we Gems do our flirting ways but I think it’s more of having a sweet and friendly personality to everyone. I myself can get several men interested with me which others might misinterpret as flirting. But based on experience, I try not to get to the point where I could hurt feelings.
Anyways, we Gems perhaps just need someone to tame us. I have found my tamer - my Aquarius. And I don’t know how that ever happened. LOL.
To Becky:
This site is wonderful.
I can relate to most of the comments here.
Probably these experiences with my Aqua can give additional insights with Gem-Aqua compatibility to you guys.
When my Aquarius gets cold and aloof, I tend to get really paranoid and upset about it. How I hate it. But I’m trying my best to deal with it. I had to switch to the “I-am-an-island-I-can-get-by-without-you” mode. Though she can be the sweetest thing sometimes. When she does, I sulk into the warm feeling of it, it makes me really happy. She sees that.
She oftentimes likes to just observe me and I feel like she’s psycho analyzing me. Sometimes it feels horrible when she does that.
Months ago she told me I am perhaps the sweetest of all those she had relationships with before. Sometime this week, it was the reverse, she told me perhaps I’m just not showy. I found it funny and weird.
I’m a fan of creative writing while she is laconic. I’d write a screen of an email and she’d give me a statement that keeps me thinking, go figuring whatever she meant by that. Drives me nuts!
But everyday, it seems that I’m loving her more. And I’ve got this weird weird weird feeling of security that she loves me too.
March 29th, 2009 at 10:46 pm
Hi,
I’m a really young Gemini Female and I’m still in school, but I lately have had the deepest crush on an Aquarius male that I have ever had before.
Sometimes I love him so bad it makes me want to cry. But I don’t know how to tell him or let him know that I like him.
He’s in a few of my classes and his locker is right across the hall from mine, and right next to my best-friend’s locker.
We chat a bit on Facebook, he was the one who said ‘hi’ first.
Everytime I talk to him I get butterflies in my stomach and I cant wait to see him the next day.
But I’m really shy and I find that sometimes all I do is stare at him and have no idea what to do.
I really, really want to say hi to him, I did once and he immediatly seemed to light up after a few seconds but he waved to me and said hi back… though I think I snapped him out of a thought he was having.
He’s really talkative and has a lot of friends and I find that I get really jealous and worried anytime he talks to one of his friends that is a girl because I’m not sure if he likes me or not.
Though, I’m pretty sure that he isn’t with anyone.
Anytime I talk to him I find that he is really easy to talk to, and I love every conversation we have.
Of course… anytime I like a guy I check our horoscope compatibility and as soon as I saw this I went crazy. It all clicked, and for some reason I have weird moments where I smell this unique but random scent and right away I think of him.
It’s weird, but I kind of call it his scent. And as soon as I went to the computer to see if he was online a few minutes later POP I get a message from him on Facebook where he says ‘hi’
So far we haven’t had a fight at all… I actually cant imagine us having a fight.
But there are times when we cant think of something to say…
I read somewhere that you should give an Aquarius space and alonetime which is part of the reason why I don’t actually talk to him.
But I’m crazy about him and I don’t know if me being too shy is making him uninterested!
We talked a bit on that and I found out that a thing we have in common is that we usually only talk to people who say hi to us first!
And I’m really really shy and I have no clue what to do, should I say hi and try to talk to him? but anytime I see him his friends who happen to be girls are around.
He’s really understanding and told me that I shouldn’t be afraid or shy to talk to him at school (he doesn’t know I like him though) but I don’t know!
I’m so unsure Please, Please help me! I really like this guy and I’m afraid that it might end badly, or he may never know I like him and I feel SO drawn to him.
I love horoscopes, I always check mine daily. Because I’m the type of superstitious person who believes anything from that sort of area.
So please help me!
X Sara
March 30th, 2009 at 10:47 am
To Haz91, Thank you for your response, I appreciate the feedback. We had a great conversation the other day and I let her know that the reason why I haven’t been so forward with her she knows that I am very patient and I told her the reason is because I want her to get to know me and I also want to get to know her better at the same time. She really likes that I am not rushing her, she says she’s the same way. She also told me that she wants to talk to me all the time but sometimes she gets busy with school and work and I totally understand because she has alot on her plate. Anyways things are moving forward and I am really excited about getting to know her better she’s an awesome girl and I have never had such a great connection with a girl like this. She’s definitely worth the wait. It’s funny the way she let’s me know that she’s into me I have to read between the lines and figure it out which I think is different and interesting. I will post updates on how things are going. I am so glad this site exists it’s so…helpful.
March 30th, 2009 at 12:00 pm
Hello Sara,
First question is when is your and your Aquarius mans birthday?
Secondly… Why dont you try and relax and talk to this boy.. if you like him soo much. Its better not to be soo obsessive over him and what he is thinking aboutand what he feels about you, but instead why dont you try and talk to him at school, and become a close friend of his. At the moment all I can see from your relationship, is that you are constantly worried and crying over him, when you are not sure about his feelings towards you. I wouldnt get so worked up so early in this stage, I would become friends with him, get to know him, try and go out with him, e,g cinema, restuarants, bowling etc, then see where that takes you. You never know, he might like you, but maybe feels that you are too shy and reserved and emotional, if you are crying over him. I would say, as a Gemini myslef, that you need to bring out your fun talkative, personality and get him addicted to you. lol.
Let me know how you get on.. and remeber to tel me your and your aqua guys birthday?
xx
March 31st, 2009 at 2:56 pm
Can someone answer why it seems that Gemini females get so interested in Aquarius males so fast and easily. And does it go both ways with Aquarius being atrracted to Gemini females fast and easily. I find this so interesting
March 31st, 2009 at 10:45 pm
I find this article really good. I’m a gemini girl and I did go out with with my best friend an aquarian male, but when we went out it was just so weird it was like dating your favorite brother and he was feeling the same way, except as a sister. We always agreeded on the same things and never fought and it was so boring and surpisingly predicable. We were like TOO INTUNE! When he had his moods I was in like the same mood. I like to have a great, huge, and, some what, serious debates with people just for the fun of it. We’re still the best of friends and everybody was surprised by this, like just because we broke up means we have to hate each others guts and we just find it stupid, I mean maybe if it was on bad terms but it wasn’t. Now I’m dating a scorpio, if you’ve read the compatibility on the couple it’s not that good, but we still hang out all the time, which makes my new boyfriend jealous all the time, and it was nice while it lasted, but with my new bf I find our relationship so much more exciting cause I drive him up the wall and he drives me up the F****** WALL! Our relationship is mentally(sp?), physically, and emotional draining but it’s something new and it never leaves me bored. ^_^
April 1st, 2009 at 7:16 am
hey lucille,
I have to agree with you on that note, you can never date your best friend… esp if he is an aqua… i mean me being a gem girl who was also best friends with an aqua born 9th feb, and we were very close, had our laughs an deep convos , we were allso very in tune and never had an arguement…. but we knew if we dated it would be super weird..
BTW, when is your birthday and when is your Aqua best friends birthday?
x
April 1st, 2009 at 12:41 pm
Hey Haz91! ^_^
Nice to find someone who understands. Our friends like called us the perfect couple but we didn’t like that sort of thing. I like new and weird ways of looking at stuff. I mean he was spontaneous to my other friends but I found myself thinking the same thing as he was doing or visa versa, or is it versa visa… I forget. We just think on the same persective. I was born on Jun. 4, like smack dab in the middle of the gemini time frame, and he was born on Feb. 2, also smack dab in the middle of the aquarius time frame, so we act a lot like our sun sign descriptions.
April 1st, 2009 at 1:00 pm
Hey Shasta! ^_^ To answer your question.
It’s because it’s nice once in a while to talk with someone who is going after the same thing you are… knowledge and freedom! It’s nice to talk to someone for hours about one subject without getting bored and they aren’t bored with you, my other friends gladly let me know when to stop talking. It’s also fun to watch aquarians rebelious side and also see their contradicary humanitarian side too, atleast that’s how it is with me and my aquarian results may vary due to location, time, and lifestyle.
If you were just joking around then ingore all that you’ve read, cause that would be embarresing(sp?). ^_^;
P.S.: If you haven’t noticed I can’t spell.
April 3rd, 2009 at 11:47 am
Hey Lucille,
Just another question, did you ever have strong feelings for your Aqua best friend..
Its so weird with these two signs, because Gemini and Aquarius never FIGHT that often and we never did… I could always sense when he was hurt or what he was thinking (his reaction to things) and we would always have the most amazing time together, we would make up our own little world with our own jokes and stuff and laugh our heads off whilst our other friends would watch in confusion and shock.. LMAO.. good times good times…
I would have to say though that unless you dont know Aquarius very or arent best friends with them, its very hard to get to know them, and get into a relationship with them, they are the most detached acts unemotional and cold sign I know when it comes to starting a serius relationship, these guys play hard to get, but from researching, Gemini gurls are th only sign in the zodiac, that drives the Aquarius wild ! (emotionally, sexually, and mentally) … we gems are the only ones that the Aquarius show there weak side to, and chase after !
I love em! (Aquarius’s)
WOULD you agree ?
:))
xx
April 3rd, 2009 at 1:22 pm
You have so hit the nail on the head, so to speak, when it comes to Aquarius and Gemini. I found the love of my life (Gemini male) who happens to be 15 years younger. Everything you said is so accurate. Luckily, I got the sex out of the way immediately, therefore, the sex is well… amazing. I mean, amazing!!!! No matter what happens, I believe we will be together, if not as mates, as friends for eternity!!!
April 3rd, 2009 at 4:43 pm
Yeah I agree, that’s me and my aquarian! ^_^ Like when I’m in a bad mood he seems to know what to do to make me forget about it and immediately move on, and when he’s mad at someone. My friends come to get me to help him cheer up, which I can usually do! It’s nice to have a long and mature conversation with him about anything, cause no subject is to sensitive for us to talk about. We talk about war, religion, politics, and anything most people would do anything to avoid talking about. Mine is the rebellious type. He wears different clothes and is often in trouble, but not many people know the sweet side of him. He volunteers any where he can. He’s a sucker for a sob story. He’ll defend anyone who’s being picked on, and also defend animals rights too, he’s a vegetarian. He has emotions but he knows how to to control them and use them at the right time… most of the time any way. He sometimes goes a little overboard. There are strong feelings. We are pretty attached at the hip, but when we went out and tried to kiss he would laugh in the middle of it and then I would laugh and then we would try it again and… it went down hill. LOL! Now he’s dating an aries, or was it a taurus or a capricorn it was some horned animal, and they have a lot more fights then we have but I think he’s some what happier this way. He now has to defend his ideals to his girl friend and prove that they are worth something, and sometimes he realizes that he ideals aren’t the only way to go and he loves her for it, though he sometimes ditches her to talk to me and it’s usually when I’m with my boy friend and… it all goes off a cliff from there. I think that we were good together but we need people who challenges our ideals and life style. I’m hoping that answered your question or was close cause I’m reading my answer over again and I think I rambled on at some point… sorry if you get confused, cause I know I am. ^_^;
April 3rd, 2009 at 4:45 pm
Oh yeah one more thing!
* GEMINI’S UNITE *
^_^
April 4th, 2009 at 10:52 am
Hey Lucille,
Don’t worry, you didnt ramble at all, I mean we are Gemini and we LOVE to talk, so I love listening.
One word… WOW! . You and your Aquarian seem to have it going on. lol. I mean I havent actually heard a relationship as perfect as that between two friends. Ofcourse mine was similar, but he would sometimes NOT tell me things, and I would get emotional and paranoid, and I would attempt to hide it :S , lol. But yeah I loved our relationship as friends and would not change it for the world, I mean now obviously we have gone our seperate ways, but we still laugh and talk when we see each other, but my good male friend atm is a Cancer and he is nothing compared to the Aquarius guy, because we clash all the time and sometimes I get so fed up with him, it fucks me off lol sorry . But yeah I think that its beautiful how you two can have a relationship and still be with other people.. its nice.
Do you think that us Gemini girls are the only real sign that has a perfect relationship with the water bearer, because alot of ppl I have met hate the Aquarian males, because of their arrogance and detachment periods. I mean I know for sure, that Taurus, Scorpio, Pisces and Cancer, girls try and chase the Aquarius but never hit the nail on the head..
what do you think?
take care
x
April 4th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
To Sabz-
My B-day: June 7th
His B-day: January 25th
April 5th, 2009 at 8:38 am
To PJ
IT is too late I read your POST. I am a Aquarian-Capricorn
I THINK YOU R LIKE MY GEMINI MAN
I HAVE CAPRICORN INFLUENCE that is a problem in our relationship.
I ACTUALLY restart our relationship after a break.
ONE thing you understand that “Aquarian like to fly allways, see new places , see new people and communicate, they love it so much”
I THINK ur Aquarian girl still loves you.
Once an AQUARIAN MET GEMINI MAN never forget.
As an aquarian girl i take my gemini back by doing this.
I TELL HIM THAT I AM GOING TO ANOTHER STATE FOR A MONTH (making to thing that i am happy even he is not with me,but that not really is)I DID NOT TALK HIM FOR TWO WEEKS.But actually I was in my state.I make him fool.
I find that he is coming towards me.
I UNDERSTAND THAT he cann’t stay without communicating me.
Now our marriage is fixed.
IT is very easy for a Aquarian to fool GEMINI.
PJ
you said that she is adventurus i think she has a scorpio touch.
My advice is that
Make a good friendship with her
Let her to fly
GO to her where she is.
BE LITTLE ADVENTURUS LIKE HER(VERY IMPORTANT)
Then she comes back to you.DON’T WORRY.
An aquarian cann’t forget a Gemini.
They can sense each other.
April 7th, 2009 at 2:34 pm
hey ppl open question
Are there any May born Gemini girls that are going out with Aquarius men?
JUST CURIOUS
THANKS
XX
April 7th, 2009 at 8:56 pm
Hi. I have started a relationship with a gemini and I am the aquarius. I have never dated someone like him before. He is the greatest! I wanted to tell you that everything that you say up there is true, I don’t know about the fighting thing yet because I don’t like to argue so usually we don’t butt heads. I am now 9 weeks pregnate and we still want to take things slow. I just wanted to tell you that what you said really makes me happy. That and reading other peoples resonses.
April 10th, 2009 at 12:38 pm
Im a gemini female who has just met her first aquarian man! Finally! I feel soooo attracted to him and cannot stop thinking about him. I have never dated anyone typically compatible for me so I am very excited. what are some things that gemini women do or have going on that drive their aquarian men wild? I am being myself but any tips to make him want me even more would be appreciated. how to capture an aquarian? lol
April 10th, 2009 at 6:16 pm
Hi Jay,
Firstly, CONGRATULATIONS!
on dating your first ever Aquarian man, it should be good.
And secondly, the key to the Gem girl and Aqua man relationship, is communication, insanely INTENSE sexual attraction, great mental rapport, LOADS of laughter and just having a good time. But remember, even though there isnt much needed to make this match work, because these two signs get on SOOO well, just be yourself, and DONT lie to HIM anout anything, be very open and honest about everything he asks you okay? I am not saying you are a liar lol, I have met alot of Aquarians who say that they just dont like the fact that Gemini are so secretive and lie about everything.. I mean I am a Gem myself, so remember tell him honestly about everything he asks you… But Aquarians are captivated by us Gems and take to us like fish to water, we make them go weak on their knees, because they find us physically sexullay attractive, so thats a bonus in driving them wild anyway…
Abtw WHEN IS YOUR AND THIS AQUA MANS BIRTHDAY?
hope this helped
x
April 10th, 2009 at 9:14 pm
Hello…can someone chime in on this….is it true that sometimes if a an Aqua male is attracted to Gemini that he will not show it right away…that me might pull away for some reason? I mean I am very sure that this Aqua male is attracted to me but for some reason he will not come out and let me know. Does he just really want to be friends with Gemini? Why are Aquarians attracted to Gemini?
April 11th, 2009 at 9:02 pm
Hey Shasta,
Yes, Aquarians if they like you, they make it kind of half obvious and half not so. I mean if he likes you then he will make it obvious, but then he will hold back because before love comes friendship for the water bearer. So he might be in his analysing/friendhip mode, at the moment, where he is looking at you as a friend and analysing your personality.But also Aquarians do not jump straight into love with any sign, gemini can be the exception, but I think that he is just abit commitment weary, because Aquarians normally are.
I wouldnt worry about it, he will come round… but you have to give him space and time, do not rush him into anything okay?
Also YES ! The Aquarians falls for us Gemini head on! They take to us like fish to water, and to be honest, we Gems are th only sign that can keep up with us and does not mind chasing after, because the water bearer finds our charminig, funny, witty, outgoing personality addictive.. But to answer your question more to the point, the thing that the Aquarian man really gets attracted to about us Gemini girls are, our sexual physical attraction and also THE MENTAL RAPPORT, the conversation and communication between the water bearer and the twins can reach intense and deep proportions! so mainly its our verbal talent…
BTW WHEN IS your and your aqua guys birthday?
April 13th, 2009 at 7:05 am
Becky,
I read this and wow…makes a lot of sense. It hit me pretty hard.
Now, I’m not sure if this has been addressed since there was a lot to read through, but…
I am a female Aquarius who is in love with a male Gemini. I thought there was a deep connection just before we stopped talking (and may have been my fault), but I am feeling this connection again from a great distance or I may be imagining things; I have been known to lead myself into such fantasies.
Anyway, I have no guts whatsoever to come out and say anything to this Gemini, but I’m wondering if the male Gemini can sense the female Aquarius’ vibes towards him? The feelings I have for him are very strong, so I just wonder how strong can it get for the Gemini to sense it since the whole “they can sense each other so well, it’s scary” seems to be validated by mostly everyone who commented.
I don’t expect much of an answer since the situation is quite complicated, but just some sense of it would be helpful.
Thank you.
April 15th, 2009 at 9:46 pm
Becky!!
I’ve been reading your website everday and I’m addicted!! My Birthday is January 18 but I am a total Aquarius! I recently met a Gemini that was born on the 30th of May and I can’t stop thinking about him! He recently went away for work and we sort of fell apart and I’m fine with giving him space cause I need space but our converstations went from everyday to a random text every other week or so. I miss him and I want to tell him but I just don’t want to scare him or get my feelings hurt. As a Gemini what should I do? Should I leave him alone or try to get the conversation going again? How do I do that?
April 16th, 2009 at 7:41 pm
THIS IS TOO FUNNY HAZ91. I think you really nailed that on the head with the Aquarius instantly falling for us Gemi’s. My bf is an Aquarius and unlike any oher sign I have been with WE Clicked and VERY, VERY FAST (no time wasted). It was like we met, talked and I swear, a few months later we were already deciding our future together. I have never done this with another person (except my ex that also is an Aquarius and we were together for over 10 years. What is down right scary is they share the same exact birthdate just different years). My bf has a job where he travels a lot and stays away from home and Yes, someone asked if we have this ability to sense one another while apart–the answer is YES. I have only been able to do this with an Aquarius. I think we are so intune it is SCARY. And we sense each other. Sometimes it’s difficult to bear. I just find the Gemini/Aquarius union to be very strong, satisfying and extremely loving. Maybe because the Gemini and Aquarius are so similar yet compliment each other so well, they are a match made in heaven. I think we just accept each other on a very deep level. And…This is coming from a Gemini
April 17th, 2009 at 12:45 pm
Hi Angel,
Thanks for that, I try and be as exact and accurate as possible with summarising the Gem-Aqua relationship.
And I must say that your situation with your Aquas fit VERY WELL, with the description of the Aqua-Gem match in general. Firstly the idea of it being a MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN, prooves that the Gem and Aqua match beyond words. Also the idea that you can sense each other and deep feelings … it all makes sense!
WOW, you were with you ex for 10 years !
That really does stand the test of time doesnt it! What caused you both to go your seperate ways if you don’t mind me asking?
Now you are with another Aqua, they just cant keep away from us Gem, the thing about Aqua-gem love match is that the Aqua men fall for us and then it does actually turn to a long term relationship, its not really a fling type of relationship. Sure both can be a tad bit scared of commitment but they get their heads around it after a while.
When is your birthday and when is your Aqua mans bday?
x
April 17th, 2009 at 3:53 pm
Hi Haz91. Yes, we seem to be afraid of the big “C” word but after we get our heads out of our A** then it is indeed a match in Heaven. HAHA. Well, my ex I have known for 17 years. We were married and have children but things just turned sour. WE GREW APART. We have tried to remain friends but it hasnt worked out. I think too with Becky’s theory on when we fight–well be can become each others worst enemies really fits us too. My b-day is 6/17 and my bf (and ex’s) bday is 2/5. My bf and I have been together for over a year and we have been friends almost 2 years. I think with my Agua male, it’s the rush at the beginning and then it mellows and I seem very content. Maybe because they too have their own life and I LIKE THAT. Don’t get me wrong, I would be happy to be in his presence everyday but I too like the freedom our relationship presents. I absolutely LOVE their uncanny mind, their thinking seems to always keep a smile on my face. Sure, they are EXTREMELY stubborn and at times, drives me up a wall but on the flip side he tends to listen and follow my advice. There is just something an energy that pulls us very close together–something I can’t nor have ever been able to put my finger on. IT JUST WORKS (until we decided not for it to). And the Aquarius male HATING fighting when it comes to their emotions….I have never seen someone so AWFUL! Meaning, yes they HATE to be told anything bad about themselves and will not fight but WALK AWAY physically until they clear their heads and NEVER want to talk about it. They just accept it and hope/pray you don’t bring it up again. THAT drives me nuts, always has especially since I’m the talker. But, I deal with it. I handle it by saying everything I need to before he walks out and allow him to deal with it on his terms and usuallly he gets it and does what he does.
April 17th, 2009 at 4:26 pm
ANd one last thing:
Aquarius are extremely loving, gentle, giving from their heart, genuine and honest human beings. I have been more suprpirsed by my Aquarius. He tends to do everything from his heart and it really holds VERY deep meaning. Even when he sends flowers, every single flower is picked with a purpose in mind. Everything seems to have meaning. I LOVE THAT ABOUT THEM
April 21st, 2009 at 7:53 pm
Completely agree with you,
just a question, do you have any Gemini friends born in May that are dating Feb Aquarius’s?
x
April 24th, 2009 at 4:21 pm
Hi Becky I read your article on Gemini and Aquaruis and I’m In wow over it! When I was 15 years old I met a Gemini male and he was my first boyfriend and love. He was wonderfull and we got along perfect. He wanted to get married after highschool and it freaked me out. I hadn’t expirenced life yet and didn’t know what I wanted in life. We stayed together for A year an a half and then I just had to break things off.Three years after that I got into a very unhealthy relationship and got married and had a child. I found out through a friend that my Gemini still loved me all that time. I was stuck and felt I had to make that relationship work for my child. That ended badly and was on my own I looked for him everywhere at the time there was no facebook or myspace! I found out he was involved with a mutual friend and that was that I moved on and evenutally got remarried to a wonderfull man but still always wondered about the Gemini I let go. I found out 10 years that this marriage isn’t working out either and we have a child together also. I moved home with the idea of taking back my life and ran into my old Gemini and found out his realationship was a toxic one too and he seems to cant find the right person either, but feelings are still very strong for the both of us. He still has pictures of me from preschool and what we took together I still have our prom pictures. He said it’s crazy because it’s like we never went apart we just picked right back up where we left off. He’s a father and i’m a mother and i think he’s always been the one i was just scared and didn’t feel worthy. 20years later and I know he’s been my soulmate all along. What do you think stay in a loveless marriage because of my kids or take a chance on a love thats lasted for 20 years? I know my kids come first in everyway, but this could be my last chance at my one true love.
April 26th, 2009 at 12:16 am
This is me and my husband.
100 and 10% true…all of it.
It’s kind of scary.
Wow.
April 26th, 2009 at 2:30 am
wow i read this article and my jaw dropped everything you said is true, I’m a gemini male and i met my aquarius girlfriend in september and this may sound crazy but were getting married in a few weeks. when we argue she does act like its the end of the world but i do manage to reassure her that fighting and arguing is needed for our relationship to work, and to compromise with her i find myself talking out our problems instead of arguing about them. damn i love this girl shes everything i need.
May 3rd, 2009 at 2:34 pm
Hi I wonder if anyone can help. I’m a gemini girl, been in lots of relationships including married etc and now single (just). I met Aquarius man who I kind of new about from a shop for a few years but we went on a date a few weeks ago and then a second date. He’s less than a year out of a long term relationship and says he wants fun not a relationship but we are really good together. He wants to still date other girls and I said fine but that means we won’t have sex. He’s good with that. He goes quiet for days at a time.
I don’t know whether I should stay quiet… these Aqua men like to do the chasing…
I don’t know if he’s worth waiting for - let him get the dating others out of his system while having non-sexual dates with him in between until he finally falls for me…
Or is he a cad, should I forget him and move on?
May 3rd, 2009 at 2:36 pm
my gemini male friend waited over a year for his Aqua girlfriend to finally fall for him and now they’re planning their wedding.
May 4th, 2009 at 11:52 pm
Hello Becky,
Ur comments are so trueee but I need to ask you something.
I’m the Gemini and he’s the Aquarius.
The minute we met we clicked
4 months later “we did it” but we were not in a relationship.
I know damn well that he is totally in love but he doesn’t want to admit it as he has very bad experience with other women so he doesn’t trust them.
It’s been a year now that we are in that semi-relationship but I really want him to tell me that he loves me (I need security if you know what I mean)
Please tell me how should I do it cause I need it now more than ever and I feel that I will give up soon and admit it to him before he does and it’s the last thing that I ever want to do.
PLZZZZZZZ HELPPPPP
Regards
May 5th, 2009 at 9:18 am
Okay well, you have said that you just want him to admit and secure the relationship for you, then maybe instead of waiting for him , why dont you make the first move. If you love him and are pretty damn sure of it then, why are you messing around, cut to the chase and tell him how you feel before it is too late.
if he is that much in love with you, then dont you think he will say it anyway
Also, give him some space because you said so yourslef that he has had bad experiences with women, so you should feel lucky that he has given you a chance… all I can say is you might have to asses the situation yourself, so you either jump in and tell him how you feel, or you keep waiting and give him space until he is ready to admit he likes you.
Also when is your birthday and when is your Aquarius mans birthday?
Hope this helped
May 6th, 2009 at 10:50 pm
Hi Becky,
I’m in a situation similar to Rana. I’m a Gemini female (June 11) and he is an Aquarius male (Jan 24). Our relationship is explosive just like you described. Here is the problem I’m a hopeless romantic and he is sooooo practical. He is soooo cautious, and I’m already in love, we have been dating for four months. I’m a Gemini and impatient. He has trust issues, I haven’t given him a reason to distrust me but I’m dealing w/ deamons from prior relationships. I feel like I have to keep showing or proving my love and its not even working, he doesn’t trust what I’m saying. I could profess my love until I turned blue, it wouldn’t move him. How do I get past his walls? I know time is the first answer but any other ideas? I know he cares about me otherwise I wouldn’t be wasting time. I don’t want to be too impatient pass up on another good relationship.
The space thing throws me off too. I can be aloof and will give him his space but then he is upset because I’m too distant. I feel like I can’t win for trying.
Any help is greatly appreciated.
May 7th, 2009 at 9:20 am
in response to Aqua females story… OMG -that is me!! to a degree - except i have been a single mum for over 2 years and happily doing my devoted to two angels thing.. i am quite content being on my own and then out of nowhere i got a message from the guy I met when I was 15- and now I know he is a Gemini!! 20years later he found me - and when we spoke- finally got together after all that time and picked up from where we left off- he asked me why i hadn’t found him sooner!! I didn’t know he liked me that much to search for me forever - I am so flattered and so ready.. I did let him know that if we had met any sooner it may not have been the right time.. the universe really is a powerful thing. i have had him on my mind for the past 20years and all that time i never knew he was a Gemini and that i was the one he was always thinking of!! - but now that I know i am so impressed with our kind of magic. But of course in 20 years we have managed to collect a little baggage along the way and he is the one who is in a marriage to be with his kids only.. its only early days - i can wait to see what happens…
May 8th, 2009 at 8:17 am
I’m a female Aquarius born in January. I have to admit that I’m the type of girl that does not get attached easily.It takes me a while to even consider going out with a guy to the movies or to dinner. When I do start to like someone, I take every precaution and think the situation thoroughly. I was in a relationship in the past with a male Scorpio and he was the WORST. He had such a bad temper and was very unreasonable. Afterward, I was in a relationship with a male Capricorn only to get badly hurt in the end. I have never experienced so much pain before he broke my heart and turned it inside out. He hurt me so bad that I’ve been single for a year and a half, almost two years. Its not that guys don’t like me, I just turn all of them down (and not to sound conceited but I’ve turned A LOT down). Now I judge everything whenever I talk to a guy and if I do not like one single trait or I don’t see them as “perfect,” I leave.
I met a Gemini guy and everything here seems to be so true for me! Even the whole thing about sensing each other. Sometimes I want to call him or text him, the minute I pick up my phone to do that he calls or texts me first. I want to say something, and he will say the same thing I that I was thinking of. Its scary how in tune we are with one another.I got set up on a blind date with him by a friend. There were no awkward silences and we both felt very comfortable by each other from the beginning. Its only been three weeks but already I feel so comfortable with him.
I noticed that most of the Aqua/Gem relationships involved an Aquarius guy with a Gemini girl. Now what I have to ask, is it normal for me to feel so attached already? With me being an Aquarius girl, is this normal in the Aqua/Gem relationship?
Of course my guard isn’t down yet, I am very scared that I will get hurt. But I know he likes me too, maybe as much as I like him.
I just want to hear if anyone else experienced this.
May 8th, 2009 at 10:05 am
Also, how is the sex between these two?
May 8th, 2009 at 4:24 pm
Hey…AquaFemmeFatale
I am a Gemini female and I want to know your opinion as an Aqua…even though you are a female Aqua. What is it that attracts you to this Gemini? I can tell you that I as the Gemini I am attracted to this Aqua male and these are the reasons. I like his deep voice, tall dark a handsome, kind of mysterious, he is very intelligent and uses words in a very cool way, seems to want to know about my life, listens carefully when I am speaking, is artistic, is funny, is honest and athletic and as strange as it seems when he is distant it is very intriging and makes me want to be with more. Are you distant as an Aqua…if so what makes you distant? I agree that most of this thread is Gemine Female and Aqua Male…so it would really be interesting to get your point of view.
May 9th, 2009 at 9:08 am
i gave him the heave. he hadn’t texted or called me all week. i can’t sit around waiting for a bad mannered man to come out of his tree, i’m a gemini and flying around looking at a thousand gorgeous landing sites.
aquas be warned, gems consider silence = rudeness!!! just send a text, a joke or a kiss even, or a picture off your phone. keep communication ALIVE or your butterfly will fly!
May 11th, 2009 at 3:23 am
What attracts me to this Gem is that he is physically attractive. His muscular body, his face, his eyes, smile, his everything. However, what has me attached is the mental stimulation. I can connect with him on a mental level. There is never a dull moment when I am with him and I don’t feel the need to hide my true self. We can laugh for hours and when we’re together it really seems like we are in our own world.
Yes I am distant as an Aqua. Its not that I don’t like the person I am with, its just that I need to get away every now and then. If people (whether it be someone I am dating or just a friend) do not give me enough “alone time,” I will get annoyed and I won’t want to be with them anymore. My Gemini knows how to balance it. Of course he will try to talk to me when I just want to be alone, but he never tries too hard which I like.
Something you NEED to nail into your mind is that Aquarians are terrified of vulnerability! Anything that makes me feel vulnerable I just stop talking and try to change the subject. I’m scared of getting hurt, and I need to know that I am the upper person. I need to know how the other person feels first in order for me to mention a little part of my feelings. I need to know that I am in control.
He does all of the above. Hes not like the other guys who are too clingy and chase me away, yet hes not like other guys who make me have second thoughts on how they feel about me. Hes my perfect balanced ideal on how a partner should be.
May 11th, 2009 at 7:27 am
“aquas be warned, gems consider silence = rudeness!!! just send a text, a joke or a kiss even, or a picture off your phone. keep communication ALIVE or your butterfly will fly!”
i tried all that and i’m still being ignored. yet i still get invites from him to go to events, but is he gonna ignore me when i show up?
and;
“Something you NEED to nail into your mind is that Aquarians are terrified of vulnerability! Anything that makes me feel vulnerable I just stop talking and try to change the subject. I’m scared of getting hurt, and I need to know that I am the upper person. I need to know how the other person feels first in order for me to mention a little part of my feelings. I need to know that I am in control.”
this is very true. i don’t like to be the one who says something first because i don’t want to feel like that person has to say something back just to be nice. i want to know if that person feels anything for me before i spill my heart because then i know it’s for real.
May 13th, 2009 at 5:01 am
So no one has answered my question yet, how is the sex between this couple?
How is the sex with an Aqua male and Gem girl?
How is the sex with an Aqua girl and Gem male?
It would be nice to know.
May 13th, 2009 at 8:00 am
Hey AquaFemme,
I saw your question and since no one is answering it I thought I have a fair idea of what she is asking.
The sex between both these couples is the same, because they both are so sexually free and don’t hold back on the erotic side. Now the only slight difference might be is that the sex between an Gem girl and Aqua male might not be as talked about compared to the opposite,this is because even though sex is great between these two signs there relationship between these two is so strong that they dont define there relationship based on sexual love but more so communication and affection and finding a soul mate in each other, the Aqua female and Gem male on the other hand are very sexually active with each other and still have that soul mate element but these two just prefer to have alittle more sex in their life.
Aqua male and Gem female match is an excellent match and I know alot of couples like this and they are VERY happy together, benn together for 6/7 years atleast…
same with aqua female and gem male, they are exceptionally happy with each other too….
Hope this helped
May 17th, 2009 at 8:35 am
Hello,
I’m a Gemini male that has recently reconnected with an old friend of a friend that happens to be an Aquarius female. I remember meeting her back in college and we hit it off right off the back. At the time she was dating someone and I still going through a period of personal growth, at which point I decided to move to California.
Now lets fast forward 5 years, where I ran into her again while I was visiting. And just like clockwork, the connection was still there. She mentioned that she didn’t want to “do anything” due her current relationship which is in question, but we continued to stimulate each other mentally for the rest of the evening into the morning.
I’m back on California and can’t get her off my mind or out of my heart!! We both agree that something is there and after reading this compatibility article, its all starting to make all of sense. I plan to share this with her and continue to pursue this relationship because it feel so natural. Thanks for posting the article and hopefully I can post a success story in the future!!
May 18th, 2009 at 7:46 am
so i’ve decided as of now, even though my heart is not with me on this, but i am letting go of the gemini male that i have mentioned. he seems happy with whoever he may be with, i haven’t seen him years and i don’t know if i’ll ever see him again. (and in my current situation, i have no funds to go places, not even to find out if there’s still a connection). i can’t do it anymore. it hurts, it’s a lost cause, and i’m trying to let go of all things, become unattached to most things. of course i am in tears about it, but there’s nothing i can do. i’ve tried to let go many times before but when is it enough? i see no sign of anything to come out of this, only dreams and most dreams just don’t come true and that’s a fact.
i just wanted to share and well let it out somewhere, since my friends are lacking on being there.
this is the hardest thing to do since i have never felt so strongly for someone like this before.
May 26th, 2009 at 8:08 pm
TO ARMANI,
Thank you so much, I took with your advice and GOD it worked tooo welll
He didn’t replied back in words that he is in love as well cause he is not so comfortable in general in speaking up about his emotions but since then he is treating me like a queen, even the way he looks at me has changed, I can see now all the love that has been hidden.
When I confessed to him he said one thing: But this is so unfair to you, I’m a very difficult person… And I answered: I love all your difficulties….
Now I know, he needed security more than I did
Thanx again
May 28th, 2009 at 6:16 am
forgetting this person is easier said than done. i need to act soon or i may never know.
May 29th, 2009 at 7:21 am
AQURIAN MEN AND WOMEN LOVE GEMINI A LOT
BECAUSE GEMINI CAN PICK UP CREATIVITY INSIDE AN AQUARIAN.
IF A GEMINI IS NOT READY TO FLY WITH A SUPER AQUARIAN
AQURIAN SURELY GET BORED AND WILL SAY GOOD BYE.
May 31st, 2009 at 1:50 pm
Hey Rana,
No problem I am glad it worked out for you,
btw when is your birthday and when is your aqua mans birthday?
June 1st, 2009 at 12:17 pm
Hey Rana
I am so glad it worked out… see with alittle push the gemini and aquarius match is one of the best…
Btw when is your birthday and when is your aqua guys birthday ?
xx
June 1st, 2009 at 9:41 pm
Hey Armani
I’m June 20th and he’s Feb 14th
Thanx again
June 4th, 2009 at 11:57 pm
My boyfriend is gemini and I’m aqurius. What was said above is completely true, in EVERY way. When we love eachother, it is true love. We feel everything possible for eachother. & it is awesome.
But when we fight, we can both admit that it does feel like the world is ending. We both get very emotional and we are very protective. When we fight, I try to run. I don’t like explaining my emotions and he trys to get most of it out of me.
My boyfriend, can supposedly sense when I talk about him, his hearing, it starts to ring. =]
We are very close, in a short time. We can talk about anything and never get bored. We are eachothers best friends. And we fully support eachother too.
June 6th, 2009 at 2:49 pm
Okay this is just a question for anyone to chip into: I have two questions:
1. Is it true that the Aquarius male is fascinated by the Gemini female?
2. Does the Aquarian really fall deeply in love with those born under the sign of the twins?
I have been reading behind these two questions myself, and from what I have read it seems as if the Aquarian REALLLY does truly fall deeply in love with the Gemini twins… also from observing my friends who are in aquarius and gemini relationships themselves, it seems as if these two signs would die with out each other, once they enter a relationship and get to know each other…. especially on behalf of the Aquarius..
My Gem female friend born May 30th was litterally stalked by an Aqua guy Feb 9th he LOVED HER SOOO MUCH, he wrote her poetry and always looked out for her, and NEVER said anything bad about her.. even when she was WRONG.. he loved her like there was no tomorrow, the sad thing is that they went out for about 5 months and she just didnt love him in that way, but he loved her tooo much.
I find that the water bearer only allows his emotions to be seen , eventually that is, by the Gemini sign… its weird how intune and close Aquarius and Gemini can be.. it scares me sometimes.. in a good way
June 8th, 2009 at 5:05 am
That is true in my case; I am the aquarian and fell deeply in love with the Gemini who did not love me “in that way”… nonetheless.. we are yo this date so much in tune w each other it is amazing. Miracles like these exist
June 9th, 2009 at 4:40 pm
Hello guy’s
I am a female Gemini, Like an Aquarius male. We used to have a very nice relationship as a friend. He was my best friend I like to share with him everything like thoughts and ideas he helped me to develop my thoughts and ideas tremendously. He always like that i am so straight forward with him but i feel that he hide something i don’t know. We always try not to have fighting together. Now we end up with a big fighting around financial issue. I like him so much and i want him back again but i can’t ignore that issue. even him he close the door between us to discuss or solve this issue.
What can i do???? i want him back but without hurting myself or my ego. what is the best strategies to have him back?
June 10th, 2009 at 8:53 pm
Can anyone answer these questions:
1. Do Aquarius men get jealous if Gemini women flirt with other men?
2. What should Gemini not do to make Aquarius men mad at her?
3. Why will Aquarius man not let Gemini Woman know he likes her when she can tell he does?
4. What physical part of the body of Gemini Women is attractive to Aquarius men?
5. Do Aquarius men think Gemini women are smart?
6. Do Aquarius men try to analyze Gemini women?
7. Are Aquarius men prone to cheat?
June 10th, 2009 at 8:57 pm
I’m an Aquarius fem (2/6) and he is a Gemini (5/31). We just met two weeks ago and we have been talking and emailing. But now he seems like he’s avoiding me. I thought we were getting along fine. Confused. Need some type of guidance i guess.
June 11th, 2009 at 6:31 am
Hi Celina,
Some good questions there, I will try and answer them for you. First of all it depends how ‘Aquarian’ the man in question is, when his birthday falls and of course the rest of his chart.
1. No. They do not get jealous, but they will think you are disloyal and perhaps lose a little respect for you.
2. Give him space! Something us gem girls are bad at at times is leaving people to it. Aquarius men NEED time alone and if they don’t call or text back straight away we shouldn’t go into panic overdrive!!
3. Aquarius men will always show he likes you..but may not tell you until he’s ready. Asking him will only prolong it I’m afraid.
4. The mind!
5. Yes, and a bit crazy as well. They love our minds!
6. No. Not analyze, but they do pick up on everything we do. And remember it, long after we have forgotton, it’s actually quite impressive. Gem girls always try and analyze Aqua men, pointless but fun !
7. I have never known a cheating Aquarius man, ever! I have always found them to be very loyal. However, you will always get the odd one that will just with any sign, but that is more to do with othyer aspects of their chart. Aquarius as a Sun sign is very faithful.
Hope this hekped.
Love & Light
Becky
June 11th, 2009 at 2:12 pm
Thanks Becky…that was very helpful.
Celina
June 11th, 2009 at 4:03 pm
I think, its more than the mind … remember as well as mentally, the Aquarian is also physically drawn to the Gemini’s sexy good looks, and that leaves them drooling… yeah thats right… drooling.
I think the Gemini is the only sign, that leaves the Aquarius gasping in the good looks department, trust me I have seen it with my very own eyes…
June 11th, 2009 at 10:09 pm
No solutions??
June 12th, 2009 at 10:55 pm
Becky….
1. What is it about the Gemini mind that the Aquarius finds interesting? Can you give an example?
2. Also, what should the Gemini female NOT DO so as not to make Aquarius male go away forever?
3. What should the Gemini female do to make sure she keeps the Aquarius males interest…always?
June 14th, 2009 at 1:54 pm
Hey Celina,
I hope you don’t mind but I found your questions very interesting and spot on… but I thought maybe I could give some answers….
1. Gemini mind- well the fact that they are witty, intelligent, funny and curious about everything and everyone, the Aquarius male loves to analyse and debate things with the Gemini girl and it is normally the mind that gets the Aquarius going and these debates turn alot into passion
2.Whine, be possesive and suffocating, or demanding. The Aquarians needs his space and the reason for why he enters this relationship in the first place is because he adores the Gemini’s ability to give him space and not be offended. If you whine and demand things then he will start to drift….
3.Just be her normal, funny, happy talaktive self, this is what attracted the Aquarius in the first place is the Gemini’s ability to be so upbeat and quick witted all the time. Plus, always talk to the Aquarius do something new with him, keep him interested on his toes, so he never gets bored, but the Gemini and Aquarius is one of the best matches where there are the least problems to worry
about so no worries…
Hope that helped
And again, great questions…
Are you a Gemini too? Are you interested in an Aquarius?
June 15th, 2009 at 4:12 pm
Haz91
Oh yes…I am the Gemini and he is Aquarius and I find him quite attactive and I hope it leads to much more then just attraction…lol He just has me thinking all the time and I am having so much fun getting to know him.
I am prety sure the feelings are mutual….he is so hard to read….lol…but I guess that is to be expected.
June 15th, 2009 at 5:32 pm
I read somewhere that Aquarius female and Gemini male have a great potential for long-term relationships, and that the only thing to really worry about is the honesty issue. Aquarius wants the truth with all the plain facts and details…the truth just as it is. However, I heard a Gemini male is all about half-truths, white lie, not really meaning what he says.
My question is … is that an accurate description of a Gemini male when it comes to honesty and being hones with his feelings?
June 16th, 2009 at 12:28 pm
Celina…
Aquarians are the hardest sign to read… ! But if there is one sign that can crack them.. its us Gemini!
I found out something new today about the Aquarius and Gemini match, did you know that the water bearer Aquarius male, prefers to be in solitude and lonely, away from relationships… but one sign that they just cant resist is us Gemini’s, they chase us until they have cracked us! I did not know that …. I thought the Aquarius was a sucker for all signs…. but seems not…
btw when is your birthday and your Aqua males birthday?
I could compare your dates and give you more info..
If you dont mind..
:))
June 16th, 2009 at 2:51 pm
Hi HAZ91
My Birthday 5/31
His 2/9
HAZ91 are you a female Gemini too? Do you have a male Aquarius in your life too?…lol
Thanks
June 16th, 2009 at 4:09 pm
Hi everyone. I’m interested in this Gemini male born 5/31. I was born 2/6, Aquarius female. I’ve had a really nice time getting to know him. I don’t really like putting myself in a vulnerable position, but I do want to tell him how I feel without scaring him off. We’ve been flirting back and forth and it was nice and fun, but I’ve kind of backed off on that because I’m not sure if I’m flirting for fun anymore, and I don’t want to end up the only one with real feelings. What is the best way to approach a Gemini man about feelings?
Thanks!!!!
June 17th, 2009 at 2:01 am
sooo ya. I am a gemini female and i am so in love with my best friend and hes the aquarius. iwas reading the description and its soo scary how accurate it is. because even tho we aren’t dating i can relate to all those things minus the sex. The thing is i’ve made it so clear how ifeel and that i want our relationship to go to the next level but he says he just doesn’t see me that way anymore (he used to like me before we were really good friends). But, i can’t believe him.. everything he does makes it seem like he likes me and i stay at his house and he cuddles with and strokes my hair and holds my hand and everything. i just don’t know whats going on with him. He’s always telling me im so pretty and i just can’t figure out why he doesn’t wanna be together.. what do you think?
June 17th, 2009 at 9:13 am
Hi Celina.
Wow, your a may born Gem like meee …
Ermmm, yeah I have a dilemma though with my Aquarius I am born May 25th and he is February 5th and we use to intensley like each other, and he use to get soo shy and nervous around me it was cute, we would always stare at each other in the eyes and we would laugh at each others jokes it was great, but now we have drifted apart because I dont know what he wants from this relationship and he confuses me. I was scared at first to approach him and he was the same, thats why it did not last that long, but it was commitment that scared us .. we got on realllllly WELL!
Whats your situation?
xx
June 17th, 2009 at 9:18 am
Hey Lynette,
First and for most I will need to know your birthdayss…
But yeah I think maybe he is your best friend and that is why he doesnt want a relationship with you. Aquarians and Gemini find it hard to enter a sexual relationship esp when they are best friends first, so myabe he is having time dealing with that.
I must say though the little gestures such as the hair and holding hands and telling you how pretty you are, these are all first class signs of someone liking you, so maybe he does like you but does not want to take it to a relationship level, because he might be scared that if he does he might loose you….
Sound right?…
June 17th, 2009 at 11:29 pm
Haz91
Well, we are in the get to know you stage and I can see it is going slow. I know that my male Aquarius is interested in me but he is a bit slow at letting me know. That is why I am asking so many questions. I have no problem giving him space, cause I need space too. But when he takes to long to initiate contact I just go with the flow and don’t sweat it. I found that if you ignore the male Aquarius that is when he gets “freaked out” and comes looking for me. It is like he wants to make sure I am still there and did not leave for good….kind of a taste of his own medicine. I never call him first…he calls me. I have made up my mind that I will not tell him my feelings first as I don’t want to scare him away…somehow I know that he needs to tell me first. For now, we are friends and get a long very well and I am fine with that. Of course, I want more but I am willing to go a little slow…for now anyway…being a Gemini I usually want everything now but from what I read with Aquarius this is not a good way to proceed. We will see what happens and I will let you know. Lastly, I am so smitten with the man I just cannot put in to words how I feel. It is like we are meant for each other and we both know it but we cannot figure out how to move beyond the “friend” thing. I wonder how other Gemini and Aquarius couples move on from friends. OK…here is another question I will post to everyone:
1. For those of you in female Gemini and male Aquarius relationships….which of you made the first move from friends to more then friends…or who told who your feelings first?
June 19th, 2009 at 8:42 am
Celina, your situation sounds quite similar to a friends I have she is a Gemini and he is the waterbearer, but she does not know how to shift from the word friends…. either. But if I was you I would, let him make the first move and normally Aquarians break the friend barrier….
So to be more specific how do you know he likes you, because mine just stared straight at me for long periods of time and then I use to break it… or he would… Also he doesnt act the same around me when I talk and we get all shy and quiet around each other…
June 19th, 2009 at 3:03 pm
Haz91
Wow…same thing with me as your friend. We can talk for hours on the phone but when we are around each other I get more shy then him and it is awkward..like we are strangers. I know he likes me cause he calls me out of the blue and really listens when we talk and wants to know everything I am doing…I just know he likes me but he won’t tell me. I think I am being tested or something…because normally I would not wait this long for a man to let me know…but he is so mysterious and good looking that I will wait…for a while anyway…cause this flirting thing is fun but I hope I don’t get bored…we Gemini’s get bored easilty you know…lol. Why is relationship so different with an Aquarius man and why won’t he just fess up? I am sure he knows that I would reciprocate if he let me knows his feelings…but he has told me before that because of past relationships that he has a hard time trusting women. I wonder if Gemini can break though that barrier and if other Aquarius’ have a similar issue with trust? HAZ91…you seem to know a lot of information like Becky does and I really like this site because of the 2 you. I think that reading the information on this site helps us Gemini females with this interesting relationship with the Aquarius male and learn how to understand it…as much as we can anyway…I can be obsessive sometimes and this relationship is a test of patience and stopping obesessive thoughts…I need to just relax and go with the flow…I guess. I wish there was more information from the male Aquarius point of view on this site…I would love to hear their perspective on us Gemini females….lol
June 20th, 2009 at 12:58 pm
Celina,
That is interesting that you say Aquarius male perspective, because I think alot of Gemiini girls have commented on their experiences with their Aqua males and its not very common on the site vice versa.
Yeah but with the patience thing I would say hold on because, patience is the biggest thing you will need with him… you might have to wiat a while before he can trust you and because of the bad experiences in the past, that could shade his judgement on women, so dont be disheartend, just keep flirting with him and keep it light and cool, I know this is personal, but have you gotten alittle intense with him ever, like romantically or has it been light and fluffy.
I understand the point you are making about the Aquarius men not confessing up.. THIS IS THE ONE THING THAT PISSES ME OFF ABOUT THESE GUYS… they hold strong feelings for us Gemini but they NEVER speak up and admit it, why cant they just be normal and say. But then again it links back to the emotions element with the Aquarius, they do not admit their feelings very quickly or ever, because they see it as a weakness, but dont worry celina we are the ones who break that barrier as Gemini’s
So how did you too meet, I met mine in class, lol, he was so damn sexy and his eyes got me….
June 21st, 2009 at 4:32 pm
Haz91
We met years ago and just reconnected. It has been wonderful to get to know him again. He is funny, smart, friendly and…just as you say about yours…sexy as hell. I have kept it cool and light as you suggested and it seems to be working. I make him laugh and he seems to like my enthusiasm for life and how I view the world. He also, thinks I am a little crazy with all the things I am interested in and I think he envies that about me. You now us Gemini’s always have to be learning and experiencing new things or we get bored, bored, bored. I also have a fantastic job and make a lot of money and I think this is intriquing to him…I am an independent woman and can stand on my own…I wonder if Aquarius likes this in Gemini? His past relationships have been with women who were not independent…with money or their emotions. I think Gemini’s most often have good jobs and are educated and are not looking for someone to take care us…we don’t want anyone telling us what to do…lol Haz91..is that true for you…since you are a May born Gem like me?
June 22nd, 2009 at 5:57 am
Haz91,
My gemini boyfriend’s birthday is May 25! I wonder how similar you two really are? Im an aquarius (jan 30). How compatible are we in correspondence to our birthdates?
June 22nd, 2009 at 6:16 pm
Celina,
Yes. Yes. Yes…… that is all me. I think my Aquarian was also found of my enthusiasm and ability to talk my way in and out of situationss. he envied my intelligence but then again asked me when he wanted help.. I loved him sooo much… but he and I dont really talk anymore. I am very independent, that is both finacially and emotionally, but if I feel like I needed to talk to someone, I wouldnt be afraid to. I think all in all the Aquarius male is fascinated by us Gemini and we are the best match for them, mentally physically and we have insane chemistry. ….
:)))
June 22nd, 2009 at 6:19 pm
Karolina,
He is end of may where he has the slight influence of Taurus and you are end january where you might have the slight influence of Capricorn, this cusp influence will make your connection even more insanely exciting, because both Capricorn and Taurus are highly compatable….so yeah all is goood !
June 22nd, 2009 at 9:12 pm
Haz91…
That is what I am afraid of…that we will just drift apart and never know what might have been if he would just give me more insight in to his feelings….I know that being friends is okay for now but if he wants more of if I do…then it will just get boring unless we both just reconcile that is what it is. Maybe since we just click as friends that is what is should be…or was meant to be. It seems that I have heard this from many female Gem’s on this site. What a shame. But I wonder if male of any sign just want to be friends with females…I thought men like to be friends with males. Do they really just want to be freinds with us Gem’s?
June 23rd, 2009 at 10:15 pm
Thanks for the post Becky. I’m an Aquarius with my moon in Gemini and I’m in love with a man who is Libra with his moon in Aquarius. I think we’ll be happy forever when I go for it. Wish me luck!!!
June 24th, 2009 at 7:57 pm
I must say this is the first site that i’ve found that has been so onpoint with this. I’m a gem female and I am so in love with an aqua man. I’m not sure how he feels about me because he won’t say anything. we have been together on and off for the past year and a half, every time i try to break it off and walk away he makes it extremely hard, he calls alot and i’m a sucker for it. we have great conversations and he makes me laugh but he is not into commiting to me and i never really thought as myself as the commiting type but with him, I want the american dream, the house with the white picked fence and a household full of kids, he wants a family of his own and so do I. I’ve never been desperate or needy but he’s making me feel this way. I want to walk away at this point, I don’t want to be with somebody who doesn’t want to be with me. He tells me i’m not going anywhere and neither is he but why doen’t he want to commit to me, he hasn’t even taken me to meet his family yet but he’s met mines. I don’t want to walk away buti’m afraid i don’t have a choice.
help please.
June 25th, 2009 at 1:32 pm
Hey Sandy,
It is very clear to me that he obviously wants to be with you, because he does not have the ability to leave and let you go. Instead he is holding you back, because he doesn’t want to move forward. You said that you love him and it is clear that he loves you, but the question as you rightfully said is, are you going to move forward in this relationship, because there is no point being in a relationship where, no one is taking steps forward. My advice to you, is not to be afraid or feel confused, and go straight with your head, not your heart, because you heart is saying that you want to be with this Aquarian man, but you mind is telling you that you should move forward instead of sitting around with him, where he is neither pursueing a relationship nor declining it. Therefore, if I was you I would leave this Aquarian male, because he is clearly wasting your time. You will have to tell him that you NEED to move on, and if he loves you then he will understand….
Be brave fellow Gemini..
Btw when is your birthday and when is your Aquarius males birthday?
June 25th, 2009 at 7:17 pm
OMG, thank you so much,Haz91 I really don’t think you understand how much this means to me, I am on the verge of tears,(I’ve been so emotional lately) the confusion was starting to take its toll on me. I absolutely have to use my head, I needed somebody to tell me that and i usually know better but this one threw me for a loop. you said it “he is neither pursuing nor declining a relationship with me”, that is not love, when someone loves you, i think they would pursue you and i have to be honest with myself about this one….(the tears are coming down now). You wanted to know: my bday is june 17 and his is jan 27.
Thanks again….
June 26th, 2009 at 1:24 am
First and foremost becky your sensational.Your words are inspiring.Thank you.
I recently just started talking to my aqua man and we hit it off.Over the phone that is.We have yet to meet.We have a blind date this saturday well not really blind towards him cause hes seen pictures of me but i havent seen pictures of him.but i dont care.This man had me at hello.lol.His voice just makes me feel safe.He so respectable of my ways.and for once i voice my opinon and he doesnt get mad!!!What the hell?!everyone gets mad when i voice my opinon.wierd lol mayeb hes the one.Hes great and the odd thing about it is that weve only been talking for about a week and a half.but i feel so comfortable when i talk to him.Like i can be myself and he loves it.SERIOUSLY.He tells me im beautiful and he would be sad if i didnt like him.I really dont know what to make of this.Im really nervous for our dateeeeeeeee!!! what do i wear???oh man.im on cloud nine.=]
June 26th, 2009 at 11:29 am
No problem Sandy,
Listen as long as you know what you have to do, which is set the record straight with him, then you need to do that, then there is no room for confusion. And about the heart thing, girls are so prone to using their hearts when they fall in love because that is the intial item that instigates that passionate emotion in the first place, but then you have to let your head take over if you are considering a long term or serious relationship, because only your mind can give you that honest answer. I am sure your Aquarius man will understand what you have to do, because along the way he is only hurting you so you HAVE to tell him that you need to move on from this relationship….
And dont cry, be strong ….
Haz91
xx
July 7th, 2009 at 8:18 pm
well i think this is true. Im the gemini in the relationship an even though there is a 10yr age gap between us, i couldnt ask for anyone better and he makes me very happy.
I never have a bored moment when im around him, and from the moment we went on out first date we just clicked it was like we had been friends for years. reading this has post has made me verry happy today
good luck to all the aquarius and geminicouples
xxxx
July 12th, 2009 at 8:44 am
I got out of a relationship with my bf (a Gemini) more than 2 weeks ago. I stumbled across this article a few months back when we were still together and happy, and agreed with everything written here.
But now… there is one part I’d like to put emphasis on… “Don’t get me wrong. If and when this loving couple argue, and oh my when they argue, they argue, it is almost as if all their love has reversed and turned into hate. It’s horrible.’ … Despite the great description of their union together, this part is undeniably true also.
Oh well.. just sharing. Good luck y’all.
July 12th, 2009 at 8:15 pm
Hey Nicole,
Do you have any birth dates, of both yours and your boyfriends…
July 13th, 2009 at 9:28 am
Hi guys,
The thing with the Gem/Aqua relationship is that it does take work, and yes so do all relationships but if you put the work in with this one the rewards are second to none. My fiancé and myself found it hard at the beginning, we argued like it was the end of the world and spend the first year or so really learning each other and for him (the aqua) having to learn to compromise wasn’t an easy task.
Still fast forward a few years and it’s all paid off tenfold!We rarely argue and if and when we do I can go to him now and he will sit and listen, we have both learned how to cope with each others sometimes black moods and can quickly overcome our difficulties, not by ignoring them as we did at the start but by talking them through..not for too long..and moving on it’s astonishing how amazing this union is. But when it’s bad it’s awful and I sympathise with anyone in the beginnings of this pairing, stick at it if you possibly can and the rewards with show themselves, all good things come to those who wait!!
Love & Light
Becky
July 14th, 2009 at 3:27 am
Like alot of users on here, i dont really follow my stars although occasionally might read the weekly horoscope.
Anyway, i’m a male Gemini and my Ex was an Aqua. We dated for 3.5 years until about 6 months ago.
And Whoa! when i read this compatibility test i started laughing out loud. Did Becky write this about me and my Ex specifically? because it pretty much nailed down the relationship EXACTLY.
We met at a party and started as friends. I wasnt really attracted to her physically but her laughter, energy, social skills and broad thinking got me after a few months (as the compatibility says, sex is not the main factor - its the intellect). We clicked straight away (hard not to with her) and often we’d stay up all night laughing and talking till 4am… at which point i would yell “STOP TALKING ahahah”.
ahhh, but like a true Gemini i dont like to be nagged and didnt mind a bit of freedom here and there! she thought that was rejecting her. oh and did she complain about most things i did. The arguments were infamous. Everyone knew about these arguments and i’ve never been so heated in my life. When it was good it was the most fun i could ever have, but when bad, hahah, whoa!
In the end, while we still clicked and she was my best friend we were sending us both crazy. The fighting was too much. I ended up kissing another girl one night (oddly, a capricorn???) and that was the end of the relationship.
I tell you what though, she def kept me on my toes (tick), def woudlnt let me get away with too many antics, def made me laugh (BIG tick) , def loved to party and def was always on the go (tick - although i get tired easily). Its more than a shame it didnt pan out.
After reading this compatibility i realised that while my Ex might not be The One, my One is def an Aqua (Wherever she may be). Otherwise, as is said here a number of times, i’ get bored.
shame really: everyone else seems so boring.
July 14th, 2009 at 5:21 pm
Ok first let me start off by saying i love your website… It helped me out so much.. Ok here is my story and please dont judge.. So i was dating this leo for 2 years evently we fell in love or what i thought was love. Intill he had to go away for treatment. Well this leo was crazy, but i stayed with him thinking i loved him. He ended up running from the place he was at with some of the other people at this treatment center. Well i would go hang out at the house that they were tryin to hide at and hang out with My leo and these other guys.. Well sure enough there was a gemini staying there. Now i am not the type to cheat and the Leo and me we really rocky anyways, anyways everynight when they would all go to sleep Me and the Gemini would stay up all night talking about everything and anything. It was so great i never in my life could connect so fast and so well with someone like i did the gemini. Well this went on for a week after that week i could not take it no more i had never felt so attached to someone in my life. I was so comturable with him and we had already talked about everything so out of the blue i told him that i was falling for him, He was so shocked and told me that he had felt the same way and never had felt this way about anyone before. Now i knew that there was something there cause i am never the one to say i love you first and not after one week. Well i explained everything to The Leo and he freaked out of course, but after just sitting talking with Gemini for that week everynight for hours i relized that was not love. So i ended that with leo. Well Gemini had to go back and serve the rest or his time in treatment. We did not talk and i could not stop thinking about him so i wrote him a letter and tld him that he was still on my mind everyday and that i missed him. That weekend i got a phone call from his sister saying that he wanted me to go see him. So i did and it was great it was like he had never left. So 3 months have gone by and i get to see him every weeked. When i am with him he tells me that he is so in love with me and that he thinks about me everyday and wants to be with me forever.. he says that my kisses make him feel like he has never felt before and that he wants to be with me forever, Now i knew that from the min i ment him that he was my soul mate. The only thing i could not figure out was how we clicked like we did. I now know cause we are very compatable. The only thing that gets to me is that i will tell him to call and he says ok and i dont hear from him for another week, only a week cause he still has 2 months left and i only can see him on weekends. Anyways this guy is my everything i mean i was in a realtionship for 4 years and i guess i was never in love not till now anyways. He tells me everything that just makes my heart melt, but when he never calls is that just a gemini thing or am i in way over my head?.. I dont know i just dont see when he looks stright into my eyes and tells me this i dont see lying. I guess i just wanna know does this all sound crazy or is there really love at first sight?.. Sorry for the whole story I just had to tell it all its like it was fate… Someone please tell me if i am losing my mind or if i could have really found my future hubby!!! My birthday is Feb.16th and His is June 20th
July 15th, 2009 at 4:58 am
I am an aquarius female. I was just on vacation and met a gemini male. He hit on me first and I didn’t really pay him much attention. The next night while out dancing he came by my table and asked me to dance. He was very forward in letting me know that he liked me. I ended up spending the next week of my vacation with him and we ended up sleeping together on more than one occassion before I left. The night before my departure he gave me his phone number and asked me not to forget him and to call him. I called him two days after being back and we talked a few minutes and he told me he misses me and wants to make plans with me so that I can come and visit him in about two months. I guess we may be trying to see how things go. I haven’t heard from him today and I dont want to freak out simply because I’m not sure exactly where we stand even though he refers to me as his girlfriend (I take it in a joking manner). I guess my question is how would you suggest I pursue this? Should I call him if I want to or should I wait and let him contact me?
I appreciate the help.
July 16th, 2009 at 3:35 am
“all good things come to those who wait!!”
gawd i really hope so…it’s driving me insane.
July 17th, 2009 at 8:57 am
I just started hanging out with this Aquarius… He continually peek my fascination and interest! We talk about everything from the moon to the earth to philosophy to politics… feelings… identity. You name it, we discuss. For some reason, we’re so comfortable and have so much fun together and we keep finding ourselves saying that though we’ve only just met, it feels like we’ve known each other much much longer.
It’s strange because even though it hasn’t been long, talking about the future feels like the most natural thing for us. I asked him to “envision” what his life would be like in the future and he says, “Nice big house, tasteful furniture, big garden with landscape swimming pool, good neighborhood. A big library room and office. A big room for me to sleep in…” Then he goes, “with you in it.” And I asked him if he ever wanted pets in his home and he said he didn’t really think about that and I told him that in my future home, I have to have pets because I’ve always had pets in my life. And naturally, he responded with conviction, “…you can have anything you want. If it makes you happy, you can have it.” ?????? WOW.
Are all Aquarians like this?
July 17th, 2009 at 1:45 pm
Hey Mystery,
WOW.. seems like a complete romantic and seems like he likes you alot, I mean if you are jumping ahead into the future. This type of behaviour isnt common amongst all types of Aquarians some like to take things slow others like to jump at the opportunity of a relationship… esp if they have found the right ‘one’. It seems that this guys is willing to take the extra step with you, even if it has been a short while. I would say go for it…
But just be careful, because even though the Gemini and Aquarius are one of the strongest matches in the zodiac, these two are prone to fantasising and dreaming… and when it comes to the real reality of it, they both lapse which could cause dissappointment… but all in all this Aquarian guy of yours seems like a fast mover…
BTW.. when is your birth date and when is your aquarian guys birthdate… ?
July 17th, 2009 at 3:31 pm
Hey Haz91,
It took a little convincing and sweet talking to pry him to open up. I read other responses from other such couples about how they hide from expressing their emotions. I sensed that the very beginning, but I always instigate really random and stupid silly games we can play together. Something as simple as “Have you ever…” and “Hypnosis” and this extracts information from him because it seems he’s afraid to cave in with feelings but doesn’t like to quiver from a challenge either. lol Silly!
Anyway, I’m really patient so I think this helps a lot. He has a lot to study for law school and I keep our interaction to a minimum because I don’t want to stray him from his studies, he’s so disciplined. And I think because I’m so understanding, he’s that much more comfortable to tell me things. Also, I’m very independent as well, so there’s no rush or pressure. He is always lost and thinking of something when we’re together because of the intense attraction he’s afraid of losing “control,” it’s written all over his face! I always assure him to not think too hard about us, that we should enjoy our time together one day at a time. Oh, btw, our birthdays are 6/14 and 2/1.
July 18th, 2009 at 8:31 am
Hello All,
I am a Gemini Woman (6/15 with moon in Taurus) in a relationship with an Aquarian man (1/26 with moon in Capricorn). I love him very dearly and look forward to having a very satisfying relationship with him that lasts for years to come.
We used to argue constantly. He tended to ignore and be dismissive and I tended to try anything I could do to get him to pay attention to me, even if it meant getting him to laugh even though he was mad. He would initiate a break up, which would not happen and we would end up making up 15 minutes later. We are currently approaching our one year together and things are looking up.
It has been a whirlwind romance. Lust at first sight, followed quickly by love, followed by engagement and moving in together. I would not recommend this to anyone, as it has caused a lot of tension, but every relationship is different.
The thing about relationships is that they require work but when you finally come to an understanding of each other, life becomes a bit easier. My love has become more attentive, considerate and caring as of late because he realized that I will stick by him through the bad and I will support him through the good. A sense of security is important in any relationship.
We make our relationship work because we bring out the best in each other and we take steps towards helping each other reach our full potential. A relationship will work as long as both parties want it to and do what they can to make it work out. Despite the hardships, despite the tears and profanity in the past, this relationship is turning out to be so wonderful and our bond is strengthening.
In closing,it’s great to analyze and develop theories and to put together the pieces of puzzle because of the mental workout you get in return. Just remember that if the pieces don’t fit, they won’t. You can’t change fate. So if a relationship is going sour, either it will improve or not. There will be someone out there for you to love regardless of whether your love is with this person or not.
Take care and Godspeed.
July 19th, 2009 at 9:35 pm
YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING.
Aquariuses are condescending, arrogant,
and narcisstic. They are self-bloated,
ICE COLD, and LIARS.
They talk to you and act towards you as if you are below them. They don’t talk to you and act towards you as if you are on the same level as them; they regularly treat you as if you are an unequal beneath them. They consistently think you are not as good as them; they always feel they are better than you. They look down at you; they don’t look at you eye-to-eye. They exhibit this self-absorbed, “I’m (always) right, you’re (always) wrong” mentality that turns people off.
Aquariuses lie, lie, lie to you. They are notorious liars.
As a proud Gemini, I would NEVER EVER date an Aquarius.
Thank you.
July 19th, 2009 at 10:03 pm
I’m an Aquarius woman (2/16) and I am in I guess you can say a long distance relationship with a Gemini but I think he is on the cusp (5/21). He just lost his job and he sounds somewhat down and out, I’m not exactly sure what to say or how to console him or if I even should. What is a good approach to take?
July 20th, 2009 at 11:14 am
WOw, TINA ,
lol.
lol
alot of hate there for the water bearer
I do agree with you on the note that they are arrogant…
lol
Have you had alot of bad experiences with them?
July 22nd, 2009 at 2:11 am
thanx for the hate Tina.
I for one believe you just ended up meeting the wrong people in your life.
You don’t know us all.
July 25th, 2009 at 12:18 am
I am an Aquarian woman and I like an Gemini man. The first time I saw him I wanted to know more about him. After a few weeks of not knowing him, I decided to give him my phone number. He never called. Then I mailed him a letter asking to be pen pals and still got no response. Then I sent one more letter and he finally replied, saying that he would have replied earlier but he lost the letter.
After 2 months of writing each other he didn’t contact me for a few days. I decided that he didn’t like me. So I told him I didn’t want to be pen pals anymore. He replied right away saying that he was very sick for a few days, which is why he didn’t respond in a while. And there was one time that I asked to meet him in person but he never answered my question.
Anyway, we have been pen pals for 5 months now and share interests and experiences with each other. I like reading what he writes and I think he does too, but I want to know if he likes me or not?
July 25th, 2009 at 4:17 am
My Aquarian gives me really random gifts. HAHA He just gave me a memorabilia he made from when he was in elementary school! WHAT ON EARTH…! lol
I really don’t understand this cosmic craziness but we have so much fun together and we’re always aroused by one another, whether it be mental or physical.
God help me if I don’t die of fascination.
July 25th, 2009 at 5:29 pm
I just found this website looking for I guess reason to believe that my Aquarius man is cheating. I read so many of the stories and I believe some of the thoughts comes from just being who I am as a Gemini. I do tend to analyze (sometimes over analyze) everything. He’s taken me on trips. Takes me to eat out at the best restaurants. Treats me like I’m the prize that I know he has found. He enjoys going out to very nice places and takes me along. He takes the time to examine the things I like and don’t like. The sex is awesome and experimental. His timing and planning is always on point. Yes he is very confident. But I look at it from that aspect and not that he’s arrogant. He’s just very sure of himself. But at the same time very humble in a cocky way for lack of words. He hasn’t said yet that he loves me, although the time he spends with me and conversations we’ve had would imply that he does have feelings for me. It’s been about 7 months I guess that we’ve become sexually involved and he hasn’t changed. We just spend more and more time with one another. I haven’t told him that I love him. I guess I’m waiting for him to say it first because I want to make sure he’s feeling the same way. Not sure if I should ask him, or just accept that it’s ok just the way it is. There’s a lot that I left out like conversations in detail. But just from what I’ve written I’m really wanting to understand when will he say it. Any suggestions for this Gemini?
July 25th, 2009 at 11:45 pm
“all good things come to those who wait!!”
I hope and pray to God this is true. It took me a while to have the courage to write this but I need some advice.
So I’ve been dating this Gemini male since April. Right when we met, we CLICKED perfectly. Everything was so on point and I’ve never felt this way about anybody every. Usually when I date someone, I don’t fall. I don’t typically act like myself either and I get bored easily. But with him its something new.
Two months into dating, I told him I didn’t want to date him anymore because I needed a title, a definition. I NEED one because Ive been badly hurt in the past and I couldn’t take the risk. BAD MISTAKE. After I made that decision everything went downhill. We try to fix it but it just keeps getting worst and worst.
I started dating a Cancer for a couple weeks and stopped because I still wanted to pursue the relationship with the Gemini. The Gemini found out and got furious. He forgave me though.
Things still aren’t back to the way they used to be. He still calls me baby and vice versa. But we barely spend any time together anymore. I don’t know whether or not I should give up or keep trying. I don’t want to lose something special, but I also don’t want to waste my time. I love this Gemini so much and I care for him. I told him I think I love him, but he didn’t say anything back?
What should I do? Does he care? Does he love me too? I asked him where we were going with this and he said that he thinks this is just a bump in the road and if we get over this, everything will be perfect again. I don’t know if he meant it or if he was just lying. Typically its the Gemini that would try to fix things. But it seems like I’m trying harder. I don’t normally open up to people either but I cant help it with him.
I’m an Aquarius female born 01/26 with moon in Scorpio and Sagittarius as the rising sign. He is a Gemini born on 06/18.
July 27th, 2009 at 10:56 pm
Hello everyone,
I have read many of your post.I must admit that it does ring true of the Aquarius/Gemini. My son father is a Gemini and we are the best of friends and still have much love for each other although we never married because of personal reasons on his part we still remained close. He always knows when something is wrong with me no matter how much I try to hide it. By the way, it has been 19yrs since the “spark” remains. Lately, everyone I meet is born on the same day he was born except different years of course. But I have met this wonderful Gemini guy of course born on the same day (May 27) as my ex and when we met it was an instant attraction with us both. He even admitted the first date that we were going to get along very well and have lots of fun. Also, he said that it feels as if him and I have met in another lifetime. Needless to say, I love him and he tells me he loves me all the time but he says that I scare him and that he doesn’t want to get hurt.I do reassure him of my feelings but lately he has become distant. He still says that he loves me but I don’t give him a break. So I told him I will give him a break and he said thanks because he is going through a lot and have many things on his mind. He did say that it is not me and that he really want to be with me but he has major problems. We have been together for almost three months and the distance first began on Father’s day when were together that is when I noticed his “emotional mood”. We have spent time together since then but it is not the same. Now, he has been accusing me of seeing other men when I know deep down inside that I have not. I don’t know what to do now but just give him some space and time and hopefully everything works out for the best. But if not, I must admit we did share something wonderful. By the way, I am Feb. 3rd. Good luck to all of you and I wish you the best and remain open minded to maintaining a healthy relationship.
July 28th, 2009 at 2:59 am
As an Aquarian male, I found your description of the relationship with a female Gemini very informative and accurate. My best friend is a female Gemini and we have SO much in common that it is most definitely scary. A lot of the comments here deal with how to get the Aquarian male closer/ communicate what they are feeling and with me it’s pretty simple. If you want to know how I feel you should ask me straight up in a regular conversation when we are discussing multiple topics so that it doesn’t feel so pointed. My Gemini has many of times got answers out of me that I conceal from most people by discussing it with the lightness that she would discuss the weather. I often wonder how in the world my Gemini woman gets so much of my vulnerable side and the answer I usually come back with is that she is honest and doesn’t play games at all. When she asks for the truth she knows it may not be what she wants to hear but at least I will be honest which is more than a lot of males when asked questions about relationships and feelings. This is a really cool place to share perspectives and it really opened my eyes to how she might feel sometimes. Much love and light to you Becky, wonderful work!
August 4th, 2009 at 7:36 pm
Hi Haz91…
I wrote before asking for a solution for my male aqua to make the first move and I was advised to do it myself and I did it
At first, I felt that everything is going great but then when he felt that I’m in love, he told me that we need to cool down cause he doesn’t want any serious relationship now so let’s keep it with sex only, though I’m definite that he loves me but just too afraid to get committed
I don’t know what to do
He is born on Feb 14th and me on June 20th
I need help ??…..
August 5th, 2009 at 2:39 pm
Hi Becky, I was wondering if you could help me out with the charts: It would be of sooo much help =)
His:
Sun - Gemini
Moon - Cancer
Venus - Gemini
Mars - Leo
Mine:
Sun - Aquarius
Moon - Libra
Venus - Pisces
Mars - Virgo
Pros and cons and are we compatible?
Thanks you soo much!
August 6th, 2009 at 4:11 am
anything you know about gemini dragon and aquarius rat together?
a new gemini in my life…not sure what’s going on.
August 6th, 2009 at 10:24 pm
I dont get this.
Ive decided to stop talking to my gem male.Dated him for about 3 or 4 months. I was practically THROWING myself at him and he didnt do anything about it. And he has the nerve to tell everyone that it was my fault we didnt work out? He makes it look like hes so innocent. I waited there for him, but all he did was take his precious time.
We decided to end it and he told me its best if we’re just friends. But shit, he doesnt call me anymore nor does he text me. No emails, no messages, no nothing. and Im sitting here crying my EYES out because I think I love this guy yet hes not doing anything about it.Whatever. Im not the type to fall but I fell for this guy. Now look where it got me: crying everyday.
August 10th, 2009 at 3:03 pm
I am aquarius and I am with this gemini girl who i have know since we where like six or so, and i have to say when i read this it described us down to a science cain’t belive how exact this really was. Love my gemini even with the fightin
August 10th, 2009 at 3:10 pm
Ok, so I just read your overview of the Aqua/Gem compatibility and I’m very impressed. Like so many others have already said before me, this perfectly describes my relationship between me and my best friend.
We’ve been extremely close friends for about three years now, but we’ve known each other as long as six. It just ended up happening one day that one conversation with each other and it seemed we had a never-ending wellspring of interesting points to talk about. Never, in my life, has a woman stretched my Aquarian mind like this Gemini has.
We would talk about both of our terrible relationships. I was dating a Taurus at the time, and she was young and I was very unhappy so my Gemini friend was my go-to gal for advice and to vent. Likewise, she was seeing this girl at the time who was messing with her emotions, so we were really there for each other.
We’re both sick people, at least our senses of humor lol. We play pranks on each other that most normal people would consider evil but to us their hilarious. I got her a present from a town where her ex-girlfriend was from and when I gave it to her people thought it was horrible but she thought it was the most wonderful thing. In her opinion, me trying to make her laugh about a bad breakup is better then trying to tip toe around it. Thing is, that is EXACTLY why I got her the gift. We just seem to understand each other.
I recently took a trip across country to clear my head about what has been a terrible year for me, and truth be told she was the only one I would have genuinely enjoyed myself with the entire month. That revelation hit me somewhere 2300 miles into the trip, so I called her and told her and we’re making plans to take the same trip next summer.
I guess all this ranting needs to get to the point. My current problem is one you accurately described: having been friends for so long the idea of anything physical with this person is hard to imagine. Fear is probably a good word, fear of not living up to whatever expectations she might have, and also not really knowing how she feels about me. We talked the other day about being each other’s backup, so if we’re both not married by 30 we’re going to elope lol but I’m at the point now where I really think me and this person would make a fantastic duo.
How do I tell her without endangering our friendship, which really means the world to me? She is bi-sexual and lately her pursuits have been mostly women, but even she says she’s getting tired of the same old thing and wants a meaningful, lasting relationship. I want the same, and I have every confidence that our relationship would be so similar to the one you described above that it makes me think its worth pursuing.
Any ideas from this community or yourself Becky and I’d appreciate it. I really respect my Gemini friend and if she doesn’t think about me in that light I don’t want to make either of us feel awkward.
Thanks for an awesome read!!!
August 14th, 2009 at 9:34 am
nice compatibility though i wonder how far things are true.
coz my dad is gemini and we always argue abt things.
nyways, ill wait for my gemini
August 14th, 2009 at 4:40 pm
Heya
I’m an Aquarius woman and my dude is a Gemini, and its true we just fit together perfectly, trying to explain it to people is easy enough but they just don’t get it lol
We argue and trust me its some serious tempers but then we calm down and yes I am more stubborn where he is more persistent in getting me to come back down. The after or make up is always great, best of all it’s like nothing happened at all.
I can’t explain all of it, but for sure this match is awesome, I’d been with a Leo before and a Capricorn and for sure Gemini’s have what any Aquarius wants
Thanks for such an accurate read
August 16th, 2009 at 4:08 am
I have known a certain Gem (no pun intended!) for nearly four years now and was instantly attracted to her upon first glance. We quickly became good friends, despite having a rather odd friendship over the years.
Needless to say, I have been drawn to this girl like no other. I want her so badly, yet a feeling inside tells me that the time is not right. We both recognize that we would be good for each other, but that remains to be seen.
I never have believed in ‘love at first sight’, but there lies an underlying theme that has yet to surface.
Your forecast is outright stunning!
August 17th, 2009 at 10:12 pm
Hey Tek,
Do you have any birthdates, both yours and your gemini friends…
And my advice would be, just to help you out abit, is tell her the honest truth. Listen, she as a Gemini probably feels the same about you so, go ahead and do it… dont be afraid because then you will procrastinate and ever get around to telling her the truth… so take that brave step and tell her, because from what I have read you both make the perfect couple already…..
What do you think?
August 18th, 2009 at 3:50 pm
Hi Becky, I have been spending way too many hours reading all the posts on your site..thank you for creating such a wonderful site. I have a question (sorry it’s going to be a long one) and I was hoping you could help me out because I cant stop thinking about it and analyzing it.
I am a gemini (female) born in mid june and he is an acquarius born towards the end of january. We met online and hit it off from date one. For the first couple of weeks, we spend a lot of time together, and the time increased each week. We would always be the one to called first and invited me out and every time, we went somewhere very nice and he was a perfect gentelman. There were times when we spend hours upon hours talking non stop until the morning. I have met some of his friends and he met mine, and I have been over his house several times. And here’s the strange part - he tried nothing physical with me, not even a kiss. And it has nothing to do with age b/c we’re both young adults, him being older than me. And then after about 6 weeks of seeing each other all the time, he stopped calling or texting. I called him maybe 1 time and texted him twice and he never ignored me. He always called me back or texted me back being nice and friendly, but he stopped inviting me places. Then I figured that he’s not interested and even though I was really confused and annoyed at the abrupt stop, I figure I’ll just move on. But then this past weekend he called on Friday and we talked for a bit but I was out with my friends so I had to cut it off. Then he called again Sat night and again I was out. So I called him back on Sunday and we spoke for a little under an hour. Then he told me that he had to go somewhere and we said bye and that was it . I don’t understand this, it’s not like anything I have ever experience before. We spend a ridiculous amount of time together and spends a lot of money and he tries nothing physical. And then he stops and just when I think he’s not interested, he calls, but doesn’t invite me out again. I don’t know what this means? What do I do? I really want to ask him what’s going on, if he’s interested but I don’t know if I should. What do you think?
August 19th, 2009 at 2:44 am
My brother is a Gemini, and we get along extremely well. I am the only one who truly understands him, and he has always loved me the most. Now I am in love with another gemini, it is truly amazing.
August 22nd, 2009 at 7:13 pm
Hi Becky, I know you’re really busy, but I would really love to hear your input because this situation has been driving me crazy. He hasn’t called in a week now. Thanks!
August 23rd, 2009 at 2:57 pm
Hey Ryan,
WHy dont u pursue the relationship, now rather than later. I mean if you both have strong feelings for each other then there is no point waiting. Trust me Gemini loose interest quickly and you dont want that to happen to her do you?
When is your birthday and when is your gemin girls?
August 24th, 2009 at 12:15 pm
Haz thanks for the input, definately what I needed to hear. Her birthday is June 8th 1987 and I’m January 22nd 1985.
Just got back from her place this weekend and we had a pretty spectacular time. Her roomates made a comment about us going off into a universe of our own and leaving everyone else out. lol soon as I heard that I thought of this post.
Our friendship is so unconventional, I can imagine a relationship would be delciously exciting in a disturbing way. I love this girl to death, but in such a different way then I’ve ever loved anyone else.
August 25th, 2009 at 4:08 am
omg!! everything you said was on point… it is kind of scarey!!! i am aquarius female with a gemini and i have to say i am loving every bit of him. he is so odd and weird and he does bring a side of me that no one sees.. and i do feel that every time we talk we enter this secret world of ours. we have been talking since last summer, at the beginning it was very complicated to deal with him (bickering and fighting over the stupidest things) and he would always be on and off. after time, now i would have to say it is wonderful and totally worth it. he treats me like a princess and is always giving me all the attention that i need. this is the FIRST guy i’ve felt that i always wanted to talk to. usually i do not care for guys or being in relationship to begin with. we always talk for hours EVERYDAY and tell each other how much we miss one another and give each other kisses always!! he has brung a sweeter side of me that i never knew about and i feel really girly around him. in my past i would always get tired of guys within a couple of days.. they would not interest me at all and quite frankly i would just toss them aside and never speak to them.
at first i was very confused about things, but after reading this site it all makes sense.. im glad i have found this website i feel that maybe i could experience “love” with him. i have never felt so drawn to somebody!! he is so sweet and i don’t really see his twins.. sometimes he has his off days but after a couple of hours he apologizes for the way he was acting and all is good! i really adore my gemini and i dont see how geminis can not be “trusted”. he always tells me where he is going or what he is doing before hand and makes sure that it is alright with me before he leaves. he makes me feel very secure and i love how he continues to be sweet without feeling smothered!
usually i am turned off by guys being too nice or sweet, but with him it is different. he’s the best and i adore him!
August 25th, 2009 at 6:15 am
When male Aquarius is interested in female Gem, will he ever show curiosity about her? or will he tend to be content in letting her be his audience?
I’m also trying to understand this phenomenon of sensing one another even when not present. How does this play out practically?
August 25th, 2009 at 3:27 pm
Gemina,
I’m sure it’s different for everyone, but coming from this Aquarian the Gemini I’m interested in knows it without me having to say it out loud, and vice versa. Thus the whole feeling each other’s feelings thing. This is a double edged sword, especially in my situation, because just because we both know it doesn’t matter if neither of us ever say anything about it.
So to answer your question, yes and no lol. We show it in subtle ways. Personally, I will never just come right out and say I like someone, but you should know. If you can keep an Aquarian’s mind going and keep them engaged in conversation then you already have his heart. Trust me on this one.
August 25th, 2009 at 8:37 pm
Tek….what do u think about my situation? Any ideas?
August 26th, 2009 at 2:44 pm
Hey Tek,
Just to say I completely agree with you on the idea that you dont have to say it. I have known alot of Aquarian male and Gemini female matches through my friends.. and they dont say it out loud to express how they feel, their bond is sooo strong that nothing breaks it and their love is shown through that.
Well said Tek.
August 26th, 2009 at 7:43 pm
GemGirl,
Here’s my advice. It sounds to me like maybe he might have a lot going on. Something you might need to understand about us Aquarians is that most of the time we are lost in our heads, at least I know I am. I don’t know what your friend does for a living or what he’s into, but is there a chance that some project is consuming his mental energies? I know I for one have a one track mind, and once I’m focused on something I tend to forget about everything else.
Try to find out. Give him a call or text and just casually ask how he’s been. Do a little digging. If he’s anything like me, he WANTS to talk about whatever’s on his mind, he probably just needs a little encouragement :).
This is speaking strictly just from my own viewpoint, he could be entirely different then me. As far as the not trying anything physical thing, relax and know that’s just a common trait amongst us. I barely ever make the first move unless your standing up holding a sign telling me too lol.
Case in point, this last weekend I was with my Gemini friend (the one I’ve talked about in previous posts) and we went and saw that new Brad Pitt movie Inglorious Basterds. Well she’s a huge Quentin Terrantino fan, and as we were walking into the theatre she was dissecting all his previous work, and just the way she was talking I wanted to kiss her more than I actually wanted to breath lol. However, I didn’t just because I move that slowly. I doubt strongly she could detect my desire either, despite how well we read each other.
Just be honest and communicate with him. Get him talking. Remember, the way to an Aquarians heart is through his head.
August 27th, 2009 at 12:05 am
It was very eye-opening to read through the original post and replies. Makes so much sense, and it’s really nice to be able to understand it all.
Anyway, thanks for the responses to my questions. I feel fairly confident that Aquarius is interested “in” me (as much as I dare, that is); it’s his interest “about” me that has me wondering. Maybe he is just picking it up (that is, who I am/my character) from my responses to him, and our interactions before we started seeing one another (although that was a long time ago). Oh well, I have no idea where this is going (if anywhere) but it does amuse and amaze me that we are actually seeing each other after all this time.
Hmm, that sure was wordy…
August 27th, 2009 at 3:49 am
Tek,
He works and he just started his last semester of law school, so I guess that could be it. I was actaully online yesterday anhd he randomly messaged me saying how he changed one of this classes b/c the prof sucked. SO we talked fora maybe 5 min online and thats all…he didnt say “hey sorry i dissaperead” or “hey how are u havent spoken in a while”…nope….his first line was that he’s dropping the class…weird!!!
Why didn’t u kiss her? Why do u move so slowly? Argh….u sound like this guy haha…u’re probably driving this girl crazy.
I just feel like he’s not interested anymore…i dont know…it’s driving me crazy….what do u mean get him talking? I dont really want to call him b/c based on all that I read, I should just wait for him to call me…..so what should I do? Just get him off my mind…..?
August 27th, 2009 at 12:35 pm
Hey now! In my defense, I’ve only ever seen her date girls and she has never given me any reason to believe that she WANTS me to kiss her lol. I’m in just as much of a screwy situation since I like her a ton but I don’t know how to tell her I do, so clearly I’m not the guru on relationship advice lol.
The best I can say to both of us is probably just be open and tell them how we feel. Easier said than done I know, but better than the guessing games and worrying yourself sick over it right?
August 28th, 2009 at 12:43 pm
Aquarius now has me totally confused. After calling me every day, sometimes a couple times a day for several weeks and lots of meeting, we had a very nice date followed by lunch the following day, more calls, then … sudden silence. I did miss two calls in one day but reciprocated with one the following day in an effort to show I wasn’t avoiding him. He missed it but called back immediately, and now … nothing.
August 28th, 2009 at 6:58 pm
Gemina,
OMG….mine did the EXACT SAME THING…literally. We saw each other ALL THE time, spent hours upon hours together (although nothing physical),and then he kind of stopped calling, maybe called once in like 2 weeks. Then he called Fri night and I picked up and said I was out with friends and Sat night he called again and I texted him saying I am out with friends. Then I called him back Sunday. He didn’t pick up, but called me back several hours later, and we talked for about 40 min and then he had to go. And then I don’t hear from him for over a week, and then he randomply messages me online saying something about his class…then yesterday I saw him out and after everyone else, we ended up talking….but I think I annoyed the hell out of him by pushing his buttons a bit…whatever…i guess he’s not really into me, so I am kind of over it.
August 29th, 2009 at 10:23 pm
I have chased after two Aquarius girls (I’m a Gemini guy) and nothing happened with them. We hung out a few times but only a kiss from one of the girls. No relationship, no sex.
I’ve been most successful/compatible with Sagittarius, Leo and Aries girls.
August 31st, 2009 at 9:19 pm
Haz - any opinion?
September 1st, 2009 at 4:55 am
Hey Tek,
What happened with the girl? I’ve been watching this page for weeks now waiting to find out?
I’m so curious because I’ve been in almost the exact some position (well, she didnt like girls). I’m the gemini and she was Aqua. WE started as friends who talked every day and she was wildest, funniest and most fun person i have ever met. Her humour, like you guys, was nuts. Totally un PC, always at the worse possible timing and totally laugh out loud. I’ve never met anyone like that.
God i miss her.
Tek, i say go for it mate! if its this good at the friends stage, man, imagine it if you were a couple. You only get a few chances in life before it all passes you buy.
September 1st, 2009 at 1:11 pm
Hey Gemgirl..
I have one idea what it could be and I think it may well be FEAR. I find it highly unusual how he has never tried anything physical with you even after your long chats and you stopping by at his house for so long… I think an aqua guy at that would be comfortable to make a move on a girl he likes.
But if I was to focus more specifically on your guy then, it appears that he may have just been alittle scared and needed alittle encouragement, instead of waiting for him to make the move, why didnt you just get the ball rolling. That might have sent him the confidence boost he needed. BUT… then again, as well as fear maybe he was still not ready to try anything with you, as he might have felt safe just playing as friends. Aquarius and Gemini are the best match in the zodiac since they have so much respect for each other, but it can be alittle hard to get the relationship started in full power. These two signs need a kick, in order for a proper relationship to start. I think maybe it could be a mixture of fear and him playing it safe with you. But i definately think he had MAJOR feelings for you.
Now approaching the issue of him going off you all of a sudden, maybe he feels he is not getting the right attention from you, I mean not answering his calls and always being with friends when he does call. He might feel alittle isolated, and might feel that you have no interest in him, thats probably why he has backed off himself.
You said that you spoke to him.. once in person after meeting a couple of friendds, did nothing happen? Did he not ask questions? Not give you a hug or show any form off affection?
And you said that you pushed his buttons .. and he got annoyed.. why? Was it you who annoyed him? …
WRITE BACK SOON
Peace
Haz 91
September 1st, 2009 at 2:42 pm
Haz,
I think that we both annoyed each other and kind pushed each other’s buttons in a flirtacious kind of way….i dont think he got mad b/c yesterday he messaged me online again while he was bored in a grad school class…we talked a little, he asked about my weekend and I asked about his and that was about it….i think he put his arm around me, but i think that’s b/c he was drunk….i dont know….i was over his house numerous times…what encouragement does he need? Plus I dont know….i dont feel like he’s interested anymore….he messaged me for example but he never says anymore “lets get together” and he stopped calling….i think he just messaged me b/c he was bored in class….he’s not stupid, he can figure out that I am interested if I spend sooo much time with him. And I remember reading that aquas dont want somebody who doesnt have a life of their own, so i never want to seem like I dont have friends or a life and am waiting for him….
I dont know…..he confuses me beyond belief….interested or not? does he just want to be friends? then why spend sooo much time with me initially and then fall off this planet? Arghhhh…..
Opinions? Ideas?
September 1st, 2009 at 2:59 pm
oh and another thing….I actually invited him to a museum once and he said that he was busy w/ work and “maybe next week? and that never came about…..so it’s not like I am always with friends and say no to him…..he just simply stopped inviting me places.
September 1st, 2009 at 7:08 pm
Here goes….. I’m a Gemini woman, met an Aries guy about 2 months ago. I ran into him a few weeks after we met and we hooked up….WOW!!!…we then texted off/on for another couple of weeks then he wanted to hang out. We had a nice afternoon at the river near his house, then went back to the house and hooked up again…again WOW!! that was about 3 weeks ago. We are still texting but he always seems to be unavailable. I asked him if I should stop “bugging” him, and he said “no, I didn’t say that”…He does have a stressfull job with rotating hrs. so I understand that is part of it. BUT, there doesn’t seem to be much effort on his part. He is much younger that I am so maybe I’m expecting something I shouldn’t???? help
September 2nd, 2009 at 4:54 am
Haz, I tend to think the same as you, that it is quite possibly fear with Gemgirl’s Aquarian as well as mine. I have heard from him several times since the “silence” and have seen him again as well. To be honest, I’m glad that he did draw back a little. Not that I have fear but that I’m just not ready for anything serious quite yet, and being in daily contact may have sped things up. At this time in my life, cautious is better, especially since I’m just not quite sure how I feel about him, and don’t want any feelings confused with my having had this long-time crush from when we were just acquaintances. Still, while it seems he’s interested “in” me, it doesn’t feel like he’s interested “about” me. Not sure if that makes sense to anyone…
And I’m sure you are entirely right about that needed “kick”, lol, a kick-start, that is.
September 2nd, 2009 at 1:24 pm
Hi guys…
Okay firstly, to Gemgirl, I think maybe you need to stop and keep this relationship to just a friendship level, because obvioulsy this Aquarian is taking his time to progress into a relationship with you. I mean the fact that you actually invited him to a museum and he said ‘no’; shows that this Aquarian needs to be left ALONE … because he is not really making an effort on his part. I think it is better if you stay as JUST friends because both of you are confusing each other if you ask me, I mean he calls you and you are never available, and then you call him and he is never available, this relationship is better left as friends, don’t finish it completely and not be friends with him at all, because then that would be stupid, friendship is VERY important to Aquarians. I would say keep it as friends, and see what happens… ?
Gemina,
Hi, :),
I think you have made the right move by keeping your relationship with this Aquarians at a distance. Because your right rushing into it can end up being a big mistake, as the Aquarian can suddenly back out and leave the Gemini hanging there. So smart move on your behalf.
Also about the interested in you and not about you, I think I understand where you are coming from. I mean I think what you are trying to say is that he seems interested in you romantically but he doesn’t seem to be interested about you as a person… Am I right?
Btw, when is your birthday and your Aqua mans birthday?
Peace to you both
Haz91
x
September 2nd, 2009 at 6:23 pm
Hey All
I’m an Aquarius female currently in a relationship with a Gemini for about 6 months now, our physical chemistry is 90%, emotional bond is 77% & mental connection=0.0000137%
here are the pros and cons
Pros:
he is very playful & light hearted
Amazing in bed, has no limits
makes me laugh
knows just how to dissolve our tensions
always tries to avoid conflict
gives me complete freedom
caring, generous & extremely patient
Cons:
too Childish
shallow minded
superficial
somewhat sneaky
protective of his secrets
unambitious
thoughtless
I’d love to stay with him for the sake of the laughter, happiness & the playful flirtatious nature of our relationship. However I find that our relationship lacks depths and meaning, its far too simple & the intimacy feels casual for my taste. I crave that mental stimulation in the form intellectual conversations don’t get me wrong I enjoy the cute pillow talks & watching action/comedy movies while cuddling with him. Yet I’m considering looking elsewhere, any advice/counsel will be much appreciated.
God Bless
September 5th, 2009 at 5:21 am
Dear Sihaya,
I am in the EXACT same situation as you. I am an Aquarius female dating my Gemini male for like almost 3 years. It has been amazing but I totally relate to your pros and cons. He is an amazing boyfriend and he’s so caring and generous and he knows how to make me smile. But sometimes I find him too immature and I just want him to grow up and talk to me about politics or how to save the world lol.
I have to say, I have thought of about 100 different ways to break up with him because I don’t want to just play his games all the time. But yet I am still reeled in. I think its because he has the ability to learn and grow (or change which is their main trait), but it has to be at his own pace. I know Aquarians tend to be in their own heads and because they spend so much time thinking, their mental developments are quite advanced. But I realized that he also has this mental capacity, but it has to be on his own time.
From my experience, its best to ENCOURAGE your Gemini. Not demean him or make him feel stupid and immature because it will make things worse. I think that if you give him hints and tell him what you want (like what you want to talk about), he will start to understand and he will always try to make it work. Before, I used to just get upset at my Gemini for not talking about certain things, and really, I got mad before giving him a chance. Now, I just give him reassurance, or even bring up interesting things that spark his attention and as a result, I find he just naturally gravitates to me and opens up in that intellectual way that you are craving. Just today he asked, “what’s on your mind?” and I replied, “contemplating about how your life’s circumstances shape your life” and he just LOLOLOLOL’ed and was so fascinated and really got into it. I never got him to do this before but now, he’s more enthusiastic and wants to pick at my brain, which gets me quite excited! So try not to be a rain cloud, I find that he hates when I’m a downer, just be happy because you are LUCKY to have him. Sometimes I feel like a fool when I complain about him but he’s really fantastic.
But I guess it depends really on how much you like him. If you think its worth it and you stay patient, it will work. If you decide to break it off, then I believe you have also made the right decision.
I hope you can relate to my personal experiences. I’m still with my Gemini, love him to pieces and I’m curious as to how it goes
- Ruth
September 9th, 2009 at 8:37 pm
I was married at 20&have a 14 y/0 daughter,marriage was a disaster and I was single for about 4 years after and I met this Aquarius who was the best thing that ever happened to me. We were together 3 years and I got on great with him and his fam. I think he is the only man who was really ever able to tolerate me and was so patient and we hardly fought and sex was great. But you know once us Gem girls get something in our heads. I started to feel the relationship was going nowhere and my latin family was meddlesome as well and insisted I was wasting my time b/c he did not want to marry, I ended up going a bit nuts and cheated on him when i was in turmoil finishing nursing school. He said I was the luv of his life but if I could not tell him that he was the love of mine then he rather end it and I STUPIDLY DID! We broke up in 04 and I have not found any1 else I have been serious with since. Have dated of course.b/w 04-08 we saw eachother 2 or 3 times a year and usu. wound up in bed together. He had another g/f for 3 years in the end they did not work out. But now he has a new1 he has been with for a year. She is a leo. I was hurt he chose to pursue a new realtionship after knowing my feelings and last time he tried to see me which was back in March I think, I told him he needed to make things work with that girl and it was best we did not see eachother.I feel I should leave him be to be happy but there is a pt of me that longs for the way things used to be. I know its odd but I can “feel” him thinking of me s/t. & it hurts. I miss him, but i don’t wanna be the booty girl.I want him to realize he wants to be with me. I miss talking to him. I txt him recently like a week ago and he did not respond. I think he is just bing a jerk because part of him feels for me but another part wants revenge. But anyway, is it wrong to want him in my life? Do you think there is a chance he may ever see me as relationship material aGAIN?Once we spoke of it & he siad he did not want to revisit that, but, still i think he is just scared.
September 9th, 2009 at 8:40 pm
By the way, congrats on the Site. I love it and spend many (too many) hours reading the posts and your articles. You are truly Gifted Becky!
I have another question. If I want a chart done by you …do i have to know my exact birth time?
Love And Light!
Amethyst
September 9th, 2009 at 9:25 pm
I think this will be of interest
Over two and a half years ago I was sitting in a bar with my then Virgo partner of the time when I happened to see this lovely blonde haired man sitting at the end of the bar, I was transfixed. I knew then that I wanted to get to know him and being a Gemini I thought I probably will but I was in a relationship so it would have to wait.
A year and a half passed by and it was all over with my Virgo man but one day I walked into another bar and who was sitting there but the blonde haired man, somehow we got talking and then we swapped numbers and then we had the odd occasional drink before we both went our own separate ways and disappeared into the mist.
The Months went by it was now June and by chance walking near my home I unexpectedly bumped into blonde man, we got talking again and we then went for a hot chocolate in a café near my home, I remember asking him to close his eyes and then open them revealing a huge hot chocolate embellished with whipped cream.
I asked the owner of the building if I could take Paul (blonde man) up to see the old St Andrews church above which is under lock and key but once inside its magical, it is like a jewelry box all cherubs and gold leaf and has a huge clock on the wall and an old clock tower above. Inside played around with my voice with the acoustics of the hall and we we had some fun.
Once outside I said goodbye in an awkward kind of way and again we both disappeared in different directions into the mist.
That June I left for Egypt for a few weeks and I had a few love entanglements to sort out and my trip helped me deal with some of my emotional baggage and shadows. When I returned form Egypt in July I was a bit of an emotional mess and knew I needed time out but somewhere along the line I sent Paul a txt but I got no reply and I forgot all about it then the next thing I knew my phone was busted and all my numbers were lost including Paul’s i had in all honesty become very much the flirty Gemini of old and the men seemed to come and go.
One day by chance I was told by a medium that I would enter into a relationship in Sept so I was very curious.
September came around and I had managed to clear my head of the shadows of some relationships that were dead wood and I was feeling good again and when i was out with some friends I got a txt message.
“Hi im just back from the US I think you txt before I left but I never managed to txt you back!”
Having lost all my numbers on my phone I had no idea who it was so a number of txt messages later i started to form a picture, “Hi its Paul with the blonde hair, yeh I met you last year and I ran into you in June, we went for a hot chocolate in a bar underneath St Andrews church.
Having guessed who it was I got another txt that he was on his way to Glasgow and did i want to meet me in 20 minutes in the pub. I said yes, and I was even more curious.
Paul then appeared and we got on well and went round a few different places but I noticed it was becoming more intimate locations each time, one being a balcony with no’ one else there and then later to a very intimate place and we sat together in a booth, the next thing I knew his hand was in mine and we kissed.
We had finally embraced each other almost 3 years after I first laid eyes on him.
We got some pizza and then headed home to my place and holding food to each other we were eating out of each other hands.
We spoke about our trips away and I said it was my birthday when I was away in Egypt so I asked when his birthday was and he said February 9th making him a water bearer.
The next day we had a lovely peaceful time wandering from one place to another, we looked at books of old Glasgow and one of the pictures was of an old bar from the 1930s which is still there to this day, so I said do you want to go to it and we went, he seemed to smile a lot.
Early evening in the lovely art deco Rogano bar Paul asked, “Would you like to meet again next Saturday same time? I said “yeh!”
Walking him to his train on Sunday night and onto the platform I started to say goodbye when he kissed me on the lips we both said goodbye and he would txt me, we waved goodbye.
I then txt him saying “Safe journey home I had a nice night and a nice day” what seemed like hours went by then a txt came in “Hi got home safely, I had a good day as well”
It was Sunday and I decided not to txt him for a few day’s he has been quiet too.
What do you think is going on with this Gemini, Aquarius mystery? CAN ANYONE SHED ANY LIGHT?
September 10th, 2009 at 6:30 am
Hi there Amethyst,
Thank you for your lovely kind words, I am glad you are enjoying the site
As for the birth time, it always helps to have the exact time of birth but is not essential, not everyone does know this piece of information so we take it from the closest time or midnight and this is usually very accurate from what I have found from making others charts. Email me if you would like to find out more.
Love & Light
Becky
September 10th, 2009 at 2:44 pm
I wonder if anyone, (Becky i know your writing) can give me their thoughts on my post on Kevin McGarrigle on September 9th, 2009 at 9:25 pm
Cheers Kev
September 12th, 2009 at 12:15 am
Thanks Ruth (post 5 september 2009)i’m an aquarius girl, it’s VERY important to understand how does ur gemini’s mind work ,its best to support him Not demean him coz really it will make things worse.
be certain that ur Gemini can be the best person u r never meet (for aquarius)
September 17th, 2009 at 4:06 pm
BECKY- What do you think:
“HE FOUND ME”- umm- what was his name? Your story is so close to mine it’s not funny. Mine found me in July after 18 years. Lovers from the start, we had a long distance relationship when I was too busy for other men. It worked out great, but I let him go after about a year.
He found me and we’ve been talking the past 2 months; rekindled, but we are both dealing with bad marriages (he, the Gemini) and I the Aquarius. I’m finishing up and he’s at the beginning of the end -staying for the kids-but all hasn’t filed yet, after almost a year of in-house separation. It’s weird that our lives have been strangely parallel for the past 18 years. It’s still long distance for us, but, maybe a little prematurely am ready to be the one to move his way, (never thought I’d say that). We’ve not yet met in person, but emailed pics and still have an attraction out of this world. I’m in love with his heart.
I promised I’d wait. I think it’ll be well worth it. We are working on our friendship, and yes, it’s the deepest relationship I’ve had with a man. I never believed in this stuff before so much… I do believe we are soul mates, after giving up on that years ago. I feel alive again! Just have to be patient and understanding.
September 18th, 2009 at 12:56 am
Becky-where did the entry for “he found me” go? It was just here today!
September 19th, 2009 at 2:03 pm
I am a gem woman I have just met my first aqua man. The chemistry between us was instant. We have met up a few times, he has taken me out and I have been to his home a few times. He is very kind and makes me feel special.We make love on our fourth date it was soo sensual, and we spent the day together with him telling me personal things about himself, and his future business plans. He is very busy and we cant always see each other. I am smitten, and I feel he has worked out that I wear my heart on my sleeve. I would really like this relationship to work, I was married to a very cold Tarus, who nearly destroyed me emotionally. I feel very calm when I am with him and I know I can give him the space he needs. He prepares meals for me and ran a bath for me, we talk for hours, I just want to know if you think he really likes me. He lost my number off his phone and made sure he managed to get a message to me to explain.
September 20th, 2009 at 1:03 am
hi becky , i’m a gem and hes an aqua, its sorta new and he just wants to be friends . and i hope not for ever god i have needs. LOL i see the way he looks at me . and i’ll tell you i have never looked at my male friends that way. he wont tell me how he feels its just driving me mad . What do you think . Thanks so much for this sight its everything and so accurate its freaky.
September 23rd, 2009 at 5:25 am
Hello, Becky.
I am an Asian and I never thought that I would be writing on this site until I read all those comments about the Gem Male-Aqua Fem experiences.I’m also an Aqua female and hope to be involved with a Gemini guy. He was a high school classmate and was my crush. I don’t know if this was fate that we met again after 37 years and that both of us have broken relationships. We just met again 3 months ago.I knew that when I saw him again that he is the man I really wanted all my life. But he is so puzzling. I don’t know what he really wants from me and I do not know how to handle him nor the situation. How do I read his thoughts? Does a Gemini hides how he feels because of his fear of rejection. I know being an Aqua, I don’t show my affection and that I appear so cold.
THETA
September 23rd, 2009 at 10:00 pm
Hello Everyone,
I’m am Aqua male (9 Febr) and I’ve been reading this forum on Gem-Aqua relationship for a few months now. My little Gem love (27 May) and I have been together for six months now and I’d like to share some of my experiences. It goes by the book or we can say almost as it is described here above. Since we’ve been together things are just happening, accindental miracles are lurking around every corner, birds and butterflies are hovering above our lives. We have our own language that nobody can understand, we can almost read each other’s mind (it really happened a few times), sense one another from afar, and never never get bored when we are together despite the fact that otherwise we are absolutely different almost in everything and have a very few serious subjects to discuss. (Do not ask me what we talk about I don’t know, but it is pure joy.) It’s all just like in ‘All I Need is the Air that I Breath’ by the Hollies. This magic works around us as well. People who see us together are drawn into our relationship, try to potect and help us (we have quite a few problems here and there which I wouldn’t describe here). Complete strangers marvel at the way we look at each other and although for some reasons we try to keep our relationsip in secret it is almost impossible. I was in love a couple of times but this is my first Gem-Aqua relationship (and the last one as well for we wouldn’t like to give it up for another million years or so). As an Aqua male I just can’t stop wondering how on Earth I could get so deep in a love like this. She is just simply the one I have always dreamt of, the most wonderfull creature in the world. Of course sometimes it’s not easy. She has not only two, but I’d say more than five different personalities. I had to learn to deal with them, to back of sometimes and wait till the thunder is over. The most interesting part of it is that although in the past I could get very romantic sometimes but most of the time I was a kind of a thinker, a it cold headed philosopher, now from time to time I am more emotional than her. (I’m getting old probably :), but apart from the joke I could really die for her.) From the comments above it seems to me that the male Aqua- female Gem relationships are quite different than vice versa and work a little better dispite the fact that women and Gems usually tend to be more emotional than men and Aquas.
Thanks for reading it and have a nice day. Comments are welcome.
September 25th, 2009 at 4:56 pm
Hey Gemini girl and Mug,
When are your birthdays and when are your aqua boys birthdays?
September 25th, 2009 at 5:00 pm
Hi Maybeetle,
I am happy that you are enjoying your relationship with your Gem girl. But I have two questions on my mind.
The first is what zodiac signs where the woman from your past relationship?
The second was, you said that in your relationship you can get romantic sometimes with your Gem, do you find that hard because water bearers do find it hard to be the sentimental type.?
September 27th, 2009 at 2:19 pm
Hi Haz,
First things first, about my past relationships. I had a quite long (6y) relatiobship with an Aries, then a shorter (2y) with another Aries folowed by a Libra (5y), and just finished a suffering of 4 years with a Saggitarius. The Aries relationsips worked quite well with me as well as the Libra - with whom I had a really fantastic mental, but not too emotional - but all all of them were light years away from the happiness I have now. I also have to admit that I never really took this “who mathches whom” astrology very seriously but my present situation forced me to think over my prejudices.
Second, I don’t exactly try to suggest that water bearers find it hard to be the sentimental. I only think they have a kind of a global mind with all those world-saviour ideas and their thoughts cannot stick easily at one subject or person. Before this relationship, I was oftem blamed to have concentrated more on the sorrow of the world than on my partners’ need. Actually it might have been true. Altought poems, books, politics, science, etc. still interest me a lot, but now most of my thoughts are about her. And it’s not a conscious decision or like. It’s just something that I cannot explain. I haven’t stopped dealing with all other things, they just bear less importance then before.
By the way what, is there anything you can tell about us from our birthdates (27 May, 9 February)?
MB
September 28th, 2009 at 1:47 pm
his is jan 29 mine is june 17
September 28th, 2009 at 3:47 pm
Update from Sept 9th Something of interest
Just to update you all on the gemini male and Aquarius male situation.I have found myself in a situation were Paul Aquarian has been coming through to see me for a few weeks now.On Saturday he came through to visit and i noticed he put a bag in the the toilet i later looked and it was his toothbrush and paste, so i thought he must be staying lol We had a nice weekend together again.
Sunday evening we spoke about what we want from a relationship and it was the first real time he had gone there, he mentioned that he had liked me from some time back but was in a realtionship was was i, so we both liked each other but didn’t say anything and we both had came out of relationships around a year ago so it all seems to make sense now.
This has been a few weeks now staying over or the odd meet up but i have a few nagging questions. Aquarius man seems to go away and doesnt really keep in touch until he has nearly arrived on my doorstep,and we dont speak on the phone as yet, is this normal aquarian behavior? We had a real test last night when we were about to leave for his train when my door went and it was one of the dead wood realationship a Virgo who came in and was all sorry and trying to be nice.
When he saw Paul he said is he your new Boyfriend? I said im saying nothing.I had a saga to deal with and outside Aquarius man said we could meet up not this weekend but the following week. When he left i thought he wont be in touch again after an ex appearing at my door.
I got a message from him today but i feel a bit more communication would not go amis.
September 28th, 2009 at 9:07 pm
thank you!. your writing has made my day. i am aquarius and everything you have siad is soo ture even the fights! i was just woundering if the aquarius and gemni have anything to do with gay and stright as well as how these to signs find each other.
thank you and your readings ae veary interesting!
September 29th, 2009 at 10:48 pm
Hi Mathew
What comment are you refering to is it my storey on the gay gemini and aquarius relationship?
September 30th, 2009 at 8:56 pm
So I met this girl when I got to school and well she’s my big sister on the basketball team I play on. I knew from the start that we would “hit it off”. The second she spoke Spanish to me I got an orgasm. I was wondering though…I’m a female as well. She’s an aquarius and I am a Gemini. WIll it still workout? I’m planning on sharing my feelings with her at the dance she invited me to this weekend. Should i propose? PLEASE GIVE ME SOME ADVICE!!!!
September 30th, 2009 at 9:07 pm
hello everyone,
i have a dilemma. im an aquarius female involved with a gemini male. we’re not in a relationship but was dating for a few months. we still keep in contact but on an almost weekly basis.
i guess we’re in a bad situation because he’s leaving for bootcamp and had told me he does not want to get attached because of the fact that he is leaving. (he doesn’t want to hurt himself nor myself).
he is a party animal. he parties literally almost everyday. he only expresses his emotions when he is intoxicated. when he is sober, he does not bring it up. when i confront him when he is sober, he doesn’t deny it but just brushes it off like it wasn’t important.
being that im an aquarius, i don’t like to show my emotions either. so i have a hard time opening up. i guess i haven’t because i’m afraid of rejection. but i guess the reason why i’m still trying to pursue this, is because i don’t want to have to look back and wonder “what if?” we’ve been talking for several months now and i feel like the closer he is to leaving, the worse it gets. we’re drifting apart and it’s tearing me up.
it’s not often that i fall for someone this hard. i’m usually good at keeping my guard up. also, i guess it has to do with the fact that im a strong believer of zodiac compatibility and this is the first time i’ve fallen for a gemini which is one of my perfect matches. but i do tend to over analyze which meddles with my relationships. i don’t know how to be spontaneous i tend to plan ahead.
how do i get him to tell me his true feelings sober? and do you feel that when he drinks, it gives him liquid courage? since they do say alcohol is a truth serum. i just don’t want to feel disappointed later finding out that he was full of bs and leading me on. i do have to admit though, he does not lie like most gemini guys. he’s pretty straight up about everything even if they come off harsh. which i respect since i myself am very truthful.
so, i’m hoping to get some feedback from everyone on this site who might have had similar experience as mine.
thanks,
confused aqua girl
October 2nd, 2009 at 12:05 am
Wow, this site blew me away. The connection btw gemini man and aquarius woman is DEEP. From reading these posts I can tell that other people have the same experiences. I think that Gemini men have strong connections with libra, LEO(Definately), aries, and saggs women. But since is the aqua. section, i’ll comment on this one. My main question is HOW CAN I WIN THIS AQUARIUS FEMALE BACK???!!! It started back in Decemeber 2007. We worked at the same job, and even though we were in different departments, we had a deep mental connection. I could feel her stare at me, and even when I would try to look at her in secret, she would catch me and stare back at me. Finally I worked up the courage to talk to her, and we connected right away. Right when things seems to be falling into place, she went back to college. I messaged her on facebook, and asked her if I could send her a letter. She said yes, was excited, and gave me her address. She never wrote me back, and when she came back for summer 2008, she said she wrote me back, but I never got the letter for some reasons. I was so heart broke by that, because I would check the mail everyday and still got nothing from her. But at work, we would still talk and take lunches together. One thing I can agree with is that gemini and aquarius seem to know what each other think. Is it to early to say I I was in love with her? Well I was, because I wanted her so bad that I would try my hardest to do the right things just so I could not lose her. I think she could sense that, because to ease my tension she wanted to kiss me. One time she was so close to my face I could feel her breath on my face. Did I connect, NO. I was scared mainly because of it being in the work place. Well eventually the summer ended and she went back to school, and sure enough she found someone new. I was so heartbroke, like I never felt anything like this since I had broke up with my libra gf of 3.5 years. The only difference was this pain lasted alot longer, and I was never with her. She told me we could not date because we never talked enough and we never would see each other. She wanted to date me but I never did anything to show I felt the same. We would message time and time after that. This summer, she told me we would be in town and she wanted to go to lunch with me, but she never hit me up. I guess my impatient gemini nature came out, so I messaged her a random question. I asked next time I see her could we kiss. She said random and kind of creepy, but she liked it and said she liked my honesty and directness. She said she wasn’t looking for anyone to kiss right now. SO EMBARRASSING!!! WHAT CAN I DO TO WIN THIS AQUARIUS FEMALE???
October 5th, 2009 at 12:57 am
This is a repost but I was hoping for some feedback from my fellow bloggers. I was married at 20&have a 14 y/0 daughter,marriage was a disaster and I was single for about 4 years after and I met this Aquarius who was the best thing that ever happened to me. We were together 3 years and I got on great with him and his fam. I think he is the only man who was really ever able to tolerate me and was so patient and we hardly fought and sex was great. But you know once us Gem girls get something in our heads. I started to feel the relationship was going nowhere and my latin family was meddlesome as well and insisted I was wasting my time b/c he did not want to marry, I ended up going a bit nuts and cheated on him when i was in turmoil finishing nursing school. He said I was the luv of his life but if I could not tell him that he was the love of mine then he rather end it and I STUPIDLY DID! We broke up in 04 and I have not found any1 else I have been serious with since. Have dated of course.b/w 04-08 we saw eachother 2 or 3 times a year and usu. wound up in bed together. He had another g/f for 3 years in the end they did not work out. But now he has a new1 he has been with for a year. She is a leo. I was hurt he chose to pursue a new realtionship after knowing my feelings and last time he tried to see me which was back in March I think, I told him he needed to make things work with that girl and it was best we did not see eachother.I feel I should leave him be to be happy but there is a pt of me that longs for the way things used to be. I know its odd but I can “feel” him thinking of me s/t. & it hurts. I miss him, but i don’t wanna be the booty girl.I want him to realize he wants to be with me. I miss talking to him. I txt him recently like a week ago and he did not respond. I think he is just bing a jerk because part of him feels for me but another part wants revenge. But anyway, is it wrong to want him in my life? Do you think there is a chance he may ever see me as relationship material aGAIN?Once we spoke of it & he siad he did not want to revisit that, but, still i think he is just scared. I know I have to move on he seems happy with his Leo girl, but s/t tells me in the end she is too bossy for him. He likes to be in control and that is how things were with us. But this girl has even jokingly posted on FB that “SHE” is the boss in the relationship (we have a couple of mutual friends) I guess I will hAve to LET TIME TELL! But the fact that when I rejected his invite he hasn’t again tried to see me in over a year may be a clear sign he has not interest in me.
October 5th, 2009 at 7:42 pm
Hey Amethyst,
I am going to be brutally honest with you. I think you need to leave him alone, let him carry on with his life. As you stated, it was you who cheated on him, so how can you expect him to come running back into your arms :S.
You said the reason for you moving on and cheating on him was because things were moving at a slow pace. Therefore, you decided to take matters into your own hands.
I think you need to let him be, he is obviously happy with this Leo girl. You should be happy for him too, I know you still have strong feelings for him, but let me tell you something, once an Aquarians heart has been broken, it is very hard to make ammends with it. Even if you are a Gemini, Aquarius and Gemini are the best match in the zodiac, but it hurts a million times harder when a Gemini hurts the Aquarius. Therefore, I think the sensible thing to do is let him pursue this relationship.
You need to give him space to breath, and when he is ready he will make means of communication with you. Patience is a virtue. :).
I hope this helped…
BTW when is your birthday and when is your Aquarius mans bday?
xxx
Take care and repy back
October 14th, 2009 at 4:54 pm
Hello All,
Ok I’m an Aquarius female and I need help on this whole connection thing between these two signs.I would like to know if any of you know how far it goes, I know I feel it through my bones, I feel when he’s there, when he’s coming, everything, it’s so weird. and well I just wanted to know how much he feels??
I hope you all can help
October 14th, 2009 at 8:36 pm
Hey Daisy,
Well i’m a Gemini man, and I can tell you that the connection between aquarius and gemini is DEEP. It’s crazy how we can sense and feel each other and what we want, how we want it. All I can say is keep the gemini man guessing, give him praise because we can feel on a all time high at one point and than feel low the next. I know I feel like that because I always feel that I can do something better. I don’t know, it’s like we are connected mentally and can read each other. There was one aquarius female I know at my job, she is long gone now, but I could feel such a deep connection with her. I can feel when she is near, or I can feel when she senses I am in danger, or harm. Everything. Its so real but it puts me at peace with my soul because I know that the presence is so close and near. If your getting ready to date a Gemini man, don’t be alarmed by the arguments. They will be intense, but it’s funny how quick they get cleaned up and than it seems as if it never happened. I can tell you right now that Aquarius and Gemini are the best match on the zodiac hands down.(than gemini and libra, gemini and leo.)
October 16th, 2009 at 7:38 pm
@Amethyst
Hi there,
Hmm…I read ur story. I am in a somewhat similar situation (Im Aqua)but with a scorp girl.
Can I still look at her as gf material? Hmm.. I am sure he will be angry and would want revenge. I dont agree when people say aquas are not revngful. We dont express our anger or any feelings and they keep accumulated and then come out in covert ways. Like he might be knowing that ur interested in dating him again but he wont respond to it, he is thinking u dont get to choose everything. U dropped him and then now, just say sorry and expect him to come back to you. Thts not fair. To be honest I dont think he will stick with a Leo, I cant stand a bossy girlfriend. If i am offered a request I will sure follow it but not an order.
So now for u, i think, u should show that ur genuinely sorry for what happend in past. U should explain what u were going through and tell him that u never loved anybody else like u did to him. U can put thoughts on paper if u cant say to him on face but its important that u explain and tell him that he is the only one u love. I think that should work..
Best Luck.
October 17th, 2009 at 1:54 pm
Hi becky,
Im an aquarius who met a guy who I would have never given a chance(to even talk to me), and did without even knowing why. After not to long we were hanging and havin fun like we were the best of friends, almost like me and my bff and nobody had or has ever gotten that close to me before(besides my bff). We seemed to be inceprable at first and I found myself fallin for him and being content when I saw him happy and enjoyed making him happy. Is there a such think as an aquarius and gemini missing their moment. We’ve been friends for 2.5 years now and I know my gemini loves me but he says he’s not in love with me and I find myself loving him and still being in love with him. Withinthis 2.5 year period in my attempt to get over and away from my gemini I had the hardest time, id be with someone else and jus can’t stop thinking of what he was doing, would think of what I was doin, or even when someone promising and nice come along my gemini would pop up out of nowhere and I don’t know what to do(you were right about our bond, I could be in a fun and he’d call and he’d be like jus had a feelin - I never understood it till I read it here). My gemini gets very very jealous when he sees me with another guy and completly flips if it seems to be someone who wants to be romantic with me, im not gonna lie I get jealous when he’s with girls and you were on about them being flirts. Recently he got into a relationship with an ex that I knew wasn’t gonna work out, but it started while I was away workin this past summer…it ended but totally disrupted how our friendship was we just got it back to where it was. I really don’t know what I should do about him…im at a loss.
October 18th, 2009 at 6:39 am
Hi Becky,
I am friends with this Aquarius girl who had broken off with her bf one year back..i really like her and keep on thinking about her.we are good friends, and i think she likes me as well. she always says im perfect for her..but somewhere she is not ready to come out of her past..what should i do..coz after sometime i loose my patience
October 18th, 2009 at 7:16 pm
Thanks for the advice lblock87!! But I have another question that I would like anyone to answer. Do you think it’s possible to just have one Aqua Gem connection?? What i’m saying is take for example, me being an aquarius and being really strongly connected and attracted to a gemini guy can I also have this same strong connection w/ a different gemini guy?? just wondering…
October 22nd, 2009 at 10:44 pm
hello everyone,
i have a dilemma. im an aquarius female involved with a gemini male. we’re not in a relationship but was dating for a few months. we still keep in contact but on an almost weekly basis.
i guess we’re in a bad situation because he’s leaving for bootcamp and had told me he does not want to get attached because of the fact that he is leaving. (he doesn’t want to hurt himself nor myself).
he is a party animal. he parties literally almost everyday. he only expresses his emotions when he is intoxicated. when he is sober, he does not bring it up. when i confront him when he is sober, he doesn’t deny it but just brushes it off like it wasn’t important.
being that im an aquarius, i don’t like to show my emotions either. so i have a hard time opening up. i guess i haven’t because i’m afraid of rejection. but i guess the reason why i’m still trying to pursue this, is because i don’t want to have to look back and wonder “what if?” we’ve been talking for several months now and i feel like the closer he is to leaving, the worse it gets. we’re drifting apart and it’s tearing me up.
it’s not often that i fall for someone this hard. i’m usually good at keeping my guard up. also, i guess it has to do with the fact that im a strong believer of zodiac compatibility and this is the first time i’ve fallen for a gemini which is one of my perfect matches. but i do tend to over analyze which meddles with my relationships. i don’t know how to be spontaneous i tend to plan ahead.
how do i get him to tell me his true feelings sober? and do you feel that when he drinks, it gives him liquid courage? since they do say alcohol is a truth serum. i just don’t want to feel disappointed later finding out that he was full of bs and leading me on. i do have to admit though, he does not lie like most gemini guys. he’s pretty straight up about everything even if they come off harsh. which i respect since i myself am very truthful.
so, i’m hoping to get some feedback from everyone on this site who might have had similar experience as mine.
thanks,
confused aqua girl
October 23rd, 2009 at 5:51 pm
I HAVE A QUESTION I READ WHAT WAS SAID AS FAR AS A GEMINI & A CAPRICORN IT DOSE NOT MATCH HOW I FEEL FOR THIS MAN. I MET HIM ABOUT THREE WEEKS AGO BUT THE AQUAIUS & GEMINI COMPATIBILITY SOUNDS EXACTLLY LIKE US HIS B-DAY IS JAN 14TH IN MINE IS JUNE 5TH HE SEEMS MORE LIKE A AQUARIUS HOW CAN THIS BE HE’S NOTHING LIKE A CAPRICORN JUST LOOKIN FOR SOME ANSWERS CAN THAT HAPPEN I FEEL HE IS MY SOULMATE IN THIS SHORT AMOUNT OF TIME!
October 26th, 2009 at 7:16 am
Well, I’m a gem girl 6/13/66. He’s the aqua male 2/15/61. We work at the same job now for 10 years. He’s been there a little longer. We just started talking just last year for the first time because he would drop me off at the train station. So much has happened. I didn’t have cell phone at the time. He offered to put me on his plan. This was after 3 months of talking. I accepted. He asked me out. I went. About 3 months and a half we finally got physical. He never changed after that but continued to ask for more of my time and I accepted. We went out to movies, boat rides, out to eat (and everything we did was always the best). For my birthday he made arrangements for me to go the spa, took me to a 5 star restaurant and then out to dance, then a hotel stay for the night (my suggestion). This relationship has been so amazing to say the least. I feel like I can be comfortable and open. Our time has increased. As a matter of fact I now spend half of the weekend with him at his place. I prepare breakfast and dinner. We eat together at his place. Sleep in the same bed. Watch movies. We basically do what people do that are in a commited relationship. The only problem seems to be is that he doesn’t think it’s necessary to put a title on it. He told me that putting a title on it would only complicate things. The relationship would then require a responsability to commit time to it. I don’t get it. Were doing what a couple would do. If not a title then how about a verbal commitment. There is also some other things as well. For the past 2 months while at his place he has allowed me to use his laptop at his place. He has sat there with me when I use it and has left me on for long periods of time without any guarding like he had anything to hide. Just recently I checked out his photo album and noticed pictures of other women. Now at first take someone would say well he has the right to have pictures of other women but who is he with now. I thought the same thing at first. However these are pictures of women with a story. First, these pictures were taken in 2005 and 2007. Ok this is 2009 so what. Ok well these pictures were updated since Sept 19th of this year. Ok, but what is my point. The story behind one of them is a picture of a woman he used to carry on his i-touch phone he would let me use everyday to listen to music. I went into to different places on it and decided to check out his photo album. I saw this same woman. There were a total of 4 pictures of her sitting in what appeared to be her sitting in her car. One with her holding a animal and the other showing her posing naked. When he then was in my presence I made a gesture towards the photo album on the i-touch phone, he quickly took the phone from me and the following day all of her pictures were deleted. I never mentioned the picture because he deleted them. But now the same pictures of her are now on his laptop, all but the one with her posing naked, was just updated in September 19th. The other woman is one who he told me that he was also interested in talking to at our job. When we discussed her and any other woman at the job that I may have seen him with or may hear about him with (I guess) he said he was interested in her, but never had anything with her. Oh and he also added because she had a man at the time. She’s now married and has moved to another state, has a baby and a new life. She has been gone from this job now for about 2 years. But this is another person who he updated in his photo album since Sept 19. Tell me. Am I being over zealous about this? What should I do?
October 26th, 2009 at 3:20 pm
Hey guys, just a general question, any of you know the band Spice Girls.. well they arent that much of my favourite, but I was researching the band mates and Mel B (Melanie Brown) came up as a Gemini born May 29th … I went to research her husband Stephen Belafonte but couldnt find his birth date any where… can anyone tell me his birth date…. and what zodiac sign he might be.. ?
Thanks..
October 26th, 2009 at 8:57 pm
Confused Aqua girl
Maybe we could swap notes.
I read your storey and being a Gemini guy i thought i would say a few things.
I am currently seeing although im still not sure if i actually heard my Aquarius man say last week that he wanted us to be an item after 8 weeks of dating and 3 yrs after i first laid eyes on the guy.
It is interesting to note that my last aquarius relationship would always say that i only said i loved him when i was drunk, but we were on and off for 12 yrs. For some reason the new Aquarius thought i was being standofish although i feel my aquarius man disapears for days without a sound and for a communication junkie like myself its a strugle. I feel like you say you are not spontaneous and plan ahead which is the oppsosite of a Gemini like me who just does random things at the drop of a hat.
I am also a bit of a party animal having last night visited a vodka bar with a friend and ended up joining folk i didnt know, it just seems to be the way i am and i am sure Aquarius man if he saw me last night would disprove as he’s not a drinker.
The one thing i noticed was my aquarius doesnt open up much but recently or last week he did and it was all green for go, now i feel ive entered relationship land without the backup support of my aquarius man, why is that i hear you ask yourself? well its because he disapears for days.
I realise that aquarius does this but being a gEmini i like a steady trickle even just a hello txt would sufice.
Now the one thing i noted was that you give your Gemini man a grilling,,now i have been grilled by my previous partner (Aquarius) and i didnt like it one bit at all, i was mortified.
Maybe go a bit easier on your Gemini man and sent the odd random txt out of alighnment of your plan, maybe think of changing your wording as the same kind of messages can bore a Gemini but something to fire the mind may be better.
i suppose we need to stop treating our love interests as science projects and be a little more random or spontaneous.
Let me know what you think ive my posts i have some starting on the 9th Sept 09 which has detailed my aqua- gemini relationship.
Cheers
Kevin
October 27th, 2009 at 5:05 pm
OMG WOW EVERYTHING IS SO TRUE THAT MADE ME FEEL TO FIND MY GEMINI PARTNER AND MAKE OUT WITH HIM NOW!! LOL…. ANY WAYS I’M AQUARIUS FEMALE AND FALL IN LOVE WITH GEMINI MALE WHICH IS THE SUPER SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP I HAVE KNOWN AROUND ME SO FAR! WE ARE TOGETHER FOR 6 YEARS AND WE STILL HAVE THE FEELING OF A FIRST KISS FOR EACH OTHER! BUT ALSO ALL THIS YEARS WE BEEN TOGETHER WE HAD BEEN THROUGH A LOTS OF FIGHTS THAT WAS ALMOST THE END OF THE WORLD FOR ME OR HIM I GUESS. BUT NEVER WAS OF COARSE THE END. AND THE FUNNY PART IS THAT WHEN WE FIGHT WE GET CLOSER EVEN MORE. AND THE THING ABOUT SEX BETWEEN US IS REALLY BIG REASON WE GET BACK AFTER WE FIGHT. BUT THERE IS SOME STAFF THAT MAKES IT HARD FOR ME TO KEEP UP WITH MY GEMINI PARTNER, AND ITS THE WAY HE ACTS SOMETIMES “COLDED HEART”. AT THE BGINING I WAS TAKING IT VERY HARD BUT NOW THAT I KNOW HIM ITS EASY TO DEAL WITH HIM. BECOUSE WHEN GEMINI MALE HAVE FEELINGS FOR A AQUARIUS FEMALE HE MOST OF THE TIME GETS JALOUSE OR SCARED TO LOSS HER SO HE TRY TO MAKE A POINT WHERE AQUARIUS FEEL LONELY AND SAD, ITS NOT THAT GEMINI MALE ENJOYES TO SEE HER LIKE THIS, BUT HE DOESN’T WANT TO LOSE HER FOREVER THATS WHY HE SOMETIMES MAKE SURE SHE STILL HAVE THAT FEELING FOR HIM. ALSO IT MAKES GEMINI MALE HAPPY TO LISTEN TO THE AQUARIUS LOVE AND FEELING STORIES WHICH IS ABOUT HIM IN HER HEART.
AND AT LAST I JUST WANT TO SAY I DON’T THINK I COULD FIND ANYONE SWEETER THAN MY GEMINI PARTNER. I LOVE YOU HUN!!! KEEP IT UP ALL GEMINI AND AQUARIUS!!!!!!!!
AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR EXP; IT REALLY HELPES ME TO BE SURE OF ME AND MY PARTNER.
October 28th, 2009 at 9:11 am
I’m a Gemini Lady and i started talking to a Aquarius male. At first everything was great. We had good conversations and he even flirted with me. He invited me out a couple of times but i couldnt make it i was busy with work. Then as we started talking more he changed and started being all serious and teasing me playfully but mean at the same time. Then he would play if off and try to make me smile again. He offended me while he was teasing me again playfully and i pretty much told him to go away and he did like nothing. I’m sorry but Aquarius males are rude and cold. Not my match for sure.
October 30th, 2009 at 6:36 pm
HI EVERYONE!!!!
I started dating an Aquarius about 4 months back. I’m going to give an update on how we’ve been doing and how peculiar this pairing is!
He finally started opening up to me, emotionally, after 4 months. He’ll voluntarily tell me he misses me now, which he never did before. Oh, and occasionally uses pet names like darling, sweetie pie… haha But I still don’t come across that often. =) Which I don’t really care for anyway, thank god for my easy going nature!!! (Can’t even imagine what it’s like for other signs who tries to deal with these strange creatures)
We’re definitely moving forward slowly but surely! And he always tells me he never ever thought in his lifetime that he’d find someone completely different from the previous girls he’s dated. =) Well, obviously!!! Who on earth wants to date an emotionless, awkward, hotCOLD Alien, other than Geminis, anyway? haha
November 3rd, 2009 at 3:18 am
HEY I JUST WANNA SAY I REALLY LOVE THIS WEBSITE ALOT BECKY.
TO LBLOCK87,
SORRY TO SAY BUT USUALLY WITH ME BEING AN AQUARIUS WHEN THERE ARE PERIOD OF TIME WHEN I DONT TALK TO SOMEBODY MY FEELINGS FOR THEM NEVER COME BACK. HONESTLY SPEAKING.. USUALLY WHEN I STOP LIKING A GUY, I NEVER LIKE THEM AGAIN AND THERE ARE LOTS OF TIME WHERE I JUST IGNORE THEM AFTER I AM BORED/WEIRDED OUT BY THEM. NOT TO SAY THAT THIS HAPPENS WITH EVERY AQUA FEMALE. OKAY, THE GOOD NEWS IS THAT OUT OF ALL THE GUYS I HAVE DATED GEMINI MALES ARE THE ONLY ONE I AM ACTUALLY DRAWN TO AND FEEL LIKE I GO OUT OF MY WAY JUST TO TALK TO THEM. SO DO NOT BE SADDEN.. AQUA FEMALES ARE VERY STRAIT FORWARD AND WILL SAY IF SOMETHING IS WEIRD THEN IT IS (YOU ASKING HER FOR A KISS) AND TO BE HONEST, I DONT THINK U SHOULD BE THAT FORWARD WITH HER AGAIN. PERSONALLY I DONT LIKE IT WHEN GUYS DO THAT AND IT JUST MAKES ME NOT WANT TO KISS THEM IF THEY SHOULD EVER ASK. I THINK THE BEST THING FOR YOU IS JUST TO TALK TO HER AS A FRIEND BASIS AND NOT THINK SO MUCH OF WHAT TO SAY YOUR OWN PERSONALITY SHOULD DRAW HER IN. LATER WHILE YALL ARE TALKING (FRIENDS) AFTER A COUPLE WEEKS U SHOULD LET HER KNOW YOU ARE DIGGIN HER BUT DONT SEEM AVAILABLE ALL THE TIME. WE GET SO TURNED OFF MY DESPERATE GUYS.. JUST LAUGH OFF THAT EMBARRASSING MOMENT YOU HAD LOL. I THOUGHT YOUR POST WAS CUTE AND FUNNY BUT GOOD LUCK WITH HER. YOU ARE GOING TO NEED IT. ABOUT THE WHOLE PLANNING THING AND NEVER CALLING YOU THAT WEEKEND.. I TEND TO DO THAT ALOT. I PLAN THINGS AND IN MY HEAD I REALLY AM PLANNING TO GO BUT THEN ALOT OF THINGS ARE GOING ON THAT DAY OR I FIND OTHER PLAN THAT I FORGET ABOUT IT OR I JUST DONT BOTHER WITH IT. USUALLY IF THE PERSON DONT CALL AGAIN (EVEN IF I SAID I WOULD CALL) THEN I JUST IGNORE IT AND GO ONE ABOUT MY DAY. SO NEXT TIME U SHOULD TEXT HER.. TEXTING IS GOOD.. CALLING COULD BE ANNOYING AND BUGABOO-ISH.
I JUST WANT TO SAY THAT I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH A GEMINI MALE. WE FIGHT AND SWEAR UP AND DOWN ITS OVER BUT WITHIN A COUPLE OF DAYS WE ARE BACK TO NORMAL. I THINK ITS ARGUMENTS THAT KEEP ME INTERESTED AND I FEEL THAT MAYBE IF WE DONT ARGUE IT GETS BORING. YES AQUARIUS FEMALES… GEMINI MAN WILL BE COMPLETELY DIFFERENT WHEN U GET TO KNOW THEM. YOU HAVE TO BE REAL PATIENT WITH THEM AND THE WAY THEY “ACT” COLD AND DISTANCE IS JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE PROBABLY INSECURE AND FEEL THAT YOU CAN NOT BE TRUSTED. THOUGH THEY SAY GEMINIS ARE NOT JEALOUS…. THEY TOTALLY ARE EXTREMELY JEALOUS. AS US AQUARIUS FEMALES WE HAVE ALOT OF MEN DYING TO BE IN OUR COMPANY AND THAT JUST DRIVES THE GEMINI CRAZY. HE WILL ACT DISTANT BECAUSE HE IS TRYING TO COPE WITH IT. IN TIME U NEED TO REASSURE YOUR GEMINI BUT GETTING INTO THE RELATIONSHIP DO NOT.. I REPEATTT DOOOOO NOOOOOOTTTT TRY TO FORCE THE GEMINI TO BE IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU. FORCING THE GEMINI TO DO ANYTHING AT ALL WILL SCARE HIM OFF.. JUST GIVE HIM TIME HE WILL COME AROUND. MY GEMINI TREATS ME LIKE A QUEEN AND IS THE MOST SWEETEST MAN I HAVE EVER MET IN MY LIFE. I DO NOT SEE HIS TWINS.. I USE TO BUT NOT ANY MORE. SO GOOD LUCK LADIES
November 3rd, 2009 at 11:52 am
Hey Gemgirl and Mystery,
If you dont mind me asking when is your birthdays and when are your aqua guys bdays?
Reply back
November 3rd, 2009 at 6:40 pm
Hello to all the Gemini’s and Aquarius’s!
I am the typical Gemini gal always looking for knowledge that never satisfies. I recently met an Aquarius male and the instant I saw him it was kis-met. His unique and quarky style had me. We met at a bar I frequently visit. The only issue was when I met him he was with a friend/roommate and his friend was the one who was interested. That is at least what I heard from fellow friends and the fact he gave me his digits. His friend is a cancer and I just didn’t connect whatsoever on an attraction level with him. Fast forward a few weeks later after a few more encounters with him and his friend and I’ve developed a friendship of sorts with both of them and have became facebook friends. I decided to take matters into my own hands to see if there was a little bit of attraction to me from aqua so I sent a funny joke his way through a message( Telling jokes was the cause of how this whole situation came about.)To my surprise, he responded quite quickly then I expected and gave me his phone number to tell him if I’m ever at Ruby’s(the bar)that he might shoot right over. He lives right next door. Since then, we’ve been bantering back and forth through text messages almost everyday. This previous weekend he came to a party and I had a feeling it was just to see me. So, now I’m pretty sure he is attracted to me but then again I have doubts being the dual and nervous nature I am. I swear by the chemistry though that it is kis-met. His birthday is Febuary 14, and mine is June 3rd. I’m a gemini-sun and leo-moon with a taurus-ascendant and I’m pretty sure he is an Aquarius-sun, Virgo-moon, and an Aries-ascendent. I was just wondering if anyone could maybe put some input of their own in on this situation. It would be greatly, greatly appreciated.
By the way, I was just wondering if any of the Gems have been having quite a rough year this last year. If so, what are some of the circumstances you have found yourself in?
Thanks soo much!!
Majesticgem (Danielle)
November 3rd, 2009 at 6:46 pm
Oh yeah, one more thing. I read tarot and I keep doing readings on the aqua and me, and my readings haven’t been to promising about the situation. Like I previously asked about Gem’s having a rough year, I indeed have. My cards have all been very frustrating for months not just in the aspects of this relationship but overall. This year has been completely chaotic.. actually almost 2 years. I don’t know if I am projecting my mental chaos onto the cards or not. I least I try not too. I just wanted to add that in there. Thanks soo much!
November 7th, 2009 at 5:57 am
thanks to all your replies. After much thought, and having let go of any expecatations with my ex-aQuarian Bf i can honestly say that i agree he will eventually tire of her leo bossiness, So I think… wait and see attitude is my best bet. if it is meANT TO be it will happen if not, well, then hopefully something better ahead…in the near future!
LOVE AND LIGHT TO ALL
A
GEM-TIGER
November 8th, 2009 at 8:15 am
me-aquarius
my ex.. or present- gemini
he is over emotional, and want me to follow him everywhere around the world. i am too aloof at times, and hate the million friends he has .. with more then half of them being girls.
i dont think we r compatable at all. i think iv been mis guided by horoscopes and believed we could be “soul mates” aquariuses need more stable people around us. Gemini’s bring competition in the creative thought process that we have to offer.
November 13th, 2009 at 6:24 am
I am a gemini and i met an aquarius man about a year ago. I was introduced to him, he shook my hand looked me right in the eye and said “hello” I was definitly curious. He gave me his phone number TWICE to make sure i got it right before he left. Then he called our friend who introduced us and told her to have me call him. So i called him. I was drawn! I have never felt like this before. I was able to be myself, i could tell him ANYTHING. He remembers everything. He was very into me! Liked me ALOT! Then i found out he was dating LOTS of woman. I asked him about it, and he was like, yes, i do. Straight forward and honest. I liked him even more for being so honest. I figured, hey, i am not married to him, we are only dating. But i fell for him hard. Through out this past year, we still talk, i love him so much. He has no idea. But he still dates other woman. He says he loves me, he says that you only meet 3 people in your life that make a difference, and i am one of them. I just dont know if he really means it. Whenever i seem to get him out of my head, he calls me! Uggh! Why do i continue with him? If it were anyother guy i would of hit the road. I have dated an aquarius and i love the person he is. He is patient with me, listens to me, understands me. I can me Dr. Jekyl Mr Hyde and he is way cool about it:) He doesnt judge me for being all over the place emotionally or physically for that matter. Help me ladies, do you think his womanizing ways will go away? (sorry forgot to mention he was newly single when i met him, from a long relationship)
November 16th, 2009 at 8:06 pm
Hey Chante,
When is your birthday and when is your male aquarius birthday?
November 18th, 2009 at 2:02 am
WOW, I have never read something so true about my relationship. I’m the Aquarius and my bf is the Gemini. I met him for the first time back in January 08′ and since I have been the happiest girl in all my life. He really did sweep me off my feet, our connection was instant. The first time I met him I had the weirdest feeling where i knew he was going to be my bf, all i knew was that i wanted him. We hung out 3 times over a course of 4 months and one night (May 9) we just decided to date (it was really random and nothing special, but it’s been the best decision either of us have ever made). I knew a few things about him from our random conversations, so really we didn’t know each other at all. The first few months were rocky because he would almost never call and was always losing his phone and buying a new one. I had doubts in the beginning because we were complete opposites, with a different group of friends. He went out to crazy parties every night and i liked to stay in with a close group of friends (i couldn’t get into a club anyways). Eventually though he came around and learned how to be a proper bf. He has turned out to be the best ever. I know he loves me more than anything and he has literally done anything in his power for us to stay together. It is true, when we fight, we realllly fight. I honestly will say it’s mostly him because he’s easily emotional about things and will say something hurtful out of anger, so i cry and ignore him, i try not to fight. We rarely do fight though, which is nice. I can’t imagine life without him. He’s almost everything to me. He never fails to apologize and make me feel better. I love it when he sings me to sleep with his guitar or makes me breakfast in bed :). He keeps me updated with the cutest txt messages, always an ‘i love you’ at the end. I never thought a guy could be so loyal and passionate about one girl. I know this is something special, because I’m the pickiest dater ever! Before chris i thought I would never find my own man. While my friends were dating left and right i jsut didnt care because they weren’t for me. I’ve literally dated two guys in all my 18 years, that’s including Chris
Chris has dated a ton of girls, more than i could count, but he has settled for me (I’m kind of the ‘exception’, he had never dated anyone like me in the past, he always went for crazy punk chics). He bought me a beautiful ring for last christmas, a promise ring i call it, i have never gone a day without wearing it. He truly is my one and only. My first and last. I could not be happier. Even though i recently moved to Kentucky for college and he is still back in Georgia, we have this connection that won’t die. (he actually moved to Kentucky with me for a few months, left his life back in Georgia to stay with me! That’s devotion…but he had to move back for his family) We’re doing the long distance thing and i think it’s going great! It’s tough, but when you really are in love with that someone, nothing can stop you. We’ve been through a lot in our relationship and know we can’t just throw it away. I’m only 18 and he’s 21 but we always talk about getting married when i graduate, and for fun we like to come up with names for a kid. It’s nice to have a bf that cares for me the way he does, one who can talk to me about anything. I have no doubts that my Gemini is the one for me. I miss him…Love you baby (5/9/08)
November 20th, 2009 at 7:38 pm
I read a lot regarding my sign (gemini) and it’s really not that positive. I’ve been dating a man 5 years older than myself who is an aquarius. How is it that a gemini woman with such negative personality traits be liked by any sign. I’m feeling that even after 10 months of dating him will only end because of such negative traits. For example : over emotional, never completing projects, superficial, flirtatious..etc and the list goes on. I really like this man and intially was very infactuated with his character. Which as an aquarius this is normal. But for the Gemini, it’s quite the opposite. He doesn’t like drama. However because I tend to judge the outside appearances and circumstances I ask questions late in the relationship that should have been asked in the beginning. I would like some feedback both from gemini gals and aquarius guys.
Really feeling helpless and alone…
November 21st, 2009 at 2:18 pm
Hey gemgirl 43,
just wanted to aks first when is your birthday and what is your aqua dudes birthday?
Reply back and then I can give feedback
November 21st, 2009 at 8:21 pm
Hey, amazing Aqua/Gem couple descriptions.
I was just wondering if anyone had some feedback on our compatibility.
Me
Gemini Sun
Pisces Moon
Taurus Venus
Leo Mars
Libra Jupiter
Cancer Mercury
Cancer Ascendant/Rising
Him
Aquarius Sun
Taurus Moon
Aquarius Venus
Libra Mars
Aquarius Jupiter
Aquarius Mercury
Scorpio Ascendant/Rising
I’m June 11th he’s February 13th
November 21st, 2009 at 8:36 pm
Hi Haz91,
My birthday is June 21 and his birthday is February 1
November 21st, 2009 at 11:58 pm
I am male Gemini I want my aquarius girl so badly
because we have such a strong friendship at this point
I do not know if it is possible but I dont think I can ever
give up it is mos def Love !
someone help where shall I go
November 28th, 2009 at 3:01 am
hey haz91…
My birthday is June 13th…his is February 14th….any insight will be appreciated.
November 30th, 2009 at 10:59 am
Hey Becky. I am an aquarian girl. I met this Gemini guy, who I was instantly attracted to. I have met up with him twice along with other friends. He gives me mixed messages and I have no idea till this day if he likes me or not. I haven’t been the easiest person either bceause I don’t think he knows if I’m into him or not. I have made effort on my part to show him I like him. I give him undivided attention when I speak w/ him and made efforts to make conversation w/ him. If anything i dont see the same effort from him. However, when I saw him last, his whole body froze on my arrival. Any ideas if he likes me or not?
December 3rd, 2009 at 7:30 pm
do you have an email?? i would like to ask u for advice being an aquarius female with gemini male. thanks in advance
December 6th, 2009 at 7:06 pm
Hey 458
I would rather not publicly display my email address, but I will for defo re read your scenerio and give you feedback on it…. but if you have questions for me write them on the forum because I check this forum like every day. …..
What do you say?
December 9th, 2009 at 6:39 pm
Hi Becky,
Congratulations on your site - am a Gemini woman (birthday 19th June) and have found myself falling for an Aquarian guy (birthday 26th Jan) and the descriptions of us both are so accurate! I’ve never been into star signs before but since developing a friendship at work over the past 3 months with Mr Aquarian I’ve become very interested in reading about compatibility. I’m 36 and have had various short-term flings and one relationship lasting 1 1/2 years. I’ve always said that I didn’t need anyone as I’m pretty independent, love life and have lots of great friends. But since Mr Aquarian arrived in the office I have become smitten with him.
We go out for lunch spontaneously and chat for hours about life, and especially relationships and what we want out of them. We both want an initmate relationship but both admit to not ever having needed anyone before and to being scared. I feel so comfortable with him, we have great banter, are always teasing each other, he has helped me sort out my priorities regarding work, he’s so open and honest with me, gave me a poem called “I am me, I am okay” when he mentioned that I can be a bit defensive at times. He often looks me up and down and sometimes texts me. I’m pretty sure he fancies me as 2 colleagues in office have mentioned it, but he is a natural flirt with women and men and loves people in general.
I think about him all the time and just need to know whether this could develop into something more than friendship. A few weeks ago we went for drinks after work and he asked for a goodnight kiss but again I wasn’t sure what he meant so just pecked him on cheek and left!! I’m terrible at telling a guy how I feel if I’m not sure of his feelings and am afraid to show too much in case of rejection! But do I need to be more obvious and how do I do it?
One other thing - there’s a beautiful girl in the office who Mr Aquarian flirts with also. She’s a capricorn and just broke up with her boyfriend of 2 1/2 years. She definitely is enjoying the attention but still loves her ex. Have never had a jealous streak in me before but suddenly am feeling so jealous and am afraid that if I’m not honest with him about my feelings then she will get in there first!!
Thanks
December 9th, 2009 at 11:26 pm
i am pretty much done with Gemini males. they drive me crazy, they confuse me AND it doesn’t help when one of them is a straight up pervert.
i am still in love with one gemini male from years back and i know everyone i talk to says i’m a fool and even i know this. i do want to find him and tell him everything, but would i just be setting myself up for disappointment? i’ve been trying to get over him and i just keep failing to do so. my heart is stuck on him even after years of not seeing him or talking to him.
but for now, i’m sick of geminis in my life driving me off the wall.
December 14th, 2009 at 5:00 pm
So yes, I havent posted in a while. I have not made any further contact with my aquarian ex bf , (We had been together 3 years, very serious, and broke up in 2004, after i cheated and broke his heart, i was the love of his life….as i wrote in the last posts)
I know he is in a serious relationship with a Leo girl. I am a gemini 6/5/74 and his b-day is 2/3/76. I still think about him and dream about him a lot. We had a very strong connection and I think even after a year of not seeing him, I can sense when he is thinking of me. I used to know when he was going to call etc. i am trying to work on myself and perhaps attract a new person into my life, but I find myself thinking and regretting the past and having let him go and later realizing too late how much I still loved him. Writing to him about this did not work, but I guess I got it out of my system.
The last time he tried to see me I said no because he started seeing this new girl after striging me along for 3 years while he was with his last gf. He had hurt me and i did not want to keep peeling the bandage off the wound. I was very hurt he got into yet another relionship knowing how I felt….But, Somehow, I have an inner knowing that in the end fate will bring us together once again. But for now there is no contact b/w us…and it hurts. Any insight would help. the holidays are a bad time to be alone…
December 24th, 2009 at 8:05 am
I have to say, I am an aquarius female and I have been dating my boyfriend the gemini for 4 months. I have never felt so in love with someone in my life. I HATE being awy from him, it just kills me! He feels the same though. He is very outgoing and adventerous adrenaline junkie, he can be stubborn as can I, he wants what he wants when he wants it. But this said, he has handed over his heart without hesitation. Hes a one woman man and protective over me which I love! We can always find something to do and are rarely “bored”, when we are its when we are apart. He is definately a “doer”, and doesnt idolaay sit around and a very hard worker. Very confident.
I am the softer side and im very loyal, dependable, friendly, outspoken/opinionated, and very creative. I dont have a lot of patience but I am learning I have to with him. I love him with everything I have. Im more more passive where he is more agressive. Were both determined as hell in all we do. Were both very intelligent people and caompassionate. Our sex life…. oh my god, is indescribable!
We have been in one fight and I agree, it is like world war 3 and the end of the world. Its emotional for me and aggrovating for him. You feel like your relationship is going to end its that horrible. As a gemini, he wont brush things under the carpet, they like resolution. When I dont want to talk about things and be left alone to think about them, ill get in a quiet mood, its how I process whats on my plate and he will mistaken that as “somethings wrong” and he assumes it something with him. Nothings wrong, im just thinking bout things. We ended it with the promise I would say whats on my mind when its on my mind and he would try* to tame him bluntness until I can become adjust to it better.
We started out our relationship facing adversity in both our personal lives and have lived through them together, weve seen the worst a relationship should have to stress and were still together stronger than ever! Its like were the indestructable power couple. You said that they go into a world of their own sometimes, we have done that. Theres a world with us and everyone else then theres just our world. Our world is really intense and your right noone outside of it gets it! Reading your compatibility is sooo close to true.
Ill tell you what though, although he can be a little stubborn, I would not give him up for the world! Hes a love like no other I have ever experienced. I love the way he loves me and vise versa.Hes everything I have ever wanted and then some! When a gemini says they love you, they love you.
December 24th, 2009 at 10:00 am
im suprised really…i always wonder why my friendship with this gemini woman was so intresting.
December 25th, 2009 at 8:56 pm
Hi gemgirl43
The traits you have mentioned are not that negative at all. In fact this is what I like with gemfems. Over emotional? Come on! Jealousy? Why not? All these traits are freat when you love someone. I am an aqua male (Horse+fire like you) and the story you told us about your relationship is quite typical with aqua males. Some of them love flirting and of course they are sometimes not very faithful. But it can all change when they really fall in love. And trust me they can though not all of them are able to show real emotions which is essential for a gemfem. There is no general handbook for such a relationship but one thing is sure: never ever try to push him hard or force him into anything. We hate that. Let him decide because if an aqua ever feels he was pushed he will try to get free. If it real love he will do anything for you without asking because it makes him happy to be himself. By the way that is one of the clues of the gem-aqua partnership: freedom and being yourself. That is what gems expect as well - a person with whom you don’t have to pretend, someone who loves you just the way you are.
December 25th, 2009 at 11:49 pm
“Hes everything I have ever wanted and then some! When a gemini says they love you, they love you.”
Hey Ann, I know where you’re coming from - I’m in love with a Gemini girl & there’s nothing that could change that! She means everything to me & my life has changed in so many ways since I met her (even though we’re 417 km away from each other & only see each other every other weekend…thank God for Skype!).
I’ve been through a very messy separation & vowed that I would take time out of relationships but, I met her & that changed everything…now I can’t stop thinking about her!!!
This is a very special person…& a Gemini! We know we love each other…& it’s so intense!
January 1st, 2010 at 12:23 pm
I’m an Aquarius girl and I’m very attractive to a Gemini male. I’ve been interested in this guy for the last three months and he has no idea of this. Here’s the problem: he lives 4 hours away. He is currently in town right now for the holidays and will be leaving a week from now. I really want to get to know him, but I don’t want to come off easy or uninteresting. I want him to like me back. And I want him to want to share a long distance relationship with me before he leaves (which is hard since I only have about ONE WEEK). We text each other but it seems as if he’s shy or something. It’s not that he’s not interested in me too, because he texts me first most of the time. Sometimes he just responds with one word answers or doesn’t keep the conversation going. What am I to say back? I think it’s because he may be shy?
I really like this guy. I always think about him and I want a relationship with him. What do I do to make a gemini male want a long distance relationship with me? And if he does like me back, how do I keep this going?
January 5th, 2010 at 11:48 am
Hey Al
If you dont mind me asking when is your birthday and when is your gem girls birthday?
January 6th, 2010 at 12:07 am
Damn! Everytime I read how incredibly compatible Gemini is with Aquarius it gives me renewed hope. I am a Gemini male and I’ve been in love with an Aquarian man for over 2 years now. I met him my sophomore year of high school and it was an almost instant crush. I remember the day he first walked into my class, I turned to look at him and the first thought that popped into my mind was “he’s the one!” I found that really strange and tried to forget about it. Over time, as we got closer and befriended, my crush developed into love. It has now been over 2 years since that day, he’s now graduated and in college and I hardly hear from him and still his name dominates my diary’s pages, it is he who inspires my poetry, and hes still the one that blesses my dreams with his presence. It’s true that there’s that almost telepathic connection between us. Whenever I dream about him, it’s because he’s going to make an appearance soon. My last dream about him was last Sunday so I’m excited!
The biggest issue here is that he is “straight” and currently in a year long relationship with an Aquarian female. That connection we share tells me otherwise about his being straight and his current relationship I have heard is not doing so well anymore. Oh becky what should I do? I have tried moving on and have had other loving relationships with other men including another Aquarian, but it’s like something is telling me that he truly is THE ONE. What do you think?
January 8th, 2010 at 11:47 pm
Can you please tell me if you think my Aquarius boyfriend of 3 years will rethink the “break” he asked me for? I smothered him away (past came back to haunt me) but I know he still cares. He tried to contact me for the first 6 weeks but I completely cut off communication because I thought it best for him to miss me. Its been 2 1/2 months since we moved apart and needless to say I’m completely devastated. He doesn’t know that. He sent me a message on New Years day and this time I responded in an effort to open our communication back up at some point in the near future. I’d rather stay apart a while longer; I know we are going to end up together but having read most of the comments here I’m looking for some advice on how to intice him back into my life when the time is right.
January 9th, 2010 at 4:13 pm
I’m a Gemini girl by the way. Never read much into signs until I met him. Knowing his penchant for shock value statements and needing as much space as I do helped me very much.
January 11th, 2010 at 12:30 am
Hi MayBeatle,
Thanks so much for your feedback. Your absolutely right. I’m learning that everything isn’t just black and white. There are grey areas. I haven’t experienced this kind of relationship before. I think at my age I’m willing to be patient. I’m learning so far from being with him that good things do come to those that wait. He shows me that he does care about me. He’s told me since we’ve been dating for a year now.. but demonstrates it more in his actions. I thank you again so much for responding.. Pls when you see this post and think more should be said.. then pls do post it. Happy New Year
January 18th, 2010 at 8:34 am
Hi Gemgirl43,
First of all, you too have a very Happy New Year! Ever since I saw your message here last week I’ve been thinking about what more I could say. Aquas are strange creatures just like gems. It’s really difficult to make a handbook on their behaviour but there are certain patterns that most of us share. We never like simple things which means mysteries and aventures are welcomed by us. We do like surprises but don’t like fast and gross changes in our lives againtst our will. We are easily influenced by kindness and pureness but never by force or wilfulness. We love to be the decision makers if the alternatives are all bright but hate to do so if it causes pain or it takes our freedom away which being the most precious thing in Earth we’d only give away if we feel so.
I don’t know too much about your relationship and I can’t provide you the exact answers you might need. But in general - and it’s not just with an aqua-gem partnership - if there is real love between two people nothing can stand in the way, you both just have to be yourselves. No selfishness no pisky little ways. If one can’t dedicate himself wholeheatredly to his love he better stop ‘cos it will not work. I don’t believe in therapies and “lets find the solution to our problems” but I believe in miracles and love is one. A shrink once told a story about a woman who was daydreaming in her car one day on the way home. She imagined aliens would visit her and her husband asking if they want to go with them and live forever. When the couple answered yes they told them there would be one more thing to be decided - whether they would live in the same world together or in different ones. If they chose to stay together they would have to live like that forever. In her dream her husband was first to answer and said yes, so when it was her turn she hesitantly not to hurt him agreed although when she thought of this kind of eternity with her husband she was confused. At his point of her dream the woman in her car made the right decision, went home, packed her suitcases and left her husband. She said if I don’t want to spend the eternity with this man I shouldn’t waste my mortal life on this realationship.
I hope you can find or have already found the one you would share eternity with. Sorry about my English. Good luck.
January 25th, 2010 at 5:35 pm
im a Gemini female,I have met an Aquarius and in all honesty I have never had such a connection, we can talk for hours without getting bored of each other. As a Gemini i am very deep, but looking into an aquarians eyes the intensity is mind blowing. I speak the truth and im not mushy or anything but this is a match made in heaven and what you could call “love at first sight”, i sense that he can read me like a book and the feeling is mutual. If this man asked me to marry him, i would say yes without blinking, strange we havent known each other long enough either, i feel i have known him my whole life, never felt so comfortable!
Question for anyone to answer; The aquarius is away for 6 weeks and we have no contact as hes with the army in kenya .. do you think hes thinking of me as much as i think of him? or is that because the aquarian likes space hes not really that botherd?
comments are great and spot on guys and girls, keep them flowing
x
January 26th, 2010 at 12:22 pm
Hi Gemini,
Just a question to start of with.. when is your birthday and your aquas birthday?
January 28th, 2010 at 10:31 pm
Heyyy Haz91,
My aquas birthday is 26th of jan and mine is the 27th of may
can you tell me anything about are birthdays?
Thanks
January 31st, 2010 at 12:25 am
Hi Gemini,
If it is love at first sight the answer is yes. He thinks of you a lot and since he knows you as much as you do he may even live a whole life with you in his mind which is a kind of a quest where he can decide a lot of things. It is true we need a lot of space like you said but we need it when we want it not when it is a must.
About the birthdays. I can’t tell anything about his because I am not a expert but yours is on the same day like my little fairy’s and I must admit I’d be very much interested if you have a lot in common. So if you feel so write something about you so I might make a bit of a comparition. But just when it does not offend you. Of course I will share my experience.
By the way for some unknown reasons Haz91 always wants to know the birthdates but never answers any question about them or tells why she needs them. Maybe she is just working on a survey.
I hope it will go well with your aqua. I swear it can.
January 31st, 2010 at 12:18 pm
Hey Gemini
Ok first of all it sounds like you both are the perfect couple from what I am reading. But i need to know some more info…
Firstly how did you meet and what attracted him to you?
And has he had any past relationships with girls?
Thanks
and write back
xx
January 31st, 2010 at 1:30 pm
Oh your comment was so lovely to hear and has really made my day
.. A little about me as a Gemini; I like to be spontaneous and I have several different personalities, its like bi-polar haha! I can be witty and sometimes slow to click on also (but only when im not interested in a conversation, without being ignorant)i can be impatient (but when it comes to waiting for the aqua to come home, i kinda get a buzz and prepare myself for when he comes back. If you have any more questions for me maybeatle then just fire-away 
mannn i love this site haha!
Could you tell me a little about you as an aqua male if you dont mind? im really interested and this would help to compare with the aqua i have met also. Is there anything that a Gemini shouldnt do that winds her aqua up? Is there anything that really impresses and aqua (but he won’t let you know you have impressed him?
Thanks
x
January 31st, 2010 at 9:24 pm
Maybeetle.
The reason for why I ask about birthdays is because it makes a considerable difference on your relationship with the other star sign.
For example May born geminis are geminis but have the influence of taurus as for june born gemini may have the influence of cancer. Therefore if it is a taurus mayborn gemini then it is best suited to january born aquarians…..
I have done some research on this and found it to be true
February 1st, 2010 at 9:02 pm
Hey Haz, only just read your message
We met on facebook
ha .. There is this thing called are you interested.. i don’t go on it very often at all and when i do i dont click on hardly any men (to let them know your interested) but strangely I did with this aqua and he clicked yes back, so we became a match and i added him as a friend. we got chatting and instantly got on and made each other laugh, we talked and talked then decided to meet for a drink before he went back to camp (he’s in the army).. From the minute go we just clicked, i felt so comfortable and safe for that matter, total gentleman, its like people say; if an aqua likes you they sometimes show you by presenting you with gifts instead of words (meaning he wouldn’t let me pay for a thing).
i think he came out of a long term relationship possibly a year ago or so, i came out of one 7 months ago and i ignored men and didn’t want anything to do with them, my mind was set on not settling for anything less than what i wanted, then he came along out of the blue. He’s currently away on exercise with the army so we have no contact for just less than 6 weeks, i wonder if hes thinking of me (were not together you see).
I felt a strong connection immediately, i hope something does come of this, thanks for your question
February 2nd, 2010 at 8:45 am
I’m a gemini girl and my boyfriend obviously an aquarius. He’s the best person who has ever walked in my life. He’s an amazing boyfriend, an amazing best friend and I’m sure he’ll be an amazing husband and father. I’ve never felt the way I feel for him for any other boy. We have little arguments cause even when I don’t talk about what’s wrong with me, he just knows it and so we argue and then we make it ok and I fall head over hills for him again. Or I just sit there to watch him be himself and I fall for him again. I appreciate everything he does for me. I love everything about him. Even his farts. I know I can drive him crazy at times but he’s very patient with me cause he knows no other girl has ever loved him the way I do and he loves the rewards (; I wanna be with him for the rest of my life.
February 3rd, 2010 at 8:49 am
Hi Gemini,
It was a pleasure to read your letter. My little fairy has also got several different personalities and sometimes I can see how she jumps into one after another. She doesn’t do it for fun it is a kind of a reaction and she is not always very happy with the gloomy or the stubborn ones. I must admit her life was not always a fairy tale - and I try to make her forget the bad memories. At the begining of our love she told me that one of the best things with our relationship is that with me she can fully be herself and doesn’t have to pretend or to befit to anyone’s expectations. Before that and when I am not around she was and is wayward but since and when we are together for longer and longer she can remain the person she and I love the most. It does not mean she would not be stubborn or “agressive” from time to time but these last only a few minutes and then we can laught at it.
Oh, and one more thing. When both your rational and emotional side say OK then you know: this is it. The real one.
About me. I don’t know if I am a typical aqua or not but said to be. I am interested in everything from math to literature to philosophy or to fixing computers and tend to jump from one project into another. And since I am a very humble person I can tell you I am good at all of them. Before I met her I had never took love very seriously. It was a kind of a game and when it threatened my freedom I tried to back out of it. But with her I found both my freedom and - so to say - the project of my life. When my friends ask me why I think it is different I answer with a simple sentence: With her I don’t have to remind me to think of her. She is always with me, a part of me, her joy is mine as well. Since I love pleasant surprises I often do thing that most people would think crazy. It is a kind of “a-kid-in-a-man-who-never-wants-to-grow-up” thing, you know. For with her I can be that long-lost person I loved so much when I was young, the person I can like now as and adult, too.
Love: To be with her is like breathing. So natural and so uncomplicated. Don’t ask me what we talk about. I don’t know. But we never get bored of it. Communication is more than just talking. It feels like that.
That should be enough for this time.
February 3rd, 2010 at 3:11 pm
Hi everyone! To Becky, To HAZZ, to maybeattle!
Its the first time i post on this site, although I have been checking this very discussion since 2007 now!! You dont know me, but i feel like i know u so well already, especially you hazz! I am a gemini female, 25, and its amazing how I feel like ive written what you guys wrote, not only do we have the same mentality, but the same writing style, its indeed true how they say gems have a verbal talent! Indeed!
Here is my story, would love to hear your feedback hazz and may. Sorry but this will prob be LONG, dam us chatty gems! lol
The reason why ive been checking this discussion is because I was with an Aqua all 2007. Needless to say, it was the best relationship ever, and back then, i never knew that aquas were distant and detached and scared of commitment, or needed their space, coz mine exercised none of that, and now I know its only because he moved to my country, and his life became mine, he came to work at the company i was in.. so i guess this is why. I wont elaborate on that story now, coz otherwise my post will be 30 pages long. My story is about my ‘current’ aqua.
Like i said, im 25, and ever since i was 19!! I met this aqua guy online, we lived in the same country but in 2 diff cities, the click was amazing, we would talk and talk and talk, he wanted us to meet, but i never agreed to it, i wanted him to stay my virtual soulmate, plus i was afraid i wont like him or vice versa once we meet face to face. The years passed, and we would chat for hours on and off, i would tell him about my relationships, he wud be the true lister he is, and ofcourse, listens more than he shares, not that i cared, since hes just an online friend, i wanted a lisner and an advisor, not an online love affair. I remember once, he told me he loved me! like 3 years later, and i never talked to him again. Later at 23 i meet my current aqua, and towards almost the end of it, i start talking with the online aqua, telling him how much the aqua im with is so much like u, funny enough, they shared the same birthday (Jan 1rst)i.e the day b4 yesterday. When my x and i broke up, i strated to talking to virtual aqua as often as before, we have each other on FaceBool, so he felt so real to me, later we exchanged numbers, and started texting each other non stop for two years, having SMS virtual sex! Lol! SOmething i never did before, but was amaaaaaaazing, and since he doesnt know me for real, i never minded being my true self, blunt and expressive even in sexual talk.
Last july of 2009, he tells me hes moving back to my country, in my same city, that he got a job there (he is a DOCTOR!!!!i.e. can be even moooooore distant and busy…errrrrg) and that he WILL see me whether i like it not, and that i shudnt worry that either of will get disappointed once we meet (something i always used to tell him), I was shy to see him (SMS SEX), but i we eventually met, and OH MY GOD
February 3rd, 2010 at 3:13 pm
just noticed half of the rest of my post wasnt added!! didnt know there was a limit when it comes to writing, gota run, but will write the missing part later tonight!
February 4th, 2010 at 12:35 pm
hi leelan,
the question that i am going to ask your first of all is your bday and the two aqua mens bdays please?
and then I will re read through your situation and let you know what I think about this.
x
February 4th, 2010 at 4:50 pm
WOW leelan your right! I feel like ive written what all the gems have written! My gosh its strange and i couldnt of explained that first part of your post better than you (hit the nail on the head there) haha..
I enjoyed reading your post Maybeattle, it’s so interesting to hear you explain your partner in words because you have just explained me! TeeHee! Sometimes i get confused and feel like i should of had a twin when i can’t find myself (i don’t know who i am sometimes) this is because i have several different personalities, so many other characters to chose from i guess lol how unboring are we :D.
When an aqua makes a plan (which i guess they don’t like doing) E.g. Aqua says to a Gem: When i come back from holiday, we will watch a film together or do something together! This example must mean the aqua is interested because they never make plans and they usually mean what they say, the impression i get from this aqua tells me that he is a man of his word, so in this case i know im not waiting around for something that won’t happen, am i on the right tracks here?
I find it so easy talking to you guys.. GEMINI AND AQUARIUS best match everrr, in love and in friendship, it just comes so naturally to them.
I need reassurance from a Gemini.. Do any of you gems feel nervous frequently for no reason? I am constantly experiencing nerves but im a confident person, these feelings could happen at any time anywhere and anyone that is not my sign doesn’t seem to understand why, is this just me?
I wish all you Gem and Aqua couples all the best, what a lovely match and what lovely people we all are
February 5th, 2010 at 10:14 am
hey again!! I posted another comment yesterday, finishing up my story, but it wont get posted! Donno why! ANd whenever i try to report it, it says its a duplicate! WHen its not even there!
BEcky help! :):)
Hazz! Gr88 to hear from you, my birthday is on June 17th, 84, his is on Feb 1rst 81
Gemini il reply to ur comment in a bit! Mwah!
February 5th, 2010 at 4:04 pm
Hi Gemini,
Reading what you have written makes ALOT OF SENSE! … Firstly, Aquarians do have trouble sticking to plans, they like things to happen at the spur of the moment … they hate waiting around for plans to come and go its just not what the water bearer does! But if your Aquarian says he is a man of his word then Aquarians also tell the truth they hate lying and hate liars!
The second thing you pointed out was the idea of Gemini being nervous… that is SPOT ON! Gemini have alot of nervous energy and sometimes its there for no apparent reason, but sometimes love can make the Gemini turn into a nervous wreck. lol
I am glad that you are happy in your relationship.. and that you are happy with the Aquarius man you have chosen… you are definately right Aquarius loves the Gemini more than anyother zodiac sign…. its spooky these two have such a connection it is OUT OF THIS WORLD… but thats why they say the Aquarian and Gemini always disappear into their little world together!!!
Btw I wanted to ask… is their alot of humour in your relationship? Does the aquarian make you laugh and vice versa?
February 7th, 2010 at 9:18 am
Hey Haz91
February 7th, 2010 at 9:37 am
Hi there Haz91,
Thank you for answering my questions it’s made me feel better about all this nervous energy ha. Your post was great. Me and the Aqua are constantly laughing together and we can make each other laugh, I think the reason he is attracted to me is because I can make him laugh. I’m not in a relationship with him (as of yet haha) but I hope something comes of this, if it didn’t it would feel like unfinished business and I think there’s a lot of potential if it were to become a relationship. I just can’t seem to get him out of my head, Because there was such a connection when we met, if im going crazy thinking about him im sure he must be thinking of me (i have no contact with him for the next 4 weeks as he’s away with the army. Maybe he thinks of me as “out of sight, out of mind” because of his coolness. Anyways when he returns il just see if he does get in touch.
Im glad i came on this sight, because i have never been with an aqua, im prepared on how to deal with his ways
x
February 12th, 2010 at 5:22 am
My friend is an Aquarius and I’m a Gemini, the energy I feel from him is INTENSE we read each others mind and
we have everything in common!! One day he asked me why are you talking to me? I of course being the aloof Gemini, I said nothing knowing I wanted to say cause I adore you but I didn’t…we stop talking for months and then we are back at it again…no matter who he’s with he finds a way to bring me up, he tells me about it…should I tell him how I feel even though I know he must sense it?
February 12th, 2010 at 8:08 am
I worked at the same job withthis guy for about 10 years before getting to know him. We worked in different departments and still do. However both departments are next to each other. Occasionally we would talk about taking a trip to Mass. when I mentioned I had a brother that lived there. But it wasn’t like a promise thing. It was just talk. During that time I was married, still am but now separted for 3 yrs, and wouldn’t give this guy any substantial amount of time. Didn’t believe that that is a good thing to do when your married or in any committed relationship. Once I was separted from my husband, not immediately, but about a year and 6 mths ago he would come in my office and we would talk about a variety of topics. He seemed even then not anyone I found any interest in. I would laugh at times when I would think about some of his questions. Like he asked me once “when I guy wanted to get my attention, what did they have to do?”; I never really thought about it until he asked. I thought about it and told him how I did like when they were direct. The following sittings for the days to come would be interesting. He began to try to demonstrate that he could be that way. It still didn’t spark anything then like me seeing him any different. As time went on I began to ask him since he was getting off late the same time I was, I would ask him for a ride to the train station. He obliged and this is how things began to change. Not that I started to like him in a way of a intimate relationship, but rather just enjoying the conversation. He did imply time and time again his interest in me. He would ask me questions about the supervisors I worked with. I answered him like he was just curious and nothing more. I never asked about who he worked with and really didn’t care. You know it was suppose to be just conversation to pass the time as he dropped me off. He then started asking me why did I allow him to drop me off, and other questions pertaining to me being around him and why not other guys he mentioned that worked at the job. I would tell him that I knew that they would be expecting more than just providing a ride. He knew what I meant. However he would point out how during the rides to the subway how he made his intentions known to me, and wanted to know why is it that I still allowed him to drop me off and my answer was simple. His flirting with me didn’t seem very harming at all. It seemed innocent. I told him he could say all this he wanted to say but this was a prize that was priceless and isn’t given away easily at all. He respected that and I appreciated that about him. In the beginning of the relationship he would express to me the need of being single. I too expressed the same. I even pointed out some advantages…like having not to answer to anyone but yourself. However he would still state what he would allow in a relationship, pertaining to me, however did this like a as a matter of a fact kind of way. I would still tell him that being single was great. This continued on for a while till he kissed me when I turned in his direction to say good night and thanks. It suprised me the first time he did it. However by this time I started to like him and began to feel a little attracted to him. So one kiss lead to another. Then there came the butt pat when I would get out the car. As things began to get warmer between us too. Yep, he took me out to dinner..and we had a great time. The food and drinks and place was awesome. Then it was back to his place and it happened. We fell asleep in one anothers arm. We then got up and he took me home. What happened next went from going out every weekend, to the movies, going out to eat at the best restaurants, going on vacation together, him taking me shopping, jazz boat ride, and so much more. We laughed and talked about everything and anything. to be continued….
I know its a lot… and there will probably be things that are left out to shorten the writting..but it finally ended…I guess…
February 13th, 2010 at 12:36 am
Hi…typical me I forgot to mention I would like dome help on this matter, thanks Becky!
My friend is an Aquarius and I’m a Gemini, the energy I feel from him is INTENSE we read each others mind and
we have everything in common!! One day he asked me why are you talking to me? I of course being the aloof Gemini, I said nothing knowing I wanted to say cause I adore you but I didn’t…we stop talking for months and then we are back at it again…no matter who he’s with he finds a way to bring me up, he tells me about it…should I tell him how I feel even though I know he must sense it?
February 13th, 2010 at 10:25 pm
Hey Mia,
I wouldn’t rush into telling him anything yet.. because as you said you two went your seperate ways and stopped talking to each other. You state that the feelings you have for him are intense but dont tell him anything yet until he shows any real signs of intense feeling for you.. because you owning up to your feelings may cause him to drive away…. what do you think?
BTW… WHEN is your bday and when is your aqua mans bday?
February 14th, 2010 at 9:35 pm
Im a Gemini Female,..and my [ex]boyfriend was an aquarius. He was my First Love; and my first time. We had all kinds of fun; and like you say; we had created a world that no one had understood. We were the ‘different’ couple, hardly any fights. All we would do is take a walk; look at water, the sky; nothing cliche, like the mall or movies. He was the love of my life, and i didn’t have to pretend anything.
However we broke up not too long ago,[together for a year] because; of my lack of communication. (or maybe the age difference, 2 years apart). Everything that had meant something to us; doesn’t mean anything anymore, he has a new GF (taurus) and i got a new bf (leo). And it’s not the same. I dont know what he’s thinking, or how he REALLY feels about her, but,..i miss him. I tell myself i dont, but i really do; he was my everything. Also i try not to think of anything that reminds me of him. We still do kind of talk, but i make it awkward (gemini’s ahaha.) but; hopefully i would stop my ways and just accept him as a “friend”.
Everything you have written was sooo us.
Just wish everything was back to normal again.
February 15th, 2010 at 12:15 pm
Aww Cassie i have just read your post, i don’t want to give you self hope but i think you may have a good chance of being with this aqua again like you pointed out; his new gf is a Taurus and yours Leo 9enough said there). Maybe its possible that its to soon to be in other relationships. I think its clear that you two were awfully close. Is there any way you can mend this? Or don’t you want to mend it? Time is a fantastic healer and especially for gem+aqua because they fall out and the aqua runs away instead of facing the music, the gem pulls the aqua back in and all that they argued for is forgotten, like you said these couples have their own worlds. Im sorry if you feel i have poked my nose in, just a gem helping a gem hehe
I wish you the best
x
February 15th, 2010 at 6:00 pm
Haha, i have the same problem as cassie! I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, (because he cheated [[even though he claimed he didnt]] ). But after we broke up, a week later he got a new girlfriend, whose a LEO, (he’s an aquarius). Do you think they would last?
February 16th, 2010 at 10:41 am
I am a female Aquarian who recently met a Gemini man back in November. We met at a local bookstor and randomly he just came up and talked to me briefly. We exchanged phone numbers and I was surprised that he immediately called me the day after we swapped numbers. Though I never returned his call I texted him back and promised to meet up in a week or so only to find out he was going to cancel since he said he was busy with work. Though we kept in touch only through text once a week or so, we met up a few months later. We hit it off right away, everywhere we went, people were amazed by our energy and how him and I seem to have an amazing time and mistaken as a married couple. Our connection was there, there I was giggling like a little girl and was just amazed by this man.There was that connection, the sense of freedom, adventures and whatever else. Everything, now the only thing is I have only known this man really for not long and we already had a carnal relationship I am afraid that he might be only pursuing me for that since him and I have unbelievable sex. I am way kinky and he loves the fact that I could teach him and open up his horizon but I am tired of my little escapades. How can I tell if this man is into me just as much as shacking up with me? His past ex gf’s seems a lot different than I am, they are more competitive while I have a free spirited perspective in life.
February 18th, 2010 at 4:58 am
Thank you for your help Hazel!! I’m not thinking of professing my real feelings that’s really something I could never comfortably do but I never told him that I am intrested and that I actually like him. He would always ask me out but I would always say I was busy…we started talking again and we talk for hours! He’s always excited when I text him, apologizes if he misses my call, explains in detail why he hadn’t called back, we hadn’t talked in 3 months and the 1st thing he asked was why weren’t you at that concert last week…we hadn’t talked in 3 months how did he know I was planning on going and didn’t…I just want to let him now I kinda like him let’s hang out and who knows what could happen! His birthday is Jan.22 and mine is May 30th…thank you I def need some guidance because I know I messed up I don’t want to mess up again!
February 20th, 2010 at 4:47 pm
I have just started dating my boyfriend. I met him at a little get together at my friends house a few weeks back, and we had an instant connection. I have never felt it with any other guy I have liked. I was so interested in him, and the great thing was that he started talking to me. He asked for my name and he asked if I wanted to hang out. I was so excited, and replied with a yes. We went to the movies, and had such an amazing time… I’ve never kissed a guy so soon in, but we did. It was the most amazing kiss I’ve ever experienced. It was so romantic and I just felt so special. Word’s just cannot describe it. Anyways, I get scared and nervous and worry so much about stuff. Sometimes, I find it so hard because I don’t know what’s going on in his mind. He has been telling me how much he cares about me, and how he loves being with me, and that when we are together it is like magic. I am worried that he might just be saying this though… I don’t know why I am so worried, but I am. anyways… I also get really jealous because he has girl friends who are also gemini’s, and they are always flirting with him, and I get paranoid. He doesn’t flirt back though. One time I kind brought it up, and he reasured me that he wants to be with me and only me, and that the other girls are like sisters to him… and that there is something about me that makes me special. But then that makes me start to think, well do you think of me as a sister? it’s so confusing… and I am worrying so much. I think he can read my mind too, it’s so weird… I feel so special when I am with him, and I have never felt that before. But I am scared that something will happen. I don’t want my paranoid side of me to ruin everything. Although, he always knows what to say when I am worried. He always tells me I can talk to him whenever I am feeling like that, and he’s always there for me. It’s almost like it’s too good to be true sometimes. I care about him so much, and I don’t want to lose him. Could you give me and tips or info on my situation please
and thanks xo
February 20th, 2010 at 4:49 pm
I’m so sorry, I also forgot to mention that he in an aquarius and I am a gemini!
February 21st, 2010 at 2:54 pm
Hia Alysha,
I don’t think your situation is at all anything to worry about, aquarians are said to be loyal and honest but aside from that you have everything going for the two of you, they are also very friendly and can be friendly towards almost anyone, sometimes it looks like they have come across in the wrong way but they are just social people and are interested in a persons life. I know us Geminis can analyse everything a person does but don’t let your jealous or paranoid side ruin your beautiful union, try to relax and be happy with what you have found in your life so far. I think everything is going to be just fine
X
February 22nd, 2010 at 1:26 pm
Hi Alysha,
I think that you are worrying too much and that if he has said that he likes you and that you are different, then you should trust him. Because at the end of the day he has chosen you over them, and that if you were a sister to him he wouldn’t have really chosen you. If I can say anything, you must stop worrying because that might drive him away!
Plus… when is your birthday and when is your aquarius mans birthday?
February 22nd, 2010 at 10:58 pm
Thanks ! I really hope so too
I think I just need to calm myself down sometimes, haha.
February 24th, 2010 at 1:04 am
Hi I just realized on my post I thanked Hazel and it’s Haz sorry…I have ADHD! Again thanks for the advice Haz! My birthday is May 30 and his is Jan. 22nd Thanks again!!
February 25th, 2010 at 1:20 am
yeah im a gemini male
very much in love with a aquarius girl like
a remember wake n up alot of times dreamin about her mad
love like you woulnt believe it ad honestly do anything for her
sad thing is ive been chasing her around ages
am so patiant at times and a probly will wait a while
longer if a tell masel its cool a love her and keep waiting
but a donno shes lead me on or not she goes cinema with me
comes back to my house and stays the chemistry is strange
we dont ever have sex never have I kissed her once
but we aint ever spoke up if ever again and its been like almost a year
now
a donno wat do do man am so in love man like I thought as in love before man
but thats nothing compared to this man the connection is un real
only some people will understand if they feel it
if you can realate to that at all
add me alan.oconnor@live.co.uk
gem loves aquarius crazy love
February 25th, 2010 at 6:52 pm
MIA no problem lol and if Hey need any more advice just let me know ! And alysha when is your b day and when is ur aqua mans b day? :] !
February 26th, 2010 at 2:59 am
Hi there! What you have written about Gemini & Aquarius is very true… Let me share a bit about what has happened to me… 3 years ago I met a very beautiful Aquarius girl at a family gathering, she had come from abroad and was staying with a family member of mine. From our first meeting I could feel the connection, it was huge and unexpected! We got a long so well that night but I never ended up getting her contact details… A few weeks later I bumped into her again on the street… we exchanged numbers and set up a date to meet…At our first meeting alone we sat all night in my car just talking about everything while finishing a whole bottle of Vodka… before she got too drunk and I had to stop her from drinking more… By this time I was also drunk…but not drunk enough to kiss her as I didn’t have the guts… after around 1 hour of flirting…. she grabbed me and pashed me for about 5 minuets straight! It was awesome! I’d been waiting about 2 months for this…
ok anyways we met a few times after this night and each time we got along so well, there was innocent flirting involved from both sides but this time she didn’t try to kiss me…Anyways she left my country to go back home a few weeks later…
Its now been 3 years since I have seen her, we have kept in contact all this time via phone and internet…she talk a couple of times a month…sometimes even for hours on the phone. We never get bored of each other! (I can tell because she is the type to hang up if she doesn’t want to talk more) we laugh together at the most stupid things. We talk about everything under the sun. We have so much in common that’s its becoming scary! And one more bonus is that we come from the same cultural background! Plus point!
Ok this is where I stand now… She has a boyfriend and has had him from the past 4 years (even when she kissed me) yes I know not a good point but what the heck! We both wanted it… Even though we have kept in contact for the past 3 years we have never bought up what happened that night… I don’t really want to at this stage anyhow…I know what I feel for her and its stronger then anything I have ever felt for anyone! The connection is still there and it keeps growing stronger! I am almost certain she can still feel the connection, but it’s hard to tell! One thing about Aquarius girls is they are very hard to read!!!!…
I want someone else’s opinion? Am I wasting my time? Should I hold on? Do you thin she feels the same way? I don’t know if she just wants friendship or if she would consider more… she tells me her boyfriend is not for her, they are different and that one day she will need to end it as he is very possessive!… but she still hangs on to him?… I don’t know if I should hang on or let it go?
Anyone’s opinion is fine! Thanks guys…
Gemini-Male!
February 26th, 2010 at 6:38 pm
Hi Alysha,
when is your bday and when in your aqua mans bday?
February 27th, 2010 at 3:49 am
thank you Haz…
and my birthday is June 17, his birthday is January 23
February 28th, 2010 at 3:09 pm
How do you know if a gemini likes you?
I am a aquarius and she is a gemini
is their any specific signs I could look for?
any help is appreciated
March 2nd, 2010 at 12:56 am
Hi Haz,
I’m sorry but you had asked our birthdays does the birthdays make a difference? My birthday is May 30 and his is Jan 22nd…he use to ask me out all the time but I’m always so busy so I wouldn’t should I ask him out? I’ll be on spring break and have more free time…please let me know what our
birthdays mean…thanks!!
March 2nd, 2010 at 5:25 am
Legend man…I’m a Gem girl who’s crushing on an Aqua boy but I don’t really show it…I’ll flirt with him and then say something totally unrelated right afterwards to distract him! What you need to know is if she’s into you she will keep contact and before you know it she’ll suprise you and then you’ll know!
March 3rd, 2010 at 1:57 am
Dear PJ,
I am a female Gemini currently in love with a male Aquarius, and I just wanted to say with how much I empathize with your situation. I know what it’s like to be in a long-distance relationship; and I dont know how it is with you (as a guy, of course) but I’m the one who constantly feels insecure about our relationship and the distance we deal with all the time.
My Aquarius is solid, as I’m sure yours is too. He doesn’t worry about the future as much as I do and continually reassures me that he loves me, but the distance makes that “I love you” hard to hear sometimes, you know? I’ve had so many epiphanies about being in love with this man. I’m only 23, and I KNOW that THIS–what we’re experiencing–is the kind of love that so many people search for and dream of. It’s infinitely deep. It’s the black-hole of love, and what makes it even more incredible, is that it’s a two-way street.
So there is no doubt in my mind that you’ve realized by now, as much I have, that Becky is right about our lovers being “fixed”, and that as the “compromisers” you gotta bend around her. “Follow your bliss,” right? And on another note, I have this feeling that (from reading your post) she feels the same way about you too, and that all should be well. Good Luck Fellow Gemini.
Kat
March 4th, 2010 at 4:17 am
This is my first time doing this. I try to work things out for myself or go off of faith. However I find myself reading others ?/or thoughts and would like to see if I can get some imput if you would please. I am in my 40’s 42 and this young man is 24. I must say first I look nothing of my age I look like my daughters sister, but back to the point. I work with this young man, we work well together he waits for me after work just to say bye or walk me out. Sometimes on weekends we spend the whole day together talking walking or working out. (this may happen twice a week) I know that the mind can play tricks on us and i also know his is a very friendly man to others regardless of sex. Sometimes the green in me gets the best of me but I try to keep it down, not knowing how this man feels for me. I take him something to eat every day about/well did. I stopped thinking he due to the fact he did nothing for me. Now he is giving little but still givin something back not that i want it. He does have a girl friend and a daughter she is a pisces, we have not had sex or came close. I can move on he does have my heart we talk alot about any and every thing. My ? is should i hope for more or move on for something I can count on. my b-day june 3rd his Feb 8th
March 4th, 2010 at 9:58 pm
well now what’s bothering me is the fact taht I never get to see him… he’s always busy, and this is making me SO insecure that it’s not even funny. I always tell him, but nothing changes… sometimes I wonder about this relationship… I mean I care about him so much, and when I DO get to see him it’s the most amazing feeling, but the thing is I wanna feel that more often
I am SOOO impatient, I try not be…. but it’s very very hard. sometimes I just dont know what to do with myself! …sigh
March 10th, 2010 at 7:14 am
Hi,
I need help on the birthday thing and how deep our compatibility is. His birthday is May 26 and mine is January 24. Thank You for your help!
March 10th, 2010 at 10:53 pm
I too need help with the birthday comparability mine is May 30th and his is Jan. 22nd thanks!!!
Being a Gem it’ll bother us mentally until we find out…I’m dieing to know!!
March 11th, 2010 at 8:31 pm
Hey Mia,
Your Aqua boy is born just one day into the Aquarius sign, therefore he has some heavy influences of the Capricorn sign in his personality. You are a May born Gemini, they differ to the June born Gemini in some respects, I am also a Gemini born in May the 25th, and we tend to be more confident, head strong and in control of our future (knowing what careers we want to go into and whether we want children or not.. that kind of control). We are also not as shy as June born Gemini’s, infact we are alot more sociable and independent than them, the only negative of us May girls is that we can tend to be alot more moody and temperamental than the average Gemini girl. Not only that but we are also VERY stubborn.
Now, that you are aware of May born characteristics, you will want to know how that correlates with the Aquarius that is born in January rather than February. A May Gem dating a Feb Aquarius is solid and passionate with alot of love and chemistry, but it can lack the long term factor, it may be a short, sexy and sweet relationship, rather than a long and loving one. But that is also to do with how committed both the Gem girl and Aqua man are.
If we look at a Jan born Aquarius with a May born Gemini… it is ALOT better. I have seen this myself. January Aquarians are much more stable and much more in tune with the idea of a long term relationship with the Gemini, this is because the Jan born Aquarian males are alot more solid and in control like us May born Gemini’s. This match is alot more beneficial as it has tha potential to be long and loving. Arguements may arise as they are both strong and stubborn, but that will never be enough to put the relationship to an end, because the Aquarius JUST won’t allow it, remember the Aquarian guy falls head over heels for the Gem girl.
Overall, Gemini girls and Aquarius guys are seen as the best match for each other in the zodiac sign, because they are both so eerily in tune with each other, and have this connection that no other sign can provide for the Aquarian male. It doesn’t really matter what month you are born in; whether you are a May or June Gem. WHAT HAS TO MAKE THE AQUA AND GEM MATCH LAST IS THEIR COMMITMENT TO EACHOTHER ! LOL… that is very and the most important thing… these two signs are sooo perfect for each other, that all they really lack in is their commitment and whether they want it or not.
Have you ever been out with any other Aquarians before?
Hope that helped.
March 11th, 2010 at 10:56 pm
I hope this doesn’t post twice but I don’t see the one I just did.
My Aquarius boy and I lived together for 3 years. We hit a rough patch and I became needy and smothering which is completely out of character for me (I’m a gemini). 4 months ago he asked for “space” which I agreed to by moving out and cutting off contact. He continued to contact me until I asked him to let me alone so I couldn get over him. We are both in our 30’s but this was each of our first serious relationship - first real love. He was really upset that I didn’t want to be friends and retaliated in really childish ways that made things worse. After about 2 months of soul searching I realized that the issues we had were because of some things on my end. I contacted him and told him I missed him. He responded enthusiatically and over the next month we messaged back and forth little things until we agreed we’d “hang out”. The last two weekends we’ve spent some time together but he no longer contacts me during the week at all like he was when we first started talking again. My question is if I should continue to just respond to his requests to get together or if I need to do something more. My thought is to be friends again first and let him see that I’m not the crazy girl I was when he left. We haven’t discussed anything about our past and I hesitate to do so because he (and I) hate emotional conversations. I really messed up with him which I have alluded to. He knows I’m still in love with him. I am patient and I have my own life so it’s not a struggle to keep myself busy I just don’t want my pride to keep me from getting back the best man I’ve ever met. Lots of details missing obviously but do I have a chance here? All of our friends are mututal and he’s confided in my closest friend that he hasn’t ruled out a rekindle…but he’s dating other girls.
March 12th, 2010 at 10:21 am
Hi Gemini35,
You said that you messed up… could you expand on that what did you exactly do if you don’t mind me asking?
From what I have read, it seems like both of you are confused and don’t know whether to move on or just stay together. Aquarians do have an immense need of space, because they have to go back into their own little world. But you stated that you became over emotional and needy, and that for definate can break the Aquarian, because the reason for why the Gemini and Aquarius match together is because they both have found someone who is just as independent as them and understands the need for space.
You said that you both have parted ways, after the Aquarius stated that he needed some space from you.. but when you allowed this to happen, why is he not just getting on with it, instead he is upset that you want to leave it, and that you are happy to get on with your life, and he responds in a childish way. I think that he is smitten with you and does still love you, but he needs time to himself to gather his thoughts and emotions, instead of bothering you, after all it was him who called the time out.
It seems now that you both sooo desperatley want to get back together.. but something is stopping you and by the sounds of it, it is the Aquarians indecisiveness and stubborness.
If you could expand alittle more on the exact problem that was the cause of this seperation in the first place it would be greatly appreciated.
Also when is your birthday and when is your aquarius males birthday?
Reply back soon
March 12th, 2010 at 8:22 pm
Hi Becky.
I could really use your advice.
I’ve been in a relationship with my aquarius for nearly two years now, and a chunk of that time (including now) has been long-distance. While we’ve managed to get along fine with the distance, in recent months it’s been so tough for us. We’re having to compromise a lot about our own personal natures to make it work. For instance, as a Gemini I’ve controlled my urges to communicate too frequently (because my Aqua isn’t a “phone person”), and as an Aquarius my lover makes an effort to communicate more often–because, well…i’m a Gemini. Unfortunately, it’s kind of a vicious cycle because he’s so stubborn at keeping up the good habit.
It’s been really taxing on us, Becky. We love each other so so deeply, but we hate this long-distance relationship. At this point, we’re a living example of the phrase: “I’d rather be miserable with you, than without you.” So far, we’re taking it one day at at time; but what is ironic, is that in this case what I need to be is PATIENT and what he needs to do is COMPROMISE. With enough love and effort, can we make it work?
March 14th, 2010 at 3:17 am
I have been together with a gemini for over five months now and I know were in love. She treats me so amazing and your compatibility has proven this to me along with her being with me. Me and her dated for around a week and then she had to move 800 miles away. This has been the hardest relationship i have ever been in but i love her so much and i never want to end it with her.you are right when we fight we fight even though we havent really had a fight yet. But i know they will be coming but i know we will pull through it because of the way we feel for each other.
March 14th, 2010 at 3:16 pm
I met an aqua online, we met went out for a drink, back to his for a film. There was an instant connexion ..then he had to go away for 2 months so there was no contact..we had planned to do something together when he got back. Now hes back, im the one thats spoken to him first and theres been no talk about doing something together. Its very weird how i have fallen for him, i never want to commit and not instantly, i know he felt the same connexion and im not sure if this is him being him cool self or hes just not interested anymore? Can anyone (preferably and aqua) make anything of this?? Should i forget him, a psychic told me not to give up? Thanks
March 14th, 2010 at 9:57 pm
Hi Everyone,
The fact that I haven’t commented lately does not mean I don’t follow the conversations. As for me I am still in the greatest love with my little fairy gemini and can’t see why it wouldn’t go on and last forever.
To GT first. Dear GT, age doesn’t matter in love so we can skip that part. Your case is quite difficult. A lot of aqua males - despite their love of freedom - are faithful. If I say faithful I mean they feel guilty when cheating on someone but that still would not matter. The real problem is that they love (at least the ones I know) children and leaving a child would be againtst their philosophy of life. Of course, when a relationship is so bad that there is no other solution they can decide to do so but as you surely know they don’t like making decisions too much. If you feel that your relationship can work and he is also showing signs of it - that has already happened in my opinion - go for it, it is your life finally. But - and that is really important - don’t ever push him or make him decide againtst his own will because then he will hate you for that. If there is real love it will find the way for sure.
To Gemini35. Well well, it sounds typical. Crying after the rain. Your problem is that when an aqua moves on he really moves on and it is mainly not emotional but mental. Just like Becky (kisses for her) wrote love between an aqua and a gemini is not just a momentary emotion but a decision as well as it was from you too when asking for a break. I don’t say it is too late and that was it but I am afraid you have to start everything all over again. I mean you cannot just tell him “Sorry I was mistaken, and lets get back to usual” but I think you must fall in love again or at least he has to. That means you cannot behave like you did during your relationship. Instead, you have to be the one you were when you met, the one he fell in love with, someone he can freely chose. I know it sounds difficult but it is also a very good possibility to live it all over again which can be beautiful. Sometimes we all wish we could go back and start that miracle again and again.
To kat. As you just said: A love that is strong enough will solve all the problems. When talking about compromising we are not really saying sacrificing, are we? For when being in love we do the most extraordinary things for the loved one and still we would not feel bad. Why don’t you ask him? It sounds to me he is not that stubborn after all. Just kiss him and make him feel how much you love him and how much you care and he will eagerly “compromise”.
Kisses for you all. I hope everyone else is fine and happy.
MayBeatle
March 15th, 2010 at 11:46 am
whats the compatibility between a male gem born in june and female aqua born in january?
March 15th, 2010 at 3:22 pm
Haz91&MayBeatle-THANK YOU for taking time to read and respond. It’s very much appreciated. I will answer the questions asked…he is Jan 27, I am June 2. Without going into too much drama…he is the first man/person I’ve ever trusted - poor family relationships on my side have taken their toll - unfortunately I figured this out in may ways while he and I were together. He’s a flirt, he’s shocking, he’s “always right” and I’ve always understood. His motives were always so obvious…and I always responded exactly the opposite of what he was seeking because it was so transparent to me. I got him early on and it was really fun. He pursued, I let him. We fell in love slowly and it was AMAZING!! Long story short - a few really terrible things happened on my side and I lost myself. I became very possesive of him and was acting jealous which I am not. I became so afraid I was going to lose him that I basically 180′d into the complete opposite of the person he fell in love with. He stayed for a good 6 months but then asked me for “space”. When he couldn’t verbalize his terms of “space” I dicated them and basically moved away from him and blocked him from my life. He was incredibly upset when we talked about moving away from each other but I was pretty cold about it because I didn’t understand I was at fault. After a month of text messages and emails where he would tell me he couldn’t just turn off I asked him to leave me alone so that I could get over him - he’s asked for space and wouldn’t leave me alone! I can’t give the details of the retaliations but they were just dumb things you’d expect from a high school boy. About 6 weeks later he said he missed me and I actually acknowledged his message which I hadn’t been doing. 3 weeks later it really hit me that I caused this. I sent him a note that I missed him and that opened the floodgates..he kept text messaging me after that about random things. I then saw him with another girl and told him I can’t be friends with someone I’m still in love with; that I knew I had made mistakes and I wanted a chance to fix it but I wanted him to be happy. He said it wasn’t what I thought and that he thinks about me all the time. Two weeks later we got together for a few minutes, the following week he came over and we watched a movie. It’s now been 2 weeks and I’ve heard nothing. I will say his life is in chaos right now for work reasons but that feels like an excuse. Sorry for the book!!! I just need to know if I stay invested in this in some way or I just move on with my life. I feel like I need to leave him be and let him contact me if he wants to but to go from random communications to none is frustrating. The whole course of these events have been over 5 months. Thanks again for reading and giving your opinion.
March 15th, 2010 at 7:48 pm
Hi Betty,
Firstly, a male gemini is considerably different to the female gemini species. But a Gemini born in June compared to a May born Gemini male, is alot more focused, quieter and romantic. The January born Aquarus female is also in alot more control and has alot of ambition and determination.. therefore, you both will match perfectly.
But never the less the Gemini and Aquarius match is like NONE OTHER !
March 18th, 2010 at 6:45 am
hi, becky
this is the first time i have been on your website and many things you say are true about the 2 signs, im a gemini female and this aquarius [child] has been driving me nuts.. you see i can feel there is an extremely strong emtional bond and physical as well, will you see im pretty sure we liked each other cause i could feel it but he ended up having a girlfriend and now im like okay. well i gave us [me] time apart to sort out my feelings i thaught i was done and didnt care about him anymore, will i was wrong because we been recently starting to talk and hanging out as friends again and i can feel the strong atraction between us. is it just me or does that happen nrmally between the 2 signs? anyways we have been bonding extremly well lately after about 2 months that i took off to sort my feelings and i dont know if i should keep on talking which ends up with flirting with him or should i just stay away from him so i dont hurt his relationship with his girlfriend because this situation is driving me nuts i dont know what to do anymore. because my gut feelings say that we belong together and he know it. i njust dont know what to do anymore? any help you can give me would be great!!please i desperatly need your help. thank you so much
March 19th, 2010 at 7:42 pm
Hi All,
I’m a Aqua girl born in January and I feel like this May born Gemini guy is driving me to madness. Every time I see him, I either get butterflies, my heart drops, or if he is upset with me there is definitely anger there. The thing is he is so nonchalant about his interest in me, he stares constantly and we chat sometimes but he has never asked me on a date or anything. It’s like he just calculates everything I tell him and talks to his friends about it. I don’t know, at this point I kind of want to just give up on him and his mood swings. So, I’m just asking for some advice. Thanks in advance!
March 20th, 2010 at 9:09 am
id like to give u advice a female aqua born in jan to another. i dated a gem boy born in june and he frustrated me too. he was a party animal n does not listen to anyone.if u tell him not to do something, hell do it to piss u off. your guy is just playin games. hes playin hard to get. but thsts ok cus we do that too! he may come off distant but he just wants his freedom like us. but, hes very bluntly honest so thats a plus. dont call or text him. wait til he does it first. now its your turn to play hard. good luck
March 20th, 2010 at 11:54 pm
Becky!
will you please read my posts and let me know your thoughts? I’m on the precipice of either reaching out to him which may be a HUGE mistake or just trying to move on. I realize you can’t understand all but am interested if you see any reason for my boy to push communication and the suddenly stop for 2 weeks. Sorry but its driving me crazy.
March 21st, 2010 at 12:44 pm
Hi Kelly,
Looking at your situation, it is an example of a typical Gemini and Aquarius relationship, you both meet, form a strong emotional and sexual bond and then fall for eachother HARD!. However, the only real problem here is that the man you have fallen for, is already taken. The best advice I can give you is to try and maintain that relationship/friendship that you have with your male Aquarius friend, but try and cut the flirting. Its fine if you both want space, but do not break the friendship bond you both have. The flirtiness you have to cut out when you met, a friendship can take place without the inclusion of flrting.
Btw, when is your birthday and when is your aquarian guys birthday and when is his girlfriends birthday?
reply back
March 21st, 2010 at 2:17 pm
Hey, im a Gemini and i fell for this male Aqua, he interests me and we used to talk all the time, we have only been on one date and it was amazing. I just cant stop thinking about him. this is strange for me to fall for someone this fast! im an ice queen (meaning im tough when it come to men and find it difficult to let my guard down) nothing can describe this bond. I could never get bored of him. We didnt talk for a while, and i met the psychic at a bus stop! he described this aqua in perfect detail and told me not to give up on him. sometimes he is very cool and laid back and then other times he will shock me and its the best feeling in the world, i would love for this to work and i want him to get closer, he could be my soul mate ..
March 21st, 2010 at 5:20 pm
Hi guys,
This is just a question that has been on my mind for a while and I was just wondering if anyone could give me an answer.
In a Gemini female and Aquarius male relationship, why does the Aquarius male have such an intense physical attraction to the Gemini, and why do they find it so hard to forget about a Gemini more than the other signs?
I have read and seen so many relationships, where the Aquarius male just goes mental for the Gemini because of her good looks.
Also do Aquarians and Gemini have the best sex?
CAN SOMEONE ANSWER ME THAT
Please !
March 22nd, 2010 at 3:22 am
hey haz91,
mines is june 18 his is on jan. 27 and i dont know what is girlfriends b, day is , sorry and thanks for the advice.
March 27th, 2010 at 6:08 pm
this made my day thanks
April 2nd, 2010 at 6:08 am
Hi,
I need a little help. I’m a gemini male who met an aquarius female online a few months ago. It was an instant connection for me and we chatted back and forth a bit and seemed to really click. The problem for me was I fell for her completely from the start. This never happens to me and even if it does, it’s no big deal. With her it is so different. My feelings were much more intense than what I’m used to so I got scared. I deliberately came on too strong and revealed my feelings too much because I wanted her to back away. I couldn’t stand the idea of hurting her and I really thought if I could convince her that I was a bad idea we would both be happier. (a relationship between us is impractical if not impossible at this point) Everything I said was the truth, just too much too soon. The problem is months later, I really regret doing that. I still feel connected to her. Just knowing that she’s alive and ok makes me so happy, how pathetic is that? I don’t really need her approval of me but I miss her so much. The weird part is I’m not sad, lonely or depressed. Every morning feels like Christmas. Even though we haven’t spoken for months now, I wake up every day glad to be alive and glad she’s alive. What do you call this? I remember when I first saw her picture, I thought to myself “Who the hell are you?” Something about her, her hair, those eyes and that brainy mind of hers, so weird in a wonderful way. She haunts me like a ghost and she stays with me. I’m sure that I’m not right for her and I obviously chased her away. I don’t know what this is and I don’t know what to do. I didn’t believe in astrology before, I actually looked it up hoping to convince myself we were incompatible. This is the only place where people seem to share my experience on some level. I obviously don’t have the answers so I welcome them wherever I can find them. Another strange thing I noticed about her is that we are mirror images of eachother in a lot of ways… scars, birthmarks and other features. Its like meeting her was finding a part of me that I didn’t know existed. This is so much more weird and intense than I’m comfortable with and I didn’t want to hurt her. Does anybody understand any of what I’m going through? What should I do? If I feel this, does she feel it too? Is this a strain on her? I’m trying to just let go but every day it’s like someone hits the reset button and I have to start all over. She also seems to read my mind at times and probably doesn’t know it. Thanks for all help and advice.
April 5th, 2010 at 8:26 pm
I am an aquarius female and i have a gemini boyfriend. We have been going out for over a year and he is my soulmate. We have our ups and downs and when we fight its very bad but we always make up we simply cant live without each other
April 7th, 2010 at 2:38 am
Hi There Becky,
can you please tell me a little about what attracts an aquarius female? I have a close friend who i am falling for and she lives on the other side of the world. We have kissed before, but havent seen eachother for 3 years now… just wondering what i can do to make our bond closer? and attract her in a way most other guys cant do.
Anyone can answer this! open to any reply! thanks.
April 9th, 2010 at 11:58 am
Dear Bekky
I really appreciate what you wrote about aquarius and Gemini couple,i’m an aquarius stubborn woman & my bf is crazy jaleous gemini man & as you said over emotional.we’ve been together for almost 6 month and honestly from the first day we met we felt that we’re soo in love with each other,we argue and fight a lot because he wana know everything thats happening with me since i wake up till i sleep and after we argue and i say lets end up this relation ship it’s making me crazy he answers me if i love him & of course i say yes i love you but you’re making me loose my brain.every month i try to go to see him back home and when we meet at the airport we really dont wana talk about our fights or anyhing we just wana be together talk hang out & of course we dont stop on making love for hours.from my experience as an aquarius i never matched with any sign the way i matched with the gemini and they really do lots of compromises for us and we do are patient with their jalousie and 1000000 questions that they have to ask us everyday…
Thank you Beky for your astrology your really blessed to say true things that are really happening between this beautifull matching signs Aquarius and Gemini
wish you all the best in everything
jina 09/04/2010
April 15th, 2010 at 3:53 pm
Hi,
Just generally going back to what Jina said about her gemini man being jealous, I wanted to explore the concept behind jealousy occuring with Aquarius and Gemini relationship. In alot of the analysis that I have read it states that both these signs have such a deep understanding and are so comfertable with each other, that there is no room for jealousy to occur. The Aquarius and Gemini have alot of faith and affection for each other that they trust and love each other completely.
BUT!
There is some arguements to this, in some of the stories that I have read on this site and other sites, there are some weird examples of the Aquarius man being controlling and jealous of the Gemini woman’s relationship with other male friends or the Gemini man being overly controlling and jealous of the Aquarian females male friends. I dont understand how this works.
On one hand they are saying that the Gemini and Aquarius match is superbly healthy, and on the other there is this mention of there being jealous and controlling tendancies.
Anyone agree or disagree?
April 20th, 2010 at 10:24 pm
@Haz91,
To reply to your statement I definitely agree. The gemini man is extremely, w/o a doubt jealous of the Aquarius’ male friends and any male that talks to her besides himself that he feels she may find attractive.
April 23rd, 2010 at 8:30 pm
To Ashley,
Thank you. At least someone understands this pattern as well as me. It is just something that I have picked up on.
I think that as well as Gemini males the Aquarian males can also be quite controlling. But in a Gemini female and Aquarian male relationship, that tends to happen, the Aquarian is more of the leader type person in the relationship and the Gemini woman is happy to follow. So I do not think it is as much of a big problem as the Gemini men.
April 30th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
wow i felt like i was reading me and my boyfriends relationship im an Aquarius and he is a Gemini. we have a great relationship. even with some of the trip ups we have managed to stay together for 4 years going on five. and i really do feel like he is my soul mate.
May 1st, 2010 at 1:49 pm
I’m an Aquarius myself and my girlfriend is a Gemini. We’re both bisexual so we get along fine.Sometimes we argue about things but we always make up. There was this one arguement where she accused me of cheating on her with this other girl and since being an Aquarius, i flipped out. I hate being accused and that started a big arguement between us. My girlfriend likes to fight one minute and have makeup sex the next. She always says that she doesn’t like the sexual thing but once we was in bed and she showed me a good time (it wasn’t real sex if we’re both girls).
Thanks so much, i really needed this.
May 1st, 2010 at 1:55 pm
This is my second time being on this website and i need help on what to do to improve my relationship with my Gemini woman. She has an attitude with me at the moment and what should i do to get her out that mood.
Any reply would be helpful. =)
May 5th, 2010 at 3:48 pm
Hi Down and drity Miah
I have read your problem, and you mention that your Gemini accused you of cheating. I will need to know her birthday and your birthday because then I can look at her character closley. But Gemini can tend to be alittle insecure at times, they just don’t want to loose the ones that they love and sometimes they dont realise that by being insecure and jealous that is the way to loose you partner. Why has she got an attitude with you?
Could you tell me your birthdates and expand on why she might have an attitude with you?
May 8th, 2010 at 9:16 pm
i am really in love with this girl name Kassandra loayzat im the gemini but she is one year older than me but i really love her but.. i dont know i guess im … too much of a jerk to ask her out
i fell sad.. i wish i had the guts to ask her out but…ahhhh
May 11th, 2010 at 3:42 pm
Hi Down and Dirty Miah
Can I just ask when is your birthday and when is your gemini girls birthday?
May 14th, 2010 at 1:04 am
im February 11th and she’s June 20th
May 28th, 2010 at 9:56 pm
I am a 28 yr old Aqua female born Feb. 13. She is a 30 year old Gem born June 3rd. Our relationship started off as us being associates and then years later we began dating. We dating only four months and within those four months we had 2 bad arguments in which she told me that she felt that she can’t communicate with me. Despite my efforts to make things right she begin to step out on our relationship. However, I caught her before she actually did anything. After I brought it to her attention she decided to tell me that she is not ready to be in a relationship. She also stated that she is in love with me but I am confused and don’t understand how you could be in love with someone but not want to make it work. Also after I calmed down I told her how I felt and that I too thought abt stepping out although I did not have a plan. We had a good talk but she had to call me back ansd never called back. Do Gem woman usually just become so cold that easy. Are they still this cold even if they claim that are in love with you?
May 31st, 2010 at 8:47 am
I don’t think there is pure Aqurians.It is mixed with any other sign.It gives them two personality.Become typical one of that sign.They are good actors too.
Gemini is dual in nature,connecting with people who have dual personality.
Thus it work in positive cases and collapse in negative cases.
June 6th, 2010 at 4:29 pm
Hi everyone,
In the past I have spoken about the great relationship that is conceived between a Gemini and Aquarius. How both of these signs are so devoted and loving towards each other. And I do not go against what I have said, but something has come to my mind about the Aquarius sign, that has got me thinking alot more carefully about these creatures.
Now, we all know and are ready to openly say how Gemini, has such a vital falw of being moody, emotional and difficult to live with at times. But there is one thing that has struck me about the Aquarian. Speaking from personal experience, I recently became friends with this Aquarian female, and me and her become quite close. We laughed, shared our deep thoughts and were often childish with eachother, making our friendship beautiful and fun. However, there were some people that had a problem with her, they were all saying the same thing to me which is she is bad, do not get too close to her. I ignored, this because I am a stubborn Gemini, but I felt that she was geniunely a good soul and kept defending her when anyone would say anthing bad against her.
So, as time went on, we were what I thought as good friends. One day she invited me over to stay at her house, I was thrilled, thinking she is sooo nice and I felt that she had this mutual feeling of their being a good friendship. She had invited another good friend of hers. The next day I wake up, get ready, and was about to leave, when her friend stopped me and told me that the girl who I thought was close to me, had infact been bitching and talking about me behind my back. Her other friend told me everything she had said about me, and I WAS SHOCKED. IT WAS ALL LIES!.
I was angry and really pissed off. As well and the Aquarian the Gemini also values friendship and there was no need for her to have told her friend all that shit about me. So, I thought, I am going to confront her about what I have heard.
So, I went home and the next day I saw her, I took her to one side and asked her what I had heard, and why she had said all those lies about me, she turned around and burst into tears. I asked her whether it was true and she said it was, because she had lied to me enough by being a fake friend. So, I told her that I do not want anything to do with her and she needs to stay away from me, which was followed by more tears and apologies.
Even till this day, I see her around and she makes me angry. I dont hate her because hate is a strong word, I just dislike her and want nothing to do with her. I know it KILLS her that we arent friends, whenever she sees me, she just looks away and goes quiet. Not even that but she came up to my best friend and cried to her, telling her how much she missed my friendship. But I jsut turned around and said, why did she talk about me to such a nasty extent. Till this day she has not given me an answer to why she did it. But to be honest I don’t want to know. We are going our seperate ways and I am carrying on with my life.
This was an Aquarian, that I valued and treated well. She was born January 29th. I asked my other friends whether they had known other Aquarians to be two faced and they have spoken of some.
Sorry, if this is long, lol. I just had to write my revelation about the Aquarian’s hidden bad personality. I had never met one like this before. But then I think to myself, every zodiac sign has flaws… right?
June 7th, 2010 at 11:19 am
i”m a gemini female, i have a Aquarius boyfriend… its good… but im never happy with anyone im with for long… there is always a flaw or a thing im not happy, i think even i find the package, i will still move on to something else… gemini can not be tied down… its just not possible with any star sign
June 8th, 2010 at 6:08 pm
Hi Becky & everybody,
I’m a Gemini female, and I’m wondering about Gemini female / Aquarius female love compatibility: in general, is this a good match?
I don’t even know if the aqua woman I’m thinking of in particular likes women, but I sometimes get vibes from her, and we are becoming closer and closer (and I’m becoming more and more hopelessly smitten). I know the only way to really know is to ask, because it can be next to impossible for a woman to know if another woman “likes” her, since women tend to be closer with one another anyway, but are there any telltale signs that an aqua woman is interested romantically? How open are they to “unconventional” relationships?
These questions are for anyone that might be able to help!
Peace,
leadmare
June 12th, 2010 at 10:32 am
Samantha,
that is an interesting point you have raised. I think Gemini and Aquarius are a long lasting couple when they want to be. I think if anyone can hold the Gemini down its the Aquarian.
Btw when is your birthday and when is your aquarian bf birthday ?
June 24th, 2010 at 5:13 pm
I am a 28 yr old Aqua female born Feb. 13. She is a 30 year old Gem born June 3rd. Our relationship started off as us being associates and then years later we began dating. We dating only four months and within those four months we had 2 bad arguments in which she told me that she felt that she can’t communicate with me. Despite my efforts to make things right she begin to step out on our relationship. However, I caught her before she actually did anything. After I brought it to her attention she decided to tell me that she is not ready to be in a relationship. She also stated that she is in love with me but I am confused and don’t understand how you could be in love with someone but not want to make it work. Also after I calmed down I told her how I felt and that I too thought abt stepping out although I did not have a plan. We had a good talk but she had to call me back ansd never called back. Do Gem woman usually just become so cold that easy. Are they still this cold even if they claim that are in love with you?
Read more: Aquarius Compatibility With Gemini 2009
August 5th, 2010 at 5:45 pm
I have been reading all these comments and would like to give a little encouragement to Geminis and Aquarians who are early in their relationship and still searching for balance. I am an Aquarius lady who has been married to a wonderful and sweet and interesting and fascinating Gemini man for 28 years. We have been together since I was 17 and he was 20. The day we met we knew immediately that we are soul mates. It was a feeling that was difficult even for us to put into words. We could talk for hours about any subject and always feel that we completely understand each other. And he hardly ever stops talking — but his talk isn’t superficial garbage — he really is so very interesting. I have never known anyone like him. Several of our friends have remarked about how we have similar mannerisms and we have noticed that we often complete each other’s sentences with just what the other one was going to say. It’s like we’re very psychic about each other. We went through the thing at first with him being so over-protective and upset about other males I knew even though these guys were only friends. He would get all depressed but I later realized that he was just trying to deal with his own feelings of uncertainty. Like he has always said, good communication is the most important element in a relationship, so, when he used to get into one of his moods, I would just shower him with love and reassurance, and communicate to him that I know that he is my soul mate and these other guys are definitely NOT people that I would enter into a relationship with, he would come out of it. But you must take care to do this kind of thing without making him feel that he will lose his freedom. It wasn’t always easy, as I wanted to be with him so much, but I used to make it clear to him that I didn’t want to own him and that his freedom is not being curtailed at all and that I have a lot of other interests, etc. After he internalized that message, he came after me with a vengeance and would not leave me alone once he realized that I respected his need for freedom. We got married six months after meeting. He has been the most awesome husband — faithful, loyal, protective and as an Aquarius I find his stellar mind power to be exhilarating. And not to mention a lover who is sexy beyond all belief — so creative. In fact, he’s the only man I ever knew who could keep up with me intellectually. I have sun, mercury, saturn and the moon in Aquarius, and also mars in Gemini and venus in Libra and Libra ascendant. He has his sun and mercury in Gemini and he too has a Libra ascendant. My birthday is 10 Feb. and his is 10 June.
It’s interesting that a Gemini male is the only one who seems to be able to make an Aquarius woman feel really quite feminine. Many Aquarius females feel a little masculine and may have some doubt about if they are all that feminine. And I know that obviously other planetary positions have some effect on this as well, so one must look at the entire chart of the individuals involved. Having said that, when I am with him, I really feel like toning down the traditional Aquarian stubbornness and fixed-qualities. It’s like I just suddenly feel so feminine with him and not only do I not mind letting him be the leader in our relationship by in my heart I really want him to be. But that works out well with us as he is willing to compromise and is very considerate of my desires too. So I guess we balance each other out. I had to laugh about the person who said that Geminis ask a million questions every day and are nosy. It is because they are interested in everything. And wouldn’t you rather have them do that than to NOT be interested in you? I would. And talk about being egalitarian with women being more than wives who stay at home. He put me through law school after he graduated from there and it was tough and a long drawn-out process for me as we had two sons while I was doing that, but he was really supportive of my getting as much education as I desired. (But of course, he would have been tremendously bored with a woman who stays home all the time and can’t even carry on a conversation.) We have a huge stack of books we are reading next to our bed and don’t you just know that reading and discussing books are two of our most-enjoyed times together. Anyway, my point is that the Gemini-Aquarius relationship is second-to-none and that if in the beginning you can just ride out the arguments (yes, they are like a hurricane and and earthquake at the same time, but not the end of your relationship — your Gemini will not leave over an argument if he really loves you) — and not hold onto him too tightly so that he feels cut off from his air element, then you will have a partner that truly understands you and a relationship that will be still going strong many years later. We are still as crazy about each other as when we met, but I think it’s actually better now since we have some experience in how to deal with each other’s craziness. And in a way I see his craziness as a virtue as I would definitely be really bored with anything less. Gemini males are simply the best — just like the Tina Turner song. Best wishes to all the Gemini-Aquarius couples. Hold onto each other — it’s a very special cosmic relationship.
August 9th, 2010 at 11:08 pm
I am a gemini in love and getting closer to an aquarius boy. It’s everything you said, the mental connection and the magic and all.
The problem is he is in a relation with a pisces for many years, that i don’t think is going too well but is based on friendship and calmness. I know that he cheated on her before we met but they got back together.
I feel he has feelings for me too, we became quick close friends and now we all go out together etc.
I even like her because she is his girlfriend and is obvious needy of his love. Who wouldn’t be?
We hadn’t been flirting although i dream a lot about him. He once told me he was shy but i am even worse! (i have an aquarius ascendant) I don’t want to get involve in their thing, cause i wouldn’t want her to suffer and i know he wouldn’t, also. But my feelings get stronger and don’t know what to do. Let him know or let him be?
Someone in an earlier post said something about a TV series called Secrets or something, to help a gem girl not to stay down when they’re down. You know what it is?
August 13th, 2010 at 2:40 pm
I am a 26 year old male. I have dated a 25 year old female (Gemini) for 10 years. I am Aquarius. This union has not been easy, but we have never truly broke up. The relationship brings some chaotic things, but we both are equally passionate about music, movies, games and art, so it really helps.
August 13th, 2010 at 2:52 pm
In high school, I felt awkward approaching any girl when I felt intensely about them. I think Aquarius’ know what they want, but often kid themselves into thinking they either a) don’t want it or b) don’t want to come across two strong. That’s just my observation.
August 13th, 2010 at 2:53 pm
*too strong.
August 15th, 2010 at 4:39 pm
Hi Ross,
just a question for you when is your birthday and when is your girlfrinds birthday?
August 16th, 2010 at 9:51 pm
I am a Female Gemini and my boyfriend is an Aquarius. This described our relationship so well! There is never a dull moment in our lives. When we fight I get very emotional and feel like my world is over. Of course he leaves and comes back when I have calmed down. As soon as he returns I don’t say a word to him & let him come to me (of course I give in right away). I’m a fool in love when it comes to My Aquarius as is he. We break up and always find our way back into each other’s life. Our sex life is awesome but not our main priority. Both of us are very career driven and love to make $$$ in order to have to best time wherever we go. I do believe that I have found my life long soul mate:)
August 17th, 2010 at 11:40 am
Wow….i’m blown away…i’m a Gemini lady and i’m in love with this Aquarian guy…we click a lot, both creative and when im with him i am able to express myself fully and i feel he understands my world….i love him deeply…..yep it is true about the sex…..ohhh my cant get enough of him…..we are no longer together though and i miss him dearly………
August 20th, 2010 at 12:54 pm
Hi Letty and Asa,
May I ask when is your birthday and when is your Aquarian males birthday?
x
August 22nd, 2010 at 5:01 pm
ok so everyone’s found their soulmate except me. i have became interested in this aqua-gemini for less than a year and since then i only meet aqua men with whom i connect instantly but that’s it. i am 27 on may22/83 and there are now 3 boys im interested in, 17.02/83, 30.01/82 and 7.o2/80. The first two are in a relation and the third… well he came on to me the first day we met, i got scared and declined but now i sometimes think or dream about him but dont see him often. could u at least give me an advice on whom i might be astrological compatible with? i feel im chasing 3 rabbits (but only with my thoghts) and catching none. maybe i should concentrate my thinking on only one. or should just wait.
I’m so convinced of this union that i think i’d go blind with any aqua-guy available out there.
love to all.
August 25th, 2010 at 8:47 am
hi ,
I am a gemini female born may 31, currently in love with an aquarius male feb 6. he is an amazing person and ive never felt the way i feel about him towards another man. he is so artistic, creative, expressive, adamant about music, and he does have a touch of genius. the problem the lies is that he is in a relationship. over the past 6/7 months i realized he is everything i want in a mate and if he is not the one for me he is the prototype of what i want in my spouse. i am certain that aquarius males are the only match for me and the only ones who i can completely give myself to.
September 20th, 2010 at 12:13 pm
Hi guys,
This is just a general statement that is open for anyone to comment on. I think from past experiences, it can be that the Aquarian needs the Gemini more than the Gemini needs the Aquarius. I will give you an example. I have a friend, she is an Aquarian born January 29th we got on really well, until recently we have a falling out, she tells me that she doesnt need me anymore, so I was like cool we should just stay away from eachother. Simple as. What happens?…
She is calling and textin me 2 days after, apologising and saying that I mean alot to her and that she really needs me to be there for her.
I accept and ta da… were back to being friends again.
This is not the first Aquarius friend I have fell out with. I have had some fights with other Aquarian dudes and girls. The girls can be alittle needy for me as a Gemini girl (May 25th) The guys are not too bad but I once had an Aqua guy (Feb 10th) come up to me and say ‘you are being alittle distant’. My response was ‘Its not that I’m just giving you space’ :p Then he grabbed me and hugged me and said ‘Well i am done having some space’.
Correct me if I am wrong but I always read that Aquarians need their time and space and they hate needy people. Then why have I come across the exact opposite.
October 17th, 2010 at 9:24 pm
Hello everyone….
I am so grateful to have found this site….
I am a gemini female…. and am dating an aqarius male who is 43 yrs of age… I am 42.
Met him back in end of June and started dating him by July 8th. He was my boss at first… then I had to quit to continue dating him.
When he started flirting with me and asking me to go out to lunch with him… his sister & neice from Israel had just arrived for a month long vacation…. he made a point to introduce me to both of them at work… at the time we weren’t going out yet and I was still working there.
Then on our first date… he came right out and said he couldn’t continue dating me if I was to continue working there… and so, I decided to quit my job there by the 2nd week of July since I also was getting signs I needed to purse my true passion. By our second date he had invited me to a BBQ he was throwing in his apt where his sister, neice and closest of friends were attending. Not long after that, we were seeing each other evey weekend and once during the week. He called me every day and evening.
Long story short… we broke up for 3 weeks… got back together and now… he doesn’t offer a monogamous relatiohship to me anymore… says it doesn’t sit well with him any longer and he is extremely distant and hardly ever calls me. But we do still see each other every week.
His mother also arrived from Israel about a month ago and just left for the airport today to go back to Israel…. so for the last 4 weeks, I have hardly seen him or heard from him… but he still managed to make time for us onece a week.
I finally was introduced to his mom 4 days ago over a nice dinner and then stayed over with them in his apt. ANd I got to spend another 5 hours with them yesterday before jer flight home today.
So… with that said…. I am so confused as to how he thinks of me… cause he is so distant when we are apart… only when I see him in person is he affectionate, loving, kind and warm. He does hold my hand in public, kisses and hugs me and is pretty demonstrative in public. However… I have cought him staring at other women and openly flirting with other girls in my presence. I have not pointed it out.. as I know th outcome of that. We promised to be 100% honest & truthful towards each other… so I am trying to see our relationship that way. I truly don’t think he will cheat or take advantage of his new found freedom in our renewed relationship. But… I am not 100% sure he will be faithful. In the beginning he did tell me he is not the type to sleep around. When he is intimate with someone… it is only with that one person and that’s it.
So… I am trusting in those words he gave me when we first met…. even tho he won’t give me monogamy or exclusivity right now. I am trying to focus on all the positive things we have and the fact that he has just recently introduced me to his mom and of course his other family & friends.
But… his flirting just totally threw me for a loop…. is this harmless and typical behavior of an aquarian? SHould I just ignore that and see the postive things? Please… if anyone can offer any insight or advice… I would so appreciate this.
A lost gemini in love with an aqua man,
Lisa
October 17th, 2010 at 11:39 pm
Unfortunately, we’re not together anymore.
I really miss her a lot. Her birthday was June 16 and mine was January 25th.
October 24th, 2010 at 8:41 am
i was involved with an Aquarius male once upon a time. truth is when u add up the amount of time we’ve actually spent together its not enough. i’m Gemini female and i detested the arguments. he had the stamina and the ego for it and i simply refused to spend energies being aggressive. i hate rowdy approaches to an issue and his stubborn, goat-headed nature won’t allow room for observing others’ perspectives. in order to avoid these stupid fights i’d usually keep the relationship on the phone. he could never see his shortcomings but always quick to point mine. fight after fight, one argument after the other. no way! we had to breakup and it was dramatic! lucky for those who can sustain a relationship, GOD bless you all. any compatibility is best in friendship
October 24th, 2010 at 11:40 pm
Wow, I stumbled across this page accidently. I was looking for Geminis who have settled down and vice versa.
My situation is a little different but what I have read feels exactly the same as most of the post.
I meet this Gemini Guy; oh my does he tick all the right boxes for me. Im the type of person who does not go for looks; personality is what I crave in a man. I believe I am a typical Aquarian woman. I have had relationships with different signs but never have I come across a gemini until now!!!!! What have I been missing.
He is soo witty, annoying and sexy! We met through a mutal friend and have hit it off ever since. He has been locked up for 4 years and is almost at the end of his sentence (was young and immature). He told me from day one he speaks to 5 other females but does not feel like they want to be with him for him. Because I live sooo far away from where he is from I dont know much about his past whereas they do. He has told me A LOT of things and I am gobsmacked at how brutally honest he can be. I see him once a week and write twice weekly!!! He just keeps saying you will see when im out of here or we will see what happens. He has invited me to stay at his parents house when he is out; so we can spend time together. I have been burnt in the past and feel like my past will dictate my future. But there is something about him that keeps telling me just wait and see, it wont hurt. He does not say things like I love you and want to be with you; which I love! Because that would feel false. He just says I cant wait to see you when we are away from everyone else.
We dont argue because I dont like argements. However when he is pissed off he lets me know and we talk it through. He always comes to me to sort things out. I think I love him but im scared he will think im needy or does not share my feelings so I dont say anything at all!!!
Im a Aquarian 5th Feb 1984 his Gemini 20th June 1986! I do believe we will be in each others lives forever one way or another! I believe we are destined. I would love for him to be the one!!!
October 26th, 2010 at 10:30 am
Hi, can anyone give me advice? I am a gemini male and I want to know how I can tell if an Aquarius female has something 4 me… we have known eachother for a number of years now… we both live in different parts of the world and live our own lives… we are still in contact even though we havent seen each other for years…she still seems to contact me if she needs to just talk to someone… Its been a while now…but as I am in my late twenties.. this girl has been the longest female to stay in my life as a close friend..its weird…usually girls come and go…this one is still around… do u think there could be something there???… ANYONE please provide feedback.. thanks.
October 30th, 2010 at 12:36 am
Haz91 that was jus beautiful …I’m done having space :)This summer my aqua boy would randomly text me Hello…I always respond but one day I didn’t and he hasn’t spoken to me since…I think about him everyday…I can sense him its weird!
November 6th, 2010 at 1:42 pm
WOW …
No one has posted here for a while lol except me …
Where have all the peeps gone?
:S
November 27th, 2010 at 9:38 pm
Hi
People where has everyone gone, lol, this used to be the most discussed match on this website. I have been checking this site for like months and there has not been a single new entrrrryyyy!
Where has everyone gone…
Come on people Gemini and Aquarius is a great match spread the love
December 14th, 2010 at 4:08 pm
Hello Becky
WOW….I am an aquarius girl and I recently met a gemini guy……our convos are truly awesome we talk for hours in the begining and he was all over me…..we have never had sex………Then his job got to be really demanding he works nights ………so he flip the script on me and told me we need to be just friends…….he still takes me out, calls and texts……..but he wont touch me…….he says that he feels that he cant commit right now because it is not fair to me because his job demands so much of his time…..he has been betrayed in the pass so all I can do is respect his wishes……..
Any advice out there what should I do …..move on or wait and see where it goes……we have great chemistry……I am lost right now…..
December 15th, 2010 at 1:38 am
Hey, ok i’m going to make this as brief as possible. First I am a gemini male, born June 9th, 1987. I have known a Aquarius female for the past 3 years. Just recently, we made it clear to each other that we liked each other alot, only problem, she has a boyfriend and she is serious with him. However she told me that she did have strong feelings for me, but I should have said something when she was really pursuing me. I don’t know what it is, but there is some serious connection between Gemini Men and Aquarius and Leo Women. As of late, they are the main women I have been encountering. It’s like the chemistry is there rather we say anything to each other or not. The reason why I know this is because I just found out two of my crushes, one Aquarius Woman born, Feb.15,1988 is really serious with her boyfriend(the one I mentioned above.) and I get the sense that I do not have any chance with her. Than the Leo woman, born August 6th 1987, I really feel like there is no chance in hell of me getting back with her. With them both, I did something that made them turn away, it was not to hurt them or treat them bad, but a lack of me not knowing better or knowing if they were really into me. I would say that I want to know how to win one of them back, but from what I know it will not happen. What I want to do is get over them. I talk to other girls and go on dates, but it’s like i’m losing a major part of me, like we were connected and never meant to be separated. It’s crazy, I don’t know, almost like they have some sort of hold on me, the aquarius woman in one way, and the leo woman in another. Please help.
December 17th, 2010 at 3:20 am
I am seeing an gemini man, I am the AquariuS lady . oh boi yeah we get on sometimes but I just find him so boring sometimes he loves being at home all the time and I need to see whats out there but together. I think he is hiding someing I,ve been seeing him for a year now he thinks his smart but his not. I just leave him to get on with it. I find him not that caring wheres the love, I AM NOT LIKE i THAT if i got it i would give it, and he is cuming around bossy and u no dtas a no,no. I think I HAVE to find my self another gemini soon because he makes me talk to much. I feel it goes throw one ear and comes out again.
December 19th, 2010 at 10:48 am
omg. I love the article u wrote becky on aquarius gemini compatibility, i myself(gemini woman) being with an aquarius man knows the feeling of what u are talking about. We have had an on and off relationship…always because of me im such a flirt with other guys so i’ve broken up with him. But then i would call him and feel attracted to him more than ever like a magnet pulling me to him. Now we are about to have a year of knowing each other. We have had our fights too. Again because of me askin if he really loves me…..even 2 geminis, the aquarius leave the impression of bein a little cold hearted. But the lovemakin is great no complains there.
December 30th, 2010 at 9:59 pm
Hello there…
As I said I am a gemini woman of 42yrs… I look like I am in my 20’s tho… and this is one reason why my aquarian man of 43 likes me so much. I take excellent care of myself spiritually, mentally, emotionally and physically and these are the traits that attract me to him. I also have a lot of cancer traits… I am extremely loyal, sensitive, very grounded and love affection and am highly sensual with high sex drive. I am extremely passionate, compassionate, kind, sweet, positive, open, trustworthy and all about truth and honesty. The stability, family, home and security within a relationship are crucial and non-negotiable for me. I am not flighty nor am I wishy washy and I do not like lies and dishonesty. I dislike manipulation of any sort. I am extremely emotional and sensitive but yet I am highly evolved emotionally and mentally and know when to pick my battles…. truthfully, I do not like confrontations but will be truthful about my feelings, even if it will rock the boat.
The man I am dating or rather, no longer dating… we are now “friends”… he is so afraid and constantly pushing me away, but not too far. He is always sending me confusing signals… very hot and then distant and cold. Yet, now that we are friends… he is alot more flirtatious and friendly and even affectionate like he used to be, which I missed so dearly. When we do get together once a month… he is flirting with me constantly and the passion and chemistry between us… is not to be denied. Even others on the outside looking in, have commented that they can tell he has the major hots for me. It’s uncontrollable… we just cant seem to help ourselves. Even when he says he is trying so hard to respect me as a friend and not hurt me in any way, he can’t help the chemistry and we end up being intimate and spending the night. He does not want any confinement or to feel obligated to anyone in anyway… he wants total freedom and does not want a relationship right now. Even the friends with benefits thing he is uncomfortable with. He does not want to answer to anyone or feel like he has to call anyone of see anyone in particular… which I totally get and am ok with now that I understand how aquarians are.
When we first met, he did offer me exclusivity and introduced me to his friends and family members within the first 2-3 days of our dating…. for the next 4 weeks, we were spending every weekend together hanging out with his closest of friends and then things started to wane. He no longer called and texted me 3-4 times a day and that’s when I started to ask what was going on.
Then soon after… we broke up, became friends, got back together again for another 2 weeks, broke up again and were friends again. And now… he doesn’t even want to engage in any kind of sexual activity cause he feels obligated to call me, text me and go out with me even when I am ok with his need for independence. Mind you…. I have not asked for any commitment, I have not asked for him to call or reach out more to me… I know better now… as he did make it clear months ago that he can not provide any of this. In my mind, we were just friends who can’t help the chemistry and passion btwn us… and I was ok with that. I didn’t expect anything beyond this nor did I misunderstand the intimate situation recently… and he made sure I understood this before engaging in sex this last time. I was well aware of what we were doing and that it was not going anywhere or changing anything.
I don’t understand why he is now asking we be only friends… platonic, non-sexual friends, when I have not asked him for anything in return. Why is he feeling obligation and confined when I have not asked for anything. He says, it’s weird that a guy is asking for no-sex instead of the girl in the relationship. I know the sex was amazing… it was so obvious, it felt like old times. I know when I am with him, he loves it… has no complaints… it’s when we are apart and gets a chance to analyze things that he then breaks up with me.
I am so confused…. I can clearly see he is so attracted to me, he says he cares so deeply for me and doesn’t want me to get hurt and is trying so hard to be proper and respectful of the boundaries… he says he has too many things on his plate and doesn’t want to get involved with anyone right now. I have not asked for anything at all… we are just friends…. still he pushes me away simply because we spoke 2 days in a row after our last sexual encounter. Can anyone interpret this for me? Am I crazy or is he really afraid of his feelings for me?
Can any aquarian male shed any light on this situation? Can a female gemini who’s been in these situations shed any light? I feel like he doesn’t appreciate my friendship or who I am. I have so many other men chasing after me… and of all the ones I like… it is the one who doesn’t like or want me back? Why am I getting so many confusing messages from him… that’s what I don’t understand.
Please help me understand this man if you have any insights to share.
TY…
Gemini confused….
January 4th, 2011 at 8:22 pm
Dear Lisa,
If he says he doesn’t want anything serious; than I’m sure he means it. No Aquarian wants to hurt someone so it’s difficult to express that we don’t want an emotional relationship. He obviously thinks you guys have a lot of fun. That is a hard connection to let go of, but he is trying pretty hard to be honest with what he can give, which is not much. He likes to have fun but does not want the emotional pull of a relationship. In my freindships; the gemini women I know need a lot of reassurance, affection, and for lack of a better word, maitenence
As an aquarian myself, I hate to text (except for an occasional burst of communication) and can feel myself shutting off when there is emotional pressure coming from a partner. Especially if I’m just trying to have fun.
Best of luck, and remember, RELAX! it’s sexy!
If an Aquarian is going through a point in their life where they can only take care of themselves, then the best thing to do would be to give him some space. If he comes chasing after you when he feels he’s ready than great! But if he does not, than you can know to move on. There is nothing that drives Aqua crazier than when they cannot have what they want when they want it. If you become unavailable, he will prob come around
I do have to say, that if he is trying to shift the relationship from sexual to platonic, he is probably sleeping with someone else..
January 6th, 2011 at 4:58 am
Hey this site needs to be updated to 2011…it’s not 2009 anymore. more ppl would comment if it was updated.
January 6th, 2011 at 10:24 pm
I agree with aquemini…
January 14th, 2011 at 4:26 am
I myself am a Gemini women and my fiance is an Aquarius man and we have the most wonderful relationship. Me and him go together like Peas and Carrots or water and ice or like sweet in sugar. This i must say is the truth we are a great match for one another he understands me and i understand him, we never fight and we always know what the other is thinking when they are thinking it. Its crazy how the connection is just there. This is a BEAUTIFUL match! Till Death do us part.
January 14th, 2011 at 10:47 am
Hi everyone i am a aquarian female dating a Gemini man. He is my soul mate.
We’ve been dating for only a short 4 months but Jesus can it get any better than this?
I also believe we are psychically connected. We live 1 hour apart, out of all the Starbucks between my home and his. we end up at the same one UNPLANNED. when im thinking something like surprising him with his favorite food. He would text me “oh i just got you your favorite drink! cream soda” or when i’m thinking about him to a point of insanity ..i would think to myself ” i wonder what he is doing…should i text him now or later…”(wait couple of mins or hours) and right when im texting ..my gemini man sends me a text “how is your day baby? i miss you”…
When we sleep…i swear i never had this happen before…WE breathe in and out the EXACT same time…our heartbeats are in sync with each other lol
When we walk, i noticed we walk with the same leg. Even when i purposely switch it…we eventually get back to walking the same pace and the same leg.
When or what i feel…i know he is feeling the same too. If i feel neglected he does too. if i feel alone he does too. If i miss him I KNOW he misses me too. If i want space i know its the same time HE does too. (too many examples that proved so)
When we hang out, no matter if we’re just laying down or just being in the same room, we always find entertainment. either I humor him or he humors me. We share similar interests in the arts, music, travel, and dining.If we’re out and about at a party, we would stick together and have fun or go our ways and come back like magnets.
Teamwork: we work great together. Worked on a music video and he was the boss. He had his evil twin side show but my aquarian trait was not bothered by it. We get things done and fast and perfect.
Problem: we both are afraid of commitment, we share the same fears and react to these fears or shall i say “handle” these fears in a similar fashion, that we end up hurting each other. For example, if we both feel that the other party is neglecting us..WE bOTH act cool and collected but crazy on the inside, ignore it, then weeks later we bring it up. This could cause problems in the long run.
OVERALL i think this is a great match!
however, my gemini and i are even better together due to our planetary positions
I am
sun: aqua
moon: taurus
Rising: Scorpio
he is
sun: gem
moon: capricorn
Rising: Pisces
January 14th, 2011 at 10:54 am
Sexually:
INTEnse and passionate. The only time it will be low in amounts or quality is when both aqua and gemini are going through outside stresses. Whether it be career related, friendships, family, and or inner conflicts…Having these issues may cause a short fuse on sex.
This union i think would rather talk and converse on being more emotionally better from those outside conflicts than to just have sex. When im depressed, i need tons of solitude and tons of introspection and need to get what i want. So if i lost a job, no money, i would be focused on only getting it. My gemini bf is the same way too. So our sex life has gone down, but now its back to normal: strong, passoinate, wild, sensual, and erotic..fun sex.
February 20th, 2011 at 1:51 am
omg! everything i justr ead seems to fit…i dont know about the fighting thng yet -_- but other then that everything i just read is true….just reading it makes me happy…sadly right now my ex but soon to be my boyfriend agen is in juvi…hopefully he comes out on march 2 and wen he does i hope me and him still continue to be togther..i havent told him that im actauly waiting for him. me and him get along great..when me and him spend time together there is never a moment of silence..nore me and him never get bored! me and him had a concetion seens the very start♥
February 20th, 2011 at 6:51 pm
Hello everyone! I a 22 year old gemini female and my boyfirend is a 23 year old aquarius.We were bothe born on a cusps. Hes a capricon/aqua and I am a taurus/gem.Our relationship just never seem to end.We have been seeing each other on and off for years and even had children with different people. Now we are really together longer than ever. I feel like he is very distant and all about himself. He is superficial and materialistic. He works hard for what he has. I am afriad of this relationship becasue it has not ended.yes he did make it very known that he is not changing for anyone becasue oneday he asked me if i am always feeling a certain way then why dont I just leave him. I dont want to leave him I just want some more of his time. We geton each others nerves sometimes and he always say thatI think I know everything. He is very smart and quick witted.I am so afraid even tho gems a known for being witty.We do work well together especially when we have our children with us. He has more patience than me. I feel like i may not be good enough for hime sometimes but he has never said that .its just the way I feel. Idk why this goes on in our relationship, I was thinking maybe because we are both two signs. sometimes i can be clingy but i just always let hime have his way becasue i dont want to turn him away.
February 23rd, 2011 at 10:13 pm
this is amasing and amusing. completely and entirely accurate, from the bohemian thing to the fact that we were friends first and sex was a tiny but exciting hurdle to begin with.
I’m Aquarius and he’s Gemini, does it differ depending on which gender has which star sign????
February 24th, 2011 at 9:02 am
an aquarian female was in love with a gemini.. thought we clicked.. i know i am very moody and still we were together. We fought like mad and i really did not like his lies.. he always told lie about everything and the problem was i knew. we fought and i thought it was like some old thought and then he broke up with me. I was taken aback. i wanted him back and all he kept saying was that he was not ready for relationship and the next day he starts flirting with other women. It was disgustig and then i had to move out of the house. and now i know he is in a relationship. its just been days and he is in relationship. ITs creepy. I hate geminis now
March 5th, 2011 at 4:11 pm
This is so true! This is very favorable union for me. My ex boyfriends and actual boyfriend is Aquarius. I’m gemini female and my boyfriend is Aquarius. I agree with him in every sense - intelectual, physical and emotional. He’s so smart, funny, sexy, artistic and gentle. The only problem that he is sometimes so cold and selfish when we had argument. Sometimes he’s make me cry and I don’t know what should I do with that. But, his is my soul mate and I would love him regardless of all! :)))))))
March 5th, 2011 at 4:14 pm
Hi well am gemini woman very much in love with an aquarius man.. i must say everything you said above is so true. Well i really love the way you write. it is so descriptive with a simple language and really fascinating. actually the problem in our relation is that i’m gona be 23 years old this year and my bf is 20 years old.. i love him so much n i really dont want to be away from him..
i really want to know if age differ to aquarius man..
thank you..
March 11th, 2011 at 10:31 am
Hey Haz91 i really like the way you help others..
I would like to know why do you always ask for everyone’s birthday?? Is it that you know how to look for the planetary position??
Well my birthday is on the 7th of June 1988 and my partner 7th of February 1991.. will you please help me? I am very much in love with and would really want that relationship to work..
Thank you..
March 17th, 2011 at 6:18 am
Hi becky,
I’m Gemini female and have terribly strong feelings for an Aquarius male. I can’t describe to you how I feel about him, I’ve ha these feelings for 4 years now and they hasn’t lessened At all. I’ve dated four guys in he time bein and i stil feel the same. The problem is that after all this time all the mind games he has played have been seriously bothersome, I hate lingering on things that Arent going anywhere bu t my feelings make it impossible to let go. It seems as if he has had feelings for me and he still might. He wil stare at me, do things to impress me, docthings to purposely bother me and other stuff. He dated a girl for five months during these four years. He just sucks with all his mind games, I don’t know how to deAl with it….a few times i’ve told him how much it pisses me off, I just don’t know whatto do . I almost feel as if we will one day be together, like it is inevitable but for the time being, I don’t know how I should act with this guy. When he ignores me what should I do? When he sits uncomfortably close to me to bother me what shouldni do? Should I put effort into our friendship? Should I play mind games?
Man I just wish he was straigt foward. You know once he drove me so crazy I told him that I was attracted to him, and with how shyhe used to make me that was a hugggeee thing to do. And once he asked me to dance at a dance and we danced for an hour basically.
Like I’m pretty sure he is interested, but idk how to deal with the mind games and push him to just be real
Pleaseee help
-thanks
March 17th, 2011 at 6:29 am
Btw. Once when I told him I liked him he said that I an really cool but he needs to focus on school right now, then he told one of my friends that I am a really cool girl but he’s not looking for a relationship so I should really move on. But then he dated someone Three months later. Then he always does weird things. Idk the mind. Games. Kill
Also if one were to hurt an Aquarius male, how should one apologize and will the Aquarius act differently?
April 12th, 2011 at 11:34 am
Hi there, I have the most wonderful relationship I ever had with an Aquarius, and really a wonderful Aquarian. The problem right now, we argued a lot, and he lied to me alot, which is really a tiring relationship, we have been together for almost 15 months now. He has been travellling a lot, and has been hiding thigns on ppl he met because he din want to hurt me, could it be the flirting side of Aquarius? And he expect me to understand with no particular of information from where and how they were connected. He said he loves me very much, and he is loyal to me, but he did things like this, met up with some females for work, and never inform me coz he wanna avoid the Q& A part. and said it’s whilte lies. He taught me how to love him, how to be in the relationship with him, and how to be honest with each other, and how to communicate, i felt so loved to have him, but why is he doing the other way on honesty? He always told me everything everyone that related to him, I said, you just have to reassure me, and I will be alright, and that’s all he needs to do, but he skipped it. and denied for 2 hours when i asked him, until i confronted him and told him what I know, his ego side of him take place, scolded me and blamming me and digging out the pass, which really hurt me and the relationship very well. When the first 2 weeks of our baby relationship, a stupid girl, was abit drunk, n I think she likes him, and all, and he has tried to go out with her to make it work, but never seems, she was still in her cool and flirtatious mode, pretending to have a few but try to secure not to lose this one, just when she found out, he is in love with me and wanted me, she strike, lay her head on his neck, and put her arms around him, he was a bit drunk, and went into the mood, just to wake up after 3 seconds to look for me, after she looked up and gave me that look on her face. I was pist mad and till now, she never really be a really nice girl, and still much of a bitch. I hav let go, and started this relationship with him with an open heart from the start. But it seems, that he just doesn’t really sync that way? he showed me his affection and love very much, and when were apart, I used the time to think and analyse our relationship, and this can really not go very far, and whenever he called me baby and stuff, I will melt, and it’s really tough, until the next big bomb of argument again which will tore me apart and said never again. I know it’s him when I see him 3 years ago, and after that, we got together, and our love flourish just like what I have expected. We have helll of a fun, but his comments really drained me much. I’m not much of an ambitious person, and i said i can’t live up to your expectations, if he has constant expectation on me. It really drained me well. I hope and I wanted it to happen for us, I see this from the start, but now it’s not really the perfect picture that I can see…It’s falling apart, a burnt toast. he will dig and dig on my stuff, and never wants me to question him, but he can question me, he covered his wrong doings, by scolding me. I’m so hurt, I think I need to look for someone new, what do you think?
By the way, 23 May, Gemini and 16 Feb Aqua
May 4th, 2011 at 3:59 pm
I’m an Aqua Women Born Jan 21 (Cusp), and my Ex the Cusp of Gemini in May. I will never in my LIFE date a GEMINI EVER! Do your self a favor and RUN from Gemini Male’s. The most Complex Wishy-Washy, Cold Hearted sign I know….
May 27th, 2011 at 5:33 am
i am an aquarius man whose date of birth is 26th of january and am attracted to a gemini girl whose date of birth is 17th of june.she is a shy girl and i am an open boy who likes to enter in conversation with her. Can you tell me who approaches first the aquarius or gemini to convey love???
May 27th, 2011 at 6:47 am
Dont be a sook… we are not all the same.. and for cold hearted.. a lot I could say about the aqua female…
July 18th, 2011 at 4:10 am
i have been dating this Gemini guy for a little under 4 mounths. Now i’ve liked him for a whole year it like we would talk then we would stop talking and he would just come back, again and again. we really dated for a few mouths then he broke up with me for his ex im guessing because she would give him sex. i am truly in love with him and i feel he is in love with me too. I keep having this thoughs that he and i will make it work but im not sure. we havent talk since we broke up. i mean he will call and no say anything and then hang-up. i know we love each other and i really do think since we broke up he doesnt know how to come back yet. my main question here is how long will i take for him to come back. when we broke up he told me he still loved me and i just can tell that hes not happy with this girl and relized he made a huge mistake. can someone help should i let me feelings go for him or keep them. I feel that he wants to come back but may think i hate him or doent know how to come back
August 18th, 2011 at 3:24 pm
Dear Julie,
I wanted to say thankyou for putting up this. Im actually currently in love with a Gemini. Though he may take awhile. Lol. I have all the time in the wolrd to wait for him. We have almost everything in common. I could tell him anything if i wanted which i do.
He’s a wonderful person.
But I wanted to ask you how long does it take for a gemini to confess his feelings? Or is that justt with anyone?
August 23rd, 2011 at 5:01 pm
@ some aquarius - Just be patient with him, most of gemini is so shy about feelings, I am too. Security is the most important thing what Gemini need and than he will open to everybody who give him security…
September 14th, 2011 at 6:54 am
So I am the stereotypical Aquarian male, and there is a special Gemini out there, that has fancied my likings. We have mutual friends, and I get to see her at our gatherings every once in a while. I don’t see her enough to warrant courtship, but I want to. She’d be absolutely perfect, and we’d produce beautiful children, when that time comes, she could very well be my soulmate. My concern is initiating something, I want to wait a little until she’s more mature. I’ve been hurt in the past, and really don’t want to put my heart out there to get it hurt all over again. She is a bit of a flirt/tease, which does bother me, but that aside, I feel that she’s the kind of gal that likes to have fun, and get away with it too, which I really appreciate. Can someone give me advice as to how I should proceed? I think I love this girl
September 25th, 2011 at 11:01 pm
SirLuis,
I am a gemini 6/14 & the guy i fancy is a aqua 2/9…. I think it would be best you tell her how you feel. I “feel” my aqua likes me back but if he says it i would know for sure. We’ve had sex twice & at first it was awkward seeing him around but now he is so sweet & when he is hurt i feel hurt and we have seconds where we just smile at each other. I play fight with him, & everything…if he let me know how he really felt we could be together and build something. I believe you should let her know cause you could possibly be missing out on something good. Us Gem girls like to feel loved/ cared for. How do you feel around her? If you are in tune with her & feel like you wanna spend every moment with her she could be the one. good luck
October 5th, 2011 at 7:10 am
So can you tell me when a female Aquarius and her Gemini boyfriend split up because of distance and family issues will they reunite and if so who will make the first move? I miss him terribly and I think he will be missing me also….it’s been 7 weeks now a d counting and I’m miserable
November 3rd, 2011 at 7:19 pm
Aquarius is the Perfect match for Gemini without any doubt whatsoever.. although its not always perfect but it is so true that Aquarius is the only sign that understands the gemini completely!
I am a Gemini (i think you could of guessed i was by the name) and i would say i was quite new to astrology, a year its been, but i got so into it, so fascinated, it was an connection i had/still have with an Aquarius that started it all off. it was/is such a strong connection. I LOVE Aquarius, all of what you put there was spot on!
x
November 10th, 2011 at 12:58 am
This was SO SO spot on. Made our days. Her an Aquarius and me a Gemini. All is 100% except for us fighting… never to the extreme……… when not together, connected…. love for eachother outstanding….. lovemaking out of the world, priceless.
November 23rd, 2011 at 10:13 am
Hey Becky,
I’ve meet an Aquarian man through work, I (Gemini) was surprised I’ve never seen him before.. the funny thing is that we have been parking next to each other from may be a month or so without noticing.. and suddenly I noticed him.. I approached him.. it is just who I am… I didn’t mind doing that.. on the contrary… The thing is he got out of a relationship months ago.. he is not fully over, he was honest about that.. we tried to stop “our relation” and he always says that he doesn’t want to hurt me as he still sometimes thinks of his EX.. we then get back to it… our communication is mostly through texting.. we see each other but have never been out.. I asked him bluntly once if he wants me, he said that he couldn’t answer such a question.. at other times he says that I’m so dear to him..
He flirts and he has this way of looking at me that feels like he just wants to be with me… but something is holding him back… we sense each other as well.. I know when he is not in the mood, or sick.. he does too… I give him the space needed.. I don’t question so much… I do most of the approaching.. I initiate about 75% of the communication..
I know we are not girlfriend and boyfriend, may be yet.. but I sometimes feel like he is the one and we are meant to be.. I feel it comes from God and the stars.. something inside me says it is him…
So far I’m tip.. toeing through the relation… although we are completely honest (which is something he loves about me).. yet it becomes too tiring to find your love towards someone not reciprocated at the same degree… should I push further or should I let it be… time may be determine what we are for each other..
January 10th, 2012 at 7:46 pm
You say they ’sense eachother’ i think i understand like we don’t have to say i love you because we both know and don’t need to be told, you just know, but can you elaborate? is there anything else.
Does this count? - sometimes he knows what i’m thinking maybe without realising.. but i think of something and a few minutes later he mentions it and its like how on earth did that happen?! lol
i just want to know more so i can analyse it futhur..
love to have some feedback
x
March 30th, 2012 at 4:06 pm
@GemGem - nothing else to say, that’s true, i don’t know why, something…i’m gemini sun aquarius rising and moon is in aquarius. only aquarius come in to my life, nobody else. i think when i see other aquarius “oh, wow!”, my soul mate forever. :))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
April 9th, 2012 at 9:15 am
HEY THERE 21 year old GEMINI GIRL HERE WHO WAS HORRIBLY,PAINFULLY,INTENSLY IN LOVE WITH A 31 year old AQUARIUS MAN(i still am but life seperated us )anyways, when we first met there was an instant connection…it was like we had known eachother for years. on our first date there was no weird silences…it was just us talking and laughing and singing along to his music. I remember thinking the first 5 minutes after i got in his truck…”wow, we really get along perfectly…this is the craziest experience ive ever had.Ive never had such a perfect first date” It was incredible because we had sooo much in common same sense of humor..same silly mannerisms, we both loved to talk, it was insane…at times i even knew we were thinking and feeling the same things. Obviously we fell head over heels in love….TRUE…TRUE…DEEP..PURE LOVE. If you havent had true love you wont understand what im saying…because it cannot be described with words. I had thought I had love until I met him and realized what it really was. Basically as we hung out more and more we realized that we were like the same person in two bodies.we literally had everything in common same views about life, same sense of humor, same silly mannerisms, same unpredictability and excitement seeking! I remember feeling like I HAD FINALLY FOUND SOMEONE WHO GOT ME, WHO UNDERSTOOD ME, WHO DIDNT THINK I WAS CRAZY .ya see my whole life no one had ever understood me..everyone thought i was weird…crazy..delusional. Then I met John and I knew we were soulmates because I felt this feeling of wholeness id never felt in my life.I remember looking at this collage he had in his bedroom of pictures from his life…baby..childhood..to highchool.I remember thinking and saying out loud “thats where you have been all my life.” I just had this intense feeling that we were made for one another. He loved me more than any man ever has..the physical…mental..and emotional attraction was sooooooooooo strong and never faded. He thought i was the most beautiful woman in the world (and i knew he meant it) When our eyes met..we both felt this warm tingly sensation all throughout our bodies.aquas and gems are perfect for one another..because we know exactly how to give the other the love they have always wanted and needed. for instance im gemini and i need mental stimulation..i need a guy who can talk to me for hours about anything. WHICH HE DID! I also swoon over sweet words…and he ALWAYS KNEW WHAT TO SAY TO MAKE ME FEEL LIKE THE MOST BEAUTIFUL WOMAN ALIVE! He was so eloquent and intelligent. us geminis love guys with brains and who can write because we love to talk and we love language! GEMINIS ALSO NEED EXCITEMENT AND BOY DID HE SURPRISE ME ALL THE TIME..HE WAS SOOO EXCITING. I NEVER KNEW WHAT THE NIGHT WOULD BRING WITH HIM AND I LOVED IT.ONE NIGHT HE INVITED ME OVER TO WATCH TV AND WE ENDED UP DOING MUSHROOMS AND JOURNEYING THROUGH EACHOTHERS SOULS! AQUARIANS ARE SO UNPREDICTABLE AND GEMINIS LOVE IT! HE WAS SOO FREE AND SO OPEN MINDED. HE DIDNT CARE WHAT PPL THOUGHT AND GEMINIS LOVE THAT. NOW I GAVE HIM WHAT HE NEEDED AND WANTED IN LOVE TOO…AQUARIANS LOVE PEOPLE WHO ARE OPEN-MINDED AND WHO LOVE LISTENING TO THEIR “CRAZY” IDEAS..HIS IDEAS WERE NEVER CRAZY TO ME..I LOVED HIS BRILLIANCE AND INDIVIDUALITY.AQUARIANS ARE ALSO REALLY INTELLECTUAL SO I WAS ALWAYS THERE FOR HIM TO TALK TO ABOUT ANYTHING. AQUARIANS ALSO LOVE OUTGOING, FUNLOVING PEOPLE..AND HEY US GEMINIS NEVER TAKE MUCH OF ANYTHING SERIOUSLY. SO HE LOVED MY HAPPY ATTITUDE. WE SAW HEAVENS AND THE STARS EVERYTIME WE MADE LOVE..AND WE NEVER GOT TIRED OF IT EITHER!! THE BEST PART ABOUT A GEMINI AND AQUARIUS TOGETHER IS THE MENTAL STIMULATION THEY PROVIDE FOR ONE ANOTHER. THERE IS A MEETING OF THE MINDS HERE THAT CANNOT BE IGNORED…THE CONVERSATIONS BETWEEN THESE TWO SIGNS LAST HOURS AND ARE VERY ELECTRIFYING. AQUARIUS AND GEMINIS AND SOULMATES…SIMPLY MADE FOR EACHOTHER. THEY SHARE A VERY INTENSE AND REAL MENTAL,SEXUAL,SPIRITUAL, AND EMOTIONAL CONNECTION. ONTOP OF ALL THAT THEY ARE ALSO ABLE TO BE LOVERS AND THE BEST OF FRIENDS…
OH AND THEY ALSO SHARE A VERY POWERFUL PSYCHIC CONNECTION…JOHN AND I STILL FEEL EACHOTHER ALL THE TIME AND WE ARE ON OPPOSITE SIDES OF THE COUNTRY.
WE ARE SOULMATES..I KNOW IT..I ALSO KNOW THAT ONE DAY WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT WE WILL BE TOGETHER AGAIN!!!
IF U ARE A GEM GIRL AND HAVE AN AQUA MAN I KNOW HE CAN BE FRUSTRATING SOMETIMES WITH HOW OFTEN HE CHANGES HIS MIND AND HOW HE INSISTS ON BEING SO INDEPENDENT! BUT NEVER LET HIM GO….THE BOND U HAVE WITH HIM U ARE NOT LIKELY TO FIND WITH ANOTHER MAN….