Aquarius Compatibility With Gemini |
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Aquarius and Gemini
This is a beautiful union. (even if I do say so myself) These two simply “click” from the outset and stay that way more or less until the bitter end. When that end will be is hard to say. It could be a few months, it could be several thousand years! To be honest it all depends on how long they WANT to stay together. They actually have the option. When these two signs get together nothing can stand in their way. They make an amazing team and as well as being the best of friends, can also work together beautifully.
The Gemini has the great ability of being able to change frequently, and in every sense of the word. This will go down well with the Aquarius, who, although can be unpredictable mood wise, is a fixed sign and has trouble accepting that their way’s need changing. Luckily, the Gemini will just ‘get on with it’. If a problem arises that may need compromise the Gemini happily compromises. Aquarian’s although air signs themselves, seem to have a high level of patience, and this is required at times when being with a Gemini. I believe it is these two attributes, patience and compromise, that helps stick these two together like glue.
These two are so in tune with one another it is scary. Even if they are apart they can sense one another. Watching this couple will be amusing also. They tend to take time out of the real world and enter into one of their own making, which no-one else can understand or take part in. The closeness of this union is unbreakable and second to none. Boredom will NEVER set in. It is simply impossible for these two people to be bored in each other’s company. They will always find something to do or talk about or make up, this is one of life’s “happy couples”. I have to say from personal experience that this couple will be so active that housework and daily chores may suffer. The Aquarius and Gemini are not conservative people in anyway, and due to their highly creative abilities their’s will be a more ‘bohemian’ lifestyle.
Don’t get me wrong. If and when this loving couple argue, and oh my when they argue, they argue, it is almost as if all their love has reversed and turned into hate. It’s horrible. And mainly stems from the Gemini’s over emotional side. The Aquarius won’t hang around, they hate conflict, they find it scary..so they run away and wait until it’s gone away. The thing is that as a couple they are so very close that when an argument does happen it seems like the world has ended. It hasn’t, of-course, they will kiss and make up, Gemini will make sure of it..and will persist in getting the stubborn Aquarius out of his “mood” so they can carry on playing all over again!
Now then, sex is important to both the Aquarius and the Gemini. However, when they are together it is not the MOST important thing. It can be a small danger that if these two are already friends and THEN decide they have fallen in love, they may find it hard to get around to the sex bit. My advice in this situation is to just not worry about it, you only need to do it once..then that will be that, and you will be doing it all the time. Yes, this couple don’t need much of an excuse to jump in bed together, or indeed anywhere. They have no hang up’s about their sexuality and are both open minded and up for well, everything really. So as long as the Aquarius and the Gemini actually get around to sharing a bed together for more than sleeping in after whichever exhausting pursuit they have been doing, these two will have a sex life made in heaven…and Ann Summers will find that she has even more money!!!
Life long friends, lover’s and soul mates assured.
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I went in search of the compatibility of Gemini-Aquarius (I’m the Geminin) because I’ve known this interesting (and very attractive) Aquarian for about 11 years. We’ve always gotten along extremely well and there has always been a physical attraction. Only recently though have we actually acted on it. Had a date and ahem… Sex. I was thrilled when I read your assessment of compatibilty between these signs. Everything you said seems to fit. Minus the fights. Haven’t been there yet! I’m a little concerned because there is a 12 year age difference, with me being the older. Still, you never know I guess.
So just wanted to say thank you for making my day. I love your style of writing and it was just a fun read! Joni
My first boy-friend, a Gemini, introduced me to Beethoven, Ballet, Rush, Van Halen, the Seattle Grunge Scene, Woody Allen and Russain History. I remember his giving me books of 800+ pages and expecting me to read them with him. I thought it was the most natural thing in the world. When we fought, we fought bitterly, but as we both had Taurus moons, we were able to put things in perspecive and stuck together for over four years until his death in 1992.
In memory to G.Z. — I miss you!
Oh how I love this Union as well Becky, but moment by moment he is driving me up the wall with his distance. I too am a Gemini and I know I can be aloof and distance at times, but my Aquarius gives me a dose of my medicine DAILY!!! Pheeeeeew,what a MAN?!
Oh my we argued last week and I feel like “butter” I just had to get what I needed off my chest because he was acting rather arrogant towards me, nonetheless I love him, I tried braking up with him several times, but in stead some unseen force or magnet keeps drawing me back to him, I just don’t know!
I’m patient, but he’s testing my patience and my love for him daily, it irks me to the bone!
I think that whenever an Aquarius as gotten his heart broken in the past, he is more cautious about taking the leap of faith back to LOVE again, but I shouldn’t be paying for another woman’s drama or mistake! What then can a Gem like myself do to reassure Mr Aqua that I too have been hurt and it’s so difficult to just sit there on the fence waiting until he finally gets the hang of things?
P.S. Oh how i’m dying for some make up sex.. LOL
Becky your help is greatly appreciated!
Thanks a bunch
im so much in love with this gemini and of course im an aquarius. we hav lik never fought but most of the times when we did it was over MSN and it felt lik the world ended and i have to deal with the Gemini & Aries compatibility like everyday and the only time we fought other than MSN was the phone. i think we never fought in person because it will hurt too much. but anyways the last fight was the end but were so much in love with each other its scray its just there an Aries in the way what should i do
I am a Gemini Female and I am in love with an Aquarian male. He is my partner for life. We both get each other and we never fight, we communicate our shortcomings and misunderstandings. He stimulates me from all avenues, mentally, emotionally…etc My Aquarian has been completely understanding of my commitment issues and he has talked/walked me through it all. You really nailed this compatibility reading.
Thank you!! I have had a lot of practice with this particular match! My Fiance is an Aquarius man so I do know exactly what you mean!
Love, Light & Luck
Becky
I’m a female gemini and i was just wondering how my bf and i will turn out together. out of curiosity though. but yeah, it seems like the little excerpt says it all..seriously, we are exactly like the horoscope says and its a bit scary. lols, now i know we are meant to be together and he’s the one. thanks much to this website..Babee i love you. {4.13.8}A&&S
I am a Gemini Girl whos had a relationship with a Aquarian Man for a couple years now. I am not really big into astrology, but i have to say that there were simply too many cooincidenses to ignore, even down to one sensing the other when they are near. I have also experienced some kind of psychic phenomenon(to some level anyway) when i really need to hear his voice, or cant seem to stop thinking of him, hell always call, text, or email me to say “hey baby, just thinking of you” and thats all it takes to make me feel better..I’m not sure what the recipe for magic is, but i do know that Gemini+Aqaurius= never boring, amazing sex, and intellectual stimulus.Thanks for the article, its was very insightful….Hendi S.
Im a gemini an my ex bf is an aquarius we had to brake up cus of fam issues but everytime we see each ova we no tht we will get back 2getha cus i still love him nd im sure he do too..and this wz spot on cus i try 2 stop liking him but i cant something keeps pulling me back.
i’m an aquarius and i dated a gemini once, and it turned out quite horribly.
we didnt get along at all.
You’re so right on about the whole aquarian/gemini thing. I’m an aquarian women attracted to a gemini woman. We’ve known each other for a few years and have just started to reconnect. Yes, I feel cautious and want to take it slow due to past relationships, but then I see her and we mesh so well together. It feels effortless.
I have to say that I’ve noticed a difference between black gemini and white gemini women. I’ve found the white gemini woman to be too intense for me. My black gemini lady is more laid back. What are your thoughts on this?
how this fits perfectly! its creepy!
we instantly clicked and quickly realized we fell in love.
me being the gemini, i have changed so much over the past few years of us being together, and he being the aquarius, has a VERY unpredictable mood. and i have always happily compromised!
every time we fought, we broke up. but that was just because he was stubborn and didn’t want to deal with fighting! and soon enough we were back together!
the last time we broke up, it really seemed like the end and we didn’t talk for a long time. and sure enough, i had a very unsettling feeling and couldn’t understand it. just doing what i felt i needed to do, i picked up my phone and dialed familiar numbers… sure enough it was him that i had called and (my feelings were early) a week later tragedy struck his family and he needed me more than ever.
this is just crazy, it all applies! it seems like it was just written as a study of our relationship!
i’ve always said that whatever happens was meant to happen. it was the universe doing so. and our relationship has just been so weird that i’m glad to know that it’s most likely going to work itself out. i knew the universe was pushing us together.
hello,
i’m an aquarian female & i’ve been going out with a gemini man for about 2 years.. we’ve had our ups & downs.. & i mean way up & way down. i’m happy to have read your little excerpt if you will, on aquarius & gemini compatibility.. yahoo’s compatibility test is good, but a bit vague. this is exactly what my relationship is. & i’m wondering if it really is a good & healthy love match. i ask this because when you mentioned that when the two signs fight, they REALLY fight. & i find this to be extremely true in my relationship. & i also feel it might not be healthy. i often find myself questioning if he really loves me. i’ve heard that geminis are very flirtacious & are a bit difficult to tame & that they settle down when THEY feel like it. We’ve been together for about 2 years & 5 months.. We are ALWAYS fighting over something. & i’m to the point where i’m really insecure & i’m quite the jealous type. &as you mention, after every fight, it feels like it’s the end of the world. i find myself crying a lot but for some reason, i’m so drawn to my boyfriend and he always convinces me that things are going to get better. but we’ve been waiting for things to get better for over a year now. what am i to do & think? i know you’re not a psychiatrist or anything.. but i just feel that you know more about astrology than i do & i’ve been looking for someone to answer my questions. thank you.
-celine
Thank you soo much for this
Im marrying my Gemini in Feb 2009 and just can’t wait. I loved this peice it made me tear up with joy and laugh my ass off with some of the truths. I had to have a giggle about the arguing it’s sooo true, you love them like crazy but they drive you up te wall, but you wouldn’t want the world without them! And I agree with above comments your style of writing is truely wonderful, I was having a bad day and after happening apon this I will be leaving work with smile on my dial 
Hi Jessica,
Congratulations on your forthcoming wedding! I am glad you have enjoyed this, it is a union that can be such hard work but the rewards are second to none. I wish you all the luck in the world!
Love & Light
Becky
xx
I met my Gemini in May 2008, we got married August 16th 2008… I have never been so sure about being with someone so bad and knowing I can spend the rest of my life with them. I love him till death do us part!
Jessica, congratulations! Aquarian to Aquarian, Gemini’s are definitely our match make in heaven!!!
Hi, I’ve been coming to this website for awhile, and I’m always amazed at how accurate you are with the Gemini-Aquarius compatibility. And I promise you, there is a question at the end all of this. My girlfriend (The Aquarian) and I (The Gemini) have been dating just under 4 months. She’s also in Americorps (A volunteer service where she goes away for 10 months). So we’re also a doing a long-distance relationship. before she left it was going great, we got really close in just one month! after that month she left and we decided to try the long distance relationship. It has been going wonderfully for the past 3 months, but up until recently it’s a little rocky. I’m a person who would rather stay in one place, and she is an adventurer type. She doesn’t want to stick around once she’s done with her 10 month Americorps deal. At first I was very saddened by the news she told me she doesn’t want to stay. This is about two weeks ago from today (9/20). It kind of tore me down a little. made me feel unwanted sort of. Recently I confronted her about the issue. She accused me of putting her in a lose-lose situation, because she loves me but her passion is going out and having adventures and volunteering. She didn’t talk to me for a couple of days. She’s been obviously thinking about the future. and that leads up to today (9/20) where we’ll be talking for the first time in four days. She did call me last night at work (9/19), but I obviously couldn’t talk. But the way she sounded it sounded bad. also yesterday I had an epiphany, that this is the happiest I’ve ever been in my entire life, being with this young woman. I wouldn’t let her go for anything, and would go with her anywhere. I’m just afraid she’s already made up her mind. I’m just looking for advice from a fellow gemini who is in a relationship with an Aquarian. but also advice from a woman to see if i can turn back my mistakes and make it right again. Thank you for your time, I know it’s a long post. You are doing wonderful things with this website!
hey becky,
i have just read this aquarius and gemini post, and I have looked at alot of horoscope websites and i must say that your description is spot on. One thing that has come to my attention is that alot of the websites state that an aquarius and gemini relationship is dominated by affection and devotion more that passion and romance. Would you say that this is true?
From my own experience, I must say that I have never been in a relationship with an Aquarius but have alot of aquarius friends, and what keeps gemini and aquarius friendship/relationship so close and different to other people, is that we understand eachother at a deep level, there is an immense amount of laughter, and also when they both meet it as if they have found a soulmate in each other.
Another question is that is Gemini the best match for an aquarius?
Hi again Haz,
The relationship between Aquarius and Gemini is a mental one..intellect and wit..fantasy and intrigue. Physically it can be explosive but these two will stay together regardless of sex…they ‘feel’ each other, like you say, in a very deep way. I would say that out of all the sign compatibilites this is the deepest..it is one that is very hard for others to understand..they are soulmates and will almost automatically knowt his. For Aquarius Gemini will be the only person that he or she will ever ‘need’ as they rearely need anyone..for Gemini they can fully be themselves with the Aquarius..it is perfectly beautiful..except for when they are out of sync..but as long as they stick at it this will pass.
Gemini certainly is the best match on every level in my opinion..
Love & Light
Becky
Hi PJ
Thank you for your comment and I am very pleased you enjoy my site.
Yes, the wonderful world of the Aquarius, it’s always a bit tricky. You see, they need noone but us Gemini’s do (as long as they are interesting). It may be that you will have to follow your Aquarius wherever they go if you feel that strongly.Trying to make an Aquarius choose between two things they love is a bit like banging your head against a brick wall..pointless. They just won’t do it.and will be angry with you for even asking!! All you need to know is whether she loves you…if the answer is yes definatly..then you have to be happy with that. She will not change her life for you, she is a fixed sign..you are the one who can change and adapt..so you must. Saying that if life won’t allow you to do that then you will need to think about whether you can handle a long distance relationship or not.
If the worst happens, then you have to really think about whether it is perhaps the right thing, as you may not be able to cope with someone as unsettled. I couldn’t with my first husband who was also an Aquarius, he was never there. It hurts.
I wish you a lot of luck and I hope to hear from you again.
Love & Light
Becky
Hi Becky,
We decided, (well at first she decided, then i came around after a long time) it would be for the best that we break it off. I mean, the long distance thing would only last for so long. Even though we had GREAT communication with eachother, we were also attached at the hip while she was around before she left. She says it will never work because our lives are completely different, though I feel she is still in love with me. Do you think it’s possible she is? There was never anything wrong with the way we acted toward eachother. That was the beautiful thing about our relationship. We could talk for hours on end and never get bored. You’re description is spot on, because I believe she is my soul mate. I think it’s going to be the toughest break up to get through, because we grew so close so fast, and i think we’ll be close for the rest of our lives even though we won’t be together. I’m hoping eventually she comes back to her gemini boy, but I’m not banking on it. Thank you for your input, you’ve helped me understand my aquarian better. I’m hoping her and I will be great friends, atleast for now.
Thank you,
PJ
Hi PJ,
Thank you for writing and your welcome for my input. At least you know where you stand now. Also, you may find it liberating to have her as a friend as you obviously have a connection there. It’s sad when you have to let the people you love go but it can sometimes be rewarding in other ways, your friendship may last a lifetime, something which your relationship may have not. You never know what lies in the future. Try not to get too down although I know it’s hard, just smile to yourself about the time you did have togehter.
Love & Light
Becky
Hi Becky,
I’ve never heard from you after my comment i left before PJ’s comment. Can you give me some feedback please? Thanks.
-Celine
oops. i meant jessica, not PJ.
Hi Celine,
So sorry I didn’t reply, I’m normally pretty good but sometimes I get so many comments I just don’t get round to it.
Aquarius and Gemini match is amazing,as I am sure you can know. What can happen is that because these two signs are so scarily in tune with one another when they go out of sync it kind of messes it all up. It is actually the worst feeling in the world and I honsetly know how you feel. It feels as though the world is going to end because that is how deep the feelings are. Gemini men are notoriously annoying. My Brother is a Gemini man married to an Aquarius woman (been together nearly 20 years!) and very much in love, however, he travels all over the world doing his ‘thing’ while she stays at home making the money..tension? sometimes. But underneath it there is the strongest love. As my Fiance always says, ‘nothings ever easy’. If you want some more help maybe consider a compatibility test to see what the rest of your chart says.
At the end of the day though this is about your happiness, and that is only someting you can decide what is best for you as it is not my place.
Contact me via my contact form if you wish to chat more.
Love & Light
Becky
Hello together
Your description of the Gemini-Aquarius relationship feels very right on. I am the Aquarian girl, and I never felt that I was a boring person until this Gemini guy turned up…saw him first last November and immediately wanted to know him! We spent all night next to each other, kissing at the end, then if I hadn’t gotten his mobile number he probably would not have called himself ever! Had to jump over my own shadow and send him a message and we slowly started going out together..
Now the minus part: yes the freedom thing. Expect not to hear from him for days, then to be taken out immediately. I am used to guys who show in public that they love me, forget it with this one.
I wondered if it was me, or if it was just bad manners. Then I noticed that he listens very carefully, hears all even if it doesn’t seem so, and once he’s thought things over he might actually agree with you!
The fights can be pretty bad, agreed. But I think necessary.
Best thing to do with a Gemini man, let him think that he’s the king now and then, and totally keep your own life interesting.
Don’t explain too much. Stay nice and keep your dignity. They can infuriate you very easily. And don’t take everything they say seriously…
My ex from a very long term friendship before was Virgo, and I guess I am a bit spoiled by the loving way these guys act.
IDK where to begin, I am an aquarian woman and my man for a year is the gemini. We have had our share of arguements, but don’t get me wrong makeup is unbelieveable everytime…..
Were deeply in love and to a certain extent, its scary because I don’t wanna loose him, im his everything and were nothing w/o each other. I KNOW this is where i wanna be and HE is who I wanna spend my life with. But its just that being deeply in love with this Gemini can be dangerous. I thank god for him everyday though. He’s everything I want in a man plus much more
Wow, I love you Becky. In the bible it says faith, love, and hope is important and love out class them all. I am a Gemini female with a degree in psychology (with horrable grammar) and I must that your style of writing is captivating. When reading the compatibilities of Gemini’s and Aquarians I must say, “You were on point Girl”. While reading the article I said, “Becky sounds like a Gemini” and it is great to know you are, what a wonderful sign. Did you know it takes the plantet Mercury (Gemini’s planet), Eighty-eight days to complete a cycle. Mercury completes the fastest cycle. No wonder why Gemini’s are so versatile. No matter what environment we’re are in, we are willing to adapt. Imagine how many people desire this quality, look around you, pay attention and it will be evident of how many people desire this quality. Though what I have noticed in some other Gemini’s is that when they’re up they’re up and when they’re down, Their down. Some psychologists would classify these “Uppers and Downers” as Biopolar though why would classify a person with so much emotion biopolar. So as Gemini’s we need to learn to stay positive. There is a cd series called “Secrets” and it has helped me alot. If we do not learn positive methods as Gemini’s, we are in serious trouble for deep depression. If anything on this post is incorrect, please correct me. I met an Aquarius male I am talking (and sleeping with) to and oh boy does he have my emotions soaring. He was in a relatonship over ten years and she hurt him by cheating on him. Wow why would she do that. I guess you can call me the “Clean Up Woman”. He was very quite at first, he didn’t talk alot. I had just gotten out of a relationship around the same time his relationship ended (it has been two months) and too be honest he was just looking for sex and too be honest so was I (Though I am a lady so I couldn’t come across like that). The sex was explosive the first time and the sex is stil explosive. Gemini’s are flighty, this is true, at any point I could stop talking to a guy with just a few qualities I don’t agree with. Though this Aquarian man, whoa he does something to my body, he does lead and I let him (surprisingly I do not mind). Though I have a guestion, I am career oriented (though sometimes flighty) and I am materilstic in the fact that I always want to work towards success. In a horoscope it said that this is a great couple though if I am interested in success in finance that this is not possible, how is this so Becky? You are doing a great thing with this page and more awesomely, you are a Gemini that that thought and processed this page. See we can be consistent, I hope.
Thanks Becky! You’re the best. Listen.. I’ve showed a couple of friends your site and when we’d look at their sign, for instance sagittarius and scorpio, we didn’t find anything about them or at least about the women in particular. I like that you elaborate on both the male and female signs of the zodiac and I was hoping you might put some stuff up about the other signs! And if you did.. there’s something wrong with it because I can’t find it! haha. Thanks Again.
-Celine
Hi Celine,
Thank you for your comment! The problem is that I am nowhere near finished the site yet so there is still lots to come. It’s just at the moment I have a lot of charts to do for people, but once it quietens down I shall get back to writing posts. If you subscribe to the RSS feed you will be updated of when something new gets posted. So sorry that what your looking for isn’t there yet..it will be I promise!
Love & Light
Becky
Hello Becky,
Thank you for your speedy responce to my comment on “Here comes Gemini”
I absolutely love your site!
I have had an “almost relationship” with an Aquarius ..he left an Aries to be with me(Gemini) but ended up going back to the aries only weeks after…but they were the best two weeks of my life relationship wise.
Also , I would like to know my moon sighn and rising sighn and my other influences.When I google info on how to find this sort of thing out ,the intructions on how to do so are so long and confusing..I just dont getit. Could you enlighten me on a short and simple way to get this info?
Hi Simone,
Thanks for your comment and I’m really happy your enjoying my site
As for finding out your signs, it’s not as simple as you may hope. The problem is that the stuff online is made of computer generated programs which can get it wrong, just as the compatibility test on my site does!! This is why I do charts for people, IYes I have to charge as it’s my job but at least I know what I am doing!! You need to know the time of your birth and it helps to know the place of birth too. Then you need a book of planetary tables etc. Sorry I can’t be of more help.
Love & Light
Becky
Hey becky,
Just another observation I have made regarding the relationship between aquarius male and gemini female. It states that sexual attraction is intense, as Aquarius finds gemini to be physically attractive, if this is the case, how come sometimes the aquarius male will never approach you even if he does like you in an ‘intense way’?
Thanks
xxx
Hi Haz,
Thanks for your comment! Yes it’s true Aquarius men do find Gemini girls highly attractive both mentally and physically. But as you say they don’t like to approach you. It is just not in their nature to do so, they just aren’t made the same way as other people. If they were born nearer to the start of Pisces then this may be slightly different, but even so they can go single a long time because of this lack of being forward. As a Gemini it’s down to you to make the move. Even once he is in a relaitonship at times he can seem as if he’s not interested, it is just because he will be thinking about something in his own world and nothing to do with his lack of want for you.
Love & Light
Becky
Hey becky,
It’s just that I use to know this Aquairus guy and I think that he was attracted to me, because he would stare at me, when we were in lessons and if we walked past eachother, there was the occasional smile. I just didnt know what to make of him. I liked him too ALOT, he sat next to me and spoke to me once, and i was SOO nervous that I hardly said a word to him, and I think that scared him away, or bored him I’m not sure :S What do you know about Aquarius male reaction to shyness and nerves! Do you think that he is over me, do Aquarius men get over Gemini woman easily? He does not look or acknowledge me anymore. I don’t know…I really like him he is sooo attractive he has a beautiful personality, funny, humble, crazy and intelligent!
Sorry for the overload of questions! I’m just curious and you’re brilliant!
Thanks
xxx
Becky - I am an Aquarian man dating a Gemini man. Everything you have written here is right on target, but wondering if there is anything that changes based on a male-male relationship? Thanks!
Hi there Ken,
Thank you for your comment! This is something I have given a lot of thought to in the past myself. I think that it will be just the same, but without knowing your characters I can’t truly say. Luckily astrology dosen’t care who you are or who your with and these two signs just plain get along. If you are both very masculine then there will obviously be a bit of conflict but if that’s not the case then it should all go very well. Just remember that your Gemini man may have a wondering eye, he can’t help it!!But as an Aquarius I imagine that he is pretty spellbound by you anyway.
Good luck!
Love & Light
Becky
Hey becky,
Just wonderin, you didn’t really answer my previous question? I thought you might have not noticed it. The one before Ken’s.
Thanks
xx
Hi Haz,
Well I’m shy and I bagged my Aquarius man! But you do need to let them know that you have feelings for them or they will just think your not interested, and they hate to make fools of themselves over anyone. I believe they actually like shyness in a girl, it’s endearing and makes them appear sweet and natural and they like that.
Smile at him and say hi..in your own shy way, if he does like you that will melt his heart
Good Luck..be brave Gemini xxx
Love & Light
Becky
Hello Becky this is Maranda.Whenever you can (I can imagine you are very busy), can you answer the few questions I had in my long post I sent you previously. What habits are more prevelant with Gemini’s and Aquarius. Cigarettes, Greenery, Drinking. I smoke cigarettes and greenery. Greenery calms me down. Nervous Energy, it calms me down.The Gemini men that I know smoke alot. I do not know any Gemini woman though I know alot of Gemini men. Which one is more prevalant? Do you know Gemini woman or Gemini Men?
As an Aquarian woman with a Gemini man in my life I found this to be spot on.
For us we have known each other for over 20 years and our friendship/relationship has taken many forms over this time, we have always felt drawn to each other, friends always described us as being like an old married couple even when we were only friends and in other relationships at the time.
We seem to bring out the best in each other and compliment each other well. We rarely fight (neither of us like conflict) but on the occasion we have it has been devastating to us both at the time.
Our relationship is intelluctual, spiritual toa degree and extremely intense physically. Together we continue to grow and nuture each other, providing a firm foundation to explore ourselves and follow our our path, yet still on the same road together. For me he is definately my soul mate…he puts up with my quirky ways and clutter..all the while giving me the space I need and have never got in previous relationships
Hi Becky! I’ve been following your site closely and must say it’s great! I’m a gemini girl myself in a relationship with an aqua… I just love being the one that sees the aqua in a different way - I laugh when others say that aqua is aloof or insensitive, because I’ve seen a side of my aqua that is very rare and the fact that it is genuine, even though expressed only sometimes, I wouldn’t trade it for the world! anyway earlier on this page you said that Gemini is the only sign that Aquarius will ever actually “need”, what did you mean by this? why do they need Gemini? …also, I’ve been pushing my Aquarius a little lately, with successes and organization, he lacks the focus on details… he says he needs the push and faith I have in him but I don’t want to be too much … it also doesn’t help that I’m not consistent myself.. how do I get him motivated without being pushy…
also, I is it strange that we spend so much time together… I worry that I’m much more adaptable so when the time does come around that we don’t want to spend every minute together, he’ll be thrown into a whim…
okay, that was a lot of questions - I’m random I know
Hey Geminieyetoeye,
I read your comment above, and I can just say, that the whole thing about Aquarius needing Gemini is very true. I think what Becky means by saying Aquarius needing Gemini, is that they are very secure together. There relationship is very strong and deep, and Gemini is probably the only sign the Aquairus feels perfect with, ahvig no problems with them, sure there will be the odd arguement as every relationship does, but it is not major!
Hope that helps
Sorry to but it, you probably wanted Becky to answer, but I thought me being a Gemini too would help out another Gemini!
x
He was my substitue for one time. The moment I saw him I just felt really attracted, and somewhere on the road it just “clicked”… for me that is.
I don’t know about him, I only assume he felt something too, but probably not that strongly as love struck me.
We didn’t have the deepest conversations, but I made him laugh and maybe made him think about one or two things.
He’s still a substitute at my school but for another class, so I still see him some weeks.
For example, I met him again a week after we first saw each other and had a casual small talk. But then I did not see him for two weeks, and when I said “Hi” to him he looked as if he had forgotten me? Which should be quite difficult when I’m a person that you’ll probably always remember?
I am an Aquarius woman, he’s the Gemini man, and I don’t know if this matter but he’s born in late May under the gemini sign, and he kind of doesn’t really feel like a typical gemini? But I can be wrong about that…
He just doesn’t feel as “chatty” as the other geminis I’ve met who are born under the sign in June.
But anyhow, I just got brutaly dumped by a Pisces (six months ago) and after that I’ve gotten very cautious about flirting with guys.
A year ago I was out there, I was really good at flirting, I would have won the prize for “most flirtatious woman”. But know I’m overly shy.
It’s been a month since I and this gemini man talked, even if I’ve seen him a couple of times and said hallo, I can’t put myself together and go talk to him.
Also just because his so beautiful and I’m so scared I will screw it up as I did with the Pisces man. I feel as if I don’t have afford to loose him. I really want to get to know him better. Though, I think he probably finds me boring now… and has forgotten all about me… That or he has a girlfriend.
Or, can it be that he’s also strongly attracted to me to that point he gets nervous talking to me and instead avoids me?
Or he’s just not interessted?
We had our “moments”, but I’m probably exaggerating. But I felt like he wanted to know more about me, but after all weeks of not approaching me or anything, I feel confused?
What I wonder is, is it too late to try to talk to him now, a month since last? Or has he totally forgotten all about me and moved on?
Also, should I be the one approaching? Or with he, never aproaching me, it’s all a dead end?
I just wanna know if I got a chance with him or not and what’s the best way to aproach a Gemini man?
Lots of questions… I hope atleast someone can give me an answer.
And btw, thanks for a wonderful site!
Hi Becky,
I read in your aquarius and gemini post, that when they fight they really do fight.
However, what I wanted to ask, was it is possible for an Aquarius and Gemini not to fight at all? Because being a gemini female, my best friend was a aquarian male and we NEVER fought.In fact it was quite the opposite we understood each other so well, that we never had any disagreements.
Thanks
xx
Hi Haz,
Yes ofcourse it is. Aquarius and Gemini will only fight when they live together, and only because Gemini ‘needs’ more than Aquarius, once that is sorted out (as long as there charts are not in complete opposition) you have yourself two happy people indeed! Friendship wise, I have never had an arguement with an Aquarius friend.
Thank you xxx
Love & Light
Becky
Hey Becky,
I am sun/taurus with moon/gemini which I just found out a few months ago about my moon in gem. I had always wondered why I never felt or acted like they say taureans act. I’ve read a few places where it says that a gem moon will dominate a taurus sun or I guess maybe any sun. Is that true? I love my gemini moon! The twins are fun! smile….The only thing I hate about having gemini in my chart is the gossipy thing that they relate to the twins. But thanks to my more down to earth taurus sun it helps me to refrain from doing too much of it. I tend to stay neutral. But I do however love to listen to the gossip thats going around. I guess some things can’t be helped huh. lol. My co-workers tend to think I don’t have a clue as to what’s going on most times. Especially when it’s about me. Which is most of the time. They make comments like she’s living in her own little fairytale world, til I come back and let them know when need be what has been said. You know us gem’s can tune in to more than 1 thing at a time so the joke is usually on them!
Well I must say this is so so right everything I am an Aquarius Woman in a relationship with a Gemini Man. We have been together over a year and its never a dull moment, we both can be withdrawn he loves to hang out for hours and hours and I wont hear from him, I can be furious and alot of people dont understand why I love him and he loves me but it goes deeper than that our love goes beyond time. He can disappear and when he comes back its like I forget about being mad, and vice versa what I do love is that the space we have away from one another makes us reuniting so great, when we argue I fall apart and he can be cold then we make up wake up and its like we never had a fight as crazy as it seems I wouldnt give him up for anyone or anything our love goes beyond what I can say.
Hey Peach,
I was just talking to someone the other day about the mental distance in me and my Aquarian’s relationship. And just the space that we give each other period. They were looking at me like I was CRAZY! lol…I just laughed and said it works for us. I mean, to me it’s no different than ppl who are all clingy and all over each other! I look at THEM like they’re CRAZY!
And the fghting thing goes beyond words but the making up is like WOW!!!!smile….
All of my relationships have been this way since I was like 25. I didn’t realize how much I had changed then because my Taurus sun in my younger years was dominant in my chart which had me all clingy.
The Aquarian I dated for 7 years before my current 5 year Aquarian relationship, told me I acted like I didn’t love him as much as he loved me. I was apalled and hurt. I didn’t see it then because I knew I loved him dearly. I guess I was just more distant than I knew. But now I see it. My Gemini moon plus all the Uranus energy I have in my chart really has me detached over the years. Thank God my now Aquarian has just as much Uranus and that Aqua thing goin for him, cuz I’m sure we wouldn’t be together otherwise. sigh……which would be terrible for me becuz I sorely love them, those Aquas. They are wonderful. Another SIGH…….!!!!
Hi Becky,
I’ve read almost everything you have written in this beautiful website and I think I’ve never seen anything as funny and as true as what you say!
I too am a Gemini girl and a adore Aqua men so I guess we have a lot in common.But I think there is one BIG difference between us-I don’t know how to handle the Aqua I love with all my heart and soul!We met 2 years ago and after we had only seen eachother a couple of times we fell in love-no,he didn’t confess to me it’s just that I could feel it…It was the strangest thing!There was an almost telepathic bond between us(I’m sure you know what I mean)!Then something happened-his best friend told him I loved the Aqua and I threw into a panic-I was so scared that he’d turn me down (although deep in my heart I knew that he wouldn’t) that before I knew it I made perhaps the biggest mistake in my life-I told him that the rumour he had heard wasn’t true.A CHILDISH thing to do but hey I’m a Gem…I don’t know why I said it…I just did.I’ve been suffering a lot since then and I’m sure he has been in pain too.
Later there was a period of around 4 months when we didn’t see eachother,school and all.But then I signed up at a sports club he was in and we made contact again.I was scared at the beginning that he’d be mad at me because of what I had done before but he wasn’t.That didn’t stop me from thinking that he was-yeah,I made big mistake number 2:I started to hide my emotions.He could see right through me I was sure of this but I didn’t know what else to do-if I told him I had lied to him he’d probably get angrier at me(I had heard that the worst thing you can do to an Aqua is to lie to them…).I think I totally confused him, the poor thing!But I didn’t know what I was doing myself.
A lot of time has passed since then-a year probably and he’s giving me hints that he still has feelings for me.So I threw my worriers and paranoia away(about time too).I WANT to be with that Aquarius whatever it takes!I’ll just put my mistakes in my past-I think I’ve learned my lesson(the hard way).
Here comes the big problem-how do I tell him how I feel?He kind of tells me what he feels by sending me songs with lyrics that match his emotions(mine too), he’s been giving me glances whenever he says something funny and he treats me differently from other girls, seeks my opinion,suddenly strarts talking to me when he really looks “lost in thought” etc.I tried sending him songs too and I call him every know and then when I feel he needs me or maybe when I can’t take being without him anymore-I don’t know, I won’t be surprised if it’s both.
The thing is he’s really shy and he obviously won’t make the first step.Or maybe he’s just as scared as I was before.I can’t blame him for being cautious-I must have given him a very hard time.That’s why I must do SOMETHING about it!I have the feeling that the future of our relationsip depends on the way I confess to him.The thing is I have no idea how to do that and I can’t hold it in much longer!
I’m sorry if this sounds more like something I should have written in my diary but I just don’t know how to give you the full picture without telling you some personal information.Please give me a piece of advice, now I know that if anyone can that would be you!
XXX
Hi Lili,
Thank you for your comment and I am really glad you are enjoying my site
You made me laugh when I read your comment because it was like reading something I once wrote!! (many many years ago!)
Aquarius guys seem to cause so many problems. And the problem that you have is that you will have to be the one to start things going, but I think you know that. They actually fear getting hurt as their emotions are a close guarded secret so to open them up takes a lot and someone special. You need to write to him, write it all down in you beautiful Gemini way, let it all pour out exactly how you feel. Yes you may feel open to getting hurt but sometimes we just have to risk these things. If he is sending you songs then it’s pretty obvioust that he likes you a lot. By writing it down you are showing him how you feel without the awkwardness of face to face. I met my Fiance when I was 27 and I couldn’t tell him how I felt..so I wrote it down I even pretended to be asleep when I told him that I loved him!! So I do understand.
It’s early so I’m not sure if all this has made sense but please let me know how it goes, I can tell your a very lovely girl!!
Good Luck
Love & Light
Becky
Hey becky,
I just wanted to ask, is an Aquairus male and Gemini female relationship different to a aquarius female and gemini male relationship. Because I have read on websits that The Aquarius female and gemini male relationship is alot more romance passion and love based, as for the aquarius male and gemini female, islove based but mostly to do with mental interaction.
Would you agree?
Hi Becky,
Thank you so much for the reply! It rally inspired meee!!! I feel a lot better and I must say I’ll follow ypur advice as soon as I get the chance and set the mood right!I have the feeling that the moment is nearing and I’m really excited(and a bit nervous in the good way :)). I will do all I can for this relationship to work out.Wow I’ve never felt this brave and determined before,I really didn’t know I had it in me(could be because of the huge cup of coffee I just had though).By the way my best friend is an Aquarius and yesterday she told me the exact same thing you did-to tell him my feelings as soon as possible even if I have to write them down!
Thanks a lot again and I really appreciate what you’re doing for me and all the people here!It’s a wonderful thing
I’ll keep in touch,
XXX
Hi Becky
I’m writing this after an insomnia soaked night which actually brought me to your site.
I am one of those awkward Aquarian men who made a decision some time back to forsake all relationships/ romantic and carnal interactions and retire into my personal world, which is very easy as I am a writer and creative director.
At 29 I have got to an age where that is not working as well for me (although I love what I do and as my friends keep pointing out to me it will be the mistress to all my relationships) and I am trying to be more emotionally honest, this has been complicated by the fact I’ve recently got back in contact with a Gemini woman I worked with on a film project at college, at the time I knew she was in a relationship and she became pretty much my muse as I wanted to respect her relationship. The more time we spent together sparks started to fly I felt that there was a comfort I have never felt with anyone else but we never got together although at the time she took to hugging me from behind in the middle of crowded corridors etc and after her doing some more stuff with me including a fashion shoot we parted ways until now.
Yet again she is in a relationship and although my first reaction is to respect that and leave well alone being in contact with her however minimal and awkward (on my part) it is it has brought back a lot of the same feelings that have never really been that far from the surface in years between, it’s safe to say she is the one that got away and my instinct says respect the fact she is in a relationship but at least tell her how you feel and felt to lay groundwork for when she is single and it comes back around again, which I believe it will.
I’m certainly not looking to break up what she has even if I could as her happiness is paramount (even if I am not the one to make her happy) things are compacted by the fact she lives quite a distance away and is at a different time of her life as she is 6 years younger and I am currently signed off work with sickness etc so there is that consideration.
Typical Aquarian you can see how much thought has gone into this. Bottom line I know this woman got into my head and I am uncertain even if with the Gemini/ Aquarian compatibility if I should tell her how I feel and how that will be revieved as we do not have the romantic history, I don’t want to come off as a freak or make her feel uncomfortable.
I’m annoyed this has taken me out of my internal world but feel that the disruption is for a reason, truth is although I know only a little bit about her and got a feel for her I have not met anyone that made me feel the same way. When I first saw her she kind of blew me away and although she was 16 going on 17 she felt much older.
I’m going to wrap it up there as I can comfortably tie myself into knots for hours over this and kind of have done tonight, hence Insomnia so any help, guidance suggestion in relation to what you know about the Aquarian Gemini attraction will be greatly appreciated.
x
Hi Andrew,
I know I’m not the professional around here (Becky) but I was really intrigued by your story and since I had something similar happen to me I thought maybe I could give you some insight… from my experience Aquarian men do tend to sometimes stray from the realm of love whether it’s carnal, metaphysical… I think perhaps this is sometimes due to the fact that they have a hard time understanding it or maybe they understand it better than a lot of other folk today, but rather they’re ahead of the rest of us and therefore have a hard time finding a partner to be on the same level, seeing as love to an Aquarian is something that comes with time and patience… anyway! In my youth I had some really strong feelings for an Aqua-guy but we never got around to anything… rather always mainting our friendship whether across time or space… I recently saw him but I’m in a relationship with another Aquarian at the moment (hah!) and somehow (terrible to say) I still had some feelings revived when I saw him … I know it doesn’t really relate, but, I’m going to tell you that a Gemini gal will appreciate your honesty - don’t be over-forward, but I think it will give you peace of mind to tell her how you feel, as well as you never know where she is at (no one ever does with Geminis!) but whatever you do don’t be afraid to put yourself out there… everyone ( I believe) even the aqua wants to be loved… and if not that everyone needs that person that is their partner through life! Best of luck to you, I really wish you well… and try to get some sleep!
Hi BlueberryGem not meaning to be rude
But when are your birthdays?
wHAT IS YOUR BIRTHDAY and when is your aqua mans?
Because it all depends on what month your birthdays are on?
Thanks
x
I’m June 13th, he is February 17th!
Hey Andrew when is your birthday and when is the gemini girls birthday?
Thanks
Hey becky,
I just wanted to ask, is an Aquairus male and Gemini female relationship different to a aquarius female and gemini male relationship. Because I have read on websits that The Aquarius female and gemini male relationship is alot more romance passion and love based, as for the aquarius male and gemini female, islove based but mostly to do with mental interaction.
Would you agree?
Birthdays: I’m January the 30th she is May 31
Hey BlueberryGem
Thanks for the response, from what I know it is very easy for Aquarians to fall into there personal world and part of that from my perspective is that I have some control over that and with being creative shaping it etc whereas apart from the day to day living aspect of your own life It’s hard to affect the wider world unless you make the decision to pursue something that will put you in a position to effect change.
From my perspective someone has to blow me away for me to focus on them and I think this is possibly part of the connection needed as although there are all the other considerations of attraction etc I think the Aquarian is looking for some new input to a certain degree and for the person that can kinda bypass the intellectual side and tap into the emotional side that we have.
In danger of sounding condescending I think we view most relationships as trivial and this can come down to friendships as well (I’m not speaking for all Aquarians and I’m not sure if it is the same for Aqua females etc) although I am lucky to have some really good people around me and enjoy them I think it is sometimes too easy for me to be with myself and we don’t seem to feel lonliness in possibly the same way as other people.
As I have got older I have certainly seen more and more of my Aqua traits emerging and been able to look back and see that they were already there when I was a child.
Thank you for your kind words and sharing your own experience with me, I think after my bout of insomnia I kinda came to the same conclusion and that I need a level of closure whatever that outcome may be, hopefully positive but at the end of day it’s about her happiness as well as mine and if it’s not I shall retreat back into my internal world I know, love and resent in equal measure until another lady pulls me from it
Thanks again
Hi Haz,
Yes it is different. The sign of Aquarius brings strong, dominent people who know there own minds, with an Aqua male Gem female relationship the Aqua male will take the lead as the more in control of the two and as the Gem girl likes to take a back seat most of the time this works out very well indeed. However, when its the other way round it can get a bit scewiff! Gem males are dominent and so are Aqua women so therefore there will be a period of time when these two wil have to find their natural place in this union. I would agree that the Aqua woman Gem man is more physical and passion based, but its a great match, my brother and his wife are testimony to that, but they do have their struggles due to the strngth of will of the Aqua woman!! It is normally better if the Aqua is male. But with the right outlook its perfect no matter which combo it is.
Love & Light
Becky
Whenever I want to validate the seriousness of my relationship with my aquarius, I always look on your site becky…because it reaffirms the sheer truth, that Gemini women and Aquarius men are practically perfect.
I initially met my Aquarius through a mutual friend, and for a year we were never really attracted to each other beyond the level of friends. We just always got along on the occasion we would see each other. It was only a matter of time, really. By some fortunate circumstance he invited me to a camping trip with some of our friends and fate just put us in the front seat together for the ride. I was worried at first, because riding shot-gun indicates the position of entertainer, co-pilot and navigator. And since we didn’t know each other that well, this was a test to how well we could mesh. It’s no surprise that it was the most pleasant drive we’ve ever had. Since then Becky, I swear the universe brought us together.
We could talk for hours upon hours, laugh and create our own world amidst a sea of others and physically connect in a way that is as natural as waves on a shore. We fell in love so fast and everyday I fall in love with him all over again. As a very true form of Gemini, my Aquarius is the breath of fresh air I have been starving for my whole life. It is entirely true that I can be my true self around him…and I finally feel as if my immature flaws of a young gem are slowly healing away since he provides me with the understanding and patience I feel I never had.
I have been so choosy about the men I regard romantically in my life…and looks, money, shallow flattery are always fun, (I’m a Gemini, I’m an expert on the surface!) but I knew I always wanted a connection, romance and passion that went beyond that: Someone who could tell me the truth without forgetting my feelings, laugh at my quirky habits, empathize with my crazy moods, not take things so personally when my honesty can sound offensive.
I’m certain many Gemini’s can feel me when I say that, I can relate to almost everyone, but so few are able to relate to me.
Finally finding this Aquarius–my Aquarius–is the first time I’ve ever felt so clearly understood in my life. I can finally say I am balanced and that my two-sides have found a harmonious union wrapped around the steadier Aquarian air. Lovers or not, my soul mate he will forever be. And a better person I can be because of him.
Hey Kat,
When is your birthday and when is your lovers birthday, because it can all depend on the month too?
Thanks
x
May 29th, Jan 25th
May 29th, Jan 25th.
Hey Becky,
Question….when U put your Aqua in check, how does he respond? (All jokey, with a smirk, sarcastic or just disregarding? Like nothings happened?) How????
Hi Gemmoon,
Thats a good question!! When we first met he used to basically sulk, and if I was to still do so he would sulk now too. I have learnt however that putting an Aquarius ‘in check’ as you put it is not a wise idea. You have to learn how to handle your Aquarius as you do any sign. We all have are own ways and no sign reacts the same way to different actions. In a relationship it is always about understanding and compromise, learning one another is a very, possibly the most important thing in any union. It can be the make or break, get it wrong and it can be all over, get it right and a life of happiness will be assured!
I have found that most Aqua men are disregarding, and when riled highly sarcastic to the point where it seems the man you know has been posessed by an evil force. This is why it is best to learn other ways of getting your point across.
Love & Light
Becky
As an Aquarian male I can say that sounds about right, it is a while since someone has rattled me enough to get that reaction and I can surprise myself by how cold and detatched I can be and as Becky mentioned the sarcasm tends to freely flow although I am more of the former.
Becky I got a response from Blueberry Gem regarding my first message I would certainly be interested on your take on it.
Thanks
Thanx Becky and Andrew
His reaction was just as U guys said….(DISREGARDING) but it always is and YES!!!!! The sarcasm does flow soooooo freely with him. lol….but I love it (most times.) I think I may (unknowingly) now that I say this, do things to rile him up intentionally. I know it can be riskey with U guys Andy but I just can’t help it. (shrug, tear, smile) But I sooooooo love U guys! Aaaaahhhquaaaaahh, YES!!!!!!!!
Hello,
I am an aquarius and my bday is jan 26th and his bday is 6/10. What are the chances?
Maybe an Aquarius male can answer my questions. I have a situation where I am a married Gemini (40) who is mind blowingly attracted to an Aquarius male (32), who is also involved with someone. He happened to be a professor for a course I was taking this past summer and he was constantly making eye contact with me throughout the entire class. Based on the comments he had made in class he seems to be professionally and ethically “by-the-book”. I am so strongly attracted to him in a way that I have not experienced before.I would like to stop thinking about him but it is very hard since he always seems to be on my mind.The fact that he and I are in relationships and that he is a proffesor eliminate the chance that anything would happen.I guess my questions are (1)am I having an early “mid-life” crisis or is the attraction between a Gem & Aquar that strong? (2)are male aquar typically flirtatious even when they are in a long term relationship? (3)are male aquar usually ethically and professionally grounded all the time? (4)am I nuts to think there was something there?
wait… so what does our birthdays have to say about our compatibility as a gemini and aquarius becky? Haz asked but I didnt see anything in terms of their question. How compatible is a gemini in May 29th and an aquarius in Jan 25th?
Becky, I have to disagree with you on this. For me I was born January 25th, and maybe you can put some insight on this or anyone. They say we get along. But when I am with a Genimi I NEVER get along with them. I find a lot of them are too immature for me. They abuse their friendship with people or with my other friends, (which I really don’t like), or they come across as assholes.
I find myself I get along with Pisces, Aquarius, Libra, Taurus, Aries and some other signs. I can never get along with a Genimi.
Question, I also find myself acting like Aries sometimes. Even though I fit the Aquarius defention to a T. My best friend (Tuarus) Says. I am in the middle of easy-going, and likes to lead Aquriuars. I am very laid back and I don’t mind going with the flow of life, but I also like to lead as well.
I also read that Aquarius that are born the first potion act too much like an Aries.
To JGemini Whatever you do. Don’t get involed with a married man. Nothing good will come of it. Ask yourself this, if you did get invole with him. “What do you expect from him? What do you expect from married man???” You need to forget him, or keep your feelings in check. Whatever you DO, I don’t care if he makes the first move, to not let yourself or him get in a realationship with you. It’s just messing.
Besides, Here’s a good rule of thumb. “Treat people like how you would be like to be treated.” would YOU want your husband or boyfriend to cheat on you? Put yourself in his wife’s shoes. Would you want to hurt her?
I am strong believer of what comes around goes around.
To JGenimi No matter what their sign is. People are people. It has nothing to do with their sign. People have their own makeup.
Hi Becky,
I am a female Aquarian. I meet a man (Gemini) a year ago in foreign country because of work. We were so attracted to each other and started to chat on msn and have long distance call.
It is very true that we (Aquarius & Gemini) are so in tune with one another even we are oceans away. Is like having a BIG magnetic field between us that keep drawing us together regardless of situation.
There is a time where he has almost gone insane for this relationship for not able to meet or reach me and he almost wanted to abandon everything and come to stay in my country.
But later he realised that this relationship is not practical and he intended to leave it to fate to decide for our future.
I have never been so crazy and in love with any man till i meet him - LOVE IS really VERY POWERFUL !!!!
Even if he has to marry another woman in his country. I am preapred to send him all my best wishes and will stop contacting him from there.
However, meanwhile, i still want to hang on to this relationship till this day come.
I am very curious if a Gemini will react the same (or as crazy) if they meet Aquarius ?
Deeply in Love with a Gemini,
Jasline
Hi Becky,
My question is whether Gemini will love and need Aquarius more or vice versa ?
Best Regards
Jasline (JEN)
Hey Jen
The question that you have just asked has also come to my mind a few times. Being a Gemini myself, I feel that Gemini is more emotionally needy of Aquarius, because Gemini is not as stable as the Aquarius. As for Aquarius they are secure in a relationship and do really love Gemini’s and do not really feel the need to depend or be in ‘need’ for Gemini because these two air signs are so deep and close and feel as if they have found their soul mates. Now don’t get it wrong, because Aquarius does have the problem of hate being alone, so therefore they need a sign for company and for them Gemini is the only sign that they willl ever need as they are both as crazy, cool and funny as each other. Aquairus finds Gemini to be very physically attractive and therefore as well as having a great mental rapport these two signs really do have love and affection and devotion for each other.
Anyway to sum this up, in the relationship between Aqua and Gemini they both are stable and happy together that they dont really need each other , but they do certainly love each other, but sometimes it may the Gemini who needs it more!
But this often is an excellent match!
I thought I might answer it from my perspective just to give a bit of advice! Hope that helped!
x
I have had an Aquarius woman in my life for the last 18 years. We came and went into and out of each other’s lives almost every 3 years like clockwork.
We were always mad about each other, but never actually were able to get it together…until this year.
I am happy to announce that we are happily engaged and getting married next Halloween.
I have never loved any woman as much as I love my Kell.
Hi i am a gemini and would have to say everything that you say about us is completely true well with me atleast it seems that i would date some guy and realize on the first date if i ever wanted to see them again, rarely did i want to i met the most wonderful man in july of this year and the situation that we met in was so crazy but such a long story but it was like fate brought us together no coincidence we have so much in common down to having a same tattoo in the same spot before even knowing eachother we are now happily married everything happened so fast but whose to put a time on anything we just knew that we wanted to be together for the rest of our lifes he is an aquarius when we are together we are in our own world it is so great and crazy beautiful but my question is how can we be so perfect for eachother in western astrology but in chinese astrology i am a dragon and he is an ox and it says to stay away? another question i am new to asrology but interests me so much how do you find out more about your sign and personality like your birth chart?
ooops i made a mistake he is a rat and i am a dragon …. i would still like some insight on me being a gemini and a dragon and him being a aquarius and a rat if you could thanks
Hi Becky I am a female gemini from the Virgin Islands. My military friend in the states told me there was a guy that he wanted me to meet I will call him Cash and he is an Aquarius. Of course my first reaction was how in the world are we going to meet if you guys are up in Texas and I am in the Virgin Islands. Well, I told my friend to give Cash the number and trying to be cautious, I told him to tell him only to text me since I didnt know him. That same day Cash text me and we hit it off and a couple of days later I told him he could call me and he did. We exchanged pictures and by our conversations we cannot wait to meet each other. And we talk we are on the phone for atleast two hours and he says he loves my personality and I do love his too. But there is something wrong here. I know he is military and he is busy during the week, but during the weekends, why is is that he can’t stop a sec and text me or call me and say I am thinking about you hon, something? Its Veteran’s Day Weekend. He didn’t call on Friday, Saturday and I don’t expect any calls today. The last two weekends he said he had been with family and thats why he hadnt called me or text and he apologized. That sounds kind of shady to me. If I was with my family or with my friends I would pick up the phone if he called or if he text I would text him back. My gemini intuition is that he is seeing someone else, or that he is around certain people and he doesnt want them to know about me. Cash plans to either come and see me during Christmas leave or buy my ticket so we can meet in person for the first time. I am afraid that none of that is going to happen. Can an aquarius be forgetful towards his partners or can they block us out completely when with friends or family, or should I follow my intuition and say he is seeing someone else. Becky are my gemini emotions going wild? I already like this guy so much and its only been a couple of weeks. Help!
Hey Blankie whens your birthday and when is your aqua gus birthday?
Thanks
x
Haz91, I see by previous post that you ask that question a lot. I don’t think it is relevant unless your going to do my charts or you are trying to compare my situation to yours. However, I can tell you this much, my birthday is In the middle of June, his is in the beginning of February. Becky I would really value your response on what I posted above. Thanks.
Its just a question no need to get wound up about it, im not a specialist in chart readings but i do no that gemini in june are very different to gemini in may and therefore can have different relationships with an aqua man.
Thats the point i try to make. It may not be relevant to you but it is actuially relevant in charts and compatabilty
Hey Becky,
I have another question for you and that is that in the gemini and aquarius relationship, it says that even though the mental and sexual connection is there, these two signs still find it hard to be intimate with each other, this meaning that they never express deep feelings with each other and also that this is what could drift them apart, leaving them as a friendship more than a romance. Could I ask why this is the case, these two are supposed to be soul mates and supposed to have the best match, then why do they find in hard to sit down and be intimate and close? I do not quite understand this, because I have actually found this myself, that aqua men aren’t very intimate with gemini women, the love, romance, sex is there but these two signs don’t actually sit down and discuss deep secrets/ emotions?
I look forward to hearing from you
xxxx
Hi guys, First of all thank you for all your comments, I read them all, the problem is that finding the time to answer all the questions etc is quite hard. Do bare with me, I will eventually try and get around to it.Sorry.
Haz91, hello
There is a weird bond between the two signs, it’s almost unspoken. If these two don’t get deep at the beggining then they may never talk openly, if they do not get physical early on then this may not happen much either. The reason is that these two are simply drawn to one another..long discussions and sex is just not important. There love comes from a different place than most which is why it can be hard to understand. On the other hand if they meet and get down to the nitty gritty straight away then keeping the out of bed or from having deep conversations can be nigh on impossible. It’s a funny couple. let’s face it both Gem and Aqua are both bonkers.!!
Love & Light
Becky
Hi Becky,
I am aqua woman in love with Gem. We hv been together for more than a year but there is no merchandism or anything could/to bring us together (to get married) . Why is that so? I am sure that we love each other very much.
Thank u.
Rgds
Jocelyn
In additional to Jocelyn’s question. Is this situation common for Aqua & Gem match ?
Hi Becky!
I’m just wondering how much different gemini’s who are born in May are to those who are born in June?
‘Cause I’m in love with a man who’s born in late May, and he doesn’t really follow up your description?
Also, he’s friends say he’s pretty “picky” when it comes to women, does this rely to gemini’s too?
Jocelyn (pretty name). Girl best advice, live for the lord, get some discipline, and stop having sex. You are giving him the cow free. Trust me girl, I am doing this with my aqua man and girl he is all, all, all, into me. The best decision ever.
Peace and Love
Maranda
Hi Maranda,
I have the same thoughts like you - Never involve in sex - espeically b4 marriage.
My Gemini boyfriend gives me an impression that he has no intention/not ready to settle down even he may love me a lot.
I am curious if all Gemini man behaves this way.
To Jocelyn:
I am Aquarius woman. Been reading your comments on here for the past few days. How person acts, one cannot basic it always on their star signs. You must keep in mind that how person behaves is basic on how they were rasise. Just because your boyfriend isn’t ready to settle down, doesn’t mean another man of that same star sign is going to feel this way. It’s like saying all Aquarius women act the same, which we do not. We are own person. We “might” share some of the same traits that says we are Aquarius, but we are totally different from one another. It’s like saying all Aries men cheat, which is not true. Anyone is capable of cheating. It depends on the person makeup.
Hi LittleImpaler,
Thanks for awaken me as lately I have been reading a lot abt horoscope and sign character and get them all mix up with reality.
It is true that not all same star sign behaves the same.
Thank u very much & Cheers !
HEy!
I am in quite a bit of a delemia. I am an aqaurius female and currently dating a Leo.
However,I have recently met the most amazing gemini.
I love my Leo Bf but this Gemini will not leave my mind…
What should I do.. what is ur advice??
x
Hello.. I’m a female Gemini and I’ve been with my Aquarius for almost 2 years. This is pretty accurate…It’s a bit scarey actually… I have a lot of questions but I can’t think of them right now.. for some reason my mind went blank. Is it true that Aquarius/men have trouble expressing their emotions in an intimate way? When we get into fights..he seems to become distant and cold…. Lets say he hurt me and made me cry… He leaves me in the room, messing with his phone as if he doesn’t really care that he upset me and he doesn’t try to make anything better…. If I don’t leave the room and go to him…he will leave me in the room by myself and not pay any attention to me or the fact that I’m upset… This really upsets me..and it leaves me feeling empty, alone and as if he doesn’t really care…. Once we talk it out..he tells me that whenever I get emotionally distressed he doesn’t know how to handle it and he shuts down.. it isn’t that he doesn’t care..he just doesn’t know how to handle it and he says that in his mind while he’s detached and cold he’s having a mini-panic attack….. Does this sound familiar to anyone? I’m not really sure what responce I’m looking for but…when this happens it really stresses me out and confuses me very much. There are times we’re so understanding and passionate and then there are times where I feel empty and uncared for….unloved… I don’t know… I don’t know how to handle things when they get like that….
You also said somewhere above that sometimes Aquarius and Gemini become… off sync.. give me an example of what that means. Please. Also… his birthday is Februrary 13th and My birthday is June 15th.. What does that mean? -raises an eyebrow-
Hi Kacey,
Thank you for your comments. Do not worry, your Aquarius man is being himself. Mine does the same thing, and my ex Aquarius did too. It is one of their least endearing qualities, however I have learned that it is exactly this that can help us Gemini girls calm down and learn to deal with things differently.He still loves you and does care very much but can’t handle bad feeling at all, they retreat into themselves and well I have to say itm they sulk. The best thing to do is leave them to it. Try and just get on as usual, and he will come round. It’s one of those quirks you have to get used to and learn to deal with. He won’t change, I find it quite cute now when mine does it, I have learned how to cope with it and we hardly ever fight now. Yes, Aqua and Gem can go out of sync, it is just the way they work together, So close spiritualy, emotionaly and in every other way that when their is a bit of a bad vibe it feels as though the world has shut down.Try explaining to him how you would like him to react. For instance, I told mine that when we argue and I get distressed to hug me. This works well, and he has learned not to react to me having an emotional 5 mins. If you try and talk about it, he will try and help you because that is what Aquas do, they try and help. He just needs to know how to behave around you.
Hope this was of some help, it’s early and am not quite awake yet!!
Love & Light
Becky
To Grace: Hey, I hate to tell you this, you’ll just have to choose between one of them. What feeling does this Gemini arouse in you? If it just sexual, and lust, and I just want to shag your brains out. Forget about it. But if you do find your self falling for this guy, make sure he feels the same with you, and tell your boyfriend the truth, that you no longer love him.
Hey Becky
I read what Kacey wrote, I can see that this is one of the bad things about Aquarius and Gemini pairing. Is that they do not know how to deal with emotions. Would you say that Gemini female and Aqua male relationships dont really sound as strong as gemini male and aqua female ? Am I right because I have heard that most of the problems arise from the aqua male and female gemini relationship, and that these two are simply ment to be the best of friends rather than a relationship, even in a relationship they are more like very close friends than a real passionate partnership?
wHAT DO YOU THINK?
thanks
xxx
Hi there hun, It’s a bit tricky really and I think it really depends on the rest of each persons chart. My relationship is very passionate but it tends to go through phases, it ebbs and flows. The trouble with the Aquarius being the female is that they want to be in charge and don’t take anybody’s orders easily, sometimes the Gemini man will not like this very much as it will squash overly large ego. This is why I always believe that it works the best the other way round. It’s true that they will always be very close friends and if the passion is never brought into it then they may never bother with it.Like I said at the start though a lot rides on the rest of their charts.
Love & Light
Becky
xxx
We always do end up talking it out. He wants to change but if he can’t..I can learn to deal with it in a more positave manner… He always tells me that when things get emotionally chaotic with me he needs time to himself to cool off and then he’d be ready to talk about it…. I guess what I could do…is try to control my emotions and think to myself “He still loves me, he just can’t handle things when they get so rocky between us…he just needs some space to think and make sense of what happened” I’m sure that would calm me down when I’m so emotionally distressed… but it’s hard for me to sit there while I’m hurting and the love of my life isn’t even there to comfort me. He eventually does apologize and realize the mistake he’s made… We always just need a good compromise I suppose… In the end it always works out surprisingly… and after this fight that I let you in on…we talked it out and he explained to me that he shuts down when things get so chaotic..and that he doesn’t mean to hurt my feelings..but he doesn’t know how to act or react..or be there for me like he wants to be… I honestly believe that he can change if he makes the effort.. There have been times where he’s been there for me instead of shutting down…but he tends to shut down…mainly when he makes a mistake or hurts me.. and I point it out. After our fight..he usually apologizes and comforts me. He can handle bad feeling..just not when it’s about him… but once he calms down we talk it out in a calm non-defensive way… and he does end up seeing his faults, I help him understand.. but it’s the fight before our compromising conversation that stresses me out so much. He can’t handle it during, but after he cools off he can…. I understand what you mean about the bad vibe…sometimes something in the air just doesn’t feel right and it does feel like my world is crumbling when something doesn’t feel right between us… actually, sometimes that causes me to calculate and become suspicious as to whats going on. It gets pretty heavy..but when we become back In sync it’s wonderful.
… I’m a Gemini/Snake and he is an Aquarian/Horse….How well would you suppose that works out?
Hi Kacey, at a quick glance I would say this will go very well. The Horse needs more stability than the snake but the Aquarius will balance this need out very well. Make sure you don’t flirt too much around other people as a Gemini Snake is a very charming mix indeed! Good match, Enjoy.
Love & Light
Becky
Two years ago I met a gemini and I fell in love off the bat. We never spent time in public but I would always go over to his house to spend time with him. We never got intimate but we did have our moments of kissing. He seemed to have a foot fetish: and always felt the need to massage them each time we cuddled. I helped him pack and move to his new place. And I don’t know what I did wrong: I honestly thought he was the one. After a few months, he just stopped contacting me without explaining. I changed my number quite frequent and I forgot his number so we couldn’t get back in touch. After two years of not talking I messaged him and replied and asked how my family and I was doing and that’s it. Then I messaged him again a month later with a quote of the day and nothing more: in which he replies “not to be mean what’s with the random texts”…… My heart broke in a million pieces as soon as he texted me that. I texted him back and asked if he wanted me to stop keeping contact with him and that’s when the texts stopped. He never replied… I am soo confused!!!!!!!! I can’t seem to get over him nor can I stop thinking about him. I keep making up excuses for his actions: I am just fooling myself by doing so. But I don’t seem to know what else to do. By him not replying to my question surely he doesn’t want to hear from me. But, what I don’t understand is what did I do wrong? Couldn’t he atleast explained why he did what he did and stopped contacting me?
At the time I was 20 and he was 29. Because of him I managed to gain weight over the 2 years of not talking to him.
Help me… I’m broken!!
(I’m an aquarius and he’s a gemini)
Hey Heartbroken,
I have just read your comment that you have posted, and may I say that normally gemini and aquarius relationships are not normally like the one that you are having…but also as Becky would say that it depends on the rest of that particular persons chart.
Also, reading your comment, I would say that I can see that you are/ were deeply in love with the Gemini man, I am Gemini woman, and I have to say that Gemini’s can be the worst to have a long term realtionship, I think the word LOVE can scare them away, they just aren’t ready to commit, the same can happen in an Aqaurius man’s case too. Anyway what I mean to say is don’t get too hung up over him.
Finally, you shouldn’t be broken over him, love is a very hard emotion and people do suffer heartache along the way, but you are better that this, there is really no need to be so broken over him, I am sure that you are a strong and beautiful person and you dont need to get hung up on this Gemini man, you can find someone else that will love you and not send you confusing signs LOL..
Anyway hope this helped bright up your day… don’t be down about a GEMINI MAN star signs are weird sometimes
take care
Haz91- I apprecaite the kind words but only if it was that easy. I’ve tried over and over again and attempted to move on and mingle but I cant seem to allow myself to like the individual due to thinking about what could have been with the “gemini” that stole my heart and managed to crush it. Your right as soon as i was giving hints that i had interest he got a bit scared. Considering that im middle eastern i think he thought that i wanted to get married without getting to know him further. Another thing i managed to leave out was that this individual’s sister used to be married to my decent uncle. Unfortunately after 5 years they managed to split. Do you think thats why he didnt want to commit? But i had already told him at the beginnning that we dont really associate with that end of the family. Aside from that; another thing that i’ve noticed is that i only mingle with inidividuals that remind me of him or look like him. How heartless of him!!!
The least he could have done was explain his reasonings… He’s now 32 and still single.
Ooops- TYPO
I meant my “distant uncle”
Hi Becky,
I posted a comment on November 9th but you never responded. I know you are busy but you responded to everyone else after me. I am very interested in what you have to say.
Thank you for the responce Becky. Flirting around other people meaning? Me flirting with other people in front of my love?…orrr…flirting with people in front of other people? I got a bit confused by that statement. I don’t usually flirt…I’m friendly but I don’t let it go passed that. There was this new astrology site that said that me and my lovers compatibility was 6 out of 15…which I found crushing… but I don’t think so…because for the most part we get along amazing! I grew some doubt…when reading about the Horse and Snake compatibility and thats why I asked… Anyway, thank you very much for your responce! Most of the time I think the same thing.
Heartbroken,
Hello…I just happened to read your comments, hope you don’t mind. I’m also a Gemini..and my brother is a Gemini as well… What relates most to your current interest and my brother is…the distance. My brother pretty much isolated himself from the family. He didn’t tell us when he graduated and noone knows where he lives. He doesn’t talk to anybody…I just recently sent him a text…asking him to guess who I was. (It’s been 4 years since we’ve last spoke, and before that 8 years since we last spoke). He responded, but once I told him who I was he just stopped talking to me. I know that doesn’t relate very much but it is hurtful nonetheless. I think that the best thing you could do is ask him why…why he just disappeared. If he doesn’t give you an answer…the only thing you can do is let time erase the damage he’s done…and it will go away eventually…but only if you let it. About Gemini’s being afraid of committment, I’ve never really been that afraid of committment….but all the other Gemini’s that I’ve known have been…so I don’t know what to tell you about that…but it seems he wasn’t interested in committment or anything serious..and obviously he’s not interested now. I know it’s hard to let someone go that you felt so strongly for…but I doubt you want to live your life feeling this heartache…
Hi Blankie,
Really sorry I missed your comment I do try and answer everybody’s. Right,Aquarius and Gemini work very well, possibly the best there is, however, us Gemini’s ‘need’ more than them. They don’t feel the need to stay in touch all the time, where as we can waste a whole day texting and talking on the phone. They are not ruled by Mercury so they really don’t get this at all. When this happens it brings out are paranoid Gemini side as you are experiencing now. However, you have never met this guy before so really know nothing about him. Tread carefully and guard your emotions as best you can, just until you know what is going on. Send him a text letting him know your thinking of him then leave him too it, if he dosen’t answer then just leave it, he will if he truly likes you. If he dosen’t then you must let him go. But it is more likely that he is just being a typical Aquarius, they really are frustrating, mine still does it now and we’re engaged.
Good luck!
Love & Light
Becky
I know and the worst feeling is that i cant get over what he has done to me and aside from that damage he managed to cause; i feel like i keep disrespecting myself my contacting him at “random” times.
Hey Becky
Just a quick question, the aquarian that I use to like thinks I hated him and his views in general….omg I dont understand…now we do not even talk at all.. the air between un is normal but we dont talk at all… there is no trying for a friendship…its just soo awkward and nervous on my behalf. Can I ask to Aquarian males move away if they think you hate them?..do they become quite around you?
Thanks
xx
Becky: I have got the mother of all relationship story about me, Aquarius and him, Gemini.
Met him at a party on New Years Eve night. He walked into the party got immediately introduced to me and I feel madly in love…I mean INSTANTLY. I am in my forties and I have never had this happen to me before. I end up asking him for a kiss and then spent all night kissing him, nothing further. Couldn’t wait to talk to him the next day and the next. I was the more assertive one in the texting and calling at first, however by the end of the month that changed. Spoke to him on my birthday night after I had been to a party thrown for me and all was good. Sent him some pictures of the party. Then BANG never heard from him again.for three months….But, here is where it get’s good. I had a myspace account and was just corresponding with all my friends carrying on with my life. Without ever sending each other a personal message or adding each other as friends, Next thing you know we are communicating with each other like we are the only two people in the world(how this gradually happen is uncanny) He would set his mood to match what I was blogging. If I was talking to one of my suitors/pursuer he would indicate his mood as jealous etc. If I made him jealous he would respond with him feeling devious. How I figured all this out, is beyond me..(Becky talk about deep connection and operating on a different wave length), To make this long story short. I have now deleted my myspace account and only talk to him via email. He still has not gone further with the texting and or phone calls but resurrecting him from the communication grave was mind blowing. I know he has a lot of feelings for Me….. A LOT. If I don’t talk to him for a day, he lets me know how sad he is and that he doesn’t like it…..like Becky said if we get out of sync with the communication, it’s like my whole world has ended. And I know the reason he stopped corresponding with me is because he was jealous of the guys surrounding me in the picture I sent him. I didn’t realize Gemini men are SOOOOOOO sensitive. But, whoever is reeling from the cold action of a Gemini. It might not be what you think it is. He might be so in love with you and don’t know what to do. It has been a year of communicating; granted it is our unique way of talking, and I am sure it will grow to be more. But Gemini and Aquarius definitely operate in their own world
Time will heal all wounds HeartBroken….eventually…as long as you let it.
To Haz91: If you used to likes him, and he seems to hate you, does it really matter to you if you are friends with him or not? I mean, what has been done, as been done. I say leave it like that.
Because, if you try to patch this up, it just awarkard and waste of time. Live in the now, and let the past be the past. There’s not much you can do anways.
Firstly to Haz, I think it is time to move on. If he wants a friendship at all then he will come to you. You will just torture yourself if you keep on thinking about him and wondering these things. Sometimes things end and when they do it feels bad but time is the thing that makes everything ok again.
Becky xxxx
This is to Sharon, Thank you for your comment, Gemini men!! In fact Gemini’s in general are a funny breed of people. We crave independence yet long for companionship, we get extremely jealous but hate it when someone shows it toward us, we are walking contradictions basically! He will be high maintenance and will need to know how you feel, however you wish to show that. Gemini people are not cold in the slightest, we are too emotional and this can boil over at times and turn us into gibbering wrecks. Of course Gemini Men are always slightly more sensitive because they do all possess a massive ego!!
Good luck with your Gemini you will certainly be in for lots of fun and never a dull moment!
Love & Light
Becky
Thank you Becky, that was very kind of you to respond to my comment.
Yes my gemini is HIGH MAINTENANCE but, showing I care is my pleasure..he is so worth it. The funny thing is, he does come off as cold on the surface, but to this aquarius, I read right through him. He definitely is not into showing his affection in a bold way, its the little behind the scene(if that makes sense)actions, that shows he care and in a DEEP way.
Yes, like you said, he does need to know how I feel about him. I am glad you told me that, because now that makes sense to me. He responds more when I most affectionate…and I can read ever so slightly when he is upset about something. (a disjointed email for example). At which time I show even more affection. His mood then snaps right back to being happy.
I have one question for you,If I may ask, and then I will give the floor to next commentor.(HaHa) I notice he never responds to a direct question..If I want to know anything, I have to be creative about how I present things to him. Actually he responds to me best when I approach things from different(softer) angles rather than being direct.(does that make sense to you) Is this usually the case with Gemini men. Or perhaps his moon.
Thanks for your article, Becky - very encouraging and pretty accurate. Thank you, sincerely, for being so receptive to others’ needs and questions. Your talents can surely be used and we appreciate the effort and energy you give to answering questions.
I am an Aqua. female (jan 24) and my guy’s a gem (jun 20). We have frequent telepathic exchanges and feel like we’re connected on some deep level. We are both quite spiritual and strongly feel our souls (call it soulmates or whatever) are karmically linked.
We met each other on an Indian Matrimonial site (believe me - NOT something I was serious about!) and communicated off and on for a couple years. When we’d chat on messenger services, we could go on for HOURS and REALLLY felt like we were on the same vibe - like, we just really ‘connected.’ Because he was in another country, we never met. Once, when we were “off-communication” for a year or so, he had an intense & loving live-in relationship w/ a Pisces and that ended painfully (for both sides) a few months later. I also met a couple amazing and attractive souls - but nothing worked out.
We got in contact again, shared a lot together, dated (via phone b/c of long distance) within 8 days of re-connecting. It was not easy b/c he hadn’t worked through all this feelings from his prev. relationship, so we broke up repeatedly. Finally, after a month+ of no talking, we took a serious decision that if things are unstable from his side even ONCE more, I am done for good - forever. (He is well aware that I have no NEED for anyone - I’m very independent and quite happy alone). He gave me his word and we’ve stuck together since - it’s been a year+ of dating. There are a lot of deep feelings, lots of love, care and affection. Sexually, we’re both experimental, very loving and attentive to each others’ needs.
He’s in FL and I’m in IA and I fully agree that our fights are pretty dramatic (he has a hard time compromising). Still, we have such a deep committment towards each other that the 9 days that we’ve been together in person is enough to keep our heads up. We dream together of a future in which we can be together. There really is some magical, invisible “glue” holding us together.
I am 14 years old and there is this guy that I like and he is an aquarius and I am a gemini. He is a little bit quiet and I talked to him a couple of times already. When I wrote a couple of sentances asking him something in an e-mail, he wrote back a paragraph. He only talks to me when I talk to him though. I am not sure i he likes me. He responds to my e-mail’s very quickly.He is always staring at me for some reason.What should I do? Does he like me? Try to explain him to me.He seems to talk to me more online than offline. He is also very polite and looks me in the eye and is a good listener.
Thanks,
Hannah
To Hannaha:
Sounds, like he likes you a lot. When a boy stares at girl, that means he finds you attractive. And if he reponses quickly to your e-mails, I would say he likes you. It sounds to be he finds it a lot easier to talk to you in e-mails then in person, because of his shyness.
Take it slow, get to know him little by little. Talk to him little by little so he gets to know you, and might just talk to you.
To RS: It’s nice to read a comment by an Aquurius born January 24. I was born January 25th.
I heard that Aquarius born on the first portion of the month act totally different from the ones more in the middle and towards the end.
Hey hannah
when are your birthdays?
xx
Hey littleimpaler,
Hmm… yeah, i’ve read that too. I highly recommend “The Secret Language of Birthdays” by Gary Goldschneider (spelling?). He breaks each star sign into 3 decades, so you and I would be in the first decade of Aquarius. However, I feel that astrology is quite complex because there are SOOOO many factors including planets, houses, angles, whether one planet feels comfortable in the house in which its placed, etc. To complicate things further, Indian (Hindu) astrology (which is quite ancient and arguably one of the first astrological systems) calculates things differently. I have read my detailed birth chart using both systems and, quite frankly, it’s VERY confusing. The 1st decade of Aquarius is titled, “the cusp of genius.” Not necessarily that we’re more intelligent but this decade carries a lot of mental energy and precocious behavior. I don’t want to take up Becky’s valuable ‘comment space’ for Gemini/Aqua. compatibility, so I’ll end here. Def. check the book out, but u prob. want to consult an astrologer (Becky seems to know what she’s talking about!) for greater insight.
RS
My birthday is june 15th and i’m not sure what his is.I know it is an aquarius. I talk to him and he answers my questions, but he doesn’t ask me any questions. He only responds. What does that mean. He listens to me and seems interested in my conversations.
Hi Hannah, Thanks for your comment. You have the same birthday as me!! Aquarius men don’t really ask questions, mine never really has, in yet he knows everything about me. They pick up on everything, a lot of people say they aren’t interested and don’t take any notice, this is not true at all. If they like the person then they will learn about them but us Gemini’s are communicators and Aquarius’ are not, therefore it seems strange to us. Good luck!
Love & Light
Becky
Hi RS, Thank you for your comments. Astrology can be very confusing if you allow it to be. Whe I do charts for people I do all the hard work and give it to them in a simple way so that everyone can understand it. I think the best way to describe Aquarius for example is like this..the first section of Aquarius has some traits of Capricorn, the middle section is very Aquarius in there ways and are the truest to the sign, the third section are normally more sensitive due to their closeness to Pisces, this goes for all signs of course.
Thanks for adding to my site it’s nice to have you here!!
Love & Light
Becky
To Becky: I was born on January 25th. I know I have traits of Aqurauis, but some times I feel I share some traits of Aries as well. I don’t know my born time. I don’t think I have one. I was born outside in the Philippines, my mother never went to the hospital. I know all aquarius are different, but I feel I am totally different from a lot of Aquarius. Like a lot of Aqurius get along with Genimi, where as I do not get along very well with Genimi. I just clash with them.
Can you explain this?
Hi Littleimpaler, thanks for your comments.
My Fiance was born on the same day as you! The thing with the connection with Gemini and Aquarius is that it either works or it dosen’t. Saying that you should look into getting your chart done as this is a big insight into why you are the way you are. You may have a lot of fire in your chart for instance. If you don’t know your birth time then it’s OK it can still be worked out as near as possible. Also are you interested in the Chinese Zodiac at all? This can also help us in our quest to seek out who we are.
Look forward to hearing from you, remember you can contact me using my contact page as well.
Love & Light
Becky
Hi and thank you for such interesting reading about gemini..Im a gemini woman with rising aquarius,lets say my mind is like a tornado.I really havent pumped into many aquarius boys,as far as i know,i might have taken one home sometime without knowing,hahaha gemini speaking.until recently,he turned my mind upside down and inside out.we did the nasty twice then he gave me the cold shoulder.I could feel some strange connection..but im not really into long term “hunting”.I also was in another relationship at the same time =)
oookkakkkaaayyyy……anyways i shouldnt be responding cause im neither the above signs i am a pisces thats in love with a aqaurius..ive never been attracted to a gemini and never will….but my aqaurius broke up with her gemini for me..eveidently they wasnt that compatible…..its been 5 years since we have been together now….and right this day my aqaurius hates that gemini…lolol
Lakisha
Reading what you have written abot never meeting a Gemini and bragging about how your partner left a Gemini for you..makes you look arrogant and stupid… you might be happy but you don’t have to talk about Gemini’s like that you might not want to meet a Gemini but Pisces aren’t exactly the best sign either trust me I have quite afew Piscean friends some of them are great but others are just crap.
Just the way you have written the comment is quite offensive and I am a Gemini myself
@HAZ91………………….i apologize for hurting your feelings.. yes i was arrogant but no im not stupid… but to be honest sweetie i was talking about that particular gemini not you…i dont know you from adam…so why are you so offended…does every geminis situatations has to have an affect on you? when ppl say “pisces ppl are weak” i dont get mad at all…i just explain myself and prove that i am not weak, i really just let them see for their self who i am and at the end they are very surprised….it never fails…and i love it cause ppl tells me all the time that i dont really act like a pisces………i do have a very sweet,sensitive side…but thanks to God and the obstacles that i have been through and my rooster sign that i do not have one weak bone in my body…..remind you i do fall weak for the ppl i love and honor…but who doesnt….peace………
Hi Lakisha
Not every gemini situation has an effect on me I was just making a point about how you had wrote it…it sounded like you hated all Gemini’s..where you had written you never wanted to meet one..thats all. I appreciate that you have apologised..that shows the gentle and calm side of Pisces..lol
Hi Becky!
I just wanted to tell you how much I adore your site. Your description of compatibility between Geminis and Aquarius’ is so dead-on, that I can’t help but re-read it to reaffirm the legitimacy of my own Gemini-Aquarius relationship.
I also love how all these Gemini’s can come together and relate to one another. It’s amazing how similar our traits are!
I was born on May 29th and my boyfriend is an Aquarius born Jan 25th. I wanted to know if our birthdays play a role on how strong the Gemini-Aquarius relationship works between us? From what I understand, some Gemini’s are more “Gemini” than others and vice versa for Aquarius.
I was tripping out when I read your site because it really works out that way with me and my Aqua. It’s amazing how deep the connection goes–the honesty and comfort that comes with it is SO refreshing. He is literally by best friend with benefits…and it feels so good to have someone who understands and loves you simply for being yourself. Right??? Anyhow, thanks for making such a great tribute to THE COUPLE Becky…you rock!
On a side note as Gemini, do you ever feel like you’re constantly changing to fit into so many situations, that you often lose yourself? I sometimes feel like that when I’m flying all over the place. I would get depressed thinking so much about who I was and who I’m not that I was literally hollowing myself out. It’s been my goal to merge the dual sides of my nature, being with an Aquarius really does help in that sense. They’re so grounding and calm, that my twister of energies seems separate like breezes over waves. Does anyone know what I mean?
Hi there Tiger13, Thank you for your comment and your lovely words
I totally agree with you about Aquarius being a steadying effect on us Gemini’s. I have really calmed down since I have been with mine and have learned so much, I am myself now..nearly al the time, the true me, one whole person rather than several segments. The way the Gemini works simply is that if your birthday is nearer Taurus then you will have some Taurean traits and attitudes to some degree. If you are nearer Cancer then the same applies. If you are in the middle then you are more of a Gemini than anything else. This all depends on the rest of one’s chart as well ofcourse.
Nice to have you on my site
Love & Light
Becky
Anyway…lets get back to astrology…
Becky.. looking back at what Tiger 13 said if I am born May 25th does that mean that I have the characteristics more of a Taurus. Because I feel that I am a Gemini dead on…!
Will that affect my compatability with Aquarians!
Thanks
xxx
Hi Becky,
Long time no see! I’m very happy to write to you again, I just feel like you really understand me being a Gemini too and you know how difficult it is for us to make others see the world through our eyes.
I just wanted to tell you about something that has been bugging me for some time now. A short time after I met my Aqua I fell head over heals for him. I could feel such strange connection between me and another person for the first time-it was almost like he was there with me all the time. I’m sure he felt something like this too but… what was it exactly? Did he experience it with the same intensity? I wonder what it felt like from his point of view…
Anyway, I think you are the only one who can give me a straight answer because I know you’ve been through it all. Oh, and by the way I’ve noticed that many people give out their birth dates to know exactly how well they match with the one they love so I decided to tell you mine and my Aqua’s - I’m 8th June and he’s 16th Feb. I understand you don’t have much time for replies so don’t worry about not making my chart if it’s too much trouble.
Thanks again!
XXX
Hello there! My birthday is June 15th and his birthday is Februrary 13th… Hmm, what would you have to say about that?
Kacey,
If you are June 15th then you are bang on Gemini as compared to people born towards the end of june lets say june 19th onwards they are still gemini but may have cancer attrubutes. If they are born May lets say before May 24th have charactersitics of a Taurus but we are not ignoring the fact that they are gemini they still are true geminis but have slight characteristics of other signs.
If looking at Aquarius if they are born in January then they are likely to be different to those in February. But Kacey one thing that has come to my attention is that May Gemini’s tend to have more romantic relationships with those born in January Aquarius
And June Gemini have more romantic relationships with those Aquarius in February.
But overall Gemini and Aquarius have the best match in the whole world:)
Lili when is your bday and when is your aqua mans bday?
To Haz91: I have to disagree that Gemini and Aquarius make the best match. I have read a lot of Aqarius comments with other signs and even with signs they say don’t work. Where they have this really great relationship. I think anyone can have a great aswsome relationship if they have good understanding of one another, apecct each other difference, and just like to be together. And know how to give and take.
Relationships in generally are hard work.
Hiya Becky,what you say is so very true about Aquarius and Gemini..
But i don’t understand somethings I’m a Gemini Woman and I’m very confused about my Aqua mans feelings.. it seems as though he doesn’t love me even if he says it expressively, but at times i don’t think he means it. Is it true that its hard for them to express their feelings as much? they say in a Aquarius they are emotionless people like I’ am. but I’m actually not. Due to my nervous energy and I’m born under the Gemini Moon. How he feels goes through my mind a lot only when i see him. I try to figure out how does he feel about me and I’m usually scared to ask. Cause when I try its like a barrier I could feel that protects him from what he wants to say. He seems to comfortable I only want him to say how he feels. But why is it so hard for him? it throws me for a loop! and this distance I don’t mind cause when i need him the most he appears or calls out of no where saying as always “You ok?” But this this Distance between emotion.. it drives me crazy. I try to tell him how I feel but I’m usually scared, i guess because I’m scared of his reaction towards what he’s going to say. Because they say If someones to emotionally attached to a Aquarius its pretty much a downfall they don’t want that, Is that true? so I avoid asking him. But loving unconditionally is ok with me non emotional is fine at times cause I don’t want to run him away. But still I’m very curious of what he wants from me, and how he feels thats all I ask for I wanna know why he loves me.
Should I just leave this alone and adapt to it and let it come naturally, we’ve been dating for 6 months.
or should I just talk to him about it without being scared of what is to come.
Oh my birthday is May 23 and his February 18.
when does the Gemini start? am I a true Gemini?
Hi there Mari, and thank you for your comment.
I totally understand where your coming from. It can be ever so hard for us Gemini’s and the reason for this is that we really do care. Now then, I suggest that as hard as it is you try and relax and just enjoy your time with him, the more you ask or seem uncomfotable the deeper within himself he will go. Very often you have to look for the things he does that express his feelings as words are not easily said. The slightest thing he does for you is bound to be full of emotion, however if you are really needing to find out try writing to him and make it as simple as you can because they are not fans of are Gemini ramblings that never seem to get to the point. They prefer it in black and white with a touch of cuteness.
Hope this is of some help..once you have cracked this you will have a wonderful time, but you will need to learn to relax. I honestly know how hard this is.
Love & Light
Becky
Mari when is your bday and when is his bday?
Mari_Confused Gemini:
Being someone like your boyfriend, I am also a Aquarius woman, I am not the touchy feeling kind, I don’t express how I feel, but I do by actions, not by words.
It seem like he loves you, because he is always there for you when you need him the most. Actions speak louder than words.
He might not be the kind of man that express how he feels by words. My dad is also this way, also an Aqaurius, but my whole family are this way, and their not all Aqaurius. I know they love me, because their for me, when I need them. Also my best friend is that way also, and she’s Taurus, but I know she cares for me, because she is there when I need her.
I say aceppt him for who is and not worry about it. But if it really bothers you, you must talk to him, he can’t read your mind.You cannot be afarid to talk to him, if he really loves you he will listen to what you have to say.
To Becky,
I have a question..
I have read many of the comments put by Gemini females who are in relationships with Aquarius males..what has come to my attention is that they seem to express there real true love for the Aquarius men and state that they seem to have found a real true soul mate in their aqua men!
What I wanted to ask was if you were to ask an Aqua man about his relationship with the Gemini would it be the same.. would they be as in love with the Gemini woman as they are with them…
I am just wondering because it states that the Aqua men are scared of their emotions and especially when it comes to love..so what do you think their response would be to Gemini female love match?
Are Aquarians completely in love with the Gemini as Gemini is with Aquarius..because from experiecne sometimes it seems like the Gemini woman goes onto express her true love but the Aqua man does not really say much?
Or is it me being a Gemini woman being overbearingly emotional again? lol
xx
Thanks
I think Aquarius just has a hard time expressing emotions with words. Gemini are more expressive, emotional and open than Aquarius… I always want to get into my Aquas head…because I know he thinks a lot of things that I would like to hear out loud but probably some things that I would rather not hear out loud as well. I have to really concentrate on his actions and facial expressions when he’s talking to determine how he feels when I get worried…but I do get a bit over-emotional and unnecissarily pessimistic at times leaving it hard for me to really understand logically what he’s saying with his actions….It gets hard not being reminded and told things you long to hear your lover say to you………
Becky.. Why do you think my Aqua refuses to look me in the eyes for a long period of time?
By the way.. I’m a Gemini too.
Hi Becky!
Let me start by saying I love, love, love your interpretation of the Gemini/Aquarius compatibility. Spot ON.
Let me tell you about the conundrum I find myself in. I am a Gemini gal, year of the Tiger. And I am currently surrounded by two Aquarius men; both year of the Dog… I began communication with the first guy online through emails, telephone etc. we share mutual friends- however, he has a girlfriend. [I know, I’m terrible. I’ve definitely asked forgiveness for this] we hit it off instantly and our relationship became very sexual- for a while. We no longer have sex or anything but we still talk everyday and our friendship seems to get DEEPER and DEEPER. Occasionally old habits rise up and sexual comments are made but they’re quickly retracted and never go to the point they were before… In the meantime, enter the new Aqua man. He and I get along famously as well, but there have been a few instances where freakishly random things have happened with me that he’s witnessed or between him and I where I feel like so much of myself is exposed. I’m sure you know as a Gemini we tend to peel our layers off slowly but with the illusion of openness. I feel as if God somehow has allowed him to see the very worse of me up front; which is off putting. [I stray from giving detail in order to save myself embarrassment. lol] Anyway, he is STILL around; makes comments of his interest- but of course being the Aquarius he is, I cant tell if he’s really INTO me. We still go out, etc. And I really like him, he’s definitely the kind of man I could see myself settling down with (funny, I know) however… there’s still the first Aquarius who somehow I share this very deep connection with. I input here, the second Aquarius and I have never been sexually involved, could that be the only difference between the connections? I feel like I could be equally as connected to the 2nd… but somebody is running a little faster in the race to my heart, although technically- he should be disqualified for playing on two teams.
I want it to switch! WHAT IS GOING ON?! I avoid being too affectionate with #2 because I don’t KNOW if he’s as interested as I am. But the more and more I keep from him, the more I seem to share with my old friend- who is unavailable and its totally backwards.
HELLLLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPP
Hiya Becky,
Thank you so much for what you said. It made me feel more confident in what I’m supposed to do. yes it is very hard to get out what I have to say only because of boundless nervous energy taunts me for what I must do sometimes. Especially if its about My Aqua Boyfriend.
I might just let it come naturally,because there so many ways he can express it to me but I’m so impatient!and my curiosity always gets the best of me; he’s always leaving me with so many questions I have unanswered about his feelings. So I always feel uneasy and nervous. your right I really should relax and calm my self and wait and see what he does next or say to me, besides he’s unpredictable, and his unpredictable ways are surprising and I like it a lot. I’m not going to force his feelings out but if I still feel like somethings missing I will surely talk to him. Tomorrow we go on our date and maybe things will come out more so i hope for the best…
Thanks so much for your advice and understanding. I appreciate it, it guided me to what I’m supposed to do. ^-^
LittleImpaler:
Thanks It made me understand him more from your view. I have always accepted him. But the detached emotion always makes me feel a little weary of him. But I should just get use to it and he will express it in other ways, Maybe I have to figure it out. I don’t know. But I have to be patient of him and patience I do not have because of my nervous ways. I will sustain my patience,for me and for him because I should know by now he does love me I just want him to show it more and why he does I hope I’m not asking for much.
Haz91:
As I said before my birthday is May 23 and his is February 18. I don’t know if I’m exactly a Gemini I’m probably a Taurus too… I don’t know exactly when the Gemini starts. they say 22nd or 23rd sometimes 21st. But I do know he is Aquarius.
Thanks for asking.I hope you will figure out if I’m a Gemini or a Gemini Cusps.
Kitty and Confused Gem Gurlie
When are your and your aqua mens bdays?
xx
Hi Haz91,
Feb 5th & 15th….
PS here are the basics of our charts:
ME:
Sun- Gemini
Mercury- Cancer
Venus- Leo
Mars- Capricorn
Jupiter- Pisces
Saturn- Sagittarius
Uranus- Sagittarius
Neptune- Capricorn
Pluto- Scorpio
HE:
Sun- Aquarius
Mercury- Pisces
Venus- Aquarius
Mars- Pisces
Jupiter- Libra
Saturn- Libra
Uranus- Scorpio
Neptune- Sagittarius
Pluto- Libra
Confused Gemgurlie when is your bday?
xx
To Kitty: Maybe having direct eye contact makes him nerves. I am same sign as your boyfriend and I have no problem looking into someone’s eyes. But then again I enjoy straight foraward people, it doesn’t bother me.
It could be also, and this could be sign. When someone refues you to look in your eyes, that means their lying about something, or they feel gulity.
To confusedGEMgurlie: So what your saying you in love with two men or you like them both the same????
I would say you have to choose between 1 or 2. If you try to have your cake and eat it too. You’ll find yourself in mess.
I personal, would stay away from any man that has girlfriend. Weither it is online and having a realationship with you, it’s still cheating. And him doing so, you should really think about SERIOUSLY, if you want to start a realationship with a man that is cheating, because he will do the same to you, just give it time.
I would never go for a person online, been there, done that, and it was very bad experice with me, because you don’t really know the guy. The guy could be a crazy person, because the man I used to love online had Schizoperia, and I didn’t know that.
If I were you, I go to the one that you know you have met.
It’s up to you. But you really have to choose. You can have two relationship with two men if you like, just remember what comes around goes around.
Hey confused gem gurlie
When is your bday again?
xx
Hi Haz,
Its June 16th.
Little Impaler: I’m not in LOVE with either of them. But I’m growing closer (as in a deep connection/friendship) with the WRONG ONE. I don’t want to scare the guy off who I want (who is the single, eligible guy) so I dont call/communicate too much… but at the same time, I want us to develop something so that I dont grow attached to the companionship of the unavailable gentleman.
The unavailable guy is not just online. lol. we know each other and see one another alot. I was just saying we communicate online alot.
Thanks everyone!
hey becky!
I’m an aquarian(moon in aries and taurus ascendant).. I’ve met a gemini (moon in capricorn and cancer ascendant) through my taurus ex (not for long!) a few minutes past midnight on valentines day.. we clicked the first time we talked.. it was unbelievable.. just out of a fairy tale.. and we both sensed the chemistry and sparks but couldnt confront each other for a year and eight months when the cancer i was involved with wanted me to keep my distance from the gemini out of jealousy for obvious reasons
before getting serious with my gemini, I honestly believed that we were soulmates.. just the lucky type that would stay friends forever. until he confronted me about the feelings he had all along through his past relationships while knowing me. we finally got together, and i cant say that i would believe that anyone has ever met their soulmate because so it feels that we’re the only ones that ever fell in love with the true sense of the word. we never argue, we “discuss” our problems and fears.. and we always get around them. but as friends, i cried every time he gave me the cold shoulder or didnt respond to me.
he’s the sweetest, funniest, most sensitive and adorable. I love your profile on our compatibility.. I never read something so.. PRECISE!!!
I loved it, thanks for everything… your style is very captivating! I sure enjoyed it!!
Thanks xx
Mari_Confused Gemini: I just thought of something yesterday. You said you get neverous? Does he know that? If he doesn’t, he needs to know you are like this, at the same time tell you once in while how he feels. A relationship can’t be one sided where you do what you need to do to give him space or whatever. He has to do the same for you. It’s part of understanding each other.
To confused gemgurlie
Seems like you have got an Aquarius CRISIS! LOL
But what I am going to say is that my advice to you is still remain close friends with the first Aqua man you met because obviously Aqua and Gem relitionship always truns into a friendship even after a relationship but let him know that you want to keep your distance because Aquarius love distance and isolation so he really wont mind unless he has got deep passionate feelings for you even now!
..As for the second one you said that you want to keep him close..but not scare him off.. well I would say you should call him instead of not calling him too much… show him that you are interested and take it slow… talk to him like you do to the first aqua man that you said you are close to… show an interest in him..really talk and get close because that it was defines an Aqua and Gem relationship is the excellent mental rapport…
Also you said that you are not sexually involved with him.. well yes that is what could be the difference.. the first aqua man you have actually you know …ahem..with so you both have had some sort of close intimate one to one time.. the second one is does like you but he iis taking it much slower than the first one and that is why you probably can not read if he is into you or not
GIVE IT TIME GIRL!! and he will come around
Hope I helped…:)
Take care
xx
To confused gemgurlie:
I still say that you have to make up your mind weither you want a friendship or not with him. I will admit wanting to be someone friend, but at the same time not wanting to be his friend, so you don’t a grow attach to him is silly.
I think it has something more to do with you, then any of these men. I think you need to learn to control yourself, and your emotions.
Whatever you decied stick to your guns, don’t be wishisy washy, it will confuse the guy and you must be honest with him and tell him where you stand.
Becky,
thank you so much for writing such a wonderful and so accurate description. it really made me feel better, because being an Aquariun female dating a gemini male, i realized that the reason why i am so forgiving and patient with him, is because he is the only exception and that we understand each other.
its hilarious how you wrote that aquarians dont like conflict and they run away. (we secretly want the guys to chase us anyway)
the other night we had a huge fight, i walked right out. and recieved a phonecall right away. and sat for some awkward silence after yelling our brains out, and fell asleep, waking up feeling better then ever next to each other.
we have had a lot of ups and downs the past year, but i just cant possibly see my life without him. i changed my name too, because he is going to make fun of me for the longest time for this.
thank you!
Haz & Little Impaler,
Thanks! I appreciate both of your input. I do value his friendship (Aqua #1) but like we all know friendship SOMETIMES can mean more to both Gemini and Aquarius. So the dilemma is to not overstep the boundaries of friends, as we grow closer in that capacity.
Its just that Aquarius (#2) is the one I can see myself being with but things are moving SO slowly that in the meantime I feel like I’m growing closer and closer still (friendship wise) to the first. I’ve always been a firm believer in being BEST friends with my potential life partner, so now do you see why it bothers me to grow closely (even as JUST friends) to the first? Does that make sense?
There was a breakthrough this weekend with Aqua 2, we talked about what was happening between us and it was pretty much established that yes, right now we are friends, but there is potential for so much more and we’re just taking our time. He agrees, as I do that a friendship is the basis to any lasting love relationship. We talk about EVERYTHING, the future, our pasts, our present, politics, music, spirituality, literature (including swapping good reads) etc. So I believe we’re getting to know each other in depth at this point. I just occasionally need more affection or phone calls/texts when he’s thinking of me, I suppose as affirmation that we’re still heading toward… SOMETHING.
Because he knows of my decision to remain celibate (p.s. Aqua #1 and I were involved that way a LONG time ago, before I made the decision) I think it makes him unsure of how to display affection. We kiss and hug but not A LOT because even just good night/ see ya later kisses are INTENSE. So I think he’s afraid he’d make me compromise my decision so he stays away from it.
Anyway, I decided that I will start to text or call when I think of him… which ISN’T a lot by any standard. I’m not the kind who needs to hear from him everyday, but occasionally is nice.
Impaler, I hope this kind of clears up what I meant. I don’t not want to have a friendship with Aqua #1, I just want to have a CLOSER relationship with #2. You’re totally right, as a Gemini I struggle with not being wishy washy and controlling my emotions and I take that into consideration when I’m dealing with the situation.
Anyway, thanks for ALL the input!
To confusedGEMgurlie:
Yes, this clears a lot up. I will admit I was confused about the situation. And you’re welcome. Here’s some more advice.
Don’t worry about “he has to be my best friend, so I can date him.” Just go with the flow. If it works, it works, if it doesn’t, it doesn’t. If you always think we must be friends first, you will drive your self insane. Just go with the flow and not think so much about making this relationship a best friend thing.
Good luck to you.
To Becky,
I have a question..
I have read many of the comments put by Gemini females who are in relationships with Aquarius males..what has come to my attention is that they seem to express there real true love for the Aquarius men and state that they seem to have found a real true soul mate in their aqua men!
What I wanted to ask was if you were to ask an Aqua man about his relationship with the Gemini would it be the same.. would they be as in love with the Gemini woman as they are with them…
I am just wondering because it states that the Aqua men are scared of their emotions and especially when it comes to love..so what do you think their response would be to Gemini female love match?
Are Aquarians completely in love with the Gemini as Gemini is with Aquarius..because from experiecne sometimes it seems like the Gemini woman goes onto express her true love but the Aqua man does not really say much?
Or is it me being a Gemini woman being overbearingly emotional again? lol
Thanks
OH my god evreything you wrote its so true
i am a gemini girl and i love Aquarius MAn so much ,when we’re together ..its just me and him in this planet ..
but the problem is we only have a fight on network, MSN and texting ..what should i do ?
email me plz
Hey Jana,
I wouldn’t worry about fights on the net..or msn.. every couple has fights I wouldn’t worry..but if you feel its affecting you then try and talk things through in person with him rather than using msn..but from what you have written it seems you are happy with him..
When is your birthday and when is your aquarius mans birthday?
I think that looking into my eyes for a long period of time makes him nervous. He has told me that he has a hard time looking into peoples eyes in general… I don’t think that he is lying or has anything to hide. He’s just shy thats all. Oh and Haz.. I’m Kacey. Haha… I just would rather put down my nickname instead of my own name. My birthday is June 15th and My Aquarius birthday is Feb, 13th. =) I just happen to be a very passionate…close emotional person…and when I look into his eyes I think that he can kind of sense it and it makes him nervous.
Hey Jana,
I wouldn’t worry about fights on the net..or msn.. every couple has fights I wouldn’t worry..but if you feel its affecting you then try and talk things through in person with him rather than using msn..but from what you have written it seems you are happy with him..
When is your birthday and when is your aquarius mans birthday?
Hi there,
No need to worry about the rows. I was exactly the same with my Aquarius for the first year! If we ever chatted on the phone, MSN, or email we would always end up in a great big arguement. It’s all about communication, Gemini’s differ greatly to the Aquarius in this, we can happily use any medium to chat away for hours, whereas the Aquarius can not. And finds in just annoying, they prefer to say what they need to and go. They can often sound abrupt as well. I no longer use these forms of coomunication anymore, although we live together now so we don’t have too. Just try and keep it short and sweet. But don’t worry it’s normal! Happy New Year!!
Love & Light
Becky
To Becky,
I have a question..
I have read many of the comments put by Gemini females who are in relationships with Aquarius males..what has come to my attention is that they seem to express there real true love for the Aquarius men and state that they seem to have found a real true soul mate in their aqua men!
What I wanted to ask was if you were to ask an Aqua man about his relationship with the Gemini would it be the same.. would they be as in love with the Gemini woman as they are with them…
I am just wondering because it states that the Aqua men are scared of their emotions and especially when it comes to love..so what do you think their response would be to Gemini female love match?
Are Aquarians completely in love with the Gemini as Gemini is with Aquarius..because from experiecne sometimes it seems like the Gemini woman goes onto express her true love but the Aqua man does not really say much?
Or is it me being a Gemini woman being overbearingly emotional again? lol
Thanks
Sorry becky but you didnt answer the question …lol
o and HAPPY NEW YEAR !!! TO YOU TOO
XX
Hi hun, I shall get back to you about that asap. Soo busy, I keep reading your comment I’m sure I did reply to it..maybe not though. Will be back tommorow.
Happy new year
Love & Light
Becky
To Becky,
Will my consulation, be ready soon? I haven’t got it yet.
Hi there,
Sorry about that!I always get so much work at Christmas. Yes I will send it to you tonight, I hope you enjoy reading it!
Love & Light
Becky
Hey Becky Hope you had a good New Year
I was hoping thath you would answer my question now.
Sorry to be a bother I just haven’t heard from you for a while
Thanks
take care
xx
Ok… I am a Jan 24 Aqua. (female) and my bf is a Jun. 20 Gem. His ascendant is cancer. He is REAAAALLLLLLLLLYYYYYY insecure about all my guy friends.
Becky, since you’re a Gem. yourself, could you help with how I can deal with this? I bond well w/ my guy friends and my bf hates this. He feels like, since anything is possible, I may non-platonically bond with them some day if the ‘right situation’ comes about. This annoys me b/c I see my guy friends like brothers.
Anyone else - I’d appreciate u chiming in too if you’ve had a similar issue.
Thanks a bunch!
RS
Hey RS
Being a gemini myself, I have to say that I have seen this in some Gemini males.. who have been in relationships themselves and yes jeolosy does crop up.. here are a few ways in which you could deal with it..
- Gemini’s need security when in a relationship, and I mean extra security … because it is quite hard to get a Gemini to actually settle down and Aquarius is the only one really able to do so.. so make sure that you re assure him that you love him and blah blah blah
- Next is that Jeolousy does crop up in Gemini’s when in a relaationship because they want their partner all to themsleves..now there is no need to worry because its proably because he loves you like alot and just wants to feel safe with you… so I think on a more personal level between you and him I would suggest that you say to him that there is no need to be jeolous because you both are in a relationship and there is clearly that trust element there.. and you need to let him know that at the end of the day HE is your boyfriend and that you love him and the male friends will always be there in your life because yes well there your friends and he should respect that
-You said that he had Cancer in him.. well that is the sin of sensitivity and when in a relationships Cancers like the full deal so that could be that element kicking in
What I would say overall is that on a personal level you need to discuss this and tell him that he should trust you and give you space with your male friends.. and tell him NOT TO WORRY!
BTW how long have you been together ?
Hope that helped
xx take care
To RS:
Here’s some advice from a Aquarius female born January 25th
You know he is like this, right. If you want him in your life, you’ll just have to accept that he is that way, or move on and get yourself another boyfriend who isn’t this way.
Have you tried to talke to him and tell him that this annoys you and he has nothing to worry about? If so, then you’ll just have to deal with it or find another boyfriend.
But if I were in your shoes, I don’t like jealous guys, I would only handel so much, before I put my foot down and broke up with the guy. But that is just me.
Hey guys just asking are there any Gemini born in May who are currently in a relationship with an Aquarius in either Januray or February?
Its just that I have found that My born gemini tend to go out with january born Aquairus’s
Thanks
Hi Becky your site is incredible… i say very on point… but i do have a few questions every site i read is the guy and girl realationship but i wanted to kno is ther any difference between a girl and girl one. I aquarius have been dating this girl for about 2 months or so shes the gemini. I honestly have strong feelings for her but i am very closed and have a hard time expressing them because of fear. Shes amazing but drives me up the wall we fight not all the time but yes we do… shes very independent and so am i but i love to plan things and shes more like Oh i dont know.Its very annoying. Commitment is her fear. Im just very curius in knowing why can you help
hi bianca when is your and the gemini;s bday?
xx
Hey Becky…just to say that I havent’t heard from you for a while now.. I have been going on the site nearly everyday and there is no sign of you anywhere…! LOL Just thought I would ask if you where okay and please please respond back to my question thaT i HAVE Posted I know you are probably busy but have a look at what I have written:
To Becky,
I have a question..
I have read many of the comments put by Gemini females who are in relationships with Aquarius males..what has come to my attention is that they seem to express there real true love for the Aquarius men and state that they seem to have found a real true soul mate in their aqua men!
What I wanted to ask was if you were to ask an Aqua man about his relationship with the Gemini would it be the same.. would they be as in love with the Gemini woman as they are with them…
I am just wondering because it states that the Aqua men are scared of their emotions and especially when it comes to love..so what do you think their response would be to Gemini female love match?
Are Aquarians completely in love with the Gemini as Gemini is with Aquarius..because from experiecne sometimes it seems like the Gemini woman goes onto express her true love but the Aqua man does not really say much?
Or is it me being a Gemini woman being overbearingly emotional again? lol
Thanks
I am an Aquarius girl…and Oh boy, I was with a Gemini for about 9 years, after 8 years we decided to get married, that lasted 6 months after we said I do…the gentleman I started seeing after my marriage was also a Gemini, needless to say I will never ever ever ever get involved with a Gemini again…yes they are fun, I always had a good time however, when it came down to “serious discussions” about important things, especially when it came down to the relationship itself they seized up and freaked out. Both played horrible mind games (I’m straight up, I say how I feel, don’t care if the truth hurts or not, I don’t have time for games)…on top of that they don’t know if they are coming or going (twin thing)…and both thought they were always right, drove me mad! Never wanted to see another side to the story…ugh…I hate to think myself as bitter, but the first time shame on you, the second time shame on me…I think my best bet is another Aquarius! HAHAHA! Best of luck Aquarius/Gemini couples! Your going to need it!
her birthday is may 29
To RPG13:
Just reading your comment, I don’t even know these men and I’m annoyed already. I am like you, and when I am serious, I am serious, and I expect that person to be serious too. I really hate undecive people. I rather have someone that knows what they want, instead of having a person that changes their minds like some women change their clothes.
I been where you been, and I know how you feel girl. I say, it was good for you to leave when you could!
To Haz91:
I read your question to Becky, and I really think it depends on the guy (the person. I am not going to basic this what Astrogolgy says, because it not always true what they say about people of that star sign.)
Just because a man or person of pericular star sign, and it says that person of that star sign as a hard time expressing their feelings to the person they love is not always true.
I knew some Aquarius both men and women who could express their feelings by words. It depends how that person was rasie, or how they feel in the situation. If their really comforable talking to that person whom they love, they can surely express them by words. But if that person is not use to expressing their feelings by words, then they will express it by action.
I would say for myself, I don’t express myself so good with words to a person whom I love, if I still unsure how they feel. Then I rather do it by action. But, if I felt sercue, and I know that person isn’t going to run away when I have something to say from the heart, they yeah, I could express it by words, because I feel comfortable.
So it really depends on the person, what cause them in the past to act in such a way, weither they will speak up, or not.
I don’t see why a Aquarius couldn’t express themselves by words.
And if you really think about it. Most guys express themselves by their actions, because a lot of them get emebrass by using words. Remember, guys like to act and look tough.
What’s up Haz? I just want to thank you for always being so considerate to give other people advice when Becky is overly occupied. I think that this site is wonderful, Becky was a gemini with an awesome idea and she took action. That’s what makes a Gemini overly successful above other signs. Conceited, I know.I have really come to respect the qualities and traits that Gemini’s possess.
Haz91, I have noticed the same thing, Gemini females express their feeling way more than Aqua maies (according to this website and my experience with my aqua male. We are over expressive though it might sound crazy, though I believe this is what the Aqua male love the most about Geminis. Our emotions, and inconsistencies in our emotions. Let’s face it, it is a challenge to them. I am a Gemini female with a zero tolerance for bullcrap. Real. I love the lord and I go to church diligently. Well my man is not this way. I can respect it because he was not this way in the beginning. Though I told him on the phone the other day “I do not think this relationship is going to work. I want to seperate (now I am a gemini, a challenge at that, and if you do not keep me interested, the chances of me leaving are high).Sounding sad my aqua said, “what’s the problem?” I said, “When I met you, you were not serving the Lord so I do not expect you to serve him now though when I am married, it is going to be important for my husband and I to have fellowship together with our children and to go to church together. I do not in anyway want to take you out of your element so I think it is best we seperate”.(Haz this is what I noticed, I know you cater well, you seem like it. Great though if they do not compromise their stuck in their way and then the Gemini woman is miserable than you know the relationship won’t last long after that.We have to say what we feel though not in a pushy way. He knows and understands how I feel and he’ll know when the child come and we get married. We are still together though. Though when to I cater and compromise very well with my Aquarius, I must admit that he does too. I am quick to say, I am always being considerate and sometimes he’ll say, I am trying to be considerate. Well I am pregnant by my aqua and it is a beautiful experience. Last night I went to go get him from home and he noticed I had flip flops on, he didn’t say anything. As soon as he heard me wheezing in the bed, he said with his deep sexy voice, “Are you wheezing” I said, “No daddy” (I love being submissive to him, he is overly concerned sometimes and I love it, the attention).He said, “Yes you are, he said you shouldn’t have been out with flip flops last night, it would not have taken you long to put some socks and shoes on.” I said, “Yes daddy”.
Aqua men love our emotions because of their lack to be able to express their emotions. It is like they need us and I honestly need my aqua man. Though I give him plenty, plenty, plenty of space. I do not call him, usually he calls me. He doesn’t tell me he loves me though he will not let me go. Aqua men love the emotion (not too much to push them away). It just keeps them interested. I hope this helped haz91.Us Gemini’s can trigger the emotions out of them though our aqua men are delicate and I think they get bored easily. My major is psychology. I have been analyzing this board just like you. Peace out, god bless.
Hi Haz,
Sorry I haven’t been around much, the School holidays have been taking up all my time and then getting them back to school again! Anyway, things are getting back to normal so I am returning more frequently.
OK, this question of yours lol Us Gemini girls really do love are Aquarius men, even when it seems impossible to love them, which is does and will. Gemini s really wear their heart on their sleeve and can’t hide their emotions at all, when they try they simply seep out of their eyeballs like tidal waves. Some people notice, some do not. Aquarius men notice, but they will not always react by talking to you, they will react by showing you, if they feel they need too. Aquarius men do really love their Gemini s to the point where it can make them feel vulnerable. Due to the fact that they don’t show their emotion like us Gems it can be hard to tell. Aquarius, possibly more than any other sign is really sensitive to the other signs in their chart, it can really change their whole being and make them either more sensitive or less which is why you tend to get two very different types of Aqua man. However, ALL types love, and they love us just as much as we love them, but it is not just from the heart love, it is mental mind love as well so it does not seem as passionate as others signs.
Right, must dash have to get the girls ready for school!!
I do hope I answered your question even a bit,
Love & Light
Becky
Thanks guys!!!
Becky: Thanks for answering my question I didn’t mean to bother you about it for agess..sorry..but because you have an answer to everything and your a genius with astrology..I just needed to know the answer! It’s just that what you have said about Aquarius loving their Gemini soo much that they become vulnerable is very true indeed. I have seen it happen…as you said that Aquarius aren;t very strong and together when it comes to their emotions..anyyway thank you Becky as always !!! Take care
xx
Maranda: Thank you for your kind words..I know Becky can get busy.. so sometimes if I think I can help I will chip in and offer some advice to the people who need it..I love the connection between Aquarius and Gemini.. I think it is great and these two signs do get on like a house on fire.. but sometimes I feel like the Aquarius male keeps his feeling locked up and does not show the true strength of his affection as the Gemini female does to him.. just something that I have noticed…Anyway we are both Gemini’s so we know best about this..lol…Your story was very insightful thanks and shows the realtionship between Aquairius and Gemini..if you don;t mind I wanted to ask when you and your Aqua man’s birthdays are? Thanks any way for the advice that was very nice of youxx
Little Impaler: I do see it from your side.. yes it does depend on the person.. like I said that what you say is very logical and has made me understand that it is not always down to pure astrology.. and that some Aquarius find it easy to express their emotions through words and others do it through action .. but it’s just something that I have seen in the Aqua and Gemini relationship and that is that the Gemini does show her love very blatently compared to the aqua man… however, this match is one of the best..maybe not in your eyes LOL
anyway thanks anyway for your advice it is always appreciated ..xx
No worries Haz
Pleae don’t apologise I really do enjoy answering your questions and do not see it as bothering me at all, I am only sorry there is only 1 of me!! xxxxx
Hey Maranda ..if you don;t mind I wanted to ask when you and your Aqua man’s birthdays are? Thanks xx
To Haz91 LOL you’re very welcome.
Take care.
It use to be so much fun to read this website! Becky’s insight into the characteristics of each sign was a delight to read!…..that is until Haz and Littleimpaler hijacked it. IT IS RUDE TO HIJACK SOMEONE THREAD AND WEBSITE! I am sure this will never get posted as Becky is way too polite.
I am afraid to say that due to the agression that was being felt on this post I have had to close down the comments for this section for the time being. I am not doing this because of anyone person as I have nothing against anybody on here. I do appreciate everyone’s opinions but feel that it was going to start becoming a bit nasty between people, that is not why I am building this site. I don’t wish for anyone to take this personally, but please do have respect for my site and all the people who visit, I will re-start the comments once again in a week and hoipfully we can restore the light there once was.
Sorry for any inconvinience, in the mean timeif you would really like to speak with me about this topic or any other feel free to contact me through my contact page and I will do my best to answer your mail asap.
Love & Light
Becky
Hi becky! i enjoyed reading your site. Would just like to know your thoughts on the compatibility of gemini/pig girl and aquarius/snake guy. hope to hear from you soon! Thanks!
Hello
I was reading your compatibility between Acuarious and Gemini and I found a very ineteresting information.
I just meta a Russian Gemini and i’m a Mexican boy Acua. The things we talk bewtween she and I are very deep and it feels like we know each other for a long time and feels like we been waiting for one of eahc other is wear.
The thing is she is far away from me but at times it feels like she think about me and she told me that the same thing happend to her she feels like i think about her all the time.
Although I been chatting with her for a 6 moths now and we really want to meet cause the conversation between us is crazy deep feelings. I planin to travel and meet her but I’m a little scare cause what happend if the communication is different when we meet in person.
Anny advice.
Thank you, love your comments.
Javier,
Hi..listen there is nothing to worry about…because if you say that your converstaions are soo deep and you have an understandig of each other ..then why would it be different in person. If you really like her and she likes you then go for it. Aquarius male and Gemini female have a very good understanding and love for each other. Also soul mates are common in this pairing. They can also sense each other when they are not around each other and that makes there realtionship very good and strong…
All I can say is that if you like her and she likes you and you both have a solid understanding of each other then there is nothing to worry about and dont be scared. Because Aqua and Gemini geot on very very well and have a beautiful connection!
Btw when is your birthday and when is your Gemini girls birthday?
Hope this helped
x
To Javier:
I say, go for it, but be cautions. Don’t worry about what astrology says. The thing that you should be caution about. You haven’t met this girl in real life, am I right? And she hasn’t met you. Russia, is very far where you’re from to meet someone, whom you talk to over the internet. When you meet her, don’t get caught up in the fantanzies which the internet has given you, that could disapoint you, if you find out she is not the person you thought she was
This is the first time you have ever met each other, so keep that in mind, you don’t really know her. Keep your emotions in control so you can see the real her.
I am only telling you this, because I did the same thing as you did. I travel all the way to Germany to see a man, I thought really loved me, and he turns out not the person he said he was. I was blinded by the fantasies he made himself out to be. Also I was very stupid, in thinking I knew the guy, but when I met him, reality hit me and found out, I really don’t know this guy at ALL.
So take your time, get to know each other, and if there is something there, you’ll both will know. And if it doesn’t work, well it doesn’t work.
Don’t be afarid to take chances in life.
Oh yeah, meet in public, never, never, never, meet someone in their home, or a privte place where there isn’t so much people.
Becarful in Russia. Russia, isn’t the nicest place in the world. If you plan on going in the winter dress very warmly.
Good luck
To Javier:
If you find out that you guys commuate differently in real life, and isn’t the same on the internet, you got to put that into account. That is life, and it might happen. But as I said, you will know when you meet her.
Thank you guys for all the comments.
I really apreciate the replys.
Becky I will like for you to tell me what you think about my experience, like i said she is from moldova close to russia and I’m from Mexico City but i been living in Las Vegas Nevada for 7 years. We got coneccted right out way with each other chatting for for 7 months now on line on Yahoo and also we been talking on the phone too. She was the one to offer her number to me.
she said that I’m the kind of person she is been looking for and she rally want to meet me in person and me too.
I can tell that she is very serious about it and she is very passionate and sweet althought we been talking how she and I we will be when we are mad.
So as you see this chating is been very deep geting to know each other more and more.
But like i said I’m still scare If in person is different.
Thank you to all and hope Becky can respond to this.
Her Birthday is on June 1 1981 and mine is on February 9 1974.
Thanks again.
Hi there,
I like this site and finally have the courage to jump in with my situation, I’m seeking advice because I don’t know what to do.
I’m an Aqua Female (January 27) and the guy that I like is a Gemini Male (May 23rd). We met 3 months ago online, had a fabulous first date and things were going along just fine. Our Venus signs are also compatible with mine being a Capricorn and his a Taurus.
My question is…with two air signs that both love space and freedom, how do you determine when it’s time for the committment? When do you determine to make things official.
My Gemini is terrified at the thought of being “labeled” as being my man. He’s failing to see that with an Aquarius like me, he gets MORE trust, space and freedom if he’s able to commit. Then I’m not left guessing about his intentions or if the bottom can fall out at any point. I don’t want to be his mother, nagging him all the time about his wearabouts. I have my own life to lead.
This Gemini wants his cake and to eat it too. And what bothers me most is when I try to end it or break it off with him, that’s when he seems most responsive to me. He will pursue me at that point even though I tell him I’m not happy, want to see other people, want a commitment, etc.
I need to know if this is a Gemini thing or a “man” thing before I go about making my next move my all out best move.
To Kenya:
My advice isn’t going to be basic on astrology, but reality and strightforwardness.
It seem to me, he is not ready to commit to a realationship and you want a relationship. Am I right?
I was going to tell you, don’t keep bringing it up, because that will not make a man want to be with you. I am aquarius female (January 25th, and it annoys me when a man is always on my back wanting to have relationship with me, when I am not ready to have one. But then I saw he is confuse, because when you try to break it up he wants you back.
Kenya, what you need to do is sit him down and have a serious talk with him. Tell him you want a relationshp and tell him how you truly feel, and if he can’t make up his mind. That you are tired with this yes and no thing. Set a time and date when he should give you his answer. If he still doesn’t know what he wants.
I say, break it up with him with no ends attact. And look for another man that wants the same thing as you.
Because, I am going to be honest with you. This is really stupid. His indesive to give you straight answer is going to annoy you and in time you are going get tired of it.
When you break up, don’t let him control you, where you change your mind. You got to serious about breaking it up with him, if you feel that the relationship isn’t going nowhere. If you keep going back to him and breaking it off. He is not going to take you seriously. Whatever you do in life, you always have to stick to your guns.
Relationship cannot work, if one person wants one thing and the other wants something totally different. Relationship can’t be a relationship when it becomes one-sided.
I Love Tasha
Hey Luke whos tasha , LOL I was just reading and then suddenly your little quirky comment came up!
realy amasing. specialy about how Aquarius and gemini can sense each other when they are far away. im an aquarius and my friend is a gemini. during or fight and our time apart from each other me and my other friend was going to get somthing to eat at our college campus, when all of a sudden i begain to smell vinela wich was the sent of mrs gemini’s lotian. well any ways i started to look around becuse the smell was so strong it felt like she was right next to me so i ask my other friend if she smelled anything she said no. so i ignored the smell and we went to eat. after we oredered or food and sat down,to my suprise mrs gemini walked in with her new boyfriend to the same returant as me. a sight i didnt want to see. but it was amasing how i sense her be for i even saw her. me and her are still talking and yea when we argue we argue and at the end of every fight it feels like thats it between me and her but we always make up.
There is not one single line here that I dissagree with. I have experienced this word for word, line for line!! this is indeed spot spot spot on!!
like reading my own life’s journal or something!!
Hey Gemini girl
you say that with such assurance!
LOL
whens your bday and whens your Aqua mans?
Mine is 25th May and is was 5th Feb
wow, i’ve just started a relationship with a Gemin imale and we did just click from the start we have so much in common its like he’s the boy version of me..lol we both are big time into sex 2, as an aqua im very kinky and so is he. I do feel even tho its been a couple of months that he is my soulmate. and also he understands my little jealous streak I have. Ive been searching for him my whole life and I think this is the one….hope so
it is all true, my aquarius half loves my gemini boyfriend’s openess, his sense of fun, his love of variety.he is so lovely most of the time and very compelling and so sexy :). sometimes i wish I wasn’t half pisces [although i do love being both] because then i would have found my perfect match. i am pretty happy in my relationship with him, just wish he wasn’t so distant sometimes, and as i said in the pisces forum, it can be a bit of an emotional rollercoaster and when we argue, it really sucks. Becky, I love this site and I love reading about my compatbility with other signs [I can’t help but comment as you may have noticed]. I would be very interested to hear about what signs you think are compatible for those born on the aquarius/pisces cusp and for other cusps too. I actually think gemini is quite a good match for someone born on a cusp coz of their dual personality. what do you think?
but as I said in my pisces response, I utterly adore him
but as I said in my pisces response, I utterly adore him :)so regardless of whether we are compatible or not, i’ll stick with him…
[sorry for posting so much, made a mistake]
i hope this is true.
Becky,
It was truly a pleasure to go through your Gemini-Aquarius compatibility analysis.I really didn’t have time to go through all the comments, so if my question seems familiar, forgive me. But, then again, every relationship is unique and so are its problems.
At this juncture,I’m crushing on an Aquarius male who happens to be my friend. But to be really honest, I approached him first, for this friendship, or whatever it is, and he complied. I was instantly attracted to him and I told him so. But he wasn’t ready and said that he wouldn’t want me to be with someone who didn’t love me with the world. So, now, we’re a little more than friends and not really lovers. Even though he cares for me a lot-that was reportedly the reason he didn’t want to plunge into a relationship- and we really love to communicate with each other, the fact is that he isn’t in love with me. Not to the extent he feels is right. Will we ever be more than we what we already are?
Alcina
hey alcina
when is urs and ur aqua guys bdays?
Ah well…
Mine is 6th June. His 3rd February.
If I am to be honest with you I think your Aqua man is just trying to do the sensible thing and wait for some real emotions to kick in before he takes this relationship any further. Like you said I dont think he wants you to walk into a relationship where, there is only one party showing the true affection and love, and the other party is not quite sure about how they feel. I mean he obviously cares about you too much to let you do that.
Secondly, remember that an Aquarius is very reserved when showing true feelings. And they dont like to rush into anything serious until they feel they are fully ready and prepared. I think your Aqua does love you but he wants to clarify his own feelings before he steps into a serius relationship. Remember that Aquarius and Gemini are very good as a pair and things do start off as slow, but once these two get together, they become inseperable.
Hope this helped
Omg.. reading this made me so happy. My bf is a Aquarius and we act like this.. somehow he always knows when i need to talk to him. One time i was thinking “i miss him” and he called and said “hey i miss you whats up” it was amazing. We always some how know what the other needs…
Thank you
-ali
I’m a gemini and i lvoe my aquarius
Okay ppl,
this is just general question ..are there any Gemini gils born in May that are dateing or have dated an Aqua guy. …
Anyone can answer this, even if you know of a couple with the above criteria…
@Haz91,
Thank you for your help, really. I appreciate it.
It’s just that I had arrived at a similar conclusion myself, but of course, had trouble believing it. It IS disheartening, to a certain degree. It is incredible how all of it matched- the being in tune with each other part, the utter absence of boredom…oh well.
We are to start college together soon, and maybe it’ll give us a chance to know each other better.
No problem,
Listen Alcina, I look at it this way, Aquarius and Gemini is a one of a kind relationship, and there arent many relationships like this that come along. But I see it like this, based on my own research that I have being doing on these two signs plus Beckys advice, Gemini is the ONLY sign, especially Gemini girls to Aqua boys, that :
a) the Aqua male doesnt mind chasing- which is very rare for this freedom loving air sign
and b) this being very important.
Gemini is the only SIGN that makes Aquarius fall in love to the point of becoming vulnerable and weak. Gemini girls make Aqua boys become very weak and in love, because Aquarians take to Gemini like fish to water and also the sexual attraction is tooooooo intense and out of this world. Aquarius finds a true soul mate in Gemini and vice versa.
Now like you said that yes in college maybe you two will get to know each other and hit it off.. but just be patient..
If your research data is reliable (just to be sure) then, love and light be with you! Of course, patience is a tricky thing that often gives us the slip. I’ll make sure it doesn’t, though.
Thank you for your comments, once again.
Btw, are you a Goat? Just asking.
Hello…I am new to this site and I just love it. I am a Gemini Female who recently found an old friend, who happens to be an Aquarius male, who I had not seen in 25 years…since I was 16… Anyway, I found him on a social networking site and he reminded me that I was his first kiss, but I did not remember. In fact, when I was younger I was not even attracted to him…but now I can’t stop thinking about him. Right from the start there was an instant attraction to him. I think he is interested in me but I am not sure. He is very interested in my life and emails out of the blue. He is extremely attractive, tall dark and handsome. My question is do Aquarius men go out of their way to be around Gemini women if they are not attracted to them? What exactly can I do to keep him attracted? Why did he remember me being his first kiss when I didn’t? We are not dating but what are our chances?
Firstly to Alcina,
I dont know what I am, I think I am a sheep, LOL I am born 1991 so what ever year that is?
Shasta..
by the sound of it, I think he might actually be interested in you. From the sound of things, emailing you out of the blue, reminding you that you were his first kiss. Now they could just be friendly conversation starters, or he might actually be interested. Now Aquarians dont actuallu go out of there way for anyone, and sometimes even Gemini, but Gemini women are very special to Aquarian men, from what i have seen, its like they never want to loose them. Now I say.. you need to pursue this relationship further, to keep him interested, talk to him, make him laff, Aquarians love that in a Gemini woman, they find that charming and they take to them like a fish to water.
I think dating him, could come along later, but dont rush into anything because AQUARIANS hate that!, let him be the one to make the first move. But keep things happy and light, by making him laugh, having good conversations with him.
BTW when is your and your Aqua mans birthday?
well that is crazy because m a full blown aquarius (proudly) and im in love with this gemini because he knows exactly what i want and can full fill that. but sometimes his mood swings is worst than mines so thats a huge problem.
HAZ91
My Birthday is 5/31 and his is 2/17. Does that make a difference? Thanks for responding and making me aware to let him make the first move as I don’t want to make a mistake.
Lol yes it does make some difference…
You are a May born Gemini like me ! and he is a Feb born Aqua and that should be great.
It doesnt make much of a difference because you are both air signs and they geniunely get on very very well!
Now remember you have to give him his space, if you are to enter a light dating game then.. you need him to make the first move and also keep it light, witty and intelligent conversations… at the end of it HE WILL LOVE YOU!
Now what signs does he give you that he likes you? And can you explain further how you two got together in a relationship and what happened from then on ?
HAZ91
Thanks for taking the time to reply. Well, I just have this “feeling” that he may be interested…I can’t explain it…like I can sense his feelings…does that make sense? When he emails me or calls me on the phone he tells me all about himself and his deep feelings about issues and about how his life is going. My life and job are going very well and he seems really happy for me and has told me I am a winner and and inspiration to him. I am in the high tech field and he is a house painter and my job really impressed him for some reason. I am not used to a man being so open and it caught me off guard. Sometimes I think he says things to shock me and see what my repsonse is going to be..does that make sense? I mentioned that I was going to be at a particular place in a few weeks and I thought he was not listening but then out of the blue he asked me if I was still going to that place and that he was going to be there too. When we talk on the phone hours go by in minutes and yet there is no romance talk but I can “feel” that he wants to tell me all about himself and find out about what my life is about. Does that make sense? This man is so different then my ex who was a Capricorn. I think about this new person in my life all day long and I think that I can “feel” him thinking about me…does that make sense?
HAZ91
Ooops…forgot to tell you how we got back in touch. We grew up on the same block and he left for college when I was 16…about 1 month ago I signed up on a social networking site and started looking for all the people that I grew up with. I only found him and I emailed him and he was so excited and I asked him if he remembered me and he said “how can I every forget you…you were my first kiss…I did not remember kissing him though….it was almost like he was relieved that I had found him and he was really excited and wanted to know everything that I had been doing for 25 years. By the second email I was hooked…it was so wierd…because I don’t remember liking him but I was instantly attracted to him and I don’t understand why. I was just looking to say HI to him and now these feelings are happening.
Can you check for me Becky , I’m an aquarian girl (31st jan 1983) and my ex bf was borned on 5thjune 1983. We broke up our relationship about 6 yrs ago of his medical school in Australia.
But lately, we’re like keep on contacting with each other through msn messenger. We had a great coversation like we used to be. I can feel the sparks between us. But when I said I missed him alot and would like to meet him someday. But he did not reply to me and I think he is avoiding me. He did not reply me this few days. Is he shy or just avoiding me?? Should I just get over it??
Okay firstly, i wouldnt really worry about these feelings because they will only get you going around in circles. Now Aquarians do have a tendency to be over friendly and that comes through in their nature.. If I were you then I would make sure 100% that he is into you before you go into all these deep feelings. Talk to him, on the internet, or how ever you do, and keep it cool, calm and funny with him. And then see whether he asks to meet you or anything like that. Remember, make sure that he is compfortable and wait for him to make the first move.
I would say that from what I have heard in your story that he may actually be interested in you, so I would try and see whether he is truly geniunely interested. Now you say that you are having some intense feelings about him, but be careful, because even though Gemini and Aquarius is a good match, friendship is more important to an Aquarius then an actual romantic relationship, so let the friendship blossom first before anything serius is to happen…
What signs has he given you to show that he may be interested apart from taking an interest in your life, does he flirt on the internet or on the phone with you?
x
Hi Becky & other readers of this page!
I have to begin by saying that I was cynical of all this horoscope malarkey but am a male Gemini/Rabbit (June 7th) who has met the most lovely Aquarius/Rabbit (Feb 5th) female on an internet dating site. She asked my star sign after telling me hers and I quickly found this page and sent her the link.
I was very sceptical about the reading, but so far it seems to be all extraordinarily true! We have met up on 2 dates so far and we are so connected it is like nothing I have ever felt before. We are trying to play it cool, but we both KNOW this is the ‘real deal’ and is going to be something special. It’s an amazing feeling!
I wanted to share this with you but also to ask if you have any predictions for the relationship? I noticed that as a Gemini male I have a huge ego
… and as I am very self reliant may clash with an independent Aquarius female. However, I am already sure we will be fine in this area as neither of us wants to dominate and we want to be a ‘team’. This all seems a bit nuts as I’ve only just met this lady and yet we’ve already talked about such things. So far the relationship has been so tender, passionate and playful… it is amazing!
OOh really, coz what i’ve heard that geminian guy is a womanizer. Yeah we talked alot, he did asked what i’ve been doing for this few years and he asked me how’s my family been doing. Our conversation was always all about me and he’s not giving me the chance to asked about himself.
I know that im a little bit over friendly but thats what i am. The other day he told me that he is going to continue his further study, and said that he can only see me like just only for a month before he is off to Brisbane. All im asking is just “a day” for a coffee chit chat with each other. I’m so confused now. Is he wanted to see me everyday within that 1 month??
Let me start by saying, that I love this site very much. I am a gemini woamn who has been in love with a Aqua man and we had been together for over 5 years and have 1 child together before breaking up. I love him and I can never see myself with anyone else, which is huge for me. Did I mention I am a gemini…lol. We really were the best of friends in the beginning of our relationship and then we started fighting about 3 years in to the relationship. I admit I made alot of mistakes but he is not perfect either. I put him out and he moved out of town and I was so hurt and devastated. I love him and want to reconcile and he says he does and has been wanting to reconcile with me. I feel like when he is is here we are inseparable and then when he leaves we are distant. I think that he is scared and so am I, but I feel like we need to make a decision or a move for our son’s sake because this is confusing and upsetting for him. I feel like if you love us and want to be a family..then show us and come home. I know he feels scared because i put him out a few times, so there is some insecurity in that, but that was the past and people do change. I realized my ways and have learned from them but I cannot be held hostage by the past. We have become intimate again and I just want to know where do we go from here. I believe in my heart he loves me and he tells me that, but why cant he just come home instead of dragging it out? I love him so much, but I have been wondering if I should just move on without him? I miss him and so does our son and he is a great father and loves him deeply, but I feel so confused right now. Should I just give it time or just give up? My birthday is June 1st and his is Feb. 6th. Ant advice would be greatly appreciated.
Hi there Renea,
Thank you for your comment and for sharing with us. What you have described is so typical of a Gem/Aqua relationship. Although these two signs can work totally in sync with one another it takes time and understanding to reach this. You mentioned that you see how you did things wrong, this is the first step. The second step is for him to see the error of his ways, 3rd step - for you both to sit down or write down exactly what the problems were and then to work out whether you both think your love is strong enough to carry this off. Once understanding has been reached then yes, I believe that you both can make a full loving recovery, but the past would have to left and NOT brought back into the mix should their be any sort of disagreement.
I wish you all the luck in the world and do let us know how you get on.
Love & Light
Becky
Hey Renea,
You said that you have done some wrong things, well you have to asses how wrong these things are? I mean it could have hurt him pretty badly and that would be the reason for why he is not pursuing the relationship quickly.
But you said that you BOTH are willing to get back together, then why dont you have a shot at it for both your and your sons sake. BUT if you feel like you both can not make ammends then maybe it is better for you to move on.. what has your aqua man said about this ?
x
Dont worry okay …
Becky, thank you for responding to me so quickly. I truly appreciate it. I will take your advice and talk to him tonight. The weird thing is he called me early this morning to talk and I was reading your reply and missed the call…lol..but, on a serious note I will talk with him and I will keep you updated. I am terrified that I will sound needy, because I am not at all. I just need to know, so I can move forward with or without him. Thanks again!
Renea
Haz91, I did hurt him by putting him out a few times and just being immature, but he hurt me as well. I take ownership of my “stuff”, but I wont be held hostage for life for it. I do not hold him hostage. I think we have come along way overall. We do not talk about it as much and we try to remain positive and loving towards each other.
I am going to take becky’s advice and just talk to him about it. I am terrified of opening myself up or sounding needy, but I need to know. I am just not going to sit around and let “whatever” happen. I love him so deeply and until a gemini matures, we really can be difficult when it comes to love. I will fight for us and give my all, and I feel he will fight as well. I just think it is pointless to keep talking about changes, when you are not given the chance to implement them. If we do not try, then we will never know is my mindset. It is so hard when you know that you have you met your soul mate and can never love anyone else again. I think I would just become a serial dater….lol…nothing serious or physical. I am gemini, so dont quote me on that tomorrow…lol… I will keep you updated as well. Thanks for you reply!
Renea
Hi Renea,
I just wanted to say, it’s not being needy, not at all. Get that thought out of your head. It is purely about wanting to know about whether you have a future with him or not. That’s not needy, just normal! Be positive when yuou talk to him and it will be good!!
Good Luck
Love & Light
Becky
Hi Becky,
I talked to him last night and I asked the question “what do you want and where do we go from here” and he stated that he does not want to move back here because there are no “opportunities” here. I do not to move there, because I have a good job here. All I keep hearing is he is trying to better himself for us, so that he can provide well for us. I ask how are we suppose to make that happen if he is there and I am here? I became angry because I feel like he is avoiding the question with the “ususal” answers and he does not want to be in a situation of being put out of the house again. I became angry, because I thought we were not going back to the past. I don’t bring up the past about the things he did to me, because it solves nothing. I then say that I should just “move on” and maybe he should as well and he freaks out on me and starts ranting about he never said that or wants that. I told him I am just tired of feeling like there is no plan and I am just done and I hangup on him. He calls me this morning and tells me he just doesnt want to go through the same stuff, and the answer to my question about being together is yes he wants to be together. Is is going to be quick and easy…no but he wants nothing else but that. I am so confused my head hurts. I guess I am suppose to sit and twittle my thumbs in the meantime. I am getting the raw deal, because all the responsibility falls on me because he is not here all the time and he gets to fulfill his goals. I need more than financial help and our son needs his dad all the time. I am sorry for such a long post, but I am so confused. Help Becky Help!
Sorry I forgot to sign my name I am so upset.
Renea
Hi there Renea,
Firstly well done for talking to him and getting it all out in the open. The sign of Aquarius is a Fixed sign, it is not that easy for them to change how they behave or their point of view, and you are a Mutable sign which means quite the opposite. In a situation like this it is very often the Gemini who will have to compromise, is it worth it, yes, it can be.
I don’t know you or your partner and I don’t know what went on in the past, all I can tell you is that I have been in the same position as you. My Fiancé had to move away to work for the good of the family whilst we stayed here. Was I happy about this, no, did I moan a lot yes, did it work out for the best? Absolutely!
Like I said, I don’t know him and I can’t tell you what to do, but you could try to trust him, perhaps give it a time limit at first to see how it goes? Aquarius guys really hate conflict so they tend to run away (which is best as they can get nasty). I am not suggesting that you ‘give in’ which is probably how you will see it, but that as you are the Gemini you may have to be the one to compromise.
Aquarius men ’show’ their love rather than talk it and working for you as a family is something they all strive to do, mine does…but to make this work you need to take some deep breaths and relax, enjoy your child and your job and try to think positively about the future and what it may bring. Try and talk with him about plans for the future being optimistic rather than covering the same old ground.
I hope this helps, you can get in touch with me through my contact page if you wish to talk further.
Love & Light
Becky
Hi Becky, just wanted to say that your site is great! So I met this girl on Valentines day at her work and Ive been visiting her on the weekends ever since, I am an Aquarius male (Jan.31st) and she is a Gemini female(Jun.21st) at first I was pretty sure she was into me but now I’m not too sure about it. She gave me her number and we started texting each other right away she would msg me first thing in the morning and msg me before bed which made me feel great, we had lunch together and had a great time, she gets really shy when I stare into her eyes while she talks which tells me she’s into me, but now sometimes she won’t reply to my texts and it kind of bothers me, I have a lot of patience but with her it’s weird I’m not so patient I just want to know for sure if she’s into me or not ya know? I’m afraid to throw myself out there and get shot down. Thanks for your time.
Hi Waterboy
How old are you and how old is this girl? Back ground on most Gemini girls (know many) they are sometimes true to their nature and 1) big flirts 2) they will flirt with men even in front of their gfs or wives 3)in the beginning of the relationship they let they guy think they are sweet, docile and innocent - not. The true them will eventually come out. One time I worked with three who were on the same team - they told me to beware that they were true gemini’s as they had dual personalities. They were not kidding, they have not qualms are being sweet and nice to you, while stabbing you in the back to everyone else. 4) Will not stay faithful.
They are fun for a fling but long term, not so much. If you are a true Aquarius man, then beware they will NOT accept you needing space. They are clingy and demand to be spoiled.
So in short, she is playing a game with you. Just like she has done with other men, and will do with other men.
PS Their games are an attempt to trap you into a relationship. Do not fall for their innocent face, I am shy act. I have seen them do that to men, then when the guy left the room the claws came out. Nasty. Again, just experience of dating and working with these women.
Ok.. waterboy.. in my opinion… being a gemini myself…
I think she LIKES you big time.. I mean shying away when you look at her… txting you before you got to sleep and wake up in the morning….. CLASSIC FIRST CLASS signs of she has feelings for you.
Okay Gemini’s CAN be true to their nature and CAN be commited to relationships if they love someone and are serious. Now, yeah I agree with Aquarius man, that Gemini can be hurtful and two faced and alittle superficial in relationships… but not to the extremity.. that Aquarian man is putting it.. I mean I know ALOT of Gemini girl and Aqua men relationships that are still going strong after 6 yearssss! and they both still love each other.
Soo getting more to the point, I think this Gem girl indeed has feeling for you and maybe she has just been busy and not had time to text you BEFORE you go to bed and waking up… I think you should txt her, but not get so hung up if she doesnt txt you back, I dont think it is a matter of not having feeling for you, but you need to consider the fact that maybe she might be busy or forgotten….
All i can say dont be disheartened and talk to her, both of you clarify your feelings for each other and gets things in the clear, so theres not middle misty ground, because that when things get alittle troubling….
I’m a Gemini femme in a relationship with an Aquarius butch.
To Aquarius Man:
It may be true that we Gems do our flirting ways but I think it’s more of having a sweet and friendly personality to everyone. I myself can get several men interested with me which others might misinterpret as flirting. But based on experience, I try not to get to the point where I could hurt feelings.
Anyways, we Gems perhaps just need someone to tame us. I have found my tamer - my Aquarius. And I don’t know how that ever happened. LOL.
To Becky:
This site is wonderful.
I can relate to most of the comments here.
Probably these experiences with my Aqua can give additional insights with Gem-Aqua compatibility to you guys.
When my Aquarius gets cold and aloof, I tend to get really paranoid and upset about it. How I hate it. But I’m trying my best to deal with it. I had to switch to the “I-am-an-island-I-can-get-by-without-you” mode. Though she can be the sweetest thing sometimes. When she does, I sulk into the warm feeling of it, it makes me really happy. She sees that.
She oftentimes likes to just observe me and I feel like she’s psycho analyzing me. Sometimes it feels horrible when she does that.
Months ago she told me I am perhaps the sweetest of all those she had relationships with before. Sometime this week, it was the reverse, she told me perhaps I’m just not showy. I found it funny and weird.
I’m a fan of creative writing while she is laconic. I’d write a screen of an email and she’d give me a statement that keeps me thinking, go figuring whatever she meant by that. Drives me nuts!
But everyday, it seems that I’m loving her more. And I’ve got this weird weird weird feeling of security that she loves me too.
Hi,
I’m a really young Gemini Female and I’m still in school, but I lately have had the deepest crush on an Aquarius male that I have ever had before.
Sometimes I love him so bad it makes me want to cry. But I don’t know how to tell him or let him know that I like him.
He’s in a few of my classes and his locker is right across the hall from mine, and right next to my best-friend’s locker.
We chat a bit on Facebook, he was the one who said ‘hi’ first.
Everytime I talk to him I get butterflies in my stomach and I cant wait to see him the next day.
But I’m really shy and I find that sometimes all I do is stare at him and have no idea what to do.
I really, really want to say hi to him, I did once and he immediatly seemed to light up after a few seconds but he waved to me and said hi back… though I think I snapped him out of a thought he was having.
He’s really talkative and has a lot of friends and I find that I get really jealous and worried anytime he talks to one of his friends that is a girl because I’m not sure if he likes me or not.
Though, I’m pretty sure that he isn’t with anyone.
Anytime I talk to him I find that he is really easy to talk to, and I love every conversation we have.
Of course… anytime I like a guy I check our horoscope compatibility and as soon as I saw this I went crazy. It all clicked, and for some reason I have weird moments where I smell this unique but random scent and right away I think of him.
It’s weird, but I kind of call it his scent. And as soon as I went to the computer to see if he was online a few minutes later POP I get a message from him on Facebook where he says ‘hi’
So far we haven’t had a fight at all… I actually cant imagine us having a fight.
But there are times when we cant think of something to say…
I read somewhere that you should give an Aquarius space and alonetime which is part of the reason why I don’t actually talk to him.
But I’m crazy about him and I don’t know if me being too shy is making him uninterested!
We talked a bit on that and I found out that a thing we have in common is that we usually only talk to people who say hi to us first!
And I’m really really shy and I have no clue what to do, should I say hi and try to talk to him? but anytime I see him his friends who happen to be girls are around.
He’s really understanding and told me that I shouldn’t be afraid or shy to talk to him at school (he doesn’t know I like him though) but I don’t know!
I’m so unsure Please, Please help me! I really like this guy and I’m afraid that it might end badly, or he may never know I like him and I feel SO drawn to him.
I love horoscopes, I always check mine daily. Because I’m the type of superstitious person who believes anything from that sort of area.
So please help me!
X Sara
To Haz91, Thank you for your response, I appreciate the feedback. We had a great conversation the other day and I let her know that the reason why I haven’t been so forward with her she knows that I am very patient and I told her the reason is because I want her to get to know me and I also want to get to know her better at the same time. She really likes that I am not rushing her, she says she’s the same way. She also told me that she wants to talk to me all the time but sometimes she gets busy with school and work and I totally understand because she has alot on her plate. Anyways things are moving forward and I am really excited about getting to know her better she’s an awesome girl and I have never had such a great connection with a girl like this. She’s definitely worth the wait. It’s funny the way she let’s me know that she’s into me I have to read between the lines and figure it out which I think is different and interesting. I will post updates on how things are going. I am so glad this site exists it’s so…helpful.
Hello Sara,
First question is when is your and your Aquarius mans birthday?
Secondly… Why dont you try and relax and talk to this boy.. if you like him soo much. Its better not to be soo obsessive over him and what he is thinking aboutand what he feels about you, but instead why dont you try and talk to him at school, and become a close friend of his. At the moment all I can see from your relationship, is that you are constantly worried and crying over him, when you are not sure about his feelings towards you. I wouldnt get so worked up so early in this stage, I would become friends with him, get to know him, try and go out with him, e,g cinema, restuarants, bowling etc, then see where that takes you. You never know, he might like you, but maybe feels that you are too shy and reserved and emotional, if you are crying over him. I would say, as a Gemini myslef, that you need to bring out your fun talkative, personality and get him addicted to you. lol.
Let me know how you get on.. and remeber to tel me your and your aqua guys birthday?
xx
Can someone answer why it seems that Gemini females get so interested in Aquarius males so fast and easily. And does it go both ways with Aquarius being atrracted to Gemini females fast and easily. I find this so interesting
I find this article really good. I’m a gemini girl and I did go out with with my best friend an aquarian male, but when we went out it was just so weird it was like dating your favorite brother and he was feeling the same way, except as a sister. We always agreeded on the same things and never fought and it was so boring and surpisingly predicable. We were like TOO INTUNE! When he had his moods I was in like the same mood. I like to have a great, huge, and, some what, serious debates with people just for the fun of it. We’re still the best of friends and everybody was surprised by this, like just because we broke up means we have to hate each others guts and we just find it stupid, I mean maybe if it was on bad terms but it wasn’t. Now I’m dating a scorpio, if you’ve read the compatibility on the couple it’s not that good, but we still hang out all the time, which makes my new boyfriend jealous all the time, and it was nice while it lasted, but with my new bf I find our relationship so much more exciting cause I drive him up the wall and he drives me up the F****** WALL! Our relationship is mentally(sp?), physically, and emotional draining but it’s something new and it never leaves me bored. ^_^
hey lucille,
I have to agree with you on that note, you can never date your best friend… esp if he is an aqua… i mean me being a gem girl who was also best friends with an aqua born 9th feb, and we were very close, had our laughs an deep convos , we were allso very in tune and never had an arguement…. but we knew if we dated it would be super weird..
BTW, when is your birthday and when is your Aqua best friends birthday?
x
Hey Haz91! ^_^
Nice to find someone who understands. Our friends like called us the perfect couple but we didn’t like that sort of thing. I like new and weird ways of looking at stuff. I mean he was spontaneous to my other friends but I found myself thinking the same thing as he was doing or visa versa, or is it versa visa… I forget. We just think on the same persective. I was born on Jun. 4, like smack dab in the middle of the gemini time frame, and he was born on Feb. 2, also smack dab in the middle of the aquarius time frame, so we act a lot like our sun sign descriptions.
Hey Shasta! ^_^ To answer your question.
It’s because it’s nice once in a while to talk with someone who is going after the same thing you are… knowledge and freedom! It’s nice to talk to someone for hours about one subject without getting bored and they aren’t bored with you, my other friends gladly let me know when to stop talking. It’s also fun to watch aquarians rebelious side and also see their contradicary humanitarian side too, atleast that’s how it is with me and my aquarian results may vary due to location, time, and lifestyle.
If you were just joking around then ingore all that you’ve read, cause that would be embarresing(sp?). ^_^;
P.S.: If you haven’t noticed I can’t spell.
Hey Lucille,
Just another question, did you ever have strong feelings for your Aqua best friend..
Its so weird with these two signs, because Gemini and Aquarius never FIGHT that often and we never did… I could always sense when he was hurt or what he was thinking (his reaction to things) and we would always have the most amazing time together, we would make up our own little world with our own jokes and stuff and laugh our heads off whilst our other friends would watch in confusion and shock.. LMAO.. good times good times…
I would have to say though that unless you dont know Aquarius very or arent best friends with them, its very hard to get to know them, and get into a relationship with them, they are the most detached acts unemotional and cold sign I know when it comes to starting a serius relationship, these guys play hard to get, but from researching, Gemini gurls are th only sign in the zodiac, that drives the Aquarius wild ! (emotionally, sexually, and mentally) … we gems are the only ones that the Aquarius show there weak side to, and chase after !
I love em! (Aquarius’s)
WOULD you agree ?
:))
xx
You have so hit the nail on the head, so to speak, when it comes to Aquarius and Gemini. I found the love of my life (Gemini male) who happens to be 15 years younger. Everything you said is so accurate. Luckily, I got the sex out of the way immediately, therefore, the sex is well… amazing. I mean, amazing!!!! No matter what happens, I believe we will be together, if not as mates, as friends for eternity!!!
Yeah I agree, that’s me and my aquarian! ^_^ Like when I’m in a bad mood he seems to know what to do to make me forget about it and immediately move on, and when he’s mad at someone. My friends come to get me to help him cheer up, which I can usually do! It’s nice to have a long and mature conversation with him about anything, cause no subject is to sensitive for us to talk about. We talk about war, religion, politics, and anything most people would do anything to avoid talking about. Mine is the rebellious type. He wears different clothes and is often in trouble, but not many people know the sweet side of him. He volunteers any where he can. He’s a sucker for a sob story. He’ll defend anyone who’s being picked on, and also defend animals rights too, he’s a vegetarian. He has emotions but he knows how to to control them and use them at the right time… most of the time any way. He sometimes goes a little overboard. There are strong feelings. We are pretty attached at the hip, but when we went out and tried to kiss he would laugh in the middle of it and then I would laugh and then we would try it again and… it went down hill. LOL! Now he’s dating an aries, or was it a taurus or a capricorn it was some horned animal, and they have a lot more fights then we have but I think he’s some what happier this way. He now has to defend his ideals to his girl friend and prove that they are worth something, and sometimes he realizes that he ideals aren’t the only way to go and he loves her for it, though he sometimes ditches her to talk to me and it’s usually when I’m with my boy friend and… it all goes off a cliff from there. I think that we were good together but we need people who challenges our ideals and life style. I’m hoping that answered your question or was close cause I’m reading my answer over again and I think I rambled on at some point… sorry if you get confused, cause I know I am. ^_^;
Oh yeah one more thing!
* GEMINI’S UNITE *
^_^
Hey Lucille,
Don’t worry, you didnt ramble at all, I mean we are Gemini and we LOVE to talk, so I love listening.
One word… WOW! . You and your Aquarian seem to have it going on. lol. I mean I havent actually heard a relationship as perfect as that between two friends. Ofcourse mine was similar, but he would sometimes NOT tell me things, and I would get emotional and paranoid, and I would attempt to hide it :S , lol. But yeah I loved our relationship as friends and would not change it for the world, I mean now obviously we have gone our seperate ways, but we still laugh and talk when we see each other, but my good male friend atm is a Cancer and he is nothing compared to the Aquarius guy, because we clash all the time and sometimes I get so fed up with him, it fucks me off lol sorry . But yeah I think that its beautiful how you two can have a relationship and still be with other people.. its nice.
Do you think that us Gemini girls are the only real sign that has a perfect relationship with the water bearer, because alot of ppl I have met hate the Aquarian males, because of their arrogance and detachment periods. I mean I know for sure, that Taurus, Scorpio, Pisces and Cancer, girls try and chase the Aquarius but never hit the nail on the head..
what do you think?
take care
x
To Sabz-
My B-day: June 7th
His B-day: January 25th
To PJ
IT is too late I read your POST. I am a Aquarian-Capricorn
I THINK YOU R LIKE MY GEMINI MAN
I HAVE CAPRICORN INFLUENCE that is a problem in our relationship.
I ACTUALLY restart our relationship after a break.
ONE thing you understand that “Aquarian like to fly allways, see new places , see new people and communicate, they love it so much”
I THINK ur Aquarian girl still loves you.
Once an AQUARIAN MET GEMINI MAN never forget.
As an aquarian girl i take my gemini back by doing this.
I TELL HIM THAT I AM GOING TO ANOTHER STATE FOR A MONTH (making to thing that i am happy even he is not with me,but that not really is)I DID NOT TALK HIM FOR TWO WEEKS.But actually I was in my state.I make him fool.
I find that he is coming towards me.
I UNDERSTAND THAT he cann’t stay without communicating me.
Now our marriage is fixed.
IT is very easy for a Aquarian to fool GEMINI.
PJ
you said that she is adventurus i think she has a scorpio touch.
My advice is that
Make a good friendship with her
Let her to fly
GO to her where she is.
BE LITTLE ADVENTURUS LIKE HER(VERY IMPORTANT)
Then she comes back to you.DON’T WORRY.
An aquarian cann’t forget a Gemini.
They can sense each other.
hey ppl open question
Are there any May born Gemini girls that are going out with Aquarius men?
JUST CURIOUS
THANKS
XX
Hi. I have started a relationship with a gemini and I am the aquarius. I have never dated someone like him before. He is the greatest! I wanted to tell you that everything that you say up there is true, I don’t know about the fighting thing yet because I don’t like to argue so usually we don’t butt heads. I am now 9 weeks pregnate and we still want to take things slow. I just wanted to tell you that what you said really makes me happy. That and reading other peoples resonses.
Im a gemini female who has just met her first aquarian man! Finally! I feel soooo attracted to him and cannot stop thinking about him. I have never dated anyone typically compatible for me so I am very excited. what are some things that gemini women do or have going on that drive their aquarian men wild? I am being myself but any tips to make him want me even more would be appreciated. how to capture an aquarian? lol
Hi Jay,
Firstly, CONGRATULATIONS!
on dating your first ever Aquarian man, it should be good.
And secondly, the key to the Gem girl and Aqua man relationship, is communication, insanely INTENSE sexual attraction, great mental rapport, LOADS of laughter and just having a good time. But remember, even though there isnt much needed to make this match work, because these two signs get on SOOO well, just be yourself, and DONT lie to HIM anout anything, be very open and honest about everything he asks you okay? I am not saying you are a liar lol, I have met alot of Aquarians who say that they just dont like the fact that Gemini are so secretive and lie about everything.. I mean I am a Gem myself, so remember tell him honestly about everything he asks you… But Aquarians are captivated by us Gems and take to us like fish to water, we make them go weak on their knees, because they find us physically sexullay attractive, so thats a bonus in driving them wild anyway…
Abtw WHEN IS YOUR AND THIS AQUA MANS BIRTHDAY?
hope this helped
x
Hello…can someone chime in on this….is it true that sometimes if a an Aqua male is attracted to Gemini that he will not show it right away…that me might pull away for some reason? I mean I am very sure that this Aqua male is attracted to me but for some reason he will not come out and let me know. Does he just really want to be friends with Gemini? Why are Aquarians attracted to Gemini?
Hey Shasta,
Yes, Aquarians if they like you, they make it kind of half obvious and half not so. I mean if he likes you then he will make it obvious, but then he will hold back because before love comes friendship for the water bearer. So he might be in his analysing/friendhip mode, at the moment, where he is looking at you as a friend and analysing your personality.But also Aquarians do not jump straight into love with any sign, gemini can be the exception, but I think that he is just abit commitment weary, because Aquarians normally are.
I wouldnt worry about it, he will come round… but you have to give him space and time, do not rush him into anything okay?
Also YES ! The Aquarians falls for us Gemini head on! They take to us like fish to water, and to be honest, we Gems are th only sign that can keep up with us and does not mind chasing after, because the water bearer finds our charminig, funny, witty, outgoing personality addictive.. But to answer your question more to the point, the thing that the Aquarian man really gets attracted to about us Gemini girls are, our sexual physical attraction and also THE MENTAL RAPPORT, the conversation and communication between the water bearer and the twins can reach intense and deep proportions! so mainly its our verbal talent…
BTW WHEN IS your and your aqua guys birthday?
Becky,
I read this and wow…makes a lot of sense. It hit me pretty hard.
Now, I’m not sure if this has been addressed since there was a lot to read through, but…
I am a female Aquarius who is in love with a male Gemini. I thought there was a deep connection just before we stopped talking (and may have been my fault), but I am feeling this connection again from a great distance or I may be imagining things; I have been known to lead myself into such fantasies.
Anyway, I have no guts whatsoever to come out and say anything to this Gemini, but I’m wondering if the male Gemini can sense the female Aquarius’ vibes towards him? The feelings I have for him are very strong, so I just wonder how strong can it get for the Gemini to sense it since the whole “they can sense each other so well, it’s scary” seems to be validated by mostly everyone who commented.
I don’t expect much of an answer since the situation is quite complicated, but just some sense of it would be helpful.
Thank you.
Becky!!
I’ve been reading your website everday and I’m addicted!! My Birthday is January 18 but I am a total Aquarius! I recently met a Gemini that was born on the 30th of May and I can’t stop thinking about him! He recently went away for work and we sort of fell apart and I’m fine with giving him space cause I need space but our converstations went from everyday to a random text every other week or so. I miss him and I want to tell him but I just don’t want to scare him or get my feelings hurt. As a Gemini what should I do? Should I leave him alone or try to get the conversation going again? How do I do that?
THIS IS TOO FUNNY HAZ91. I think you really nailed that on the head with the Aquarius instantly falling for us Gemi’s. My bf is an Aquarius and unlike any oher sign I have been with WE Clicked and VERY, VERY FAST (no time wasted). It was like we met, talked and I swear, a few months later we were already deciding our future together. I have never done this with another person (except my ex that also is an Aquarius and we were together for over 10 years. What is down right scary is they share the same exact birthdate just different years). My bf has a job where he travels a lot and stays away from home and Yes, someone asked if we have this ability to sense one another while apart–the answer is YES. I have only been able to do this with an Aquarius. I think we are so intune it is SCARY. And we sense each other. Sometimes it’s difficult to bear. I just find the Gemini/Aquarius union to be very strong, satisfying and extremely loving. Maybe because the Gemini and Aquarius are so similar yet compliment each other so well, they are a match made in heaven. I think we just accept each other on a very deep level. And…This is coming from a Gemini
Hi Angel,
Thanks for that, I try and be as exact and accurate as possible with summarising the Gem-Aqua relationship.
And I must say that your situation with your Aquas fit VERY WELL, with the description of the Aqua-Gem match in general. Firstly the idea of it being a MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN, prooves that the Gem and Aqua match beyond words. Also the idea that you can sense each other and deep feelings … it all makes sense!
WOW, you were with you ex for 10 years !
That really does stand the test of time doesnt it! What caused you both to go your seperate ways if you don’t mind me asking?
Now you are with another Aqua, they just cant keep away from us Gem, the thing about Aqua-gem love match is that the Aqua men fall for us and then it does actually turn to a long term relationship, its not really a fling type of relationship. Sure both can be a tad bit scared of commitment but they get their heads around it after a while.
When is your birthday and when is your Aqua mans bday?
x
Hi Haz91. Yes, we seem to be afraid of the big “C” word but after we get our heads out of our A** then it is indeed a match in Heaven. HAHA. Well, my ex I have known for 17 years. We were married and have children but things just turned sour. WE GREW APART. We have tried to remain friends but it hasnt worked out. I think too with Becky’s theory on when we fight–well be can become each others worst enemies really fits us too. My b-day is 6/17 and my bf (and ex’s) bday is 2/5. My bf and I have been together for over a year and we have been friends almost 2 years. I think with my Agua male, it’s the rush at the beginning and then it mellows and I seem very content. Maybe because they too have their own life and I LIKE THAT. Don’t get me wrong, I would be happy to be in his presence everyday but I too like the freedom our relationship presents. I absolutely LOVE their uncanny mind, their thinking seems to always keep a smile on my face. Sure, they are EXTREMELY stubborn and at times, drives me up a wall but on the flip side he tends to listen and follow my advice. There is just something an energy that pulls us very close together–something I can’t nor have ever been able to put my finger on. IT JUST WORKS (until we decided not for it to). And the Aquarius male HATING fighting when it comes to their emotions….I have never seen someone so AWFUL! Meaning, yes they HATE to be told anything bad about themselves and will not fight but WALK AWAY physically until they clear their heads and NEVER want to talk about it. They just accept it and hope/pray you don’t bring it up again. THAT drives me nuts, always has especially since I’m the talker. But, I deal with it. I handle it by saying everything I need to before he walks out and allow him to deal with it on his terms and usuallly he gets it and does what he does.
ANd one last thing:
Aquarius are extremely loving, gentle, giving from their heart, genuine and honest human beings. I have been more suprpirsed by my Aquarius. He tends to do everything from his heart and it really holds VERY deep meaning. Even when he sends flowers, every single flower is picked with a purpose in mind. Everything seems to have meaning. I LOVE THAT ABOUT THEM
Completely agree with you,
just a question, do you have any Gemini friends born in May that are dating Feb Aquarius’s?
x
Hi Becky I read your article on Gemini and Aquaruis and I’m In wow over it! When I was 15 years old I met a Gemini male and he was my first boyfriend and love. He was wonderfull and we got along perfect. He wanted to get married after highschool and it freaked me out. I hadn’t expirenced life yet and didn’t know what I wanted in life. We stayed together for A year an a half and then I just had to break things off.Three years after that I got into a very unhealthy relationship and got married and had a child. I found out through a friend that my Gemini still loved me all that time. I was stuck and felt I had to make that relationship work for my child. That ended badly and was on my own I looked for him everywhere at the time there was no facebook or myspace! I found out he was involved with a mutual friend and that was that I moved on and evenutally got remarried to a wonderfull man but still always wondered about the Gemini I let go. I found out 10 years that this marriage isn’t working out either and we have a child together also. I moved home with the idea of taking back my life and ran into my old Gemini and found out his realationship was a toxic one too and he seems to cant find the right person either, but feelings are still very strong for the both of us. He still has pictures of me from preschool and what we took together I still have our prom pictures. He said it’s crazy because it’s like we never went apart we just picked right back up where we left off. He’s a father and i’m a mother and i think he’s always been the one i was just scared and didn’t feel worthy. 20years later and I know he’s been my soulmate all along. What do you think stay in a loveless marriage because of my kids or take a chance on a love thats lasted for 20 years? I know my kids come first in everyway, but this could be my last chance at my one true love.
This is me and my husband.
100 and 10% true…all of it.
It’s kind of scary.
Wow.
wow i read this article and my jaw dropped everything you said is true, I’m a gemini male and i met my aquarius girlfriend in september and this may sound crazy but were getting married in a few weeks. when we argue she does act like its the end of the world but i do manage to reassure her that fighting and arguing is needed for our relationship to work, and to compromise with her i find myself talking out our problems instead of arguing about them. damn i love this girl shes everything i need.
Hi I wonder if anyone can help. I’m a gemini girl, been in lots of relationships including married etc and now single (just). I met Aquarius man who I kind of new about from a shop for a few years but we went on a date a few weeks ago and then a second date. He’s less than a year out of a long term relationship and says he wants fun not a relationship but we are really good together. He wants to still date other girls and I said fine but that means we won’t have sex. He’s good with that. He goes quiet for days at a time.
I don’t know whether I should stay quiet… these Aqua men like to do the chasing…
I don’t know if he’s worth waiting for - let him get the dating others out of his system while having non-sexual dates with him in between until he finally falls for me…
Or is he a cad, should I forget him and move on?
my gemini male friend waited over a year for his Aqua girlfriend to finally fall for him and now they’re planning their wedding.
Hello Becky,
Ur comments are so trueee but I need to ask you something.
I’m the Gemini and he’s the Aquarius.
The minute we met we clicked
4 months later “we did it” but we were not in a relationship.
I know damn well that he is totally in love but he doesn’t want to admit it as he has very bad experience with other women so he doesn’t trust them.
It’s been a year now that we are in that semi-relationship but I really want him to tell me that he loves me (I need security if you know what I mean)
Please tell me how should I do it cause I need it now more than ever and I feel that I will give up soon and admit it to him before he does and it’s the last thing that I ever want to do.
PLZZZZZZZ HELPPPPP
Regards
Okay well, you have said that you just want him to admit and secure the relationship for you, then maybe instead of waiting for him , why dont you make the first move. If you love him and are pretty damn sure of it then, why are you messing around, cut to the chase and tell him how you feel before it is too late.
if he is that much in love with you, then dont you think he will say it anyway
Also, give him some space because you said so yourslef that he has had bad experiences with women, so you should feel lucky that he has given you a chance… all I can say is you might have to asses the situation yourself, so you either jump in and tell him how you feel, or you keep waiting and give him space until he is ready to admit he likes you.
Also when is your birthday and when is your Aquarius mans birthday?
Hope this helped
Hi Becky,
I’m in a situation similar to Rana. I’m a Gemini female (June 11) and he is an Aquarius male (Jan 24). Our relationship is explosive just like you described. Here is the problem I’m a hopeless romantic and he is sooooo practical. He is soooo cautious, and I’m already in love, we have been dating for four months. I’m a Gemini and impatient. He has trust issues, I haven’t given him a reason to distrust me but I’m dealing w/ deamons from prior relationships. I feel like I have to keep showing or proving my love and its not even working, he doesn’t trust what I’m saying. I could profess my love until I turned blue, it wouldn’t move him. How do I get past his walls? I know time is the first answer but any other ideas? I know he cares about me otherwise I wouldn’t be wasting time. I don’t want to be too impatient pass up on another good relationship.
The space thing throws me off too. I can be aloof and will give him his space but then he is upset because I’m too distant. I feel like I can’t win for trying.
Any help is greatly appreciated.
in response to Aqua females story… OMG -that is me!! to a degree - except i have been a single mum for over 2 years and happily doing my devoted to two angels thing.. i am quite content being on my own and then out of nowhere i got a message from the guy I met when I was 15- and now I know he is a Gemini!! 20years later he found me - and when we spoke- finally got together after all that time and picked up from where we left off- he asked me why i hadn’t found him sooner!! I didn’t know he liked me that much to search for me forever - I am so flattered and so ready.. I did let him know that if we had met any sooner it may not have been the right time.. the universe really is a powerful thing. i have had him on my mind for the past 20years and all that time i never knew he was a Gemini and that i was the one he was always thinking of!! - but now that I know i am so impressed with our kind of magic. But of course in 20 years we have managed to collect a little baggage along the way and he is the one who is in a marriage to be with his kids only.. its only early days - i can wait to see what happens…
I’m a female Aquarius born in January. I have to admit that I’m the type of girl that does not get attached easily.It takes me a while to even consider going out with a guy to the movies or to dinner. When I do start to like someone, I take every precaution and think the situation thoroughly. I was in a relationship in the past with a male Scorpio and he was the WORST. He had such a bad temper and was very unreasonable. Afterward, I was in a relationship with a male Capricorn only to get badly hurt in the end. I have never experienced so much pain before he broke my heart and turned it inside out. He hurt me so bad that I’ve been single for a year and a half, almost two years. Its not that guys don’t like me, I just turn all of them down (and not to sound conceited but I’ve turned A LOT down). Now I judge everything whenever I talk to a guy and if I do not like one single trait or I don’t see them as “perfect,” I leave.
I met a Gemini guy and everything here seems to be so true for me! Even the whole thing about sensing each other. Sometimes I want to call him or text him, the minute I pick up my phone to do that he calls or texts me first. I want to say something, and he will say the same thing I that I was thinking of. Its scary how in tune we are with one another.I got set up on a blind date with him by a friend. There were no awkward silences and we both felt very comfortable by each other from the beginning. Its only been three weeks but already I feel so comfortable with him.
I noticed that most of the Aqua/Gem relationships involved an Aquarius guy with a Gemini girl. Now what I have to ask, is it normal for me to feel so attached already? With me being an Aquarius girl, is this normal in the Aqua/Gem relationship?
Of course my guard isn’t down yet, I am very scared that I will get hurt. But I know he likes me too, maybe as much as I like him.
I just want to hear if anyone else experienced this.
Also, how is the sex between these two?
Hey…AquaFemmeFatale
I am a Gemini female and I want to know your opinion as an Aqua…even though you are a female Aqua. What is it that attracts you to this Gemini? I can tell you that I as the Gemini I am attracted to this Aqua male and these are the reasons. I like his deep voice, tall dark a handsome, kind of mysterious, he is very intelligent and uses words in a very cool way, seems to want to know about my life, listens carefully when I am speaking, is artistic, is funny, is honest and athletic and as strange as it seems when he is distant it is very intriging and makes me want to be with more. Are you distant as an Aqua…if so what makes you distant? I agree that most of this thread is Gemine Female and Aqua Male…so it would really be interesting to get your point of view.
i gave him the heave. he hadn’t texte