Aquarius Compatibility With Cancer |
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Aquarius and Cancer
This couple doesn’t have a lot going for it I’m afraid. The Aquarius is a light and heady mix of airiness and independence, whilst the Cancer character is far more possessive and in need of security. Perhaps at first these two maybe intrigued by one another, but this may after a while lead to frustration.
The Aquarius subject is rather aloof emotionally and it is hard for most mortal beings to understand the going’s on of this mysterious air sign, the poor Cancer will no doubt try and work out the inner workings of their air sign partner, but to no avail. Cancer is emotional, deeply emotional, and ever so caring. He/she may feel as though they are on their own at times in this partnership. The Aquarius subject care’s you see, but not in a way that you would always notice.
Surprisingly this couple could make it work. But to do that one of them will need to become rather more submissive, and I personally don’t see that being the Aquarius. One of the great things about this water/air union is that the Cancer will always be there. When the Aquarius finally comes home after whichever mission they have been on he/she can guarantee a nice soft lap to crawl into and snuggle up and forget about the nasty world out there. Will the Cancer want to take on the position of the Aquarius’s nurturer? This I do not know. But I do know there must be a lot of understanding on both sides if this is to work. The Cancer must understand their Aquarius’s need to go off on their own and be independent and the Aquarius must understand the Cancer’s need for quality alone time without the rest of the world.
Sexually this could be quite a sweet union, however, as I have said before the Cancer is a more conservative person than the Aquarius and maybe put off by some of the idea’s this air sign wishes to try out in the bedroom!! The good thing though these two will get along well as friends, whether it will last forever, well, that is for them to answer.
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July 24th, 2008 at 9:44 am
i’m an aquarius, dating a cancer, and it’s working out better than any other relationship i’ve ever been in. the boy means the world to me.
August 8th, 2008 at 1:03 pm
Hi Saraa…. I agree with you. I am a cancer and my boyfriend is an aquarius and no one has ever made me happier. However, it took some time to learn each other and at first it was hard to deal with his emotional detachment. But, now that the relationship has continued, I have noticed that the Aquarius is so good at showing how much he cares for you as opposed to saying it. This relationship has definitely allowed me to value the uniqueness adn individuality in others.
September 16th, 2008 at 10:01 pm
You two i have to agree too, I am also an Aquarius woman dating soon to marry a cancer man, he always makes me feel amazing, and is always there to listen to me, true i like to venture and explore! BUT so does he! we both have the same dream of traveling around the world! forget people who say cancer and Aquarius doesn’t work! Anything is totally possible!
September 30th, 2008 at 10:26 am
hi i am a cancer girl dating an aquarius boy.. we have been together for a year and 5 months and we still love each other very much. however, it wasn’t always loves and smiles. we obviously fought like any other couple does in effort to learn about each other. i was aware of the incompatibility between us right from the beginning of our relationship so i braced myself for the turmoil and reminded myself constantly that if we wanted it to work, we had to work at it ourselves. He often goes out and has his own agenda and i find that i have to sit at home and keep myself busy. but at the end of the day that time is “us” time. And although he’s not blatantly affectionate at expressing how he feels in words, it is evident that he cares by the way he plays and makes me laugh.
October 14th, 2008 at 9:11 am
My Cancer-boy is very sweet & caring… but.. so jealous.. it drives me mad! ((( I need more my “own private” area!
November 9th, 2008 at 5:44 am
Hello I totally agree with you all. Im a aquarius girl start dating Cancer. i will say he is most understanding and nice person i ever been with.We just start dating not quiet long but there is something bout him that make me laugh n confort.
November 13th, 2008 at 4:18 am
Ive read the compatibility and it said it wouldnt work out and it worried be because theres a new wonderfull girl and she introduced me to her and shes just so sweet! Im an Aquarius and shes a Cancer and everything seems to be going so well between us. She shows me that shes really interested in me and i do the same. I read this and it worries me that it might not work out. Im very spiritual and im close to the spiritual world and i keep seeing 11, 22, and 44. This always happens when i think of something really important and i just look at something or the time and it says these numbers. I know what they mean and i saw these numbers in my last relationships which played a big role in my life as a new phase. Im falling for this girl and now im starting to doubt my self that it wont happen and now ive read this and it gives me more reasons to think this way. But you girls inspire me and i just want it to work out. I been really bizzy with school and i have no time for girls and i rejected 4 girls already this high school carrier year but for some reason i keep getting guided to her “cancer”. And shes just amazing but and i want to get to know her better. Can it really work out? — Aquarius
November 25th, 2008 at 12:45 am
im an Aquarius
iv recently started dating a cancer and its going really well so far! hes so very sweet and affectionate and makes me feel so happy and good about myself! he has to bethe sweetest guy i know!
iam a bit worried from reading the combatibility thing tho should i be worrried though?
write back thanks x
November 25th, 2008 at 7:47 am
Hi there Issie,
Thank you for your comment. No, please don’t be worried. You just have to think about it in a positive way rather than negative,like you know your partner more and can understand the way he is more than you would have before you read the compatibility. It is just a rough guide, an little insight into how each sign responds to the other. Knowing this can help all of us greatly in our relationships! I wish you all the luck in the world and hope you have a long and happy relationship.
Love & Light
Becky
December 12th, 2008 at 8:41 pm
To Able: I am Aquarius woman as well. I say don’t worry about what the Astrology says. Take a leap of faith and see where this realationship takes you. You might be surpise that it’ll work.
Now what I am going say I mean no offence to you Becky. I think it’s great you can understand this astrogloy stuff, where I find it confussing with the planets, so my hat goes off to you.
Able, don’t be scare. The thing with astroglogy is or even tarot. You must take it with a grain of salt. Think of it as a “What IF factor.” Just because they say these two signs don’t work out with each other. Doesn’t mean it wouldn’t work out. I think it fanstastic that some of these couples on here have define the Astrology made a incompitality unqiue work out.
I think in a realationship, it is sometimes better to be different from each other. If you where the same as the other person, the relationship would be boring and unbalance. As were if you were different, you can learn from each other and grow with one another. The key is not to change the person to what you think they should be, but is to aceppt their difference and to cope with their differences as well.
Just take a leap and go for it!
December 13th, 2008 at 7:30 pm
Good morning!
I am just a little bored today, I woke up earilier than I usually do. So I am just going to talk.
Yesterday, I wondered, if I had met any Cancer people, and I have 3 of them. I agree that Cancer and Aquarius get along good. Now I have never been in romantic relationship with a Cancer.
One of my ex best friend was a Cancer. We where friends since 7th grade until College. She’d just changed when she got to college. She had a boyfriend and had lost her virginity, and that what really changed her. She began to think she was better then me and some of her other friends that she knew since Jr.High. What broke our friendship she told me. “That no man would ever date woman who is a virgin. And that I would be so boring in bed that no man wanted to date me.” Right there, I knew I didn’t know her anymore. She wasn’t the same person after that. Couple years ago, my friend told me with surpise that she had gotten knocked up by being careless. The doctor told her that she might not be able to have childern. Well, she did.
Do I feel bad for her? No, I do not. In my mind she had made her bed and now she could lie in it.
My other Cancer friend is an internet friend, he comes from Switzerland. I been talking to him since 2000 and something. He is a nice person and corrects my mistakes in the German language and I help him with his English.
Right now, I feel really bad for him and I hope he will be ok. He told me yesterday that his Brazillian French girlfriend had broken up with him in early January 2007. Then had been dating since 1997. It was a long distant relationship. He would take trips to French to see her offen.
I feel so bad for him, one, he is a really nice guy, and two she broke up with in weird way. It wasn’t direct straight forward where it just ended the relationship. She confuessed him.
He told me, he was lying in her bed next to her and all suddenly she said out of the blue. “I see no common future in us.” Then she gave him french kisses.
I myself find that so confuessing. If that was me, I would have ended it straight forward, with no mix singals to confuess the poor man. But then again that is just me, I don’t play with men’s hearts.
Months later she would call him and e-mail him all the time saying Cheri, I love you, I want you back I miss you. Come vist me and sleep with me. He said no.
He told me, that he finally realize she never truly loved him, was just using him.
He is still finding hard to move on. I told him, you need to live in the now, and not the past. Because if you keep living in the past it just going to hurt you more. Plus, there’s more girls out there. You’ll find a girl that will love you. Maybe you should find a girl nearer to you, where it isn’t a distant relataionship.
Relatationships are hard work, but long distant ones are harder to keep up. I give him apluse for staying so long in this one. WOW, now that is deication and LOVE in all it’s senses.
I hope he can move on. He is feeling really needy and wants me to be online all the time. Which I can’t I have gymnastic and acting to think about.
The other Cancer I know is a Finnish man name Emppu. He plays in a famous Finnish band called Nightwish. They are more popualar in Europe than in America. I found Emppu somewhat attrative in his pictures, but that all changed when I met him in real life. I was thinking “DAMN, he is really hot!” And he was a very nice guy, very gentlemenly, sweet, really shy towards me.
He was sitting on a couch and I was sitting in a chair far where he sat. His face was turning bright red when he just looked at me. He couldn’t take his eyes off me. I was laughing inside, because he was being so cute!
I knew he wanted to talk to me. After his friend Tumoas had left to get their singer. Emppu got into his firned’s chair, which was by me and he began chatting away at me. Asking me all sorts of questions. Like: You were born in the Philippines? Tell me everything about the Philippines.
European men, act differently then American men. (I think) European men want to get to know you first, where it seem sometimes American men expect something from you when they meet you.
When his friend came back he would be back into his couch and just blush and stare at me. It was so funny and cute at the same time. (When it comes to men, I like my men Europen and very tall. Like: 6ft to 6′8. I am 4′ll. So I like tall men. Now Emppu was about 3 inches taller than me. Since he was so nice, if he had asked me out, I would have gone on a date with him and lower my man stardards. LOL
When it was time to go, leaving he kept looking over his shoulder at me, smiling, blushing. He was so sweet!
I know there are a lot girls that wouldn’t give nice shy guy the time a day. But I am not that way. If I see a man has hard time talking to me, I’ll talk to him. Because I know how hard it is to talk to someone. So I always give shy nice guys a chance, some times they need to warm up and then they open to you.
In my experince the Cancer and Aquarius relationship is a very good one, and isn’t one to pass, if the two people like each other.
December 16th, 2008 at 5:08 pm
Too: LittleImpaler
That was an awesome story. It was as if i was reading a book. Nice, I hope it works out with you and the guy. Your Cancer right? Im sure hes a cool guy, dont loose your chance with him..give him a call if you can lol..If a guy feels shy, thats a good sign, shows that hes scared to skrew up his chances with you so hes really carefull about what he does..lol im a guy i know lol
December 16th, 2008 at 7:02 pm
To Able: I am an Aquarius woman. And I not in love with any of Cancer men I met, just talking about that Aqaurius and Cancer can get alone despite what Astorlogy says about this it being a bad realationship. And if two people of these signs really love each other, I say go for it.
January 9th, 2009 at 4:12 am
I’m an Aquarius Women. And Oh my God I’m married!And yes, I’m a true Aquarius. I have the dimpled chin, which I call the ass on my face and the birth mark on my lower right calf. Which, I came to know many Aquarius with either scars or birth marks on their calfs. Well anyways I’m married to a Cancer man. I don’t think we get along at all. First, it was just sexual and then I got knocked up and then he persuaded me into marry him. I know you people are asking how could anyone make someone else do anything especially marriage. Well, I don’t know ask a cancer. But, I’m rethinking that whole thing. His mood swings drain me. If I have to feel one more of his feelings I will have his feeling coming out of my ass. I like to talk and so does he. He just talks about the same stuff and bores the shit out of me. I have to go to his mothers more than once a week. I dont care if I see my mom for a month. They say Cancers are good with a buck my ass. The thing is they will save even if that means not paying the bills that have to pay. They’re compulsive buyers. I think his thinking is ass backwards. To go to the grocery store it takes 4 hrs because he has to drive by is childhood home . They say cancers are good fathers or parents. They are loving. But, actually dealing with the kids is another story. If the kids gets in trouble its my fault. He just stands around and gives orders. His complaining about everything how the towel was hung over the shower to how the eggs were arranged in the fridge will make an aquarius girl like me nuts. WHO cares! AT least the eggs are in the fridge and the towel is hung up. I swear he’ll complain just to complain. I feel imprisoned inside the home because thats were he stays. Besides, go to work and the grocery. Which,he will spend gobs of amount on. And you’ll have to have two freezers to put it all. God forbidd I leave the house by myself. Something could happen? I guess thats the cancer protection thing. I don’t need protected. I need to do what I do and not be question on why or how I’m doing it. He says I don’t listen to him. It’s not that I dont listen to him. I just do it different than his way so its wrong. He is so emotional. He’s like the girl and I’m like the man. Hold me hug me blah blah blah. I’m sure my aloofness and coldness doesnt help out much. But, is complaining and HIS feelings are about to make me leave. He always says it about me. But, truly it all about how he feels. I going along so I dont hear is mouth. Because, he will keeping going until you see it his way. I feel like I’m doing everything for him to keep him happy, but he doesn’t do the same in return. I’m going to through the big D and I don’t mean Dalles. I know I should’nt pay attention to astrology and what they say on who you should love. Because, you can’t help your heart for falling for someone. I’m not here to bash the cancer men. Just my husband. But, my advice if your an Aquarius is run from the cancer.And fast because they’ll find you. For some reason cancer men love aquarius women because we are corky and different. And they like odd ball things. But, they will drain you , depress you, and just make you feel like shit. I’m going to go find me a Libra. They love me
January 23rd, 2009 at 4:20 am
That is Always true you guys,because i am an aquarius woman and i am going this cancer guy from NY he’s so amazing i mean,he take me out on dates and stuff like that!i mean to say he’s my everything i dont believe in what the zodiac says about cancer and aquariuse that we kinda get along,because me and my new boyfriend gets along very good he supports me and i would do the same thing too,i dont know why but for some reason i make friends with cancer people quick!!but this guy is my everything.
February 4th, 2009 at 7:08 pm
Hi I am a cancer girl dating an aquarius guy n it has been the best 4 months of my life so far! We share such a bond n a relationship that is unbreakable, I must say that out of the whole 4 months we have only had one occurance where we fought but we ended up making up n the same day! Our love is so strong that I dnt think a bulldozer could tear it down. I love him and he loves me! N that will always be!
February 13th, 2009 at 5:27 am
I am an Aquarius female and I have been in a relationship with a cancer male for the last 7 years. I think that cancers are like cancer to us Aquarius, they are so controlling, sensitive and they won’t leave. No matter what … they would not leave you alone. If I ever get him to leave I will treat all cancer men like a disease and run away. On the other hand cancers can show Aquarius how to be more loveable in a way that meets the rest of the world’s standards but when do we ever really want to do that.
Cancer will only do the freaky things that Aquarians want like once a year Lol … It always has to be in the bed … no candle wax or toys Lol … nothing … and no matter what you tell them you need they just can’t keep up. In the beginning they can fake it but after a while they show their more traditional side.
I agree with a previous post that they are draining to us. Being in a relationship with him changed me into a different person and not for the better. I feel so constricted in the relationship most of the time I can’t think. When I do get time to think, I can only think about how to get out of this box that I am stuck in with him before I go crazy.
Anyway sorry for rambling and happy birthday fellow Aquarians
February 21st, 2009 at 1:57 am
I disagree. I’m a Cancer and my brother is an Aquarius. Our personalities are very different. He fails to think of those around him,independent of the family(but not with others),and many other things. I’m sensitive,thoughtful,and very conscious of others. Because of how rude and ungrateful he can be,it really annoys me many times. One example is that he’ll put his music really loud even though I’ve asked him politely plenty of time before to ‘keep it down’. He still does that and has me do double my chores since he dirties what I’ve just cleaned.I would never like to be with a guy like that.
February 28th, 2009 at 4:33 am
I married a cancer man…I am Aquarius….for the first few years…it was great….then he became a passive aggressive non communicating, prick that was jealous of all my accomplishment. He became boring and lazy and became interested in everything pedestrian and middle of the road. I thought they were wrong and married him anyway…now I know…..its true! run for the Libra or Gem! Stay away from the crabby crab. He only wants to possess you and control you. Once he gets what he wants from you……he is a cold fish! Eat a crab don’t marry one!
March 16th, 2009 at 11:27 pm
At the beggining it was amazing… I loved how he treated me like a queen, taking me out whereever I wanted , buying me flowers and all that shit … I was thinking nothing can go wrong! He’s the perfect man , you cannot find a lot of men like that today! Our love was so perfect, so real…But…things change. He’s still very caring and loving but HE’S KILLING ME!! I cannot breathe anymore, i wanna run away from him and he’s “neediness”.
He’s so NEEDY, such a PESSIMIST, JAELOUS , he wants me to prove my love all the time , God forbbid if i dont say “i love you” one day-for him its the end of the relationship! He wants me to be there for him every single time when he “FEELS BAD” and HE FEELS BAD ALL THE TIME! IM TIRED OF HES MOODINESS! I’m gonna end up in a madhouse! And whats with Cancer man and all that bullshit talk? He keeps saying same stories , he’s FULL OF EXCUSES!AND IT’S NEVER HE’S FAULT! AND HE’S ALWAYS RIGHT even though he doesnt know what he’s talking about! Am i the only one having this feeling or THEIR IQ IS -115 ?? THEY DONT UNDERSTAND ANYTHING, I HAVE TO EXPLAIN 10 TIMES before or IF he understands !! I’m still around because no matter what I love him and I still believe he can BECOME REASONABLE AND GROW UP and realize hes not the only one having needs. I have them too , I NEED TO BREATHE! I dont know how long i can live like this..My advice is Sagittarius! I was young at the time but i still remmeber him with a smile:)
March 17th, 2009 at 4:35 am
I am an Aquarius female and recently broke up with a cancer man. I have to say this has been a wonderful relationship while it lasted. I learned a lot from the crab about loving. He brought out an emotional side I never knew I had. Although it probably wasn’t enough for him to realize was a big deal! I enjoyed that he was curious about my life, he was always concerned about me and had a genuine interest in making sure I felt well(kind of like a protector). I tried to be open throughout the relationship but I believe what got the best of us in the end was his jealously, his insecurity, my unpredictability and my ability to commit. So advice for this relationship to work: Aquarius, you need to be very sensitive ALWAYS of his feelings(let him know your plans, include him in your plans, make him feel welcome when your up to your wacky stuff he might not at first feel capable of being part of). Cancer: please understand that true aquarians don’t always realize how they are coming off to you. what you see as a big deal may not be obvious at all to aquarius. So don’t be afraid to communicate with them. Also understand that just because they get excited about a lot of other things in life, it doesn’t mean they are not deeply excited and thrilled to be with you. I think that this couple can work out but both have to be willing to make some changes either in their own actions or what they are able to expect from their partners.
March 26th, 2009 at 12:20 am
I am soon to be married!
He is a cancer and of course, I am an a aquarian. A lot of things I read above hold true for us both, he is super emotional and I sometimes hide my feelings inward,though in most aspects I am not the typical aquarian. The funny thing is ,we recognize that in eachother. I have never been with someone so amazing,caring and someone who loves me for who I am. I would give him the moon and all the stars if I could. It’s like we balance one another out perfectly. It is tough at first to understand eachother but if you really love one another it seems to come naturally. I am not sure if I believe in forever, but I would like to think if forever does exist I’ll reach it beside him.
I love that man with all that I am!
March 26th, 2009 at 2:41 am
okay, i’m trying to give out some advice to a cancer man on us aquarian girls and the women/girls on her have just proved a lot! it can work one way, but the other way is a bit cloudy =) thank you!!
not saying that it doesn’t work, just saying majority…
March 29th, 2009 at 4:36 pm
moshi, moshi all!!!! well dolls and kookies i’m a 25 yr old cancer woman and let me say this: i’ve been married to my aquarius man since we were both 17. we have 4 lil gremlins and are growin strong everyday….that’s 8 yrs. of marriage and well anything is possible….we don’t choose who we fall in love with it just happens….also my babysnakes and me are a very rare and unique couple for we are a prime example of total opposites attracting….we are each others soulmates-what true love is….so don’t always rely on believing everything you read it really is up to the two individually and what you make out of it….good luck….ja….
April 3rd, 2009 at 8:50 pm
I am a male aquarius dating a male cancer. This is the best relationship I have ever been in on all levels, in the last 7 years. He is the most caring sweet and kind and loving person I have ever met. From our first meeting there was a spark, now its only been a little over 4 months. But I plan on many more years to come.Sometimes when you are not looking for love it finds you…..such a cliche, but…. true in my case.
April 7th, 2009 at 5:09 pm
Cancer, dating an Aquarius… going on 6 1/2 years! We do butt heads once in a while (I’m certainly the most emotional one in the relationship), but he’s very loving and protective and not your typical serious Aquarius.
April 18th, 2009 at 2:37 am
Im so surprised at the astrology too cause My best friend is an Aquarius and I reunited with him on Easter he’s fun, caring and sweet and i’m a cancer common. He did tell me that he is engaged and his fiance is a Cancer and that’s all he ever messed with so I hope it works out and they get alobg as well as we do cause if so it will definatly work! I truly love him and you have to go by faith in god. I wish them and you all the best of luck! Because I’m going to tell you what dont work and astrology say it does is Cancer and Virgo, cause me and my husband is doing terrible!! Well I shall go research this site some more and see what they say about Cancer and Virgos on here! Goodluck.
May 2nd, 2009 at 9:53 pm
Im and aquarius who went out with a cancer for a little under a month and it was the most complicated realtionship ive ever been in:S i guess we are friends now. but he kept too much to himself, and never told me anything. i just couldnt deal with having a conversation with myself anymore.
May 14th, 2009 at 11:18 pm
I am a girl dating a cancer guy. I love him so much and i dont understand the compatability because he is the best boyfriend i have ever had and he is there 4 me whenever i need him> We have learned to understand each others needs though so i think we will work out.11 months!
May 20th, 2009 at 10:05 pm
I am a cancer woman and I started dating an aquarius man 4 months ago. He and I have fun together but we also argue a lot, which inspired me to research our signs’ compatibility. I have to say I am discouraged because of all the negative things I have read that I have already seen in our relationship. I am not a typical needy cancer but he brings it out in me. I try not to be “needy” but he just doesn’t make much effort to express how he really feels. And plus we found out about a month ago that I am pregnant, which has made me extra emotional- no matter how hard i fight it. At first when we started dating I had to beat him off of me, and he was always sweet and affectionate towards me but since then he has let his true colors show- he has become the typical, closed off aquarius that is talked about on all of the websites. I really care about him and I think that he really cares about me, but just doesn’t like to show it. I feel like we can make it work but it will just be difficult. I am just disappointed, because at first it wasn’t difficult at all…
May 29th, 2009 at 9:39 pm
I am a cancer woman (in my late 40’s now).
I was married to an aquarian man, for 26 years.
We clicked instantly when we met.
We fell deeply in love, and yes, we were opposites.
I realized early on that he needed his space.
Also, that he didn’t display his emotions to me, or want to share / talk about his feelings, but would rather keep them to himself.
From every aquarian man that I have ever met, they all have some kind of addiction.
Because they can’t / won’t talk about their emotions, they turn to alcohol most of the time.
As time went on and on, I did give him the freedom that he needed.
But, being a cancer woman, I really missed being able to talk to someone, and I felt that he really wasn’t there for me emotionally.
He didn’t turn into a person that I could count on.
Looking back, he was a selfish person, and most of the time, only thought of himself, he would always want things his way.
At times, he could be stubborn and uncompromising, and that would cause arguments.
Because we were together for so long, I know I rubbed off on him.
He was able to tell me that he loved me, and we cuddled a lot in bed, and he always knew he could count on me for a hug, reassurance, and that I would always have his back.
I learned that aquarius men, can be very insecure, and try to act like they are not,and that they are always right, but most of the time, they are very insecure.
He opened up to me in ways that he could.
He would sing songs on the radio that had meaningful words to them, and he would sing them to me.
He showed me that he loved me by doing housework, and other little things.
The main reason why we are not together now, is the alcohol issue.
He got really verbally abusive when he drank, and then it ran over into when he was sober.
He would find fault with every little thing, including my appearance.
Being a sensitive cancer woman, that made me feel terrible about myself.
I felt that nothing was ever good enough for him.
When he was sober, and not being verbally abusive, he was a good husband.
He absolutely loved our dog and he became the alpha male to our dog (german shepherd).
That was good for him.
All I can tell you is that I would still be married today, if he had given up the alcohol and started treating me better, and was truly there for me.
However, he was too stubborn to go to counseling.
And all of you should know, that you can never change anyone, they are who they are, and they are not going to change! no matter how much you try to convince them to change, it may work for a few months, but they will go back to being themselves after that!
It can work, if both of you are willing to compromise, but make sure that your aquarian man doesn’t have an addiction, or is verbally or physically abusive to you.
Mine had a great sense of humor, and no one has ever made me laugh as much as he did!
I miss him greatly, and I still love him deeply, but it came to a point where I had to get out of it, for my own sanity.
I wish you all the best in your relationships, now that you know what to watch out for, Good Luck!
June 16th, 2009 at 1:54 pm
i’m a cancer man and it might be a bit difficult for me to admit but the cancer and aquarius relationship is a dead end.i’ve been in one and it was really tough.but i’ll say this to any one who’s a true believer.give it a shot we all have just one life to live.it might turn out great.
June 19th, 2009 at 11:18 pm
Yea JMK!! I am just like you. 2-2-74 I was with a CANCER man and all he did was NAG NAG NAG!! I thought only women did that lol anyway. He was like The Queen of Hearts in Alice In Wonderland all ways were his ways and I had no ways. My Aquarian freedom, he just was not giving me. He was jealous of me and didn’t apprieciate me. I think he only wanted me to be his Trophy girlfriend because I look just like the Black Barbie Doll and I happen to have GREAT bed skills. We’ve been broke up for almost 8 yrs. and it’s like he can’t live without me. It’s like I’m an addictive drug to him. I’m trying to get me a LIBRA also because I know that a LIBRA is our ideal. So good luck to you and me!!!
June 23rd, 2009 at 7:54 pm
I’m a Cancer dating an Aquarius woman. This is the 2nd Aquarius woman I’ve dealt with and both relationshipz were great. My last one didn’t last as long as I hoped but it was still real. Sometimes you just have to live for today and just live a series of momments with your partner. Now the thing with dating an Aquarius is that they’re naturally insensitive and I’m still getting used to it. All of my deep past loves have been with Sagitarius’…….which I call the Sagitarius spectrum. But each one of those relationships failed and a Sagitarius ripped my heart in 2. But an Aquarius is the opposite in a way. Itz more loyal than a Sagitarius. My best friend is an Aquarius and we’ve been friends since 1985. So that gives me hope. My best friend understandz me like no other and that took a long time. So for a Cancer and an Aquarius to truly get along in the long run each will truly have to understand each other. It can’t be any half assing or it won’t work. My girl can be very insensitive sometimes but I can see shez reflecting past pain she felt from another life and they don’t fully know how to process it. They’re constantly throwing rockz. She cares for me in that tough love kind of way that can be annoying but I can see thru it all and see a passionate caring woman….something that a Cancer can witness off the back if he/she are just willing to look deeper. And as being a Cancer we can naturally feel that. But itz gonna be a battle BALANCE between a Cancer and Aquarius. But deep down you got a Ride or Die chick.
July 1st, 2009 at 3:14 am
I am an aquarius women and yes before I started dating my cancer boyfriend I was a nighmare to date. Now that I have been in this relationship for over 10 months (longest relationship in my entire life) I have changed so much. He has made me understand that poeple do have feelings and it’s okay to show mine sometimes. He loves me more then I love myself and even when I do turn back to my old way and hurt him deeply he is still fighting for me. I know he will never leave my side and when I get home from my freedom loving days he is there to rub my feet and wants to talk about my day. I love him so much and I never thought I would be saying this right now but I want to be his wife and have his children. So all you aquarius women/men out there if you find someone who loves you and truely cares, do whatever you can to show them that you love them back cause we don’t want to die alone.!
July 2nd, 2009 at 7:31 pm
Hi. I just wanted to say thank you for all your comments. I am an aquarius married to a cancer. Recently one of his exes had came back into the picture. She is a scorpio. I read so much about cancers and scorpios. A match made in heaven they say. Then I read about Aquarius and Cancer. They say it can never really work. We have been married for 10 years and have 3 children. It’s been a rocky relationship but the love is very strong. Yes I felt threatened by this ex. They had a strong relationship then and she was probably one his greater loves. At times I wondered if he would be happier with her. I would say that I would rather him leave and be happy rather than stay and me wonder if he really is. Our love was tested but we realized on the things we had to work on in our relationship. I thank you for all these comments. It makes feel that we can truly make it.
July 4th, 2009 at 5:24 am
Here is are both chart do you guys think it will work please answer. Also when do we act like the other signs.
His
Sun Cancer 6.37
Moon Capricorn 3.58
Mercury Cancer 25.07 R
Venus Gemini 17.34 R
Mars Virgo 23.12
Jupiter Virgo 5.37
Saturn Virgo 21.19
Uranus Scorpio 21.55 R
Neptune Sagittarius 20.53 R
Pluto Libra 18.59 R
Lilith Libra 9.27
Asc node Leo
Mines
Sun Aquarius 26.32
Moon Gemini 24.45
Mercury Aquarius 0.24
Venus Aquarius 14.26
Mars Taurus 15.31
Jupiter Taurus 27.13
Saturn Capricorn 10.32
Uranus Capricorn 4.09
Neptune Capricorn 11.31
Pluto Scorpio 15.12
Lilith Libra 0.50
Asc node Pisces 4.52
July 17th, 2009 at 2:45 am
From the looks of these comments, it can work if it’s a Cancer male and an Aqua female but the other way around, with the hyper-aloof Aqua man, and the combo gets very sketchy.
July 17th, 2009 at 5:29 pm
If Aquarius and Cancer aren’t that compatible, then how come Robert Wagner, an Aquarius and Natalie Wood, a Cancer ended up marrying twice?
I dated a Cancer and it was one of the best relationships ever. I think it all depends on if the Aquarius and Cancer have similar values, ideas, morals, etc…
July 27th, 2009 at 6:27 pm
i am a aquarian girl and my boyfriend is a cancerian…and its almost 1 and a half year that we are together without any major hiccupps…he understands me very well and gives me complete freedom and in turn i always try to strike his emotional chord and i hav reached in such a juncture of life where i feel that life without dis mr.cancerian will b a bit tough for me..he is life.
July 31st, 2009 at 6:08 am
Hello. I have read all of these comments and found comfort and some understanding from them. I am especially intrigued by the comment written by Sara about the Aquarians who are such fun and great to be loved by, but sometimes have addictions…
I fell madly in love with an Aquarian, and I’m a cancer…and this went on for the past 2 and a half months…but he would not give up his struggle with alcohol addiction…it just got worse and worse until I asked him to get help and he just would not, and I want to have a positive and vibrant life full of love and reciprocity, so I had to let it go a little over a week ago….I am devestated. My heart has never been so broken…I know this was a short time, but this was one of those love at first sight things…I’m 29 and have been waiting my whole life for this kind of thing to happen..and it did, but even the most passionate of loves between this match I have found through reading the stories of others experiences and my own of course can end up causing a lot of pain and confusion. I was always giving and he was always wanting to be free and not feel pressure to “change”…when he needed to change this horrible addiction that ultimately cost us our beautiful new love. So-for those of you struggling like I have, I feel your pain. Thank you for all of your posts..they have really helped a lot…and the compatibility really gave me a lot of insight: )
Thank you
August 10th, 2009 at 4:18 am
I have married two cancers, one king crab and one hermit crab. Yes, they are smothering and they want you to stay home and have a lot of alone time with them. But, if you can find one that can handle all that you are then you can actually find your soul mate with this sign.
August 12th, 2009 at 4:57 am
CAN SOME ONE ANSWER MY QUESTION.
Here is are both chart do you guys think it will work please answer. Also when do we act like the other signs.
His
Sun Cancer 6.37
Moon Capricorn 3.58
Mercury Cancer 25.07 R
Venus Gemini 17.34 R
Mars Virgo 23.12
Jupiter Virgo 5.37
Saturn Virgo 21.19
Uranus Scorpio 21.55 R
Neptune Sagittarius 20.53 R
Pluto Libra 18.59 R
Lilith Libra 9.27
Asc node Leo
Mines
Sun Aquarius 26.32
Moon Gemini 24.45
Mercury Aquarius 0.24
Venus Aquarius 14.26
Mars Taurus 15.31
Jupiter Taurus 27.13
Saturn Capricorn 10.32
Uranus Capricorn 4.09
Neptune Capricorn 11.31
Pluto Scorpio 15.12
Lilith Libra 0.50
Asc node Pisces 4.52
August 12th, 2009 at 5:04 am
I am a cancer female dating an aquarian male. We are both 20 years old and very much in love. I believe in astrology very strongly and I knew our relationship was going to be difficult from the beginning. We have been dating for 2 years now and met in college. It took me a while to get my aquarian to settle down. He would much rather be out with his friends at the bar than at home snuggling with me. The main reason we would fight would be because I felt like he never listened to me and was only ever thinking of himself. At first I never understood why he would act like this, so selfish and unattached. I realized that in order for our relationship to work, I was the one who needed to lighten up. He still aggravates me from time to time but all I need to do is take a step back, breathe, and not get so angry. He has told me many times that he has never been so in love with anyone and that he wants to marry me. We found a way to compromise our differences for the better. He teaches me to let go, not be so emotional and demanding, and have fun. I teach him to love, be caring and show him that sometimes a night in can be just as fun as a night out with friends. After he transferred schools and now lives in a different state, things have been a lot more complicated. Rather than seeing each other everyday, we can only talk on the phone. I get mad when he does not call me back or when he goes out a lot now. The long distance has made our relationship a lot harder than it should be. I have been planning on moving in with him but just recently he has told me that he is scared we are moving too fast and we are too young to be this serious. I fear that my pinching crab claws are trying to hold him too tight. The truth is that I just love him too much to let him go. Cancer and aquarius are very different in nature but in the end we are both only human. I know that the cancer-aquarius relationship can work. I hope that ours will, but only time will tell. I wish you all luck with your relationships.
August 15th, 2009 at 4:20 am
IM AN AQUARIUS WOMAN AND IM DEALING WITH A CANCER MAN AND IT IS THE WORST RELATIONSHIP. HE IS TOO EMOTIONAL AND VERY CLINGY AND PROBLEM PRONE. HE MAKES EVERYBODY ELSE’S PROBLEMS HIS PROBLEMS. HE IS A MOMMAS BOY. HE IS JUST TOO TRADITIONAL. BUT I WILL ADMIT HE IS GOOD IN BED. AND IS A VERY GIVING AND CARING PERSON BUT ON THE OTHER HAND HE IS VERY SECRETIVE AND COMPULSIVE.BUT I WONT SIT HERE AND SAY IM COMPLETELY INNOCENT EITHER BECAUSE I CAN BE SELF CENTERED,ABRUPT,AND JUST TOO DAMN BLUNT.I HAVE TO LEARN TO CONSIDER OTHER PEOPLES FEELINGS SOMETIMES BEFORE I REACT LIKE MOST AQUARIANS, AQUARIUS REACT WITH THEIR BRAIN CANCERS REACT WITH THEIR HEART. BUT IM TRYING DAY BY DAY BUT I DONT KNOW HOW MUCH LONGER THIS WILL LAST BUT GOOD LUCK TO EVERYONE ELSE AND THEIR RELATIONSHIPS.
August 20th, 2009 at 4:06 am
My bestfriend, my lover, my husband and the father of my lovely girl is a Cancer. i am an Aquarian and at first we were friends had a lot of bickering but then both fell madly in love and from the time that we met up until now that we are married has been almost 21 years now. I met him when I was 7 and he was 10. We were neighbors, then we moved saw each other in school only dated his older brother for awhile, confided with him a lot and then became great and best of friends. Took awhile before we realized that we are destined for each. We got married just in time as when our careers started flourishing, just recently gave birth to our bundle of joy and we are now way more inseparable… I found the love of my life when I was 7!
August 20th, 2009 at 3:35 pm
I recently met an Aquarius man. I’m Cancer. I had always heard we are not compatible. Well, I beg to differ. I’ve read his books, and he thinks just like I do! Totally blown away over here. I look forward to a long, happy life with this very special man…:)
September 19th, 2009 at 5:59 am
I am a Cancer woman(rising sign is Gemini) dating an Aquarius guy-funniest guy ever! He will do the most bizzare sh!t and I will laugh my ass off! We have a good time together, whether it’s over a nice drink or just in my apartment chillin. Only thing that bothers me is that I had got with him too soon after my last guy (he was a Gemini hurt me deeply, but no biggie) and I have my deep insecurities and doubts about even allowing this Aqua man to have my trust for fear of being hurt again. He asked me out, but I dont even feel like he’s my boyfriend he feels more like…a friend. Is there something wrong with this feeling of detachment here? And here’s the kicker-he feels the same way. I dont know I feel like this is gonna turn out 2 be a friendship but something keeps us calling each other back….
September 26th, 2009 at 11:24 pm
i’m an aquarian female, can’t understand cancerians…
October 6th, 2009 at 9:13 pm
I’m a Cancer woman seeing an Aqua man, but he stated in the beginning that we were just casual (sex partners). That’s not really what I was looking for, but I’m cool with it because I just got out of a relationship and there’s a great attraction there in that area. He says that we can date other people, but not sleep with anyone else. The minute I say i’m going somewhere he turns jealous and assumes it’s a date and becomes jealous and will even tell me that he is jealous. We went to highschool together and I never even thought about him back then. He’s very aloof and I don’t know what’s really going on now. He calls me every day, sometimes several times a day. He’s consistent in that area. He’ll tell me that he misses me and sometimes it shows and sometimes it doesn’t. I’m not expecting anything more from him, but why does he always say things eluding to a relationship. We live right down the street from one another and see each other often. What is really going on here, i’m so confused with this man i don’t know what to do. To me it’s as if he wants to control the PU$$Y without the commitment whch is fine because i’m addicted, but what’s all of the relationship talk for??? That’s not needed.He’s very detached emotionally and I just can’t figure him out. What is really going on here??? He says he’s not ready for a relationship right now, but that doesn’t mean he won’t be ready for one down the line, I don’t even ask him about one. Can someone help me understand what is going on with this Aqua man???????
October 7th, 2009 at 2:27 pm
Also, then he blows up my phone daily if I don’t answer the first time. If I go out the night before, he will call several times until I answer. One time he drove by my house before I told him where I lived (he only knew the street)and thought that my neighbor’s truck was a visitor at my house (stalking tendencies there). I mean if he wants more he should say it, but I don’t think he knows what he wants. Then he says that we are working on a relationship, I didn’t know that. When was he going to tell me??? He claims that he had a crush on me in highschool too, but never said anything to me………that was 20yrs ago though. Is he getting caught up and i’m beating him at his own game or what, I’m so confused he’s such an alien to me!!! He said “CASUAL” and I ran with it! HELP!!!!!!!
October 7th, 2009 at 8:54 pm
Sara i feel like i wrote that myself it is so creepy how much are story are. my ex was exactly to the t like that! an aqua and I am a Cancer woman. soybean you crazy girl! my thought is he has gotten caught up! I put on this ex the same way and he got confused !
October 7th, 2009 at 9:49 pm
To Sarah on May 29th, 2009 at 9:39 pm our story is exactly alike is what i wanted to say! I love and still love him but I had to ended it to because of the alcohol and the verbal abusive behavior was very disresptful and selfish to the core. In the beginning I thought i had really found the one. we talked all the time our intimate life was wonderful! we would go to dinner and hang out at the games,movies and with family and friends.but over time he would go into theses nasty rages or become very childish when he did not get his way. I gave him a lot of space. and I was walking on egg shells all the time because i did not know what potentially was going to set him off. he started plenty of arguments over childish things. I have dated 2 bedroom chemistry magical but outside of that! no i think am going to throw the towel in on aqua! friends and strangers are with them top priority. and they are emotional detached. this one had more pride than a Leo could ever have! (arrogant) with cancer’s family is first and we love romance, and to be cuddled not that we don’t love and respect others but family is First! i’am not clingy i am the first to say i need some alone time.
October 22nd, 2009 at 12:15 pm
I’m a cancer. Dating an aquarius. Even though, we had quite many conflicts. But at the end of the day, no hard feelings. So, i guess we’re doing well. (: Haha
November 1st, 2009 at 7:08 pm
Hey i have a question im a cancer i like an Aquarius she would at first always want to be around me like i noticed she like me by just always wanting to be around me and flirt with me and start conversations with me i was wondering what could be her ascendant sign and also is that a good thing and what should i do first??
November 24th, 2009 at 8:24 pm
Hi Im a Cancer woman and married to an Aquarian Man. I totally disagree with what they said.. We are happily married for 2 yrs and been with him since High School. I would say Im very much happy with him and he is everything to me. Im currently pregnant with our first child and we cant wait to see our own bundle of joy…..
December 4th, 2009 at 5:32 am
I’m a cancer women who dated an aquarius for 2 years!!! The only kind of chemistry we had was friendship. Thats it. We had lots of fun together and had good memories but nothing compared to the passionate love I’ve felt when dating a capricorn (the love of my life), pisces, libra. The Aquarius was not concerned about a future together and I was annoyed by always being the nurturer in the relationship especially when no one was nurturing me. He let me slip away. He was so cool about everything. I always wanted some kind of passion from him. We talked about a future together but there was never any action from his part. I was the only who was worried about our goals and aspirations. He was horrible at saving money and always had some mission in life to solve. NEVER Put together. He was always in his own world and at the time I thought it was awesome because I didn’t have one of those crazy psychopathic jealous boyfriends, but then I started thinking…. I basically have sex with my best friend. We have no chemistry outside of friendship and his sex was the worst. Cancers are original 69 and we’re extremely dominant in bed because we are cardinal signs, the aquarius may have thought of doing creative things in bed from time to time but I felt like I was having sex with family. Maybe thats why they say cancers suck in bed with aquarius’ we need passion in our lives and aquarius’ are detached above all things and emotions/impulsivity/passion they do not show. He did truly and honestly love me more than he’d ever love anyone before because he thought of me as the best thing that ever happened to him. He got way too comfortable in that rutine of having the cancer take care of all his problems. I never minded that responsibility but I always wanted to feel the exact way I would make him feel. I wanted to feel like I was everything to someone not just a wet nap at the end of the day and a best friend to have sex with. Soooooo boring after a while.
Reading all the things above are pretty funny because I read that most of you guys have either just started your relationship and some of you think your cancer is the best thing that has ever happened to you. It’s true we will capture your hearts but let it be known that we are run by our emotions which means we are impulsive and can very well detach our selves from one day to the next. We will put up with as much as we can take. If you can show an equal amount of love and attention the cancer will most def stay. If you become too much of a friend and not much of a lover…. the cancer will get bored and trust me they will impulsively leave.
All in all, I truly did CARE for the aquarius with all my heart. Was it love? No. Even after the break up I was still there trying to be a friend. Cancers love like they want to be loved. They give their all because we need that emotional connectedness with another human being. Sure we’re crazy assholes at times but I promise you, no one will ever love you as intense as we do. So be careful with us, aquarius’. My ex boyfriend till this day is completely infatuated with me and has a girlfriend with a baby on the way lol (typical aquarius) He just couldn’t keep me stimulated enough. He still says I am the keeper to his heart but he has no chance in hell. Aquarius and Cancer make a crazy match. Aquarius was looking to marry a best friend (aka why they are friend whores lol) and Cancer who wants a soulmate ( lover, friend, companion). If both are willing to satisfy each others needs cancer giving aquarius time to be their weird detached self and Aquarius faking it at times and pampering your cancer for a change. The you will have bliss. Give the cancer a little bit of emotion in your life… mad, sad, aggressive, passion, hugs for no reason, flowers just because and you’ll keep us forever. We love novelties and love to be made special just as much as we love to nurture
December 10th, 2009 at 1:33 am
~♥~ I’m A *Aquarius Sun Woman*, Who’s Been Dealing With A *Cancer Man*, Since The Year Of “2001” & It‘s “2009“, LOL. Its More Of A On & Off, Love/Hate Relationship If Anything. I Met Him In High School, We Had Math Class Together, He Followed Me Everywhere, He Got On My Last Nerves, I Did “NOT” Like Him At All At First, And One Day In Front Of The Entire Math Classroom, He Asked Me Out, I Rejected Him. I Thought After That He’d Ignore Me/Move On, But He Still Would Come Around Me. He Graduated In “2002”, His Last Day Of School, He Hugged Me So Tight And Said, “He’d Miss Me”, Deep Down I Always Had A Gut Feeling About Him Like We Were Meant To Be, Despite Me Acting Like I Didn’t Like Him, Mainly Because Of Him Always Smothering Me. Anyways, I Still Had A Year Left Of High School, I Didn’t See Him For While After He Left High School, He Went Off To College. I Graduated In The Year Of “2003”. I Was In Lust With A *Aquarius Guy* At That Time, That Relationship Didn’t Work Out. So, One Day Out Of The Blue In “2004“, *Mr. Persistent Cancer Guy* From High School, Brought My Youngest Brother Home From A HS Football Game, I Hadn’t Seen Him Since His Last Day Of School, He Told My Baby Brother To Tell Me, His Future Wife, He Said, “Hello”. Future Wife??, At That Point I Was Freaked Out, In My Mind, I Was Like, How Does He Keep Finding Me. He Continued Coming To My House After He Found Out Where I Lived, Hanging Out With My Brother’s, Getting To Know My Family. He Just Grew On Me After So Long, I Fell Deeply In Love With Him. Physically I’ve Always Been Attracted To Him, But Other Than The Physical Attraction, I Never Thought There Was Anything Else We Had In Common. It Took Me Until Now To Realize, I Never Gave Him A Fair Chance From Day One, I Regret Being Such A Meany To Him. Throughout The Many Years, We Have Been Popping In And Out Of Each Other Lives. We’re Off Again At The Moment. Last Time I Talked To Him, He Was Nagging/Arguing At Me, Telling Me About How He’s Been Screwed Over By Other Females Over The Years. Asking Me Why Wasn’t I There For Him, Saying I Should Have Been There And I Was No Where To Be Found. Telling Me We Could Have Been Together & Other Females Wouldn‘t Have Had The Chance To Screw Him Over. LMAO, He’s So Freaking Weird, And I Guess That’s Why I’m Attracted To Him Now, We‘re Two Of A Kind.~♥~ I Did Him Wrong, He Done Me Wrong, But We’re Still Unable To Completely Let Go Of Each Other.
~♥~ I Believe The Aquarius/Cancer Relationship Need Lots Of Patience/Time, Love, Respect, And Understanding. Aquarius Women Can Really Learn How To Be More Comfortable With There Feelings Dealing With A Cancer Man. Cancer Men Will Shower Aquarius Women With Love & Care, But She Has To Be Ready To Express Her Self Emotionally More Or Else, She’ll Be Turned Off, By The Cancer Man Sweet, Soft, Caring Approach To Her. I’m Just Learning And Growing. It’s True You Can‘t Truly Love Someone, Until You Love You, So When Someone Worth Loving Comes Alone, You‘ll Know Just What To Do. Maybe One Day, *Me And Mr. Cancer* Can Get Things Right, Or Maybe Someone New Will Come Along, Who Knows??. I Believe Any Couple, Any Zodiac Match Can Work, As Long As Both People In The Relationship Commit To Just Each Other And Want It To Work, Any Relationship Compatible Or Not Compatible According To Astrology, All Got A Equal Chance Of Lasting. The People In The Relationship Just Have To Have Mutable Love, Care, Respect, Common Communication, & Understanding For/With Each Other, It Can’t Be A One Sided Love Thing.~♥~
♥Me (Female): Aquarius Sun/Aries Moon/Capricorn Mercury/Pisces Venus/Pisces Mars/Capricorn Jupiter/Scorpio Saturn/Pisces Lilith/Scorpio Pluto/Sagittarius Uranus♥
♥Him (Male): Cancer Sun/Sagittarius Moon/Leo Mercury/Cancer Venus/Scorpio Mars/Capricorn Jupiter/Scorpio Saturn/Pisces Lilith/Libra Pluto/Sagittarius Uranus♥
December 11th, 2009 at 11:27 pm
ya i agree with lola.
it was amazing in the start every thing was perfect.and i was very happy that i have found my soul mate.as being a Cancerian i am over sensitive and conservative and now he always try to prove that i don’t love him.he is a Aquarius and always ask me to prove my love it seems that he is fed up with me.he has said many times that he wants to end this relation because i don’t love him as much as he do………its wrong……..every time when he try to break up i convince him again and say sorry and sorry with out any mistake………..really worried about this….i don’t want to let him go…i want every thing the way it was before….:-(
December 12th, 2009 at 6:43 am
@Aqua_Lady85
That was a very good story you should write a love novel.
Can you tell me more on his traits and other things.
Here is mines and His.
What you think
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His
Sun Cancer 6.37
Moon Capricorn 3.58
Mercury Cancer 25.07 R
Venus Gemini 17.34 R
Mars Virgo 23.12
Jupiter Virgo 5.37
Saturn Virgo 21.19
Uranus Scorpio 21.55 R
Neptune Sagittarius 20.53 R
Pluto Libra 18.59 R
Lilith Libra 9.27
Asc node Leo
Mines
Sun Aquarius 26.32
Moon Gemini 24.45
Mercury Aquarius 0.24
Venus Aquarius 14.26
Mars Taurus 15.31
Jupiter Taurus 27.13
Saturn Capricorn 10.32
Uranus Capricorn 4.09
Neptune Capricorn 11.31
Pluto Scorpio 15.12
Lilith Libra 0.50
Asc node Pisces 4.52
December 15th, 2009 at 8:40 am
I am an Aquarius girl that has been with my Cancerian guy for almost two years. We’ve hardly had fights and when we have its me who has provoked them; when I’ve had a few drinks and my grossly blunt self comes out, where I put my brick wall up and urge for a fight - because he’s always loving, so very loving and sometimes I want to argue, for some excitement.
The thing is with my Cancer boy, even when I am my crazy blunt self & say provocative things he still loves me and accepts me, he doesn’t ditch me, he instantly forgives me without me having to even say sorry. He is the first guy who I have really been affectionate with - I’ve become totally different in that department, I know I have always been emotional - but somehow I always seemed to repress my emotions or replace them with my “tough girl” syndrome. I have exposed secrets to him that I have never even thought I’d be able to tell any man (lover), things that have happened to me that I am ashamed of, and which I conquered heavy depression over - these things he never bothered him the slightest he still accepts me & shows me the understanding I need.
Maybe he doesn’t give me my Aquarian freedom (which is my restlessness, always change change change) he doesn’t understand my escapism syndrome, which I’ve had all my life - moving, leaving, exploring other countries - one important thing he has given me is this “freedom of my emotional being”. Before him, no matter where I travelled I was always constrained inside, simply because I never let go, and never even knew or wanted to explore my romantic self - why because I thought of it as a ridicule part of life. I have learnt that human nature requires love, and aquarians are human maybe out of this world but deep down they want to experience it even if they don’t like its initial cliched image.
And yes, of course I agree we have our clashes with my man - he is too attached to mummy and I want him to cut the chord with his mother - it drives me insane!!! My parents are my best friends, I love them, but I don’t live my own mothers life and I certainly don’t desire to live his mothers life either, at the moment this is what really bugs me. But I have faith that he will follow me when its time for him to move on - right now we’re in our 20s and still at uni but I notified him when we’re done at uni I’m leaving this town for more adventures and I’m strongly confident that he loves me enough to leave too, but I’m also willing to compromise with him as long as he does as well. I think this match works extremely beautifully - I think the Cancer man can bring the romantic side out of the Aquarian woman that she distastefully represses with anyone else.
It is important to remember it is not all about horoscopes - its about our individual characters, don’t choose someone because of their horoscope - that is a foolish way of thinking and extremely narrow minded. Anyway if you’re a true Aquarian you should see the wide picture - that’s our famous trait!!!
January 10th, 2010 at 6:45 am
Hi read most of your feelings and suggestions… Am an Aquarian girl, planning to marry a Cancer man.. Am scared now after reading all your experiences…
Please let me know your opinion for me to go ahead or not?
January 10th, 2010 at 5:11 pm
I am a divorced cancer man dating an aquarian woman 7 years older than me for a few months now. We have a great relationship and the trick to it and for any relationship to work is to undersrtand the person you are with (be it a person of any horoscope sign). I understand her aloofness, independance, bluntness, insecurities etc etc and am totally fine with it. She understands me wanting to have my own space, clinginess, being boring and can sense my emotional side very well. She (and I) are accomodating in every respect to our emotional and physical needs and communicate well with each other about this. We have similar values, morals and just see things the same way. Not everybody will be compatible and remember that how we behave with our partners is also as a result of exposure to so many factors experienced during our lives (childhood esp!). Understand your partner and if you cannot, move on to the next; not all cancerians are alike and I certainly do not share some of the negative characteristics as described in the narrations above. The same applies to aquarians. Lastly, I dated an aquarian when I was much younger and it didnt work. There are too many variables to consider so if it works, good for you.
ps. I am hindu and she is jewish…so far so good.
January 14th, 2010 at 4:08 am
I’m a cancer dating an aquarious and yes he may want a lot of times with his friends, and I always want to be with him. But he is so honest with me and we’ve been together for 2 years. I don’t think zodiac signs should predict love, its what you feel. And I feel pretty damn good.
January 19th, 2010 at 1:54 am
I agree with Googie when she says “He only wants to possess you and control you. Once he gets what he wants from you……he is a cold fish! ” So true for the Cancer Man.
January 22nd, 2010 at 12:37 am
I am an Aquarius woman who dated a Cancer for almost three year…the first few months it was like a dream, I couldn’t believe how happy I was..Our problems started when my ex cancer could not understand I needed to keep some things to my self, he simply refused, he was very very insecure and doubted every single word that came out of my mouth, he wanted to know everything. Cancers, specially males, will trust you blindly until the day they find out you hide things from them (there are things a woman likes to keep to herself in he secret garden), my ex made my life miserable toward the end although I was faithful like a dog.
January 26th, 2010 at 8:35 pm
I am an aquarius woman married to a cancer. At first our relationship was perfect as we learned about each other but now it is wearing on me. He is not openly emotional like cancers should be. I know he is incredibly emotional and needy but he hides it. Then when I don’t pay attention, or not enough attention to him because I can’t immediately see what he needs we fight. This relationship requires a lot of effort but when it works it is amazing and the best love I have ever had. When it doesn’t work it is horrible and breaks me down.
January 26th, 2010 at 11:12 pm
I’m an Aquarius dating a Cancer… and this is sooo us.
February 2nd, 2010 at 2:50 pm
I am a cancer woman thats been dating an aquarius man for about 2 months and I have been having an amazing time!!! We just recently had a falling out but now we are back to our regular senses and doing good as ever.. I strongly believe that COMMUNICATION and UNDERSTANDING are the main ingredients to making a relationship such as this work.. Our common goal is to make one another happy so if that requires me allowing him the freedom to do him at times then so be it.. I’m older now and do not have the energy to battle, compete, fight, or hold grudges. I can honestly say that although premature, I’m head over heels.. He’s definitely great at expressing his feelings by actions which is what I need at this point in my life.. He is utterly honest and sometimes vaguely verbal but if his approach affects these sensative bones, we talk about it and he assures me that he would never want to hurt my feelings… Don’t get me wrong initially I was skeptical about dating him because I used to be heavily into astrology at one point and read about the unsuccessful mesh of cancer and aquarius and my 6 yr old daughter’s father is an aquarius, we were like oil and water so I was convinced that cancer and aquarius was an unsuccessful couple.. My daughter’s father was self absorbed, emotionally detached, scarred in some sort of way, set in his ways and everyday seemed to be an ongoing battle.. But this aquarian guy I’m dating now is different and definitely a keeper in my eyes thus far!!!
February 4th, 2010 at 12:26 am
im a moon child (cancer)and im with a aquaries.i was real worried about all this sign stuff but i have found out that a wter sign + a air sign= rain and rain = life and my relationship is full of it=}
February 25th, 2010 at 8:34 pm
I agree with what most of the Aquarian women have said about the Cancer men. I too am dating a Cancer man, for about 7 months now. Yes, like some of the other women, it started out great. Fun loving, happy, light hearted. We couldnt seem to get enough of each other. But after about 8-10 weeks in, it all started to change. The neediness became to much. The jealousy and control started to enter into the picture. I am to the point now that I feel so smothered…from the bedroom, to the kitchen, to family, to just plain wanting to put 3 rooms inbetween us at all times. And one of the previous posters put it so eloquently…if I have to FEEL one more of his FEELINGS, I will scream!!! This man is the most emotionally draining human being. Like today, I have no emotions….nothing left to feel. I am drained. I have been “trying” to break it off for the last 3 months….all to no avail. Another poster stated that they just “wont leave”. This is true too. Everytime I think its over, he comes back and is begging, crying, professing undying love, threatening, crying, moping, oh…and did I mention crying?? I knew from the beginning that this relationship probably wouldnt work. Why did I enter into it? Another poster said, “ask a Cancer” lol. I wasnt sure how much faith to put into astrology, but after reading everything I can get my hands on about Cancers, ….BELIEVE!!!!!!! This Cancer will literally beg me to tell him nice things on a daily basis. Constantly wanting me to reafirm my love for him. My want of him, and most of all my need for him….BLECH! Im sick to death of it. Truth is, if he would just allow me to be myself, and stop all this sappy, controlling, “scorned woman” crap, we could possibly work! We have had the SAME conversations about his NEEDS for the last 2 months, so much so , I can repeat the lines word for word. One word for all you Aquarians who think this is going to work….RUN!!!!!!!!
March 9th, 2010 at 10:14 am
I am an cancer guy and my girl friend is an acquarius, what i feel is cancer is very sensitive and caring, gives protection and has intense feelings, acquarius is intelligent but needs lots of space and freedom. Whenever i used to express my feelings she would laugh it out, they like short and sweet and cancerians like long explanations , if this trait is corrected a lot can be adjusted.
So also cancerians express affections, they need hugs, kisses, holdings, but acquarius doesnt like too long hugs or intimacy, but they are caring in their own way, yes, after few years, when we did have sex we ended up being more known to each other thats when the tough time started, i needed the affection feelings, and she never expressed, she did care but had her own way, thats when i felt she was more mentally strong and me being a cancerian was a heart man, so if i was submissive she would listen, she wanted to tell all… sometimes this would not be liked by a cancerian but those words were practicle depending on the situation i realised it slowly that she was very practicle were as i used to react as per the moods . I do give her the appreciation for that. However basically cancerians like intimacy and acquarius dont like too intimacy, cancerians like to be at home, like sex, are emotional, but acqurius are independent, always moving, have lots of friends. Cancerian like me used to fight with her over her other boy friends, she would then keep quite for many days, and say that i am different, this used to hurt me, she thought i doubted her, but my concern was insecure feeling of loosing her, she would be eccentric sometimes, keep quite and be silent but then all of a sudden she comes back with full vigour and charm and floors me. Yes, for a cancerian man detached perosn like acuqrian is a challenge, but if one loves sincerely then adjusments are necessary in any realtionships… above all always remember an acquarian girl/guy thinks mentally try to match them mentally to some extent ie, be aware of latest infos, books, writings etc.. While writing this my girlfriend hasnt written to me or contacted me since a week. I have sent her a loving card , but i dont know maybe she may respond …. but yes she does say i am needy, clingy and jealous, i told her to accept those traits and lets love each other respect each other as we are….
March 16th, 2010 at 3:36 pm
Well, you have summed it up in a nutshell. We cannot seem to find any mutual ground. This past weekend was better, but he has issues with me showing my cat of 13 yrs affection and not him. Meaning, I am to show him affection 24-7 and no one else or anything else. The only thing that seems good about our relationship is the sex when we arent fighting. Other than that, we fight, argue, give the silent treatment, etc. You cancer men are soooo needy. I literally have to be touching this man at all times. It drives me insane. I love him, but I am smothering. He only see’s his side. He only see’s his needs. We cannot see eye to eye on anything. And you are right “Christine” when you say we Aquarians need mental stimulation. I need intelligent conversation. There is only so much I can talk about, express, show, give love, affection and sex. Mentally I think Im bored. I think thats why we Aquarians need lots of friends.
March 17th, 2010 at 4:44 pm
It’s nice to hear from couples (preferrably married) who have at least 5 years experience under their belts to speak about. Everything is peaches when you just start dating, even when your engaged. I am an aquarius who married a Pisces (fail) and a Scorpio (2nd fail). Unfortunately, I am just looking into the astrological compatability factor. I’ve been very, very happily married to my Libra (who happens to be my perfect romance match) for 5 years now. I’d never want to go back because I am soooo happy, but I do wonder if a couple does their research and learns where the problem spots are going to be, wouldn’t they be aware and be able to keep it together? Think it’s great that the new couples are researching. It gives them a better chance. Still, I’d like to hear from the more seasoned couples to find out if they could make it work.
March 26th, 2010 at 10:12 pm
Hi everybody, im a Libra man,I dont wanna say that Aquas and Cancers are not compatible, but I’ve just read 35 comments ,so as i see mostly NEW STARTERS(aquas-cancers) truly love each other, but i also see that all excouples(90%) who had LONG TERM relationship, they’re saying that they couldnt make it,it didnt work, its fact, they saiyn that cancers like to control aquas who dont like being in control, they always want to be in freedom, that means community,but cancers are jealous, their Love is open, they love everything, whole life, their IQ is high, but the cancers are not on that IQ-level,(its fact) i know lot of cancers, librans, my brother is cancer, i truly love him, respect him as a older brother, my mom always used to have problems with my brother, wasting a money, always running from the house, and always wants to control, always thinks that he’s right, likes to drink and a Perfect LiaR, (i know we all lie “sometimes”), but no matter what I love him, hes my brother anyways, Good side is his KINDNESS, GENEROUS , he’s always ready to help, have good sense of humor! Now Im helpin him with the money ,with the job. Anyways we are all not perfect, but… Librans always on the way to the perfectness, nobody is never gonna be perfect, but I always keep tryin.
Ok, so the reason that im learning about Aqua-cancer relationship is, because I FELL IN LOVE with the AQUARIUS girl, who is in relationship with the Cancer, and I see that Cancer boy is always trying to be close to her,which annoys her, talkin about silly things , that embaresses her. I didnt want to cause any problem, thats why i was in distance, I dont know what but felt something passed between us, and she was always lookin at me, tryin to make conversation, and ofcourse if we’re startin conversation, nobody couldn’t stop us , when im close to her I feel that I’m … Complete! And i truly believe and see, that so does she, we’re not talking about simple questions, more like spiritual, about whole life, that simply people dont even think about! We always feel excited about our conversations, and i feel like that pieces him off, and he’s always tryin to take out her attention from me, but doesnt really care ,me too, thats why I forget about it, continue our conversation. I wasnt tryin to break them up, but I see she is not Happy with him,may be he is. All that happened in one restaurant, she was a hostess, he was a waiter, i was just a friend of one girl hwo was workin there, i always come there after work, just for chillin, Now they are not workin there, they got fired because of her boyfriends bad atitude, and plus he stole money from the cash register computer. But she was best and loyal worker, that was almost 2 month ago, after that felt bad , still cant put things in a right order, still thinking of her , before i didnt believe for that horoscopes or astrology, but know copletely changed my mind! All about Libra and Aquas are true, at least 90 percent. Cause when i was a kid, i had a girlfriend , she was aqua, and we were like brother and sister, i loved her so much, then my parents had to move to the south , so i lost a contact.
Now that couple are going to marry , in a 4 month, their parents and they all live together, in one house.(((((
Oh yeah, whats interesting, that i found a little poem on her desk in front of the door, where she used to stand, and meet the guests, it is a short but beatiful poem, i took it , still have it, she didnt write a name who she was writingg for, Its in Russian, cause we’re from russia, So it was kinda like that(straight translation):
I always tryin to find a word
To make conversation with you,
Every time when i seed u,
I want to deeply fall into your fairytale(means wonderful) eyes…
(Its beatiful russian language)
So i dont know what to do, i feel like im lost,
So Aquarians , can u guys give me advise!
Thanks you!
March 27th, 2010 at 5:04 am
@Scarlet Moon Can you tell me more about your Cancer do like what do you guys talk that you want to talk about, @Ashley Also I would love to know about your new husband.
Love your comments.
March 27th, 2010 at 5:09 am
Christian I feel you what can Aquarius woman like me do to help you cancer men to understand you guys.
March 27th, 2010 at 5:11 am
@Scarlet can you please go into details about your Cancer men like what did he want to talk about, @Ashley please tell me more about your new husband how is this a great match, I’m happy for you.
April 7th, 2010 at 11:50 pm
I’m in a relationship with a Cancer man and find that he is emotional and a mommas boy. It bothers me at times but I know how caring he is so i choose to overlook the annoying habits. One thing that I can’t stand is getting him to UNDERSTAND things. I have to repeat myself again and again and it drives me insane. I really do love him therefore trying to learn to be patient. I do agree that he has taught me to be more affectionate. I write loving text messages and send him surprises in the mail to let him know that I am thinking of him. (we are in a long-distance relationship and getting married soon). I don’t see any signs of jealousy yet nor do I see him controlling my independence. I wanted to know…what exactly do Cancer guys want in terms of affection? In what ways should a woman show her affection?
Read more: Aquarius Compatibility With Cancer 2009
May 16th, 2010 at 8:36 pm
hi, i’m a cancer lady and i really like an aquarius man. he seems to not like me at all because every time i get near him, he tenses up and starts to breathe heavily and i really think he hates me…
there’s a frown on his face and he looks like he wants to punch me. i don’t know what i’m doing wrong. (i kind of think that he knows i like him). can someone please help me figure out what to do for him and i to be friends? please? he doesn’t talk to me so i don’t talk to him because i think he really hates me. i think that if i don’t talk to him, that might please him so he feels like he’s left alone to do what he wants. i hope i could figure out why he is frustrated everytime i’m around or try to talk to him. please someone help me? 
thanks.
May 24th, 2010 at 11:35 pm
Hi Brittany,
I am an aquarius (woman). I just wanted to let you know that usually aquarius guys are not bad, just a little different. I would ask him a question about something or for his help and see how he responds. Personally i love helping people, so i love when someone asks me questions. Maybe this will work with your guy. Best of luck
June 8th, 2010 at 9:10 pm
In regards to Love Aquarius….there has been no intelligent stimulating conversation. World affairs, travel, history, books, nothing! It has to all be about love, love, love….yes, love is important, but it doesnt mean everything. It is finally over. We have been in the process of breaking up seriously for several weeks now. But it is over. I hope that soon I can express my natural freedom, to explore, have friends and family, to have quiet time and read, meditate, and just be. The freedom to love my animals again, because it has been all about him. I will miss the good times when it was good. But for the most part, it was bad. Cancers need someone who is all about them, all the time. With no outside interests, no friends, and no family. If you are dating or about to marry a cancer, please make sure it is love and not lust. Cancers are wonderful lovers and sometimes you can confuse the two. I think I did.
August 8th, 2010 at 3:31 pm
its not that us cancers go looking for the aqua signs, you guys always find us… us cancer are not evil being trying to control any signs. if you do some more research we are far from controlling. now it all depends on the environment that everyone is exposed to.
September 9th, 2010 at 11:49 pm
I’m an aquarius girl dating a cancer man. We have only been “dating” for a few months and I already feel as though we are meant for eachother. I think that maybe I am not as aloof and cool as an aquarius is expected to be. I love that he is sensitive, caring, and old fashioned. It could be because I am ready to settle down. He has not been possessive or needy… yet. Also, he is very intelligent and I am also attracted to him because of this. I hope that I’m not over looking his faults because he is smokin hot, lol. So far the problem I have with him is that I feel like I’m putting forth most of the effort to talk. I know that he likes me because he tells me so. He says he can’t stop thinking about me. He say’s that he thinks that I am amazing. The problem is that we both have different schedules and this is long distance. So it’s hard to spend time together. I anna make it work… any suggestions?
October 1st, 2010 at 7:40 am
It’s funny that I am reading so much about how cancers are perceived to be the ones as ‘controlling.’ I honestly feel that is stemming from projection, as I am a cancer, deeply self-reflective and in touch with myself; however, psychology cannot be limited merely to astrology, I suppose. I’ve had many experiences with Aquarius men being controlling, which is what led me to this website.
They try to tell me what to do, and I resist and distant myself by ignoring them, they in turn become defensive or all the more insistent. I’m a cancer woman, born the week of the unconventional, and I don’t consider myself ‘traditional’ the least bit. This is why I think Aquarius men are drawn to me. Why they consistently try to get under my skin, rather ’shell’, I’ve yet to figure out…But nevertheless, I appreciate their unconventionality and quirkiness.
October 6th, 2010 at 5:08 am
Hi, I’m a Cancer male and i’m dating and Aquarius female named Jade, I’ve been dating her for about 2 months and she already means the world to me however, her need for alone time has lead to some misunderstandings and such. I really just want to be with her alone from the rest of the world and I want to do those bedroom things, as i’m completely comfortable with it. She is Christian though and wants to wait, and she didn’t tell me that she wanted to wait until about a month after we’ve been dating, after I’ve already touched her down there (not sex!) and she seems like she doesn’t want to be alone anymore, I feel like she doesn’t trust me to keep my hands to myself, and I’ve tried discussing sex and stuff with her and it only seems to make it worse because she accuses me of trying to get with her like that, I feel as though i’m fully capable of waiting however long it takes for her to be ready to do those kinds of things, even until marriage, I’ve told her this but i’m not sure if this is just a bad mood she sometimes goes through. Any advice from Aquarius girls and others?
October 6th, 2010 at 5:16 pm
@ Syrym : Hi. I’m an aquarian girl and I can understand the mental attraction between Libra and Aqua… from what u told us, it’s obviuos that she liked to be with u… maybe your aqua girl didn’t love her Cancer anymore, but she was feeling guilty to leave the clingy cancerian bf…and… there is also the physical attraction between aquarians and cancerians, maybe she felt good with him only in bed… so take all these aspects into consideration… but 1 thing is surely true: we aquarians love at first mentally!!! here is your previlige I think
November 4th, 2010 at 3:02 am
gosh guys i want to read the comments but it will take me all night :]
im an aquarius and i like this cancer guy but i am not so sure if he likes me he always acts like sometimes so mean but at times he seems so nice and caring idk what to think
the worst part is there is another guy that i like that is cancer but i know himk more beacause we went to the same middle school and i know that he is very nice and caring so i like him musch more than the othere guy way more if i had to choose between them definetely the 2nd one
December 12th, 2010 at 5:30 am
Hey!
I’m Mike the aquarius.
… to Able’s comment up there: dude your name is able of course it will work lol.
As for me, we are going to start dating soon, there’s one thing you missed, both aquarius and cancer are very ACCEPTING: therefore it will work better than most
Well peace out
Mike
December 23rd, 2010 at 12:53 am
hi im aquarious and iv been going out with a cancer. he always tell me he loves me- hes very sweet and loving and i want to know if there is a future between us..? i care for him a lot and i think he might be in love with me :S
January 13th, 2011 at 5:59 pm
i am dating my girlfriend which is an Aquarius for 2 years now and we are madly in love still. of course i am a cancer man and i think that our two signs complete each other.
January 14th, 2011 at 7:22 pm
i have to say that i’ve been dating an aquarius guy for almost 3 years now! sure we may be different in personalities, but we love each other and are working it out. astrologers say that we’re not destined to have a long-term relationship. well take that science!
we’re working together. if that counts for anything, then that’s all that matters!
January 18th, 2011 at 7:54 pm
Cancer guys are really great guys to have has friends.they are really funny n great to hangout with….I am an Aquarius girl who is currently dating a cancer guy….he’s very shy soo I gotta be the party starter which I don’t mind…..cancer men re great I hope my relationship works
January 18th, 2011 at 7:57 pm
omg aquarius and cancer in my experience…do not work
im a 20 year old cancer girl & i love aquarians so much and they fascinate me….with my moon in offbeat sagittarius..i thought maybe i could cope with being with an aquarian(moon in libra btw= very airy =/) but i was wrong 
please correct me if im mistaken but this is how i see it. in short: AQUARIANS DONT GIVE A SHIT AND ALL CANCERS DO 24/7 IS CARE ALL THE TIME…! we care about ourselves what people think of us..we care about our loved ones..we care about loads and loads of things…aquarians just dont care. they like to have friends..they like all their friends equally…but they’re totaly logical..there is no logic in caring what others think about them. THEY DONT CARE THAT WE CARE ABOUT THEM AND IM SURE THEY LIKE YOUR COMPANY BUT THEY DONT REALLY CARE LOL. they are lone wolfs…at the end of the day. they have little emotion…unles they have moon in cancer or something…they cant be dealing with cancers suffocating emotions and moods 
i learnt the hard way….6 months..off and on like taps…the most dreaful relationship ive ever had. we liked the sex…i loved to please him and he liked it cos i would do all the weird stuff he wanted me to do for him lol…but its not enough. he didnt care. he was late all the time, unreliable…hed never cheat…but..when we were out hed be like why are u hugging me u dnt have to show we’re in a relationship…he loved to socialise..i was always the tag along…but i wanted to be his number one cos i made him my number one
he ask me why dont u go off and dance…but all i wanted was to be with him 
i drove him away. oh ive driven him so so far away lol…i think hes moved country
poor man lol. broke up..cos i wasnt happy and fufilled. but then i missed him..and he being so laid back..hed take me back. big mistake 
aquarians are wonderful people..funny..intelligent..get on with everyone..but for relationships..u need a nice detatched gemini or an quirky saggitarius….maybe an aries…..cancer…please no. leave me alone aquarian men lol..ur always attracted to me and i to you..but we both wont able to deal with it! lol xxx
January 23rd, 2011 at 1:48 am
Well the relationship could work out in case of cancer and aquarius, but you have to put really a lot of effort in to it. I’m a cancer and my girlfriend is an aquarius, and i always have the feeling that i miss her and want to meet her more often, but it seems that she is just fine with meeting me maybe once in a week, i really try to suppress and hold my emotions just to myself and its really hard for me. I cant tell her any of this cause I am afraid that she just won’t understand me. Also worth mentioning that we are dating for about 6 months. Emotions are just driving me nuts. Would it be easier just to let her go, would she even care?
January 25th, 2011 at 5:25 pm
Im an aquarian im dating a cancerian guy for the past two years and it has been a roller coaster ride…. mood swings on both ends… jealousy misunderstandings and fights but it all came down to one kiss and that solved all… it still does. I was dating somebody else when i fell for him. I fell in love and couldn’t stop thinking how it’d be like being with him i couldn’t stop thinking about him. when we started dating there was just so much emotions that i couldn’t handle it and the aquarian aloofness came about. but things panned out and we got to know a lot about each other and we started understanding a lot although im still the crazy aquarian self… we are trying to convince our respective family to figure out a way to be with each other inspite the differences… so horoscope or not if two people wanna be with each other they’ll make it work…. And the kiss still works
February 7th, 2011 at 1:03 am
I’m an aquarius woman (scorpio moon) and my close friend is cancer (pisces moon). We are very good friends and work together, but we have a pretty big age difference and we are afraid to really start going out because our families and friends may go a little crazy if they find out we like each other. He is about twice my age and his kids are actually older than me. Also, he is my manager’s manager. But aside from that we get along great - we joke around all the time, we sneak out to the movies, he makes me cake for my birthday. He is a great friend. My best friend says we should give each other a break so that he can start dating women his own age, but we really like hanging out together and i think as long as his kids or my family don’t find out, maybe we’ll try a relationship for real. His age doesn’t bother me at all - he has a very young, innocent heart
February 12th, 2011 at 11:36 pm
i am a cancer and i’ve liked this guy (he’s an aquarius)for like 6 months now. we AWLAYSSSS talk and hangout and even though he denies that he has a girlfriend i know for a fact that he does(they’ve been on and off for 2 yrs. he’s cheated on his gf with me many many times and he acts like he cares about me and i believe that somewhere deep inside of him that he truly does. anyway, compatibility wise i think a cancer and an aquarius make a pretty good match…just as long as they’re both willing to try and make it work. im my situation i dont know if it’ll work..unless of course he is willing to leave his girlfriend(which obviously he doesnt care about anymore since he practically cheats on her everyday!!!) and change. it would be etremely difficult (trust wise) t first but i think that me and him could make it work. oh and im not 100% sure right now but im pretty positive that im pregnant….by him! crazy right?!
February 19th, 2011 at 1:34 pm
Hi, my name is Erin.
Anyway… I’m single; I know my most compatible signs, and I know Cancer is not one of them.
I am an aquarius woman. Very smart, but very ‘in space’, of course, as an aquarius, I like it out there :)!!!
The problem is… the one guy that is pursuing me… and seems to have some of the good qualities that I’m looking for in a husband… i.e. a good home-life, steady job, and respectful…. is a Cancer!!!
We have only been talking and texting for a couple weeks, and he lives a few states away, so we’ve not met yet, but I’m telling you… I’m a NERVOUS WRECK!!! Ever since I read all of the info about compatibility or lack thereof about the two signs, I cannot stop thinking about it. I like things to ‘just work’… and although I think I could deal with ‘Cancer’… I’m worried that if he found out how ‘crazy’ I really am, he would hate me. I don’t care about the possessiveness if it happens, because I’m not stupid, and I know no one REALLY controls me, but me, so I know that if he seems possessive it’s probably because he misses me or needs more ‘us’ time.
BECKY, can you give me some wisdom toward that. Like I said, I’m very in-tune with the spiritual world, and I hate to go against stars/fate/etc. But then again…. Romeo and Juliet were ’star-crossed’ right?
Anyway, well blessings to all of you who inspire me via your positive stories. PLEASE keep them coming… I will.
But as I said, if you could share some wisdom Becky, I’d be greatly appreciative.
GRAZIE!
Erin
February 19th, 2011 at 1:37 pm
One more thing!!!! My moon is in Cancer… (I don’t know his chart)…
Does this Bode well for us, or Worse???
HELP BECKY!!!
February 19th, 2011 at 1:48 pm
Ok Becky, forget what I just said… I just found out:
both signs NOT compatible with aquarius 
I’m Aquarius sun with Moon in Virgo
He is Cancer sun with Mood in Taurus
hahah Cancer and Taurus!!! Great!
Becky,
WHAT, do you think!!!
Thanks!
Erin
February 23rd, 2011 at 5:50 pm
I am an aquarius woman that was dating a cancer man. and boy, was it hard! yes, i had a hard time talking to him about my feelings, but here’s the deal: to really talk about stuff like that, i have to feel safe and secure. but yet, every time i opened my mouth, he’d be all snippy or rude, which of course did not make me feel safe at all. it’s funny, because i really care about him, and i know he really cares about me. but i just don’t think it’s going to work out. i think i’m too sensitive, and he’s too confrontational.
April 6th, 2011 at 4:11 pm
I’m an Aquarius female and have been in a relationship with my Cancer-Leo boyfriend/best friend for nearly four great years. Yes there are ups and downs, like any other relationship, but I find the loyalty, sincerity, sensitivity, and deep emotional attachments(so very different from my own)beautiful. We learn so many things from each other, and although we do not have much of anything in common, it makes for an interesting (definitely never dull) relationship and. I believe that challenge expected with this match is worth it.
April 15th, 2011 at 2:11 am
Hi, I’m a teenaged girl Aquarius. I take theatre and there’s a boy I really like. He’s a Cancer and I immediatley liked him and we hit it off right away. Usually with guys I’m pretty mean because they end up liking me if Im nice and I hate touching. But he HATES being touched and that makes me feel good about the relationship. Whenever I’m with him alone, we have the greatest conversations. Would dating EVER work?
April 21st, 2011 at 8:35 am
Im aquarious and she was a cancer and for me being usto always being alone i pushed her away by acting like didnt care… She said she hates me and never wants to speak to me again .. Idk if i should leave her alone?
May 8th, 2011 at 10:23 pm
im a cancer and my boyfriend is an aquarius. weve been together for almost 15 months. the only reason weve lasted this long is because of me. i understand that i am emotional and tend to over think things but its not something i do on purpose. i care about him so much and i wish that he SHOW tha the cares about me the same way. i know that he loves me, he’s made it clear to me several times. he told me that hes not great at saying how he feels hes better at showing it which is completely true but sometimes..hes not that great at showing it either. i startd looking up all this horoscope crap up and now i cant sotp looking at it~!lol
me and my guy are so perfect together and i loveeeee being around him but at other times hes a total emotionaless douche. the relationship was really great at the beginning…like PERFECT!lol hed show me that he cared alllll the time, he’d tell me, he’d hug/kiss me in public. but we got into a little clash about 6 months into the relationship and ever since then it just hasnt been the same. we argue alottt and mostly because of me feeling like he doesnt care. he tells me he does all the time but idk , i jst dont believe it anymore. now..he doesnt evn want to claim me as his girlfriend, he tells me he doesnt want commitment but he still wants me to be with him, he gets jealous easily. . when i distance myself from him, he wants to be around me alllll the time. calling like 3 times a day, constant hugs,etc. . hes a walking contradiction! I DONT UNDERSTANDDD WHAT HE WANTS@!!!! and when i cut off the relationship (which has happened several times) he all of a sudden wants to be the best boyfriend ever and all of a sudden starts giving a shit about me. i just want him to make up his mind..so that i dont have to go through the emotional roller coaster ride of him trying to figure his shit out…ugh. i love him i lov ehim i love him but hes killing me. wwe have the best time together when its just me and him and when were hanging out, hes the closest friend i have and all we ever do is laugh. but when we argue which is mostly through texting, hes a complete dick!! im going to start avoiding aquarius’s from now on!. after i find the balls to end it with my love now ): ugh.
July 13th, 2011 at 5:31 am
i am an aquarian female just starting to date a cancer man. this is the first cancer that i have ever dated, so when I started looking to see how compatitable we are, all I was finding was how the relationship would be “doomed”. Needless to say it worried me because I have feelings for this man and I really want this to work. I am a flight person, but I wouldn’t say that I am detached from my feelings. However, he is more emotional than I am, but because I enjoy communication, I do not mind talking with him about his feelings, and thats only if he is willing to admit them. I do believe that this relationship will work out for the best, and reading the testimonies of thoses in successful Aquarian/Cancer relationships, it gives me even more hope!
**all smiles**
July 13th, 2011 at 5:32 am
i am an aquarian female just starting to date a cancer man. this is the first cancer that i have ever dated, so when I started looking to see how compatitable we are, all I was finding was how the relationship would be “doomed”. Needless to say it worried me because I have feelings for this man and I really want this to work. I am a flight person, but I wouldn’t say that I am detached from my feelings. However, he is more emotional than I am, but because I enjoy communication, I do not mind talking with him about his feelings, and thats only if he is willing to admit them. I do believe that this relationship will work out for the best, and reading the testimonies of thoses in successful Aquarian/Cancer relationships, it gives me even more hope!
**all smiles** The one thing that does worry me is the fact that I love being out and having fun and that he will want to spend lots of time around me. I do not mind that, don’t get me wrong, but I am the type of person where I need my space for my own sanity. I believe that we would be able to work through those issues and make our relationship last for the long haul…or at least I’m hoping.
September 4th, 2011 at 6:14 pm
Well. For a long time, I’ve dated/been engaged to/ a cancer man. I’m only 18 years old, and he is 19. He’s in a wheelchair, is german, and was born albino. You know what? I don’t care. I don’t judge. I’m a true Aquarius, and I like it that way. We fit together so perfectly, until he couldn’t understand why I was always with him, then went off on my own. I tried to explain to him why I was doing that, (Only because I need my space) and automatically, like the sweet cancer he is, he started worrying that he was losing me because he was unsure of why I need my space. Poor Alex, he worried so much. But together, we were unstoppable. And there’s one thing in the profile that doesn’t describe me. Sadly, in all ways, I’m the jealous type… But that’s always half good, I suppose, because that means I won’t let anyone take my special someone away from me. I have to admit, I’m needy and I want and need love 24/7, only because I’ve been betrayed so much in my life, that I’m always worried about whether I’m going to be betrayed again. I’m not really a risk-taker, but when I take risks, they’re big ones. Alex and I have broken up, and now I’m with a very sweet Sagittarius. I love him, and he gives me all the love I want and need. So to those out there having a tough time with love, don’t give up. There’s always someone out there for you.
September 26th, 2011 at 3:45 pm
This is just not the case I am Aquarius it makes me sound like I have a rock for a heart. I am very caring and sensitive and display I care often. My Cancer mate however is the one who is aloof emotionally. Not open and this tender heart that is written here at all……
March 4th, 2012 at 10:39 pm
Cancer gal with a 1 1/2 younger aquarious man! i feel like i made the biggest mistake ever. he wants control over everything and thinks that he can say whatever he wants.
i can’t stand him and read to leave him