Aquarius Compatibility With Aquarius |
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Aquarius and Aquarius
This could be a great love, or it could be a complete disaster right from the start. When these two get together the world looks on in utter confusion and amazement, I mean, one Aquarius is odd enough, but a pair of them!! Very interesting, maybe they could start a revolution, maybe, if they got round to it. These are the most free spirited of all signs, so airy infact it can become fiery.
Arguments will ensue with this pair due to their need to both be brilliant and the best at everything. They will quickly bring out the competitive streaks in one another and try and out do one another whenever they get the chance. Fun, yet tiring after a while I would imagine. Every double Aquarius couple I have known have never lasted long, they seem to burn out, or maybe it’s the fact that they can see their own faults in the other and this drives them to distraction as they like to think of themselves as pretty perfect!
However, my belief is that they actually need someone in love who is different to them. They need affection and to be cared for, they just don’t realise it. Often when they are in a relationship they are so busy being independent and doing there own thing that they forget to have a ‘relationship’ at all! You see the Aquarius often makes a terrific friend and a lousy lover. I have known several people of this sign who were the best of friends then got into a relationship with one another, and saw less of each other than when they were just friends. Crazy really, but that’s the Aquarius for you.
These two will certainly raise eyebrows and have a lot of fun, sexually as well, it proves to be very interesting, and goodness knows what they will get up too! It’s whether they can spare the time for each other, that’s the question.
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January 5th, 2010 at 11:03 pm
My my my. Well im a fellow aqua and i dated an aqua male for a short time. After starting off as a really nice man i felt at ease around him and it was amazing, when we wre together it was felt as if we were living on our own planet in a time ahead of the rest. It wasnt long till he turned out a complete psycho! All aqua men my friends have been with seemed to of had psyco idiocracies. But as an aqua i dont hold that against all aqua men.
January 22nd, 2010 at 10:22 pm
My parents are two aquarians, feb 5th my mom and feb 10th my Dad and they are MISERABLE, he has cheated on her and is cold manipulative and mean!
May 4th, 2010 at 1:57 am
I’m sorry because I’m not a Aquarius but I have to say it seems like Aquarius men are the worst men to be with and give other Aquarius and this sign a bad name. Not to be mean but from all the comments I’ve read on so many websites about them. I’ve read a lot about Aquarius men would leave you if they got you pregnant. They would cheat on you with their friends who are girls. hey have the bad habit of disappearing or leaving with out telling you or even contacting you for weeks or months. Also Aquarius men hate to be a father and hate to get married,two things they know for a fact would take away their freedom.Websites say Aquarius love match is Libra. Also,Gemini and Sagittarius can be with Aquarius likely as lovers(because they are some what similar to Libra)but most likely as best friends. To me no one can get along with the same sign as them or the opposite of their sign for some,but not for all.Some people can make it work,but others can’t make it work.
November 2nd, 2010 at 4:59 pm
IF YOUR THINKING OF DATING AN AQUA MALE.. ENTER AT YOUR OWN EMOTIONAL RISK
I AM A FEMALE (SAG) DEC 4 HE MALE AQUA JAN 20
MARRIED AN AQUA, THE BEGINING WAS GREAT ! COOL CONVO SUPER CHILL LAID BACK.. BUT YOU KIND OF GET SICK OF THEM NEVER CALLING YOU, STAYING AWAY FOR MONTHS THEN CALING YOU OUT OF THE BLUE EXPECTING YOU TO CHANGE YOUR LIFE FOR THEM, BECAUSE THEY REMEMBER U EXIST AFTER STAYING AWAY FOR MONTHS.. HAVING SEX WITH YOU THEN NEVER ATTEMP TO CALL YOU OR UNTIL THEY WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU AGAIN… WANT TO SHOW YOU OFF TH THEIR FRIENDS , JUST TO SHOW THAT THEY HAVE A PRETTY WIFE.. THEN TREAT YOU LIC TRACH.. THEY ARE NEVER WRONG.. THEY ARE ALWAYS THE VICTIM.. RESPECT NO BOUNDARY YOU SET .. ALWAYS LIKE TO BE IN CONTROL… LIARS LIARS LIARS.. CHEATERS… WHEN THEY CHEAT THEY LIKE TO TELL YOU WHAT THEY DONT LIKE ABOUT YOU.. THEN FINALLY WHEN YOU SEE THAT AS A FEMALE YOU CANT CHANGE AND LOVE THESE PEOPLE THEN THEY DEVELOPE THESE EMOTIONS ..IM SO SORRY I LOVE YOU SO MUCH ILL CHANGE FOR YOU.. U FALL FOR IT 4 MONTHS LATER SAME SHI***… BEEN MARRIED 3 YEARS NEVER TRUSTED TO LIVE WITH HIM.. THEY WILL STEAL.. U ARE JUST A DUMB PAWN IN THEIR GAME.. I THINK SATAN CREATED THE MEN… I LEARNED NEVER TO DEAL WITH THESE FOLK… DATE AT YOUR OWN RISK.. BLESSINGS..
January 18th, 2011 at 1:08 am
I’m 13, almost 14. I was born February 15th at night. I think I love my friend, who is about day older than me, being a Valentine’s Day baby born in the morning. He’s one of my best friends and is always kind and well mannered. He’s dependable and, without him, I don’t know what I would do. He’s somewhat like my pillar of strength. Even though I’m an Aquarius, I’m often considered childish. This may be due in part to my physical appearance (I’m 5′1.5″ and somewhat small) while my friend towers over me, being slightly over half a foot taller than me. When I feel like falling apart, he pulls me together in the most sensitive way possible. He’s always concerned about me and my safety (me being a klutz who tends to trip over her own feet).
My friend and I both Chinese and take pride in being oxes- we’re both quite stubborn - by the way, I disagree that oxes should stay away from the city- I have no idea how either one of us, along with our whole grade, would survive being more than two hours (or less) away from one of the largest metropolitan areas in the world- NYC. We all crave academic competition and probably would die of boredom without Manhattan.
I don’t know about being in a relationship, but as friends, there’s a certain warmth that seems as though it’ll last forever, a bond that I hope will never be severed.
I move a lot (within NYC) and I don’t often stay in the same school, usually moving to drastically different school zones every year or so. However, I was in the same class as said friend for two years. Then I moved again and we didn’t see each other for a year, not that I really minded that much, because I thought he was funny and cute (we sat next to each other in science for a year and had really interesting debates and conversations), but I wasn’t one of his best friends.
When I tested into a school by a competitive examination (a school that allows any student who passes the exam to attend, so long as he/she resides within NYC), I was ecstatic when I found out he was also admitted (he’s undeniably somewhat smarter than me, both of us being stronger in English and humanities than mathematics and sciences). In fact, his intelligence is one of the things I love about him. Though we weren’t in the same class, circumstances led us to be closer and we became the close friends we are today.
We now live in around the same area and we commute together. Our close friends, both guys (the four of us often eat lunch and go home together) routinely jokingly pick on me and the friend I like/love comes to my defense. I’ve become somewhat physically clingier (hugging him more, often reflexively) and he always pushes me away gently. He does tease me every now an then and gets me a bit frustrated (he has asked me -hypothetically- if I’d rather have a kid with him at my age now or never have kids & if I’d rather have my first kiss with him, or our other friends), but then again, life wouldn’t be the way it’s supposed to be if he didn’t.
There have been some awkward moments when I have been thoroughly embarrassed because I have no idea if he likes me. I think it goes somewhat both ways, but I think I have it worse. In fact, his older sister almost found out I like him!
I love feeling safe, yet at the same time, I also love the thrill I get from hanging out with my friends. We have a lot of morals drilled into us by our Asian parents (no drinking, no smoking-I have asthma anyways-, study well, etc…). I don’t often get to do things on my own because of my parents excessively worry. However, the four of us (my friends and I) go to Central Park on days we have no homework to do during lunch. I feel so free! I climb 20ft+ trees and steep rocks, I trek across semi-frozen ponds/rivulets, and I run like the wind, all with a heavy backpack on me. It’s the closest I get to nature and freedom (except for maybe the annual school Spirit Day trip to Bear Mt.). When I do things like climb trees and walk across thin ice, I worry him, but I feel protected when he’s near me.
The thing is that I feel like I want to stay with him forever, to always have him by my side, this may seem like a rant (and perhaps this very well is), but I need to get this off my chest somehow. What should I do?
April 9th, 2011 at 12:43 am
Update on earlier post, before my Aquarian boyfriend exhibited his mastery in the ancient art of a**hole shapeshifting.
As a female Aquarius, I’m probably biased, but there tends to be a distinct difference in how much Aquarian women care enough to curb their rude/destructive/cold ways versus the men who are usually aware of this characteristic, but like sociopaths, they just don’t seem to care. (not all, but most that I’ve met)
Iwas burned by the most deceitful, disgusting Aquarius man I’ve ever met. I would advise everyone to stay away from Aquarians who are not seriously invested in their own introspection - because I know what my challenges are - I can be cold and detached, and my emotions are set to a completely different time zone than my physical body lives in - my emotions regarding an event usually don’t hit me until weeks later sometimes. That delay is so frustrating! Especially when I start crying out of nowhere in a meeting at work, etc.
Anyway, the Aquarian that I was with, he lied so much, and I loved him so much that I wanted desperately to believe him. He asked me to marry him, and he was the first person I had ever let myself fall in love with. I ignored all the warning signs, and at the time, I was taking care of my mom who lived 4 hours away. The same week that I quit my temporary job there to move back to be with him, he got another girl pregnant, and he dumped me by deleting me on Facebook! Not a single word. He also borrowed $300 from me and refuses to pay me back.
I finally gave up after sacrificing so much of my life for the lying a-hole. We had been together for a year, and when we first started dating, he told me that he didn’t like games - which was B.S. He liked to be the gamemaster, and I was stupid and trusting enough to take him at his word. Believe me, I know how to play a good game, but I consciously choose not to.
So if you are attracted to an Aquarian, make sure that they are healthy, good people, as with anyone who you’re dating. In general, because we’re so detached, we usually make better “friends with benefits”. I also think that my Aqua-squared relationship floundered because I’m so independent, and he didn’t feel needed. I have a tendency to make men feel emmasculated without meaning to (or so I’ve been told). Aquarian men don’t tend to be agressive or confident enough to step up and say, “No. We are doing this / I am paying for that / etc.”
Encourage us to communicate with you - even though we usually speak in riddles and poetry. And white lies are common among Aquarians, so be sure to spell out that “good communication and honesty” means that you say something when you’re upset or jealous. We tend to avoid discussions like that because even if we’re stewing below the surface, we aren’t comfortable deabating in the realm of emotions - politics and philosophy and esoteric topics like that are our favorites. Everyone has their strengths and weaknesses, but if you think of loving an Aquarian, try the strategy of treating us like adolescents with Autism as far as emotions and matters of the heart go. Believe me, if you keep this in mind, your heart is less likely to get stomped on as your Aqua man walks nonchalantly out the door.
And if you want to get revenge, the only way possible is to say afterwards that you don’t want to remain friends.
If you do want to stay friends, that’s great too. Aquarians literally want to be friends with everyone. I saw how my ex treated his ex “friends” (he strung them along and wasn’t very friendly - it was more an act than actual friendship - it reminded me of the old addage to “keep your enemies closer”).
I told him no for that single reason when we finally talked again, and I could tell that that was the one thing that actually pissed him off. My telling him that he was scum for cheating on me when we were engaged didn’t bother him a bit.
After breaking up (or dissipating like clouds) Aquarians will most likely be cool and act disinterested, unless they’re the jealous type who will only want you when you’re with another person, just for the sake of being territorial. Don’t fall for this being a real, renewed interest in you though - it’s just a game that they want to win.
April 9th, 2011 at 12:44 am
PS ~ As an Aquarius female, I swear to never date an Aquarius male again.
April 24th, 2011 at 9:15 pm
i am an aquarian dating an aquarian & i have always thought it would be rather interesting to date my own sign but this guy makes me wonder am i the same idiot he is sometimes. In the beginnging of our now 6month relationship he is and still is very generous. we have great sex, great conversation and this has been going on for the length of the relationship but he is very jealous & bossy, he can be a hipocrate also. he has a big issue about me being on my phone but he will talk on his not to mention he bought me new clothes because he questions how i dress. I am the same person I was when we met but now he wants to change me i think he really prefers a puppet oppose to a mate. I’m no puppet and i dont like to be bossed around this drives me crazy. he has a hard time expressing himself his philosophy is actions speaks louder than words but from time to time any woman wants someone to whisper sweet nothing in their ear. i really think sometimes hes bi polar because he can be this loving, sweetie pie and then sometimes i think im sleeping with satan. arrogant he is, i thought i was full of myself but baby he must have a double dose of aquarian that i ddint get cause his head so big. He has the nerve to tell me i’m not a really aquarian because i was born January 30th & he was born feb 12th. he will be 2nd to no one except my children but Im sure that will change once they come of age, but that will be difficult because my kids our most important & im raising an aquarian. im sure their gonna bump heads at some point & then he has to go. i really dont believe he has come with terms that he to can be wrong & he has to treat others as he wants to be treated but until he gets to that point i will have a problem. & please dont get me wrong when hes not being a total ass he is a wonderful guy my kids love him but tht mean streak is sometimes difficult to deal with.
It took me some years to realize when I’m having one of my aquarian moments & need to be alone wo/being snappy that i need to go and be alone. When i need to be alone i have learned to do it wo/hurting anyones feelings i just explain im having one of my moments or disappear. Some people dont know how to receive this mood swing that most aquarians have and some aquarians dont know how to express themselves. what ever were thinking is coming out of our mouths & is the most honest response. I’m the only person I know who is a social butterfly but dont mind being alone. We are the most loyal & honest sign I know. I care for this guy a great deal & can see myself w/him for along time but if he continues to boss me around i may have to pull another infamous aquarian move & disappear.
May 7th, 2011 at 3:42 pm
At first, I met an aquarius young man. He was such an amazing guy and we became such great friends. And It just lasted in a few months. At first, you’ll think of him as a great/perfect person. We enjoy talking in the phone for hours and we don’t know how long we’ve been talking. And my sister said we were talking in the phone in like 3-6 hours or more and we, we just didn’t care as long as we were enjoying.
And we don’t want to be separated to each other. We get very uncomfortable when we don’t talk or see each other in a few minutes. If there is a time I’d hide, he will look 4 me and won’t stop looking until he found me..
We fought only a couple of times and one was i accidentally tweak his hair so hard and his tears start showing and tweak me back in public. I apologize in him many times and feel embarrassed so i told my other friend i’ll just go to the library to be alone but really, i went to the bathroom and start crying. I’ve been there for so long until the janitor said he will close the restroom. So i came out of the cubical and excused to the janitor slept accidentally and ran in embarrassment. And i found out the school time is over.
So i went home like a ghost. and I saw him went home and i hide so he couldn’t see me. and there it goes. When i reached home, my phone began to rings.. i was so nervous.. I answered.. “hello?” And his voice came out. And kept on saying my name over and over like he was about to cry.. and i was so touched.. because, a scene liked that, and still wants to be my friend.. And we start apologizing to each other then the few minutes later, we start enjoying our phone talk for hours and like nothing happened and that time.
A few days later, my other friend ask me what happened when we talked our fight. I said it’s like a Baby’s shit. then she ask me one thing, where was i when i said i was going in the library.. i told her, i was just in the restroom peeing.. then she told me, “you know, after you left in the room, Miggy (the young aquarius man) asked me where did U go, and i said you were in the library” Then he starts looking for me.. THEN THATS IT. one of my ugly moments that turns to special moments..
We feel like we were the only human being in the world and we don’t care about others except us.
People think were Bfs and Gfs because the way we play coz’ it’s like flirt. And we give gifts to each other. People always says we can be a perfect match/soul mates/couples etc.And he would hold arms with me all the times in public. like he doesn’t care.
But we think of it just friends. He was so sweet and lots of care in you. But i still wonder why we act diff. when it comes to sex or related to sex.
Anyway, At second, You’ll see something is changing about him that you don’t like. You will see the first person you know in the past is the exact opposite in the second. He can become a very sociable person that can talk to many people and entertains people around them. THEY SAY THAT “AQUARIUS MEN HAS A GOOD-LOOKING FACE” which is true. And i talking in the phone, pretty much getting boring and waste your time talking and sometimes, he says something very offensive which make get mad at times.
At third, You’ll get irritated to him and wonder why he’s so diff. from the 1st one. He is now completely gone worse than the first. In phone, We can now notice how long we’ve been talking because our conversations gets boring. and now our talking in the phone could just last 1-2 hours.
He now doesn’t care if i were missing or what. And he doesn’t care a thing now about my safety and i started to notice he only cared about now is himself. And now i’m avoiding him.
I was hurt so much when i start thinking the first miggy i met was dead. And was replaced by a bad clone. and will never ever going back. And so i’ve move on.
October 14th, 2011 at 10:03 am
the aquarian i was with was an asshole of the century..i am a cancerian and i know people assume that cancerians tend to cling and all but this man proved the aqua i am so cool i dont need you theory wrong..ive been trying to ditch this man for the past 4 yrs now now but he will not stop harrassing me for my attention
aquarians cannot be ditched and let alone will not let you go till they please…hes a clinging demanding wanting bastard who openly flirted and cheated on me..he claims theres nothing between us but fails to let go…and i wouldnt give a damn if he wouldnt give my number to his pals to call and harrass me and appear after every few months at my doorstep with some lame story…i really need a court order now for him to stay away from me…everyone should be very careful while going into a realtionship with an aquarius..esp born on the 31st of jan!