Aquarius Compatibility With Aquarius |
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Aquarius and Aquarius
This could be a great love, or it could be a complete disaster right from the start. When these two get together the world looks on in utter confusion and amazement, I mean, one Aquarius is odd enough, but a pair of them!! Very interesting, maybe they could start a revolution, maybe, if they got round to it. These are the most free spirited of all signs, so airy infact it can become fiery.
Arguments will ensue with this pair due to their need to both be brilliant and the best at everything. They will quickly bring out the competitive streaks in one another and try and out do one another whenever they get the chance. Fun, yet tiring after a while I would imagine. Every double Aquarius couple I have known have never lasted long, they seem to burn out, or maybe it’s the fact that they can see their own faults in the other and this drives them to distraction as they like to think of themselves as pretty perfect!
However, my belief is that they actually need someone in love who is different to them. They need affection and to be cared for, they just don’t realise it. Often when they are in a relationship they are so busy being independent and doing there own thing that they forget to have a ‘relationship’ at all! You see the Aquarius often makes a terrific friend and a lousy lover. I have known several people of this sign who were the best of friends then got into a relationship with one another, and saw less of each other than when they were just friends. Crazy really, but that’s the Aquarius for you.
These two will certainly raise eyebrows and have a lot of fun, sexually as well, it proves to be very interesting, and goodness knows what they will get up too! It’s whether they can spare the time for each other, that’s the question.
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YOU ARE TERRIFIC!!! MY HUSBAND IS AN AQUARIUS AND IM A PISCES AND BOY O BOY YOU HAVE NAILED HIM ON THE HEAD…BY THE WAY I MUST ADMIT QUIRKY WE ARE…PS SEPARATED BUT STILL TOGETHER.
hi!!!i totally agree with you!i’m an aquarious and i was with this aquarious man for almost 4 months..the relationship was great, i just felt like i was looking at the mirror when i was with him…however, we would always be competitive with each other and he was very jealous, although he would never show it!we broke up after 4 months..then we ended up being together again and then i broke up with him cuz he was flirting with girls behind my back…i was very hurt!he seemed very hurt when i broke up with him (as if he lost the control and the power that he had over me)…from the day we broke up, he’s been dating this other woman!i don’t know what to say..i would really want to hurt him!what do you think it would hurt him?although i don’t really believe that he is thinking of me now…
I get what your saying, however I’m in love with an Aquarius man, thing is were miles away from each other, were planning on meeting each other soon though. I think we can work it out! What is our chances? Given he’s the 11 FEB and I’m the 12 FEB.
i would have to agree that it is like looking in the mirror. My sweetie is an Aquarius and so am i. I like it though. what i like about it most is that, the things that other signs think is weird about me, he doesn’t. i feel that i can say whatever i want. I love that he listens to me and tries to help me out as much as he can. I can talk to him about anything and he is interested in everything I have to say. With us, we feel safe enough to open up to each other because we totally understand each other. If I need time to myself, he doesn’t have a problem with that. I love being in this relationship. Although we are a lot alike we have enough differences that it doesn’t get weird.
I was married to an Aquarius Man for 10 yrs I’m also an Aquarius Feb 14th He was Jan 30th. The Sex was Lousy, the friendship was there but we drifted apart and things fell apart badly. Our Divorce was like a war that took 2yrs to finish! I’ll never again get involved with another aquarius the men are quite different from the women. He was cold and calculating and very hard to relate to. I spent a total of 13yrs with this man and I don’t know how. He neglected me totally and I felt horribly the fights were horrible and I became withdrawn as a result. He was overly moody as well never knew who I was gonna meet when I got home each day. =(
Never again.
i have just started dating a fellow Aquarian
and before we dated we had the biggest connection
and it just brought us together but i see so
many little things in him that seem to anger me
and everything ive read has explained us
when we fight its like a war, we both know we are right
and we wont give in and wont giveup
i love him hes amazing and no matter how much i want it to work
i have a gut feeling it wont just cause of the Aquarius curse
I was dating two Aquarius men; no more!!!! Never again I will repeat mestake. They were both verbaly abusive, I never knew what to expect, every other day there was different story and plans, couldnt rely on him. And he was playing lots of games, which were cruel, for example, our intimacy was getting very boring already after 3 months of dating, when I wanted to go to sleep he was pretending to have a horrible pain in the back and saying I will should go to sleep and when I went, he came after 5 minutes, jumped into bed like rabbit, turned his back on me and fallen asleep. So much about horrible pain in he back!!!He was trying to avoid us being intimate, what a lousy way to do it!!! But I have to mention this, he looked liek th ekindest guy in the world in the beginning, cooking for me, bringing flowers, but that dissapeared vey fast…he became rude very soon, everythin ghad to be his way or no way. We had one quarell, he sent me to hell and showed me the doors like I was a dog. And that was about it, I packed my things and left. That shocked him. Not to mention he still has some of my things and he refuses to return them, he say she doesnt know anything about them and he never had them. Nice, ha?
By the way, one month after we broke up, he found a new girl, she is also aquarius like him and they got engaged after 2 months of knowing each other. I wish this girl all the luck in the worl, she will need it to stay with him:)
funny…. I have just parted from a fellow aquarian, he is the 9th of 67 and im the 8th 79…. so we are both aquarian goats, honestly, it was the most intense amazing fiery passionate competitive short lived relationship of my life so far…
he actually dumped me really quick, as fast as the love affair started it ended… he is a real moody man, and still acts like a kid… despite being 41… but you know, i dont hold grudges about these things, i move on, and meet more beautiful people!
cool website!
oh god, yeah the 2 aquarian men i’ve dated both started off like a dream and quickly turned fiery and dismal. the thing that is the hardest between aquarius/aquarius relationships is that the mental connection soon turns into a mind fuck. seems like aquarius females are much more sensitive and heartfelt than the males…the males are just downright cold when it’s done. i think the best match is libra.
Oh no way, I’m a libra female w/aquarius rising and I do not nor do I like aqua men. Its there ego that gets to me, the whole I’m a king reincarnate and you do what I say because your my puppet. But they can have the best relationships with their female friends where they allow themselves true freedom to be themselves. Its seems when they are really into someone at the beginning they try to prove some point and deny there feelings towards you through cruelty. The more you take of the emotional verbal abuse the more it strokes there ego and they might feel sorry enough to be with you. After all your one of their subjects in their sadistic world called love. If you don’t like humiliation then this will not work. My many scorpio planets couldn’t and wouldn’t play nice I tore down his ego as much as I could. Maybe he learned a lesson
You know - I really like reading these comments. Everyone is very honest, it’s refreshing and beleiveable that way.
I’m an Aquarius and I love it. Although, also single and well aware of how rare and hard to find the women are who actually want to deal with our quirky ways are. I’m ashamed of the above mentioned asshole aquarius’s. and also bummed by the poor experiences of Aquarius’s dating Aquarius’s, but again, very beleiveable.
I would like to say in “our” defense that our personallities sort of “come with the territory”.
“I think” - Sometime in our middle twenties we start to realize we see things, problems, solutions, clearer than most and that we have a 30 step plans and ideas locked down in our heads before allot of - not all - but - most of - the people around us even realize there is a problem. Furthmore I think we are much more willing to make the extra effort to do things right.
Sooner or later we get a complex from frequently being right. It’s hard to help it, and hard not to be anoyed with ourselves after a while.
“I think” when we are aware of our behavior we are more curtious and polite then most, and are happy to be that way and don’t have to force it. But sadly, when we are “stuck in our heads”, our etiquette and tactfullness goes on a poorly opperating autopilot.
My hope is that by reading these comments I’ll be more aware and more connected to “right now” when I need to be - like on a date with a hopefully very interesting woman who can keep my head out of the clouds simply by being close to me.
I admit we bore easily after the mystery is solved, I admit we are not consistantly affectionate. But if we are affectionate it is surely a genuine sentiment, and if the problem of the day is how to get you to that forth orgasim we probably already have it figured out !
Take Care : )
Im hearing all of the experiences these ladies were having with Aquarius men and I thought it was just me…After I read the comments it sounded like we dated the same man! I dated an Aquarius man and his behavior was unreal..very sweet, unbelievably to be exact. He was like the “perfect man” then he just flipped and became a different person. Since he was a long time friend I realized a relationship wasnt going to work and I tried to maintain the friendship part which would seem to be okay but then he would get “weird” again. I NEVER gave this man any impression that I was trying to re establish a relationship in case that was what he was thinking ..always tried to keep it light..we even discussed our current relationshps with other people. His behavior was so bizarre..like being nice to me but cutting me up to his friends..Any insight into this retarded behavior?
i dont know about ne1 else but im dating an aquarius man im a woman born on the 14th n my boyfriend is amazing, we are friends and love each other very much. Im his #1 and hes mine. we love being with each other every minute of every day! we never fight and get along perfect. I think we are goin to eventually get married and be together forever
Somebody has to be the same here? . reading all these comments about those relationships gone bad, i can just never see it happening to us. We r perfect together.
I’ve been dating the same zodiac man for the last year, we have an amazing time together and the sex is so awesome…the only problem I encounter is that he can be very jealous with my out going personality….but I can deal with that.
as an aquarian woman, i do have do say, i love dating other aquarians. ive had two relationships with other aquarians and they have been the most amazing, fascinating, exciting, mentally stimulating and most happy experiences ive ever had. although our relationships were short lived, they were the best ive had. ive never regretted them although i have always regretted not giving them my full commitment. i realize i am not easy to be with. as i read these articles on aquarius, it feels as if it is i they write about. im exactly what is described of this often misunderstood sign. two of my best friends are also aquarians and the best friendships ive had. i will always look forward to being with an aquarian =)
Well… I am dating an aquarian and I myself am an aquarian and have not fallen into this trap of incompatibility. We have been dating for one year and two months and not once have we attempted ending our relationship. we communicate well and ofcourse we have those off days; but all in all he is absolutly amazing towards me. I think people have come to rely on horoscopes to much and other sources to dictate the outcome of their reationships, that we end up believing in them and manifesting those beliefs (e.g. “oh my gosh he is an aquarian and i am an aquarian this relationship wont last”, guess what it doesnt! you had the end before it even began). We have forgotten that people have different backrounds,different enviroments that they have grown up in and differnet personalities that shape them into the person they are today. So for those aquarian guys that behave in that “unloving” manner, it seems like it would have had more to do with character than just the zodiac. A gemini guy has probably done it to a sagittarius girl as much as a libra guy would have exhibited bad behaviour towards an aquarian woman and from my understanding they supposed to compatible, Hmmmm… Hey, dont get me wrong, there probably is some truth in star signs because i do believe that I, been an aquarian, tend to be aloof at times, love my independence and enjoy intellectual conversations. But they havnt pinpointed me in a nutshell and apparently the guy i am dating… Because I would hate to think of myself as a clone. What you think?
OMG!! are you serious you have had that bad of an experience with aquarius male! I would never, ever! treat a female that way. To myself there is nothing more divine than the female. I am a very equal person. 50/50 seem fair enough.
I mean we all need our space (even if I need a little more.) but set aside the relationship between the male and female and put children into the picture. I would sacrifice everything I do including my space for my “alone” time. for our child. Don’t nitpick what’s good or bad pleeease.
I focus on what is most important. It’s ALL important but nothing is more important than family. yet, nothing and I mean nothing. comes before thyself! it’s true I am cursed. Stuck within a realm I can not even discribe. My own “personal hell” if you will.
think about it. I’m a air sign. I’m ment to be free, and flow with water and feed the fire. don’t forget Aquarius is a solitary being. that’s why we need our space.
For the women who have had a poor experience with a Aquarius that is just….I have no words. I would never do that ever. If I am thought to be such a king then I need such a queen. Really, I am a king. If you think about it. Uranus pick me up and basiclly throned me. the whole water bearer shit is just another way of saying i’m a hard worker (which i am a hard worker) and when it comes to relaxing LOL 100% LOL which answers you question on why I’m sometimes lazy around the house. I am never late! and always on or before time! well I am anyway.
….and oh! by the way. That’s some bullshit about an Aquarius being a lousy lay. That dude needs to find jesus before he pleases women. if there is anything I’m good at it’s pleasing a woman. yes it might not be all the time but when It is mmmmmmm shiiit honey LMAO!! ALSO! read HEATH’s post! you will find that his reply is the same as mine.
….Actually I ment to say Zeus not Uranus who picked up Aqarius. He fell in love with a boy and made him his water bearer. I need to read up on it again to make sure.
My boyfriend and I are bolth Aquarians! Only 4 days apart! I can say being with a man of my own sign is my first TRUE love. We’re soulmates! We are typical Aquarians in being stubborn and contrary but it makes for great debates! We like disagreements on occasion. As far as fashion, style, Sex, arts and adventure we are totally on the same wavelength!
We bolth require our own space at times. My moon is in Cancer which defenitley adds some warmth to the dynamics of the relationship. Anyone who says same sign relationships don’t work don’t understand that they can be the BEST relationships of your life. I love my Aquarius man! Well I love Aquarians in general!
I am an TRUE aqua female that has dated two TRUE aqua males. I did not learn from the first one, but they had sort of different personalities so i thought it would b different. I was sooooo wrong. The first one was so jealous and possessive that i seriously thought that if i didn’t get out he would kill me. The second one was so damn mean and cold and SECRETLY jealous and conniving and always threatend to beat me if i ever cheated on him, but guess what HE CHEATED ON ME! Let me say that they both started off beautifully. The both ended horribly. I truly think Aqua men have the traits of psychopath. Google “traits of psychopath” and you will see the same exact personality traits in aqua men! I have learned my lesson the HARD way and will never date another aqua as long as i live, they are horrible and damn near evil. The thing is that they are so self-aware or so arrogant when you tell them about themselves they will barely bat an eye, like a PSYCHO! No emotions, no feelings and if they do, it has absolutley nothing to do with YOU. They only care about how they feel, they only care if they are hurt, they will play victim. SICK SICK SICK!
*disclaimer* not all aqua men can not be this bad, this is just my experience, but from what i see on this site, i am NOT ALONE!
i really cannot see myself in relationship with another Aquarius. For one, not many of them I know are good looking and I feel I’m not. Plus, every Aquarius friend I have just seems to be too odd for me probably because I’m odd. So there are always those “weird moments” and I just don’t like too much weirdness. It’s enough that I am weird and offbeat. Don’t need it to go to another level.
I feel when two people are too alike, there could be a clash. I know, it doesn’t make sense, but that’s how I feel about it.
OK I am a Aquarius male, and I was born on the 8th. I met another girl who I am dating born on the 8th as well…same day! Let me tell you it is incredible and fantastic to be with another Aquarius.
I read the other comments on hear stating that Aquarius are cold, jealous, and mean at times. Those comments unfortunately describe me at times, I must admit in my previous relationship. Aquarius males are like that sometimes…that the way it is. We give you girls the benefit most the time, but if you take advantage of us, we will have to express ourselves.
I was with the same girl from 20 to 30. I never ever cheated on her. I married her as well, and tried to make it work anyway I could. She was a Virgo/Something??Mixed Sign?? I found myself being mean, and controlling at times and I did not care, but I was very very aware that I was being mean. I was nicer to strangers than to my ex-wife at times?? I do not understand why?
Back to the point of this new girl I am dating, born on the same day as me, it is incredible! She understands me completely! She knows what I am going to say before I say it. We are very very passionate with each other, and cannot be close enough to her. It is like we have known each other for 100 years. It is amazing!
You can say what you want about Aquarius men. We can be cold hearted at times, we can be jealous at times, we can be babies, and we can treat strangers better than you some days as well, but we will never cheat on you…ever. We are the most loyal sign out of all the signs, and if we are with you that means we are with you
If you can put up with us, you will be rewarded for sure in the long run.
We know what we want, and are problem solvers. When we are being mean we know we are being mean, and we feel bad afterwards about it. We will always in our mind try to make up for it in the long run to try to even it out the good with the bad
I agree with you to a certain extend. I am an aqua and so is my BF. I am the 8th and he is the 7th not much of a difference in age. Boy oh boy, we hit it off really well all was going so great although we were miles away, we still manage to communicate. What I can say is, he is a big timr LIAR,he CHEATED on me,humilated me and all he does is think about himslef as if he is the only one that has feelings. He is just a cold hearted person.
I try to prove myself to him that I truly love him but I am not getting back that response. He said he do care and love me but but does not show it. We are still together trying to make things work but we are distance apart not sure how much longer this two aqua relationship will lost.
My boyfriend and I are both aquarius. He doesn’t fit the typical aquarius descriptions to me; however, we are quite similar. In the relationship we kind of switch roles at times. Im not very feminine at all so it may seem like Im the man in out relationship some times. He’s very emotional, clingy and some time jealous. Im pretty much the opposite of that. When we get together people always comment on how perfect we seem together. Saying that we look like soul mates and are you two secretly married or something. I know that others are talking about the ideal soul mate and married couple because in reality many aren’t really happy. I like it best when it feels like Im hanging out with my best friend versus being all lovey dovey. From the beginning it was like a force pulling me to him. I have that feeling with most aquarians but this was super strong. I for one dont go around even thinking about what people’s sun signs are but when I analyze the situations many of them are aquarius. Well, we hit it off from the beginning. It took a while for me to open up to him even though he would say “I love you” to me. I remember the days that I would tell him that I cant say I love you because in not in love, but I can say I love you in godly way. For some strange reason we have a problem with being apart. I cant ever find a way to stay away from him. When we are together its like we are together stuck at the hip. We go everywhere and do everything together and not to often get tired of each other. He really is my best friend.
Some of the pros of being with him is that he is willing to try things in bed with me that I could never get any other man to do. I never like kissing before until I kissed him. It feels like the chills you get when you warm up after being out side in the cold when out lips touch. He the only person I can find who doesn’t mind shopping with me. He can handle the long ours and me testing/sampling/reading every single product in every store. He is my best friend first and foremost. We started as friends and I like to keep that aspect in our relationship. He realizes that Im not going to cook and clean and is okay with that. He does the house work while I do the yard stuff and it works out just fine. I feel like we are both equals even though he is a little bit older than me
Some of the cons I would say mostly come from him. LOL He complains about some of the things that I do, but does them himself. He knows how to say things to make me upset even though they aren’t really that harsh. He is way more emotional than I am and I sometimes feel smothered by it. And because of that he complains that Im not emotional enough. At times is sounds like he tries to insult my intelligence, but he feels like I do the same to him. He’s very stubborn when it comes to my suggestions but once he tries them he typically likes them. I ask him to watch something or try something and he takes a bazillion year to do it. Then turns around and makes it his favorite dish or tv show. He gets mad when I dont agree with him and accuses me of purposely always not agreeing with him. That’s not true but we dont really think a like on most situations. He doesn’t understand that I need my space but wants his whenever and expects me to respect that.
Right here is more of a me thing. I felt like I’ve compromised a bit of myself to be with him. This isn’t just because he is an aquarius. You guys dont know how hard it was to actually settle down and be with someone. How hard it is to think about someone other than yourself. Sometime it feels like that bit of me that I gave up for him is almost dead. Then other times it reemerges and I almost want to run away or at least try new people. I love what I have and wouldn’t want to mess it up.
So for the most part we are like best buds and it easy for me to look over his not so great qualities. If he could just realize that he does the same things he complains that I do the world would e a better place. I love him and i cant imagine him not in my life. We have been together for all most 3 years. We want to get married once we graduate.
i am an aqua girl and i dated 2 aqua males both serious relationships.it is so true what everyone has been saying i havent met anyone who has been in that same situation,but the men are the problems in the relationship i think anyway.the are perfect at the start and it is such a deep intense relationship.the sex was great and the relationship was magical…till one day he just turned around and became an asshole.he got sick and i tried to help but he pushed me away as well as other issues.then some how we stayed in contact afterwards and he one day came to me with another problem i helped out and we started talking,i was thinking everything would be fine and he even started calling me baby again and playing games making me feel like there was a chance then he just turned around and started being cold again.i think the worse was when we had a huge fight at like 3am and he went to leave and he had no where to go so i said just stay and tomorrow we can see if u still want to leave.i cried so hard and begged him to stay i even grabbed his leg and tried to stop him and asked me to look at me and he said there is no point because nothing i do will make hm stay.after my house mate spoke to him he finially stayed.this is just a few but,i just dont think we are capable of working in a relationship we might last a long time but eventually it will end and if there is a happy couple that have been together for years that are both aqua then they either are from a cultur that belives in staying together no matter what of are not belivers of astrology but i have not meet one couple yet..until i do i will stay away from aqua men i dont even want to befriend them.i know it seems irrational but prove me wrong aqua men need to grow up and stop acting like morons
i read this site last night and even sent him the link.i was p thinking about it and it is like every woman has dated the same aqua male i think they are all the same and it hurts that we just cant work out besides his cold revengful ways he is a nice guy i just hope some woman can handle him…i was going to try and see if we could work out but there is no way will now its time to move on and steer clear of aqua males
i read threw these comments once again and it seems im mistaken i cant base it all on sun signs,i happened to have bad luck with aqua males but i have had bad luck with all males of all signs haha well u can go threw a hundred men before you find the right one…because there is only one along the way u learn alot and become more wise so ill take it as an experience but i still am ify about aqua males