Love Astrology
Love Astrology is dedicated to two of my favourite things, Love and Astrology. I have always been interested and fascinated by this pseudoscience for as long as I can remember. Before I started applying Astrology to my life I didn't really have much idea who I was, or where I was going, but now I am fully aware of both my positives and negatives alike, and this has lead to a much fuller and calmer lifestyle. I hope by spending some time on my site you too can reap the benefits of this ancient and fascinating subject. Enjoy! Love & Light, Becky.
This post has been written by one of my readers who is also one of the first people to ever comment on my site. She has given a lot of good advice to many people on here as well. I hope you enjoy this post, thank you for sharing HL 
My first boyfriend was a Scorpio, which is rather unfair for a simple-minded love-addicted 13 year old Taurus girl. I didn’t know what I was getting myself into. We were good friends, who often argued over what music bands were better than others, what language was more romantic (he spoke fluent French and I speak fluent Spanish), and what movies were better. I often went to his house, where I got to know his flaky but lovable Piscean father, his only parent since his mother died at his birth, something that troubled him much growing up. I quickly became family to these water-sign boys, since theirs was so small. I also became his sort-of muse. My boyfriend was a musician, quite talented in any instrument but mainly piano. He would play songs from Phantom of the Opera and have me sing Christine’s parts. His voice was also deep and gorgeous, but he never really paid attention to my compliments as much as he obsessed over how I should take care of my vocal chords because I had a "hauntingly delicate" soprano voice. (That was five years ago. I don’t have that voice anymore *sighs*) He’d go crazy if I didn’t wear scarves in the cold or if I ate chocolate, which is supposedly harmful for a singer’s throat. (Someone should have told him then that chocolate was the drug of choice for a Taurus.) It did get annoying sometimes,but mostly I found it cute that he cared about my voice. It’s all the Pisces in me (Moon, Mars,and Ascendant) that made me so tolerant toward him, despite being opposite signs.
We argued all the time, but it only brought us together, as both our Venus signs were in fire signs and, apparently, fights = love with Fire signs. Like a classic Scorpio, he would get insanely jealous if I so much as spoke about another straight guy he didn’t know. If he didn’t like my friends, he told me to stay away from them. He had good reason too, because even though it wasn’t something that was spoken much about he had a highly sensitive sixth sense. In other words, he was psychic. He could tell what people were feeling by just being around them. Occasionally, he saw "flashes" of the future or past. There were times, when we were really close, that he could read my thoughts. He told me once he had met me in a dream, which was part of the reason it was so hard for him to let me go. I’ll admit, it was hard for me to let him go too. I never had to explain what I was feeling to him, he understood even my stupidest and most confusing feelings and being around him set me at peace.
Even years later after we broke up, I still think back to this relationship. It’s been so hard to forget, considering how much he’s influenced me. I don’t think I would have had such a strong love for music, nor would have I pursued a French minor in college. I also don’t think I would have been so interested in astrology, as I ran into it while researching his psychic awareness.
His father is a photographer and takes pictures specifically at concerts in whatever town he’s in at the moment. We still keep in touch. Fun fact: he was born same day and year as Kurt Cobain, February 20, 1967, and plays guitar rather nicely himself, but unlike the legendary musician, he quit music to become a "responsible adult."
My last relationship was with Virgo man whom I met through the Pisces. He was 8 years older than me, but I was only 17 and it really only bothered everyone else but us, though he wouldn’t "touch" me until I turned 18. (We cuddled and kissed plenty, so there were no complaints from me.) He played bass in the Pisces’s former band and we often met at parties, where we would spend most of the evenings together, talking about literature, mainly books and movies and whatever we were writing at the moment. We’re both lit majors, so we tend to get really nerdy when we’re together. We would watch movies all day on days off from classes and comment on how well, or awful, the scripts and plots were and how they affect the actors and in turn the entire movie–like I said, nerdy. My dear Virgo had a habit of cleaning my room whenever he was in it. He’d try to place my books on the shelves, but they were cluttered with jewelry, toys (Pisces ascendant), and random nick-knacks. It drove him crazy until he finally decided to quit and just leave my room. He was an obsessive cleaner, possibly due to his Moon in Scorpio. My first boyfriend also had a moon in Scorpio, which is strange but not very surprising.
My Virgo boy had to take care of his parents because his father was having back problems, meaning he would have move back to his home in Ohio. We decided to break up then, because at the time I was starting my first year at college and I would meet and want to date other people. (I didn’t. I was too busy missing him.) So we broke up. He came back for a summer. We went out again and were fine until I found out he had found an ex-girlfriend back home and went out on a few dates with her. We weren’t going out at the time, so I thought it wasn’t a big deal. Then I answer his phone one evening and it’s her. Then I find out he had been keeping phone calls and text messages to her a secret from me. He had no good reasons except that he knew I would get jealous, though really I don’t know if he had broken up with her at all. I broke up with him.
Born year of the dog, and recently graduated from the same university I am now attending, he is now an elementary school teacher. He’s still also one of my closest friends, though things get ugly when he brings that incident up. He’s asked me to be his girlfriend again, but I refuse to be anything but a good friend to him. I don’t think I can ever forgive him, but that’s a Taurus for you: stubborn.
-HL, a loyal reader
P.S.
Take this as a word of caution before messing with a Year of the Horse woman because, as a friend once said, "Horse ladies tend to be magical, but fragile, in the areas of love." (And if that particular Horse you hurt happens to be a Taurus, you’re pretty much screwed!)
This article has been written by one of my readers, he is sharing his insight and experience with us which I am very grateful for. Thank you for sharing I hope you all enjoy it!
I am an aries male with Aquarius moon, i think. I am writing to give the ladies who are or were at some point involved with an aries guy, some insight about the aries men from the source- and to vent a bit. I have experienced romantic encounters with female aries, virgo and libra. I will briefly go through each one of them and then share my thoughts and theories about zodiacs and compatibilities.
In my early twenties I got attached to this aries girl who was a couple of years younger then me. At the time I paid no attention to astrology and didn’t realize she was aries and even that I too was aries. She was wild and out and I was attracted to her rebellious nature. If I had to use one term to describe the relationship i’d use "make out" I don’t know if it was the hormones or something else all that we did with each other was make out. There were hardly any time we sat together alone and not tried to each others tongue. lol The sexual tension was intense to say the least. Being with her made me realize, a few years later when i recognized that we were both aries, that aries is a difficult star sign to deal with- in matters of romantic relationships at least. The good thing about the aries-aries couple is that they both love to fight, so when there is an argument each gets off by igniting the fire in the other and yelling at the other and they grow together in their twisted way. Its like a very entertaining pay-per-view fight. Its hard for an aries to get bored of another aries which is real plus because getting easily tired of something is a problem inherent in us arians. She pushed me to out do myself and I enjoyed that. I was taking some time off college to save up some cash. She pushed me to work like an animal and I appreciated that. As I later learned a woman that backs up a man’s work ethic is essentially spoiling him because in my experience such understanding women are rare. She was very understanding when it came to me earning the doh. She went out of her way to prep me everyday like a warrior who is going out into the battleground. I excelled in life having such a strong woman and I didn’t even fully appreciate that fact about her. I have only secretly longed for a strong and passionate girl like her ever since me and her parted ways. You might be wondering so what could possibly have went wrong with this union? Attitude problem. We came to the point where we were in a constant battle to hurt each other’s ego. Somehow It became a love-hate thing where we both loved each other so much and yet couldn’t help but battle at every chance. One thing about us arians is that we are- both male and female- emotionally insecure and don’t like to recognize this fact so we fall into denial about it. Two arians can do a lot for each other but can’t provide to fill the voids that they both share.
Me and her still fight, having broken up in 2006. Until the beginning of this year (2009) we were facebook messaging each other and arguing about who was at fault. I wont lie, I fully enjoy seeing a message pop up every 6-8 months to which i respond with skillful speech. I love to hear I made her cry, many years after we parted ways.
My second and longest lasting encounter (2.5 years) was with a virgo girl. A very intriguing affair to be sure. She was so different in the way she thought, analyzed things, and expected things that it very quickly became a very fascinating challenge to understand this new specie that I had discovered. I could see in her eye that she too was fascinated to say the least to see a creature so different from her. Virgos tend to be slow paced and more enigmatic then the aries can tolerate. At first it was a very unique and magical thing- My rule for relationships is that any relationship even one between two totally incompatible signs will have a grace period of three months at minimum where things would be rather magical. I think you face reality of your relationship in the period following the first three months of the initial hook up. In all fairness this girl probably loved me a lot. She used the term "breaking-love" as in such deep love that can break a person’s spirit if the love fails. I never felt loved. Now here’s the point I’m making, despite all her efforts she failed to make me satisfied. She never boosted my ego- which is a must for an aries man. She pointed out my faults which the aries usually takes as constructive criticism and uses to improve himself. Once she pointed out that I finished my college degree but never pursued specialization in my field. Two months later, I found myself resigned from my job and working on my CPA exam and licenser. I finished it in 8 months and threw her criticism in her face. What I became tired of was the lack of compliments. She quietly acknowledged my positives, but gave no positive reinforcement. A healthy dose of criticism does wonders for the challenge-loving aries as long it is balanced with an ego boosting reward too. Basically to sum things up, to this day, I can’t be sure if she even loved me. Thats how different we were. I mean if I make all the logical deductions then yes of course why does someone stay in a relationship for 2.5 years, why does one cry and tell you they love you. They probably do, but in the words of my favorite band, Savage Garden, "if love was red then [I] was colorblind."
This one made me realize one thing about astrology. I often read people commenting on a supposedly good match, like one between Aries and Aquarius. Someone wrote, "I couldn’t run away fast enough, I don’t see how we are compatible at all" There are many aspects to people, astrology is one of them. So it may or may not dictate the compatibility. However, the non-compatibility analysis is far more accurate in my opinion. An example is the attraction that Cancer women and aries men have for each other. I have personally never had such an encounter. Two of my best friends are cancers so I have a fair understanding of how the cancers work. I have seen that cancer females attract aries male and aries male draw out the cancer females. There is a natural opposites attract kind of magnetism at play here but these two are so different in their needs and wants that this rarely works beyond the grace period of 3-months. If you enjoy a good heart ache then go for this kind of union. Its a natural disaster (volcano) waiting to erupt.
Now Aries are supposed to be best matched with sadge girls, aqua girls and leo. I happened to never find any of these girls appealing in that way. There is a Sagittarius girl who I knew from college. She is a ton of fun. I totally get her. So much so that there is no mystery or intrigue left there. So I didn’t go for her. She is a beauty, the girl who every guy in school wants but is too intimidated to even talk to. Aqua girls are too strange- i hate to use the term freaky but more like stand outs from the crowed. I just never met a leo girl who knows maybe she is the perfect match after all. Oh well.. too bad. lol
I am seeing a Libra girl now. My mum is a libra. This girl is nothing like the libra my mum is because me and my mum hardly ever agree on anything. She reads astrology a lot and says that aries and libra are legendary. I just love her optimistic view point. I neglect to tell her that mum is a libra too. lol. She has tremendous patience which I have never seen in a females- its something I always wanted. At this point in life I have to come to terms with the fact that Aries are hard to deal with. The rules of engagement are so complex and make it seem hardly worth a girls time and energy. I love that this girl is right up there with me. I’m talking about taking a road trip from new york to the east coast and she is enthusiastic and upbeat about it. Most women get exhausted from the aries energy and the need to jump from one adventure to the next back-to-back-to-back. She looks up to me and I love to take care of her. I’m happy to announce we’ve been a thing for four months now. Hopefully things will remain lovey-dovy even after the grace period of love magic. She is a small girl and I love love love that. I love being able to lift her with one arm. Historically I have been attracted to the larger breasted females; I never knew how sexy cup size B could be. I learned that aries men are attracted to the girly girl, whether she be curvy or not. As long is she has a very feminine figure, it work! She is the skinniest girl I have ever been with and I just can’t back to anything else.
One last thing, I want to add is that I recently found that my moon is Aquarius. Someone told me this leads to solitude in life. I have to agree, I often find myself very lonely and unable to hold small talk. Someone with Moon in the Aquarius please tell me more about how this occurance effects the individual. Thank you in advance.
Well this is the summary of my arian life. I tried to keep my rant short and to the point but think I might have failed here. lol. I hope someone will read this and be able to take something form it.
-ArieswithAquaMoon
This article has been written by one of my readers, she is sharing her insight and experience with us which I am very grateful for. Thank you for sharing I hope you all enjoy it!
I am a Libra girl who is dating an aries man. I love this guy to death. He is everything I want in a man. Im not saying he’s a perfect person, but he is perfect for my taste. He completes me. He is a skinny guy, relatively speaking; though he is still one and half times me. Even though he is a light guy, there is so much masculinity about him. The way he walks, talks and lays around the sofa exerts authoritativeness which i am simply attracted to. He will order me to make tea for him, specific to the way he likes it- with 3-4 drops of lime and without milk etc. and i won’t be able to help myself but get out of bed in the middle of a nap and go fulfill his wish. There is something about this guy which I can’t for the life of me figure out, that makes me head over heals for this guy. He will say the most arrogant things, he will boss me around, we have to live life according to his schedule, he is moody and totally self centered; however, he goes above and beyond to make me happy. He spoils me unselfishly, he takes care of my every reasonable and unreasonable requests and in return I have to put up with all the above mentioned negative qualities. So far, the benefits have far outweighed the costs. Last week, I told him at 1 am I was having a craving for dunkin donuts coffee, without telling me he picks up the keys to the car and walks out with a mere, "brb;" 20 minutes later i find him walking up the stairs with jelly donut (he remembered i like jelly donuts from months ago when i told him) and dunkin coffee. Now how could I not give him whatever he wanted in that moment? Thats the thing about these fire sign males, they will go to extremes for you, they will spoil you, they will make you feel like a disney princess and at the end of the day, you will owe them every ounce of love you have. I am more than happy to owe him everything i own because I know he really does love me. The kind of fiery, intense, hug-you-so-tight love that every girl craves deep inside. With an aries, everything has to be 110% or its not worth doing at all.
He is very emotional and insecure deep inside, though he hates for me to know this. He would rather be portrayed as the strong, and emotionally secure person. Once, before we became a couple, we had this moment where he unknowingly stole my heart and changed my life forever. He came over unannounced one evening, this was a month after his break up with his ex, and told me in a soft breaking voice that he was lost on the road for an hour because his gps’s battery died and he couldn’t find his way. He told me how lonely and scared he felt. I hugged him and comforted him. It was all very perfect in a way. This was one of the few or rather only time he shared his inner self with me. I long to sneak another peek in his heart but that hasn’t happened again since. I know I don’t see the soft, insecure man very often because I do enough of the emotional, insecure thing on both of our behalf and he happily lets me do his share. At least I think so. For his part, he can be excellent at sulking. Sometimes he drives me crazy with the silent treatment. His mind travels at a million miles an hour. We will begin to think about a situation and the decision we are faced with, before I can even lay all the facts down, he will spit out a decision on both of our behalf without even inviting me to be a part of the decision making process. Thats the thing, there really is no decision making process, or if there is one, the aries man goes through it at a million miles per hour and be done with before I even fully understand the situation. This is one thing I can’t stand about him. Though he is right almost all of the time, there are times when I wish I had more of an input in the decision. This is not that big of an issue and mostly I pretend its not an issue at all. He is obsessed with wining, and I love to watch my man win at a social gathering in a match of cards, scrabble or table tennis. He gave me his table tennis tourney trophy. It was adorable like he was saying, "I did it for you, babe." He has shown small hints of jealousy and therefore I am afraid to ever make him jealous. I make sure to explain iffy situations to him with utmost honesty. He loves honesty and isn’t into playing games at all and neither am I. These characteristics of his, make me feel secure that he will never cheat on me. This is a man of integrity and prides himself on his ethics. This doesn’t mean that I have it easy though. My man has a lot of women floating around him and he loves to flirt and sees no harm in this. Occasionally one or two will even cross the line. I try not to be the jealous type but we are who we are. I am not too proud to admit I can’t stand him sharing feelings- or rather other women sharing their feelings with him.
If you like your man to share his feelings, be polite and a gentle, to have a feminine side, if you like a planner, if you need cuddling, don’t go for an aries. These are qualities nowhere to be found in my aries; despite that fact, he is a diamond in the rough and I love him very much.
-Ayesha Shafique
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Just recently I have been giving the matter of astrology and how it influences our pets and animals in general a lot of thought. To many this will sound ridiculous, which I understand, but let’s think about it for a moment. Surely any living creature upon this planet is influenced by the same planets as we are? I have my own dog, his name is Dodger and he is a German shepherd/ Golden retriever, he is a wonderful dog and is a Libra/Pig, he lives up to this very well indeed. I started to watch other dogs which I know and soon discovered that they too fall into the signs of their birth, just the same as we do, but less affected than we are by society, and therefore for me as an astrologer it’s lovely to watch my loving Libra being a Libra in it’s most purest form. I have many ideas on all of this that would take up pages and pages but I would really love to know what you all think about this and whether you agree or disagree. So please leave your comments, views, opinions and experiences, I look forward to seeing what you all think!
I don’t know about you guys but this year seems to have been nothing but trouble. the Year of the Ox certainly hasn’t brought much luck this year. There have been many deaths this year of both the famous, infamous and everyday people, a few of which I have known and lost myself.
So the question is this: How has this year been for you? Have you found it to also be a rather devastating and down right miserable year or have you had a different experience all together? If you could also mention your Chinese sign when commenting that would be great.
I myself am a Horse, not known to get on particularly well with the Ox. I will say this though, my personal relationship with my Fiancé has been getting stronger this year, but I think that’s because we have a ’solid as a rock’ relationship that not even an Ox can ruin! (No offence to Ox’s to be taken!!)
I look forward to hearing from you as always :)
I would just like to say Rest In Peace to a friend who was taken suddenly from this World this morning. She hadn’t even reached 30 and had 3 children…she is gone and noone knows why! This has been the worst year I have ever known, and I’ve experienced some pretty tough times !
I am a huge fan of being cuddled and giving cuddles, there is something about having a hug that just warms up your soul and makes the dark cllouds dissapear, even if only for a moment. So, I got to thinking about which astrological sign gives the very best of cuddles. I always think a Fire sign gives you great big bear hugs and are good for a shoulder to cry on, Air signs tend to be slightly more aloof but Libra and maybe Gemini are definitly up there with the best of them…so..what do you guys think ?? Please leave your comments and let me know. I always enjoy reading your opinions and experiences
Im a cancerian gal he’s the Sag. We’ve only been seeing eachother going on 3months though had been writing to eachother for just over 4months... "