Love Astrology
Love Astrology is dedicated to two of my favourite things, Love and Astrology. I have always been interested and fascinated by this pseudoscience for as long as I can remember. Before I started applying Astrology to my life I didn't really have much idea who I was, or where I was going, but now I am fully aware of both my positives and negatives alike, and this has lead to a much fuller and calmer lifestyle. I hope by spending some time on my site you too can reap the benefits of this ancient and fascinating subject. Enjoy! Love & Light, Becky.
This article has been written by one of my readers, he is sharing his insight and experience with us which I am very grateful for. Thank you for sharing 
I hope you all enjoy it!
Hi,
I wrote an article for this website a while back called “Life of the Aries man” I am very happy to see the feedback from the readers over the last few months and so I’m inspired to write more. Today I am writing about a girl I am talking to who is a Sagittarius, while I am an Aries of course. I’m hoping that this article will serve to show you something about same element couples and why they are so good- not just fire-fire (like, Aries and Sag) but I think the same principles apply to earth-earth, water-water and air-air pairings. In my opinion where there is will, there is a way and so I think all possible astrological pairings are compatible. Some are just more alike and easier to get along with each other than other ones. I have been with a libra girl, who I miss dearly. Aries and Libra are one of the six “opposites” pairings. Let’s see if we can compare and contrast.
I saw this sag girl on campus a long time ago and instantly felt a very strong connection. I knew there was something unexplainable there because she looked at me and I looked at her and it was as if I’d known her for years. We both couldn’t wipe that smile off of our faces. It was sheer happiness to see her and I could tell she was feeling the same. I was with my lovely libra girl at the moment and as I learned the sag girl was in a relationship as well.
Now things are like this, Libra girl and I broke up. Sag girl and I are talking and I miss my libra dearly L I am afraid to take things ahead at full speed with sag for two reasons. One, we are of different cultures and I have only been involved with something like this once and it wasn’t even that serious, so I don’t know how things will go. Second thing is, even though I am aries, a fire sign myself, I am intimidated by fiery girls. The only other fire girl I had a serious long term thing with was too strong and we fought all the time. I’m talking fiery, passionate, heated discussions, and she often times put me in my place. I can’t say I miss being emasculated like that.
Every time I come across this sag girl, I feel very attracted to her. She has these eyes that just draw you in.. Like a moth to a flame. My friends all say they don’t see what I see in her. My friends are mostly typical extroverted male jerks. They are very eager to point out that this girl has no body and by that they mean the lack of curves. It’s hard to explain to people that that’s what I am attracted to. It’s very interesting how all her habits and things she does, the way she walks talks and interacts with people is all very familiar to me. I can read her like a book from a distance. I know what she’s going to say before she says it. I can see she is insecure as much as I am on the inside and I can read how she puts up a really brave and strong face for show. We met at the gym. There you go, another stereotype confirmed. Fire signs are athletic and love spending time at the gym. haha. It’s hard to properly describe it but I swear she could be my twin. I don’t know what we would ever fight about. Granted, I haven’t spent much time close to her but I like to think that I and she would agree on philosophical things. The important things. That’s how it was with another sag friend of mine. We had a lot to talk about with each other and mostly agreed and had fun, making fun of, respecting, criticizing, reviewing and praising various things like celebrities, politicians, places to visit, things to buy etc. I felt very much at home and comfortable. There was no stress to go out of your way to impress the girl. She got me and I got her. It was lovely. I wonder if two people who are so much alike would make a good couple though.
And then there is the libra ex. I miss this girl so much. I made a mistake with her and let her go. I guess I hurt her rather deeply. I didn’t mean to. She was so good to me. She spoke her mind and really made me feel loved. She was a little needy and clingy when it came to the relationship. But, otherwise she was a very giving and forgiving girl. I got away with so much of my bs. I don’t know what I did to make her so needy though. She seemed like a free spirit when we met. She started complaining if I didn’t call and this is how we started fighting. I loved her dearly and the last thing I wanted was to lose her but that’s exactly what happened. When we first met and were sort of dating, she was sort of upset at me for leaving my ex before her when we were technically “just friends.” Her exact words were, “how can you just walk away from 3 years of history?” I always thought of her as independent and carefree. With her, I had a real sense of my identity because we were a lot different. I knew the things I wanted and the things she wanted and they weren’t always the same. But we loved each other and were eager to learn what each other’s interests were and to learn to love each other’s likes. For example, I always thought astrology was a pseudo science and that there was nothing behind it. She made me want to learn about astrology and now I’m hooked. In her mind, I cheated on her because I took an interest in the sag girl. She was always uncomfortable of the sag girl. She told me to stay away from “the gym girl.” I’ll be honest, part of the reason I wrote her that break up letter was because I kept thinking; kept doubting that since we are so different maybe we aren’t meant to be together. The sag girl seemed so easy to read. I thought that’s how a perfect relationship would be.
Today, I am not sure about what are better, same element couples or opposites? All I know is that I feel attracted to the sag girl and I really miss my libra girl. Libra girl doesn’t even answer my calls now. I can’t even blame her. If she did the same to me, I know I would have moved on and never looked back. I keep sending an email to her once in every two weeks, hoping that she isn’t much like me and has it in her to forgive me.
What is your opinion of same element couples and opposite? I am eager to see what you guys have to say.
-F.I
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Life of the Aries Man
Hi there guys,
I was watching my eldest daughters’ school dance/drama performance last week and I got chatting to a lady sitting next to me, now she was very nice and also is the Mother of a set of identical twins.
If you are or indeed know of any twins who would be interested in allowing me to delve into their birth charts then please write to me via my contact page
Thanks once again for all your support, it’s always much appreciated.
Love & Light
Becky
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Aries Rat
I have been blessed with a Sagittarius Rat of my very own for the last 13 years and I have to say it is a wonderful experience and for those of you who were lucky enough to have had children in the last year of the Rat (2008) you will know what I mean! As toddlers these little darlings will need a lot of stimulation, they have very bright and extremely quick minds which need constant attention. Learning is somewhat easy for the Sagittarius Rat and they devour books with gusto and if given the right encouragement will be reading and writing even before they start school. I never pushed my little Sag/Rat into anything, I like to encourage my children into the paths they seem to naturally be taking, and Amber was naturally academic.
Something which cannot be ignored about the Sagittarius/Rat’s is their constant chattering, they can’t stop themselves. Don’t get me wrong these people are capable of being very quiet indeed but once a conversation has started or the mood simply takes them then you’re in for an ear bashing! It’s not the volume at which these creatures talk it’s the sheer speed of which the words come sprinting out of their mouths that make you stand back in amazement. I am a Gemini so to outdo me with quicker than lightning speech is very rare, but I admit defeat to the Sagittarius Rat. If you are a parent of a chattering Sagittarius Rat a little bit of advice - teach them from a young age to form their sentences properly and to think about what they are saying for as intelligent as they are when they open their mouths they tend to start halfway through what they were thinking in their head! It’s almost like they were in the middle of a conversation with someone else and they turn to you to finish it and you of course have no idea what they are talking about, in fact you probably thought they were listening to you!
Physically these people never seem able to gain weight, the nervous energy from the Rat coupled with the activeness of the Sagittarius means that they are constantly burning calories, lucky them! Due to their naturally high metabolism it is easy for them to eat quite an unhealthy diet without having to worry about putting on any weight, they can get into bad habits of eating far too much fast food and kidding themselves that because they are thin they are healthy. This is wrong (which they know really) and it’s a must for them to eat a well balanced diet with plenty of Water as Rats tend to be quite susceptible to illness and if their bodies are nutritionally weak then it will take them longer to recover. Sagittarius/Rats can be known to be a little clumsy as well, I’m not sure why, perhaps the boisterous adventurer of the Sagittarius bowls over the more sedate Rat causing them to trip over their own feet from time to time. One thing is for sure though these people will always have something wrong with them, whether it’s a broken toe or the common cold this combination of signs just can’t seem to stay 100% healthy for very long!
Luckily due to the adventureouness of the Sagittarius these people enjoy getting out into the world and being as active as possible. They are very agile and are great at Gymnastics and athletics although are always drawn to the more extreme sports which they are not really built for but somehow manage to keep up with the best of them! Sag/rats are also very competitive and will always try and beat other people but are good sports and dont get overly agitated by losing, it certainly dosent deter them they simply try harder the next time!
Sagittarius Rats make wonderful friends, they are fun and loyal, two things which in my opinion make any friendship a good one. They are also highly protective of those they love and care about and don’t take kindly to anyone hurting them in anyway. I feel that one of their greatest skills is their ability to be very diplomatic, to stand back and look at a situation as a whole weighing it up and then calmly trying to help people to sort out whatever the problem is. The Sag/Rat is always called upon to help with friendship squabbles at school and later in life in the workplace. Of course dealing with their own personal issues isn’t as easy for them and if you know and love a Sagittarius Rat you must make sure you set aside time to ask them if there is anything wrong and if they need to have a chat, they will NEVER come to you. They appear to be loners when it comes to this, they bottle problems up inside until they simply can’t take anymore and then explode in a tsunami of tears and sobbing, which is heartbreaking to watch as on the outside this person is usually as solid as a rock. Sag/Rats hate to feel as though they have let people down and will punish themselves mentally for this. My daughter Amber is a prime example, she got very behind on her homework due to lack of organisation (another character trait of this combination) and instead of talking to me or her Dad she simply said nothing at all. I knew something was up as she wasn’t her usual chirpy chatty self and went on at her until she gave in and broke down telling me everything. Since then she has learned to come to me even at 2am (which she has done) if she needs to talk. It’s hard for her but she is opening up more, they just need to know there allowed, it’s very sweet really.
Overall these people are destined for a very exciting life. The Rat gives the Sagittarius a very quick mind making these people highly intelligent and mentally capable of anything. The Sagittarius gives the Rat a passion for adrenaline making this Rat far more outgoing and adventurous than they are in other sign combinations. If you hook up with one of these people romantically then you’re in for a whole lot of fun, the question is are you good enough? The Sag/Rat sets their sights high and won’t go for someone simply for good looks along, they need someone who works hard and plays hard and can match their own sense of fun and adventure, but you had probably work on your listening skills anyone who gets involved with one of these people will need to be able to listen, or at least look as though they are!
As parents they don’t come much better, its more whether they find the time to have a family at all, but please don’t leave it until it’s too late as you really shine as a parent, you are in fact at your best as a Mum or Dad and will feel something is missing if you don’t settle down and have a family.
Compatibility - From a Chinese point of you other Rats and Ox’s tick all your boxes as do other Sagittarians, Leos and Aries. Try a Gemini for a bit of fun or a Libra to settle down with. An Aquarius is nice but will slowly drive you mad! Cancer could be a good match too as long as he or she has a very patient streak!
The Fearless Tiger The Tiger is Yang (male) Tiger year’s are: 1902 ~ 1914 ~ 1926 ~ 1938 ~ 1950 ~ 1962 ~ 1974 ~ 1986 ~ 1998 ~ 2010 ~2022. This is a list of symbols that you, as a Tiger, should surround yourself with as they will help you to become your true self and give you a feeling of happiness and comfort.
Tree - Sycamore ~ Food - Fruit Pie ~ Flower - Carnation ~ Fragrance- Jasmin ~ Birthstone- Ruby ~ Number- 7 ~ Animal- Tiger ~ Spice- Cinnamon ~ Herb- Thyme ~ Drink- Lemonade ~ Metal- Gold ~ Colour- Bright Red.
I am a bit biased when it comes to Tiger’s I’m afraid. I love them. They are lovely! And of course there is the small fact that I live with one. Tiger’s in China are the sign of luck and as such the Chinese always like to have some kind of Tiger symbol in their homes believing it will bring them luck. The tiger always lands on his velvet paws. If he/she is short of money, the Tiger doesn’t worry, he will just go and get some more. You see Tiger’s don’t really care about money, I mean obviously there are some Tiger people out there who have buckets of it and live in pure luxury, but more to the point they don’t live to make money, they are not preoccupied with acquiring it, unlike so many other people. If they have money, they go out and spend it, and when they run out they just go and earn some more. That’s it. Pure and simple.
The Tiger is somewhat the hero of the Zodiac. He/she is the one who rushes in on a noble stead ready to take on the dragon and save the Princess!! If he sees a person falling to their death into the coldest sea from the tallest bridge, it is the Tiger who will be seen diving in to the rescue! And that’s great! Wonderful! And also slightly stupid. Yes, I’m afraid to say it, Tiger’s can be foolish. You see they forget to think. They just run into the deep end, and then think afterwards. This isn’t perhaps the best thing to do. Fear? No. This is one of the problems. Tiger’s seem to have no fear whatsoever. They take things on that most mortal beings would at least have to seriously think about, and probably decide not to do. Like swimming with great white sharks or something equally nuts. For some reason this lack of fear draws them to the more outrageous kinds of life. They prefer the unusual to the norm. And that goes for their partner’s as well (I’m saying this in full knowledge that I am a partner of one such creature). If you happen to be a little strange, unique shall I say for risk of condemning myself, then they will take an interest in you, they can’t help it. When the going gets tough for these feisty being’s they simply pounce beautifully to safety, lick their wounds, have a snooze, then they are up and running again.
Tiger’s are often involved in situations which would drive most people to drink or worse. It’s this velvet footed ability of knowing when to run away that keeps them sane. Tiger’s are gifted with natural authority and normally have high powered jobs. However, Tiger’s also crave change and can sometimes end up nowhere fast. This is why they need a herd of safety people behind them to pick up the pieces and help the Tiger learn some kind of moderation. Then the Tiger will always be successful. From experience I can tell you that Tiger’s are perfect, oh and immortal. I can also tell you that that is what THEY believe. Sadly, it’s not true. They are constantly trying to catch up with themselves. So many things to do and so little time to do it. Tiger’s long to be healthy and will try all sorts of things to be just that. Problem is that it involves discipline, and their not too good at that, not in themselves anyway. These people have great strength and will always over do it with weights and other machines meant to make them stronger, they can’t help it, they don’t seem to do half measures. You can’t tell them either. They will not be told, as they know best and often have to learn the hard way about the down falls of excess! Tiger you need space for your energy so the country is the best place for you so you can breathe in the fresh air as you run your marathon, but please do rest as well, and do try eating fruit once in a while!!
Tigers are most compatible with: Horses, Dogs and Dragons. Stay away from tricky Monkey’s, Ox are no good for you either. And don’t even think about taking up with another Tiger!!
Hello there everyone and thank you all for your wonderful insights and for sharing your experiences with us. I am so proud of this little community which between us we have created, so thank you. You may be wondering where I have been lately as I haven’t been commenting or posting on the site lately. I have had a loss in my family and it’s hit me quite hard so although I have been approving comments I haven’t felt like doing much else. I hope this explains my dissapearance and that you all understand
Once again thank you all so much for your ongoing contribution to my website, it is appreciated and dosent go unnoticed.
Love & Light
Becky
This post has been written by one of my readers who is also one of the first people to ever comment on my site. She has given a lot of good advice to many people on here as well. I hope you enjoy this post, thank you for sharing HL
My first boyfriend was a Scorpio, which is rather unfair for a simple-minded love-addicted 13 year old Taurus girl. I didn’t know what I was getting myself into. We were good friends, who often argued over what music bands were better than others, what language was more romantic (he spoke fluent French and I speak fluent Spanish), and what movies were better. I often went to his house, where I got to know his flaky but lovable Piscean father, his only parent since his mother died at his birth, something that troubled him much growing up. I quickly became family to these water-sign boys, since theirs was so small. I also became his sort-of muse. My boyfriend was a musician, quite talented in any instrument but mainly piano. He would play songs from Phantom of the Opera and have me sing Christine’s parts. His voice was also deep and gorgeous, but he never really paid attention to my compliments as much as he obsessed over how I should take care of my vocal chords because I had a "hauntingly delicate" soprano voice. (That was five years ago. I don’t have that voice anymore *sighs*) He’d go crazy if I didn’t wear scarves in the cold or if I ate chocolate, which is supposedly harmful for a singer’s throat. (Someone should have told him then that chocolate was the drug of choice for a Taurus.) It did get annoying sometimes,but mostly I found it cute that he cared about my voice. It’s all the Pisces in me (Moon, Mars,and Ascendant) that made me so tolerant toward him, despite being opposite signs.
We argued all the time, but it only brought us together, as both our Venus signs were in fire signs and, apparently, fights = love with Fire signs. Like a classic Scorpio, he would get insanely jealous if I so much as spoke about another straight guy he didn’t know. If he didn’t like my friends, he told me to stay away from them. He had good reason too, because even though it wasn’t something that was spoken much about he had a highly sensitive sixth sense. In other words, he was psychic. He could tell what people were feeling by just being around them. Occasionally, he saw "flashes" of the future or past. There were times, when we were really close, that he could read my thoughts. He told me once he had met me in a dream, which was part of the reason it was so hard for him to let me go. I’ll admit, it was hard for me to let him go too. I never had to explain what I was feeling to him, he understood even my stupidest and most confusing feelings and being around him set me at peace.
Even years later after we broke up, I still think back to this relationship. It’s been so hard to forget, considering how much he’s influenced me. I don’t think I would have had such a strong love for music, nor would have I pursued a French minor in college. I also don’t think I would have been so interested in astrology, as I ran into it while researching his psychic awareness.
His father is a photographer and takes pictures specifically at concerts in whatever town he’s in at the moment. We still keep in touch. Fun fact: he was born same day and year as Kurt Cobain, February 20, 1967, and plays guitar rather nicely himself, but unlike the legendary musician, he quit music to become a "responsible adult."
My last relationship was with Virgo man whom I met through the Pisces. He was 8 years older than me, but I was only 17 and it really only bothered everyone else but us, though he wouldn’t "touch" me until I turned 18. (We cuddled and kissed plenty, so there were no complaints from me.) He played bass in the Pisces’s former band and we often met at parties, where we would spend most of the evenings together, talking about literature, mainly books and movies and whatever we were writing at the moment. We’re both lit majors, so we tend to get really nerdy when we’re together. We would watch movies all day on days off from classes and comment on how well, or awful, the scripts and plots were and how they affect the actors and in turn the entire movie–like I said, nerdy. My dear Virgo had a habit of cleaning my room whenever he was in it. He’d try to place my books on the shelves, but they were cluttered with jewelry, toys (Pisces ascendant), and random nick-knacks. It drove him crazy until he finally decided to quit and just leave my room. He was an obsessive cleaner, possibly due to his Moon in Scorpio. My first boyfriend also had a moon in Scorpio, which is strange but not very surprising.
My Virgo boy had to take care of his parents because his father was having back problems, meaning he would have move back to his home in Ohio. We decided to break up then, because at the time I was starting my first year at college and I would meet and want to date other people. (I didn’t. I was too busy missing him.) So we broke up. He came back for a summer. We went out again and were fine until I found out he had found an ex-girlfriend back home and went out on a few dates with her. We weren’t going out at the time, so I thought it wasn’t a big deal. Then I answer his phone one evening and it’s her. Then I find out he had been keeping phone calls and text messages to her a secret from me. He had no good reasons except that he knew I would get jealous, though really I don’t know if he had broken up with her at all. I broke up with him.
Born year of the dog, and recently graduated from the same university I am now attending, he is now an elementary school teacher. He’s still also one of my closest friends, though things get ugly when he brings that incident up. He’s asked me to be his girlfriend again, but I refuse to be anything but a good friend to him. I don’t think I can ever forgive him, but that’s a Taurus for you: stubborn.
-HL, a loyal reader
P.S.
Take this as a word of caution before messing with a Year of the Horse woman because, as a friend once said, "Horse ladies tend to be magical, but fragile, in the areas of love." (And if that particular Horse you hurt happens to be a Taurus, you’re pretty much screwed!)
